1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time. 3 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:13,080 Speaker 1: Y'all don't know y'all bet. 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 3: All at all. 5 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 4: So given them. 6 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:25,240 Speaker 1: The bus boy, Yeah, listening. 7 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 3: To show, I don't join. 8 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 5: Yeah. 9 00:00:50,640 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 6: Joy, you know what you turn? Love, You. 10 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 4: Know you gotta turn. 11 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 7: I got to turn the mouth turn. 12 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 3: You probably got to turn the mouth turn. Ad the 13 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 3: money jo. 14 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 4: Look, come. 15 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 8: Come on, you'll think, Ah, I sure we off. 16 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: Good morning everybody. 17 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 8: You are listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now, 18 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 8: one and only Steve. 19 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 2: Harvey got a radio show. Hell man. God is in 20 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 2: the blessing business all day every day. 21 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 8: God got hundreds of millions of blessings that he passes 22 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 8: out every day. All I want to do is be 23 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,959 Speaker 8: the recipient that I'm the recipient of what He has 24 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 8: for me. 25 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 2: That's all I want. 26 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 8: I just want God's favor, and I want God's blessings. 27 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 8: You know, of course I need his mercy and his grace, 28 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 8: but I just want his blessings and his favor. 29 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 2: I want. 30 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,239 Speaker 8: I want that in my life because it does things 31 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 8: for me that I'm absolutely incapable of doing for myself. 32 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 8: And I've been a recipient of many of those. And 33 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:05,079 Speaker 8: you can be the recipient of them too. You already are, really, really, 34 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 8: you already are. If you're getting up every morning, that's 35 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 8: a blessed. If you're getting one day closer to anything 36 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 8: you're trying to accomplish, that's a blessing. But now let 37 00:03:17,800 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 8: me talk to you about this part right here, folks, 38 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 8: because this is the part that messages people up a 39 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 8: great deal. 40 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 2: What happens when you get off track? What is that? 41 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 2: What does that mean? When you get off track? See? 42 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:34,239 Speaker 2: I've been off track. 43 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 8: I can't tell you how many times, and it happens 44 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 8: in so many aspects of your life. But what is 45 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 8: it that makes getting off track so debilitating to some people? 46 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 8: You know, there are some people who want theay off track. 47 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 8: They of course, they off the dream, They on to 48 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 8: something else. And you cannot allow the fact that you've 49 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 8: gotten off track to stop you. 50 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 2: Can. I tell you something? Everybody gets off track. 51 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 8: There are people who are living their life's dreams in 52 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 8: spite of getting off track. See what happens when you 53 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 8: get off track? Here's the simple thing to do. The 54 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 8: simple thing is just to get back on track. Now 55 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 8: that's that's But that's easier said than done, ain't it. 56 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 2: Steve? 57 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 8: Yeah, because see, people, when you get off track. Here's 58 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 8: some of the things that happen. See you get the 59 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 8: here come to nay says some of them from the outside, 60 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 8: some of them internally. Here's what gets said when you 61 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 8: get off track. See, I told you, I told you. 62 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 2: You know. 63 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 8: You start hearing that it's not for you. Okay, this 64 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 8: is all just because you got off track. It's not 65 00:04:56,600 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 8: for you. Okay, here's another one. It ain't meant to be. 66 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 8: You can hear it all. You could say it. Well, 67 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 8: I guess it's just not meant to be. But let 68 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 8: me ask you a question, though, who made the rule 69 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 8: that when you get off track you can't get back on? 70 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 2: Who made that rule? 71 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 8: Where has that written that once you get off track 72 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 8: you can't get back on? See, because I'm gonna tell 73 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 8: you something, folks, there's no such rule. As a matter 74 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 8: of fact, it's quite the opposite. See, everybody in pursuit 75 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 8: of a dream, a goal, an aspiration, or mission is 76 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 8: going to get off track. Sometimes you're going to get derailed. 77 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 8: There are going to be days where you're not going 78 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 8: to get it right. There are going to be days 79 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 8: where you feel like giving up. There's going to be 80 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 8: days when you're just gonna flat out get it wrong. 81 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 2: That's the journey. 82 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,839 Speaker 8: But let me tell you some Every successful person that 83 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 8: I know, ever met, talked to, set out, and chopped 84 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 8: it up with, have shared one thing in common. We 85 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 8: all get off track. We all get it wrong along 86 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 8: the way. I don't care who the person is. The 87 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 8: president got it wrong along the way. Your pastor got 88 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 8: it wrong along the way. Quiet director, go, I got 89 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 8: it wrong along the way. The principle at your school 90 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 8: got it wrong along the way. The valve of victorian 91 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 8: of your class got it wrong along the way. The 92 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 8: star of the team got it wrong along the way. 93 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 8: They've all been off track. Your boss down at your job, 94 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 8: he got it wrong along the way. Your immediate supervisor 95 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 8: got it wrong along the way. Everybody I know that 96 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,599 Speaker 8: has any measure of success in every level that you 97 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 8: call success, however you want to label it, has gotten 98 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 8: off track. As a matter of fact, it's impossible. Listen 99 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 8: to me, it is impossible not to get off track 100 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 8: in pursuit of your dreams, goals, visions, aspirations. It is impossible. 101 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 8: Don't you let nobody tell you that they got through 102 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 8: life unscathed, that they made it because they were just 103 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 8: so determined, and I would let nothing turn me back. Yeah, 104 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 8: you might not have let nothing turn you back because 105 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 8: you hear Oh, but you thought about it. Oh, you 106 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 8: thought about it on days when you was off track. 107 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 8: But see, people don't like to tell the whole story. 108 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 8: They just want you to think as much as you 109 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 8: can about them. So when they tell you their story, 110 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 8: they leave out the stuff. 111 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 2: Along the way. It was just hard work and determination 112 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 2: that got me here. No, it wasn't, No, it wasn't. 113 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 8: It was the fact that you got off track and 114 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:02,720 Speaker 8: the grace and of God allowed you to get back on. 115 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 8: His forgiveness allowed you to get back on because you 116 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 8: would not believe what some of the people have done. 117 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 8: So when you get off track, don't allow the naysayers 118 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 8: outside and the big naysayer inside, because let me tell 119 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 8: you something, the biggest naysayer of them all comes from inside. See, 120 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 8: it don't matter what other people say out there. And 121 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 8: it takes some time for you to learn this. And 122 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 8: I understand because it took me some time to learn it. See, 123 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 8: I have a lot of naysayers out there, but I 124 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 8: ain't operating for them, operating function for the ones that 125 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 8: love me, for the ones that get me, for the 126 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 8: ones that understand what I'm really trying to do. 127 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 2: And so don't you be the one. 128 00:08:46,360 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 8: That doesn't allow yourself to get back on track when 129 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 8: you get off track, Because, like I said, who made 130 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 8: the rule up that you can't get back on track? 131 00:08:56,960 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 8: There's no such rule out there. Stop stopping yourself from 132 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 8: getting it right. So what you started to die at 133 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 8: the beginning of the year, and you already off start 134 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 8: another one, start over, try it again, don't ever stop trying. 135 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 2: If you stop trying, you can't make it. 136 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 8: But if you never give up the effort, if you 137 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 8: never give up and say it's over, it ain't over. 138 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 8: You heard the saying it ain't over, to the fat 139 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 8: lady saying I never invite her. 140 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 2: She's not invited. It ain't over. 141 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,559 Speaker 8: To the fat lady saying I don't know where the 142 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 8: fat lady stay. I have not send her an invitation 143 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 8: to none of my events. She's not welcome here. She 144 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 8: didn't ask me a couple of times how come I 145 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 8: never get invited? 146 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 2: Because you're gonna start saying it and. 147 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 8: I ain't got time for that, all right, stop inviting 148 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 8: the fat lady to all your events. 149 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 2: Thank you. 150 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Show. 151 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:01,679 Speaker 2: Let me clear my throat. 152 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 8: Hey, hey, I ain't never done that in my life. 153 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 8: I don't even know where that came from, but I 154 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 8: love that though. When that dude do that, I be going, 155 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 8: my man, let me clear my throat. Yeah, ladies and gentlemen, 156 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 8: this is the Steve Harvey Marny Show. The reason we 157 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 8: don't start it the same way every day, it's because 158 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 8: it's a new day. What you're doing old fault, and 159 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 8: you got a shot at new forget about the things 160 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 8: of the past. God is doing a new thing. Don't 161 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 8: you see it. It's happening even right now, man, if 162 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 8: you just open up your eyes and be observing this morning. 163 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,560 Speaker 8: I woke up, and I tell you right now, in 164 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 8: total gratitude. When I got home last night, I came 165 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 8: up that driveway, walked up my steps in total gratitude. 166 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 2: My door opened in gratitude. 167 00:10:56,600 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 8: I was so full thanking God yesterday man, just for 168 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 8: all He's done for me, my health, my strength, my family, 169 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:08,320 Speaker 8: my wife, my kids. 170 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 2: And you think I'm too hard for the kids because 171 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 2: they're a lot of trouble. 172 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 1: But I thank Him for everything, man. 173 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just being honest. 174 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 8: Now, I'm still a human being and a grown man. 175 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. 176 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 8: Though, you know he ever looked at your kid, it 177 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 8: wasn't great for form I have? Yeah, I'm just asking 178 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 8: you know you ever looked at him and really wasn't 179 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 8: greatful form? 180 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 5: Yeah? 181 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 2: You ever looked at him and felt like it was some. 182 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 8: Type of punishment getting back at me for something I 183 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 8: had done transgression in my past. 184 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 2: Life I have. 185 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 8: But in spite of it all, I love him and 186 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 8: I thank God for and you should too. And remember 187 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 8: whatever's happening in your life that's uncomfortable, unsettling, unnerving and unbearable. 188 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 8: Remember this, this too shall pass? Yead will all of 189 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 8: it do? Steve Harvey, mart the Show, Charlotte Strawberry, Colin 190 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 8: for real, Mouth of the South, that damn Junior and 191 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:12,520 Speaker 8: the legend that is Nephew Tommy Junior. 192 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 2: What's on your mind today? 193 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 5: Man? 194 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 9: Uck? 195 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 10: I got a compliment you man? You still jumping because 196 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,720 Speaker 10: I see the new product line. Man, you still jumping 197 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 10: out here. 198 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 2: Taking chances and shots? 199 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 10: Do you ever stop there? 200 00:12:26,800 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 2: Well? 201 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 8: The Bible says a man without a dream of vision 202 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 8: shall parish. I'm definitely not gonna parish for lack of 203 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 8: dreams and visions. Yeah, oh, I'm gonna leave here, but 204 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 8: it won't be from lack of dreams or visions. If 205 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 8: you don't have something to. 206 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 2: Shoot for, you lose. You lose the joy of what 207 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 2: you're waking up for. 208 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 8: So you got to have something you gunning for and 209 00:12:56,320 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 8: quit tripping because everything you gunning for don't have happened 210 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 8: right away. 211 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: It's a process. 212 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 8: The devil's biggest trick is to make you so focused 213 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 8: on what you want and don't have. He causes you 214 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 8: to lose sight of the things that you do have. 215 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 8: And man, if you would just focus on what you got, 216 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 8: God is good. 217 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 2: Well man. 218 00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 11: Would all right, thank you for that steam coming up 219 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 11: at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll hear from the. 220 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: Nephew and run that brank back right after this. 221 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 11: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 222 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Farroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside? 223 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? And 224 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 12: half the time make. 225 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: The swap to swiffer power mop. 226 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 12: The only one cleaning hero has a built in solution 227 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 12: that breaks down dirt and grime like magic with hundreds 228 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:06,560 Speaker 12: of scrubbing strips on the pads. It absorbs sticky messes 229 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 12: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 230 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 12: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and moth smarter with 231 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,320 Speaker 12: the swiffer power Moth. 232 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 11: All right, guys, time now for run that prank back 233 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 11: with the nephew. 234 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: What you got for us? 235 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 9: Nef Kappa's funeral at the club. Kappa's funeral at the club. 236 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 9: Let's go catch out. 237 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 2: I'm trying to reach to James. 238 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,360 Speaker 13: James, Yeah, yeah, what's up. 239 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 2: Hey, This This is Gerald. I was a friend of 240 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 2: your friend Chapel. 241 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 9: Yeah, Chappa just passed away last week, right, Yeah, I 242 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 9: know they supposed to had a funeral and stuff over 243 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 9: at at my Baptist church. And uh, I don't really 244 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 9: know you, but me and me and Choppa and a 245 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 9: bunch of rest those man we used to hang out 246 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 9: at the club not too far from the house. You know, 247 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 9: That's pretty much where Chopper was all the time at 248 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 9: the club. Anyway, what a bunch of us was over 249 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 9: at the club talking man, and I was we was 250 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 9: really want to reach out to one of the family members, 251 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 9: you know. And then somebody said you was, you know, 252 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 9: kind of a good friend of his, and we we 253 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 9: we we decided to call you. 254 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 2: And see if you didn't mind. 255 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 9: Do you think that you can talk to some of 256 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 9: the family members and see if they don't mind having 257 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 9: the funeral. 258 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 2: At the club. 259 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 13: At the club. 260 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 9: See what, let me, let me try to explain something 261 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 9: to you, Jane. What we're trying to do is, see, 262 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 9: we believe that we believe you. 263 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:48,720 Speaker 13: Said at the club, come on the club funeral. 264 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 2: And that's what I understand it. 265 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:55,240 Speaker 9: But see, see choppeer Chopper ain't really go to church 266 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 9: a whole lot. 267 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. He ain't really really go 268 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 2: along as I've been knowing him. Now. He loved the 269 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 2: law and stuff like that. 270 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 13: Player, But these are church going folks. 271 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 2: I understand. 272 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:09,560 Speaker 9: But see, Chopel wouldn't Chapel when Chapel went to the club. 273 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 9: So what I'm asking you is, let's have the funeral 274 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 9: at the club. 275 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 13: Hell, no, bro, come on, we can't have no funeral 276 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 13: at no club, man, Come on, No, no, I can't. 277 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 9: But but what what I'm saying is, though, is that 278 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 9: he wasn't really, he wasn't really. 279 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:30,480 Speaker 2: No church going person. I believe that a person ought 280 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 2: to be. 281 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 9: Uh, the last words are to be said over him 282 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 9: in a place he's more familiar with. 283 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? 284 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 13: A player? Player? No, I don't. I don't know what 285 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 13: you mean. No, just just gotta be a funeral. This 286 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 13: is this is a church for I go to church and 287 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 13: all my folks go to church. Now we gotta do 288 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 13: this thing up in church. This is a church thing. 289 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 9: But you don't, you don't feel But do you understand 290 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,360 Speaker 9: where I'm coming from? Know there a man ought to 291 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 9: have gone on and and the last words are to 292 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 9: be in a place he more familiar with. 293 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 2: Now, if he went to church, then I understand that. 294 00:17:01,240 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 13: You said, oh bro, hell no no, See, it's a 295 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 13: chance to get itself right. And we don't we don't 296 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 13: have them up in church in front of everybody. You know, 297 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 13: that don't make sense? Who's this again? I mean, who 298 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 13: are you? 299 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 2: My name is Gerald, But. 300 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 13: Who is Gerald? 301 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 5: I mean? 302 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 14: How do you? 303 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:20,199 Speaker 13: How do you relate to this? Are you a preacher? 304 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 2: Or are you not? 305 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 11: Are you? 306 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 8: No? 307 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 9: No, no, no, I'm I was friends with Chopper and 308 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 9: see I hung out at the club and still hang 309 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 9: out there with a whole bunch of you know, was 310 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 9: real good friends with Chopper, and we were saying that, 311 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:37,480 Speaker 9: you know, Choppers, the last words about Chopper or to 312 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 9: be said at the club, because see that's what Chopper was. 313 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 2: But five six days a week, that's what Chopper was. 314 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:45,159 Speaker 13: Yeah, but what church are you affiliated with? 315 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 5: I mean, what, what? 316 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 13: Why the hell would I I try to talk to 317 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,480 Speaker 13: the family, make me look stupid in front of the family, 318 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 13: telling them to put this thing in the club. How 319 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 13: is that gonna go off? 320 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 1: Well? 321 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: See, see that's what I'm saying. 322 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 13: You know them way more than we do, because see 323 00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 13: that you're talking about trying to move from a damn 324 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 13: funeral at a church to a damn nightclub or a 325 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 13: strip club or something. 326 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,360 Speaker 2: Not no strip club, just a nightclub. 327 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:12,959 Speaker 13: I mean you talking about having folks travel from across 328 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 13: the country and meeting in the damn club. What kind 329 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 13: of that? 330 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: But that what Chaper was, That's what Chapel was. 331 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 13: I'm gonna look, if I'm the one telling them this 332 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 13: rooted to the damn. 333 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:26,640 Speaker 2: Club, You're gonna look like somebody that's trying. 334 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 13: To I'm gonna look like a fool. 335 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 2: No, you're not. You're gonna look like somebody's trying to 336 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 2: keep it real. 337 00:18:30,920 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 13: When come to the damn funeral if I do something 338 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 13: like that. 339 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, let me ask you this, hit in. Let 340 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 9: me ask you this here, Jane. Do you think do 341 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,880 Speaker 9: you think you can maybe get the body and bring 342 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 9: it over to the club now, well, just saying before 343 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 9: they even do the funeral or whatever. 344 00:18:49,840 --> 00:18:53,399 Speaker 13: Hell, no, I ain't touching getting to walk in the 345 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 13: dog by myself. Don't touch this body for hell now. 346 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 9: We're just trying to say our last words. That chopper 347 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 9: man in the place, that chopper moment. 348 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:06,280 Speaker 13: No him again for you. You get my number. 349 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 2: Somebody at the club had your number said you was print. 350 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 5: What do y'all call me? 351 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 13: Of all folk, y'all call. 352 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 2: Me, they say you good. You in with the family, 353 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:16,879 Speaker 2: and you can tell me. 354 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 5: In with the family. 355 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 13: But I ain't in in the family. Make me look stupid? 356 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,320 Speaker 15: Tell now, won't y'all? 357 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 13: I get out of them to the family, y'all call 358 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 13: the family, y'all tell them that yourself. 359 00:19:27,200 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 2: Man, I won't. I just trying to get you to 360 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 2: bring the body by man. 361 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 13: And let us No, I ain't touching nobody. 362 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 2: We just want to have one last drink with Chopper. 363 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,199 Speaker 13: Man, you have one with your boys and you get 364 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 13: together with them and y'all talk about Bottom and let 365 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 13: him know how Chopper was, what kind of prison he was, 366 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 13: what kind of person we. 367 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 2: Need to We want Chopp up to be there. This Chopper, 368 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,359 Speaker 2: this is Chopper. You talking about. 369 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 13: Bring y'all to the church. Y'all need to be up 370 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:55,920 Speaker 13: in the church. 371 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 2: We want to have Chopper at the club. 372 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 13: We'll win no more man, y'all fuller, Well, we know 373 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 13: my looking like a fool at a damn funeral? 374 00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 1: What this about Chopper? 375 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:07,359 Speaker 9: Yo? 376 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 13: And damn writing about Chopping? 377 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 2: You'll break Chopper to that club. 378 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 13: Y'all tripping, man, I ain't doing. 379 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 15: I'm just going to this funeral. 380 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 13: I'm gonna care to say what I think about chopping. 381 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 15: And I'm tall. 382 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 13: If y'all want to add Clevey in front of town, 383 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 13: y'all call up filling y'all selfing you this look. 384 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 2: I got one more thing I want to say. 385 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:29,959 Speaker 9: I don't even know what what what this his nephew 386 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 9: Tommy from the Steve Horby Morning Show. You just got 387 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 9: pranked by your boy, this nephew Timmy man from the 388 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy told me to prank 389 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:46,880 Speaker 9: you man. 390 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:51,520 Speaker 13: I just know y'all ain't did it. 391 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:56,240 Speaker 2: This is nephew, no, no play. 392 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 13: Oh man, I can't believe this. No, he didn't. I 393 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 13: can't even believe he did that. 394 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 9: Hey man, I got one more thing to ask you, man, 395 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 9: what is what is the baddest radio show in the land? 396 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,359 Speaker 13: The Steve Harvey Moaning Show? 397 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: All right, thank you NEV. 398 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 11: Coming up next, ask the COLO with Chief Love Officer 399 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this, it's time 400 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 11: to talk about life insurance. It's one of those things 401 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 11: that everyone should have, and Globe Life makes it easy 402 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 11: with no medical exam, just a simple application and coverage 403 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 11: options up to one hundred thousand dollars. Get the coverage 404 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:48,600 Speaker 11: you need in twenty twenty five. Go online at globelifradio 405 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 11: dot com or call one eight hundred two five one 406 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:56,920 Speaker 11: fifty four hundred to apply in minutes. That's Globelifradio dot 407 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:01,679 Speaker 11: com or one eight hundred two five one fifty four hundred. 408 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 11: Right now, it is time to ask the CLO Chief 409 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 11: Love Officer Steve Harvey. All right, Steve, Carolyn and Monticello 410 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,280 Speaker 11: says I've been married for twenty five years and my 411 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 11: husband is the best husband in the world. I don't 412 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,640 Speaker 11: want to lose him, but I need to tell him 413 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 11: that I fooled around with his uncle when we were home. 414 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 1: For the holiday. 415 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 2: Excuse me, that's just stupid. 416 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: That's a little close to the family. 417 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:33,399 Speaker 2: Now, wait a minute. 418 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 11: I really enjoyed it, but I told his uncle it 419 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 11: could never happen again. How do I confess this clo 420 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 11: to my husband uncle? 421 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,639 Speaker 16: This is so wrong. 422 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 8: I don't think you do. I don't What is this 423 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 8: statement you made? I something I have to tell my husband. 424 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,440 Speaker 8: How you think this is gonna go? 425 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: Lady? 426 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 8: Your marriage will be oval and you can run the 427 00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,320 Speaker 8: risk of your husband going to jail. It's so many 428 00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 8: things can go wrong here. Now, look, you've made the mistake. 429 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,680 Speaker 8: You told him it could never happen again. Now, if 430 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 8: you really mean that, you ask God for forgiveness, You 431 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 8: get back up on a horse, and you start back 432 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 8: to riding again. 433 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 2: Second time. 434 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:24,480 Speaker 8: I probably shouldn't say that. You don't get back up 435 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 8: on no more horses, You don't get up on stay 436 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 8: your fast ass down so much. 437 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: But she really enjoyed it. 438 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 8: Which means she's considering it again if you're going to 439 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 8: do it to Okay, let me tell you how this 440 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 8: works in case and I was. I tell this to 441 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 8: my kids. I've told everybody. God gives everybody a break. 442 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 8: Your first sin, he fires a warning shot over your head. 443 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 8: If you do the same sin again, the next shot 444 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,360 Speaker 8: takes a little piece of ear of me off. 445 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 2: Just if you do it a third time. 446 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 8: The next bullet is right in your teeth. It just 447 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 8: that's that third one. Now you've got the warning shot. 448 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 8: If you go back again, it's gonna be a piece 449 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 8: of ear meat. Second shot, if you go back a 450 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 8: third time, you're gonna get it in the teeth. 451 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 2: Now here's a deal. 452 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 8: You don't seem like you're showing any remorse. You told 453 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 8: him it can never happen again, But now you're telling 454 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 8: mom about you enjoyed it so, which means you're considering 455 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 8: it because you haven't had any repercussions. But I'll tell 456 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,360 Speaker 8: you what, if you go in there to that man 457 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 8: and confess this it's over, it's a wrap because. 458 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 2: You low down, not the uncle. He did it too. Wow, 459 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 2: that boy's daddy's brother. 460 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, we're gonna move on. 461 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,840 Speaker 11: Steve to Molina in Pittsburgh. Molina says, I allowed my 462 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 11: husband to have a hall pass with my best friend's sister. 463 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: What this is craziness right here? I'd been here here everybody. 464 00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 11: I allowed my husband to have a hall pass with 465 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,640 Speaker 11: my best friend's sister. But I told him I had 466 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 11: to be present. He did it without me knowing, and. 467 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: That wasn't the plan. I feel like, if he's snuck 468 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,879 Speaker 1: and did it once, he'll do it again. Should I 469 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 1: be worried? 470 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 13: Hey? 471 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 2: Stupid, Hey stupid? You gave him a hall pass. He 472 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,360 Speaker 2: decided he needs you to see the past. 473 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 8: Because what he doing at the hall past is you 474 00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 8: don't need to see this hill because he got a 475 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 8: special performance that he been waiting for your best friend's 476 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 8: sister for a long time. So he and that clown, 477 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 8: so he didn't need you to see it. So would 478 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,919 Speaker 8: he do it again? Why did you give him permission? 479 00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 8: You can't open the door and shut it too? 480 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 7: You had, lord? 481 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, what kind of plan was that? Anyway? He didn't stick, 482 00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 1: but I plan. Yeah, you don't need to be here. 483 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 2: You said I could. 484 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 8: Watch it because you're gonna have instructions. That's pretty much stop. 485 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 5: All right? 486 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:29,120 Speaker 7: This is over. 487 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 16: I don't like it. 488 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:31,680 Speaker 1: I changed my mind. 489 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,359 Speaker 2: It's too late now. Yeah. 490 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 1: Moving on to Bunny and Richmond. 491 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 11: Bunny says, my husband and I have been together for 492 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 11: four years and he got me two pairs of the 493 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 11: wrong size shoes and a coat that's too big. 494 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: He got it for Christmas. 495 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 11: He said it was a coincidence, but he may have 496 00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 11: gotten them from a booster. Should I ask him if 497 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,159 Speaker 11: the stuff is stolen before I try to return it? 498 00:26:58,400 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 1: Or would that be offensive? 499 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 2: You don't, You don't know what's happening. All you got 500 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,720 Speaker 2: to do to return it is say, maybe be could 501 00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 2: I return it for the right size? 502 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,399 Speaker 8: And if so, I will. I love it, but I 503 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 8: just need to get the right size. Do you have receipts? 504 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 8: That's all you got to do. What is you taking 505 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 8: this hot mess back down to this stove. 506 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: You're going to jail today, like colds and stuff? 507 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 8: They they man't they check against inventory and all this 508 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 8: now stuff is on computer. 509 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 2: They show them shoes steal in inventory, yep. And you 510 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,359 Speaker 2: show up back then and they've been looking for so 511 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,960 Speaker 2: that for that thirty eight Yeah, so she just. 512 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:45,040 Speaker 1: Christmas. 513 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 13: That's it. 514 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: Bottom line. You wear a team now you're doing European sizes. 515 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 1: You got nothing that thirty eight on. If you want 516 00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 1: to feet all over the front. 517 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 2: I feel like that he is stabbing you in the 518 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 2: middle of your You ain't got the right size. You 519 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,880 Speaker 2: got to disperse that weight, baby, don't ask your man 520 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,280 Speaker 2: for the receipt. Hey, big girl? 521 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 1: All right? Last one, Steve, last one? 522 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 11: Tatum and Montgomery says, I've been divorced for two years 523 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 11: and my ex wife is still trying to have sex 524 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,920 Speaker 11: with me. I have a new girlfriend now, and I 525 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 11: no longer want to have sex with my ex. When 526 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 11: I turn her down, she threatens my new relationship. How 527 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 11: can I cut her off for good? 528 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 2: How she threatened? 529 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 8: How she threatening your new relationship? You know what you've 530 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 8: been doing because you've been sleeping with your ex wife. 531 00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 8: Why are you sleeping with your new girlfriend? And she 532 00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 8: gonna tell it for true years? God, that's how I go, man, 533 00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 8: That's how I go. Dog Dog, I don't know what 534 00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 8: tell you? Why do you go back? Who go back 535 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 8: to the X? 536 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 2: Now you go back? 537 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, well, who want the X? She wants him? 538 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 1: She wants him, He doesn't want her. She wants You 539 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 1: don't need to insert yourself in this okay. 540 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 14: And talking to each other's hell, you want to talk 541 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 14: about naked and afraid? 542 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 5: That? 543 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:30,160 Speaker 2: Right? 544 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 8: All right? 545 00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 11: Man, Flora says, I've been sleeping with our yard man 546 00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 11: for a while and he doesn't like wearing protection. We 547 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 11: got into an argument about it, and now he's not 548 00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 11: answering my husband's texts to come to our yard. 549 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,840 Speaker 1: How can he be so petty when he knows I'm married? 550 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 8: Right here, God, y'all, y'all got to quit writing us 551 00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 8: with all this craziness acting like his normal. 552 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 3: Yes, you're not qualified state. 553 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 2: Do what y'all want me to do. 554 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 8: Yes, y'all, y'all, I can't apply no rules to this stuff, 555 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 8: cause y'all keep coming up with all this abnormal mess 556 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 8: like it's regular. 557 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 2: Up right after you. 558 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:19,160 Speaker 5: All right. 559 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 1: So I have a question for you guys. 560 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:21,000 Speaker 3: Steve. 561 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 11: You know, we just had big holidays, big family, traditional 562 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,320 Speaker 11: holidays like we do for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Maybe not 563 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 11: as big as in the past, but still people over 564 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 11: the house. 565 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: So here's a question. 566 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 11: What do you say to let your company know that 567 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 11: you're ready for them to leave the house? No, yeah, 568 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,960 Speaker 11: without really saying that you're ready for them to leave. 569 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 2: Well, I guess that's it. 570 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,520 Speaker 1: That's it right here, y'all are going on to night. 571 00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 2: I do like the club do I start dealing like. 572 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 16: My last call? 573 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 8: Yeah, I start dimming lights and cutting music off. 574 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: We're going in this here. 575 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:08,160 Speaker 2: We're gonna let you know. 576 00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,680 Speaker 8: It's a difference going on. Yep. 577 00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:13,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, Steve is pretty direct. 578 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,040 Speaker 8: You don't have to he direct. I go to coat closets. 579 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 8: Next thing, you know, you see me, I just got 580 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:23,080 Speaker 8: a handful of jackets. Hey, with one of these yours, dog, 581 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 8: he did. 582 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 2: Get into get into bed. What you said? 583 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 12: He did that in New York when we Steve when 584 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 12: we were the New York remember that time he was 585 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 12: a card part You want us to come over then 586 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,040 Speaker 12: just we thought we were having a good time playing cards. 587 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: He just went to the coat closet and just start 588 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:46,600 Speaker 1: throwing us coachs. 589 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 2: What with jackets? George time. 590 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 8: Decorated. 591 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 2: Okay, that's the best way to do it, you know, he. 592 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 12: Said, y'all finishing, and he was picking up our plates and. 593 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,959 Speaker 8: Then around the table just you know, hey, and then 594 00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 8: you know, once people see other people start putting their 595 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 8: jacket on, you know it got it kind of it 596 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 8: just contagious. You did have to go, and I was 597 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 8: trying to be kind to you. Sure to get on 598 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 8: out now, because if you stay up in here and 599 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 8: tell you right now, yeah, ain't no free morning coffee 600 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 8: up in here, So you y need to get your coat. 601 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 8: Call and child, and let's go. Let's get on out 602 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 8: of here. 603 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 2: Let's wrap this up. 604 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 8: Tell you right now, ain't no free cups of coffee 605 00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 8: in the morning up in there. This ain't comf edin't 606 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,320 Speaker 8: what we're doing. If you drinking coffee in the morning 607 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 8: and here, you're gonna work for it, all right, let's go. 608 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 2: Prop it up, let's go. 609 00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 1: You had heard it, you got hurt it. 610 00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:51,239 Speaker 2: Look up of coffee won't be up in here. 611 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 8: You're gonna need water, all kind of stuff in the morning. 612 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:54,280 Speaker 1: Can just get out. 613 00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:57,120 Speaker 12: A mess? 614 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,200 Speaker 8: Get your coat, baby. I respect y'all too much. On 615 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:01,160 Speaker 8: get your coat. 616 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 5: Now. 617 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 8: I got too much respect for you. Come on, ladies, let's. 618 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 2: Get your coat. 619 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 8: Because you're up at this apartment at one am. I'm 620 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 8: telling you right now, there's some stuff that go down 621 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 8: up here. 622 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:13,960 Speaker 2: Come on, let's go. Let just get your jackets home. 623 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:15,720 Speaker 2: I respect you too much. 624 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 8: Please get out for one am. 625 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 11: Please, please all right, switching gears now. Now, this is 626 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 11: according to Business Journal, this is a new survey that 627 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 11: finds that a lot of employees would rather. 628 00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 1: Have more vacation rather than a pay raise. 629 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 11: Really in a hut, Yeah, if given the choice, forty 630 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 11: one percent of people would actually rather have more paid 631 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 11: vacation time than a pay raise. 632 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:39,600 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, while. 633 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 11: We're always take that, yeah, we're always hearing about us 634 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 11: employees not using up all they're paid vacation each year, 635 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 11: it seems like a lot of folks really do want 636 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 11: more time off. 637 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,680 Speaker 1: In fact, a new survey finds that, have. 638 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 11: Given the choice, forty one per percent of the people 639 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 11: would actually rather have more paid vacation than a paid raise. 640 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 1: I can't say that enough. Do you think you'd rather 641 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,080 Speaker 1: have more vacation time or a pay race? 642 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 5: Yeah? 643 00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,280 Speaker 11: I'm kind of on the fence with this because I 644 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,680 Speaker 11: don't take a lot of vacation, which is crazy. 645 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,719 Speaker 16: If you give me sick days, I'm taking the last one. 646 00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:15,919 Speaker 1: I don't take a lot of vacation, I really don't. 647 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 2: I don't have them more days like that. It ain't 648 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:18,799 Speaker 2: an option. 649 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 8: You have to tell me about a sick days. Yeah, 650 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:23,760 Speaker 8: you don't say now now, I'm. 651 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,680 Speaker 2: All, yeah, I guarantee you I'm taking my sick days. 652 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: I guess I would be I get a pay race. 653 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 1: I guess i'd be that that person. Yeah, instead of 654 00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: vacation days, because I barely rarely take the ones that 655 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 1: I have. I'm supposed to be on vacation right now. 656 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 16: I love you alive, but something is really really wrong 657 00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 16: with you. 658 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 4: It is it is? 659 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 1: Am I a workaholic? 660 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:45,480 Speaker 5: Well? 661 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 2: I think your bush Yeah, I think I think. I 662 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 2: think your. 663 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,360 Speaker 8: Bushes bordered lines tips off into. 664 00:34:56,200 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 17: Me, tip off if you were bushy, if your business 665 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:10,240 Speaker 17: is overrunning you, and it tips over into stupidity, because. 666 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 8: Why your ass won't take your vacation supposed to be 667 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 8: on vacation. 668 00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:18,480 Speaker 1: Now put in for it, and I put in for it, 669 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 1: and I'm here. 670 00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 9: Man. 671 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 8: Let me tell you, Okay, told me Steve, you can 672 00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 8: take off from now all of your jobs and we'll 673 00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:33,720 Speaker 8: just send. 674 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 2: You to check. 675 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, who wouldn't sign up for that? My answer 676 00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,920 Speaker 1: is gone, yeah, oh I'm doing that. 677 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 2: I'm gone go go Okay, let me ask you this question. 678 00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:47,480 Speaker 8: Whatever your salary is, if somebody gave you three years 679 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,359 Speaker 8: of your salary and gave it to you at one time? 680 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:52,279 Speaker 2: Would you quit your job? 681 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:53,560 Speaker 5: Up? 682 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,799 Speaker 10: No, I got to be in here and running the bullard. 683 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 1: Move over. 684 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:03,439 Speaker 18: The head Like I like having a purpose. Yeah, yeah, 685 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 18: I think that's what I like, having a purpose. Definitely 686 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,560 Speaker 18: have something like like So, so let me ask you 687 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 18: your salary? Your salary for three years? Yeah, would you 688 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 18: quit your take? 689 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 5: Yeah? 690 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:17,560 Speaker 2: Straight out of here? 691 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:17,879 Speaker 5: Yeah. 692 00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 1: Well it's it's a little different here and we're not 693 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,640 Speaker 1: would not three years? 694 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 8: Come home and tell Marjorie and she'd be all right 695 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:28,360 Speaker 8: with that decision. 696 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,560 Speaker 1: This is what we're gonna, don't live off of it. 697 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 2: Let me tell you what we're gonna do. Now, listen 698 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 2: to me. We're gonna slow down. We're gonna slow down. 699 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:40,880 Speaker 2: We're gonna buy a couple of things. 700 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 8: We're gonna lock it down. Then I'm gonna go back 701 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:47,880 Speaker 8: and get another show. But right now, but right now, 702 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 8: we're going on another trip. 703 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,239 Speaker 16: In the words aboudy be, We're gonna slow down. 704 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,280 Speaker 11: All right, we'll be back right after this. You're listening 705 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 11: Steve Hardy Morning Show. 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Would you rather have really big front 716 00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 11: teeth or would you rather have a really big butt. 717 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 16: Teeth? 718 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:52,200 Speaker 1: Button? 719 00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 2: Front teeth? 720 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 9: I don't need, That's what I don't know. Yeah, okay, 721 00:37:56,920 --> 00:38:03,440 Speaker 9: you got it, hid, No, your teeth already been you might. 722 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:06,960 Speaker 8: We're gonna grab that ass then me and you got 723 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 8: the same sized teeth junior. Yeah, you just look at 724 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:14,360 Speaker 8: yours in the camera. See how yours look? You the 725 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:15,840 Speaker 8: same hip as your teeth? 726 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 13: Yeah? 727 00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:26,000 Speaker 1: We got two, but one for which one. 728 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:28,400 Speaker 10: I'm gonna go with? 729 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 2: Yeah? 730 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 10: Thanks man, But now I don't wanna be grabbed for 731 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 10: no reason. 732 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 2: Hell, no grabbing me all right? 733 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 11: Would you rather wear the same thing every day or 734 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 11: eat the same thing every day? Hm? 735 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:44,920 Speaker 4: Hmm? 736 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:47,800 Speaker 1: Close the food? 737 00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,120 Speaker 2: These cloth clean though, anyting, just we just wash them 738 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:56,920 Speaker 2: over and over. Wash you just the same thing. 739 00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:04,000 Speaker 8: Oh you just joined the military, the same thing every day. Yeah, 740 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:08,279 Speaker 8: you could eat what you want then, Yeah, I rather 741 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:09,840 Speaker 8: eat that. That was the number one reason why I 742 00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 8: couldn't go to the military. I'm not We're gonna so 743 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:13,359 Speaker 8: we all got the same thing. 744 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:19,880 Speaker 1: It's not a passion, you know. 745 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,879 Speaker 2: Like the Marines got the cold uniform because they got them. 746 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,080 Speaker 8: They got them spats they wear sometimes, but like sometimes 747 00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:31,400 Speaker 8: I want to wear it with my camouflage and the 748 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 8: white hat. 749 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 5: Like that. 750 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I pip out that uniform, man. 751 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 1: But you couldn't do that. 752 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,360 Speaker 2: You can't do that because. 753 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:44,280 Speaker 8: Sometimes I just wear the pants with your red stripe 754 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:48,279 Speaker 8: up the side, with just the crispy shirt. 755 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:50,480 Speaker 10: I jacket. 756 00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, and I ain't near put all my badges on 757 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,399 Speaker 8: my shirt that night. 758 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:06,799 Speaker 1: You couldn't be you play in the military, all right. 759 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:10,480 Speaker 11: Would you rather be President of the United States for 760 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 11: a week? President for a week, or would you rather 761 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 11: be a billionaire for a week? B? B. 762 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,799 Speaker 2: He was steal some of that money in that week. 763 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go back to it. 764 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,840 Speaker 1: But all the power you would have, all the power 765 00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 1: of power you got. 766 00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,200 Speaker 2: With a billion dollars. 767 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 8: Vote telling him knowing all this, you got a billion dollars. 768 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 13: No is not in my. 769 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 1: Vocabiny, okay, all right, last one, Well you can't. 770 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,160 Speaker 2: Come in here. I just balk in here. 771 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:50,480 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that's today's roundup. Would you rather? Good morning? 772 00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:54,360 Speaker 11: This is Shirley's Strawberry. Have a happy and a safe 773 00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 11: new Year from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening 774 00:40:58,880 --> 00:40:59,959 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey Morning. 775 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:04,799 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, go. 776 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:10,280 Speaker 2: Ahead, Well, now what you're about to hear. 777 00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:19,359 Speaker 19: It's pure comedic genius, but I must lay a disclaimer. 778 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:27,200 Speaker 19: This is going to be a little edgy. It's gonna 779 00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,280 Speaker 19: ruffle a couple of feathers. 780 00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 8: So I'm just letting you know this. This is j 781 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 8: Anthony Brown. He asked me do it, and I kind 782 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,800 Speaker 8: of got an idea. I don't know exactly what it is, 783 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 8: but I'm in support of comedy. Yeah, but I'm saying 784 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 8: we're doing this with a disclaimer that no one can 785 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 8: call us and say nothing about it. I don't know 786 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:59,680 Speaker 8: exactly what he gonna do, but he could ruffle some feathers, 787 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:00,840 Speaker 8: ladies and gentlemen. 788 00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 2: Jay Anthony Brown. 789 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,239 Speaker 16: All right, what I'm what I'm about to do right now? 790 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,960 Speaker 16: Every year. A lot of people, good people, you know, 791 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,480 Speaker 16: meaning good have quanza parties. 792 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 2: Now, yes, I don't think it's a lot of people. 793 00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 2: You can go ahead. You must have been trying to 794 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:25,080 Speaker 2: build this Junke up in this trying to build it up. 795 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 2: It's not a lot of quans. 796 00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,279 Speaker 20: How about people have a quanza party and don't a 797 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 20: lot of people come, and they wonder why people don't come. 798 00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:40,239 Speaker 20: What I have is suggestions to get more people to 799 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:45,759 Speaker 20: your quanza party. Number one, offer a free dog she 800 00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,800 Speaker 20: get to anybody who will show. 801 00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:51,879 Speaker 16: Up one size fit. 802 00:42:52,040 --> 00:43:00,200 Speaker 1: All right, you learn it up. 803 00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:04,800 Speaker 20: Everybody that shows that the Kwanza party, you get a 804 00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:06,800 Speaker 20: free bean pier. 805 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,759 Speaker 16: If you don't like me, give a sweet potato. If 806 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 16: you can't, everybody don't like me, I. 807 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,440 Speaker 2: Like, I love. 808 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 11: OK. 809 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,920 Speaker 16: This one is really good. This is really really good. 810 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 16: If you have a Kwanza party, Steve, you can demonstrate 811 00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:22,719 Speaker 16: what I mean by this. 812 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:28,440 Speaker 20: You not have more than two velosifying brothers or sisters 813 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:29,720 Speaker 20: at your party. 814 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 16: You don't want more than two in there. You don't 815 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 16: want to, you know, brothers. 816 00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:38,279 Speaker 19: Let me say this about this time, this period that 817 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:43,400 Speaker 19: we partake of in this a questrious moment, a history 818 00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:50,239 Speaker 19: defiling or the gytuatricitness, or the barbariousness of what these 819 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:52,319 Speaker 19: holidays are too. 820 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:54,800 Speaker 2: That's why we celebrate quons. 821 00:43:55,040 --> 00:44:00,200 Speaker 21: But I dare say, though, brother, you don't want if 822 00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 21: we hold that dilate the situation, knowing that it is 823 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:11,719 Speaker 21: pharagorically not a capability of scientific split. Let let me 824 00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:15,200 Speaker 21: interject some sensibility into this conversation. 825 00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:18,879 Speaker 20: Okay, you don't want a whole bunch of them at 826 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,879 Speaker 20: your party? Okay, it tears up the mood. 827 00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:23,120 Speaker 1: Number five. 828 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 16: Ease up, this is very important. 829 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 13: Ease up, you know what. 830 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:33,400 Speaker 22: E's up me right, Ease up on the incense and sage. Okay, 831 00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 22: because the black of my nose is burning. 832 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: How my shoes theyll like, I got a headache? Notious? 833 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 5: Too much? 834 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,240 Speaker 1: My greens tastes like save. 835 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 16: Number two? 836 00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:05,840 Speaker 2: You want number seven? 837 00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 20: You want to play something other than the Lion King Anne, 838 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:13,399 Speaker 20: This is vandpoint. The African drummers don't have to play 839 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:14,680 Speaker 20: all night. 840 00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 2: Long, Okay, they don't. 841 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:25,879 Speaker 20: Shirley Dinner and last but not really last night. Don't 842 00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 20: tell nobody it's a quiz about it. 843 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 2: Just tell him to come over. 844 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,640 Speaker 3: Okay, I have to tell him something. 845 00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,319 Speaker 16: You can I'm having a bottle surprise. 846 00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm having a party, all right. Listen, coming up like 847 00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 1: for the nephew today, frank phone call. That's coming up 848 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,120 Speaker 1: right after that corn bred spell. 849 00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 11: Like you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming 850 00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,200 Speaker 11: up at about four minutes after the hour. It's my 851 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 11: strawberry letter for today and the subject is my cousin. 852 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:09,520 Speaker 1: Owns the car wash. My cousin owns the car wash. 853 00:46:09,920 --> 00:46:11,000 Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just. 854 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,800 Speaker 11: A few because right now it is time for the 855 00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,920 Speaker 11: nephew and today's prank phone call. 856 00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: Nephew, what you got for us? 857 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:19,520 Speaker 2: What this went on in a lot of houses? 858 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:19,880 Speaker 9: Oh? 859 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 2: Really, this went on. 860 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:24,200 Speaker 9: This happened because you know everybody bringing them this pot, 861 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,400 Speaker 9: that pot, the pot looks you know how it go. 862 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 9: Then it happened in my house, and I'm tired. This 863 00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,360 Speaker 9: This was my last one. But this right here is 864 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:37,879 Speaker 9: the pot. Look bad potluck. That's the title, Bad pot Luck. Okay, Okay, 865 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,080 Speaker 9: I know y'all has to be bringing st up y'all houses. 866 00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:43,920 Speaker 9: Just trifling. Okay, I'm not gonna say nothing, but I 867 00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:45,799 Speaker 9: still want to say so. But I know my wife listen, 868 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,680 Speaker 9: but your cousin can't bring no TV no mom, and 869 00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 9: put some damn blueberries in it. 870 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 2: She can't do that. No, I'm just gonna go and 871 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 2: see it. She can't do it. No more. 872 00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,759 Speaker 9: Okay, you can't bring no greens and they have some 873 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,080 Speaker 9: kind of meatium and there ain't turkey and we don't 874 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 9: know what that is. 875 00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:05,440 Speaker 2: You can't do that. No more to us, Summer Saucy. 876 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,760 Speaker 1: Agree in the grees. 877 00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:12,560 Speaker 2: What you're doing. 878 00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:17,279 Speaker 9: You cannot experiment on big holidays? All right, this is 879 00:47:17,400 --> 00:47:18,920 Speaker 9: bad pot Let's go cat them. 880 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 2: Hello. 881 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,399 Speaker 5: Hello, I'm trying to buying Heather. 882 00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 15: Excuse me what you say? 883 00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:26,759 Speaker 5: I'm trying to reach a Heather. 884 00:47:28,680 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 15: How are you? 885 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:29,600 Speaker 2: Okay? 886 00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 5: Okay, listen, uh I got your number from from Lowist. 887 00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,279 Speaker 5: Look that's my mama. I'm my reach. I'm lowest oldest son. 888 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,280 Speaker 15: Now wait wait excuse me? Lois? 889 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:44,239 Speaker 5: Who's lowis Lewis? Yes? 890 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:45,279 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, hi? 891 00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:46,000 Speaker 5: How are you? 892 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:47,120 Speaker 13: I'm good? 893 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:48,080 Speaker 7: You you you? 894 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:54,319 Speaker 5: You was at at Mama Deane's house on New Year's Day? Yes, yes, 895 00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,239 Speaker 5: everybody was there. Okay when I got when I got there, 896 00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,880 Speaker 5: you was gone. But what I'm what I'm calling by 897 00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 5: is you one made the black eyed peas? 898 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 2: Right? 899 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 15: I did you enjoyed them. 900 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 5: No, I enjoy the mother thing. That's why I'm calling. 901 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:12,160 Speaker 5: Let me say this, let me say this. 902 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:13,520 Speaker 13: No, no, no, come at work. 903 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:15,520 Speaker 15: You can't talk to me like this. Don't do that, 904 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,640 Speaker 15: don't do that. Say whatever you got to say, but 905 00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:18,600 Speaker 15: please don't curse that me. 906 00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:23,600 Speaker 5: Don't do no, go to deal your mother. Things got 907 00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,759 Speaker 5: here jacked up and I didn't have to go down 908 00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 5: to the doctor to get my stomach pumped. 909 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:29,120 Speaker 3: I ain't got no. 910 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,920 Speaker 5: Damn insurance for none this. You know this, this, this 911 00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:37,439 Speaker 5: didn't have me messed up for the last week number 912 00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,839 Speaker 5: for the loans to tell you exactly you know how 913 00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:41,239 Speaker 5: your damn piece is. 914 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 15: Okay. First fist of all, okay, I told you ask. 915 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,840 Speaker 15: I'm at work, I'm around all these white people. I 916 00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,439 Speaker 15: can't talk to you the way I want to talk 917 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,640 Speaker 15: to you. But let me just tell you that, don't 918 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 15: call me with the dump. First of all, there was 919 00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,759 Speaker 15: a whole bunch of food there. How do you know 920 00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 15: how can you single out my damn beans that made 921 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:01,800 Speaker 15: you say with all that got food there, you're not 922 00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,400 Speaker 15: gonna blame me. You get out of here, mama. 923 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,759 Speaker 5: Mama bean says you were the one that made the place. 924 00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:07,480 Speaker 6: You don't give us. 925 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,560 Speaker 15: Mama Bean said it was all this food there, and 926 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 15: you're gonna single out my beans. Nobody else complained, you 927 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,120 Speaker 15: know what the day's date is, okay, and not one 928 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:19,879 Speaker 15: other person called me about them beans and by as 929 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,400 Speaker 15: a matter of fact, other people were complimenting me. So 930 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,799 Speaker 15: for you to call me with the dumb all late 931 00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,440 Speaker 15: and wrong, you're gonna blame me, probably because you need 932 00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 15: a doctor's appointment. You should have got Obamacare when it 933 00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,279 Speaker 15: was available to you. And how you want to call 934 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,040 Speaker 15: me with no no, no, no, no, no no, so 935 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 15: you could tell what. 936 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,680 Speaker 5: Somebody You're going to blame somebody else's food. Joe beings 937 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:44,360 Speaker 5: my stomach up, and that's what the that's what it 938 00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,880 Speaker 5: falls down to. And at the end of the day, you're. 939 00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 15: You know, the hell, I hat what doctor bill? You 940 00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 15: said you an't having shut So how did the hell 941 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:56,560 Speaker 15: you go? Wing shot? 942 00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,800 Speaker 5: I had to play out my pocket to get my 943 00:49:58,960 --> 00:49:59,760 Speaker 5: stomach pumped. 944 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,720 Speaker 15: Okay, well taken care of. If you paid out your pocket, 945 00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:04,560 Speaker 15: that means the bill of thing so you can. 946 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 5: Get you gonna reimburse me. 947 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,080 Speaker 15: No, I'm not going to reimburse you with Okay. In fact, 948 00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,040 Speaker 15: I got more beans for you, since you got a 949 00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:13,360 Speaker 15: problem with them, I got a. 950 00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:14,480 Speaker 5: Whole bowl for you. 951 00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:17,800 Speaker 15: Okay, how about because you fullished? So if it made you, 952 00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:18,960 Speaker 15: that's good for you. 953 00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:19,440 Speaker 2: Hey. 954 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 5: Look, look, I'm gonna tell you this here right now. 955 00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:25,000 Speaker 5: The bill was four hundred and seventy two dollars. I 956 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:31,920 Speaker 5: need four hundred and seventy two dollars for your bullet things. No, no, no, no, 957 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 5: you're not getting no money from me. 958 00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:35,759 Speaker 15: And I need to go because I got work to do. 959 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:36,840 Speaker 5: I don't know what you got to do. 960 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,719 Speaker 15: Spend it all this time on the phone and talk 961 00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:40,799 Speaker 15: about some bean with all that food. So the rice 962 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:42,960 Speaker 15: didn't do it, the meat didn't do it. They had 963 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 15: some other gravy, gravy all these people up that didn't 964 00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,440 Speaker 15: do it. You wanna single out my beans got of here? 965 00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 5: Don't be calling me with this dumb you know what? 966 00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 15: Now, tell me who gave me your number? Because I 967 00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 15: don't even know you. I do know your. 968 00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:59,640 Speaker 5: Momma, My mama being gave me your number. 969 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:02,799 Speaker 15: I call Mama Deane passing out numbers. Well, I'm gonna 970 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 15: call Mama Dean, and I'm gonna see if anybody else 971 00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 15: got sick. Which I know they didn't because your ass 972 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 15: is full. So I'm gonna call her see if anybody 973 00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 15: got sick. How about we do it that way. And 974 00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:15,560 Speaker 15: also I'm gonna call your mother. Okay, I'm gonna call 975 00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 15: miss Lewis and see why her dad son is calling 976 00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:21,520 Speaker 15: me on the phone. Because this is something broke. I'm 977 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,560 Speaker 15: getting sticking side of this phone call. And nothing was 978 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:26,800 Speaker 15: wrong with my beans. If anything something wrong with you, 979 00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,320 Speaker 15: and so take her accident, clean your ass out and 980 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:33,240 Speaker 15: keep it to you. Get off my phone. 981 00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, okay, they say they say Tommy had some 982 00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:38,239 Speaker 5: problem with the bees too. 983 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 15: Tom First of all, I don't even know no God, Tom, 984 00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,879 Speaker 15: I barely know your mom. I just know her by face. 985 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:49,359 Speaker 15: I don't even know her know her. So Tommy, Hugh, 986 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,120 Speaker 15: I'm calling Mama Dean. She ain't got no bodiness getting 987 00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 15: my mother number to nobody. 988 00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,400 Speaker 5: This is what you want me to tell Tommy. 989 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,880 Speaker 15: I've just told you I don't know anybody named Tommy. 990 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 15: So you can tell him whatever you want to tell him. 991 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,439 Speaker 15: And if you want to gain other people who want 992 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,359 Speaker 15: to jump away your side, it's not going to happen 993 00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,640 Speaker 15: because nobody complains about the being. Give me, give me 994 00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 15: nother names, because Tommy wasn't there. I know just about 995 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 15: everybody that was there wasn't nobody named Tommy there. 996 00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:20,680 Speaker 5: Okay, okay, so you're gonna say, nephew, tell me nephew, 997 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:27,000 Speaker 5: Tommy wasn't there. What nephew tell me? This is nephew 998 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:30,200 Speaker 5: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show with heaven You. 999 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:34,920 Speaker 15: Are you crazy? 1000 00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:40,040 Speaker 5: Your cousin friends? You got me to brakfall? 1001 00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:44,319 Speaker 15: Call what people walking by me looking at me because 1002 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:45,080 Speaker 15: I'm walking again? 1003 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:46,760 Speaker 5: Problem you Tommy? 1004 00:52:47,080 --> 00:52:47,800 Speaker 13: Are you crazy? 1005 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:51,800 Speaker 15: He's a good. 1006 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,239 Speaker 5: Oh man, you got me. You've got me wanting to 1007 00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:58,439 Speaker 5: taste your black eyed team. 1008 00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:02,640 Speaker 15: Okay, nobody could cut. I'm sitting here like I know, 1009 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:06,120 Speaker 15: I get these people back. You weren't gonna get no money. 1010 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,880 Speaker 5: Show me this, baby, tell me this. What is the baddest, 1011 00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:13,440 Speaker 5: the baddest radio show in the land. 1012 00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:15,720 Speaker 15: Oh but you know it, but you know it's Steve 1013 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:22,160 Speaker 15: Harvey Morning Show? Oh my god, gat oh keep. 1014 00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,080 Speaker 5: Cooking bad baby? You are all right? 1015 00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:24,759 Speaker 15: Thank you? 1016 00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:26,239 Speaker 6: Having new year? 1017 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 5: All right, that's new year and next year I'll probably 1018 00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:31,120 Speaker 5: pop off at Mama Deen house. Here. 1019 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 15: You are welcome to come. 1020 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,399 Speaker 9: We're gonna stop all this this bad pod Look, we're 1021 00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,560 Speaker 9: gonna stop it. We're gonna stop bringing these podlucks. 1022 00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,719 Speaker 8: Th food police, Well, we need food please. You know 1023 00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,960 Speaker 8: what happened in my house? What you know it's been 1024 00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:53,719 Speaker 8: doing keto low carbs. Just decided. You know, I'm enjoying 1025 00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:58,000 Speaker 8: my day, so I let go at at three sweet 1026 00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:02,879 Speaker 8: potato pies. I said, okay, okay, so when I get 1027 00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,200 Speaker 8: through on a chill and give me a big hunk 1028 00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,120 Speaker 8: of sweet potato pies. Do you know they ate all 1029 00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,879 Speaker 8: three of them sweet potato powe before you got dog. 1030 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 8: I went over there and Margie said, you didn't get 1031 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,560 Speaker 8: no pie? Said no, I was waiting because I was 1032 00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:21,440 Speaker 8: from after the game. They ate all three of them 1033 00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:22,400 Speaker 8: sweet potato pies. 1034 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 2: The kids, the kids, the grandparents, their friends. I walked 1035 00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 2: in the kitchen, I looked at everybody. 1036 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:30,919 Speaker 9: I'm different. I get mad at my wife at that point. 1037 00:54:31,239 --> 00:54:36,800 Speaker 9: Have me some food inside, take care of me. I'm sorry. 1038 00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:46,040 Speaker 9: My toe was very nice. Have me some food side. Yeah, okay, 1039 00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:49,520 Speaker 9: if you don't mind, you have me a plate set aside. 1040 00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,400 Speaker 9: I'm not gonna eat these large, gigantic plates for everybody 1041 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:53,279 Speaker 9: or eating. 1042 00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:54,120 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do that. 1043 00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,479 Speaker 1: What if she put your plate aside and somebody eating somebody? 1044 00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 2: Now you can't my house, Dean. 1045 00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:06,000 Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you nephew for that. Good luck 1046 00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:06,920 Speaker 1: in your marriage. 1047 00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:12,320 Speaker 11: All right, I'm coming up Strawberry Letter subject My cousin 1048 00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:15,279 Speaker 11: owns the car wash. We'll get into it right after this. 1049 00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:18,680 Speaker 11: It's time to talk about life insurance. It's one of 1050 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:22,439 Speaker 11: those things that everyone should have, and Globe Life makes 1051 00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 11: it easy with no medical exam, just a simple application 1052 00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:29,960 Speaker 11: and coverage options up to one hundred thousand dollars. Get 1053 00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,480 Speaker 11: the coverage you need in twenty twenty five. Go online 1054 00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:37,600 Speaker 11: at globelifradio dot com or call one eight hundred two 1055 00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:41,719 Speaker 11: five one fifty four hundred to apply in minutes. That's 1056 00:55:41,760 --> 00:55:46,279 Speaker 11: Globelifradio dot com or one eight hundred two five one 1057 00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:55,000 Speaker 11: fifty four hundred. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, 1058 00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,719 Speaker 11: it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 1059 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 11: you need advice on relationships, works, parenting, and more, please 1060 00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:05,560 Speaker 11: submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVFM dot com and we 1061 00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:08,800 Speaker 11: could be reading your letter live on the air, just 1062 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,239 Speaker 11: like we're going to read this one right here. Right now, 1063 00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:15,240 Speaker 11: and you never know it could be yours. 1064 00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:18,239 Speaker 2: So right us, right us, buckle up and hold on tight. 1065 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,640 Speaker 2: We gote it for you. Here it is is a 1066 00:56:19,719 --> 00:56:20,720 Speaker 2: strawberry letter. 1067 00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:24,279 Speaker 1: Thank you for you subject. My cousin owns the car wash. 1068 00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:25,800 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. 1069 00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:29,120 Speaker 11: I'm a twenty nine year old hopeless romantic and I 1070 00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:32,719 Speaker 11: got married too quickly to a man that I barely knew. 1071 00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,160 Speaker 11: Now all of my family is in my business, and 1072 00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 11: I'm so disappointed in myself. I met a man that's 1073 00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:43,040 Speaker 11: from another city, and after we dated for a few months, 1074 00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,760 Speaker 11: he came to visit me and never left. He quickly 1075 00:56:46,840 --> 00:56:49,719 Speaker 11: got a great job and he got settled in. He 1076 00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,719 Speaker 11: has a friend in town, so he's usually hanging out 1077 00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:56,279 Speaker 11: with him or he's at work. I never suspected he 1078 00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:59,520 Speaker 11: was cheating on me until three days ago when I 1079 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:03,759 Speaker 11: found out that he's had sex in his car. My 1080 00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:07,840 Speaker 11: cousin owns a car wash, and he specializes in wheels 1081 00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:12,320 Speaker 11: and detailing leather seats. My husband's escalade is his pride 1082 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:16,200 Speaker 11: and joy, so he gets it washed often. I did 1083 00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:19,040 Speaker 11: not know he was going all the way across town 1084 00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,080 Speaker 11: to get his car washed until I got a call 1085 00:57:21,160 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 11: from my cousin's wife. She said, my husband has brought 1086 00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,560 Speaker 11: his truck to the car wash a few times and 1087 00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:30,560 Speaker 11: he's always got interesting stains and pieces of weeds. 1088 00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:31,720 Speaker 1: All over the truck. 1089 00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:35,600 Speaker 11: My cousin figured out that it's my husband after he 1090 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:39,080 Speaker 11: saw a business card in the truck. See, my cousin 1091 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 11: wasn't invited to my wedding because he is on the 1092 00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:45,640 Speaker 11: ghetto side of my family, so he didn't know my husband. 1093 00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:48,560 Speaker 11: I just hate that before my cousin's wife called me, 1094 00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,760 Speaker 11: she called my mom and told her that my husband 1095 00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:55,440 Speaker 11: has been having sex in his truck and getting it cleaned. Afterwards, 1096 00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:58,960 Speaker 11: I asked my husband about the rumor, and he threatened 1097 00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:02,240 Speaker 11: to fight my cousin and out him as a liar 1098 00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:06,480 Speaker 11: and a bad businessman. I assured him that my cousin 1099 00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,400 Speaker 11: is not the one to be played with like that. 1100 00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 1: If my husband is not. 1101 00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:14,560 Speaker 11: Cheating, why would he be so upset. I don't see 1102 00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:17,840 Speaker 11: my cousin hating on my husband for no reason. Since 1103 00:58:17,920 --> 00:58:23,160 Speaker 11: my family knows can my marriage survive this? Well, you 1104 00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:26,560 Speaker 11: really don't have much of a marriage to survive anything. 1105 00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:29,960 Speaker 11: You know, you guys don't even spend a lot of 1106 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:32,800 Speaker 11: time together. You said he's over at his friend's house 1107 00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:36,120 Speaker 11: or he's over at work. It sounds like your man 1108 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 11: is cheating and everyone knows it. Your family is messy, 1109 00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 11: and you are right. Your cousin's wife didn't have to 1110 00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,680 Speaker 11: bless the business to your mom. But you said yourself 1111 00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,000 Speaker 11: that you barely know this man. I mean you barely 1112 00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 11: knew him when you married him. He's probably doing what 1113 00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 11: he normally did when he was single in that other town, 1114 00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:56,880 Speaker 11: but you didn't know him then, so you don't have 1115 00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:59,000 Speaker 11: anything to compare his behavior to. 1116 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:02,480 Speaker 1: And when you asked him about it, he didn't deny it. 1117 00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:03,680 Speaker 1: He didn't say. 1118 00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,240 Speaker 11: Absolutely not, no, he didn't blah blah blah blah blah. 1119 00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:08,200 Speaker 11: He didn't even try to lie. He just didn't deny 1120 00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 11: it and said he was gonna give your cousin and 1121 00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:14,320 Speaker 11: beat down. It looks like your husband is cheating. Not 1122 00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:18,400 Speaker 11: if he's cheating, like you wrote in a letter, Steve, 1123 00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:21,760 Speaker 11: that's what you need to wrap your mind around. Your 1124 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,680 Speaker 11: marriage is in trouble and I don't see how you're 1125 00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:26,960 Speaker 11: going to get past this one. Let's see what kind 1126 00:59:27,040 --> 00:59:30,480 Speaker 11: of lies we can come up with for this one, Steve, Well. 1127 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:32,640 Speaker 8: I don't think it's really got to be no lies, 1128 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,240 Speaker 8: because if I should analyze this letter properly, I mean, 1129 00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:42,919 Speaker 8: let's go through this circumpedience. Times has this circumstance. See 1130 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:48,200 Speaker 8: we deal it with circumstance. Okay, watch how we do this. 1131 00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,200 Speaker 8: This woman says that I'm a twenty nine year old 1132 00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 8: hopeless romantic. I got married too quickly to a man 1133 00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,880 Speaker 8: that I barely knew. Now I don't know if this 1134 01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,560 Speaker 8: is the definition of a hopeless romantic. 1135 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:06,000 Speaker 2: This is not what this is. I think this is 1136 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:09,560 Speaker 2: called crazy. This may just be crazy. 1137 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:11,040 Speaker 8: He might not have nothing to do with you being 1138 01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:14,080 Speaker 8: a hopeless romantic at all, because you married a man 1139 01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,840 Speaker 8: you didn't hardly know what what what they got to 1140 01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,000 Speaker 8: do with it? And I'm so disappointed in myself. Now 1141 01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,400 Speaker 8: all your family's in your business. You say, you say 1142 01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,520 Speaker 8: you met this man from another city y'all dated a 1143 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:31,360 Speaker 8: few months, came to visit me and never left. That 1144 01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,720 Speaker 8: didn't sound st That doesn't seem strange to you. How 1145 01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:38,800 Speaker 8: can a man come from another city visit you and 1146 01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:46,000 Speaker 8: never go back? Where where he work, where he lived, 1147 01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:50,000 Speaker 8: where his house? What's what's his least payment? 1148 01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:50,440 Speaker 5: What? 1149 01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:51,040 Speaker 2: What's it? 1150 01:00:52,080 --> 01:00:56,080 Speaker 8: He ain't got no least, no way. What how you 1151 01:00:56,320 --> 01:01:01,040 Speaker 8: just go visit and then don't go back. That's not 1152 01:01:01,240 --> 01:01:05,160 Speaker 8: being a hopeless romantic. Something's wrong with this. He quickly 1153 01:01:05,320 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 8: got a great job, okay, settled in, He got a 1154 01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:15,080 Speaker 8: friend in town. He usually hanging out with him, or 1155 01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:18,640 Speaker 8: he's at work. Then the lady said, I never suspected 1156 01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:20,640 Speaker 8: he was cheating on me until three days ago. Now 1157 01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,360 Speaker 8: here's what this whole letter is about. My cousin owns 1158 01:01:23,440 --> 01:01:27,840 Speaker 8: the car wash and did I don't know why she 1159 01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:33,480 Speaker 8: threw this in here. He specializes in wheels and detail 1160 01:01:33,640 --> 01:01:34,680 Speaker 8: and leather seats. 1161 01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,080 Speaker 2: So I got a car washed. 1162 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 8: Everybody got a car wash, wiping seats and doing wheels. 1163 01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:52,480 Speaker 8: Everybody with a carwah. Anyway, my husband's escalade is his 1164 01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:56,280 Speaker 8: pride and joy, so he gets it washed often. Here's 1165 01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,720 Speaker 8: another precrryous line. I did not know he was going 1166 01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,360 Speaker 8: off all the way across town to get his car washed. 1167 01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:08,640 Speaker 8: What what difference do that make where he get his 1168 01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:09,400 Speaker 8: car washed? 1169 01:02:09,680 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 5: What? 1170 01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:14,320 Speaker 8: Maybe it's because it's a great car wash. Remember your cousin, 1171 01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:15,440 Speaker 8: specially life. 1172 01:02:15,200 --> 01:02:16,360 Speaker 2: Has in wheels. 1173 01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:18,640 Speaker 1: And levers. 1174 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:22,960 Speaker 8: He went over there for a specialty, and all of 1175 01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:25,440 Speaker 8: this was going good. Until you got a call from 1176 01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:28,919 Speaker 8: your cousin's wife. When we come back, I will tell 1177 01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:32,959 Speaker 8: you what's wrong with this whole letter, all. 1178 01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:34,120 Speaker 2: Right, Steve? All right? 1179 01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:37,240 Speaker 11: Hang on for part two of Steve's response, coming up 1180 01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,360 Speaker 11: at twenty three minutes after the hour today Strawberry letter, 1181 01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:42,400 Speaker 11: subject my cousin. 1182 01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,960 Speaker 1: Owns the car wash. We'll get back into. 1183 01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:51,160 Speaker 11: It right after this. It's time to talk about life insurance. 1184 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,120 Speaker 11: It's one of those things that everyone should have, and 1185 01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:57,840 Speaker 11: Globe Life makes it easy with no medical exam, just 1186 01:02:57,960 --> 01:03:01,560 Speaker 11: a simple application and coverage options up to one hundred 1187 01:03:01,600 --> 01:03:02,360 Speaker 11: thousand dollars. 1188 01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:05,640 Speaker 1: Get the coverage you need in twenty twenty five. Go 1189 01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 1: online at. 1190 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:10,640 Speaker 11: Globelifradio dot com or call one eight hundred two five 1191 01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:15,280 Speaker 11: one fifty four hundred to apply in minutes. That's Globelifradio 1192 01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:19,360 Speaker 11: dot com or one eight hundred two five one fifty 1193 01:03:19,440 --> 01:03:23,440 Speaker 11: four hundred. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's 1194 01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:27,440 Speaker 11: Strawberry letter, the subject my cousin owns the car wash? 1195 01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:29,080 Speaker 2: Before I do this letter. 1196 01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:32,560 Speaker 8: I've noticed a trend in Shuirle and I's responses to 1197 01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:38,240 Speaker 8: these letters. If a man is accused of cheating, if 1198 01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:44,080 Speaker 8: a man has circumstantial evidence about cheating. Then my partner 1199 01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:47,080 Speaker 8: in crime, who we are supposed to give our own 1200 01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:51,920 Speaker 8: opinions and separate, looks at this ninety eight percent of 1201 01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,960 Speaker 8: the time, gonna ride his ass to the police station 1202 01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:56,840 Speaker 8: and lock his ass up for cheat. 1203 01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:59,320 Speaker 1: Absolutely, and in this letter. 1204 01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:02,640 Speaker 8: There was no different ference. But I have several problems 1205 01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:05,800 Speaker 8: with this letter, all right. So after she calls herself 1206 01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:08,720 Speaker 8: a romantic, hopeless romantic, meets this guy, she barely news. 1207 01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,160 Speaker 8: Guy leaves town one time, comes to visit her and 1208 01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:12,040 Speaker 8: never goes back. 1209 01:04:12,360 --> 01:04:15,040 Speaker 2: That's odd. He gets a job quickly settles in. 1210 01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:18,600 Speaker 8: She's embarrassed by this because now she met him, she 1211 01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:20,800 Speaker 8: married a man she hardly knew, her family all up 1212 01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:23,800 Speaker 8: in the business, and so everything is going right, and 1213 01:04:23,920 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 8: she had no suspicions of him cheating until three days 1214 01:04:26,800 --> 01:04:29,800 Speaker 8: ago when he took his car to a car wash 1215 01:04:29,920 --> 01:04:33,240 Speaker 8: that specializes in wheels and leather seats. Okay, we got 1216 01:04:33,320 --> 01:04:38,320 Speaker 8: that right. Now, she gets a call from her cousin's wife. 1217 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,600 Speaker 8: Now this is where the letter takes a turn. She 1218 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,360 Speaker 8: said that my husband bought his truck to the car 1219 01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:47,240 Speaker 8: wash a few times, and he's always got interesting stains 1220 01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:48,560 Speaker 8: and pieces of. 1221 01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:52,960 Speaker 2: Weave all over the truck. This is what your cousin's 1222 01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:54,080 Speaker 2: wife said. 1223 01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:57,640 Speaker 8: You've never seen the weave in the truck, and you've 1224 01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:01,400 Speaker 8: never seen any stains. Okay, that's just a fact. So 1225 01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:05,720 Speaker 8: we're going based on what your cousin's wife told you. 1226 01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:06,800 Speaker 2: Now, listen to this. 1227 01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:10,800 Speaker 8: My cousin figured out that it's my husband's after he 1228 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,200 Speaker 8: saw a business card in the truck. 1229 01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:14,880 Speaker 2: Now, and then here we go. 1230 01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:19,240 Speaker 8: See, my cousin wasn't invited to my wedding because he's 1231 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:23,120 Speaker 8: on the ghetto side of my family, so he didn't 1232 01:05:23,240 --> 01:05:24,080 Speaker 8: know my husband. 1233 01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:28,640 Speaker 2: This is very important information. She didn't invite that side 1234 01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:30,160 Speaker 2: of the family because they ghetto. 1235 01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:34,160 Speaker 8: Okay, then she says, I just hate that before my 1236 01:05:34,320 --> 01:05:38,680 Speaker 8: cousin's wife called me, she called my mom and told 1237 01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:42,440 Speaker 8: her that my husband has been having sex in his 1238 01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:45,040 Speaker 8: truck and getting it cleaned afterwards. 1239 01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:47,520 Speaker 2: Okay, how she know that, y'all? 1240 01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:51,280 Speaker 1: I mean, really, the stains and the weave, the stains and. 1241 01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:54,880 Speaker 8: The weed that the wife ain't never seen. You just 1242 01:05:55,040 --> 01:05:57,720 Speaker 8: said they ghetto and you ain't invite them to the wedding. 1243 01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,120 Speaker 8: Now I'm gonna show you something else in here. It 1244 01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:01,040 Speaker 8: gets a little crazy. 1245 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:03,880 Speaker 1: So that's because they didn't come from to the wedding. 1246 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,320 Speaker 1: They didn't get no listen to this. 1247 01:06:06,040 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 8: I asked my husband about the rumor, and he threatened 1248 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:11,040 Speaker 8: to fight my cousin and out him as a liar 1249 01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:13,120 Speaker 8: and a bad businessman. 1250 01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:13,840 Speaker 2: As he should. 1251 01:06:14,520 --> 01:06:17,600 Speaker 8: I assured him that my cousin is not the one 1252 01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:20,480 Speaker 8: to be played with like that. Now this is good 1253 01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:24,400 Speaker 8: information because you just said you did invite your husband 1254 01:06:24,480 --> 01:06:26,360 Speaker 8: to the wedding because he ghetto. 1255 01:06:28,280 --> 01:06:30,840 Speaker 1: To the wedding because he ghetto. 1256 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:35,360 Speaker 8: Okay, and so now this is a fair warner. If 1257 01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:37,560 Speaker 8: you go over there and fight the dude that on 1258 01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:40,080 Speaker 8: the car wash, go get your ass whooped. That's that's 1259 01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,920 Speaker 8: what this is about. Get your ass whooping. But now 1260 01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:47,760 Speaker 8: she's saying if he didn't cheat, whise he doing this? 1261 01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:50,200 Speaker 8: But I assured him that my cousin is not the 1262 01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:53,520 Speaker 8: one to be played with. Why would he be so upset. 1263 01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:57,640 Speaker 8: I don't see my husband hating. I don't see my 1264 01:06:57,760 --> 01:07:00,480 Speaker 8: cousin hating on my husband for no reason since my 1265 01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 8: family knows can my marriage survive this? 1266 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:05,439 Speaker 12: Now? 1267 01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:09,600 Speaker 2: I think you know that your family on that. 1268 01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:16,560 Speaker 8: Side is messy, very that and this word has speculated 1269 01:07:17,240 --> 01:07:20,800 Speaker 8: they had some stains and weave in the truck that 1270 01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:25,040 Speaker 8: you've never seen, and now you ain't invite us to 1271 01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:27,560 Speaker 8: the wedding, so you must thank you all that in 1272 01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 8: a bag of chips. So now let me show you 1273 01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:33,120 Speaker 8: that you ain't all that. And I'm gonna tell your 1274 01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:35,080 Speaker 8: mama he was having sex in the truck. 1275 01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:37,640 Speaker 2: How you know that what stains? 1276 01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:40,880 Speaker 1: But see, just because she didn't see it, does that 1277 01:07:41,040 --> 01:07:42,280 Speaker 1: mean that it didn't happen? 1278 01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:45,160 Speaker 2: But so then you're going to en your marriage based 1279 01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:53,760 Speaker 2: on that she has what stains, Shirley. 1280 01:07:53,960 --> 01:07:56,400 Speaker 1: The stains that a cousin saw in the back seat? 1281 01:07:57,280 --> 01:07:59,960 Speaker 2: What was they say? 1282 01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:00,600 Speaker 15: The corn? 1283 01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:06,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't, she didn't specified because she. 1284 01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:08,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1285 01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,400 Speaker 8: But see, hold up though, let me ask you something. 1286 01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:18,719 Speaker 8: So does the cousin's wife work at the car. 1287 01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:21,040 Speaker 1: Washing Well it sounds like she does. 1288 01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,559 Speaker 8: Yeah, so if she ain't washing cars, how she knows 1289 01:08:24,560 --> 01:08:29,400 Speaker 8: what's in the car? No doubt if he owned the 1290 01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:32,920 Speaker 8: cars car washing that his wife is out there washing cars. 1291 01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:34,080 Speaker 2: I doubt that. 1292 01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:40,320 Speaker 8: This reeks of hate for not being invited to the 1293 01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:44,800 Speaker 8: web see y'all ruining your Well, look, you married the 1294 01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:47,920 Speaker 8: man too soon. The man might be cheating, but you 1295 01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:50,360 Speaker 8: go hat it on this speculation. You should have ended 1296 01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:53,320 Speaker 8: it on something that you knew and not on hearsay. 1297 01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,719 Speaker 8: And if you take it, if you took this to court, 1298 01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:58,479 Speaker 8: you would lose. I just want to tell you that 1299 01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:03,479 Speaker 8: because you have no evidence. You ain't seen no pictures 1300 01:09:03,520 --> 01:09:05,200 Speaker 8: of it, you ain't went through his phone, you ain't 1301 01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:08,680 Speaker 8: got no text messages. You getting a DNA report off 1302 01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:12,120 Speaker 8: of forensic science. Hell for that, ain't even a forensic scienist. 1303 01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:14,719 Speaker 8: All right, I don't think you might not be cheating 1304 01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:15,040 Speaker 8: at all. 1305 01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:18,160 Speaker 1: Sorry, Shure, and he might be. Sorry, Steve. 1306 01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:21,160 Speaker 11: Leave us your comments on Today's letter on Instagram and 1307 01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:24,919 Speaker 11: Steve Harvey FM and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast. 1308 01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:27,559 Speaker 1: Done demand, Good morning, This is your. 1309 01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:28,360 Speaker 2: Man, Steve Harvey. 1310 01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:31,280 Speaker 8: And my New Year's resolutions are the same as they 1311 01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:34,280 Speaker 8: been all year long. That ain't your business. Happy New Year, 1312 01:09:34,360 --> 01:09:37,400 Speaker 8: y'all from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Keep your resolutions 1313 01:09:37,439 --> 01:09:39,920 Speaker 8: to yourself. Lot of haters out there, don't let him 1314 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:41,320 Speaker 8: shake your baby a. 1315 01:09:44,000 --> 01:09:47,360 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mopping bucket aside. 1316 01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:50,240 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? And 1317 01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:54,240 Speaker 12: half the time make the swap to swifper power mops 1318 01:09:54,360 --> 01:09:57,040 Speaker 12: the only one. Cleaning Hero has a built in solution 1319 01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:01,120 Speaker 12: that breaks down dirt and grime like Matt with hundreds 1320 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:05,240 Speaker 12: of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky nesses 1321 01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:08,479 Speaker 12: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 1322 01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:12,519 Speaker 12: hours after cleaning. Get yours today and mop smarter with 1323 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:14,120 Speaker 12: the Swiffer Power Mom. 1324 01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,360 Speaker 11: Well, it is the new year and it is time 1325 01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:20,320 Speaker 11: to resolve to be more positive and healthy. A new 1326 01:10:20,400 --> 01:10:23,880 Speaker 11: survey has found that the average person has up to 1327 01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:26,479 Speaker 11: eleven negative thoughts every day. 1328 01:10:27,120 --> 01:10:28,640 Speaker 1: These include things. 1329 01:10:28,479 --> 01:10:31,599 Speaker 11: Like I'm not good enough, I'm overweight, or I'm too 1330 01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 11: fat and I'm not good looking, or I'm ugly. Those 1331 01:10:35,200 --> 01:10:39,080 Speaker 11: surveyed said these negative thoughts keep them from achieving their goals, 1332 01:10:39,439 --> 01:10:42,280 Speaker 11: including getting healthy. So, Steve, I got to turn to 1333 01:10:42,360 --> 01:10:45,639 Speaker 11: you on this one. I have heard you say out 1334 01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:46,439 Speaker 11: of your own mouth. 1335 01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:47,840 Speaker 1: We all have on this show. 1336 01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:52,400 Speaker 2: Yes, yep, yeah, I've never seen it. I'm ugly, I'm 1337 01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:54,960 Speaker 2: not attractive though, Yes that's still unhealthy. 1338 01:10:55,040 --> 01:11:00,400 Speaker 8: Oh I tell you was even more unhealthy. Looking in 1339 01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 8: the mirror at your ugly ass. 1340 01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:02,800 Speaker 1: And think that. 1341 01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:06,440 Speaker 2: Is really unhealthy. 1342 01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:09,639 Speaker 1: Denial that right there. 1343 01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:10,720 Speaker 2: Has to stop. 1344 01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:17,040 Speaker 8: Looking at that and all you see is cute. Come 1345 01:11:17,080 --> 01:11:22,639 Speaker 8: on out that mirror, because now you're trying to force 1346 01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:26,639 Speaker 8: upon those of us who know it's something that we're 1347 01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:28,360 Speaker 8: not willing to accept. 1348 01:11:30,479 --> 01:11:33,759 Speaker 11: But you don't consider yourself attractive. And Tommy thinks he's 1349 01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:34,959 Speaker 11: dropped dead gorgeous. 1350 01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:37,519 Speaker 9: Fine, and I'm not gonna quit thinking this way, and 1351 01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,200 Speaker 9: I'm sorry, I'm not doing it. 1352 01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:40,440 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna. 1353 01:11:42,080 --> 01:11:43,439 Speaker 1: Just say you're in denial. 1354 01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:49,320 Speaker 2: I don't care what he's ugly behind. See, see, we 1355 01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:50,360 Speaker 2: got a problem here. 1356 01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:57,240 Speaker 8: We're trying to understand where Tommy coming from, because. 1357 01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:00,920 Speaker 2: He's dealing with it. 1358 01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:05,479 Speaker 8: You know, like like you can have a spraying arm, 1359 01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:07,800 Speaker 8: you can have a fraction arm, you can have a 1360 01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:13,000 Speaker 8: broken arm, and you can compound fraction. Tommy's dealing with 1361 01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:14,599 Speaker 8: a compound fractor. 1362 01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:17,559 Speaker 1: I knew you were gonna say, I knew you were so. 1363 01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:27,040 Speaker 2: Short and other whoa Okay, okay, let me say on 1364 01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:28,040 Speaker 2: to cuteness. 1365 01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:32,600 Speaker 8: Let me say this, when the last time has he 1366 01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:35,479 Speaker 8: heard anybody say, hey, with your little cute ass. 1367 01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,000 Speaker 2: I went to the chiropractice. 1368 01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:45,040 Speaker 8: Oh okay, yes, yes, and I have been I have 1369 01:12:45,200 --> 01:12:47,040 Speaker 8: been stretched, I have been. 1370 01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:51,240 Speaker 2: Realigned, and I am now five ten and a half. 1371 01:12:51,479 --> 01:13:00,360 Speaker 2: I am. Now I've been elongated. I've been elongated. Leave that. 1372 01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm telling you you ain't got the lackry. 1373 01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:03,760 Speaker 13: You know what you know? 1374 01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:05,560 Speaker 9: When we get off, When we get off to that 1375 01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:07,560 Speaker 9: is one, I'm gonna measure my height and take a 1376 01:13:07,640 --> 01:13:08,160 Speaker 9: picture of it. 1377 01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:10,160 Speaker 2: Right, I'm take a picture. 1378 01:13:10,200 --> 01:13:19,880 Speaker 8: Can stand up on this zoom. If you stand up 1379 01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:21,760 Speaker 8: on your zoom, you'll still be in this. 1380 01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:28,679 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go. You're listening to the Steve 1381 01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:31,439 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, so Steve, listen up. This 1382 01:13:31,560 --> 01:13:34,280 Speaker 1: one's from J R. From Raleigh, North Carolina. 1383 01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:35,200 Speaker 9: Jr. 1384 01:13:35,320 --> 01:13:38,360 Speaker 11: Rights Hi, Steve, Tommy Junior. I'm forty nine years old 1385 01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:41,240 Speaker 11: and I cook for a living. I do it big 1386 01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:45,320 Speaker 11: for Christmas, and this year I smoked them multiple turkeys 1387 01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:49,360 Speaker 11: and two hams. I make gumbo, jambalaya, barbecue ribs, and 1388 01:13:49,479 --> 01:13:53,920 Speaker 11: chicken fried, chicken fried catfish, and all the side dishes. 1389 01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:57,839 Speaker 11: My wife and I invited the same eighteen family members 1390 01:13:57,920 --> 01:14:01,080 Speaker 11: like we do every year, but this year we did 1391 01:14:01,200 --> 01:14:05,719 Speaker 11: something a little different. We charged five dollars per person 1392 01:14:06,120 --> 01:14:09,960 Speaker 11: to offset our food costs, especially since our rude family 1393 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:13,360 Speaker 11: members invite other people over to eat. I almost got 1394 01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:16,160 Speaker 11: to fighting with two of my cousins over five dollars? 1395 01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:18,920 Speaker 1: Was it rude to charge them five dollars? 1396 01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:19,360 Speaker 5: No? 1397 01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:22,760 Speaker 2: No, no, I'd have whooped their ass. They talking about 1398 01:14:22,800 --> 01:14:23,679 Speaker 2: fighting over this time. 1399 01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,000 Speaker 8: I mean for real, but you're gonna come over here 1400 01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:28,840 Speaker 8: and eat, and I'm charging five dollars per person. I'd 1401 01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:32,360 Speaker 8: have cooked all this food is all you can eat, smogage, bail, 1402 01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:38,880 Speaker 8: you know, all this ham, turkeys, all this here, private catfish, bobecue. 1403 01:14:38,400 --> 01:14:41,280 Speaker 2: All the sides we got all set to cost you, 1404 01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:41,840 Speaker 2: do you know? 1405 01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,920 Speaker 8: And then y'all bring extra people. WHI y'all because everybody 1406 01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:47,639 Speaker 8: know you can cook. Five dollars a personate a bad 1407 01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:49,240 Speaker 8: thing to do. Man, It wasn't bad at all. 1408 01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:49,439 Speaker 14: Man. 1409 01:14:49,520 --> 01:14:51,880 Speaker 8: Everybody should have said, you know what, you spending a 1410 01:14:51,960 --> 01:14:55,360 Speaker 8: lot of money? You doing all the label five dollars 1411 01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:57,320 Speaker 8: ain't nothing if you ain't got five dollars. Man, I'm 1412 01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:59,040 Speaker 8: pretty sure you just said, well, if you ain't got 1413 01:14:59,080 --> 01:15:01,280 Speaker 8: it this year, man, hype me up, but don't come 1414 01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:03,800 Speaker 8: here talking about I ain't paying, you ain't getting in. 1415 01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:07,519 Speaker 2: And on top of that, they take food with them 1416 01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:08,120 Speaker 2: when they leave. 1417 01:15:08,479 --> 01:15:14,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, that's true. Five dollars I haven't heard of 1418 01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:14,880 Speaker 1: this before. 1419 01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:17,479 Speaker 8: Well I haven't either, but but I mean, I think 1420 01:15:17,520 --> 01:15:20,880 Speaker 8: if you tell them before they get there, that's the question. 1421 01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:29,200 Speaker 8: I think that's better than when they got there, that 1422 01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:33,360 Speaker 8: it's a cover. Yeah, because five dollars. Man, I'm gonna need, 1423 01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:35,760 Speaker 8: you know, some poles in the house and stuff. You know, 1424 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:40,200 Speaker 8: I'm gonna cash out me before you walk in here. 1425 01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:41,280 Speaker 8: You're gonna cash out. 1426 01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:48,880 Speaker 10: Venmo multiple turkeys too much. 1427 01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:51,320 Speaker 8: I am really mad at him, though I think it's fair. 1428 01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:54,600 Speaker 8: I think it's really good if he did to be 1429 01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:57,800 Speaker 8: told them before they come. He listen, y'all, I'll spend 1430 01:15:57,840 --> 01:15:59,600 Speaker 8: a lot of money every year just to help me 1431 01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,679 Speaker 8: off at the cost not just everybody would just chipping 1432 01:16:02,840 --> 01:16:06,160 Speaker 8: five dollars per person. It's all you can eat, y'all know, 1433 01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:08,840 Speaker 8: y'all be taking places and stuff. Everybody would understood that. 1434 01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:12,000 Speaker 11: Me. Do you think this is a trend because a 1435 01:16:12,080 --> 01:16:14,120 Speaker 11: lot of people do the same thing and invite people 1436 01:16:14,240 --> 01:16:15,040 Speaker 11: over in charge them. 1437 01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:19,840 Speaker 8: Now, if you invite people over, or if your house 1438 01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:24,559 Speaker 8: is the designated house for holiday cheer, then people gotta 1439 01:16:24,600 --> 01:16:26,639 Speaker 8: start understanding it's a costs come. 1440 01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:28,920 Speaker 10: With that cleaning colls gotta come in. 1441 01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:33,920 Speaker 12: Yeah, he says something you usually when someone invites you somewhere, 1442 01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:37,880 Speaker 12: you usually bring a gift bottle of wine and ask 1443 01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:38,760 Speaker 12: them what they need. 1444 01:16:39,439 --> 01:16:42,879 Speaker 2: So yeah, well yeah, yeah, yeah. A lot of families 1445 01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:43,479 Speaker 2: don't do that. 1446 01:16:43,840 --> 01:16:49,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, I see drinking, that's what they do. I'd have 1447 01:16:49,600 --> 01:16:51,960 Speaker 8: been over my brother's house a whole lot of times. 1448 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:56,000 Speaker 8: Ain't bring a damn thing but me. 1449 01:17:01,720 --> 01:17:02,840 Speaker 11: Yeah, it is, it is. 1450 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:07,000 Speaker 1: And this this was eighteen, so eighteen by five eighteen 1451 01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:10,360 Speaker 1: times five is what junior. I do it big for Christmas? 1452 01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:13,439 Speaker 11: He said, I smoked a couple of turkeys, two hands, 1453 01:17:13,600 --> 01:17:15,960 Speaker 11: gumbo John Belia barbecue ribs. 1454 01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:17,360 Speaker 16: That's a lot. 1455 01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:22,840 Speaker 2: About yeah by. 1456 01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:27,160 Speaker 1: That didn't even cover the cost of food. Really yeah, 1457 01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:31,240 Speaker 1: because you got shrimp in that gump, jump in that gumbow. 1458 01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:31,840 Speaker 5: And had them. 1459 01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:35,599 Speaker 8: Some turkeys alone, had them two turkeys in their hands. 1460 01:17:35,640 --> 01:17:41,880 Speaker 8: That's ninety yeah icee right. 1461 01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:44,439 Speaker 1: Is expensive? Gross? 1462 01:17:44,520 --> 01:17:48,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, charge yeah, we charging this year, this year we 1463 01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:50,799 Speaker 10: charged space charging. 1464 01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:55,280 Speaker 11: Jay R from Raleigh, North Carolina had started something five 1465 01:17:55,360 --> 01:18:00,080 Speaker 11: dollars get ready this year Christmas is in eleven. 1466 01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:03,000 Speaker 2: Up to fifteen or twenty though, to be real, he said. 1467 01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:04,920 Speaker 1: Really a lot of money. 1468 01:18:05,320 --> 01:18:08,120 Speaker 11: Yeah, all right, coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. 1469 01:18:08,200 --> 01:18:10,280 Speaker 11: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1470 01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:11,000 Speaker 1: Right after this. 1471 01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:17,240 Speaker 11: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Let's go 1472 01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:20,400 Speaker 11: to Miss JD from South Carolina. She has a question 1473 01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:22,040 Speaker 11: Steve about second marriages. 1474 01:18:22,840 --> 01:18:25,080 Speaker 1: Hey, I'm calling from South Carolina. 1475 01:18:25,400 --> 01:18:25,679 Speaker 8: JB. 1476 01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:29,160 Speaker 5: I just wanted to know, could you ask your listener. 1477 01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:32,280 Speaker 15: Do they believe in second. 1478 01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:36,639 Speaker 1: Marriage by being married more than one time? 1479 01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:38,160 Speaker 15: When you go to hell for it? 1480 01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:42,160 Speaker 21: Because obviously my daughter don't think that by me being 1481 01:18:42,320 --> 01:18:44,360 Speaker 21: married that I'm going to hell. 1482 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,400 Speaker 1: So I'm trying to find out a question. Could you 1483 01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:50,960 Speaker 1: please ask the listener? Will that is that possible? 1484 01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:52,080 Speaker 15: Is that true? 1485 01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:55,519 Speaker 1: I wonder hear what people have to say. JB from 1486 01:18:55,560 --> 01:18:57,120 Speaker 1: South Carolina? Thank you? 1487 01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:01,719 Speaker 2: You asked? Can meet all the listener? 1488 01:19:02,400 --> 01:19:05,040 Speaker 8: Are you going to hell because you've been married more 1489 01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:05,639 Speaker 8: than one time? 1490 01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:13,000 Speaker 16: I mean, if that's the rule, I can. 1491 01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:15,639 Speaker 8: Stop all this kindness and philanthropic work. 1492 01:19:15,680 --> 01:19:18,519 Speaker 2: I'm doing it all this right now. I can stop 1493 01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:18,920 Speaker 2: all this. 1494 01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:23,360 Speaker 8: You know, treat my gable well about damn false witness. 1495 01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:25,560 Speaker 8: I just you can just give me that tablet with 1496 01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:28,639 Speaker 8: them ten things on it and watch this. If I'm 1497 01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:32,120 Speaker 8: a man, please, man, what you're talking about. 1498 01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:32,479 Speaker 11: No. 1499 01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:36,280 Speaker 8: God is a forgiving God. It's called grace and mercy. 1500 01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:38,640 Speaker 8: He's extending it to all of us for all the 1501 01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:40,439 Speaker 8: mistakes we can possibly make. 1502 01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:41,519 Speaker 2: Who told you that? 1503 01:19:41,920 --> 01:19:41,960 Speaker 5: What? 1504 01:19:44,360 --> 01:19:47,360 Speaker 2: What's your daughter talking about? What scripture does she read? 1505 01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:49,160 Speaker 5: Now? 1506 01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:51,400 Speaker 2: I don't believe in second marriages. I believe in. 1507 01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:56,840 Speaker 8: Third, fourth, whatever you need to do to get it through. 1508 01:19:58,680 --> 01:20:00,439 Speaker 8: I've been Stop believing that second. 1509 01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:03,160 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Happy Morning Show. 1510 01:20:04,360 --> 01:20:07,719 Speaker 12: Hey, it's Carla Ferroll. Kick that old mop and bucket aside? 1511 01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:10,360 Speaker 12: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean? 1512 01:20:10,479 --> 01:20:14,000 Speaker 1: And half the time? Make the swap to Swiffer Power 1513 01:20:14,160 --> 01:20:15,280 Speaker 1: Mop the only one. 1514 01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:18,160 Speaker 12: Cleaning Hero has a built in solution that breaks down 1515 01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:22,519 Speaker 12: dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds of scrubbing strips 1516 01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:26,800 Speaker 12: on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes with ease. Plus 1517 01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:30,120 Speaker 12: it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. 1518 01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:34,160 Speaker 12: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. 1519 01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:36,679 Speaker 1: Time out for a round of would you rather? 1520 01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:42,439 Speaker 11: Would you rather have really big front teeth or would 1521 01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:44,599 Speaker 11: you rather have a really big. 1522 01:20:44,920 --> 01:20:49,160 Speaker 1: Butt mt front teeth? 1523 01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:54,519 Speaker 2: That's what I don't know. You got it high. 1524 01:20:58,520 --> 01:21:01,120 Speaker 8: Your teeth already be you might we're gonna grab that ass. 1525 01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:06,200 Speaker 8: Then me and you got the same sized teeth. Union, Yeah, 1526 01:21:06,360 --> 01:21:08,200 Speaker 8: you just look at yours in the camera. See how 1527 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:12,439 Speaker 8: yours look? You the same hip as your teeth. 1528 01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:24,400 Speaker 11: Yeah, we got two forts and one fore so funny. 1529 01:21:24,560 --> 01:21:29,200 Speaker 10: I'm gonna go with yeah. Man, but now I'm gonna 1530 01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:30,599 Speaker 10: be grabbing for no reason. 1531 01:21:30,720 --> 01:21:35,280 Speaker 2: They are no grabbing me all right? 1532 01:21:35,320 --> 01:21:38,280 Speaker 11: Would you rather wear the same thing every day or 1533 01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:40,599 Speaker 11: eat the same thing every day? 1534 01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:44,880 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I can't eat clothes of food. 1535 01:21:47,439 --> 01:21:49,920 Speaker 2: Cloth clean though, ain't we just we just wash them 1536 01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:53,720 Speaker 2: over and over wash you just the same thing. 1537 01:21:54,560 --> 01:22:00,920 Speaker 8: Oh you just joined the military, the same thing every Yeah, 1538 01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:05,479 Speaker 8: you could eat what you want then, yeah, really eat that. 1539 01:22:05,560 --> 01:22:07,160 Speaker 8: That was the number one reason why I couldn't go 1540 01:22:07,200 --> 01:22:09,519 Speaker 8: to the military. I'm not we're gonna so we all 1541 01:22:09,600 --> 01:22:10,280 Speaker 8: got the same thing. 1542 01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:16,880 Speaker 1: It's not a fashion, you know. 1543 01:22:17,040 --> 01:22:19,880 Speaker 2: Like the Marines got the cold uniform because they got them. 1544 01:22:20,400 --> 01:22:24,120 Speaker 8: They got them spats they wear sometimes, but like sometimes 1545 01:22:24,200 --> 01:22:28,080 Speaker 8: I want to wear it with my camouflage and. 1546 01:22:28,400 --> 01:22:33,720 Speaker 2: The white hat like that. Yeah, I pick about that uniform, man, 1547 01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:35,640 Speaker 2: But you couldn't do that. 1548 01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:37,520 Speaker 16: You can't do that because. 1549 01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:41,400 Speaker 8: Sometimes I just wear the pants with the red stripe 1550 01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:45,440 Speaker 8: up the side, with just the crispy shirt. 1551 01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:47,599 Speaker 2: Jacket. 1552 01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:52,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, and then put all my badges on my shirt 1553 01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:53,599 Speaker 8: that night. 1554 01:22:55,600 --> 01:22:56,200 Speaker 1: You couldn't be. 1555 01:23:03,720 --> 01:23:04,040 Speaker 2: All right? 1556 01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,720 Speaker 11: Would you rather be President of the United States for 1557 01:23:07,840 --> 01:23:10,400 Speaker 11: a week? President for a week? Or would you rather 1558 01:23:10,479 --> 01:23:12,160 Speaker 11: be a billionaire for a week? 1559 01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:13,920 Speaker 5: B B. 1560 01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:17,280 Speaker 2: Hen steal some of that money in that week. I'm 1561 01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:17,920 Speaker 2: gonna go back to it. 1562 01:23:18,720 --> 01:23:22,880 Speaker 1: But all the power you would have, all the power power. 1563 01:23:22,960 --> 01:23:32,439 Speaker 8: You got a billion dollars vote sending him knowing all this, 1564 01:23:32,680 --> 01:23:35,360 Speaker 8: you got a billion dollars. No is not in my 1565 01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:39,519 Speaker 8: vocabint okay, all right? 1566 01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:40,040 Speaker 1: Last one? 1567 01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:43,320 Speaker 2: You can't come in here. I just bought in here. Okay, 1568 01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:44,320 Speaker 2: all right. 1569 01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:46,000 Speaker 1: That's today's roundup. 1570 01:23:46,000 --> 01:23:48,040 Speaker 11: Would you rather coming up in the last break of 1571 01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:50,559 Speaker 11: the day, We'll have some closing remarks from the one 1572 01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:53,720 Speaker 11: and only Steve Harvey At forty nine minutes after right 1573 01:23:53,800 --> 01:23:54,880 Speaker 11: after this, you're. 1574 01:23:54,800 --> 01:23:57,000 Speaker 1: Listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1575 01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:01,600 Speaker 12: Hey, is Carlo for barld kick that old mop and 1576 01:24:01,680 --> 01:24:04,799 Speaker 12: bucket aside? Are you ready for a mop and bucket 1577 01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:08,320 Speaker 12: clean and half the time make the swap to swiffer 1578 01:24:08,479 --> 01:24:11,240 Speaker 12: power mop, the all in one cleaning hero has a 1579 01:24:11,280 --> 01:24:15,080 Speaker 12: built in solution that breaks down dirt and grind like magic. 1580 01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:19,680 Speaker 12: With hundreds of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs. 1581 01:24:19,240 --> 01:24:21,080 Speaker 1: Sticky messes with ease. 1582 01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:24,920 Speaker 12: Plus, it'll leave your home smelling great for hours after cleaning. 1583 01:24:25,160 --> 01:24:29,000 Speaker 12: Get yours today and mop smarter with the Swiffer Power Mop. 1584 01:24:30,040 --> 01:24:32,800 Speaker 1: Here we are, guys, our last break of the day. 1585 01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:35,160 Speaker 1: It's been a good day. We've had fun today. 1586 01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:42,120 Speaker 8: Me too, Well, remark too, that's gonna be my clothes 1587 01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:44,680 Speaker 8: remark because I'm I want to share with people the 1588 01:24:44,880 --> 01:24:49,840 Speaker 8: difference between fun and joy. 1589 01:24:50,840 --> 01:24:54,160 Speaker 2: Okay, because there was a difference and I had to 1590 01:24:54,280 --> 01:24:54,720 Speaker 2: learn this. 1591 01:24:55,560 --> 01:24:56,800 Speaker 1: Oh me too. 1592 01:24:57,600 --> 01:24:58,320 Speaker 2: So here we go. 1593 01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:02,280 Speaker 8: You know, as I was growing up, just like most 1594 01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:07,200 Speaker 8: of us, we had a daily quest when we were young. 1595 01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:12,439 Speaker 8: As children, we only had one mission in life after school. 1596 01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:19,400 Speaker 8: We wanted to go play. On Saturdays and Sundays, I 1597 01:25:19,520 --> 01:25:23,919 Speaker 8: want to go play. I could not wait to go outside. 1598 01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:26,360 Speaker 8: I wanted to go out in the snow. I wanted 1599 01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:31,479 Speaker 8: to play because it was fun. Now, what I didn't 1600 01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:34,519 Speaker 8: know was there should be a cutoff point for having 1601 01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:35,559 Speaker 8: fun in your life. 1602 01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:37,920 Speaker 7: But oh no, not me. 1603 01:25:38,160 --> 01:25:42,120 Speaker 8: I took it too far. I took fun to college. 1604 01:25:43,080 --> 01:25:45,160 Speaker 8: Now I know everybody that went to college, WHOA, we 1605 01:25:45,320 --> 01:25:48,120 Speaker 8: had a blast. I had too much of a blast. 1606 01:25:49,040 --> 01:25:53,040 Speaker 8: And then after college kept on trying to have fun. 1607 01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:57,120 Speaker 8: There's a cutoff point to fun. And the thing I 1608 01:25:57,240 --> 01:26:00,519 Speaker 8: learned about it was, see fun, you have to go 1609 01:26:00,760 --> 01:26:05,040 Speaker 8: do something, or go somewhere, or be around a certain 1610 01:26:05,560 --> 01:26:07,320 Speaker 8: people in order to have it. 1611 01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:13,400 Speaker 2: To go have fun, you have to manufacture it. 1612 01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:17,120 Speaker 8: You have to buy a ticket, you have to be 1613 01:26:17,240 --> 01:26:20,240 Speaker 8: at a certain place, you have to drink a certain amount, 1614 01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:22,880 Speaker 8: you gotta be around the people that are smoking this. 1615 01:26:24,439 --> 01:26:26,600 Speaker 8: Now you can have fun if you make it to 1616 01:26:26,720 --> 01:26:29,479 Speaker 8: this party right here, we gonna have so much fun. 1617 01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:32,880 Speaker 8: And you keep looking for fun, But if you think 1618 01:26:32,920 --> 01:26:38,759 Speaker 8: about fun, man, it's always manufactured. It's something you gotta 1619 01:26:38,840 --> 01:26:42,840 Speaker 8: be doing, seen doing. You gotta be somewhere or thought 1620 01:26:42,920 --> 01:26:46,960 Speaker 8: of somewhere. It's always the case in having fun and 1621 01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:49,679 Speaker 8: fun is always short lived. 1622 01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:52,479 Speaker 2: You know, fun never lasts a long time. 1623 01:26:54,040 --> 01:26:57,960 Speaker 8: You never hear anybody say, well, I just have fun, fun, fun, fun, 1624 01:26:58,160 --> 01:27:01,240 Speaker 8: fun for fun don't lasts a long time. It's a 1625 01:27:01,400 --> 01:27:04,679 Speaker 8: very fleeting thing. And I was teaching my sons about 1626 01:27:04,840 --> 01:27:06,840 Speaker 8: fun one day because we were in Vegas and they 1627 01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:08,360 Speaker 8: were going out, and I told them, I said, be 1628 01:27:08,479 --> 01:27:11,000 Speaker 8: careful out there, man, I'm going to the room. Dad, 1629 01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:13,160 Speaker 8: y'all come on, man, we're gonna have some fun. I said, 1630 01:27:13,560 --> 01:27:15,280 Speaker 8: listen to me. We've had a full night, went to 1631 01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:19,800 Speaker 8: see the fight. Everything was good, and now you're gonna 1632 01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:21,639 Speaker 8: go out here. Man, I'm gonna just tell you right now, 1633 01:27:22,040 --> 01:27:25,000 Speaker 8: it's dangerous out there. Be careful, Oh dad, We're gonna 1634 01:27:25,040 --> 01:27:29,040 Speaker 8: have some fun. I've discovered something about fun. If you stay, 1635 01:27:29,200 --> 01:27:32,840 Speaker 8: if you keep having fun, there's a time limit to fun. 1636 01:27:34,080 --> 01:27:36,720 Speaker 8: If you stay at the club till it closed, it 1637 01:27:36,800 --> 01:27:41,080 Speaker 8: ain't finna be fun no more. If you drinking and 1638 01:27:41,200 --> 01:27:44,280 Speaker 8: you feel a buzz, but you keep on drinking, it 1639 01:27:44,360 --> 01:27:49,559 Speaker 8: ain't fit to be fun no more. If you at 1640 01:27:49,600 --> 01:27:52,720 Speaker 8: a sporting event and everybody going out the parking lot, 1641 01:27:52,840 --> 01:27:56,280 Speaker 8: but you y'all still try to have fun. State is 1642 01:27:56,439 --> 01:27:59,200 Speaker 8: not finna be fun no more. Because fun I discovered. 1643 01:27:59,240 --> 01:28:02,160 Speaker 8: I taught my children that night. Fun is an acronym. 1644 01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:07,160 Speaker 8: F you in is an acronym, and I taught it 1645 01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:09,360 Speaker 8: to him. I said, son, if you keep having fun 1646 01:28:09,439 --> 01:28:14,840 Speaker 8: too long, it's effed up. Now, that's what fun stands for. 1647 01:28:15,040 --> 01:28:19,759 Speaker 8: Too much fun and it's efed up now, boy, they laughed, 1648 01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:22,920 Speaker 8: they laughed. They went out that night in Vegas. The 1649 01:28:23,040 --> 01:28:26,280 Speaker 8: next morning I saw him. They looked dishevel They're in 1650 01:28:26,400 --> 01:28:28,679 Speaker 8: bad shape. Said what happened? 1651 01:28:28,680 --> 01:28:28,840 Speaker 5: Man? 1652 01:28:28,920 --> 01:28:29,120 Speaker 2: Dad? 1653 01:28:29,160 --> 01:28:31,719 Speaker 8: We was at the club. Man dude got shot and killed. 1654 01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:35,680 Speaker 8: Then the police surround the building. We stayed in there. 1655 01:28:35,720 --> 01:28:35,840 Speaker 5: Man. 1656 01:28:35,880 --> 01:28:40,080 Speaker 8: We ain't get home too five thirty. You know why, 1657 01:28:40,160 --> 01:28:43,200 Speaker 8: because they was having fun and too much fun. It 1658 01:28:43,280 --> 01:28:43,920 Speaker 8: got fed up. 1659 01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:45,000 Speaker 2: Now f you in. 1660 01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:49,400 Speaker 8: It's fed up now, and that's what fun is. They said, Dad, 1661 01:28:49,479 --> 01:28:51,639 Speaker 8: what about you? I said, I'd like to have joy. 1662 01:28:52,520 --> 01:28:56,080 Speaker 8: They said, what's the difference between joy and fun? I said, 1663 01:28:56,160 --> 01:28:58,960 Speaker 8: Joy is a feeling that I have on the inside 1664 01:28:59,000 --> 01:29:02,880 Speaker 8: that resides in me most of the time. And when 1665 01:29:02,920 --> 01:29:08,880 Speaker 8: I'm with myself, within myself or by myself. I found 1666 01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:12,599 Speaker 8: that I have a residing peace in me that gives 1667 01:29:12,680 --> 01:29:16,479 Speaker 8: me a certain joy that I enjoy being alone. I 1668 01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:20,320 Speaker 8: just enjoy just being with my girl. That's joy to me. 1669 01:29:20,640 --> 01:29:23,120 Speaker 8: That I can sit up and watch my grandchildren play. 1670 01:29:23,880 --> 01:29:26,080 Speaker 8: That I can take my family on vacation and watch 1671 01:29:26,120 --> 01:29:29,280 Speaker 8: them enjoy thyself. That puts a joy in me. That 1672 01:29:29,479 --> 01:29:34,240 Speaker 8: joy that I have is not manufactured or superficial. The 1673 01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:37,920 Speaker 8: joy that I have, that residing peace is because I 1674 01:29:38,000 --> 01:29:42,200 Speaker 8: have a relationship with God. God has given me the 1675 01:29:42,360 --> 01:29:45,200 Speaker 8: peace that I have in my life today. I wish 1676 01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:47,400 Speaker 8: I had discovered this years ago. I could have saved 1677 01:29:47,439 --> 01:29:50,920 Speaker 8: myself a world of trouble, but I didn't because I 1678 01:29:51,040 --> 01:29:55,160 Speaker 8: was like a lot of people. I was pursuing fun, 1679 01:29:56,320 --> 01:29:58,679 Speaker 8: trying to have it as many times as I could 1680 01:29:59,880 --> 01:30:04,960 Speaker 8: on to have fun. If I could have understood about 1681 01:30:05,000 --> 01:30:08,120 Speaker 8: this residing piece, that it's okay to be with me, 1682 01:30:09,479 --> 01:30:12,040 Speaker 8: that I don't need a bunch of outside stimulation to 1683 01:30:12,160 --> 01:30:16,200 Speaker 8: feel good anymore. That I can sit back, close my 1684 01:30:16,280 --> 01:30:19,880 Speaker 8: eyes and be grateful and find joy. That I can 1685 01:30:19,920 --> 01:30:22,360 Speaker 8: sit up and just watch TV and be in perfect 1686 01:30:22,400 --> 01:30:26,519 Speaker 8: peace and joy. That I can walk around and ride 1687 01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:30,400 Speaker 8: my bike or walk down to the river and just 1688 01:30:30,600 --> 01:30:33,800 Speaker 8: have joy. I could put my headsets on and listen 1689 01:30:33,880 --> 01:30:38,400 Speaker 8: to some music and just have joy. Joy to me, 1690 01:30:40,040 --> 01:30:44,240 Speaker 8: is better than having fun. That's the difference though, between 1691 01:30:44,400 --> 01:30:49,320 Speaker 8: fun and joy. One is manufactured and one is provided 1692 01:30:49,760 --> 01:30:52,840 Speaker 8: with an everlasting piece and relationship with God. If I 1693 01:30:53,000 --> 01:30:54,800 Speaker 8: was you, I look for some of that joy you 1694 01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:58,479 Speaker 8: feel me. Those are my closing remarks today. I hope 1695 01:30:58,479 --> 01:30:59,400 Speaker 8: you got something out of it. 1696 01:30:59,479 --> 01:31:00,599 Speaker 1: If not, don't worry. 1697 01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:03,600 Speaker 8: We'll be back tomorrow, God willing. 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