1 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:12,280 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex Peak and it's 2 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: your girl draining the call and you are tuned in to. 3 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 2: Another episode of Wine Them Wednesday. Now, I feel like 4 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 2: I'll just talk to y'all ass but right, we just 5 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: need the moest episode on with Sunday. 6 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: That was Monday. I think I thought it was Sunday. 7 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: It was when you Yeah, either way, it was a 8 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: few days ago. 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: Like, but you know, we can't get enough of y'all. 10 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: Like we love y'all, y'all. Let me tell and let 11 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 1: me say this. 12 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 2: I know I say this in the front of every episode, 13 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 2: but honestly, y'all be sending me dms and just telling 14 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 2: me how. 15 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 1: Much y'all support us and how much y'all love us. 16 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 2: And when I tell y'all, I'll be having a bad 17 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 2: day sometimes and that just be meaning the world to me. 18 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: No, yeah, me too. 19 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. Y'all definitely be keeping 20 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 2: me in good spirits. 21 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: Sometimes are putting me in a bitter move right because y'all. 22 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: I know, yeah, because I know y'all see me kind 23 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 2: of going off on my little story today. I can 24 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:09,679 Speaker 2: hear everybody's seeing that, So I'm not going to get 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 2: into it. But like I said, if you are ever 26 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: listening to the show and you're not a fan of 27 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: me or you're not a fan of Drea and you're 28 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 2: just listening to Nick pick at, the things we say 29 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 2: are the experiences that we go through. At the end 30 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 2: of the day, this is our platform, right, We created 31 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 2: this by ourselves. So if we want to get on 32 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 2: here and talk about things that we've been through in 33 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 2: our lives, we can do that. We can do that 34 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 2: because this is my platform to relate to women, to 35 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 2: speak to men, and just to We're not here to 36 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 2: bash anybody. We're never trying to bash anybody, and I 37 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 2: think that's the main thing that you know, we try 38 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: to always make a point that we don't do, which 39 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: is the main reason why we don't say names. Right, 40 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 2: It's like we're not trying to bash anybody. We're not 41 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 2: trying to get attention or no to arriety Cloud. 42 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. 43 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 2: Me and Dred we, like we talked about on the 44 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 2: bonus episode, we've obviously dated. 45 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: Minute in the industry. 46 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 2: If we wanted to get clout or you know, get 47 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 2: an opportunity off a man's name off of a celebrity 48 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: or somebody we conna have been done that. I tell 49 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: this to Drea all the time. I never want to 50 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 2: be known as, oh, such and such as ex girlfriends, 51 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:19,359 Speaker 2: such and such as girlfriend. So I'm making a point 52 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,920 Speaker 2: to keep the men that I date to myself because 53 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 2: just and I'm just private, right. And it's the same 54 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 2: thing because as soon as you let it out who 55 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 2: you're dating, everybody gonna have something to say. 56 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: Everybody's gonna have an opinion. 57 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: And also, I have my own career that I'm trying 58 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: to get off the ground right now, so I. 59 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: Shadow right. 60 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 2: So if anybody out there feels like I'm a cloud chaser, 61 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,959 Speaker 2: I'm an opportunist. I'm very sorry you feel that way. 62 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: But guess what, lex P is always going to be 63 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: known for being lex P? Can I get an amen? 64 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 2: Can I get an amen? 65 00:02:54,960 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So now that we got that ship out the way, let's. 66 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 2: Go into this topic because you know what, me and 67 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 2: Drea actually debated about this the other day, but I 68 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 2: kind of like we I was like, let's cut the 69 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:07,959 Speaker 2: convots because we're gonna talk about this on the show, 70 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: because you know, you know how that shit go right, 71 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about as a woman, do 72 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:17,919 Speaker 2: you feel like if you fine enough, are bad enough? 73 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: If shit not working out. 74 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 2: For you career wise, do you feel like your looks 75 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 2: can save you? Do you feel like, if you know, 76 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: like say you're trying to be a lawyer and you 77 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 2: can't pass the bar and you thirty and you're just 78 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,960 Speaker 2: kind of over it, you just gonna get saved? Do 79 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 2: you think your looks can save you? Make it snappy. 80 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: That's a tricky question though to me, because I do 81 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: feel like lukes help you out a lot, and that's 82 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: pretty privilege is real. We talked about that. 83 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 2: Before, right, But at the same time, just because you 84 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 2: fine don't mean a nigga don't want to save you. 85 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: Right. That's why it's a lot of holes who we 86 00:03:57,080 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: fine and broken homelyse and she because just because vine 87 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: it doesn't mean to mean it's gonna want to save you. 88 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 2: To me, is more about a mental thing, Like it's 89 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 2: more like that nigga haves to like really fuck with 90 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: you to want to. I mean, you can't get saved, 91 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 2: but I feel like a nigga gotta fuck with you 92 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: to want Ain't no nigga about to just save you 93 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 2: because you're a pretty bitch and you got a fat ass. 94 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: But I mean, I will say this, there are a 95 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 2: lot of women out there who are pretty and win 96 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 2: a fat ass and they don't have no mental but 97 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 2: they called a nigga slipping and necessarily the nigga's. 98 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: Not taking care of them. 99 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: But they got a baby and they're getting a check 100 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 2: every month, right, but that's still being saved. Yeah, But 101 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: I don't feel but I feel like we can't talk 102 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 2: about that because you don't know the relationship that that 103 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 2: that those two people have with one another. 104 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe you might think they don't have no. 105 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 2: Mental, but you don't know if they viob with each 106 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 2: other and what she do for him mentally. I mean, 107 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 2: I guess we could say that from the outside looking in, 108 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 2: like oh, certain, well I'm talking about I'm talking about 109 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:56,239 Speaker 2: like like if you take for example, like even though 110 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 2: his kid is older right now, right his baby mama, 111 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 2: they don't get along. But yeah, we can even use 112 00:05:04,080 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: her first, both of them. 113 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about both of them. Is the first 114 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: baby mama bad. 115 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 2: I don't know, I've never seen her before, but either way, 116 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 2: it's like she got him for eighteen years. We don't 117 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: know how much money she got, but she she was 118 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: you know, whenever he popped out, she was doing she 119 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:21,720 Speaker 2: was living pretty well. 120 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: They weren't dating. I don't know their situation this. 121 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 2: We're talking about his first baby mama, right right, But 122 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 2: he was dating his second baby mama too. But that's 123 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 2: what I was about to say. I think he was 124 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 2: dating his first baby mama. So if you're dating someone 125 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 2: that y'all are in a mutual relationship, I wouldn't say 126 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 2: that you got saved. 127 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: Y'all was in a relationship. 128 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, but that's still being saved because a 129 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 2: lot of times girls be fucking with niggas and they 130 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 2: don't get in a relationship. How do we know what 131 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 2: she had going on before to say that she got saved? 132 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: Who that? Since my second one? 133 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 2: The first one and the sick But that's what I'm saying. 134 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 2: But I'll say this. They weren't making more money than 135 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: fifty cent was. 136 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 1: That's fine. 137 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 2: But just because you're not making more money than somebody, 138 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 2: that don't mean you gotta get everybody. To me, the 139 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 2: term getting saved these for beaches who literally don't have 140 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: ship like a bitch you was couch hopping, who wouldn't 141 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 2: do it? And then she got with him in her 142 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,239 Speaker 2: whole life elevated completely. 143 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: To me, right now, I got my own crib, I 144 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 1: got my own car. I make my own money. But bitch, 145 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. 146 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 2: For a nigga that's a millionaire, come to me right now. 147 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: It's like, I don't want you to work. 148 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 1: Nigga, you saving me. Hell, I ain't gotta work, I 149 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: ain't gotta pay no bills. You're saving me. 150 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: It ain't no bum bum helping you, like, especially if 151 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 2: you're in a relationship with somebody. 152 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: To me, you're not getting saved like that saving you. 153 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 1: It's the same thing it is. I don't agree. 154 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 2: I mean, shit, that's saving you. It's like a nigga like, man, baby, 155 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: I'm about to take care of you all your wildest dreams. 156 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: I'm about to fun that ship. That's saving you. Right. 157 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 2: But I guess, going back to what I was saying 158 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 2: about how I feel about it, I feel like when 159 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: niggas do. 160 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 1: I guess quote unquote saving bitches. 161 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's initially probably because she was attractive, because that's 162 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 2: what makes a man want to fuck with you. But 163 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 2: if a man decide he want to save you. He 164 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 2: ain't just saving you because. 165 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: You look good, because you look good, right, So how 166 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: do you feel about it? I feel like, can your 167 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 1: look save you? No? Yah? I feel like I agree 168 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: with you, that's why. 169 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: But I feel like this is this is my this 170 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 2: is my look on it. I feel like so many 171 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 2: women feel like their looks can save them, so they 172 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 2: feel like, Oh, I'm just a bad bitch and I'm 173 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: gonna just keep sucking with these niggas. But guess what, 174 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: I say this all time. A new bitch turned eighteen 175 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:38,720 Speaker 2: every day. So once you hit like thirty five, you 176 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 2: can still be beautiful and you. 177 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: Can still have you know, everything tight and right. 178 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,280 Speaker 2: But why would he fuck with a thirty five year 179 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 2: old who's gonna need this and this and this and 180 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 2: know what she want and you can't manipulate her mind 181 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 2: when there's an eighteen year old who's gonna be young 182 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 2: and dumb and full of tom Right, It's like, so 183 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 2: I feel like your looks cannot save you because at 184 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: the end of the day, I see so many women 185 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 2: that are older that are still in these clubs chasing 186 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:07,880 Speaker 2: these men, and it's sad. It's really really really is 187 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 2: sad to be honest, and like I, like I said, 188 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 2: I agree with you. I definitely don't think that looks 189 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 2: can save you. I feel like they could put you 190 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 2: in search, they can put you right. But at the 191 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,280 Speaker 2: same time, if a nigga so up, say a nigga 192 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 2: want to fuck with you and he thinks you bad 193 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 2: and he trying to get you, so he's spending all 194 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: this money on you. But then say, after like the 195 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 2: first month or so, you know what I mean, he 196 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 2: done did a lot for you. 197 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: You don't win ahead and let him fuck. 198 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 2: Well, you don't let him fuck and he don't vibe 199 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: with you, so he about to be going. So you 200 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: got some shit from the situation, but now he about 201 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 2: to be gone because he didn't really fuck with you. 202 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,559 Speaker 1: Like and I'll say this, I also blame a lot of. 203 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: This on Instagram because I like a lot of these 204 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: girls be looking good and they be capping. 205 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: They want to show you this, show you that, but 206 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:53,880 Speaker 1: they don't show you that they've. 207 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 2: Been evicted three four times. They don't show you that 208 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 2: they they don't have a car. They sharing a car, right. 209 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 2: They don't show you that they got a room in 210 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 2: a one bedroom apart, right. 211 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: Like they do. 212 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 2: So it's like, and I actually got a message from 213 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 2: somebody yesterday. 214 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, I'm sixteen years old. 215 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 2: I listened to the show, so we do have all 216 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 2: what you doing listening to this show? And you said, 217 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 2: I want to tell your mama, That's what I said. 218 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 2: So honestly, we do have a lot of young women 219 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 2: listening to the show. So I know, me Andrea always 220 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 2: talk about, you know, talking to a man that's worth 221 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 2: your time, making sure he's doing a certain amount of 222 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 2: things for you. But let me say this, I put 223 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 2: so much emphasis on focusing on your goals and doing 224 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 2: you because at the end of the day, I got 225 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 2: shit I want to do right. And to this point 226 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 2: in my life, niggas have proven to me like, oh yeah, 227 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 2: they'll chump me some money, they'll do this for me, 228 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 2: they'll do that. But I have one nigga be like, 229 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 2: you know what, Lex, let me do this for you. 230 00:09:47,679 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 2: Let me make this shit popping for you. I gotta 231 00:09:49,840 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: do that for myself, right, you know what I'm saying. 232 00:09:51,880 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: So it's like, if I knew when I was sixteen 233 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 2: what I know now, bitch, I'll be a millionaire by 234 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: now me too. So it's like I just want to 235 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 2: make sure that all the young ladies know that, Yeah, 236 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 2: get you a man that's gonna show you, because I'm 237 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 2: not gonna lie, bitch. When I was eighteen, nineteen twenty, 238 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 2: all those ages, I was traveling, turning up, having a 239 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 2: good time on these niggas paths. 240 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: I was fucking with the local drugs, That's what I'm saying. 241 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 2: That's what you'd me riding around in the hood, but 242 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,439 Speaker 2: I was living my beds life. Yeah, like you supposed 243 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 2: to do that. You're to have fun, but you're never 244 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:25,840 Speaker 2: to be like, oh well, let me just be end 245 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:27,920 Speaker 2: on these niggas. Let me be his wife. I'm gonna 246 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 2: be his girlfriend and he's gonna be rich, and I'm 247 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 2: gonna be right there. No, no, no, baby, I mean, 248 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:33,600 Speaker 2: because you never want to be in a position where 249 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,839 Speaker 2: if something happens in him the line happened to, well 250 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 2: something's happened to Yeah that nigga, what fuck you gonna do? 251 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 2: What you're gonna do, what you're gonna gonna do, Like, 252 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: you're not gonna have a choice but to like, hopefully 253 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 2: if you go to jail or something, hopefully he'll leave 254 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 2: you something. Hopefully you be you end up being married 255 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: to him, so if he passed away, you get the insurance. 256 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 2: But but I mean if he got but most of 257 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 2: the time niggas don't be having insurance. But also, what 258 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 2: I was gonna say too is, like I said, you know, 259 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: it's not nothing wrong with wanting to fuck with a 260 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 2: man who has money and wanting a fuck with a 261 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 2: man who's gonna do shit for you. Y'all know, we 262 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 2: are advocates. We always talk about this. Yes, we ever 263 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 2: spoke to women for being about that life. But at 264 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,320 Speaker 2: the end of the day, it's kind of like it's 265 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 2: the difference between, like I was saying earlier, being in 266 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 2: a situation where maybe you're in a relationship with a 267 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 2: man or you're dating him, and y'all end up talking 268 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,359 Speaker 2: about kids and y'all end up having a baby versus trying. 269 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 1: To like trap everybody. 270 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: We had a difference between you end up being in 271 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 2: a situation and it have things and then being conniving 272 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 2: and trying. 273 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: Because I feel like, at the day, I think y'all 274 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:38,439 Speaker 1: don't be that. 275 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 2: Girl because like, let me let y'all know something me 276 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,320 Speaker 2: and drown joke on Twitter all day we joke on wind. 277 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: Down Wednesday all day. But let me tell y'all something, 278 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 1: at the end. 279 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 2: Of the day, our bills are paid whether a man 280 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 2: is in the picture or not. So don't ever get 281 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 2: it twisted. That's why, Like, you know, cause the girl 282 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:56,959 Speaker 2: was asking me, oh, do you think that I should 283 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,720 Speaker 2: talk to a god for his potential or talk to 284 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 2: him for what he is? 285 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: Right now? 286 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 2: I said, well, first of all, you're dating, and my 287 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 2: dating is different. I'm damned there, thirty, I'm not dating 288 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 2: no dude for his potential, but you're sixteen. 289 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: You are just looking like you potentially a bum, right 290 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 1: exactly so. And then I date older men. 291 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: So if you're forty and he's not doing that, you're 292 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 2: a bumb But she's sixteen. So if you're dating another 293 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 2: sixteen year old, how. 294 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 1: Many millionaire in a twenty years or even a. 295 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna say twenty because she's sixteen or twenty, 296 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 2: that's a little. 297 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 1: For I'll say, like, oh, mad you were, that's a man. 298 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: I'm not hold on, I'm not an advocate for that. 299 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 2: Hold on or Kalicia, But if you decide to do it, 300 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 2: just don't tell your mama you heard to do. No, 301 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 2: we are not advocating no sixteen and those twenty year 302 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 2: old and let's say put the one play. Wait, min Jo, 303 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 2: you're not talking about what Lex did when she was sixteen. 304 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 2: So what I'm saying is, when you're sixteen and you're dating, 305 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 2: you're not gonna find another sixteen or eighteen year old 306 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:58,640 Speaker 2: or even in Drea's terms, a twenty year old. 307 00:12:59,040 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I didn't even mean it like that. 308 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 2: But you're not gonna find somebody who's reached their maximum 309 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 2: potential at twenty. Right, it's just not ideal. So, you know, 310 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 2: for the young ladies listening, have fun with dating. 311 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:15,160 Speaker 1: Don't be out here, you know, Oh I gotta catch 312 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 1: me one. I gotta catch girl. 313 00:13:16,360 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 2: Focus on your business, focus on your job, your career, 314 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:20,880 Speaker 2: whatever you're trying to do. 315 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: You got plenty of time to catch you girl. 316 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 3: Time. 317 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: Don't be out good just you know. Yeah. But like 318 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 1: Lenke said, if I knew what I know now, I'd 319 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,439 Speaker 1: probably be a millionaire because when I was sixteen, I 320 00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: would have been telling a bagg what a bag ag 321 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: love nigga exactly. So let us know what y'all think. 322 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: Do y'all feel like your looks can save you? 323 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 2: Or And how do y'all also feel about women nowadays? 324 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:53,319 Speaker 2: Do y'all feel like women are more focused on catching 325 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 2: a nigga or getting to their bag? 326 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 1: Catch? 327 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 2: But I will say, you know, they do say like 328 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 2: it's the high. It's like CEOs of people that start 329 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 2: a business right now are black women. I ain't even 330 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 2: trying to be funny, but have you hose that be 331 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 2: out here with that being y'all game plan y'all at 332 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 2: even Oh. 333 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: I just rude, that's not rude. 334 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh you wasn't with me the other 335 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 2: day when I went to eat with my two friends, 336 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 2: shout out to Marlene and Lynn. 337 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:21,480 Speaker 1: But yeah, like we was having. 338 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 2: A conversation about one of Marlene's friends, you know who 339 00:14:25,520 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 2: the girl, And it's just. 340 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: Like we was just all mutually agreeing. They're like you 341 00:14:30,040 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: not even how you gonna be. 342 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 2: But I'm not wiring and chasing after their life when 343 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 2: you can't even pulling on it. That's not true because 344 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 2: you see a lot of girls living very well. They 345 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: don't look that good, but they got the gift of gap, 346 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 2: They got the gift of finesse. 347 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: Some women know how to finess. 348 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 2: I don't seen a lot of girls that be draped up, 349 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 2: drifted out, know what I'm talking about, And they don't 350 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 2: necessarily be quote unquote bad bitches like you said, it's 351 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 2: about mental All I'm saying is, okay, and I know 352 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: bitches who they ain't baby She's on the outside and 353 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 2: they ain't baby she's on the inside. 354 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: God, but that is the type of life they want to live. 355 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,280 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is stay your lame. 356 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 2: Say some people be chasing after she they just ain't 357 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 2: meant for them. And if you, I'm a firm believer 358 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,640 Speaker 2: that if you have to chase things, it ain't for you. Well, 359 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 2: speaking of chasing things, let's get on to the next topic. 360 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: What's the next topic about it? Let me look at 361 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: the paper. Okay, so you know this one is kind 362 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:46,320 Speaker 1: of I haven't really ate today this. How much was this? Don't? 363 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 1: It don't matter. 364 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 2: I just know I'll blow a bag please, That's why 365 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 2: we get it fucked up so quick. But anyways, so 366 00:15:56,360 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: you know tomorrow is Valentine Times, Happy, Happy Valentine's, Happy Valentine's. 367 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 1: I'm dead, okay, so keep going. My beat box was 368 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: weak as fu. 369 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 2: So we want to talk about why don't you have 370 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 2: a Valentine So, honestly, I'm being I'm about to answer it. 371 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: I feel tagged. 372 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 2: I'm not attacking you, but I'm asking. I was actually asking, 373 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 2: the lead was asking me. Honestly, I'm asking y'all why 374 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,040 Speaker 2: y'all don't have a Valentine's Day. So at the beginning 375 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 2: of this segment, I want you all to start typing 376 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,120 Speaker 2: up to my DMS and me andres dms and then 377 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 2: our mentions why you don't have a Valentine Day, because 378 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 2: I honestly want to know why you don't have a 379 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day. Day you want to no, yeah, I'm no, 380 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 2: you go first. I'll definitely go first. Let me tell 381 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 2: y'all something. I had a conversation with this guy. Though 382 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 2: he's very well off, he's an athlete like I kind 383 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 2: of I like him, he likes me, but we're just 384 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 2: not in the same space mentally right now. And we 385 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 2: know he cool, amazing guy and we One thing I 386 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 2: do respect by him is he always keep it. 387 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,960 Speaker 1: One hunting with me as I do him. Okay, So 388 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:08,120 Speaker 1: me and him were having a. 389 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 2: Conversation the other day and it really he was coming 390 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 2: from a man's perspective, and it really made sense to me. 391 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 2: He was like, honestly, okay, y'all know me. I don't 392 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:20,080 Speaker 2: put my resume out there. I don't, but I was 393 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 2: letting him know my resume, what I bring to the 394 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 2: table as a woman and everything. I just laid it 395 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 2: down for him. He was like, that makes fucking sense. 396 00:17:28,920 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 2: He was like, this is why you're no. He was like, 397 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 2: I get it now. He was like, niggas cannot have 398 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 2: step when it comes to you. And he taught me 399 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 2: straight up like I would love to be your man. 400 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 2: I would love for you to have my kids. Were like, 401 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,439 Speaker 2: I'm trying to have step right now because you know 402 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 2: he's only like twenty nine, he's young. He ain't really young. Yeah, 403 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 2: he was like, man like, that's why I say. 404 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: He keep it real with me. 405 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 2: He was like, man like, honestly, you a nigga cannot 406 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 2: have step and I'm not. 407 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: I'm not took my own horn. Y'all know, I'm not 408 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 1: a person. No, but I'm not. But I'm being honest. 409 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 2: I feel like and then, as me getting older, I'm 410 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 2: realizing my worth more and more, especially with me experiencing 411 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:10,240 Speaker 2: the relationships I've experienced, you know, meeting new friends. 412 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 1: Getting outside, you know, and just me getting more. 413 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 2: I will even say, no, I'm on social media and 414 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 2: with the podcast, I feel like people know my personality 415 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: on social media. That's what's saying, y'all. Know what I'm 416 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 2: trying to say is I'm I'm no, y'all, no, no, 417 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:31,440 Speaker 2: I'm myself on Wine Down Wednesday, I'm myself. I'm giving 418 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 2: y'all my honest to god personality and y'all love it, 419 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 2: and that makes me feel good. So I know that 420 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:38,959 Speaker 2: I'm not a bad person. I don't have ill well, 421 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 2: I don't have. 422 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:42,159 Speaker 1: So it's just like, you know what. 423 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 2: That's why I feel like I don't have a Valentine's 424 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 2: Day because Nigga's not ready to step it up and 425 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 2: give lex P what the fuck she needs. Because let 426 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 2: me tell you something, I'm a damn good lover. I'm 427 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:52,560 Speaker 2: a damn good girlfriend, and. 428 00:18:52,480 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: I'm a mother fucking damn good woman. You better be 429 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: telling that shit to me like you like I'm interviewing 430 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: to the day. Motherfucker right. No, But I'm just being honest. 431 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:03,199 Speaker 1: You know. 432 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,640 Speaker 2: That's one thing I can say. I'm always confident behind 433 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 2: like I'm a good ass girlfriend. I know how to 434 00:19:07,920 --> 00:19:10,160 Speaker 2: treat a man, and you know what, these niggas don't 435 00:19:10,160 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 2: be ready for that. So it is't my thought. I 436 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:13,959 Speaker 2: don't have a Valentine's Day, No, because I'm not lowering 437 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,080 Speaker 2: my standards just so i can get some salmon and 438 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:20,120 Speaker 2: mashed potatoes and a funky ass road Ooh yeah, I'm 439 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 2: bitter though. 440 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:26,840 Speaker 1: That was a little potato. 441 00:19:28,240 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: Okay, So why don't you have a Valentine Ironically, now 442 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 2: that you said that, after you just said how you 443 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 2: feel why you don't have a Valentine's I feel the same. 444 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 1: You can't take mine. I didn't take it. 445 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:46,440 Speaker 2: I'm agreeing, which we hardly ever do so, but yeah, 446 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 2: so it's like I feel you. I feel the exact 447 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 2: same way, because I'm not gonna lie. I could have 448 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 2: had a Valentine's Day right now, even right now, I 449 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 2: can get me one tonight, same if I really really 450 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 2: want to have none. But I just feel like niggas 451 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 2: ain't ready for how I'm coming. They're not ready for 452 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: the realness queens. They're not ready for that. They not 453 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 2: ready to give me what I want. They're not ready 454 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 2: for that real ready, that real juicy pussy, that real personality, 455 00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 2: that real mouth, that real hair, that real head. 456 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: They're not ready. 457 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 2: They're not ready. These niggas ain't ready. They not ready 458 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:24,440 Speaker 2: for how we come. I swear I'm. 459 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: Tired of this. I'm set. I'm set, dog. 460 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 2: Say homie, be clears, not ready for the wind. 461 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: Up facts, shut out to call because I always. 462 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,199 Speaker 2: Tell the first of all, you niggas got us fucked up, 463 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 2: like and it's not being on. I'm not difficult, drano, 464 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 2: and we can admit this. You're more difficult than I. 465 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:48,639 Speaker 2: But that's all. 466 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,280 Speaker 1: I about to drink my wine when you said that, 467 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:53,400 Speaker 1: I was over here like yeah, I feel okay, yeah, 468 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 1: because I am. 469 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, niggas. All you have to 470 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 2: do is make me have love, love me. I'm very easy, 471 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:03,200 Speaker 2: take me out. 472 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: I like to get dressed up because I like to 473 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:06,960 Speaker 1: walk in, be in a bad bitch with my nigga 474 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 1: on my arm. I like to do things and I'm 475 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 1: simple as fun. You got to do is love me 476 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:20,720 Speaker 1: too and give me money and take me right right. 477 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 1: So I feel like get my hair done. I'm dead. 478 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 2: Sorry, y'all, Oh sorry, y'all. It's okay, it's gonna stop it, okay. 479 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 2: So Anyways, Yeah, let us know whyle y'all don't have 480 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 2: a Valentine. I would love to know why y'all don't 481 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 2: have a Valentine's Day. But like I said, queens, don't 482 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 2: feel like you any listing because you don't have no 483 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day. They fuck these niggas. These niggas, ain't she 484 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 2: and you gonna get you one next year? 485 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: Facts, facts, queens. So we're not even gonna worry about that, 486 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 1: like I said, honestly, but me and leg shall Valentine. 487 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:55,360 Speaker 1: And this is a when it's girls, it's called Gallentine's Day, 488 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: like my gal pounds. So is that what lesbian's be doing? 489 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 2: No, because their lover, So it's still Valentine, but it's 490 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,120 Speaker 2: your friend, it's Gallentine. 491 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: I'll see you my gal lean time. Yeah, Galline, but 492 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: thing you my Gale. So it's like gay No. 493 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:12,880 Speaker 2: So let me just also say, this is the first 494 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 2: time I haven't had a Valentine and a few years 495 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,359 Speaker 2: it's been about I've had a Valentine for like the 496 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:19,560 Speaker 2: past five or six years. 497 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: I can honestly say I had. 498 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 2: A Valentine for the past two years. Yeah, so this 499 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 2: is gonna be a pretty lonely day tomorrow. So anyways, yeah, 500 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 2: let us know why y'all don't have a Valentine ladies, 501 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 2: if y'all feel like y'all reasons are similar to me, Andreas, 502 00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:34,360 Speaker 2: let us know. And like I said, we don't put 503 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 2: our resumes out there, so I'm not gonna put my 504 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:37,120 Speaker 2: resume out there. 505 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 1: But if there's any man. 506 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 2: That feels like he's up to the to the job, 507 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 2: to the duty, let's please that booty bitch. 508 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: Let's get into the bed. This is not the beg 509 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: yes it is. Oh, yes, it is. Oh going to 510 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 1: the bed. Okay, so. 511 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 2: We'll be We're gonna get in to the band. So 512 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 2: you know, me and Drea we talk about this kind 513 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 2: of a lot. We're gonna talk about sex addicts and 514 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 2: being addicted to We talking about lot no, but we 515 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 2: talk about fucking, and we talk about how like I 516 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: like and you'd be like, I don't really like to 517 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 2: have sex like you like having six Oh I love, yeah. 518 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:25,879 Speaker 3: But not like that. 519 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 2: But I don't really want to tell y'all how I 520 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 2: really feel about it, because this is gonna make me, 521 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 2: it's gonna put me in the negative. 522 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 3: No, it's not. 523 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,359 Speaker 2: We can talk about it on the bonus. Okay, we 524 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 2: will talk about that, all right. So I wouldn't basically 525 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 2: talk about sex addicts because I was actually talking to 526 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 2: one of my homegirls earlier today and she was like saying, 527 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,200 Speaker 2: how her boyfriend, she's in a relationship, they've been together 528 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 2: for a long time. 529 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 1: Not putting you on blast, Homegirl'm not gonna say your names. 530 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 2: So she was basically talking about her and her boyfriend 531 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,239 Speaker 2: been together for like five six years, like they've been 532 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 2: together for a minute. But she was like, he always 533 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:59,399 Speaker 2: wants to have sex, And she was like, on one side, 534 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 2: I'm glad that means you're not having sex with somebody else. 535 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,080 Speaker 1: But on the other side, like I do not want 536 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:07,119 Speaker 1: to have sex. Like it good. I didn't ask all that, 537 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: but my potentially no. 538 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 2: I feel like, but sometimes you just don't be going 539 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 2: to fuck, And I get it, you know, sometimes like 540 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 2: me are always ready. I agree with that as well. 541 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 2: But I will say too, that's the difference between me 542 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:23,439 Speaker 2: and you, Like you just like. 543 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: To FuG facts facts all the time, always ready right 544 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: already me. 545 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 2: It depends on Sometimes it depends on the person, like 546 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 2: if I'm having sex, like I'm if I have a 547 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,359 Speaker 2: sexual partner that I really really enjoy having six weeks 548 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:39,239 Speaker 2: and it be like, Okay, you want to fuck all 549 00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 2: the time, but I'm with it, right, But if your 550 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 2: sex is like kind of mediocre, yeah. 551 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: It's just kind of like, I don't know, I don't 552 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: want to fuck you all the time. 553 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,639 Speaker 2: And then also too, like I said, we're gonna talk 554 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 2: about these another bonus episode. 555 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,520 Speaker 1: But I have a whole other set of views of 556 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: why I just don't always just say it. You don't 557 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,359 Speaker 1: have to get into it, but just say it. I 558 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: just feel like. 559 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 2: I like having sex, but how much I want to 560 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 2: have sex with my nigga sometimes just depend on like 561 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 2: what our situation is, as. 562 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:14,199 Speaker 3: Far as as far as everything like if y'all are 563 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:17,280 Speaker 3: boyfriend girlfriends, as far as us being boyfriend and girlfriend, 564 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,879 Speaker 3: as far as you making sure you handle your responsibilities 565 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 3: as a man when it comes to dating. 566 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 2: Me, as far as you just really missy as I'm 567 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 2: just saying, so, you mean like, is he taking care 568 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 2: of home? 569 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:30,960 Speaker 1: Is he making sure that you're straight? 570 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:32,280 Speaker 4: Right? 571 00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 1: That has has a lot to do with it for you, 572 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 1: Because I'm not gonna lie. 573 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 2: That's what kind of gets my pooty wig money made 574 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 2: me come money, make me make me want to fuck 575 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,680 Speaker 2: my nigga all the time because I'm like, yes, you 576 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:44,879 Speaker 2: you you. 577 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: Looking out now for me. Let me say this. I 578 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 1: love having said she's a nympho, y'all. I love everything 579 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:55,200 Speaker 1: about sex. 580 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,080 Speaker 2: I think about sex literally all the time, like I 581 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 2: don't have the time I do. I do, But I 582 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 2: won't say I'm a sex addic. I don't think I'm 583 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 2: a sex add it because I can go without it. 584 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,640 Speaker 2: I have going on without it barely. 585 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 1: I was on a streak. I was on a streak. 586 00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 2: Was you masturbating? Not trying to get in your besness? 587 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 2: But was you masturbating? Why you was every down? But 588 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 2: I don't masturbate often because it's not what I need. 589 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: I need that man. I need that man on me. Hey, 590 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: come on with the bars, niggas. So this is what 591 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:36,159 Speaker 1: I have to say the teacher, Hey man, this is 592 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 1: what I have to say. So I really enjoy sex. 593 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,960 Speaker 2: I love sex, but I've been in a long term 594 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 2: relationships before sex can get boring. 595 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: Sex with the same person is going to get boring. 596 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 2: I feel like there's things that I've mastered in the 597 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,119 Speaker 2: bedroom to where I can always spice it up, like 598 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 2: I know what to do. 599 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 1: But I mean, you can only do that for so long, 600 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,520 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, but me, you can 601 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 1: wear out sex, even me being a person that loves 602 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:03,720 Speaker 1: to have sex. So of course, in the beginning of 603 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: the relationship, we're gonna be having sex right the time. 604 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 1: I'll say that, I'll even give it for the first 605 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 1: year and I half two years. 606 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 2: Honestly, because I think if your nigga is good and 607 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 2: you putting it down and you see me what I want, right, 608 00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying to it just depends on 609 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 2: how bombed right. So, but I feel like once you 610 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 2: hit that three year mark or a little longer, that's 611 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 2: when it's like, Okay, we don't need to have sex 612 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 2: every day because this is getting boring and it's getting repetitive. 613 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,160 Speaker 1: If you start once you're in like a serious serious 614 00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 1: Are you gonna be having sex with someone else? No, 615 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 1: I'm not. He might, but all niggas cheat, So that's 616 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: none of my business. As long as you fuck her 617 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: and duck her and leave her alone, and it ain't 618 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,399 Speaker 1: nothing else. You know, a man gonna do what a 619 00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 1: man gonna do. But that's another topic. But at the 620 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,439 Speaker 1: end of the day, I don't feel like we need 621 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,639 Speaker 1: to be having sex every day. Now, in the beginning 622 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,560 Speaker 1: of my relationship, I necessarily don't want to see you 623 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:53,959 Speaker 1: every day. 624 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,719 Speaker 2: But if we're dating, I want to have sex at 625 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:58,919 Speaker 2: least four times a week, four or five times a week, absolutely, 626 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,119 Speaker 2: she And if I don't get to see you, I 627 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,639 Speaker 2: need to be like, we need to have sex, Like 628 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,359 Speaker 2: if I come stay the night with your house, we 629 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,360 Speaker 2: need to be like turning up having a good time, 630 00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 2: going to dinner, or staying in the house and drinking, 631 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 2: having sex. And before I leave in the morning, you 632 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 2: need to let me give you a little head or 633 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 2: he's a little pussy. 634 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 1: I just need a little quick pump from the back 635 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: sometime so that you like to give head. I loved 636 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: giving head. Okay, So yesterday I had a situation, right, oh, no, 637 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: we're going into a little bonus time. 638 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 2: So I mean it relates to the Okay, Okay, So 639 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 2: yesterday I had a situation where, you know, I was 640 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:39,480 Speaker 2: sucking with somebody and we like we're having sex or whatever. 641 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:40,120 Speaker 3: And. 642 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 1: I was like giving him head for so long and 643 00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 1: he was like, man, I love is she but this 644 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,960 Speaker 1: shit crazy, it'd be crazy sometimes. He was like, I 645 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 1: never met a girl in my life. I didn't like 646 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,880 Speaker 1: to give head these money. Yeah, he was like, if 647 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 1: he's draining me, was like, I'll be needing like a naw, 648 00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: it's really draining. And in the way he was he 649 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: was just saying and in just in general, like when 650 00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 1: you be having sex, like you really just be in 651 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: your zone. He was like, you be like a whole 652 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: other person. You be in a whole nother world. He 653 00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: was like, can it be good as fuck? He was like, 654 00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: but you just be draining me, right? 655 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 2: But I thought, so, I'm glad we're having this conversation 656 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,680 Speaker 2: because it kind of made me feel like, well, am 657 00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 2: I all sex at it? 658 00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 1: Well? 659 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 2: A sex ad, I would say a person like, you're 660 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 2: you you have to have sex. I don't think either 661 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:30,920 Speaker 2: one of us are sex Okay. Now, I've been in 662 00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 2: a relationship with somebody that I felt was a sex 663 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 2: at it. But at the end of the day, I 664 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 2: don't give a fuck what's going on. You ain't You 665 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 2: can never challenge lex P what you mean. If my 666 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 2: nigga want to fuck on fucking period, that's how I 667 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 2: look I have on it. If my man wants to 668 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 2: have sex, I'm having sex period. Now I'm gonna let 669 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: him know. Hey, now this shit gonna get boring. We 670 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 2: need to slow it down. So I'm gonna let you know. 671 00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 2: But if he want his nuts, I'm gonna give it 672 00:29:56,520 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 2: to him, right cause guess what if it ain't mean 673 00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 2: it's gonna be another but it's probably gonna be another 674 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,640 Speaker 2: big another way. So I feel like there are women 675 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 2: out there who love There's a lot of women out 676 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 2: here who love getting here and who getting their own zone. 677 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:11,320 Speaker 2: Because you don't have to be a sex addict to 678 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,360 Speaker 2: love sex. I feel like you can love sex but 679 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,400 Speaker 2: not be addicted to it. 680 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: Like and because sisters, dick is bomb is amazing. 681 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 2: Like but I'm talking about that deep like bombs. Oh, 682 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,760 Speaker 2: I mean yeah, So it's like I just I don't know. 683 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 2: I don't feel like I be that way with every 684 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:28,480 Speaker 2: nigga because, like I said, with me, it's just kind 685 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 2: of more specific to the person, right. I Mean, I've 686 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 2: had guys before where there dick wasn't amazing. But at 687 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 2: this point in my life, I feel like I'm so 688 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 2: sexually open in the bedroom. Yeah, I gets down in 689 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 2: the bedroom, but I just feel like I know, I 690 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,960 Speaker 2: know what to do to make sure it's gonna be 691 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,480 Speaker 2: good to me. So if a man gets me bad, dick, 692 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 2: you might be really really fucking bad sex. So I 693 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 2: feel like sex addition. Now it does get to now 694 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 2: we're of course we're being light about it, right, of 695 00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,960 Speaker 2: course gets deep and it gets serious like it be 696 00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 2: people that be jacking off and being on their computer 697 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 2: for like twelve hours a day, and then you have 698 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 2: people who like seriously be adept to sex to the 699 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 2: point that it's like they have to have it so 700 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 2: they will literally have sex week. Anybody, anything, any anything, Yeah. 701 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,719 Speaker 1: Right, we're talking about cucumber, about Carrie. 702 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 2: That's a cucumber. That's disgusting. So people, do Do I 703 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,240 Speaker 2: feel like I'm addicted to sex? No, but I do 704 00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 2: feel like I love sex and then I love love, 705 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:31,880 Speaker 2: so I love it enough to be like, you know, 706 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 2: and that's a little of my submissive side as well. 707 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 2: We talked about this on my past episode, you and 708 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,680 Speaker 2: me being submissive. At the end of the day, my man, 709 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:43,600 Speaker 2: whatever Daddy wants, Daddy gets okay, And now I agree 710 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 2: with that, you know what I'm saying, Like, that's just 711 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 2: how I get down. So, yeah, let us know what 712 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 2: y'all thinking. Have y'all ever dated a sex addict? Do 713 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 2: you feel like you're a sex addict or do you 714 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,360 Speaker 2: just love sex? Cause, like I said, there's a big difference, 715 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 2: Like here is it? 716 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,479 Speaker 1: Like I said, ideally, I want to have sex four 717 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: to five times a week. What's all deal for you? 718 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie in the beginning, like when you 719 00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 2: first get with a nigga and y'all just be having 720 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,800 Speaker 2: that attraction, like that physical connection. 721 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 1: I definitely like to have sex every day. 722 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 2: Every day, So you'll say seven times a week every day? Yeah, 723 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do it because. 724 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on my period for one week after 725 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: mone so hell this show break. 726 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like when you do it every day 727 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 2: in the beginning, that's when it. But I feel like 728 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 2: for you know, y'all have a little breaks in between, 729 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:27,760 Speaker 2: like it ain't nothing. 730 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 1: Let me tell y'all. 731 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 2: But I'll say this every day too. And when I 732 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 2: say every day, that's depending on how often I see you. 733 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 1: If it's every day, that means you're seeing each other 734 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,480 Speaker 1: every day. But what I'm no, you're not listening to 735 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm saying me saying every day, but 736 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,160 Speaker 1: that also depends up on how often I see you. 737 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 1: I might want to fuck you every day, but I 738 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: don't see you every day. Might be you might be 739 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 1: doing different things, but I'm trying to fuck you every 740 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 1: time I see you. 741 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,000 Speaker 2: To be honest with you, ideally, I want to have 742 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,760 Speaker 2: sex every day, but if I can, but if I 743 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 2: can have sex with the nigga every you and me 744 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 2: both need to REVAi way our lives because we ain't 745 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,240 Speaker 2: busy in this right. Yeah, because I can't tell y'all 746 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 2: the last situation. Yeah, I can't tell you the last situation. 747 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 2: I've seriously been there with the man where we were 748 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 2: fucking every day. 749 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 1: I don't think anybody has that amount of time. 750 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 2: Like I will remember, I told you what my little 751 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 2: frien said, nobody fucking mode and broke people broke people 752 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 2: out all the time in the world to fuck because 753 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:27,480 Speaker 2: they ain't making no money. 754 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 5: Then well, I feel like this, like I said, sex 755 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 5: Edition is here, So anybody with the sex addiction that's 756 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 5: out there, honestly, if you are addicted to sex, can 757 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 5: you like send me a message because I would like 758 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 5: to you know, enlighten myself. 759 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 2: But like I said, and if you fucking with a 760 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,959 Speaker 2: broke nigga, can you please lea and me and let 761 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,520 Speaker 2: me know how off the y'all fud because I meant 762 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 2: he be trying to fuck you every day. So yeah, 763 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 2: so if you're a sex addict, let us know. But 764 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 2: like I said, there's a difference between loving sex and 765 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 2: being addicted to sex. 766 00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really so, Now let's get into the relationship. 767 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,960 Speaker 1: No the bob, When do we ever had a relationship song? 768 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:10,840 Speaker 1: I thought, y'all, I really, I don't know where my 769 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,799 Speaker 1: mind is when we ever sang a relationship song? Bro? 770 00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 2: When I'm just everything Valentine's Day, I know it was 771 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 2: after the sex, doing something new after the sex top 772 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 2: it is always. 773 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:27,600 Speaker 1: I really thought about to try something different for Valentine's Day. 774 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:32,839 Speaker 1: Girl is siren? Sp oh gosh. So what's your bom 775 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:34,600 Speaker 1: for the week, bitch? I don't have one this week? 776 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: What's sure? Let me tell y'all something. I gotta get serious. 777 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:37,239 Speaker 1: Let me sit up. 778 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 2: Okay, So y'all know the Grammys were just this past Sunday. 779 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 2: The Grammys were so good. Shout out to Cardi b 780 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,399 Speaker 2: I'm so glad that you want to bring me first 781 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 2: of all, So this girl kept winning Grammys. 782 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, who the fuck is this girl? White girl 783 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,239 Speaker 1: I ain't never seen in my life? 784 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 2: Now, y'all know me, y'all know, I listen to everything, 785 00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 2: Like anybody who knows me knows my music taste. 786 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: Like my playlist will literally go from like Dixie Chicks 787 00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,520 Speaker 1: to Shanai Twaine to Drake to like. 788 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,759 Speaker 2: I don't know one Republic, you know what I'm saying, 789 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 2: Like to migos, like I literally listen to everything so 790 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:22,480 Speaker 2: red hot chili peppers, like I'm serious, key mmm, no, not. 791 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,919 Speaker 1: Really like that, no, but yeah. 792 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,359 Speaker 2: So anyways, so this girl, her name is Casey Musgraves. 793 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 2: She's a country singer, and so she kept winning these Grammys. 794 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 2: I'm like, you know what, let me go listen to 795 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 2: her album, y'all. Seriously, this album is so fucking good, bro, 796 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,800 Speaker 2: It's so good, Like she has this one song, so 797 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:45,719 Speaker 2: this is gonna be my bop of the week, just 798 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 2: to introduce y'all to her, because if you're not a 799 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 2: country music person, you're not gonna like it. But country 800 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 2: music is different because they actually tell stories. Yeah, this 801 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 2: is like and then when she got up on stage, 802 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 2: she thanked her husband because she was like, I couldn't 803 00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:01,319 Speaker 2: have made this music without you. So when I listen 804 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 2: to her music, I'm listening to her singing to her 805 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 2: husband right, and it was just so beautiful. Like so, 806 00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 2: she has a song called Butterflies, and it was just 807 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,240 Speaker 2: it's just basically a story about this man like taking 808 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 2: her out of this dark hole and making her blossom 809 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,320 Speaker 2: into a butterfly. That's all I can really say. I 810 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 2: ain't gonna sing it for y'all. I just let me 811 00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,799 Speaker 2: tell y'all please go listen to it. Because a lot 812 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 2: of memes went viral on Black Twitter, like. 813 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 1: Who is this girl? Who? Oh? 814 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,920 Speaker 2: She beat out this person? No, y'all have got to understand. 815 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:35,640 Speaker 2: Baby girl deserves that Grammy. I think she got Album 816 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 2: of the Year. Her album is amazing and it's a 817 00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 2: lot of other good songs on there. So shout out 818 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 2: to Casey Musk Graves. BAPA the Week is Casey Musk 819 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 2: Graves Butterfly. 820 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to go listen to the album amazing. 821 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 1: It's so good. 822 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm a love love song I'm a 823 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 2: country music fan. 824 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,839 Speaker 1: If you love love songs. You you need to get 825 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: into country music. 826 00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 2: Though liked to country music in the past, I'm just 827 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 2: then say I'm somebody who listens to it all the time, 828 00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 2: but I have had little songs that I like, like 829 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:08,879 Speaker 2: songs by Carrie Underwood, yeah, swifty, Yeah. 830 00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,359 Speaker 1: I even like some Reba McIntire songs. Yeah. 831 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,520 Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying, okay, because that's like, you know, 832 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 2: because country sometimes goes pop just like rap people. 833 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,839 Speaker 1: But when you get into that good deep country, that's 834 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:23,799 Speaker 1: when you're gonna get the flavoring and knea. So yeah, 835 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 1: shout out to Casey must Graves. That's the bop of 836 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: the week. Of course. The item of the week, Drea 837 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,040 Speaker 1: take it away European Wax Center. Yes, I don't know 838 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: what the going Okay, wait, let's do this again. Let's 839 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:34,400 Speaker 1: get our radio voices on it. 840 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, you got to introduce her, Okay, And 841 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,800 Speaker 2: right now we're introducing Dre and the call and she 842 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 2: has our item. 843 00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 1: Of the week. So yeah, you guys, you know that 844 00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 1: we do European wax Center every week. Go ahead and 845 00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 1: go get that woof pussy wax. So why is your 846 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,120 Speaker 1: radio voice so deep? I don't know it's supposed to be. 847 00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,840 Speaker 1: I think, no, it's nice. And when you listen to 848 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 1: went On, then you talking about the girl. You're a woman, 849 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:09,800 Speaker 1: But I'm a woman in a nigga like. I don't know. 850 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 2: I feel like sometimes I feel like I'm nigga, but 851 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,240 Speaker 2: I think that's why that's my radio ego. 852 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:22,279 Speaker 4: Okay, so shout out, Okay, let me do boys. Okay, y'all, 853 00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,360 Speaker 4: it's your girl lex P. And you were tuned in 854 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,719 Speaker 4: to wind Down Wednesday. Of course, you know we're sponsored 855 00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 4: by European Wax Center. If you go to European Wax 856 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 4: Center and mentioned Dre and the Coal or lex P, 857 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:37,759 Speaker 4: you're gonna get a discount on your waxes. Not only 858 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 4: on your waxes, but you're also gonna get a discount 859 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,600 Speaker 4: on those wonderful, wonderful products. So shout out to European 860 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 4: Wax Center, Thank you for always sponsoring us. 861 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:50,120 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, European. That was a good radio. 862 00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 1: That was amazing. I'm shook. I shook myself. 863 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 2: Y'all. 864 00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 1: Ain't ready for the kid. 865 00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,960 Speaker 2: Y'all ain't ready for the kid to get on radio 866 00:38:59,000 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 2: because I'm a fuck. 867 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:02,880 Speaker 1: Ladies, take it away, lex Pe take it away. 868 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,520 Speaker 2: No, you take it away, draying a Call, I will, 869 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,400 Speaker 2: all right, So we're gonna wrap this episode up. 870 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 1: Thank y'all so much for tuning in. Thank y'all so 871 00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 1: much for fucking with us. 872 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:15,440 Speaker 2: We love y'all for fucking with us and getting fucked 873 00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 2: up and drunk every week. 874 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:18,839 Speaker 1: We appreciate y'all. 875 00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 2: And once again, it's your girl, lex Pan and it's 876 00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,399 Speaker 2: your girl dray in the Call, and we'll see y'all 877 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 2: next week. 878 00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 1: Bye Host,