Speaker 1: Need Leasic trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center
Speaker 1: at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits.
Speaker 1: What will you do? Lesic at Evergreen dot com Rooking
Speaker 1: Jewels Second Date up date. For today's second Date update,
Speaker 1: a listener named Drew is on the phone and he
Speaker 1: says he had a very awkward first date with the
Speaker 1: girl that he wants to call the day. Although I
Speaker 1: don't know why it's awkward, it sounds amazing to me.
Speaker 1: His email said, she didn't say a word, so I
Speaker 1: will love that. No conversation at all. That sounds amazing. Drew,
Speaker 1: How are you doing good? How are you guys? Not
Speaker 1: too bad? But even just jewels short description of that,
Speaker 1: I oh, it sounds awful. Yeah, it was very very strange. Um,
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I should start from the beginning. Yeah,
Speaker 1: or just tell people how they can get this girl's
Speaker 1: number so they can go out with their then someone
Speaker 1: who doesn't need to waste time with words on a
Speaker 1: first date. You know you're the only one that hates talking, No,
Speaker 1: I know, Well, I God builds up to like such
Speaker 1: a big point. But so I started talking to this
Speaker 1: girl named Bonnie off of like an online dating site, okay,
Speaker 1: and we're just like chatting just you know, like, how
Speaker 1: how are you? Did you see this movie blah blah blah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: normal like run in the Mill. Yeah, just like a
Speaker 1: typical whatever. Okay. And then like after a few weeks
Speaker 1: we're like, okay, maybe we should talk on the phone.
Speaker 1: And nothing changed from like transferring it over from tech
Speaker 1: to talking. Well, that's I mean, that's great. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: we decided to meet each other in person. We're like, okay,
Speaker 1: we need to just do this, we need to see
Speaker 1: each other whatever. Yeah, what took so long? Why? I mean,
Speaker 1: why were you waiting so long? I don't know, Like
Speaker 1: we just kind of like, you know, scheduling complex. I
Speaker 1: would be busy, she would be busy. You know. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you finally figured it out and what did you do? Well?
Speaker 1: So so we were like, you know, let's meet and
Speaker 1: she texts me like an hour before we're supposed to
Speaker 1: meet up and says, oh, oh my god, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: I double book myself. I was supposed to do this
Speaker 1: thing for my job and I hit meet up. I
Speaker 1: was like okay, you know, like no problem. So then
Speaker 1: we planned to hang out a couple of days later
Speaker 1: and then she's like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm sick O. Wait,
Speaker 1: this is a second time she's built Yeah, And I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, now it starts to sound kind
Speaker 1: of like a stamp, like, you know, like she's just
Speaker 1: blowing you off and never actually wants to get together. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But then I'm like, if you want to blow me
Speaker 1: off right, because she's investing a lot of time talking
Speaker 1: to you and texting with you. It's almost like you
Speaker 1: guys are in a relationship before you even went on
Speaker 1: on a date. Yeah. And you know, I honestly was
Speaker 1: falling for her really hard. I was still like kind
Speaker 1: of in that like a enamored phase, like I'll still
Speaker 1: have hope, she still wants to see me. Whatever. And
Speaker 1: then we finally decide on the third time to actually
Speaker 1: go out on a date, and she shows up with
Speaker 1: this index card that says, I'm sorry, I can't talk.
Speaker 1: My voice is gone. Oh my god, she actually showed
Speaker 1: up to your date and she couldn't speak. I've never
Speaker 1: it was like it was like a David Lynch movie
Speaker 1: or something. I just didn't know how to react to it.
Speaker 1: I was just like, what the well, I mean you
Speaker 1: didn't want to cancel on him again because she's already
Speaker 1: canceled twice. I think that it's nice that she followed through,
Speaker 1: but she didn't give you a heads up before that. No, No, honestly, like,
Speaker 1: if someone shows up with an index card like that
Speaker 1: is the weirdest thing I've ever heard. Yeah, and the
Speaker 1: thing is is that she's actually gorgeous. Okay, it's just
Speaker 1: this weird thing where like I just kept talking to
Speaker 1: like I talked, I tried to talk my way out
Speaker 1: of it. So your whole date was her sitting there
Speaker 1: and you talking to her, trying to have a conversation.
Speaker 1: She would nod, she would nod, and then I'd be like, well,
Speaker 1: don't you want to just like go home if you're
Speaker 1: sick or whatever he is going on right now? And
Speaker 1: then she wrote yes, sorry, oh okay. Well I would
Speaker 1: think it's a good thing for you that she wanted
Speaker 1: you to know she was interested enough to still go
Speaker 1: on a date when she couldn't talk to you. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, can't she just text me? Then? Why? Why
Speaker 1: why are you using index cards and wasting paper? Like
Speaker 1: obviously she already canceled on you twice. If she cancels
Speaker 1: you on you a third time, then you're going to
Speaker 1: think that she's lying or she's cat fishing you, and
Speaker 1: you're not going to ever talk to her again. Of
Speaker 1: course she had to go out on the date. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying that you shouldn't have gone on the date.
Speaker 1: But like it wasn't enjoyable. I was just literally just blabbing,
Speaker 1: like just on and on and on and on. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, why do you want to call her
Speaker 1: for a second date? Then? Well, the reason that I
Speaker 1: want to call her is because I don't know if
Speaker 1: she's telling the truth or not. Oh, you think that
Speaker 1: the index card was a lie? Yeah? Why do you
Speaker 1: think it's a lie? Why do you think she didn't
Speaker 1: want to talk to you? I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think that she might be like hiding something. I
Speaker 1: have no idea. When's the last time you hurt? Well,
Speaker 1: when's the last time you guys talked or typed? Whatever?
Speaker 1: You do? Not since the date? He's think I haven't
Speaker 1: heard from her, So you guys went from talking every
Speaker 1: day absolutely nothing. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: whatever it's wrong with her voices obviously has affected her texting.
Speaker 1: It's affected her texting fingers too. She can't even tie
Speaker 1: to you. I just want to figure it out. I
Speaker 1: just I just want to know. Okay, we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: then come back and call her and get your second
Speaker 1: date update. All right? If she's talking, yeah, right, that
Speaker 1: would be kind of a bad part for us. We'll
Speaker 1: do it next thing. Looking jubil in the morning. Second
Speaker 1: update if you're just joining us for today's second day update.
Speaker 1: Drew is on the phone. And I'm really pulling for
Speaker 1: Drew today because I think that he went out with
Speaker 1: wife material for sure, because he went out on a
Speaker 1: date with a girl didn't say a word the whole time.
Speaker 1: That's a good Apparently she had something, she was sick
Speaker 1: and she couldn't speak, so when she showed up to
Speaker 1: the date, she actually had an index card written on
Speaker 1: it and said, hey, I have no voice. And they
Speaker 1: sat there for a little while. He did all of
Speaker 1: the talking and then said, if you're sick, you should
Speaker 1: go home, and she wrote on her a index card yes,
Speaker 1: and then she went home and he hasn't heard from
Speaker 1: her since. More than anything, though, he just wants answers
Speaker 1: because he feels like she was faking, Drew. Are you
Speaker 1: ready to give her a call? Yeah? Man, I'm just
Speaker 1: worried I'm being catfished somehow, Like how are you being
Speaker 1: catfished when you've seen her in person? You guys have
Speaker 1: talked on the phone, like, what is the catfish? She's
Speaker 1: suddenly going to have a man voice, and now that's
Speaker 1: even being considered catfish. I don't know. Maybe her twin
Speaker 1: sisters in jail and they have different voices, and she's
Speaker 1: I have no idea, you d man, super jaded. I
Speaker 1: feel like you need to take a break from internet dating.
Speaker 1: I'm going to, but I need to like solve this case.
Speaker 1: I'm pulling for the twin sister in jail story that
Speaker 1: would be. I want to know. I just want to know. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: are you going to feel bad if she was actually sick?
Speaker 1: I maybe, But even if she was, if she really
Speaker 1: was sick, then she would have reached out to me. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial her phone of her right now and
Speaker 1: see if we can figure it out for you. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, man, all right, here we go. Hello. All right,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Bonnie. This is Bonnie. Hey Bonnie,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning, the radio show from a radio Yeah,
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's the name of
Speaker 1: a morning radio program. Why why, I don't know, It's
Speaker 1: just the name we gave it. Why are we calling you?
Speaker 1: Is that? Is that what you're wondering? Oh okay, I
Speaker 1: thought maybe you're just wondering why we named it. That.
Speaker 1: Calling you today because we do a segment on our
Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then end
Speaker 1: up blowing them off after, they can email us and
Speaker 1: we'll get you on the phone and see if we
Speaker 1: can find out what happened. So you went out with
Speaker 1: a dude named Drew, Oh my god. Yeah, And Drew
Speaker 1: emailed us and told us a little bit of about
Speaker 1: your date that you guys met online. You talked a bunch,
Speaker 1: you finally coordinated a date, but when you showed up,
Speaker 1: I guess you had no voice, true, And she said
Speaker 1: that it was awkward because you couldn't talk. And then
Speaker 1: eventually he said, if you're sick, you can go home.
Speaker 1: And then you went home and that's the last you
Speaker 1: heard from you. Yeah, okay, he also said that he
Speaker 1: really really liked you, and you guys talked for like
Speaker 1: a month or something leading up to the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we did. You don't sound like you like him as
Speaker 1: much as he likes you. I yeah, it's okay if
Speaker 1: you don't like him. I think he just wants to know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I wasn't feeling good to day that. Wow,
Speaker 1: we were supp to have our date, and I just
Speaker 1: I didn't want to handful on him. So I ended
Speaker 1: up going to a restaurant and I got there and
Speaker 1: I asked the hostess where he was seated, and I
Speaker 1: look over at the table. He's already there, and he
Speaker 1: looks nothing like his picture, nothing like any photos. Wait,
Speaker 1: you hadn't lost your voice because you said you just
Speaker 1: asked the hostess. Yeah, I had not, And I I
Speaker 1: was just trying to figure out what what should I do.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm talking to this guy from Lark, So
Speaker 1: you feel like he can't you feel like he cat
Speaker 1: fishing or something. Yeah, I feel like he was trying
Speaker 1: to portray himself younger than he really is, and I
Speaker 1: didn't want to. I just felt guilty for leaving, So
Speaker 1: I ended up I was just like on the fly,
Speaker 1: I just asked the hostess for a pen and paper,
Speaker 1: and I'll just say I lost my voice. No, you guys,
Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. How different could he have looked? I mean,
Speaker 1: how old are you talking? Are you kidding me? Like
Speaker 1: easily could be my uncle. Oh we're talking mid forties.
Speaker 1: I'm in my middle late twenty and the pictures on
Speaker 1: this profile were definitely in my age range. So when
Speaker 1: I saw him, it was quite traumatic. I was like,
Speaker 1: this is not this is not what I signed up for.
Speaker 1: I don't know who this guy is, and he barely
Speaker 1: looks like his photos. I could kind of tell that
Speaker 1: it was still him. Why not just cancel on him
Speaker 1: instead of sitting there acting like you can't talk because
Speaker 1: all the time we had s been talking already. I
Speaker 1: felt guilty. I was trying to be nice. I didn't
Speaker 1: want to stand him up. Yeah, but you don't owe
Speaker 1: anything to somebody who's lying to you. I mean, did
Speaker 1: he outright tell you that he was your age or
Speaker 1: is it something you just assumed. We never had the conversation,
Speaker 1: but his photos make them look younger, So it's weird
Speaker 1: that he wouldn't ever bring that up, Like if he
Speaker 1: knows he's using photos from twenty years ago. He's probably
Speaker 1: gonna git caught. Yeah, I don't know. I didn't stay
Speaker 1: that long on the date, If that's any consolate for you.
Speaker 1: He thought you might be faking, yeah, not having a voice,
Speaker 1: and I guess you were faking. But he did suspect that.
Speaker 1: I mean, it is what it is. He was lying.
Speaker 1: I'm not lying. You're lying, Bonny. True, you're supposed to wait.
Speaker 1: What's going on, Oh, Bonnie, that's Drew. He's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listing I wants to talk to you,
Speaker 1: but apparently he couldn't wait until I called him into
Speaker 1: the conversation. Drew. Yeah, no, I'm sorry, guys, but like,
Speaker 1: like she can't say that I'm lying. I'm not lying.
Speaker 1: Are you not lying? Those photos? Those photos that were
Speaker 1: on my profile, Yes, they were when I was younger,
Speaker 1: but those were the best photos. Like I put like
Speaker 1: a crappy photo of myself on the thing. He doesn't
Speaker 1: make any sense. Why did you, guys not tell me
Speaker 1: that he was on the line. Why did you write
Speaker 1: on a note card like a sociopath and then say
Speaker 1: you couldn't talk. If that's what it is, then just
Speaker 1: say that I don't know why you went around this crazy.
Speaker 1: You know, Drew, I was doing you a favor. Okay,
Speaker 1: I stayed. I could have left. You could have just
Speaker 1: been stood up at that restaurant like an average forty
Speaker 1: five year old man. I might I might be I
Speaker 1: might be older, but I'm not like a Hannibal lecture
Speaker 1: type of person that writes like a why couldn't you
Speaker 1: just say don't know that, Drue? It is kind of
Speaker 1: weird that you brought up the whole point of how
Speaker 1: she was gorgeous in real life. Didn't you at any
Speaker 1: point think like, oh, I better let her know that
Speaker 1: I'm significantly older than the photos that I used. Significantly Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just had it in again. It does sound like
Speaker 1: you're just like fishing for younger women by tricking them online.
Speaker 1: Oh that's Oh, I'm totally not doing that. What I'm
Speaker 1: doing is I'm taking the photos that I think best
Speaker 1: represent my personality. True, I'm gonna paint a photo. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna paint a photo for you. If you were to
Speaker 1: walk into a restaurant blind, and you were you don't
Speaker 1: meet a woman. Don't interrupt me. I'm not done. Don't
Speaker 1: interrupt me. I'm not okay, and you're be a woman.
Speaker 1: And then this woman ended up being sixty five years old?
Speaker 1: What would you do? What if she she looked old
Speaker 1: enough to be your mother? Enough off beingcoholic? Okay? Oh
Speaker 1: oh big words? Or you know I'm not an idiot? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know exactly. Could you sound like a raving lunatic
Speaker 1: would actually go to a hostess and ask for a
Speaker 1: pen and paper? And then and then right that, let's sorry,
Speaker 1: I kid, Oh I'm the lady to day. You're the
Speaker 1: one who called me on the radio, you idiot? What else?
Speaker 1: What else do you have to do? Moron? Because they
Speaker 1: that called you text you reached out and you just
Speaker 1: thought you could just like do whatever the hell you want.
Speaker 1: And by the great, by the I know that you
Speaker 1: feel like you're a very entitled person. Drew. Just settle it.
Speaker 1: Settle How old are you? How old are you? Drew?
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you? Oh that means you are really old?
Speaker 1: Well I sound a lot younger than you do, sweetheart. Oh,
Speaker 1: I think we have our answer here, Drew. I you
Speaker 1: know why I don't think we have our answer because
Speaker 1: you two sound like there's a lot of passion and
Speaker 1: I would love to see you guys go out on
Speaker 1: a second date. Bondie, would you like a second date
Speaker 1: with Drew? We'll pay for it. Why don't you want
Speaker 1: an older man? Why? Why? Now you're just mocking her.
Speaker 1: He hasn't yet nothing better to do. So you're actually twelve,
Speaker 1: is what I'm hearing. I'm happy. I'm happy to do
Speaker 1: Drew a solid and I can death set him up
Speaker 1: with one of my mother's friends. Okay, Bondie, thank you
Speaker 1: for your time. Drew. I'm sorry you didn't get your
Speaker 1: second date. But maybe you update your photos online? Maybe
Speaker 1: that will help shut up? Why don't you update in
Speaker 1: photos ugly? I've tried, but there's nothing that can really
Speaker 1: help that. Maybe I can borrow your photo in the
Speaker 1: morning text in at seven eight five nine two that
Speaker 1: says that Drew sounds pretentious. It is pretentious because he's older,
Speaker 1: yet a little more pretentious. When you get older, you
Speaker 1: get that money. We get that good four o K.
Speaker 1: You missed today a second date? Update this dude, Drew
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named Bonnie. They met online
Speaker 1: and they talked for about a month, and then they
Speaker 1: agreed to see each other in person and when she
Speaker 1: finally showed up for their date. She had an index
Speaker 1: card that said sorry, I lost my voice and she
Speaker 1: couldn't talk, so the date was cut short. He was
Speaker 1: suspicious and her thought maybe she was faking, So we
Speaker 1: called and she admitted that she was actually faking it
Speaker 1: to get out of the date because she said he
Speaker 1: looked twenty years older than his pictures online. I was,
Speaker 1: but listen, he never denied that he was twenty years
Speaker 1: older than his pictures. Yeah, you don't want to tell us.
Speaker 1: Seems like that means he's thirty years older than pictures.
Speaker 1: To me, he just said they were good pictures of him.
Speaker 1: A lot of people have good pictures from twenty years ago.
Speaker 1: So they gotten to a big argument about it and
Speaker 1: no date. They did not go out for a second date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well she should have known when they were obviously taken
Speaker 1: on a thirty five millimeter camera. Yeah. Remember, if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second date up date, all have
Speaker 1: to do his email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back.