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Speaker 1: Second Date updated, Alexis, you're in the dating world, and

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Speaker 1: you told us a little while ago it's really easy

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Speaker 1: for you to meet lots of attractive dudes. Oh sorry,

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Speaker 1: was it when you're around attractive dudes, you're really easy?

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Speaker 2: And that was.

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Speaker 1: Something about really easy and attractiveness. I got this, But look,

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Speaker 1: not everybody's on the dating sites for European rugby hunks

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Speaker 1: like you are, Alexis. A lot of people just do

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Speaker 1: the normal apps and they get really frustrated with that experience.

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Speaker 1: So let's say you wanted to meet a nice, attractive

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Speaker 1: man out in the world, naturally, but you just can't

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Speaker 3: Without getting into the scrum.

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Speaker 4: Dvid.

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Speaker 1: What do you do? That's where our listener Julia found

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Speaker 1: herself recently, so let's talk to her and find out

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Speaker 1: what she did. Julia, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, are you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, we've kind of noticed a trend lately where

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Speaker 2: people have gotten off the apps.

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Speaker 3: Is it something where you're trying to move away from that?

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Speaker 5: I mean definitely, because it's kind of like it just

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Speaker 5: doesn't feel as natural, and honestly, I feel like the

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Speaker 5: apps come with a lot of like stigma of like

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Speaker 5: what dating is nowadays, which is people just you know,

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Speaker 5: have one thing in mind and then it's kind of

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Speaker 4: Onto the next one.

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Speaker 5: And I'm not really here for that. I really want

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Speaker 5: to authentically meet people and find my person.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, it was just instinct. Sorry, but it just

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Speaker 1: sounds like you're just matured. That's great, that's great. We're

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Speaker 1: all really happy for you. So what did you do?

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Speaker 1: How did you make that transition from dating apps to

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Speaker 1: the real world, Like, what's your strategy? I'm trying not

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Speaker 1: to the trash can over here?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean I just tried to really kind of

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Speaker 5: because I try to like put myself out there in

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Speaker 5: those ways and finding things that maybe like guys would

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Speaker 2: Okay, so I run a little.

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Speaker 5: Bit out of my cumber zone. I'm gonna warn you, guys.

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Speaker 5: But definitely tried some different things.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like what give us some examples. I'd love to hear.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So the first thing I did was hiking, and I

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Speaker 5: you know, I really thought that I would find more

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Speaker 5: guys there. Out of the two times I went, it

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's like all of the women all had the

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Speaker 1: same idea to meet a guy there, and it just

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Speaker 3: Still want to hike. A lot of our guys will

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Speaker 3: like go on their own.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: And those guys also came with girls like they already

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Speaker 3: They were forced to come. That makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So hiking was a dud? What did you try?

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Speaker 2: Not that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so this was kind of funny. I actually was like,

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Speaker 5: you know what, I don't think I would probably see

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Speaker 4: That was definitely out of my comfort zone.

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Speaker 1: I mean, any girl walking into a D and D, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so that's nerds always end up smart.

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Speaker 1: Did you meet a guy there?

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Speaker 5: It was definitely a little too nerdy for me. I

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that's not where you met this guy?

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Speaker 1: Did you find any hobby that actually panned out for you?

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Speaker 5: So there was actually this kind of fun thing that

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Speaker 5: I started to go into and it's called like old

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Speaker 5: Cup kickball. I don't know if you guys are familiar

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Speaker 1: Old Cup.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so you have two teams and everybody has to

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Speaker 5: hold a red solo cup and you're never allowed to

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Speaker 1: It's a drinking game wall playing actual kickball.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's actually really fun, dude.

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Speaker 3: That sounds awesome. And you start with this one, why.

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Speaker 5: Right, okay, And you don't have to be like obliterated

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Speaker 1: Cool't so this is where you ended up meeting a guy?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Yes, actually this is where.

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Speaker 1: I met Chad U Chad Chad.

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Speaker 3: Name is Chad Chad Chad? H Okay yeah not a hat.

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Speaker 5: Dad, but maybe will be one days.

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Speaker 3: Of course you met a Chad y.

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Speaker 5: Up meeting him because I was actually like on a

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Speaker 5: I went to go run for home and the cup

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Speaker 1: Guys, just what all the guys on the team wanted?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, my t shirt. I didn't mean this game.

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Speaker 5: It was definitely invented by a man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, how did that lead to Chad?

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Speaker 5: So he ended up coming out with a towel, super

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Speaker 5: sweet guy. He like even took off his shirt, which,

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Speaker 3: Nobody's working that hard at kickball no matter what.

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Speaker 5: I guess he must have like a good immuneism or

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Speaker 5: like our systems like each other, because I didn't even

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Speaker 1: So he de robed in front of you and gave

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Speaker 5: So that was definitely a swift move. He got some

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so is this the date or is

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Speaker 5: No, we'll see. I actually got his number, which was awesome.

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Speaker 5: It was cool, and I didn't really get much out

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Speaker 5: I didn't really like throw myself over all over him.

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Speaker 2: Isn't it kind of obvious when you asked for a

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Speaker 3: Literally that happened.

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Speaker 5: And then like I literally asked for his two shirt

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Speaker 2: That's how you ask You asked, like, oh, give me

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Speaker 2: your number so I can give you your shirt back.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, did you give him your shirt to

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Speaker 5: I mean I could give him my bro.

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Speaker 1: She's like I would have. Maybe that was the missing move.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna come back and call Chad for you and

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Speaker 1: find out what happened in the drinking hold cup kickball scenario.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna find your kickball king. Yeah, what or maybe

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Speaker 1: what went right with your second date update? Right after

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Speaker 1: this second date update if you're just joining us, we're

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Speaker 1: in the middle of a second date update with our

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Speaker 1: listener Julia, who met a guy named Chad at a

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Speaker 1: brand new event that we just heard about called hold

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Speaker 1: Cup Kickball Fun.

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Speaker 3: It's a great name.

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Speaker 1: Involves drinking, kicking rubber balls, all the ingredients of just

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Speaker 3: We forgot to mention shirtless men.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not supposed to be shirtless. The only Chad

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Speaker 1: not running home in my fear. We got just making

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Speaker 1: sure people, because you've never heard of this sport.

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Speaker 5: Keep going trying like run.

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Speaker 1: She was making her way down the third baseline, ended

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Speaker 2: Well, Julia got his numbers, saying like, hey, I'll give

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Speaker 3: Do you still have the shirt? We never asked?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, actually I do still have a shirt. I never

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Speaker 5: got to meet up with him again.

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Speaker 4: You sleep with it.

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Speaker 1: Every night, clutched in her arms. Right now, Well, let's

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Speaker 2: Why do I feel like he's still topless shirt.

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Speaker 1: That was his one shirt. Okay, well, let's see I'm

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Speaker 1: dialing his number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 1: we're looking to talk to Chad.

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Speaker 4: This is Chad.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Chad, you're on a radio show right now called

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Hi, morning man.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that sexy voice. Don't do that. Sorry, but Hi,

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Speaker 1: it didn't sound that way. I think is not cool. Sorry.

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Speaker 1: We're in a mood today because we heard a lot

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Speaker 1: about you from one of our listeners named Julia.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, you know who you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: You met Julia at one of your old cup kickball events.

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Speaker 1: You ended up giving her your shirt, right, Yes.

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Speaker 3: We have bets on whether you're still walking around shirtless

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Speaker 1: Brook just wants a mental image, so not currently. Okay,

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Speaker 1: can you take your shirt off to make her more

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Speaker 4: So.

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Speaker 1: What we're doing here is called a second date update.

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Speaker 1: And even though you haven't officially been out with Julia

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Speaker 4: To be honest, I've kind of tried to date and

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Speaker 4: I don't know literally work out for me.

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Speaker 3: Dating in general, I feel that.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just so many people ghost you nowadays before

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Speaker 4: you even get to know them, isn't that?

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Speaker 2: But isn't that kind of what you're doing? I mean,

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Speaker 2: you're not getting back into Julia.

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Speaker 1: Well, he never said. They never established like a dating thing.

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Speaker 1: They just met at a kickball with that one time.

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Speaker 2: Now you know you have someone that's super interested. I mean,

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Speaker 3: She's not going to ghost you.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know she was super interested until right now.

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Speaker 4: To be honest, well.

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Speaker 1: Hey, surprise, the girl really likes you after just meeting you.

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Speaker 1: Most some time when a girl gets your number. But

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Speaker 1: this is going to take all the stress out of

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Speaker 3: It's a match.

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Speaker 4: I thought she just wanted to give me my shirt back.

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Speaker 4: I couldn't figure out a time. Maybe I mean that too.

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Speaker 3: No, not that at all.

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Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, it's so sweet, how literal you took that.

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Speaker 2: But yet no, there was like her excuse to see

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, look I know you you clearly had some

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Speaker 4: I mean, she kind of cool with my lifestyle. I

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Speaker 3: Don't know lifestyle.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, yeah, I mean that's something that that you

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Speaker 3: Julia, someone smiling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah it's Julia. You can say hi to her.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Julia. I didn't know you liked me like that.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I get some kind of clueless with this stuff.

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Speaker 5: Well I'm kind of glad it was like me back

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Speaker 1: So you get a pass, Chad, You're smoother than you realize.

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Speaker 1: Taking off the shirt at the kickball game was actually

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Speaker 4: Yeah do buddy, Yeah, I take my clothes off all

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Speaker 1: What do you mean by head exactly that?

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Speaker 5: Because I thought I was special, not for all the girls, right,

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Speaker 5: I'm on a stripper or anything, if that's what you're thinking.

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Speaker 3: I had my ones. Actually they're in my hands, Chad.

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Speaker 3: What do I do with them now?

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Speaker 1: Chad was just joking about taking his shirt off before.

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Speaker 3: I guess I'll save these for the next time.

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Speaker 4: Man.

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Speaker 1: So are you up for going out with her? Chad?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I wouldn't be honest about something because it's

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Speaker 5: Oh good, Okay, the suspense is killing me a little.

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Speaker 1: What do you need to be honest about?

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Speaker 4: Kickball is not my only hobby. I actually, you know,

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Speaker 4: I have other hobbies, guys, I like to do and uh, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Kicking a ball right now. Most women like a man

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Speaker 5: Interests, all right, So what exactly is the other hobby?

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Speaker 1: I'm like a little curious.

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Speaker 4: Well, I like to go ghost hunting.

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Speaker 1: Ghost hunting.

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Speaker 4: We'll spend like weekends and we'll go out and go

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Speaker 4: ghost hunting, and it's kind of something we enjoyed, like

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Speaker 4: the hope to get on TV at some point or something.

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Speaker 1: All the equipment and everything's interesting. Julie what's your take

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Speaker 5: Legit paranormal activity, Like do you actually get like recording

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Speaker 3: Is that why you're a touch?

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Speaker 4: We do it. It's legit and yeah we're nude and everything,

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Speaker 4: so it's you. Yeah, we don't wear clothes. It's very serious,

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Speaker 4: like involving like ecoplasm and things like we don't want

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Speaker 1: Into like haunted buildings. Let's hope we're not just like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's kind of our niche where we're kind of

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Speaker 1: I could see that.

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Speaker 2: As a TV show though, It's like they get in

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Speaker 1: But then are you accepting new members? Can any guy

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I wanted to know if there was any other

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Speaker 2: I hope it's just a guy to be worried more

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're saying you're still interested in this Juliet, even

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I have a hard time bringing this

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Speaker 4: I tend to get burned.

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Speaker 3: That's why you're bringing up ghosting.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and he takes his clothes off while he.

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Speaker 2: Does it, so I think it's the naked part that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Chad, I will tell you this. Julia has

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Speaker 4: Oh that's weird.

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Speaker 1: That's weird. She doesn't even know what Okay, maybe we

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Speaker 1: don't need to be that judgment, got it. It's a

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Speaker 1: it's a joke.

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Speaker 4: Just so you know.

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Speaker 5: I am not a fan of dungeons and dragons. I've

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Speaker 1: Not my thing, Okay, Okay, I don't know where. We're

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Speaker 4: Chad.

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Speaker 1: It feels like it's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: You can make a lot of money off this show. Proposal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Chad, you're still up for seeing Julia?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm down.

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Speaker 1: Okay, And Julia, you're cool with dating a naked ghost hunter.

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Speaker 5: I mean it's a little different, it's unique. I think

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Speaker 1: That's how rough the current dating scene is you know what, fine,

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Speaker 1: I'll take it.

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Speaker 3: He looks out a shirt on. That's a good point.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's less creepy if you're a hot naked Yes,

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Speaker 2: if you're.

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Speaker 4: Ghost here touch one of my apps, freaking Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: the morning.

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Speaker 1: We have talked to all different kinds of professions in

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Speaker 3: Never before, Joe, I can't confirm who.

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Speaker 1: Wants to like make it his full time gig. Nonetheless,

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Speaker 2: Like and maybe this is me being judgy, but he's

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Speaker 1: One's got a gun, Lexus and I like to think optimistically,

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Speaker 1: and it's like a whole team of soccer players. I

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Speaker 1: actually do hope that he gets a show. Though. It's

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Speaker 1: really like Brooke described naked and afraid meets ghost hunting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how did you get.

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Speaker 5: All the girls watch?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you're also scared ghost? All the girls actually

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Speaker 1: No matter how weird your dating life gets, even if

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