WEBVTT - | Ep 133 | You Have a Boyfriend?!?! 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:04.320 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:12.039 Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:18.680 Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jiselle Bryant. 0:00:18.960 --> 0:00:22.599 What's up? What's up everyone? I'm Robin Dixon, Robin Dixie. 0:00:23.320 --> 0:00:25.400 Thank you for being here with us once again. Yes, 0:00:25.600 --> 0:00:29.240 we appreciate you as always as all that way, never ever, ever, 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:30.120 ever ever changed. 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.519 No, our reasonably Shasters. Yes, we love them, love them 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:38.520 so much. Yeah, what's going on with peoplelue? Oh, let's 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:41.000 see shady moment? 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:47.240 Yes of the week. Yeah, just happened. Yes, it did, 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:49.199 like over an hour ago a little bit. 0:00:50.640 --> 0:00:55.640 It was very shady. Yes. 0:00:57.480 --> 0:01:00.480 So you know, as we've shared, sometimes when we record, 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.320 we record two episodes at a time. Okay, so this 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:06.839 is the second one of our episodes. 0:01:06.840 --> 0:01:07.880 Do we need to tell them all of that? No, 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:11.120 they don't need to know that, No, remain mysterious. 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:16.000 Well, I think we said that in response to, like, like, 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:20.959 sometimes we can't really address certain things, We can't address 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:23.560 things in a timely manner because you know, just to 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:26.720 explain that, like sometimes we can't really address current events 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:32.240 because it right exactly, So that's why anyway, Okay, but yeah, 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:34.880 So while we were recording our previous episode, which you 0:01:34.959 --> 0:01:40.640 heard last week, we were like eleven minutes into the show, 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.360 and we were like, you know, had good conversation, talked 0:01:44.360 --> 0:01:48.320 about just the response from my announcement that I was leaving, 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:51.160 and blah blah blah ah this eleven now, Actually, I'm sorry. 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:52.480 We were probably like fourteen minutes into the. 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:57.560 Show, okay, And I looked down at our recorder and 0:01:57.600 --> 0:02:00.960 it was on zero's yes all zeros, which is a 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:04.960 panic yes, and when that happens, that means it's not recording. 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:11.600 So I realized that our memory card was full, and 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:17.760 it was just a whole frantic panic because it's really 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:20.480 hard to like recreate what we've already talked. 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.639 About, right, So we didn't want to lose that, right. 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:23.880 We didn't want to lose it. 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.639 Because when we talk, we're really talking, you know, it's 0:02:26.680 --> 0:02:28.440 just very organic, it's very natural. 0:02:29.520 --> 0:02:30.960 It's really hard to recreate that. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:35.120 And so fortunately I was able to check the card 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:36.519 and see, like, first I thought. 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.480 Like, oh my gosh, we didn't get any of it right, And. 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:41.600 I'm immediately like calling Taylor, who's our producer, and he 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:44.560 and he is like misterfix it with everything and I'm like, 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:45.600 walk us through this. 0:02:45.800 --> 0:02:50.359 Yes, yeah, So I found that we actually recorded eleven 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:54.200 minutes of the show and then the card was full 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:57.520 and it was stopped recording. So it was like, oh 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:58.920 my god, thank god. So at least we have these 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:00.640 eleven minutes. We don't have to we create what we 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:03.680 already did because it wouldn't have felt natural anymore. So 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:05.919 we were able to like save that, we were able 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:09.000 to clear the card off. I mean, it definitely pushed 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:11.919 our schedule back a little bit, and Jaselle's already like. 0:03:14.840 --> 0:03:17.200 So anyway, it was just like a big frantic moment. 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:18.320 But I want to like. 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:21.960 Shout out to Taylor because when you listen to the episode, 0:03:22.520 --> 0:03:25.640 you guys will never know that happens. Ever, Like Taylor 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:28.960 is a magician. Yes, I tell you, there's sometimes we 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:31.280 might talk about something and we might be like, eh, 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:34.000 take that out, we need to take that out, and I'll, 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:36.040 you know, email Taylor and I'd be like, Taylor, can 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:39.240 you find a part where Jelle said something really. 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:45.560 Always me? Probably yes, always me, And I'm like take 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:46.440 it out right. 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:48.600 Take it out please, and he will take it out 0:03:48.680 --> 0:03:51.120 and it will sound like it never happened. 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:52.400 Yeah, never happened. 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:56.880 He actually did that one of our Patreon our recent one. 0:03:57.960 --> 0:03:59.480 Remember it was the thing that I told you that 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:02.160 we needed to to take out because it you know, 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:02.760 it wasn't. 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:06.240 Really discussed or whatever you want to tell the people now. 0:04:06.520 --> 0:04:13.280 No, no, anyway, So when I listened to it, I 0:04:13.320 --> 0:04:16.400 was like, I mean, seamless, seamless. 0:04:16.560 --> 0:04:18.599 It was so crazy. I was like, Taylor is the 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:19.760 bomb and what he does. 0:04:19.839 --> 0:04:22.400 People would these production people they don't get the credit 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.480 because they're behind the scenes, you know, and not just 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:28.280 you know Taylor with the audio, but the crew that 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:31.520 works on any television show. They don't get the credit, 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:34.240 but they work so imagine and they work hard. Yes, 0:04:34.839 --> 0:04:36.520 if you're not working hard, you need to leave. 0:04:37.240 --> 0:04:38.400 So that was a shady moment. 0:04:38.440 --> 0:04:40.600 It was very stressful and Giselle is like looking at 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:42.640 me like yet done. 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:47.560 Yes, okay, So my shady moment. I was washing my hair. 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:49.600 I don't really do that that often, but I was 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:51.200 washing my hair in my house. 0:04:51.560 --> 0:04:52.280 Myself do it. 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:54.800 Often because like somebody, because you go to the hair slank. 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:58.840 Okay, no, I just have dirty hair that too. 0:04:59.320 --> 0:05:03.240 Anyway, washed my hair and it was drying up and 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:08.119 my daughter Grace calls me and she's like, I answer 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:08.479 the phone. 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:12.080 My hair is like curly and just like big. She 0:05:12.080 --> 0:05:12.880 answered the phone and. 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:19.920 She's like, whoa, what is happening? And she proceeds to 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:22.440 tell me that my curl. 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:26.000 Pattern ain't right right, And I'm like. 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:29.320 First of all, how can you look at somebody and 0:05:29.360 --> 0:05:32.080 say that they're God given the curl pattern? 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:36.640 It's not right. That is just rude. That is rude 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.760 and shady, right, And I was like, well, what do 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:41.560 you mean? She was like, it just don't look right. 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:43.840 You just and then she blamed it on me because 0:05:43.839 --> 0:05:47.640 she said because I normally like have my hair like straightened, 0:05:48.279 --> 0:05:52.360 then I totally ruined my curl pattern. Yes, and she's the. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:54.800 Curl pattern queen, right, clearly right. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:57.159 And I have a problem with it because God gave 0:05:57.200 --> 0:06:00.000 me my little curls, right, leave me alone. 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:01.880 So how do you feel about your curls? 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:06.880 So she's gonna come when she comes home for spring break, 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:08.320 I mean summer vacation. 0:06:08.520 --> 0:06:11.640 She's going she wants me to like wear my hair curly. 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:13.000 But it's a whole process. 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:15.599 She got like twelve different products, right, and then she 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:18.120 got to run it through the whole from from the 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:19.440 roof to the tip. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.000 Yes, and it's a whole thing. It's a process. She 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:24.640 wants to walk me through that. She wants to do 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:25.000 it for you. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:27.599 Yes, Okay, tell me how that works out for you 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:30.920 because my curl pattern, Yeah, it is awful, Like. 0:06:30.920 --> 0:06:33.280 Well, yeah, because we've been getting our hair straight. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:35.480 Right, because we can we get it straightened. We have color, 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:39.160 and the color reallys it. Yeah, but I have like 0:06:39.480 --> 0:06:43.080 different curl patterns in different parts of my hair. Yeah, 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:44.440 it's horrendous. 0:06:44.760 --> 0:06:47.680 So I'm probably not gonna go through with this. Well 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:48.080 I want to. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.680 I think you should, right, I think you should allow 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:54.560 her to try, okay and see what happens. But I 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:57.039 kind of think I don't know if yours can be 0:06:57.560 --> 0:06:59.320 I don't. I don't know that you can do the 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:02.400 same thing that she does. No, because your hair is 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.520 not the same and my hair is older, right and 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:06.760 crunchy and brittle. 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:09.600 Yes, and it's not. 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:11.800 But she's been wearing her hair curly because it's so 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:15.360 hot in Florida, right, And she does say it takes 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:17.520 more time and all that, but she loves it. 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:21.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I feel like she was just. 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.560 Keeping it real with you, she will, Oh totally. And 0:07:23.600 --> 0:07:27.560 so the shadiness is your curl pattern? 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:34.720 Oh, because mine is awful? Awful? Yeah, I hate it. Well, 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:37.720 it is what it is. Okay. So I wanted to 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:40.240 last week. I wanted to talk about Jamie Fox, and 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:44.000 we didn't get the opportunity. So have you seen Jamie 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:47.960 Fox order the chicken wings? No? Oh my goodness. 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:51.960 Okay, So I don't know how this video got out, 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:55.400 but it's Jamie Fox ordering I guess for his family 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:55.960 or whatever. 0:07:57.000 --> 0:08:01.960 So he orders six hundred chicken wings. 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:05.720 Oh my gosh, do you know how expensive chicken wings 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:06.360 are these days? 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.640 I think Jamie could afford it, of course I can, 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:12.320 of course you can. What was happening? Was this a 0:08:12.400 --> 0:08:15.760 family reunion? Okay, I'm trying to turn it up to Robinica. 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:23.560 Here two one hundred living pepper, bobecue wings. Two we'll 0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:34.160 go ahead, and oh were coming, so we got it? 0:08:36.800 --> 0:08:37.480 What else you got? 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:40.240 Oh my god, this is a wing stop. Yeah, he 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:43.160 ordered two hundred lemon pepper. He ordered like two hundred 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:48.760 hot and spicy and one hundred barbecue or something crazy. Insane. 0:08:49.120 --> 0:08:50.079 That is insane. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.800 I need to know what the occasion was but I 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:57.720 would love it if Jamie Fox called my job seeking 0:08:57.920 --> 0:08:58.440 in order? 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:01.240 Oh yes, back to him, No, she didn't think it 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:04.520 was him what And that's why he kept saying like, oh, 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:05.920 you're gonna be surprised when I come up there and 0:09:05.960 --> 0:09:06.520 get these wings. 0:09:06.559 --> 0:09:09.520 Right. I'm sure he sends somebody else, but right, who 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:09.880 the hell? 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:11.480 And then wait a minute at the end, after he 0:09:11.600 --> 0:09:14.120 ordered like six hundred wings, right, she said, okay, thank 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:15.320 you'll be ready for twenty minutes. 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:18.679 Twenty minutes. Okay. That blew me. 0:09:19.040 --> 0:09:22.439 So this particular wingstop has all of these wings just 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:23.800 ready to go twenty. 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:26.520 Minutes, twenty minutes. Well, I would think. 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:31.720 Six hundred wings is like their daily around wings. 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:35.200 Right there that they're apparently not they ready to whip 0:09:35.280 --> 0:09:37.280 up six hundred wings in twenty minutes. 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:40.079 That's kind of scary. Why are you telling? Right? 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:45.079 That's really scary when you think about just food production is. 0:09:46.720 --> 0:09:49.160 What the scary wast wingstop for me? But I'm just 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:51.760 I'm not gonna be shady. Now do you eat blueberries? 0:09:52.280 --> 0:09:55.600 I do? Yeah? How many do you eat? So? 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:58.080 Like every day? So like to what did I eat 0:09:58.120 --> 0:10:01.560 today today? I had blue berries in my yogurts. 0:10:01.640 --> 0:10:04.480 Yeah, I'll probably put like fifteen in it. 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:07.080 Oh wow, that's a lot. That's good, Okay. 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:10.559 Because they Okay, so the doctor reveals that blueberries make 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:11.199 you smarter. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:12.160 Oh. 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:15.960 Yes, so the extract or even the equivalent of one 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:24.160 couple of blueberries has improves your cognitive cognition. Cognitive cognitive cognitive, 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:30.240 your memory, your executive functioning. Multiple studies show for even 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:33.160 children and adults across your lifespan. 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:34.240 Yeah, if you eat. 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:37.600 Blueberries, okay, you're gonna be smart as hell. Okay, yes, 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:39.880 all right, I just know that blueberries are what they 0:10:39.920 --> 0:10:43.280 call a superfood like it. They're very extremely healthy. They're 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:46.080 one of the fruits. I guess they're like low glass. 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:49.800 They're a low glacemic fruit, you know, like watermelon and pineapple, 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.800 which has a lot of sugar. Blueberries is lower on 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:56.960 the glacemic index and it has tons of antioxidants. 0:10:57.120 --> 0:10:59.360 Yes, so I need to get some berries. Yeah, you 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:01.360 don't eat blueberry I mean not like that. 0:11:01.679 --> 0:11:05.000 I mean, if I'm if I'm out somewhere and whatever 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.280 I'm eating has blueberries in it, Okay, cool, But I'm 0:11:07.280 --> 0:11:09.040 not like intentionally getting blueberry O. 0:11:09.120 --> 0:11:12.480 No, I intentionally get blueberries really, yes, and that is 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:16.320 like in my daily Greek yogurt or cottage cheese. 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:19.880 Yeah, but you but you walk around your house in circles. 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:22.679 So like that hasn't stopped you from doing that, Robin. 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:27.520 I know, I'm like, I didn't know about the cognitive benefits. 0:11:27.960 --> 0:11:31.840 Yes, because I can function it white reap them. Yet 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:33.880 what is it gonna kick? 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:39.160 But right, I'm still waiting. I don't know, but I 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.679 don't but it well, it's gonna kick in. Oh lord, 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:46.040 I hope so oh my gosh. No, Actually the scary 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:49.439 part is, oh my gosh, what if I didn't eat blueberries? 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:50.560 What would my life be like? 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:51.880 Right? Right? 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.520 Look, watch out wand rob is just gonna be walking 0:11:55.559 --> 0:11:59.040 around the whole yard in circles, okay, right, why gonna 0:11:59.000 --> 0:11:59.959 be like out the wind? 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:02.240 Though, like Robin, what's wrong with you? I'll be a vegetable? 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:04.880 Oh my gosh, this is. 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:07.640 But I do love the fact that you know, we 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:10.880 can pinpoint something to say, hey, that will help you. 0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:13.280 Right, there's a direct connection. But you know, it's so funny. 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:16.160 I saw a story on the It like ran across 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:20.840 the bottom ticker of the screen and it said eating 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:26.480 junk food in your teenage years, Like eating a heavy, heavily. 0:12:28.160 --> 0:12:29.360 Laden diet with junk. 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.040 Food or whatever, I don't know, whatever the terminology is 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:37.080 in your teenage years leads to cognitive issues Oh wow 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:40.640 later in life. And my first thought was, how did 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:41.480 they determine that? 0:12:41.600 --> 0:12:43.000 Like, what will they do studies? 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:45.640 Okay, so when they did a study on people with 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.880 cognitive issues, like they found that all these people ate 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:50.559 junk food, I was. 0:12:50.559 --> 0:12:53.240 Just like, well, they do a junk food study and 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:57.640 they probably watch these people over decades, right, and then 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:00.480 they see like the people that run into trees and 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:02.320 walk backwards. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.480 When it's supposed to be going forwards. They're not drunk, 0:13:04.679 --> 0:13:07.360 they just ate lots of junk food when they were 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:07.800 in their team. 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:10.280 But and it's so funny because that would almost connect 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:13.800 to maybe the blueberry things. So blueberries are natural food, healthy, 0:13:14.160 --> 0:13:15.120 have all these benefits. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:16.280 So if someone is eating a. 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:19.040 Lot of junk food as a teenager, they're probably not 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:21.160 eating blueberberries. 0:13:21.720 --> 0:13:22.440 So I need to. 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:25.080 But it's just always it's always interesting when you see 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:27.040 these connect when they make the when they have these 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:30.360 studies and they make these connections between something you did 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:33.400 as a child or you know, a young teenager or whatever, 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:35.559 and how it is affecting you as an adult. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.240 Yes, well, I need to go to Whole Foods, and yes, 0:13:39.600 --> 0:13:40.679 buy some blueberries. 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:42.000 That's what my kid's gonna be eating. 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:46.640 You eat yogurt, right, eat? I can put in my 0:13:46.679 --> 0:13:49.160 open hold them her oatmeal, oatmeal, cinnamon, you know. 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:53.480 Yeah, put blueberries with your cinnamon. I put ginger dry 0:13:53.559 --> 0:14:00.000 ginger in there. Ew. Ginger is good for your stomach. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:04.640 I don't. And it's good benefits. Yes, I mean ginger's 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:06.120 is strong. It's an acquired taste. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:06.319 Yeah. 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:07.120 You know what else? 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:12.080 Okay, get get fresh blueberries, but also get frozen blueberries 0:14:12.760 --> 0:14:17.040 because if you put them in the microwave, microwave, they 0:14:17.600 --> 0:14:20.520 thaw out, but they also create like a blueberry kind 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:24.720 of syrup. Okay, so it's like that is like a 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:26.840 natural sweetener. So that's that's a good. 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:36.400 You're smart, Robin. Blueberries are paying off. Yeah. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:40.800 I sent this to Ashley because she lives in Arlington, Okay, Virginia. Yeah, 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:44.680 she lives in Arlington, Virginia. Arlington neighborhood named as the 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:46.080 best place to live in America. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:52.920 Okay, can you believe that? Yes? Really, yes, why what's 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:53.920 so great about Arlington? 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:59.400 Arlington is very close to d C. Okay, but has 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:07.280 a suburban neighborhoody feel true? You know, it's it's generally safe, Okay. 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:10.680 I mean I think you know, if you look at 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:14.320 a lot of those kind of poles or whatever or stories, 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:20.200 or a lot of areas in our area hood, you know, 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:24.640 DMB surrounding areas are rated really high, and that's why 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.359 it's expensive to live. 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:27.320 I remember when. 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:29.320 But I think it's the proximity of d C. So 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.480 it's like you can have like, you know, you can 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:34.840 go into d C and do all the urban type 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:37.920 stuff and you're really close. You can go home into 0:15:37.960 --> 0:15:40.040 your Arlington neighborhood and live a suburban life. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:40.840 Okay, I like that. 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:43.640 And the schools are probably great and all that for 0:15:43.680 --> 0:15:45.880 the kids, okay, and the parks are clean and so. 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:48.440 Ashley's response was like, yeah, that's why my house is 0:15:48.440 --> 0:15:49.320 so damn expensive. 0:15:49.480 --> 0:15:51.640 Right, Well, she didn't say that, She's like, yay, but 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:55.440 I remember when she was moving out of living with Michael, 0:15:55.640 --> 0:15:57.600 even though they lived in Arlington with you know, the 0:15:57.640 --> 0:16:01.600 two of them did she was adamant about staying in 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:04.160 Arlington and I was like, I don't get it, sis, 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:04.800 but now I do. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:06.160 Yeah, yeah, I get it. 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:09.560 I mean, but I bet you, but that is probably yes, 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:14.760 two slots behind and Columbia's probably number ten. 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:18.120 You know what I'm saying? Like, very true. All right, 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:20.360 we got some we got some emails and stuff to read. 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.600 You guys, keep before. 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:26.080 We get to the email. Yeah, I have a question. Yes, 0:16:26.120 --> 0:16:29.040 it's like a dating flirting. Oh yes, of my favorite subject. 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:30.440 Yes, because this I. 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:33.360 Actually experienced firsthand. It was very it was very interesting 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:33.680 to see. 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:36.840 Okay, So why was flirting with you? No? 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.160 Okay, So Wan and I were sitting at a bar 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:43.680 eating dinner recently recently, and we were actually at Xenia. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:46.040 Oh yeah, yes, we were at the bar Xenia. And 0:16:46.080 --> 0:16:50.440 then so to our right it was three dudes, one 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:51.200 older man. 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:54.240 And then two younger two younger guys. So they were 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:55.600 and the bartender is a female. 0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:58.600 Okay, So the dudes, the three dudes, all of them, 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:00.400 and the female bartender are. 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:03.200 Just chit chatting it up, talking about that whatever. 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:08.640 They're talking about food and drinks and music and all 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:09.280 this type of stuff. 0:17:09.359 --> 0:17:12.720 Right y'all, you're listening to their conversation we're I mean, 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:17.560 are y'all adding to the conversation. Y'all are talking them? 0:17:17.680 --> 0:17:18.400 What is happening? 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:21.719 We're just we're not No, we're not participating in their 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:23.240 conversation yet. 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.600 Right, yes, but but we can hear. 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:29.119 It's like, I mean, they're right next to us, you know, 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:30.960 I mean, it's just we go there a lot. 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:33.720 So you know, that's just kind of what ends up happening. 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:36.120 You sit at the bar and the end up having conversations. 0:17:36.520 --> 0:17:39.479 Oh my gosh, I could add a shady moment in 0:17:39.520 --> 0:17:42.240 that moment too. Anyway, Yeah, I'll just talk about it later, 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:46.600 I mean after the story. So so they're they're like 0:17:46.680 --> 0:17:47.520 chit chatting whatever. 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:47.879 Talking. 0:17:48.880 --> 0:17:51.240 So at one point, one of the guys says to 0:17:51.280 --> 0:17:54.280 the bartender like, oh, yeah, what's your Instagram? Yeah, so 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:57.240 she tells her his Instagram. Okay, so he's like, you know, 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:01.120 it's follows her on Instagram, right, So they keep talking 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:03.720 and blah blah blah blah, and then she said something about, oh, yeah, 0:18:03.760 --> 0:18:05.840 well my boyfriend said blah blah blah blah. 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:10.440 And so the dude was like, your boyfriend, your boyfriend? 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:18.280 What He's like, you just gave me your Instagram what 0:18:18.280 --> 0:18:23.280 do you mean your boyfriend? You have a boyfriend. Okay, 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:25.520 I need to know the race of these people, Okay, 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:31.840 because I feel like this plays into all of this. Okay, 0:18:31.880 --> 0:18:36.080 this is hilarious. Okay. If I had told guess these 0:18:36.080 --> 0:18:38.960 were these guys were white, yes, okay, because I don't 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:41.280 know a black man. The older man was black. I 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:44.760 don't know a black man being like your boyfriend, why, 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:48.240 oh my god. I'm like, a black ey would play. 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:49.920 Cool, right, A black guy would have been like, oh 0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:53.200 damn you, I had a boyfriend, Like that's what black. 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:58.520 He was like a boyfriend. He was mad, he was 0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:04.400 so it's Larry. So that leads to. 0:19:04.480 --> 0:19:08.040 Like my question, So then you know, I'm like, wait 0:19:08.080 --> 0:19:12.280 a minute, So because she gave you her Instagram, right, 0:19:12.280 --> 0:19:14.919 which is public by the way, I'm sure, yeah, it's public. 0:19:15.080 --> 0:19:15.280 Right. 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:18.040 I'm like, so, because she gave you her Instagram, that 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:20.919 means that she was like interesting, single and. 0:19:21.680 --> 0:19:25.600 Open to dating. Yeah, and he was like yes really 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:26.760 yes No. 0:19:27.000 --> 0:19:30.280 So apparently with and he was probub did you he's 0:19:30.280 --> 0:19:33.120 in his thirties like early tradies. 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:33.560 Okay. 0:19:34.800 --> 0:19:40.600 Apparently this is the new way of people trying to 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:43.159 like to know get with one another like, this is 0:19:43.200 --> 0:19:45.320 the new way that god. No, no, okay, this is 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:47.960 the new way that guys instead of asking for their 0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:48.919 phone number. 0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:49.680 They asked for your Instagram. 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:54.119 For your Instagram it's And the girl was like what, 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:56.040 She's like, it's just my Instagram. 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:57.680 I give you my phone number. I mean just asked 0:19:57.720 --> 0:20:00.119 my Instagram. I'm like what, I think this guy's on 0:20:00.160 --> 0:20:02.480 his own. He the only one to feel it was. 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:06.320 It was like a debate, a conversation, and it was like, 0:20:06.960 --> 0:20:10.000 you know, so then we came to the So then 0:20:10.040 --> 0:20:12.960 I kind of determined, like, Okay, I guess these men 0:20:13.040 --> 0:20:15.120 expect you to say, like when they're like, hey, what's 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:18.840 your Instagram? For you to say, hey, you know, just 0:20:18.840 --> 0:20:20.160 just want to let you know I have a boyfriend. 0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:22.640