WEBVTT -  2nd Date Update PODCAST: Find Your Voice 

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<v Speaker 1>a listener named Drew is on the phone and he

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<v Speaker 1>says he had a very awkward first date with the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that he wants to call the day. Although I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why it's awkward, it sounds amazing to me.

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<v Speaker 1>His email said, she didn't say a word, so I

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<v Speaker 1>will love that. No conversation at all. That sounds amazing. Drew,

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing good? How are you guys? Not

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<v Speaker 1>too bad? But even just jewels short description of that,

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<v Speaker 1>I oh, it sounds awful. Yeah, it was very very strange. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess I should start from the beginning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>or just tell people how they can get this girl's

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<v Speaker 1>number so they can go out with their then someone

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<v Speaker 1>who doesn't need to waste time with words on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. You know you're the only one that hates talking, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, Well, I God builds up to like such

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<v Speaker 1>a big point. But so I started talking to this

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Bonnie off of like an online dating site, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're just like chatting just you know, like, how

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Did you see this movie blah blah blah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>normal like run in the Mill. Yeah, just like a

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<v Speaker 1>typical whatever. Okay. And then like after a few weeks

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<v Speaker 1>we're like, okay, maybe we should talk on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>And nothing changed from like transferring it over from tech

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<v Speaker 1>to talking. Well, that's I mean, that's great. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>we decided to meet each other in person. We're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to just do this, we need to see

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<v Speaker 1>each other whatever. Yeah, what took so long? Why? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>why were you waiting so long? I don't know, Like

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<v Speaker 1>we just kind of like, you know, scheduling complex. I

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<v Speaker 1>would be busy, she would be busy. You know. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you finally figured it out and what did you do? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>So so we were like, you know, let's meet and

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<v Speaker 1>she texts me like an hour before we're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>meet up and says, oh, oh my god, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I double book myself. I was supposed to do this

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<v Speaker 1>thing for my job and I hit meet up. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like okay, you know, like no problem. So then

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<v Speaker 1>we planned to hang out a couple of days later

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<v Speaker 1>and then she's like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm sick O. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a second time she's built Yeah, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, now it starts to sound kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a stamp, like, you know, like she's just

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<v Speaker 1>blowing you off and never actually wants to get together. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But then I'm like, if you want to blow me

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<v Speaker 1>off right, because she's investing a lot of time talking

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<v Speaker 1>to you and texting with you. It's almost like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are in a relationship before you even went on

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. Yeah. And you know, I honestly was

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<v Speaker 1>falling for her really hard. I was still like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of in that like a enamored phase, like I'll still

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<v Speaker 1>have hope, she still wants to see me. Whatever. And

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<v Speaker 1>then we finally decide on the third time to actually

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date, and she shows up with

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<v Speaker 1>this index card that says, I'm sorry, I can't talk.

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<v Speaker 1>My voice is gone. Oh my god, she actually showed

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<v Speaker 1>up to your date and she couldn't speak. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>it was like it was like a David Lynch movie

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<v Speaker 1>or something. I just didn't know how to react to it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, what the well, I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to cancel on him again because she's already

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<v Speaker 1>canceled twice. I think that it's nice that she followed through,

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't give you a heads up before that. No, No, honestly, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if someone shows up with an index card like that

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<v Speaker 1>is the weirdest thing I've ever heard. Yeah, and the

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<v Speaker 1>thing is is that she's actually gorgeous. Okay, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>this weird thing where like I just kept talking to

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<v Speaker 1>like I talked, I tried to talk my way out

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<v Speaker 1>of it. So your whole date was her sitting there

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<v Speaker 1>and you talking to her, trying to have a conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>She would nod, she would nod, and then I'd be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you want to just like go home if you're

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<v Speaker 1>sick or whatever he is going on right now? And

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<v Speaker 1>then she wrote yes, sorry, oh okay. Well I would

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a good thing for you that she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>you to know she was interested enough to still go

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<v Speaker 1>on a date when she couldn't talk to you. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, can't she just text me? Then? Why? Why

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<v Speaker 1>why are you using index cards and wasting paper? Like

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she already canceled on you twice. If she cancels

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<v Speaker 1>you on you a third time, then you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>think that she's lying or she's cat fishing you, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to ever talk to her again. Of

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<v Speaker 1>course she had to go out on the date. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that you shouldn't have gone on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>But like it wasn't enjoyable. I was just literally just blabbing,

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<v Speaker 1>like just on and on and on and on. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, why do you want to call her

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date? Then? Well, the reason that I

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<v Speaker 1>want to call her is because I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>she's telling the truth or not. Oh, you think that

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<v Speaker 1>the index card was a lie? Yeah? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a lie? Why do you think she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you? I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that she might be like hiding something. I

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea. When's the last time you hurt? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when's the last time you guys talked or typed? Whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>You do? Not since the date? He's think I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard from her, So you guys went from talking every

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<v Speaker 1>day absolutely nothing. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, like,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it's wrong with her voices obviously has affected her texting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's affected her texting fingers too. She can't even tie

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I just want to figure it out. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just want to know. Okay, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>then come back and call her and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. All right? If she's talking, yeah, right, that

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<v Speaker 1>would be kind of a bad part for us. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>do it next thing. Looking jubil in the morning. Second

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<v Speaker 1>update if you're just joining us for today's second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>Drew is on the phone. And I'm really pulling for

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<v Speaker 1>Drew today because I think that he went out with

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<v Speaker 1>wife material for sure, because he went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a girl didn't say a word the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good Apparently she had something, she was sick

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<v Speaker 1>and she couldn't speak, so when she showed up to

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<v Speaker 1>the date, she actually had an index card written on

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<v Speaker 1>it and said, hey, I have no voice. And they

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<v Speaker 1>sat there for a little while. He did all of

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<v Speaker 1>the talking and then said, if you're sick, you should

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<v Speaker 1>go home, and she wrote on her a index card yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she went home and he hasn't heard from

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<v Speaker 1>her since. More than anything, though, he just wants answers

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<v Speaker 1>because he feels like she was faking, Drew. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>ready to give her a call? Yeah? Man, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>worried I'm being catfished somehow, Like how are you being

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<v Speaker 1>catfished when you've seen her in person? You guys have

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<v Speaker 1>talked on the phone, like, what is the catfish? She's

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly going to have a man voice, and now that's

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<v Speaker 1>even being considered catfish. I don't know. Maybe her twin

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<v Speaker 1>sisters in jail and they have different voices, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea, you d man, super jaded. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you need to take a break from internet dating.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to, but I need to like solve this case.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pulling for the twin sister in jail story that

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<v Speaker 1>would be. I want to know. I just want to know. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to feel bad if she was actually sick?

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<v Speaker 1>I maybe, But even if she was, if she really

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<v Speaker 1>was sick, then she would have reached out to me. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna dial her phone of her right now and

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can figure it out for you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, man, all right, here we go. Hello. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for Bonnie. This is Bonnie. Hey Bonnie,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning, the radio show from a radio Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's the name of

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<v Speaker 1>a morning radio program. Why why, I don't know, It's

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<v Speaker 1>just the name we gave it. Why are we calling you?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that? Is that what you're wondering? Oh okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought maybe you're just wondering why we named it. That.

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<v Speaker 1>Calling you today because we do a segment on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then end

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<v Speaker 1>up blowing them off after, they can email us and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get you on the phone and see if we

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<v Speaker 1>can find out what happened. So you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a dude named Drew, Oh my god. Yeah, And Drew

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us and told us a little bit of about

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<v Speaker 1>your date that you guys met online. You talked a bunch,

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<v Speaker 1>you finally coordinated a date, but when you showed up,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you had no voice, true, And she said

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<v Speaker 1>that it was awkward because you couldn't talk. And then

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<v Speaker 1>eventually he said, if you're sick, you can go home.

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<v Speaker 1>And then you went home and that's the last you

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<v Speaker 1>heard from you. Yeah, okay, he also said that he

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<v Speaker 1>really really liked you, and you guys talked for like

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<v Speaker 1>a month or something leading up to the date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we did. You don't sound like you like him as

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<v Speaker 1>much as he likes you. I yeah, it's okay if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like him. I think he just wants to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I wasn't feeling good to day that. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>we were supp to have our date, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to handful on him. So I ended

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<v Speaker 1>up going to a restaurant and I got there and

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<v Speaker 1>I asked the hostess where he was seated, and I

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<v Speaker 1>look over at the table. He's already there, and he

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<v Speaker 1>looks nothing like his picture, nothing like any photos. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you hadn't lost your voice because you said you just

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<v Speaker 1>asked the hostess. Yeah, I had not, And I I

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<v Speaker 1>was just trying to figure out what what should I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm talking to this guy from Lark, So

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like he can't you feel like he cat

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<v Speaker 1>fishing or something. Yeah, I feel like he was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to portray himself younger than he really is, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to. I just felt guilty for leaving, So

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up I was just like on the fly,

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<v Speaker 1>I just asked the hostess for a pen and paper,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll just say I lost my voice. No, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>that's ridiculous. How different could he have looked? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how old are you talking? Are you kidding me? Like

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<v Speaker 1>easily could be my uncle. Oh we're talking mid forties.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in my middle late twenty and the pictures on

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<v Speaker 1>this profile were definitely in my age range. So when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw him, it was quite traumatic. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not this is not what I signed up for.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who this guy is, and he barely

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<v Speaker 1>looks like his photos. I could kind of tell that

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<v Speaker 1>it was still him. Why not just cancel on him

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<v Speaker 1>instead of sitting there acting like you can't talk because

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<v Speaker 1>all the time we had s been talking already. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt guilty. I was trying to be nice. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to stand him up. Yeah, but you don't owe

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<v Speaker 1>anything to somebody who's lying to you. I mean, did

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<v Speaker 1>he outright tell you that he was your age or

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<v Speaker 1>is it something you just assumed. We never had the conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>but his photos make them look younger, So it's weird

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<v Speaker 1>that he wouldn't ever bring that up, Like if he

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<v Speaker 1>knows he's using photos from twenty years ago. He's probably

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<v Speaker 1>gonna git caught. Yeah, I don't know. I didn't stay

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<v Speaker 1>that long on the date, If that's any consolate for you.

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<v Speaker 1>He thought you might be faking, yeah, not having a voice,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess you were faking. But he did suspect that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it is what it is. He was lying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not lying. You're lying, Bonny. True, you're supposed to wait.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on, Oh, Bonnie, that's Drew. He's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listing I wants to talk to you,

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<v Speaker 1>but apparently he couldn't wait until I called him into

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation. Drew. Yeah, no, I'm sorry, guys, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>like she can't say that I'm lying. I'm not lying.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you not lying? Those photos? Those photos that were

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<v Speaker 1>on my profile, Yes, they were when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 1>but those were the best photos. Like I put like

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<v Speaker 1>a crappy photo of myself on the thing. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>make any sense. Why did you, guys not tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that he was on the line. Why did you write

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<v Speaker 1>on a note card like a sociopath and then say

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't talk. If that's what it is, then just

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<v Speaker 1>say that I don't know why you went around this crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Drew, I was doing you a favor. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I stayed. I could have left. You could have just

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<v Speaker 1>been stood up at that restaurant like an average forty

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<v Speaker 1>five year old man. I might I might be I

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<v Speaker 1>might be older, but I'm not like a Hannibal lecture

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<v Speaker 1>type of person that writes like a why couldn't you

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<v Speaker 1>just say don't know that, Drue? It is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>weird that you brought up the whole point of how

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<v Speaker 1>she was gorgeous in real life. Didn't you at any

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<v Speaker 1>point think like, oh, I better let her know that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm significantly older than the photos that I used. Significantly Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just had it in again. It does sound like

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<v Speaker 1>you're just like fishing for younger women by tricking them online.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's Oh, I'm totally not doing that. What I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing is I'm taking the photos that I think best

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<v Speaker 1>represent my personality. True, I'm gonna paint a photo. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna paint a photo for you. If you were to

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<v Speaker 1>walk into a restaurant blind, and you were you don't

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<v Speaker 1>meet a woman. Don't interrupt me. I'm not done. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>interrupt me. I'm not okay, and you're be a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>And then this woman ended up being sixty five years old?

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<v Speaker 1>What would you do? What if she she looked old

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<v Speaker 1>enough to be your mother? Enough off beingcoholic? Okay? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>oh big words? Or you know I'm not an idiot? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know exactly. Could you sound like a raving lunatic

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<v Speaker 1>would actually go to a hostess and ask for a

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<v Speaker 1>pen and paper? And then and then right that, let's sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I kid, Oh I'm the lady to day. You're the

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<v Speaker 1>one who called me on the radio, you idiot? What else?

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<v Speaker 1>What else do you have to do? Moron? Because they

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<v Speaker 1>that called you text you reached out and you just

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<v Speaker 1>thought you could just like do whatever the hell you want.

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<v Speaker 1>And by the great, by the I know that you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're a very entitled person. Drew. Just settle it.

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<v Speaker 1>Settle How old are you? How old are you? Drew?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not telling you? Oh that means you are really old?

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<v Speaker 1>Well I sound a lot younger than you do, sweetheart. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have our answer here, Drew. I you

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<v Speaker 1>know why I don't think we have our answer because

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<v Speaker 1>you two sound like there's a lot of passion and

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to see you guys go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Bondie, would you like a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Drew? We'll pay for it. Why don't you want

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<v Speaker 1>an older man? Why? Why? Now you're just mocking her.

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<v Speaker 1>He hasn't yet nothing better to do. So you're actually twelve,

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<v Speaker 1>is what I'm hearing. I'm happy. I'm happy to do

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<v Speaker 1>Drew a solid and I can death set him up

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<v Speaker 1>with one of my mother's friends. Okay, Bondie, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your time. Drew. I'm sorry you didn't get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date. But maybe you update your photos online? Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that will help shut up? Why don't you update in

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<v Speaker 1>photos ugly? I've tried, but there's nothing that can really

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<v Speaker 1>help that. Maybe I can borrow your photo in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning text in at seven eight five nine two that

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<v Speaker 1>says that Drew sounds pretentious. It is pretentious because he's older,

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<v Speaker 1>yet a little more pretentious. When you get older, you

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<v Speaker 1>get that money. We get that good four o K.

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<v Speaker 1>You missed today a second date? Update this dude, Drew

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a girl named Bonnie. They met online

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<v Speaker 1>and they talked for about a month, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to see each other in person and when she

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<v Speaker 1>finally showed up for their date. She had an index

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<v Speaker 1>card that said sorry, I lost my voice and she

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't talk, so the date was cut short. He was

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<v Speaker 1>suspicious and her thought maybe she was faking, So we

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<v Speaker 1>called and she admitted that she was actually faking it

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of the date because she said he

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<v Speaker 1>looked twenty years older than his pictures online. I was,

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<v Speaker 1>but listen, he never denied that he was twenty years

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<v Speaker 1>older than his pictures. Yeah, you don't want to tell us.

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<v Speaker 1>Seems like that means he's thirty years older than pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, he just said they were good pictures of him.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people have good pictures from twenty years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So they gotten to a big argument about it and

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<v Speaker 1>no date. They did not go out for a second date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well she should have known when they were obviously taken

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<v Speaker 1>on a thirty five millimeter camera. Yeah. Remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second date up date, all have

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<v Speaker 1>to do his email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back.