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Speaker 1: First Date of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Josh is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named

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Speaker 2: Meredith that he recently went on a date with. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna call her pretty soon and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him. But first, Josh, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Meredith?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the It's been about a week.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that's usually a sign. So how did you

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Speaker 4: meet Meredith? Can you tell us about the date?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, we met at a club.

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Speaker 3: She was with her friends and I saw her coming

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Speaker 3: off the dance floor and I just knew I wanted

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Speaker 3: to talk to her. You know, Yeah, she was just

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Speaker 3: you know, she was absolutely gorgeous, and you know, she

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Speaker 3: was with some of her friends. I was with some

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Speaker 3: of my friends and we ended up just sitting at

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Speaker 3: the bar and talking all night.

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Speaker 6: It was great.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's cool. Okay, So was that the date?

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Speaker 3: And no, I mean we actually, you know, we we

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Speaker 3: were my friends left and we were leaving the club

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Speaker 3: and she said she lived close by, so you know,

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Speaker 3: I actually I went home with her and we had

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Speaker 3: a super great night.

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Speaker 1: Oh so that.

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Speaker 7: So did you guys like hook up what? I don't

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Speaker 7: know what base did you get to?

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Speaker 3: It's funny, Yeah, I mean we you know, we we did.

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Speaker 3: We were we were kissing and and it just it

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Speaker 3: just happened and it was just a great night.

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Speaker 2: Okay, obvious you don't want to spill too many of

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Speaker 2: the deeps, which is respectable.

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Speaker 7: But could that have been all she was looking for,

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Speaker 7: just like a quick hookup?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I I hope not. You know, I thought

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Speaker 3: we had a really good connection.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 3: I mean she was, you know, obviously gorgeous, like model hot,

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Speaker 3: and I just thought we had a great conversation, and

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Speaker 3: you know, she was one of those people that kind

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Speaker 3: of knows everything about everything, and that just you know,

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Speaker 3: kind of turned me on even more.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, all right, So why why do you

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Speaker 2: think she might be ghosting it?

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Speaker 3: Then? You know, honestly, I think it might be because

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Speaker 3: we slept together so quickly, you know, and maybe she

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Speaker 3: did just want a one night stand and that was it.

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Speaker 3: You know, I've had a few of those, and they

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Speaker 3: are what they are, but she was just more than.

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Speaker 1: That to me.

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Speaker 3: So I don't like that I'm getting ghosted.

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Speaker 4: Did you feel like she was into it too? Like,

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Speaker 4: was there ever a moment where you started to feel

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't think so. I thought we had

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Speaker 3: a great night, you know, And I think the fact

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Speaker 2: Going well, and maybe she thought you were only interested

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Speaker 2: in one. I assume maybe it just wasn't good. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: First time you're always on there to the people, so

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Speaker 4: it's not it's got a testament to yourself usually not

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Speaker 3: Right, I'm obviously hoping it's not that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, could it be?

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Speaker 2: That's why I know how much no matter how long

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Speaker 2: I'm with someone, I was like, let's pretend like it's

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Speaker 2: our first time, so that if it's bad, I and

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Speaker 2: be like it was our first time. Yeah, an ex

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Speaker 2: time when we were preticting to be as our first time.

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Speaker 2: That's why, all right, Josh, We'll see if we can

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Speaker 2: figure it out for you. Plus, I'll come back and

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Speaker 2: then call her and see if she'll tell us why

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right, thanks so much, guys.

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Speaker 2: All Right, we'll get your first day follow up next

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Speaker 2: the Jewels. Right in the middle of the first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and if you're just joining us, Josh is

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Speaker 2: But first, Josh, why don't you catch everybody up on

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Speaker 2: your date with Meredith.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean it was a great day. I met her

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Speaker 3: at the club, we talked at the bar all night,

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Speaker 3: and you know, we actually ended up hooking up. And

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Speaker 3: I think that actually might be why she's ghosting me,

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Speaker 3: is because we hooked up so quickly. But I had

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Speaker 3: a great night, and then it's been over a week,

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Speaker 3: so I'm really hoping you guys can figure this out.

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Speaker 1: Ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak to Meredith please.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's me.

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Speaker 2: Hey Meredith, how are you. My name is Jubel. I'm

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Speaker 2: calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 7: Hi'm Meredith. The whole show is here.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 7: My name is Nina no Way, Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I know you guys sweet, we.

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Speaker 1: Did get an email about you from a guy named Josh.

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Speaker 7: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you know, we do.

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Speaker 2: The first day follow up where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with someone and then you ghost them,

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Speaker 2: that person can have us get you on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting. Josh says, he's been trying

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Speaker 2: to get a hold of you for like a week

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Speaker 2: and you haven't gotten back to him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you mind telling us why?

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Speaker 7: So that night that we met, it was pretty good.

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Speaker 8: You know, he seemed really nice and he actually listened

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Speaker 8: instead of just like waiting to talk you know, the

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Speaker 8: next thing, you know, and and he's really hot, and

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Speaker 8: so you know, I kind of just decided that I

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Speaker 8: wanted to take him home. I don't do that a

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Speaker 8: whole lot, but it just seemed kind of right, Like

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Speaker 8: we just we clicked really well. And when we were

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Speaker 8: I just I wanted.

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Speaker 6: To get him home, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 8: Okay, it was it was hot, and you know when we.

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Speaker 6: Got to my place, you know, we kind of just

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Speaker 8: You know, and but you know, as soon as my

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Speaker 6: Really quickly. You know.

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Speaker 8: He said that didn't matter and suggested I didn't shower

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Speaker 8: because it's hotter, but you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I wasn't comfortable with that.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I went and showered, and after I got out,

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Speaker 8: you know, we got to it and it was great.

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Speaker 8: Every second of it was great. But then, you know,

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Speaker 8: we talked for a bit after and I mentioned that

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Speaker 8: I went to the bathroom really quickly before he left,

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Speaker 8: I knew they should have been there because there was

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Speaker 8: there was a whole thing.

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Speaker 6: It was just a thing. It was a thing with.

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Speaker 8: Him, and you know they should have been there because

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Speaker 8: I it was there was a lot of smelling involved.

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Speaker 7: He smelled them.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, in the moment was it was hot,

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Speaker 8: but you know, I don't ever want to king shame anyone.

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Speaker 6: That's not the problem.

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Speaker 8: The problem is that I know he took them and

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Speaker 8: he didn't ask me. That is growth and weird and violating.

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Speaker 7: But had he asked you, would you have been okay

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Speaker 6: Honestly, I probably would have.

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Speaker 8: You know, I may have been open to the idea,

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Speaker 8: that's something that I feel like i'd have to go

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Speaker 2: So Okay, Well, thank you for being honest, Meredith. I

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Speaker 2: appreciate that. But also Josh is on the phone listening

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I forgot about that part.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Josh's still there.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, hey, Meredith. Hi, Well, I.

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Speaker 3: Didn't take them, and I definitely don't remember being that

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Speaker 6: So I don't know why you're saying that.

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Speaker 8: I don't believe you, and it's kind of messed up

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Speaker 8: if that's your thing, Like you took my underwear without

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Speaker 6: We went on another date.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to tell you because I did

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Speaker 3: not take your underwear, and I'm really sorry. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I want a second date, but I didn't take them.

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Speaker 3: I promise that you can trust me, and you know,

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Speaker 3: if I ever wanted to do that, I would ask you.

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Speaker 6: It's it's just.

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Speaker 8: A little weird to me that he seems really interested

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Speaker 3: Well, they've they've got to be somewhere in your house.

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Speaker 3: I promised I didn't take them. I mean, they've they've

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Speaker 3: I did.

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Speaker 6: I don't have them.

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Speaker 8: I mean I've looked everywhere I can imagine, and I

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Speaker 3: Is there anyone at your house that could have taken

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Speaker 3: could someone else have taken them in.

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Speaker 6: The last week?

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Speaker 8: No, I haven't had anyone else come over that would

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Speaker 7: Do you have a pet?

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Speaker 6: I don't. I don't have any pets.

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Speaker 8: I grew up with dog and I know that's something

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Speaker 8: to do, but I don't have any pets right now.

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Speaker 1: Josh, were you promised you did not take her underwear.

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Speaker 6: I promise I did not take her underwear.

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Speaker 7: So if we sent the underwear police to your house,

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Speaker 7: they wouldn't find anything.

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Speaker 1: We have their number.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think the un where police would find anything.

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Speaker 6: Meredith.

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Speaker 3: You can come over to my place right now. You

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Speaker 3: can check the underwear I'm wearing. You can check every drawer,

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Speaker 3: every cabinet. I promise you I do not have them.

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Speaker 3: I just want a second date, Meredith.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to go with Josh again on another date?

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I really want to, Josh.

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Speaker 8: I just don't know how you would prove to me

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Speaker 6: Well, can I just buy you some new ones?

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Speaker 2: You got to say yes, you get free panties, we'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it, and free underwear.

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Speaker 5: Yeah okay, yeah, yeah, I'll we'll give it another try,

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Speaker 5: and just you know, don't take any of the other

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Speaker 5: don't take any of my other underwears.

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Speaker 2: Josh with the underwear for the wind, do you agree

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Speaker 2: to keep your greedy mits off of her underwear?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 6: My god, I definitely agree. So excited.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, jofs, you got another date. Juble's first date follow

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Speaker 1: up