1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: What's up, you guys. We are back with another special 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 1: episode of Good Mom's Bad Choices. This week, Eric and 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: I catch up with Tanya to Hannah from one of 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: my favorite reality shows, Little Women Atlanta. We are talking 5 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 1: raising kids, puberty, just living in the world as a 6 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: little person, how cruel the world can be, preparing your 7 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 1: kids for bullies and shit, not becoming one, and just 8 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:31,360 Speaker 1: educating yourself on people different than yourself. Tanya is spilling 9 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: some tea, talking a bunch of different things behind the 10 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: scenes of reality TV. 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So sign up for Patreon the 21 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: link is in this episode description and enjoy the show 22 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: you could be a little person and you can have 23 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: a baby that's like regular size. You could be two 24 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: regular people and have a baby that's a little Both 25 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: of my. 26 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 2: Parents are my dad's six one, my mom is six 27 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 2: five to seven. Oh wow, so yeah, and. 28 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: Then you know, there's no other little people in your family, 29 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: so it's not genetics. 30 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 2: They're all average. My brother is six to one as well, 31 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 2: my older brother. 32 00:01:56,560 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: So it's just like something that happens. 33 00:01:57,920 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 2: It just happened. I think I'm a fairy. You're a fairy, 34 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 2: you know. 35 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 1: I think I read that in air because like she's 36 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: a fairy, but I don't know, I also identify as 37 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: a fairy, and like we're from the same family. 38 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 2: I think that's why I love you guys, honestly, the lineage. 39 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 3: The fairy lineage. 40 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm supposed to be, like my 41 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: body hurts, like I got a reading ones and they're 42 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 2: like the reason why I'm so much, I'm in so 43 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 2: much pain is because I'm used to like having wings 44 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: and like flying and so that it's heavy here, you know, 45 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 2: and it's a lot for me to I have a 46 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 2: lot of energy, big energy, So even though I'm small, 47 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 2: it's a lot of energy in my body that's constantly moving. 48 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: I have a lot of nervous system shit, you know. 49 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,839 Speaker 2: So yeah, I was like, maybe that's real because I'm 50 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 2: not supposed to be walking, I'm supposed to. 51 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: Be flying, dying right, like flying all around. 52 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 3: I feel like that makes perfect sense. I feel it 53 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 3: makes perfect sense to me too. 54 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, that actually makes sense. And like even having 55 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: a lot of energy and like having to put at places, 56 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:52,839 Speaker 1: You're like, I'm too, I'm too grand for this world, 57 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: taking to the fucking to the stars. 58 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, how do y'all know that? Y'all are the 59 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 2: ones that are off right? 60 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 3: Right? 61 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,959 Speaker 2: I just landed here, right, y'all can send me back? 62 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 1: Y'all mortals right? 63 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 3: Honestly? 64 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 1: Of your three kids or any of them little people. 65 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 2: They're all little, really. So I thought my youngest was 66 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:18,119 Speaker 2: not because she does not look like me or any 67 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: my other two kids. Her bones are straighter, she's taller 68 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:29,919 Speaker 2: than her older sister, so I thought that she was average. 69 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: But when she's around kids her age, she's noticeably shorter. 70 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 2: So I'm going to be taking her to the doctor. 71 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 3: How old is how does this one? 72 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 2: She's seven? 73 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 3: Seven Okay, yeah, how do you Is there a conversation 74 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 3: or how do I'm sure it's an ongoing conversation, but like, 75 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 3: how do you prepare your children for school and for 76 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 3: like I don't know, just societies, judgments or pressures like venerance. 77 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 3: I mean, obviously you're their mom, so they're with you 78 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 3: every day and they experience, you know, your existence every day. 79 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 3: But I'm curious, is there like something that you have 80 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 3: had to share with them or is it like an 81 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 3: ongoing conversation. I'm just thinking, And I'm also thinking of 82 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 3: like other parents that maybe aren't little people who like 83 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 3: don't even know how to. 84 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and have little people children and have little people. 85 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 3: Children and don't know what to do, don't know what 86 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 3: to say, Like what is I guess, what is some 87 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 3: advice that you would give them? 88 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 2: Definitely Like what I'm what I try to do, and 89 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 2: I've been successful so far, is try to find other 90 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 2: little parents or like people with little people children so 91 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 2: that they can be around people like them, because I 92 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 2: feel like we all need representation, you know, and being 93 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 2: around someone so that you don't feel like it's just you, 94 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 2: it's just our family that's like this, you know, So 95 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 2: I think that that's very important, especially if there are 96 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,679 Speaker 2: average parents and this is their only little person child 97 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 2: and the only person in their family. Making sure that 98 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 2: they see other people like them doing great things. It 99 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 2: is what I would say, and I tell my kids 100 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,679 Speaker 2: to curse people out. This is your time to curse somebody. 101 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: Somebody asks you why you sure, ask them why they's 102 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 2: all you know? Ask them the reverse question. And if 103 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 2: somebody tries to be mean to them, be mean to you. 104 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 2: Be mean to you, be mean to them back. Curse 105 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 2: them out if you have to. I don't care because 106 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: they're gonna be so shocked if you call them a bitch. 107 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 1: She was five and she called me a bitch. 108 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and her mama too. 109 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 110 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 2: And if the mama want to talk, that a teacher 111 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:23,919 Speaker 2: want to talk, let's talk about it. I was in 112 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 2: a relation. I've been in a relationship for the last 113 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 2: five years with this person, but no one's know that 114 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 2: because I don't Ever since being a little woman Atlanta, 115 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: I don't want to put my relationship out there. I 116 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 2: don't want to be public with anyone. I just I'd 117 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 2: rather keep what I can to myself because I already 118 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 2: feel like the world expects a certain amount of openness 119 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,479 Speaker 2: from me, and so I feel like I give a lot, yeah, 120 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: you know, And so there's some things that I just 121 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 2: want to keep to myself, like my children. They audn't 122 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 2: know I have kids. I don't post them because I 123 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 2: have a sexual page. I know that there's a bunch 124 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 2: of I have fifty percent men on my page. I 125 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 2: don't want them zooming in and looking at my kids. 126 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I just don't I just 127 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 2: don't want to do that. I mean, yeah, I understand 128 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 2: you give a lot. You've had a lot of people 129 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,479 Speaker 2: in your business. Yeah, Like if I had a page 130 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 2: where it's less fucking sexual shit going on, maybe I 131 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 2: post my kids more. But like right now, you know, 132 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: I'm not. I just don't want to do it, you know. 133 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:24,799 Speaker 2: And so what was the question? 134 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 3: I think we're just asking talking about OnlyFans, and I 135 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 3: mean my only fans. There has been a lot of 136 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 3: me and Mila have definitely considered let me put my 137 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 3: feet on their real quick. I can just make a 138 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 3: couple of you know, and then I fucking no one 139 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 3: sees my face, you know. 140 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 2: What I'm saying at this time, at that time, I'm 141 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 2: making one hundred two hundred K a month in my page. 142 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 3: What are you doing with that? What's the first thing 143 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 3: you do with that? I got to know was you, 144 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 3: Like what are you DeMar the month? 145 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: Your cash out? 146 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: Like, why are you you do? 147 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 3: I want to cook? 148 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 1: M m hm. 149 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:25,560 Speaker 3: Hm h m hmm yeah yeah,