WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Cut, Color & Flirt

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<v Speaker 1>You found it the home of the Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>being here on the weekend with us. And I know

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know, we actually are a full radio show,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, and we are talking on it and we

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<v Speaker 1>do a brand new full hour episode every day on

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<v Speaker 1>our main feed, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. And

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<v Speaker 1>we just thought, you know, y'all seem to like relationship drama.

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<v Speaker 1>We're kind of experts on it, and we do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of other segments, including this one awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily always a romantic relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>these It was.

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<v Speaker 3>Always awkward and tricky.

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<v Speaker 1>So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call

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<v Speaker 1>on Sunday.

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<v Speaker 2>Totally.

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<v Speaker 1>It starts right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's bloy around of is it friendly or flirty? Our

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<v Speaker 3>first contestant is a Lexus Alexis, can you tell me

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<v Speaker 3>does this sound friendly or flirty?

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<v Speaker 1>It was how you do it's attempt to be flirty.

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<v Speaker 3>That's flirty and thirsty at the same time. That is

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<v Speaker 3>just cool. Even worse, Brooks said that at her child's

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<v Speaker 3>pta meeting, so it doesn't look great for her.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to the second grade boys.

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<v Speaker 3>J Okay, who oh god. The thing is one of

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<v Speaker 3>our listeners overheard her husband saying something even more suspicious

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<v Speaker 3>and cringey than that, and now she's wondering if she's

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<v Speaker 3>just being paranoid or if something actually weird is going on.

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<v Speaker 3>You're gonna hear it in your brand new awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 3>phone call that's coming up. It was, okay, how you

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<v Speaker 3>do book control yourself? We're doing it right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Ladies,

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<v Speaker 3>If you're ever curious about what your husband or boyfriend

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<v Speaker 3>is doing when he's not with you, yeah, just slash

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<v Speaker 3>his tires and offer to give him a ride. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>tire slashing is one of the pillars of a strong,

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<v Speaker 3>healthy relationship, as long as he doesn't find out you're

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<v Speaker 3>the one doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have a shared bank account, that's really not wise.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook Your husband's cars are constantly in trouble, and you're

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<v Speaker 3>saying you're not the one behind it. That's if you

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<v Speaker 3>could spend more time with him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just because I like to run the tires right

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<v Speaker 1>up against the curve.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right, our listener, Julia didn't go that far as

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<v Speaker 3>to slash her husband's tires, so you're disappointed. But she

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<v Speaker 3>did give him a ride recently and apparently found out

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<v Speaker 3>something very interesting, so interesting, she needs our help, So Julia,

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<v Speaker 3>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, Thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 1>How long are you even married?

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<v Speaker 2>Julia?

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<v Speaker 4>Three years?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, tell us what's going on? Why'd you email us?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm not really sure what's going on. I witnessed something,

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<v Speaker 4>but I don't know fully what I saw or if

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gempt conclusion it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I totally love this.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound so sweet. It sounds like you're not upset,

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<v Speaker 1>like I can't tell.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'm worried, but I'm also just trying to be rational.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to not be like super reactionary, but I'm

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<v Speaker 4>I'm freaking out a little.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that was the voice that I didn't And.

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<v Speaker 3>You're freaking out with something involving your husband. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so his name is Harry and a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>weeks ago, I took him to his hair appointment. We

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<v Speaker 4>normally have we have supper cars, so normally I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>do that sort of thing. But his is in the shop, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I offered to drive him because I saw it was

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<v Speaker 4>on our calendar, and he was like, nah, I'll just

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<v Speaker 4>take an uber.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that would throw up a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a red flag for me, But did you agree to

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<v Speaker 1>let you drive him?

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<v Speaker 4>He did, and when we got there, he was like,

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<v Speaker 4>we had a big hurry to get out of the car,

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, no, I'm gonna go in with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to check and see if they have the

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<v Speaker 4>hairspray that I use. Okay, He's like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>you're playing your just let think you have an hour, because.

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<v Speaker 1>He like it's like an embarrassed junior high, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not wanting his mom to.

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<v Speaker 3>He says, that is what it was like, Okay, objectively

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<v Speaker 3>a little strange.

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<v Speaker 4>So I'm go in with him and I'm looking and

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<v Speaker 4>then call his name and then the stylist comes out,

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<v Speaker 4>and of course she is a gorgeous girl. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>she's just absolutely beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, isn't it a requirement to become a one

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<v Speaker 1>that isn't drop dead beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what she wanted. Would feel good to have somebody

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<v Speaker 3>who's really really beautiful styling you. You don't want like

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<v Speaker 3>rumpel Stills coming in bigger than mine.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like, I don't do my own.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a tree troll comes from the back, So I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I would think it's it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's it's normal, it's common. Ye Does that

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<v Speaker 1>make you feel like a certain way?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it was just very obvious that this is not

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<v Speaker 4>the first time he's seen her, and they seem very

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<v Speaker 4>friendly and familiar with each other. Well, I mean it's

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<v Speaker 4>a hairstylist.

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<v Speaker 2>They're friendly.

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<v Speaker 4>There's more. So as soon as she showed up, he

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<v Speaker 4>was like, all right, you probably gotta get go in.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like, you liter really chewing me out of the door. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And so then there's this petition, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 4>can come into the place and there's a reception desk

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<v Speaker 4>and then a petition, and then on the other side

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<v Speaker 4>is where all the chairs and all that guys. I

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<v Speaker 4>walk around the petition and I opened the door and

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't go out. I just closed the door, like

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<v Speaker 4>made it sound like I left out there for a

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<v Speaker 4>minute behind the petition and.

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<v Speaker 3>Listen, what'd you hear?

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<v Speaker 4>And they were just laughing and giggling and flirting, and

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<v Speaker 4>he was laughing like a moron. It everything she was saying,

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<v Speaker 4>and then she's ving with him, and then she starts

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<v Speaker 4>complimenting and like, oh, your hair feels so good. You've

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<v Speaker 4>been doing so good and taking care of it.

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<v Speaker 3>Not to defend what they're doing at all, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>stylists will be extra friendly and extra nice in order

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<v Speaker 3>to get a better tip.

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<v Speaker 1>That still doesn't like dismiss her husband's flirting back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>It's weird behavior. I don't know. Like I understand maybe

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<v Speaker 4>you have a little bit of a crush and there's

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<v Speaker 4>nothing wrong with that, but she has been trying to

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<v Speaker 4>get rid of me and not want me to come in.

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<v Speaker 4>I just feel like that behavior.

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<v Speaker 3>Is kind of fun. It would have been nicer if

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<v Speaker 3>he had been like, hey, don't say nice things about me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm married, Okay, doesn't cut my hair and shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>No. But like normally, like a stylist relationship, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing you talk about is your significant other. It's

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<v Speaker 1>at first thing that comes out so that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>good sign that that's not what they were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I just I've been thinking about it's been a

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<v Speaker 4>couple of weeks, and it's just like I can't get

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<v Speaker 4>it out of my mind. I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 4>bring it up to him because I don't want to

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<v Speaker 4>come across as super jealous or defensive. But it's really

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<v Speaker 4>starting to eat at me and I'm kind of getting

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<v Speaker 4>scared about it.

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<v Speaker 3>You obviously haven't told him that you heard stuff or

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<v Speaker 3>you were there.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh yeah, that she was sneaking around there and listening.

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<v Speaker 3>Is you should know before we help.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a good point.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I did not. I did not tell him that

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<v Speaker 4>I stayed and heard them flirting.

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<v Speaker 3>This is what we're doing. Have you booked an appointment

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<v Speaker 3>with that stylist, Just see if she's equally flirty and

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<v Speaker 3>touchy with you.

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<v Speaker 6>Just talk about your husband the whole appointment.

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<v Speaker 4>I could just book with her and then tell her like,

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<v Speaker 4>some really bad hygiene habit did he have.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's going to be step two in this process.

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<v Speaker 3>Step one is getting our advice in a few minutes

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<v Speaker 3>here before we let you make an awkward Tuesday phone

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<v Speaker 3>call to your husband to ask what is going on

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<v Speaker 3>between him and the hairstylist.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, is he just gonna tell you?

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<v Speaker 1>It just seems crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't know. I mean, book that all

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<v Speaker 3>depends on your advice and if it's actually good for once.

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<v Speaker 1>I just hope it's some innocent flirting that we're blowing

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<v Speaker 1>out of proportion. I mean, honestly, that's best case scenario.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll find out when we call him and do your

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<v Speaker 3>awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward, it's Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>It's awkward Tuesday phone call. After you get married? Is

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<v Speaker 3>there anybody that you are still allowed to flirt with?

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke wanted me to ask that question. I'm not why,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's a difference so between innocent flirting, like

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<v Speaker 1>flirting with a cash registered lady, or like there's something

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<v Speaker 1>else going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Would you get mad if you caught your husband flirting

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<v Speaker 3>with your Alexa?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, he has called her pretty?

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<v Speaker 3>The realization setting in some people may be okay. Definitely

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<v Speaker 3>not with your hairstylist though, that needs to be off limits, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially when he's shoeing her out the door. As soon

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<v Speaker 1>as she yes, he gets there exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>So you see your hairstylist a lot. Yeah, and that's

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<v Speaker 3>why our listener, Julia has reached out because she caught

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<v Speaker 3>her husband flirting and laughing with the pretty woman cutting

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<v Speaker 3>his hair. Sent up some red flags first, so she

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<v Speaker 3>wants to confront him about it, but doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 3>get too weird and defensive. So before we call Harry Jose,

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<v Speaker 3>what's your advice for her? I feel like the way

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<v Speaker 3>to disarm him is to give the stylist a compliment.

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<v Speaker 4>First, you guys are talking and you're like, by the way,

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<v Speaker 4>your barber is super cute, honey.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean if I was you, I wouldn't have even

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<v Speaker 3>came home. Oh all right, okay, then you just gauge

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<v Speaker 3>his reaction. What do you think, Julia, are you able

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<v Speaker 3>to give the hairstylist a compliment?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just trying to figure out, like how I would

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<v Speaker 4>have to work it into the conversation since it was

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<v Speaker 4>like two weeks to go.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you think see that's the way?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Because the thing is is if you accuse him, it's just.

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<v Speaker 2>Not gonna go. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you say, oh my god, it's been bugging

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<v Speaker 1>me for two weeks. Your hairstylist looks so familiar and

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't place it, and I remember I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know her whoa Where do you know her from?

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<v Speaker 6>Could be anywhere?

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<v Speaker 3>We're in a book club, we do lie together. Do

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<v Speaker 3>you guys have kids yet?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>You could name anything honestly, because if he freaks out

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<v Speaker 1>that you have a connection to her, that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>good side.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook does have the best lies to her significant if

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<v Speaker 3>anybody that I know, she knows how to twist the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that helpful to you? Julia? Are you comfortable lying

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<v Speaker 3>to your husband right now?

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<v Speaker 4>But what if it's perfectly normal? Then he's like, wants

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<v Speaker 4>to know where I know her from and tries to

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<v Speaker 4>follow through on that.

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<v Speaker 6>But it's good if it's perfect normal. I mean, sure,

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<v Speaker 6>you look like kind of a controlling.

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<v Speaker 3>Jealousy woman. Were confused?

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<v Speaker 2>You All you have to.

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<v Speaker 1>Do is tell the man you're just so hot it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard for me to imagine.

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<v Speaker 3>Want Well, Julie, that's our best advice for you. Take

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<v Speaker 3>whatever you want from it. But I'm dialing your husband,

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<v Speaker 3>Harry right now. I'm gonna let you make your awkward

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<v Speaker 3>Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Hello, say babe, bang, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>Good, good, good. I didn't reconize the number. What do

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<v Speaker 5>you call it?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Sorry, No, I'm just I'm at work and I

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<v Speaker 4>just had a question for you. I've been thinking about

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<v Speaker 4>it and it just keeps slipping my mind, so I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to run it by while it was in my head.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh good, go ahead.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. So, a couple of weeks ago, when I took

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<v Speaker 4>you to the salon to get your hair cut, your

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<v Speaker 4>stilist was so she was so nice, like she seemed

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<v Speaker 4>really really outgoing and personal, and I'm looking for a

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<v Speaker 4>new stilust and so I was kind of curious if

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<v Speaker 4>you know, if she's taking new clients.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, why don't you already have a silence?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you know, the last couple of times that I

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<v Speaker 4>was with Jasmine, I don't know. I just felt like

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<v Speaker 4>she kind of dried my hair a lot about the

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<v Speaker 4>color and talked to her about it, and she kind

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<v Speaker 4>of got annoyed at me, and it's so weird, and

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<v Speaker 4>so I didn't know if maybe you'd want to give

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<v Speaker 4>me a referral.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh, yeah, you know, I think I don't. I think

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<v Speaker 7>she mentioned she's like totally booked up, Like I barely

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<v Speaker 7>get into that so like, I don't know, i'd have

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<v Speaker 7>to talk to her.

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<v Speaker 5>It might be a stretch to get you in, to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Honest with you. Cool, Okay, Well that brings up another

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<v Speaker 4>point that I guess I need to get to. When

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<v Speaker 4>I dropped you off, I didn't actually leave the salon.

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<v Speaker 4>I just kind of like opened the door, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I like stayed and hung out and I heard I

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<v Speaker 4>heard the two of you talking, and it was a

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<v Speaker 4>lot flirting and giggling.

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<v Speaker 5>And you say, I thought you said you were going

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<v Speaker 5>to get groceries.

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<v Speaker 4>I did.

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<v Speaker 5>I did, you were going to get the macaee. I did,

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<v Speaker 5>But you.

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<v Speaker 4>Were acting with her like you didn't want me to

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<v Speaker 4>drop you off, and then you didn't want me to

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<v Speaker 4>come in, and then when she came up, you were

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<v Speaker 4>like trying to shoot me out the door, and I

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<v Speaker 4>was just really.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I just know you were busy. I just know

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<v Speaker 5>you're really busy. I don't want you to stress out.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not what it felt like. It really felt like

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<v Speaker 4>you were trying to get rid of me and like

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<v Speaker 4>you didn't want me there, and that just flow up

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<v Speaker 4>the red flags, and so I felt like I needed

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<v Speaker 4>to stay and just see what was going on, and

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, there's some going on. Is there something that

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<v Speaker 4>you need to tell me? No, I mean what you

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<v Speaker 4>hear I could hear you laughing. I mean she would

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<v Speaker 4>say something and you were like, Oh, you're so funny.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean it was like it was weird. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>the way you laugh when we talk. I just I've

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<v Speaker 4>never heard it, and it's just I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 4>was just a weird energy. And she was so flirty

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<v Speaker 4>and so okay.

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<v Speaker 5>But I got a coin session.

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't. I wanted to keep it for you. But

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<v Speaker 7>I'm trying to get this temperature discount from her. And

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<v Speaker 7>the only way is that if she thinks like I'm

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<v Speaker 7>into her, so, but it's really for you, it's really

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<v Speaker 7>for us.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait what how how does that work?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, I just tell her I'm single, because

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<v Speaker 5>so she thinks that she has a reason to give

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<v Speaker 5>me the discount. That's it.

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<v Speaker 4>So she just gives discounts to single guys that she likes.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, so how did she even believe that you're single? Though?

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<v Speaker 4>Because I walked in with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean she asked about you and everything, but

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<v Speaker 5>I just told her you and my aunt.

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh god, who are those people. What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, am I being punk?

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<v Speaker 1>You're with an idiot?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, yeah, hey, Harry Man, tell me. I need to

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<v Speaker 3>let you know that. You're on the radio right now

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<v Speaker 3>with a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>This is called awkward Tuesday phone call. God, Julia listens

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<v Speaker 3>to us and asks for help today because she saw

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<v Speaker 3>that interaction between you and your hairstylist, which she.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously read right. You were flirting with.

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<v Speaker 3>Her, but not it's not genuine flirting.

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<v Speaker 1>No discounts for single hot guys, that doesn't exist.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know I could get behind that. What's this

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<v Speaker 3>hairstylist place that you go to, Harry, because I could

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<v Speaker 3>lay that on.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll tell you later. We'll get off the phone.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you believe him, Jeff It doesn't really matter what

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<v Speaker 3>I believe. It's what Julia. This is her marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe him a ten percent hot guy discount?

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<v Speaker 4>I do believe him. He's not. It's not a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>He doesn't lie to me. I mean, I think I

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<v Speaker 4>think he's very truthful. I just I think it's stupid

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<v Speaker 4>and I think it's really acessive.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, stupid on his part, or stupid on the hairstylist part.

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<v Speaker 3>It is about business choice for her.

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<v Speaker 7>Like I said before, this is a discount that I'm

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<v Speaker 7>getting for you or I look, I admit I probably

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<v Speaker 7>should have told you about it.

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<v Speaker 5>That's my fault.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, I promise I'm not up to anything fullish or

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<v Speaker 7>or adultery ish or anything like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, ish you have no romantic interest in actually getting

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<v Speaker 3>together with the style?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, you would rather just pay the ten percent stopper?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, absolutely not. The economy is.

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<v Speaker 3>Harry, your wife is clearly uncomfortable with this interaction, no

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<v Speaker 3>matter how much money it saves. She doesn't like it. So, Julia,

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<v Speaker 3>what would you like to see Harry do going forward?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that was that was almost marriage counselor is

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<v Speaker 1>that It's.

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<v Speaker 3>Kind of like, what do you want from him at

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<v Speaker 3>this point?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, at the very least it to be

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<v Speaker 4>honest with her.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't want him to switch stylists. You're cool with

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<v Speaker 3>him still going there.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just down the dishonesty and like where that leads.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, how would you feel if I wore a

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<v Speaker 4>mini skirt to the dentist to try to get a discount.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually believe a dentis giving discounts.

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<v Speaker 6>Those guys are.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't need any more laughing gays anyway, Harry, are

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<v Speaker 3>you comfortable? Are you able to change ever so slightly

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<v Speaker 3>to make your wife happy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 7>I will.

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<v Speaker 5>I will definitely accommodate it, Harry.

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<v Speaker 3>Women can change a man. I didn't realize that. Look

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<v Speaker 3>at us.

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<v Speaker 6>So he's changing Julie all right, by the way, was

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<v Speaker 6>so talking about that?

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<v Speaker 3>All right? Well, you know what, I think we're in

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<v Speaker 3>a better place now than when we started this phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>Good luck to you too. Your marriage sounds perfect.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you all.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.