1 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 1: Sunday, Sampler got a bunch of good stuff here, you know. 2 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: On the Bobby Cast this week we had Dan and 3 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: read Isabel. They are prolific writers, were in a bunch 4 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: of hits like Luke Combs hits. But they have a 5 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:21,279 Speaker 1: great podcast called God's Country and I'm gonna play a 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: clip from that and they talk about being burnt out, 7 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: which is normal, just doesn't matter what the job is. 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: We do talk about podcasting and like worst performances like 9 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: that's coming up in just a second. And then movie 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: Mike's Movie podcast, him and his wife went through the 11 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 1: list of the best and the worst movies they saw 12 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:36,919 Speaker 1: in November. This is a really good guide for you guys. 13 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: For me, I use stuff like this to figure out 14 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna watch. So all the shows are coming up, 15 00:00:40,760 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: but I do want to talk with these guys first 16 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 1: from the Bobby Cast. 17 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 2: Here they are Dan and read Isabel. 18 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 1: So one of my friends today who I'm very close to. 19 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: I was walking. We're walking together and he has a 20 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: number one. He's about to have a second number one, 21 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 1: and he knows I know how the games work, and 22 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: he's like, hey, I think that we have picked our 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 1: date to strategically go for number one, and you know 24 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: some people drop off. They all get in their little 25 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: we you know, you know how it goes around here, indeed, 26 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: And so I'm like, that's freaking awesome that your team 27 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: is saying this is the date, because that's as close 28 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 1: as you can get to getting it, that you've decided 29 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: on the push date to getting it. And he's like, 30 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: it's awesome. I said, so, do you have a what's 31 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 1: your next song? And this is somebody to hang out 32 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,920 Speaker 1: with like twice a week, but we never talk music, 33 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: and not because we avoid it, but because we're like 34 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: actual friend Yeah, like playing trucks. And he was like, 35 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: I just wrote it, just cut it, and he said, 36 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: you listen to it. And I got that that old 37 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: feeling that I used to hate when people say, hey, 38 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 1: would you listen to my song? Because mostly it was 39 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: what you listen to it and then play it right 40 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: that I feel like everybody was trying to use me 41 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: for something. Sure, but my first five years is all 42 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 1: I felt. I didn't trust anybody. I was wrong about 43 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: a lot of people's probably right about a lot of people. 44 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: I was. I was right some and I got burned 45 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: really bad and I think that's what made me overcorrect 46 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: and just keep it. But he he sent me the 47 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 1: song and I and for a second I had that 48 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: PTSD of oh my god, and I'd have that many 49 00:02:15,240 --> 00:02:17,079 Speaker 1: conversation with myself, like this is your really friend, This 50 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: is a real life friend, like Compnity Kidney, you give 51 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 1: them one friend. And I listened to the song, and 52 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: in my head I was already imagining the text I 53 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: was gonna have to send. Oh wow, man, hey, I 54 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,799 Speaker 1: can't wait to see what this does. In my head, 55 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: that's what I was imagining, because that means it's fine, Yeah, 56 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: that's fine. I listened to it. It was so good, like 57 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: I wanted to cry, and I don't think it was. 58 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: And the song was good. The song is really good. 59 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 1: But I don't think it was because of just the 60 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: song being really good. I think it was like all 61 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: that that I just talked about. I was able to 62 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: kind of just kind of kick all those feelings that 63 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: I had about people using me, so I don't do this, 64 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: and I do do this, and I keep these boundaries up. 65 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: And then I have this friend who's been grinding so 66 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: hard and lie I started to get tears of and 67 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 1: I'm by myself, and I'm like, what is I'm like 68 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: having this weird moment and I listened to this song, 69 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: and this song is so good. I'm not gonna play it. 70 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: I'm not saying who it is. And so I text 71 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 1: him back, I'm gonna write verbatim because I think as 72 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 1: songwriters and just artists in general, you guys will relate. 73 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 3: I'm excited about this. 74 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: I said, I don't know the guy that wrote that song, 75 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: is what I replied. I said, I know the mediocre 76 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 1: pickleball player that I beat the crap out of, but 77 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,360 Speaker 1: I don't know that guy who wrote that song. Like 78 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: that's awesome, and sometimes you need to be reminded how 79 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: awesome your friends are. And he wrote, thank you, It's 80 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: probably the favorite thing I've ever written, you know, a 81 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: personal thing about his family. And then I just wrote 82 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 1: a couple things about I said, Hey, the concept was great, 83 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: the word play was awesome. Sonically, whoever singing the harmony's 84 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: like so technically. I just did a little quick evaluation. 85 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 1: I said, gets to the hook quick, which is like 86 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: a thing. And he says to me, hoping it's going 87 00:03:58,280 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: to be the one that opens the door all the 88 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: way for us. And as you was saying that, I 89 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: said to that, I said I was dreading to listen 90 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: to it because I was afraid to be fine, and 91 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: I would just say, can't wait to see this song 92 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: do his thing. But back to he said, hoping it 93 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: was going to be the one that opens the door 94 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 1: for us. And I feel like I said this because 95 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: I have felt that way many times about many things 96 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: that I was going to do. And there's not a door. 97 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: There's never a door. There's there's never a door. And 98 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: I said, the door will never be open all the way. 99 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: It's just a different chase to a different door. But 100 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: you wrote an excellent song, regardless of what it does 101 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: on some chart based on a thousand variables, that is 102 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 1: an amazing song. Acknowledging it now is extremely valuable because 103 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: it won't be up to you or even up to 104 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 1: your art. If it's going to be a number one, 105 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 1: it's all by chance. I love youbody, And he writes 106 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: a message back, and it was just the idea of again, 107 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,160 Speaker 1: here's my friend. And you guys have to create art 108 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 1: out of your thoughts and your heart and your soul, 109 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: and then you have to go and just let people judge. 110 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think that's an interest, that's a that's 111 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 3: a really I mean, like you can tell that whoever, 112 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 3: even if it wasn't you, if someone had just read 113 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 3: me that text message of what they replied, that's somebody 114 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 3: that that has has grown up in the in the business, 115 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Like, you know how the 116 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 3: business works. And I think there for a while, when 117 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 3: you're starry eyed, you have this concept that you're going 118 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 3: to be able to release this song and that basically 119 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 3: based on how people feel about it, it's going to 120 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 3: perform at a certain level. And then maybe you even 121 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,159 Speaker 3: do that, maybe you even have one that connects and 122 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 3: that's what brings you to the town. 123 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 4: Right. 124 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 3: We've seen that a lot, and you know, to to 125 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 3: when you kind of see behind the curtain on on 126 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 3: the game of it, it's a different it's a different deal. 127 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 3: So to have someone who's who knows that and is 128 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:57,359 Speaker 3: able to ship and I know we're talking way inside here. 129 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 1: I hope that's that's why we do this talk inside 130 00:05:59,920 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 1: is Yeah. 131 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 3: I just think it's it's cool and it probably meant 132 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 3: a lot to him to hear it from somebody who's 133 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 3: who has done that and been a part of it 134 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 3: and honestly kind of like dissociated themselves from that and go, 135 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 3: this is my honest opinion, and whether it does anything 136 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,919 Speaker 3: or not, like great tune, man, And that's what that 137 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 3: means a lot to creatives. 138 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 5: No doubt. Yeah, because like it feels like in that 139 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 5: moment like put yeah, putting ever, put the lights, put 140 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 5: the radio, shows, put the radio, put everything aside. A 141 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 5: great song was heard and appreciated and moved somebody the 142 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 5: way it is created to do. 143 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: Period. Before you start, he starts or she whoever starts 144 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: second guessing maybe this song wasn't as good as I 145 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: thought it was. 146 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 3: Oh he or she thought that when they sent it, 147 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 3: because I mean, I do that all the time. It's like, man, 148 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,679 Speaker 3: this song is a banger, Dude, I know this is awesome. 149 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 3: And then I get in the truck with reading, I'm like, 150 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 3: check this tune out and I play it, and like 151 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 3: halfway through the first verse, I'm like, oh, shouldn't I 152 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 3: say that, Oh he probably doesn't like that part. This 153 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 3: should get a reaction. 154 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: It didn't. 155 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 2: Okay, we're you know. 156 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:07,359 Speaker 3: What I mean, And before you know it, you're cutting 157 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: it off. Halfway through the second verse, one it ain't 158 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 3: that good. You know, we'll see what happens. 159 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: And you've assigned his thoughts unfairly, totally, unfairly cast up 160 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,559 Speaker 1: thing little food for yoursel life. 161 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 6: Oh it's pretty bad. 162 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:41,720 Speaker 1: It's pretty beautiful, beautiful that for a little more said, 163 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: he can't cut your kick in with Fulling with Amy Brown. 164 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 7: The first email is from a listener that was asking 165 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 7: about alan On because I shared about my allan On 166 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 7: experience in last week's episode, which, if you're not familiar, 167 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 7: allan On is a support group that helps loved one 168 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 7: of alcoholics by providing a place to meet to have 169 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 7: a safe space to share and learn how to cope. 170 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 7: So that's what allan On is. And I'm going to 171 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 7: leave the listener's name off because this is something very 172 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 7: personal and I want to respect that. And sometimes I 173 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 7: have time to hear back permission to use names when 174 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 7: it's something personal, but in this case, I just got 175 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 7: the email this morning. 176 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 2: So here's what they wrote. 177 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 7: Hey, Amy, longtime listener, and I have been listening to 178 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 7: four Things since it came out. After hearing the latest podcast, 179 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 7: you mentioned that you went to alan on meetings and 180 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 7: you tried to go weekly. What gave you the motivation 181 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 7: to go when it's mainly to deal with the person 182 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 7: in your life that has the problem. A little background 183 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 7: on me. I did go to therapy for myself for 184 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 7: many years, mainly for anxiety and panic attacks. So I'm 185 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 7: in no way against personal growth, therapy, rehab, etc. Someone 186 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 7: in my life is an alcoholic and we haven't had 187 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 7: a relationship for over ten years, just recently went to 188 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 7: rehab and have been sober a couple of months. How 189 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 7: did you get in the mindset that going to those 190 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 7: meetings would be best for you? I feel like, since 191 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 7: I'm not the one with the disease, I don't want 192 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 7: to do the work, especially with children and limited time 193 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 7: for myself as it is. Also, maybe I'm being a 194 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 7: whiny baby. It's a hard place to be in your 195 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 7: friend blank from blank All right, So, dear Blank, here's 196 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 7: what I will say to you. I'm sorry that you're 197 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 7: dealing with this. Thank you for listening to the podcast 198 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 7: all of these years and for taking the time to 199 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 7: email me about something so personal. It's definitely a hard 200 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 7: place to be, and you are not a whiny baby 201 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,080 Speaker 7: for feeling this way at all, whatsoever. What you are 202 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:51,199 Speaker 7: experiencing is totally valid, and it's okay to feel conflicted 203 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 7: about adding one more thing to your plate, especially when 204 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 7: it's not something you asked for or something you've done. 205 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 7: I totally get it. I'd never even heard of alan 206 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 7: On until a few years ago, and started going when 207 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 7: I was. 208 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 8: Advised to go. 209 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 7: It was made very clear to me by a couple 210 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 7: of trusted people that I had my own issues based 211 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 7: on my relationship with my qualifier. Now, in this case, 212 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 7: your family member is the qualifier, and there are certain 213 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 7: behaviors that we pick up along the way that aren't helpful, 214 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 7: even if their behaviors or patterns from ten years ago, 215 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:36,439 Speaker 7: twenty years ago, or two months ago. For example, I 216 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:42,599 Speaker 7: was extremely codependent, I lacked boundaries, I enabled, I frequently 217 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 7: got involved in things that were not on my side 218 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,679 Speaker 7: of the street, etc. But in my mind, none of 219 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 7: those things were my problem. They were because of my qualifier. So, 220 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 7: similar to you, I didn't understand why I needed help 221 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 7: dealing with someone else's problem. Well, what I learned over 222 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 7: time is that all of those things, they were my 223 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 7: problem and my responsibility, and if I wanted peace and change, 224 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 7: I had to put in the work like it wasn't 225 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 7: about fixing the other person, but really about finding the 226 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 7: tools to help me feel less stuck and less frustrated 227 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 7: and just less helpless, and really to have the best 228 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 7: relationship with my qualifier possible because I still wanted that. 229 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 7: So I don't know all the details of your situation 230 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 7: and if you even want a relationship with this person, 231 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 7: but if they're sober, I mean, it could be a 232 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 7: beautiful time for you to nurture your relationship. But that 233 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 7: will take you staying on your side of the street, 234 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 7: focusing on you. I mean, if I really thought about 235 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 7: the exact motivation. Yes, I was encouraged by other people, 236 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 7: but it really boiled down to peace for myself and 237 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 7: me focusing on myself. And that's what those very t 238 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 7: trusted people in my life could see that I couldn't 239 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 7: see at the time. They were observing my actions, and 240 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 7: it was very clear to them that I was in 241 00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:10,439 Speaker 7: victim mode and contributing to the agony I was feeling. 242 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 7: And they could see that if I didn't learn how 243 00:12:13,040 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 7: to manage that, I was never going to find peace. 244 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:20,200 Speaker 7: So for me, yeah, boiled down to finding peace. And 245 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 7: the awesome thing about alan On is that it helped 246 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 7: me focus on what I can control, like my reactions, boundaries, mindset, 247 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 7: and I did mention a weekly meeting that I try 248 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 7: to go to in last week's episode, But you don't 249 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 7: have to go weekly or even commit to it long 250 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 7: term to benefit from it. You can just take it 251 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 7: one meeting at a time and see how it feels. 252 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 7: There are even zoom options that I've done that are helpful. 253 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 7: I never regret going to a meeting, and I love 254 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:54,240 Speaker 7: some of the friends that I've made along the way. 255 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 7: I mean, these are the type of friends that will 256 00:12:56,120 --> 00:13:00,560 Speaker 7: not judge anything, so it's very refreshing. And also I 257 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 7: totally get that you're a mom and your time is limited, 258 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 7: but I do think that giving yourself even an hour 259 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 7: here or there can make such a big difference. And 260 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 7: you are not alone in this. I admire you for 261 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 7: even considering going, Like sending me this email just shows 262 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 7: that you care and you're curious, and I think curiosity 263 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:24,439 Speaker 7: is very important. And this isn't just about your relationship 264 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 7: with this person in your life, this family member, but 265 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 7: it is about you and your family. I can say 266 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 7: that going has made me a better mom, and I 267 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,240 Speaker 7: didn't expect that to be the case, but that was 268 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 7: my ignorance of it all. Like I was very ignorant 269 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 7: when it came to anything with alcohol and addiction and 270 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 7: all that comes with that. So whatever you decide, give 271 00:13:48,440 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 7: yourself grace and know that you are doing your best. 272 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 7: And this is a really tough situation. So that is 273 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 7: what I will say to you there. You just got 274 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,559 Speaker 7: to take care of you whatever that looks like. 275 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: We're gonna do it live. 276 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 9: Oh, the one, two, three, Sore Losers? 277 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 10: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. 278 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 11: I know the most about sports, so I'll give you 279 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 11: the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much 280 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 11: a sports genius, y'all. 281 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 9: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 282 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 9: I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser, 283 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 9: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a 284 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 9: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully 285 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 9: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue 286 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 9: to be determined. Over to you, coach, And. 287 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 11: Here's a clip from this week's episode of The Sore Losers. 288 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 11: What the is Bill Belichick doing? He explained it to me. 289 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 11: He said, it on dirt. He said he was going 290 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 11: to do it on dot. No, no, he said he 291 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 11: was gonna. 292 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 10: Do it on dot. What is he doing. 293 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 9: He's at home with that twenty two year old bored 294 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,040 Speaker 9: out of his mind. He's doing this talk shows with 295 00:15:12,120 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 9: Pat McAfee's talking ball. He still got it. He's bored 296 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 9: out of his mind. He doesn't have Maybe he exercises 297 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 9: a little. It doesn't look like he's a massive bike rider, 298 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:25,400 Speaker 9: canoe or kayaker water sports. 299 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 11: Definitely doesn't look like he gets on the peloton. 300 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 10: At all, at least so much more time during the day. 301 00:15:29,320 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 9: And he says, I can probably do this it maybe 302 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 9: get out of the Patriots a bad situation. 303 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 10: We learned Urbanemeyer did it. 304 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 9: You UNC must have a great quarterback coming up in 305 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 9: the system, another Tom Brady, and so he said, this 306 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 9: is my time to shine U. N C is primed 307 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 9: right now because are they in the ACC Yeah, dog shit, 308 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:51,680 Speaker 9: they're losing cam Ward, Miami's terrible, Florida State's terrible, They 309 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 9: Clemson Kate Klubnick's probably gonna go to Broncos minor league team. 310 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,520 Speaker 9: So you got to think he's seeing you and see 311 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 9: they're gonna win it. Next year they're in the top 312 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 9: twelve team playoff the way it's format, and now you 313 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 9: can win a championship within one to two years and 314 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 9: the portal Billchick's champion. 315 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 11: I get the acc It seems simple like, but I 316 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 11: don't understand Bill Belichick going into an eighteen year old's 317 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 11: house and being. 318 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,479 Speaker 10: Like, hey man, you wanna go to North Carolina? 319 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:23,040 Speaker 11: Like, what the is he gonna say to an eighteen 320 00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 11: year old Eighteen year olds don't give a crap about 321 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:26,480 Speaker 11: Bill Belichick. 322 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 9: I'm not talking about it because he already said it 323 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 9: on Dot. You want to know what he said. What 324 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 9: said He's gonna treat it like a factory. So he 325 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 9: would then go into these kids' houses. A lot of me, 326 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 9: you don't go into their house now physically it's more 327 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 9: a virtual type thing. But he will then go into 328 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 9: some of the premier A List type guys. He's gonna 329 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 9: go in their living room and he's gonna say it's 330 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 9: a factory. I will get you into the NFL. I'm 331 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 9: gonna build you these four years to make you an 332 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 9: NFL prospect. What I can do is do that Norther coaching, 333 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 9: then college football can do that because none of them 334 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 9: have done it at an elite level as an NFL player, 335 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 9: coach and all that and won championships. He said, it 336 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:03,320 Speaker 9: will be a fact you n C copyrighted factory. 337 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 10: Hang up and listen. 338 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 11: I heard all that on him. He's seventy two years old. 339 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 11: There's the realistically two years, two years. There's no way 340 00:17:16,520 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 11: he's going to be coaching for that much longer. 341 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 9: Dude, what is it with everything? You got to do 342 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 9: it in moderation. No coach knows when to go out 343 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 9: at the right time. You never know when to leave 344 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 9: Vegas at the right time. 345 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 10: You do. 346 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, if you have some self control you get when 347 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 9: you get out of coaching. Tom Brady he's got the itch. 348 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 9: He's acting like he's gonna plead quarterback again. 349 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 11: Oh my god, he's he's got to quit announcing because 350 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 11: he's terrible at that. He's decent, but he doesn't put 351 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 11: in much work. 352 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:42,439 Speaker 10: Man. 353 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 11: There's no there's no way he's practicing midweek, like all right, 354 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 11: let me let me work on this. Like he's not 355 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 11: going over game tape. He is showing up on Sunday 356 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,800 Speaker 11: and just winging it. Because the dude is not polished 357 00:17:53,800 --> 00:17:56,800 Speaker 11: at all. He hasn't gotten any better. It just seems 358 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 11: like he does. He's getting paid three hundred and something 359 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 11: million dollars and he's like, what are they gonna do? 360 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 10: Fire me? Great point, great point. 361 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 9: I bet he watched a little bit of film the 362 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 9: night before a day of that's he's got five days off, five. 363 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 11: Days off, and he's just chilling, hanging out at the 364 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 11: beach or whatever he does. I don't even know what 365 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 11: he does in his spare time. It has to be 366 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 11: at the beach because he's very tan. 367 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 9: But dude, people are realizing nobody wants to just go 368 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 9: home and lay in bed. We weren't made to lay 369 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 9: in that position until we're in the coffin. Amen, Amen Belichick. 370 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 9: He's with the chicks banging or bagging her. Eh gets 371 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 9: a free time, man, why not do you NC? 372 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 10: I just can't figure it out. 373 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 9: Due he's on Pat mcavy every damn day or something. Shit, 374 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 9: He's all the time on there talking. He'll do a 375 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 9: secondent for forty five minutes. He ain't got nowhere to 376 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 9: be pour it out of his mind. Dude loves talking ball. 377 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 9: Why not talk ball for a team that you think 378 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 9: you can maybe make a difference with. 379 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 11: Now, I do understand he's gonna have the coaching edge 380 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:51,760 Speaker 11: over any coach he faces. 381 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 10: He's the better. He's a better coach than anyone he's 382 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 10: gonna face. 383 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 9: When's the best time to enter the twelve team playoff 384 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 9: this year? When's the second best yet time next year? 385 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,399 Speaker 9: That's what he's doing. It's a brand new system. Look 386 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:06,320 Speaker 9: all the teams that got in this year, Indiana. 387 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 10: Arizona State. He said, holy shit, I could win this 388 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:10,920 Speaker 10: thing first year. I mean, you get into twelve, you 389 00:19:10,960 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 10: got a chance. 390 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,440 Speaker 11: I My belief is he's doing this just to guarantee 391 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,160 Speaker 11: his son gets a head coaching job that he's gonna 392 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 11: when he retires, that they have to name him the 393 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:22,359 Speaker 11: head coach or whatever. He's the head coach in waiting. 394 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 11: And so he's like, you know what, I'm not gonna 395 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 11: go back to the NFL. But this is so much 396 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 11: more of a grind. You're seventy two years old. How 397 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 11: much energy can a seventy two. 398 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 10: Year old have? 399 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:34,680 Speaker 9: Well, and even more than that, you're talking about what's 400 00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 9: the other great one? 401 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 10: What's his name? 402 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 9: Nick saban Eh College game day morning. He kind of 403 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 9: slows it down a little bit it's kind of been unwatchable. 404 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 9: I'll watch clips and highlights and stuff. It just it 405 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 9: brings a well oiled machine to us. 406 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 10: Oh halt. 407 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 9: Saban says some good stuff, but it's like, dude, sometimes 408 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 9: that TV stuff's tough. 409 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 10: Belichick's great at it. I think Saban maybe gets back 410 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 10: into coaching and. 411 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:58,640 Speaker 11: Says, dude, there's no way Saban's going back. 412 00:19:59,000 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 10: It's like Or loves big newon Kickoff. 413 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 9: He was on there the other day and he got 414 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 9: They're saying like, hey, ten million, would you do a 415 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 9: coaching job or something for ten million? He goes getting 416 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 9: paid that here, why would I do that? So Urban 417 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 9: ain't going anywhere. He loves talking on TV bullshitting Saban. Dude, 418 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 9: he's more of a cut and dried guy. I mean, 419 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 9: Saban likes McAfee, but it's like, how many more times 420 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 9: can he laugh at McAfee's standing up making an ass 421 00:20:23,720 --> 00:20:27,160 Speaker 9: of himself. Saban maybe gets back into coaching. Belichick. He 422 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 9: loves his little hits that he does, but he's like, dude, 423 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 9: I kind of meant to just be a coach. 424 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 2: He loves to be a coach. 425 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,679 Speaker 10: He loves to be a coach. You realize it. 426 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 11: God, I just I can't figure it out. Man, Like, 427 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 11: does that mean no NFL team was showing any inkling 428 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 11: of interest? And so he's like, you know what, I'll 429 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,439 Speaker 11: go to you and see. 430 00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 9: Well, half the teams are gonna make the playoffs, the 431 00:20:47,440 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 9: other half aren't. Maybe he turned Maybe there's stuff that 432 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 9: happens we never hear about. Maybe he turns down. Who 433 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 9: says he do they have to announce that he goes 434 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 9: in interviews? What if he just went and chilled in 435 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 9: Arizona and kind of hung with the Cardinals for a 436 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,960 Speaker 9: little bit, Like I don't love this culture. 437 00:21:02,000 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 10: I'm out, man. Did we have a great culture at 438 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 10: the Patriot? 439 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:06,280 Speaker 11: There's no way, There's no way we would know, we 440 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 11: would know every move that Bill Belichick makes with. 441 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 12: Lloydan Uelsman, this is the Kansas Kids episode, and I 442 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 12: have got Nicole Gallion on here. Nicole and I have 443 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:38,360 Speaker 12: become friends in recent years, especially over our loved connection 444 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:39,200 Speaker 12: of Kansas. 445 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 2: Nicole, how are you wonderful? 446 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 13: Good to see you? 447 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:42,160 Speaker 4: Really? 448 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 12: The purpose of this episode is people who have moved 449 00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 12: away from their home state when it was kind of 450 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 12: unheard of and not something that a lot of people did, 451 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,639 Speaker 12: and chase their dreams. So before we get into that, though, like, 452 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 12: tell me kind of your origin story when you started 453 00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,560 Speaker 12: writing and wanting to chase the dream of music, and 454 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:01,160 Speaker 12: when you were first starting to think, Okay, I don't 455 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 12: think I can live here and do what I want 456 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:03,160 Speaker 12: to do. 457 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 13: So I went to this thing when I was in 458 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 13: junior high with my mom called at the time as 459 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 13: fan Fair, which to a cmafest. I'm sure all of 460 00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 13: your followers know what CMA Fest is, but back when 461 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 13: I was in middle school, my mom and I went 462 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 13: to CMA Fest like Fanfare, three or four years in 463 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 13: a row, and it was my first time on an 464 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 13: airplane to go anywhere. And so we came to Nashville 465 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:28,720 Speaker 13: and I just learned about this place called Belmont, and 466 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 13: I remember like just knowing like, oh, I have to 467 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 13: go there. 468 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:33,160 Speaker 2: I have to be there now. 469 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 13: Granted I had never been to like any other city, 470 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,400 Speaker 13: but it was totally like grand design that I came 471 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 13: to Nashville first and fell in love with it. So 472 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 13: I always at that time like I just knew that 473 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 13: I needed to be in Nashville. I didn't really know 474 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,359 Speaker 13: the why. I just was for sure that I needed 475 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:51,679 Speaker 13: to get here, and that is really the way it 476 00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 13: worked out. I got here, went to Belmont, and then 477 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 13: I learned about songwriting. It was so weird because I like, 478 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 13: I have a job that I didn't know existed when 479 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 13: I was growing up in Kansas. And I'm sure you're 480 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 13: in the same boat where you're like, I have a 481 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:07,960 Speaker 13: job that I didn't know I could have, you know, 482 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,000 Speaker 13: I mean, did you think you were gonna win a 483 00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:10,639 Speaker 13: CMA award? 484 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 12: You know it's like, oh, no social media, no working 485 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 12: in social media side of that. 486 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:17,239 Speaker 13: Yeah, no, yeah, a hundred percent. So I guess like 487 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 13: Nashville is the thing that like spoke to me more 488 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 13: than songwriting. And then I got here and met songwriters, 489 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 13: and I was like, I think I'm a songwriter because 490 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,640 Speaker 13: I was always a writer, Like wrote in every way 491 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 13: that I possibly could, you know, and whatever my hometown 492 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 13: had to offer me, like your book, or I wrote 493 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 13: for our small town newspapers in the summer, Like as 494 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,159 Speaker 13: a journalist, I would go to the city commission meetings 495 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 13: and like write the copy for the newspaper. I just 496 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 13: loved writing, very creative. So it makes sense now in hindsight. 497 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 13: By the time I didn't really know. 498 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:50,080 Speaker 12: The Kansas Kids episode continues, Logan Mize is joined with 499 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 12: me right now. Logan, you have been part of my 500 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 12: life as a friend, as an artist, as so many 501 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 12: different things. 502 00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 8: So it's really good to have you here. 503 00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 14: How are you good? 504 00:23:59,280 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 2: Thanks for having me. 505 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,919 Speaker 12: At what point for you when you were growing up 506 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 12: where you're like, Okay, I want to be an artist 507 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 12: and I'm going to move away from here. 508 00:24:08,440 --> 00:24:11,640 Speaker 14: Well, it wasn't that much of it, wasn't that clear 509 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 14: of a decision. I was just like I couldn't never 510 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 14: stick with anything, Like I was kind of a meandering idiot, honestly, 511 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 14: but I and I wasn't like a great singer by 512 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 14: any means that I had to like really work at that. 513 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 14: But I loved music. I loved songs, and you know, 514 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 14: I just a night out for me as a kid 515 00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:32,640 Speaker 14: was like begging my parents to take me to Witch 516 00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 14: Talk so we could go to Blockbuster Music. And I 517 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 14: don't know if you remember. 518 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 15: That, Yeah, Blockbuster music, Blockbuster Music. 519 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 14: I'm showing my age a little bit. 520 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 12: I know there's like Blockbuster for DVDs, but Blockbuster music. 521 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 14: There was a Blockbuster Music. See that's how much older 522 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 14: I am than new Okay, So thirty nine. Full disclosure. 523 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 8: That's only eight years. That's not that much. 524 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 14: Okay, well it must have closed down at some point. 525 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 1: It was it was amazing. 526 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 14: First of all, you would go and to this big 527 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 14: section and it was like the lighting was cool, and 528 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:08,200 Speaker 14: there was music posters everywhere, and there was rows and 529 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,400 Speaker 14: rows of CDs and you could go just you could 530 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 14: find anything. And so I would beg my parents to 531 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,119 Speaker 14: take me. We'd go on a Friday night. I'd spend 532 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 14: hours in there. And my parents like music too, so 533 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,359 Speaker 14: that was like what I loved, and I just I 534 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,199 Speaker 14: didn't know that I wanted to do music. I just 535 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,640 Speaker 14: that was where my heart was. But I couldn't stick 536 00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 14: with anything, you know, I couldn't stick with piano lessons. 537 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 14: You know, I dropped out of three different colleges. I 538 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,080 Speaker 14: just was a mess. And that was the one thing 539 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 14: that I always felt passionate enough about to where like 540 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 14: I can stick with that. 541 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 6: Carlone, she's a queen and talking, so she's getting really 542 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 6: not afraid to feel the episode, so just let it flow. 543 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 6: No one can do were quiet like carry line. 544 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 16: It's so with Caroline. 545 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 8: So your dad's a truck driver, he is, Yeah, he 546 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,120 Speaker 8: inspired your hats. 547 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:21,360 Speaker 2: Right, yeah. 548 00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,959 Speaker 16: He he was one of the reasons that I started 549 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 16: doing it, and Marcus as well. You know, Marcus is 550 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,680 Speaker 16: always wearing the feathers on his cowboy. 551 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 17: Hat, and we needed base like trucker hat, yeah, and we. 552 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 15: Needed to dress them up a little bit. 553 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 16: That's I always found myself like kind of looking for 554 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,520 Speaker 16: a trucker that was just a little elevated. 555 00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 15: Agreed, you know, yes, yes, because they there's. 556 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:50,360 Speaker 16: Just a lot of them everywhere and now, and they're 557 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 16: not always like the most meaningful things, and so I 558 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 16: just I liked to have something that was a little 559 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 16: bit nicer than like what I have on my head 560 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 16: right now. This is but then again, I do be 561 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 16: wearing this with like a damn ball gown. 562 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 17: So this is your hat. 563 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 16: This is no this is the guy that makes Marcus 564 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 16: his guitars. Banker Banker handcrafted. Yeah, that mister banker custom 565 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 16: on Instagram. But he just had a bunch of these, 566 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,639 Speaker 16: and I worked Everyone thinks I'm a banker, so we 567 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,879 Speaker 16: did work at a bank, right, So when I met 568 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 16: Marcus's family, they were like, you know, even like my mom, 569 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 16: just people from back home who haven't really like seen 570 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 16: these you know, the big towers in the city, like 571 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,879 Speaker 16: in Charlotte, where people work in Bank of America. If 572 00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,160 Speaker 16: you tell somebody I work at Bank of America, they're 573 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 16: thinking like a teller or something like that. And so 574 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 16: Marcus's family when we first met, they were like, oh, 575 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:47,680 Speaker 16: you know, Uncle Danny had a big amount of money 576 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 16: go missing out of his account the other day. Do 577 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 16: you think that you could, like, uh, you know, help 578 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,359 Speaker 16: him within that. And I'm like, I don't know how 579 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,560 Speaker 16: to tell you this, but I don't work at like 580 00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 16: a branch. I work from home, which is another foreign 581 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 16: thing that my mom couldn't wrap her head around, was 582 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 16: working from home a lot. But anyway, I I told 583 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 16: his family, I'm like, no, I'm in like I'm in 584 00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 16: like acquisitions. So we're like, you know, taking over a 585 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:21,639 Speaker 16: company and banquifying them. And yeah, I'm not sure that 586 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 16: I ever fully explained it to them, but hopefully Uncle 587 00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 16: Danny got his money back. 588 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 17: I didn't. 589 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 15: I was just like, I can't help in that department. 590 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 18: I don't. 591 00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 8: I don't do that. 592 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 16: I don't I don't touch the money, and thank God 593 00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,240 Speaker 16: for it, because I'm a gold digger, you know, a 594 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 16: gold digger. 595 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 17: So you would think because of that, actually, you doing 596 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 17: a banker hat would be fitting. 597 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 16: Yeah, I like it. 598 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 8: I mean the brand, Yeah, I love that. 599 00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 15: Yeah, this is one of the first ones that I was. 600 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 17: Th say, you're a gold digger just because you're married 601 00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 17: to Marcus. Was he already like rocking when y'all met? 602 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:49,560 Speaker 9: Yeah? 603 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah he really was. Tell me he slid my 604 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 15: DMS threw me a fire. 605 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:56,400 Speaker 17: How did he find you? 606 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,040 Speaker 15: I was I had gone to his concert. 607 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 16: It was my It was my birthday that week, and 608 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 16: so you know white girls under birthdays, they got to 609 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 16: have a week full of events and so at the 610 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 16: top of it, yeah, I think he was smack dab 611 00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:11,040 Speaker 16: in the center. 612 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 15: He might have even been on a Tuesday. O crunk 613 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 15: on a Tuesday. 614 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 17: Okay, so what year is this? How old were you? 615 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 15: This is where twenty twenty one. I turned thirty that year, So. 616 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 17: This was a big birthday week. 617 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:26,920 Speaker 8: M h and yeah, we're in Charlotte, Charlotte. 618 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 15: And then we met in Raleigh the next night. He 619 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 15: was like, can I take you to dinner? 620 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:31,680 Speaker 17: So how did he know you were at the show? 621 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:34,600 Speaker 15: I had posted a story. 622 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,640 Speaker 17: Oh and he saw himself taging it and he was like, man, 623 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 17: that girl's. 624 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 8: Cut and what did he say? 625 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 7: So what? 626 00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 15: He just sent me a fire emoji? 627 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 17: What is it like when you are at a show 628 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 17: watching someone who you like just love their music. 629 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 15: I wasn't even watching. 630 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 8: I wasn't you were just having a great time. 631 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 15: Yeah, how are you doing? 632 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 16: I was hitting my pen and I was laid back 633 00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 16: on the lawn because I was in like the very 634 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 16: very back of the lawn section. I was just watching 635 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,000 Speaker 16: the planes and things go. 636 00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 15: By and chatting with my friend, like, can you believe 637 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:05,600 Speaker 15: I'm thirty? 638 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 17: I you know, are you feeling good about thirty? 639 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 13: Yeah? 640 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:09,440 Speaker 8: Oh my good. 641 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:10,120 Speaker 15: Yes. 642 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 16: Any anytime I meet someone that's like, oh my god, thirty, 643 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 16: because you know, in the South, like you got to 644 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 16: be like married by twenty five or at least that's 645 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 16: that's how it is where I'm from. And uh, anytime 646 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 16: I meet someone that's like, oh, you know, I thought 647 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 16: I'd have my life together by thirty or that this 648 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 16: that that that, I'm like, it's it was the best. 649 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 16: Like I came into my own when I turned thirty. 650 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 16: Now I did meet my husband that week, but I'm 651 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 16: just like, yeah, how. 652 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,160 Speaker 17: Had you come into your own? I had change or shifted. 653 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 15: I had my dream job. 654 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 16: Hm, that was that was really you know where because 655 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 16: my mom was is in finance and you know, worked 656 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 16: for a long standing company like Bank of America. 657 00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 15: And so it's just a really good job I had. 658 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 16: Like I'll said, I loved in the cutest part of 659 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,440 Speaker 16: Charlotte Dealworth and I thought, you know this is I 660 00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 16: can die happy. I've got a little tether in the 661 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 16: backyard from my dog to run around the circles on 662 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 16: and uh two bed, one bath. 663 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,720 Speaker 15: Yeah, it was just everything everything I'd ever wanted. And 664 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,360 Speaker 15: then here comes mister King. 665 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 17: Were you ever thinking you'd be married to someone like 666 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 17: creative like that? Or would you would you have thought 667 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 17: you would have married someone like a banker? 668 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 7: You know? 669 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 16: The thing with me is is like I didn't ever 670 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,000 Speaker 16: have a type, so like all the men were very 671 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 16: very different and different. 672 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 15: Different career paths. Uh So I didn't really know what 673 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 15: to expect. 674 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 16: Honestly, I kind of accepted that it wasn't in the 675 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 16: cards for me anytime soon. 676 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 15: Like I was just like, I don't I don't need 677 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,600 Speaker 15: no man. I was making good money and I'm like, 678 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 15: I don't need anybody to come wreck shop. 679 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 16: You know I got a truth holding it down myself. Yeah, 680 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 16: but I'm happy that it happened the way it did. 681 00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 4: Hey, it's Mike d and this week all Movie Mike's 682 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 4: Movie Podcast, my wife Kelsey on and we broke down 683 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,719 Speaker 4: our best and worst movies that we've seen in theaters 684 00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 4: and streaming from the last thirty days, giving you recommendations 685 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 4: on waste to save time and money on movies we 686 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 4: think you should skip, and movies we. 687 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,080 Speaker 2: Think that you're going to absolutely love. 688 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 4: I'll play you a little bit of this episode now 689 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,320 Speaker 4: of us talking about our best movies, but be sure 690 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 4: to check out this full episode to hear all of 691 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 4: our picks. But right now, here's just a little bit 692 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 4: of Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. What was the best thing 693 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 4: we watched in your opinion? 694 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 18: As if you've enough to ask, the green lights behind 695 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:35,600 Speaker 18: my head didn't tell you it is wicked? 696 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 4: Is it a movie that you've been thinking about every 697 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:40,320 Speaker 4: day since? Because that is my sign of oh that 698 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 4: was a good movie. 699 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:45,080 Speaker 18: I think about it. I watched TikTok's about it. The 700 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:48,600 Speaker 18: soundtrack comes up on Spotify. I said that weird. Well, 701 00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 18: I was gonna say shuffle on Spotify. 702 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 2: Suffle, Spotify, and you got that internet radio on your phone. 703 00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 18: Popular has been coming on Gracy Abrams Radio, so I 704 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 18: have been listening Popular. 705 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 2: So is it the popular from the movie or the 706 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 2: popular from the musical? 707 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 8: The movie? 708 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 17: You know? 709 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 18: I think about holding space for the lyrics of define 710 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,120 Speaker 18: Gravity about once a day. I want to go see 711 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 18: it again. I tell other people to go see it. 712 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 18: I ask people if they've seen it. So, yeah, it 713 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 18: does consume a lot of my brain power. 714 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,520 Speaker 4: I did go back and I rewatched The Wizard of 715 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 4: Oz when last weekend without me. 716 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 2: I'll rewatch it again. I'll watch that movie every day. 717 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 2: I love it. That like Saturday morning, I just started it. 718 00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 8: That's so rude. 719 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 4: How is it rude watching a movie we've both seen. 720 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 4: It's not like I rewatched it, watch it and I'll 721 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 4: rewatch it again. We've both already seen it. It's not 722 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 4: like we were I started a show without you. 723 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 8: It's rude to rewatch a movie on Saturday morning when 724 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:43,520 Speaker 8: you know I sleep. 725 00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 4: I watched like two other movies in that time, so 726 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 4: I was like, okay, i'll watch this one now. It's 727 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,720 Speaker 4: surprisingly shorter than I remember. I mean, it's like an 728 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 4: hour and a half so it's a quick watch. But 729 00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:00,280 Speaker 4: I did some research on that because Warner Brothers owns 730 00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 4: the rights to Wizard of Oz and it's not public 731 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,880 Speaker 4: domain until twenty thirty five, so that leads me to 732 00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 4: believe that they are building up towards remaking the Wizard 733 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 4: of Oz because once it's public domain, it's free game 734 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:14,360 Speaker 4: for people to make it. I don't know if you 735 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,359 Speaker 4: can rebuy the rights to have it reset for another 736 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,759 Speaker 4: one hundred years. But who do you think should play 737 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 4: Dorothy in a remaking of the Wizard of Oz? I 738 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 4: started thinking about that, like who kind of fits? 739 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:26,800 Speaker 8: Advance warning about thinking about this shed put me on 740 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 8: the spot right now. 741 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 4: Okay, I feel like you would have somebody in mind 742 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 4: because you really don't have to be I mean, Judy 743 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 4: Garland could sing, but I almost feel at this point 744 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,440 Speaker 4: you don't have to be a singer you could have 745 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:40,560 Speaker 4: because I think that's kind of hard to find somebody 746 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,120 Speaker 4: at the level of like Brand Carpenter to Herbi Dorothy 747 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 4: dire hair Brown. I was thinking like a Daisy Ridley, like. 748 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 8: You're just gonna pick one of the Daisy's for everything 749 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:51,319 Speaker 8: right now? 750 00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 2: I just feel like you need somebody who already has 751 00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 2: like the hair. 752 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:57,319 Speaker 15: But I don't. 753 00:34:57,600 --> 00:35:00,720 Speaker 8: I don't see Daisy Bridley in a whims Cool musical. 754 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,080 Speaker 2: Maybe she's a little bit too old for that role. 755 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 18: Daisy Edgar Jones. I could, yeah, actually, because when she 756 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,839 Speaker 18: was doing the Twisters press tour, everyone's like, what's one 757 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 18: thing people don't know about you? And she's like, I'm 758 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 18: quite silly, and she's like in her mid twenties. I 759 00:35:13,080 --> 00:35:14,279 Speaker 18: can see Daisy Edgar Jones. 760 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: I'll go with my other Daisy, my backup busy. 761 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 8: Which we did rewatch Twisters on Things Giving Now we. 762 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,320 Speaker 2: Did, and we blew up the air mattress and rewatched 763 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:21,759 Speaker 2: that movie. 764 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:23,320 Speaker 8: Great, great experience. 765 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 18: Sometimes being an adults fun, Like just blow up the 766 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:27,759 Speaker 18: air mattress for me a cookie cake. 767 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's nobody who can tell you not to. 768 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 4: That was always something I wanted to do as a kid, 769 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 4: like blow up an air mattress or create like a 770 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,279 Speaker 4: pillow for it and watch movies with in. 771 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 1: I never did it. 772 00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:38,879 Speaker 2: Now I've done it. It's fun. 773 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 8: It's great. 774 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,040 Speaker 2: My best of the month for I wasn't done talking 775 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 2: about Wicked. Oh you got more. 776 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 18: I didn't even know who you didn't even let me 777 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 18: finish you sidetracked on the remaking of the Wizard of Us. 778 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 8: Okay, even if and I we did the review, I 779 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 8: forgot already. We did that after we saw it. 780 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,200 Speaker 18: Even if you're not a musical person a theater person, 781 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,839 Speaker 18: go see it. It's so well done. I know people 782 00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,400 Speaker 18: are like, this press tour they've done is wild, and 783 00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,839 Speaker 18: I do admit it is strange to watch them cry 784 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,880 Speaker 18: in every interview, but you know what, they're proud of 785 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 18: their work. It was an experience and I think they 786 00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:15,040 Speaker 18: both should be proud of it because they're both phenomenal 787 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 18: in it. And I think it's just so good. And 788 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 18: even if you're like, wow, two and a half hours, 789 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 18: it doesn't feel like it. I'm like another movie we're 790 00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 18: gonna talk about. So yeah, go see what I could. 791 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 4: Got my good now, yes, all right? For my best 792 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 4: of the month, I'm going with A Real Pain, which 793 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 4: was a story with Kieran Colkin. You said it right time, okay, 794 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 4: making sure and Jesse Eisenberg and I feel like that 795 00:36:36,320 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 4: movie really hit me on an emotional level that I 796 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,280 Speaker 4: wasn't quite expecting. 797 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 8: TikTok about that made me really sad. 798 00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 4: That I feel like Jesse Eisenberg's character in the movie Yeah, 799 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:46,879 Speaker 4: why to make you sad? 800 00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:48,720 Speaker 8: Because you looked sad while talking. 801 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,400 Speaker 2: I didn't realize how emotional I was. 802 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,520 Speaker 8: You looked so sad you came home and I was like, 803 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:53,479 Speaker 8: do you need a hug? 804 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 2: And I'm like why. 805 00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 4: See, sometimes when I do reviews, I just like I 806 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 4: have to go off raw emotion. That is how I 807 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 4: based a lot of my reviews. And that one we 808 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,040 Speaker 4: left the theater and I felt weird that something was 809 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 4: so oddly specific to me in a movie about just 810 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,360 Speaker 4: like my personality and stuff I've been like dealing with, 811 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 4: like my whole life. And I think when I sat 812 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,840 Speaker 4: down to record that review, I was like, this is 813 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 4: gonna kind of feel like a therapy session because it's 814 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,560 Speaker 4: stuff I've I mean, I've talked to you about that, 815 00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:27,360 Speaker 4: and maybe not in that explicit way, just because I 816 00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 4: just thought that was something that only I dealt with. 817 00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 4: But seeing somebody else go through that of just that 818 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 4: feeling of like wanting to be more outgoing, wanting to 819 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,840 Speaker 4: connect with people more, and I was like, man, this 820 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 4: movie just hit me and I didn't know how. I 821 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,320 Speaker 4: didn't really know what that movie was going to be 822 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:46,759 Speaker 4: about about their entire journey of like being close and 823 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,719 Speaker 4: then kind of being estranged, going back for a really 824 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 4: dark reason after their grandma died, and then you have 825 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,239 Speaker 4: all the other emotions mixed in with why they are 826 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,839 Speaker 4: there going to that concentration camp, and just like, man, 827 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 4: where's this movie going? But there's a also like some 828 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 4: fun moments in it, some really good bonding moments, and 829 00:38:05,560 --> 00:38:08,239 Speaker 4: I think it's characters, yeah, and it's yeah, like a 830 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 4: really unique just blend of people. And it doesn't feel 831 00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,719 Speaker 4: like a traditional movie in the sense that it's not 832 00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,360 Speaker 4: like a this happens, therefore, this happens, Therefore this happens. 833 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 4: Here's the rising act, here's the fault. It doesn't really 834 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 4: follow that. It just felt like a movie about life. 835 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:25,480 Speaker 4: And I enjoy those movies every now and then. It's 836 00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 4: a nice little slice of life that you go through 837 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 4: something from beginning to end. It's not so much that 838 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 4: you follow this character's journey and they accomplish something amazing. 839 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 4: It's just like you feel all these things. That was 840 00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,560 Speaker 4: my best What what did you rate Wicked Again? You 841 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 4: gave it a five out of five? I think so, 842 00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 4: I think you gave it a five out of five 843 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 4: when we did it, because I gave it a four 844 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 4: point five out of five because it was split into 845 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,640 Speaker 4: two for a real pain. I gave that one a 846 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,239 Speaker 4: four point five out of five, and so forth for 847 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:52,759 Speaker 4: the year, I have not given out a five out 848 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 4: of five. 849 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,840 Speaker 1: That's Sunday Sampler, New episodes out weekly of all those shows, 850 00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:07,280 Speaker 1: check out it's season two of In the Vets Office 851 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:08,320 Speaker 1: with Doctor Josie. 852 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:09,160 Speaker 10: I know you heard a clip of that. 853 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,160 Speaker 2: We go check that out. 854 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 1: The two shows that I'm really proud of right now 855 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,399 Speaker 1: are in the Vets Office with Doctor Josie, and take 856 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,520 Speaker 1: this personally with Morgan Hulesman, who is also Morgan number 857 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,600 Speaker 1: two on our show. 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