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Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Sierra is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Alie.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.

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Speaker 2: But first, Sierra, how long has it been since you

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Speaker 2: heard from Alie?

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Speaker 3: Oh? It's been gosh, like maybe a week, two weeks now.

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Speaker 4: Have you reached out to him in that time?

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Speaker 3: I texted him once and I haven't heard anything back yet,

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Speaker 3: and so he's just ghosting me.

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Speaker 4: It's just it's not awesome. Let's go backwards. Why don't

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Speaker 4: you tell us about how you guys met how the

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Speaker 4: date was. Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I met Ali online and we decided we should

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Speaker 3: do something that's super fun for our first date.

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Speaker 4: So we did something.

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Speaker 3: A little non traditional and went glow bowling. It's like

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Speaker 3: glow night again like us. Yeah, it was so much fun.

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Speaker 3: It was like a rave, lots of glow lights everywhere,

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Speaker 3: body paint, you know, like black light everything in loud music,

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Speaker 3: lots of drinks.

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Speaker 4: It was so much fun.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that sounds fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was a really good date. I mean, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, we were dancing and there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: a lot of music and drinks and like, we had

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Speaker 3: a fun time. And then we went back to his

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Speaker 3: place afterwards.

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Speaker 2: Okay, because I was going to ask if you've got

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Speaker 2: a chance to talk to him much. Glow bowling is

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Speaker 2: not necessarily a place for talking. It's a place for

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Speaker 2: glowing and bowling.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and we we kind of, you know, knew

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Speaker 3: that going in, but we just wanted to see, like

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Speaker 3: if the chemistry was there, and it was, okay.

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Speaker 4: I see what you mean. You just got artistic with

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Speaker 4: your body paint or.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's a good way cool.

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Speaker 3: And so the chemistry was there, Yes, I felt it.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we had a really great time. But

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Speaker 3: I will say I think maybe I had maybe one.

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Speaker 6: Too many drinks at the Bullerina. So I feel like.

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Speaker 3: My like I didn't come off as good as I

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Speaker 3: could have, Like I should have just kept myself to

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Speaker 3: two drinks, and instead I had three, and I just

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Speaker 3: maybe I scared him. I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Do you remember anything that you did that was too much.

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Speaker 3: I just think maybe he didn't expect me.

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Speaker 6: To drink as much.

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Speaker 4: I mean, three drinks isn't terrible bad, I mean unless

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Speaker 4: I mean some people are kind.

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Speaker 3: Of, you know, light light, total lightweight. So I am

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Speaker 3: such a lightweight. It's just like one drink for me

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Speaker 3: and then it's like.

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Speaker 6: Oh, okay, she's gone. But he was like, oh, i'll

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Speaker 6: drive you home.

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Speaker 3: We'll go to my place, you know, and he drove

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Speaker 4: So like, I don't know, were you sloppy? Were you

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Speaker 3: Maybe I don't no, I don't know, Like I definitely

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Speaker 3: was tipsy, but I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I don't think.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was that bad.

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Speaker 4: Okay, but if you were to say something weird happened

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Speaker 4: on the day, it would be that you were wasted. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: What's the last thing that he said to you?

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Speaker 6: I think he said like, have a good night.

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Speaker 4: You know that I said, after you guys had chemistry,

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Speaker 4: he said have a good night oof.

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Speaker 2: M hm, not like I'll see you again, and did

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Speaker 2: you guys pland another date or anything.

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Speaker 3: I kind of pushed that where I was like, hey,

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Speaker 3: let's use this against it.

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Speaker 6: Let's let's do something later this next week, and he

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Speaker 6: was like, I'll have to wait and see.

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Speaker 3: Like I have to go and check some things. And

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Speaker 3: he didn't get He gave me like a non answer,

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, so it got weird.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if he'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay,

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Speaker 2: thank you, Okay, we'll play a song, come back and

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Speaker 2: get your first a follow up next. In the middle

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Speaker 2: of today's first day follow up, if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: Sierra is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a dude named Allie. We're about to call him and

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Speaker 2: see fatals why he's ghostinger. But first, Sierra, why don't

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Speaker 2: you catch us up on your situation?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Ali and I went to glow Night at the

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Speaker 3: Bowlereina near us and we had a great time. I

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Speaker 3: got a little too tipsy, I think, and now he's

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Speaker 3: ghosting me and we went back to his place and then.

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Speaker 2: I went home later after and got a strike. He

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Speaker 2: hasn't gotten back to back to you. Are you ready

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Speaker 2: for us to call him? Okay, here we go, hell

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Speaker 2: I may I speak to Allie please, this is him, Ollie.

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 5: My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 5: It's called The Jewbil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Ali, I'm Nina. Also on the show. I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh hello, oh hello.

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Speaker 5: Do you listen to the show ever?

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Speaker 6: I've heard it before? Yeah, definitely, I definitely recognize the name.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sweet, that's what we try to go for. I've

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Speaker 2: heard it before, so thank you for hearing it before.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever heard a first day follow up before?

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Speaker 6: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll tell you what it is.

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Speaker 2: A first day follow up is the segment we do

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Speaker 2: on the show where if you go out on a

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Speaker 2: date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,

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Speaker 2: they can email us to get you on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why you're ghosting them. Okay, and we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody really, Yes, have you

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Speaker 2: been globaling lately?

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Speaker 6: Globaling?

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Speaker 5: Mm hmm, yes, okay. Was it with somebody named Sierra Sierra?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Sierra, uh huh okay.

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Speaker 5: And it's been a few weeks since you talked to Sierra.

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Speaker 4: You had to spoon feed them? Then are you really

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Speaker 4: seeing that many people?

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Speaker 6: Well, you know, I don't think I'm ghosting anyone in

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Speaker 6: their own Okay. Yes, Erra was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 6: We had a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: She told us about She said that you guys really

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Speaker 2: hit it off, but now you're not responding to her,

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Speaker 2: which would be ghosting.

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Speaker 6: It was fun. I had a lot of fun. And yeah,

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Speaker 6: I just haven't gotten back to her. I guess.

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Speaker 4: I mean generally, when you don't get back to somebody

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Speaker 4: is ghost Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I'm I was very busy with work,

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Speaker 1: and like my work's a very intense and kind of

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Speaker 5: Not so you want to go out with her again.

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Speaker 4: It sounds if you really like somebody, you're going to

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Speaker 4: make sure you talk to them.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean we had fun. We definitely had a

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Speaker 1: lot of drinks. And then I took her to my

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Speaker 1: place and you know, we had another drink and.

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Speaker 7: Well, she pat herself, what, Ollie, that's that's Sierra.

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Speaker 2: She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk

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Speaker 2: to you. Wait, yes, holos the way till we got

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Speaker 2: the answer, all the way out of you. But Ollie,

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Speaker 2: I didn't think you'd go there they asked, why you know,

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Speaker 2: I know you look.

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Speaker 6: I mean it was fine. I'm not mad. He had

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Speaker 3: I was laughing, by the way I was. I was

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Speaker 3: and that's why I peed.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Like it was just a little ddle. What it

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Speaker 6: No, I mean it was more than a piddle. I

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Speaker 1: Towels and you know, and I was like, not upset.

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Speaker 1: I was just like, it's fine, it's fine.

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Speaker 6: But then it.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't that bad.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Seriously, seriously, I'm not saying it's bad that you

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Speaker 1: peede and it's fine.

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Speaker 6: I'm not saying is bad. It's what I totally get it.

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Speaker 6: We have Oh my gosh, I peed behind a donuts store.

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Speaker 4: One serious.

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Speaker 2: You know the amount of people that I that have

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Speaker 2: peed on dates with me a lot? Wait, are you serious?

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Speaker 4: Likes especially when drinking is involved.

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Speaker 5: It's not that uncommon. I mean, and I've also done

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Speaker 6: It's not it's not a bad thing. You drinking had

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Speaker 1: It was just sort of a first impression thing that

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Speaker 6: I mean, it was fun, definitely fun.

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Speaker 1: But then I think once that happened, I was like, okay,

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Speaker 4: Where did that happen? Were you guys like on the

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Speaker 6: Kind of bold?

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean I make a comment that her piece

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Speaker 1: I could smell her pee.

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Speaker 5: Strong.

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Speaker 6: I mean at this point, I'm just it's just commentary.

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Speaker 6: What's going on? It did not smell that, Okay, it

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Speaker 6: did not just smelled. It was like it could definitely

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Speaker 6: smell the sense of it. It was like a stronger

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Speaker 6: you were drinking. It was just an observation.

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Speaker 4: Out.

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Speaker 2: Well, Ollie, would you like to go out another day

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Speaker 2: with Sierra? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But I like, Siera, You're you're definitely like a weekend

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Speaker 1: only girl, like I want to like get you know, wild.

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Speaker 6: And be entertained. I'm not a weekend only girl. Just

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Speaker 6: because I peed while I was.

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Speaker 1: Drunk, there's I mean, there's nothing wrong with the weekend

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Speaker 1: only girl.

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Speaker 5: No thanks, So that's a yes, Allie.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, if on the weekend you want to

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Speaker 1: do something, they're going to pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I would glow ball again. I just put down some like.

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Speaker 3: Packs, actually considering it because it was a lot of fun.

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Speaker 3: But no, I'll find someone who is an every day

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Speaker 3: a guy who wants an every day of the week

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Speaker 1: Well you know, if you're ever you know, bored on

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Speaker 1: a Saturday or something and you need somewhere to come

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Speaker 1: and see.

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Speaker 4: No, I'll find somewhere else to be.

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Speaker 6: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Juble's first date follow up