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Speaker 1: Education is no equalizer.

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Speaker 2: Rather, it is the sleep that precedes the American dream.

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Speaker 2: So wake up, wake up, lift your voices until you've

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Speaker 2: patched every hole in a child's broken sky. Wake up

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Speaker 2: every child so they know of their celestial potential.

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Speaker 3: I've been the black hole in a classroom for far

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Speaker 3: too long, absorbing everything without allowing my light to escape.

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Speaker 3: But those days are done. I belong among the stars,

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Speaker 3: and so do you, and so do they. Together together

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Speaker 3: we can inspire galaxies of greatness for generations to come.

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Speaker 1: So no, no, sky is not the limit. It is

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Speaker 1: only the beginning. Lift off. Oh my god, that was fantastic.

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Speaker 4: Did it work? Did you hear it?

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Speaker 1: It did? I did?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm so high tech.

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Speaker 1: No. I saw that video and I was like, oh

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Speaker 1: my gosh, it just First of all, one, I just

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Speaker 1: love like spoken word. I don't know if you nobody

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Speaker 4: Well, I might have mentioned that a couple of times.

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Speaker 1: Not nearly as good as that, And it's just amazing,

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's right. I should have given actually told the

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Speaker 4: people what that was. If you haven't heard, that was

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Speaker 4: a convocation poem by Donovan Livingston at Harvard University's School

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Speaker 1: At Harvard, Right, No biggie, no biggie.

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Speaker 4: Especially since you used to be a teacher, Tiffany that

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Speaker 4: well you still are technically, you would appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: No. I just thought it was beautiful. I just I

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Speaker 4: He started off the speech by saying, when he was

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Speaker 4: don't understand. That's why some man educators can be amazing,

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Speaker 4: but some of them out there can be dangerous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they can be, honestly, and that's why when when

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Speaker 1: And even I'm not gonna lie. The first year, almost

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I liked to the people who knew me before,

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Speaker 4: But although we hired movers, which I completely recommend, is

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Speaker 1: There's nothing like moving that makes you re evaluate your

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Speaker 4: Goodbye, Like I had to get rid of so much stuff,

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Speaker 1: And it's like, you know, like the sixties, you know

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Speaker 4: like the same like you know, like retro style time.

432
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Speaker 1: Yes, I love that.

433
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Speaker 4: I got mine from top Shop top Shop, but you

434
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 4: gotta be quick. You gotta be quick on top Shop though,

435
00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:15,359
Speaker 4: because they go quick. Taylor Swift for one of their

436
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 4: swimsuits like five years ago, and now every swimsuits eason

437
00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:19,959
Speaker 4: they're gone like super fast.

438
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Speaker 1: Really yeah, that's like you heard of Gabby Fresh mm hmm.

439
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

440
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Speaker 1: Oh, there's like so many that I wanted, and I

441
00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:28,679
Speaker 1: was like, so, I guess I'm just never gonna buy

442
00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 1: one because every year when I go to purchase one,

443
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:33,680
Speaker 1: because they're not even like super pricey, but they sell

444
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 1: out so quickly and I'm like, well, I'll just look online.

445
00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:38,280
Speaker 4: She has a lot of the ones that have like

446
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,679
Speaker 4: the spaghetti they have like the the ones that like

447
00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,959
Speaker 4: on the sidey are hips, they have lines of elastic.

448
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,280
Speaker 4: I just feel like my hips would just ooze out

449
00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 4: of them and like not a cute way. I don't know.

450
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,640
Speaker 4: I can't body type.

451
00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:55,760
Speaker 1: I know, I don't know. I have to see. Like, honestly,

452
00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 1: I've been like working out hard with the trainer. I

453
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 1: posted it before and after on my Instagram the budgetiese

454
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 1: on Instagram, And at first I didn't think like much

455
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,200
Speaker 1: was changing with my body because I have not lost

456
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 1: like a lick of weight. I'm well, maybe like a

457
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,159
Speaker 1: pound or two. But I've been working out with her

458
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,480
Speaker 1: for like a month or so and I'm still between

459
00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,360
Speaker 1: one sixty eight one seventy and I was like, I'm

460
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:15,639
Speaker 1: not losing any weight. But then I looked at the

461
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 1: picture and I was like, wow, I did it before

462
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 1: and after, side by side, and I can't believe how

463
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 1: much my body has transformed. She's like, you're not losing

464
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 1: any weight because you're gaining muscle, and I can see.

465
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:30,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, look at me snatched almost I mean, not

466
00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,120
Speaker 1: quite where I want to be, but like honestly, because

467
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm thirty six and I just want one

468
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 1: to be healthy because you know we're in baby season,

469
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:43,240
Speaker 1: like you know, we're trying too. I really want to, like,

470
00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:45,680
Speaker 1: you know, I just want to maintain a level of health.

471
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to like get healthy. I

472
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 1: want to just stay and maintain health, you know.

473
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Speaker 4: Right, No, I respect that. I'm just tired of It's

474
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 4: like it's like since I was a little girl, and

475
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 4: you know, I've had weight issues I feel, and I've

476
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 4: been seeing a nutritionius lately for the first time in

477
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Speaker 4: almost thirty years, have been seeing one long time ago.

478
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 4: But I told her I almost like broke down. I

479
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,680
Speaker 4: was like, I'm just so tired of every three months

480
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,159
Speaker 4: being like, Okay, by Christmas, I'm gonna lose this much. Okay,

481
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 4: that doesn't happen, all right, Well by spring break I'm

482
00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 4: going to lose that month that doesn't happen, Okay, but

483
00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,879
Speaker 4: definitely by summer, and then it's at this end, but

484
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 4: by the first year, by the first semester of school,

485
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 4: definitely by then, like and just repeat that process of

486
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:27,280
Speaker 4: like raising your expectations, disappointing yourself, raising expectations, disappointing yourself,

487
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 4: like that crazy cycle. I'm so sick of it, Like

488
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 4: can I just be okay with the way I am

489
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,760
Speaker 4: now and just like being a healthy version of myself

490
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 4: and not like I would just constantly raise the bar

491
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Speaker 4: so high and just set myself up for, you know,

492
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Speaker 4: disappointment and give me myself those crazy like three months,

493
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Speaker 4: six weeks, you know, yeah limits, you know.

494
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Speaker 1: And you're right though, I and you look, don't you

495
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: look back? And you're like I was telling my sister

496
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Speaker 1: to say everything because she was complaining. I said, one day,

497
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Speaker 1: you're going to look back, She's in her twenties and

498
00:22:55,760 --> 00:22:59,920
Speaker 1: say what, I was beautiful? Why did that lean in? Ye? Bye?

499
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 1: You look back? You're like, what in the world, Tiffany?

500
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: You were beautiful? You know, like your body is fine,

501
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: your face was fine, your hair, all these things you

502
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,880
Speaker 1: complained about they were fine, and you didn't even get

503
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 1: to enjoy it because you were so busy nitpicking. And

504
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,239
Speaker 1: I'm really trying, you know, I'm in my thirties now,

505
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm really trying to, like, at this

506
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 1: moment in time, enjoy how I look like right now,

507
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: even if it's not perfection, just to be like, you

508
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,959
Speaker 1: know what, You're healthy, you're strong, you know, you eat right,

509
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 1: you do exercise. I mean, it's just it's just crazy

510
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 1: because like knowing, you don't get to enjoy yourself while

511
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Speaker 1: you're yourself. You have to look back and be like, oh,

512
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Speaker 1: I was snatched. Now I'm eighty, and don't nobody care

513
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 1: about these sagging boobs. You know why didn't I enjoy

514
00:23:42,440 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: it when I was snatched the young?

515
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Speaker 4: Yes? Yeah, oh love thatne self.

516
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: Yes, it's hard.

517
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Speaker 4: I sposed to be nice. We're so mean. Now, let's

518
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 4: just be nice to ourselves. That's my constant goal. Just

519
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,439
Speaker 4: be nice to yourself. Yes, As I'm sitting in my

520
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Speaker 4: fiance's childhood bedroom, it's actually been nice, you know, his

521
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 4: family to take us in like this. His mom's been

522
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 4: so nice, his dad's been so generous. They just keep

523
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:08,919
Speaker 4: telling me, do whatever you want. You don't have to

524
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Speaker 4: ask permission, just you know, make yourself at home. I

525
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:14,399
Speaker 4: don't feel like a lot of parents would do that.

526
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Speaker 4: So I'm really appreciative and grateful and believe in like

527
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 4: the money that we're going to be saving, that they're

528
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,199
Speaker 4: giving us this gift of allowing us to save for

529
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Speaker 4: our own house. I'm so excited. I can't I just

530
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 4: can't wait to see that bank account get snatched. Can

531
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Speaker 4: bank accounts be snatched?

532
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: I think so No. But you're right though, that is

533
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 1: like what an amazing gift, you know, not you know,

534
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: our parents and stuff, like we're not they're not rich,

535
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: but they can't still give you some financial support and help.

536
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: And so this is such a great way that they've

537
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Speaker 1: given you that gift, you know.

538
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Speaker 4: Yeah, And we will be paying for some stuff, so

539
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 4: if y'all don't think we're free loading, we'll pay for

540
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 4: the table and like the ace because we've been running

541
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 4: the ac like NonStop. They're Dominican, they don't. They don't

542
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 4: like the ac. It's been it's been ninety degrees. It's

543
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 4: like New York wanted to be summertime. The one week

544
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,399
Speaker 4: and we're moving in. Yeah, they don't like you. They

545
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 4: don't really use AC in their bedroom, but we have

546
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 4: one in ours and we've been cranking that sucker and

547
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 4: I'm just like, just keep it cranked up. I'll pay

548
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:11,920
Speaker 4: for the electricity.

549
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Speaker 1: I do not care exactly, not in New York summer.

550
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 4: What they have that tropical blood. I know that that

551
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 4: I can't do it. I can't.

552
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: Anything else happened in the news. I know we didn't

553
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: really talk much about anything buzzworthy other than buzzworthy in

554
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,119
Speaker 1: our lives.

555
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,920
Speaker 4: Which I like, Yeah, I think that's it.

556
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 1: So now it's boosting or breaking time. Brown break, Brown Boost,

557
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:48,439
Speaker 1: Brown Break, brown Boost. You should see me doing like

558
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: the dad by myself?

559
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 4: Is that what you're doing?

560
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 1: And Supergirl's room meanwhile, supergirls room is pink and purple everything,

561
00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,520
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting here like, yes, this is because I

562
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: like the go downstairs and I didn't want to bother them.

563
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, can I use your room? She's like sure,

564
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: but yeah, so brown break, Brown Boost? So are you

565
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 1: gonna break or boost this week?

566
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Speaker 4: I am going to boost this week since we're talking

567
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 4: about fitness and health. So I have a lot of

568
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 4: changehopping right now and I'll get to it later. It's

569
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 4: a lot of change. Moving in with my future in

570
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 4: laws is one of them. And then for some reason,

571
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 4: I signed up for a six week CrossFit challenge that

572
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 4: starts tomorrow. Not only am I doing crossit, which I'm

573
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Speaker 4: terrified of because they do this one thing called a burpie,

574
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 4: which is just like the worst thing I've ever done

575
00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 4: in my entire life.

576
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: Yes, I hate what my trainer loves a burpie. She's like,

577
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 1: so three cents of twenty, I'm like, where.

578
00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 4: What sixty? Oh my god? Yeah, I couldn't do six.

579
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Speaker 1: You can't. You will be able to because I'm crying

580
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 1: at the end, but it's worth it. But go ahead,

581
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: go ahead, keep keep boosting.

582
00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:01,040
Speaker 4: So it's this place downtown called Bowery CrossFit. And I

583
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,119
Speaker 4: never thought I would do crossbit didn't really seem like

584
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 4: it was for me. It's like one of those things

585
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 4: where I would say, Okay, I'm going to get in

586
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 4: shape and then I'll do CrossFit, which isn't really logical.

587
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 4: But I saw this ad on Instagram and it actually worked.

588
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 4: It was a video from Bowery CrossFit and they it's

589
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 4: a women's only crosspit class four beginners, and they had

590
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 4: a woman wearing a hit job doing CrossFit and like

591
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 4: women of all shapes and sizes, and I'm like, okay,

592
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 4: maybe I can do this. And it was a woman

593
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:30,119
Speaker 4: instructor and she seemed really normal and like not like

594
00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 4: we are going to bump you up, you know, like crazy,

595
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 4: and it looks like fun. So I signed up. It's

596
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 4: going to be highly difficult just to get down there

597
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 4: because it's about an hour train ride from where we

598
00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 4: live now, and I signed up for the seven am

599
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 4: class three days a week.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, so we'll see.

601
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 4: But I figure i'd rather do it early in the morning,

602
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 4: get it over with and then go straight to work.

603
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 4: And I mean, well, I mean it'll be good. It's

604
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 4: only six weeks. It's just six weeks, and I don't know,

605
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 4: I'll just I'll just see what happens after that.

606
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Speaker 1: I'm telling you. It's just there's something about like my

607
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 1: trainer is like a beast. Honestly, if you get a chance,

608
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: you should see her on Instagram. Her body is ridiculous.

609
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,520
Speaker 1: It's her name is q Key. I'm sorry, but it's

610
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: key like q Ui. So it's her name is Key

611
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,199
Speaker 1: to health, Qui the number two in health. But her

612
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,400
Speaker 1: body is ridonculous. But what I love is one she's

613
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 1: a brown girl. So when we're exercising, like before, I

614
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: would have like trainers from the gym, and they wouldn't

615
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 1: really get my body as a brown girl, like we

616
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: gotta get rid of that butt girl. Where No, first

617
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: of all, one, I don't want you.

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00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,360
Speaker 4: To get rid of what why.

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Speaker 1: Well, because you know, well, I mean, now, this is

620
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 1: like a while ago, but before you know, it's not

621
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: part of every culture to be curvy and that to

622
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: be desirable, you know.

623
00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 4: And so yeah, definitely.

624
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 1: This is like in my twenties when I used to

625
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: work at like Valleys and like I would get like

626
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: free training sessions from the personal trainers. But one key,

627
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: like totally Kiana totally gets like my body shape and type.

628
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: And one of the things that I was always worried

629
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 1: about when I worked out is that I can get

630
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: really skinny, but not in an acute good way like

631
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: very It's I can go back to what I used

632
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 1: to look like when I was like nine. And so

633
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: I was telling her that, like, oh, I do want

634
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 1: to work out and exercise, but I don't want to

635
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 1: get super nobody, no shape, skinny, and She's like, okay,

636
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: So I'm seeing myself tighten up, but I'm not losing

637
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: a ton of weight and I'm shapely. I'm like yes,

638
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: because you know, Superman's like, so we're keeping this butt right,

639
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, we will be keeping.

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00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 4: The Boutete does he do like weekly check in still there?

641
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 1: Because like I said, I don't really have much in

642
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: the boob department, So we got to keep something going on.

643
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, no, but working out with her twice a week.

644
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: What I'm so much stronger than Mandy. What I used

645
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: to like walk a block and be like, well, child,

646
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 1: let's take a break. Now I can do one hundred

647
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:06,640
Speaker 1: blurpees and back blurpies. Yeah, Birnie, I hate what a.

648
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 4: Stupid name for the worst for the worst workout ever.

649
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 1: The worst time I see her, I always pray like,

650
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: please don't like me, make her make me do these burpies.

651
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: Sometimes we open with them. She'll be like, all right

652
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: to the floor, let's go, And I'm like, I fear

653
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: every Tuesday and a Thursday for an hour.

654
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 4: Okay, mar I'll be with you soon. I'm used to

655
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 4: doing so much I do with Zoom, but I do

656
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 4: dance class. I'm used to like doing cardio, but I

657
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 4: don't really do weights, so that'll be something new for me.

658
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 4: I need to build muscle weight.

659
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, your body's going to transform as a result. It's

660
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: critical most I'm ready.

661
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 4: My nutrition has said Mandy. Because I was, I said

662
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 4: the stupid thing. I think people do this. You say

663
00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 4: I'll work out when I lose weight, or I'll lift

664
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 4: weights when I lose weight. She's like, do you not

665
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 4: understand the ked to losing weight is to build muscle,

666
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 4: so you won't lose the weight if you don't build

667
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 4: the muscle. Like that's your problem, that's my problem, So

668
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 4: shout out nutrition is Marjorie, thank you?

669
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: Well, my boost is totally the opposite. It is because

670
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 1: I was thinking about this, like all week I try

671
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: to treat myself to one thing a week, even though

672
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: I've been treating myself a whole lot this weekend. But

673
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,479
Speaker 1: it is to the best ice cream I've ever tasted

674
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: in my entire life. Sorry, okay, because you have no idea.

675
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,800
Speaker 1: I woke up like I'm getting Nastos. I'm getting Nastos

676
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: this morning. So I live in Newark, New Jersey, and

677
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 1: there is an iron bound section which is largely Portuguese,

678
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 1: and there's great restaurants. This's just great, Like, yeah, they're

679
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: really known for their restaurants. But last summer I stumbled

680
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: across upon this like home, I guess home based business,

681
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: but they're not at home. But it's like a family

682
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 1: owned business called Nastos. Nastos right, Nasto's Yeah, And so

683
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: they make their ice cream on the premises and it

684
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: is like Jesus tears, like he wept in the ice

685
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: cream and this is what we're eating. It is so

686
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: I know it's azya. I just met like there's mirror

687
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: happening in this ice cream and it is so good

688
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, oh my god, I wish we

689
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,880
Speaker 1: wore ice cream chops made ice creams like this, but

690
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: it is so good. And what I love is they

691
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 1: have like the regular flavors whatever, but then they have

692
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,680
Speaker 1: the other side where they have like all these unique

693
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 1: flavors like avocado, and you're like, what, let me try.

694
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 4: This delicious avocado ice cream is good?

695
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: What? I never had it till I went there. They

696
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 1: actually have sweet corn. It is you will slap your.

697
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 4: Mama corn ice.

698
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,480
Speaker 1: They have like they literally have so many different amazing flavors.

699
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,560
Speaker 1: I told Superman this morning. I'm like, so as soon

700
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: as I woke up, I didn't even take good morning.

701
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: I said, We're going to Nastos. He's like what, I'm like,

702
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: we're going.

703
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 4: Did you wake up? Did you like jump out of

704
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 4: bed and like you were possessed?

705
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 1: No? I was just like later on today we're going.

706
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, sorry, has my mind? I'm like, all right,

707
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go for three my walk run so that

708
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: way I can earn my Nastos. But I was like,

709
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 1: we're going to Nassos today and it is just that good.

710
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 1: So that is my boos. Really, my boot is just

711
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: like doing little things that put smiles on your face,

712
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes especially exactly because now, sometimes you know,

713
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: we make ourselves feel so guilty. You make yourself feel like,

714
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,440
Speaker 1: you know, bad, like oh, by the time you know

715
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: whatever was thirty years old, some famous person they had this, this, this,

716
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: and this is going on. Look at my life, and

717
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'm so tired of like hearing my

718
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 1: friends talk about like their lives and not where they

719
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: want them to be. And I want to just be like, man,

720
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 1: you're alive, you're healthy, you're well, you're fine, treat yourself,

721
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: enjoy the little things and eat Nasta's ice cream.

722
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 4: Well, someone who's left to us intolerant.

723
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: As am I and I don't care. You don't care.

724
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 4: Well, you know what I will say, almond milk ice cream,

725
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 4: coconut milk ice cream. That has been my saving grace.

726
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 4: There's this place in a story, oh my story, my

727
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 4: neighborhood where I move from it's called Sweet Jaans. They

728
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 4: have the most amazing dairy free ice cream. It doesn't

729
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 4: taste you don't taste like you're missing anything at all.

730
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 4: It's so good. I just had some yesterday when we

731
00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 4: went back to drop our keys off, and I was

732
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 4: like to have one last s week Jane's. They have

733
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 4: like really cool flavors like blueberry, lavender, which sounds disgusting,

734
00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 4: but it's delicious, Peanut butter, chocolate chip, banana nut, all

735
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 4: these amazing ooh, it's delicious. If you can find a

736
00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:14,760
Speaker 4: good dairy free parlor.

737
00:34:15,560 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 1: Ooh, I'm gonna google that because I love me some

738
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: ice cream, ice cream and pizza every day. I could, Yes,

739
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: I could.

740
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 4: We're in the grocery store, you know, coconut bliss.

741
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I don't get me wrong. I like

742
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: some girl grocery store ice cream, but there's nothing like

743
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: someone like hand churning. This is some ice cream, you know.

744
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: This is ice cream place in Savannah. That is it Savannah? Yeah,

745
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 1: Savanah that I want to. I forget what it was called,

746
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: but it was like some famous place and they were

747
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:38,919
Speaker 1: really good too.

748
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,280
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna check it out. I'mnna check it out

749
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 4: because we're going in the shoe weeks.

750
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: O take me with you, I know, Savannah woll And Now.

751
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 4: Just maybe next time you.

752
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 1: Have people tell you that, like take me with you.

753
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: My friend called me on like Friday, He's like, what

754
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 1: do you do? You want to go to Madrid? I

755
00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: was like what. He's like, I gotta take it before

756
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: six hours? I'm like what. I was tempted to go,

757
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 1: but the ticket was only forty six, but still there

758
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,760
Speaker 1: were other you know, there's other costs associated, and honestly

759
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: I've been saving for other trips and I've been to

760
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: Madrid before. So although I was like, Tiffany, just go,

761
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: I was also like, it's probably gonna talk costs in

762
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: total probably like three fifty, which is still really great

763
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,080
Speaker 1: for like a trip to Europe, but still that three

764
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: fifty can go to it. I really want to go

765
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 1: to Thailand this year in South Africa, you know. So

766
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: I was proud of myself for saying no, because typically

767
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: like I just tell Superman, So I'm leaving for Madrid

768
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 1: in a few hours. I'll see you.

769
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 4: Preach yourself, but not too much exactly. So frustrate questions.

770
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 4: We don't have questions today unless well, okay, we have

771
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,240
Speaker 4: one question, but it's not really a financial question. Somebody

772
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 4: wants to know if we have any tips on what

773
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 4: to see when she's in LA.

774
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: You know what I suggested, If you get an La

775
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 1: go rent a car and drive to San Diego.

776
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,879
Speaker 4: Oh I love San Diego. Take that's like an hour

777
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,400
Speaker 4: hour and a half away first.

778
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: And it's honestly, it's not a bad drive and it

779
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,560
Speaker 1: San Diego is like the best I would say for La.

780
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: Totally do the toursty Like the first time I went

781
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: to La, I totally did like the Hollywood like, you know,

782
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: touristy like going to going to see the Walk of

783
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: Fame or wherever. Just go to trip advisor type in

784
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: LA and you're gonna see like all of these things

785
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: to do, Like they'll show you free things to do,

786
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: how much things cost if you do want to do something.

787
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:37,480
Speaker 1: I personally, I don't know if you like to do

788
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: a tour, but every time I go somewhere new, I

789
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: like to get that like double decker bus, you know,

790
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: the red bus tour.

791
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:44,359
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, the big bus tour.

792
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. I like, I don't know, like I'm corny, but

793
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: my first day there. What I do is I buy

794
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 1: one of those tickets and I ride one of the

795
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: buses and I don't get off. I'll just ride the

796
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: whole thing. And then the next day I use what

797
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: I saw on the tour to decide what I want

798
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: to do, Like, ooh, you know what I saw that

799
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: shopping center, I saw that monument. I want to go

800
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: back and see because usually the ticket is good for

801
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 1: like two or three days, and so I let the

802
00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 1: tour that bus be my taxi for the for the trip.

803
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 4: Oh that's a good idea. Well, apparently this is if

804
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 4: she says it's a first time traveling alone for six days.

805
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 4: So we went to La. We did like a whole

806
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 4: road trip from San Diego all the way up to

807
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 4: San Francisco, and it was on the Coastal Highway. It

808
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 4: was like, yeah, a couple of years ago, it was

809
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 4: so cool. It was really cool. We had like I

810
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 4: think nine days, ten days, so we spent a couple

811
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 4: of days in the major cities. We only had two

812
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 4: days in La but we packed in some cool stuff.

813
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 4: We saw the Santa Monica Pier. We saw the Griffith Observatory,

814
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 4: which is like up in the hills, it's a really

815
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 4: it's like a lookout point for all of downtown LA

816
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 4: and you you can drive up and it's like it's

817
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,120
Speaker 4: a really cool that if you look up a picture

818
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 4: of it you might recognize it. It's a white domed

819
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 4: kind of building. Okay, really cool. It's actually it's a

820
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 4: real observatory. I think it's like I don't know, scientists

821
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 4: or so. You can see telescopes and stuff, you can

822
00:37:58,880 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 4: see space.

823
00:37:59,440 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: I don't know.

824
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 4: It was really beautiful. And then we went to this,

825
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 4: Oh I think it was the not the Gougenheim Getty.

826
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:07,800
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I think it's a Getty Gettytty Is it

827
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 4: the Getty?

828
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:08,520
Speaker 1: Yeah?

829
00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Okay, so one of my favorite things we

830
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 4: took this. We took a really cool like a bucket

831
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 4: what do you call those sky bucket thingies? I like

832
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 4: a sky train. Oh yeah, the side of a mountain

833
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 4: to get to the J. Paul Getty Museum, which is

834
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 4: like an indoor outdoor museum. You can only do this

835
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 4: in La where the weather is so beautiful. It's like

836
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 4: park garden, part sculpture garden, part regular museum, and it's

837
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 4: so much fun to like walk around and I could

838
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,359
Speaker 4: stay there all day because it was gorgeous. That's one

839
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 4: of my favorite part.

840
00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: But yeah, definitely if you're gonna go to La, don't

841
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 1: just stay in La that. I think that, like what

842
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: Mandy saying, it's perfect. Definitely like rent a car, go

843
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,560
Speaker 1: to San Diego. Actually went to the city. Like right

844
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: outside San Diego, there's this place called the Marin Maren Woods.

845
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: Like to go see one of the sequoias. You know.

846
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: The sequoias are those trees that you can like build

847
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 1: a house that they're so huge. Yeah, and so you

848
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: definitely want to, Like I see that, actually went and

849
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 1: hugged the tree, took a picture. I looked like an

850
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,120
Speaker 1: ant next to it, but it was I love to

851
00:39:05,160 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: see majestic things when I travel, so like nature, and

852
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: so I would go to San Diego, go to the beach,

853
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: go to Marrinwoods, or you know, google where you can

854
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,760
Speaker 1: go see a sequoia. It's like really close to San Diego.

855
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: I think you might not have enough time to go

856
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,839
Speaker 1: all the way to San Francisco. But I'm trying to think,

857
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Speaker 1: what else did I do it?

858
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Speaker 4: I see sequoias in San Diego down.

859
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Speaker 1: South Sequoia is that the name of that huge tree.

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Speaker 4: It is, Yeah, but I thought they were up north,

861
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Speaker 4: like like we saw them too, but not or the

862
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 4: redwood trees.

863
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: We saw them the redwood. No, I think it was

864
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Speaker 1: with redwood that Sequoia. Of course are Secoia's redwood trees

865
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Speaker 1: in the red wood for maybe they're.

866
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Speaker 4: This is outside of my ex I know.

867
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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think. Was that San Diego or was

868
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Speaker 1: that San Francisco?

869
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Speaker 4: San Francisco for sure?

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Speaker 1: Oh my bad.

871
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Speaker 4: Like I was like, San Diego is like it's beautiful,

872
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 4: but there's no trees.

873
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Speaker 1: It's like very yes, you're right, I'm sorry. So that

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Speaker 1: was San Francisco. I love San Francisco. It's one of

875
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Speaker 1: my actually one of my favorite American cities.

876
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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like that could be a whole trip onto itself.

877
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Speaker 1: It is a whole trip under south and San Francisco's

878
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,680
Speaker 1: it's really far though from LA I don't know that

879
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 1: you'll have time or want to drive the.

880
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 4: San Diego is totally doable or Santa Barbara. You've been, okay,

881
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 4: Santa Barbara's like an hour the other direction. San Diego

882
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 4: is like an hour south and Santa Barbara's like a

883
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 4: couple hours north. But San Diego got the beach. You

884
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 4: can go to La Joya j Oa to see and

885
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,839
Speaker 4: they have like seals on the beach. You can just

886
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 4: like watch the seals frolic.

887
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Speaker 1: Yes, I've been there before. It's gorgeous. Also too, you

888
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: can look to see if groupon has whale or what

889
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: is it called dolphin watching in San Diego if you go,

890
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Speaker 1: because I did that when I was out there. It

891
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 1: was amaze at all that it was actually really inexpensive

892
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 1: because I found a groupon for it. You're definitely gonna

893
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Speaker 1: want to rent.

894
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 4: A car though, yeah, or yeah for sure.

895
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Speaker 1: Like a like a yeah, like a zip like a

896
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: zip car or whatever. You know, like those like cars

897
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 1: that you can kind of rent for the hour or whatever.

898
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't do, like, knowing what I know now,

899
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 1: I probably wouldn't have rented like like a rental car,

900
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: like an enterprise kind of thing, because I didn't need

901
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 1: a car every day. You know, you could do a

902
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: mix between uber and like rending those zip cars for like, oh,

903
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 1: I just need it for the next six hours or

904
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:12,040
Speaker 1: I can park it here.

905
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 4: You know, you may not need it for the whole

906
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 4: six days.

907
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: Exactly, but you're gonna have fun fun. I mean I

908
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: when I went to La I went by myself too.

909
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 1: I love solo travel. Have you ever traveled by yourself, Mandy? Oh?

910
00:41:22,760 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I did six months after college in South America

911
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 4: by myself. Talk about building some confidence. Yeah, that's the

912
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 4: best thing you can do as a young woman. I

913
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 4: know it. As a young woman. I know it's like

914
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 4: it can be intimidating to travel by yourself. I mean

915
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 4: I used to not be able to eat lunch in

916
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 4: the cafeteria by myself. I would I would skip lunch

917
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 4: and go to the I'm not kidding. I I was

918
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:44,879
Speaker 4: so painfully shy. I would go to the library where

919
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 4: I would eat the bathroom. Oh, I know, I was like sad,

920
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 4: Mandy story.

921
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:51,839
Speaker 1: I was like, I was just gonna get that media hug,

922
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 1: Like skinny, skinny, frail Tiffany wants to go into the bathroom.

923
00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 4: And give you a hug I want to give I

924
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 4: want to give myself a hug. It was so sad,

925
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:01,400
Speaker 4: But traveling alone was like my was the way I

926
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Speaker 4: got out of my shell and out of my comfort

927
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Speaker 4: zone and just learned to like just be okay by

928
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,680
Speaker 4: yourself with yourself. So I really I think You'll have

929
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Speaker 4: a great time. Dasha. Her name's Sasha.

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Speaker 1: Hey Dasha. Yeah, I love solo travel. I never like

931
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: in the beginning of if somebody you who might listen

932
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,400
Speaker 1: and think, look to yourself. I can never travel alone, honestly,

933
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Speaker 1: I would suggest do some domestic stuff first, like that.

934
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Speaker 1: My first solo travel was a New Mexico. I went

935
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Speaker 1: to Albuquerque because that's like the hot air balloon capital

936
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 1: of the world, and my bucket list was to ride

937
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Speaker 1: in a hot air balloon and I did it awesome.

938
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Speaker 1: And then I drove from Albuquerque to Santa Fe, which

939
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: is like beautiful, very artsy partsy town, and just the

940
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: drive alone was beautiful. And so that was my first

941
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: solo trip and it was weird at first, but I

942
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Speaker 1: ended up really loving it, and I've done a lot

943
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: of solo trip. I actually went to India and spent

944
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 1: two days by myself, which was like huge. I was like,

945
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm here in India by myself, and

946
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: because I was meeting up with friends later, but I

947
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: was like, you know, I'm gonna go early so I

948
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Speaker 1: can like navigate. It was my first international trip by myself,

949
00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,320
Speaker 1: and it was cool. I mean It definitely was a

950
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 1: little bit, like, you know, off putting a little bit

951
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 1: because India is not Kansas anymore. It's so different. But

952
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: it's beautiful and the spices and the smells and the

953
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: women and the colors. But I was a little bit

954
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I was a little bit like then.

955
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: I was like, Tiffany, honestly, you live in Newark, New Jersey.

956
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: That's not Cleveland, that's like Detroit. Like you'll be fine.

957
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 4: That's true.

958
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: You know when people tell me what I talk about myself,

959
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: like are you gonna be fine? I'm like, yeah, so

960
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 1: I live in Newark, So I I think I'll be good.

961
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 1: Oh any wins this week and he'll wins.

962
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:40,919
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, do we have a win? Do we ever

963
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 4: have a win this week? So I was just you know,

964
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 4: minding my business during our move this Saturday, packing. But

965
00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 4: I just got I got a ping on Facebook from

966
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,800
Speaker 4: someone who tagged Brown Ambition. And it turns out w NYC,

967
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 4: which is like the public radio station for New York City,

968
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 4: it's major. They they have this guy who does podcast

969
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,319
Speaker 4: reviews and he was on Facebook Live and this guy

970
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 4: who is not our target audience. I will say mister James.

971
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 4: His name is James. He did a whole shout out

972
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 4: for Brown Ambition. Yeah, it was so cool.

973
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: And it was so dupe about it. Is that Like

974
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 1: he kept saying, right Ambition.

975
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:23,280
Speaker 4: I was like, say it again, he said, Mandy and Tiffany.

976
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 4: He showed the logo. He even played a little clip.

977
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Speaker 1: Yeah. It was. Honestly, I was like what because I

978
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: saw you tag me and I'm like wait what it

979
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: was Honestly, it was just awesome. I just want to

980
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 1: say thank you to him. Yeah, that's our huge, huge,

981
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: huge win.

982
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:39,240
Speaker 4: Thank you, James Ramsey and w N my C Radio.

983
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 4: Happy to come by, Happy to talk about, you know,

984
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 4: sharing studio space, whatever you guys want, you know, grab

985
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 4: a coffee anything like that. Just you know we're here.

986
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 4: We're here for you. Yeah, like you're here for us,

987
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 4: like to pay forward if not. You know, that was

988
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 4: just it's just joice to be recognized and get some validation.

989
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was really especially, like you said, from someone

990
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: who's not our target audience. But it's just dope to

991
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 1: know all different types of folks are listening.

992
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 4: I died because he played the clip that we talked

993
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:09,760
Speaker 4: about engagement rings.

994
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: Yes, you just never know. You're like, ooh, I did

995
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 1: say that.

996
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 4: I was speaking of engagement rings. My best friend got

997
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 4: engaged yesterday. Wait was yesterday. It's been a busy weekend.

998
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 4: Wait a second, it was like Saturday or Sunday. I forget.

999
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 1: Now, that's my best friend. That's my best friend. You

1000
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: better work Okay, happy, happy engagement best friend.

1001
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 4: So that's two of my bridesmaids are engaged. Now I'm

1002
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:38,399
Speaker 4: just hiring up all the engaged ladies doing each other's

1003
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 4: stuff all at once.

1004
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 1: Stay tuned because I was talking to it was so random.

1005
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,799
Speaker 1: Me and Superman were making the bed like yesterday, like

1006
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: putting like the covers on, and he was like, what

1007
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: are he getting married? I looked at him. I said, brother,

1008
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 1: we wait on you.

1009
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 4: He's asking you, that's what he said. And I was like,

1010
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 4: to the podcast, no he doesn't.

1011
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 1: He's not a super like thank god, because honestly, he's

1012
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: like really sippy all of our business, all of it.

1013
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm waiting on you. He's like,

1014
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 1: I know, I gotta go see your dad. I was like,

1015
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: and if you need help with the ring, here is

1016
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: my best friend Mby and my sister number.

1017
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:12,759
Speaker 4: Yes, that's what I did.

1018
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, because I told I think I'm just gonna

1019
00:46:15,920 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: like cause he was like, no, I'm fine. I'm like, yeah,

1020
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: I'm actually just gonna give my best friend his number

1021
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: and just be like, I need you to just call,

1022
00:46:21,800 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: so just check it in on you sidebar. If you

1023
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: need anybody to help you with a shopping you know

1024
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: we're here for you always.

1025
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 4: I think guys, you know, want a little help, just

1026
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 4: someone to be like, just validate their decision, you know.

1027
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: Exactly, to be like, no, she would like this, and

1028
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,560
Speaker 1: my best friend has like very clean and that she

1029
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:42,680
Speaker 1: knows me. I'm not fussy. I don't want some crazy

1030
00:46:42,719 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: looking whatever. I just something simple, honestly.

1031
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 4: And you mean you wouldn't turn down the Hope diamond,

1032
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I would not, but she would have asked

1033
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 4: her for it.

1034
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 1: Like we live in Newark. I don't know how long

1035
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: i'd have it if I had no shade to Newark.

1036
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: I love my people because I know they're gonna be

1037
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: like this funny, but let's be Yeah, no, I wouldn't

1038
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:03,439
Speaker 1: turn down the whole diamond, but honestly, that's not even

1039
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: my focus. Like he could wake up this morning, you

1040
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 1: know and be like babe, I love you. Let's go

1041
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: down to just for the piece and not even have

1042
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,480
Speaker 1: a ring, and I'd be like, yes, I've already known,

1043
00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: I've known for a long time. He's who I want

1044
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: to spend the rest of my life with. All of

1045
00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: the other stuff is just extra m h.

1046
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 4: Well, but I'll be waiting.

1047
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: Way.

1048
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 4: The year twenty sixteen is a year. This is the

1049
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 4: year when everybody is getting engaged.

1050
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 1: Yep, I feel it. I already know. I'm like it,

1051
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: Netta be love you Superman.

1052
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 4: Well, I have one last one I started. I started

1053
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:44,279
Speaker 4: to mention this last week, but actually cut it out

1054
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 4: of the podcast because we weren't officially announcing it yet ever.

1055
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 4: But I have some job news. If you follow me

1056
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 4: on any social media channels, I've been posting some cryptic stuff.

1057
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 4: I'm trying not to be too annoying, but I've been

1058
00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 4: super excited. Last week was my last day at my

1059
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 4: last Thursday was my last day at Yahoo. And in

1060
00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 4: a couple of weeks I'm going to be starting as

1061
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 4: executive editor of Magnify Monday.

1062
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,479
Speaker 1: And for those of you who don't know, Magnify Money

1063
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 1: is literally like my favorite website for personal finance like

1064
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: and not even like exaggerating when if I look at

1065
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: my analytics to see what website that my blog has

1066
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Speaker 1: set the most people to they are like head and

1067
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Speaker 1: shoulders above everyone else, like Magnifi Money. That's how amazing

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Speaker 1: I think that sited. So the fact that you're working

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Speaker 1: with them, it's like just awesome. It's just a great

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Speaker 1: site with integrity, with great writing with it's just so

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Speaker 1: helpful and useful. And the fact that you are like

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Speaker 1: executive editor, woo woo, boss lady.

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Speaker 4: I know, I'm so excited. I get to build their

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Speaker 4: editorial team from scratch.

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Speaker 1: Crazy.

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Speaker 4: If your personal finance reporter, do you want a job pava, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm really super excited. I have to think.

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Speaker 1: So.

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Speaker 4: The founder's name is Nick, and he this is his baby,

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Speaker 4: the company. He cares a lot about it. And they're

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Speaker 4: not playing the like this typical financial education startup game

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Speaker 4: where they like raise a bunch of money and try

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Speaker 4: to get try to get bought by like Fidelity or

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Speaker 4: Bank of America or something like that. They truly care

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Speaker 4: about demystifying the world a personal finance for people, and

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Speaker 4: I care about that obviously, and I can't wait to

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Speaker 4: write for their audience and join their team and get

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Speaker 4: out of Times Square.

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Speaker 1: Finally, I have been to their office. He always comes

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Speaker 1: to do work whenever we meet because we're doing like

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Speaker 1: some projects and stuff together, but he always comes to

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Speaker 1: do work. I'm like, I gotta go visit them in

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Speaker 1: their office. But she's writing Nick the founder is just

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Speaker 1: I love, Like it's like working with Mandy. I just

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Speaker 1: love when you meet someone who you can tell that

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Speaker 1: what's really important is what's important. I want to help people,

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Speaker 1: and I'm fortunate enough that I've surrounded myself with people

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Speaker 1: who that's really their first and most important, Like that's

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Speaker 1: their goal to help people. And that's what Nick is

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Speaker 1: doing over there magnifying money, and now Mandy's over there

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Speaker 1: doing it. Say, well, you were already doing that, but

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Speaker 1: now you get to do it with It's great, Like,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know if you call them a startup.

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Speaker 4: But it's just yeah, I would say a startup, but

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Speaker 4: they are, they're they're they're getting bigger and bigger every day.

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Speaker 4: So you have to go to you have to go

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Speaker 4: to magnify money dot com or follow them on Twitter

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Speaker 4: at magnify Money. We're supposed to be announcing that I'm

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Speaker 4: joining the team on Tuesday, so hopefully you know this

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Speaker 4: will write in line with the podcast, but yeah, check

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Speaker 4: them out and hope you'll you'll stop by and check

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Speaker 4: out what we're doing there. I'm super exolided, And it

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Speaker 4: was it was very scary to jump from, like, if

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Speaker 4: you want to talk about career choices, like to jump

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Speaker 4: from Yahoo, which is the biggest brand in internet, like

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Speaker 4: one of the biggest brands in internet companies, you know,

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Speaker 4: for better or for worse, in the country, and to

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Speaker 4: jump from that kind of recognition to a relatively little

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Speaker 4: known startup was a big risk. But I just really

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Speaker 4: care about them a lot, and I've been I've been

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Speaker 4: looking or waiting for something interesting to come along, and

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Speaker 4: this was just perfect, perfect fit, perfect opportunity. And I'm

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Speaker 4: so grateful that, you know, Kate, they came to me

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Speaker 4: with the with the job, and I can't wait to start.

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Speaker 1: And I have to say, like, you know, and I'm

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Speaker 1: so glad that while you worked at Yahoo, I got

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Speaker 1: my fair share of snacks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no more free snacks for me, No more free lunch.

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Speaker 4: Goodbye free lunch. Every day. Nick has the teeny tiniest

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Speaker 4: little microffridge I've ever seen in my life. I was like, so,

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Speaker 4: where do I fit my spa water?

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Speaker 1: But you know what, though, it's totally worth it because

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Speaker 1: you are making this transition to like leadership and and

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Speaker 1: I just think that that's awesome and you get to

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Speaker 1: shape like the next minds of personal finance as far

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Speaker 1: as writing and so I just think that's awesome. I'm

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Speaker 1: so proud of you and so happy for you.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. It's it's the perfect amount is terrifying and exciting.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to be more excited than terrified. But I

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Speaker 4: think if you're not scared, you're not growing when it

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Speaker 4: comes to your career. And luckily I was terrified of

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Speaker 4: Yahoo three years ago when I came on, So that

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Speaker 4: worked out, okay, I believe. So we'll see what happens.

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Speaker 1: All y'all. So hopefully you are enjoying your extended weekend

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Speaker 1: and you got a lot from this podcast today, and

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Speaker 1: we will see you on Twitter at the BA podcast,

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Speaker 1: on Facebook at Brown Ambition, and.

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Speaker 4: Please email us with questions, comments, concerns at Brown Ambition

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Speaker 4: Podcast at gmail dot com dot come. Okay, have a

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Speaker 4: good week, I'll talk I'll talk to you soon, all right,

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