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Speaker 1: My mother in law wants to put a million dollar

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Speaker 1: life insurance policy on my husband and didn't want me

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Speaker 1: to know. Is this a I'm putting a bounty on

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Speaker 1: his head situation.

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Speaker 2: Mystery? I'm going to put on my monocle and dive

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Speaker 2: into it.

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Speaker 1: This comes from mother in law wants life insurance and

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Speaker 1: apt to use her name.

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Speaker 3: That's very specific.

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Speaker 1: And they say, Okay, this is going to sound crazy.

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Speaker 1: Believe me, I know it is. That is why I'm

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Speaker 1: asking for advice. So my husband and I have been

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Speaker 1: married a little less than a year and together for

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Speaker 1: seven years.

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Speaker 2: Congrats.

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Speaker 1: His mother in law is pretty insane. She is a hoarder,

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Speaker 1: extremely needy.

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Speaker 2: Towards her son. So her mother actually Ope's mother in law.

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Speaker 1: A liar, willing to do anything to make any situation

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Speaker 1: full of drama and about her. I really do not

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Speaker 1: know where to begin with this. My husband's mother has

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Speaker 1: always been off, so we kept her in an arm's

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Speaker 1: lengths in our lives for that very reason.

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Speaker 4: Like off isn't like just a little wacky wacky?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 4: I love that reference? Do you know that reference? No?

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Speaker 3: No, it's a movie.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, do that again?

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Speaker 5: What was it?

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Speaker 4: You know? If you know this reference put it in

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Speaker 4: the chat way.

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Speaker 1: I know, I think I know it, but I can't

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Speaker 1: remember the name. It's an animated or real.

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Speaker 4: You don't get to know. Okay, but someone in the

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Speaker 4: guests guess if you know in the chat. Let's keep going.

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Speaker 1: She is a hoarder, always trying to get money out

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Speaker 1: of people and play the woe is me card to

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Speaker 1: get sympathy. Well, this morning she called my husband and

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Speaker 1: has been talking about opening a life insurance policy on

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Speaker 1: him for one million dollars.

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Speaker 4: Can't you open a life insurance policy and someone else?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: That sounds so whack.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I got maybe, well, actually do you?

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Speaker 1: Because I know I have friends that have life insurance

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Speaker 1: policies for their uh, their their parents and their siblings.

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Speaker 4: They pay for but they took it out for them

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Speaker 4: without their knowledge.

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Speaker 1: Not without their knowledge. No, it was like, I'm providing

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Speaker 1: this to you. I going to work with the knowledge.

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Speaker 2: Maybe this is but there we'll say.

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Speaker 1: She wants to pay this one hundred percent and be

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Speaker 1: the sole beneficiary.

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Speaker 2: Of the policy.

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Speaker 1: Ah, okay, So here's I think the difference. Here's I

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Speaker 1: think the difference. Still so like in my friend's scenario,

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Speaker 1: they're doing life insurance so that way, like if their

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Speaker 1: parents pass away, then you know themselves, the siblings, other

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Speaker 1: members of the family. I don't even know if it's

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Speaker 1: maybe it's not themselves, but like other people get it.

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Speaker 4: So it's like your shorting humans.

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Speaker 1: Well not in the first scenario I'm talking about. You're

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Speaker 1: doing it to benefit other people, not yourself, like either

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Speaker 1: other people, but yeah, benefit of other people in this scenario.

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Speaker 1: It is what you're saying where you're like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 1: putting this up so if you die, I get a

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Speaker 1: huge payday.

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Speaker 4: Bro, I would I mean, if I was a hit person,

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Speaker 4: I would totally do that.

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Speaker 1: It's a genius money is So she wants to pay

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Speaker 1: this one hundred percent and be the sole beneficiary of

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Speaker 1: the policy. Now, my husband is an extremely healthy man

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Speaker 1: and his mother is not. She's overweight, has diabetes, and

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Speaker 1: improve her lifestyle for it. She is not any way

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Speaker 1: dependent on us or lives near us. She's about a

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Speaker 1: three hour drive away, and she lives with her mother. Okay, wow,

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Speaker 1: so her husband's mother lives with her mother.

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Speaker 4: Her husband's mother, Oh, Wow, Okay, so the whole family

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Speaker 4: kind of lives together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the mom lives with the grandma. Basically.

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Speaker 1: My husband found the entire thing extremely amusing, but it

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Speaker 1: has me extremely uneasy. She knows his socials and information.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure if she wanted to, she could easily do this,

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Speaker 1: as you can get the life insurance policy on him.

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Speaker 1: But the thing that rubs me the wrong way is

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Speaker 1: she keeps saying I want to make sure I'm financially

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Speaker 1: set when you die. Says nothing about the family he

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Speaker 1: is creating or anything like op or you know, their

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Speaker 4: This is so sus Wait she said, when you die, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: when you die. When you die, yeah, not if you

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Speaker 4: die when when? Well, I mean everyone's gonna.

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Speaker 3: Die a son before their mother.

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Speaker 1: That's the kicker. That's the kicker is the mom is like,

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Speaker 1: when you die, I want to be.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm like a mom thing to do. It's when

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Speaker 4: I die, I want you to Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Is this yeah? Jesse says, creepy, creepy, creepy, creepy.

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Speaker 5: Cue.

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Speaker 4: Q Orengo says, OMG, she's going to kill him. That

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Speaker 4: that's what it feels like. Jeff says, run run fast.

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Speaker 1: She wants to make sure that she can take take

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Speaker 1: care of herself with all the money when he's dead.

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Speaker 2: Again, wouldn't he outlive his mother? Probably like this is a.

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Speaker 1: For sure thing that he's going to be dead rather

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Speaker 1: sooner than later, so she.

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Speaker 2: Can bank on it or something.

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Speaker 1: She told him. Make sure you don't tell your wife.

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Speaker 1: You know how people get when they find out you

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Speaker 1: have a hefty life insurance policy. You don't want her

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Speaker 1: to try and murder you.

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Speaker 4: Seriously, WTF, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She's suggesting the very thing that she's trying to maybe

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Speaker 4: It literally feels true crime.

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Speaker 3: This feels yes, it feels like we're leading up to

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Speaker 3: on November thirteenth.

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Speaker 1: So uh, the mom says, she just wants to make

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Speaker 1: sure that she can take care of herself with all

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Speaker 1: that money when he's dead. Oh, I've already said all

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Speaker 1: this stuff. So Opie says, I really don't know what

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Speaker 1: to do. I have tried explaining we need to go

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Speaker 1: no contact to my husband, but he keeps saying that

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't worry because there isn't anything she can do,

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Speaker 1: and just to ignore it and she'll find another gate rich.

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Speaker 2: Quick scheme somewhere else. Just ignore it. It'll be fine.

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Speaker 2: Ignore or not.

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Speaker 3: I'm so concerned.

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Speaker 4: Ignore or don't ignore it? Ignore it, don't ignore it.

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Speaker 4: This is literally like this is the beginning of murder mystery,

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Speaker 4: except there's no mystery because we know this guy's.

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Speaker 2: About to be murdered. We have to let it play out.

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Speaker 1: So Opie says, I guess I'm just looking for advice

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Speaker 2: We got you. I mean, can she do that? Should

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Speaker 2: we allow it? What do you guys think? Quick edit?

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Speaker 1: We also plan on getting my own health insurance for

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Speaker 1: each other in case anything happens to us or our kids,

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Speaker 1: so that way our kids will be okay for when

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Speaker 1: we have children, and a quick deal of the are

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Speaker 1: a son for a million dollars so she'll be financially

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Speaker 1: stable when he dies. She told him to hide it

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Speaker 1: from me and it totally freaked me out.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but he has to agree to the insurance policy. Correct.

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Speaker 3: Well, it seems like he did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so let's break it down. The husband doesn't want

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Speaker 4: Then it seems like the husband is potentially open to

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Speaker 4: opening up this life insurance possy.

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, he's basically like yeah, apathetic, like, oh,

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Speaker 1: just let her open it whatever.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So what I understand what I understand about in

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Speaker 4: life insurance policies, which is extremely little, But what I

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Speaker 4: understand here is there needs to be two parties of

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Speaker 4: consent to open a life insurance policy policy. There's the

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Speaker 4: person benefiting from the life insurance policy, and then there

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Speaker 4: is the person receiving the life insurance policy. So like,

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Speaker 4: if John and I agree to open life insurance policies,

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Speaker 4: I can say, John, I want to open up a

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Speaker 4: life insurance policy idea for when you die. Oh, thoughtful

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Speaker 4: for a million and when you die I get that money.

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Speaker 4: Oh and but you have to agree, do I?

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Speaker 3: He said you don't. He does not have to agree,

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Speaker 3: Linda Spark.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy. Wait, So, like I could open up a

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Speaker 4: life insurance policy on like someone random and when they.

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Speaker 3: Die, maybe it's you have to be family.

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Speaker 1: One detail that op mentioned was she has his social

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Speaker 1: Security and other personal information.

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Speaker 4: So okay, she could do this. Social Security numbers I.

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Speaker 1: Guess kind of would be the consent because usually you

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Speaker 1: probably don't know that information and you're like, hey, I

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Speaker 1: need you to go in, but she could maybe like

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Speaker 1: low key forge because she has.

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Speaker 2: His personal information, his consent. Yeah, it's sounding like.

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Speaker 1: But we have element commenslators and gentlemen, So this comes

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Speaker 1: from my opinion is valid. I fear for him, but

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Speaker 1: I watch a lot of the ID channel. I guess

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Speaker 1: that's where a lot of this stuff happens. Rappers in

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Speaker 1: the kitchen. My first thought when I read this was

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Speaker 1: hope you're enjoying getting interrogated when he turns up dead docs.

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Speaker 4: Wow, my god, standing around.

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Speaker 3: The bush, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Opie, Right, I watch so many of those types of shows,

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Speaker 1: and my husband is saying that I'm just paranoid. Bella

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Speaker 1: Donna Diorama says, maybe your husband should watch those shows

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Speaker 1: with you so he can get that it isn't extremely

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Speaker 1: rare for something to happen to someone wants an insurance.

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Speaker 1: Life insurance policy is taken out, even with mothers. I

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Speaker 1: watch him from time to time on Sundays too, so

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Speaker 1: I totally get what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: Opie responds.

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Speaker 1: When he gets home from work tonight, I think I'm

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Speaker 1: going to show him this thread so he sees that

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Speaker 1: I am not just being a paranoid wife. Hazel Dazzle

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Speaker 1: says pretty good, right, a lot of great names in

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Speaker 1: this thread. I was going to post this. It's absolutely

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Speaker 1: what she's planning. If she has a shady money history,

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Speaker 1: pay it for a few months, and then borrow against

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Speaker 1: it big time, and then hey, no big the company

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Speaker 1: can have the money whenever Opie's husband finally dies, it's

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Speaker 1: all good. Well, we don't have to take a life

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Speaker 1: of Sharans policy out because uh.

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Speaker 4: The slitz Kid nineteen ninety four. I still think the

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Speaker 4: mom has a gambling addiction. Oo oh, and this is

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Speaker 4: like like she's gonna kill her son to get the

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Speaker 4: money to pay off the gamble gambling money. That'd be crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Opie response to that, This makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to bring this up to my husband. This

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Speaker 1: is something I could easily see her doing.

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Speaker 2: You're so, the question is.

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Speaker 4: That is insane to say that You're you could easily

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Speaker 4: see your mother in law kill.

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Speaker 3: Killing her son?

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Speaker 4: Brow how how how like what else is what?

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Speaker 3: Al r?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, exactly, That's what I want to know, because like, sure,

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Speaker 4: the life insurance policy is like pretty whack, pretty frightening,

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Speaker 4: but like what else has she done that? You're like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess I guess she's like, uh, there's a history

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Speaker 4: But murder, but but but.

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Speaker 2: Is it murder? We have a big juicy update.

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Speaker 1: It is busting it, it seems everyone Washington, Sam, Sophia.

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Speaker 2: What should OP do now? How how should OP go about?

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Speaker 3: I think showing the Reddit thread is yeah, to the.

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Speaker 4: Son the husbands, do you call the police?

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Speaker 3: I don't think there's enough.

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Speaker 4: But wait until really quick. Madeline May says, I work

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Speaker 4: but you do have to prove that their death would

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Speaker 4: affect your income. I either your business partner or you

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Speaker 3: The mom is dependent question.

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Speaker 4: Let's say you work at an office job. Could you

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Can't we do that?

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Speaker 4: You're dependent?

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Speaker 4: I have got some two Dylan Parish subda. Also, we're

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Speaker 3: The mom took out a life insurance policy and then

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Speaker 2: Tell the wife because you know, and she'll kill you.

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Speaker 3: And she has a history and she has a history of.

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Speaker 3: She's like dependent enough to for for the life insurance

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Speaker 1: That's not or or not dependent enough, because if you're

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Speaker 1: Therefore it's okay, there's not a conflict of interest in

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Speaker 3: I thought you have to be dependent.

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Speaker 4: No, no, if you are dependent, I think it is.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you have, you have you have to be dependent

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Speaker 4: Martin thanks to the five bucks. Guys, only myself third time,

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Speaker 4: see when we all lives third time? But that's like,

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Speaker 4: that's most of them, that's most of them. How do

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Speaker 4: you guys decide become professional raditors?

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Speaker 2: We did it, We did I had to. Yes, it's kidding.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to do it. Kidding, I'm kidding. I wanted

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Speaker 4: The literal best job on the freaking planet.

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Speaker 3: Joking. I wanted to do this, and Sam very graciously as.

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Speaker 4: I think I do for you, Sophia, She getting slapped

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Speaker 1: Drop a laugh emoji for Sam and Sophia's classic sibling moment.

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Speaker 3: Classic.

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Speaker 4: You could have been working at Starbucks, Sophia.

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Speaker 2: I know you could have that, But do you have

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Speaker 3: I just had strange men, little baby guy.

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Speaker 1: Zylla says little proteins versus worms, versus gold versus Sam's

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Speaker 1: Godzilla funny, incredible, But you know what else is incredible

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Speaker 1: or potentially disastrous?

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Speaker 4: Update?

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Speaker 1: Well, today I was out with my husband running errand

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Speaker 1: I want to do that. He's like ignoring her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: One of her texts finally got to him to call her,

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Speaker 1: the icy did she yes? Sophia with the singers?

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait, can we do a little conspiracy on this?

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Speaker 4: Conspiracize a little bit. So all right, So what we

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Speaker 4: if the Sun dies, she gets money. Right, we just

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Speaker 4: found out that she is has a history. Well, we

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say she was just lying, just straight

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Speaker 4: But dude, I think she has to really sell it.

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Speaker 1: Something because in her mind, she's like, this is worth

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Speaker 4: Bed so much? What she's trying to do is she's

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Speaker 4: probably trying to make the uh Sun feel bad enough

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Speaker 4: Maybe she the son doesn't give her money or gives

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Speaker 4: her a little bit of money to like help with

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Speaker 4: the medical bills. But really, what she's trying to do

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Speaker 2: Not check it. I don't know she did she get

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Speaker 1: Apparently she hasn't yet gotten it okay, and is and

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Speaker 1: should go back to reality. Let's go back to reality,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. He calls her and she tells him

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Speaker 4: WTF, right, I mean that does make sense.

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Speaker 2: What's her angle?

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Speaker 4: Angle? I don't know if there's an angle yet, but

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Speaker 4: that does make sense.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's like she's just trying to get used to put,

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Speaker 1: First it's it's car insurance, then it's like housing insurance,

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Speaker 4: Another insurants around.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we're out. We've already ordered apps. Drink side,

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Speaker 1: We'll get another.

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Speaker 2: Here.

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Speaker 4: Brittany Lynn says, sounds fishy, ballroom blitz. Kids says, I

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Speaker 4: smell bs nice k Buxom says, mom cuts the brakes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: When he tells her he is not going to be

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, ya.

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Speaker 1: Well, in the midst of it, some of you predicted.

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Speaker 1: He called her out, saying, I bet you are planning

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Speaker 4: She admitted to it.

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Speaker 2: Repeat, yes, it's not what you're thinking.

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Speaker 1: My husband said, I bet you are just planning on

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Speaker 4: So wa wait, taking alone on the health insurance. What

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Speaker 1: I'm confused there too, but I think what they're trying

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Speaker 4: In the chat. Yeah, so we'll keep going to this story,

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Speaker 4: but maybe it's for someone like Avril. Dil Huber says,

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Speaker 1: But that's crazy because it's on the contingency of you dying. Yeah, right,

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Speaker 1: the million dollars.

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Speaker 2: If OP dies.

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Speaker 4: So so Jonathan Hurt says the life insurance can be

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Speaker 4: long time. And Renee says, she's saying that she's going

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Speaker 1: Got that would make sense. Yeah, it's literally says Health insurance,

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Speaker 4: Life insurance. Averrey Dell Cluber says, life insurans can be

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Speaker 1: So it seems like from what we're reading into everyone

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Speaker 3: It is better than we thought.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we thought.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's another one of her manipulation tactics.

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Speaker 3: She's like, at least I wasn't going to murder you exactly.

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh, like, it's nothing like I was. I'm

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Speaker 1: It was her plan all along, dude, honestly, evil genius,

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Speaker 1: a little bit fat. She told him that her plan.

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Speaker 1: That was her plan all along. She was going to

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Speaker 2: It, and then stop paying it.

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Speaker 5: I know, ye, my sweetspected you thought I was going

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Speaker 1: I was going to use my throne to usurp the

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Speaker 3: When he died, I would be able.

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Speaker 1: So my job dropped when she proudly admitted to all

448
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Speaker 1: of this. Well, my husband told her off again and

449
00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:07,960
Speaker 1: now we are going no contact finally.

450
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not happened.

451
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Speaker 1: He is extremely angry and has basically said she ruined

452
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Speaker 1: any relationship they possibly could have had with one another.

453
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Speaker 1: I am honestly very sad for my husband. I know

454
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Speaker 1: it must be hard having a mother who cares only

455
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Speaker 1: about herself, but luckily he does. He does have his

456
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Speaker 1: father and stepmother who have been very loving and supportive

457
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Speaker 1: through this whole situation. So that's better than, you know,

458
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Speaker 1: being left with nothing. I guess I just thought I

459
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Speaker 1: should update you all since a lot of you predicted

460
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Speaker 1: this was what was going to happen.

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Speaker 2: We maybe shot over a little bit, We went a

462
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Speaker 2: little bit front the methic guy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, she's going to m Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Thank you everyone for your advice.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I plan on taking out life insurancy

466
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Speaker 1: policies on each other as we move forward from this.

467
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Speaker 2: And we will be going go no contact from the mother.

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Speaker 4: But are you saying marketing? Oh that's.

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Speaker 3: Life insurance. Well, they're like, we will be taking life

470
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Speaker 3: insurance policies with life connect.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay, And there is just a bunch

472
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Speaker 1: of relevant comments here. Drop eighty seven says, wow, I

473
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Speaker 1: suppose the loan is better than plotting his murder.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so other people thought what I thought.

475
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Speaker 3: Okay, I guess that's better.

476
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Speaker 2: That still sucks, though.

477
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Speaker 1: Takes some time degree for the relationship that could have been,

478
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Speaker 1: and then carry on and enjoying your life.

479
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Speaker 2: Opie says, yeah, I can tell. It really hurt my husband. Yesterday.

480
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Speaker 1: I tried to talking to him about it, but he

481
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Speaker 1: ended up calling his father before he went to sleep

482
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Speaker 1: and talked to him about the situation. My heart really

483
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Speaker 1: hurts for him right now. Deleted says, keep a close

484
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Speaker 1: eye on your credit. She made a side to try

485
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Speaker 1: and take stuff in your name, and you never know

486
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Speaker 1: what she might do.

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Speaker 4: We read a story about someone in their company taking

488
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Speaker 4: their employees and taking all of their identities so she

489
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Speaker 4: could steal the identities and open up credit cards and

490
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Speaker 4: then maxim out.

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Speaker 2: Already has the socials and pressure.

492
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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so she could totally do that.

493
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Speaker 1: Opie says, yes, we have been keeping an eye on

494
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Speaker 1: this situation since the situation started, and we plan on

495
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Speaker 1: continuing that. I wonder if you can request to change

496
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Speaker 1: your social security if you're.

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Speaker 4: Like, yeah, if you're if you're real that someone's going

498
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Speaker 4: to take advantage of it, yeah, let us. But also

499
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 4: we want to request all of you to like this

500
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,400
Speaker 4: stream if you yeah, already if we're not at six

501
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Speaker 4: hundred likes, like, what are we doing?

502
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Speaker 1: Well, guys, we don't know if we can change our

503
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Speaker 1: social Security number, but we definitely can change our likeness.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, don't.

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Speaker 4: Like the stream? Like it? Come on? Come also for

506
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Speaker 4: everyone on the stream, tell us how many likes we have,

507
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Speaker 4: and yeah, just make sure people are liking it.

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Speaker 2: That's right. Pressure is them?

509
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Speaker 4: Pressure?

510
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Speaker 3: Pressure your pressure? It's finest.

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Speaker 1: X LV twenty nine says, I genuinely thought she was

512
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Speaker 1: planning to murder your husband, Opie, believe me, so did I.

513
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Speaker 1: Tara Pharma says, that is so sad that she's capable

514
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Speaker 1: of such behavior, but thanks for the update, Opie says, Yeah,

515
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Speaker 1: I know. My mom and I are so close and

516
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Speaker 1: I cannot imagine her doing something like this where we

517
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Speaker 1: would go no contact neither can I. Oh my God,

518
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 1: Luckily my husband still has his father and stepmom In

519
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Speaker 1: the top comment app actually from Brimble. For those wondering this,

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Speaker 1: Mores said, Sophia always make sure to shout out and highlight.

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Speaker 2: The good usernames.

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Speaker 1: Brimble says, for those wondering, this is an incredibly dumb idea.

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Speaker 1: First off, it doesn't really affect Ope. His credit is

524
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: never at stake or anything. But this is why it

525
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: makes her scheme so pointless and make no sense. Number One,

526
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Speaker 1: she would never find an insurance company willing to write

527
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Speaker 1: a policy for an adult son who does not financially

528
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Speaker 1: support her for any amount of money.

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Speaker 2: Beyond funeral expenses. Uh.

530
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Speaker 1: Huge, maybe, but that's it. The types of life insurance,

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Speaker 1: So basically the life insurance.

532
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Speaker 2: Would cover the funeral.

533
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Speaker 4: I think, yeah, that tracks yeah.

534
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Speaker 1: And probably it's like legally, like, hey, you can only

535
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 1: use this for funeral perspectives, otherwise they could sue you

536
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,840
Speaker 1: or something. The types of life insurance that allow you

537
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Speaker 1: to take loans against that whole or universal life insurance

538
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Speaker 1: only allow you to borrow against the cash value you

539
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Speaker 1: have already invested.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, yeah, why would you give the cash

541
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Speaker 2: that you wanted to literally makes no sense.

542
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Speaker 1: Yeah, you would get the same amount of money you

543
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Speaker 1: already had in the first place. You don't get a

544
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Speaker 1: million dollars unless you paid a million dollars. And number three,

545
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Speaker 1: most companies will make you wait ten years to take

546
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Speaker 1: out a loan anyways, So this so much for a

547
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Speaker 1: get rich quick scheme. While Opie's husband has never was

548
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: never in financial danger himself over his mother's stupid plan,

549
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 1: there is value, nonetheless in cutting off such a wielding, manipulative,

550
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Speaker 1: selfish person. It's like being related to an aggressive in him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, poo, well, I feel like I learned so much

552
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Speaker 4: about life insurance.

553
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Speaker 3: True, I didn't know. I didn't know.

554
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Speaker 4: It's like always so heartbreaking when you hear these stories

555
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 4: about these like mothers that are like trying to manipulate

556
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Speaker 4: their children for their own benefit. It's just so sad crazy. Yeah,

557
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 4: I can't, I can't.

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Speaker 2: Ya.

559
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Speaker 4: Does anyone also have any stories about stuff like this? Yeah?

560
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Speaker 4: Others let us let us know.

561
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Speaker 2: Uh, we're gonna be doing some Collumnster.

562
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Speaker 4: We are going to be doing Collins.

563
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

564
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Speaker 4: Maybe we can cueue up some Riley for like after

565
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Speaker 4: the next one.

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Speaker 2: Or for zero five story six five six seven. If

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Speaker 2: you want to text us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're you're one liner of the story, and then

569
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Speaker 1: we'll call you read that one liner and we'll do

570
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Speaker 1: a sixty second story and then give you a verdict.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but uh, I do have a little I little

572
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Speaker 4: have a okay story time. Okay, well honestly okay, story time,

573
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Speaker 4: just like I kind of need advice from you guys.

574
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Speaker 4: Oh okay. So basically I went on the state it

575
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Speaker 4: was going super well. I felt like something was missing.

576
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Speaker 4: I felt like I had to tell her. I told

577
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Speaker 4: her she was super cool about like the whole conversation,

578
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Speaker 4: and I kind of was intending to friend zone, but

579
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Speaker 4: then when she was like when we talked about like

580
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Speaker 4: all of our feelings, it made me feel closer to her,

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Speaker 4: and so now I'm like, do I ask her out

582
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Speaker 4: another date?

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Speaker 2: I think?

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Speaker 1: So the danger here is kind of like more leading

585
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 1: her on in a sense, not that that's necessarily your intention.

586
00:27:19,600 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: You're like trying to figure it out, but it's like

587
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 1: if you keep going down the path, and then you're like, Okay,

588
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: I've confirmed that I don't want to do this, but

589
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Speaker 1: but on the flip side, it's like I need to

590
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Speaker 1: continue down the path to understand if I want to

591
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Speaker 1: continue the relationship.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like maybe I prematurely. Maybe I prematurely said this,

593
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Speaker 4: So should I like do some introspection though before I

594
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Speaker 4: say like, hey, like let's go in another date? Or

595
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 4: should I do introspection?

596
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Speaker 1: While before is probably best, but it's probably in reality

597
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Speaker 1: it's probably a combination of both, because like you going

598
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Speaker 1: and talk with her, and then you're like, wait, actually

599
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Speaker 1: talking to her about the thing that I thought wasn't

600
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Speaker 1: like clicking between us actually brought me closer together, which

601
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Speaker 1: is something you didn't predict beforehand, that introspection so lit

602
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: beforehand couldn't have brought you. It is a little I

603
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Speaker 1: think it is a little bit of a rock and

604
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Speaker 1: a hard place, and I would be wary of especially

605
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Speaker 1: if she's like purely gung ho.

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Speaker 4: Like, yeah, she she is purely gung ho. She's like

607
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Speaker 4: like if you guys know me, She's like I don't.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you obviously have probably seen somebody red flags.

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Speaker 4: I mean she's like, no, she didn't.

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Speaker 3: Think that was ship said, I'm just thinking how you

611
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Speaker 3: handled it was a red flag.

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Speaker 6: What they vibe she liked the way that he communicated that.

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Speaker 3: No, No, I mean prior to the communication, the communication

614
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Speaker 3: was good. I just think you should communicate earlier.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes it takes people days of feeling there's a yeah, fine,

616
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 4: well yeah.

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Speaker 2: If anything.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not arguing this, but some people could even

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Speaker 1: argue that he's communicated too early, where it's like not

620
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Speaker 1: having enough time.

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Speaker 4: But Jesse takes it a ten bucks give it more

622
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Speaker 4: time if you think there's a possibility with her, because

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Speaker 4: true love is not effortless and idealistic fantasies can make

624
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Speaker 4: you think it isn't meant to be when you just

625
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Speaker 4: may need to let it happen.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like on Jesse's points, low key might be a

627
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Speaker 6: slow burn. My dude, like might take a little bit

628
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Speaker 6: of time.

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Speaker 4: And you know, I think hasn't been a slow burn,

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Speaker 4: like we've like like we we've kind of like we really.

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Speaker 6: Physically it's not a slow burn, but like emotionally it

632
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Speaker 6: may be slow burn.

633
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Speaker 2: I think it's like the slow burn is.

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Speaker 4: The physical connection was only good because the emotional connection

635
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Speaker 4: felt there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's that.

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Speaker 1: I think that's not even not that it's irrelevant, but

638
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: it's like it's more like, does it feel like it's

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Speaker 1: clicking in a way where you feel motivated for the

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Speaker 1: long term of the relationship and for the future of

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Speaker 1: the relations All I.

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Speaker 4: Know is I felt way connected to her after the

643
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Speaker 4: talk than I did before.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, which, like I think is cool.

645
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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I feel like Sarah Okay, so hopefully we're

646
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Speaker 4: going to get into this next story. But overall, should

647
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Speaker 4: I ask her out? Yes or no? But yes or

648
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Speaker 4: no the chat if you think so.

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00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 2: Maybe just like continue talking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you need to tell her, Hey, sorry

651
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 3: for the mixed messages, but I am you know something

652
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Speaker 3: along those lines, Yeah, explaining it so.

653
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Speaker 4: That I did say, like, it must be the most

654
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Speaker 4: unattractive thing for like, like I did not know what

655
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Speaker 4: I want and I'm so sorry for that.

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Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah, that's great.

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Speaker 6: No, I think I think it might be sexy for

658
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Speaker 6: some women that you are able to emotionally know what

659
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Speaker 6: you're feeling and be able to communicate that and you're

660
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Speaker 6: in an idn't know face and she's probably like so hot.

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Speaker 3: I disagree.

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Speaker 4: So wait, wait, you think I should ask her out

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Speaker 4: or not ask her out?

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Speaker 3: I think you have to figure that.

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Speaker 4: Out, because first lasses figure out your feelings. Yeah, but like,

666
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Speaker 4: isn't dating figuring out your feelings.

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Speaker 3: Uh, you know what I will say. I will say

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Speaker 3: I actually I was watching a TikTok today and this

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Speaker 3: person was like, stop having situationships. Just date. You're not

670
00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 3: getting married. You can decide that you want to break

671
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 3: up later, but don't do situationships because that is just

672
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 3: a lot of nothing for no reason.

673
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 4: Well actually says I think Sam likes her more than

674
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 4: he wants to met and it scares him, so he's

675
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 4: overthinking it. Raven says, be exclusive, but also ask her

676
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 4: out or else has take the time to talk with her.

677
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 4: I mean I would honestly be down. I don't know, but.

678
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 6: Like, like, what's hanging you up? It feels like you're

679
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 6: hesitating or something's hanging you up? What what is this?

680
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 4: Man?

681
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:48,920
Speaker 2: What's going on?

682
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 4: Like? What is that? I think that thing is this?

683
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 4: I mean like I kind of do know. But she

684
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 4: overall she's super cool and I maybe more interested, and

685
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 4: I think, like I don't maybe I don't know her enough. Also,

686
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 4: it's not the forty five years. This person is only

687
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 4: like a couple of years older than me.

688
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 2: You know what I want to hear?

689
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 6: Right now?

690
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 4: Does that start? Am Ida hole for telling off my

691
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 4: future mother in law, and this comes from mother in

692
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 4: law hates me ninety nine ouch ah, I fiance twenty

693
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 4: feo male and I twenty five female are getting married.

694
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 4: His mom started being extremely difficult when we announced we

695
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 4: visit his family in November and she is not friendly

696
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 4: with me at all. Spend hours in a room with

697
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,760
Speaker 4: a headache, repeatedly and emotionally tells us that we must

698
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 4: spend at least one holiday per year with them now

699
00:32:41,520 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 4: and it's only fair and elluding that she was hurt

700
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 4: we didn't spend any this year, so she's like, you

701
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 4: should hang out, eh, going on, Yeah, what's going on?

702
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 4: Why don't you hanging out with me? Two weeks after

703
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 4: returning home, we get a video call from her and

704
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 4: fiance's entire family telling us that she needs to have

705
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 4: a religious ceremony take place involving her and her recently

706
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 4: deceased mother by proxy, and the day before our wedding

707
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 4: is going to be the best time for that. Mind you,

708
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 4: this wedding is going to be out of town and

709
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 4: so the few days before are going to be busy

710
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 4: putting things together. But anyhow, fiance looks at me to

711
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 4: make the decision. So again, just like a little bit

712
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 4: of breakdown. I'm going to reread that because I think

713
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,719
Speaker 4: that could be a little bit confusing. So so two

714
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,719
Speaker 4: weeks after returning home, we get a video call from

715
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 4: her and fiance and the entire family saying she needs

716
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 4: to have a religious ceremony take place involving her and

717
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 4: her recently deceased mother by proxy. So she's like, Hey,

718
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 4: I need to have a religious ceremony with the deceased mother.

719
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 4: This is the future mother in law, and this has

720
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 4: to happened the day before the wedding. Yeah, like that's

721
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 4: the only day. Yeah, and the wedding is going to

722
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 4: be out of town and they're going to be busy

723
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 4: putting things together. But anyhow, fiance looks at me to

724
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 4: make the decision. So the fiances like, I don't want

725
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 4: to say no. I don't want to say yes you

726
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 4: shoot my mom down about her decease.

727
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 3: Wow.

728
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 4: Wow. Basically it's like I kind of want to fuck

729
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,120
Speaker 4: up your wedding a little bit. Yeah, that's what it

730
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 4: sounds like.

731
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 2: Honestly, usually these stories are so crazy. At least it's

732
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: not on.

733
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 4: The day of the least, Yeah, have a consideration for it,

734
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 4: to which I guess well, yeah, I guess we'll do

735
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 4: Beyonce looks at me to make the decision. I feel

736
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 4: like I can't say no. Mother in law is being

737
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 4: very emotional. I tried to convey the day before a

738
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,320
Speaker 4: wedding is going to be busy, so this is not ideal,

739
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 4: and if they must do it, please plan in the

740
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 4: morning as we have a lot to do later in

741
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 4: the day. We get a text from his mom a

742
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 4: month later saying she scheduled it for the late afternoon

743
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:50,799
Speaker 4: because that's the only time available. She then also tried

744
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 4: to invite five extra people to our fifty person wedding.

745
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 2: I have a conspiracy theory.

746
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, what's a conspiracy?

747
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 2: Conspiracy theory? All right, put chats on everybody, So do

748
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 2: we have hats? We have hats.

749
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,399
Speaker 1: So my conspiracy theory is that the mother in law

750
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: secretly hates o Pee and is throwing all of this

751
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: to ruin the wedding, depleted of its people, its resources,

752
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: and everything else, and try and make them just give up.

753
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I think that. I think that's one hundred

754
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 4: percent what it.

755
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: Is, the last ditch effort. Put I see you on

756
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: the comments if you agree.

757
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm wrong, Yeah, maybe I'm wrong, but put a

758
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 2: nice you down.

759
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 4: Let's get back into the story. Was told no two times,

760
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 4: then third time, Uh sucked up to her daughter on

761
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 4: us and tells us we needed to make up our

762
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 4: minds whether or not they could invite those people. They

763
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 4: did make up their minds. They said no. Yeah, we

764
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 4: were honestly dumbfounded. Fionce calls her and says, no, she

765
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 4: cannot invite these people we don't even know to our tiny,

766
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 4: intimate wedding and to stop asking. She cries on the phone,

767
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 4: but the tears cleared up immediately when the topic changes.

768
00:35:57,560 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 4: She meants that She mentions that she is going to

769
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:02,959
Speaker 4: be upset if I have more people from my side

770
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,280
Speaker 4: of the family than she does at the wedding.

771
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 2: So that's so well, it's not your wedding. Newsflash.

772
00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,919
Speaker 4: She never sent us addresses from her family, despite us

773
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,879
Speaker 4: asking at least three times, and then when that didn't

774
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,319
Speaker 4: go over, she said she feels really left out of

775
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 4: the wedding and like she wants to feel more apart

776
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 4: than she does. Last week, we were making scheduling plans

777
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 4: and we realize the time she's set for her ceremony

778
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 4: is the only time we can get her photos done.

779
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,439
Speaker 4: We let her know, and suddenly she has been very

780
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 4: keen to check if they have a morning slot available,

781
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 4: and surprise, they do. Beyonce tells her he will talk

782
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 4: to me about it because it's still going to be

783
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:47,479
Speaker 4: very busy the day before our wedding. She calls both

784
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,400
Speaker 4: of us anyway and basically puts me on the spot.

785
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 4: She starts to get hostile, and I am unwilling that.

786
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 4: I'm unwilling to negotiate at her with her at this

787
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 4: point and tell her neither her son or I will

788
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 4: be able to make it. And it doesn't matter what

789
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 4: time it will be. It is the day before a

790
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 4: wedding and preparing for it is more important than her ceremony.

791
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 4: So basically she's like trying to stop them from taking

792
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 4: photos the day before by saying, I come to this

793
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 4: funeral thing op and their fiance is like, we're going

794
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 4: to focus on our wedding. Whatever you're trying to plan.

795
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:23,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

796
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 4: She starts crying, saying how important is for her family

797
00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 4: to be together during the ceremony. I say, I'm sorry,

798
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 4: but the wedding has to take priority. His family is

799
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 4: pissed at me for not being flexible on this and

800
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 4: with the people we said couldn't come to the wedding.

801
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 4: So am I the a hole? Here?

802
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 3: I know things?

803
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 2: You give me one more one more breakdown?

804
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 4: Yes, this one before this one was a little bit confusing.

805
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 4: So from what I understand, at this moment, at this

806
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 4: right hot second moment, so OP and their fiance are

807
00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 4: getting married. Right OPI's mother in law has their mom die.

808
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 4: The mother in law wants to hold like a funeral

809
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 4: type ceremony the day before the wedding, I believe, in

810
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 4: an effort to basically fuck up oh p He's wedding

811
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,879
Speaker 4: because like the mother in law never really liked Op.

812
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 4: Apparently so oh He is like talking about like they

813
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,480
Speaker 4: needed to do like pictures or something at that time,

814
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:31,240
Speaker 4: and apparently like the mother in law scheduled the funeral

815
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 4: thing for the exact time that the picture is going

816
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 4: to be taken, and also was like, hey, can I

817
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 4: invite a bunch of people to the wedding that you

818
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 4: don't even know? Because I don't want there to be

819
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 4: more on his side than on my side.

820
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: Not your wedding, Not your wedding, bro.

821
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:49,839
Speaker 4: So is OP the a hole or not?

822
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 2: No?

823
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: Not the do you think Yeah, I think like I

824
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: just like now I will say, you know, when you're

825
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,400
Speaker 1: doing your wedding, obviously there's definitely a component of like

826
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 1: you obviously want your your your parents and your other

827
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 1: loved ones like have fun and feel included, like one

828
00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: hundred percent. But there's just really a line where it's like, hey,

829
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: this is about these two people celebrating their love and

830
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: like being together and like having a day like this

831
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 1: is for them, Like this is not about you having

832
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: more like what a stupid game to play? Yeah, a

833
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: number of people at the thing? Yeah is he say,

834
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: is not the asshole? Radio Demon says not the asshole?

835
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: Sweetly says it's very scary to talk to you guys,

836
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: every scary and not the a whole.

837
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,280
Speaker 4: Kim Quant says, not the a whole. Silly Jilly Bean says,

838
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 4: in our culture is bad luck to have a wedding

839
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 4: at the same time period. I guess with the funeral. Yeah,

840
00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 4: too near to a funeral within the family. So how

841
00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 4: recently deceased are we talking about? I mean it sounds

842
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 4: pretty recent. It sounds pretty decent. Honestly, it sounds pretty recent. Well, yeah,

843
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:55,680
Speaker 4: is so.

844
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: Crazy that the mother in law is using her own

845
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: mother's death to try to Yeah, sabtaga, no, it's it's yeah.

846
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 4: And also there's only a fifty percent wedding. Adding five

847
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:10,439
Speaker 4: people like increases the size of the wedding by five percent. Yeah,

848
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,359
Speaker 4: that's ten percent or sorry, ten percent.

849
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 2: It's okay.

850
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,720
Speaker 4: I can't do math either, quick baths Yeah, sorry sorry

851
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:16,240
Speaker 4: ten percent.

852
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 2: That's a raise, that's a lot. That's like Riley, Oh,

853
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 2: he's getting what happened.

854
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 4: Is making old jokes about me turning twenty seven,