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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: I don't join Jo. You gotta turn hur you go,

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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, Come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Yeah, I'll do. Man, God is good.

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Speaker 1: Hey today, I just want to get right to it

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Speaker 1: because this has really been pressing me. I woke up

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Speaker 1: See I've lived this for a fact, and you know

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Speaker 1: the majority of things I talk about in the morning

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Speaker 1: that I've experienced. I can only tell you what I know.

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Speaker 1: And so I really really understood why God has had

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Speaker 1: didn't have all these tests that I passed, all these

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Speaker 1: of those, the good and the bad, What could I

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Speaker 1: share with you in the morning? What could I tell

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Speaker 1: in now when all hope was gone? How could I

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Speaker 1: share that with you? Unless I've had those moments myself.

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Speaker 1: I don't care what happens to you. I don't care

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Speaker 1: what you're going through. Don't you dare dare give up?

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Speaker 1: Under no circumstances. Don't you dare dare ever give up?

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Speaker 1: It is the biggest trick that the enemy has is

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Speaker 1: making us think we ain't gonna make it, to water

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Speaker 1: trick he uses is when you make a mistake and

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Speaker 1: He is the master deceiver. Don't you dare dare ever

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Speaker 1: tests that you are going through. And these tests, whether

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Speaker 1: It simply means that now you have learned a valuable experience,

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Speaker 1: Listen to me. It has to happen this way. You

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Speaker 1: You got to have woes and worries to appreciate the joys.

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Speaker 1: It is merely a test. So when you get through failing,

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Speaker 1: Don't stop thinking, man, because it ain't happening just the

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Speaker 1: why you're being tested right now, because there is no

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Speaker 1: I don't care what's happening. Don't don't, don't don't get deceived.

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Speaker 1: The victory's coming, but you ain't gonna get it if

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning Show and

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Speaker 1: continuing for the rest of the year to allow a

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Speaker 1: dear friend of mine, the legendary incredible Roscoe Wallace, who

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Speaker 1: Roscoe Wallace has written He's claiming all hits ever made

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Speaker 1: his case with another song. DANZ did the way we

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Speaker 1: I I did not the mood is right, hey, dropping

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Speaker 1: just another hit I wrote. I want all my accolades

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Speaker 1: for you know what. They've been doing this on everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Ain't got a quote on it. Uh see y'all in cope.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much Steve for having me. This is

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Speaker 1: that's like right there, that's the part they're gonna like

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Speaker 1: right there. I'll tell y'all. Dr Wright me up going on, everybody,

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Speaker 1: what do stop to let me ask you something? Uh.

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Speaker 1: Some people came to him, They said, lett, uncle Steve

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Speaker 1: Come on day. Homework is basically school at home. You're

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Speaker 1: But you don't get what you want to do. But

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Speaker 1: the teachers want to take like thirty minutes of your time,

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Speaker 1: this to bothering you. I don't know why they do that,

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Speaker 1: but that's teachers. All our kids, all our kids. Put

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Speaker 1: more homework, No more homework now we are come on.

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Speaker 1: You have a point. Yeah he has a point. But boy,

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Speaker 1: I've been saying this is sixty four damn about you

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Speaker 1: We're not been to councel homeworkers, Yola, last don't want

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Speaker 1: taking up thirty minutes an hour your time? Hell yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's car homework. It ain't school work. You did your

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Speaker 1: school working schoolwork. They're sending your home so that I

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Speaker 1: else about this car. You know I'm gonna talk me.

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Speaker 1: No damn homework. The lasses got home work, home work.

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Speaker 1: It is time for the nephew, and run that frank back.

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Speaker 1: Nephew in the building. What you got for us? Now?

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Speaker 1: I got girls Scout cooking? Well, can you like Sherlett

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Speaker 1: girls Scout cook Steve Girls, Scout Junior boy girl Scout cooking?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's go girl scouting. Hello? Hello, who's this? Hey? Um?

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Speaker 1: How are you doing? Man? My name is Glenn Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm working. I work in building too. You work for Nudia? Right? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What what's fun? So we probably met a couple of times.

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Speaker 1: Uh do you have a girl? You have a girlfriend? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Why what's up? Did you guys? You guys live together

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Speaker 1: or what? What? What is this your business? Like? What? What?

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Speaker 1: What's what's what's the deal? What's what's why are you

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Speaker 1: asking about my girl? Well? Let me ask you this here.

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Speaker 1: What's what's what's going on with you and at the job? Uh?

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Speaker 1: What what do you what do you mean what's going

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Speaker 1: I mean so what like what what's what's the deal? What? What?

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Speaker 1: Who are you? Like? Who the who? The are you? Like? What?

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Speaker 1: What's what's the what is this for? Like? Why are you? Like?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know you? Right it? Just calmed down, bro,

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Speaker 1: Just calmed down. Like I say, my name is being

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Speaker 1: I work at Gila too, you know, And I know

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Speaker 1: I'm just telling you now. I know you. I know

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Speaker 1: what you're doing, Okay, I know what y'are doing at

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Speaker 1: I know you got a girl. At home. I know

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Speaker 1: that what so so what what? What? What the what?

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Speaker 1: them dearly, but I don't want them to visit me

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Speaker 1: for the holidays every year. It's a big hassle to

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Speaker 1: prepare for them, and none of them want to help

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Speaker 1: out with groceries or buying liquor. My wife is white,

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Speaker 1: and she's not used to the bickering and cursing at

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Speaker 1: each other when we're all supposed to be grateful. My

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Speaker 1: family will never change, and I'm tired of how they

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Speaker 1: act too. What gives do I please my wife or

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Speaker 1: please my ken? I would go with the white. I'm

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Speaker 1: there with the wife. You got a wife, which, yeah,

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Speaker 1: not chuck. Hear what you can do? You got it?

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Speaker 1: You got it. You gotta stop this man because you're

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Speaker 1: not happy with it either. But now what you should

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Speaker 1: do is not chucking. It's gonna throw you go over

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Speaker 1: her family's house for the holidays. Now it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: different the wife. Yeah, go over the wife's house. Now,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you a couple of things you gotta

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Speaker 1: watch out for. You're not fitting, getting no dressing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's is fitnings some stuff in you getting no sweepe

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Speaker 1: taking pie. You're asking me, plunking pack going over there.

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Speaker 1: Let me just try to hang in there, enjoy yourself.

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Speaker 1: Probably go ahead and black peep back over next holiday.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right. On the

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Speaker 1: evening of November seventeenth, nineteen eleven. On the evening of

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Speaker 1: November seventeenth, nineteen eleven, Omega Side five was founded inside

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Speaker 1: the Science Building at Howard University in Washington, d C.

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Speaker 1: From the initials of the Greek phrase meaning friendship is

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Speaker 1: essential to the soul. Side five manhood, scholarship, persever turn

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Speaker 1: it down song. Oh he gonna hurt himself. He got

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Speaker 1: hurt him. Let me see you hop one time the company.

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Speaker 1: You're good. In his chair, he can step in his chair,

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Speaker 1: he can he can chair step, he cold catch step yeah,

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Speaker 1: or anything you want to say, what in the world

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Speaker 1: is it or about that song? Pat does my soul

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Speaker 1: the way it does it. I want to say Happy

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Speaker 1: Founders Day to all the brothers of Almighty Omega Side five,

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Speaker 1: the greatest fraternity ever formed. Our fraternity is built on

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Speaker 1: things that other fraternities are not built on, and the

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Speaker 1: number one thing is friendship. All other fraternities are built

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Speaker 1: on brotherhood. Ours its friendship. I just love Cooper Coleman's

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Speaker 1: four brothers, the founders of Omega side five, make no

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Speaker 1: mistake about it. That is none other like Omeaga. You

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Speaker 1: can ask all the rest of them, because they do

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Speaker 1: know the truth that when Omega came into existence, that

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Speaker 1: stopped it all that will be no more after this

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Speaker 1: more you know it. Can ask him. You canna ask anybody, really,

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Speaker 1: dog all respect to all of the brothers in the

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Speaker 1: pan Hellenic Council, the Sigmas, the Alphas, and the Knops,

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Speaker 1: much respect to all of them. All of them have

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Speaker 1: great in them, and the all of them have greatness

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Speaker 1: in them. But y'all know, y'all know, y'all know, if

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Speaker 1: you go down the list of great men in our history,

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Speaker 1: Lord he Mercy, a lot of nups, a lot of

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Speaker 1: kids damns, a lot of nups. But I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: You go down the list and start naming names, it

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Speaker 1: ain't close though, it's not close, not even I think

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Speaker 1: it's pretty closes. I think it's I tell you what

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Speaker 1: we can do. Cut the music off because I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna do in disrespectful. If you play the song,

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00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: you can just go name for name and we can start.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't have to go tick te you know,

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00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: because it ain't gonna work out. There are are some

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Speaker 1: great noopes out there there. There are a lot of

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Speaker 1: great me right right there, right there, me and me

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Speaker 1: there you gonna pick keep running? Oh, said is a

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Speaker 1: great one. You know, we got we got some moment

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Speaker 1: we can get up there now careful sad the number

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Speaker 1: star stacking, I got you and said, and Johnny Cochring you, Oh,

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Speaker 1: Johnny Cocker was greatness, man, pure greatness. Smold. You know.

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Speaker 1: I don't really know a whole lot of famous cappers myself.

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Speaker 1: I just don't. Not saying there aren't. I just don't

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Speaker 1: know them. But I know a whole lot of famous

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Speaker 1: cue though whole life. Well, we're moving on. One of

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Speaker 1: the world's richest men, Happy Founders say against Steve one

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Speaker 1: of the world's and Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos, stated that

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Speaker 1: the Earth would soon turn into like a natural resort.

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Speaker 1: On Sunday, during a speech at the Ignatious Forum in Washington,

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Speaker 1: Bezos stated that humans would have their default homes on

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Speaker 1: other planets and over a million people could be working

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Speaker 1: on another planet soon. Okay, don't nobody can about that.

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Speaker 1: Let me just say this on Founders, stay on behalf

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Speaker 1: of Jason Jeff Bens. If Jeff Bezos gives me a

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Speaker 1: billion dollars, I'm walking his ass right into this frame.

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Speaker 1: He's a cute Jeff. No he's not at all. No

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Speaker 1: he's not. No, he's not. But if you give me

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Speaker 1: a billion dollars, I'm walking him in. I don't give it.

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Speaker 1: Them who don't like it. What does he need to

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Speaker 1: be a cue? He don't even have to be. No, Damn,

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Speaker 1: I don't really don't even care. Beginning that billion dollars,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk in there. As in the dope he's saying,

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Speaker 1: babies could be born in space. It will be their

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Speaker 1: first show. Surely that's what surely listen to me though

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Speaker 1: nobody in this listening artists care nothing about that. We

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00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: black folk, we're trying to just get it right down

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Speaker 1: here on Earth. I'd be damn if you're gonna pass

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Speaker 1: up in space and let us try to figure that out.

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Speaker 1: We just want some space down here where we can

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Speaker 1: live in peace, have our own without getting shot, playing

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00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 1: with no COVID. I'm now that's ignorant. We could just

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Speaker 1: be visiting Earth like you visit Yellowstone Park or you know,

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00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: stuff like that. Well, I'm well, I'm gonna be down

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00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: here running things. Leave if y'all come back. Now you're here,

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Speaker 1: all right, We'll be back with more of a Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening the Stave

526
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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Florida Governor Ron de Santis is doing

527
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Speaker 1: everything he can everything he can do to push back

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Speaker 1: against COVID vaccine mandates for public and private employers. On Monday,

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Speaker 1: he'll oversee a special legislative session called Keep Florida Free.

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Speaker 1: It's aimed to block such mandates. Four bills will be

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Speaker 1: on the table that will up penalties for business, local governments,

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Speaker 1: and other entities that are requiring employees to get vaccinated

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Speaker 1: and force students to wear mass in school. Last week,

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Speaker 1: while announcing his twenty twenty two reelection plans, DeSantis said,

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Speaker 1: at the end of the day, we want people to

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Speaker 1: be able to make informed decisions for themselves. But we've

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Speaker 1: got to stop bossing people around. We've got to stop

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00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: the coercion. We've got to stop trying to browbeat people.

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00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: Fans of Dessanta's claim he's striking a blow for freedom

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Speaker 1: and others think he's putting people in unnecessary danger or

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Speaker 1: the residents need to make sure he's not re elected

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Speaker 1: in twenty twenty two. I can't stand anymore. I can't

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00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:17,720
Speaker 1: stand the stupidity of people that people have put into office.

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Speaker 1: This is the person that you trust with your welfare.

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00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,840
Speaker 1: This is the person that you put in chargees you

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Speaker 1: thought would be best to make decisions on your behalf.

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? And I could assure you all

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Speaker 1: the Republicans that did vote for this guy did not

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Speaker 1: think he would be up there doing this type of stuff.

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Speaker 1: You cannot be a Republican and feel this way. I

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00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:44,240
Speaker 1: just don't believe all Republicans feel this way. That can't

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Speaker 1: be the case. This is just ignorance man to know

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00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: the facts and ignore them because some political party then

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Speaker 1: got together and say this is one we're gonna let's

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Speaker 1: keep America free. You didn't say that, see y'all kill

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Speaker 1: me with just keep America freeman, y'all, and enslaved and

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00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 1: captured and took and imprisoned more people than anybody on

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Speaker 1: planet Earth. And you got the nerve the scream about

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Speaker 1: your freedoms. This is the most hypocritical country, man, we

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00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: live in. Oh, it has some great moments in it. Oh,

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00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 1: it's some great opportunities here. Okay, it's the land of

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Speaker 1: the whatever. Yeah, yeah, you can turn yourself into something.

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Speaker 1: But let's not overlook the flaws while you're talking about

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Speaker 1: what it is. Because of what is at is just

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00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 1: as big and just as glaring to me. And if

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Speaker 1: you on this side of the fish, you would understand

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Speaker 1: what we were talking about. So you can stop all

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00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: that old land of the free. Free for who. You

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Speaker 1: don't even want us to vote right? Free for a

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Speaker 1: woman can't decide to do with her body. Help me

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Speaker 1: understand that you could decide to wear a mask and

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00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,720
Speaker 1: get a vaccination, but you can't decide to have a baby.

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00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 1: What make up your mind? Man? You can make up

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Speaker 1: your mind going out there and buy gun and going

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00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: out here and shoot somebody with it because you got

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Speaker 1: drivers life or your month bought. Stop me let me

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Speaker 1: the mama drove twenty twenty two elections. Remember that coming

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00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:15,359
Speaker 1: up at thirty four minutes after attacks against airline employees

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Speaker 1: are becoming an epidemic. We'll talk about it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Check this

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Speaker 1: story out. Southwest Airlines employee was hospitalized over the weekend

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Speaker 1: after getting punched in the head by an unruly passenger.

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Speaker 1: Authorities say the passenger had boarded her flight at Dallas

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Speaker 1: love Field Airport and got into a verbal argument with

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Speaker 1: an operations agent. She was asked to exit the plane,

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Speaker 1: and then things got physical. She allegedly punched another operations

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Speaker 1: agent in the head and was arrested for an aggravated assault.

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00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: The employee was taken to the hospital in stable condition.

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Speaker 1: And the problem is that these attacks have become an epidemic.

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Speaker 1: According to the f A, there have been over five

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Speaker 1: thousand unruly passenger incidents this year this year, So listen,

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Speaker 1: what they need to do is start passing down some man,

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00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: some some mandatory laws because they got to put a

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Speaker 1: stop to this right here, man, because this don't make

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00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 1: no sense. Yeah, they need to protect the flight attendance

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Speaker 1: people doing their job. Man, it ain't it ain't it

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Speaker 1: ain't get it ain't happening on my flight though. If

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Speaker 1: I'm the steward, It's not happening on Thoma's flight. I'm

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Speaker 1: telling you right now. I'm promise you right now, this

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Speaker 1: is Tommy. Uh. You're on flight seven thirty two. We're

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Speaker 1: going from Atlanta to DC. I'm gonna tell y'all right now,

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Speaker 1: it ain't no bathroom today. All right, everybody sit their

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Speaker 1: ass down. Okay, put your put all yourself up underneath

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Speaker 1: your chair. I'm not gonna walk up down this. I'll

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Speaker 1: try to make sure you got everything tucked up under there. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's how it's going down. I'm letting you know. If

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Speaker 1: you stand up, I think you're coming towards me. I'm

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Speaker 1: fit to fight you ass. That's how it's happened. If

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Speaker 1: you're in first class, we ain't got no food I'm putting.

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Speaker 1: I'm putting a bunch of drinks in the middle of

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Speaker 1: the float, sorted out. Get what you want, Okay. Five thousand,

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Speaker 1: one hundred and fourteen unruly passenger incidents this year. This

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Speaker 1: sounds like an opportunity for a business. See see damn

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Speaker 1: these mans coming down. I'm coming out the overhead being

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Speaker 1: see bags going up in the bed. I'm in the

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Speaker 1: ben and my team is in the bed. Start acting

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Speaker 1: up and see if we don't come out these beans.

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Speaker 1: Ben boys, that's business Ben boys dot com here we

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Speaker 1: could be boys see something. Yeah, press up, but watch

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Speaker 1: Oh now, this is uh hell relish. Captain Harvey UH

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Speaker 1: coming to you line. Welcome you on board or Southwest

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Speaker 1: we're heading in the Passo Texas. Just a friendly reminder

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Speaker 1: to let you now that we've had a number of

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Speaker 1: incidents owned up Southwest Airlines over the past year, unruly passengers,

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Speaker 1: and I just want you to know that Uh on

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Speaker 1: this flight right here, we're whoop an ass. As soon

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Speaker 1: as we hear or any rumming in the background, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna put this some bitch on auto pallette and we're

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Speaker 1: coming back there. We're gonna start clocking and docking asses.

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00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:26,000
Speaker 1: It's what we're gonna do. Enjoy your flight, listen on,

631
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Speaker 1: Please sit back, relax, but keep it tight though, because

632
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:36,720
Speaker 1: we are listen, we're gonna we're expecting a smooth ride

633
00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: and unless it pops off, and it's gonna get real

634
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,920
Speaker 1: unsmooth right quick, I've got a also on the plane,

635
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 1: and we have a seven unmarked people that have no

636
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: business on this plane. The friends of mine and day

637
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: and ass footing business. So you might get half your

638
00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 1: ass to offer. We get back there, but we are

639
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: coming and we don't ask what the flight. Enjoy flight, folks.

640
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 1: We don't have any food or prefet service today because

641
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 1: we don't want to hear nothing. Don't start down, won't

642
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: be nown have a good day. I'm Captain Harvey. We're

643
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: out over now. Thank you appreciate that. Yeah, yeah, you

644
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 1: got capn We got ben boys and we got a

645
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: steward so we ran in row pop off. If you

646
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:33,959
Speaker 1: want to watch how this go. Okay, safety, These people

647
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: need to be banned from flying for life, for life.

648
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: But you know, peanuts pushed up in you, that's what

649
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 1: you can have. That would be really good. That would

650
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: be really good. Bad people from flying. You don't know

651
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 1: how to have. Put them on that flight list, man,

652
00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:56,799
Speaker 1: and that's it. I don't care what flight you're going,

653
00:43:56,920 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 1: you can't fly there. You go bring it to reality.

654
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 1: They're waiting on the fight on the bus. New meat,

655
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 1: all right, coming up next. It is the nephew with

656
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: the frank phone call for today Right after this, you're

657
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up right about

658
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is

659
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm the wife, not the mistress. I don't get it

660
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: twisted up in here. I'll get into that in just

661
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:38,399
Speaker 1: a bit. The nephew is here for today's Frank phone call.

662
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,640
Speaker 1: All of that. But you got husband, not the husband

663
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: that don't work. Yeah, but you got well this, we

664
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: know we're gonna we were talking relationships. Let's get on

665
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: into it. This right here is called relationship departure. Relationship departure.

666
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: Taken it right? Cat dog g if you would, I

667
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:05,920
Speaker 1: don't know what the lines this seels, but cat dog

668
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: g if you would glove. Hey, Brian, Hey, baby, I

669
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:18,359
Speaker 1: was um. I was calling to tell you baby. Look

670
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: I just I just can't do it. Huh oh Hello Bryan, Brian, Hey,

671
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: this is Greg. I know I know you was just

672
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 1: talking to voun, but this is this is Greg talking

673
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 1: to this Brian Greg Greg Who. Yeah, this is Brian Greg.

674
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: I was just talking to my wife. Did you put

675
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: it back on the phone. Uh No, I'm not gonna

676
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be able to do that. Why can't

677
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: you do that? Man? Hey, let me explain something to you. Uh,

678
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 1: all right, there's some things, you know, long conversations about this.

679
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: Oh well, how you know my wife on the first

680
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: name basis like that? Man? How you who are you?

681
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: Like I said, man, my name is Greg Uhr. At

682
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: the airport? Okay, well airport? Where the airport? And why

683
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: we're at the airport with my wife? Sport? Hey? Let me, Hey,

684
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,839
Speaker 1: all of this is complicated. Okay, it's really yeah it is. Yeah,

685
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,359
Speaker 1: make it simple for me. Okay, So what I want

686
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:23,640
Speaker 1: to explain to you? What? Let me explain to you mann.

687
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: We've had a lot of long conversations about this. It's

688
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 1: something that you when when was this? Why? Why are

689
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: you at the airport with my wife's with me? And

690
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: why is leaving with me? Okay? What we're leaving? And

691
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 1: what you mean leaving leaving me? Oh? Hell no, put

692
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 1: it on the phone. And I don't even want to

693
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: talk to you, man, Put her on the phone. Put

694
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,000
Speaker 1: her on the phone, man, and look, you need to

695
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: put it on the phone right now. Leaving. I don't

696
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:56,800
Speaker 1: believe that. Now I want to hear her say that.

697
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: Do you want to talk to me. Oh here you're saying, hey, hey,

698
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 1: let me talk to my wife man, because you you

699
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: feed baby baby? Yeah, yeah, yeah, what's up? What's this

700
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 1: dude talking about? To tell you this for a while

701
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: so you think everything, but it hasn't been okay, Why

702
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 1: are you telling me this phone? Why can't you just

703
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:23,399
Speaker 1: come home and tell me? Why can't you just tell

704
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: me this to my face? Hey? Hey, hey, bro, come

705
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: on man, why are you my wife? Hey? Hey hey bro,

706
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: I know this is painful. Man. Now you don't know,

707
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: you don't know nothing, but I noticed. Okay, the ladies

708
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: just put my wife on the Oh did you if

709
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 1: you got any ounce of a man and you just

710
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 1: put my wife's back on the phone. Okay, all right, bro,

711
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 1: let me let me let me say, let me you

712
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: can I say something to you man? That's sitement what

713
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: it was. It was my wife on. You ain't got

714
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:03,479
Speaker 1: to tell me. I'm gonna put her on in the second.

715
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: But let me say this to you man, same man

716
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: and wrap it up because I need to talk to

717
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:10,399
Speaker 1: my wife. I just want you to know this, Brian.

718
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: This let me. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve

719
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 1: Harby More that show got me to prank phone call you?

720
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: What's your hold on? So? So okay, if you point

721
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:27,840
Speaker 1: to me, what's up with the airport and stuff in

722
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: the back? Then where y'all at the airport? No? Bro,

723
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: your wife is here at the studio. Man ain't not happening. Man,

724
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: your wife hold on. I'm gonna let you talk. You're

725
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: all right? First of all? Are you all right? Man? Oh? Man?

726
00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 1: It was about to be a murder sing man. Look

727
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: at now? Who's a big Finally you could have been

728
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:57,919
Speaker 1: a little bit more. You and y'all? Who your brother?

729
00:48:58,000 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: You think? Y'all? The only one can playing people is

730
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: that you and your brother be branking all the time. Man, Man,

731
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:09,320
Speaker 1: it's life stuff though, girl, you ain't happy birthday? Baby?

732
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: Oh you got a birthday coming up? Happy birthday, Brian?

733
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: This yeah, man, looking great? Gifts great? Yea. Man, Let

734
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: me talk to my wife. Man, I got ain't got

735
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:28,520
Speaker 1: no dude. Wife hold on? Please? But what woman? You

736
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: got me all right? Don't don't you ain't gotta go

737
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: this far? Right's supposed to be funny. I did, little man,

738
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: but you kind of start tearing up. But I'm glad

739
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:41,239
Speaker 1: to know you fight for me like that. Fight. It

740
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: was gonna be some fights. It wasn't, oh girl, just

741
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: a bring your black home. Don't even stop at rent like,

742
00:49:54,840 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, don't even know how wood. I don't even know, man,

743
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: I don't even have I don't even know how I

744
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: handled it. You have awhere, but this dude, hold on,

745
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: I got it. Hey, run this what I'm talking to

746
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 1: my wife and in this dude, I got this baby,

747
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: you're going over there? Up what my dog? Let me

748
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:26,759
Speaker 1: tell you something. Every dollar I got I'm coming for

749
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:30,840
Speaker 1: it's gonna be spent on finding what airline? This is?

750
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:37,640
Speaker 1: Where the ticket going to? Lamb y'all land. I'm gonna

751
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: have a p I at that airport, following y'all as

752
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: soon as before you land, I promise you. Dog, Let

753
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 1: me ask a boy at the airport with a picture

754
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: of her, follow her to whatever room a airport you

755
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: got to and I'm right behind it. I'm oh, let me,

756
00:50:55,880 --> 00:50:59,240
Speaker 1: let me let me at least say it felt bad

757
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 1: to do this good at that trifling? Do I know? You? Dirty?

758
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:16,680
Speaker 1: And Brian crying? Yeah? Everything right? Right he was, But

759
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:26,000
Speaker 1: Brian got over. I'm glad it was a prank. Okay together, happy,

760
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,080
Speaker 1: he wanted to feel. How about yourself? Though? I feel

761
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: wonderful because you know what, Brian loves her so much

762
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: more now, so much more. See what I did for

763
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 1: that relationship? Now watch watch, watch me walk into something?

764
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: What what is Brian ready to do? Now? He ready

765
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: to love you? See what I'm saying? Make it plain?

766
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: He ready to love? Ready to put your ass in

767
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: a box? Day Know how yo? The Nephew coming your way.

768
00:51:57,000 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: Get ready baby, Saturday night. He's jumping off at the

769
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: Dayton Convention Center. You do not want to miss it, Nephew,

770
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:04,360
Speaker 1: time your friends get your tickets. They don't say all

771
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 1: right now, let me tell you what's laying in the

772
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: cut Chicago, Washington, DC, Atlanta, GA. Get Ready. It is

773
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 1: Eddie Griffith Suject the entertainer d l Hugely Earthquake hosted

774
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:19,959
Speaker 1: by yours truly. It is the New Year's Comedy lave

775
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: Fast Chicago. That's December the thirtieth, Washington, d C. January first, Atlanta,

776
00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 1: GA State Farm Arena, Baby, January the second. You do

777
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 1: not want to miss it. Tickets are on sale right

778
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 1: now all ticket Master outlets or at the arena box office.

779
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 1: Older Nephew with the big boys. Here we come strong, strong, strong,

780
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: And of course Carla New Year's Eve is in Houston, Texas.

781
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to leave that out. I saw your

782
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: face on a billboards. Nephew, Tommy stay Farm Arena, State

783
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 1: Farm Arena. Got the one different one one switch in

784
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: the line of you got dl who you Hugally, you

785
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: got Eddie Griffith, you got me, you got earthquake, and

786
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: then you got sliding up in there. You got Bruce,

787
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 1: Bruce up in there. Okay, that is he simm thirty first, Houston, Htown. Okay,

788
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 1: nephew on the road, right, your nephew on the road,

789
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,840
Speaker 1: trying to get it, trying to grind and get it

790
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 1: and do something real. FRD nephew, thank you. Coming up

791
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: next it is the Strawberry Letter, the subject I'm the wife,

792
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:32,319
Speaker 1: not the mistress. Okay, we'll get into that. Okay, we'll

793
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:37,359
Speaker 1: get into it. Right. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

794
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,400
Speaker 1: It's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you

795
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.

796
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

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Speaker 1: and click the Submit Strawberry Letter button. It's right there,

798
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Speaker 1: and we could be reading your letter live on the air.

799
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: You never know, it could be yours. It could be yours.

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Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold tight, we got it for you. Hear it.

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Speaker 1: Eve Strawberry Letta, all right, thank your nephew's subject. I'm

802
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: the wife, not the mistress. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a

803
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: forty seven year old wife and my husband and I

804
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: have been married for four years. During the entire four years,

805
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 1: all of the arguments that we have had that we

806
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: have are over his ex wife, the mother of his

807
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: only son. She lives two hours away, and at times

808
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 1: he will drive to see his son and this woman

809
00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: will not let him visit with the child, depending on

810
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 1: her mood. When she is in a mood, it affects him,

811
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: so that affects me. I've had numerous conversations with him

812
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,040
Speaker 1: about why she still affects him in that way, and

813
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: I've told him it means he still cares about her.

814
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: He always says he's irritated because it's a waste of

815
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: his time. He slipped up and mentioned one day that

816
00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:55,760
Speaker 1: she had company when he was there, and it messed

817
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 1: up his whole visit. To note there was a man

818
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: in the house he bought. I put that in the

819
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,879
Speaker 1: back of my mind because I think that's what really

820
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 1: irks him. He's a great dad, but his son is fifteen,

821
00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 1: so he's not really into his dad like that anymore.

822
00:55:11,520 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: He prefers to be with his friends on weekends, but

823
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:17,919
Speaker 1: this woman and my husband insists on making him visit

824
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 1: the woman family. The woman's family lives ten minutes from us,

825
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: so my husband spends time over there when the woman

826
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:27,959
Speaker 1: and his son are in town. She will not drop

827
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: the boy off over here, and all I can think

828
00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 1: is that he still enjoys hanging around her family and

829
00:55:33,080 --> 00:55:35,720
Speaker 1: spending time with her, and that is why we argue.

830
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: He has no rebuttal. When I accuse him of putting

831
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: her first, all he says is that I would understand

832
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:45,760
Speaker 1: if I had a child, And then that starts another argument.

833
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:48,880
Speaker 1: I want to be the number one. I want to

834
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 1: be number one, but it's difficult with his ex wife

835
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,399
Speaker 1: ever present in my marriage. There can only be one

836
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,800
Speaker 1: missus Dowdry from here on out. Do I have to

837
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:01,799
Speaker 1: wait until this boy is eighteen and have his own

838
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:07,920
Speaker 1: life to be a privateority in my husband's life? Okay,

839
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 1: this letter is interesting and kind of confusing. I don't

840
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 1: think at all it's about priority. I think this letter

841
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 1: is about you thinking your husband still cares and has

842
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: feelings for his ex wife. I mean, I think that's

843
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 1: what's causing the problems. I do agree with you that

844
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 1: his son at fifteen wants to hang out with his

845
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: friends and not his dad. I mean, most teenagers want

846
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: to do that. But I completely disagree with you that

847
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: your husband's anger is because he still cares for his

848
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 1: ex anyone, anyone would be irritated if they drove two

849
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 1: hours and still couldn't see their child. Let me ask

850
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 1: you this though. There are a bunch of unanswered questions

851
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 1: that I have. Do you have a relationship at all

852
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: with the son? It certainly doesn't sound like it. You

853
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: know you're his stepmother, right. Why don't you go with

854
00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,239
Speaker 1: your husband when he goes to visit his son? I mean,

855
00:56:59,560 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 1: does he not want you to go? Or are you

856
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: not welcome over there? What is the issue? Why doesn't

857
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 1: the husband bring the son to your home? And why

858
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: doesn't the ex wife drop him off over there? A

859
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 1: lot of unanswered questions here. I think they've been left

860
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: out of this letter. It makes me think were you're

861
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 1: the mistress before? Is that why all of this is

862
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 1: going on? I don't know, food for thought. On my end,

863
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 1: I can also see your husband being irked by another

864
00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 1: man sitting up in the house that he bought. It

865
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: still doesn't mean he has feelings for his ex. It

866
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: could simply mean to him, why doesn't this man get

867
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: them a house if they're heading in that direction. I

868
00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,200
Speaker 1: think he would prefer a better example of a man

869
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 1: around his son and nothing more than that, because that's

870
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:46,480
Speaker 1: what parents do. They make it happen. So I think

871
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: you need to support this black dad, your husband, in

872
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,560
Speaker 1: his effort to spend quality time with his son, and

873
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: be happy that he wants to do that. I just

874
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: think you need to please stop all this arguing and

875
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 1: just do your part to make this a real family

876
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: unit here. I think that's what's missing. Steve. Well, lady,

877
00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:10,520
Speaker 1: you've got so many things miskewed in this letter. You've

878
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 1: just I think your interpretation of a lot of stuff

879
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 1: is off. Now you're forty seven year old wife and

880
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: your husband and I have been married for four years,

881
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: So you got married at forty three according to this letter,

882
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: and I'm listening you don't have any children, so you

883
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:33,320
Speaker 1: already are not going to understand a lot of what's

884
00:58:33,400 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 1: going on him during the four years. All the arguments

885
00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: that we have are over his ex wife, the mother

886
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: of his only son. She lives two hours away, and

887
00:58:42,800 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 1: at times he would drive to see his son and

888
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: this woman would not let him visit with the child. Wow,

889
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: And that's depending on her mood. When she is in

890
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: a mood, it affects him so that it affects me.

891
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 1: I've had numa conversations about him or why she still

892
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: affects him that way, and I've told him it means

893
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:04,919
Speaker 1: he still cares about her. What how did you pull

894
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: that out of that? What are you talking about? That's

895
00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 1: not what that means at all. The man drives two hours,

896
00:59:14,680 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 1: can't see his son, and you think and then guess

897
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 1: what you do? It affects him, so that affects me.

898
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:29,360
Speaker 1: This letter is filled with how you're affected. You ignore

899
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 1: the fact that this man is trying to have relationship

900
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: with his son to drove two hours, and then this

901
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 1: helfer who is using the child as a pond, which

902
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: they oftentimes do, and now he's irritated because he can't

903
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,960
Speaker 1: see his son. Now you still care about her? Why

904
00:59:47,000 --> 00:59:51,600
Speaker 1: did you get that from? How? And it affects him?

905
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: So now it affects me. It's always about you. He says,

906
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: he's irritated because it's a waste of time. That don't

907
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:02,320
Speaker 1: sound like a fact. That's true. He slipped up and

908
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: mentioned one day that he had company. He didn't slip up.

909
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 1: He told you you don't slip This ain't a slip off.

910
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,960
Speaker 1: He told you one day. I'll tell you when to

911
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 1: come back. You get response coming up at twenty three

912
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 1: minutes after the our subject of today's Strawberry letter, I'm

913
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 1: the wife, not the mistress. M all right, we'll get

914
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey

915
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:34,960
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's

916
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters. Subject I'm the wife, not the mistress. Okay,

917
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: so you're forty seven years old, you've been married for

918
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: four years, you have no children, and during the four years,

919
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 1: all who you have an argument over is about his

920
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:54,160
Speaker 1: ex wife, the mother of his only son. She lives

921
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 1: two hours away. He drives there, and sometimes a woman

922
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 1: uses the child as a pun and won't let him

923
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: see he's irritated. Yo. Takeaway from that whole thing is

924
01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: the reason when it affects him, it affects you. And

925
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 1: the reason he's affected by that's because he still cares

926
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: about her. What are you kidding me? But then when

927
01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 1: he tells you he's really irritated because it's a waste

928
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: of his time, which is true, you get that wrong.

929
01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 1: And then here's another thing. You say he slipped up

930
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 1: one time and mentioned one day that she had company

931
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: when he was there, and it messed up his whole

932
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 1: visit to know that that was a man in the

933
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 1: house he bought. He didn't slip off. That's not a

934
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: slip up story. I went to see my son and

935
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 1: ticked me off that there's another dude in here in

936
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,439
Speaker 1: the house. I bought. Men feel that way. I'm telling

937
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:48,240
Speaker 1: you right now every man I know would feel that way,

938
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: including me. I'm sending up here and pavement is how

939
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 1: his fool's got his feet up over here in the

940
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 1: house I didn't bought. I'm paying for a court and

941
01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:58,560
Speaker 1: gay to her. I gotta take care of my son now.

942
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 1: This dude over here, cook it, man, please, I know

943
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:07,360
Speaker 1: getting here well? He man as he should be. I

944
01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:09,400
Speaker 1: put that in the back of my mind because I

945
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 1: think that's what really irks him. Yeah, it really does

946
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 1: irk him. It ain't had nothing to do, but he

947
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: care about her. He's a great dad. But his son

948
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 1: is fifteen, so he's not really into his dad like

949
01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 1: that anymore. He prefers to be with his friends on

950
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: the weekend. Are you crazy? Are you crazy? Lady? So

951
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: now you're trying to sweep under the rug the father

952
01:02:34,760 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 1: son relationship because he's a teenager and his assessment is

953
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: he really ain't into his dad like that no more.

954
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 1: He really is into his dad. Fifteen year old boys,

955
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,320
Speaker 1: they might take him for granted, but they be into

956
01:02:48,400 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 1: their dad because if that dad ain't there, we out

957
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: a whole nother problem. But you're so selfish, you can't

958
01:02:55,200 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 1: see this. You's a selfish lady, man. But this woman

959
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 1: and my husband insist on making him visit. He has

960
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 1: to visit my husband and this woman insist that he visited.

961
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:14,520
Speaker 1: What are you talking about. You have to spend time

962
01:03:14,600 --> 01:03:17,439
Speaker 1: with your children. You have to invest in your son.

963
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 1: He fifteen, he's at an impressionable age. What are you

964
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: talking about? This woman and my husband insists on making

965
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: him visit he got to he asked for the visitation rights. Man,

966
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: you ain't got no kids. You're tripping. You're tripping, you

967
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: really are. And then this woman's family lives ten minutes

968
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: from us, so my husband spend times over there when

969
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 1: a woman and his son are in town. She will

970
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:49,320
Speaker 1: not drop the boy off over here, don't you see?

971
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: So now if he want to see your son, he

972
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:54,439
Speaker 1: gotta go over there. She will not drop the boy

973
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: off over here. She's using this boy as a pond.

974
01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,480
Speaker 1: She's making him jump through all the hoops. All I

975
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: can think that he steals enjoys hanging around her family

976
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 1: and spending time with her. And that's why how you

977
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 1: get that the woman won't drop the boy off. He

978
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 1: got to go over that. He must enjoy spending time

979
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 1: with the family. He don't want to go over there,

980
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: but it's his only chance to see in the sun.

981
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: But you so damned selfish and self sin it you

982
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:26,240
Speaker 1: keep making this about you. You're gonna mess up a

983
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: relationship that's well needed. And this boy gonna be lost

984
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:33,720
Speaker 1: without his dad. And then when I tell him that

985
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 1: he has no rebuttal, when I accuse him of putting

986
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:40,680
Speaker 1: her first, because what Roberto, is it, because why can

987
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 1: you rebuttle to something that's not the cause. He's dumbfounded.

988
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:50,439
Speaker 1: He really can't believe how ignorant you are. That's really

989
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 1: what the damn I'm married? Is she serious? He doesn't

990
01:04:55,520 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 1: have a rebuttal for that. All he says is that

991
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 1: I would understand if I had a child, and then

992
01:05:03,920 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: that starts another argument that ain't his faultry hand child?

993
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:10,480
Speaker 1: Y'all got married at forty. I want to be the

994
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 1: number one, but it's difficult with his ex wife ever

995
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: present in my marriage because she's using the child as

996
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 1: a pawn. Don't you get it? Don't be stupid. The

997
01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: woman knows she's creating dissension in your house, and she

998
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: uses the son to create the dissension. She knows exactly

999
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 1: what she's doing because she's cunning. So now she's making

1000
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:37,479
Speaker 1: his life as miserable as she can. But you don't

1001
01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: see that though, since you know everything. Don't you know

1002
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,840
Speaker 1: how women can be? Don't you? I bet every woman

1003
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 1: listening to this knows how they can be. Do I

1004
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: have to wait until the boys eighteen and has his

1005
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 1: own life to be a priority in my own husband's life,

1006
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 1: You're a priority in his life. But his son is

1007
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:59,480
Speaker 1: a priority too, And when he turns eighteen, I got

1008
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 1: more news for you. Children don't go away at eighteen.

1009
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 1: This ain't false to care. When his son turns eighteen,

1010
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:10,360
Speaker 1: he gonna still need his dad. My son still need me.

1011
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 1: I wish they'd go away somewhere, but they don't. They don't,

1012
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:21,280
Speaker 1: they don't, and they stick around and they need us.

1013
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:24,640
Speaker 1: And that's what parents do. And you need to realize

1014
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:26,920
Speaker 1: that you're a part of a man that is a parent.

1015
01:06:27,640 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 1: So you should start acting more like a parent instead

1016
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 1: of a spoil self senate wife. You're gonna make him

1017
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:39,360
Speaker 1: regret knowing you, lady, keep on. Yeah, that's probably why

1018
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: you ain't been married before. All right, Steve, thank you.

1019
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Instagram, on

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01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:49,840
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Fm, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

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01:06:49,920 --> 01:06:53,240
Speaker 1: on demand. Up next, more trending stories on some entertainment

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Speaker 1: news as well. Right after this, you're listening to Gas

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Speaker 1: prices are at an all time high. Rising energy costs gasoline, coal,

1024
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Speaker 1: and natural gas are a major driver of high inflation.

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Speaker 1: driving the higher gas prices. Drivers are paying one hundred

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Speaker 1: one dollar and fifty cent more per gallon than a

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Speaker 1: year ago. And that's according to Doug Schoop, a spokesperson

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Speaker 1: for a Triple A. It means the person who has

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Speaker 1: a typical midsize sedan with a fourteen gallon size fuel

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01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 1: tank will pay twenty one dollars more to fill up

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01:07:33,080 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 1: that tank today than last year. On Sunday, Senator Chuck

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01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 1: Schumer called on President Biden to tap into the nation's

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Speaker 1: Strategic Petroleum Reserve to provide temporary relief at the pump,

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Speaker 1: especially ahead of holiday travel. California continues to top the

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Speaker 1: nation's most expensive markets at four dollars and sixty two

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Speaker 1: cents a gallon. That's a lot of expenses. Steve, does

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01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: this affect you at all? I mean, I know, what

1039
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 1: would you say, Nephew, Hey, I don't know. He ain't

1040
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: pump no gas. Just what affects me? What? Yes, it

1041
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:20,760
Speaker 1: affects me? Okay? When hi, because now gas is more expensive?

1042
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:24,880
Speaker 1: And how does it affect you? Well, Tommy, I don't

1043
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 1: know if you know this or not, but they don't

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Speaker 1: give me free gas. You gotta pay for it. I

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Speaker 1: have to pay for gas too, So yes, it affects me.

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Speaker 1: But you didn't ask me if I feel it. You

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01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 1: ask me if it affects me, Well, do you feel it?

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01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 1: Affecting and feeling we mean the same thing. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: well listen to this. Listen to this right here, and

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01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:53,160
Speaker 1: I want to say this to everybody listening. How much

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01:08:53,280 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 1: is gas or gallery right now? Well? No, you can't

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01:08:57,479 --> 01:09:01,240
Speaker 1: hear the story how much? No, No, listen to me

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01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: and I'll give you some I'll give you some numbers.

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01:09:05,200 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 1: In LA. It's four dollars and sixty two cents a gallon. Okay,

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01:09:09,360 --> 01:09:14,240
Speaker 1: now okay, now right there, right there, that's high. If

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01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:20,479
Speaker 1: gas go to six dollars and fifty cents a gallon, Tommy,

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01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 1: is your ass not gonna buy the gas? I got

1058
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:27,000
Speaker 1: to get the guards. I rest on fill up case

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01:09:27,080 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 1: close wells you no, no, no point, as it may

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01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:36,040
Speaker 1: affect me, but I got it. It's gas. Okay, if

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01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 1: it goes up? Are you still gonna fly? Pray? What

1062
01:09:39,320 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 1: did I have to do with cass? Because you got

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01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 1: the kr gas? I know that gas high? If if

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01:09:45,080 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: if the car gas went up, I know the plane gass.

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01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:50,599
Speaker 1: See right, there. That's why are you talking about something

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01:09:50,680 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 1: that our listening audiences and has no interest in. This

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01:09:54,240 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 1: is bad radio. I got to start a camp about people. Morning.

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01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 1: We're going to talk about Thanksgiving dinner sides right after this.

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01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 1: You're listening to the show. So we know that the

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01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 1: turkey is the basis of the Thanksgiving meal. But for us,

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01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: we love those sides, don't we. The sides are the

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01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:26,519
Speaker 1: real stars. Nutrition is from the Good Housekeeping Institute have

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Speaker 1: ranked the most popular sides from healthiest to least healthy.

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Speaker 1: Pay attention to this, Steve, please all right. Brussels sprouts

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01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: number one, number one, never been on our ever, right ever,

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01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: number one, most popular, healthiest, healthiest side on Thanksgiving that

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01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 1: among us has head Brussels sprouts. I know him, all right, Okay,

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01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: Brussels sprouts are a good source of vitamins, AC and

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01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:11,160
Speaker 1: K and day. Okay. Butternut squash that's number never wait,

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01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:18,679
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, butter nuts squash it. Green bean

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01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:26,920
Speaker 1: casserole that's number three. This is the healthiest. Okay. If

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01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:29,160
Speaker 1: you put your green beans in the castle role in

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01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:35,880
Speaker 1: my house, you sent it. That's a sin. Okay. Now,

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01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:38,880
Speaker 1: this is kind of half right and half wrong. Sweet

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01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:42,880
Speaker 1: potato casserole, that's number four. We just like the sweet

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01:11:47,080 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 1: What do what do castle? Role means? What white temple? Well,

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01:11:53,080 --> 01:12:00,840
Speaker 1: white and white porcelain dish? Nice cast role? Don't they

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01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:04,800
Speaker 1: put like nuts on top of it like we do?

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01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 1: Sweet potatoes? Okay, okay, we're it's coming, it's getting home.

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01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 1: It's getting close now, um mashed potatoes. We don't really

1091
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:17,880
Speaker 1: never really, we don't know. We got the dress. Here

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01:12:17,960 --> 01:12:19,640
Speaker 1: we go, here we go. This is us right here,

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01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:31,920
Speaker 1: number six, dinner rolls, dinner rolls, Yes, dress number seven,

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01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 1: cranberry sauce. Who houses this called absolute must? Julie? I know,

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01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:41,280
Speaker 1: I know, but why is it number seven? Stop wearing

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01:12:41,320 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 1: about the number? Boy? They're coming, But there's ocean spraying. Now,

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01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: there's ocean spray. Go here? Yeah, all right? Dressing five

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01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 1: eight eight eight. Because it has a lot of calories,

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01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 1: it's high end sodium to sleep. That's why it's number one.

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01:13:05,720 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 1: Number nine. This is embarrassing, Mac and cheese? Is it

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01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 1: number nine? I'm leaving at this point? So they're just

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01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: doing the black people lass. I mean, we used everything, everything,

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01:13:23,520 --> 01:13:27,760
Speaker 1: because I'm not eating a Brussels frout who I've never

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01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 1: heard of that, I have a question. I need you

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01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 1: all advice. When Shirley finished, okay, all right, all right,

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01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:40,160
Speaker 1: let me do number ten one more gravy. You got

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01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 1: to be playing gray ten people because it's made from

1108
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:48,800
Speaker 1: grease drippings and the neck and giblets and all that,

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01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: so it's not very healthy. All right, Okay, this is

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01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 1: according to a Good Housekeeping Okay, call what's your question? Okay,

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01:13:58,240 --> 01:14:00,160
Speaker 1: so y'all know. I don't know if y'all know this,

1112
01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:04,720
Speaker 1: but my sister in law is white, and so the

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01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:10,439
Speaker 1: green being cast roll huh my my husband's little brothers

1114
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:17,840
Speaker 1: Mari to a worker, to Harker and he he was

1115
01:14:18,680 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 1: he was in San Diego or something. He was that

1116
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 1: hold on, Hold on, car save your question for the

1117
01:14:28,120 --> 01:14:32,559
Speaker 1: next break. The whole where he met the white girl.

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01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:38,120
Speaker 1: Are you going to get the backstory? Yeah? I bet

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01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 1: it's gonna be scream being cast role in there? Yeah,

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01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:44,000
Speaker 1: So how do I tell her? I don't hold girl?

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01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:50,080
Speaker 1: All right, We'll come back with Carlos Thanksgiving family question.

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01:14:56,880 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show. Before we went to break,

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Speaker 1: Carla had a question about Thanksgiving and sides. It looks

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01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 1: like this is a black and white issue. Blackness and

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01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:13,719
Speaker 1: white sides. Yeah, you know the culture of the cultural

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01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:16,799
Speaker 1: differences and where we prefer with our sides for Thanksgiving

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01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:20,680
Speaker 1: black white Thanksgiving. My sister in law, it's white. How

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01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 1: do I tell her about the green being castleroll that

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01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 1: I will, really and it's a tradition. But Steve needed

1130
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:33,840
Speaker 1: to know a black backstory about your not a black story,

1131
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 1: a backstory about your Why do you need to know

1132
01:15:37,240 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 1: all of this? This is about listen to me this,

1133
01:15:41,280 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 1: sweet Becky, let me tell you what we're doing. No,

1134
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,080
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be at the house. Listen to me.

1135
01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: To really make people feel warm and welcome. I think

1136
01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:59,519
Speaker 1: we should fix items as more inclusives. And black people

1137
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:04,839
Speaker 1: don't like thing they mosa mosa do whatever talk brother, family,

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01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:10,880
Speaker 1: don't like green beans up under stuff you reach in

1139
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:12,559
Speaker 1: the part. They should be in a pot by their

1140
01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:15,519
Speaker 1: self where we could see if we getting potatoes within

1141
01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 1: turket baking with it. What we can't do is scoop

1142
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:19,840
Speaker 1: it up and see a whole lot of stuff on

1143
01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:24,679
Speaker 1: the play carrias and onions and love, pearl and juice

1144
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 1: and all this here. We just want green beans. So

1145
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:29,800
Speaker 1: you can't do this right here and we really don't

1146
01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 1: care for punking path. If you stop and maybe your

1147
01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:38,439
Speaker 1: dressing about the comfort inside of it, not on top,

1148
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:41,320
Speaker 1: you know, in a pant. We'll do a round of

1149
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:43,639
Speaker 1: would you rather? At thirty three minutes after. Right after

1150
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:49,280
Speaker 1: this you're listening too, it's time for a round of

1151
01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:52,600
Speaker 1: would you rather? Here we go, would you rather be

1152
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:56,799
Speaker 1: placed in a home when you become old or elderly?

1153
01:16:57,400 --> 01:17:00,160
Speaker 1: Or would you rather live with your children in a

1154
01:17:00,240 --> 01:17:07,639
Speaker 1: tiny house. I'm gonna go to the home and spread. Yeah,

1155
01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:09,679
Speaker 1: I'm gonna gonna give me my check because I'm gonna

1156
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have it right now. I'm gonna be down

1157
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:12,479
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have a couple of women down at

1158
01:17:12,520 --> 01:17:14,920
Speaker 1: this home. Everything. What I'm not gonna do with up

1159
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 1: in this little tiny ass house. That's not going to happen.

1160
01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:21,640
Speaker 1: I'm not living in the tiny house. Now. Put me

1161
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 1: in the home with this money, and watch when you

1162
01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 1: come to the home, Watch how much of it don't

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01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 1: I'm rocking at the home. I'm what. I'm at the

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01:17:35,080 --> 01:17:37,560
Speaker 1: home base, but I'm pim pimp at the home. You

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01:17:37,680 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 1: hear me, I'll rock you on your rocker. I'm at

1166
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 1: the Friday Night dance every Friday on my walker. Yeah,

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01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:50,639
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be at the home. You're kicking it. I'm

1168
01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 1: kicking kicking it, all right. Would you rather run across

1169
01:17:56,720 --> 01:18:00,680
Speaker 1: the four or five in LA and all that in La?

1170
01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:04,320
Speaker 1: Or would you rather go shopping Atlantics Mall in Atlanta

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01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 1: on Saturday? Full five? Saturday? Give it to me again?

1172
01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:13,720
Speaker 1: She all right? Would you rather run across the four

1173
01:18:13,840 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 1: or five in LA and all that traffic? Okay? Or

1174
01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:20,240
Speaker 1: would you rather go shopping Atlantics Mall in Atlanta on

1175
01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:24,120
Speaker 1: a Saturday. I'm gonna shop it in I'm saying, yeah,

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01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 1: I'm not running across that damn fall five, y'all. I'm

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01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 1: going across that four five. I'm not running across that

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01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 1: full five. Give me that shopping bag. I don't give it.

1179
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 1: I run through Linux. But what you can shoot at somebody,

1180
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 1: you can't do a damn thing with them cars coming

1181
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 1: fast and you can get shot on the full five?

1182
01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:47,920
Speaker 1: All that can have more full five? Hell no, give

1183
01:18:47,920 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 1: me the bag. Let me go on here and talk

1184
01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:52,200
Speaker 1: to you du with the hell shoes. Don't work through

1185
01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:55,640
Speaker 1: some things, learn some culture stuff in here. I'm just

1186
01:18:55,760 --> 01:18:57,519
Speaker 1: going to here a deal with what's happen in at

1187
01:18:57,560 --> 01:19:00,519
Speaker 1: Linux on the sage say, man, how you how you

1188
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 1: rocking them? Heell there thing okay? I mean your feet,

1189
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:06,600
Speaker 1: Yanta be hurt. I'm gonna come out there with some

1190
01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:10,720
Speaker 1: bits or something. All these fake as bergen bag they

1191
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:12,880
Speaker 1: be canning all this. I'll take pictures. I'm coming out

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01:19:12,920 --> 01:19:14,639
Speaker 1: there with a bit. I'm not running across that damn

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01:19:14,720 --> 01:19:17,720
Speaker 1: four five. Next question, share, I'm running across the fall five.

1194
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:23,479
Speaker 1: You must I don't give a damn lista talk to me. Dang.

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01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:26,760
Speaker 1: All right, let's get back to food real quickly. Would

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01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:30,000
Speaker 1: you rather have everything you eat mother than white gravy

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01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 1: for a whole week? Or would you rather for it

1198
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:36,200
Speaker 1: to be covered in hot sauce, white gravy on everything

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01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 1: you need for hot everything possible. I don't love a

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01:19:40,080 --> 01:19:41,760
Speaker 1: damn how much you go with this hot sauce, that

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01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:48,559
Speaker 1: white gravy. You finn, Yeah, I do that? Call us

1202
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 1: if we do that, naw, everything that ain't no life

1203
01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 1: change from me. I'll tell you what we're not gonna

1204
01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:58,800
Speaker 1: do is just damn quite grave. All right, we'll be back.

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01:19:59,720 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 1: We'll back with our last break of the day. At

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01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 1: forty nine minutes after some closing remarks from the one

1207
01:20:04,240 --> 01:20:07,160
Speaker 1: and only Steve Harvey right after this you're listening to

1208
01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 1: show all right, guys, here we are our last break

1209
01:20:11,920 --> 01:20:17,719
Speaker 1: of the day on this Wednesday hump day, yes day, man,

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01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:24,160
Speaker 1: Man the Thanksgiving dinner side. I'm just sord I'm sorry

1211
01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:26,560
Speaker 1: about all this. Here's a lot of stuff. You know what,

1212
01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:36,760
Speaker 1: though it countered away from that, well, okay, away from that,

1213
01:20:36,840 --> 01:20:39,240
Speaker 1: because you know, look, it's time for closing marks. So

1214
01:20:39,400 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 1: let me try to put something together right because I could,

1215
01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:44,680
Speaker 1: I could run it down about these menu, but we

1216
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:48,120
Speaker 1: got time for that. You know what my closing remarks.

1217
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:51,880
Speaker 1: He is today and a lot of people can relate

1218
01:20:51,960 --> 01:20:57,880
Speaker 1: to what I'm about to say. I'm so grateful that

1219
01:20:58,040 --> 01:21:02,479
Speaker 1: I have a relationship with God, because, man, it just

1220
01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 1: show helps me out. Man, It helps me get centered,

1221
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:14,120
Speaker 1: It helps me live in with peace of mind. It

1222
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:17,640
Speaker 1: gives me a level of comfort that I would not

1223
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:21,519
Speaker 1: have if I didn't have this relationship with him. I'm

1224
01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:25,200
Speaker 1: just so grateful for that, man, because in this world

1225
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:28,320
Speaker 1: we live in, there's so much stimuli in all of

1226
01:21:28,400 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 1: our lives. You know, you wake up in the morning

1227
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 1: and you grab your cell phone. You want to check

1228
01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 1: your messages, your emails, anything came through. You want to

1229
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 1: check your Facebook page, see if anybody called, and you

1230
01:21:41,439 --> 01:21:44,960
Speaker 1: check your ig see what's going on, check your DMS

1231
01:21:45,000 --> 01:21:50,040
Speaker 1: and all this here. What I've learned is the best

1232
01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:54,439
Speaker 1: way for me to start my day is to start

1233
01:21:54,720 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 1: my day with prayer and meditation. That's the best way

1234
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 1: to start my day. And you know, when I missed that,

1235
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:06,479
Speaker 1: I really noticed something. If I miss it in the morning,

1236
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 1: But when I take the time to sit up and

1237
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:14,160
Speaker 1: just say thank you, when I can wiggle my toes

1238
01:22:14,400 --> 01:22:17,680
Speaker 1: or blink my eyes or take a deep breath, or

1239
01:22:19,000 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 1: or realize that today is another opportunity and no matter

1240
01:22:23,479 --> 01:22:26,439
Speaker 1: what happened, He's given me this other chance, you know.

1241
01:22:26,600 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 1: And and then I got a brand new eighty four thousand,

1242
01:22:30,400 --> 01:22:34,679
Speaker 1: six hundred seconds today to deal with. I just say

1243
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 1: thank you. I just say thank you for all the

1244
01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:42,400
Speaker 1: things I can think of, my health, my family, my strength,

1245
01:22:43,360 --> 01:22:48,960
Speaker 1: my my my understanding, my wisdom, my will, the things

1246
01:22:49,040 --> 01:22:51,519
Speaker 1: he's done for me, the things he's given me, the

1247
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:54,519
Speaker 1: things he's about to do for me. By the time

1248
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:58,320
Speaker 1: I spend that time saying thank you for all those things,

1249
01:22:58,479 --> 01:23:01,559
Speaker 1: right there, man, it's starts my day off the right way,

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Speaker 1: because you know what, when you focus on your blessings

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Speaker 1: and not on your burdens, it changes your perspective. Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Now listen, Do I know you have some troubles? I

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Speaker 1: bet you do. Do you have some things you gotta

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Speaker 1: contend with? Oh? Yes you do. Are you facing some

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Speaker 1: things that you might not be sure of and it's

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Speaker 1: creating a little anxiety? Oh yes it is. But it's

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Speaker 1: that relationship that I have with God that allows me

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Speaker 1: to know that I'm able to cope with it all.

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Speaker 1: And I've said this a hundred times on the show,

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Speaker 1: but I'm gonna say it again because if you think

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Speaker 1: of all your bad days, if you think of all

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Speaker 1: the days you thought you wasn't gonna make it, that

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Speaker 1: you didn't have answers, do you think of all the

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Speaker 1: times you've had horrible days? I just want to remind

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Speaker 1: you in each one of those days that your track

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Speaker 1: record for surviving those types of days is one that's

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Speaker 1: valuable information, man. And with that information right there, it

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Speaker 1: always lets me know that I will survive whatever else

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Speaker 1: happens to me. It's that relationship that I had with God,

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Speaker 1: man that settles me down. That keeps me focused. That

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Speaker 1: allows me to stay on track even when I get

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Speaker 1: off track. And do I get off track? Yes? I do?

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Speaker 1: Why because I'm human? Yes, it's some days, man, when

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Speaker 1: I wake up and I don't say thank you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: some days I wake up and I just get started.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I woke up later. Maybe I just jumped up

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Speaker 1: and I heard something that went out stairs and I

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Speaker 1: just got to move it around, and I didn't say

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Speaker 1: thank you. Y'all had them days? I had them days

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Speaker 1: when I want to tell somebody off. Y'all? Do I

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Speaker 1: had them days when somebody that got on my nerves

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Speaker 1: and I decide that I'm going straighten them out myself. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I do. I have all them days, just like you.

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Speaker 1: But when I take a moment to pause and I

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Speaker 1: get a chance to sit with myself and go, hey, man,

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Speaker 1: is it worth it? Every time? Is not? Yeah? Man, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you can say this, or you can go do that,

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Speaker 1: or you can tell them off, but really do you care?

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Speaker 1: Like I'm under attack right now, somebody's trying to attack me,

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Speaker 1: and you know what, I don't even care. I've got

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Speaker 1: the warning signal that the attack is coming. I don't

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Speaker 1: even care. I don't even care. Do what you want

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Speaker 1: to do, what you're gonna do. I'm tired of people

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Speaker 1: thinking they got some control over me because they have

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Speaker 1: the ability to say this online. Say what you want

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Speaker 1: to say. You know what's gonna happen. I'm gonna keep

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Speaker 1: rising because you have nothing to do with my rise.

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Speaker 1: You are not my God, you're not the architect of

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Speaker 1: my story. You're not my savior. You're nothing to me,

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Speaker 1: and I will not give you one moment of power

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Speaker 1: over me. So write what you want to write, and

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Speaker 1: say what you want to say. When you get through,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna rise. And this message is to my cousin.

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Speaker 1: I got a big cousin who loves me. Man always

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Speaker 1: tries to protect me. Text me the other day, say uncle, Ma,

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Speaker 1: I get tired of color. I get tired when I

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Speaker 1: hear people talking about you. Let them talk, man. When

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Speaker 1: they get through talking, I'm still here. They don't even

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Speaker 1: know me. Man, don't even let that affect you. I

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Speaker 1: don't care no more. I truly don't care no more.

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Speaker 1: Say what you want to say, do what you want

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Speaker 1: to do. God is my savior. God is my strength.

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Speaker 1: God is my rock, And you can't do nothing about

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Speaker 1: that those are my closing remarks today, and I know

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Speaker 1: what I just said. A whole lot of people feel

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Speaker 1: that exact same way. You see the more For all

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