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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jiselle Bryant.

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Speaker 3: What's up? What's up everyone? I'm Robin Dixon, Robin Dixie.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for being here with us once again. Yes,

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Speaker 1: we appreciate you as always as all that way, never ever, ever,

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Speaker 1: ever ever changed.

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Speaker 2: No, our reasonably Shasters. Yes, we love them, love them

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Speaker 2: so much. Yeah, what's going on with peoplelue? Oh, let's

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Speaker 2: see shady moment?

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Speaker 1: Yes of the week. Yeah, just happened. Yes, it did,

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Speaker 1: like over an hour ago a little bit.

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Speaker 3: It was very shady. Yes.

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Speaker 1: So you know, as we've shared, sometimes when we record,

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Speaker 1: we record two episodes at a time. Okay, so this

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Speaker 1: is the second one of our episodes.

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Speaker 3: Do we need to tell them all of that? No,

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Speaker 3: they don't need to know that, No, remain mysterious.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think we said that in response to, like, like,

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Speaker 1: sometimes we can't really address certain things, We can't address

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Speaker 1: things in a timely manner because you know, just to

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Speaker 1: explain that, like sometimes we can't really address current events

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Speaker 1: because it right exactly, So that's why anyway, Okay, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: So while we were recording our previous episode, which you

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Speaker 1: heard last week, we were like eleven minutes into the show,

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Speaker 1: and we were like, you know, had good conversation, talked

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Speaker 1: about just the response from my announcement that I was leaving,

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Speaker 1: and blah blah blah ah this eleven now, Actually, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: We were probably like fourteen minutes into the.

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Speaker 1: Show, okay, And I looked down at our recorder and

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Speaker 1: it was on zero's yes all zeros, which is a

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Speaker 1: panic yes, and when that happens, that means it's not recording.

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Speaker 1: So I realized that our memory card was full, and

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Speaker 1: it was just a whole frantic panic because it's really

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Speaker 1: hard to like recreate what we've already talked.

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Speaker 3: About, right, So we didn't want to lose that, right.

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Speaker 3: We didn't want to lose it.

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Speaker 1: Because when we talk, we're really talking, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: just very organic, it's very natural.

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Speaker 3: It's really hard to recreate that.

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Speaker 1: And so fortunately I was able to check the card

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Speaker 1: and see, like, first I thought.

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Speaker 3: Like, oh my gosh, we didn't get any of it right, And.

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Speaker 2: I'm immediately like calling Taylor, who's our producer, and he

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Speaker 2: and he is like misterfix it with everything and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: walk us through this.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, So I found that we actually recorded eleven

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Speaker 1: minutes of the show and then the card was full

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Speaker 1: and it was stopped recording. So it was like, oh

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Speaker 1: my god, thank god. So at least we have these

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Speaker 1: eleven minutes. We don't have to we create what we

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Speaker 1: already did because it wouldn't have felt natural anymore. So

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Speaker 1: we were able to like save that, we were able

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Speaker 1: to clear the card off. I mean, it definitely pushed

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Speaker 1: our schedule back a little bit, and Jaselle's already like.

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Speaker 3: So anyway, it was just like a big frantic moment.

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Speaker 3: But I want to like.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Taylor because when you listen to the episode,

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Speaker 1: you guys will never know that happens. Ever, Like Taylor

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Speaker 1: is a magician. Yes, I tell you, there's sometimes we

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Speaker 1: might talk about something and we might be like, eh,

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Speaker 1: take that out, we need to take that out, and I'll,

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Speaker 1: you know, email Taylor and I'd be like, Taylor, can

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Speaker 1: you find a part where Jelle said something really.

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Speaker 3: Always me? Probably yes, always me, And I'm like take

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Speaker 3: it out right.

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Speaker 1: Take it out please, and he will take it out

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Speaker 1: and it will sound like it never happened.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, never happened.

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Speaker 1: He actually did that one of our Patreon our recent one.

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Speaker 1: Remember it was the thing that I told you that

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Speaker 1: we needed to to take out because it you know,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Really discussed or whatever you want to tell the people now.

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Speaker 1: No, no, anyway, So when I listened to it, I

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Speaker 1: was like, I mean, seamless, seamless.

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Speaker 3: It was so crazy. I was like, Taylor is the

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Speaker 3: bomb and what he does.

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Speaker 1: People would these production people they don't get the credit

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Speaker 1: because they're behind the scenes, you know, and not just

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Speaker 1: you know Taylor with the audio, but the crew that

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Speaker 1: works on any television show. They don't get the credit,

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Speaker 1: but they work so imagine and they work hard. Yes,

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Speaker 1: if you're not working hard, you need to leave.

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Speaker 3: So that was a shady moment.

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Speaker 1: It was very stressful and Giselle is like looking at

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Speaker 1: me like yet done.

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Speaker 2: Yes, okay, So my shady moment. I was washing my hair.

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Speaker 2: I don't really do that that often, but I was

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Speaker 2: washing my hair in my house.

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Speaker 1: Often because like somebody, because you go to the hair slank.

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Speaker 3: Okay, no, I just have dirty hair that too.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, washed my hair and it was drying up and

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Speaker 2: my daughter Grace calls me and she's like, I answer

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Speaker 3: My hair is like curly and just like big. She

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Speaker 2: She's like, whoa, what is happening? And she proceeds to

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Speaker 2: tell me that my curl.

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Speaker 3: Pattern ain't right right, And I'm like.

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Speaker 2: First of all, how can you look at somebody and

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Speaker 2: say that they're God given the curl pattern?

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Speaker 3: It's not right. That is just rude. That is rude

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Speaker 3: and shady, right, And I was like, well, what do

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Speaker 3: you mean? She was like, it just don't look right.

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Speaker 3: You just and then she blamed it on me because

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Speaker 3: she said because I normally like have my hair like straightened,

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Speaker 3: then I totally ruined my curl pattern. Yes, and she's the.

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Speaker 1: Curl pattern queen, right, clearly right.

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Speaker 2: And I have a problem with it because God gave

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Speaker 2: me my little curls, right, leave me alone.

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Speaker 3: So how do you feel about your curls?

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Speaker 2: So she's gonna come when she comes home for spring break,

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Speaker 2: I mean summer vacation.

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Speaker 3: She's going she wants me to like wear my hair curly.

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Speaker 3: But it's a whole process.

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Speaker 2: She got like twelve different products, right, and then she

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Speaker 2: got to run it through the whole from from the

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Speaker 3: Yes, and it's a whole thing. It's a process. She

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Speaker 3: wants to walk me through that. She wants to do

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Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, tell me how that works out for you

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Speaker 1: because my curl pattern, Yeah, it is awful, Like.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because we've been getting our hair straight.

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Speaker 1: Right, because we can we get it straightened. We have color,

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Speaker 1: and the color reallys it. Yeah, but I have like

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Speaker 1: different curl patterns in different parts of my hair. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's horrendous.

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Speaker 3: So I'm probably not gonna go through with this. Well

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Speaker 1: I think you should, right, I think you should allow

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Speaker 1: her to try, okay and see what happens. But I

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Speaker 1: kind of think I don't know if yours can be

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know that you can do the

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Speaker 1: same thing that she does. No, because your hair is

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Speaker 1: not the same and my hair is older, right and

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Speaker 1: crunchy and brittle.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and it's not.

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Speaker 2: But she's been wearing her hair curly because it's so

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Speaker 2: hot in Florida, right, And she does say it takes

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Speaker 2: more time and all that, but she loves it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I feel like she was just.

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Speaker 1: Keeping it real with you, she will, Oh totally. And

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Speaker 1: so the shadiness is your curl pattern?

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Speaker 3: Oh, because mine is awful? Awful? Yeah, I hate it. Well,

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Speaker 3: it is what it is. Okay. So I wanted to

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Speaker 3: last week. I wanted to talk about Jamie Fox, and

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Speaker 3: we didn't get the opportunity. So have you seen Jamie

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Speaker 3: Fox order the chicken wings? No? Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So I don't know how this video got out,

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Speaker 2: but it's Jamie Fox ordering I guess for his family

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Speaker 3: So he orders six hundred chicken wings.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, do you know how expensive chicken wings

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Speaker 1: are these days?

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Speaker 3: I think Jamie could afford it, of course I can,

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Speaker 3: of course you can. What was happening? Was this a

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Speaker 3: family reunion? Okay, I'm trying to turn it up to Robinica.

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Speaker 4: Here two one hundred living pepper, bobecue wings. Two we'll

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Speaker 4: go ahead, and oh were coming, so we got it?

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Speaker 4: What else you got?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is a wing stop. Yeah, he

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Speaker 3: ordered two hundred lemon pepper. He ordered like two hundred

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Speaker 3: hot and spicy and one hundred barbecue or something crazy. Insane.

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Speaker 3: That is insane.

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Speaker 1: I need to know what the occasion was but I

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Speaker 1: would love it if Jamie Fox called my job seeking

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Speaker 1: in order?

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, back to him, No, she didn't think it

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Speaker 2: was him what And that's why he kept saying like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be surprised when I come up there and

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Speaker 3: Right. I'm sure he sends somebody else, but right, who

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Speaker 2: And then wait a minute at the end, after he

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Speaker 2: ordered like six hundred wings, right, she said, okay, thank

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Speaker 2: you'll be ready for twenty minutes.

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Speaker 3: Twenty minutes. Okay. That blew me.

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Speaker 2: So this particular wingstop has all of these wings just

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Speaker 3: Minutes, twenty minutes. Well, I would think.

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Speaker 1: Six hundred wings is like their daily around wings.

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Speaker 2: Right there that they're apparently not they ready to whip

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Speaker 2: up six hundred wings in twenty minutes.

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Speaker 3: That's kind of scary. Why are you telling? Right?

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Speaker 1: That's really scary when you think about just food production is.

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Speaker 2: What the scary wast wingstop for me? But I'm just

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be shady. Now do you eat blueberries?

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Speaker 3: I do? Yeah? How many do you eat? So?

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Speaker 1: Like every day? So like to what did I eat

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Speaker 1: today today? I had blue berries in my yogurts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll probably put like fifteen in it.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's a lot. That's good, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Because they Okay, so the doctor reveals that blueberries make

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Speaker 2: you smarter.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so the extract or even the equivalent of one

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Speaker 2: couple of blueberries has improves your cognitive cognition. Cognitive cognitive cognitive,

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Speaker 2: your memory, your executive functioning. Multiple studies show for even

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Speaker 2: children and adults across your lifespan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you eat.

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Speaker 2: Blueberries, okay, you're gonna be smart as hell. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 2: all right, I just know that blueberries are what they

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Speaker 2: call a superfood like it. They're very extremely healthy. They're

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Speaker 2: one of the fruits. I guess they're like low glass.

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Speaker 1: They're a low glacemic fruit, you know, like watermelon and pineapple,

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Speaker 1: which has a lot of sugar. Blueberries is lower on

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Speaker 1: the glacemic index and it has tons of antioxidants.

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Speaker 3: Yes, so I need to get some berries. Yeah, you

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Speaker 3: don't eat blueberry I mean not like that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, if I'm if I'm out somewhere and whatever

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Speaker 2: I'm eating has blueberries in it, Okay, cool, But I'm

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Speaker 2: not like intentionally getting blueberry O.

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Speaker 1: No, I intentionally get blueberries really, yes, and that is

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Speaker 1: like in my daily Greek yogurt or cottage cheese.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you but you walk around your house in circles.

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Speaker 3: So like that hasn't stopped you from doing that, Robin.

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Speaker 1: I know, I'm like, I didn't know about the cognitive benefits.

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Speaker 3: Yes? And what she said, I got a boyfriend?

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Speaker 3: See, yeah, this is a new phenomenon, right yeah.

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Speaker 2: or it can be public, right, right, but your phone

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Speaker 3: on Instagram you want, you.

442
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,439
Speaker 1: Can go look at my Instagram page. Yes, it was

443
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 1: so funny, So this is a thing. I thought that

444
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:01,359
Speaker 1: that's crazy.

445
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,040
Speaker 3: We were just like we were just dying.

446
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 2: Like I'm like, well, I didn't know, so you know,

447
00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: the twins just got Instagram recently and Angel posted a picture.

448
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 3: This is new to me too.

449
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: Angel posted a picture and a boy that's interested in

450
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,639
Speaker 2: her in her commented on her picture. But the comment

451
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 2: was like very generic, but it was the mere fact

452
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 2: that he commented, so she was so then the door

453
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 2: was like, mom, he's interested in Angel. I was like,

454
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 2: off of this dumb comment, no he's not. And so

455
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 2: they were like yes because if he wasn't, he wouldn't

456
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 2: have said anything.

457
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 3: I'm like, Okay, guy's gotta try harder, right, because this

458
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 3: is absurd.

459
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: Right, And that's so crazy to me. It's like you're

460
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 1: you're giving these guys a cop out. Really, you're really

461
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 1: making it easy for them.

462
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 2: But I mean, yeah, well you know what, I'm not

463
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,560
Speaker 2: mad at that because let's I'm talking about for the

464
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 2: church girl the girl in Chipotle. They can start instant

465
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:58,640
Speaker 2: DM at each other and then you graduate to phone number.

466
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,240
Speaker 3: Yes I agree with that.

467
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,080
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I like that, And that's kind of like

468
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 1: a way to weed them out. Yeah, And it was funny,

469
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 1: it was interesting. So she was open to it because

470
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 1: she said they were aligned. So he came up and

471
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,199
Speaker 1: talked to her about church. Yeah, And so when I

472
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: asked her, you know, is this his way of trying to.

473
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 3: Get with you?

474
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,479
Speaker 1: And she was like, I don't know, because you know,

475
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 1: for a long time, like maybe like a couple of

476
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: years now, I was I can't remember the terminology she used.

477
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: But she's also into church, and so she was like,

478
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't into dating, Like I cut that

479
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: part out of my life, and I just recently asked

480
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 1: God to send me you know, I just recently told

481
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,400
Speaker 1: God that I'm open now to meeting people in dating

482
00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 1: and to send me whatever.

483
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,120
Speaker 3: And then here he comes, and I was like, all

484
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:49,400
Speaker 3: she had to do was go to Chipotle?

485
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,679
Speaker 1: Right, And so I almost like, what I should have

486
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: gotten her numbers so that I could have found out

487
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 1: if they connected.

488
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 3: We can't be that.

489
00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:00,000
Speaker 2: We can't be that invested, Robin, Okay, we got to walk.

490
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,919
Speaker 2: It was just it was so crazy. So that's a

491
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 2: good scenario.

492
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 3: Y'all tell us about that. So then, so now I

493
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 3: have another question.

494
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: Yes, a couple, yeah too. There's all like dating stuff.

495
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,679
Speaker 1: So I saw a post on Instagram. It felt like

496
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: it was all right. I'm a very skeptical, skeptical Instagram

497
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,200
Speaker 1: watcher because I feel like everything is a skit.

498
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 3: Everything.

499
00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: I feel like everything is planned, everything is opted out,

500
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:28,479
Speaker 1: Everything is a skit.

501
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 3: So I feel like this was a skit.

502
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: But the girl was holding her camera and she was

503
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: a guy was picking her up for a date and

504
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 1: he's in the driver's seat and he just reaches across

505
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 1: the car and pushes the car door open, and she's

506
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: standing out there holding her phone and she's, you know,

507
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: filming him. And she's like, you're not going to open

508
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,920
Speaker 1: the door for me? And he's like, I mean, what,

509
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: like get in, like doors open, the doors open, and

510
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 1: she's like, you're not gonna get You're gonna you're not

511
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 1: gonna open the door for me.

512
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: I'm not getting in.

513
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 1: He's like, I just drove thirty minutes here to take

514
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 1: you on a date, and I'm about to take you

515
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 1: to a restaurant and pay for you.

516
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 3: She's like, but you're not going to get out and

517
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 3: open the door for me.

518
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 1: Like so it just they kept going like back and

519
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 1: forth about him not opening this door okay, and then

520
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 1: finally he like gets out the car, opens the door,

521
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 1: and then closes the door. And it was like, you

522
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: know what, I'm leaving. You're being too difficult.

523
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 3: I'm leaving.

524
00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 1: I'm not taking them the date. I came all the

525
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: way here and ah blah blah.

526
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 3: Was she in the car? No, No, she didn't get

527
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 3: in the car. So he like got out, opened the

528
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 3: door and then like well yeah, and then he like

529
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 3: changes mind. Yes, this was a skit, right yeah. But

530
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 3: the question is, so, my question is.

531
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 2: If someone picks you up, you're going on a date,

532
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 2: it's your first date. They pick you up, and they

533
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,439
Speaker 2: don't get out to open the car door for you,

534
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 2: what are you thinking?

535
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 3: What do you do? Is that a deal breaker? Right away?

536
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 3: Do you say something that would never be a first

537
00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 3: date for me?

538
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 2: You're never picking me up ok from my house or

539
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 2: picking me up from anywhere on a first.

540
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 3: Date, right that So that's so let's just say this

541
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 3: is a date four okay, and you pick me up, right, Yeah,

542
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 3: you need to you need to open up my car door, right, okay? Sure?

543
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:15,120
Speaker 1: So if he does not, yeah, are you saying something

544
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,720
Speaker 1: in that moment? Are you making a mental note? Are

545
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: you you know? Are you like going on the date

546
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: and saying this is the last like this is the

547
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:25,840
Speaker 1: last time.

548
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 2: I think I would make a mental note, okay, and

549
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 2: then if it when it had, if it happens again,

550
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,640
Speaker 2: I'd be like playing, you got to open my car door,

551
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 2: like that's the gentleman, Like I'm an old school girl

552
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 2: and I like for the man to open my car door.

553
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 3: Yes, I would have that conversation.

554
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: I guess the telling part would be if Okay, so

555
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:44,879
Speaker 1: if he picks you up, you get in the car,

556
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: you go on the date, and now you're both in

557
00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: the restaurant or wherever, and then you're both walking to

558
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: the car.

559
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 3: Does he open your car door? Then he better? Right?

560
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 3: So that's right.

561
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: So so I feel like I would wait and see

562
00:26:57,160 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 1: what would happened then.

563
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 3: Yes, before I like go yeah, and I would not

564
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 3: go off. It'd be a conversation. Yeah.

565
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 1: So It was funny because like I'm looking like I

566
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: read through the comments and a lot of people were

567
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: like on the guy's side, they were like, Oh, she's

568
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: being too difficult, she's being too demanding, Like yeah, forget her, forget.

569
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 2: Her, And that's why none of them have a date, right, Yeah,

570
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 2: that's why they all on Instagram as supposed to on

571
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 2: a date.

572
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:26,400
Speaker 3: Right.

573
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: I was like so shocked, but then I'm like okay,

574
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: But then I'm like, but she's standing there recording.

575
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 3: It was just the whole part.

576
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 1: That she was recording in didn't feel genuine to me.

577
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 1: But I thought I thought it was a good.

578
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 3: Yeah scenario, like a good question.

579
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 2: But some guys don't know that that's what they're supposed

580
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 2: to do, right, So you know, it's a little like

581
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 2: lets and some women, I think it's not important to them, right,

582
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 2: So it's about learning who you're dating, right, right.

583
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 3: But I think.

584
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: Nowadays when people are getting our dating, they're like picking

585
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: apart every little thing, you know what I'm saying, Like

586
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: they're like looking for red flags.

587
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 3: To begin with.

588
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 1: I think I probably would have opened the door myself,

589
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: gotten in the car, and then maybe later on been

590
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: like you know what, I just want to let you know,

591
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 1: like when you pick me up and you didn't open

592
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,679
Speaker 1: my car door, especially on the first date, that was

593
00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: kind of a turn off, And I would hope you

594
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,119
Speaker 1: don't do that anymore for anyone else or for me,

595
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: you know, you know what I'm saying, Like I think

596
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:28,439
Speaker 1: I would just but I don't think I would have

597
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: stood there and been like, you're not going to open

598
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: my door?

599
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 2: No, And he was right for not wanting to go

600
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,720
Speaker 2: out with her because it was the way she handled it, right, Yeah.

601
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 2: You don't have to handle things like an asshole, right.

602
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like she didn't have to come at him in

603
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: that way. She could have even if she wanted him

604
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: to open the door, she could have been like, you

605
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: know what, gentlemen are supposed to open the door for

606
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 1: the ladies. It would be nice if you open my door,

607
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 1: right right, right right?

608
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 3: Okay. I want to read this. I saw this.

609
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: This is from Shamarion who we love Gladden Gladen, Gladden Gladden.

610
00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 3: Okay. So the subject is what would you ladies do?

611
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So your husband and you are divorcing because he

612
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 2: cheated and had a side baby on you his side

613
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 2: chick and children move in with him while you move

614
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: into your own place. Fast forward, in the middle of

615
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: the divorce, your husband goes to the doctor and finds

616
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 2: out he has cancer.

617
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 3: They give him one day to live, so.

618
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 2: He dies the next day. You agrieve and go to

619
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 2: the funeral and all of that.

620
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 3: Fast forward.

621
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 2: One day you get a phone call and it's the

622
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 2: side check saying that your husband has a two point

623
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 2: five million dollar life insurance policy. That she can't get

624
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 2: it because she's not his wife.

625
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 3: But you can get the money and give it to her.

626
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 3: She says that she really.

627
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 2: Needs the money because they're about to go into foreclosure

628
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 2: on the house and.

629
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 3: Take her car. What would you do, Robin in this

630
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 3: scenario would Robin do?

631
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 2: Because y'all already know what that would do? Right, Okay,

632
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 2: we know which is that would do?

633
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 3: Okay, I am a very rob I'm about to go off. Okay, Okay,

634
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 3: go ahead, let me talk.

635
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm a very understanding person. I'm a very empathetic person.

636
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 2: You are, But it ain't no way this woman is

637
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 2: getting a penny, not one penny, not a penny, not

638
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 2: a die no, no, not a penny. But I'm I'm

639
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 2: trying to figure out why the wife didn't know about

640
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: the life by their life insurance, yes, because that's not

641
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 2: a new thing, the life insurance policy.

642
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 3: He didn't just get that, right, she should have.

643
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 2: Been, especially in that amount, yeah, not two point five,

644
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:46,280
Speaker 2: so she should definitely know.

645
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: Well, whatever amount it is, one hundred thousand, fifty thousand

646
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: a million.

647
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 3: No, Now would you give the baby some because that's his,

648
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 3: his child. No, I wouldn't neither.

649
00:30:55,800 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 2: It's his stupid faulty for yes, but she with the

650
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 2: side chick and having the face.

651
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: Doing all of that, and for not setting them up

652
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: whatever you like. And I mean, we don't have any

653
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: time frame here. We don't know how long they were

654
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 1: together or how long you know.

655
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 3: We don't. We don't have the timeframe.

656
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: But regardless, No, you ain't getting shit, not a thing.

657
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,120
Speaker 1: This is for my pain and suffering alone.

658
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, you ain't getting a dad bak because she moved,

659
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 2: she had to move and get her all place.

660
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 3: That pain is suffering him right there right. Yes, it's

661
00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 3: his fault.

662
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: So y'all haven't even been together that long, and so

663
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Speaker 1: it's your fault side check that you don't have shit

664
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: to begin with.

665
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 2: Yes, so no, so kick rock side chicks yes, okay,

666
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 2: glad we aligned.

667
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 3: On that one.

668
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: I thought I was about to be I was like,

669
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: if you give this woman a dining, I'm leaving reasonably shady.

670
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 3: It's canceled forever, allkay. So Mallory Hole wrote.

671
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 2: And she said, hi, love Bucks literally recessed with y'all sin.

672
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 2: Season one of the Real Housewives dumpak in twenty sixteen.

673
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 3: Wow what is this twenty twenty four? Yes, wow, it's

674
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 3: a long time. Yeah. So now you.

675
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: Look at pictures of us and our kids.

676
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 3: And I know especially the kids. Yes, kids were babies.

677
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: Kids were babies, you could we were so much younger, like, oh, such,

678
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: we've been in a time warp.

679
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so crazy.

680
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: Well, you know all the stress that has come with

681
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 2: being on the Real Housewives, but.

682
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 3: You can see it has aged us on our face. Okay,

683
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 3: it's funny like remember when Brock's first six months and

684
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 3: his hair with black to gray overnight. Yes that's us. Yeah, okay,

685
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 3: so raw, unfiltered and unapologeticly yourselves. We need that in

686
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: this world more than ever.

687
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 2: Anyways, I lost my mom in twenty twenty one, all

688
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 2: due to alcoholism.

689
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 3: She was fifty one. She was my person Teki Key

690
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 3: with especially driving to and from school or work, I

691
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 3: always called her, I'm sorry.

692
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: When I get in my car. Now I turn on

693
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 2: the episode of your podcast. It immediately brings me so

694
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 2: much comfort, joy, and of course laughter. But more than anything,

695
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 2: it has filled a void for me in ways you

696
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 2: cannot begin to imagine. Oh that's so sweet. I absolutely

697
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 2: love y'all. By the way, what about g Eb's as

698
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 2: a fan follower name for Green Eye Bandits long e,

699
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 2: like the beginning of gizl so pronounced jim jet.

700
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:34,080
Speaker 3: J e biz g Eb's. Oh, g Eb's, isn't that

701
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 3: what we say? Yeah, I think she's saying something.

702
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: Different in the beginning, like the beginning of Jazel Gee.

703
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: We don't know what you're trying to say, Mallory, right.

704
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 2: But she says big hugs Mallory from North Carolina. Yes, yeah,

705
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: we don't know how to pronounce that jb jabs jebs jebs.

706
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 1: That's what I always That's what I would always pronounce

707
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 1: it as jes. Yes in my head when I would

708
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: see it, I wouldn't say g ebs or I would say.

709
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 2: Jebs jebs okay, yeah, yeah, jebs okay. The jeps so

710
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: speaking of that. So my Dutch you and my aunt died.

711
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 2: I told you my aunt died.

712
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, so she was I think ninety, and she

713
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:19,280
Speaker 3: was amazing.

714
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: My aunt Joyce my father's brother's wife, and my cousin

715
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: went to go was spending a lot of time with

716
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 2: her before she passed away. So she would always say,

717
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 2: can you put my stories on?

718
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 3: And so my cousin's like, what are you talking about

719
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 3: your stories?

720
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 2: Because stories is typically what they call soap operas, right,

721
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 2: and she was referring to the real Housewives of Potomac.

722
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,839
Speaker 2: And so she she every night she wanted to see

723
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 2: her stories, and she would so my cousin would put

724
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:48,360
Speaker 2: her on.

725
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 3: She would fall asleep after like the third minute. She

726
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 3: wanted to see it.

727
00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 2: So, I mean that made me so happy to know

728
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 2: that she was like wanting her stories.

729
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,799
Speaker 3: That's so cute. Yeah, I'll speaking of stories. This is

730
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 3: so funny. I saw this the other day.

731
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: CBS ordered a new black soap opera, daytime soap opera.

732
00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 1: Oh wow, yes about like yes, about like wealthy black people.

733
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 3: When's that coming on? I don't know, but I'm like,

734
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 3: can I move to l A and be on a cameo?

735
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 3: Can they film that here?

736
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, yes, I will totally watch that because

737
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: I used to watch Young and the Restless and Bold

738
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 1: and the Beautiful like when I was like high school college.

739
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 3: I just got out of it.

740
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, just as probably I had kids and

741
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: got a.

742
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 3: Little bit busy.

743
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: But that would be amazing if they could do it

744
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: and make it, make it good, make it good like

745
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 2: the ones that have been on for years.

746
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, that'd be great. I thought they were all going away. No,

747
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 3: Young and the Wrestles Still.

748
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: I watched Young and the Wrestles the other day the

749
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 1: first time in years.

750
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 3: Victor and Nikki Newman.

751
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: Are still married and like Jack and Victoria or Studio.

752
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, okay, so so crazy are we are?

753
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 2: Asking CBS if Rob and Gazelle can be on the

754
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: Black Daytime?

755
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 3: So cool?

756
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: Oh wait, before we get into another letter, I want

757
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: to talk about I know we like to share what

758
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: we watch on TV a lot. Oh yeah, yeah, have

759
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: you watched The Resident?

760
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 3: Yes? Oh wait a minute, didn't I watch that? What's that?

761
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: It's It's like a Gray's anatomy ish hospital type show

762
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 1: that aired.

763
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,440
Speaker 3: On Fox for six seasons.

764
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: I don't think so so they just like uploaded them

765
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: to Netflix, so you can like binge the whole the residence.

766
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 3: It's good.

767
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 1: It's so good, really so good.

768
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 3: Okay, so good. You need to consider a change before

769
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 3: you kill any more patience.

770
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 2: Who's the hospital going to believe?

771
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: A third year resident with a doctor that bills twenty

772
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 1: million dollars.

773
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:52,440
Speaker 3: A year could be one of those celebrity TV doctors.

774
00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 3: You look the part you watch yourself coming right.

775
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 1: I would like drop in every now and then and

776
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: watch with Wan. He completely binged it and he I

777
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: mean it's like, you know, you're you're like, it's heartfelt,

778
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: you're crying and you know you're or you're happy. Yeah,

779
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 1: like it evokes so many emotions and it was It's

780
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: it's a really I never watched grades anatomy or er

781
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: or any of that. This one is not as like

782
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:23,239
Speaker 1: cheesy as those appear to me. Okay, this one is

783
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: really really good.

784
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 3: So I definitely watched that. Is it a man and

785
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:29,800
Speaker 3: a black woman? Are they like that?

786
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 1: There's yeah, so the main characters. Yeah, there's a black

787
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: woman that's a main character. So it's a white man,

788
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: a couple of Malcolm Jamal Moore Warner is a doctor

789
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: on there.

790
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,239
Speaker 3: Okay, so I haven't seen that, Okay, okay, all right,

791
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 3: I'll definitely watch it. Listen.

792
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 2: I'm still on Unprisoned. Yeah, I have Lockdown lock Up

793
00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 2: yes Patreon. So this there's a prison in Arkansas? How

794
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 2: many so like because I think it's like eight episodes.

795
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 2: I've only watched two, but my hearty beaten real fast.

796
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 2: So the man, the sheriff, decided they were gonna try

797
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:08,359
Speaker 2: and experiment, put up some Netflix cameras and open up. Oh,

798
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 2: the prison was on A twenty three and one, so

799
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,640
Speaker 2: they're locked up for twenty three hours and they're out

800
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 2: for one hour. So when they would open the doors

801
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: for that one hour a day, all these.

802
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 3: Fights to break out because everybody's just pinned up as

803
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,000
Speaker 3: everybody's it's call, So all these fights to break out.

804
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 3: So the sheriff was like, you know what, We're gonna

805
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 3: do something different.

806
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 2: And in other countries, because they don't have such stringent lockups,

807
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 2: it helps whoever is locked up get back into society better, right, Okay,

808
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,280
Speaker 2: and they don't they don't have as many resimvaitism.

809
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 3: So what's that word.

810
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,520
Speaker 2: Revisits when you when you when you're when you get

811
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: free and then.

812
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 3: You come back off.

813
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,759
Speaker 1: Oh okay, rebit is it's a word, is it. I

814
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: don't know that it's not the word that I'm saying, Okay,

815
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:56,239
Speaker 1: but it's a word.

816
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 3: Okay.

817
00:38:56,880 --> 00:39:00,080
Speaker 2: Anyway, long story short, he was like, all right, in

818
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 2: a week, we're gonna open up the doors. Okay, seven day,

819
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 2: I mean six days. They did a countdown, and then

820
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 2: finally the sheriff came in and said, guess what, guys, Tomorrow,

821
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 2: I'll open up the doors and y'all are gonna be

822
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,320
Speaker 2: free to maintain your own community. And there's gonna be

823
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 2: no guards.

824
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 3: The guards are going to leave, okay all day twenty four.

825
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 2: Twenty five, seven, three sixty five. One time somebody comes in,

826
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 2: it's to give them food, okay, So they can't leave there.

827
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,600
Speaker 2: They have the outside and they have like the inside area. Yeah,

828
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:31,479
Speaker 2: so they're not like in their little set, their twenty

829
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 2: four hours a day. So it was like our one,

830
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what's gonna happen?

831
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 3: Hour two? Oh my god, oh my god. Our three?

832
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:40,360
Speaker 2: No fights. There have been no fights. Everybody's good in

833
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: the hood. I'm only on day two, Okay, I don't

834
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: know what happens how many days. Is that this is

835
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 2: a project for six weeks.

836
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 3: Oh wow, yees okay, and if they can maintain they

837
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 3: will keep it this.

838
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 2: So this is what's driving the guys. They're all accountable

839
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 2: for each other, okay, So they're like, don't mess it up,

840
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 2: you better not fight, better not mess it up.

841
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 3: So they're all like really being accountable. Okay.

842
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,720
Speaker 1: So so what makes it so if there's no fighting

843
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 1: or anything happening, then what makes it good?

844
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:14,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it ain't given second, somebody gonna go to

845
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:17,240
Speaker 2: hell off. Really, and right now, the young, the older

846
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 2: the older dudes are trying to like be like the

847
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 2: ones that are like running the shop, and the young

848
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 2: guys are like, you ain't gonna tell me nothing.

849
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 3: You better not say no more.

850
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 2: Words to meet Claire partner. And it's like they're about

851
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 2: to fight any given minute. Really, So you're just petrified.

852
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 2: Are there any intimate moments? One guy in the middle

853
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 2: of the night, and I think they forgot that there

854
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: was cameras because one guy that you wouldn't suspect, not

855
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:45,360
Speaker 2: that I can't, right anyway, one guy goes to second

856
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 2: night to his friend and so he goes He's like,

857
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 2: all right, sweetie.

858
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 3: I'll see you in the morning. Okay. So I'm just like, well, y'all.

859
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,879
Speaker 2: Have just slept together, right, since all the doors are open.

860
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 3: I don't know.

861
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, see, I would think that since all the doors

862
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,799
Speaker 1: are open, they can do whatever. I would think we

863
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 1: would be seeing some of that.

864
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, going on, so some phoning. Right.

865
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 2: So I saw on the Sopranos, you know, I binged

866
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: the Sopranos, which, by the way, Tony Soprano rest in peace,

867
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 2: but like he was playing on him.

868
00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 3: He was like a man. Yes, you know. One day

869
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,240
Speaker 3: I was like, Jamal, this is so freaking funny.

870
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 2: I was like, Jamal, did you ever see the Sopranos,

871
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 2: because like back in the day, like I think we

872
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: we didn't watch the Soprano I think I need to

873
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 2: rewatch it because I was a lot younger and I

874
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 2: didn't really know what I was watching, right, So that's

875
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 2: probably a good one to rewatch.

876
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 3: Okay. He was like, yeah, just I saw it with you.

877
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,279
Speaker 3: I said, Jamal, what are you talking about? Your lying?

878
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 3: He said, you were laying the bed next to me.

879
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 3: We watched the Sopranos.

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Speaker 2: Every married, right, every week I waited for I don't remember,

881
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: so you didn't make a memorable player. Anyway, what was

882
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,720
Speaker 2: I talking about? I can't remember what I was talking about.

883
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 2: Tony Soprano. Oh, Tony Soprano said, Okay, if you're in

884
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 2: jail and you do any mail on mail stuff, yeah,

885
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 2: it doesn't count. Okay, because you can't get it any

886
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 2: other way. Okay, so that's overlooked. You can use your hand,

887
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 2: you can, but okay, overlooked, that's the rule.

888
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 3: Okay. That does not mean because they had this on

889
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 3: Tony Soprano. They had this big on the sopranos. They

890
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 3: had this big because.

891
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 2: Tony had somebody in his crew that was gay and

892
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 2: they didn't know back in the day. I was like, wow,

893
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 2: this is amazing.

894
00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,880
Speaker 3: So they ostracized him. I was like, okay, that was

895
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 3: just ridiculous. Yeah. Anyway, so Tony said, when you're in jail, okay,

896
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 3: it doesn't count. It doesn't count. No, Okay.

897
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Speaker 1: So so if we have any listeners in jail or

898
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 1: out of jail, subscribe anyone who has been in jail

899
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: or out of jail, whatever, send us an email and

900
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,399
Speaker 1: let us know and let us know, you know, if

901
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: that's your thoughts on what tony'sprano said, it's true your

902
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: thoughts or just like school us, let us, let us,

903
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 1: because that that is a I think that's a reasonable

904
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: thing to be curious about.

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Speaker 3: I'm curious about that. Yeah, yeah, whether that is because

906
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 3: I didn't know that because Tony said it like.

907
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: It was a discussion, like all the men in the

908
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 2: world had a discussion, and they all said it in jail.

909
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Speaker 3: Right, you get a pass. That's what you said, You

910
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 3: get a pass? Right?

911
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, we're moving on. This is our last

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Speaker 2: last one that we're reading for the day. Amanada Anderson

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Speaker 2: am Amanata.

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Speaker 3: Ana either Amanata or Amanada? Yes, how you doing girl? Okay?

915
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Speaker 3: So she wrote us and said, dear Robin and Zell.

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Speaker 2: In episode one eight, you talked about the list of

917
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Speaker 2: most educated countries, Robin said to Halla, if anyone listening

918
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Speaker 2: was from Denmark, Okay, okay, So that's exactly what I'm doing.

919
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 3: OKAYI Halla, Denmark.

920
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 2: My cousins and friends listen to your podcast and are

921
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 2: huge fans of the shows. It is oftentimes the main

922
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:45,879
Speaker 2: topic of conversation.

923
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Speaker 3: That's awesome. I love that.

924
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 1: And I'll tell you pause when after my after I

925
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: made the announcement about me not being on season eight

926
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 1: or whatever, season nine, I got so many messages from

927
00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: people in Europe.

928
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 3: Wow.

929
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:03,360
Speaker 1: Yes, they're like I'm in I'm in England, I'm in

930
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Speaker 1: or Even and in Australia, I'm in Australia, I'm in,

931
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Speaker 1: I'm here.

932
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Speaker 3: I'm there, and who were just like devastated.

933
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Speaker 1: We really need we really really really need to go

934
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Speaker 1: there and have.

935
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Speaker 3: A live show. Yes, we definitely do. I was.

936
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Speaker 2: I told you when I went to London, I was

937
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,279
Speaker 2: like attacked at hair. I went to Merritt's and it

938
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 2: was like Justelle Bryant's hair.

939
00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, how do y'all know me?

940
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: Like I was like floor, Yeah, yeah, they're watching floored

941
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Speaker 2: by the.

942
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,879
Speaker 3: Number of people that emailed from from overseas.

943
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Speaker 2: All right, so she said, and before you ask, yes,

944
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,280
Speaker 2: there are there is a black community in Copenhagen, mainly

945
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: second and third generation immigrants from Africa.

946
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 3: Okay, who knows that makes sense? We are just we're

947
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 3: just very few, probably due to the weather. Must be cold. Okay, yes, I.

948
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Speaker 2: Can confirm the health care is free since we do

949
00:44:52,800 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 2: pay high taxes.

950
00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 3: But it works really well that way. I like that.

951
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 2: It is no secret that oftentimes lack of access to

952
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 2: heal health care affects the educational rates. That's a whole

953
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 2: topic of its own. Yes, it is anyway, love and

954
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Speaker 2: support from Copenhagen.

955
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Speaker 3: Copenhagen. Oh, that's so nice. That's so nice.

956
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,439
Speaker 1: So that made me think about when I was in

957
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: Toronto the healthcare. Canada has free health care, and my

958
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 1: short period in Toronto I was pregnant then with Corey.

959
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: Because I want to play for the Raptors. I didn't

960
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:29,240
Speaker 1: really like it. I guess it's just as an American,

961
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: we're used to like our private our doctors with their

962
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:37,479
Speaker 1: private practices and stuff. But it just felt like very

963
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: it was routine.

964
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 3: You didn't get like any love.

965
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it felt like I was a number, you know

966
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:47,280
Speaker 1: what I mean. Yeah, And I was in a factory

967
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,800
Speaker 1: like when I would go to the doctor's office, and.

968
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 3: It just I didn't like it.

969
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: But you know, I mean, that's not to say that

970
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 1: there's anything wrong with it.

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00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 3: I'm sure the people in.

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Speaker 1: Denmark and Canada who have their free public health care

973
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: like it, yea, because that's what they know. But I

974
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Speaker 1: just for me personally, I didn't like it. I really

975
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 1: liked having like the more private practice experience.

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Speaker 2: When I was in France, the girls and I were

977
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Speaker 2: with my girlfriend Erica and her kids, and one of

978
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: her daughters hit her head and it was bleeding. We

979
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Speaker 2: had to go to the hospital. Erica took her to

980
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 2: the hospital. The stitches and the whole process eighty six dollars,

981
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: Oh wow, insane.

982
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 3: Wow America, Yeah, would have been outrageous.

983
00:46:33,920 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 2: Thousands, yes, yeah, So I think there's something too like

984
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Speaker 2: this kind of you know, healthcare that doesn't like break

985
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Speaker 2: the bank.

986
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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, and how much?

987
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: And you have to just wonder, like how much are

988
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: they marking up everything the healthcare here?

989
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

990
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 2: You remember my this is the last thing remember my

991
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 2: HYS directed me with that was like eight eight hours.

992
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I had to pay for those eight hours. You did?

993
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 2: So my healthcare is I mean the surgery. It was

994
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: going to be where I have my healthcare set up,

995
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 2: it was going to be a percentage that they paid

996
00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 2: for maybe like eighty.

997
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 3: Twenty split, right something like that. Yeah. Yeah, I had

998
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 3: to pay thousands.

999
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 2: Thank god I had the money to pay for but

1000
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 2: it was thousands of dollars because my surgery was so long,

1001
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 2: and I can just imagine the number of people that

1002
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 2: like I went and they go into But more importantly

1003
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 2: I didn't. My surgery we thought was going to be

1004
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 2: three hours, right, it was eight hours.

1005
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 3: So you can't predict that.

1006
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,919
Speaker 2: No, And yes, thank god, I'm grateful that I'm able

1007
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 2: to pay for it. But people that are in a

1008
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 2: situation in which they can't, it's affed up.

1009
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:34,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy.

1010
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, that so in that sense, the public, it's like,

1011
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: so for me, I'm like, you know, I didn't like

1012
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: the public health care experience, but look at on the

1013
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: other side, it's like people have access to it where

1014
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: you know, only really the privileged have access to the private,

1015
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: you know, comfortable health care situations.

1016
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 3: It's messed up. It's messed up.

1017
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 1: And that's in you know, I talked about the NBA

1018
00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 1: players who were scamming the NBA healthcare insurance program, but

1019
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: your surgery, like what you paid on thousands of dollars for, Yeah,

1020
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 1: the ones NBA healthcare plan would have paid for that.

1021
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 1: So when you have these NBA players who are scamming

1022
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: from their own healthcare insurance, it's like the worst. Why

1023
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna get old, we're gonna need stuff like that? Yes, yeah,

1024
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: the worst, But it's definitely a blessing like that's the

1025
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:25,879
Speaker 1: NBA has great benefits and that's one of them.

1026
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we love y'all in Denmark and everywhere.

1027
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 3: We love y'all. We totally appreciate y'all.

1028
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 2: Don't ever forget to live your life either reasonable or

1029
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 2: it's shady or both.

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00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 3: Bye bye.

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Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network.

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Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

1033
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Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows

1034
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 2: And you can connect with us on social media at

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