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Speaker 1: Laura is on the phone today for to catch a Cheater,

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Speaker 1: Chris might be messing around, so we'll see if we

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Speaker 1: can catch him if he is. In a second, Laura, sorry,

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Speaker 1: you have to come on the show this way, But

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Speaker 1: what's going on? Why do you think Chris is cheating?

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, so I mean, yeah, Chris and I've been

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Speaker 2: nine years total, so you know, it's a very long

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Speaker 2: term relationship. There have been some rocky moments, but we've

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Speaker 2: we've always been able to work through them in the past.

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Speaker 2: So I'm in a little bit of a conundrum right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm super in love with Chris. This is what I

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Speaker 2: I just kind of glanced at it because it distracted me.

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Speaker 2: that's a little bit weird, right, And again I didn't

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Speaker 2: I downloaded Tinder onto my own phone and I made

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Speaker 2: I think that my husband may be cheating on me

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Speaker 2: I said my name was this girl Daily. She doesn't exist.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, my name is Gorvin calling from SIRS. I was

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Speaker 1: looking for our rewards card member named Chris.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, speak Chris.

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Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say congratulations. You're listen, most big winner,

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Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who

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Speaker 1: It's absolutely free.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So here's how it works. If you know who

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Speaker 4: Well, we can knock it out right now. Oh, I

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Speaker 1: All right? Great. So what's the first and last name

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Speaker 5: It's the same last name. It's just my wife, Laura. Okay,

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Speaker 5: you have the address, but with the account.

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Speaker 1: H yes, I too. Do you want to put anything

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Speaker 4: Well, just tell her.

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Speaker 5: I love you very much and you're you're you're my one?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're my one? Does that make sense?

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Speaker 1: Got it? How on an you guys been married, by

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Speaker 1: Do you ever have another one? Oh? No, Chris, this

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Speaker 1: And I'm Victoria. We do a segment call to catch

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Speaker 2: Hey, baby, Hi missed, took the right turn.

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Speaker 4: What's happening.

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Speaker 2: I just want to know if you've been with other women,

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Speaker 5: I'm like on the radio right now. Well, the answer,

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Speaker 4: Whether I'm on the radio or not, is no, I've

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Speaker 2: Do you want to be with somebody else? Is there

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Speaker 2: If I ask someone named Bailey, what would she say?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well you shouldn't be humiliated. I did something very stupid. This,

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Speaker 4: I'm blown right now.

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Speaker 5: I mean, as you can see, since you were very

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Speaker 5: I've talked to no one else, no one's sent anything inappropriate.

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Speaker 5: I've not gotten anything inappropriate from anybody. I was just

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm really sorry. I that was extremely stupid. But

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, I mean clearly there was something we

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Speaker 2: But I feel like that's something we can work on

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Speaker 5: somewhat self assured by that, but I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: N Yeah, I mean it sounds like he wasn't cheating,

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Speaker 1: but at least if he was going to, it would

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Speaker 1: be with you. Yes, you guys obviously got some stuff

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Speaker 1: to work out, so good luck. Good luck is right.

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Speaker 2: Thanks guys, This was actually really helpful. I really appreciate

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Speaker 2: you helping me out with this.

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