Speaker 1: We got a double dose of Second Date Update, you know,
Speaker 1: to go with your advilentyland all ye that you're probably
Speaker 1: taking today. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Having barbecue chicken for a choice.
Speaker 1: Delicious cold still too. I appreciate that about you, Hey,
Speaker 1: thank you for being here. I hope you had a
Speaker 1: great week and we will be back Monday with a
Speaker 1: brand new Second Date Update. But enjoy some of the
Speaker 1: classics right now. Some of them you may heard, some
Speaker 1: you may have not. So let's see it starts now.
Speaker 3: It takes a lot to make me embarrassed. Yeah, because
Speaker 3: when you grow up with a mom who sends every
Speaker 3: person you date photos from your actual circumcision, if you
Speaker 3: develop a pretty hard.
Speaker 1: Emotion that makes sense, that checks out.
Speaker 2: It's harder between the flap and the real one. But
Speaker 2: look it is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a very straight line.
Speaker 3: Am I Right, honey, she showed you guys the pictures.
Speaker 3: But today we heard something that got me actually read
Speaker 3: in the face because a very awkward and puzzling fact
Speaker 3: about one of our listeners gets exposed right here on
Speaker 3: the show, and it made everybody in the room instantly uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: Oh now, he swears that it's really common for men
Speaker 3: to have this, but all the women in the room
Speaker 3: agreed it was an instant dating deal breaking. Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: this was to happen, oh a.
Speaker 2: Woman, because I agree.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're gonna hear it in your second date update
Speaker 3: right after this second date update. You know, we have
Speaker 3: rules on this show, and people tend to abuse those rules.
Speaker 2: What do you mean.
Speaker 1: I don't really like the rules, but.
Speaker 3: Looking at several individuals in this room specifically, come.
Speaker 1: On, Jeff, don't be such a hall monitor.
Speaker 3: Yeah, screw the FCC whatever. Yeah, but you know, we
Speaker 3: did get an email for a second date update recently
Speaker 3: from a guy named Blake, who says, you really should
Speaker 3: contact me because even though I technically went on two dates,
Speaker 3: it should only count as one because they were both
Speaker 3: super short.
Speaker 1: Oh okay dates regular sounds like two bad dates if
Speaker 1: they're that quick.
Speaker 3: Maybe, Blake, why were your dates so short?
Speaker 4: I mean, okay, so it's not my fault.
Speaker 5: I don't think it's a few different things.
Speaker 2: I don't think, of.
Speaker 4: Course, I mean it could be my fault.
Speaker 5: We just went to two different restaurants, and I researched
Speaker 5: them and went to ones that were like the highest
Speaker 5: rated and they really did have.
Speaker 4: Like super super good service.
Speaker 5: But the problem is, and what I don't really want
Speaker 5: to complain about, you know, but also it just came
Speaker 5: out too quick, Like we order in boom, food comes out.
Speaker 1: I mean, when you're at a fast food restaurant, that's
Speaker 1: going to happen.
Speaker 5: We went to a five star pizza place first, and
Speaker 5: then I just wanted to be casual, you know, but
Speaker 5: then I ordered out that I ordered the pizza in Boom.
Speaker 6: It was there.
Speaker 3: Oh, let's rewind a little bit before we get into
Speaker 3: the food and the horribly fast.
Speaker 4: What works.
Speaker 3: What's the name of the girl that you went out with?
Speaker 4: Her name is Kate?
Speaker 1: Okay, we always just guess assume you met her on
Speaker 1: an app or something.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we did.
Speaker 5: We met on a dating app.
Speaker 3: Okay, nice?
Speaker 1: And did she stand out for a particular reason?
Speaker 5: Her profile was kind of like quirky, Like it seemed
Speaker 5: like she was funny, you know what I mean, And
Speaker 5: she was really cute and it just seemed like we'd
Speaker 5: have a lot to talk about.
Speaker 1: Cool.
Speaker 3: So I mean, it's good that you went on two
Speaker 3: dates with her if they both went by that quickly,
Speaker 3: like tell us what happened.
Speaker 5: So the first one was the pizza place, and then
Speaker 5: we went to another like kind of American.
Speaker 4: Like bar food, soul food type of thing.
Speaker 5: So I ordered mac and cheese, and again it came
Speaker 5: out and like literally and like that's the thing. I
Speaker 5: feel like such a I don't know. I don't like
Speaker 5: complaining about the food coming out so quick. But both
Speaker 5: these places, the.
Speaker 4: Food came out and mac and cheese.
Speaker 5: You don't want to let it get cold and hard,
Speaker 5: so you know, we were focused on the food.
Speaker 4: Again.
Speaker 2: It was like the one time you wanted the service
Speaker 2: to be slow.
Speaker 1: But even if it came out fast, like you would
Speaker 1: parlay that into Oh, I keep want to keep hanging
Speaker 1: out with you. Let's go get a drink. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't plan before.
Speaker 5: And also I don't want to push it, you know,
Speaker 5: like I feel like first dates, you just kind of
Speaker 5: want to go to one spot to feel each other out.
Speaker 5: You know, it's not like a whole like let's paint
Speaker 5: the town red thing. It's okay.
Speaker 1: So how is the feeling of each other out?
Speaker 3: How did she feel?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't know yet.
Speaker 5: I don't know yet, but no, I mean I think
Speaker 5: it went really well she's really funny and she's cute,
Speaker 5: like I said, And I mean, the conversation went seemed
Speaker 5: to flow, which is another thing. It went so fast.
Speaker 5: Her conversation was just like effortless.
Speaker 2: You know, Oh that's so good.
Speaker 7: It's like the date can take an hour and you
Speaker 7: feel like you've talked ye so long.
Speaker 2: It's like, wow, we've covered so many things.
Speaker 5: So it really felt like thirty seconds whenever it took
Speaker 5: forty five minutes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, can I ask? Because now you have two dates
Speaker 1: to compare him to, right, like, and obviously she went
Speaker 1: out on a second date, so the first date full success? Right,
Speaker 1: was the end of the second date different? Did you
Speaker 1: get a different vibe than the end of the first date?
Speaker 5: I mean it was a little bit awkward because it
Speaker 5: felt rush. I didn't know if it was like time
Speaker 5: should I go in for a kiss yet? So it
Speaker 5: was kind of more just like a just like a
Speaker 5: hug and goodbye. But it didn't seem crazy awkward, you
Speaker 5: know what I mean, Like I don't know if my
Speaker 5: radar is off, but it seemed like she was into it.
Speaker 3: See this, you.
Speaker 7: Should have just kept ordering food, like, oh, can I
Speaker 7: got a sandwich?
Speaker 5: Now?
Speaker 2: Can I get this. That way, you're like meal prepping
Speaker 2: for your whole week, and you get more time.
Speaker 3: You're buying more time, and then you look like a
Speaker 3: baller signing a two thousand.
Speaker 1: Dollars shit, a competitive eater.
Speaker 3: Like Joey Chestnut over there.
Speaker 5: She might not want to get into a long term
Speaker 5: relationship with because my blood pressure is going to be
Speaker 5: so hot.
Speaker 3: Okay, I mean it sounds like the biggest problem for you.
Speaker 3: What you're saying is that everything went too quickly. You
Speaker 3: wanted to slow things down for your.
Speaker 5: Dates, right it Well, like I said, it went too quickly.
Speaker 5: Sometimes you kind of want one of those awkward pauses
Speaker 5: every once in a while, or something funny and cute
Speaker 5: to happen so you remember it. But it all just
Speaker 5: went so smooth, like it went perfectly, Which was.
Speaker 3: That's your problem. Isn't that the service is too fast,
Speaker 3: the conversation is too good.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: You're traffic in that short of a time.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know that there's like somebody who's
Speaker 1: gonna not call someone back because it was too fast,
Speaker 1: too good. Like that's not this is.
Speaker 7: Gonna sound weird, but I kind of kind of see
Speaker 7: that because if there's not he said, there's nothing memorable
Speaker 7: that happened, there's nothing for you to be like, oh
Speaker 7: that was exciting or.
Speaker 3: That it was just too Yeah. I mean, if we're
Speaker 3: able to get Kate on the phone and convince her
Speaker 3: to do a third date, what's going to be your
Speaker 3: game plan for that to make sure you don't make
Speaker 3: the same mistakes.
Speaker 5: I was gonna say, I was thinking about a baseball game,
Speaker 5: but they have new rules in place to speed up
Speaker 5: the games or something.
Speaker 2: Yeah, an hour and a half now, yeah, nice, So.
Speaker 5: They'll try to get me a gift card for the
Speaker 5: slowest restaurant in sound Yeah, okay, it also.
Speaker 1: Sounds like you talk really fast.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that's what it is. Okay, I'm excited, you know.
Speaker 2: He's like, okay, so hi, how are you? What's your name?
Speaker 2: How is your day? What do you do for a living?
Speaker 4: All right, but it's charming and fast, that's what it is.
Speaker 3: I could see. All right, Well, we're gonna try and
Speaker 3: slow things down here for just a second, and then
Speaker 3: when we come back, we'll pick things back up. Call
Speaker 3: Kate for you and try to convince her to go
Speaker 3: out on a third date, and hopefully much longer than
Speaker 3: the first two. When we do a second date update,
Speaker 3: next second date update, two dinner dates, both at record speed.
Speaker 1: I feel like we should play faster music.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm afraid to do that just because of what
Speaker 3: will happen to Blake's voice. He's a fast talker. But
Speaker 3: one was pizza, one was mac and cheese, and Blake
Speaker 3: basically told us that he blinked and the food was
Speaker 3: suddenly there in front of him, blinked again, the table
Speaker 3: was busting.
Speaker 7: The date was over y.
Speaker 3: That's why he did two of them. But both times
Speaker 3: the service was just too quick. And I mean, here's
Speaker 3: what I think we need to do. We kind of
Speaker 3: need to game plan as a show before we make
Speaker 3: this call. I think that we shouldn't say that everything
Speaker 3: happens so quick when we call Kate, like because she
Speaker 3: might have a different perspective on it. Do you know
Speaker 3: what I mean?
Speaker 1: It's usually not a negative thing, right, Like, if you
Speaker 1: feel like time passes quickly, it usually means that you
Speaker 1: had a great experience.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he did. He didn't say that they ever
Speaker 3: actually talked about that. That was just his perception that
Speaker 3: the wait staff moved too quickly, right, fact, so I
Speaker 3: think we asked her open ended questions. How do you
Speaker 3: feel about that? Blake?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to see what she thought too.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I'm just like looking at it
Speaker 5: from a one side, like a single faceted for.
Speaker 1: Do you know we never asked you? Are you guys
Speaker 1: texting or communicating at all?
Speaker 5: H Not really, not as much as I'd like to.
Speaker 5: I mean, I've reached out to her a couple of
Speaker 5: times and chook on and just be polite.
Speaker 1: But okay, you're getting cold from her via messages.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's why I came to you guys.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Well, let's swoop in like the waiters at
Speaker 3: those restaurants real quick and just get things going. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna dial her number right now.
Speaker 1: You're going to have such a hard time not mentioning that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you are the phone better one time.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, thanks for having confidence in me. Here we go.
Speaker 3: I don't remember right now.
Speaker 8: Hello, Hey is this Kate?
Speaker 4: Yes, it is.
Speaker 3: Hey, Kate. What's up? We're brooking Jeffrey in the Morning,
Speaker 3: A whole morning show from the radios.
Speaker 9: Here, you're from the radio. I don't know who you are.
Speaker 1: We also do a podcast so that's cool.
Speaker 2: Didn't help.
Speaker 3: We do a segment on our show to help people
Speaker 3: with their dating lives. It's called Second Date Update, And
Speaker 3: you're calling me, Well.
Speaker 1: You don't need to help. Someone you went out with
Speaker 1: needs help.
Speaker 3: Right, you're great at dating. That's what we've heard from
Speaker 3: one of our Yeah, from one of our listeners, Blake,
Speaker 3: who met up with you not once but twice.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, rightsy question. All we want to know is like,
Speaker 1: how'd you feel about Blake?
Speaker 9: I mean, he was nice, Probably not the person for me,
Speaker 9: but he seems nice. I don't know.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, did.
Speaker 2: You like not have fun on the dates?
Speaker 9: Or were okay?
Speaker 3: Nice?
Speaker 1: And okay?
Speaker 2: What'd you say? A little?
Speaker 9: What strange?
Speaker 3: Strange?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we kept talking to Blake and he did not
Speaker 1: bring up anything strange.
Speaker 3: What did you think about the length of the date?
Speaker 3: Is it Mama Bear, Papa Bear or baby.
Speaker 1: Bear told you he couldn't. I already ran out of.
Speaker 3: It, blanked out. So where we got? What'd you think
Speaker 3: Mama Bear, Papa Bear, baby Bear? About the length? Too short?
Speaker 3: Too long? Just right?
Speaker 9: You're ak? How long the date was?
Speaker 4: Experience?
Speaker 10: Okay?
Speaker 3: These are normal questions that radio hosts always ask it
Speaker 3: was so awkward sometimes. I mean, I love you, I do.
Speaker 3: It's endearing. Cake.
Speaker 10: The length of the date was a normal length. I
Speaker 10: think that's actually.
Speaker 2: A great answer.
Speaker 1: I mean, do you have to tell her why you
Speaker 1: asked that?
Speaker 3: Okay, well, because the reason that I'm asking is when
Speaker 3: we spoke to Blake, the impression that he got was
Speaker 3: that the service was really really good and delivered the
Speaker 3: food a little bit too quickly for his taste.
Speaker 1: Like he felt like maybe the date was rushed and
Speaker 1: he couldn't make the connection he wanted to with you.
Speaker 10: Like the service was good, but both times that we
Speaker 10: ate because we went to dinner both times. Yeah, he
Speaker 10: ate his meal super super fat.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, did I could see that when we
Speaker 1: were talking to him. He has a lot of energy.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean, imagine going to dinner with the cookie monster.
Speaker 10: Okay, it's thirty seconds, there's crumbs everywhere, and then they're done, Like.
Speaker 2: How was he even picking anything up with those giant hands?
Speaker 3: And then he tries to teach you about letters afterwards.
Speaker 1: Remember the macaroni and cheese. When we talked to him,
Speaker 1: he mentioned, like, when you get the macaroni cheese, you
Speaker 1: got to eat it right away, because if you don't
Speaker 1: eat it right away, then it's going to be cold.
Speaker 1: Is that what you're talking about?
Speaker 10: Yeah, he said that he would gag if the temperature
Speaker 10: of the cheese was like room temperature.
Speaker 6: Gag.
Speaker 1: Not really though, Like he just meant he didn't like
Speaker 1: it when it was room temperature.
Speaker 10: No, No, he meant he physically couldn't handle it, like
Speaker 10: he was going to hurl.
Speaker 1: It was a texture thing.
Speaker 3: N How do you feel about that explanation?
Speaker 10: I mean it got worse to be honest with you,
Speaker 10: Like what really, Well, it started this really odd conversation
Speaker 10: about textures that he can and can't hand.
Speaker 5: Oh people.
Speaker 10: Yeah, it just got me thinking, like I'm looking at
Speaker 10: him thinking, okay, let's say we're in a serious relationship.
Speaker 9: Well, what would that be?
Speaker 3: Like, Well, I do think it's good that you are
Speaker 3: thinking about down the road, a future, possible long term relationship.
Speaker 9: I'm not anymore.
Speaker 1: Through this. Is it just a little speed bumps? Yeah,
Speaker 1: a possible relationship.
Speaker 3: Popy right over that speed bump and connect you to
Speaker 3: Blake right now because he's on the other line listening
Speaker 3: and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4: I don't think that that's that weird.
Speaker 5: People have textures, people have likes and days.
Speaker 1: Why don't you start with a high coming in?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 5: I'm sorry we kind of hurt my feelings a little bit.
Speaker 4: I mean people are just let people beat.
Speaker 5: People, you know.
Speaker 4: I mean, why is that? We had a great time
Speaker 4: of thought?
Speaker 5: The conversations were great. I thinks like we were both
Speaker 5: kind of into the same stuff just because I eat weird.
Speaker 1: Did she hang up.
Speaker 3: There? Okay?
Speaker 6: No, he was on the phone.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Sorry, that's how these work. Okay, But I'll go
Speaker 3: ahead and talk to Blake about his aversion to certain
Speaker 3: food textures.
Speaker 4: I think it's a normal thing. People have preferences.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's a little. Like I said, I'm not trying
Speaker 9: to be mean. It's just a little high maintenance. But
Speaker 9: I have to kind of bring up because it's not
Speaker 9: just the food thing. It's like the other thing that
Speaker 9: you said that you can't do.
Speaker 5: I don't think that only when you talk about that
Speaker 5: on the radio.
Speaker 1: What's that, Blake? You can't leave us in the dark
Speaker 1: on stuff that sounds important.
Speaker 4: I just prefer not to have it out.
Speaker 5: In the open.
Speaker 1: Is it more embarrassing than you not being able to
Speaker 1: eat like potatoes or something.
Speaker 4: I don't think it's embarrassing. I think it's normal.
Speaker 5: Okay, then it's a more private kind of thing.
Speaker 3: Oh, there's a texture that you can't handle.
Speaker 5: It is the texture that I can't handle.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't get it.
Speaker 2: The picture of someone's lips, like you'll never kiss her.
Speaker 3: If it's what I'm thinking that it is. Maybe he's
Speaker 3: right and we shouldn't talk about this on the radio.
Speaker 1: I don't get it.
Speaker 2: I don't get it either, But he thinks it's normal.
Speaker 1: What do you think that it is? No, Jeffrey, like,
Speaker 1: are you thinking something dirty?
Speaker 5: It's a little dirty.
Speaker 3: I think there's a part all right?
Speaker 2: Anyway, that's just that's too bad for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, are we right? Are we in the ballpark?
Speaker 10: I'm just gonna say to me, I know he has
Speaker 10: a texture issue, but intimacy is important, and I don't
Speaker 10: know how at home?
Speaker 1: Why waste talking about people time to find a woman
Speaker 1: to date? Delivering that type of information.
Speaker 5: On the first day that was the second date.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know it's it's like a partnership, you give
Speaker 1: and you know, right.
Speaker 3: Okay, So maybe Kate's willing to go without that part
Speaker 3: of the relationship. And Kate, if you are, then we
Speaker 3: would pay for the third date that you and Blake
Speaker 3: went on to a place that doesn't serve any cheese whatsoever.
Speaker 1: Kate, are you interested still because I think everybody here
Speaker 1: is just uncomfortable.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we are.
Speaker 9: I mean, you wouldn't want me to live a life
Speaker 9: like that, would you know?
Speaker 3: You guys are.
Speaker 1: Something. What I tell my kids with food is that
Speaker 1: you have.
Speaker 8: Don't don't don't talk about your kids.
Speaker 3: Let's call the therapist before.
Speaker 2: Watch list.
Speaker 3: God, Blake, I am so sorry, but this technically is
Speaker 3: all your fault and you do have some walk to
Speaker 3: do on yourself. My friend.
Speaker 4: I'll do my best.
Speaker 8: I'll try, Okay, looking Jeffrey in the morning, this is
Speaker 8: the one time that I didn't want to do a
Speaker 8: part three and talk more about something the second date.
Speaker 1: I don't ever want to know how it goes for
Speaker 1: him either.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I will say after we recorded it, Blake
Speaker 3: did email the show with five words. Oh, he said
Speaker 3: I would if I could not.
Speaker 1: Your response, maybe you're just not interested in women.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't think it's not his fault. Did you
Speaker 3: hear his words? He would if he could.
Speaker 2: It's a thing this man is.
Speaker 3: Just as tortured inside as she is. I feel for
Speaker 3: him the desire to do something, but the inability writing.
Speaker 1: Down the excuse I would if I could.
Speaker 3: That's a sweet thing to say to someone. Yeah, we
Speaker 3: do all sorts of stories on this show about tech
Speaker 3: trends and new inventions. Scientists better be working on this,
Speaker 3: make a pill for it or something they need to
Speaker 3: upgrade Blake.
Speaker 1: It's really not a rampant problem. I'm just telling you.
Speaker 3: It is a big problem though for him. He's going
Speaker 3: to be single for a long long time after this
Speaker 3: if they don't do something about it. But remember, you
Speaker 3: can always hear all of our second date updates on
Speaker 3: our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey. Go check it out.
Speaker 3: Make sure you follow and subscribe.
Speaker 1: Yes please, Yeah, so you never miss us.
Speaker 3: Texture when you listen is perfect.
Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: If there was a Guinness World Record Book for dating,
Speaker 3: Alexis would probably be in it for fastest to ask
Speaker 3: to see a W two forma. Jose would hold the
Speaker 3: record for longest time spent talking about himself.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 3: Started and Brooke holds them for most cousin ears nibbled
Speaker 3: in one.
Speaker 11: Competition her whole family is the competition, but one of
Speaker 11: our listeners would definitely be in there holding the record
Speaker 11: for quickest time to ruin a date yo, because he
Speaker 11: pulled it off in under sixty seconds.
Speaker 2: Whoa wow.
Speaker 3: And it all started when he invited her up and
Speaker 3: do his apartment at the very start of the night.
Speaker 3: You're going to hear what happened in your second date
Speaker 3: update next second date up. Date is something my dad
Speaker 3: always used to say to me growing up, was you
Speaker 3: can control all delete a computer virus from an adult
Speaker 3: Chinese website, but you can't control all delete a bad
Speaker 3: first impression from an adult date.
Speaker 12: That is, it's wise, I know, for very wise stuff
Speaker 12: from my father super Man, your dad, Yeah you say that,
Speaker 12: but those words were ringing in my ear when I
Speaker 12: read an email from one of our listeners, Kyle, who
Speaker 12: says he screwed up in the first minute of his date,
Speaker 12: but things it went a lot better after that.
Speaker 1: Do you screw up in the first minute?
Speaker 3: We're going to find out, Kyle. Welcome to the show.
Speaker 6: Good morning. How's it going guys.
Speaker 2: Okay, you haven't messed this up yet, so congrats.
Speaker 3: Well we're not Yeah, we're not through the full minute
Speaker 3: judgment and we'll get to your screw up here in
Speaker 3: just a second. But first, tell us about the person
Speaker 3: that you went out with. What's their name?
Speaker 6: Her name is Rebecca and we actually met off of
Speaker 6: a dating app.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, great? What did you like about Rebecca?
Speaker 6: Honestly? I mean, she's beautiful and we really just kind
Speaker 6: of had a very natural vibright off the beginning, and
Speaker 6: it was easy, you know, and a lot of a
Speaker 6: lot of the times it's not easy, and that's usually
Speaker 6: when it's like, why am I trying?
Speaker 3: Everybody loves easy women. That's great, So that's what I
Speaker 3: like to hear.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey, he too easy?
Speaker 3: Almost. So what did you and Rebecca do for a date?
Speaker 1: You got to get to the minute of screw up?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: Isn't that where we're at now?
Speaker 3: How does that happen in the first just a minute?
Speaker 6: So the day of our date, my car actually had
Speaker 6: to be taken to the shop last minute, so Rebecca
Speaker 6: had offered to pick me up. So she got there,
Speaker 6: I invited her in, I introduced her to my roommate. Okay,
Speaker 6: and I should have probably left it at that, but
Speaker 6: I was one hundred percent honest with her from the
Speaker 6: beginning and told her that my roommate and I used
Speaker 6: to date and that we had broke up two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: Two weeks whoa weeks ago? I thought you were going
Speaker 1: to say, like you were high school, you.
Speaker 7: Were introducing them, I'd be like moved out by then.
Speaker 1: I'm having a panic attack for you.
Speaker 6: I don't know what I Honestly, I don't know what
Speaker 6: I was thinking in the moment. I really felt like
Speaker 6: if I'm just kind of honest. Also, this had been
Speaker 6: a breakup that was like a long time coming.
Speaker 1: So can I ask though, were you still in a
Speaker 1: one bedroom apartment or you guys are you sleeping in
Speaker 1: different rooms?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 6: At this point, like we were pretty much sleeping in
Speaker 6: different rooms.
Speaker 3: So I think it's a good thing you're that honest. Well, no,
Speaker 3: you're you're showing Rebecca, like look what I was working
Speaker 3: with last time. See now you have.
Speaker 1: Don't think anyone's yeah.
Speaker 3: It's like now, look I've moved on to something better.
Speaker 1: You're honest. You were just doing this to make your
Speaker 1: ex jealous.
Speaker 6: No, actually, I really that was not the case, because
Speaker 6: I'm the one who wanted to end the relationship.
Speaker 5: So some people like to.
Speaker 2: Rub in their new relationships and other people's faces.
Speaker 3: Though too sounds like an honest mistake that could have
Speaker 3: happened to anybody. So what did you do for you do?
Speaker 3: It's so specific?
Speaker 6: I thought it was funny. Clearly no one else in
Speaker 6: the room thought it was funny. So I nearly just
Speaker 6: said we're going to be late for the reservation and
Speaker 6: we laughed.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wait, did Rebecca not ask any other questions, like in
Speaker 1: the car when you guys are driving to the restaurant.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was a little funny about it. She was like, oh, wow,
Speaker 6: I didn't know you were living with your ex and
Speaker 6: you never said that.
Speaker 3: And it's not fun.
Speaker 2: That's normal reaction.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's get past let's get past the X slash
Speaker 3: room made and get to the restaurant. As how that one?
Speaker 1: I don't think I can get past it.
Speaker 6: So so we're driving to the restaurant and it's in
Speaker 6: an area I'm usually never in, and like, I see this,
Speaker 6: I see a best boy. So in the moment, I
Speaker 6: was just like, oh, can we stop here for a
Speaker 6: few minutes?
Speaker 3: Up another TV?
Speaker 2: There's a CD I want to buy.
Speaker 1: Why would you have a running age with you?
Speaker 6: Well, there's this camera standing there that I wanted to
Speaker 6: buy for six months and I've never round this best buy.
Speaker 6: We weren't we weren't actually running late for the reservation.
Speaker 6: I just wished to, like trying to get out of
Speaker 6: the awkwardness of the situation.
Speaker 1: So geek squad.
Speaker 3: My ex says that we need to mount the camera
Speaker 3: next time. So this up.
Speaker 6: It actually ended up being fun. We got to look around,
Speaker 6: you know, we got a chance to talk about like photography,
Speaker 6: which is something that we both care about and tell't
Speaker 6: know why, you know, camera stand they're all different in
Speaker 6: the nuances. And then we look at you.
Speaker 1: Know, thrilling. I can't believe she's hungry waiting for a
Speaker 1: dinner reservation.
Speaker 3: At any point do we end up getting to the
Speaker 3: restaurant or does it?
Speaker 6: Yeah, so then we we leave. You know, at this point,
Speaker 6: we both were ready for dinner. I based out the
Speaker 6: reservation and we actually couldn't get in when we get there.
Speaker 6: So I'm just like, what the hell's going on?
Speaker 2: What happened?
Speaker 1: What happened with the reservation.
Speaker 6: So I guess when I booked the reservation, I had,
Speaker 6: you know, booked it for a different time, but.
Speaker 1: I thought you said, we're an hour in and it's
Speaker 1: all bad.
Speaker 3: I disagree, Kyle. I think you're hitting it out of
Speaker 3: the park with this. Keep going.
Speaker 6: Thank you, Thank you for your encouragement. You know, obviously
Speaker 6: it was all going downhill at that point. Yeah, like
Speaker 6: what the flow? You know, we made the best of it.
Speaker 6: We ended up hanging out at the place next door.
Speaker 6: We drank a decent amount because we both were just
Speaker 6: probably trying to get like, you know, John Kep's point
Speaker 6: and I I can drink a lot. Anyways, she ended
Speaker 6: up driving me home after dinner. No kiss. Yeah, but
Speaker 6: I really do want to make up for the first impression.
Speaker 6: I feel like I really screwed it up, and I
Speaker 6: that's why I'm trying to get another shot at it.
Speaker 1: Can we tell her, like when we talked to her,
Speaker 1: do you have plans to move out with the apartment
Speaker 1: with your.
Speaker 6: Worse Of course, our lease is ending in two more months.
Speaker 1: And I get it, I get it. That's hard.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, good for her for sticking out the
Speaker 3: entire date. She could have just barreled out of her
Speaker 3: car while she was driving home.
Speaker 1: I was going to say, leave him a best buy Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: Out, but she didn't, so maybe there's hope here. We're
Speaker 3: gonna call Rebecca and try and get you your second
Speaker 3: date update thinks right after this.
Speaker 12: Date if you're just.
Speaker 3: Joining us for the second date update. Really hard to
Speaker 3: find any red flax file.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't see any.
Speaker 3: Let's just recap his story really quick. He introduced her
Speaker 3: to his roommate aka ex girlfriend, who he still lives.
Speaker 1: With he broke up with two weeks ago.
Speaker 3: Well, sticky situation in little details. Yeah, and then on
Speaker 3: the way to the restaurant, they stopped at a Best
Speaker 3: Buy to pick up a camera stand that he really
Speaker 3: really needed. They ended up missing their dinner reservation, so
Speaker 3: to make up for it, hit up a bar where
Speaker 3: he drank heavily and totally redeemed himself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she had to drive him home.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's such a cute look.
Speaker 3: If anything, maybe there were a couple of hiccups. But Kyle,
Speaker 3: the good news here is Brooke has dated much much worse.
Speaker 2: We can always rely on that.
Speaker 3: Including the dude in Mexico who actually tried to harvest
Speaker 3: her kidney after they hooked up. So I'm giving you
Speaker 3: a fifty to fifty shot here.
Speaker 1: That was kind of sweet of all the kidneys you
Speaker 1: chose my I mean we didn't ask you have you
Speaker 1: reached out and apologized to her for what a train
Speaker 1: wreck your guys' first date was.
Speaker 4: I actually didn't.
Speaker 6: Think it was a train wreck. I you know, I
Speaker 6: basically reached out and was just like trying to focus
Speaker 6: on the positive and all the good things that came
Speaker 6: out of that.
Speaker 2: That's good.
Speaker 3: I like that attitude. And Brook is always trying to
Speaker 3: get men to apologize for everything that they do.
Speaker 1: But it doesn't sound like she responded to him, so.
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, that's rude of her. Maybe she should apologize
Speaker 3: for not responding.
Speaker 1: Jeff apology as.
Speaker 3: Soon as she picks up the phone. Let's what a
Speaker 3: rude woman? Here we go?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: Hi is this Rebecca?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Hey Rebecca. My name is Jeff from a radio show
Speaker 3: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi Rebecca, Hey
Speaker 3: have you ever heard of us before?
Speaker 13: That's okay, I think my mom.
Speaker 2: Thanks for lying spurs our feelings.
Speaker 3: Your mom sounds like a good person, because we do.
Speaker 3: We do something on the show called a second Date Update,
Speaker 3: and we'd like you to be a part of one
Speaker 3: right now.
Speaker 6: I what's that?
Speaker 3: It's basically where listeners ask us to reach out to
Speaker 3: a person they went on a date with recently to
Speaker 3: try and figure out why a second date hasn't happened yet. Okay,
Speaker 3: and you went out with a guy named Kyle the
Speaker 3: other night who's a little curious what's going on?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 1: Oh you're laughing? Is that a good laugh? Or like
Speaker 1: Kyle should know laugh?
Speaker 13: Did he talk to you already?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, weird a little bit from Kyle.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just quick summary.
Speaker 3: Nothing too bad though not in our opinion. Was anything
Speaker 3: bad in yours?
Speaker 1: Jeffrey's opinion Alexis and I saw a couple of red
Speaker 1: flags when he was describing the date. I would love
Speaker 1: to hear your side of the story of the first
Speaker 1: like thirty minutes.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like give us the start from your eyes.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 13: So yeah, I went to pick him up, and you know,
Speaker 13: as a normal person, you text me like I'm here
Speaker 13: and they come out and he was like, oh, come
Speaker 13: in of like.
Speaker 3: And when you went into his apartment, what'd you think.
Speaker 13: The apartment was fined? But like he was like, oh,
Speaker 13: this is my roommate, blah bah blah. And then he goes, yeah,
Speaker 13: like we used to date and and then I find
Speaker 13: out it broke up like two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was going through your head?
Speaker 3: Catch?
Speaker 13: I was just like, never met an ex in the
Speaker 13: first minute or really at all on a date. And
Speaker 13: my second thought was, she's really pretty Like is that's
Speaker 13: what he what he meant when he had car trouble?
Speaker 5: He just wants me to meet his ex?
Speaker 13: Because there were other moments where it was just he
Speaker 13: just kind of felt like he was posturing or whatever.
Speaker 3: What do you mean what moments?
Speaker 2: Does sound pretty convenient?
Speaker 13: Well, I would say this is my own thing with
Speaker 13: people pleasing or whatever. I was like, okay, like I
Speaker 13: can live on from this. So like to get in
Speaker 13: the car and we're driving, and then you say, oh,
Speaker 13: can we go to best Buy? And I need to
Speaker 13: get this camera stand or whatever, and I was like, uh, okay,
Speaker 13: second thing, that's super weird.
Speaker 2: But will you sound very patient and nice so far?
Speaker 1: Just so you know again, she said it's her people
Speaker 1: pleasing problem.
Speaker 13: Thank you. It's probably not for the best.
Speaker 1: So what did something weird happen at best Buy? I mean,
Speaker 1: besides just going there.
Speaker 13: Besides just going there, he takes about an hour looking
Speaker 13: at camera stands and man explaining to me, and I'm like,
Speaker 13: I'm not the one buying a camera stand.
Speaker 4: I don't care.
Speaker 3: But if you think about it, that's an hour of
Speaker 3: free electronic education that he gifted to.
Speaker 1: Your well wanted.
Speaker 3: I don't like that. I don't like the energy that
Speaker 3: I'm getting in this moment. Let's move on. Tell us
Speaker 3: about what happened when you and Kyle were over at
Speaker 3: the bar together.
Speaker 13: Oh so you already know that we didn't even go
Speaker 13: to the restaurant.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I mean we're calling that a little hiccup.
Speaker 13: Go ahead, So like a bar nearby, So we just
Speaker 13: walked over to the bar. He's getting drinks. I don't
Speaker 13: want to drink that much because obviously I'm driving, and
Speaker 13: he goes when you know that, like I have a
Speaker 13: blood condition or I can handle a lot of alcohol. God,
Speaker 13: And I was like okay, and he takes like six
Speaker 13: shots and within like thirty.
Speaker 4: Minutes, he's face down on the bar.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I can't believe you drove him home.
Speaker 5: I wish I didn't.
Speaker 13: You're so right, but like so I'm like basicly dragging
Speaker 13: him back to my car and he's like, you're so pretty.
Speaker 13: You know that I'm a Navy deal in training, and
Speaker 13: I'm like, what does this amazing?
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just trying that just even feels like a lie,
Speaker 1: Like it's.
Speaker 6: Hello, I am a Navy feeling training. What are you
Speaker 6: talking about? Oh?
Speaker 10: Wait, what the heck?
Speaker 3: Yeah, Rebecca Kylesman on the other line listening this entire time.
Speaker 3: It was supposed to wait till we called him in,
Speaker 3: But honestly.
Speaker 13: I feel like this is something you should tell the
Speaker 13: people right away.
Speaker 1: Yes, you're right, you were just so caught up in
Speaker 1: the terrible stories that you were sharing.
Speaker 3: I didn't get terrible from anything that She's Kyle. On
Speaker 3: top of all of his other positive qualities, he wants
Speaker 3: to surprise her too.
Speaker 1: After hearing all of.
Speaker 6: That, I think it was more positive than negative, To
Speaker 6: be honest, I did. I think there are a lot
Speaker 6: of hiccups at the beginning, but I thought it ended
Speaker 6: on a good note.
Speaker 1: Would you sloppy drunk in her car?
Speaker 4: Le?
Speaker 3: Clearly they're not understanding this. Why don't you man explain
Speaker 3: all the positive things that happened during the king?
Speaker 6: Well, initially, you know, when we talked about photography and everything,
Speaker 6: like you seemed really into it. So I thought when
Speaker 6: we were at Best Buys. You seemed pretty engaged. You laugh.
Speaker 6: I got a couple of laughs and smiles out of you,
Speaker 6: and we were there for a while, and I thought
Speaker 6: that was pretty positive.
Speaker 13: I mean, what was I supposed to say? I feel
Speaker 13: like it would have been rude for me to be like, well,
Speaker 13: this is boring, let's go.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I guess that's fair. But I didn't see it that way, and.
Speaker 13: You didn't see anything as rude because you were like, here,
Speaker 13: pick me up, here, meet my roommate, here, meet my
Speaker 13: ex here, let's go to Best Buying.
Speaker 5: Here, let's our reservation.
Speaker 3: And that's a lot of things that he did for you. There,
Speaker 3: What's something that you did for him?
Speaker 4: Kyle?
Speaker 1: Jeff sarcastic right now? I mean that that is all
Speaker 1: really selfish stuff.
Speaker 9: Man.
Speaker 1: Were you ever thinking of her?
Speaker 6: Yeah? I mean yeah, I told her she was pretty
Speaker 6: I was thinking about her.
Speaker 13: Are you serious? Like, I think I'm speechless.
Speaker 3: Good work, Kyle. You got a.
Speaker 1: Speechless by that, because Kyle is so clueless.
Speaker 6: Honestly, I disagree with you guys. Like Jess said, I
Speaker 6: gave her like an hour of education on cameras, and
Speaker 6: I feel pretty good about that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to pay for that most places.
Speaker 1: I mean, Kyle, were you training with to be a
Speaker 1: Navy seal?
Speaker 6: I'm looking at like YouTube videos?
Speaker 13: You know, Wait a minute, are you kidding me?
Speaker 7: Beyond it's intense training, you can't just learn to hold
Speaker 7: your breath for two minutes.
Speaker 3: Kyle's gonna prove you wrong on that one.
Speaker 13: Jose does, just like he proved me wrong with his
Speaker 13: blood condition that he could drink six shots in a row.
Speaker 3: Rebecca, I'm going to ask you a question here, and
Speaker 3: I really hope that you don't turn down a future
Speaker 3: Navy seal on a second date that we will pay for.
Speaker 3: And I promise you that on the date, he'll prove
Speaker 3: that he can hold his breath for two minutes in
Speaker 3: the bathtub while's X watching, Yeah, watches classic Navy seal
Speaker 3: training with that mounted camera that you helped buy. Circle.
Speaker 3: What do you say, Rebecca? What an opportunity, Rebecca, do
Speaker 3: the hero a chance?
Speaker 13: It means that is a very enticing offer. But he's
Speaker 13: proven everything and I never want to see him again.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good job for back and finding some boundaries.
Speaker 13: Yeah, oh yeah, I'm sweating bullets over here. I'm about
Speaker 13: to hang up and just hyper battling.
Speaker 1: Oh, you'll be good.
Speaker 3: You'll be good.
Speaker 1: You're a great sport.
Speaker 2: Everybody understand.
Speaker 1: And I think Kyle, like, once he does some reflection,
Speaker 1: has learned, will kind of soak in some of this.
Speaker 3: Hopefully when he's taken down the next bin.
Speaker 8: Laden, for sure, you're just a drunk guy trying his way.
Speaker 6: I'm calling you back just so you.
Speaker 3: Know, all right, Well happy, I was coming up. Brooke
Speaker 3: needs somebody to I'm good.
Speaker 1: Kyle's not my type. Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,
Speaker 1: and I.
Speaker 3: Was hoping we'd be able to get a second date.
Speaker 3: So well, just so Kyle could go back to her
Speaker 3: apartment and gather intelligence behind enemy lines, because that's what
Speaker 3: a Navy sealed does.
Speaker 1: Oh, I got that very Jeffrey. Jeffrey, people do not
Speaker 1: always pick up on your sarcasm everywhere.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's uh, that's their problem. That's not my fault.
Speaker 12: That was a disaster conversation to go a little whiskey tango,
Speaker 12: emphasis on the whiskey and terrorist one that round of day.
Speaker 1: No fox trot there, no no.
Speaker 3: But at the very end Kyle did say he would
Speaker 3: be calling us back.
Speaker 7: At least you can't understand me. Maybe he did anything wrong.
Speaker 7: He's like, oh, I'll be back.
Speaker 3: Well, I think the missing context of that is I'm
Speaker 3: definitely going to ruin a future date coming. Sure you
Speaker 3: saved my email in your contact me up again.
Speaker 1: He's got two months of being in a roomy with
Speaker 1: his ex, so I think there's gonna be plenty of
Speaker 1: bad dates in his future.
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe we're going to do an awkward Tuesday to
Speaker 3: finally kick her out. Oh god, But if you ever
Speaker 3: need help with your dating life, email the show. We
Speaker 3: can call that person who isn't calling you back, help
Speaker 3: you out.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey will stick up for you, no matter how dumb
Speaker 1: you are.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's we guarantee.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a hero this time than that.
Speaker 5: Moon