WEBVTT - Give Me A Mini 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 0:00:04.480 --> 0:00:06.640 Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 0:00:18.320 --> 0:00:22.160 Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant. 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:24.240 What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for 0:00:24.239 --> 0:00:25.400 being here with us once again. 0:00:26.040 --> 0:00:29.600 Yes, it is full blown summer time. Yes, summer summer, 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:35.120 summer time, foody show us and halt tops, cross tops 0:00:34.840 --> 0:00:38.400 and all a phone dong. 0:00:40.280 --> 0:00:40.560 Dong. 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:42.760 But we don't need it to be hot outside for 0:00:42.760 --> 0:00:45.400 a throng you were you were a thong regardless, Right, 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:47.839 I've gone like I've just had to go no panties, 0:00:47.920 --> 0:00:50.199 no throng, no rot. Yeah, I've been no panties for 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:54.120 a while. Wow. Yes, I am getting my inner Ashley 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:59.480 Darby ol Yes you are, yes, Okay, you know how 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:00.000 you feel about it. 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:02.560 Well, I only go no panties when I work out, 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:04.880 like with my workout clothes. 0:01:05.000 --> 0:01:05.200 Yeah. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.400 But other than that, yeah, I would like to wear panties. 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:10.560 Okay, Yeah, well me pantyless unless I have on like 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.560 a little dress and I don't want to be flashy beet. 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:14.160 Yeah. See I'm a sweater. 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:18.640 Yes, yeah, I couci sweat so in the summertime, especially 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:21.679 if I'm wearing like a dress, I have to wear 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:26.279 like shorts like boy like little thin shorts, boy shorts. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:31.160 They're like comes from a company called Thigh Society. So 0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:36.560 it's intention it's deliberately for thigh rub and couci sweat. Okay, 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:41.000 you know, so they're like sweat wicking boy shorts. 0:01:41.080 --> 0:01:41.280 Yeah. 0:01:41.319 --> 0:01:45.080 I love that. So speaking of I saw this little 0:01:45.120 --> 0:01:49.400 TikTok and there's a company that sells on Amazon that 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:53.120 sells like skims, but it's like their version of skims. 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:55.600 And it was like, we'll send you a link in 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:57.760 your DM. I didn't ask for the link in my 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:01.200 DM or whatever. But like, if I'm Kim Kardashia, I 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:02.920 think I'm mad, Like they have totally like I mean 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:05.840 like saying they say it's the same material and everything. 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:09.200 Really, okay, am I mad? If I'm Kim k No, 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:12.440 that happens all the time. Oh it does, Yeah, okay. 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:15.800 I mean it's it's super hard to come out with 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:19.040 a clothing line or whatever and not have people knock 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.880 it off but off yeah, true and stuff like that. 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:27.160 It's hard to patent the material. Yeah yeah, okay, all right, 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:29.480 even if you think about like under Armour was really 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:33.960 the first ones to come out with that sweat wicking material. Remember, 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:35.880 like for all the it started with like football players 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:37.960 and athletes and stuff, and now it's just like everywhere 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:38.720 it's commonplace. 0:02:38.800 --> 0:02:41.960 Yeah, yeah, for sure. I have a semi shady moment. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:50.000 Actually it's well, it's kind of shady. So my neighbors 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:56.200 are doing some construction on their land, like outside landscaping construction. 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:59.120 They're doing some major things. There's big trucks and all 0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:04.120 kinds of dirt and stuff. Because of there are trees 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:06.560 that separate us. I really can't see what's happening over there, 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:09.480 and I really need to know what is over there, nosy, 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:12.560 because I hear all the I want to know, So 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:14.560 I like, I go to all different kinds of windows 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:16.760 in my house to try to look to get a 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:18.560 better view. Still can't see. 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:19.480 What's going on over there. Huh. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:24.040 So happened to run into my neighbor recently. She was 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:25.760 coming out of her driveway. I was coming in. I 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.919 caught her and I was like, Hey, how you doing it? 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:31.320 Oh my gosh, how's the summer been coming along? 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:32.240 Oh my gosh. 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.480 Yes, And I was like, you got a lot of 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:37.040 stuff going on back there, what's happening? And she was like, 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.840 oh yeah, I forgot her husband's n Lets say her 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.160 husbands name is Tim. Oh yeah, Tim is doing some project. 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:46.160 And I was like, well, what's happening girl? 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:47.840 A project? 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:49.320 She was like, I left him in charge of that. 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:50.040 What? 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:53.480 So I said, well, well, what's I asked about four times? 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:56.320 What what y'all doing back there? Y'all putting a pool in? 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:58.840 She was like, oh, no, no pool? When no pool? 0:03:59.040 --> 0:04:05.680 I said, okay, what are you back there? I still 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:08.160 don't know. I did not get an answer. She said, 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:10.080 oh yeah, they're just I mean, I just left him 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:14.040 in charge. What what does that mean? That's shady? In 0:04:14.120 --> 0:04:18.560 other words, she's out, mind business, mind your your business mine? 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.880 But like, why wouldn't you tell me? So you're forcing 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.880 me to have to like beg you, well, this is 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:26.000 what this is what I'm going to do. And I 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:30.920 hope they don't listen to this podcast. Okay, so sometimes 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:33.720 there has been a time or two that that people 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:37.120 have left packages for me at their house. I'm going 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:41.480 to act like that's happening, so that means I will 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:43.360 walk my little self off. But I have to wait 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:45.160 till they're I kind of finished, okay, and this is 0:04:45.160 --> 0:04:47.080 a major project, so it might take like three months. 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:50.440 So they didn't brought trees in. I mean, it's they 0:04:50.520 --> 0:04:52.200 got stuff going on over there, and I just need 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:54.520 to know what. It's a lot going on. 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:57.359 So she's not like, oh, we're just spilding a backyard. 0:04:57.040 --> 0:05:01.159 Gazebo or tell me that. Yes, yeah, I really didn't 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:04.080 get an answer, so that's weird. I'm gonna pretend like 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:06.360 they have one of my packages, and I hope they don't. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:10.680 Listen to building like a Please don't like a greenhouse 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:13.359 to sell to grow weed or something. 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:15.880 They're not they're not those kind of people. Okay, yeah, 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.040 they're artsy. Well they are a little artsy fartsy, but 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:20.880 I don't know anyway. I will let y'all know in 0:05:20.920 --> 0:05:22.680 three months what's going on back there. 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:22.960 Okay. 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:24.440 But it's a little shady that she wants trying to 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:24.680 tell me. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:25.320 Yeah, that's weird. 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:27.320 Weird or shady. 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.840 I think it's both. Yes, it's both. Both. Okay, all right, 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.920 so we Oh, by the way, y'all, this is a 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:35.760 mini episode. 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:40.200 Oh yeah, we listen. We're on vacation. Robin is and 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:43.039 me too. Yes, yes, I'm on a vacation in my mind. 0:05:43.600 --> 0:05:45.119 Robin's really on bage. Okay. 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.400 Yes, so we're quite busy, but we didn't want to 0:05:48.480 --> 0:05:50.039 leave you hangings. And this is a mini episode. 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:52.640 Yes, okay, So before we do the cause, can I 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:53.440 do my little. 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:55.400 Scenario? 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:55.719 Yeah? 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:59.320 I heard on the radio, yes, okay, all right, so 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:01.480 I heard I was listening listening to the d L 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.360 Hugly Show in the morning. Hey DL, Yes, and a 0:06:04.480 --> 0:06:06.840 man called in and he needed advice or he needed 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:08.400 to know if he was being shady. 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.760 Okay, so was is that? Did they do that? They 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:14.640 you can call into DL Hugly show for shady and 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:16.080 they don't use the word. 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.679 Shady, no, no, but he kind of just needed people's 0:06:18.720 --> 0:06:22.800 opinions on what he You know, this scenario got it. 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:25.160 I don't even think he needed advice because he what 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:28.360 he said was like pretty much definitive and what he did, 0:06:28.440 --> 0:06:29.760 he just needed to know if he was wrong. 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:30.600 Okay, you got it. 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:34.360 So kind of kind of similar. Okay. So he called in. 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:36.640 He said he was dating, He was with his girlfriend 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:43.120 for five years and recently her child's father tragically and 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.480 suddenly passed away. Okay, so he said one day, she 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:49.600 called him and said, hey, I just came from the 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:54.080 tattoo the tattoo place, and I got my child's father's 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:58.960 name tattooed on my body. And so he broke up 0:06:58.960 --> 0:07:06.200 with her. Okay, So the question was like should was 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:08.679 he wrong for breaking up with her? Like how should 0:07:08.680 --> 0:07:11.720 he have handled that? And there were mixed the call 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:15.160 people calling in had mixed, mixed views. 0:07:15.040 --> 0:07:16.920 Mixed ye, mixed feelings, mixed opinions. 0:07:16.960 --> 0:07:18.560 Okay, So I would need to know where on the 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.600 body it is because if it was like right above 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:23.240 her the JJ, that's a problem. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:25.800 No, I don't think it was. I can't if it's 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:26.960 not remember that detail. 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:31.520 I don't think it was anywhere like super intimate because 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:33.440 he didn't really say that part, you know what I mean. 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:39.920 If it was like underneath her toe, that's fine, have 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:40.560 that it right? 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.720 What if it's like on her arm? 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.400 No, I don't. I actually don't want to see any 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:49.920 woman's name on a dude's body that I'm looking at 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:55.280 right and it and it has I have seen names 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:58.840 and I've been like, what's that right, and the answer 0:07:59.000 --> 0:08:01.640 was that's my mother And I was like, who passed away? 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:03.880 So I was like that's cool. Okay, Okay, I'm here 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:06.600 for that. But and I know wan situation. Yeah, with 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:09.240 the tattoo that you have had to live with, Yes, Yes, 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:14.000 which is actually traumatic yep for me. And I don't 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:18.240 have sex with him, so that's traumatic. I think. I 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:20.240 think I think he was okay to break up with her. 0:08:20.240 --> 0:08:21.280 I think that's justifiable. 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:22.960 Really, I do, I think. 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:25.680 Okay, So, first of all, I think she clearly she 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:30.240 was very emotionally distraught that the child's father passed away. Yes, 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:32.079 because you know, I guess they have a child together, 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:34.280 they've known each other for a long time, they have 0:08:34.400 --> 0:08:38.160 a you know, relationship or whatever. And I think a 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:41.920 lot of people when they're grieving, they might do something 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:46.000 very hasty. Yes, in that moment, yes, right, So I 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:48.840 think the boyfriend should have given her a little bit 0:08:48.920 --> 0:08:53.160 more grace and understanding and saying, Okay, you're you're clearly 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:57.079 super emotional. You made a very hasty decision based on 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:01.240 the grieving and the emotion that you're going through. I 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:04.040 wouldn't been happy about it, but I don't know that 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:06.400 breaking up is someone that you've been with for five years. 0:09:06.520 --> 0:09:08.280 Yeah, now that you say it like that, that's and 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:10.920 this guy's not a threat anymore. Like if he was 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:13.760 a threat, he's gone, right, So I wouldn't I wouldn't 0:09:13.800 --> 0:09:14.320 have broken up. 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:15.319 No, yeah he was. 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:16.280 That was shady. 0:09:16.400 --> 0:09:18.800 Yeah, I would have been like, you know, maybe he 0:09:18.840 --> 0:09:21.520 broke up because it like it turned him off, Like okay, 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:24.320 I'm clearly going to go like tattoo somebody else's name 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:26.959 on your body, you know. But yeah, there's nothing for 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.480 him to worry about. But I think it's just you 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:31.520 need to understand, like he needs to understand. She was 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:35.120 in a super emotional state and made a very hasty decision. Yes, 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:38.440 And I mean I don't know if at some point 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:40.319 you cover it up or what you about it. But 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:41.640 I thought he was in the wrong. 0:09:41.920 --> 0:09:43.559 I think he wanted to break up with her anyway. 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:45.520 I think that's this is an excuse. 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:48.400 Yeah maybe, yeah, he didn't like her or her child. 0:09:48.520 --> 0:09:52.679 Ye, right, if the relationship was that strong, if you've 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:54.320 been together five years and you're in a good place, 0:09:54.320 --> 0:09:55.200 it's a great relationship. 0:09:55.200 --> 0:09:56.760 You're breaking up over something like that? 0:09:57.040 --> 0:10:00.320 No, No, so he yeah, he just this was an excuse. Dude, 0:10:00.320 --> 0:10:02.320 We're on to you, we see you. 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:04.880 All right, But he called Inny I guess he was 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:05.719 a little. 0:10:05.640 --> 0:10:08.200 You know, he's in his fields. I think he's going 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:09.959 to I think the whole situation is going to blow over. 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:10.680 This is like a blow. 0:10:10.760 --> 0:10:12.839 They'll probably get back. They'll probably get back together. 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:14.280 Yeah, six months they'll be back together. 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:16.760 Uh huh yeah, probably not even they probably back together 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:18.840 now true? 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:27.240 All right, So Sharon Sharon Kayak twenty twelve, we have 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:28.680 to ask people, where do y'all got to come up 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:33.439 with these names? Yeah? I know, Okay, why I can't 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:40.000 Sharon Sharon said, why I can't think of any questions. Nevertheless, 0:10:40.760 --> 0:10:47.160 I love you Robin and Giselle GEB's continued success. Sharon Kayak, what, 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:50.160 oh my gosh, we love you too. Yes, we definitely 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:52.920 gotall too. Okay, this is probably better. This is probably 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:54.760 my question, not your question, because I'm closer to it 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:57.200 than you. How do y'all feel about one day being 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:02.200 the grandmother's Oh? Okay, So I actually recently had had 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:04.599 a conversation with my children about what I want to 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:07.640 be called. Okay, when I'm a grandmother, like twenty years 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:12.880 from now and twenty years I mean no time soon, 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:17.559 so okay, ten years man, So I said, I want 0:11:17.640 --> 0:11:19.559 to be. I thought about you because you call your 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:22.040 mother's GG, right, So I think I'm going to be gg. 0:11:22.240 --> 0:11:24.880 Yeah, yeah, I like GG and that's perfect for your 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:29.280 your g. I. Yes, I'm GG so and my mom 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:31.520 spells it G I G I g Oh. 0:11:31.600 --> 0:11:35.720 I like that. Yeah, yeah, so that's perfect. I'm gonna 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:37.160 be Yes, I'm gonna be gg. What are you gonna be? 0:11:37.200 --> 0:11:37.480 Okay? 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:38.160 You know what I have? 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:44.360 I have not thought that deep. Yeah mmm, I gotta 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:44.800 think on that. 0:11:45.160 --> 0:11:48.520 But I think I would love a grandchild. Yes, yes, yes, 0:11:48.640 --> 0:11:51.319 I'll be like, drop the baby over, yes, and I'll 0:11:51.360 --> 0:11:52.880 let you know when to pick them up right, yeah, 0:11:53.000 --> 0:11:54.800 which would be like you know, it could be a day, 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:56.679 it could be an hour, it could be three weeks. 0:11:57.080 --> 0:12:00.840 I'll let you know, but I want to keep the child. 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:02.320 It will not be three weeks, I'm sure. 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:03.520 Okay, yeah, four days. 0:12:03.920 --> 0:12:06.720 I definitely got it. How crazy is that they were? 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:12.000 They were talking about grandchildren now what I know, and 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:17.839 we all technically could be grandparents, but we're not. 0:12:18.640 --> 0:12:21.160 What Yes we could, but we're not, thank God. 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:25.120 Yes, but I miss I find myself looking at old 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:28.319 pictures of my kids when they were baby, videos, and 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.200 I miss that so much. 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:33.040 I'm like, yeah, speaking of the shade, there might have 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:36.920 been people in my house. Okay, fine, producers and they 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:39.640 were like, i'll tell you who this is. 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:40.040 Okay. 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.520 Later he was like, so, when you're gonna get some 0:12:42.640 --> 0:12:46.480 updated pictures of your kids? And I said, for you know, 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:48.280 around the house, because a lot most of the pictures 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:50.480 are like when they were babies. That's actually the pictures 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:54.319 I love, right, Yes, don't really want this new these 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:57.680 new found kids, these older kids. Right, the baby pictures 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.720 are everything. He was being shady. 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:03.120 That's so funny, the worse. But you know it's so crazy, right, 0:13:04.160 --> 0:13:05.520 you know, it's so crazy. I look at my phone. 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.080 I have tons and tons of pictures and when they 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:11.959 were like kids, little and babies and toddlers and just 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.560 four or five six years old. And now they barely 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:15.920 want to smile. 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:18.360 For a picture, I know, especially the boys. Yes, I 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:19.640 can get the girls to smile, but the girls are 0:13:19.640 --> 0:13:21.839 always smiling. But like the boys, Yes, you got a 0:13:21.880 --> 0:13:22.400 hard way to go. 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:23.480 It's so hard. 0:13:24.000 --> 0:13:26.000 Come on, now, we have to be more intentional with 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.280 the pictures because I don't want to be, you know, 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:31.560 looking at them when they're forty five and I'm like, oh, 0:13:32.240 --> 0:13:33.520 I don't have any pictures. 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:35.240 Of you when you were in your in your teens. 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:38.440 It's funny. I forget sometimes that people know everything about 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.120 our lives. So I was out, I went to an 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:44.080 event and I saw a girl that I know recently 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:46.000 had a baby. I didn't know what she had, so 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:50.079 I was like, congratulations on the baby, and she said, yeah, 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:52.680 I gotta call you for you know, advice. She said, well, 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:54.120 as a matterfic, I don't think I'm gonna call you 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:55.280 because I had a boy. 0:13:55.760 --> 0:13:56.920 She was like, I'll just call Robin. 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:59.640 That just like blew me for a second because I'm like, 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.800 of all, you don't know me, like that call and 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:07.439 you know, damn sure don't know Robin. But yeah, it's 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:11.520 just sometimes it's weird that people know all about us, right, Yeah. 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:13.520 Yeah, they don't just see you and just say hey, 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:15.720 like they're seeing you and there like knowing a little 0:14:15.760 --> 0:14:17.439 They're they're like digging a little bit deeper. 0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:18.080 Yes. Yeah. 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:22.000 I was walking through Macy's just yesterday and the sales 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:24.360 lady was like, it was me and Carter because I'm 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:26.840 trying to find him a suit to wear just graduation. 0:14:27.080 --> 0:14:31.560 And the lady's like, hi, Carter, and I'm like, first 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:34.240 of all, you not only got his name right, you 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:37.120 didn't call him Corey. Yeah, too much. Y'all know way 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:37.880 too much about us. 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:38.120 I know. 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:39.840 I was like, I was really impressive. She was an 0:14:39.840 --> 0:14:42.680 older lady too. I was like, Okay, that was very impressive. 0:14:44.360 --> 0:14:51.120 Okay, so good question for you, Ada, Ada k Roberts. 0:14:51.440 --> 0:14:53.520 Have we heard from her before. She's a patreoner. 0:14:54.040 --> 0:15:01.400 Yeah, hey, Patrion, Patrion. Okay, So Corey driving, right, question Mark, 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:05.480 how's that going? Are the twins going to the same university? 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:08.280 I'll answer first, no, they're not. The twins are splitting up. 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:12.640 I was sad at first, but now I'm like, I think. 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:14.360 It's good, yeah, for both of them. Yeah, So I 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:15.680 think that's really good for both of them. 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:15.960 Yeah. 0:15:16.000 --> 0:15:16.920 I think that's interesting. 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:20.800 It'll be interesting to see how they handle it. Yeah, 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.160 and how they you know, who knows one of them 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:25.200 might end up transferring. They might. 0:15:25.240 --> 0:15:26.640 And I told him that that is an option they 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.920 can They can do that. They're freshman year, that's it. 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:34.840 Yeah, Yeah, yeah, Corey driving. Corey he has his permit, 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:38.000 so he does not have his license yet, but he is. 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:40.160 He gets a lot of hours in on the road 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:43.840 between want and I. He'll drive to school or from school, 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:47.280 or really to basketball practice. He drove through Baltimore City 0:15:47.320 --> 0:15:50.240 to basketball practice. So he's getting his getting his experience in. 0:15:50.920 --> 0:15:55.320 And it is a very like pinch me type of moment, 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:57.280 like dang, we're already here. 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:00.880 Yes, we're already here. But he's a good driver. I'm 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:01.840 impressed with him so far. 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:04.800 So next school year he'll be able to drive himself, right. 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:06.600 Yeah, I think he can get his license in like 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:07.880 October or so. 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:11.520 Oh okay, okay, Why do I think he got his 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:12.720 luck from it? Like a long time? 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:14.800 I was, well, no, no, because you have to you 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:18.320 have to be six at least sixteen for six months. 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:20.640 So he turned sixteen in March. Yeah, so he guess 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.200 he can get it in September and. 0:16:22.200 --> 0:16:25.680 September yeah okay, and then he can drive maybe check 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:27.240 care of everybody, drive Carter. 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:30.160 Yes, okay, and then fantastic. 0:16:30.160 --> 0:16:33.520 As much as I hate that my kids are getting older, 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:38.200 I'm so sick of driving them everywhere. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.000 Yeah, you're at the age where you're all I mean, 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:43.200 they're at the age where you're over it. Oh my god, 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:47.200 By the time my kids hit like thirteen, Like, yeah, 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:49.800 I was so over driving them places. I was like, oh, 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:52.120 hell no, I can't do this anymore. I'm not sex cat. 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:57.720 Yes, it's NonStop, and it's it's between like workouts and 0:16:58.120 --> 0:17:02.040 practice and games of course school the school drop off 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:08.880 and pick up and physical therapy, doctor appointments. Yes, yes, 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:12.000 the car line. I'm so sick of it. Like my 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:14.720 day gets so hectic when they get out of school 0:17:14.840 --> 0:17:16.760 because we're just all over the place. 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:19.440 Yes, the car line is the worst thing that's ever 0:17:19.520 --> 0:17:22.160 been invented. Yeah, okay, I think this is our last 0:17:22.240 --> 0:17:24.239 question of the day because we got to get out 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:26.640 of here. Y'all now listen, because we're on vacation. We're 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:30.480 not even here, right, Okay, we live in life. It 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:34.639 must be hard to develop new real friendships without doubt, 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:37.080 which is yes. 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:38.600 Yes, yeah, I trust no one. 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:41.359 Yeah, it's very hard to trust people for sure. 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:41.920 Yeah. 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:47.160 Yeah, just it's it's for me. It's more like their intentions, 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:47.520 you know. 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:50.080 And especially now that we're you know, we've been on 0:17:50.200 --> 0:17:51.960 the show, it's like, Okay, are you trying to be 0:17:52.080 --> 0:17:55.200 my friend because I'm on the show, yeah, or like 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:57.280 you're actually like a real genuine person and we're just 0:17:57.840 --> 0:17:58.440 and you're just cool. 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:01.800 But I don't think there are genuine people just kidding. 0:18:02.640 --> 0:18:02.680 No. 0:18:02.880 --> 0:18:05.800 I a very famous person told me a long time 0:18:05.800 --> 0:18:09.879 ago that he trusts no one, and I was like, 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:12.879 that's weird and that's gotta suck, and like, why do 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:14.800 you want to live life like that? Like that you 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:19.120 just can't trust anybody. I feel the same way right now. 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:20.520 You understand totally. 0:18:20.520 --> 0:18:24.720 I understand I don't nobody nobody, And you know, even 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:27.359 with new friendships, because we talked about like getting becoming 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:30.280 friends with people as an adult, like, yeah, we can 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:32.560 be friends, but they're still like, I'm not telling you 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:36.520 all my everything, right, Yeah, i'mnna give you like ten percent, right, 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:38.879 you got to work up to fifty. 0:18:39.040 --> 0:18:40.639 Yeah, And I think it takes a while, Like when 0:18:40.680 --> 0:18:42.879 you meet a new person, I think it takes a 0:18:42.960 --> 0:18:46.240 while for both sides to gain that trust anyway. Yeah, 0:18:46.240 --> 0:18:48.159 you know, it's like, yeah, you might that you might 0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:50.359 meet that person and they might not be trustworthy at 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:54.280 that time. But if you happen to kind of stay 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:57.520 in each other's lives and your relationship grows and develops, 0:18:57.760 --> 0:19:00.760