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Speaker 1: out Before we do that, though, Natalie, what's up? Why

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Speaker 2: So he's been going.

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Speaker 3: To these weekly therapy sessions on Tuesday nights, and at

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Speaker 4: It's kind of been different. He's been coming.

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Speaker 4: Different after talking to her.

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Speaker 3: And I noticed last week he changed the password on

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Speaker 4: A different thing.

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Speaker 3: And I asked him about it and he's like, well, therapy,

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Speaker 1: He's in private see and boundaries and I want to.

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Speaker 3: Believe them, but like, I don't know, it just doesn't

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Speaker 2: It, like we'd of weird vibe from all of this.

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Speaker 1: Are you thinking that he has something going on with

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Speaker 4: No, I think it's the therapist. I think he's mentioned

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't think the way he talks about therapy

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Speaker 4: And then all of a sudden he.

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Speaker 3: Just stopped like talking about her, and so I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: We'll see if we can figure it out for you.

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Speaker 1: You already told us what grocery store he's a rewards

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Speaker 1: Ryan in the middle left to catch a cheater and

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Speaker 1: But before we do that, Natalie, why don't you break

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Speaker 3: He's been going to therapy every Tuesday night, and it's

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Speaker 4: He talks about like I don't know she was saying.

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Speaker 3: He was saying, like, oh, she really understands me, and

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Speaker 3: I know he just talked about her and he's really specific,

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Speaker 1: And you think that it's a therapist that he's cheating with, Well,

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Speaker 3: I thought like Oh my god, this therapist is trying

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Speaker 2: You know, there's the therapist.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Okay, number right now. Hello, Hi man, speak to Eric.

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Speaker 1: Please Hi Eric, Please don't hang up. This is not

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Speaker 2: You're welcome. What does this means?

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Speaker 1: One, absolutely free. I will not ask you for any

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Speaker 1: If you already know who you want to send them to.

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Speaker 1: I can also set up a time to call you back,

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Speaker 2: No, no, I think anyone wants one too.

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Speaker 2: If you can send them to Melissa.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmmm hm Melissa. Okay, Melissa, got that? All right? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can do that. Is there anything that you want

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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for helping me feel seen in ways

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Speaker 2: I never had before.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you for helping me you feel seen any

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Speaker 2: That I think about Tuesday constantly.

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Speaker 1: I think about Tuesday constantly? Got it all right? Got that?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Eric. And at this point I'll let you

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Speaker 1: The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Mina Hi and Victoria and my name is Jewell.

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Speaker 2: How are you wait?

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Speaker 1: other might be messing around, you see how they send

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Speaker 2: Yeah wait what Natalie?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here. They're here.

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Speaker 2: What's going on? Are you gonna tell her?

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Speaker 2: What do you think I'm shooting?

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Speaker 5: Yes, you're sending flowers to your therapist.

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Speaker 2: Well, Bettie, look, I'm gonna have to draw a boundary

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, no, no your therapy speak.

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Speaker 3: No, No, explain the card.

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Speaker 6: You spent all you spent all last week telling me

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Speaker 6: And I'm like, what.

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Speaker 1: The hell is this?

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Speaker 2: Who talks like that?

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Speaker 5: Explain the card?

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Speaker 2: You will explain it. She's been helping me through a lot.

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Speaker 5: Why do you think about Tuesday constantly?

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Speaker 3: Why would you be thinking about therapy constantly.

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Speaker 2: Because it's important to me and she's holding space for me. Flowers,

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Speaker 2: it's just appreciation.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I've been in therapy most of

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Speaker 1: I think they can't receive it right.

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Speaker 6: No, No, appreciation would be Hey, thanks for your hope.

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Speaker 3: That's it.

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Speaker 6: What do you think about Tuesday constantly?

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Speaker 3: What happens on Tuesday that makes you think about it constantly?

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Speaker 2: That wouldn't answer the question. We've got answers.

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Speaker 1: What did you say there?

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Speaker 2: Eric, We've gotten close?

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Speaker 1: You've gotten close close?

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Speaker 6: Wow?

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Speaker 2: I didn't mean for to happen that.

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Speaker 6: It's really about? Is that why you said you didn't

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Speaker 6: mean so much of you? Did you sleep with her?

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Speaker 4: Did you you slept with her?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: You with her?

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Speaker 1: WHOA?

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Speaker 2: What you're it just happened for one session?

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Speaker 1: In the sessions, think.

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Speaker 5: About Tuesday constantly?

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Speaker 6: You're thinking about being with her.

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Speaker 4: Unbelievable.

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Speaker 6: I'm about to draw boundaries around our place with all of.

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Speaker 2: Your kick it up. I'm not holding space for you.

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Speaker 5: What wanted triggered? I'll show you triggered. Your stuff is

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Speaker 5: on the street. You're done you're done. You're done, We're.

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Speaker 1: Done, Natalie, I just hung up on him. Wow. So sorry,

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Speaker 1: sorry about that. That is terrible.

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Speaker 5: Yes, but I mean I knew it though, Like I

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys for helping.

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Speaker 4: Me figure this all out. I'm gonna go. I mean,

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Speaker 4: I don't know how this works, like about.

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Speaker 3: Her license and all, and like malpractice and whatever, but

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Speaker 3: I feel like people she works with need to know

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Speaker 2: I mean, you're not supposed to do this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And also like it's not like he's so charming she

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Speaker 2: It's not like, you know, like.

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Speaker 6: He's not like a wizard in that regard, like you

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Speaker 6: know what I mean, that's why this is so messed up.

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Speaker 2: Like he's fine, but he's no pride.

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Speaker 1: It's not like I don't know, Natalie,