1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,480 Speaker 1: We cannot attract anything in our life that we feel 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: separate from the moment. You feel the lack and the 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:09,879 Speaker 1: separations you're holding yourself hostage to the past best selling 4 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: author's lectured and given advanced workshops in more than thirty countries. 5 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: Doctor Joe the Spanzer, how do I want to be? 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: This is about conditioning my body emotionally into the future. 7 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 1: As long as I'm feeling this emotion, I'm going to 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:22,640 Speaker 1: believe in that future. 9 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:31,159 Speaker 2: What is blocking us from manifesting love? Weird Throw to 10 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 2: announce that we've reached three million subscribers. 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I am so excited today because 29 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: we have your absolute favorite, your number one guest, the 30 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: most requested and most loved person that I know are 31 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 2: on Purpose community is always looking forward to having on 32 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 2: the show. I'm talking about the one, the Only Doctor 33 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: Joe Dispenser, a multiple New York Times best selling All 34 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 2: the researcher, lecturer, and corporate consultant. Doctor Joe Despenser's developed 35 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 2: a practical formula to help people transform their lives. 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Dr jo Dispenser. 45 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 1: Hey, that was great. Thank you so much. 46 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 2: It's always great to have you back, because, like we 47 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 2: were saying, we've done this multiple times now, and I 48 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: love seeing you. I love seeing the audience's reaction to 49 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 2: us being together. I've said this before, but I have 50 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 2: to say it again because I always like people to 51 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 2: know it. You've helped me offline with family members, friends, 52 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 2: distant people who've wanted to connect with your work, who 53 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 2: deeply believe in it. You've been so kind and supportive 54 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 2: and reachable when you have a crazy schedule, and so 55 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: I love you as much online as I do offline. 56 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 1: So we were saying, we're family. You know, we understand 57 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 1: each other. Thank you, thank you. 58 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: I appreciate that. The question I wanted to start with 59 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 2: today because it's probably the most awest thing right now 60 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: by our community, and it's what is blocking us from 61 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:30,360 Speaker 2: manifesting love. 62 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: I really think that the majority of people spend most 63 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: of their time in a state of readiness in their life. 64 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: They're always ready for whatever is going to take place, 65 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: and it's like an idol. So the hormones that are 66 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: associated with getting up and going and reacting stressfully, those 67 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: hormones are hormones that create a primitive mechanisms where we're 68 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: go into survival right and living in stress and living 69 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: in survival. It's not a time for us to open 70 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 1: our hearts, right, So get bruised, get damaged, get injured 71 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: in your life. The stronger the emotion you feel towards 72 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: that event in your life, the more altered you feel 73 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: from that experience. The brain freezes a frame and takes 74 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: a snapshot, and that's called the long term memory. So 75 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: people think about the problems that happened in the past 76 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:27,080 Speaker 1: and they produce the same chemistry in their brain and 77 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,600 Speaker 1: body as if the event was happening. So what happens 78 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: is the body gets conditioned emotionally into the past. So 79 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: now the trauma or the betrayals not just in the brain. 80 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: Now it's in the body. So the body in a 81 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 1: sense gets programmed or conditioned to stay in survival. And 82 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: when you're in survival, it's not a time to be vulnerable. 83 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: It's not a time to open our hearts. It's not 84 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: a time to create. It's in a state of arousal 85 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: where we have to keep our attention on things that matter, 86 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: the things in our environment, the way our body is feeling, 87 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:06,120 Speaker 1: and how we're managing ourselves, and time in and of itself. 88 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,400 Speaker 1: So to change is to be greater than your body, 89 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: to be greater than your environment, and to be greater 90 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: than time. And so when we're stressed, it's really hard 91 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 1: to change. When we're stressed, it's really not a time 92 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 1: to change. It's not a time to create, and it's 93 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: not a time to learn. So then this is a 94 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: mechanism that's primitive in our biology and to be able 95 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: to tame the animal so that the animal self. So 96 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: it's no longer in a state of readiness trying to 97 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: always predict the worst case scenario just so you could 98 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: be ready if it happens. It turns out that that's 99 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 1: the conversion of those survival states into a state of creation. 100 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: We've discovered some really important things about it. And if 101 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: you teach people how to convert from that sympathetic nervous 102 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: system to the power sympathy nervor system, if you teach 103 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: them how to trade resentment and in patience and frustration 104 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: justified or not. That's doing no good for you for 105 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 1: an elevated emotion, and practice actually practice making the chemistry 106 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:22,720 Speaker 1: that is associated with love. And in the beginning it's difficult. 107 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,679 Speaker 1: And so if you place your attention on your heart, 108 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: we discovered that there's a very low frequency that you 109 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: can measure that actually goes up that's indigenous to what 110 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: the heart needs in terms of a life force to beat. 111 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: So where you place your attention is where you place 112 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 1: your energy. And all the things you can place your 113 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: attention on, place it on your heart. Now, slow your 114 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: breathing down, and if you can slow your breathing down, 115 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 1: you can take your body out of that state of readiness. 116 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 1: And when you slow your breathing down, you slow your 117 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: brain weighs down and your body starts to move out 118 00:06:56,080 --> 00:07:01,640 Speaker 1: of that state of sympathetic arousal. Practice feeling elevated emotions 119 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 1: with your heart, kindness, care, love, appreciation, gratitude, and you'll 120 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: get good at feeling that way if you keep doing it. 121 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: So then when a person's in that state, the heart 122 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: in and of itself, when it's activated like that, gets 123 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: super organized, it gets coherent, and it sends a signal 124 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: to the brain literally in the form of information, to 125 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: tell the brain the survival system to shut down. That 126 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: you make literally the lights go out, it resets. Is 127 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: the baseline for the trauma in the brain. And the 128 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: body moves out of survival and now it wants to create, 129 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: and the heart informs the brain to get creative, and 130 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: the brain goes into these beautiful organized alpha brain wave patterns, 131 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: and in alpha, we tend to imagine, we tend to create, 132 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: we tend to dream. So the heart informs the brain 133 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 1: it's time to create. That's I think when we're in 134 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 1: that state of inspiration where we're actually falling in love 135 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: with what we're creating, we're bonding to that creation. And 136 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: the stronger the emotion we feel, the more we remember 137 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: that future. And I think that's how people really begin 138 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:12,360 Speaker 1: to make those changes. Now, now, getting there is a 139 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: daily practice. Getting there is something that you have to 140 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: keep doing. So the block for us to feel love 141 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: is that if we're living in survival, you have to 142 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: make up your mind that that state is not a 143 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: state to create and break away from the people in 144 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: your life, and you know, your schedule and your phone 145 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: and all the obligations you have long enough to reset 146 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: just for a little period of time and to remember 147 00:08:40,400 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: so you don't forget. I think that's where it becomes 148 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: super valuable. 149 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you hit on a really important nerve, 150 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,840 Speaker 2: that this idea that we're living in a constant state 151 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: of stress. And when I think about our community who 152 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,640 Speaker 2: thinking about dating, and I think about friends in my 153 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 2: life that are trying to find romantic love, especially in 154 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 2: their life, and they're feeling around dating mentally, physically, emotionally 155 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: is stressful. The idea of dating is stressful, The idea 156 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 2: of being on a date is stressful, The idea of 157 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 2: talking to someone is stressful. And it's so interesting. You're 158 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 2: so right that how are you going to create when 159 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 2: all of your emotions around this is stress. You've got 160 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 2: the stress of a timeline. Gosh, I'm in my mid thirties. 161 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 2: I should have found someone by now, things I hear. Oh, 162 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 2: I'm in the stress of I've been out on seven 163 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 2: dates in the last couple of months and none of 164 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: them were good enough. And so I'm in the stress 165 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: of scarcity. And so you're so right, that's what we're feeling. 166 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 2: How do we get out of that system and that cycle? 167 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 2: Because a lot of the time we've developed that feeling 168 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: towards finding romantic love for like weeks, months, years. How 169 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 2: do you break that cycle? 170 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with doing any of those things. But 171 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: when we're stressed, we're altered. That stress is when we're 172 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:01,640 Speaker 1: out of balance, we're not our self else right, we 173 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: can't relax and be authentic. And so typically it usually 174 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 1: takes a crisis or a disease or a diagnosis, or 175 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: a trauma or a loss or a betrayal for a 176 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: person to really decide is this really who I want 177 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 1: to continue to be? So my message is why wait 178 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 1: for that? Right? So, there's nothing wrong with saying I 179 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: want to be in a relationship, I want the following 180 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: things in a relationship from this person or what might 181 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,839 Speaker 1: what might be my ideal relationship. 182 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 2: How details should you get on something like that, like 183 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 2: should you be talking about physical things or is it 184 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:43,760 Speaker 2: mainly emotional and connectedness. 185 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,199 Speaker 1: I think people have an image in their mind of 186 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: what they like or what their type is or whatever 187 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: they I don't think there's anything wrong with that, But 188 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 1: I think what people are really looking for is connection 189 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: and joy pop or should be in a relationship. The 190 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,479 Speaker 1: reason they should be in a relationship is to be overjoyed, 191 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 1: to be with a person that you're with, right, you 192 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: want joy in your life. For me, it would make 193 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: sense then if the person got very clear on what 194 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: they wanted, then they should start on the journey to 195 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: become that very person. They should really work on being 196 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: that very person that they want. So there would have 197 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:27,079 Speaker 1: to be some change that they would have to make 198 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: in order to be worthy enough to create a person 199 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: that they would attract in their life. And we cannot 200 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,839 Speaker 1: attract anything in our life that we feel separate from 201 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: trusting in a future that you can't see your experience, 202 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,439 Speaker 1: you have to lay down the very thing you use 203 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: your whole life to get what you want to trust 204 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: that something greater could happen. And that's not something that's 205 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 1: very easy. So I like the idea that it wouldn't 206 00:11:52,880 --> 00:11:59,680 Speaker 1: happen on a date that was from an app. It 207 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,400 Speaker 1: could happen in a bank, it could happen at a seminar, 208 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 1: it could happen in the grocery store, you know, in 209 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: a way that you least expect, right, And I think 210 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 1: that when we get to a point where we're so 211 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:16,560 Speaker 1: happy with ourselves we're no longer looking because we feel 212 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 1: like we already have it. I think that's the state 213 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,360 Speaker 1: where people attract an equal. 214 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 2: Getting to that place feels like a challenge for people 215 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 2: because it feels like I'm doing this so that I 216 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 2: can get someone. Yeah. Right, it's always like connected that 217 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 2: way as well. 218 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: Well, we're conditioned that way. We're conditioned in a way 219 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: to like, Okay, I need something out there. I need 220 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 1: the experience to prove I need the event to occur. 221 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: And the end product of that event or experience is 222 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: called an emotion. The emotion takes away the lack or 223 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:52,840 Speaker 1: separation from not having it. So we're waiting for the 224 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 1: event to occur to take away the feeling of separation 225 00:12:56,760 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: or lack and actually that's not the healthiest way to create. 226 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: And actually we should feel the emotion of the experience 227 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: before it happens, so that if you're feeling the emotion 228 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,839 Speaker 1: of that future before it happens, truly feeling it, you 229 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't be looking for it. You would only be looking 230 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: for it when you felt separate from it. Right, So 231 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 1: can you maintain that state because the only way you're 232 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,840 Speaker 1: going to believe in that future is you have to 233 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: feel the emotion associated with it. The moment you feel 234 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: the lack and the separation, you're going to believe in 235 00:13:31,280 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 1: the past. And there's a story that goes along with 236 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: the past that has everything to do with the dating 237 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:38,960 Speaker 1: is hard or finding a person or whatever. That is 238 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 1: the story that we tell ourselves that we actually accept, believe, 239 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: and surrender to is if it's the truth. Right. So 240 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 1: that's exactly what programs the subconscious mind into a belief. Right, 241 00:13:52,000 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: So the default is so seamless to lose that vision 242 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: or that belief in the future. The moment we start 243 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: feeling the emotions of lack or survival in the past, right, 244 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 1: that's the moment we can't see that future any longer 245 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,320 Speaker 1: because we would be looking at that future for the 246 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: through the lens of the past, and we would doubt 247 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,760 Speaker 1: that that future could actually exist. So it's really an 248 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 1: interesting thing that I learned just in the last few 249 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: years because I interview hundreds of people backstage that have 250 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: had a dramatic change in their health. I'm talking about 251 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:37,920 Speaker 1: significant chronic diseases where they have no blood values that 252 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 1: are abnormal, have no scans that show any signs of 253 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 1: the disease any longer. And I asked them, like how 254 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: did you do that? Like what did you do? And 255 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 1: some of them say, like, I was doing my meditation 256 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: sometimes three times a day because the drugs weren't working. 257 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: The chemo wasn't working, the drug tryles weren't working, the 258 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: surgeries weren't working, the radiation wasn't working, the diet wasn't working. 259 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: Nothing was working right, And so the only thing that 260 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: they were left with was the belief in themselves. And 261 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 1: when you believe in yourself, you got to believe in possibility. 262 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: And when you believe in possibility, you have to believe 263 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: in yourself. So they were doing their meditations three times 264 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: a day because they lost their belief that they could heal. 265 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: They lost their belief, and so they were doing their 266 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: meditation again to change their emotional states so that they 267 00:15:32,280 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 1: could believe in that future again instead of believe in 268 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 1: their past. If you keep doing that, it's that thought 269 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: in that feeling, is that image, that's emotion, that stimulus 270 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 1: and response, that's conditioning the body emotionally into the future, 271 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: And that's really how you change the belief. So the 272 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: people were doing the work to change their belief because 273 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: they defaulted back to the self doubt and that, of 274 00:15:55,760 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: course is disbelief and that's chronic. Right, So so then 275 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: how many times do we have to do that until 276 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: we stop doing that and start doing something else. I 277 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 1: think that's when our reality begins to change. 278 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: What about someone who's I love where we're going with 279 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 2: this because I think, I mean, I can see so 280 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 2: many pennies dropping for so many people. What's what's the 281 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 2: challenge when someone's lost their belief because they've had a heartbreak. 282 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 2: Let's say, what happens when someone's been catfished, when they've 283 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 2: been betrayed, when they've been heartbroken, when they've been cheated on, 284 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 2: when they've been lied to, manipulated gaslin like, they've had 285 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 2: a moment that has made them lose belief because they've 286 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 2: been hurt and broken so many times in love and 287 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 2: now you're right, on a belief level, they don't believe 288 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 2: they're lovable, they don't believe love exists for them, they 289 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 2: don't believe good people exist. Right, these are all beliefs, 290 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 2: and so what do you do when you've actually gone 291 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 2: through quite a you could call it a t romantic 292 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 2: a toxic event or experience that someone's been through. 293 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think everybody's had those. I think once again, 294 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: the stronger the emotion you feel from some event in 295 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:12,919 Speaker 1: your life, the more altered you are inside of you, 296 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,160 Speaker 1: the more you remember the event, that the brain actually 297 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: freezes that frame, right, So the person thinks neurologically within 298 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: the circuitry of that experience, and they feel chemically within 299 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:28,119 Speaker 1: the boundaries of that emotion. And how we think and 300 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: how we feel becomes our state of beings. So every 301 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: time they remember the event, they're producing that same chemistry, 302 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,719 Speaker 1: as I said, over and over again, and you're conditioning 303 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:41,440 Speaker 1: the body into a belief, right, and the moment we 304 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: draw a conclusion about that experience, that's the belief right, 305 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: that becomes the belief that we accept to believe in 306 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:56,400 Speaker 1: surrender to. So then beliefs are subconscious states of being right. So, 307 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 1: and it tends to be ninety five of who we 308 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 1: are by the time we get to the middle of 309 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: our life. So it's those subconscious beliefs that really run 310 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 1: our life and run our reality. So it would make 311 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: sense then to the person unless I can heal from 312 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 1: the experience and overcome the emotion because the memory without 313 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 1: the emotional charge is called wisdom, and you never have 314 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,959 Speaker 1: to do it again because you know now that you know. 315 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: If that's the truth, then then okay, I'll do this 316 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:35,399 Speaker 1: for a period of time. But this state is not 317 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 1: loving to me. Living in this state is not loving 318 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 1: to me. What's loving to me is that I actually 319 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,160 Speaker 1: overcome the emotion of the past. And when I overcome 320 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: the emotion of the past, now the body's no longer 321 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 1: believing in that any longer, right, So that theoretically is 322 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: easier said than done. So the survival emotions tend to 323 00:18:58,280 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 1: become very addictive. So the rush of just remembering the 324 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: event is an arousal for the body, and people become 325 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:12,640 Speaker 1: very addicted to their beliefs. Right and so, but if 326 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 1: you tell a person like okay, your subconscious mind is 327 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,479 Speaker 1: going to keep replaying the same experience in your life 328 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 1: unless you heal okay. That could make sense to certain people. 329 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: If you can't overcome that emotion, then you'll never be 330 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:30,160 Speaker 1: able to open your heart. So do you want love 331 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 1: in your life or not? Okay? So okay, forgiveness then, 332 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 1: and we've discovered this forgiveness is when you overcome the 333 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: emotion of your past and you no longer have your 334 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: attention on that person or that experience any longer, right, 335 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 1: And so you feel so good that you no longer 336 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,359 Speaker 1: want to feel bad, right, And so you free yourself 337 00:19:53,320 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 1: from that belief, and you free that person as well 338 00:19:56,119 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 1: or the experience. And literally that's that's energy that's liberated 339 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 1: as information that the body can actually use to create with. Right. 340 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,360 Speaker 1: So I think there's information and knowledge that just has 341 00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: to be given to people for them to understand, Okay, 342 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 1: justified or not, you know, valid or not. The only 343 00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: person that this really is affecting is mean they went 344 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 1: on with their life. They they're they're you know, they 345 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 1: started a new career, they're they're living in a new place, 346 00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 1: they're writing a book. You know, they're they're on their way, 347 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,760 Speaker 1: and you're holding yourself hostage to the past. Right. So 348 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,399 Speaker 1: then you've got to trust that love is available or 349 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: love is real in in in in order for you 350 00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 1: to create someone in your life that is loving, you 351 00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:46,879 Speaker 1: would have to be worthy of love, and that means 352 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: you would have to feel love too. So I think 353 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:51,560 Speaker 1: people make their way out of this all the time, 354 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 1: and we we deal with severe PTSD, you know with veterans, 355 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:00,560 Speaker 1: and those are there's some pretty brutal memory. He's there, 356 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: and there's a lot of trauma that's stored in the 357 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: body as well, and they deal with a lot of difficulties. 358 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: And when you tell them it's the heart that resets 359 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 1: the baseline for the trauma and the brain. All you 360 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: have to do is have the courage to open that 361 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,080 Speaker 1: thing again. And they may come up against themselves for 362 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 1: a few days, but once it happens and they understand 363 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 1: the process, their past is wisdom. They don't have to 364 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 1: ever go back there again. Right, they understand at all, 365 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 1: but there's no charge associated with it any longer. And 366 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:35,920 Speaker 1: that's when we belong to the future. Right, that's when 367 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 1: the synchronicities and the coincidences and the miracles and the 368 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 1: opportunities begin to show up in our life that prove 369 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: to us that we are the creators of our life. 370 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:49,919 Speaker 2: What's the anatomy of belief? Because I feel like we 371 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 2: know that beliefs are repeated patterns, they're repeated conditioned ideas. 372 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:59,200 Speaker 2: They're so hardwired. And if we were to start picking 373 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:02,880 Speaker 2: up that, picking up all our beliefs, so we're purifying 374 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,720 Speaker 2: them or we're renewing them, Like what's the process. 375 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:12,720 Speaker 1: So I believe that all beliefs are created from past experiences, 376 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 1: and a belief is just a thought you keep thinking 377 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:21,120 Speaker 1: over and over again until you hardwired in your brain 378 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 1: in a hard wired set of circuits. Is an automatic, 379 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: unconscious program. So we have a lot of beliefs about 380 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: things that we're not even conscious of. 381 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,879 Speaker 2: And they're not being tested. We don't have they're true. 382 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: You don't know if they're true. We've actually, in fact 383 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: made them up. And this happens quite a bit in 384 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:43,239 Speaker 1: the work that we do. People see the testimonials, they 385 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,200 Speaker 1: see the science, they see the data, and they say, 386 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:50,959 Speaker 1: oh my god, I actually believe that this stuff works. 387 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 1: And they're facing a chronic health condition or serious health condition, 388 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: and they come to the realization that they just became 389 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: just that they didn't believe it would work for them. 390 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,679 Speaker 1: It work, It looks like it works, but I never 391 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,240 Speaker 1: thought it could work for me. Now this is a 392 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 1: This is a big moment, because this is the moment 393 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,000 Speaker 1: where you're stepping out of the bleachers onto the playing field, right, 394 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 1: this is now where you've got to show up for 395 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,880 Speaker 1: yourself right. The person when they sit down and they 396 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: decide to make a different choice. And this is the 397 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 1: hardest part about change. The moment you decide to make 398 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 1: a different choice, you're going to feel uncomfortable. You're gonna 399 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,439 Speaker 1: leave the familiar, known, right, and the body which has 400 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 1: been conditioned into the past, into the known, which has 401 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 1: been conditioned to be the mind the servants the master, 402 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:38,600 Speaker 1: and it's going to try to talk you out of 403 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: that future that is unfamiliar, unknown, or unpredictable. And so 404 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:47,120 Speaker 1: that's that that's the moment where the beliefs start coming up. 405 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: You know, you're not good enough, this is too hard, 406 00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:54,639 Speaker 1: you'll never change, you can't create anything. It's this person's fault. 407 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 1: There's something wrong with me. I want to quit. And 408 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:03,119 Speaker 1: then people say like, oh, well I have add you know, 409 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 1: I can't focus my mind. And it turns out they 410 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 1: say I'm not a good meditator, or don't I can't 411 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: control my mind and meditation is not for me. But 412 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,040 Speaker 1: really I'm doing it wrong, they'll say. But in fact 413 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: they're actually doing it right, because sitting with yourself and 414 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:28,000 Speaker 1: becoming conscious of all of those unconscious thoughts means now 415 00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: you're no longer the program, or you're only in the 416 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 1: program when you're unconscious to that belief. The moment you 417 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: become conscious of that unconscious belief, the greater the probability 418 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:44,880 Speaker 1: that you won't go unconscious to it again. And that's 419 00:24:44,880 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 1: how you become more conscious, is catching yourself going unconscious, 420 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: and it becomes a skill. The more you practice it, 421 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: the better you get at going like, I'm just not 422 00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 1: going to believe that any longer, and nerve cells that 423 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 1: no longer fire together, no longer wire together. So as 424 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:04,960 Speaker 1: you attend to that thought and notice it and observe 425 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: it without actually believing it, it weakens the connections neurologically 426 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 1: in the brain, and there's a neurological death or a 427 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 1: separation that's taking place. Okay, So the person then who 428 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,199 Speaker 1: blames and complains and makes excuses and feel sorry for 429 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: themselves and behaves a certain way, well, those are habits, right, 430 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 1: and those are unconscious programmed behaviors. The only way you're 431 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 1: going to change is to become conscious that you complain 432 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: all day long or you blame somebody for your life. 433 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: A happy person would never want to be that wor 434 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,200 Speaker 1: behave that way, and would never want to be in 435 00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: a relationship with a person who complains all the time, 436 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: why would you write so? Then that person says, Okay, 437 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: how many times do I have to forget until I 438 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,520 Speaker 1: stop forgetting and start remembering? That is my moment of change. 439 00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: So today I'm going to behave in a different way 440 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:08,879 Speaker 1: and make a different choice. I'm going to just stay 441 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: conscious to not do these things. Okay. Then the person says, well, 442 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: I feel unworthy, I feel stressed, I feel unhappy, I 443 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:23,280 Speaker 1: feel sad, I feel victimized, I feel grief. Whatever is 444 00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: this the emotion that I want to have in my future? 445 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:26,440 Speaker 2: Well? 446 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,240 Speaker 1: No, these are emotions that are connected to experiences of 447 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,200 Speaker 1: the past. If I truly want love in my life, 448 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:36,679 Speaker 1: I can't feel resentment. Okay. Am I willing to trade 449 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:41,360 Speaker 1: resentment for this elevated emotion? Okay? Let me just remember 450 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: all the times in my day. If I start noticing 451 00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,959 Speaker 1: I feeling this emotion, I'm just going to become conscious 452 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,159 Speaker 1: and not go unconscious to it and just temper it 453 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 1: and work with it. Okay. So that is that overcoming process, 454 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: that is the becoming process. Now it would make sense 455 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 1: then you would have to ask yourself, what do I 456 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 1: want to believe? What is a thought? Do I that 457 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,159 Speaker 1: I do want to fire and wire in my brain. 458 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,960 Speaker 1: So with intention and with attention, if you have the 459 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 1: person remember what they wanted to believe, and keep remembering 460 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: what they want to believe, and keep remembering what they 461 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: want to believe, they begin to install the hardware. If 462 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 1: you keep attending to it, the hardware becomes like a 463 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: software program. And now that's the new belief I can heal, 464 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,119 Speaker 1: I can find the relationship and belief is like pregnancy. 465 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: Either you are or not. I mean, there's no in between. 466 00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 1: So it's you want to install the circuitry to such 467 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 1: a degree that that's the new voice in your head 468 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:44,239 Speaker 1: that's saying you, come on, Jay, get up, Come on, Jay, 469 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: let's go. Come on, you can do this. Come on, 470 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 1: make the time for it. Come on, this is your vision, Come. 471 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 2: On, coach. In your own head, it's a voice. Voice. 472 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: If the voice is no longer the disbelief, the voice 473 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 1: is basically your future self talking to you, is what 474 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: it is, all right. So okay, So one of my 475 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,400 Speaker 1: if I start behaving in the old way, I know 476 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to I'm going to disbelieve. So how do 477 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,840 Speaker 1: I want to behave? How am I going to behave 478 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,000 Speaker 1: on my next date? How am I going to behave 479 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,719 Speaker 1: in my next zoom meeting with my team? How am 480 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 1: I going to behave with my children or my family, 481 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:23,439 Speaker 1: with my partner, with my act I how do I 482 00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:27,399 Speaker 1: want to be? In the act of rehearsing mentally in 483 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 1: your mind who you want to be? The act of 484 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:34,880 Speaker 1: just closing your eyes and mentally rehearsing that scene literally 485 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,680 Speaker 1: causes the brain to look like you already did it. 486 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: It looks like it's already happened, right, So now you're 487 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 1: priming the brain neurologically. Keep doing it over and over again. 488 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:48,000 Speaker 1: The hardware becomes more automatic. Like a software program, you 489 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: naturally get your behaviors to match your intentions. And because 490 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 1: you install the circuitry, practice feeling the elevated emotion. If 491 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,040 Speaker 1: you feel that emotion and you say, when I feel 492 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: this emotion, I can believe in that future, then let 493 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,960 Speaker 1: me just keep remembering to feel this way in every 494 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 1: part of my day. Just not This is not about 495 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 1: positive thinking. This is about conditioning my body emotionally into 496 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: the future. So I got to keep my energy up 497 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: the entire day, and I can't default back to the 498 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,880 Speaker 1: old person. As long as I'm feeling this emotion, I'm 499 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 1: going to behave that way. As long as I'm feeling 500 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,400 Speaker 1: this emotion, I'm going to believe in that future if 501 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 1: I maintain this modified state of mind and body my 502 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,480 Speaker 1: entire day as an experiment, should there be some evidence 503 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: in my life as a result of my change and 504 00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: state of being a synchronicity, a coincidence, And if there is, 505 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 1: then I'm going to do it again. I'm going to 506 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 1: actually do it again. And I think that's how we 507 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,000 Speaker 1: start stepping into that future. 508 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 2: What are some I love that What are some practices 509 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 2: and what are milestones in the day that people can 510 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 2: use to hardwire those thoughts and beliefs, like, what are 511 00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 2: some mechanism what are some tactics that can make a 512 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 2: day feel like? Okay, that's my game plan for how 513 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 2: I'm going to do this, because, as you rightly said, 514 00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,160 Speaker 2: you think about it in the morning. Okay, I'm going 515 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 2: to try and do this, and then you're late for 516 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,959 Speaker 2: that meeting. You know, you spill coffee over yourself, something 517 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 2: happened the kids, aren't you know, And then you're stressed 518 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,239 Speaker 2: and now all of a sudden you've gone from being 519 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 2: a descent to die And what are some key checkpoints 520 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 2: throughout twenty. 521 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,600 Speaker 1: Well, I don't think it's bad to react. I mean 522 00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:27,840 Speaker 1: everybody reacts. I react. The question is how long are 523 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,920 Speaker 1: you going to react? That's the real question, Like how 524 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 1: long you can keep that going? Because surely if you're 525 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,719 Speaker 1: feeling that emotion, you're going to behave as if you're 526 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 1: in your past and you're going to believe in that past, 527 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: you're gonna you're actually gonna believe that it's valid to 528 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: behave that way. Okay, So if people just set the 529 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,840 Speaker 1: intention in the beginning of their day and we've all 530 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: done this and gone unconscious within the first hour, yeap. 531 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: Whatever it takes for that person with if it is 532 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: before they sit down and neat lunch that they check 533 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 1: in with themselves and see if they've fallen from grace 534 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 1: or if they're still in that state or where they're at, 535 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: if they do it on their break. A person who's 536 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:17,720 Speaker 1: possessed in a good way when they understand like when 537 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: I change, my life changes and nothing changes in my 538 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 1: life until I change. A person who's really really committed 539 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:31,600 Speaker 1: to that, they will constantly be checking in with themselves 540 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: because they're paying more attention to their inner world. They're 541 00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: paying more attention to themselves and less attention to everybody else. 542 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 1: They're really regulating their state. So to any reminder a 543 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: person has, and I do this sometimes three times a day, 544 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: I have to break away and remember like I'm losing it, 545 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:57,960 Speaker 1: like my energy's dropping, and in the light of all eternity, 546 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: this moment matters more than anything else because it's never 547 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: going to be the right time. It's never going to 548 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,840 Speaker 1: be the right time when you feel that emotion. If 549 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: I could convert right now and when it's the hardest, 550 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 1: it matters the most. If I can just get back 551 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: into my heart and change my state, synchronize my heart 552 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 1: to my brain. If I can do that in fifteen 553 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:21,080 Speaker 1: minutes and come back out, will I see reality differently? Okay, 554 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 1: let me practice that. I tend to be more patient. 555 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: I tend to be more aware. I think the heart 556 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: is a different consciousness. I tend to be more considerate, 557 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 1: more present. I think that's the side effect of doing it. 558 00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:41,480 Speaker 1: So change is about reminding yourself over and over again. 559 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: Change is about the overcoming process. The overcoming process is 560 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 1: actually the becoming process. And people all the time that 561 00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 1: heal in this work, they're doing their meditations. They're not 562 00:32:56,160 --> 00:33:02,400 Speaker 1: doing their meditations to heal, They're doings to change, and 563 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 1: they discover that when they change, they heal. So, now 564 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 1: if you accept that as a new belief that when 565 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: I change, my life will change, and you got to 566 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: keep reminding yourself of that belief. You got to keep 567 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 1: reminding yourself if I change, because this goes against the program, 568 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 1: like when my life changes, then I'll change. That's the program. No, no, no, 569 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 1: when you change, the experiment is will your life change? Okay, 570 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 1: So then now you attack the belief. It's not like, 571 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: oh my god, this is something that's bigger than me. 572 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: You attack the belief like this is no longer serving me. 573 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: Being complaining is making me unhappy. Living by this emotion 574 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 1: justified or not, is not loving to me. This is 575 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,960 Speaker 1: down regulating genes. My body's believing it's living in the 576 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 1: same event twenty four hours a day. If I feel 577 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: the same emotion, okay, well let's change that. So when 578 00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:01,479 Speaker 1: the person is taking on that belief like if I change, 579 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: my life changes, and I think most people try to 580 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 1: create a new personal reality as the same personality. It 581 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 1: doesn't work. We got to become somebody else. So if 582 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 1: you took that on as the truth, Okay, I got 583 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,479 Speaker 1: to remember that if I change, my health could change. 584 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 1: If I change, my life could change. Okay, Now it's 585 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 1: a different game. Now. It's not like I have to 586 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: This is like I want to change to see my 587 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,360 Speaker 1: life change, right, It's more of a want to What are. 588 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 2: Some of the changes that you've seen people make in 589 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 2: their life that have had the biggest changes in their life. 590 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,759 Speaker 1: Oh my god, God, I've seen I've seen the most 591 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:38,839 Speaker 1: amazing things in the last in just in the last 592 00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: few years. I mean the Joe the Spenzer that sitting 593 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 1: here today has had a dramatic change in his belief 594 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:49,399 Speaker 1: system in witnessing human transformation to the scale that I've 595 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 1: witnessed it, that's literally changed my belief in what's possible, right, 596 00:34:54,680 --> 00:35:00,000 Speaker 1: I mean in it's coming from the data that we're gas, 597 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 1: but it's also coming from the stories of transformation testimonials 598 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: and this. I have to be careful about this because 599 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: this is a stretch for a lot of people. I'm 600 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:14,800 Speaker 1: not talking about you know, just fifty people. I'm talking 601 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:19,920 Speaker 1: about hundreds if not thousands of people who've broken the 602 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:26,440 Speaker 1: four minute mile, that they went from absolute bankruptcy in 603 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 1: severe debt to you know, super abundance, whole new life 604 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:38,319 Speaker 1: by changing. I've seen people with all kinds of health conditions, 605 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 1: from muscular dystrophe to spinal cord injuries, to Parkinson's disease, 606 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:49,760 Speaker 1: to Stage four cancers to all kinds of crazy serious 607 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:54,360 Speaker 1: health conditions to go into complete remission. The person changed, 608 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 1: and when they changed, their health change. I've seen people 609 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:06,320 Speaker 1: brain scans when they're in that place of a transcendental experience. 610 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,959 Speaker 1: I've seen what the brain looks like. That arousal that's 611 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 1: taking place in that moment where they're connecting is not fear, 612 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 1: it's not anger, it's not pain. That's what typically creates 613 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:24,240 Speaker 1: arousal of survival. This arousal is ecstasy. This arousal is bliss. 614 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 1: They're having a transcendental moment where they're interacting with something 615 00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:33,640 Speaker 1: that's beyond their senses that's causing their body to be 616 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,440 Speaker 1: lifted and aroused. 617 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:37,839 Speaker 2: How much work does it take? 618 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: That's the crazy thing about what we're discovering. Get a 619 00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 1: group of people together, give them information that's based on science. 620 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 1: Have them understand the information, have it, teach it back 621 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,759 Speaker 1: to somebody, Have them understand what they're doing and why 622 00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,919 Speaker 1: they're doing it. You know, combine quantum physics with neuroscience 623 00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:01,520 Speaker 1: and neuroendochronology and psychooneurimmunology and epigenetics and magnetism in Newtonian 624 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: physics and all that stuff. But make it really simple 625 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: that makes sense to them so they can understand it. 626 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,560 Speaker 1: Leave nothing to conjecture, nothing to superstition, nothing to dogma. 627 00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 1: Have it wired in their brain so they can teach 628 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,560 Speaker 1: it back to somebody. They understand it. Set up the 629 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: conditions in the environment to apply that information, that philosophy, 630 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:22,960 Speaker 1: that theory, personalize it, demonstrate, do something with it. Get 631 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: your behaviors to match your intentions, get your actions equal 632 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,560 Speaker 1: to your thoughts. Get your mind and body working together. 633 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,239 Speaker 1: You can have a new experience. Experience enriches circuitry in 634 00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,400 Speaker 1: the brain and it makes a chemical and that chemical 635 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,960 Speaker 1: is called a feeling or an emotion. And now you're 636 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,799 Speaker 1: teaching your body chemically to understand what your mind is 637 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:43,280 Speaker 1: intellectually understood. Now the knowledge isn't just in the mind. 638 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 1: Knowledge is the information, and the experience is now in 639 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,200 Speaker 1: a body, and that's what emotion doesn't work chemically instructing 640 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 1: our body to understand what our mind is intellectually understood. 641 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 1: So you get a group of people together and have 642 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 1: them understand information and then go to the application that 643 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:06,040 Speaker 1: you can see that in seven days people have these 644 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,360 Speaker 1: very profound transcendental experiences. 645 00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 2: Are your progress workshops? 646 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, the week long retreats, and so when we look 647 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: at the data and people who hit these aroused states, 648 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:24,200 Speaker 1: sometimes it's more than fifty percent of the subjects that 649 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,919 Speaker 1: we're measuring in terms of their brain scan, So it's 650 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 1: not like one person or two people. It happens more 651 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,480 Speaker 1: and more as people get better at doing it. 652 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 2: Have you seen any key traits that people who accelerate 653 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 2: that process have, people who really applied themselves effectively to 654 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,240 Speaker 2: the process. What kind of traits and characteristics can people 655 00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 2: develop in order to really see that shift and see 656 00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:50,879 Speaker 2: that change for themselves. 657 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,480 Speaker 1: Yeah? Well, I think people have to be present with information, 658 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 1: and I think paying attention is being present, and I 659 00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: think it's a skill and the more you practice it, 660 00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,000 Speaker 1: the better you get at it. But if you're not present, 661 00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: then you can't you can't hear the information. Because your 662 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 1: mind is in the predictable future of the familiar past. 663 00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:09,839 Speaker 2: Right. 664 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 1: So that's why online courses for me is something that 665 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,960 Speaker 1: I never would ever do because I don't want to 666 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,240 Speaker 1: compete with a person's attention, because it's so much easier 667 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,880 Speaker 1: to forget this information than to remember it. Right. But 668 00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 1: if you can get a community people together, have them 669 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:31,879 Speaker 1: understand the information, and then in seven days immerse themselves 670 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:37,319 Speaker 1: fully into transformation and change, sooner or later, there's an 671 00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 1: emergent consciousness that takes place in the collective. And this 672 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 1: is what we discovered. One of the things that was 673 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,880 Speaker 1: so amazing in just looking at the data is you 674 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 1: get people from all over the world that come to 675 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 1: these events, you know, sometimes the ninety different countries, and 676 00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 1: you have everybody with their own very specific genotype and 677 00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:01,920 Speaker 1: genes make proteins, right, So everybody has their own unique 678 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:06,480 Speaker 1: gene expression and their own genotype. But at the end 679 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 1: of seven days, about eighty percent of the population is 680 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:17,279 Speaker 1: expressing the same genes and making the same proteins. That 681 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:21,440 Speaker 1: means that that the tribe, the flock, the herd, the collective, 682 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:28,439 Speaker 1: there's an emergent consciousness where people are biologically evolving together, right, 683 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:32,839 Speaker 1: So something happens that's intangible when you get a group 684 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:36,680 Speaker 1: of people together and they start overcoming themselves and they 685 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,279 Speaker 1: sit with themselves long enough to be curious about what's 686 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: on the other side of that belief. Instead of saying 687 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,040 Speaker 1: I quit and get up and get my cell phone 688 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 1: or call somebody, or go eat something and go do something, 689 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,040 Speaker 1: you're going to sit there, and you're going to just 690 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 1: become really conscious that you're not going to give up 691 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 1: on you. You're going to go past that point. And 692 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:58,399 Speaker 1: I think giving up on ourselves becomes a habit, right, 693 00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:03,319 Speaker 1: allow the person to get beyond sit long enough that 694 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 1: they come up against that emptiness or that pain or 695 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,560 Speaker 1: that sadness, and instead of getting up and saying I'm 696 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,359 Speaker 1: doing meditation wrong, I understand I'm actually doing it right. 697 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 1: This is part of the transformation process. Okay, now that 698 00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 1: I'm feeling this emotion, let me just lower the volume 699 00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: to this emotion and get back into the present moment. 700 00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,960 Speaker 1: And now you're taming the animal, right, Yeah, you're taming 701 00:41:24,000 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 1: the animal self. And it takes an enormous amount of energy, 702 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:34,279 Speaker 1: an enormous amount of awareness to do that. So, so 703 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: if you give people the information, and you give them 704 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 1: numerous opportunities to overcome themselves and numerous opportunities to connect. 705 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 1: Sooner or later, this emersion consciousness will begin to form, 706 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:51,200 Speaker 1: and just like infection spreads amongst the community and creates disease, 707 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you see health and wealth and 708 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 1: abundance and freedom becomes as infectious as disease. And then 709 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:00,000 Speaker 1: and then that's what we see at the end of 710 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 1: seven days. There is an emergent consciousness that's reflected in 711 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:07,080 Speaker 1: people's biology and genetically, they look like they're living in 712 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:11,399 Speaker 1: a new life. Thousands and thousands of metabolites are being 713 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 1: released into their blood to suggest they're in a new 714 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 1: environment and they're in a ballroom and there's nothing really 715 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 1: special happening in a ballroom, but their bodies looking like 716 00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 1: they're living in a new life, and they're making thousands 717 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:33,560 Speaker 1: of new chemicals, you know, endogenous opioids, chemicals for neurogenesis, 718 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:38,920 Speaker 1: chemicals that suppress cancer growth, chemicals that downregulate the genes 719 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:44,400 Speaker 1: for Alzheimer's, chemicals that's created a resistance to a spike virus. 720 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:49,839 Speaker 1: These are chemicals that the body innately is secreting when 721 00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:54,480 Speaker 1: it's living in the environment of love. When it's living, 722 00:42:54,680 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 1: the body can be relaxed in the present moment, not 723 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:03,319 Speaker 1: be preoccupied with the next moment. We discovered when you're 724 00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:06,239 Speaker 1: relaxed in your heart and you're awake in your brain, 725 00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 1: you're in the perfect state. 726 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:10,439 Speaker 2: Awake in your brain. 727 00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:11,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the formula. 728 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 2: How long does it take scientifically to rewire a belief? 729 00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think you could actually measure that. 730 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:24,320 Speaker 1: I think there's too many variables, the comprehension of the information, 731 00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:28,520 Speaker 1: how long the person meditates, how present they are when 732 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:32,040 Speaker 1: they are meditating, what their past was like, and you know, 733 00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 1: there's a lot of variables. I've seen it happen instantaneously. 734 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:41,919 Speaker 1: What appears instantaneous to be instantaneous, But that person could 735 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,719 Speaker 1: have been grappling with that belief, you know, for a 736 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,800 Speaker 1: long period of time. So it turns out, when we're 737 00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:53,120 Speaker 1: relaxed in our heart, the body is believing it's living 738 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:56,720 Speaker 1: in a nurturing environment, and it begins to express new genes. 739 00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:59,080 Speaker 1: And that's exactly how we change. 740 00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 2: Because yeah, we always hear that, you know, the famous 741 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,399 Speaker 2: thirty to ninety days for a habit, like sixty days 742 00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,000 Speaker 2: for a habit, that kind of thing to change a habit, 743 00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:09,799 Speaker 2: But a belief is so much more deeper than that. 744 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, a belief is a habit of thinking. Yeah, 745 00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:17,440 Speaker 1: it's just a really unconscious habit of thinking. Everybody's belief 746 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,279 Speaker 1: should always be challenged. My belief in what's possible is 747 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,360 Speaker 1: being challenged today. I think that's fun. Like I watched 748 00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:27,840 Speaker 1: the scientists that are doing the studies, the empirical studies, 749 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,880 Speaker 1: and watching them run the same experiment five times in 750 00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 1: a row because they're really expecting a different outcome. I know, 751 00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,560 Speaker 1: right in that moment they're changing their belief. I know, 752 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:40,759 Speaker 1: right in that moment they're discovering something new. I know 753 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,680 Speaker 1: in that moment they're going on, this is unbelievable. Right. So, 754 00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,200 Speaker 1: I think the greatest belief that we could ever have 755 00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:51,239 Speaker 1: is our belief in ourselves and our belief and possibility. 756 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 1: And I think that has to be earned. That has 757 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:56,880 Speaker 1: to be earned. You've got to show up for you 758 00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:02,120 Speaker 1: enough times where you have that belief. You earned it. 759 00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,400 Speaker 1: It's not like you do something in one day. The 760 00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:07,000 Speaker 1: person who heals from a health condition, who finally says, 761 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 1: oh my god, I thought this could work for me. 762 00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 1: They show up every day. They're showing up every single 763 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,359 Speaker 1: day because if they don't show up, then they don't 764 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 1: believe it's possible, and they have to show up to 765 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 1: prove to themselves that it is. And some of those 766 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:27,560 Speaker 1: people did their meditation for a year and they earned 767 00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,480 Speaker 1: that belief in that future. And of course the effect 768 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 1: was they had that moment that looked like, oh my god, 769 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:37,040 Speaker 1: that person just seeing they've been walking the yellow brick 770 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,799 Speaker 1: road for the last year and they never missed a day. 771 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,879 Speaker 1: And they'll tell you the meditations I remember the most 772 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,239 Speaker 1: were the hard ones, not the easy ones, the ones 773 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 1: where I had to sit with myself and I would 774 00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 1: not give up. Those are the ones that mattered the most, 775 00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,120 Speaker 1: because that's what got them to that point, right. It 776 00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:58,359 Speaker 1: was the overcoming process. Nobody wants to overcome. Amazon Prime 777 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,520 Speaker 1: just spoiled us, you know, they just on it, right, 778 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 1: But it's the overcoming process that ninety five percent that's programmed. 779 00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 1: That's what you've got to dig deep in and you've 780 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,240 Speaker 1: got to become really conscious of it and that overcoming process. 781 00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,720 Speaker 1: The side effect of that is the actual becoming process. 782 00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: The body's liberated energy naturally moves to the heart. It's 783 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,839 Speaker 1: not like something that you have to do. The body 784 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 1: is no longer tormented emotionally by the past, it's no 785 00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,160 Speaker 1: longer habituated into the past, it's no longer believing in 786 00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: the past. Energy naturally moves into the heart when it's 787 00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,279 Speaker 1: not in survival. It's where it should be going. And 788 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 1: now we're ready to create. So it's important for people 789 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,439 Speaker 1: to understand that you always have to give something up 790 00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,120 Speaker 1: from your past in order to create a new future. 791 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're just so obsessed with the person at the 792 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,680 Speaker 2: top of the mountain that we don't look at the 793 00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,919 Speaker 2: journey they took to get this. Sure, and no matter 794 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:55,040 Speaker 2: how many times we know that there is no such 795 00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 2: thing as an overnight success in any way in healing 796 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,200 Speaker 2: or whatever it may be, constantly feel like, oh, but 797 00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 2: look at that person. They've figured it out and they're enlightened. 798 00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,640 Speaker 2: Maybe they always had it. We're we're good at ascribing 799 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:11,520 Speaker 2: enlightenment to people without thinking that they had a purification 800 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,880 Speaker 2: journey to get there. Yeah, and therefore we kind of 801 00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,920 Speaker 2: believe like we either have it or we don't. We 802 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,000 Speaker 2: don't believe that journey is possible for us. 803 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that I think we were told the 804 00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 1: wrong story. 805 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:25,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we've just kept telling ourselves the wrong sting. 806 00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:25,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 807 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 2: I saw in source you talked about how protein in 808 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 2: meditation that creates immunity. When did you talk about that? 809 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 2: That's that just sounds mind blowing. 810 00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:39,880 Speaker 1: As I said, genes make proteins, and proteins responsible for 811 00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: the structure and function of your body. The expression of 812 00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:47,279 Speaker 1: proteins is the expression of life. So react and respond 813 00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:51,200 Speaker 1: the conditions that cause you to feel the emotions of survival. 814 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:57,319 Speaker 1: Your reaction or your response to that condition, to that 815 00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,359 Speaker 1: challenge will actually weaken your body if you keep doing 816 00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:04,040 Speaker 1: it over and over again. Stress it consumes enormous amounts 817 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 1: of energy for the body. So the repetition of that 818 00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 1: begins to downregulate genes and create disease. And so if 819 00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: you can turn on the stress response just by thinking 820 00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:23,719 Speaker 1: about that problem, your thoughts could make you sick. So 821 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:27,319 Speaker 1: the question is can your thoughts make you well? And 822 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 1: so we said to people, Okay, trade resentment and impatience 823 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:37,440 Speaker 1: and frustration for an elevated emotion like gratitude or appreciation, 824 00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 1: kindness and care. We'll hook you up to a heart 825 00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,879 Speaker 1: rate monitor. We want to make sure that your heart 826 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:46,239 Speaker 1: is coherent, so we know that you're actually feeling these emotions. 827 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:53,320 Speaker 1: And we're gonna measure an immunoglobulin called immunoglobulin A, which 828 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 1: is really the primary defense against bacteria and virus in 829 00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:02,080 Speaker 1: your body. It's the body's natural flu shot and it's 830 00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:07,160 Speaker 1: suppressed when cortisol levels go up because stress hormones shut 831 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:10,920 Speaker 1: down the immune system. So could a person then create 832 00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:15,520 Speaker 1: an elevated emotion And the body is so objective that 833 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 1: it does not know the difference between a real life 834 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:22,160 Speaker 1: experience that's creating that emotion and the emotion that that 835 00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:24,879 Speaker 1: person is fabricating by thought alone. To the body, it's 836 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:28,480 Speaker 1: the unconscious mind, it's the same. So if the person 837 00:49:28,719 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 1: feels the elevated emotion, will they begin to signal new 838 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 1: genes that will make new proteins. And we discovered that 839 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:42,880 Speaker 1: that particular immune globulin A went up by fifty percent 840 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:48,880 Speaker 1: in the subjects that we measured, So feeling elevated emotions 841 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:54,000 Speaker 1: causes the body to upregulate genes and allow the immune 842 00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,759 Speaker 1: system to repair and regenerate. Now that study was our 843 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,760 Speaker 1: first study, but when we when we started looking at 844 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:06,880 Speaker 1: the plasma of advanced meditators right around the time COVID happened. 845 00:50:06,880 --> 00:50:09,400 Speaker 1: In one some of our first experiments that we did 846 00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:12,480 Speaker 1: with the University of California, San Diego, we had all 847 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: this plasma and they closed the lab down and closed 848 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:20,239 Speaker 1: the university down and the lab was minimized, but we 849 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: had all this great plasma from advanced meditator, so there 850 00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:24,760 Speaker 1: was a little bit of time. So we just started 851 00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:29,840 Speaker 1: messing around with creating a pseudovirus like a SARS COVID 852 00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:34,560 Speaker 1: two virus, and we picked the first subject and we 853 00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 1: did what's called an adoptive transfer. We used his plasma 854 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:42,359 Speaker 1: and put the pseudovirus near an A two receptor, which 855 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:47,279 Speaker 1: would you know what the spike virus attaches to. And 856 00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:52,000 Speaker 1: we discovered that there was an immunity in the plasma 857 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:56,520 Speaker 1: of the advanced meditator where the virus could not enter 858 00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:59,440 Speaker 1: the cell, like it was like stuck on the outside 859 00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,759 Speaker 1: of the cell. We saw that in novice meditators there 860 00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 1: were some that were stuck to the outside of the 861 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:08,560 Speaker 1: cell and others that made it into the cell, and 862 00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:11,640 Speaker 1: then we saw with the controls that they all were 863 00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:15,320 Speaker 1: in the cell. And so we went through a series 864 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 1: of the scientific experiments, and we isolated that it was 865 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:24,080 Speaker 1: a protein, and then we'd isolated the exact protein that 866 00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:27,040 Speaker 1: the body and advanced meditators make, and it's called serpent 867 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:31,120 Speaker 1: A five, And if you look online for serpent a five, 868 00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:34,840 Speaker 1: it'll tell you that it has a profound effect against 869 00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:39,200 Speaker 1: the sarscobe two virus. And so the plasma of advanced 870 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,759 Speaker 1: meditators were naturally creating an elevated level of serpent A 871 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:49,239 Speaker 1: five that inhibited the virus from entering the cells. In 872 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: other words, the body is greater than the environment. And 873 00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:56,319 Speaker 1: so we've replicated the study a few times and we 874 00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,560 Speaker 1: see the same outcomes. We published a paper on it, 875 00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:00,279 Speaker 1: and yeah, it's out there. 876 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:02,640 Speaker 2: Wow, that's I mean, that's pretty remarkable. 877 00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, we were super surprised. We were really surprised. 878 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,960 Speaker 2: Very surprising. Yeah, it's mind blowing to think about that 879 00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 2: being possible, but I guess it shouldn't be. It's just 880 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:16,560 Speaker 2: that we haven't we haven't really accessed the true powers 881 00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 2: of the body in the mind, and we're almost unaware. 882 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,279 Speaker 2: You know, we always hear that quote of like you 883 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 2: only use ten percent of your brain or whatever it is. 884 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:28,839 Speaker 2: What is your research found of like how much we're 885 00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,560 Speaker 2: not tapping into the ability that we have. 886 00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 1: Well, they used to call this pseudoscience, and I can 887 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,719 Speaker 1: tell you know, you can't call it pseudoscience. This is 888 00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 1: what our data suggests. Our data suggests that your autonomic 889 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,919 Speaker 1: nervous system manufactures the pharmacy of chemicals that works better 890 00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:49,919 Speaker 1: than any drug. That's what our data shows. A drug 891 00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:53,560 Speaker 1: study at its best is about twenty five percent one 892 00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,800 Speaker 1: out of four people have a response, and it usually 893 00:52:55,880 --> 00:53:00,959 Speaker 1: takes three months or more to have an effect. We're 894 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:07,000 Speaker 1: seeing that at the end of seven days, the seventy 895 00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:12,799 Speaker 1: five percent, eighty four percent, one hundred percent of the 896 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:17,080 Speaker 1: people that are in that are being tested are having 897 00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:22,760 Speaker 1: the same outcomes. So their plasma, their blood, their brains 898 00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:26,239 Speaker 1: in seven days look like advanced meditators people who just 899 00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:30,560 Speaker 1: have never meditated before. Every time we've done a study, 900 00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 1: we have been completely blown away by the power of 901 00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:41,880 Speaker 1: human potential. We're greater than we think, We're more powerful 902 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,520 Speaker 1: than we know, We're more unlimited than we can ever dream. 903 00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 1: And when you have this incredible evidence in science, and 904 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:55,319 Speaker 1: you have the incredible evidence in human testimony, I think 905 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:59,480 Speaker 1: evidence is allowed us voice right. So as again my 906 00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:04,840 Speaker 1: belief has been absolutely blown away because the data is 907 00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:09,720 Speaker 1: telling us that we're incredibly powerful. And as an example, 908 00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,479 Speaker 1: we took just as a fun experiment, we took young 909 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:16,319 Speaker 1: people between the ages of eighteen and twenty five and 910 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:20,040 Speaker 1: we paired them with elders that were at least thirty 911 00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,840 Speaker 1: years or more older in their sixties, seventies, or eighties, 912 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:28,240 Speaker 1: and we did brain scans on them and did cognitive 913 00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:32,560 Speaker 1: tests on them, and did some other studies. And the 914 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:37,720 Speaker 1: job was that they had to spend the entire seven 915 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:41,239 Speaker 1: days together. They had to eat together, they had to 916 00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 1: sit next to each other, they had to teach the 917 00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:46,399 Speaker 1: information back to each other, they had to meditate next 918 00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,960 Speaker 1: to each other, they had to have a huddle at 919 00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:51,280 Speaker 1: five point thirty in the morning and take these cognitive tests. 920 00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:55,719 Speaker 1: And it was hilarious because at the beginning of a study, 921 00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:59,480 Speaker 1: the elders were like, I'm sorry, I have another kid. 922 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,120 Speaker 1: This kid is not going to work for me. And 923 00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:03,040 Speaker 1: the young kids were like, oh my god, that person 924 00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:05,120 Speaker 1: is There's no way. They're so mean, I'm never going 925 00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:07,960 Speaker 1: to make it. And we said no, no on this part 926 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,960 Speaker 1: of the study. And turns out that they became incredibly 927 00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:17,920 Speaker 1: connected and we used people going through a seven day 928 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:23,000 Speaker 1: retreat as the control, which just about one hundred percent 929 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:26,160 Speaker 1: of the people's brains changed for the better. So these people, 930 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:27,879 Speaker 1: we knew their brains were going to change for the better. 931 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:31,160 Speaker 1: But when we paired the young with the old, their 932 00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:36,960 Speaker 1: brains were comparatively way better, way better than anybody in 933 00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:40,880 Speaker 1: the in the community that was going through the event. 934 00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 1: In other words, the wisdom of the elder somehow was 935 00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:47,760 Speaker 1: transferred to the youth, and the plasticity of the youth 936 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,080 Speaker 1: somehow was given to the elder. And we looked at 937 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,480 Speaker 1: the post scans of the brain. Their four brains were 938 00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:57,520 Speaker 1: in beautiful gamma like super conscious, super present, super aware, 939 00:55:57,920 --> 00:56:01,040 Speaker 1: and the rest of the brain was elegant patterns of alpha, 940 00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:06,120 Speaker 1: creative and relaxed and awake. When we did the cognitive tests, 941 00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:11,080 Speaker 1: you know, we expected that we were expecting or hoping 942 00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:16,000 Speaker 1: that the elders would perform better by hanging out with 943 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:20,440 Speaker 1: the youth. But we discovered the youth actually performed better 944 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,480 Speaker 1: by hanging out with the elders. And again, we just 945 00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:27,719 Speaker 1: never anticipated that it's so important for you to hang 946 00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:31,000 Speaker 1: out with your grandparents, it's so important to hang out 947 00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,920 Speaker 1: with people that are older than you, because there's an 948 00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:40,320 Speaker 1: exchange of information, both locally and non locally that transforms 949 00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:45,680 Speaker 1: each other. And we discovered that people change people. That's 950 00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:49,240 Speaker 1: what community is about. So get a collective network together 951 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:51,839 Speaker 1: of two thousand people or twenty five hundred people from 952 00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:55,080 Speaker 1: all over the world, and at the end of seven days, 953 00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,759 Speaker 1: they're all expressing the same genes, making the same proteins 954 00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:02,399 Speaker 1: or microbiome is dramatically changed. Their microbiome looks like they're 955 00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:08,280 Speaker 1: a completely different person. They're making thirteen fourteen different probiotic 956 00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:13,279 Speaker 1: microbes that would take them months to make, and they're 957 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:17,760 Speaker 1: making those in seven days, right, So the emerging consciousness 958 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:22,240 Speaker 1: is being reflected on every level, from brain to heart, 959 00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:28,480 Speaker 1: to microbiome to gene expression, to immune system to breast milk. 960 00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,919 Speaker 1: I mean, we're seeing great studies in the breast milk 961 00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:34,560 Speaker 1: studies we're doing with women that go through a seven 962 00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:40,320 Speaker 1: day event. There's information in their breast milk that could 963 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 1: heal a wound in forty eight hours that would normally 964 00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:46,280 Speaker 1: take two weeks, where there's information in there that's pro 965 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:50,400 Speaker 1: life and pro growth. So we've never been disappointed Jay 966 00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 1: in any of the studies we've done. We've always sat 967 00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,720 Speaker 1: there and shook our heads. And every now and then 968 00:57:55,720 --> 00:58:00,240 Speaker 1: a new scientist joins the you know, joins the team, 969 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,160 Speaker 1: and someone will be presenting on the microbiome as an example, 970 00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:07,200 Speaker 1: and you see these I mean dramatic changes where people's 971 00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:11,240 Speaker 1: microbiomes actually look the same. Right, So they're not changing 972 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:14,480 Speaker 1: their diet, they're not taking a probiotic, they're not staying 973 00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,680 Speaker 1: away from you know, there's no you know, no abstinence 974 00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:20,760 Speaker 1: from sugar. They're just living there. Everything's the same, but 975 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:23,720 Speaker 1: their microbiomes are completely different to reflect a different person. 976 00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:27,160 Speaker 1: There's a neuroscientist and that kind of joined and she's like, 977 00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:33,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, how is this all working? Like, how is 978 00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:39,720 Speaker 1: the mind producing such dramatic effects on the microbiome in 979 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:43,400 Speaker 1: seven days? So we're never disappointed in the studies we do. 980 00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:46,960 Speaker 1: So I do think we have a really great potential 981 00:58:47,080 --> 00:58:50,640 Speaker 1: human potential. I just think that we have to reframe 982 00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:56,440 Speaker 1: certain beliefs about health and certain certain beliefs around lifestyle. 983 00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:58,680 Speaker 2: Before I get to my last question, there's one thing 984 00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:00,480 Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you, Richard. You've told about the 985 00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,320 Speaker 2: power of you know, you're doing these retreats, right, now 986 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,120 Speaker 2: with you just told me once coming up with like 987 00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:07,439 Speaker 2: eight thousand people twenty five hundred people, and you're talking 988 00:59:07,440 --> 00:59:13,360 Speaker 2: about the power of collective consciousness, and I think the 989 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:16,600 Speaker 2: world at large is experiencing what seems to be a 990 00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:19,880 Speaker 2: dividing collective consciousness. And I think even if you look 991 00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:23,560 Speaker 2: at it on a micro level, Let's give an example 992 00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:25,000 Speaker 2: of like a bunch of friends you like to get 993 00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,360 Speaker 2: together and they like to talk about their challenges and 994 00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:30,760 Speaker 2: the problems and the issues they're having with whatever it 995 00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 2: may be. What's kind of collective consciousness? Is that creating? 996 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 2: And how can people elevate each other together as friends? 997 00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:42,080 Speaker 2: Because in the same way as you said, until we change, 998 00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 2: nothing changes. We keep seeing the same people, we're all 999 00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:47,960 Speaker 2: in the same position, and things are not changing, so 1000 00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:50,040 Speaker 2: obviously something hasn't changed. 1001 00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:54,880 Speaker 1: First thing is that reality is a memory. We see 1002 00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,360 Speaker 1: reality through the lens of the past. That's just the 1003 00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:00,200 Speaker 1: way it is. So, so I have a memory of you, 1004 01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:02,480 Speaker 1: and as long as they have a memory of you, 1005 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,120 Speaker 1: you show up equal to my memory of you. Then 1006 01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:08,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I can recognize Jay. The moment a 1007 01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:12,960 Speaker 1: person starts to change in a small collective community, they 1008 01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,520 Speaker 1: don't show up as the memory that people have of them, 1009 01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:18,280 Speaker 1: like something's different, something's out of phase, right, And so 1010 01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 1: then a question is like, what is it? What is 1011 01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:22,680 Speaker 1: it about you? And if the person's happier than you, 1012 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,840 Speaker 1: suspect ohether they are in love or oh they must 1013 01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,440 Speaker 1: have got a new job, or they're taken a new drug, 1014 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:32,240 Speaker 1: a new medication, whatever it is, right, but they're genuinely 1015 01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:36,200 Speaker 1: just different or happy. So if that consciousness of that 1016 01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:39,840 Speaker 1: small collective is all about evolution, is all about love, 1017 01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:43,040 Speaker 1: it's all about growth, you're going to say to that person, 1018 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:47,200 Speaker 1: so what happened? And that person's going to say, I changed, Like, well, 1019 01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,720 Speaker 1: how did you change? I just decided that I was 1020 01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:52,400 Speaker 1: holding on to this emotion resentment, and I've just been 1021 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:54,600 Speaker 1: working for the last two weeks, and I feel better, 1022 01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:58,440 Speaker 1: Like I genuinely feel better now that I'm not addicted 1023 01:00:58,480 --> 01:01:01,680 Speaker 1: to that emotion of resentment. Now the person is naturally 1024 01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:06,680 Speaker 1: going to say, what, well, how did you do that? Well? Okay, 1025 01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,920 Speaker 1: And then you get in the conversation about change. Right now, 1026 01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:16,040 Speaker 1: the person's inspired by someone in the flock who's breaking 1027 01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:20,280 Speaker 1: out and changing their consciousness, changing their awareness, changing their energy, 1028 01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:24,280 Speaker 1: changing their emotional state, and it's evident. They're the example, 1029 01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:27,720 Speaker 1: and mere neurons switch on in the brain and mere 1030 01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:32,200 Speaker 1: neurons emulate behavior. So if that person is kind and 1031 01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 1: present and considerate and caring, all of a sudden, you're like, wow, Wow, 1032 01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:41,960 Speaker 1: Jay is like really present and really cool, and you're 1033 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 1: going to begin to think about that more and more, 1034 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:48,360 Speaker 1: and miror neurons will be like encouraging you to behave 1035 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:51,480 Speaker 1: like that tribe, that person in the tribe. You get 1036 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:54,400 Speaker 1: enough people doing that, and then you know, the collective 1037 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:57,600 Speaker 1: changes naturally. And of course it's not a linear process, 1038 01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:04,400 Speaker 1: but that's how people change now on a macroscopic level, 1039 01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 1: like the world, and all the time that I've lived 1040 01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:12,360 Speaker 1: on this planet, I've never seen the world personally in 1041 01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:16,080 Speaker 1: the state that it currently is in. And there's a 1042 01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:18,880 Speaker 1: lot of separation, there's a lot of division, there's a 1043 01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:22,680 Speaker 1: lot of extremes. How there's a lot of uncertainty. You know, 1044 01:02:22,760 --> 01:02:28,080 Speaker 1: this is a crazy time. And so our curiosity is 1045 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:33,600 Speaker 1: there's a collective consciousness in the world, and that collective 1046 01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:39,080 Speaker 1: consciousness is based on the information that the consciousness is 1047 01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:43,160 Speaker 1: being fed. Because information causes you to become conscious of 1048 01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:46,400 Speaker 1: whatever you are unconscious to and you can't have consciousness 1049 01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:49,800 Speaker 1: without energy. You can't have a thought without a frequency. 1050 01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:55,520 Speaker 1: So the division that's taking place collectively is a lot 1051 01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:59,439 Speaker 1: of chaos and a lot of disorder. Okay, So if 1052 01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:03,200 Speaker 1: the energy is chaotic and entropic and disorderly, but there's 1053 01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:08,600 Speaker 1: an enormous amount of it, is there a way to 1054 01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 1: change that energy collectively? And is it the number of people, 1055 01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:17,240 Speaker 1: is it the amount of energy, or is it the 1056 01:03:17,240 --> 01:03:22,080 Speaker 1: most coherent signature? And it doesn't have to be a 1057 01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 1: large group. It could be a small collective group with 1058 01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:32,760 Speaker 1: coherent hearts in coherent brains. Could they begin to collectively 1059 01:03:33,840 --> 01:03:37,280 Speaker 1: begin to change the field. And that's what we're looking at. 1060 01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,840 Speaker 1: We're looking to see in an event that we do 1061 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:44,080 Speaker 1: with two thousand people. As an example, we have random 1062 01:03:44,080 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: even generators that are placed all throughout the room and 1063 01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:51,960 Speaker 1: they're sophisticated coin tosses, and the more you toss a coin, 1064 01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:53,720 Speaker 1: the more it's going to be fifty to fifty. So 1065 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:58,080 Speaker 1: these machines are tossing thousands of tosses per second. So 1066 01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:00,720 Speaker 1: and the random it wouldn't be zero zero one zero 1067 01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,160 Speaker 1: one zero one, and maybe one one one zero zero 1068 01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:05,600 Speaker 1: zero one zero one zero zero zero one one one 1069 01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:07,960 Speaker 1: zero zero like that, back and forth. But overall it's 1070 01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,040 Speaker 1: fifty to fifty. And if there's nobody in the room, 1071 01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:13,720 Speaker 1: it's always fifty to fifty. Get a collective network of 1072 01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:17,120 Speaker 1: observers together with brain and heart coherence, and set an 1073 01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 1: intention for whatever it is. It's just to say, heal others, 1074 01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:24,600 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, that machine goes zero one 1075 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:28,800 Speaker 1: zero one one one. It just moves right outside of 1076 01:04:28,840 --> 01:04:34,080 Speaker 1: the norm outside. So this is a machine that's programmed 1077 01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:37,600 Speaker 1: to flip a coin randomly, and all of a sudden, 1078 01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:42,120 Speaker 1: the effects of a collective network of observers is causing 1079 01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:45,520 Speaker 1: a random event generator to become more orderly. There's an 1080 01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:49,360 Speaker 1: effect that's taking place. Okay, we see it over and 1081 01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:53,240 Speaker 1: over again. We take one of those random event generators 1082 01:04:53,320 --> 01:04:56,440 Speaker 1: and we wrap them in a Faraday cage, you know, 1083 01:04:56,600 --> 01:05:01,400 Speaker 1: like copper and nickel in heavy metals inside lay electromagnetism, 1084 01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:04,640 Speaker 1: and they insulate frequency. You go to the dentisty puts 1085 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:07,640 Speaker 1: the lead apron on you. It's to block the radiation 1086 01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:12,920 Speaker 1: from the X ray, right, So that's frequency. So build 1087 01:05:12,920 --> 01:05:16,400 Speaker 1: a Faraday cage around one of them and insulate them 1088 01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:18,720 Speaker 1: and all the others are moving outside of normal, but 1089 01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 1: the one that's insulated is behaving as if nobody's in 1090 01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,920 Speaker 1: the room. So now we're starting to wonder is it 1091 01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:30,160 Speaker 1: an electromagnetic energy that actually is having this effect? Right? 1092 01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:34,560 Speaker 1: So then how is that important? Well, Okay, if you're 1093 01:05:34,560 --> 01:05:37,600 Speaker 1: in survival, you're not going to trust. If you're in survival, 1094 01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:40,080 Speaker 1: it's all about the self. If it's in survival, you're 1095 01:05:40,080 --> 01:05:44,200 Speaker 1: not at your best. You're going to act very primitive, primitively. Okay. 1096 01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:50,240 Speaker 1: So coherent heart magnetic field, coherent brain electric field. Now 1097 01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:53,640 Speaker 1: you've got a Wi Fi signal. What is the number 1098 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:57,880 Speaker 1: of people that it would take to begin to produce 1099 01:05:58,080 --> 01:06:01,440 Speaker 1: changes that could be globally So we did this event 1100 01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:04,920 Speaker 1: in September last year called Walk for the World, and 1101 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:08,120 Speaker 1: we invited the entire world to walk to become the 1102 01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:10,680 Speaker 1: very change they want to see in the world. We 1103 01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:15,600 Speaker 1: estimated we had probably about three hundred in plus three 1104 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:19,360 Speaker 1: fifty thousand people from all over the world in one 1105 01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 1: hundred and sixty two different countries gather together and do 1106 01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,880 Speaker 1: this walk. And we were partnering with the Heart Math Institute, 1107 01:06:27,920 --> 01:06:31,920 Speaker 1: and they have these gigantic sensors that measures the earth 1108 01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:36,959 Speaker 1: electromagnetic field. Okay, So the hypothesis was, if we could 1109 01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:40,280 Speaker 1: change the Earth's field, will it have an effect on 1110 01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:44,880 Speaker 1: human behavior, like, will it produce some type of change 1111 01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 1: in the collective consciousness. So when we did that walk, 1112 01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:53,440 Speaker 1: we saw the same thing happen that happened in the 1113 01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:56,320 Speaker 1: room with a random event generator, the same exact pattern 1114 01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:59,000 Speaker 1: they just went, and all of a sudden, about at 1115 01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:01,720 Speaker 1: forty five minutes in to the walk, you see this 1116 01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:07,280 Speaker 1: dramatic shift in the field of the Earth. So I 1117 01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:11,680 Speaker 1: don't know what it takes, but I do know that 1118 01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:18,280 Speaker 1: an emergent consciousness that could form for humanity is going 1119 01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:22,120 Speaker 1: to have to be a collective consciousness. It's not one soul, 1120 01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:25,480 Speaker 1: it's it's a collective network. And so just like that 1121 01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:28,520 Speaker 1: flock of birds, just like that school of fish. You 1122 01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:32,360 Speaker 1: study that phenomenon in biology and you think there's some 1123 01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:36,520 Speaker 1: leader that everybody's foeling, but it's not a top down front. 1124 01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:40,200 Speaker 1: It's a bottom up from it, and everybody's leading. Everybody 1125 01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:43,680 Speaker 1: is behaving in the same way in synchrony. And when 1126 01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:49,240 Speaker 1: that happens, the appearance of a larger organism always takes place, 1127 01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:53,520 Speaker 1: and the tribe comes together. Pro social network switch on 1128 01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:55,919 Speaker 1: on the brain. We move closer, we bond. We don't 1129 01:07:55,920 --> 01:07:58,400 Speaker 1: see we don't see any differences. We come together. We 1130 01:07:58,480 --> 01:08:00,840 Speaker 1: only see the vine in each other. And and our 1131 01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:05,920 Speaker 1: appreciation for life, our appreciation for the moment is enhanced 1132 01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:07,280 Speaker 1: from the experience as well. 1133 01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:12,160 Speaker 2: So powerful, I mean that that resonates so strongly. And yeah, 1134 01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:16,000 Speaker 2: it's definitely something to aspire to and work towards, something, 1135 01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:22,120 Speaker 2: something to something to kind of lock into creating in 1136 01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:27,760 Speaker 2: our small communities and not underestimating the value of our 1137 01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:32,360 Speaker 2: ordinariness and how powerful that can be and how extraordinary 1138 01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:34,719 Speaker 2: it can be when we're connected together. 1139 01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I think love is the nelue, right, 1140 01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:40,600 Speaker 1: you know that it's what bonds us. It's it's the 1141 01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:44,800 Speaker 1: magnetic force that draws things together. It's a it's a 1142 01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:49,240 Speaker 1: very limbic brained thing. And and and uh, falling in 1143 01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:53,320 Speaker 1: love with yourself, falling in love with life, falling in 1144 01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:56,760 Speaker 1: love with the future, you know, falling in love with 1145 01:08:56,840 --> 01:09:00,439 Speaker 1: the moment is what why we're here. I mean, that's 1146 01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:05,639 Speaker 1: what makes life beautiful. So in the world right now, 1147 01:09:05,680 --> 01:09:08,280 Speaker 1: the world needs everybody, The world needs you, The world 1148 01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:11,120 Speaker 1: needs me, and the world needs everybody to actually show 1149 01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:14,040 Speaker 1: up as the very change they want to see in 1150 01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:15,600 Speaker 1: the world. That means then you're going to have to 1151 01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:18,800 Speaker 1: do things that feel unnatural. That means when everybody else 1152 01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:22,880 Speaker 1: is angry and resentful, you're showing forgiveness. When everybody else 1153 01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:27,960 Speaker 1: is fearful and anxious, that's time to show courage. You know. 1154 01:09:28,000 --> 01:09:31,080 Speaker 1: When people are racing and rushing and competing to get 1155 01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:33,080 Speaker 1: to the top, that's when you stand still and draw 1156 01:09:33,120 --> 01:09:37,200 Speaker 1: the experience to you. And I think when you do 1157 01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:40,000 Speaker 1: that in the beginning, it feels unnatural. But that's how 1158 01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:44,920 Speaker 1: we become supernatural, right, That's how an emerging consciousness can 1159 01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:45,679 Speaker 1: actually form. 1160 01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:48,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and the thing that's really going to stay with 1161 01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:50,840 Speaker 2: me today is that I used to believe that the 1162 01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:55,320 Speaker 2: opposite of love was hate, but actually it's stress. Yeah, 1163 01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:57,519 Speaker 2: And because a lot of people will say I'm not 1164 01:09:57,520 --> 01:10:00,240 Speaker 2: a hateful person, but I think everyone will agree that 1165 01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:01,599 Speaker 2: they're a stressed out yet. 1166 01:10:01,960 --> 01:10:05,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, fear is not the opposite of love, it's 1167 01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:09,000 Speaker 1: the separation from it. And you know, pain and suffering 1168 01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:14,400 Speaker 1: is not the opposite of love. It's a separation from it. Anger, hatred, hostility, violence, 1169 01:10:14,600 --> 01:10:17,320 Speaker 1: It's not the opposite of love, it's the separation from it. 1170 01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:21,559 Speaker 1: So then a person who begins to transform themselves. And 1171 01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 1: you know, we work with prisons, you know, thousands and 1172 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 1: thousands of prisoners, and these these are people that can't 1173 01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:34,599 Speaker 1: even close their eyes and meditate because their instinct tells 1174 01:10:34,640 --> 01:10:37,679 Speaker 1: them that something really horrible will happen to them because 1175 01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:42,519 Speaker 1: they've had a turbulent past. You see, prisoners come together, 1176 01:10:42,720 --> 01:10:47,880 Speaker 1: right and move out of stress, the absence of the 1177 01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:52,799 Speaker 1: addiction to the stress hormones. It's called joy. The body 1178 01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:57,599 Speaker 1: is free, it's no longer out of balance, and people 1179 01:10:57,680 --> 01:11:01,120 Speaker 1: come back into the balance of their They feel like 1180 01:11:01,200 --> 01:11:04,200 Speaker 1: themselves again. Like I feel like myself again. I got 1181 01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:07,280 Speaker 1: my life back. And I just read a testimonial from 1182 01:11:07,280 --> 01:11:10,080 Speaker 1: one of the veterans that we do the study on 1183 01:11:10,120 --> 01:11:13,760 Speaker 1: PTSD just last week and retreat that we did. These 1184 01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:17,080 Speaker 1: are people that had some pretty turbulent pasts, you know, 1185 01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:20,160 Speaker 1: and that were suicidal and they this guy said, I 1186 01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:22,400 Speaker 1: was ready to take my life, you know, I was 1187 01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:26,599 Speaker 1: ready that bills to end my own misery. And I 1188 01:11:26,640 --> 01:11:29,439 Speaker 1: feel completely different now I've got my life back, I 1189 01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:32,240 Speaker 1: got my family back, I got everything is different, right, 1190 01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm different. I feel that I can't stop crying, like so, 1191 01:11:36,360 --> 01:11:40,840 Speaker 1: so the war ended. The war ended for him, you know, 1192 01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:43,960 Speaker 1: it ended like yeah, he's not an old soldier and 1193 01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:47,200 Speaker 1: now he's a new soldier. Right, it ended. It ended. 1194 01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:54,360 Speaker 1: So that person who tells the story of their mental 1195 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:57,920 Speaker 1: health change, the person who tells the story of their 1196 01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:01,360 Speaker 1: change from their physical health condition, the person who tells 1197 01:12:01,360 --> 01:12:04,680 Speaker 1: the story that's gone from bankruptcy to abundance, the person 1198 01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:07,840 Speaker 1: who tells the story of how the synchronicity of them 1199 01:12:07,960 --> 01:12:09,880 Speaker 1: running into the person that would become the love of 1200 01:12:09,960 --> 01:12:12,640 Speaker 1: their life happened. When they stand on the stage and 1201 01:12:12,680 --> 01:12:16,040 Speaker 1: they tell the story to the collective, there's a change 1202 01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:22,080 Speaker 1: in consciousness because the person's becoming aware there's truth standing 1203 01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:25,439 Speaker 1: right on the stage. There's an example of truth that's 1204 01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:28,599 Speaker 1: telling them that somehow this person has changed and their 1205 01:12:28,640 --> 01:12:31,360 Speaker 1: life and their health has changed, their their future changed 1206 01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:35,000 Speaker 1: in some way. And that forem minute mile. Then the 1207 01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:38,120 Speaker 1: person that's speaking it is breaking through a certain level 1208 01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:42,519 Speaker 1: of consciousness or unconsciousness, and surely someone in the audience 1209 01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,280 Speaker 1: is going to relate with them. They're going to see, 1210 01:12:45,360 --> 01:12:47,840 Speaker 1: my goodness, if that person can do it, I can 1211 01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:50,639 Speaker 1: do it as well, Right, and that's when it gets 1212 01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:54,639 Speaker 1: really fun because that's when the person believes in themselves 1213 01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:58,240 Speaker 1: a little bit more right in their belief and possibility 1214 01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:01,559 Speaker 1: is enhanced their able to make their change in a 1215 01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:05,000 Speaker 1: shorter amount of time. In other words, they're shortening the 1216 01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:08,320 Speaker 1: distance between the thought of what they want and the 1217 01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:12,559 Speaker 1: experience of having it when they do it properly. Right, So, 1218 01:13:13,360 --> 01:13:20,000 Speaker 1: get enough people together in an immersive experience in someone 1219 01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:23,680 Speaker 1: has that change or that breakthrough, you start seeing, like 1220 01:13:23,960 --> 01:13:26,759 Speaker 1: five people step out of a wheelchair and one event, 1221 01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:31,799 Speaker 1: two people blind, two people game to event blind, seeing 1222 01:13:31,920 --> 01:13:34,240 Speaker 1: at the end, seeing at the end of seven days. 1223 01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:40,240 Speaker 1: It's unbelievable. So the evidence and testimony is that formative moment, 1224 01:13:40,360 --> 01:13:42,800 Speaker 1: and people do the best with what they think is available. 1225 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:47,000 Speaker 1: So if you don't know, or if you're not conscious 1226 01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:51,360 Speaker 1: of that possibility, you'll make the same choice, yes, And 1227 01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:53,559 Speaker 1: so when people become conscious of it now, they can 1228 01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:56,200 Speaker 1: begin to make a different choice. And I think, for 1229 01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:59,280 Speaker 1: as many crazy things that are going on in the world, 1230 01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 1: and that's a whole other conversation, there's a lot of amazing, 1231 01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:08,759 Speaker 1: great for unbelievable things happening as well, like really amazing things, 1232 01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:12,040 Speaker 1: and so yeah, we just got to hold on absolutely. 1233 01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:16,120 Speaker 2: Joe, thank you so much for coming back onto on purpose, 1234 01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:20,720 Speaker 2: sharing your incredible research experiences. And this is going to 1235 01:14:20,760 --> 01:14:22,880 Speaker 2: be one of those ones that I'm going to probably 1236 01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:24,639 Speaker 2: listen to again with my eyes closed, because I think 1237 01:14:24,640 --> 01:14:28,439 Speaker 2: there were so many powerful parts that, especially around when 1238 01:14:28,439 --> 01:14:30,760 Speaker 2: we're trying to rewire our thoughts, when we're trying to, 1239 01:14:31,760 --> 01:14:34,559 Speaker 2: as you were saying, to feel and experience something before 1240 01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:37,519 Speaker 2: it happens. I think if we can really just take 1241 01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:40,080 Speaker 2: all of that in, and if we can start to 1242 01:14:40,120 --> 01:14:44,400 Speaker 2: construct our community around us, to build a collective consciousness 1243 01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:47,639 Speaker 2: that pushes us all forward, helps us change, I think 1244 01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,760 Speaker 2: we'll be onto something. So thank you so much. You're 1245 01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:52,719 Speaker 2: welcome your time, your energy, your presence. 1246 01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:55,559 Speaker 1: And make it an experiment. Yes, make an experiment. Don't 1247 01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:58,040 Speaker 1: make it have to make it a want to like Okay, 1248 01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,679 Speaker 1: let me just see if I change my energy, life change, 1249 01:15:01,240 --> 01:15:04,480 Speaker 1: If I change something about me a belief, a behavior, 1250 01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:09,160 Speaker 1: and emotion, should the should something in my life some 1251 01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:12,080 Speaker 1: event begin to change? That's when it becomes exciting, right, 1252 01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:14,439 Speaker 1: and now it's a it's an experiment. 1253 01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:16,680 Speaker 2: Well, so the source is out right. Now you can 1254 01:15:16,720 --> 01:15:19,840 Speaker 2: go watch as well. The new doctor inventory with doctor 1255 01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:23,680 Speaker 2: Joe Despenser and Joe excited for so much more. Congratulations 1256 01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:26,880 Speaker 2: and all the retreats and workshops, and again, thank you 1257 01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:28,320 Speaker 2: so much for joining me on Purpose. 1258 01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:30,559 Speaker 1: Thank you, Jane, I always appreciate it. Thank you, thank you. 1259 01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:34,160 Speaker 2: If this year you're trying to live longer, live happier, 1260 01:15:34,200 --> 01:15:37,360 Speaker 2: live healthier, go and check out my conversation with the 1261 01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:41,800 Speaker 2: world's biggest longevity doctor Peter Attia on how to slow 1262 01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:46,280 Speaker 2: down aging and why your emotional health is directly impacting 1263 01:15:46,520 --> 01:15:47,639 Speaker 2: your physical health. 1264 01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:52,760 Speaker 1: Acknowledge that there is surprisingly little known about the relationship 1265 01:15:52,800 --> 01:15:54,680 Speaker 1: between nutrition and health, and people are going to be 1266 01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:57,120 Speaker 1: shocked to hear that, because I think most people think 1267 01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:58,000 Speaker 1: the exact opposite,