WEBVTT - SUNDAY SAMPLER - The Nashville Podcast Network (12-15-24) 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:11.960 Sunday, Sampler got a bunch of good stuff here, you know. 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:13.760 On the Bobby Cast this week we had Dan and 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:16.360 read Isabel. They are prolific writers, were in a bunch 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:18.000 of hits like Luke Combs hits. But they have a 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:21.279 great podcast called God's Country and I'm gonna play a 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:23.280 clip from that and they talk about being burnt out, 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:25.200 which is normal, just doesn't matter what the job is. 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:28.360 We do talk about podcasting and like worst performances like 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:30.520 that's coming up in just a second. And then movie 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:32.400 Mike's Movie podcast, him and his wife went through the 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:34.000 list of the best and the worst movies they saw 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:36.919 in November. This is a really good guide for you guys. 0:00:37.080 --> 0:00:39.000 For me, I use stuff like this to figure out 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:40.680 what I'm gonna watch. So all the shows are coming up, 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:42.840 but I do want to talk with these guys first 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:43.720 from the Bobby Cast. 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:45.160 Here they are Dan and read Isabel. 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:54.080 So one of my friends today who I'm very close to. 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:59.840 I was walking. We're walking together and he has a 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:01.920 number one. He's about to have a second number one, 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:04.640 and he knows I know how the games work, and 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.720 he's like, hey, I think that we have picked our 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:10.400 date to strategically go for number one, and you know 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.000 some people drop off. They all get in their little 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:15.280 we you know, you know how it goes around here, indeed, 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:18.080 And so I'm like, that's freaking awesome that your team 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:20.360 is saying this is the date, because that's as close 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:22.640 as you can get to getting it, that you've decided 0:01:22.680 --> 0:01:25.280 on the push date to getting it. And he's like, 0:01:25.319 --> 0:01:27.240 it's awesome. I said, so, do you have a what's 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.440 your next song? And this is somebody to hang out 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:32.920 with like twice a week, but we never talk music, 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:36.200 and not because we avoid it, but because we're like 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:41.679 actual friend Yeah, like playing trucks. And he was like, 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:45.200 I just wrote it, just cut it, and he said, 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:48.640 you listen to it. And I got that that old 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:50.240 feeling that I used to hate when people say, hey, 0:01:50.240 --> 0:01:52.120 would you listen to my song? Because mostly it was 0:01:52.120 --> 0:01:53.360 what you listen to it and then play it right 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:54.880 that I feel like everybody was trying to use me 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:56.760 for something. Sure, but my first five years is all 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.960 I felt. I didn't trust anybody. I was wrong about 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:01.200 a lot of people's probably right about a lot of people. 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:03.200 I was. I was right some and I got burned 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:05.640 really bad and I think that's what made me overcorrect 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.200 and just keep it. But he he sent me the 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:10.480 song and I and for a second I had that 0:02:10.600 --> 0:02:15.040 PTSD of oh my god, and I'd have that many 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:17.079 conversation with myself, like this is your really friend, This 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:19.639 is a real life friend, like Compnity Kidney, you give 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:22.360 them one friend. And I listened to the song, and 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:23.840 in my head I was already imagining the text I 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:26.440 was gonna have to send. Oh wow, man, hey, I 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:28.799 can't wait to see what this does. In my head, 0:02:28.800 --> 0:02:31.880 that's what I was imagining, because that means it's fine, Yeah, 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:34.040 that's fine. I listened to it. It was so good, like 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:36.160 I wanted to cry, and I don't think it was. 0:02:36.440 --> 0:02:38.440 And the song was good. The song is really good. 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.560 But I don't think it was because of just the 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:44.280 song being really good. I think it was like all 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:47.919 that that I just talked about. I was able to 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.600 kind of just kind of kick all those feelings that 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:54.880 I had about people using me, so I don't do this, 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.120 and I do do this, and I keep these boundaries up. 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:58.760 And then I have this friend who's been grinding so 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:01.720 hard and lie I started to get tears of and 0:03:01.720 --> 0:03:03.360 I'm by myself, and I'm like, what is I'm like 0:03:03.400 --> 0:03:06.639 having this weird moment and I listened to this song, 0:03:06.639 --> 0:03:07.919 and this song is so good. I'm not gonna play it. 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:10.400 I'm not saying who it is. And so I text 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:14.799 him back, I'm gonna write verbatim because I think as 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:19.960 songwriters and just artists in general, you guys will relate. 0:03:20.040 --> 0:03:21.000 I'm excited about this. 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.920 I said, I don't know the guy that wrote that song, 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:27.960 is what I replied. I said, I know the mediocre 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:29.760 pickleball player that I beat the crap out of, but 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:32.360 I don't know that guy who wrote that song. Like 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:35.080 that's awesome, and sometimes you need to be reminded how 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:39.040 awesome your friends are. And he wrote, thank you, It's 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:41.560 probably the favorite thing I've ever written, you know, a 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:43.960 personal thing about his family. And then I just wrote 0:03:43.960 --> 0:03:46.520 a couple things about I said, Hey, the concept was great, 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:49.960 the word play was awesome. Sonically, whoever singing the harmony's 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:52.480 like so technically. I just did a little quick evaluation. 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:54.360 I said, gets to the hook quick, which is like 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:58.200 a thing. And he says to me, hoping it's going 0:03:58.280 --> 0:03:59.800 to be the one that opens the door all the 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:04.040 way for us. And as you was saying that, I 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:05.280 said to that, I said I was dreading to listen 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:06.400 to it because I was afraid to be fine, and 0:04:06.400 --> 0:04:08.160 I would just say, can't wait to see this song 0:04:08.200 --> 0:04:10.720 do his thing. But back to he said, hoping it 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:11.920 was going to be the one that opens the door 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:15.560 for us. And I feel like I said this because 0:04:15.640 --> 0:04:18.240 I have felt that way many times about many things 0:04:18.240 --> 0:04:19.960 that I was going to do. And there's not a door. 0:04:21.880 --> 0:04:24.800 There's never a door. There's there's never a door. And 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:27.960 I said, the door will never be open all the way. 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:30.560 It's just a different chase to a different door. But 0:04:30.680 --> 0:04:33.440 you wrote an excellent song, regardless of what it does 0:04:33.480 --> 0:04:36.080 on some chart based on a thousand variables, that is 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:41.479 an amazing song. Acknowledging it now is extremely valuable because 0:04:41.920 --> 0:04:43.560 it won't be up to you or even up to 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.000 your art. If it's going to be a number one, 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:48.840 it's all by chance. I love youbody, And he writes 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:53.880 a message back, and it was just the idea of again, 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:56.160 here's my friend. And you guys have to create art 0:04:56.160 --> 0:04:57.840 out of your thoughts and your heart and your soul, 0:04:58.080 --> 0:05:00.280 and then you have to go and just let people judge. 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:03.080 Yeah, but I think that's an interest, that's a that's 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:07.440 a really I mean, like you can tell that whoever, 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:09.640 even if it wasn't you, if someone had just read 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:13.240 me that text message of what they replied, that's somebody 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:16.960 that that has has grown up in the in the business, 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:18.520 you know what I mean, Like, you know how the 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:22.440 business works. And I think there for a while, when 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:25.760 you're starry eyed, you have this concept that you're going 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:29.720 to be able to release this song and that basically 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:33.440 based on how people feel about it, it's going to 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:37.120 perform at a certain level. And then maybe you even 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.159 do that, maybe you even have one that connects and 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:40.440 that's what brings you to the town. 0:05:40.520 --> 0:05:40.640 Right. 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:43.839 We've seen that a lot, and you know, to to 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:48.240 when you kind of see behind the curtain on on 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:51.640 the game of it, it's a different it's a different deal. 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.599 So to have someone who's who knows that and is 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:57.359 able to ship and I know we're talking way inside here. 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.839 I hope that's that's why we do this talk inside 0:05:59.920 --> 0:06:00.839 is Yeah. 0:06:01.440 --> 0:06:03.599 I just think it's it's cool and it probably meant 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:05.800 a lot to him to hear it from somebody who's 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.080 who has done that and been a part of it 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:12.840 and honestly kind of like dissociated themselves from that and go, 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.880 this is my honest opinion, and whether it does anything 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.919 or not, like great tune, man, And that's what that 0:06:18.960 --> 0:06:21.440 means a lot to creatives. 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:25.000 No doubt. Yeah, because like it feels like in that 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:29.040 moment like put yeah, putting ever, put the lights, put 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:33.000 the radio, shows, put the radio, put everything aside. A 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:37.240 great song was heard and appreciated and moved somebody the 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:38.880 way it is created to do. 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:42.320 Period. Before you start, he starts or she whoever starts 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:43.880 second guessing maybe this song wasn't as good as I 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:44.359 thought it was. 0:06:44.920 --> 0:06:47.440 Oh he or she thought that when they sent it, 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:50.159 because I mean, I do that all the time. It's like, man, 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:52.679 this song is a banger, Dude, I know this is awesome. 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:54.359 And then I get in the truck with reading, I'm like, 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:57.039 check this tune out and I play it, and like 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:59.160 halfway through the first verse, I'm like, oh, shouldn't I 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:01.800 say that, Oh he probably doesn't like that part. This 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:02.680 should get a reaction. 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:03.560 It didn't. 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:05.880 Okay, we're you know. 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:07.359 What I mean, And before you know it, you're cutting 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.400 it off. Halfway through the second verse, one it ain't 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:10.640 that good. You know, we'll see what happens. 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:28.240 And you've assigned his thoughts unfairly, totally, unfairly cast up 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:32.559 thing little food for yoursel life. 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:34.080 Oh it's pretty bad. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:41.720 It's pretty beautiful, beautiful that for a little more said, 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:46.760 he can't cut your kick in with Fulling with Amy Brown. 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:50.160 The first email is from a listener that was asking 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:53.360 about alan On because I shared about my allan On 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:56.600 experience in last week's episode, which, if you're not familiar, 0:07:56.600 --> 0:07:59.920 allan On is a support group that helps loved one 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:05.480 of alcoholics by providing a place to meet to have 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:08.880 a safe space to share and learn how to cope. 0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:11.800 So that's what allan On is. And I'm going to 0:08:11.920 --> 0:08:15.120 leave the listener's name off because this is something very 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:17.920 personal and I want to respect that. And sometimes I 0:08:17.960 --> 0:08:20.800 have time to hear back permission to use names when 0:08:20.840 --> 0:08:23.280 it's something personal, but in this case, I just got 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:24.440 the email this morning. 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:26.360 So here's what they wrote. 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.920 Hey, Amy, longtime listener, and I have been listening to 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:32.760 four Things since it came out. After hearing the latest podcast, 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:36.120 you mentioned that you went to alan on meetings and 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:38.640 you tried to go weekly. What gave you the motivation 0:08:38.760 --> 0:08:41.240 to go when it's mainly to deal with the person 0:08:41.280 --> 0:08:44.320 in your life that has the problem. A little background 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:46.520 on me. I did go to therapy for myself for 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:50.320 many years, mainly for anxiety and panic attacks. So I'm 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:55.080 in no way against personal growth, therapy, rehab, etc. Someone 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.520 in my life is an alcoholic and we haven't had 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:00.960 a relationship for over ten years, just recently went to 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:04.280 rehab and have been sober a couple of months. How 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:06.280 did you get in the mindset that going to those 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.360 meetings would be best for you? I feel like, since 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:11.880 I'm not the one with the disease, I don't want 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:14.920 to do the work, especially with children and limited time 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:17.920 for myself as it is. Also, maybe I'm being a 0:09:17.920 --> 0:09:21.440 whiny baby. It's a hard place to be in your 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:28.160 friend blank from blank All right, So, dear Blank, here's 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:31.000 what I will say to you. I'm sorry that you're 0:09:31.000 --> 0:09:33.960 dealing with this. Thank you for listening to the podcast 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.080 all of these years and for taking the time to 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:40.480 email me about something so personal. It's definitely a hard 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:44.160 place to be, and you are not a whiny baby 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:47.080 for feeling this way at all, whatsoever. What you are 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:51.199 experiencing is totally valid, and it's okay to feel conflicted 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:54.640 about adding one more thing to your plate, especially when 0:09:54.679 --> 0:09:59.280 it's not something you asked for or something you've done. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:02.760 I totally get it. I'd never even heard of alan 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:05.960 On until a few years ago, and started going when 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:06.360 I was. 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:07.600 Advised to go. 0:10:08.520 --> 0:10:11.720 It was made very clear to me by a couple 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:15.040 of trusted people that I had my own issues based 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:19.320 on my relationship with my qualifier. Now, in this case, 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:23.320 your family member is the qualifier, and there are certain 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.960 behaviors that we pick up along the way that aren't helpful, 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:31.720 even if their behaviors or patterns from ten years ago, 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:36.439 twenty years ago, or two months ago. For example, I 0:10:36.640 --> 0:10:42.599 was extremely codependent, I lacked boundaries, I enabled, I frequently 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:46.120 got involved in things that were not on my side 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:49.679 of the street, etc. But in my mind, none of 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:53.640 those things were my problem. They were because of my qualifier. So, 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:56.439 similar to you, I didn't understand why I needed help 0:10:56.640 --> 0:11:01.000 dealing with someone else's problem. Well, what I learned over 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:04.760 time is that all of those things, they were my 0:11:04.840 --> 0:11:10.400 problem and my responsibility, and if I wanted peace and change, 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:13.720 I had to put in the work like it wasn't 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:17.920 about fixing the other person, but really about finding the 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:21.800 tools to help me feel less stuck and less frustrated 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:26.319 and just less helpless, and really to have the best 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:30.400 relationship with my qualifier possible because I still wanted that. 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.160 So I don't know all the details of your situation 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:36.160 and if you even want a relationship with this person, 0:11:36.320 --> 0:11:38.760 but if they're sober, I mean, it could be a 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:42.360 beautiful time for you to nurture your relationship. But that 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:45.040 will take you staying on your side of the street, 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:49.320 focusing on you. I mean, if I really thought about 0:11:49.320 --> 0:11:53.319 the exact motivation. Yes, I was encouraged by other people, 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:56.800 but it really boiled down to peace for myself and 0:11:56.840 --> 0:11:59.839 me focusing on myself. And that's what those very t 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:02.120 trusted people in my life could see that I couldn't 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:04.959 see at the time. They were observing my actions, and 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:06.960 it was very clear to them that I was in 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:10.439 victim mode and contributing to the agony I was feeling. 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:13.040 And they could see that if I didn't learn how 0:12:13.040 --> 0:12:15.560 to manage that, I was never going to find peace. 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:20.200 So for me, yeah, boiled down to finding peace. And 0:12:20.240 --> 0:12:23.480 the awesome thing about alan On is that it helped 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:30.000 me focus on what I can control, like my reactions, boundaries, mindset, 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:34.320 and I did mention a weekly meeting that I try 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:37.600 to go to in last week's episode, But you don't 0:12:37.640 --> 0:12:40.080 have to go weekly or even commit to it long 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.800 term to benefit from it. You can just take it 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:45.040 one meeting at a time and see how it feels. 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:48.240 There are even zoom options that I've done that are helpful. 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:51.600 I never regret going to a meeting, and I love 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:54.240 some of the friends that I've made along the way. 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:56.120 I mean, these are the type of friends that will 0:12:56.120 --> 0:13:00.560 not judge anything, so it's very refreshing. And also I 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:04.800 totally get that you're a mom and your time is limited, 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:07.920 but I do think that giving yourself even an hour 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:10.560 here or there can make such a big difference. And 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.640 you are not alone in this. I admire you for 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:17.559 even considering going, Like sending me this email just shows 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:20.640 that you care and you're curious, and I think curiosity 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:24.439 is very important. And this isn't just about your relationship 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:27.240 with this person in your life, this family member, but 0:13:27.320 --> 0:13:30.920 it is about you and your family. I can say 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:34.840 that going has made me a better mom, and I 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.240 didn't expect that to be the case, but that was 0:13:37.280 --> 0:13:40.600 my ignorance of it all. Like I was very ignorant 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:44.920 when it came to anything with alcohol and addiction and 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:48.400 all that comes with that. So whatever you decide, give 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:51.640 yourself grace and know that you are doing your best. 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:54.640 And this is a really tough situation. So that is 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.360 what I will say to you there. You just got 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:59.559 to take care of you whatever that looks like. 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:12.240 We're gonna do it live. 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:18.600 Oh, the one, two, three, Sore Losers? 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:20.400 What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:22.120 I know the most about sports, so I'll give you 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:26.000 the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:27.840 a sports genius, y'all. 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:30.200 It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:32.480 I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser, 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:34.480 my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a 0:14:34.520 --> 0:14:38.360 lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:43.360 soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue 0:14:44.720 --> 0:14:48.760 to be determined. Over to you, coach, And. 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:51.600 Here's a clip from this week's episode of The Sore Losers. 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:57.240 What the is Bill Belichick doing? He explained it to me. 0:14:57.360 --> 0:15:00.400 He said, it on dirt. He said he was going 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:03.320 to do it on dot. No, no, he said he 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:04.080 was gonna. 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:06.520 Do it on dot. What is he doing. 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:10.240 He's at home with that twenty two year old bored 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:12.040 out of his mind. He's doing this talk shows with 0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:15.800 Pat McAfee's talking ball. He still got it. He's bored 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:19.000 out of his mind. He doesn't have Maybe he exercises 0:15:19.000 --> 0:15:21.880 a little. It doesn't look like he's a massive bike rider, 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:25.400 canoe or kayaker water sports. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:27.320 Definitely doesn't look like he gets on the peloton. 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:29.320 At all, at least so much more time during the day. 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:32.560 And he says, I can probably do this it maybe 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:34.120 get out of the Patriots a bad situation. 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:35.440 We learned Urbanemeyer did it. 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:39.640 You UNC must have a great quarterback coming up in 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.760 the system, another Tom Brady, and so he said, this 0:15:42.800 --> 0:15:45.320 is my time to shine U. N C is primed 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:48.040 right now because are they in the ACC Yeah, dog shit, 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:51.680 they're losing cam Ward, Miami's terrible, Florida State's terrible, They 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:56.160 Clemson Kate Klubnick's probably gonna go to Broncos minor league team. 0:15:56.320 --> 0:15:58.520 So you got to think he's seeing you and see 0:15:58.520 --> 0:16:00.480 they're gonna win it. Next year they're in the top 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:02.880 twelve team playoff the way it's format, and now you 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:04.920 can win a championship within one to two years and 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:07.520 the portal Billchick's champion. 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:12.840 I get the acc It seems simple like, but I 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:17.200 don't understand Bill Belichick going into an eighteen year old's 0:16:17.200 --> 0:16:18.600 house and being. 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:20.479 Like, hey man, you wanna go to North Carolina? 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:23.040 Like, what the is he gonna say to an eighteen 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.680 year old Eighteen year olds don't give a crap about 0:16:25.720 --> 0:16:26.480 Bill Belichick. 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:28.600 I'm not talking about it because he already said it 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:31.800 on Dot. You want to know what he said. What 0:16:31.960 --> 0:16:33.960 said He's gonna treat it like a factory. So he 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:36.360 would then go into these kids' houses. A lot of me, 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:38.120 you don't go into their house now physically it's more 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:40.160 a virtual type thing. But he will then go into 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:42.600 some of the premier A List type guys. He's gonna 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:43.840 go in their living room and he's gonna say it's 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:45.960 a factory. I will get you into the NFL. I'm 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:47.840 gonna build you these four years to make you an 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:51.520 NFL prospect. What I can do is do that Norther coaching, 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:53.320 then college football can do that because none of them 0:16:53.480 --> 0:16:56.040 have done it at an elite level as an NFL player, 0:16:56.200 --> 0:16:59.360 coach and all that and won championships. He said, it 0:16:59.400 --> 0:17:03.320 will be a fact you n C copyrighted factory. 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:04.600 Hang up and listen. 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:08.840 I heard all that on him. He's seventy two years old. 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:16.440 There's the realistically two years, two years. There's no way 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:19.240 he's going to be coaching for that much longer. 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:21.760 Dude, what is it with everything? You got to do 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:23.800 it in moderation. No coach knows when to go out 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:25.080 at the right time. You never know when to leave 0:17:25.160 --> 0:17:26.120 Vegas at the right time. 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:26.560 You do. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:31.840 Yeah, if you have some self control you get when 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:34.080 you get out of coaching. Tom Brady he's got the itch. 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:35.800 He's acting like he's gonna plead quarterback again. 0:17:35.840 --> 0:17:38.280 Oh my god, he's he's got to quit announcing because 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:41.680 he's terrible at that. He's decent, but he doesn't put 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:42.200 in much work. 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:42.439 Man. 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:45.600 There's no there's no way he's practicing midweek, like all right, 0:17:45.640 --> 0:17:47.359 let me let me work on this. Like he's not 0:17:47.480 --> 0:17:50.440 going over game tape. He is showing up on Sunday 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:53.800 and just winging it. Because the dude is not polished 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:56.800 at all. He hasn't gotten any better. It just seems 0:17:56.800 --> 0:17:58.680 like he does. He's getting paid three hundred and something 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:00.639 million dollars and he's like, what are they gonna do? 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:03.760 Fire me? Great point, great point. 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:05.320 I bet he watched a little bit of film the 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:09.040 night before a day of that's he's got five days off, five. 0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:11.840 Days off, and he's just chilling, hanging out at the 0:18:11.880 --> 0:18:13.679 beach or whatever he does. I don't even know what 0:18:13.680 --> 0:18:15.560 he does in his spare time. It has to be 0:18:15.600 --> 0:18:16.880 at the beach because he's very tan. 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:20.280 But dude, people are realizing nobody wants to just go 0:18:20.320 --> 0:18:21.960 home and lay in bed. We weren't made to lay 0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:24.840 in that position until we're in the coffin. Amen, Amen Belichick. 0:18:24.880 --> 0:18:27.960 He's with the chicks banging or bagging her. Eh gets 0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:29.760 a free time, man, why not do you NC? 0:18:31.880 --> 0:18:34.040 I just can't figure it out. 0:18:34.320 --> 0:18:36.720 Due he's on Pat mcavy every damn day or something. Shit, 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:38.960 He's all the time on there talking. He'll do a 0:18:38.960 --> 0:18:41.000 secondent for forty five minutes. He ain't got nowhere to 0:18:41.040 --> 0:18:44.520 be pour it out of his mind. Dude loves talking ball. 0:18:44.720 --> 0:18:46.760 Why not talk ball for a team that you think 0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:48.040 you can maybe make a difference with. 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:50.480 Now, I do understand he's gonna have the coaching edge 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:51.760 over any coach he faces. 0:18:51.800 --> 0:18:54.280 He's the better. He's a better coach than anyone he's 0:18:54.280 --> 0:18:54.800 gonna face. 0:18:54.880 --> 0:18:57.240 When's the best time to enter the twelve team playoff 0:18:57.320 --> 0:18:59.680 this year? When's the second best yet time next year? 0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:02.399 That's what he's doing. It's a brand new system. Look 0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:06.320 all the teams that got in this year, Indiana. 0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:08.399 Arizona State. He said, holy shit, I could win this 0:19:08.440 --> 0:19:10.920 thing first year. I mean, you get into twelve, you 0:19:10.960 --> 0:19:11.560 got a chance. 0:19:12.680 --> 0:19:15.440 I My belief is he's doing this just to guarantee 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:18.160 his son gets a head coaching job that he's gonna 0:19:18.200 --> 0:19:20.359 when he retires, that they have to name him the 0:19:20.400 --> 0:19:22.359 head coach or whatever. He's the head coach in waiting. 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:24.399 And so he's like, you know what, I'm not gonna 0:19:24.400 --> 0:19:26.960 go back to the NFL. But this is so much 0:19:26.960 --> 0:19:29.280 more of a grind. You're seventy two years old. How 0:19:29.320 --> 0:19:31.080 much energy can a seventy two. 0:19:30.920 --> 0:19:31.480 Year old have? 0:19:32.040 --> 0:19:34.680 Well, and even more than that, you're talking about what's 0:19:34.680 --> 0:19:35.280 the other great one? 0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:35.840