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Speaker 1: Jewels Second Date up date. For today's second Date update,

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Speaker 1: a listener named Drew is on the phone and he

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Speaker 1: says he had a very awkward first date with the

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Speaker 1: don't know why it's awkward, it sounds amazing to me.

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Speaker 1: His email said, she didn't say a word, so I

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Speaker 1: will love that. No conversation at all. That sounds amazing. Drew,

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Speaker 1: How are you doing good? How are you guys? Not

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Speaker 1: too bad? But even just jewels short description of that,

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Speaker 1: I oh, it sounds awful. Yeah, it was very very strange. Um,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I should start from the beginning. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: or just tell people how they can get this girl's

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Speaker 1: number so they can go out with their then someone

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Speaker 1: who doesn't need to waste time with words on a

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Speaker 1: first date. You know you're the only one that hates talking, No,

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Speaker 1: I know, Well, I God builds up to like such

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Speaker 1: a big point. But so I started talking to this

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Speaker 1: girl named Bonnie off of like an online dating site, okay,

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Speaker 1: and we're just like chatting just you know, like, how

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Speaker 1: how are you? Did you see this movie blah blah blah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to talking. Well, that's I mean, that's great. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: so you finally figured it out and what did you do? Well?

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Speaker 1: So so we were like, you know, let's meet and

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Speaker 1: and then she's like, oh, I'm so sorry, I'm sick O. Wait,

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Speaker 1: this is a second time she's built Yeah, And I

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Speaker 1: But then I'm like, if you want to blow me

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Speaker 1: Drew is on the phone. And I'm really pulling for

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Speaker 1: That's a good Apparently she had something, she was sick

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Speaker 1: because he feels like she was faking, Drew. Are you

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Speaker 1: I'm pulling for the twin sister in jail story that

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Speaker 1: all right, man, all right, here we go. Hello. All right,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for Bonnie. This is Bonnie. Hey Bonnie,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning, the radio show from a radio Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. It's the name of

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Speaker 1: a morning radio program. Why why, I don't know, It's

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Speaker 1: just the name we gave it. Why are we calling you?

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Speaker 1: Calling you today because we do a segment on our

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Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Update. That's where if you

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Speaker 1: can find out what happened. So you went out with

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm talking to this guy from Lark, So

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Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. How different could he have looked? I mean,

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Speaker 1: how old are you talking? Are you kidding me? Like

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Speaker 1: easily could be my uncle. Oh we're talking mid forties.

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Speaker 1: I'm in my middle late twenty and the pictures on

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Speaker 1: I saw him, it was quite traumatic. I was like,

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Speaker 1: felt guilty. I was trying to be nice. I didn't

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Speaker 1: I'm not lying. You're lying, Bonny. True, you're supposed to wait.

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Speaker 1: What's going on, Oh, Bonnie, that's Drew. He's actually on

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Speaker 1: Are you not lying? Those photos? Those photos that were

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Speaker 1: You know, Drew, I was doing you a favor. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Settle How old are you? How old are you? Drew?

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Speaker 1: You missed today a second date? Update this dude, Drew

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Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named Bonnie. They met online

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Speaker 1: To me, he just said they were good pictures of him.

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