WEBVTT - She Picked a Good One with Caelynn Bell 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.399 Wind down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.680 --> 0:00:10.319 You guys, I have something that I have been meaning 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:12.800 to talk to you guys about, and I keep putting on. 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:15.360 My This is quick and makes me nervous every time. 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:18.040 What Kat and I are always like, I watch our 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:21.360 physicians change our body language. No, but it's something that's 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:26.079 really bothered me. Great shift again. 0:00:26.360 --> 0:00:27.960 Can we start with this and have to do with us? 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:29.440 Yeai? 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:33.839 Oh no, I did your dramatic pause just as I 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:35.800 go home, now okay cool? 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:36.680 Then go okay, so. 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:43.040 Shoot, so okay, I have to remember exactly what it 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:45.800 was or y'all. Y'all know that I like when I'm 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:48.320 on a plane, I like to meet the person next 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:50.440 to me, right, That's how you met Sarah. That's how 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:53.640 I met Sarah Gretzky, who's still a very dear friend. 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:55.520 She's funny. 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:57.440 I text her the other day and I said, hey, girl, 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.840 when you come in to visit. She's like, how did 0:00:59.840 --> 0:01:05.399 you have two kids? The old baby drowning that's the worst. 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:07.000 It's like you're drowning and babies and. 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:13.000 It is hard, especially i's one to two, especially if 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.120 there's two. That's really all this yeah. 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:16.880 I keep telling her we need she needs to come 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:19.160 on because she's just like I just got It's just 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:22.040 I can't certain personality types too. 0:01:22.120 --> 0:01:23.560 I love to watch Get Two Kids. 0:01:23.640 --> 0:01:26.200 She's drown and I love watching just because I'm like, 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:28.240 I don't think because I had both kids when like 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:31.200 you know, she was still like not engaged yet. It's 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:33.600 it's hilarious to now watch because I'm like, oh, you're 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:34.400 doing so good friend. 0:01:34.600 --> 0:01:36.480 Yeah you needed this. I love you. 0:01:36.640 --> 0:01:38.840 Okay, so you're But anyways, but that's my main western. 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.000 I love meeting people on planes. I love talking to people. 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:43.160 Maybe it kind of helps the anxiety a little bit. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:46.520 So Alan and I were flying back from where we've 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:48.400 I don't remember. We didn't have the kids, it was 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:52.160 just us. I was pregnant. I'm just making sure I'm 0:01:52.360 --> 0:01:53.120 mullle points right. 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:53.400 Okay. 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:55.720 So we're on the plane. Where are we coming from? 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:56.160 God? 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:56.760 I hate that. 0:01:57.000 --> 0:01:59.760 But we were rushing to get to the plane and 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:04.280 and I see this really pretty girl at the gate, 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.480 and I'm thinking she kind of looked like a publicist. 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:10.240 Maybe she We're flying back from somewhere. It was like 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:13.679 on East Coast somewhere. We were flying back to Nashville. Well, 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:15.600 she ends up being my window seat, so I'm in 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.440 the middle, Allan's in the aisle, and I was just like, 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:20.680 you're just so pretty. Sorry if like I was staring 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:22.359 at you earlier, I just think it's really pretty. She's like, 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:23.720 oh my god, I was staring at you too, like 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:25.119 do I know you? And I was like I don't 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:26.520 know do we know each other, because you know, you 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:29.280 never know people like work people. Yeah, long story short, 0:02:29.800 --> 0:02:32.960 She's like realized that she noticed me from one tree 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:37.480 hill or whatever. But we started talking and we like 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:40.160 had the she just got recently divorced. She's going she 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:43.840 was going to Nashville to like, uh have this really 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:45.320 fun just like time away. 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:46.440 Here's my thing. 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.320 We got so deep in the two hour flight that 0:02:49.360 --> 0:02:51.840 we had or whatever that I mean, like we have 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:55.840 such similar pass that it was like scary. I mean 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:57.840 we were both like teary at Alan's like and over 0:02:57.960 --> 0:02:59.160 like these weirdos. 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.160 I'm like, she's my new friend, you know what I mean. 0:03:01.160 --> 0:03:03.280 I'm like wanting to like, I'm like, oh my gosh, 0:03:03.280 --> 0:03:05.400 I love Pamelin. Like we're all just like talking like 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:08.600 the girls. And then I was like, DM me so 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:10.320 I can, we can stay in touch because like, she's 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.280 no joke like someone. I was like, she's going to 0:03:12.320 --> 0:03:16.000 be a Sarah, you know, like a friend. And so 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:17.160 when we got off the plane, she was. 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:17.639 Like I DMD. 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:18.959 I was like, oh yeah, I'm like, I'm going to 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:24.560 go love. So I go to my DMS. I can't 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:28.519 find her DM okay, And I went back. I'm like, 0:03:28.560 --> 0:03:31.960 there's literally no DM. She said she DMed me whatever. 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:36.920 And to this day, I don't remember her name, and 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:40.880 I keep thinking she probably thinks I'm a freaking bitch 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.720 because I didn't respond to her. But I'm like I 0:03:43.800 --> 0:03:46.040 genuinely wanted to be friends with her, Like I genuinely 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:47.480 was like DM because I wanted to talk to her, 0:03:47.520 --> 0:03:48.960 and I want to be like I was Nashville. I'm like, 0:03:49.120 --> 0:03:50.760 let's grab it, you know, and I'm not pregnant anmore. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:52.880 Let's grab a drink, you know. And now I'm like, 0:03:52.960 --> 0:03:55.720 this is she walking around being like she sucks? 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:55.880 Well? 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:02.160 Does it show that? Yeah? Also, isn't there so therese 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:04.720 Missed connections is like a thing? Do you remember that? 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:07.280 What is that? Missed connections? Was this? 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:10.560 Like I think it was for like dating, but it 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:12.520 was like you met at an airport or you met 0:04:12.520 --> 0:04:15.400 it in an airport bar, and then later you're like, shit, 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:17.960 I wish I would have gotten their number, and there 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.640 was like a site maybe for this where you could. 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:23.000 Go say like, well, I'm not trying to date her. 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:23.359 Well, I. 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.040 Just feel bad, but maybe she was. 0:04:26.960 --> 0:04:28.800 Like that's what I'm saying, like maybe we need like 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:30.880 a miss connection moment on Instagram where you're. 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:32.920 Like, okay, girl, maybe she listened. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:35.760 If she doesn't listen, she does not remember your name, 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:37.480 email me at the. 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:40.120 Email on Instagram because she didn't get your DM. 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.159 I just feel bad because I don't want anyone to 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:45.560 think that any connection was a and it's it's bothered 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.560 me since that moment. And that was when I was 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:52.040 pregnant with Jace. I mean Roman, I did not know 0:04:52.200 --> 0:04:56.440 Alan Jas. Okay, that's very clear before my boy, here's clickbait. 0:04:56.480 --> 0:05:00.400 So so yeah, I just I don't ever like someone 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:02.719 thinking like, oh she was that was fake or something, 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.039 or because I was like, she's a real moment in 0:05:05.120 --> 0:05:06.840 connection that I had with this person. I don't want 0:05:06.839 --> 0:05:08.479 her to think that I was. And now I'm just 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.839 like I don't know, I don't know her name. 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:14.400 I don't. Yeah, that's unfortunate, and she listens. 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:16.360 So it really bothered me because I'm like, can you 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.799 do an Instagram story? I think that's more effective. Maybe 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:22.800 we need to do one today. It was well you drag, 0:05:23.440 --> 0:05:26.440 yeah you'll know it, you will, yeah, I will. I 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:29.480 know exactly what she looks like. Okay, she was so sweet, 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:32.280 forties like single mom, like I loved her. 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:34.760 Yeah she's yeah. I think we were going to go 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:35.040 get her. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:37.240 Do you know that feeling though, when you just you 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:39.279 don't want someone to walk away going Oh, I guess 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:42.480 because when you share something, you share meaningful conversations like 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:44.760 you don't want Well, then here's here's the thing. What 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:46.600 if she really didn't DM me, maybe it was fake 0:05:46.680 --> 0:05:47.800 on her side, and. 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:51.039 Then she really didn't want to be your friend? She said, 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:53.520 she you, but she didn't like you the whole time. 0:05:53.920 --> 0:05:56.360 I know you need to write the flip side. I thought, 0:05:56.680 --> 0:06:00.000 I really need to. She was like, I totally DM you. 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:05.599 Nice to meet you didn't too much. She was like, 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:08.160 that was in l a NonStop. She cried. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:11.680 I cried, did she okay? She it was like listening 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:12.680 to you for both of us. 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:21.280 Okay, it's fine, and then I was like, you fine, love, 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:23.080 this is my like like, I was like, I promise 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:23.640 it's out there. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:27.360 Alan's like, can I have another snack bag? I'm excited. 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.719 I really need to know how this ends up now, 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:30.800 which it is. 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.640 Speaking of follow up, I'd like to move on to 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:36.640 the next subject, which is I am getting a massive 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:41.119 amount of d ms about your X on your skin. 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:44.760 I was like, which one was? 0:06:45.200 --> 0:06:47.120 I should have paused dramatically, damn it. I've got a 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:49.520 lot to learn from your kramer about your ex. I 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:52.599 respect my fiance and we don't talk about excess great 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.839 stuff you brought to you. 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:56.200 By God. 0:06:57.920 --> 0:07:01.479 I really need I need inquiry. Minds, really need to 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:04.160 know because what you've done is you've set the world 0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:06.600 on fire. People have been in their desks and in 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:10.280 their cars doing XES on their They're like, so, really, hey, 0:07:10.320 --> 0:07:11.840 Christ and you might be a best shot at knowing 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:13.720 what's going on with Jana and the X. 0:07:13.920 --> 0:07:15.320 So I'm on his skin. 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:18.640 So I when got my blood, I got my blood 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:22.239 work back. I went to your holistic doctor named Nate. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:22.840 Yeah. 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:26.640 He I'm pretty sure he regrets now meeting me because 0:07:26.720 --> 0:07:29.760 I texted him at eleven o'clock at night because I 0:07:29.760 --> 0:07:31.320 thought I was gonna have to go to the er 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:34.280 because he's been making me do these peptide injections in 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:38.320 my ass and the copper was stinging so bad. I mean, 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:40.800 this is like an hour and I'm like, I'm in law, 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.280 it does get that shit pain. Like it was an 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:46.960 hour plus. So I texted him. I was like, hey, Nate, 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:49.120 I am so sorry it's so late. But I also 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:50.320 know he does own kids, so I was like, you 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:51.080 know he can't. 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:55.040 He's probably well any texts anyway, Yeah, like to you know, 0:07:55.080 --> 0:07:55.760 set up and see. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.240 Yeah, that's well, just so we're clear, it's still there, 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.880 see and just so we're there. My husband's also a 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:03.800 patient and there's a certain artist like personality that is 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.960 a little copy paste, so he knows what he's into. Okay, Well, 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:08.840 I was like, do I need to go to the 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:11.240 emergency room because I'm looking on Google right now and 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:13.040 I might have hit my sadic nerve, which means that 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:17.400 I'm like, because I'm doing these own injections in my 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:21.040 butt right yeah, I'm like and Google and now I'm googling. 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:23.000 I'm like, I could have hit my sidic nerve, Like 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:26.000 which way where it's insane to me that I have 0:08:26.200 --> 0:08:28.200 married you and that you're my best friend. 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:30.160 So he's like, you're fine. 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:32.280 The copper stings a little bit longer, but I'm gonna, 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:35.640 you know, whatever with the dosage. So he has me 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:38.600 on like a million different So my testosterone was a three, 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:42.920 which is really low. Uh, my thyroid is not great. 0:08:43.160 --> 0:08:44.880 He doesn't like how my thyroid is. 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:45.360 I don't know. 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:47.720 He said all these like weird things, and I was 0:08:47.720 --> 0:08:50.240 just like, can you please translate this in English to me? 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:53.280 So he's got me on thyroid medicine, testosterone, He's got 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:57.280 me on peptides obviously, he's got me on vitamin D. 0:08:57.840 --> 0:09:01.559 I have this mute gene mutation called MTHR that I've 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:04.400 known about since I did IVF. He's like, interesting that 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:06.920 you're not on a supplement for that, because that's something 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:08.640 you should take for the rest of your life. It 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:12.400 but he's thinking I might have a nerve problem. I 0:09:12.440 --> 0:09:14.160 knew he was going to dig deeper. That's why I 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:17.040 wanted to go to him. He's a total dig deep deeper. 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:18.880 But it's interesting because I texted the other day too. 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:21.679 I keep texting him. I'm like Okay, new update. Because 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:24.480 I had I was like, weird things keep happening. So 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:27.280 I'm like, the other day I had these chills on 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:30.720 my brain that it was like they were just on 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:33.319 my head. It's like I had chills on the body, 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.480 but it was only on my head. So I had that, 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:37.640 and He's like, all right, that sounds like a nerve thing, 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:39.400 which then would make sense with the itching and X, 0:09:39.480 --> 0:09:40.959 Y and Z. So he's got me on like these 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:42.840 nerve supplements. But I might have to go see a 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:46.360 neurologist to check on my nerves because I could have 0:09:46.400 --> 0:09:50.560 some weird immune neuropath even going on. So I'm obsessed 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:53.400 with Nate in a non sexual way. His brain is 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:55.680 my favorite. That is like doctor house too. That is 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:58.120 what I told Alan. I could not stop talking about him, 0:09:58.120 --> 0:09:59.319 and I looked at it and go, I hope you know. 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:02.199 I'm I love his brain like I love Wait, I've 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.800 sent a million people, so I brain go to him too, 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:07.760 because I'm like, he's just so thorough and he knows 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:10.400 so much and he's he's just like we will check 0:10:10.440 --> 0:10:13.240 every box. And so then the other day I also 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:16.440 texted him and said, hey, Nate, new thing minus the 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:17.040 brain chills. 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.599 I go, I just got the shower. It was a 0:10:19.640 --> 0:10:20.319 five minute shower. 0:10:20.400 --> 0:10:24.040 Wasn't even like super hot, and I have read like 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:27.000 splatches of like all over me. He's like, you're definitely 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:30.480 having a huge, a huge immune reaction. He's like, we're 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:32.480 going to figure it out. Don't worry, you'll be okay. 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:35.160 So like he also like calms me too. Yeah, So 0:10:35.200 --> 0:10:35.640 he's great. 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:37.920 I love him. Well, I'm not going feathers. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:40.240 He's great. So I got to go back to see him. 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:42.800 I'm waiting on my He also said too, he's like, listen, 0:10:42.840 --> 0:10:46.400 after pregnancy, He's like, there's something too with food or 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:48.880 something that your body is like, I don't like this anymore. 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:50.920 Maybe Roman took the last of it and now you're 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:53.000 having a reaction to it. So he's like, we're going 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:54.800 to figure it out. He's like, but you might now 0:10:54.840 --> 0:10:58.200 be allergic to something. So I did a food sensitivity test, 0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:00.000 so we're going to see what comes back there, and 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:01.280 we're just gonna start xing it off. 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:06.400 I promise, y'all, I will. Is it better? No, okay, 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:06.800 it's not. 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:08.880 Having said that, I found a good shampoo that's really 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:11.120 helping to stop the itch. But I know that if 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:12.480 I go like two or three days and I don't 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:14.760 use the shampoo, it's like back to the Okay, back 0:11:14.800 --> 0:11:15.240 to the itch. 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:17.760 Yeah. I do think it is some sort of like inflammatory, 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:18.360 there's something. 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:22.240 I mean, I just get these random like yeah, random things, 0:11:22.280 --> 0:11:24.880 and that the head thing was really weird. My site 0:11:24.960 --> 0:11:27.160 kind of goes foggy. It's very strange. 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:28.080 I will say this. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:32.240 I think we sometimes, I think a society kind of 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:35.160 like toss postpartum moms into this, like once you've hit 0:11:35.200 --> 0:11:37.040 a certain point, like you're just back on track kind 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:37.480 of feeling. 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:39.679 Yeah. And I think it's regular. 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:41.720 Doctors who have made me feel crazy. They're like, your 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:43.600 hormones are fine, You've had now two periods, You're good. 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:46.200 And I'm like, then why is Nate saying that? Hormonally 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:47.440 like I'm off and I was. 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:48.439 Lo lo to like a four. 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:53.440 And they never dig into like you do typical blood work, 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.120 but they never dig deeper unless there's like a reason too, 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.080 And that's why I love Nate. There wasn't really a 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.520 reason for me too, but I wanted to like dig 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:03.880 deeper and see what because I never go, which you know, 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:05.959 that's just you know, how I guess how medicine is. 0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:09.120 But that's yeah, and a lot of I will say 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:12.640 to any postparton moms, A lot of postpartum moms get 0:12:12.679 --> 0:12:16.520 immune immune diseases afterwards too, So he's like, so he's like, 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:18.600 those are boxes too that were still like I came 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:20.720 back to malnourished. He's like, we've got to get you 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:23.600 like I did the food sensitivity. He's actually changed Preston's 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:26.640 life too, So yeah, he's determined to stared by Integrative 0:12:26.640 --> 0:12:28.440 Health goes. But serious though, if you guys are in 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:30.160 the Nashville area, was this last nime? I had Nate 0:12:30.200 --> 0:12:35.240 Burne's neighbor and Saniel in Integrative Health right in Invigorate 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:39.880 Invigorate Health. He's in Franklin and he's fantastic, so definitely 0:12:41.120 --> 0:12:43.720 go see him. But yeah, so we'll see. But I 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:45.600 did get a few DMS and I felt really bad. 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:47.280 People were like, I don't have an itch, but I 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.000 was itching the entire time list soon to podcast. I know, 0:12:50.040 --> 0:12:52.560 it's crazy, Well it is. You just wonder, Yeah, like, 0:12:52.600 --> 0:12:55.040 did you guys ever watch House Doctor House? No? No, 0:12:55.760 --> 0:12:59.319 I had to. I can't with the Preston, can't. He's 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:01.880 hypochondriac anyway. But it's like that feeling like I'm like, 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:03.440 let's get to the bottom of it. I wanted to know. 0:13:03.520 --> 0:13:04.960 I just need to know. I think that's what bothers 0:13:05.000 --> 0:13:07.880 me the most. Sure what is it? And at the 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:08.880 point too, that's annoying. 0:13:09.200 --> 0:13:12.959 Yeah, But let's got another girl on who's so fun 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:15.760 and I love her. And her name is Kaylin and 0:13:15.840 --> 0:13:19.080 she was on the Bachelor and then she married Dean. 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:21.160 She's got a new podcast out with Jared and Dean. 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:23.040 It's called Suckers. Let's get Kaylin on. 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:38.959 Hey girl, Hey, how are you? I'm good, How are 0:13:38.960 --> 0:13:39.880 you good? 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:40.880 Good to see you? 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:44.520 Good to see you too? You just got married? Ye? 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:47.880 The newly went glow. It's my favorite. I have to say. 0:13:48.080 --> 0:13:51.839 I was when every time, you know, I would like 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:53.440 see you as an Instagram I'm like, is he going 0:13:53.520 --> 0:13:55.440 to propose to her? Yet? Like what is going on? 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:57.720 I'm like this is taking forever. I'm like I'm getting 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:00.679 as annoyed as watching Tanya rads thing. And then Like'm like, 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:04.920 these girls need to get freaking engage, like they're ready. 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:06.520 You get so into it, I really do. 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:08.880 When are they going to because I know they you know, 0:14:08.880 --> 0:14:11.120 at least I knew like Tanya was like ready, you know, 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.920 so I'm like, were you kind of like it was like, 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:15.360 how many five years? 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:17.680 Yeah, we're coming up on five years. So yeah, he 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:21.280 really took his time, but yeah, I was ready. I 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:23.240 was ready, like because I'm from the South, and I 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:25.600 was like I could, I could be married tomorrow and 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:28.240 be ready for kids. But now that we're married, I'm like, oh, 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:29.840 I'll wait on the kids. 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:35.720 Ah yeah, right, like us forty year old moms. I'll 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:38.480 tell you, Yeah, I need you to wait not too long, 0:14:38.480 --> 0:14:40.200 because I got to tell you the recovery once you 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:41.720 hit forty it's a little different. 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:44.320 How old are you twenty eight? 0:14:44.960 --> 0:14:50.360 Oh yeah, twenty times being married? 0:14:50.680 --> 0:14:53.360 Yeah, thirty sounds good. I guess. I don't know. 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:55.200 I'm just scared. Thirty two. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:58.040 So the van, So when he said like he wanted 0:14:58.080 --> 0:14:59.840 to live in a van, that didn't scare you off 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.440 or was that part of your idea? 0:15:02.680 --> 0:15:03.040 Okay? 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:06.640 Yeah, I mean I had a crush on him for 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:08.840 it's probably been like eight years now, so I was 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:12.760 just so in love with him upon meeting him, and 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:14.600 I was like, yeah, I'll do like whatever weird stuff 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:15.040 you want to do. 0:15:15.560 --> 0:15:19.080 But way, yeah, I don't know why. 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.880 That's so cute. What was it about Dean? I mean, 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:26.080 because you know, obviously I met him. He's such a 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:28.640 he's a handsome guy, he's so he's so nice, he's 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:31.000 so sweet. But what was it that were like, he's 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:33.520 my guy? 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.880 It's it's kind of those exact things I I just saw, 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:38.520 like how he was with people and the way that 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:41.800 he treats people. He can walk into a room and 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:45.000 make everyone feel so comfortable, and like, now I rely 0:15:45.080 --> 0:15:46.960 on him so heavily, which is terrible. Like if he's 0:15:47.000 --> 0:15:49.440 not with me, I'm very introverted, I'm very shy, and 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:52.240 he's just like I just love the way he puts 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.320 people at ease and makes people feel so cared for. 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:56.120 And I was like, I want that. That's what I 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:58.600 want as a Husband's that's who I want as the 0:15:58.600 --> 0:15:59.440 father of my kids. 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:03.920 Okay, Now the flip side of that, what is one 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:06.960 thing where you're like, this is gonna drive me crazy 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:09.240 now as you know for years as your wife, or 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:11.320 what is the one thing they're like, he doesn't he 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:14.360 doesn't communicate well, Or what's the thing that's is a 0:16:14.360 --> 0:16:17.920 little bit of a tough point in it. 0:16:18.560 --> 0:16:21.040 Funny enough, he brought this up yesterday on a podcast. 0:16:22.320 --> 0:16:25.120 It's pretty gross and pretty embarrassing. So he likes to 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:29.440 pick his nose in public and it grosses me. I'm 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:31.720 like this, we learned this as kids. 0:16:31.800 --> 0:16:34.800 We don't do this, like for you. 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:40.000 I'm like what, and he tells me he's like, well, whatever, 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:41.520 He's come up with a million reasons. He's like, I 0:16:41.560 --> 0:16:43.880 produced more bookers than the most most people, I don't 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:46.480 know whatever. And I talked to my therapist about it, 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:49.040 and I was like, I know this is but like 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:51.960 it's actually caused a fight between us, and she took 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:55.040 his side and was like, you envy the part of 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:57.120 him that is like care free and still a kid. 0:16:57.560 --> 0:16:58.880 She's like, not that you want to pick your nose 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:01.800 in public, but you know you did pageants and you 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:04.800 feel sort of like shame and this need to be perfect. 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:06.600 And I was like, yeah, sure. But he brought it 0:17:06.680 --> 0:17:08.400 up to everyone last night because we're in public beach 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:11.040 right now, and every single guy agreed with me. They're like, 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:12.159 you just don't do that. 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:16.800 I will say this, so I was I'm not gonna 0:17:16.800 --> 0:17:19.159 say which couple it is, but there was a couple 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:20.960 that was talking to me and my fiance and they 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:22.600 were saying how they fart in front of each other, 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:24.360 and I'm like, we don't fart in front of each 0:17:24.359 --> 0:17:27.159 other because and we had the discussion at the end 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:29.800 of the night, just Alan and I and he goes. 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:32.760