1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: Welcome back to a Breakable, a mental health podcast with 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,040 Speaker 1: Jay Glazer. I'm Jay Glazer. If you're like many people, 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: you may be surprised to learn that one in five 4 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,560 Speaker 1: adults in this country experienced mental illness last year. Yet 5 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: far too many trailer received the support they need. Carol 6 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,639 Speaker 1: in behavior Heal is doing something about it. They understand 7 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: that behavioral is a key part of whole health, delivering 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 1: compassion care that treats physical, mental, emotional, and social needs. 9 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: Intendem Carolyn Behavior Hull, raising the quality of life through 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: empathy and action. Welcome into Monday Motivation and today I 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: really want to preach what I think is the secret 12 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: of success, the magic bill. If you will, you know 13 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: what the big secret is. And I've told NFL players 14 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: is fighters, guys that we've trained for years. First conversation 15 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: I have with an NFL player and when he walks 16 00:00:49,320 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: into Unbreakable wants to train in our mixed martial arts program. 17 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: Very first two minutes, I tell them, Okay, if you 18 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: want to be the best, you want to be great, 19 00:00:58,480 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: just find out who the best Isn't do more than that. 20 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: It's that simple that it bakes that Tom Brady's so incredible. 21 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: Bait Manning's so incredible, And it's the hours you put 22 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: in when no one's watching. I'll never forget one time 23 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: I was down in New Orleans and with Charle Bayton 24 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 1: down there, and it was a Thursday night and it 25 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: was past ten o'clock at night and he forgot something 26 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: back of the office. We had to drive thirty five 27 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: minutes back to the Saint's office. When we get there 28 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: about ten thirty at night. One light on the loll 29 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 1: office if one meat heir and is Drew Brees sitting 30 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: in there. He's sitting there watching Philip. So what are 31 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: you doing, dude? And he says sometimes trying to be 32 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 1: great as lowly. I said, man, I'm so steel that 33 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: for you. But it's the work you put in, folks, 34 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: opens your dreams up. Listen. I worked my butt off 35 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 1: for eleven years, making four hundred and fifty dollars a year. 36 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: That first day I walked in the Gian locker in 37 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: nineteen ninety three. It's one of the first things I 38 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: said to myself. I am not more teleivan than anybody 39 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: in the here. I don't have an education that everybody 40 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: else has in the ear. I don't have the skill 41 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: set that everybody else doesn't here. The one thing I 42 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: have or everybody is my work ethic. I am relentless 43 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: in my work ethic, relentless, relentless, relentless. I will just 44 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: keep coming and coming and going, going, going and bringing 45 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: it and bringing it and bringing it and bringing it. 46 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: Tell everybody else says, hey, we didn't sign up for this, 47 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: all right, we're al now. Part of that ability to 48 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: work your butt off means just going to be rejection. 49 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: There's going to be a lot of things, But if 50 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 1: you're out working the world, your dreams are going to 51 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: be a lot more readily available than if you're not. 52 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: And yes, it is exhausting, but I have a lot 53 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 1: of people who say to me, man, I'm working and 54 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: these aren't happening for me. Listen, I was working my 55 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: butt off for those eleven years not getting full time job. 56 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: It didn't happen the first month or two months or 57 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: six months, for one year. I had to make that 58 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: decision to outwork the world, not by a little, by 59 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 1: a lot until my dreams finally became reachable. But I 60 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: want you all understand nothing comes easy. You got to 61 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: really lean into how much more work you can put in, 62 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: like Drew said, try to be great as lowly it is. 63 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 1: Trying to be great is lowly, but man, that pursuit 64 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: of greatness, it is fantastic. It's exhilarating. And the best 65 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,399 Speaker 1: part for me was I never said to myself, you're 66 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: not successful if you don't make it quote unquote, that's 67 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: successful if you don't get this job. I always build 68 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: myself up, say I am out work in the world. 69 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm going to reach the goals 70 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 1: I was trying to reach I have, But the only 71 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: thing that I knew I had that control over was 72 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: can I outwork the world. I really loved myself up 73 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: to putting that work in. There's no dollar amount that 74 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: could replace that work that I was able to put in. 75 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: So dive into that, lean into that work your butt off, 76 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: appreciate the climate itself. Let's keep walking this walk together.