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Speaker 1: Yes, seriously, it's not necessarily always a romantic relationship with

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Speaker 3: Always awkward and tricky.

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Speaker 1: So sit back and enjoy your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 1: on Sunday.

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Speaker 2: Totally.

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Speaker 1: It starts right now.

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Speaker 3: Let's bloy around of is it friendly or flirty? Our

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Speaker 3: first contestant is a Lexus Alexis, can you tell me

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Speaker 3: does this sound friendly or flirty?

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Speaker 1: It was how you do it's attempt to be flirty.

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Speaker 3: That's flirty and thirsty at the same time. That is

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Speaker 3: just cool. Even worse, Brooks said that at her child's

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Speaker 1: I was talking to the second grade boys.

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Speaker 3: J Okay, who oh god. The thing is one of

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Speaker 3: our listeners overheard her husband saying something even more suspicious

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Speaker 3: and cringey than that, and now she's wondering if she's

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Speaker 3: just being paranoid or if something actually weird is going on.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna hear it in your brand new awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 3: phone call that's coming up. It was, okay, how you

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Speaker 3: do book control yourself? We're doing it right after this.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward. It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Ladies,

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Speaker 3: If you're ever curious about what your husband or boyfriend

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Speaker 3: is doing when he's not with you, yeah, just slash

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Speaker 3: his tires and offer to give him a ride. Oh,

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Speaker 3: tire slashing is one of the pillars of a strong,

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Speaker 3: healthy relationship, as long as he doesn't find out you're

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Speaker 3: the one doing it.

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Speaker 1: If you have a shared bank account, that's really not wise.

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Speaker 3: Brook Your husband's cars are constantly in trouble, and you're

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Speaker 3: saying you're not the one behind it. That's if you

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Speaker 3: could spend more time with him.

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Speaker 1: That's just because I like to run the tires right

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Speaker 1: up against the curve.

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Speaker 3: That's right, our listener, Julia didn't go that far as

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Speaker 3: to slash her husband's tires, so you're disappointed. But she

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Speaker 3: did give him a ride recently and apparently found out

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Speaker 3: something very interesting, so interesting, she needs our help, So Julia,

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Speaker 3: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: How long are you even married?

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Speaker 2: Julia?

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Speaker 4: Three years?

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Speaker 3: Okay, tell us what's going on? Why'd you email us?

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm not really sure what's going on. I witnessed something,

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Speaker 4: but I don't know fully what I saw or if

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Speaker 4: I'm gempt conclusion it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I totally love this.

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Speaker 1: You sound so sweet. It sounds like you're not upset,

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Speaker 1: like I can't tell.

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Speaker 4: Well, I'm worried, but I'm also just trying to be rational.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to not be like super reactionary, but I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm freaking out a little.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that was the voice that I didn't And.

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Speaker 3: You're freaking out with something involving your husband. What's his name?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so his name is Harry and a couple of

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Speaker 4: weeks ago, I took him to his hair appointment. We

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Speaker 4: normally have we have supper cars, so normally I wouldn't

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Speaker 4: I offered to drive him because I saw it was

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Speaker 1: I mean that would throw up a little bit of

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Speaker 4: He did, and when we got there, he was like,

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Speaker 4: and I was like, no, I'm gonna go in with you.

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Speaker 4: hairspray that I use. Okay, He's like, no, no, no,

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Speaker 4: you're playing your just let think you have an hour, because.

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Speaker 1: He like it's like an embarrassed junior high, you know,

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Speaker 3: He says, that is what it was like, Okay, objectively

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Speaker 4: So I'm go in with him and I'm looking and

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Speaker 4: then call his name and then the stylist comes out,

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Speaker 4: and of course she is a gorgeous girl. I mean

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Speaker 1: I mean, isn't it a requirement to become a one

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Speaker 3: That's what she wanted. Would feel good to have somebody

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Speaker 4: She's like, I don't do my own.

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Speaker 3: Like a tree troll comes from the back, So I don't.

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Speaker 3: I would think it's it's okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's normal, it's common. Ye Does that

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Speaker 4: Well, it was just very obvious that this is not

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Speaker 4: friendly and familiar with each other. Well, I mean it's

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Speaker 2: They're friendly.

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Speaker 4: There's more. So as soon as she showed up, he

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Speaker 4: was like, all right, you probably gotta get go in.

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Speaker 4: She's like, you liter really chewing me out of the door. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And so then there's this petition, you know, like you

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Speaker 4: and then a petition, and then on the other side

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Speaker 4: is where all the chairs and all that guys. I

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Speaker 4: walk around the petition and I opened the door and

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Speaker 4: I didn't go out. I just closed the door, like

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Speaker 4: minute behind the petition and.

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Speaker 3: Listen, what'd you hear?

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Speaker 4: And they were just laughing and giggling and flirting, and

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Speaker 4: and then she's ving with him, and then she starts

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Speaker 3: Not to defend what they're doing at all, but sometimes

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Speaker 3: stylists will be extra friendly and extra nice in order

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Speaker 1: That still doesn't like dismiss her husband's flirting back. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: It's weird behavior. I don't know. Like I understand maybe

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Speaker 4: nothing wrong with that, but she has been trying to

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Speaker 4: I just feel like that behavior.

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Speaker 3: Is kind of fun. It would have been nicer if

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Speaker 3: he had been like, hey, don't say nice things about me.

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Speaker 3: I'm married, Okay, doesn't cut my hair and shut up.

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Speaker 1: No. But like normally, like a stylist relationship, that's the

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Speaker 1: first thing you talk about is your significant other. It's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I just I've been thinking about it's been a

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Speaker 4: it out of my mind. I don't know how to

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Speaker 4: bring it up to him because I don't want to

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Speaker 4: come across as super jealous or defensive. But it's really

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Speaker 3: You obviously haven't told him that you heard stuff or

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, that she was sneaking around there and listening.

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Speaker 3: Is you should know before we help.

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Speaker 6: It's a good point.

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Speaker 4: No, I did not. I did not tell him that

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Speaker 4: I stayed and heard them flirting.

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Speaker 3: This is what we're doing. Have you booked an appointment

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Speaker 3: with that stylist, Just see if she's equally flirty and

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Speaker 6: Just talk about your husband the whole appointment.

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Speaker 4: I could just book with her and then tell her like,

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Speaker 4: some really bad hygiene habit did he have.

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Speaker 3: But that's going to be step two in this process.

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Speaker 3: Step one is getting our advice in a few minutes

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Speaker 3: here before we let you make an awkward Tuesday phone

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Speaker 3: call to your husband to ask what is going on

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Speaker 3: between him and the hairstylist.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, is he just gonna tell you?

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Speaker 1: It just seems crazy.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I mean, book that all

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Speaker 3: depends on your advice and if it's actually good for once.

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Speaker 1: I just hope it's some innocent flirting that we're blowing

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Speaker 1: out of proportion. I mean, honestly, that's best case scenario.

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Speaker 3: We'll find out when we call him and do your

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Speaker 3: awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward, it's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. After you get married? Is

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Speaker 3: there anybody that you are still allowed to flirt with?

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Speaker 3: Brooke wanted me to ask that question. I'm not why,

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's a difference so between innocent flirting, like

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Speaker 3: Would you get mad if you caught your husband flirting

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, he has called her pretty?

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Speaker 3: The realization setting in some people may be okay. Definitely

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Speaker 3: not with your hairstylist though, that needs to be off limits, and.

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Speaker 1: Especially when he's shoeing her out the door. As soon

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Speaker 1: as she yes, he gets there exactly.

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Speaker 3: So you see your hairstylist a lot. Yeah, and that's

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Speaker 3: why our listener, Julia has reached out because she caught

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Speaker 3: her husband flirting and laughing with the pretty woman cutting

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Speaker 3: his hair. Sent up some red flags first, so she

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Speaker 3: wants to confront him about it, but doesn't want to

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Speaker 3: get too weird and defensive. So before we call Harry Jose,

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Speaker 3: what's your advice for her? I feel like the way

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Speaker 3: to disarm him is to give the stylist a compliment.

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Speaker 4: First, you guys are talking and you're like, by the way,

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Speaker 4: your barber is super cute, honey.

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Speaker 3: I mean if I was you, I wouldn't have even

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Speaker 3: came home. Oh all right, okay, then you just gauge

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Speaker 3: his reaction. What do you think, Julia, are you able

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Speaker 3: to give the hairstylist a compliment?

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to figure out, like how I would

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Speaker 4: have to work it into the conversation since it was

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Speaker 4: like two weeks to go.

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Speaker 6: Do you think see that's the way?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Because the thing is is if you accuse him, it's just.

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Speaker 2: Not gonna go. Well.

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Speaker 1: I think you say, oh my god, it's been bugging

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Speaker 1: me for two weeks. Your hairstylist looks so familiar and

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Speaker 1: I couldn't place it, and I remember I.

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Speaker 3: Know her whoa Where do you know her from?

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Speaker 6: Could be anywhere?

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Speaker 3: We're in a book club, we do lie together. Do

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Speaker 3: you guys have kids yet?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: Brook does have the best lies to her significant if

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Speaker 3: Is that helpful to you? Julia? Are you comfortable lying

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Speaker 4: But what if it's perfectly normal? Then he's like, wants

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Speaker 6: But it's good if it's perfect normal. I mean, sure,

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Speaker 3: Jealousy woman. Were confused?

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Speaker 2: You All you have to.

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Speaker 1: Do is tell the man you're just so hot it's

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Speaker 3: Want Well, Julie, that's our best advice for you. Take

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Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, say babe, bang, how are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Good, good, good. I didn't reconize the number. What do

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Sorry, No, I'm just I'm at work and I

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Speaker 5: Oh good, go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So, a couple of weeks ago, when I took

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Speaker 5: Okay, why don't you already have a silence?

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, the last couple of times that I

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Speaker 7: Uh, yeah, you know, I think I don't. I think

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Speaker 7: she mentioned she's like totally booked up, Like I barely

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Speaker 5: It might be a stretch to get you in, to be.

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Speaker 4: Honest with you. Cool, Okay, Well that brings up another

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Speaker 5: And you say, I thought you said you were going

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Speaker 4: I did.

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Speaker 5: I did, you were going to get the macaee. I did,

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Speaker 4: Were acting with her like you didn't want me to

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Speaker 5: Well, I just know you were busy. I just know

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Speaker 4: That's not what it felt like. It really felt like

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Speaker 4: I mean, there's some going on. Is there something that

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Speaker 4: hear I could hear you laughing. I mean she would

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Speaker 4: I mean it was like it was weird. It's not

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Speaker 4: and so okay.

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Speaker 5: But I got a coin session.

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Speaker 7: I didn't. I wanted to keep it for you. But

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Speaker 7: I'm trying to get this temperature discount from her. And

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Speaker 7: the only way is that if she thinks like I'm

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Speaker 4: Wait what how how does that work?

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, I just tell her I'm single, because

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Speaker 4: So she just gives discounts to single guys that she likes.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Wait, so how did she even believe that you're single? Though?

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Speaker 4: Because I walked in with you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean she asked about you and everything, but

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Speaker 5: I just told her you and my aunt.

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 5: Oh god, who are those people. What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, am I being punk?

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Speaker 1: You're with an idiot?

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, hey, Harry Man, tell me. I need to

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Speaker 3: let you know that. You're on the radio right now

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Speaker 3: with a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: This is called awkward Tuesday phone call. God, Julia listens

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Speaker 3: to us and asks for help today because she saw

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Speaker 3: that interaction between you and your hairstylist, which she.

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Speaker 1: Obviously read right. You were flirting with.

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Speaker 3: Her, but not it's not genuine flirting.

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Speaker 1: No discounts for single hot guys, that doesn't exist.

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Speaker 3: I don't know I could get behind that. What's this

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Speaker 3: hairstylist place that you go to, Harry, because I could

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Speaker 5: I'll tell you later. We'll get off the phone.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you believe him, Jeff It doesn't really matter what

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Speaker 3: I believe. It's what Julia. This is her marriage.

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Speaker 1: Do you believe him a ten percent hot guy discount?

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Speaker 4: I do believe him. He's not. It's not a liar.

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Speaker 4: He doesn't lie to me. I mean, I think I

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Speaker 4: and I think it's really acessive.

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Speaker 1: Wait, stupid on his part, or stupid on the hairstylist part.

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Speaker 3: It is about business choice for her.

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Speaker 7: Like I said before, this is a discount that I'm

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Speaker 5: That's my fault.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I promise I'm not up to anything fullish or

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Speaker 3: Okay, ish you have no romantic interest in actually getting

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Speaker 3: together with the style?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 3: No, you would rather just pay the ten percent stopper?

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Speaker 5: No, no, absolutely not. The economy is.

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Speaker 3: Harry, your wife is clearly uncomfortable with this interaction, no

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Speaker 3: matter how much money it saves. She doesn't like it. So, Julia,

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Speaker 3: what would you like to see Harry do going forward?

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Speaker 1: I mean that was that was almost marriage counselor is

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Speaker 3: Kind of like, what do you want from him at

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: I would say, at the very least it to be

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Speaker 3: You don't want him to switch stylists. You're cool with

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Speaker 4: I'm just down the dishonesty and like where that leads.

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Speaker 4: I mean, how would you feel if I wore a

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Speaker 1: I actually believe a dentis giving discounts.

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Speaker 6: Those guys are.

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Speaker 3: I don't need any more laughing gays anyway, Harry, are

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Speaker 3: you comfortable? Are you able to change ever so slightly

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Speaker 3: to make your wife happy?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 7: I will.

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Speaker 5: I will definitely accommodate it, Harry.

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Speaker 3: Women can change a man. I didn't realize that. Look

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Speaker 6: So he's changing Julie all right, by the way, was

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Speaker 6: so talking about that?

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Speaker 3: All right? Well, you know what, I think we're in

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Speaker 3: a better place now than when we started this phone call.

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Speaker 3: Good luck to you too. Your marriage sounds perfect.

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Speaker 4: Thank you all.

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Speaker 3: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.