WEBVTT - The Karol Markowicz Show: The Most Important Changes You Can Make for a Fulfilling Relationship with Dave Rubin 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:14.320 Hi, and welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio. 0:00:15.400 --> 0:00:17.959 A few episodes ago, I said that it's a cop 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:21.840 out to tell people that they should settle, because it's 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:25.000 the wrong advice to give. It's the nice advice. 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.920 It tells people that they are perfect just the way 0:00:27.920 --> 0:00:31.480 they are, and their standards are simply too high, and 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:35.280 that's just generally not the case. There's a meme I 0:00:35.360 --> 0:00:39.200 see shared a lot, especially around Valentine's Day. It says, 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:43.880 I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.559 I'm out of control and at times hard to handle. 0:00:47.040 --> 0:00:49.040 But if you can't handle me at my worst, then 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.440 you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:55.440 The line is attributed to Marilyn Monroe, though there's no 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:59.280 evidence Monroe I ever actually said it. Sometimes the quote 0:00:59.360 --> 0:01:01.720 is just the last line, that you can't handle me 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:03.959 at my worst, and you sure as hell don't deserve me. 0:01:03.960 --> 0:01:04.639 At my best. 0:01:05.560 --> 0:01:09.040 It's usually accompanied by a picture of a smoking hot 0:01:09.080 --> 0:01:13.520 Monroe oozing sex appeal and challenging anyone to not want 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:17.720 her even at her worst. But it's a deeply damaging idea. 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:22.360 For one thing, none of us are Marilyn Monroe for another. 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.400 The idea that we don't need to change anything about 0:01:25.440 --> 0:01:28.360 ourselves and are perfect just the way we are can 0:01:28.440 --> 0:01:32.399 hinder finding a good partner and a healthy relationship. The 0:01:32.480 --> 0:01:35.600 fact is, if you are perpetually single and can never 0:01:35.640 --> 0:01:38.760 meet anyone, there are probably some things you can change 0:01:38.760 --> 0:01:42.520 about yourself. And despite what your friends have told you 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:46.480 in Unison, it probably isn't that you're just too awesome 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:48.880 for all the people you meet, too good for them, 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:53.440 too beautiful, too handsome, too amazing. There's probably something about 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.640 you that is repelling potential mates. It doesn't mean you're 0:01:56.640 --> 0:02:00.720 a terrible person or this can't be solved, something that 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:01.680 needs to be fixed. 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:03.120 Women get this. 0:02:03.040 --> 0:02:06.520 Advice a lot, that you're just perfect just the way 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:08.919 you are and look. Men get a lot of terrible 0:02:08.960 --> 0:02:09.520 advice too. 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:11.960 Don't get me wrong, but women are the ones who 0:02:12.000 --> 0:02:14.920 are always getting assured that they're just super perfect and 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:19.040 couldn't possibly make changes to attract a mate. Assuming you 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:20.600 know whether or not you're a woman or a man, 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:23.600 you have good hygiene, are not hideous to look at, 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:25.040 and you're probably. 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:25.720 Not hideous to look at. 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:29.520 That's just the fact, and have no obvious problems, no 0:02:29.760 --> 0:02:34.200 substance abuse or weird tattoos on your neck. The problem 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:37.440 is likely your personality. And if I may speculate a 0:02:37.440 --> 0:02:41.280 bit further, it's almost definitely that you talk too much 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:44.280 about very little. If you're listening and you swear, look, 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:46.360 I don't smell bad, I look good. I don't feel 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:48.720 like I talk too much, It's time for a reality check. 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:51.240 There has to be one person in your life who 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:53.399 will be completely honest with you. 0:02:52.760 --> 0:02:55.679 You need that person to tell you in a very 0:02:55.720 --> 0:02:59.440 straightforward way, what you're doing wrong. It might not be 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:02.680 the amount you talk, but what you say. Do you 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:04.120 talk about bodily. 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:08.640 Functions, ex girlfriends, men who hit on you constantly? An 0:03:08.800 --> 0:03:12.040 esoteric hobby you have that if you know anything about 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:16.120 Do you take any experience or event and relate it 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:19.240 immediately back to yourself with a story, no matter how 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:22.560 short to match. Do people shake their heads a lot 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.520 when they're talking to you, even in a playful, oh 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:28.880 you kind of way. It goes back to the problem 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:31.000 that I talked about a few episodes ago, which is 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:33.600 that people don't know how to flirt. We don't know 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:37.040 how to conversate. That's really what it is flirting is conversation. 0:03:37.920 --> 0:03:40.960 If people say that's crazy a lot to you as 0:03:41.000 --> 0:03:43.240 you're talking, you're not having a conversation. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:44.800 You're delivering a monologue. 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:47.720 So I don't want you to settle, but I want 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:50.280 you to rearrange your personality to land a man or 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:53.720 a woman. No, I want you to rearrange your personality 0:03:53.800 --> 0:03:56.600 so you can have a more fulfilling and interesting life, 0:03:56.880 --> 0:04:00.840 the life you want. Everybody has the capacity. 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:01.800 To be boring or inappropriate. 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:04.200 It's the keeping it in check that makes you not 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:07.680 annoying to be around. This isn't just for a mate, 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:11.360 it's for you. Those people playfully shaking their heads at 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:14.880 your ridiculous tales have no other response to your stories, 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:18.520 but perhaps they are your friends, family, co workers, and 0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:22.000 so have learned to adapt. The person of your dreams 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:25.680 might not want to. The best version of a conversation 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:27.840 isn't for the other person to say. 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:29.200 Mmmm mmmmm mm hmm. 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:32.599 It's for them to have something to say back to you. 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:35.840 Give them something interesting to respond to, and they will. 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:37.000 Thank you for listening. 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:41.040 Coming up next and interview with Dave Rubin. Join us 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:53.039 after the break, Hi, and welcome back to the Carol 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:57.560 Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio. My guest today is the amazing 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:01.120 Dave Rubin. Dave's host of The Ruben Report and co 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:02.640 founder of Locals. 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:04.120 So nice to have you on, Dave. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:07.400 I like the amazing Dave Rubin. It sounds like I'm 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:10.680 like a washed up magician or something. The Amazing watch 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.680 where he pulls the rabbit from. 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:15.680 I was going to go with incredible, but that felt 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:18.479 like too much, you know, ah. 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:20.400 It is incredible, more over the top than amazing. I'm 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:22.080 not quite sure. We leave that to the audience. 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:25.400 I think so, I think incredible is you know, like 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:27.400 we'll save that for your second interview here. 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:28.960 You know, so. 0:05:30.760 --> 0:05:33.440 You and I have a kind of symbiotic thing. 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.040 Where we both moved to Florida within a few weeks 0:05:36.080 --> 0:05:38.280 of each other, a few days of each other, and 0:05:38.320 --> 0:05:40.039 we're coming up on two years now. 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:42.480 So how's it been. What's your favorite part? 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:45.839 Well? I know the exact day I arrived in Florida. 0:05:45.920 --> 0:05:49.000 Do you know your exact day? Because mine was December seventeenth, 0:05:49.120 --> 0:05:51.160 twenty twenty one, and it is a day that I 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:54.320 will never forget. I was fortunate enough that we have 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:56.680 a friend who's got some pretty good means, and we 0:05:56.720 --> 0:05:59.440 didn't want to have our dog fly under the plane 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:02.840 on a commercial flight, so he let us borrow his plane. 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:04.800 It was only the second time that I've ever been 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:07.360 on a private plane, and you know, you get all 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:09.200 the drinks you want and the food you want, and 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:13.279 it was just great. And as we were landing, the 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:14.719 pilot said to me, do you want to sit in 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:16.920 the jump seat? That's kind of right behind the You're 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:18.880 in the cockpit in essence, but you're kind of right 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:21.960 behind the pilot. And I got in there, and it 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:23.839 was we were landing at about I think nine or 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:26.640 ten PM, and I kid you not. As we landed 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:31.440 in Miami International Airport, I felt something lift off my chest. 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:33.600 The last two years in LA I had lived there 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:37.280 for eight years, six years, were pretty great. My career 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.680 took off there. I did what you were supposed to 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:41.719 do if you go to LA it's to like follow 0:06:41.760 --> 0:06:44.159 the dream. And I'm one of the lucky ones. I 0:06:44.160 --> 0:06:47.840 suppose it worked. Whatever I was doing, it happened. But 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:51.400 then the two COVID years and the ridiculous recall, and 0:06:51.480 --> 0:06:53.800 of course I campaigned with Larry Elder, and then I 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:56.720 got audited by the state. Three days after that, I 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:59.320 was just so ready to leave. I was so angry 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:03.039 at everybody. It's you know me, My general disposition is 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:05.880 pretty positive, but I hate everywhere i'd go. I just 0:07:05.960 --> 0:07:08.719 hated everybody. I couldn't deal with the masks, all the nonsense. 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:12.080 And just like you, I moved to the place that 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:16.000 our friend and governor calls the Citadel of Freedom, and 0:07:16.200 --> 0:07:18.600 I have loved every second of being here. I have 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:21.280 stayed here for two summers. And yes, it is warm, 0:07:21.360 --> 0:07:23.600 I admit it, and you sweat and your hair is 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:26.800 a little bit lower. It is device to pay. They 0:07:26.840 --> 0:07:28.720 also now have something I don't know if you have 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:30.720 this up where you are. We're a couple miles apart, 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:33.960 but you can actually put this device. It's like a 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.800 box in your window and you press a button and 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:39.640 it literally cow's going to blow your mind. It conditions 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:40.920 the air. I don't know what. 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:43.720 I'm in a sweater, I'm freezing in my house. 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:48.400 Thus proving the point these devices are. These devices are 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:51.760 readily available. So yes, I love everything about being in Florida. 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:55.160 And just one other quick thing for me, sort of 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:58.679 like existentially, what I've realized is I fought very hard 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.400 against the craziness of CAW for a long time. It 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:03.240 did spur me on in a lot of ways. It 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:06.400 made my show more valuable to be fighting against something 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:07.960 and all that. But I can tell you in the 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:11.560 two years of fighting for something here, maybe it's I'm 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:13.360 at the ripe old age of forty seven now, Like 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:17.400 I just I like fighting for something as opposed to 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:20.840 fighting against something. So that, Yeah, Florida love it. 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.120 Yes, do you feel like California? I mean I think 0:08:23.160 --> 0:08:24.600 you do. But is it totally lost? 0:08:24.600 --> 0:08:27.960 Cause, yeah, it's completely lost. It's a one party state. 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:31.000 There simply aren't enough good people there to fix it anymore. 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:34.360 Gavin Newsom, I think is basically the anti Christ and 0:08:34.600 --> 0:08:37.160 or a lizard person who most likely is going to 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:38.839 be the nominee. I don't know how they're going to 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:40.280 do it, but they are getting bited and out of 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:42.000 the way. I know you and I don't fully see 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:44.040 eyed eye on that one, which for you I think 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:45.880 is more of a timing thing. But I just think 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:48.920 there is no trick that these people cannot do right 0:08:48.960 --> 0:08:51.160 in front of our faces. They'll just do it. They'll 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:53.000 push the black Lady out of the way. They'll do 0:08:53.040 --> 0:08:54.880 it right in front of our eyes. They'll spin the 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:57.680 chair around and it'll be Gavin like, it's so dangerous, 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:01.800 they're so evil, and it's so But no, I have 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:03.960 no hope because you know the other thing that's happened 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:08.040 is that as we've had this massive migration, the red 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:10.160 states are getting redder and the blue are getting bluer. 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:13.320 So all of think about if I literally could sit here, 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:15.960 probably for the next twenty minutes and go through all 0:09:16.000 --> 0:09:20.200 of the people and businesses that I know that moved 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:22.400 from Cali and came here to Florida. Now plenty of 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:25.040 them moved by the way to Texas obviously in Tennessee, 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:29.880 but the amount of brain drain that California is suffering. 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:33.520 The good people who have left San Francisco left LA 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:36.800 and they've brought all of their talents and their businesses here, 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:38.640 and the people are voting here the right way, So 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:40.800 there just aren't enough good people. It's sort of like 0:09:40.840 --> 0:09:43.040 New York City, and I know you're a Brooklyn girl. 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:45.720 It's like I was in New York City during nine 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:48.200 to eleven. I lived most of my formative years there, 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:51.600 in my early twenties into mid thirties, and it's like 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:55.680 there is no Giuliani left. There isn't. I mean, Rudy's there, 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.480 but I don't think he wants to run from mayor again. 0:09:57.840 --> 0:10:01.400 But there aren't enough good people anymore. And you know 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:05.280 Lee Zelden, who nobody knew of until two weeks before 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:08.720 that gubernatorial election. He lost by about I think it 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.760 was four hundred and fifty thousand votes in New York. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:15.880 About five hundred thousand people have fled New York in 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:18.839 the COVID years. So not to say that every single 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:20.560 one of them would have voted for him, and obviously 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:22.160 some of them are kids and everything else. But the 0:10:22.200 --> 0:10:26.720 point is the difference, which isn't that great even in 0:10:26.760 --> 0:10:29.320 New York, you know, a couple hundred thousand votes. It's 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:32.360 exacerbated by the fact that so many people have left. 0:10:32.400 --> 0:10:34.240 And you know what, as a Floridian, I'll take it. 0:10:34.840 --> 0:10:35.559 Yeah, for sure. 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:38.720 I feel bad for the people trying to vote themselves 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:41.400 to sanity in places like California and New York. But 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:43.560 you're right, there's just not enough of them. Although it 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:46.679 looks like Long Island is going pretty red and so 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:50.160 their pockets. But no, there's just you know, most of 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:52.520 us have gotten out, and I think that that's sort 0:10:52.520 --> 0:10:55.520 of the future for anybody saying kind of left behind, which, 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:57.880 you know, too bad, because those were a great states. 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:00.240 They were doing so well for a while. We were 0:11:00.240 --> 0:11:03.000 able to coast on like good Republican leadership for so 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:05.559 long that we almost didn't notice how badly they were 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:06.200 falling apart. 0:11:06.280 --> 0:11:07.880 But you know, here we. 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.240 Are, Carol. Do you remember, I'm sure we're going to 0:11:10.280 --> 0:11:11.640 talk about Israel in a little bit, but do you 0:11:11.640 --> 0:11:15.480 remember the last scene in both the play and or 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:17.560 a movie of Fiddler on the Roof, So you know 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.560 they're in that scene it a lot. Yeah, it's an 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:23.959 incredible moment. It's really one of my favorite moments in 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.600 movie history, because you know, they're realizing that they can't 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:30.360 stay in their steadle anymore and everything is falling apart, 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:34.000 and Tevia, who's obviously the main character, and his friend 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:36.440 Laser Wolf they're trying to figure out where they're going 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:38.880 to go. And I might slightly butcher this, but in essence, 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:41.520 his friend Laser is like, I'm going to Chicago, and 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:43.679 he's like, I'm going to New York. And it's like 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.360 they don't know what they're saying. You could be saying, 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:47.480 I'm going to Mars and I'm going to Venus. It's 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:49.959 like they're just they're going to what they view as 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:53.280 something better than where they're at. And I would say 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:55.600 to anyone who is saying that wants to live in 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:59.559 a safe, free place, you really should move to a 0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:01.400 red state. But only do it if you're going to 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:06.800 vote the right way, because unfortunately, the history of freedom 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:11.320 and free people is an aberration. The default situation for 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:17.160 humans is autocracy and authoritarianism and everything else. And you know, 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:19.880 if you live in New York right now, like, do 0:12:19.960 --> 0:12:22.760 you feel like if someone broke into your house that 0:12:23.679 --> 0:12:25.400 they would do any of the police would do anything. 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:28.200 Do you feel like if a mob ran by your store? 0:12:28.320 --> 0:12:30.000 I know it was your friend in New York City, 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:31.920 they went by her store. It's like, do you think 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:34.360 the authorities will do anything or do you think that 0:12:34.360 --> 0:12:37.720 they'll basically give a you know, a speech about Islamophobia, 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.280 like we've got everything backwards in most of the places, 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:41.199 but not every place. 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:43.800 Yeah, And the fact that you can't protect yourself, like 0:12:43.840 --> 0:12:45.760 you and I went gun shopping a few weeks ago. 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:47.600 That was a good time I mean something you just 0:12:47.600 --> 0:12:50.600 can't can't do in New York or la And you know, 0:12:50.679 --> 0:12:52.400 so you can't count on anybody to protect you, but 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.960 you also can't protect yourself. The double whemming of that 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:57.520 about the Fiddler on the Roof scene. You know, what 0:12:57.559 --> 0:12:59.760 I've thought about a lot is that they're leaving. They're 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:02.199 really upset they have to leave their home. But if 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:04.880 you think about it, those are the luckiest. 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:07.600 Jews in like history. They get out, Okay, they have 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:08.160 the programs. 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.000 Yeah, I think you know, things are not going well, 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:12.160 but they get out at the turn of the century, 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:15.480 out of Europe. They end up missing, you know, the Holocaust. 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:20.640 They are living in America. Their ancestors are the Jewish 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:23.680 voices for peace now because they've lived in like this 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:27.320 complete safety for so long. Those turn of the century 0:13:27.400 --> 0:13:31.559 Jews are always the ones that their ancestors, their grandchildren, 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.760 their great grandchildren always end up being far left because 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:37.520 they've had this security of America for so long that 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:40.000 they don't even know what it could be like if 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:41.680 they had stayed and ATEFKA. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.160 Yeah, you know, there's a lot to say about that. 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:47.080 First off, I would say on like Jewish voices for 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:50.559 peace or any of these ridiculous organizations. Most of them 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:55.720 are not Jewish voices. It's largely like Islamists and crazed Marxists. 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:58.240 They put jew in there so that it looks good 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:01.559 when they're protesting, like I'm a Jew for Palestine, which 0:14:01.600 --> 0:14:04.280 is very different than Palestine for Jews, like queers for 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:07.480 Palestine and everything else. So largely it's not Jews that 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:10.320 have anything to do with that. Your broader point though, 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:14.320 of you know what assimilation does generations down the line, 0:14:14.720 --> 0:14:17.320 and what sort of like the ultimate promise of freedom, 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:21.000 you know, freedom. What you want is freedom from you 0:14:21.040 --> 0:14:24.400 want freedom from oppression. That's what That's what Teva would 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:28.520 have wanted in Antecma. But you don't. But but freedom too, 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:30.680 where it's then just do whatever the hell you want 0:14:30.800 --> 0:14:33.720 and nothing is real and anything is up in the 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:36.840 air and all those things. That's what unfortunately has led 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.200 to a lot of I don't really want to make 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:41.520 it about Jews, but a lot of what I would 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:44.640 say are modern woke leftists. It's like they just say 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:46.720 all these things and none of these things mean anything. 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:49.880 For example, there was a you just texted me something 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:52.280 like an hour ago from this guy who I think 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:54.200 writes it. We don't even have to mention his name, 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.040 but he writes at New York Magazine or New York 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:57.880 or one of these things, and you know, and you 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:02.000 could tell he's just like a New York like. I 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:04.600 just like can't stand I can't stand their affect. I 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:06.560 feel like they all have bad breath and they don't 0:15:06.600 --> 0:15:08.680 they eat too much, so I just ate that whole thing. 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:11.080 They're all kind of asexual. I just can't stand it. 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:15.080 But you know, he wrote something like, you know, Jews 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:18.440 living in occupied territories is a problem, but you know, 0:15:18.520 --> 0:15:22.040 we shouldn't be racist together. And it's like, and I responded, 0:15:22.160 --> 0:15:24.120 I because I was waiting to do this show with you, 0:15:24.160 --> 0:15:25.360 and I had a moment and I was like, why 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:28.800 should I think or sit for a moment. I'll just right. 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:30.240 I was like, let's fight with someone on Twitter. But 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.320 I wrote, why is it? Why do you think that 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:35.600 Jews in occupied lands are a problem? Because what he's 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:37.640 saying is the West Bank is occupied, but I mean 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:40.360 it's known as Judea and Samarian's where the story of 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:41.200 Hankka took place. 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:44.680 He hasn't read the story of Hanukkah come on, that guy. 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:47.320 You know the story of Hanukkah that Jews have been 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:50.560 telling for thousands of years. Jesus of Nazareth, he was 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:53.680 a pretty popular Jew Nazareth. You're not going to believe. 0:15:53.680 --> 0:15:56.000 This was in Judae and Samari. What we now know 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:58.800 is West Bank. But but these lefties, they just say 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:03.440 things and it's all meaningless drivel, just so that I 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:05.280 don't know. I honestly don't even know what it is anymore. 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:07.120 I'm so far removed from it. It's just so that 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:09.800 they feel like they can be lofty or right about something. 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:11.920 But yes, they end up dragging the rest of us 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:13.080 to hell with them. I guess. 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:18.080 The sticker said settlers are a problem in it was 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:20.720 like in occupied territories and in Brooklyn. 0:16:20.840 --> 0:16:22.360 That's like sort of what it was about. 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:24.440 And this guy was like trying to pretend that they 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:26.800 didn't mean Jews by the settlers. 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:29.080 It's like, come on, like seriously. 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:32.160 But that thing, that thing where it's like you offer pennance. 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:33.800 So what he's trying to do there, and again we 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:35.400 don't have to make about him specifically, but these have 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:39.000 people they try to offer some penance. So yes, settlers 0:16:39.080 --> 0:16:42.600 in occupied territories are a problem. Well that sort of 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:46.400 sounds right, I guess, but like, also without getting too far, 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:49.840 that there is no occupation. There's never been an occupation. 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:53.720 The British left the area known as Palestine, which is 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:57.120 historic Israel. So all these people that are like there's 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:00.040 a seventy five year occupation, it's like, okay, congratulations, I 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:02.200 want the British Empire to come back. I guess we 0:17:02.200 --> 0:17:04.840 could go back two hundred years and really mess with 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:08.600 the Ottomans. That would be fun. Like it's just such nonsense. 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:11.800 But none of this should surprise us, because if you don't, 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:14.639 if no one ever stands up for the truth, and 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:16.560 if we live in a time when boys or girls 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:19.080 and America's fundamentally raisist and all these other things, then 0:17:19.119 --> 0:17:21.919 how do you expect anyone to know the history of 0:17:22.000 --> 0:17:24.040 the Holy Land? You know what I mean? If literally 0:17:24.040 --> 0:17:27.840 you're like chopping Yeah, We're. 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:29.640 Going to take a quick break and be right back 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:34.800 on the Carol Marcowitch Show. So I was going to 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:36.760 ask you in the last two years, you know, we 0:17:36.800 --> 0:17:40.200 started with Florida, we got into Israel, but you had 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:42.959 some major changes. You became a father, and you know, 0:17:43.480 --> 0:17:44.760 is that, Like, what's that been? 0:17:44.840 --> 0:17:44.959 Like? 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:46.120 Are you are you the cool dad? 0:17:47.640 --> 0:17:51.080 Well, I'm definitely the more fun dad because I'm mostly 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:53.880 in this studio all day long and working all day long, 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:55.800 so I get my studio, of course, is in my house, 0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:57.600 so I get to just kind of show up in 0:17:57.640 --> 0:17:59.560 the room and like pick everybody up and throw them 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:01.960 around and spin them around and do all the fun 0:18:02.000 --> 0:18:03.800 things all the time I do. There are some diaper 0:18:03.880 --> 0:18:06.000 changes involved in some you know, putting down for naps 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:09.159 and that kind of thing. But David, my husband, is 0:18:09.200 --> 0:18:11.960 doing most of like the heavy lifting in that regard, 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:15.960 and we have some help his sister and his sister, 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:17.720 my sister in law is living with us helping with 0:18:17.800 --> 0:18:20.160 knights and things like that, and we have a close 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:22.760 enough family with people visiting all the time that there's 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:24.919 a lot of the pieces there. But it's incredible, Like 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:30.120 it's frustrating and crazy and maddening and sometimes like I'm 0:18:30.160 --> 0:18:32.879 like my brain if like I can't the screaming or 0:18:32.960 --> 0:18:34.879 just like these kids are so well behaved, they're so 0:18:35.000 --> 0:18:37.480 fun and great, but like sometimes just like they're both 0:18:37.520 --> 0:18:39.880 screaming at once and like I'm trying to like work 0:18:39.960 --> 0:18:41.520 through something that I'm going to do on the show, 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:44.320 and it's like all this craziness, but then at the end, 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:48.520 you know, like it's giving you this this thing that 0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:52.480 cannot be described exactly. You know, last week I was 0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:55.080 in London for Jordan Peterson's art conference and he gave. 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:58.119 He gave what I honestly believe and I toured with 0:18:58.119 --> 0:18:59.959 this guy, so we did one hundred and twenty shows 0:19:00.200 --> 0:19:01.919 in about a year and a half. It was the 0:19:01.960 --> 0:19:04.399