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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 3: What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for

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Speaker 3: being here with us once again.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is full blown summer time. Yes, summer summer,

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Speaker 2: summer time, foody show us and halt tops, cross tops

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Speaker 2: and all a phone dong.

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Speaker 1: Dong.

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Speaker 2: But we don't need it to be hot outside for

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Speaker 2: a throng you were you were a thong regardless, Right,

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Speaker 2: I've gone like I've just had to go no panties,

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Speaker 2: no throng, no rot. Yeah, I've been no panties for

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Speaker 2: a while. Wow. Yes, I am getting my inner Ashley

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Speaker 2: Darby ol Yes you are, yes, Okay, you know how

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Speaker 2: you feel about it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I only go no panties when I work out,

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Speaker 1: like with my workout clothes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But other than that, yeah, I would like to wear panties.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, well me pantyless unless I have on like

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Speaker 2: a little dress and I don't want to be flashy beet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. See I'm a sweater.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I couci sweat so in the summertime, especially

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Speaker 1: if I'm wearing like a dress, I have to wear

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Speaker 1: like shorts like boy like little thin shorts, boy shorts.

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Speaker 1: They're like comes from a company called Thigh Society. So

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Speaker 1: it's intention it's deliberately for thigh rub and couci sweat. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you know, so they're like sweat wicking boy shorts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I love that. So speaking of I saw this little

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Speaker 2: TikTok and there's a company that sells on Amazon that

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Speaker 2: sells like skims, but it's like their version of skims.

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Speaker 2: And it was like, we'll send you a link in

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Speaker 2: your DM. I didn't ask for the link in my

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Speaker 2: DM or whatever. But like, if I'm Kim Kardashia, I

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Speaker 2: think I'm mad, Like they have totally like I mean

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Speaker 2: like saying they say it's the same material and everything.

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Speaker 1: Really, okay, am I mad? If I'm Kim k No,

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Speaker 1: that happens all the time. Oh it does, Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's it's super hard to come out with

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Speaker 1: a clothing line or whatever and not have people knock

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Speaker 1: it off but off yeah, true and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to patent the material. Yeah yeah, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: even if you think about like under Armour was really

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Speaker 1: the first ones to come out with that sweat wicking material. Remember,

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Speaker 1: like for all the it started with like football players

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Speaker 1: and athletes and stuff, and now it's just like everywhere

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Speaker 1: it's commonplace.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, for sure. I have a semi shady moment.

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Speaker 2: Actually it's well, it's kind of shady. So my neighbors

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Speaker 2: are doing some construction on their land, like outside landscaping construction.

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Speaker 2: They're doing some major things. There's big trucks and all

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Speaker 2: kinds of dirt and stuff. Because of there are trees

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Speaker 2: that separate us. I really can't see what's happening over there,

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Speaker 2: and I really need to know what is over there, nosy,

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Speaker 2: because I hear all the I want to know, So

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Speaker 2: I like, I go to all different kinds of windows

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Speaker 2: better view. Still can't see.

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Speaker 3: What's going on over there. Huh.

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Speaker 2: So happened to run into my neighbor recently. She was

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Speaker 2: coming out of her driveway. I was coming in. I

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Speaker 2: caught her and I was like, Hey, how you doing it?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, how's the summer been coming along?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And I was like, you got a lot of

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Speaker 2: stuff going on back there, what's happening? And she was like,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, I forgot her husband's n Lets say her

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Speaker 2: husbands name is Tim. Oh yeah, Tim is doing some project.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, well, what's happening girl?

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Speaker 3: A project?

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Speaker 2: She was like, I left him in charge of that.

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: So I said, well, well, what's I asked about four times?

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Speaker 2: What what y'all doing back there? Y'all putting a pool in?

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Speaker 2: She was like, oh, no, no pool? When no pool?

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Speaker 2: I said, okay, what are you back there? I still

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Speaker 2: don't know. I did not get an answer. She said,

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Speaker 2: oh yeah, they're just I mean, I just left him

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Speaker 2: in charge. What what does that mean? That's shady? In

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Speaker 2: other words, she's out, mind business, mind your your business mine?

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Speaker 2: But like, why wouldn't you tell me? So you're forcing

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Speaker 2: me to have to like beg you, well, this is

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Speaker 2: hope they don't listen to this podcast. Okay, so sometimes

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Speaker 2: there has been a time or two that that people

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Speaker 2: have left packages for me at their house. I'm going

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Speaker 2: to act like that's happening, so that means I will

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Speaker 2: till they're I kind of finished, okay, and this is

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Speaker 2: a major project, so it might take like three months.

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Speaker 2: So they didn't brought trees in. I mean, it's they

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Speaker 2: got stuff going on over there, and I just need

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Speaker 2: to know what. It's a lot going on.

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Speaker 3: So she's not like, oh, we're just spilding a backyard.

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Speaker 2: Gazebo or tell me that. Yes, yeah, I really didn't

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Speaker 2: they have one of my packages, and I hope they don't.

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Speaker 3: Listen to building like a Please don't like a greenhouse

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Speaker 3: to sell to grow weed or something.

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Speaker 2: They're not they're not those kind of people. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 2: they're artsy. Well they are a little artsy fartsy, but

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Speaker 2: I don't know anyway. I will let y'all know in

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Speaker 2: three months what's going on back there.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: But it's a little shady that she wants trying to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's weird.

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Speaker 2: Weird or shady.

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Speaker 3: I think it's both. Yes, it's both. Both. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 3: so we Oh, by the way, y'all, this is a

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Speaker 3: mini episode.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we listen. We're on vacation. Robin is and

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Speaker 2: me too. Yes, yes, I'm on a vacation in my mind.

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Speaker 2: Robin's really on bage. Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so we're quite busy, but we didn't want to

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Speaker 3: leave you hangings. And this is a mini episode.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So before we do the cause, can I

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Speaker 2: do my little.

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Speaker 3: Scenario?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I heard on the radio, yes, okay, all right, so

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Speaker 1: I heard I was listening listening to the d L

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Speaker 1: Hugly Show in the morning. Hey DL, Yes, and a

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Speaker 1: man called in and he needed advice or he needed

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Speaker 1: to know if he was being shady.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so was is that? Did they do that? They

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Speaker 2: you can call into DL Hugly show for shady and

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Speaker 2: they don't use the word.

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Speaker 1: Shady, no, no, but he kind of just needed people's

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Speaker 1: opinions on what he You know, this scenario got it.

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Speaker 1: I don't even think he needed advice because he what

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Speaker 1: he said was like pretty much definitive and what he did,

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Speaker 1: he just needed to know if he was wrong.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you got it.

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Speaker 3: So kind of kind of similar. Okay. So he called in.

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Speaker 1: He said he was dating, He was with his girlfriend

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Speaker 1: for five years and recently her child's father tragically and

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Speaker 1: suddenly passed away. Okay, so he said one day, she

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Speaker 1: called him and said, hey, I just came from the

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Speaker 1: tattoo the tattoo place, and I got my child's father's

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Speaker 1: name tattooed on my body. And so he broke up

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Speaker 1: with her. Okay, So the question was like should was

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Speaker 1: he wrong for breaking up with her? Like how should

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Speaker 1: he have handled that? And there were mixed the call

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Speaker 1: people calling in had mixed, mixed views.

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Speaker 3: Mixed ye, mixed feelings, mixed opinions.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I would need to know where on the

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Speaker 2: her the JJ, that's a problem.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think it was. I can't if it's

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Speaker 1: I don't think it was anywhere like super intimate because

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Speaker 2: If it was like underneath her toe, that's fine, have

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Speaker 2: that it right?

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Speaker 3: What if it's like on her arm?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. I actually don't want to see any

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Speaker 2: woman's name on a dude's body that I'm looking at

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Speaker 2: right and it and it has I have seen names

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Speaker 2: and I've been like, what's that right, and the answer

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Speaker 2: was that's my mother And I was like, who passed away?

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Speaker 2: So I was like that's cool. Okay, Okay, I'm here

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Speaker 2: for that. But and I know wan situation. Yeah, with

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Speaker 2: the tattoo that you have had to live with, Yes, Yes,

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Speaker 2: which is actually traumatic yep for me. And I don't

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Speaker 2: I think that's justifiable.

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Speaker 3: Really, I do, I think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So, first of all, I think she clearly she

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Speaker 1: was very emotionally distraught that the child's father passed away. Yes,

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Speaker 1: because you know, I guess they have a child together,

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Speaker 1: lot of people when they're grieving, they might do something

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now that you say it like that, that's and

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Speaker 2: this guy's not a threat anymore. Like if he was

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Speaker 3: No, yeah he was.

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Speaker 2: That was shady.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have been like, you know, maybe he

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Speaker 1: I'm clearly going to go like tattoo somebody else's name

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Speaker 1: on your body, you know. But yeah, there's nothing for

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Speaker 1: And I mean I don't know if at some point

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Speaker 1: I thought he was in the wrong.

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Speaker 2: I think he wanted to break up with her anyway.

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Speaker 2: I think that's this is an excuse.

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Speaker 3: Yeah maybe, yeah, he didn't like her or her child.

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Speaker 1: Ye, right, if the relationship was that strong, if you've

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Speaker 1: been together five years and you're in a good place,

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Speaker 1: it's a great relationship.

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Speaker 3: You're breaking up over something like that?

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Speaker 2: No, No, so he yeah, he just this was an excuse. Dude,

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Speaker 2: We're on to you, we see you.

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Speaker 3: All right, But he called Inny I guess he was

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Speaker 2: You know, he's in his fields. I think he's going

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Speaker 2: to I think the whole situation is going to blow over.

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Speaker 2: This is like a blow.

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Speaker 3: They'll probably get back. They'll probably get back together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, six months they'll be back together.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh yeah, probably not even they probably back together

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Speaker 3: now true?

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Speaker 3: Have we heard from her before. She's a patreoner.

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Speaker 2: right the end, And you shouldn't be trusting me, and

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we're boes.

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