WEBVTT - Vol. 6: Jim Leyritz

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<v Speaker 1>Charges. That's created by Portalais and Control Media. It's produced

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<v Speaker 1>by dB Podcasts in association with I Heart Radio. This

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<v Speaker 1>time a former Son's player who you might remember as

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<v Speaker 1>t Rex. More video in just a moment, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is Rex Chapman's mug Shawn, and we are learning a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more about the charge of the Charge. What were

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<v Speaker 1>the darkest moments for you? You You know, were there times

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<v Speaker 1>that you thought you were at your wits in man,

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<v Speaker 1>it was difficult, and there were times that I had

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<v Speaker 1>to be strong for the boys during the day, but

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<v Speaker 1>then I would go out at night in my backyard

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<v Speaker 1>and I would just break down. Here was this Jim Lair,

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<v Speaker 1>It's going through this Dui man spotter and then all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, now add on life beater. People always

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<v Speaker 1>ask me, would you change anything about your life? And

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<v Speaker 1>I said I would not change anything. But that night,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Charges. I'm your host Rex Chapman. Today on

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<v Speaker 1>the show, we have someone who's been on the top

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<v Speaker 1>of the mountain and also made a fatefulness vision that

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<v Speaker 1>led to a mountain crumbling beneath him, almost completely swallowing

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<v Speaker 1>him whole. Thankfully, brick by brick, he built his way

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<v Speaker 1>out from under the rubble and destruction to have a

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<v Speaker 1>life of service to on their tragedy. My guest today

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<v Speaker 1>is a fellow Kentucky Wildcat, though he's most known as

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most clutch hitters in New York Yankees history,

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<v Speaker 1>Jim lay Ritz. If you watch baseball in the nineteen nineties,

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<v Speaker 1>you had to know Jimmy behind the plate and in

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<v Speaker 1>the batter's box. He wasn't someone who necessarily dominated the

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<v Speaker 1>stat sheet day to day, but when it was your

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<v Speaker 1>team in October, you better believe he was a guy

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to see up there. So what happens when

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<v Speaker 1>you're the literal king of New York and you're playing

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<v Speaker 1>day's end right off into the sunset? Show up every

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<v Speaker 1>fall in the Big Apple, have fans by the steak dinners,

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<v Speaker 1>and you dine out the rest of your day as

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<v Speaker 1>a hero? Right well, not exactly. In fact, in two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand seven, a tragedy happened that costs one person their

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<v Speaker 1>life and put the rest of gems on trial. The

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<v Speaker 1>purpose of this podcast us is to give my peers

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<v Speaker 1>a platform as they bear themselves to the mercy of you,

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<v Speaker 1>the public. Some stories are cheerier than Others be warned

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<v Speaker 1>that this episode may be difficult to listen to at times.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm honored to have here today Jim Layris to tell

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<v Speaker 1>us his story and talk to us about the journey

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<v Speaker 1>he has been dedicating his life to making sure his

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<v Speaker 1>second chance is its lasting legacy. Jim, thanks for joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you, my fellow Wildcat brethren. Hey listen. When

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<v Speaker 1>I heard Rex Chapman wanted to have me on and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to UK alum and as a kid growing

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<v Speaker 1>up in said Santi, how I loved basketball, was my

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<v Speaker 1>first love and didn't watch you come in university Kentucky.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a pleasure to be interviewed by you. Man. That

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<v Speaker 1>means it really does mean a lot. I know, the

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<v Speaker 1>older we get it. It sounds better to hear those

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<v Speaker 1>things from back in the day. So I don't take

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<v Speaker 1>it lightly. But I played every sport growing up, baseball, football,

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<v Speaker 1>I swam um baseball. I couldn't hit. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was scared to get hit right, I was stepping out

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. But by the time I got to

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<v Speaker 1>a Kentucky you were a legend. I mean you played

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<v Speaker 1>for coach Madison, Keith Madison at UK. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>hung with some of the baseball players as well after

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<v Speaker 1>you left, and you were famous before the internet, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't have a lot of guys going and playing

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<v Speaker 1>in the big leagues from UK at that time. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>me about the game of baseball. You're a kid in Ohio,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't follow, you know, any traditional route to the big leagues.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you come into the game and what did

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<v Speaker 1>it mean to you? Yeah, you know, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>situation I grew up and again, like I said, basketball

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<v Speaker 1>was my first love. But after my junior year school

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<v Speaker 1>high school, my dad said, listen, realistically, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a professional athlete, you have to play baseball.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was a tough thing to hear. But at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time, I was just you know, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, and um, you know I played with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy that you know, guy named Barry Larkin. Him and

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<v Speaker 1>I were teammates. Yeah. So coming from Cincinnati, I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up a big Red Machine fan. Uh, that was my influence.

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<v Speaker 1>Tommy Brennaman was one of my best friends growing up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I used to go to spring training as a

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<v Speaker 1>bat boy in the in the seventy four seventy six,

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<v Speaker 1>the big years of the big red machine, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just something that you know what, I remember, Johnny

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<v Speaker 1>bench Uh one time gave me his catchers but signed

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<v Speaker 1>it to me. As a whole story behind it. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't have time for all that, but he signed it

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<v Speaker 1>to me, and that day I became a catcher. And

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<v Speaker 1>because of that is the reason I got an opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to play in the Biglicks. Growing up in Kentucky, we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have pro sports anywhere around. We had to go

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<v Speaker 1>to Indianapolis to watch the Pacers, and we had to

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<v Speaker 1>go to Cincinnati growing up there. I can only imagine

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<v Speaker 1>that that team Pete Rose, Dave Concepcion and George Foster

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<v Speaker 1>and all those guys. I only came to a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of games, but man it it made such a huge

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<v Speaker 1>impression on a kid from you know, the country in Kentucky,

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<v Speaker 1>Jim Layritz was an absolute stud as a young baseball

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<v Speaker 1>player and was projected as the number two prospect before

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<v Speaker 1>Hall of Famer Barry Larkin. He had played at a

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<v Speaker 1>junior college and Origina before transferring to the University of Kentucky,

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<v Speaker 1>where he became a stud. Four days before the MLB draft,

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<v Speaker 1>Jim fractured his foot playing tennis and found himself going undrafted.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to me about your journey from college to the

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<v Speaker 1>big leagues, especially in the late eighties and nineties. What's

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<v Speaker 1>it like in the minor league farm system? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you as a catcher show your value? Yeah? See,

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<v Speaker 1>back in those days, Um, I was never drafted, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I was playing in a collegiately got in Hayes,

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<v Speaker 1>Kansas and they signed me out of there. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>just really interesting because the only reason I signed with

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<v Speaker 1>the New York Yankees it was between them and the

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<v Speaker 1>Kansas City Royals. It is because the Yankees said, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for you to go back to college and finish

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<v Speaker 1>your college. And my mother was like, you take that offer,

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<v Speaker 1>because I want you to finish your you get your degree,

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<v Speaker 1>which I never did. But I spent four years in

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<v Speaker 1>the minor leagues. After my first year in the in

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<v Speaker 1>the minor leagues, had a great year. Uh, And then

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, I went to Double A and

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<v Speaker 1>the Yankees drafted a kid in the first round, a

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<v Speaker 1>catcher out of Stanford University, and all of a sudden

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<v Speaker 1>they came to me and said, hey, listen, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna catch anymore, you're gonna go back and learn how

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<v Speaker 1>to play the outfield and third base again. And so

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a continual thing of changes. And I

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<v Speaker 1>look back at it now, Rex and I go listen,

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<v Speaker 1>thank god they did, because that versatility is what kept

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<v Speaker 1>me around eleven years in the big leagues. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>at the time, the Yankees stunk, so it was an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to go through the minor leagues fairly quick and

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<v Speaker 1>get a chance to play at the big league level.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I first got caught up in you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the Yankees were horrible. Gene Michael was the GM at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and he called me in the office. He said, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>Mr steinbergers on suspension. It's the only reason I'm giving

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<v Speaker 1>the minor league guys an opportunity because normally Georgia trade

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<v Speaker 1>for the free agent. He didn't bring up the minor

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<v Speaker 1>league kids. And he goes, I'm gonna give you a chance.

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<v Speaker 1>If you do good, you're gonna open up the door

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<v Speaker 1>for a lot of your other teammates. Now I'm going, well, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, but okay, now that's not too much pressure, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And what hell are you At the time, twenty five ish,

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually twenty six years old. Yeah, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>See back then you had to spend three or four

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<v Speaker 1>years in the minor leagues before you even got a chance,

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<v Speaker 1>uh to get called up. So at twenty six today,

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<v Speaker 1>it would be I would be old getting called up.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me ask you, because you come through in the clutch,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a big part of your professional career. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you that guy in baseball basketball growing up? Were you

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<v Speaker 1>not afraid? Did you have success doing it early as

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<v Speaker 1>a young kid, because I know I kind of did

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<v Speaker 1>and it it just bred the success. Did you always

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<v Speaker 1>have sort of that clutch thing? And you two things

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<v Speaker 1>happened to me that at age fourteen, I wanted that pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>And when number one was my father. And the funny

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<v Speaker 1>thing about my father, he was a mix between Bobby

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<v Speaker 1>Knighton and what if I scored twenty points in the

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<v Speaker 1>game he did, why don't you score thirty? You know

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<v Speaker 1>I went three for four? Why didn't you go for

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<v Speaker 1>for four? He was that kind of guy. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the other one was Pete Rose. Uh, Pete Rose. At

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen years so old, I was picking up balls in

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<v Speaker 1>the batting cage and you know, Pete was hitting and

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<v Speaker 1>we were picking the balls up for me and Tommy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I stopped him and I said, Mr Roys, can

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<v Speaker 1>I ask you a question, how are you so clutch?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, because at that time he was Mr Clutch,

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<v Speaker 1>He was you, Mr Hustle and everything else. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, He said, well listen, Jimmy. He said, you

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<v Speaker 1>see right now spring training. I treat every at bat

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<v Speaker 1>during this spring training like I do the last game

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<v Speaker 1>of the World Series. And I said, well, why do

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<v Speaker 1>you do that? He said, because no matter if I

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<v Speaker 1>treat every at bat is the most important thing that

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<v Speaker 1>I will never think about what's going on around me,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's the World Series, whether and he said, it

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<v Speaker 1>takes away the pressure as far as my thinking goes.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, wow, you know, and this is

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen years old. And from that point on, Rex my

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<v Speaker 1>mindset was give me the ball. Give me the ball,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it was you know, come up in the last

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<v Speaker 1>inning to hit, or I take the last shot. The

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<v Speaker 1>other thing my dad taught me was, even though our

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<v Speaker 1>sport were team sports, there were two moments in one

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<v Speaker 1>in baseball one in basketball that it wasn't a team sport.

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<v Speaker 1>It was when you were going into the batter's box,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was when you were shooting a free throw,

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<v Speaker 1>and my dad said, you can't blame anybody else if

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<v Speaker 1>you miss your free throws. And he used to make

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<v Speaker 1>me and that was his thing. He shot, like, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, but I think that's really why I really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted that pressure moment. I love that pressure moment, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was able to come through because I didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>of what was going on around me. I was concentrated

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<v Speaker 1>on the most important thing was that at bat. Awesome. Awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>What's it like being a major league baseball player? A

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<v Speaker 1>hundred and sixty two games a year plus the playoffs,

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<v Speaker 1>especially as a catcher, you know, one of the more

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<v Speaker 1>daunting and taxing positions in the game. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's where I kind of had a break because I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the everyday catcher. You know, I caught Andy Pettitt

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<v Speaker 1>was I was his personal catcher, and you know, there

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<v Speaker 1>would be one or two other guys a week that

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<v Speaker 1>I would catch. But I was able to play other

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<v Speaker 1>poss asians. So it was able to give me a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a break, a little bit of arrest,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was I was still able to play in

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<v Speaker 1>the lineup, which is a huge thing because most catchers,

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<v Speaker 1>when they don't play, they're not in the lineup, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because they can't play other positions. Man, it's got to

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<v Speaker 1>be a grind though, I mean, no matter what you're

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if you're relieving all of it, because I

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<v Speaker 1>mean just the you know, some of the monotony of

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<v Speaker 1>the days. You're spending days in different cities, and look,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, you know, I know, we have the greatest

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<v Speaker 1>job in the world as a professional athlete, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>not without its issues. How daunting is it? Just getting

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<v Speaker 1>up and going every single day, every single day? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was interesting. In my first couple of years in

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<v Speaker 1>the big leagues, I lived in Florida and my family

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<v Speaker 1>was from Ohio and they all still live in Cincinnati,

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<v Speaker 1>and every offseason I'd come home, like when you come

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<v Speaker 1>into Ohio, I'm like, guys, I've been traveling all year.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to come see me, you come to Florida,

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<v Speaker 1>which wasn't a bad place to go to. But in

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning they didn't understand, and then all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden they started to realize, well, you know, you're on

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<v Speaker 1>the road, and even like no one lives in the

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<v Speaker 1>spring training town. So you're away thirty days right then,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you go away for your season, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>which was I went from Florida to New York. So

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<v Speaker 1>if I saw my house three months out of the year,

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<v Speaker 1>I was lucky, you know. And especially in ninety and

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<v Speaker 1>when we started winning and going to the playoffs in

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<v Speaker 1>the World Series. We never got home to the end

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<v Speaker 1>of October, and so you had November, December, January. In

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<v Speaker 1>February you were packing back up and going to spring

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<v Speaker 1>training again. So it was a little bit difficult. And

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, the mental grind of a hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>sixty two games in a hundred and eighty days plus

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<v Speaker 1>spring training, that was more of a grind than anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>And everybody always says today, hey, what do you miss

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<v Speaker 1>about the game? What do you miss? Do you miss playing?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, I missed playing, I missed the camaraderie

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<v Speaker 1>with the guys, I miss seeing the fans. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>miss the travel ever in the field, back in the

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<v Speaker 1>track and the room, dancing in the streets in New

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<v Speaker 1>York right now and it's the County Stadium, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's fast forward a little bit nineties six World Series

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<v Speaker 1>Game four, you hit a three run home run to

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<v Speaker 1>tie the game, the Yankees winning six games. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember about the parade and how you were treated

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<v Speaker 1>that summer and then you're traded, you know, being caught

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<v Speaker 1>up in the nineties when we were losing a hundred games,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, we got really close to ninety four.

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<v Speaker 1>We were going to be in the World Series of

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<v Speaker 1>ninety four, and then of course the strike hits. Then

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<v Speaker 1>we get to the point where we finally get down

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<v Speaker 1>manically to a playoff game. We win the first two

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<v Speaker 1>games against Seattle, and then we get swept. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of like and I hit a huge

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<v Speaker 1>home run that year in the playoffs, but they became

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<v Speaker 1>a footnote because we didn't win. When we get to

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<v Speaker 1>ninety six and I come up in the eighth inning

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<v Speaker 1>against Wallers and I hit the big home run that

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<v Speaker 1>ties it up and completely shifted the momentum, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we went on to win that game. On the way

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<v Speaker 1>Bogs Walk win the series, and the parade rex it

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<v Speaker 1>was nuts. It was I remember. I remember the ninety

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<v Speaker 1>four Rangers winning because I was a huge hockey fan

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<v Speaker 1>and I dragged out of the ninety four Cup with

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<v Speaker 1>the Rangers. But I remember the Rangers the Rangers parade

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<v Speaker 1>in ninety four, and I was like, man, that would

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<v Speaker 1>be awesome to have one of those for us. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we get the ninety six We win that and

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<v Speaker 1>there were four and a half million people at this

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<v Speaker 1>parade and it was just one of the most awesome

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<v Speaker 1>days that we ever had, I can imagine. But then

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<v Speaker 1>you're traded. I mean that had to be just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bitter sweet, right. Well, it was a situation where

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to play every day and I at this

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<v Speaker 1>particular time, you know, Mr Steinbanner of me because I

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<v Speaker 1>just hit the biggest home run for him, and he

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<v Speaker 1>already started loving me after ninety five because I hit

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<v Speaker 1>that one on and so we had a really really

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<v Speaker 1>good relationship. And after the ninety six season was over,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Tampa working out and I walked into

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<v Speaker 1>Mr Steinbrenner's office and said, you know, am I gonna

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<v Speaker 1>play more next year? You know, is there any way

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<v Speaker 1>that you can find out? Because if I'm not, I

0:14:20.640 --> 0:14:22.480
<v Speaker 1>would appreciate it if you give me an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 1>go play somewhere else. He was like, let me talk

0:14:25.280 --> 0:14:28.600
<v Speaker 1>to Mr Tor and so he knew he was drinking

0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.920
<v Speaker 1>buddies at my agent and uh, so I get a

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<v Speaker 1>phone call. That helps. So I get a phone call

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<v Speaker 1>like four days later from my agent saying did you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to Steinbrenner And I said, yeah, I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of asked him I wanted to play every day, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, you know, I was comfortable doing that. And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, well, he just called me and said if

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<v Speaker 1>I could make a deal for you, that he'll allow

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<v Speaker 1>you to go somewhere else to play every day. And

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<v Speaker 1>he said, I've been on the phone for the last

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<v Speaker 1>two days and I've got a deal with the Anaheim Angels.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get a three year contract, which was my

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<v Speaker 1>first multi year cont racked and they want you to

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<v Speaker 1>come there and catch every day. And I was like wow. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>at the time, Rex, I was working out at the

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<v Speaker 1>complex in Tampa with the Yankees. So they trade me

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<v Speaker 1>and I come in the next day and I walked

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<v Speaker 1>into Mr. Steinbrenner's office with my bag and I said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much for everything. I appreciate you give

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<v Speaker 1>me the opportunity to go play somewhere else. And he said, Jimmy,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, you will always be a Yankee. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you have your bag? I said, when I

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<v Speaker 1>can't work out it anymore. I'm an angel now. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>you go put that bag back in your locker. You

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<v Speaker 1>can work out at this field as long as you want,

0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, as long as you don't come back and

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<v Speaker 1>kill us. You know that that type of situation. But

0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:40.320
<v Speaker 1>he was just such a great loyal guy. And and

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, most people didn't know that I actually

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<v Speaker 1>asked for the trade, and so it actually was a

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<v Speaker 1>benefit for me to be able to get that opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>What did that three years of security? Uh? That three

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<v Speaker 1>year deal? How gratifying was that for you? Yeah? It

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<v Speaker 1>was something that even though I had some good years

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<v Speaker 1>with the Yankees, even you know, I need four. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't getting anything more than a one year contract.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was every off season was like what am

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<v Speaker 1>I gonna do? What am I gonna do? Where am

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<v Speaker 1>I gonna play? What's gonna happen to have that security?

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<v Speaker 1>For the Angels to do that, um and give me

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<v Speaker 1>that three year deal. I didn't really care after that

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<v Speaker 1>whether or not I got traded seventy five more times.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew that I had three years, you know, Baseball

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<v Speaker 1>is different. You know. Baseball is a guaranteed contract, and

0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:29.600
<v Speaker 1>to have that kind of security, Uh, it meant the

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<v Speaker 1>world to me. And it meant that I finally had

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to play every day. There was no better

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<v Speaker 1>feeling than having that. It's amazing you admitted using infant

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<v Speaker 1>it means during your career when they were still legal

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<v Speaker 1>in the league. What was the process behind that? How

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<v Speaker 1>much did it actually help? Was it for injury recovery

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<v Speaker 1>performance or was there more to it? How did you

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<v Speaker 1>become introduced to him? Well, this is where you and

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<v Speaker 1>I are kindred spirits. I mean, the bottom line is

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<v Speaker 1>I have a d h D really really bad, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>And had they had the medicine and knowing that and

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<v Speaker 1>fetta means helped a d h D, they probably would

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<v Speaker 1>have given it to me back then like they do

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<v Speaker 1>now to the players that abot you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know back then when I took them that that

0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:13.760
<v Speaker 1>was actually helping me concentrate, That was actually having me focus.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the advantage, you know. And again it had

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to do with given making me stronger, making me better,

0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:23.879
<v Speaker 1>you know. It was just the ability to focus the

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<v Speaker 1>and then let my natural abilities come out, and had,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, had it been diagnosed back then, it

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<v Speaker 1>would have been fine. I can't that makes complete sense, um,

0:17:33.960 --> 0:17:37.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I would get bored in baseball, you know,

0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I'd lose concentration for you knew it. I'm just looking

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<v Speaker 1>at the girls and forgetting what's going on in the

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<v Speaker 1>on the field. So that makes complete sense. And that

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<v Speaker 1>was a situation where, you know, guys were taking a

0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of guys were just taking it. Just instead of

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<v Speaker 1>drinking five cups of coffee, it was maybe safer to

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<v Speaker 1>take an infett a mean, you know. And again it

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<v Speaker 1>was just one of those things that I gave you

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<v Speaker 1>about a three and a half to four hour lift,

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<v Speaker 1>just long enough to get through a baseball game, which

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<v Speaker 1>unless we were playing the Red Sox, uh, but just

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<v Speaker 1>long enough to get through a game and to be

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<v Speaker 1>had that concentration for that full three and a half

0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:14.480
<v Speaker 1>four hours. Looking back, do you think you had any

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<v Speaker 1>any destructive character traits or vices during your time as

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<v Speaker 1>a player that carried over into your retirement. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I made a lot of personal decisions,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, relationships, sexual, you know, doing things sexually and uh,

0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:31.000
<v Speaker 1>there were so many things that. Number one, it was

0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:33.520
<v Speaker 1>just a smartasport because you were in the major leagues

0:18:33.880 --> 0:18:36.600
<v Speaker 1>and everything was there. And a kid from Cincinnatio, how

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<v Speaker 1>growing up, you know, I was not privy to that

0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.200
<v Speaker 1>type of thing. It was you know, you get lost

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<v Speaker 1>in it sometimes. And even though I was still having

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<v Speaker 1>success on the field, and even though I was still

0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:50.960
<v Speaker 1>doing well, it was one of those situations. Not playing

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<v Speaker 1>every day, I had a lot of free time, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was the kind of guy that you know,

0:18:56.080 --> 0:18:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I embraced New York. I wore a cowboy hat, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a cowboy boots. I was known as Country Jim,

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, you know, my first experience in a nightclub

0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:07.800
<v Speaker 1>in New York was sitting at a table that they

0:19:07.840 --> 0:19:09.520
<v Speaker 1>got for me because I was Jim Larious of the

0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:13.040
<v Speaker 1>New York Yankees, the new rookie sensation. And I'm sitting

0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:16.000
<v Speaker 1>there with my cowboy at my cowboy boots, and all

0:19:16.040 --> 0:19:18.639
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, these three big black bouncers come up

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<v Speaker 1>to me and go, excuse me, can we ask you

0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:22.840
<v Speaker 1>a question? Do you mind if our client sits with you?

0:19:23.320 --> 0:19:26.240
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like sure, yeah, and you know, just it's

0:19:26.240 --> 0:19:28.480
<v Speaker 1>not my table, but they just put me here all

0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:30.359
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, come walking in. This is called the

0:19:30.400 --> 0:19:34.680
<v Speaker 1>China Club. Back in the day, Eddie Murphy sits down

0:19:34.720 --> 0:19:38.639
<v Speaker 1>next to me and you talk about complete like I know,

0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Eddie Murphy. I'm like, oh my god, this is so awesome,

0:19:41.560 --> 0:19:43.760
<v Speaker 1>this is so great. And then he sits down and

0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:47.200
<v Speaker 1>he goes. Who would have thought this pairing would have happened, right,

0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:51.280
<v Speaker 1>But that was my first experience. And then I went

0:19:51.320 --> 0:19:53.639
<v Speaker 1>to the China Club every Monday night because I was

0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:56.800
<v Speaker 1>time to go um and it just I really enjoyed

0:19:56.840 --> 0:19:59.359
<v Speaker 1>the night. I wasn't a drug guy. It wasn't that

0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:01.840
<v Speaker 1>besides the what I mean, I was a drinker and

0:20:01.880 --> 0:20:03.240
<v Speaker 1>I like to go out at night and you know,

0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:05.720
<v Speaker 1>and have a good time and and it really embraced

0:20:05.760 --> 0:20:07.760
<v Speaker 1>New York City. And I think that's why a lot

0:20:07.760 --> 0:20:10.560
<v Speaker 1>of fans liked me, because I was out and about.

0:20:10.680 --> 0:20:14.119
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't just this standoffish guy. I was part of

0:20:14.160 --> 0:20:16.560
<v Speaker 1>the community. I did a lot of stuff with the police,

0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:19.080
<v Speaker 1>but nova associations I did a lot of things with

0:20:19.359 --> 0:20:21.840
<v Speaker 1>because I was in the city. Uh, it was great

0:20:21.840 --> 0:20:24.040
<v Speaker 1>to be part of that. But I also made a

0:20:24.080 --> 0:20:26.080
<v Speaker 1>lot of bad choices that my father and my mother,

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<v Speaker 1>uh were like, we didn't bring you up that way,

0:20:28.280 --> 0:20:31.119
<v Speaker 1>young man, you know, and uh so you know, you

0:20:31.160 --> 0:20:33.639
<v Speaker 1>pay the price as you get a little bit older

0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:36.440
<v Speaker 1>and realized we I could have probably done some things

0:20:36.440 --> 0:20:39.520
<v Speaker 1>different back then while you were playing. Did you ever

0:20:39.600 --> 0:20:43.480
<v Speaker 1>have any brushes with the law. No? Nothing, And that's

0:20:43.480 --> 0:20:45.400
<v Speaker 1>what I said when I first had my accident. After

0:20:45.440 --> 0:20:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I got done playing and I had the accident, people,

0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:50.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, most of the guys that I knew were

0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:52.520
<v Speaker 1>shot there, Like, dude, you've never got a d u

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<v Speaker 1>I you've never had a drinking problem. I mean, as

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<v Speaker 1>many nights as I spent in a bar in New York,

0:20:56.760 --> 0:20:59.480
<v Speaker 1>I never got into a fight. You know. It was

0:20:59.520 --> 0:21:02.960
<v Speaker 1>one of those such we was gonna fight Jim Layer,

0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:06.520
<v Speaker 1>it's in the ball, He's gonna do that. Eddie Murphy's

0:21:06.560 --> 0:21:11.680
<v Speaker 1>not doing that exactly. Yeah, but you know that was

0:21:11.800 --> 0:21:15.480
<v Speaker 1>that was the situation. And again, um, when we're younger

0:21:16.400 --> 0:21:19.679
<v Speaker 1>and we're as we're athletes, we kind of feel invincible.

0:21:19.920 --> 0:21:22.840
<v Speaker 1>And unfortunately back then there was no cell phones, there

0:21:22.880 --> 0:21:25.720
<v Speaker 1>was no social media. You know, you weren't gonna get

0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:28.600
<v Speaker 1>in trouble if you were doing some crazy things, you know,

0:21:28.880 --> 0:21:31.680
<v Speaker 1>and it was kind of back then, Brex you know, hey,

0:21:31.760 --> 0:21:33.960
<v Speaker 1>we'll keep it hush hush, don't worry. You know, we're

0:21:33.960 --> 0:21:35.879
<v Speaker 1>not gonna tell anybody. Don't worry that. It was that

0:21:35.920 --> 0:21:38.399
<v Speaker 1>type of thing. So you were more apt to get

0:21:38.480 --> 0:21:40.720
<v Speaker 1>in a little bit more trouble because there was not

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<v Speaker 1>as many consequences as there is today. Jim and I

0:21:46.320 --> 0:21:48.960
<v Speaker 1>were professional athletes in the same era and didn't have

0:21:49.000 --> 0:21:51.479
<v Speaker 1>to deal with the same public scrutiny that the players

0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:54.359
<v Speaker 1>today do. I was not a drinker during my career,

0:21:54.359 --> 0:21:58.000
<v Speaker 1>as I told you. Jim admittedly was. Not only was

0:21:58.040 --> 0:21:59.520
<v Speaker 1>he a man of the people, but he was the

0:21:59.600 --> 0:22:01.720
<v Speaker 1>king in the city that never sleeps, and he took

0:22:01.720 --> 0:22:04.679
<v Speaker 1>advantage a place that has a bar on nearly every corner.

0:22:04.760 --> 0:22:06.919
<v Speaker 1>He probably never had to pay for a drink. As

0:22:06.920 --> 0:22:09.640
<v Speaker 1>a Yankee, some players and people are able to dance

0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:13.000
<v Speaker 1>through rain drops. Jim felt invincible at the time, but

0:22:13.119 --> 0:22:16.240
<v Speaker 1>to any outside observer, a clear pattern was a merging.

0:22:18.600 --> 0:22:20.719
<v Speaker 1>You traveled around the league a bit, you find yourself

0:22:20.720 --> 0:22:25.160
<v Speaker 1>back in pin stripes in when another World series unbelievable

0:22:25.320 --> 0:22:29.200
<v Speaker 1>King of New York again until they trade you again. Uh,

0:22:29.240 --> 0:22:33.199
<v Speaker 1>we're both pros, but explained to the listeners who aren't pros,

0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:35.520
<v Speaker 1>or maybe who are, how it feels to be a

0:22:35.520 --> 0:22:38.440
<v Speaker 1>cog that can sort of easily be replaced on a team,

0:22:38.520 --> 0:22:41.240
<v Speaker 1>especially as such a clutch player you've been your whole career. Yeah,

0:22:41.280 --> 0:22:44.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, most of my trades, I was getting traded

0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:46.000
<v Speaker 1>to a team going to the playoffs. So that was

0:22:46.040 --> 0:22:48.840
<v Speaker 1>a good thing because then they knew that my postseason history,

0:22:49.080 --> 0:22:51.879
<v Speaker 1>the great round that we had with the Padres, you know,

0:22:52.040 --> 0:22:53.760
<v Speaker 1>and then we get to the World Series. We lose

0:22:53.800 --> 0:22:56.680
<v Speaker 1>to the Yankees, but we get approval for Petco Park,

0:22:57.520 --> 0:23:00.920
<v Speaker 1>for the new stadium in San Diego, so you feel like, hey, wow,

0:23:00.920 --> 0:23:03.040
<v Speaker 1>we accomplished a lot that year, even though we lost

0:23:03.040 --> 0:23:05.040
<v Speaker 1>the World Series. I mean, I make the joke all

0:23:05.080 --> 0:23:07.520
<v Speaker 1>the time. People say, what's the difference between playing in

0:23:07.560 --> 0:23:10.720
<v Speaker 1>New York and San Diego. I said, Well, in San

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:14.120
<v Speaker 1>Diego we lost the World Series, but we still had

0:23:14.119 --> 0:23:19.040
<v Speaker 1>a parade. I got. You lose the World Series in

0:23:19.080 --> 0:23:24.119
<v Speaker 1>New York, you don't leave your house for two weeks. Yeah,

0:23:24.440 --> 0:23:26.960
<v Speaker 1>so that was the big thing. But in ninety nine

0:23:26.960 --> 0:23:29.359
<v Speaker 1>I got traded back because the Padres, you know, they

0:23:29.359 --> 0:23:31.960
<v Speaker 1>got rid of everybody. I get traded back to the Yankees.

0:23:32.280 --> 0:23:35.440
<v Speaker 1>We win the World Series again. We go into the

0:23:35.480 --> 0:23:37.240
<v Speaker 1>two thousand season. I hit another home run in that

0:23:37.280 --> 0:23:40.280
<v Speaker 1>World Series, which became the last home run of the century,

0:23:40.760 --> 0:23:47.679
<v Speaker 1>and now that's fucking cool. Was yeah, I can't. I

0:23:47.720 --> 0:23:49.560
<v Speaker 1>had come back to the Yankees that year from a

0:23:49.600 --> 0:23:52.840
<v Speaker 1>broken hand, and in batting practice, I couldn't hit the

0:23:52.840 --> 0:23:55.600
<v Speaker 1>ball out in Jeter and knob Block and all those

0:23:55.640 --> 0:23:58.040
<v Speaker 1>guys were giving me such a hard time because usually

0:23:58.080 --> 0:24:00.280
<v Speaker 1>batting Pactress was my main thing, and I would home

0:24:00.359 --> 0:24:03.480
<v Speaker 1>runs with Strawberry. Well, I come back and I can't

0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:05.360
<v Speaker 1>hit the ball and Jeter and they were making fun

0:24:05.359 --> 0:24:07.200
<v Speaker 1>of me, and I go, guys, listen, this was back

0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:10.040
<v Speaker 1>in July. I said, listen, when it counts, I'll hit

0:24:10.040 --> 0:24:12.560
<v Speaker 1>a home run. And then, sure enough, my only at

0:24:12.600 --> 0:24:15.600
<v Speaker 1>bat in that World Series, I pinched it for Strawberry

0:24:15.960 --> 0:24:18.320
<v Speaker 1>and I hit that home run. I come running around

0:24:18.359 --> 0:24:20.440
<v Speaker 1>the bases and Jeter is waiting there for me, and

0:24:20.440 --> 0:24:24.080
<v Speaker 1>he goes, I don't believe it. I'm like, I told you,

0:24:25.480 --> 0:24:42.080
<v Speaker 1>it's so great. Nothing draw it. Let's feel two thousand comes.

0:24:42.200 --> 0:24:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm in the visiting team's bar in Boston. Was a

0:24:45.800 --> 0:24:51.720
<v Speaker 1>place called Daisy Buchanan's. It's where we all hung out. Yeah, exactly,

0:24:52.000 --> 0:24:55.119
<v Speaker 1>we ran the same circles. But so we were in

0:24:55.200 --> 0:24:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Daisy Buchanan's, David con and I and we were back

0:24:57.760 --> 0:24:59.679
<v Speaker 1>behind the bar making drinks and hanging out with the

0:24:59.680 --> 0:25:02.040
<v Speaker 1>bar to enders, and all of a sudden, Cony looks

0:25:02.040 --> 0:25:05.720
<v Speaker 1>at me, goes, dude, look, and I'm like what. I

0:25:05.720 --> 0:25:07.960
<v Speaker 1>look up at the TV and I'm a ticker tape

0:25:07.960 --> 0:25:10.439
<v Speaker 1>on ESPN. It says Jim Layer It's traded to the

0:25:10.480 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 1>Dodgers for Jose Biscayana. I found this out in the bar.

0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Because again, we didn't have cell phones

0:25:18.119 --> 0:25:20.280
<v Speaker 1>back then. They couldn't call me on my cell and

0:25:20.320 --> 0:25:23.960
<v Speaker 1>tell me, hey, we just traded you, right. So Coney

0:25:24.040 --> 0:25:25.600
<v Speaker 1>looks at me, and I'm with Shane Spencer and his

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:27.919
<v Speaker 1>wife and my wife. We're all hanging out, and all

0:25:27.920 --> 0:25:29.480
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, they go, what are you gonna do?

0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:31.840
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, I'm just gonna keep drinking because I

0:25:31.880 --> 0:25:35.159
<v Speaker 1>can't change this. Now I'm leaving. So that's when I

0:25:35.200 --> 0:25:37.120
<v Speaker 1>went to the Dodgers, and then I end up getting

0:25:37.160 --> 0:25:39.879
<v Speaker 1>hurt with the Dodgers. Uh later in that year, and

0:25:39.920 --> 0:25:41.800
<v Speaker 1>that was the last time I was at the major

0:25:41.840 --> 0:25:44.480
<v Speaker 1>league level. Yeah, well when did you know? Did you

0:25:44.520 --> 0:25:46.639
<v Speaker 1>know right then that that you needed to hang it up?

0:25:46.880 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, what was actually? I went home. Uh, it

0:25:50.160 --> 0:25:52.600
<v Speaker 1>was a torn rotator and torn labor on my right side,

0:25:53.119 --> 0:25:56.359
<v Speaker 1>and I went to Dr Andrews. He fixed it all up. Um.

0:25:56.400 --> 0:25:58.359
<v Speaker 1>I went to spring training in two thousand one with

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:01.199
<v Speaker 1>the Mets, and I was gonna try to make their

0:26:01.240 --> 0:26:03.440
<v Speaker 1>team out of spring training and I end up getting

0:26:03.480 --> 0:26:05.920
<v Speaker 1>hurt again. But yeah, I think it was March seventeenth.

0:26:06.000 --> 0:26:08.440
<v Speaker 1>I got hurt again and they released me. Uh. Then

0:26:08.480 --> 0:26:10.959
<v Speaker 1>I went home and I found this thing called h

0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:14.920
<v Speaker 1>g H, and one of the doctors in Florida told me, hey, listen,

0:26:15.280 --> 0:26:18.159
<v Speaker 1>you want to get healthy quicker, you can take this

0:26:18.359 --> 0:26:20.639
<v Speaker 1>h g H and you'll recover quicker. It's not a

0:26:20.680 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 1>steroid because I couldn't take steroids because I had prostate

0:26:23.600 --> 0:26:26.240
<v Speaker 1>cancer in my family and steroids would just kill you

0:26:26.320 --> 0:26:28.560
<v Speaker 1>right away if you took that, And he said, h

0:26:28.600 --> 0:26:31.440
<v Speaker 1>g H is much safer. Try this. So for about

0:26:31.440 --> 0:26:33.159
<v Speaker 1>six weeks I took the h g H. Where the

0:26:33.200 --> 0:26:35.879
<v Speaker 1>problem was my p s A level started to go

0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:39.159
<v Speaker 1>through the roof and I had to stop taking that also,

0:26:39.600 --> 0:26:42.919
<v Speaker 1>but I got healthier and I end up going to

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:46.560
<v Speaker 1>UH independent League in the Newark Bears, and I played

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:48.719
<v Speaker 1>there for twenty six games. In the San Diego Padre

0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:51.359
<v Speaker 1>signed me and I went back to play Triple A

0:26:51.760 --> 0:26:55.240
<v Speaker 1>and UH first game back, I get hit in the

0:26:55.280 --> 0:26:57.679
<v Speaker 1>hand with the pitch and I break my hand. But

0:26:57.760 --> 0:27:00.240
<v Speaker 1>it's crazy sometimes how things happen. When I looked back

0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:02.679
<v Speaker 1>on it, and you know, I've had a rebirth with

0:27:02.760 --> 0:27:05.159
<v Speaker 1>christ after everything I've been through, and you know, I

0:27:05.200 --> 0:27:07.560
<v Speaker 1>look back now and and I'm like, I didn't know

0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>at the time that my ex wife was at My

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 1>wife at the time was having drug problems because I

0:27:12.520 --> 0:27:15.160
<v Speaker 1>was away trying to play and get my career back,

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:17.959
<v Speaker 1>and she was using and the kids were I had

0:27:17.960 --> 0:27:20.040
<v Speaker 1>a nanny and the housekeeper that thank goodness because they

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:21.680
<v Speaker 1>took care of the kids while she was out doing

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:25.280
<v Speaker 1>her thing. But long story short, I come home and

0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:28.879
<v Speaker 1>it's a mess, and I took her back for a while.

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:32.440
<v Speaker 1>She relapsed again. We end up getting divorced. Um, I

0:27:32.560 --> 0:27:34.760
<v Speaker 1>end up doing more rehab on my shoulder and a

0:27:34.840 --> 0:27:37.560
<v Speaker 1>two thousand three, the Padres called me up and say, hey, listen,

0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:40.360
<v Speaker 1>we heard that you're healthy. Do you want to come

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:42.479
<v Speaker 1>back and play. We'll offer you a million dollar contract

0:27:42.560 --> 0:27:45.359
<v Speaker 1>to come back and play. Well. Rex, I had just

0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:48.200
<v Speaker 1>gotten a full custody of my three boys. They were

0:27:48.280 --> 0:27:50.439
<v Speaker 1>two years old, seven years old, and nine years old

0:27:50.480 --> 0:27:53.960
<v Speaker 1>at the time, and the judge and Florid at my

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:56.440
<v Speaker 1>family court judge, I went to him and said, listen,

0:27:56.680 --> 0:27:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I want to keep custody. I want to take the

0:27:58.880 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 1>boys with me to say die go. I'll have a nanny,

0:28:01.600 --> 0:28:03.639
<v Speaker 1>you know, and they'll be taken care of. And the

0:28:03.760 --> 0:28:05.439
<v Speaker 1>judge in Florida said, listen, if you go back to

0:28:05.440 --> 0:28:07.679
<v Speaker 1>play baseball, even though your wife's addicted to drugs and

0:28:08.000 --> 0:28:10.679
<v Speaker 1>has major issues, those kids will go back to her.

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:14.199
<v Speaker 1>And I just said, that's it, you know what. And

0:28:14.240 --> 0:28:16.320
<v Speaker 1>I called up Kevin Towers and said, Kevin, thank you

0:28:16.359 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 1>for the offer, but I can't leave these boys in

0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:21.919
<v Speaker 1>a situation like this. And to this day, it's my

0:28:22.000 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 1>father's proudest moment. He called me up when I made

0:28:25.000 --> 0:28:27.359
<v Speaker 1>the choice, and he said, I was happy with the

0:28:27.400 --> 0:28:29.760
<v Speaker 1>World Series. I was happy with everything you accomplished in

0:28:29.760 --> 0:28:32.960
<v Speaker 1>your life. But that decision right there is the reason

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:35.919
<v Speaker 1>why I raised you the way I did, and you

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 1>know what, you'll be rewarded for that decision. And sure enough,

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:42.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't regret a day not signing back with the

0:28:42.560 --> 0:28:44.960
<v Speaker 1>padres Man. It makes me want to cry. I've got

0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 1>goose bumps. Good for you, really. On this podcast, we

0:28:51.200 --> 0:28:54.800
<v Speaker 1>pride ourselves in shining the light onto darkness, coming straight

0:28:54.800 --> 0:28:57.479
<v Speaker 1>from the perspective of the person who lived the events

0:28:57.560 --> 0:29:00.440
<v Speaker 1>you have heard and are about to hear. While the

0:29:00.440 --> 0:29:03.480
<v Speaker 1>story ahead maybe upsetting for some, it's important for it

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 1>to be heard. In Jim's words, the turning point of

0:29:06.400 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 1>his life took place at three am on a road

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:12.320
<v Speaker 1>in Fort Lauderdale. Two strangers in the night who had

0:29:12.320 --> 0:29:15.000
<v Speaker 1>decided to get behind the wheel of their vehicles after drinking.

0:29:15.360 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 1>One was Jim, the other was a thirty year old

0:29:18.480 --> 0:29:25.280
<v Speaker 1>mother of two. Only one lost their life. Well, you know,

0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 1>here on charges we enjoyed talking about the good times,

0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:30.640
<v Speaker 1>but I also got to talk about the bad times too,

0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:33.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, for the betterment of ourselves in our community

0:29:33.880 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 1>of listeners. If you don't mind, tell me about the

0:29:35.920 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>night you went out to celebrate your forty fourth birthday. Yeah,

0:29:39.720 --> 0:29:42.520
<v Speaker 1>it was crazy. It was a situation where, um, you know,

0:29:42.600 --> 0:29:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I was turning forty four years old. Uh. And at

0:29:46.440 --> 0:29:48.560
<v Speaker 1>the time, again, I had the kids with me. Uh,

0:29:48.600 --> 0:29:50.080
<v Speaker 1>the boys and I. We spent all day at the

0:29:50.080 --> 0:29:53.120
<v Speaker 1>beach together. We uh we hung out. I took him

0:29:53.120 --> 0:29:55.479
<v Speaker 1>out to dinner around seven o'clock. And why we were

0:29:55.480 --> 0:29:57.320
<v Speaker 1>at dinner and my ex wife called me and said,

0:29:57.760 --> 0:29:59.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, because she was clean at the time and

0:29:59.760 --> 0:30:02.000
<v Speaker 1>so her and she said, hey, listen, it's your birthday.

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:03.479
<v Speaker 1>Do you want to go out with some of your friends.

0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll watch the kids tonight, but I have to work

0:30:05.920 --> 0:30:07.520
<v Speaker 1>at eight o'clock in the morning, so you have to

0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:10.400
<v Speaker 1>pick them up at seven, you know, unless you're planning

0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:12.320
<v Speaker 1>you know whatever. And I said, well, you know what,

0:30:12.400 --> 0:30:14.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm not planning on going out doing much tonight, you know.

0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:17.600
<v Speaker 1>And it was a Thursday night. I got the phone.

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I called one of my friends up and said, hey, listen,

0:30:19.400 --> 0:30:21.640
<v Speaker 1>what do you guys doing tonight? And it was a

0:30:21.640 --> 0:30:23.480
<v Speaker 1>girl and her boyfriend and they said, well, we're gonna

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 1>go to dinner with our parents, but if you want

0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:26.920
<v Speaker 1>to meet at ten thirty for a drink, you know,

0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:29.200
<v Speaker 1>we'll have a drink with you for your birthday. But

0:30:29.320 --> 0:30:31.880
<v Speaker 1>we have to leave because we're flying out the next

0:30:31.920 --> 0:30:35.640
<v Speaker 1>morning to the Bahamas for New Year's and of course

0:30:35.680 --> 0:30:39.800
<v Speaker 1>it was decembery which was my birthday, and I said, okay,

0:30:39.840 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 1>so we met out for a drink. And you know,

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I was so fortunate that I was forty four years old,

0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:47.520
<v Speaker 1>number one, and that I knew that I had to

0:30:47.520 --> 0:30:49.720
<v Speaker 1>get up at seven in the morning, that I wasn't

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:51.880
<v Speaker 1>going to have a big drinking night. This is gonna

0:30:51.880 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 1>be a couple of drinks and just kind of hang

0:30:53.840 --> 0:30:56.920
<v Speaker 1>out and you know, celebrate with some friends. And sure enough,

0:30:57.480 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, we go out and I didn't meet them

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:01.480
<v Speaker 1>to almost all in o'clock at night. We had a

0:31:01.560 --> 0:31:03.640
<v Speaker 1>drink and the night, you know, we went to another

0:31:03.680 --> 0:31:07.040
<v Speaker 1>bar and we were hanging out and around two thirty

0:31:07.080 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 1>they all decided to leave. Well, there was one kid

0:31:09.040 --> 0:31:11.720
<v Speaker 1>there that was a friend of hers, and he said,

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>can you take me home? I'm not you know, I

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:17.440
<v Speaker 1>don't live here. And Robin goes the other the girl

0:31:17.440 --> 0:31:19.480
<v Speaker 1>that I was with, she goes the other way and

0:31:19.520 --> 0:31:21.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm on your way home. Can you take me home?

0:31:21.840 --> 0:31:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I said, yeah, sure, no problem. He had been drinking,

0:31:24.000 --> 0:31:26.479
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I was like, listen, I'll take you home.

0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:28.920
<v Speaker 1>So long story short, I had maybe had two or

0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:31.800
<v Speaker 1>three drinks the entire night, which was good, you know,

0:31:32.120 --> 0:31:34.920
<v Speaker 1>over three or a hered. But I'm getting ready to

0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>leave the bar and all of a sudden, a Red

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Sox fan sees me and they say, hey, dude, and

0:31:42.200 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I saw my World series I had in my World

0:31:43.680 --> 0:31:46.720
<v Speaker 1>series ring out. They're like, hey, we got another one

0:31:46.720 --> 0:31:49.160
<v Speaker 1>of those, and I said, yeah, you know, I just

0:31:49.200 --> 0:31:51.600
<v Speaker 1>got done. I was doing the World series for Fox.

0:31:51.960 --> 0:31:54.240
<v Speaker 1>I was covering the Red Sox and he's like, no way,

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>you were covering him. I'm like, yeah, I go. Kevin

0:31:56.440 --> 0:31:58.720
<v Speaker 1>Nucleus is from Cincinnati. We hung out together. You know,

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 1>we had a great time. I love those guys. He's like, well,

0:32:01.640 --> 0:32:03.080
<v Speaker 1>let's have a drink at a shot, you know, for

0:32:03.120 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 1>their victory. And you know, it was almost three o'clock

0:32:05.120 --> 0:32:07.080
<v Speaker 1>in the morning. So I'm like, okay, sure, whatever. So

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I took a drink and I took a shot with him,

0:32:09.280 --> 0:32:12.120
<v Speaker 1>literally not even a minute and a half, got out,

0:32:12.200 --> 0:32:14.480
<v Speaker 1>went and got my car and went to go home

0:32:14.480 --> 0:32:18.240
<v Speaker 1>and take this kid home. Well next literally five minutes later,

0:32:18.720 --> 0:32:21.480
<v Speaker 1>this accident happens. This woman who had been drinking, she

0:32:21.520 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 1>comes through a red light. It's a blind intersection. I

0:32:24.600 --> 0:32:27.560
<v Speaker 1>catch her back end. You know, she flips. She flips.

0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:30.920
<v Speaker 1>She didn't ever see it fell on. She got ejected

0:32:30.920 --> 0:32:33.000
<v Speaker 1>from the car and the impact from the cement is

0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>what caused her death. And it was just a situation.

0:32:35.320 --> 0:32:37.040
<v Speaker 1>We pulled the car over. I went back to the

0:32:37.080 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 1>scene and it was just a surreal moment, uh, seeing

0:32:40.840 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 1>someone laying there and she was still alive at the time,

0:32:44.680 --> 0:32:47.520
<v Speaker 1>and just what's gonna happen? What's going on? You know,

0:32:47.560 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 1>why did this happen? That type of situation? And estrangely enough,

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:55.840
<v Speaker 1>I had some calmness to me, like, Okay, this is

0:32:55.880 --> 0:32:58.239
<v Speaker 1>a huge scenario. What are you gonna do here? And

0:32:58.320 --> 0:32:59.840
<v Speaker 1>I went back to my car, I picked up my

0:33:00.000 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>own I called people and I said, hey, listen, I've

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:04.720
<v Speaker 1>been an accident. You know, I need somebody to come

0:33:04.720 --> 0:33:08.240
<v Speaker 1>and so forth. Long story short, They end up giving

0:33:08.240 --> 0:33:10.840
<v Speaker 1>me a d UI test, which is online everybody can

0:33:10.880 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 1>see it. Do you have any injuries? Necktid? Yeah, she

0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:22.480
<v Speaker 1>hit me, Jewer and glasses contest, take any medications? Listen

0:33:22.960 --> 0:33:25.320
<v Speaker 1>under Florida while you require and submit to a breakthfest

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:28.600
<v Speaker 1>to determine the alcohol content to your breath. Do you understand?

0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Are you willing to submit to testing. Listen, should you

0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:34.720
<v Speaker 1>refuse to submit to the the test and requesting Department of

0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:38.280
<v Speaker 1>Highways the Motor Vehicles for spend your driver's life for

0:33:38.400 --> 0:33:42.120
<v Speaker 1>period of one year for your first refusal eighteen months.

0:33:42.120 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 1>If you're like this has been previously suspended for refusing,

0:33:44.640 --> 0:33:46.720
<v Speaker 1>it's to make way breath buttter you're in test. You

0:33:46.800 --> 0:33:49.760
<v Speaker 1>understand that's so farfasting now where I'm also going to

0:33:49.840 --> 0:33:53.600
<v Speaker 1>advise you while we're going on video, is um the

0:33:53.840 --> 0:33:58.080
<v Speaker 1>person the other vehicle had passed away to dive so

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:02.360
<v Speaker 1>with you may so be subject to is a blood

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:08.319
<v Speaker 1>draw with or without your consent? So are you willing

0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:12.880
<v Speaker 1>to give me that blood? That? Um, I'm still going

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:16.479
<v Speaker 1>to refust that it be done. Um, that it would

0:34:16.480 --> 0:34:18.640
<v Speaker 1>be without your consent. That I didn't want to have

0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:21.200
<v Speaker 1>to fight it together in that we'd cooperate with that

0:34:21.440 --> 0:34:23.680
<v Speaker 1>at least, even though I understand you're not gonna list

0:34:23.719 --> 0:34:25.400
<v Speaker 1>them do it. I'm not just wanting to help it.

0:34:29.960 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 1>From the moment this happened, did you know your life

0:34:33.000 --> 0:34:36.799
<v Speaker 1>had changed forever? Well? You know it was weird because

0:34:36.800 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I was thinking to myself, Okay, I didn't cause this accident.

0:34:39.520 --> 0:34:42.600
<v Speaker 1>I know I didn't cause it, you know, and once

0:34:42.640 --> 0:34:44.680
<v Speaker 1>all the facts come out, I won't be in any trouble.

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:47.239
<v Speaker 1>And then all of a sudden, I had the d

0:34:47.320 --> 0:34:50.239
<v Speaker 1>u HI cop show up and he gives me the

0:34:50.280 --> 0:34:51.880
<v Speaker 1>d u I test and then he puts the cups

0:34:51.880 --> 0:34:53.279
<v Speaker 1>on me, and I'm like, you know, you can see

0:34:53.280 --> 0:34:55.239
<v Speaker 1>me in the video, go what why? Why are you

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:58.880
<v Speaker 1>trusting me? You know? And that video happened to be

0:34:58.920 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 1>the best piece of evidence that the jury had to

0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:04.360
<v Speaker 1>show that I wasn't It didn't look like And the

0:35:04.400 --> 0:35:07.000
<v Speaker 1>reason why is because that drink in that shot had

0:35:07.040 --> 0:35:10.880
<v Speaker 1>not got into my system to affect me, because it

0:35:10.920 --> 0:35:13.279
<v Speaker 1>takes forty five minutes to an hour for alcohol to

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 1>get into your system to affect you, and realistically medically,

0:35:17.280 --> 0:35:19.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, Without getting into all the detail, I was

0:35:19.280 --> 0:35:21.800
<v Speaker 1>a point four point three at the time of the accident,

0:35:22.320 --> 0:35:25.319
<v Speaker 1>and because they got my blood two hours later, it

0:35:25.440 --> 0:35:28.480
<v Speaker 1>was elevated to a point one too. So long story short,

0:35:28.840 --> 0:35:31.000
<v Speaker 1>we knew we had all of the facts and everything

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:33.319
<v Speaker 1>was in our favor. I was not going to take

0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:35.719
<v Speaker 1>a plea. I was willing to accept the d u

0:35:35.760 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 1>I from day one. Because I was drinking and driving.

0:35:37.960 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I admitted that, but the state attorney was running to

0:35:41.200 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 1>become a judge, and just like the Duke Lacrosse situation,

0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:49.000
<v Speaker 1>this state attorney was using my name to try to

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:51.719
<v Speaker 1>boast her career. And again it was one of those

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:54.719
<v Speaker 1>situations where I went to my attorney and he came

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.640
<v Speaker 1>to me after two and a half years of waiting

0:35:57.680 --> 0:36:00.920
<v Speaker 1>for trial, and said to me, they're throwing all the

0:36:00.960 --> 0:36:03.120
<v Speaker 1>evidence about the other driver out. The jury is not

0:36:03.120 --> 0:36:05.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna hear it. You might want to take a plea.

0:36:05.800 --> 0:36:08.359
<v Speaker 1>And it long story short, it was a ten year plea,

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:12.320
<v Speaker 1>five years no license, a tenure approbation, five years no license,

0:36:12.360 --> 0:36:14.920
<v Speaker 1>felony on my record, all this other stuff that I

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:18.399
<v Speaker 1>didn't do. And I said to my attorney. I went

0:36:18.440 --> 0:36:21.280
<v Speaker 1>out to California and Pastor Rick Warren said a prayer

0:36:21.320 --> 0:36:24.640
<v Speaker 1>over me, and in his prayer, the final words he

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:27.680
<v Speaker 1>said was give Jimmy the strength to see this to

0:36:27.760 --> 0:36:31.239
<v Speaker 1>the very end. And David, my attorney's name was David.

0:36:31.239 --> 0:36:33.200
<v Speaker 1>I said, I will wait and see this to the

0:36:33.320 --> 0:36:35.719
<v Speaker 1>end because I believe that the Lord has taken care

0:36:35.719 --> 0:36:39.440
<v Speaker 1>of me here. And we waited seventeen days of a trial.

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:42.120
<v Speaker 1>The jury took less than thirty minutes to throw the

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.799
<v Speaker 1>d u I. Man sat a trial out and they said,

0:36:44.840 --> 0:36:47.000
<v Speaker 1>even though it was proven that I was a point

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:49.400
<v Speaker 1>zero four at the time of the accident and that

0:36:49.480 --> 0:36:52.080
<v Speaker 1>was under the d u I, that because I admitted

0:36:52.080 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 1>to having a drink in a shot, that they had

0:36:54.920 --> 0:36:56.840
<v Speaker 1>to give me a d u I, you know, just

0:36:56.880 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 1>for the sake of it. Because the case was covered

0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:02.240
<v Speaker 1>on TV by you know, in session TV Court TV.

0:37:02.760 --> 0:37:04.440
<v Speaker 1>So they were like, we can't tell the public it's

0:37:04.440 --> 0:37:06.000
<v Speaker 1>okay to do a drinking a shot and get in

0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:08.239
<v Speaker 1>your car. So I ended up getting a d u I.

0:37:08.800 --> 0:37:11.880
<v Speaker 1>And it was a tough three years. As tough as

0:37:11.920 --> 0:37:13.480
<v Speaker 1>it was on me, this is the other family was

0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:16.319
<v Speaker 1>dealing with the death of a mother of you know,

0:37:16.360 --> 0:37:20.239
<v Speaker 1>two children from two different families, but dealing with you

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:22.680
<v Speaker 1>know what was going to be the finality there. We

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:26.080
<v Speaker 1>were dealing with we couldn't move on with our life either.

0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:30.440
<v Speaker 1>And my three boys didn't have a stable mother that

0:37:30.560 --> 0:37:33.280
<v Speaker 1>was assuring them that, hey, daddy's gonna be okay. Daddy's

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:36.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna be okay. She was telling them, oh, you better

0:37:36.160 --> 0:37:38.720
<v Speaker 1>enjoy the time with your father. He's gonna be away forever.

0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:41.520
<v Speaker 1>And it was just a horrible situation for everybody, and

0:37:41.960 --> 0:37:44.360
<v Speaker 1>certain things that we go through, the pains that we

0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:48.120
<v Speaker 1>go through, you know what, it's painful to talk about,

0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:50.799
<v Speaker 1>but you if you don't share that pain with other

0:37:50.880 --> 0:37:53.719
<v Speaker 1>people to maybe help them get through what they're going through.

0:37:54.200 --> 0:37:55.719
<v Speaker 1>You know, you went through some of your things to it.

0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:58.560
<v Speaker 1>If we don't share that pain, then we're not doing

0:37:58.600 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 1>it for the right reasons. We're not. We can't get

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:04.440
<v Speaker 1>over what happened to us if we don't share that

0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:07.719
<v Speaker 1>with other people and maybe help their pain. And that's

0:38:07.719 --> 0:38:10.120
<v Speaker 1>what we need to continue to do. And that's what

0:38:10.480 --> 0:38:13.200
<v Speaker 1>my podcast Catching Heat is all about. It's all about

0:38:13.560 --> 0:38:17.239
<v Speaker 1>athletes that have success, but they've maybe fallen off the

0:38:17.280 --> 0:38:20.040
<v Speaker 1>case and then come back, whether it was a different

0:38:20.080 --> 0:38:22.680
<v Speaker 1>career or whether it was giving back to charities or

0:38:22.760 --> 0:38:26.120
<v Speaker 1>foundations in their new life. That's what it's all about.

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:29.279
<v Speaker 1>And that's exactly what you're doing also, And like I said,

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:32.760
<v Speaker 1>it's a fellow alum that brings us together. But everything

0:38:32.800 --> 0:38:36.640
<v Speaker 1>that we've gone through, the pain of having the getting

0:38:36.640 --> 0:38:38.920
<v Speaker 1>the highs of the highs of being a professional athlete,

0:38:39.160 --> 0:38:42.759
<v Speaker 1>but hitting some lows because of situations, our situations, but

0:38:42.840 --> 0:38:45.400
<v Speaker 1>being able to bounce back from that, knowing that we

0:38:45.480 --> 0:38:47.400
<v Speaker 1>have the strength to do that. That's why you and

0:38:47.440 --> 0:38:49.719
<v Speaker 1>I are sitting here today, and we're able to help

0:38:49.920 --> 0:38:52.080
<v Speaker 1>maybe other people with some of the pain that we've

0:38:52.080 --> 0:39:03.120
<v Speaker 1>been through no remembered. Nearly three years since the tragic

0:39:03.239 --> 0:39:05.880
<v Speaker 1>night of the crash, a jury handed down their decision

0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:09.680
<v Speaker 1>on the case against Jim lay Ritz. Jim's blood alcohol

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:12.840
<v Speaker 1>level was point zero four, which is below the legal limit,

0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:15.960
<v Speaker 1>at the moment of the accident. Three hours later, when

0:39:15.960 --> 0:39:18.920
<v Speaker 1>the blood was drawn, his blood alcohol level was point

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:22.960
<v Speaker 1>one four. Testimony around the central accusation of the case,

0:39:23.520 --> 0:39:25.600
<v Speaker 1>that he ran a red light before colliding with the

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:30.799
<v Speaker 1>other vehicle, was inconclusive. A jury acquitted Jim of DUI manslaughter.

0:39:31.280 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 1>If charged, he would have faced up to fifteen years

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:38.080
<v Speaker 1>in prison. He was convicted of misdemeanor d u I instead,

0:39:38.160 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 1>which carries a maximum of six months. Earlier that year,

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:44.560
<v Speaker 1>Jim had already settled a wrongful death suit in the

0:39:44.600 --> 0:39:47.080
<v Speaker 1>same case, agreeing to pay three d and fifty thousand

0:39:47.160 --> 0:39:51.160
<v Speaker 1>dollars in insurance and personal funds. Whoever was to blame.

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:58.240
<v Speaker 1>A young woman lost her life here that time between

0:39:58.280 --> 0:40:01.680
<v Speaker 1>your accident and your event short trial was like two

0:40:01.680 --> 0:40:05.760
<v Speaker 1>and a half years. What were the darkest moments for you?

0:40:05.760 --> 0:40:09.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, were there times that you just you thought

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:10.960
<v Speaker 1>you were at your width in I mean, I'm only

0:40:11.000 --> 0:40:14.400
<v Speaker 1>asking because you know you're probably somebody out there struggling

0:40:14.440 --> 0:40:17.800
<v Speaker 1>like this. Having three kids aged two, seven, and nine

0:40:19.040 --> 0:40:21.040
<v Speaker 1>was a savior for me, besides reading the book The

0:40:21.040 --> 0:40:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Purpose Driven Life and realizing sometimes we go through tough

0:40:23.680 --> 0:40:26.400
<v Speaker 1>situations that make us stronger, uh, and there's a purpose

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:30.279
<v Speaker 1>for it. Um. But those three kids, you know, and

0:40:30.400 --> 0:40:33.719
<v Speaker 1>not having a stable mother, someone who I could say, well,

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:35.640
<v Speaker 1>if I go through my stuff, at least they have

0:40:35.640 --> 0:40:37.279
<v Speaker 1>a stable mom to take care of them and they'll

0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:39.920
<v Speaker 1>be okay. They weren't gonna be okay if I wasn't.

0:40:40.480 --> 0:40:44.160
<v Speaker 1>And it was a situation that I knew that even

0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:46.080
<v Speaker 1>though I shouldn't have been drinking and driving, that was

0:40:46.120 --> 0:40:48.560
<v Speaker 1>a mistake I made that all the other stuff that

0:40:48.600 --> 0:40:51.320
<v Speaker 1>I was being you know, accused of and and claimed

0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:55.800
<v Speaker 1>on that I needed to be strong and beat those accusations.

0:40:56.080 --> 0:40:58.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, I went through a domestic violence situation and

0:40:58.360 --> 0:41:01.640
<v Speaker 1>during that time with my ex wife who falsely accused me,

0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:04.640
<v Speaker 1>and I proved that in court eventually, but the damage

0:41:04.680 --> 0:41:07.520
<v Speaker 1>was already done. You know, the damage was done because

0:41:08.080 --> 0:41:10.120
<v Speaker 1>here was this Jim light Ritz going through this d

0:41:10.239 --> 0:41:14.280
<v Speaker 1>UI manslaughter, trunk murderer, and then all of a sudden,

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:18.520
<v Speaker 1>now add on wife beater. That's probably the twelve days

0:41:18.560 --> 0:41:21.560
<v Speaker 1>I sat in jail because I was having my rebirth

0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:24.120
<v Speaker 1>with God. I was trusting in the Lord. I was

0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:27.080
<v Speaker 1>trusting that he had me, and then all of a sudden,

0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:29.480
<v Speaker 1>this thing with my ex wife happens, and I'm sitting

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:32.000
<v Speaker 1>in jail, going God, you know that I didn't see her,

0:41:32.040 --> 0:41:35.440
<v Speaker 1>I didn't touch her, I didn't do this. Why am

0:41:35.480 --> 0:41:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I going through this? And why why is this happening

0:41:39.440 --> 0:41:42.040
<v Speaker 1>to me? And it was interesting Rex. I was handed

0:41:42.080 --> 0:41:43.879
<v Speaker 1>a Bible in jail, which most of the time that's

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:45.960
<v Speaker 1>what they give you. It's either you can read, and

0:41:45.960 --> 0:41:48.800
<v Speaker 1>I was. I was reading in Psalms, and it spoke

0:41:48.880 --> 0:41:53.360
<v Speaker 1>to me that says, remember this is temporary. This is

0:41:53.360 --> 0:41:55.920
<v Speaker 1>not a permanent situation. And at the time I had

0:41:55.920 --> 0:41:59.200
<v Speaker 1>a brother in law who was going through lou Garreg's disease.

0:42:00.040 --> 0:42:04.160
<v Speaker 1>In his situation was permanent, it wasn't gonna get better.

0:42:04.800 --> 0:42:07.880
<v Speaker 1>And it really gave me the strength to say Okay,

0:42:08.000 --> 0:42:10.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna fight this. I'm going to prove to my

0:42:10.840 --> 0:42:13.239
<v Speaker 1>the court, to the public that I didn't even see

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:14.799
<v Speaker 1>my wife, that I did I didn't touch her, that

0:42:14.880 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 1>she's kind of sick, and that she's making this stuff

0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:19.840
<v Speaker 1>because she's trying to get back at me. And it

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:23.400
<v Speaker 1>took a while, but man, it was difficult, and there

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:25.440
<v Speaker 1>were times that I had to be strong for the

0:42:25.440 --> 0:42:28.160
<v Speaker 1>boys during the day, but then I would go out

0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:30.440
<v Speaker 1>at night in my backyard and I would just break down.

0:42:30.880 --> 0:42:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I would cry, I would pray, I would just say,

0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:35.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, God, you know, just give me. And it

0:42:35.800 --> 0:42:39.720
<v Speaker 1>was it was hard. You know, you're sentencing Jim, which

0:42:39.880 --> 0:42:42.200
<v Speaker 1>was probation and a fine. You said in part that

0:42:42.239 --> 0:42:44.360
<v Speaker 1>you were going to commit your life to changing lives

0:42:44.840 --> 0:42:47.799
<v Speaker 1>and making a difference so this woman's death would not

0:42:47.880 --> 0:42:50.960
<v Speaker 1>be in vain. Why did you say that? Just because,

0:42:51.000 --> 0:42:53.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was a situation where I knew, even

0:42:53.280 --> 0:42:56.280
<v Speaker 1>though she was at fault, I was guilty of drinking

0:42:56.280 --> 0:42:59.479
<v Speaker 1>and driving two I was doing the wrong too, and

0:42:59.840 --> 0:43:03.080
<v Speaker 1>being in the wrong. Sometimes you want to take a

0:43:03.160 --> 0:43:07.560
<v Speaker 1>negative and turn that into a positive. And unfortunately she

0:43:07.680 --> 0:43:10.800
<v Speaker 1>did pass away. She wasn't gonna have an opportunity to

0:43:11.600 --> 0:43:14.319
<v Speaker 1>make right what she did wrong that night, And I

0:43:14.360 --> 0:43:17.759
<v Speaker 1>felt like it was my obligation because Number One, God

0:43:17.800 --> 0:43:20.920
<v Speaker 1>gave me that platform from being that professional athlete, gave

0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:25.239
<v Speaker 1>me that platform to be able to have the opportunity

0:43:25.360 --> 0:43:27.360
<v Speaker 1>even though it's gonna be difficult because I was the

0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:30.439
<v Speaker 1>pride in the beginning, But I felt like I owed

0:43:30.480 --> 0:43:34.839
<v Speaker 1>an obligation to her to be able to change and

0:43:34.880 --> 0:43:38.960
<v Speaker 1>make sure maybe our children, maybe her children, and maybe

0:43:38.960 --> 0:43:42.719
<v Speaker 1>the people around us made better decisions when it came

0:43:42.719 --> 0:43:45.719
<v Speaker 1>to drinking and driving, when it came to wearing a seatbelt,

0:43:46.160 --> 0:43:48.880
<v Speaker 1>because those are the things that caused all of the

0:43:48.960 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 1>heartbreak that night, and how easily they could have been

0:43:53.239 --> 0:43:56.959
<v Speaker 1>avoided had both of us made different decisions. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>the most important thing. That we try to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that other people are learning and listening. And if one

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<v Speaker 1>person puts a seatboat on, if one person doesn't take

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<v Speaker 1>a drink and drive, then I feel like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>They've got my point and I've done something positive out

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<v Speaker 1>of something that was so tragic and so negative. Beautiful. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>when you look back at your career as a baseball player,

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<v Speaker 1>in your life since that tragic day on your forty

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<v Speaker 1>four birthday. What sticks with you the most? Jim. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>People always ask me would you change anything about your life?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, I would not change anything but that night,

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<v Speaker 1>that one night, because it's unfortunate that she lost her life.

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<v Speaker 1>And at the same time, that night is what's brought

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<v Speaker 1>me to where I am. And again, something so tragic,

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<v Speaker 1>something that was so difficult to get through um has

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<v Speaker 1>made me into the person I am today. And I

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<v Speaker 1>would not change anything but her death. When you're involved

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<v Speaker 1>in something like that, you never lose that night, you

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<v Speaker 1>never get rid of it, but you learn how to

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<v Speaker 1>cope with it, and you learn that you can take

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<v Speaker 1>that pain, You can take that situation and help other

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<v Speaker 1>people not make the same mistakes or get draw strength

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<v Speaker 1>from what you went through. And if you don't take

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<v Speaker 1>that opportunity, you know, shame on you. What are you

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<v Speaker 1>doing today with your life, man, charitable work and podcast

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<v Speaker 1>catching heat with Jim Layer. It's as you mentioned earlier,

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<v Speaker 1>Just give me a brief look at what you're doing now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I do title insurance is my main business.

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<v Speaker 1>I would do commercial and residential title out here in

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<v Speaker 1>California and New York, but I've been part of a

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<v Speaker 1>charity in New York called Pink Tie for the last

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<v Speaker 1>six years that raises money in for different charities and foundations.

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<v Speaker 1>I always work with a L S Foundations because of

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<v Speaker 1>my brother in law Uh and then, of course uh

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<v Speaker 1>Stork Media came to me just about six months ago

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<v Speaker 1>and said, hey, we're starting a new podcast. We want

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<v Speaker 1>to have a sports person to a podcast. What would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to do because we want you to do

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. And I said, okay, I'll do a sports

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<v Speaker 1>related or celebrity related podcast, but it's not gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>a daily thing. I want to do once a week,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to do a story on guys who

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<v Speaker 1>have been through some hard times, or guys that have

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<v Speaker 1>used their platform, from their playing days, from their music days,

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<v Speaker 1>from whatever that might be, to turn around and do

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<v Speaker 1>something else that is positive and doing something for other people.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to I want to do more stories

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<v Speaker 1>on that, because there's enough negativity in this world. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think there's enough people doing the positive things being

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<v Speaker 1>able to show, Hey, did you know that Darryl Strawberry,

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<v Speaker 1>besides being an addict and being kicked out of baseball,

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<v Speaker 1>has now changed his life and become a pastor and

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<v Speaker 1>is preaching the gospel and bringing people to God that

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<v Speaker 1>he's opening up rehab centers all around the United States.

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<v Speaker 1>The New York Post, the Daily News, the mainstream media

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't really care about you once you've left the lionelight.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, the things that he's doing now

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<v Speaker 1>is so much more important than any home run or

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<v Speaker 1>any World Series or anything that you did on a

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<v Speaker 1>basketball court. The things that you're doing now are so

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<v Speaker 1>much more important and should be highlighted because you are

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<v Speaker 1>out there helping people, changing lives. And that's the biggest

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<v Speaker 1>gift that God can give all of us. And something

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<v Speaker 1>I say on this pod all the time is you're

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<v Speaker 1>never as bad as your worst moment if you learn

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<v Speaker 1>from it work to improve yourself. You seem like that

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<v Speaker 1>exact model, the exact model of that mantra. Man, what

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<v Speaker 1>do you want people to remember about you? And what

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<v Speaker 1>do you want people to learn from you and your journey?

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<v Speaker 1>I think the most important thing is I never settled

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<v Speaker 1>for the less than the truth. You know, um, I

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<v Speaker 1>never gave up. I was never drafted, but yet I

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<v Speaker 1>was able to turn it into a big league career.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a moment that every kid would dream about in

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<v Speaker 1>the World Series, a couple of them, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>but I also that was my baseball legacy, and I

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<v Speaker 1>always talked about it in my speaking engagement. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to also leave a life legacy for my kids, for

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<v Speaker 1>other people. And you know what, this situation I went through,

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<v Speaker 1>it really made me reboot my entire life. And we

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<v Speaker 1>always said the same thing, Rex, as a professional athlete,

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<v Speaker 1>it's only one third of our life. We've got two

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<v Speaker 1>thirds that we live afterwards that we don't think about

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<v Speaker 1>when we're playing. But man, when you have a setback,

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<v Speaker 1>when you have something like that happened, you know, Pastor,

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<v Speaker 1>my pastor always says, you know your setback is setting

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<v Speaker 1>you up for your best comeback. Well, that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>how I looked at this situation. Was my comeback was

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<v Speaker 1>even greater from a personal legacy, to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>leave my children. That says God is your center point,

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<v Speaker 1>that God is your is your savior, that you can

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<v Speaker 1>get through all things with his strength and with his thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what, it's not gonna all be good.

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<v Speaker 1>You're still gonna have problems, You're still gonna go through heartaches.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, if you keep God as your

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<v Speaker 1>center point, you'll be able to get through them. And

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<v Speaker 1>as long as you have a breath, you can help

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<v Speaker 1>other people. Jim Brother, thank you so much. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>thank you enough for doing this really and you let

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<v Speaker 1>me know if I can ever do anything for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate day man. Thank you for having me. And

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