WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Fast Service Disservice + Give A Hero A Chance 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.480 We got a double dose of Second Date Update, you know, 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:05.160 to go with your advilentyland all ye that you're probably 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:11.920 taking today. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:12.559 Having barbecue chicken for a choice. 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:16.919 Delicious cold still too. I appreciate that about you, Hey, 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:18.840 thank you for being here. I hope you had a 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.120 great week and we will be back Monday with a 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:24.720 brand new Second Date Update. But enjoy some of the 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:27.000 classics right now. Some of them you may heard, some 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:30.000 you may have not. So let's see it starts now. 0:00:31.840 --> 0:00:35.720 It takes a lot to make me embarrassed. Yeah, because 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:38.040 when you grow up with a mom who sends every 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:43.320 person you date photos from your actual circumcision, if you 0:00:43.440 --> 0:00:44.720 develop a pretty hard. 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:48.120 Emotion that makes sense, that checks out. 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.440 It's harder between the flap and the real one. But 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:51.199 look it is. 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:57.120 Yeah, it's a very straight line. 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:59.040 Am I Right, honey, she showed you guys the pictures. 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.800 But today we heard something that got me actually read 0:01:02.840 --> 0:01:06.959 in the face because a very awkward and puzzling fact 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:10.240 about one of our listeners gets exposed right here on 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:15.400 the show, and it made everybody in the room instantly uncomfortable. 0:01:15.560 --> 0:01:19.080 Oh now, he swears that it's really common for men 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.760 to have this, but all the women in the room 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:25.520 agreed it was an instant dating deal breaking. Oh yeah, 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:27.440 this was to happen, oh a. 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:28.440 Woman, because I agree. 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:32.680 Yeah, you're gonna hear it in your second date update 0:01:33.000 --> 0:01:37.759 right after this second date update. You know, we have 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:42.440 rules on this show, and people tend to abuse those rules. 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:43.360 What do you mean. 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:45.240 I don't really like the rules, but. 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:50.040 Looking at several individuals in this room specifically, come. 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.560 On, Jeff, don't be such a hall monitor. 0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:55.960 Yeah, screw the FCC whatever. Yeah, but you know, we 0:01:56.000 --> 0:01:58.640 did get an email for a second date update recently 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.720 from a guy named Blake, who says, you really should 0:02:01.720 --> 0:02:05.920 contact me because even though I technically went on two dates, 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:09.000 it should only count as one because they were both 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:10.079 super short. 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:15.640 Oh okay dates regular sounds like two bad dates if 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:16.280 they're that quick. 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.320 Maybe, Blake, why were your dates so short? 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:22.359 I mean, okay, so it's not my fault. 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:24.080 I don't think it's a few different things. 0:02:24.120 --> 0:02:24.640 I don't think, of. 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:26.560 Course, I mean it could be my fault. 0:02:26.600 --> 0:02:28.440 We just went to two different restaurants, and I researched 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:29.880 them and went to ones that were like the highest 0:02:29.919 --> 0:02:31.520 rated and they really did have. 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:33.000 Like super super good service. 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:35.079 But the problem is, and what I don't really want 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:37.200 to complain about, you know, but also it just came 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:41.000 out too quick, Like we order in boom, food comes out. 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:43.639 I mean, when you're at a fast food restaurant, that's 0:02:43.639 --> 0:02:44.160 going to happen. 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.920 We went to a five star pizza place first, and 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:50.520 then I just wanted to be casual, you know, but 0:02:50.520 --> 0:02:52.560 then I ordered out that I ordered the pizza in Boom. 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:53.000 It was there. 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:56.720 Oh, let's rewind a little bit before we get into 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.960 the food and the horribly fast. 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:02.040 What works. 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.240 What's the name of the girl that you went out with? 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:05.720 Her name is Kate? 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:09.600 Okay, we always just guess assume you met her on 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:10.480 an app or something. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:11.760 Yeah, we did. 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:12.760 We met on a dating app. 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:13.560 Okay, nice? 0:03:13.639 --> 0:03:15.919 And did she stand out for a particular reason? 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:19.000 Her profile was kind of like quirky, Like it seemed 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:20.160 like she was funny, you know what I mean, And 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:21.919 she was really cute and it just seemed like we'd 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:22.840 have a lot to talk about. 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:23.400 Cool. 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:26.959 So I mean, it's good that you went on two 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:29.520 dates with her if they both went by that quickly, 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:30.640 like tell us what happened. 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:32.640 So the first one was the pizza place, and then 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:34.760 we went to another like kind of American. 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.400 Like bar food, soul food type of thing. 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:39.040 So I ordered mac and cheese, and again it came 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:41.160 out and like literally and like that's the thing. I 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:43.000 feel like such a I don't know. I don't like 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:45.119 complaining about the food coming out so quick. But both 0:03:45.120 --> 0:03:46.200 these places, the. 0:03:46.160 --> 0:03:47.360 Food came out and mac and cheese. 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:48.800 You don't want to let it get cold and hard, 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.360 so you know, we were focused on the food. 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:50.640 Again. 0:03:51.080 --> 0:03:53.280 It was like the one time you wanted the service 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:54.160 to be slow. 0:03:56.760 --> 0:03:59.560 But even if it came out fast, like you would 0:03:59.600 --> 0:04:02.440 parlay that into Oh, I keep want to keep hanging 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:06.440 out with you. Let's go get a drink. Yeah. No, 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:07.320 I didn't plan before. 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:08.720 And also I don't want to push it, you know, 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:10.240 like I feel like first dates, you just kind of 0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:12.119 want to go to one spot to feel each other out. 0:04:12.160 --> 0:04:13.960 You know, it's not like a whole like let's paint 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:15.360 the town red thing. It's okay. 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:19.599 So how is the feeling of each other out? 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:20.559 How did she feel? 0:04:21.120 --> 0:04:23.080 Yeah? I don't know yet. 0:04:23.120 --> 0:04:25.120 I don't know yet, but no, I mean I think 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:27.080 it went really well she's really funny and she's cute, 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:30.119 like I said, And I mean, the conversation went seemed 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:32.080 to flow, which is another thing. It went so fast. 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:34.200 Her conversation was just like effortless. 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:35.760 You know, Oh that's so good. 0:04:35.800 --> 0:04:37.880 It's like the date can take an hour and you 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:39.160 feel like you've talked ye so long. 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:41.200 It's like, wow, we've covered so many things. 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.600 So it really felt like thirty seconds whenever it took 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:44.440 forty five minutes. 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:48.440 Yeah, can I ask? Because now you have two dates 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:50.840 to compare him to, right, like, and obviously she went 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:54.160 out on a second date, so the first date full success? Right, 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.359 was the end of the second date different? Did you 0:04:57.360 --> 0:04:59.680 get a different vibe than the end of the first date? 0:05:00.240 --> 0:05:01.839 I mean it was a little bit awkward because it 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:03.440 felt rush. I didn't know if it was like time 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:04.880 should I go in for a kiss yet? So it 0:05:04.920 --> 0:05:06.839 was kind of more just like a just like a 0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:09.520 hug and goodbye. But it didn't seem crazy awkward, you 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:10.560 know what I mean, Like I don't know if my 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:12.480 radar is off, but it seemed like she was into it. 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:13.920 See this, you. 0:05:13.839 --> 0:05:17.640 Should have just kept ordering food, like, oh, can I 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:18.240 got a sandwich? 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:18.359 Now? 0:05:18.400 --> 0:05:20.160 Can I get this. That way, you're like meal prepping 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:22.120 for your whole week, and you get more time. 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:23.960 You're buying more time, and then you look like a 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:25.680 baller signing a two thousand. 0:05:25.400 --> 0:05:27.919 Dollars shit, a competitive eater. 0:05:29.880 --> 0:05:31.200 Like Joey Chestnut over there. 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:33.120 She might not want to get into a long term 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:35.080 relationship with because my blood pressure is going to be 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:35.599 so hot. 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:39.120 Okay, I mean it sounds like the biggest problem for you. 0:05:39.200 --> 0:05:42.320 What you're saying is that everything went too quickly. You 0:05:42.360 --> 0:05:44.520 wanted to slow things down for your. 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:47.280 Dates, right it Well, like I said, it went too quickly. 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:49.880 Sometimes you kind of want one of those awkward pauses 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:51.479 every once in a while, or something funny and cute 0:05:51.520 --> 0:05:53.000 to happen so you remember it. But it all just 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:55.159 went so smooth, like it went perfectly, Which was. 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:58.760 That's your problem. Isn't that the service is too fast, 0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:00.960 the conversation is too good. 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:02.000 I don't know. 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:05.400 You're traffic in that short of a time. 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:07.880 I mean, I don't know that there's like somebody who's 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:10.560 gonna not call someone back because it was too fast, 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:12.560 too good. Like that's not this is. 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:15.239 Gonna sound weird, but I kind of kind of see 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:18.000 that because if there's not he said, there's nothing memorable 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:20.400 that happened, there's nothing for you to be like, oh 0:06:20.480 --> 0:06:21.800 that was exciting or. 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:27.000 That it was just too Yeah. I mean, if we're 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:29.440 able to get Kate on the phone and convince her 0:06:29.720 --> 0:06:31.520 to do a third date, what's going to be your 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.360 game plan for that to make sure you don't make 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:34.560 the same mistakes. 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:36.360 I was gonna say, I was thinking about a baseball game, 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:39.000 but they have new rules in place to speed up 0:06:39.000 --> 0:06:39.799 the games or something. 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:45.560 Yeah, an hour and a half now, yeah, nice, So. 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:47.000 They'll try to get me a gift card for the 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:50.000 slowest restaurant in sound Yeah, okay, it also. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:51.280 Sounds like you talk really fast. 0:06:51.600 --> 0:06:54.440 Yeah, maybe that's what it is. Okay, I'm excited, you know. 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:57.800 He's like, okay, so hi, how are you? What's your name? 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.120 How is your day? What do you do for a living? 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:04.200 All right, but it's charming and fast, that's what it is. 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:08.039 I could see. All right, Well, we're gonna try and 0:07:08.040 --> 0:07:10.000 slow things down here for just a second, and then 0:07:10.040 --> 0:07:13.400 when we come back, we'll pick things back up. Call 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:15.920 Kate for you and try to convince her to go 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:19.440 out on a third date, and hopefully much longer than 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:21.680 the first two. When we do a second date update, 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:29.160 next second date update, two dinner dates, both at record speed. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:31.720 I feel like we should play faster music. 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.560 Yeah, I'm afraid to do that just because of what 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:37.360 will happen to Blake's voice. He's a fast talker. But 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:40.760 one was pizza, one was mac and cheese, and Blake 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:43.840 basically told us that he blinked and the food was 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:46.960 suddenly there in front of him, blinked again, the table 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:47.960 was busting. 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:50.760 The date was over y. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.239 That's why he did two of them. But both times 0:07:53.280 --> 0:07:56.600 the service was just too quick. And I mean, here's 0:07:56.640 --> 0:07:58.080 what I think we need to do. We kind of 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:01.320 need to game plan as a show before we make 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:06.240 this call. I think that we shouldn't say that everything 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:09.400 happens so quick when we call Kate, like because she 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:11.360 might have a different perspective on it. Do you know 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:11.800 what I mean? 0:08:11.880 --> 0:08:14.680 It's usually not a negative thing, right, Like, if you 0:08:14.720 --> 0:08:17.080 feel like time passes quickly, it usually means that you 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:18.600 had a great experience. 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:20.440 Yeah, but he did. He didn't say that they ever 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:23.120 actually talked about that. That was just his perception that 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:26.200 the wait staff moved too quickly, right, fact, so I 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:28.520 think we asked her open ended questions. How do you 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:29.760 feel about that? Blake? 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:31.880 Yeah, I want to see what she thought too. 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:33.800 I don't know if I'm just like looking at it 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:36.439 from a one side, like a single faceted for. 0:08:37.520 --> 0:08:39.439 Do you know we never asked you? Are you guys 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:41.520 texting or communicating at all? 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:44.840 H Not really, not as much as I'd like to. 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:45.959 I mean, I've reached out to her a couple of 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:47.280 times and chook on and just be polite. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:51.520 But okay, you're getting cold from her via messages. 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:53.160 Yeah, so that's why I came to you guys. 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:56.240 Yeah, okay, Well, let's swoop in like the waiters at 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:59.160 those restaurants real quick and just get things going. I'm 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:00.320 gonna dial her number right now. 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:02.360 You're going to have such a hard time not mentioning that. 0:09:02.559 --> 0:09:05.560 Yeah, you are the phone better one time. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:08.040 Okay, Well, thanks for having confidence in me. Here we go. 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:10.400 I don't remember right now. 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:19.160 Hello, Hey is this Kate? 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:21.400 Yes, it is. 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.120 Hey, Kate. What's up? We're brooking Jeffrey in the Morning, 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:27.280 A whole morning show from the radios. 0:09:27.320 --> 0:09:30.800 Here, you're from the radio. I don't know who you are. 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:34.880 We also do a podcast so that's cool. 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:36.120 Didn't help. 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:40.720 We do a segment on our show to help people 0:09:40.720 --> 0:09:43.360 with their dating lives. It's called Second Date Update, And 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:44.960 you're calling me, Well. 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:46.720 You don't need to help. Someone you went out with 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:47.400 needs help. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:51.559 Right, you're great at dating. That's what we've heard from 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:54.080 one of our Yeah, from one of our listeners, Blake, 0:09:54.120 --> 0:09:56.440 who met up with you not once but twice. 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:05.360 Oh gosh, rightsy question. All we want to know is like, 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:06.920 how'd you feel about Blake? 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:12.440 I mean, he was nice, Probably not the person for me, 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:14.240 but he seems nice. I don't know. 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:16.320 Okay, Well, did. 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:17.720 You like not have fun on the dates? 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.199 Or were okay? 0:10:21.720 --> 0:10:22.000 Nice? 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:22.559 And okay? 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:24.120 What'd you say? A little? 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:25.400 What strange? 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:27.320 Strange? 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:30.720 Yeah, we kept talking to Blake and he did not 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:32.040 bring up anything strange. 0:10:32.200 --> 0:10:35.000 What did you think about the length of the date? 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:38.720 Is it Mama Bear, Papa Bear or baby. 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:40.120 Bear told you he couldn't. I already ran out of. 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:48.000 It, blanked out. So where we got? What'd you think 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:51.040 Mama Bear, Papa Bear, baby Bear? About the length? Too short? 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:52.360 Too long? Just right? 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:55.280 You're ak? How long the date was? 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:57.640 Experience? 0:10:58.360 --> 0:10:58.880 Okay? 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:03.760 These are normal questions that radio hosts always ask it 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:07.040 was so awkward sometimes. I mean, I love you, I do. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:08.840 It's endearing. Cake. 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:13.080 The length of the date was a normal length. I 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:15.199 think that's actually. 0:11:14.920 --> 0:11:15.920 A great answer. 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:18.920 I mean, do you have to tell her why you 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:19.480 asked that? 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:22.959 Okay, well, because the reason that I'm asking is when 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:26.680 we spoke to Blake, the impression that he got was 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:30.480 that the service was really really good and delivered the 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:33.480 food a little bit too quickly for his taste. 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:35.920 Like he felt like maybe the date was rushed and 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:38.199 he couldn't make the connection he wanted to with you. 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:41.720 Like the service was good, but both times that we 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:44.120 ate because we went to dinner both times. Yeah, he 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:46.720 ate his meal super super fat. 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:49.920 Oh my god, did I could see that when we 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:52.240 were talking to him. He has a lot of energy. 0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:55.800 Yeah, I mean, imagine going to dinner with the cookie monster. 0:11:55.960 --> 0:12:02.040 Okay, it's thirty seconds, there's crumbs everywhere, and then they're done, Like. 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:04.600 How was he even picking anything up with those giant hands? 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.240 And then he tries to teach you about letters afterwards. 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.040 Remember the macaroni and cheese. When we talked to him, 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:15.199 he mentioned, like, when you get the macaroni cheese, you 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:16.760 got to eat it right away, because if you don't 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:18.880 eat it right away, then it's going to be cold. 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:20.560 Is that what you're talking about? 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:25.199 Yeah, he said that he would gag if the temperature 0:12:25.360 --> 0:12:28.280 of the cheese was like room temperature. 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:29.040 Gag. 0:12:30.360 --> 0:12:32.600 Not really though, Like he just meant he didn't like 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:33.840 it when it was room temperature. 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:38.040 No, No, he meant he physically couldn't handle it, like 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:39.120 he was going to hurl. 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:41.720 It was a texture thing. 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:47.920 N How do you feel about that explanation? 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:51.560 I mean it got worse to be honest with you, 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:56.360 Like what really, Well, it started this really odd conversation 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:59.959 about textures that he can and can't hand. 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:03.640 Oh people. 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:07.400 Yeah, it just got me thinking, like I'm looking at 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.320 him thinking, okay, let's say we're in a serious relationship. 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:12.480 Well, what would that be? 0:13:12.840 --> 0:13:18.200 Like, Well, I do think it's good that you are 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:21.920 thinking about down the road, a future, possible long term relationship. 0:13:23.000 --> 0:13:24.480 I'm not anymore. 0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.600 Through this. Is it just a little speed bumps? Yeah, 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:30.160 a possible relationship. 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:33.040 Popy right over that speed bump and connect you to 0:13:33.040 --> 0:13:34.840 Blake right now because he's on the other line listening 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:35.680 and wants to talk to you. 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:39.080 I don't think that that's that weird. 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:41.040 People have textures, people have likes and days. 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.079 Why don't you start with a high coming in? 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:45.960 Hi? 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:47.880 I'm sorry we kind of hurt my feelings a little bit. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:50.560 I mean people are just let people beat. 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:51.040 People, you know. 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:53.000 I mean, why is that? We had a great time 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:53.280 of thought? 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:55.000 The conversations were great. I thinks like we were both 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:57.360 kind of into the same stuff just because I eat weird. 0:13:57.800 --> 0:13:58.640 Did she hang up. 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:01.520 There? Okay? 0:14:01.800 --> 0:14:03.560 No, he was on the phone. 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:08.800 Yeah. Sorry, that's how these work. Okay, But I'll go 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:11.319 ahead and talk to Blake about his aversion to certain 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:12.040 food textures. 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:17.000 I think it's a normal thing. People have preferences. 0:14:17.520 --> 0:14:20.960 Yeah, it's a little. Like I said, I'm not trying 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:23.120 to be mean. It's just a little high maintenance. But 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:25.960 I have to kind of bring up because it's not 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:30.600 just the food thing. It's like the other thing that 0:14:30.680 --> 0:14:32.480 you said that you can't do. 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:36.040 I don't think that only when you talk about that 0:14:36.080 --> 0:14:36.600 on the radio. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:41.120 What's that, Blake? You can't leave us in the dark 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:42.680 on stuff that sounds important. 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:44.840 I just prefer not to have it out. 0:14:44.720 --> 0:14:45.160 In the open. 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:48.000 Is it more embarrassing than you not being able to 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:50.160 eat like potatoes or something. 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.280 I don't think it's embarrassing. I think it's normal. 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:55.320 Okay, then it's a more private kind of thing. 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:58.800 Oh, there's a texture that you can't handle. 0:14:59.720 --> 0:15:01.640 It is the texture that I can't handle. 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:03.920 Yeah, I don't get it. 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:06.240 The picture of someone's lips, like you'll never kiss her. 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:08.880 If it's what I'm thinking that it is. Maybe he's 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:11.160 right and we shouldn't talk about this on the radio. 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:11.960 I don't get it. 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:14.360 I don't get it either, But he thinks it's normal. 0:15:14.720 --> 0:15:17.560 What do you think that it is? No, Jeffrey, like, 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.840 are you thinking something dirty? 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:23.480 It's a little dirty. 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:25.360 I think there's a part all right? 0:15:25.480 --> 0:15:27.400 Anyway, that's just that's too bad for you. 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:32.240 Yeah, I mean, are we right? Are we in the ballpark? 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:37.600 I'm just gonna say to me, I know he has 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:41.080 a texture issue, but intimacy is important, and I don't 0:15:41.120 --> 0:15:43.080 know how at home? 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:54.400 Why waste talking about people time to find a woman 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:57.560 to date? Delivering that type of information. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.640 On the first day that was the second date. 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.640 Okay, you know it's it's like a partnership, you give 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:06.680 and you know, right. 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:11.800 Okay, So maybe Kate's willing to go without that part 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:15.120 of the relationship. And Kate, if you are, then we 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:17.320 would pay for the third date that you and Blake 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:20.840 went on to a place that doesn't serve any cheese whatsoever. 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.400 Kate, are you interested still because I think everybody here 0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:25.400 is just uncomfortable. 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:26.240 Yeah, we are. 0:16:26.960 --> 0:16:28.600 I mean, you wouldn't want me to live a life 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:29.480 like that, would you know? 0:16:33.720 --> 0:16:34.320 You guys are. 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:38.160 Something. What I tell my kids with food is that 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:38.600 you have. 0:16:38.640 --> 0:16:40.720 Don't don't don't talk about your kids. 0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:49.640 Let's call the therapist before. 0:16:51.120 --> 0:16:51.640 Watch list. 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:59.480 God, Blake, I am so sorry, but this technically is 0:16:59.560 --> 0:17:01.160 all your fault and you do have some walk to 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:03.120 do on yourself. My friend. 0:17:03.360 --> 0:17:04.200 I'll do my best. 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:11.560 I'll try, Okay, looking Jeffrey in the morning, this is 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:13.720 the one time that I didn't want to do a 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:17.720 part three and talk more about something the second date. 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:19.600 I don't ever want to know how it goes for 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:20.399 him either. 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:23.080 Yeah, but I will say after we recorded it, Blake 0:17:23.200 --> 0:17:27.000 did email the show with five words. Oh, he said 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:30.240 I would if I could not. 0:17:31.960 --> 0:17:34.760 Your response, maybe you're just not interested in women. 0:17:35.200 --> 0:17:38.680 Well, I don't think it's not his fault. Did you 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:41.600 hear his words? He would if he could. 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:43.680