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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's La La Kent.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hello, babes, Welcome to the bonus

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Speaker 2: episode of Untraditionally Lala.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Hi tee.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for joining me again on the heels of the

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Speaker 2: Lover's episode, because you guys know, I had the Haters episode,

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Speaker 2: which was so fun, and then by popular demand we'll

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Speaker 2: call it. People were like, we want to show you love,

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Speaker 2: and obviously I'm always open to accepting love, but I

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Speaker 2: also wanted to make this I just feel a little

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Speaker 2: uncomfortable by making it just an opening forum to say, like,

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Speaker 2: tell me how great I am. I wanted to be

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Speaker 2: a much bigger conversation. Reality TV has kind of shifted

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Speaker 2: the game. There used to be two different buckets. If

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Speaker 2: you were in entertainment, but you weren't an actress or

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Speaker 2: a musician, you were kind of a bottom fled you know.

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Speaker 2: Now we have people like Alec Baldwin who have their

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Speaker 2: incredibly talented actors with a long resume who have reality shows.

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Speaker 2: The crossover makes me so happy, and I think people

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Speaker 2: are really appreciating the art of reality TV. And even

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Speaker 2: though the comments section and they hate there is very loud.

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Speaker 2: I think it's important for to not just be about

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Speaker 2: how you guys feel about me and my experience, but

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Speaker 2: other reality TV personalities that you've watched and gone wow.

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Speaker 2: Them sharing their story has made me feel so much

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Speaker 2: less alone. It's taught me something that's important for me.

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Speaker 2: So the bonus, I'm going to toot my own horn.

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Speaker 2: But also I asked you guys, who are some reality

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Speaker 2: TV stars. We're going to call them because they are

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Speaker 2: stars that have really impacted your lives in a positive way.

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Speaker 2: So this is what you guys have written. In Gerty

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Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Miami, she was diagnosed with breast cancer.

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Speaker 2: She could have left the show, but chose to keep

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Speaker 2: filming and living life. She is such an excellent representation

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Speaker 2: of someone who has faced a life altering moment, right

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Speaker 2: like your biggest fear coming true, and she shared what

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Speaker 2: that phone call was like. She still continued to live

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Speaker 2: her life and be messy, putting up the fucking text

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Speaker 2: messages between she and Julia. I was like, this bitch

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Speaker 2: showed us that she was in the fight of her

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Speaker 2: life and is still entertaining the fuck out of us.

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Speaker 2: I love this. Someone is giving her her flowers. I

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Speaker 2: agree this one stays close to my heart Britney Cartwright.

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Speaker 2: She stood up to her toxic husband, who she's now divorcing,

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Speaker 2: has fans cheering her on from the sidelines.

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Excited for you guys to see her on this upcoming season.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think when you find your person.

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Speaker 2: You guys have known Jack's Taylor for a really long time,

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Speaker 2: and I think a lot of us were sitting there going,

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Speaker 2: why are you marrying this man? But we didn't know

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Speaker 2: what it was like behind closed doors. I'm one of

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Speaker 2: her closest friends, and I don't know what it was

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Speaker 2: like behind closed doors. I have to imagine that there

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Speaker 2: were very, very beautiful moments. As much as I can't

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Speaker 2: stand the person I was with, and I've blocked out

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Speaker 2: the good moments, there are times that I go, oh,

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Speaker 2: that was a good time.

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Speaker 1: I remember that.

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Speaker 2: So the fact that she defended him like a wife.

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Speaker 2: You know, you take many vows. One of them is like,

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Speaker 2: don't fucking step out on me, but the others are

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Speaker 2: also very important. And she really stood by him and

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Speaker 2: tried to lift him up when he was really struggling.

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Speaker 2: And then to watch her make that decision in front

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Speaker 2: of all of us. Camera's on saying I'm leaving this

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Speaker 2: man and now she's taken.

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Speaker 1: On all the bills. No one hustles harder than Britney Cartwright.

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Speaker 2: She's got a son who was diagnosed with autism.

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: Someone is giving her her flowers because she deserves them.

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Speaker 2: And there's nothing harder than when you're looping and you're like,

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Speaker 2: how the fuck did I marry this person and pro create?

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Speaker 2: Even though I'm very grateful, but how did I allow

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Speaker 2: myself to get to this point? And then the audience

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Speaker 2: chimes in about what a fucking dumbass you are. You're like,

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Speaker 3: I like telling you your own for what you did.

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Speaker 3: I'm on the.

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Speaker 2: You're in the comments section show. You're You're Linda Geist

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Speaker 2: who trolls all of us. Linda Geist with her photo.

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Speaker 2: Her profile photo is like a sunset.

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Speaker 3: Because she's bringing some great feelings.

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Speaker 2: I remember going to with Linda Geist and Linda no

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Speaker 2: and then she goes, she said something. She goes, I

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Speaker 2: have a husband who I'm golfing with right now. And

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Speaker 2: and I was like, no, I'm bored.

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Speaker 1: You lost me.

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Speaker 4: She must not have been having too much to say.

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Speaker 3: Where are you on the phone on the golf course.

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Speaker 5: You should be watching your husband's esperato.

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Speaker 2: I literally responded. I was like, I want you to

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Speaker 2: go enjoy golfing with your husband. I want you to

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Speaker 2: know that I've thoroughly enjoyed this interaction and I hope

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Speaker 2: you have a great day.

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Speaker 1: But now I'm just a little bored. And I sent

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Speaker 4: It's sad you even had to tell her that.

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Speaker 5: I know what's her name, Linda Geist. She's going to

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Speaker 5: live in my mind for Rentfree me too.

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Speaker 1: She was trolling Janet in Mexico.

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Speaker 2: She was like this bitch, and I was like, Linda,

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Speaker 2: she's alive, and well, okay, get Linda on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I don't know she didn't ride into the Hater episode.

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Speaker 3: Bitch, all right, Linda, where we're looking for?

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Speaker 1: Lindsay Hubbard from Summerhouse. I adore her.

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Speaker 2: Everyone watched Lindsay's doomed relationship with her ex. His name's Carl.

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Speaker 2: You guys know, for those of you who don't know,

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Speaker 2: his name's Carl Radkey. He has a book coming out.

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Speaker 2: He's been sober quite a long time. Very excited to

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Speaker 2: read it. After Carl broke up with her on camera

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Speaker 2: in the finale, what did she do?

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Speaker 1: She found a new man. I got pregnant, a little.

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Speaker 3: Different than what I did.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, though, I too found a man, but I

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Speaker 2: only located as come.

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Speaker 1: It's what's so weird?

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Speaker 3: So convenient?

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Speaker 1: I was like, I did find someone just as sperm.

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Speaker 1: The best part.

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Speaker 2: No, she's thriving' she's a she's another one who I'm like,

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Speaker 2: just how does.

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Speaker 1: All of this happen on camera?

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Speaker 2: Like I got lucky, you guys, all of the shit

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Speaker 2: I've been through it happens off camera, and then I

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Speaker 3: It's been great.

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Speaker 2: Everyone else is like, oh, no, I'm getting divorced and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, that sounds great.

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Speaker 3: You got a storyline without even having to create one.

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Speaker 2: No, but I talked about this on the Lover's episode.

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Speaker 2: How annoying it is because when you don't, when you

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Speaker 2: are living a peaceful life. Everyone's like, she's so boring.

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Speaker 2: She's like boring, she's so boring, she doesn't have a storyline.

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Speaker 2: And then when she hits the fan, they're like, she

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Speaker 2: can't win, go away, giving me whiplash this one. I'm

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Speaker 2: hyped on Teddy Mellencamp. By sharing her melanoma diagnosis, she

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Speaker 3: She motivated me, and you did.

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Speaker 5: That's why I like Gerty and Teddy, because, yes, they

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Speaker 5: what made Yes, it's tough, but I feel like you

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Speaker 5: bring so much light to these issues that all of

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Speaker 3: They're the ones around them to go.

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Speaker 1: You need their platform.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you need to get checked.

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Speaker 2: I yeah, you caught you saw something yep, and had

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Speaker 2: that bitch dug out and you go in regularly.

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Speaker 2: If you remember we were talking about why we were

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Speaker 2: know if you're familiar with Teddy Mellencamp, and he goes,

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Speaker 2: We're all familiar with Teddy Mellencamp because she has single

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm so in awe of her. And although the days

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Speaker 2: Her, she shows up. She talks about every hard fucking

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Speaker 2: I told her, and this was months ago, I was like,

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Speaker 4: Absolutely anyway, she's a good one.

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Speaker 3: I like you. She's amazing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yes, I'm just emotional today, just like every other day.

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Speaker 1: It's not a day unless I cry. I laugh every

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Speaker 3: My addition's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Like mom says, God gave you tears for a reason,

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Speaker 1: So you guys, certainly do.

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Speaker 3: You have a good cry.

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Speaker 1: Mike the situation from Jersey Shore.

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Speaker 2: After serving prison time, he openly discussed sobriety, inspiring fans

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Speaker 2: struggling with addiction. I love this too because I don't

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Speaker 2: know if any of you remember.

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Speaker 1: I think your name is Lauren or Lauren.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I just like everything about both of them.

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Speaker 2: The kids will just like the situation makes me so

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Speaker 6: I'm like, many situations run around a situation, but I

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Speaker 6: mean the way that the entire cast.

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Speaker 2: Really just fucking catapulted into fame, and you would have

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Speaker 2: thought watching that, You're like, these people are going to die.

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Speaker 3: They were partying the way they were.

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Speaker 2: they're still filming shows.

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Speaker 3: It's so popular.

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Speaker 5: They're like, fuck it, let's just take them to Bora

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Speaker 5: Bora and just do another one of those.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like they did a family vacation. Couldn't go anywhere.

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Speaker 1: I'm still got an ankle.

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Speaker 2: Nini Leaks from Real Housewives of Atlanta. She cared for

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Speaker 2: and physical burdens.

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Speaker 1: I love Nini Leaks.

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Speaker 4: I heard she's coming back.

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Speaker 5: She is.

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Speaker 1: That is real.

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Speaker 3: I could cry.

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Speaker 2: Can I tell you? There is When people ask me,

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Speaker 2: what do you go back and watch? It's always Rony.

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Speaker 2: But the follow up is Atlanta. And I even watched

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Speaker 2: the last season, I didn't feel I rock with housewives

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Speaker 2: no matter what, Like I'm there through the thick and

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Speaker 2: This last season got a little chaotic. I didn't feel

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Speaker 2: Now we're gonna toot my horn for a second. You

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Speaker 5: Girl, I've watched you from day one, and any partner

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Speaker 2: Anyone taking the time to write me something nice is like,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes I need to go.

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Speaker 5: There's been days where I'm like, I'm going to go

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 5: Janey Easton's laugh is hilarious. You can't help but to

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Speaker 1: You to stop laughing is like baham, but stop laughing?

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Speaker 5: I agree that was where it needed to be. Jemma,

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Speaker 3: You're real.

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Speaker 5: You stay with your whole chest, you say it with

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Speaker 5: They run out too quick, we all fall asleep, and

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Speaker 2: Garage, you old bag?

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Speaker 2: Really?

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Speaker 2: it feels so good. I can never let you go

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Speaker 4: Weeks, so go get them.

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Speaker 1: I'm Tiger.

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Speaker 3: Ann. Is that right? Anon? I like an Oh, it's anonymous.

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Speaker 5: you for your transparency, Thank you for showing your messiness.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for showing your relationship with your brother. I

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Speaker 1: Lala.

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Speaker 2: I love what she said, and it was very kind,

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Speaker 2: on vander Pump roles, What the fuck is wrong with me?

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Speaker 3: Isn't it kind of nice? Though?

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Speaker 5: Like I get what she's saying as well, and it's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you get when we start, but in real

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Speaker 2: But also her acknowledging that there's like my my chapter eleven,

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Speaker 3: Stop watching perfect that's where it ends.

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Speaker 1: I hope that you continue.

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Speaker 3: You know, did you guys not know this ended season eight?

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Speaker 2: So it's very hard and that season and I hate

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Speaker 2: They're like down for you one day, they want to

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Speaker 1: And it was just a lot.

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Speaker 2: It was a long time coming, you know, just making

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Speaker 2: My shit wasn't entertaining self discovery and becoming a better person,

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Speaker 2: what's entertaining for people, la la relapsing? Now that shit

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Speaker 5: It's because it's a train wreck. And everybody rubber next

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Speaker 5: So true, y'all, rubberneck. We want to see an accident

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Speaker 2: I have have created my life to being in this world,

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Speaker 1: I have been okay with that.

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Speaker 2: This was the first time ever where it's like it

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Speaker 5: I talk to my sponsor and he's like, well, did

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Speaker 3: Maybe, though I don't think.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I don't have a crystal ball like no, but

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Speaker 3: It's work that you've put in that I see.

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Speaker 5: That's there that the lash out you in season eleven

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Speaker 5: Are you going to No, I've seen the work that

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Speaker 3: right there.

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Speaker 5: You would have gotten out of your car and bang

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Speaker 5: the fuck out of the hood and said fuck you.

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Speaker 3: Oh, but you didn't because of the.

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Speaker 5: Work that you have put in since then to now.

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Speaker 5: So I don't need a crystal ball to know that

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Speaker 5: your work has proven that. I appreciate that, of course,

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Speaker 5: so yes, but that is that's boring to everybody. You

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Speaker 5: you're growing as a person until you fall and break

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Speaker 5: a leg. Don't tell me, you know, like, I don't

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Speaker 5: care if you're doing well. Oh my gosh, it's like

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Speaker 5: it's it's crazy. Once I'm feeling better I'm mentally stable,

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Speaker 5: people are like, ah, fuck you the one that's not.

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Speaker 3: I need a train wreck. My life is fine too.

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Speaker 3: I need to watch a mess, you know.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: I love it so much and I'm so grateful for

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Speaker 2: every single person who took the time to write in.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for following on traditionally Lala on Instagram, thank

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Speaker 2: you for giving a shit.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for uplifting me today.

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Speaker 2: It felt so amazing and really just like touched my heart.

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Speaker 1: You filled my cup today. I appreciate you. Guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna catch you on Wednesday for a regular old

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Speaker 2: episode and again on Monday for another bonus.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna laugh today.

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Speaker 1: Please, I do love you. Bye.