Speaker 1: Welcome to your brand new second Date update On a Friday,
Speaker 1: even the best show makes a little better. Hey, it's
Speaker 1: Brig and Jeffrey in the morning, and we have one
Speaker 1: of the most lovable, one of our favorite listeners back
Speaker 1: for a second date. Lovable and most gullible. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: he has fallen for some romantic scams in the past,
Speaker 1: but he says this time is different, and we got
Speaker 1: to find out why here in a second. But earlier
Speaker 1: this week, we asked you to comment the most embarrassing
Speaker 1: thing your parent has ever posted, and we can't let
Speaker 1: those answers slide by.
Speaker 2: Oh I saw them, and I had to read them
Speaker 2: all right too. I saw that I liked is one person,
Speaker 2: Preslin said, my mom posted a video of me singing
Speaker 2: every word of satisfied from Hamilton, and.
Speaker 3: Then will you ever be satisfied?
Speaker 1: I need to know how old you were, too. I
Speaker 1: have questions. I feel like the older, the more embarrassing
Speaker 1: it is.
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, And another one from Free Thinker said, the
Speaker 2: most embarrassing thing my family posted.
Speaker 1: My mom wrote what.
Speaker 2: Was meant to be a personal message as a post,
Speaker 2: and it was all about her bowel movement, complaining about
Speaker 2: my dad and asking me questions about symptoms from when
Speaker 2: I was sick with the stomach virus and.
Speaker 1: A lot of personal stuff.
Speaker 2: I didn't see it until two days later. No, so
Speaker 2: it was fun to see the comments and beg my
Speaker 2: mom to delete it.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna write my son, I hit post delete it,
Speaker 2: and she's like, I don't know, She's.
Speaker 1: Like, I started a group message, but it is so funny.
Speaker 1: Oh so good. Hey, thanks for being here, bar of
Speaker 1: this weird Brick and Jeffrey family. We're starting your brand
Speaker 1: new Second Date Update right now.
Speaker 4: The Second Date Update.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do a quick recap about one of my
Speaker 5: most favorite listeners we've had on the show in the
Speaker 5: past year, and I'm gonna do it because he's back today.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's hold On. He's his favorite, not our favorite.
Speaker 5: His name is Randall, and last time we spoke to Randall,
Speaker 5: he had met not one, but two international women on
Speaker 5: the internet.
Speaker 4: One was from.
Speaker 5: Vietnam, the other from the Philippines, and he had even
Speaker 5: flown out to meet the first one Vietnam.
Speaker 1: Yeah they turned up, not at the airport.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she never showed up. We didn't call that woman.
Speaker 5: We ended up calling a different lady, someone that he'd
Speaker 5: met locally, because his friend had suggested, why not try
Speaker 5: dating in your own area code?
Speaker 1: Great friends, why try not getting scammed?
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that woman ended up just wanting to be his.
Speaker 1: Friend and help them avoid scammers.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: The thing that we learned about Randall is that he
Speaker 5: believes in the power of true love. That's true, and
Speaker 5: he's just had a bad run of luck lately and
Speaker 5: needs our help. So I'm curious to hear about his
Speaker 5: latest romantic endeavor. Randall, my guy, welcome back to the show.
Speaker 8: How you been man?
Speaker 7: Thank you guys so much for having me back on.
Speaker 7: I really appreciate here.
Speaker 1: You tell me in the time between the last time
Speaker 1: we talked and now you have wired no one money,
Speaker 1: no sweet okay.
Speaker 4: A wiring y.
Speaker 5: We're learning, we're growing. That's great. But what brings you
Speaker 5: back today?
Speaker 7: Well, I had a few friends listen to the show
Speaker 7: the last time.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 7: They agreed with you guys that I should try dating
Speaker 7: more locally first, okay, and surprisingly I started doing that,
Speaker 7: but it hasn't gone that great.
Speaker 1: To be honest, guys, Okay, are you on the apps?
Speaker 1: Is that how you're finding women? Locally to date.
Speaker 7: Well, I met a girl named Sammy and we met
Speaker 7: in person.
Speaker 5: You are doing a good thing where you're looking at
Speaker 5: the past mistakes and learning and adjusting and adapting.
Speaker 4: That's all very good.
Speaker 7: Now, you guys know me. I'm a romantic though. I
Speaker 7: surprised her with a very special date. I took her
Speaker 7: on a picnic to an outdoor movie.
Speaker 1: You cheerly talk, can you movies? It doesn't matter outdoors.
Speaker 1: People are only happy.
Speaker 4: Okay, how did it go?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 7: I think the first thirty to forty five seconds was good.
Speaker 6: What second, Well that's.
Speaker 4: A good start.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just my luck.
Speaker 7: Right after we sit down and get situated, she goes,
Speaker 7: oh my gosh, I think my friends here. Then she
Speaker 7: looks at me says, do you mind if I text
Speaker 7: them where we are?
Speaker 6: So, of course you were like, yeah, tell your friends
Speaker 6: to come say hi.
Speaker 5: Right, yeah, it's a good sign that she's already wanting
Speaker 5: to introduce you to her friends.
Speaker 7: True, that's what I thought. It's it like, man, I'm
Speaker 7: really in there this time.
Speaker 8: So a couple of minutes.
Speaker 7: Later, a very good looking guy shows up, and the
Speaker 7: only face on the little planket that we have is
Speaker 7: on the other side of me. So now I'm in
Speaker 7: the middle of them. The movie starts, and then as
Speaker 7: you're about to watch it, she whispers in my ear,
Speaker 7: this is my ex.
Speaker 1: Wait text her ex boyfriend.
Speaker 8: Yeah, so I had to watch the movie with her.
Speaker 6: Egg.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what you stayed? Bro? I have so
Speaker 1: many questions. Well, they're on his blanket. What is he
Speaker 1: gonna do?
Speaker 6: I'd like blanket alone.
Speaker 1: Anyways, let's hold on.
Speaker 4: Maybe it gets better from here.
Speaker 1: Goodness does it?
Speaker 7: It does not?
Speaker 4: Okay? What happened?
Speaker 7: They're laughing parts of the movie together. Then I'm not
Speaker 7: laughing at because they have some history of inside jokes
Speaker 7: and I don't even understand. Oh yeah, here's the bad part.
Speaker 7: At one point she reached around my back and rubbed
Speaker 7: his shoulder.
Speaker 5: Maybe there's like a spider or something.
Speaker 4: She flicked it off.
Speaker 9: This is bad.
Speaker 1: Why you wanting to call this woman? She sounds terrible.
Speaker 1: The woman in the Philippines sounds better.
Speaker 5: It doesn't sound like this girl's giving you the attention
Speaker 5: that you deserve and that you want for a.
Speaker 1: Day, like respect.
Speaker 4: Why would you want to reach out to her?
Speaker 7: But I really liked it. I thought she was nice.
Speaker 7: I thought we had a good chemistry. I mean after
Speaker 7: the movie, I was like, oh, your ex huh. But
Speaker 7: she said we'll always just be friends.
Speaker 1: So I mean that did probably give you hope that
Speaker 1: she was still interested in you though, right her saying that.
Speaker 7: Well, that's what it sounded like to me. She was
Speaker 7: trying to make sure I understood they're just friends.
Speaker 1: Okay, that is good.
Speaker 10: She's like explaining, like, I know this looks weird, but
Speaker 10: I want to reassure you that could be nice.
Speaker 1: So nothing since.
Speaker 7: No, And I really would love another chance with Sammy.
Speaker 7: I like her.
Speaker 1: I think she's the one should be asking for another
Speaker 1: chance with you.
Speaker 4: Or her ex.
Speaker 5: Maybe, Yeah, it would be probably nice to get an
Speaker 5: opportunity to a date without an next boyfriend sitting directly
Speaker 5: next to you.
Speaker 4: That would probably help.
Speaker 7: I prefer to sit in the non X section.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's crazy.
Speaker 10: You've been on so many dates recently and none of
Speaker 10: them have just been one on one with a woman.
Speaker 9: And.
Speaker 4: We got to hook that up for you all.
Speaker 5: I mean, at least get you some answers, because clearly
Speaker 5: you're looking for help here.
Speaker 7: I am. I really want the person that likes me.
Speaker 7: I like him. So is there something I need to
Speaker 7: do to fix that or improve it. I want to
Speaker 7: hear it.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, you don't need to fix anything about yourself.
Speaker 4: You're perfect the way you are, Randall.
Speaker 1: Maybe he does. We all could use growth.
Speaker 5: We're going to try to help Sammy see how amazing
Speaker 5: you really are when we call her and try and
Speaker 5: get you your second date update that's coming up right
Speaker 5: after Brook reaches around Jose to scratch my shoulders. Oh wow, Okay,
Speaker 5: never mind, we'll just do it after this second date update.
Speaker 5: If you're just joining us, We've got Randall on the phone,
Speaker 5: friend of the show who's been unlucky in love lately. Yeah,
Speaker 5: and he's back because his latest date was with a
Speaker 5: woman named Sammy, which also turned out to be pretty
Speaker 5: unlucky because Sammy's ex was at the outdoor movie theater
Speaker 5: where they both were.
Speaker 1: At and then invited invited to join them.
Speaker 5: Right. That was the really weird part, because he ended
Speaker 5: up between them for the entire film, which stayed for Yeah,
Speaker 5: it's not exactly your ideal first meet up. And Sammy's
Speaker 5: not responding. Now is she back together with that ex boyfriend?
Speaker 4: We don't know.
Speaker 5: We might find out here in a second, Randall just
Speaker 5: wants to understand if he's doing something wrong on these dates.
Speaker 8: You just kind of want to find out what am
Speaker 8: I doing wrong? I just think I have a big
Speaker 8: heart and a lot to offer.
Speaker 1: Not only that, but you're putting in the work like
Speaker 1: you are trying to do different things, change the way
Speaker 1: you're dating, even learn from this experience.
Speaker 3: Absolutely, God, I'm frustrated for you.
Speaker 6: I think this is like the good Guy's finished last
Speaker 6: kind of motto.
Speaker 5: It's like, you know, there's a guy out there who
Speaker 5: really does want love and really is trying.
Speaker 6: It's just it's like helpless.
Speaker 4: Well not today.
Speaker 5: To the good Guy's gonna finish first, or at least
Speaker 5: get some explanation for why he can't win.
Speaker 6: Yeah, or we'll hang up on her.
Speaker 7: You guys are my best friend.
Speaker 4: Try not to think that that's a sad thing.
Speaker 7: But he.
Speaker 4: You know what, best buddy, We're in this together.
Speaker 5: I'm gonna dial her number right now here we go. Hello,
Speaker 5: Hey is this Sammy? Yeah, Hey, Sammy. We're calling from
Speaker 5: a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 5: Morning Sammy.
Speaker 1: The whole shows here.
Speaker 10: Nobody would talk crazy like we're from a morning show.
Speaker 4: Thank you for speaking.
Speaker 3: Sorry, radio shoes.
Speaker 1: Sorry don't do radio shows.
Speaker 3: I don't like to talk on radio show.
Speaker 1: We've never forgotten that. Oh yeah, that is a student.
Speaker 4: Look I totally understand that. And listen.
Speaker 5: We won't air this unless we have your permission to
Speaker 5: do it. But this is a segment. It's called a
Speaker 5: second date update.
Speaker 3: I've heard about that before.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's not on TikTok or something.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, definitely interesting it is, and you should take
Speaker 3: it as a compliment because it means somebody out there
Speaker 3: is trying to get a hold of you. I want
Speaker 3: to know. I'll play along, Okay.
Speaker 5: I'll just tell you it's a guy that you went
Speaker 5: out with recently named Randall.
Speaker 7: My god.
Speaker 1: Okay, is that I'm going to take that as a fun,
Speaker 1: excited laugh. But by Randall, it.
Speaker 3: Was like it was the weirdest date I've had.
Speaker 4: It's really weird.
Speaker 5: Could you tell us how you felt it was weird?
Speaker 5: Because we've heard a little bit from Randall's side. We'd
Speaker 5: like to get like your perspective on the night.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we know, outdoor movie picnic, super fun.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was actually like a really sweet idea. I
Speaker 3: was like, Wow, this guy really put a lot into
Speaker 3: the short. But my ex was there and he tuxted
Speaker 3: me I'm over near the lemonade stand.
Speaker 1: Wait, how did he know you were there?
Speaker 3: He saw me, I guess from across the way.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, so he's the one who initiated the conversation
Speaker 5: with you.
Speaker 1: Dude, how rude. You were obviously on a date, like
Speaker 1: you're showing up with a guy.
Speaker 8: You know.
Speaker 3: I don't really think my ex knew I was on
Speaker 3: a date. And Randall is such a sweet art He's like,
Speaker 3: why don't you just invite him over?
Speaker 5: But when we spoke to Randall, he told us that
Speaker 5: he was under the impression it was just a friend
Speaker 5: of yours.
Speaker 1: Yeah you didn't specify.
Speaker 3: Oh well he was a friend, but he was my
Speaker 3: ex friend.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you didn't tell him.
Speaker 3: I wanted to tell him, but it all happened so fast,
Speaker 3: and the movie just started and he sat down right
Speaker 3: next to us.
Speaker 7: All right.
Speaker 1: Oh that makes me feel better though, because it's sounds
Speaker 1: like you weren't trying for this interaction to happen.
Speaker 3: Absolutely not. I thought he would leave, but he didn't.
Speaker 2: Too many nice people that can't say no, so clearly
Speaker 2: that wasn't a malicious move on your part, Sammy.
Speaker 5: But I think what Randall's confused about is if you
Speaker 5: liked him so much and you're trying to be so
Speaker 5: sweet to him, why aren't you calling him back for
Speaker 5: another date.
Speaker 11: Well, it was kind of weird because he told me
Speaker 11: that it was a movie, but he ran't tell me
Speaker 11: the name of it, okay, and he said it was
Speaker 11: a historical piece.
Speaker 3: Huh, I guess what movie it was? What what sound?
Speaker 3: And furious that's not historical?
Speaker 4: Is that a joke?
Speaker 1: Are you saying that you're not calling him back because
Speaker 1: he misrepresented what film was being shown?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 3: I just I thought it was like weird, Like my
Speaker 3: ex and I were just laughing.
Speaker 1: Wait, you had told your ex like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: this guy thinks it's a historical piece and we're joking
Speaker 1: about him.
Speaker 3: No, he told us I suppose that at the same time,
Speaker 3: and he was backing it up with all these backs.
Speaker 1: Random told you bull historically.
Speaker 3: Looking at me like who is this guy?
Speaker 4: Okay? Well, Sammy, thank you for telling us your side
Speaker 4: of the story.
Speaker 8: Hold on, hold on, I need to let me speak
Speaker 8: my piece.
Speaker 9: Please, Okay, Yeah, who is that?
Speaker 7: It's me? It's Randall.
Speaker 8: Listen, it's actually based on a true story.
Speaker 7: You guys do know that, right?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 4: Wait, is it?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 8: The movies are actually based on street crimes that were
Speaker 8: happening in LA in the nineties. Do you guys think
Speaker 8: Ben Diesel was the very first person to rob a
Speaker 8: semi truck going that fast on the freeway?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 3: Sorry, but I did not know that.
Speaker 8: Yes, if you read the forums that I'm a part
Speaker 8: of the movie went on Facebook, we all know it's true.
Speaker 1: We talk about it forms on Facebook.
Speaker 6: Tokyo drift, right.
Speaker 7: I don't know that's true yet, it happened in Tokyo
Speaker 7: as well.
Speaker 8: That's why they made a movie about it.
Speaker 7: Were rampant everywhere. I think.
Speaker 5: I think what you need to do, Randall, is actually
Speaker 5: talk to Sammy here.
Speaker 1: That's exactly not about it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, don't you don't have to convince us. You
Speaker 4: have to talk to sam You know that I'm a
Speaker 4: good guy.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I didn't get jealous when the guy came over
Speaker 7: your ex. I found it weird, but I told you
Speaker 7: understand that you're a nice person too. And I'm just
Speaker 7: gonna be honest and straight forward to Sammy when we're
Speaker 7: sitting there watching that movie. You may not have believed me,
Speaker 7: but your extra did. You could be with a man
Speaker 7: like that that believes the truth, and I think you
Speaker 7: should be with me as well.
Speaker 1: Give me a shamp Oh wow, wait the pitches. If
Speaker 1: you can date your ex, you can date me.
Speaker 4: Two fellow truth finders.
Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry to break it to you, Randall, but
Speaker 3: he did not either. We talk to each other over.
Speaker 1: Text texting again.
Speaker 4: Well no, yeah, you.
Speaker 8: Know what, He's probably just trying to make you feel
Speaker 8: better because you didn't believe it.
Speaker 5: Oh, it's like when you talk to those people that
Speaker 5: believe the earth is flat and you're like, you know what,
Speaker 5: You're right it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe he's a good guy. He has some funny quirks.
Speaker 1: We'll say that this could be a cute story. You guys,
Speaker 1: tell later something that you make fun of him for
Speaker 1: in a relationship.
Speaker 8: You know, I'm want to tell you what man nobody
Speaker 8: else did I know is making fun of fact and
Speaker 8: the furious.
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, well, maybe the benefit is you'll actually learn
Speaker 5: some interesting things by giving him another chair.
Speaker 6: His best friends, like, I.
Speaker 7: Could see you, guys documents so many.
Speaker 5: Honestly, we need to stop talking about the true crimes
Speaker 5: that have happened on the streets of la and focus
Speaker 5: on true love, because that's what you're here to do, Sammy.
Speaker 5: We're here to attempt to connect you and Randall one
Speaker 5: more time.
Speaker 1: Movies aside, and you deserve to give him another chance.
Speaker 1: I mean, your ex hung out the entire time. This
Speaker 1: guy like he deserves one more shot.
Speaker 4: A one on one shot, and we would pay for it.
Speaker 3: I would absolutely love to go out with Randall. Yes,
Speaker 3: oh my god, good as a friend.
Speaker 1: Oh not again, Sammy kills us. Maybe he means friend
Speaker 1: and quotes like she did about her ex.
Speaker 6: No friends, all.
Speaker 3: Right, No, there's just not any potential. It's more of
Speaker 3: a friend's friend.
Speaker 1: Thing friend friend doubling down on the friends Randall.
Speaker 8: That's okay, because you know what, you have to be
Speaker 8: friends before you can be romantic. So I still have hope.
Speaker 12: Okay, one of those one in a million, Vin Diesel
Speaker 12: and Michelle Rodriguez were friends in the movie before they based.
Speaker 3: That's not going to happen. But I would love to
Speaker 3: hang out with you as a buddy.
Speaker 5: Oh god, we're downgrading even more.
Speaker 4: Has an acquaintance well, Randall Man I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: So we've done now two second dates with you, and
Speaker 5: you've gotten two friends out of it.
Speaker 8: I'm not feeling down about this guy like you said,
Speaker 8: I just earned another friends.
Speaker 9: Friends looking Jeffrey in the morning, Man, we should be
Speaker 9: so lucky to be like Randall, who's just collecting.
Speaker 5: Friends left and right in his life. Not on purpose,
Speaker 5: but he's doing it.
Speaker 6: You know, this guy is.
Speaker 10: So good at self improvement that one day it maybe
Speaker 10: when he's one hundred, he's gonna be the perfect man.
Speaker 6: Will think about it.
Speaker 1: Hurt my soul when she called him, buddy.
Speaker 13: I know now you see how we feel, brou But
Speaker 13: how zone how cool would it be if Randall does
Speaker 13: finally find love with us here on the show and
Speaker 13: we're there to witness it.
Speaker 10: Wow or better Yet, we're calling someone who's like I
Speaker 10: want on a date with this guy Randall.
Speaker 4: He won't call me back.
Speaker 5: Although it is, like Brooke always says, almost everyone deserves love.
Speaker 1: Everyone does.
Speaker 4: She keeps a list of people who don't. So if
Speaker 4: you're not on that.
Speaker 5: List, feel free to email us for help with your
Speaker 5: dating life. And remember you can listen to all of
Speaker 5: our second dates on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 5: wherever you listen to them, and on our YouTube page.
Speaker 4: Check it out.