WEBVTT - Adult Education: A Happy Medium

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, so we have a fun week coming up.

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<v Speaker 2>Anything you're nervous about going to Florida, bit, it's your

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<v Speaker 2>phone over. I always have my phone over, which is

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<v Speaker 2>actually an interesting topic. Side note, this is my sidebar.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it bothers people in relationships when you put the

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<v Speaker 2>phone down because you think, but I always because I

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<v Speaker 2>don't like seeing a phone because I think it's rude.

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<v Speaker 2>Like normally, when have you ever seen my phone up

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<v Speaker 2>like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Normally you've got the phone down. You've been the nineteen

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<v Speaker 3>sixty five wallet case phone thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that anymore though, But no, I has

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<v Speaker 2>that ever been a pet peeve of yours because it

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<v Speaker 2>hasn't been a mind but I've always I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>to we were talking to Jenny McCarthy and she was

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<v Speaker 2>saying how she didn't Donnie didn't like it when she'd

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<v Speaker 2>put her phone down like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think my I think my FoST thought is well,

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<v Speaker 3>why what you hat you then when you put your

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<v Speaker 3>phone down like that?

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<v Speaker 2>But it's always down like that?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you don't normally have a phone case like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not seeing your hiding then no, no, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to see your phone.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, no, I guess I don't. I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>ever like it going up like that for some reason,

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<v Speaker 2>because I don't. I get too sidetracked when I see

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<v Speaker 2>people's like when Catherine has.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's why the old the old wallet phone from

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<v Speaker 3>two thousand and two, you're probably actually better to get

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<v Speaker 3>in all lot. Why because it folds over?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, no, mine never folded over. No, I just

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<v Speaker 2>always turned it over. Oh that's interesting. So you thought

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<v Speaker 2>that it was a foldover. No, it was just was

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<v Speaker 2>just on the back. Yeah, okay, very observant, clearly. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to Florida. It's our first I would say

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<v Speaker 2>it's our first official family No, because we were with

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding, but like true just vak Yeah, well no,

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<v Speaker 2>well as a family of three, what was that.

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<v Speaker 3>Is a family of three?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Because a family you know, because when we went fourth

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<v Speaker 2>of July up north, I was but this is I

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<v Speaker 2>was pregnant with Romans. So this is now with the baby,

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<v Speaker 2>with Joli and Jase. We're going to the beach.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. It's just a pity that Troy couldn't be there

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<v Speaker 3>because of his football, which such a break is different.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, it'll be good, which leads me to the

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<v Speaker 3>question of in fact, it's not a question, it's a request.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're renting. We're renting a boat one day, aren't.

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<v Speaker 2>We We are swimming at the dolphins in the ocean.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so excited. Okay, but do you know what sharks

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<v Speaker 3>eat fish dolphins? Do you know how many videos on

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram I've seen a shark just swimming past the boat

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<v Speaker 3>with a dolphin hanging out the smuth.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's probably Ai.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not Ai. I thought you should be renting the boat.

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<v Speaker 3>What I thought we were getting a boat.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a boat. It's going to take us out

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<v Speaker 2>to the cove and we're going to swim with dolphins

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<v Speaker 2>in the ocean.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not what I'm not I'm not getting in. I

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<v Speaker 3>am not getting in the ocean in Florida. Why is

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<v Speaker 3>that a real question? Yes, it's riddled with shops, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>shocks everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Honey, it's an ocean.

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<v Speaker 3>The highest percentage of shop attacks in the last two

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<v Speaker 3>years is Florida.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Siri, hold on a second, what what was that

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<v Speaker 2>a Google search? I just know, I just know you

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<v Speaker 2>just know what.

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<v Speaker 3>Again? Pull it on your on your Instagram. I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think there's a poll that you've won.

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<v Speaker 2>What what is? I don't understand though, But yet you'll

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<v Speaker 2>drive a motorcycle on the roads?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Just yeah the.

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<v Speaker 3>CITs when the last when's the last time I drove

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<v Speaker 3>a more?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have your license, but you have a motorcycle.

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<v Speaker 2>Have it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>I've had a motorcycle since February and it's done four

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<v Speaker 3>point eight miles.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you don't have a license, it doesn't make sense

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<v Speaker 2>to me why.

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<v Speaker 3>You even have a point seven of those miles a

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<v Speaker 3>mile an hour or under.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, are you ready for your chance of how common

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<v Speaker 2>it is to get a No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not interested in facts yours what.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not interested in the statistics and the data of what.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not talking about motorcycles in the road because that's

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<v Speaker 2>actually more common.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just the motorcycle chat. I don't use it.

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<v Speaker 2>These instances are still.

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<v Speaker 4>Helen.

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<v Speaker 3>And yesterday, yesterday I got out of the garage. Twelve

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<v Speaker 3>is a the gym? I thought, you know what, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in the gym. I may as well look at it

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<v Speaker 3>for an hour and I sat on it twice and

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<v Speaker 3>it's not even starting. It's just give up. Let's got

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<v Speaker 3>a full tank. A few and it won't start. And

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<v Speaker 3>it's done four point eight miles.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time to let it go.

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<v Speaker 3>Ben, Yeah, and even charge the party, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, how common are shark attacks in Florida?

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<v Speaker 2>These instances are still extremely rare. Estimates. Estimates range from

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<v Speaker 2>one ready one in two hundred million, Zama.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're willing to get in the water with them,

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<v Speaker 3>then I'll keep the kids in the boat.

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<v Speaker 2>What How common is it to get into a motor

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<v Speaker 2>cycle accident? One in a hundred, so I think are

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<v Speaker 2>our odds.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's why I've not been on the road do it.

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<v Speaker 3>I've not used it, I know. Okay, So why you've

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<v Speaker 3>thrown that at me?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you would rather do that. But yet you won't

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<v Speaker 2>get into a shark. You won't get into an ocean.

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<v Speaker 3>I have not ridden the motorcycle on the roads.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I understand that. I know, But you have a

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<v Speaker 2>motorcycle to ride it.

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<v Speaker 3>Have a motorcycle.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not amasyage, it's not amasy.

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<v Speaker 3>Think of it riding it. Think of it. The thirty

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<v Speaker 3>minutes of freedom. I could have if I actually went out.

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<v Speaker 2>On it, and you have it and it's still a

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<v Speaker 2>museum in our garage.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I just don't. It's like, so I've seen a

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<v Speaker 3>clip the other day. It's like, and it was in Thingers,

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<v Speaker 3>Australia or Thailand.

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<v Speaker 2>We are going to Florida, please please, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>And it was a guy who was what's it called

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<v Speaker 3>when he's tied to a boat and he's got the

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<v Speaker 3>parachute parasailing, parasailing, So he has chosen in Thailand to

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<v Speaker 3>tie himself to a boat with a parachute behind them, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and he's got a little tie. Guy tied Tom even

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<v Speaker 3>know if he has tied to him, but anyway, the

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<v Speaker 3>two of them got up in the air and he

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<v Speaker 3>ends up three hundred meters up in the air.

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<v Speaker 2>And a shark flies three hundred meters there and.

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<v Speaker 3>The panics and unties. He's harness and falls to his death.

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<v Speaker 3>He has chosen to put his life at risk by

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<v Speaker 3>going on a parachute glider thing. I know, I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>choosing to go in a shock infested water because that

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<v Speaker 3>would put my.

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<v Speaker 2>Life and we're not going in the middle of the

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<v Speaker 2>dark ocean, in the deep, dark blue sea. We are

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<v Speaker 2>going to a little cove like we did in Italy.

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<v Speaker 3>You've seen what bull sharks hang about?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you get into the water in Italy?

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<v Speaker 3>The shock?

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<v Speaker 2>What are you talking about? It's an ocean.

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<v Speaker 3>We asked every boat driver that we had. Have you

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<v Speaker 3>seen a shop? You ever seen a shock? You ask

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<v Speaker 3>a boat driver in Florida? Have you seen a shot?

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<v Speaker 2>You?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, ten minutes ago. Mate, guarantee you.

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<v Speaker 2>Not where we're going to be and it's going to

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful and listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I need ordered us some shocks. It's on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, listen, I really because you know how jas

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<v Speaker 2>is very sensitive to fun at times, because he's scared

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<v Speaker 2>of certain things. Since that's the fun, you, I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>the one like not wanting to go in the water,

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<v Speaker 2>so uh, I think he'll need that encouragement of not

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<v Speaker 2>being scared to get in the water, if that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, just you see, just before we get in the water,

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<v Speaker 3>just say mommy, go and see your mommy. She's got

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<v Speaker 3>some statistics. Let you feel safe.

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<v Speaker 2>Stop. All right, So today's episode we have we should

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<v Speaker 2>ask the psychic. He's actually a medium medium different have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever been read by a medium.

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<v Speaker 3>I have been read by a medium. Yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's mostly psychics that I've been to see.

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<v Speaker 2>You've been do a psychic? Really shocking?

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<v Speaker 3>Really yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't see you as like a believer in that stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>One probably twice a year when I lived in Scotland.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name was Andy and she was excellent.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, okay, and what did she tell you stuff? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Did it play out?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually? That? Yeah? That she was good. But I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if I've been to a natural medium, but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>looking forward to.

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<v Speaker 2>I love mediums, Jonathan, I I got read by one.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to say my tyler Henry One. Uh, I'd

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<v Speaker 2>have to look think back or re listened to his

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<v Speaker 2>episode because I don't remember. I was on his show

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<v Speaker 2>and somebody else came through for him, and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if it was because at that time I had

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<v Speaker 2>just found out about Mike's affair stuff and I had

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<v Speaker 2>this thing for E and I was going to be

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<v Speaker 2>read by him, but like, nothing came to fruition in

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<v Speaker 2>that one, and he picked up one of my other

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<v Speaker 2>old friends that were there, a relative of hers and so.

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<v Speaker 2>But another medium that I had in Nashville, and he

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<v Speaker 2>did cold cases, just like the guy Jonathan mar Set's

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<v Speaker 2>coming on and he's helped solve some yeah, some some

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<v Speaker 2>cold cases. And that's just like that's where I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>how do people not believe in that? And I know

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<v Speaker 2>there's a big thing with faith, but I also think

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<v Speaker 2>God created these beautiful people to have different to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to connect to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's interesting, so as usual by delve and to

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<v Speaker 3>whoever was coming on, but it's and never know how

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<v Speaker 3>the mind of a medium works and what they see,

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<v Speaker 3>like if they know that, let's see, your grandmother is

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<v Speaker 3>showing up, then like he was talking to someone about

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<v Speaker 3>the mum, but it's his mum that shows up, so

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<v Speaker 3>therefore he knows, Okay, it's related to a mum, or

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<v Speaker 3>it's an incidant like he was saying to someone. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a newsreader, I think, and he was saying, you're

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<v Speaker 3>really close to your mom because she's almost like right

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<v Speaker 3>in your face, right beside you, So you're close to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how I'll be to my kids and you right

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<v Speaker 2>in your face. Is there anybody that you hope that

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<v Speaker 2>he brings to or that shows up in our session today?

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<v Speaker 3>I never even thought about that. I don't think he'll

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<v Speaker 3>be I don't think he'll be looking to to bring

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<v Speaker 3>people into the room with us.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I want someone to come in. Yeah, I never

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<v Speaker 2>got to meet your gran.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well she showed up.

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<v Speaker 2>Then there will be tears.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that will be tears. That's what she camera.

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<v Speaker 2>There'll be more than one strong single tear. Why didn't

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<v Speaker 2>she die.

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<v Speaker 3>Two thousand and three?

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<v Speaker 2>How again?

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<v Speaker 3>Heart attack?

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<v Speaker 2>And she was who you were closest to. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>my your mom? Oh, sweet mom's mom. Yeah, my mom

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<v Speaker 2>is an angel. That's interesting. Yeah, I had I always

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<v Speaker 2>had my grandpa come through in a lot of my sessions.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted someone else to come through, but his energy

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<v Speaker 2>was too dark, and so he's never come through. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of glad that's gone.

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<v Speaker 3>Really Yeah, all right, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted like a sorry, maybe I don't know, some

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<v Speaker 2>kind of closure. But yeah, he's here. So let's take

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<v Speaker 2>a break and see who shows up.

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<v Speaker 4>I Hello, how are you good? Nice?

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<v Speaker 2>I am Jana. This is my husband Alan. Hello, thank

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<v Speaker 2>you so much for coming on. We're so excited to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Likewise, thank you for having me. I'm really excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Where do you. Where are you based New York?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, great, we love New York.

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<v Speaker 4>New York is awesome. Are you guys in California or

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<v Speaker 4>like La Area?

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<v Speaker 2>We used to be, but now we live in Franklin, Tennessee.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh nice. I feel like that's been like a huge thing,

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<v Speaker 4>like everyone leaving Los Angeles or and just like kind

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<v Speaker 4>of scattering to like Miami or Vancouver or wherever everything,

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<v Speaker 4>Like we just left. We hated there, We're out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's you know, after well before COVID. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>was just I like this way of living. And then

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<v Speaker 2>he came from England, Scotland to England and then to Nashville.

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<v Speaker 2>So I pulled him over.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel looking. I feel looking to know your house.

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<v Speaker 3>I've watched so many of your videos this morning. If

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<v Speaker 3>you'l looking know the background of your kitchen and you'll

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<v Speaker 3>you study And.

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<v Speaker 4>It's my mom's house.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I just bought a house last year with my wife

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<v Speaker 4>and we're about fifteen twenty minutes away. Because when we

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<v Speaker 4>start having kids, I want my parents to be like

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<v Speaker 4>kind of you know, they're and heelpful because you're like

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<v Speaker 4>all the help I can kind of get. And my

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<v Speaker 4>wife works from home and she's like, get the hell

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<v Speaker 4>out and like go to your mom's house because I

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<v Speaker 4>need the house to myself. So every video everything I

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<v Speaker 4>do my mom's house.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's crazy. Yeah, he was. He was showing me

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<v Speaker 2>some videos earlier today and I'm just every video I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I just got chills, chills after chills, after chills.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I was showing another one where you were speaking

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<v Speaker 3>to a lady and unfortunately I think her dogs come

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<v Speaker 3>through and she had been set on fire by a

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<v Speaker 3>father figure or biological father yep. And I just like

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<v Speaker 3>like you. I was like wow, like and how did you?

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<v Speaker 3>How did you get into that kind of colde case?

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<v Speaker 3>So that always intrigues me. We watched so many TV

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<v Speaker 3>shows on things.

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<v Speaker 2>We were just watching Into the Fire last night.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 2>And then can I also just asked too, like when

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<v Speaker 2>did this? When did you first? Is it a feeling?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it a vision? Is it a body thing? Like what? What?

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<v Speaker 2>How old were you? And like what was that moment too?

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<v Speaker 4>So when I first, like I guess you could say,

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<v Speaker 4>like brought up this gift when I was a child.

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<v Speaker 4>I was probably about four or five, my my mom

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<v Speaker 4>sister passed away, my aunt Susan or my aunt Sue,

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<v Speaker 4>and she passed when I was six months old, so

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't really like really know her or like have

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<v Speaker 4>a relationship with her or whatever, just because I was

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<v Speaker 4>so young. And you know, just like most families, people

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<v Speaker 4>have pictures of their loved ones that have like passed away.

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<v Speaker 4>And my mom was best friends with her, so she

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<v Speaker 4>would always like talk about her to like my family

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<v Speaker 4>myself growing up. So one day it was Easter Sunday,

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<v Speaker 4>my mom tells the story to everyone because she's like

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<v Speaker 4>it freaked the entire family out, where everyone didn't speak

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<v Speaker 4>to each old for like a solid like thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 4>because they were like, what the hell just happened type

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<v Speaker 4>of thing. So my grandfather, her father, when he was living,

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<v Speaker 4>I walked up to him and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>and Susie's here, and he's like yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, very like old school type of guy, and

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<v Speaker 4>I go, no, she and I was wearing I'm sure

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<v Speaker 4>you know you guys know this the double jean shirt

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<v Speaker 4>with the pants. My mom used to wear me like

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<v Speaker 4>the Canadian tuxedo thing. So I kept pulling on this

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<v Speaker 4>on my shirt, being like Susie's wearing this, Susie's wearing this,

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<v Speaker 4>like trying to say that she's wearing a denim jacket.

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<v Speaker 4>My grandfather goes, the hell's this kid talking about the

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<v Speaker 4>hell's's kid talking about my mom and her other sister,

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<v Speaker 4>like we're sitting there. So my other aunt was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I have no idea what he's talking about. My mom

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<v Speaker 4>comes in, like she saw like a ghost, like white, pale, whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>and my grandfather was like, why do you look like this?

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<v Speaker 4>And she's like, well, when the surface was over, like

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<v Speaker 4>when everyone went to cars to go to the cemetery

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<v Speaker 4>to follow the casket and everything, my mom walked back

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<v Speaker 4>in and put a jean jacket in the casket like

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<v Speaker 4>where she was because they were best friends. They lived together,

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<v Speaker 4>and there's a jean jacket that they would steal back

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<v Speaker 4>and forth from each other. So she wanted to have

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<v Speaker 4>a very intimate moment with just her sister. She didn't

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<v Speaker 4>want her other sister or her parents to know. She

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<v Speaker 4>just wanted to be her thing. So I guess for

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<v Speaker 4>like thirty minutes, people didn't speak, and like I was

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<v Speaker 4>a kid, so I went outside and I was like

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<v Speaker 4>chasing the Easter eggs and you know, continuing my day,

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<v Speaker 4>and I guess everyone was just like super quiet and

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<v Speaker 4>like didn't really understand it. And then when I was

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<v Speaker 4>getting older, like I was seeing things about my family

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<v Speaker 4>that I don't think someone should know about their family,

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<v Speaker 4>like very intimate personal things from people that passed away

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<v Speaker 4>coming through, like acknowledging and apologizing for like sexual assault

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<v Speaker 4>and things like that, and I didn't really understand what

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<v Speaker 4>it was. So like when it was coming through, I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't really get it, so I didn't think too much

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<v Speaker 4>of it. And plus I wanted to be like a

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<v Speaker 4>normal kid, So I was like, like I was wrestling

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<v Speaker 4>football like everything, and I wanted to stay on that

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<v Speaker 4>track of like normal because what I was seeing and

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<v Speaker 4>feeling not everyone. I realized that certain age was like

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<v Speaker 4>my friends. I didn't want to be like a weirdo

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<v Speaker 4>to my friends and to my coaches and to anything.

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<v Speaker 4>So another weird thing is before I went to college,

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<v Speaker 4>my and Sue went to the same college that I

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<v Speaker 4>committed to the play lacrosse at. So I committed there

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<v Speaker 4>because my dad played rugby there my and my aunt

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<v Speaker 4>Sue was there, and before I left, I turned to

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<v Speaker 4>my mom and I goes their mental illness in the family,

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<v Speaker 4>like I feel like I'm mentally off, like I have schizophrenia,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I don't really know what's going on, because I

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<v Speaker 4>didn't have anyone to really validate what was going on

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<v Speaker 4>if I was either going crazy or if it was

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<v Speaker 4>luck what I said with certain things like no one

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<v Speaker 4>really validated that for me, and she said no, And

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<v Speaker 4>then it just so happened that someone like another medium

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<v Speaker 4>validated for me. And from there, my mom just brought

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<v Speaker 4>friends that I've never met before when I was home

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<v Speaker 4>from college to practice and I didn't tell any of

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<v Speaker 4>my friends. I didn't tell anyone. And then after that

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to be a police officer. So I

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<v Speaker 4>went through the NYPD academy. I went through everything, and

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<v Speaker 4>a high level homicide detective pulled me aside and the

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<v Speaker 4>chief at the time and was like, you should go

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<v Speaker 4>home and be able to come home every night, and

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<v Speaker 4>you should be able to not worry that if you

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<v Speaker 4>step on the street someone's going to shoot you, Like

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<v Speaker 4>we'll use you when we seem like it's fit to

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<v Speaker 4>use you on these unsolved cases. So what I found

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<v Speaker 4>out recently from like the FBI and like all these

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<v Speaker 4>people that I've worked with was they were sending people

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<v Speaker 4>to me to see throughout the years until they thought

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<v Speaker 4>I was ready. So they would send people pretending to

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<v Speaker 4>be someone else, and they would actually be bringing people on.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was working on cases I didn't even really

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<v Speaker 4>know about until later on, so they were coming through,

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<v Speaker 4>and just the Long Island serial killer case I was

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<v Speaker 4>pulled on in twenty seventeen from doing it. And it's

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<v Speaker 4>just like all this stuff, and that's how I got

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<v Speaker 4>involved in the in like the police work and and

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<v Speaker 4>everything from those two high level officers.

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<v Speaker 3>Hope they your money then, So I.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't charge them. I don't charge them at all. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't charge anytime I work on an unsolved or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't charge any of Like I don't charge the state.

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<v Speaker 4>I do because I want to help the family, because

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<v Speaker 4>when they come to me, I'm their last option, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not their first, so it's like I want to be

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<v Speaker 4>able to try my best to help them. So I

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<v Speaker 4>don't charge.

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<v Speaker 2>How many cases have you helped solve?

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<v Speaker 4>By by solving it's just I helped them turn a

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<v Speaker 4>corner or keep a case open. But probably at this

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<v Speaker 4>point close to like seventy five hundred.

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<v Speaker 3>Like seventy five hundred.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, like you look at my emails right now, helps

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<v Speaker 4>from parents that I wanted the name of the case

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<v Speaker 4>because it's active. But I helped turn a suicide into

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<v Speaker 4>a homicide with the DA like recently, so wow, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>Like well that that gave me chills. Like when they

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<v Speaker 4>called me and they told me, I like didn't know

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<v Speaker 4>how to take it because that was that was the

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<v Speaker 4>first time that I was able to turn a suicide

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<v Speaker 4>to a homicide, and I like freaked myself out and

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<v Speaker 4>I had to go for a long run. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>I need to like clear my head, like this is

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<v Speaker 4>a little nutty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what I was gonna ask too, Like what

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<v Speaker 2>do you do to get out from because is it

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<v Speaker 2>like are people constantly coming to you? Or do you

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<v Speaker 2>sit in a space and is there like a ritual

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<v Speaker 2>you do to you know, have these people come in?

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<v Speaker 2>Like what is that?

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<v Speaker 4>So I learned to ignore it, so like basically all

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<v Speaker 4>the time. I guess you can say people will come

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<v Speaker 4>like through or try to like come through. But if

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<v Speaker 4>I let it kind of if I talk to every

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<v Speaker 4>person about it, when when I'm out, I'm gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>burnt out, drained, like I'm it's not gonna like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not gonna be helpful for whoever wants a reading or

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<v Speaker 4>for like an unsolve. So I learned to kind of

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<v Speaker 4>just like ignore or just like try to live everyday

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<v Speaker 4>life like everyday life. So I go for like a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of runs. I play. I know it's gonna sound silly,

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<v Speaker 4>but I play volleyball with the NYPD guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Volleyball. Yeah, you're gonna say video games, and I'm like, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Literally going tonight to play indoor volleyball with them. And

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<v Speaker 4>it's just like I try to do as like much

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<v Speaker 4>normal stuff, but my phone rings a lot, and it's

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<v Speaker 4>always like like police officers or FBI or whoever, because

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<v Speaker 4>they don't want to kind of gear me to what's

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<v Speaker 4>going on. They want to like kind of like take

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<v Speaker 4>me off guard shock me. They don't want me to

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<v Speaker 4>know about a case because if they tell me a case,

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<v Speaker 4>it's human nature to look up a case. I mean

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<v Speaker 4>like if they're like there's a huge case, like look

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<v Speaker 4>it up. Most of the time they don't tell me.

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<v Speaker 4>They're like we have ten minutes go like that go,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I rattle it off and then they hang

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<v Speaker 4>up In a month later, I hear the progress because

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<v Speaker 4>I don't hear it in real.

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<v Speaker 2>Time because this is gonna be it's only because we

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<v Speaker 2>just watched it, but we watched Monsters, the Mendez Brother's story,

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<v Speaker 2>Like do you ever just like sit and be like

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<v Speaker 2>all right, like come to me whatever that dad was,

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<v Speaker 2>and be like what was the truth in that? And

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<v Speaker 2>then would you ever call and be like hey, they

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<v Speaker 2>they for sure did it or they for sured itdn't

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<v Speaker 2>like is it like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, does that ever happen? So a couple of times yeah, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to say.

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<v Speaker 4>I guess the Brian Coburger case was one of them.

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<v Speaker 4>The Utah four when the kid went into the house

0:23:26.560 --> 0:23:29.199
<v Speaker 4>and did horrible things to the girls in the in

0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:31.879
<v Speaker 4>the house and there's two survivor girls. I think it

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<v Speaker 4>was No, it's not Utah, it was Idaho, the Idaho

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<v Speaker 4>for So they were saying stuff and I called them

0:23:38.400 --> 0:23:39.960
<v Speaker 4>and out because I was seeing it all over TikTok

0:23:39.960 --> 0:23:44.159
<v Speaker 4>because like people start blasting things on social media and

0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:46.520
<v Speaker 4>then it gets all these millions of like views and

0:23:46.560 --> 0:23:48.520
<v Speaker 4>stuff and I'm like, that's not it, Like, don't pay

0:23:48.520 --> 0:23:51.560
<v Speaker 4>attention to this, Like I'll do that to them because

0:23:52.119 --> 0:23:54.320
<v Speaker 4>people love true crime. I guess I didn't even know

0:23:54.640 --> 0:23:58.240
<v Speaker 4>it was like such a big thing, like until recently

0:23:58.320 --> 0:24:01.000
<v Speaker 4>in the last year. Probably, Well, like.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't like specifically go to like it. I guess

0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:10.280
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, like you can't look at like some people

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:12.399
<v Speaker 2>might not come up like for that, like you might

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:14.960
<v Speaker 2>not feel anything from that situation, like the Mendez or

0:24:15.280 --> 0:24:17.680
<v Speaker 2>oj or Oh yeah.

0:24:17.280 --> 0:24:19.439
<v Speaker 4>Does that make no, No, it does. I would need

0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:22.120
<v Speaker 4>to sit with someone who was probably either very close

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:25.720
<v Speaker 4>to the case with it family because like a huge

0:24:25.800 --> 0:24:28.120
<v Speaker 4>super fan, like when be able to validate like very

0:24:28.119 --> 0:24:29.600
<v Speaker 4>intimate personal things.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, okay, that makes sense. So you have to have

0:24:31.600 --> 0:24:33.840
<v Speaker 2>the connection of at least the person to have that

0:24:33.880 --> 0:24:34.680
<v Speaker 2>person come through.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Like and like that's why I try not to

0:24:37.119 --> 0:24:39.760
<v Speaker 4>talk so much about others, Like when like people reach

0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:41.240
<v Speaker 4>out to me, like can you do this case? It's

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:44.119
<v Speaker 4>like it I could, but who can really validate it

0:24:44.200 --> 0:24:46.960
<v Speaker 4>besides like the family or the detectives or the pis

0:24:47.119 --> 0:24:48.240
<v Speaker 4>or who whoever?

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:51.359
<v Speaker 3>How long how long do you need to spend with

0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:53.800
<v Speaker 3>someone or how long do you need to be dialed

0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:56.800
<v Speaker 3>in that conversation or that person and all the things

0:24:56.800 --> 0:24:57.840
<v Speaker 3>to start to come through.

0:24:59.200 --> 0:25:03.840
<v Speaker 4>So for like a significant like to get stuff, probably

0:25:03.920 --> 0:25:06.440
<v Speaker 4>twenty and twenty five minutes, I would probably say only

0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:09.520
<v Speaker 4>because really the FBI and like the police train me

0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:12.000
<v Speaker 4>to go fast, like because I typically I would have

0:25:12.000 --> 0:25:15.080
<v Speaker 4>spent more time, like a forty five minute period, because

0:25:15.119 --> 0:25:18.200
<v Speaker 4>my whole thing would to give the family closure first

0:25:18.359 --> 0:25:20.640
<v Speaker 4>and then go into the case because I don't want

0:25:20.640 --> 0:25:22.919
<v Speaker 4>to just start drilling stuff down their throat. That's not

0:25:22.960 --> 0:25:26.000
<v Speaker 4>how I do things. But I've learned to kind of

0:25:26.000 --> 0:25:28.439
<v Speaker 4>give the closure very quickly and fast with stuff and

0:25:28.480 --> 0:25:31.199
<v Speaker 4>then go right into the case because the police they

0:25:31.200 --> 0:25:33.280
<v Speaker 4>don't want to wait, like they want to go and

0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:36.359
<v Speaker 4>they're so probably twenty five minutes, I'll probably say for

0:25:36.440 --> 0:25:38.000
<v Speaker 4>a shorter answer, sorry for going.

0:25:38.040 --> 0:25:41.280
<v Speaker 3>And that's forlick a taking cold cases to say, if

0:25:41.280 --> 0:25:44.359
<v Speaker 3>that's just someone that comes to you that wants a

0:25:44.400 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 3>standard reading on family members or I mean, how long

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:49.119
<v Speaker 3>do you need to sit with them in order for

0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:50.879
<v Speaker 3>things to start to come through to you?

0:25:51.520 --> 0:25:54.320
<v Speaker 4>Well, it initially starts pretty fast, but I spend about

0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:56.439
<v Speaker 4>forty five minutes to an hour with like a normal

0:25:57.040 --> 0:26:00.919
<v Speaker 4>like not like a cold case. Right, I try to

0:26:01.040 --> 0:26:02.720
<v Speaker 4>do as much for them as I can.

0:26:03.760 --> 0:26:06.600
<v Speaker 3>Just have this vision of you walking in the streets

0:26:06.600 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 3>in New York and like people walking past, and you

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:12.359
<v Speaker 3>get connected to that person, and our person walks past,

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 3>connected to that person, and just constantly things coming up.

0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:19.320
<v Speaker 4>Always, it's literally always like that is it?

0:26:19.359 --> 0:26:19.639
<v Speaker 3>Really?

0:26:19.960 --> 0:26:22.440
<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

0:26:22.600 --> 0:26:26.080
<v Speaker 2>Is your wife? Is she? How did? How did you

0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:28.960
<v Speaker 2>tell her this? Because I imagine at first it would

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:29.600
<v Speaker 2>have been like wait.

0:26:29.440 --> 0:26:32.639
<v Speaker 4>What yeah, So that's actually a funny story. We just

0:26:32.680 --> 0:26:37.120
<v Speaker 4>got married to two weeks ago, thank you, thank you.

0:26:37.200 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 4>So basically I had a relationship before her and the

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:45.400
<v Speaker 4>girl that's when I start going out to like LA

0:26:45.480 --> 0:26:48.000
<v Speaker 4>and stuff. Really, so I was starting to read like

0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:52.040
<v Speaker 4>public figures and stuff. And then she, you know, was

0:26:52.119 --> 0:26:54.560
<v Speaker 4>really enamored by that life. And I didn't like how

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:59.080
<v Speaker 4>that situation turned. So when we you know, broke up

0:26:59.240 --> 0:27:02.240
<v Speaker 4>or whatever, I said that I would wait to tell

0:27:02.280 --> 0:27:04.800
<v Speaker 4>someone until I knew that they liked me for me

0:27:05.000 --> 0:27:07.040
<v Speaker 4>and not like I go to LA and I could

0:27:07.040 --> 0:27:11.600
<v Speaker 4>be around people for readings specifically and stuff. So it

0:27:11.680 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 4>just so happened that when we first met and we

0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:16.240
<v Speaker 4>were going on because we met her in COVID, so

0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:20.000
<v Speaker 4>we were sitting outside in like the space things where

0:27:20.040 --> 0:27:22.639
<v Speaker 4>like you can only get food. You can't get drinks,

0:27:22.680 --> 0:27:24.240
<v Speaker 4>so it had to be like a sit down dinner

0:27:24.600 --> 0:27:26.919
<v Speaker 4>in New York. And there was a curfew at like

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:29.080
<v Speaker 4>eleven thirty at night, so you had to get thirty

0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:32.400
<v Speaker 4>eight and leave by eleven thirty. But basically she would

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:36.080
<v Speaker 4>hear calls from like the DA's office, the FBI, so

0:27:36.280 --> 0:27:39.119
<v Speaker 4>she thought I worked in law enforcement. So I didn't

0:27:39.119 --> 0:27:41.720
<v Speaker 4>really say too much. I just wanted to see where

0:27:41.720 --> 0:27:44.119
<v Speaker 4>things would go before I'm like, I'm a medium, Like

0:27:44.160 --> 0:27:47.119
<v Speaker 4>this is what I do. Eventually I told her like

0:27:47.800 --> 0:27:50.159
<v Speaker 4>once we made it official, I told her immediately after.

0:27:50.720 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 4>And then she was like, prove it. That's literally what

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:55.880
<v Speaker 4>she said. She said, prove it. So I had to

0:27:55.960 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 4>prove it to her. And I brought in a family

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:00.879
<v Speaker 4>member that she's never spoken about. Her family does not

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:06.560
<v Speaker 4>speak about because of religious things, and she was hysterically crying.

0:28:06.560 --> 0:28:08.720
<v Speaker 4>And then the entire night, we're watching TV, and I

0:28:08.760 --> 0:28:11.080
<v Speaker 4>could feel her just like staring at me kind of,

0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:14.480
<v Speaker 4>so I would turn my head and I would be like,

0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:17.280
<v Speaker 4>is everything good? And she's like I just don't get it.

0:28:17.400 --> 0:28:19.400
<v Speaker 4>Like she's like I don't get it. And now she's

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:21.959
<v Speaker 4>like my biggest supporter and she's like, you know, the best,

0:28:22.280 --> 0:28:24.560
<v Speaker 4>but she doesn't even work in the entertainment side. She

0:28:24.600 --> 0:28:27.399
<v Speaker 4>works for alcohol, like an alcohol company. So it's like

0:28:27.680 --> 0:28:28.280
<v Speaker 4>very different.

0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:31.919
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, suppressing yeah, emotion.

0:28:33.160 --> 0:28:33.640
<v Speaker 4>A little bit.

0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:49.760
<v Speaker 2>It's also I feel like it could be hard to

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 2>because there's so many critics out there, yeah, and either

0:28:53.560 --> 0:28:58.080
<v Speaker 2>judgment or people saying I know someone that is just

0:28:58.120 --> 0:28:59.840
<v Speaker 2>like that is just a load of bs and that's

0:28:59.840 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 2>not true. But I'm like, how can people say that,

0:29:02.040 --> 0:29:05.440
<v Speaker 2>I maybe find psychics. Maybe there's a piece of that

0:29:05.480 --> 0:29:07.200
<v Speaker 2>where there's a lot of people out there that are

0:29:07.240 --> 0:29:10.720
<v Speaker 2>just you have a grandpa that died, well, no shit,

0:29:10.800 --> 0:29:16.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm forty like you know, so I think there's there's

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:20.840
<v Speaker 2>pieces of maybe people that do that for entertainment that

0:29:20.880 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 2>are false. Is that Is that okay fair to say?

0:29:25.040 --> 0:29:25.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:30.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but when you're solving cold cases and mediums, I

0:29:30.560 --> 0:29:32.920
<v Speaker 2>don't know. I just I find it very different and

0:29:33.560 --> 0:29:37.760
<v Speaker 2>more believable than a psychic same or no, yeah, absolutely.

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:41.840
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because I see people obviously that you know, I

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:44.080
<v Speaker 4>always call like a cold reading where they ask you

0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:48.200
<v Speaker 4>the questions and you kind of respond with, like, you know,

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 4>for example, it's like did you lose a grandparent and

0:29:50.200 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 4>someone is so desperate and vulnerable they're like, oh my god,

0:29:53.000 --> 0:29:55.400
<v Speaker 4>yes or like whatever, and then they kind of feed

0:29:55.440 --> 0:29:59.480
<v Speaker 4>off of off of that. I do the I only

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 4>tell people say like really yes or no, like if

0:30:02.240 --> 0:30:05.200
<v Speaker 4>it like that's all I really need, I guess, because

0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:06.920
<v Speaker 4>or just don't say anything. A lot of people don't

0:30:06.920 --> 0:30:09.000
<v Speaker 4>say anything. They just sit there and stare at me,

0:30:09.000 --> 0:30:10.840
<v Speaker 4>which is like also pretty uncomfortable for me because I

0:30:10.840 --> 0:30:13.560
<v Speaker 4>could feel them staring at me, but like, you know,

0:30:13.760 --> 0:30:16.480
<v Speaker 4>just like a little uncomfortable. But I definitely think the

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:19.480
<v Speaker 4>unsolved stuff in the in the validation from like law

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 4>enforcement and you know, people see it and stuff that

0:30:22.840 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 4>makes it more believable for people to come to me,

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:28.360
<v Speaker 4>I guess because of that law enforcement aspect of it

0:30:28.480 --> 0:30:31.720
<v Speaker 4>versus like when you walk down forty second Street and

0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:35.640
<v Speaker 4>you see like tarot cards and psychic stuff, yeah or whatever.

0:30:35.800 --> 0:30:43.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like you've had hard relationships, Well again no, but yeah,

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:46.240
<v Speaker 2>the medium stuff, that's where I'm like, all right, and

0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:50.320
<v Speaker 2>I've had I've been read by different mediums. I was saying,

0:30:50.320 --> 0:30:53.280
<v Speaker 2>like Tyler Henry's read me. And I had a guy

0:30:53.280 --> 0:30:57.520
<v Speaker 2>in Nashville who also does some unsolved mystery stuff, and

0:30:57.600 --> 0:30:59.840
<v Speaker 2>you know, some things are ended up being right, some

0:31:00.080 --> 0:31:03.440
<v Speaker 2>things you know, we're miles off. But also you know

0:31:03.600 --> 0:31:08.400
<v Speaker 2>it's I feel like there's closure in a beautiful thing

0:31:08.400 --> 0:31:13.280
<v Speaker 2>that you do helping people have that peace and that Yeah,

0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:13.880
<v Speaker 2>that closure.

0:31:14.080 --> 0:31:17.360
<v Speaker 3>Yes, it's such a gift. Yeah, you've been given such

0:31:17.360 --> 0:31:20.040
<v Speaker 3>a such a powerful gift. Do you have a Do

0:31:20.080 --> 0:31:22.720
<v Speaker 3>you ever get situations where you've you've done a reading

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:29.480
<v Speaker 3>with someone, and maybe I would amass. I would imagine

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 3>it's like most people, you have good days at work

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:33.440
<v Speaker 3>and you have bad days at work where you feel well,

0:31:33.480 --> 0:31:36.560
<v Speaker 3>that reading went really well, one didn't quite go so well.

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:39.640
<v Speaker 3>Do you ever get situations where the reading is finished

0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 3>and then maybe later that day something comes up from

0:31:43.640 --> 0:31:45.240
<v Speaker 3>it and you have to go back to the person

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 3>and say, listen, this has come up or I feel

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 3>that you really need to know this, or whether it's

0:31:50.840 --> 0:31:53.520
<v Speaker 3>an hour later or two days, three days, four days later,

0:31:53.600 --> 0:31:55.280
<v Speaker 3>does that happen sometimes?

0:31:55.360 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Like U Sometimes people I think have expectations when

0:32:01.000 --> 0:32:05.000
<v Speaker 4>they come to readings and stuff, Like people will want

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:08.400
<v Speaker 4>to hear from very specific people. If that specific person

0:32:08.440 --> 0:32:12.400
<v Speaker 4>doesn't come through and someone else comes through, they feel

0:32:12.400 --> 0:32:15.080
<v Speaker 4>that their reading is a failure because they were hoping

0:32:15.160 --> 0:32:19.120
<v Speaker 4>to hear from a specific person. But there's times where

0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:23.320
<v Speaker 4>I would do a reading and an hour or two

0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 4>or a day or whatever the timeframe is typically within

0:32:26.280 --> 0:32:29.240
<v Speaker 4>like a week, I will probably say something comes through

0:32:29.320 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 4>and I have my mom does my appointment. I would

0:32:32.040 --> 0:32:34.080
<v Speaker 4>have to tell my mom to reach out to them

0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 4>and be like can you just let them know this?

0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 4>And then they're like, oh my god, that's what we've

0:32:38.480 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 4>been thinking about, thank you so much. Like So there

0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 4>are times I think when there's like a failure or whatever,

0:32:46.200 --> 0:32:48.600
<v Speaker 4>just be honest, it's when people want to hear from

0:32:48.640 --> 0:32:52.080
<v Speaker 4>someone specific and that person doesn't come through as strong

0:32:52.200 --> 0:32:55.240
<v Speaker 4>as someone else does, and you can tell at the

0:32:55.320 --> 0:32:59.920
<v Speaker 4>end that they're not thrilled, like like but which which saw?

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 4>Because then they miss the entire point of the reading

0:33:02.400 --> 0:33:05.040
<v Speaker 4>because most of the time, in like a reading, if

0:33:05.080 --> 0:33:07.760
<v Speaker 4>someone comes through, there's a reason why, and there's like

0:33:07.760 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 4>all these messages as like a reason why they specifically

0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:15.640
<v Speaker 4>came through versus someone else. But you know, I try

0:33:15.720 --> 0:33:17.720
<v Speaker 4>my best to appease people, so like at the end,

0:33:17.760 --> 0:33:20.239
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, do you have any questions like did I

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 4>hit who you wanted to hear? From like, I want

0:33:22.480 --> 0:33:25.320
<v Speaker 4>to make sure because I want to make everyone happy

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:26.479
<v Speaker 4>as much as I can with this.

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:29.000
<v Speaker 3>How do you deal with things emotionally when you have

0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:32.479
<v Speaker 3>to be if someone comes through and you know that

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:34.880
<v Speaker 3>it is really really going to affect a person that

0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:39.240
<v Speaker 3>you're reading for and it's maybe a really horrendous traumatic

0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:43.520
<v Speaker 3>thing like the bunding of the little Girl? How do

0:33:43.560 --> 0:33:45.920
<v Speaker 3>you deal with these things emotionally as are sometimes that

0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:48.560
<v Speaker 3>you just think, you know what, I can't tell this

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:52.480
<v Speaker 3>person this because it looks like it could break them

0:33:52.600 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 3>or kill them.

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So in the beginning, when I first started doing

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:59.000
<v Speaker 4>this with in the public and like things like very heavy,

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:03.080
<v Speaker 4>I would not really say and then I would find

0:34:03.120 --> 0:34:05.680
<v Speaker 4>out later on that people were like, we want to

0:34:05.720 --> 0:34:09.600
<v Speaker 4>hear that because we need that closure of it. It

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:12.319
<v Speaker 4>might sting at first, but it helps us in the

0:34:12.360 --> 0:34:16.239
<v Speaker 4>long run. So basically what I do is I won't

0:34:16.239 --> 0:34:18.200
<v Speaker 4>say something in jam it down their throat, Like that's

0:34:18.239 --> 0:34:20.799
<v Speaker 4>not how I am and that's not how I will

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:23.800
<v Speaker 4>ever probably be, because I'm a human and I would

0:34:23.800 --> 0:34:25.759
<v Speaker 4>not want someone to do that to me when it

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:28.239
<v Speaker 4>comes to that. So I try my best to like

0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:32.080
<v Speaker 4>slowly build into it and to kind of like brace

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:34.719
<v Speaker 4>them for it, and then I tell them, I go,

0:34:34.880 --> 0:34:36.560
<v Speaker 4>this is going to be intense. If you want me

0:34:36.560 --> 0:34:38.920
<v Speaker 4>to skip over it, tell me immediately and I will

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:41.840
<v Speaker 4>and if not, I will keep going. And most of

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:44.360
<v Speaker 4>the time they say to tell me. But that specific

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:49.080
<v Speaker 4>reading was tough because it was a like domestic thing,

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:52.880
<v Speaker 4>so it was a very tough thing, like a tough reading.

0:34:53.719 --> 0:34:54.200
<v Speaker 4>I remember.

0:34:55.640 --> 0:34:57.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean, since we've had almost like twenty twenty

0:34:57.880 --> 0:35:00.000
<v Speaker 2>five minutes, has anything come up for you?

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<v Speaker 3>I knew you. That's that.

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<v Speaker 2>You can say no too, you can no.

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<v Speaker 4>No. I cracked my neck and I close my eyes

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<v Speaker 4>not to be weird or anything. I also stare off.

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<v Speaker 2>It's okay. My one medium was holding a crystal and no.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't do that. I just stare off just

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<v Speaker 4>because I don't want to go off of people's reactions.

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<v Speaker 4>So I just like completely stare off. But it's funny

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<v Speaker 4>you bring up the like grandparent thing, but you know,

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<v Speaker 4>like is there a Robbert in someone like a grandfather

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<v Speaker 4>named Robert or Bob?

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<v Speaker 2>No, But now we got to find out who Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>Sarah's downstairs, Maybe Sarah's got a Robert or Bob.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, who's the end name. Who's living with an end name?

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<v Speaker 2>Who's living?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's with like an end name, not like a

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<v Speaker 4>normal like Nicholas. It's a female. So who's living with an.

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<v Speaker 2>N name that's alive?

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<v Speaker 4>That's alive, Yes, like an n own name. They keep

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<v Speaker 4>putting n O in.

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<v Speaker 2>Front of me Norah, but it's not. It's not a grandparent.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a Bob that keeps coming through. I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>if it's a grandparent for on of you guys, because

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to be mean. But the guy is

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<v Speaker 4>pretty old, happy guy. He comes, he comes through older

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<v Speaker 4>to me, but his name is Robert or Bob or something,

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<v Speaker 4>and he keeps he keeps playing like a harmonica or

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<v Speaker 4>like something in his mouth, like a like an.

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram play the harmonica. But that was Grandpa, Jim James.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think this has to do with you too,

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<v Speaker 4>like as far as like family and the reason I

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<v Speaker 4>try to stay awayte because you guys are probably public figures,

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<v Speaker 4>so like you can google things, so I try to

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<v Speaker 4>go like past that or whatever. Do you have Nora's number?

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<v Speaker 4>By chance?

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<v Speaker 2>My mom's a number.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's your mom? Yeah? Yeah, ask her who Bob is?

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<v Speaker 2>Then I mean, we have an uncle Bob, but he's

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<v Speaker 2>very much alive and causing just so much turmoil family.

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<v Speaker 4>It's someone who passed away in July, because he keeps

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<v Speaker 4>flashing my aunt who passed away in July.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, my grandpa passed away in July. That's his dad.

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<v Speaker 2>But his name wasn't Bob. His name is James.

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<v Speaker 4>Is Bob related to him?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my uncle Bob, but he's alive right, okay?

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<v Speaker 4>And who played the harmonica and all that stuff, my

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:14.799
<v Speaker 4>grandpa and who was like a jokester and my grandpa

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<v Speaker 4>and who also like this is very random because my

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:22.399
<v Speaker 4>family out of this country does this, like, so please

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<v Speaker 4>don't judge me on this when I say this. Do

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<v Speaker 4>you know people that do stuff with rugs and stuff

0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:30.440
<v Speaker 4>like they make rugs or they do things with rugs.

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<v Speaker 4>My great grandfather did that in Austria. Oh wow, not

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<v Speaker 4>saying that that's like what it is, but they keep

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<v Speaker 4>like flipping rugs in front of me, showing me that stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>So interesting. Yeah, Well, to get to the bottom.

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<v Speaker 4>Of this, please do and please let me know who.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, for sure we'll come back on your show.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, please do. That'd be awesome.

0:37:56.680 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 2>Because I think there's someone that maybe would want to

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<v Speaker 2>come out and say hello to Alan.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows, maybe one.

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<v Speaker 4>Day I could do it privately for you too, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>And if you have to be private and stuff, because

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<v Speaker 4>I know a lot of people wanted to, I know

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of people like that stuff to be private.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, of course I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you are fantastic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you really are.

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<v Speaker 2>You really are, and I am you know, I'm excited

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<v Speaker 2>for the for the long read. We should definitely do

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<v Speaker 2>it and then we'll be able to tell people what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's what a lot of people do. They always

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:35.719
<v Speaker 4>like want to do it off camera and then they

0:38:35.719 --> 0:38:38.040
<v Speaker 4>come on and they talk about it because there's things

0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 4>that people want to share in people, things that they

0:38:40.440 --> 0:38:44.520
<v Speaker 4>don't want people to know about certain things, I guess people.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, congratulations on your success, and you do it with

0:38:48.360 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 3>such a nice mona around you, like you have a

0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:55.600
<v Speaker 3>real respect for the situations that you work with. Then

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<v Speaker 3>so yeah, I admi ale that a lot. Congratulations, Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you so much. I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, thank you so much, appreciating. Where can our

0:39:02.560 --> 0:39:03.399
<v Speaker 2>listeners find you?

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<v Speaker 4>Jonathan Mark medium on my Instagram and my new podcast,

0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 4>Connect with Jonathan Mark. I just had Gabby Patito's mom on, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, okay, wow wow yeah. All right, well thank

0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:20.319
<v Speaker 2>you and we'll be on soon then cool, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>thanks bye, gods my mom, it's the bottom of this.

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<v Speaker 2>My mom just said, just Texer. Oh my god, I

0:39:29.920 --> 0:39:32.799
<v Speaker 2>just Texert and I said, whose name is bod? That's dead?

0:39:32.960 --> 0:39:36.360
<v Speaker 2>What did you get hacked? It is interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean you, Leslie read for a couple of minutes.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, he would be incredible to setting list for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you do it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Absolutely, yeah, without doubt.

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<v Speaker 2>That would just be heavy. I mean, think about the

0:39:53.160 --> 0:39:55.440
<v Speaker 2>amount of thoughts that we have in our brain all

0:39:55.480 --> 0:39:58.200
<v Speaker 2>the time, and then add that on top of it.

0:39:58.600 --> 0:40:02.919
<v Speaker 3>And then other people, Yeah, thought that's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Well oh shoot, I mean, I guess we couldn't have

0:40:07.239 --> 0:40:09.160
<v Speaker 2>asked him about the sharks. But it's going to be great.

0:40:09.239 --> 0:40:12.480
<v Speaker 2>Everything's gonna be fine, and we're gonna I'm so excited

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<v Speaker 2>to share a fun little family pick from the water.

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<v Speaker 3>Am I gonna come back from Florida with both Lemonons

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<v Speaker 3>and tych.

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<v Speaker 2>Stay tuned, go listen to Connect with Jonathan Mark.

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<v Speaker 3>Now that was so good.

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<v Speaker 4>I loved him.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, do you have a Robert or a Bob?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>That's my god, I I do. I have an uncle

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<v Speaker 1>Bob and he died in July. I wasn't even thinking this,

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<v Speaker 1>say wait, you guys. I literally was sitting he died

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<v Speaker 1>in July. It wasn't this year, but he died in July,

0:40:42.280 --> 0:40:45.759
<v Speaker 1>and have chills. Oh my god. I wasn't thinking about

0:40:45.800 --> 0:40:48.680
<v Speaker 1>myself at all. I need to ask my mom if

0:40:48.719 --> 0:40:51.160
<v Speaker 1>and he was total jokester. I need to ask my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Play Harmonica to ask my mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm freaking out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just start crying.

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<v Speaker 1>He literally Robert is his name, and he went by

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<v Speaker 1>uncle Bob. I'm actually like freaking.

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<v Speaker 2>Out, Sydney.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like literally shaking.

0:41:07.400 --> 0:41:11.439
<v Speaker 2>Holy crap. That's so crazy. See it always comes through

0:41:11.800 --> 0:41:14.960
<v Speaker 2>with like other people, you know, even uncle Bob that

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<v Speaker 2>died in July.

0:41:16.360 --> 0:41:19.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my god, I wonder who it is. Like, Wow,

0:41:19.120 --> 0:41:21.480
<v Speaker 1>he seems like like he knows like all this kind

0:41:21.520 --> 0:41:22.759
<v Speaker 1>of stuff. I was like, I can't. I was like,

0:41:22.800 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 1>can't wait for your mom to respond. And I was

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:27.200
<v Speaker 1>sitting here, not even licking the pieces together.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to talk to your mom out them on

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram because I've been stalking them the home an then anyway, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>tell I'm telling the news.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah seriously, because my mom's like, clearly it wasn't my

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<v Speaker 2>which is sad. I would have loved to say how

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<v Speaker 2>to my grandpa, But I mean, how cool is that

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<v Speaker 2>your uncle Bob?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I'm gonna cry. That's insane.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, We'll stay tuned for Sydney's updates.