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Speaker 1: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna get a little bit chill today. Okay, let's do

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Speaker 1: the awkward Tuesday island style. So I like that wherever

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Speaker 1: you are right now, picture yourself with palm trees all around.

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Speaker 1: You're holding it, a coconut drink in your hand. Sitting

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Speaker 1: right next to you in a reclined beach chair is

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Speaker 1: a dude that you've been having a slowly deteriorating relationship.

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Speaker 1: I am reading my book on Kindle right now, you shure,

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Speaker 1: isn't travel nice. Now that we're in the right headspace

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Speaker 1: for this, let's talk with one of our listeners, Steph,

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Speaker 1: who's a little bit worried about the status of her

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Speaker 1: relationship right now. Step Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, good morning.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't sound like your ViBe's very chill right now, Steph.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm trying to imagine the palm trees and

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Speaker 2: the cannot yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sit down the rest of that my tie. And then

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Speaker 1: tell us about the guy that you're seeing right now.

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Speaker 1: What's his name?

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Speaker 4: Grady?

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Speaker 3: Grady?

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Speaker 1: Grady?

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Speaker 3: Okay, and he's a boyfriend or.

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Speaker 2: What, well, we've been dating for like around six months, okay,

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Speaker 2: and and the overall it's been really good for me.

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Speaker 2: We have a lot of fun when we hang out.

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Speaker 2: We go on dates and trips and no trips already

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Speaker 2: this weekend trip, not trips around the world or anything. Okay.

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Speaker 1: Some guys are more bold like that, they'll go on

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Speaker 1: quick trips if any girls want to go on a trip.

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Speaker 4: I mean, the six month point for me in relationships

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Speaker 4: was always the point where I'm like, did we want

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Speaker 4: to do this still?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, It's like a real big defining moment. I

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Speaker 3: feel like it six month before that, right, Okay, it's

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Speaker 3: like every like three months, six months, and I'm it's

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Speaker 3: a reevaluating period.

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Speaker 1: So where are you at with your relationship stuff?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so, like eighty percent of the relationship is great,

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Speaker 2: but twenty percent is a little frustrating because it seems

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Speaker 2: like he's hiding me with my friend. When I have something,

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Speaker 2: you know, to do, and I invite him, he always

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Speaker 2: seems to be busy or have some excuse.

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Speaker 3: Wait, he doesn't want to hang out with your friends,

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Speaker 3: is what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he hasn't said that directly, but it's implied

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Speaker 2: when he seems to be busy every single time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's implied when somebody comes to their door and

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Speaker 1: he tosses a blanket over her head in the closet.

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Speaker 2: With his friend, he'll say, well, I'm going out da

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Speaker 2: da da, And I'll say, oh, that sounds like well,

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Speaker 2: and I want to come, but he doesn't. But then

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Speaker 2: he'll make excuses why it's a guy's night, or you

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Speaker 2: won't you won't have a good time, or have you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, but.

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Speaker 4: I also know people like I have a good friend

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Speaker 4: who literally didn't introduce me to his now husband.

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Speaker 3: For like two years. Yes, he was like, it's not ready,

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Speaker 3: We're not ready. We're not ready, We're not ready.

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Speaker 1: They're married.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was a bad step.

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Speaker 4: For him to do that, where for other people it's,

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Speaker 4: you know, not that big of a deal.

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Speaker 3: So maybe he's just coming from that standpoint.

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Speaker 2: Possibly, you know, which is why I like, I'm calling

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Speaker 2: you guys for and I'm not. And I didn't break

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Speaker 2: up with him yet or anything. But go back to

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Speaker 2: the family and the friends. So he met my mom

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Speaker 2: and my older sister wasn't planned, you know, it was

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Speaker 2: almost like he came over and they happened to be there. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm just starting to wonder what's going on. You know,

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's another girl.

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Speaker 4: Making some big assumptions like how did it go when

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Speaker 4: he met your mom and your sister?

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Speaker 3: What was that experience?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: I mean he was respectful, he was friendly, but it

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Speaker 2: wasn't like over the top perfect meeting. You know, it

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Speaker 2: wasn't your ideal first meeting kind of Huh. I'm just

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Speaker 2: so confused. It feels like maybe I don't know, could

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Speaker 2: he be ashamed of me?

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Speaker 1: Or would you consider yourself like a fun person to

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: What is she boring? You know, like some people they

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Speaker 1: it's not quite as good of a time. You don't

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Speaker 3: Then if they they are fun to hang out with, they're.

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Speaker 1: Good for like but in a public setting. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know, what what do you think? What do you

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Speaker 4: She's like everything under the sun, right, Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 4: she's named everything from he's ashamed of her, he's dating

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Speaker 1: But the most important thing here is how it makes.

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Speaker 5: You feel exactly?

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Speaker 3: Have you told him how you feel?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 2: I try to start conversations about it, but I don't

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Speaker 2: want to attack him, you know what I mean. There's

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Speaker 4: Line, So you think ambushing him on a radio shows

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Speaker 4: you don't want.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I assume that's who we're calling.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Well, I'm calling because I want you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm hoping you guys could help me in terms of

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Speaker 2: telling me what I should say to him.

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Speaker 1: You can start with hello, That's a good way to

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Speaker 1: start it, and then we'll have to think of more

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Speaker 1: after there. Well, that's getting pretty complicated.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if.

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Speaker 1: I know Brooke is thinking that six months and not

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Speaker 1: introducing you to people is not really a red flag,

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Speaker 1: But for some people today, I think I think it's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it could be either way. I mean,

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Speaker 3: it could be anything at this point, right.

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Speaker 1: It could be successful.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it could be something where he is just not

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Speaker 4: ready for that move in the relationship.

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Speaker 1: Or it could be that all of your fears are

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Speaker 1: true and he's absolutely ashamed.

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Speaker 3: And yes, I'm saying that the options are open.

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Speaker 2: I know I use the order and I have good.

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Speaker 1: Well, either way. We're going to try and have a

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Speaker 1: healthy conversation about this. When we play a song, we'll

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Speaker 1: come back give you a little bit of advice, and

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Speaker 1: then we'll call your boyfriend for you, and then we'll

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Speaker 1: let you make your awkward Tuesday phone call. Okay, step

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Speaker 1: must you know, semi healthy conversations the best we can

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Speaker 1: do here. We'll do it next. It's awkward. It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We don't like to believe it,

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Speaker 1: but it does happen. Some guys are just shady and

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Speaker 1: they'll go out of their way to hide a girl

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Speaker 1: from their friends and family so they won't find out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'll be honest. I do it with this show. I

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Speaker 1: don't tell my family that I work with you guys.

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Speaker 1: They think I'm on a different, much more successful radio stasi.

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Speaker 1: Trust trust me. It's just easier that way. That way,

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Speaker 1: you're happy. You guys are happy, We're all happy.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: It's about me and my family. Well, one of our listeners, Steph,

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Speaker 1: is worried because her boyfriend of six months is kind

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Speaker 1: of hiding her away. That's how she feels, and she

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Speaker 1: wants to know is that really what's happening or why

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Speaker 1: is it happening?

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Speaker 6: Steph?

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Speaker 1: How you feeling before we do this call?

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Speaker 2: I don't feel great about that aspect of our relationship.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 4: At first, I was like, you should just ask him why,

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Speaker 4: you know, that's all you need to find out.

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Speaker 3: But then if he is secretly hiding you away, is

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Speaker 3: he going to give you a straight answer? You know, right?

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Speaker 4: So if you want to hear the answer, I mean,

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Speaker 4: I still think you should ask why, but I think

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Speaker 4: you just need to be really careful. If he starts

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Speaker 4: to direct you in other ways and not answer the question,

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Speaker 4: you need to bring him back.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: How do your friends feel about that? Do they feel

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Speaker 1: like they're being hidden away?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 2: I showed them a picture of him, and they said

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Speaker 2: he was cute, But they also kind of said that

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Speaker 2: they think I'm out of his league.

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Speaker 4: Oh you're better than him, right, not that you're yeah okay,

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Speaker 4: oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: The other way true friends would say that to each other.

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Speaker 1: Let's just do this. We are your friends here, Steph.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna dial your boyfriend's number and we'll jump

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Speaker 5: Luck Hello, hey Dade, how are you?

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Speaker 6: Uh steph? Yeah, it said number blocks? Is everything okay

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Speaker 6: with your phone?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't paying attention or anything.

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Speaker 6: I think it's okay.

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Speaker 2: How are you doing?

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Speaker 6: Ah? Pretty good, pretty good? Just uh same old. How

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Speaker 2: Oh good? Are you still hanging out with your friend

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Speaker 2: Adam this Friday?

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Speaker 6: Why?

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Speaker 5: Well, free this Friday?

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Speaker 2: It would be cool if I could come with you

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Speaker 2: and hang out with you guys.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, almost any other night that'd be cool. But it's

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Speaker 6: like his birthday and it's just going to be about

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Speaker 6: to dude, but definitely another night.

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Speaker 2: Well what about tonight?

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Speaker 6: Oh well, tonight's my night with you? So you need time.

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Speaker 2: Thinking back on the last few months. It's always just

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 2: Okay. No, I mean I've never really met any of

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Speaker 6: Well, I've discussed you with that and next year they're

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Speaker 6: having a big anniversary party, so we might want to

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Speaker 6: go next year. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, it really feels like you're trying to keep me

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Speaker 2: away from your friends and family, like I'm just a

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Speaker 2: booty call.

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Speaker 6: Come on, Dave, Like, no, come on.

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Speaker 2: I'm serious, I'm like your backstairs girl or something.

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Speaker 6: You know. I don't want to give you a key

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Speaker 6: to my place. It's because my ex list in the

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Speaker 6: building and I wanted to freak out. So it's just

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Speaker 6: it's just say for to light in the backstairs.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, at this point, who cares If she sees me.

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Speaker 2: We've been together for half a year, she's gonna find out.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I just don't want to rough on each other's

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Speaker 6: you know, we're like, we're chilled, you know, like no problems,

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Speaker 6: everything's cool.

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Speaker 2: Well all I'm telling you we're not chill.

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Speaker 6: Why not?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, guys, are you are you all hearing

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Speaker 2: this right? It is not cool.

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Speaker 1: It's not chill.

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Can someone hit the sound effect?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm going to use me.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell a click because what happening right now?

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Speaker 3: Tell us he sneaks you in the back staircase.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Grady, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: You're on the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning.

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Speaker 6: And we're her friends and we're not scared to tell

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Speaker 6: everyone she's our friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're we're doing something with you called an awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call right now, Steph reached out because she's

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Speaker 1: feeling a little frustrated with how your relationship is going,

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Speaker 1: and she's looking for a little bit of clarity because

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Speaker 1: she feels like you've been hiding her. Obviously you have.

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Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, maybe he's just not ready for

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Speaker 3: that step in the relationship.

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Speaker 4: Dude, mask too, why do you care if your ex

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Speaker 4: knows that you're dating her?

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Speaker 6: Okay, well, if we're really going to do this and

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Speaker 6: be honest, I'm not sure yet about our relationship. I'm not.

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Speaker 6: I'm not. I sometimes feel like I'm kind of out

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Speaker 6: of her leak out.

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Speaker 3: I don't think we need to react. This feels like

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Speaker 3: a cover up.

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Speaker 2: No, quite interesting because I've literally shown your picture to

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Speaker 2: my friends and they all say, I'm out of your lea.

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Speaker 3: Are you too actually arguing over who's out of whose league?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I mean it's true. Like I talk to some of

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Speaker 6: my bodies too, and they're like, yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 1: Why Grady, We're just listening to what you're saying, and

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Speaker 1: it sounds like you're just looking for somebody else to

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Speaker 1: be your front stairs girl, while Steph is the backstairs,

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Speaker 1: can not use the stairs really Okay, maybe have an

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Speaker 1: elevator in your building and that's where you take the

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Speaker 1: front stairs.

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Speaker 2: Oh maybe we need to use the stairs to get

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Speaker 2: through to him here.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, I get, but it's all true. Like

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Speaker 6: I said, I mean, I like, I don't know. Maybe

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Speaker 6: just just clean up a little bit more and maybe

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Speaker 6: things will be fined.

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Speaker 2: Clean up a little What does that mean, Gret?

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Speaker 6: Great?

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Speaker 3: Why are you dating her for six months?

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Speaker 6: You know what? That's a good question. Why have I

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Speaker 6: been dating her for six months?

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Speaker 1: It's probably a question you should have ask five months ago.

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Speaker 1: I got to this point.

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Speaker 4: It's like, if you're so attractive and you can have

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Speaker 4: any woman you want, thank you?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, jeez, I guess we'll just start going to a

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Speaker 6: few more events and stuff and like hanging out and

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Speaker 6: seeing who I can talk to and stuff.

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Speaker 1: I don't think opportunity.

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Speaker 2: He jumps ship pretty quickly, don't you guys?

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Speaker 6: I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you guys had a ship.

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Speaker 4: I think it's a small rowboat.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a raft. That was like, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know, it sounds hot, I mean from stairs to raft?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, step, how are you feeling about all this?

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Speaker 2: Obviously I should have said something before, because he doesn't

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Speaker 2: seem like he's in this to win this with me.

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Speaker 2: And I know I'm a catch, you know, and he

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Speaker 2: can think he's a catch whatever, But plenty of other

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Speaker 2: fish in the sea where the raft is.

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Speaker 3: You're not. You're not super sad to lose him.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like, well I am, but like I wasn't

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Speaker 2: feeling great about the whole thing, and you want to

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Speaker 2: be with someone to feel great, not to feel bad.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's if you want to wait till next year.

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Speaker 6: Like I said, there is the anniversary party, if you

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Speaker 6: just patient and maybe, like you said, clean up a

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Speaker 6: little bit more. I don't know, maybe some highlights or something.

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Speaker 6: Just just leave it.

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Speaker 1: Man, at this point, hearing what we're hearing stuff, you

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Speaker 1: need to break up with him right now, don't you.

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Speaker 3: Sare be a backstairwell, bad news for you.

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Speaker 1: No one should ever talk to you like that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Just let him go. Yeah right now. I don't wait

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Speaker 1: to think about it. I would just do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, listen, that's it.

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Speaker 2: You said you you just said you didn't like my

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Speaker 2: hair or whatever.

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Speaker 6: I highlights, you.

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Speaker 3: Know what, Okay, come in with.

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Speaker 2: That.

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Speaker 3: We'll go over that response off the air. You know.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I think it's over.

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Speaker 1: And if you need a hug, feel free to come

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Speaker 1: to the station.

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Speaker 2: Nah, I'm gonna go clean myself up quote unquote and

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Speaker 2: get out to the club tonight.

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Speaker 6: Yay, Okay, after you're done, i'll meet you at the

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Speaker 6: backstairs at eleven.

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Speaker 2: Look at the ego on this guy.

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Speaker 3: Say no

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Speaker 1: Rooking Jeffrey in the morning.