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Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of The twat Seat

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Speaker 2: with myself, Teddy Mellencamp.

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Speaker 3: And Tamra Judge. I'm so sorry that I couldn't be

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Speaker 3: there in person.

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Speaker 4: I have day four the flu, and I just I

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Speaker 4: didn't want to get anybody sick, especially you, Laala.

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Speaker 3: You look being pregnant and.

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Speaker 5: All sunny coming off the flu.

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Speaker 3: Oh I have. I haven't playing a mad filter game

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Speaker 3: right now on that.

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Speaker 5: You look great. I'm impressed.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you, thank you. We have Lala camp with

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Speaker 2: us in the studio, and I can say with one

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Speaker 2: hundred percent certainty of being somebody that has been recapping

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Speaker 2: vander Pump Rules this entire season and riding hard for you,

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Speaker 2: it's been a rough go for me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm going for you.

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Speaker 4: Well, I think it's got a rough go for Lallah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's would you say this is your hardest season?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's been my hardest season. Like I'm used to

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Speaker 5: being the person who people don't really dig, but the

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Speaker 5: hate is very loud this season, and a lot of

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Speaker 5: it doesn't have much to do with the season. It's

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Speaker 5: more like it'll start with people not liking what I've

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Speaker 5: said on the show, but then they or my podcast,

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Speaker 5: but then they go for like I feel bad for

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Speaker 5: your child, and they start talking about me as a parent,

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Speaker 5: which normally I can shake off. I think I got

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Speaker 5: pregnant shortly after the season or no, I mean I

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Speaker 5: was pregnant at the premiere party of vander Pump, So

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Speaker 5: the hormones were already like raging inside of me, and

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Speaker 5: I was very sensitive. I'm still very sensitive, and I

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Speaker 5: don't need to be like scrolling through comments to know

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Speaker 5: what people are saying. Like I'm aware my team has

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Speaker 5: told me, like it's rough out there for you.

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Speaker 3: Do hair, Yeah, what level of shits do you give?

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Speaker 5: Mm? I think I'd be lying if I said I

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Speaker 5: gave no shits this season, because I feel like what

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Speaker 5: I was saying was just like so clear as day

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Speaker 5: m hm wow. But no one else saw it that way.

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Speaker 4: Well, Andy said previously that is your best season ever.

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Speaker 5: Which is what's so wild is people like Andy Cohen,

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Speaker 5: We're telling me like this is your MVP year, like

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Speaker 5: you are the voice of reason. And I felt that

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Speaker 5: way during the season. So then when it came out

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Speaker 5: and the level of hate like I'm used to like

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Speaker 5: maybe a sixty forty, it's still your pain. And it

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Speaker 5: was like, wow, this is very intense because I did

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Speaker 5: feel like I was making sense, and I think you.

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Speaker 2: I truly believe that you were making sense. I think

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Speaker 2: the hard part about as a as a viewer, if

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Speaker 2: I take myself completely out of it, is people want

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Speaker 2: to see what they want to see. They wanted to

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Speaker 2: believe the same way for a little while. We wanted

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Speaker 2: to believe that you and your ex were living this

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Speaker 2: great relationship, this great life, everything was great, and you

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Speaker 2: probably felt that same way. I think that people felt

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Speaker 2: that way about Arianna and Tom. I know personally I've

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Speaker 2: hung out with them multiple times. So to me, there

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Speaker 2: was no big shock there right, Like it was not

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Speaker 2: this revelation like holy shit, They're like this happened, Like

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Speaker 2: I was like, oh, of course it happened.

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Speaker 5: Right And I was I was always on the fringe

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Speaker 5: of the friendship group and I called it out a

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Speaker 5: mile away, you know, like it just the Raquel and

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Speaker 5: Tom of it all. And then I also knew that

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Speaker 5: like they they both for many years have like planned

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Speaker 5: how they're going to go into a season Yeah, they

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Speaker 5: both for many years have have kind of played this

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Speaker 5: role of like we keep you know, Ariana said this

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Speaker 5: season she was gray rocking. I'm like, you've been gray

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Speaker 5: rocking from the jump, babe, Like there's no change here

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Speaker 5: except this year, like we actually need you to do something.

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Speaker 5: And I know that sounds not nice and I'm not

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Speaker 5: meaning for it to come across that way, but it

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Speaker 5: was like for many many seasons before this happened, it

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Speaker 2: The entire season is ramping up to be about her.

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Speaker 5: You're the main story, babe, I'm gonna need a little

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Speaker 3: And I agree with that one hundred percent.

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Speaker 4: I felt like you did a lot and you tried

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I get a little bit confused about all

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And granted the stakes were much higher, and granted,

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Speaker 5: like there are nuances where it's like this, it is

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Speaker 5: mind blowing. I can't believe that Rachel could could do

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean what Tom did was shitty, very shitty.

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Speaker 5: I think where I was struggling to make sense of it.

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Speaker 5: And again, like Arianna said, you know, it doesn't need

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Speaker 5: to make sense to you, just like I said to Katie,

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Speaker 5: my life doesn't need to make sense to you. That's

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Speaker 5: absolutely true. But personally, where I was like, I just

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Speaker 5: I don't understand is when this happened on March first,

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Speaker 5: tenth and had already met a new guy. Yeah, and

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Speaker 5: like they weren't exclusive, but you started dating, Like you

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Speaker 5: but you started dating someone, you stayed in the house,

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Speaker 5: think I was feeling very conflicted, is I'm like, I

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Speaker 5: under stand the pain you're going through, but if I'm

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Speaker 2: I have a question, do you think that there's a

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Speaker 2: part of you that knows that you have been on

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Speaker 2: for all of these years, and every single year you've

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Speaker 2: whatever it is that you're showing in your life, you

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Speaker 2: this year. It's just like the opportunities keep on coming,

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Speaker 2: Is Do you think that plays into it at all

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Speaker 5: You know, I want to be around women who like

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Speaker 5: work hard, have things that are really cool and if

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Speaker 5: you you know, we love a good flashback, where's the

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Speaker 5: flashback of me? Like I wrote these girls handwritten cards

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Speaker 5: about like how proud I was of them when they

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Speaker 5: did this sandwich shop like I have. I've constantly tried

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Speaker 5: These are my friends. When Ariana started getting opportunities outside

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Speaker 5: of vander Pump rules, that's great for all of us. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: like I it wasn't like I sat here and I

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Speaker 5: started getting upset about is now we're bringing a little

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Speaker 5: time when people think that they are bigger than the show. Right.

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Speaker 2: Do you think if they didn't show the last you

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Speaker 2: know at the reunion that those last seven minutes that

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Speaker 2: you guys hadn't seen, do you think that everything would

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Speaker 2: have been okay between you and Katie and Arianna because

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Speaker 2: I had saw, well, I think you had gone Katie

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Speaker 2: it doesn't fully make it. It's not like at the

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Speaker 2: end of the season, you guys were in a bad place.

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Speaker 2: Do you think if that never would have aired, we

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Speaker 5: I knew one hundred percent that was airing.

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Speaker 2: But did you know it was airing at the reunion? No?

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Speaker 5: But you know, we get the episodes early and when

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Speaker 5: I saw they were keeping that. I was like, and

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Speaker 5: I get I'm going to get something. Yeah, I'm going

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Speaker 5: to get an honest, pure reaction. No one gets to think,

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Speaker 5: No one gets to figure out what I'm going to

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Speaker 5: say about why I said that. I knew good and

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Speaker 5: goddamn well what I said in that moment that reunion

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Speaker 5: would have ended. I was biting my tongue until a

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Speaker 5: producer walks in and says, law, everything you've been feeling

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Speaker 5: outside of filming this show, the fourth wall that we've

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Speaker 5: been ty break it. I don't give a fuck break it.

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Speaker 5: And that's why I said, so I'm gonna do it now.

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Speaker 5: Because a producer had stepped in and said we were

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Speaker 5: we all know like, don't break the fourth wall, and

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Speaker 5: we all do it. I feel like housewives. You guys

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Speaker 5: are allowed to do it a little bit more. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: vander pump Roules is funny. It's like, no, no, no, you

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Speaker 5: We're well, I.

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Speaker 3: Think we're beyond that now.

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Speaker 4: I think you guys can break the fourth wall when

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Speaker 4: yew to make you feel when short says that you

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Speaker 4: breaking the fourth wall and talking about the show as

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Speaker 4: a job, you were jeopardizing the show's authentistic Well.

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Speaker 5: I didn't know he said that. Yeah, what did he say, Tam.

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Speaker 3: That you were just jeopardizing.

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Speaker 2: The show by breaking the fourth wall?

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Speaker 3: It's not authentic anymore.

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Speaker 4: But I mean news alert shorts love ya. But everybody

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Speaker 4: knows this is a film. We everybody knows that you're

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Speaker 4: getting paid for this.

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Speaker 5: Well, I I think that's what makes it so interesting

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Speaker 5: is you're absolutely filming our It's no secret this is

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Speaker 5: a produced show. If you watched us every single waking

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Speaker 5: moment of the day, you couldn't have a show. This

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Speaker 5: is months of filming, goes to an months of editing,

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Speaker 5: months of editing. What you're seeing is very much real.

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Speaker 5: But there's also the part where it is a television show.

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Speaker 5: To make sure that you are entertained. Although these things happened,

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Speaker 5: the goal is to entertain you. And I resent him

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Speaker 5: saying that me doing that jeopardize the show. In all actuality,

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Speaker 5: we are filming a television show. It was hard this season.

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Speaker 5: I was talking about things that we've all spoken about,

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Speaker 5: and then when a camera comes up, everyone runs scared.

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Speaker 5: I have Arianna, who I personally believe really forgot why

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Speaker 5: she was catapulted into opportunity. Again, so happy for you,

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Speaker 5: but let's not forget where we come from. Yeah, none

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Speaker 5: of us have anything without bander pump rules. What we

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Speaker 5: built outside of it, we should be very proud of.

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Speaker 2: Do you think though, at the beginning, she ever really

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Speaker 2: was there? Like, do you Because I'm watching the beginning

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Speaker 2: of the season, I forget maybe you guys went for

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Speaker 2: a smoothie or something. There's a lot of smoothies this season. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: a lot of smooth It was a lot of smoothies

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Speaker 2: for me. I gotta be honest, But you guys had

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Speaker 2: gone to like another smoothie shop, and I didn't. I

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Speaker 2: felt even between the two of you, before there was

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Speaker 2: even an issue, there wasn't like a natural connection. And

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Speaker 2: I felt it was Sheena as well. I felt it kind.

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Speaker 2: In all honesty, they both should have got the fuck out.

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Speaker 2: And I think that's what filming became too. I'm not

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Speaker 5: I know it's really really hard though, because I feel

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Speaker 2: You forget that, then it's sent to us. You said

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Speaker 6: No, because I didn't tell her, and also barely the

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Speaker 3: I didn't clock in. I don't remember it.

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Speaker 3: Just not put it together.

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Speaker 5: But no, it didn't. So let me explain two things.

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Speaker 5: I knew they were having like five hundred soft openings, right,

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Speaker 5: come have a sandwich. I'm sure that it was something

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Speaker 5: the work since Season nine finale, right is when they

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Speaker 5: came up with the name. Yeah yeah, So I didn't

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Speaker 5: they were doing soft like a soft opening. That makes

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Speaker 5: me so happy. I'm like you saying that she saw that.

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Speaker 5: I just thought, I'm like, you have a blue check mark.

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Speaker 2: No, she would have had to go.

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Speaker 5: Through that follow each other, so then maybe you're at

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Speaker 2: How close do you think Arianna and Katie actually are

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Speaker 5: But that's I felt like that was kind of you know,

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Speaker 5: not bothered and if that's who you are. That's great,

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Speaker 5: Ariana like you gotta give something, you gotta like care

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Speaker 5: Second of all, I don't know that this is the

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Speaker 5: We all give a lot of shits.

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Speaker 2: Everybody. Anybody that says they don't give shits is full

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I believe he will cantinue to creep around. And

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Speaker 5: I hope he doesn't have children, because I think they're

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Speaker 5: So when I said that, I was I was only

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Speaker 5: I'm no doctor. I'm only coming from my own experience,

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Speaker 5: Let's make sure everyone knows that I just feel like

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Speaker 5: And when he's a little bored and you don't want

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, let's clear something up. Do you feel used

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Speaker 3: Was there a meeting?

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Speaker 5: There was a meeting mid season. What I gathered from

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Speaker 5: Well, from what it sounds like, it was like the

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Speaker 2: But if they started picking up filming next week, do

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Speaker 2: No, I don't. We could give it three years.

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Speaker 3: Like right, it's like, yeah, the day you think they're

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I have no idea at this point

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Speaker 2: And what about the rumors about the Valley that you

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Speaker 5: Am I? Yeah, we're taking a breather from each other.

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Speaker 5: to get things that make me feel yucky away. And

436
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 5: it could be because I'm pregnant and hyper sensitive and emotional, yeah,

437
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 5: and it could just be that I that I am

438
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,680
Speaker 5: in a different space in my life.

439
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 3: Don't cry.

440
00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 2: I I'll give you a second. I think something that

441
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:45,440
Speaker 2: I see in Lala that makes you such excellent television

442
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 2: and all of these things is Laala is able to

443
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 2: show this really tough exterior and her voice kind of

444
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 2: changes and she's got a big vibrato. But I think

445
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,160
Speaker 2: you are, like now you're gonna make me freaking cry.

446
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,640
Speaker 2: I think you are a softie.

447
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 5: Well I am, And that's I think that's why I

448
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 5: go like this is because I did that even as

449
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 5: a child. It's like, I know what it feels like

450
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 5: to be hurt. We all have, right, That's why we

451
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,639
Speaker 5: all deal with certain things that were triggered by in

452
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,439
Speaker 5: a different way. Some people isolate and retreat. I get big,

453
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 5: I get my voice changes, and it's like I'm feeling

454
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 5: under attack. I'm feeling vulnerable, and you are not going

455
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 5: to get past a certain point with me because I

456
00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:30,360
Speaker 5: will not let you take me out in this moment. Yeah,

457
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:36,639
Speaker 5: And I think that's why I have such a strong relationship,

458
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 5: you know, with my mom, with my brother, because those

459
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 5: are the people who I can who I just feel

460
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 5: the most safe with at all times.

461
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 4: Listen, you know you've been on the show long enough

462
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 4: that you know this is going to pass. Yeah, it's

463
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 4: gonna pass, and you're gonna be okay. And I will say,

464
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,479
Speaker 4: if it wasn't for you this season, I don't think

465
00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 4: there would be a show worth watching.

466
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,360
Speaker 5: And I appreciate you saying that.

467
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 3: I just want to give you a big hug. I

468
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 3: don't know if it's a it's a virgo thing.

469
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 4: You know, our birthdays are you use it, don't know.

470
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 4: Our birthdays are on the same day and the September

471
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 4: second girls they come in and they sometimes.

472
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:15,440
Speaker 2: Come in come in hot. But I can tell you, Tay,

473
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 2: I'm always apologizes after.

474
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 4: But sometimes those viewers will ask for you to be fired,

475
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 4: and they did that to me, and that I got

476
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 4: fired and look what happened. Then suddenly they changed their

477
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 4: mind and they're like, oh no, I wander back. I

478
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,119
Speaker 4: want to back. Suddenly the show is boring. You do

479
00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 4: the tough job, you asked the tough questions. That's a

480
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 4: tough place to be.

481
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:37,320
Speaker 5: Yeah it is.

482
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 3: And you've been on the show long enough that you

483
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 3: know you're gonna get shit.

484
00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 5: Yeah I do. I've known that. It's just wild to

485
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,359
Speaker 5: me that a season like I know that this was

486
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 5: not a high note for me season wise with the audience,

487
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 5: but it was a personal high note because I was

488
00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 5: able to, for the first time hear people see multiple

489
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 5: sides practice compassion while also you know, question things that

490
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 5: didn't make sense. You know, I really, I really sunk

491
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 5: into the fact that this is my reality. And I

492
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 5: know people are probably sick of me talking about what

493
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 5: I experienced with my ex, but it was heavily traumatic

494
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 5: and I work through it as much as I can

495
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:27,720
Speaker 5: each day. And finally this season I was able to

496
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 5: sink into like this this could last a long time,

497
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 5: low like are we gonna put having a baby on pause?

498
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 5: Until like it's over because it may never be over. Yeah,

499
00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 5: I know, you know, Tam.

500
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 3: I know so well.

501
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 4: You know we saw a sauceside to you when you said,

502
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 4: both you and Sheena said Tom's suicidal thoughts wayed really

503
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 4: heavy on you and despite what he did, you know,

504
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 4: And we had a conversation at Watch what Happens Live

505
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,959
Speaker 4: shortly after the reunion when we were both on and

506
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 4: I said to you, I said, listen, you guys went

507
00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 4: on hard on Ariana and Tom, but they are human beans.

508
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 5: I remember. Yeah, I don't know Tom super well. What

509
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 5: I've seen of him. It's I can't say I am

510
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 5: in alignment with him. I don't see us ever being friends.

511
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 5: But if and I know it sounds selfish, but when

512
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 5: someone says to me someone is talking about suicide, I

513
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 5: immediately think, okay, well, if I continue to go in

514
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 5: on this person and let's just say they're not full

515
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 5: of shit and they do take their life, now it's

516
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:47,080
Speaker 5: on me. But if he is bullshitting and he knows it,

517
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 5: you have to sleep with yourself at night, not me.

518
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:50,880
Speaker 2: That's a good point.

519
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:54,719
Speaker 5: And that's what I really wanted to get across this

520
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,639
Speaker 5: season because there have been so many incredible women who

521
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 5: have reached out to me, nice women that talk about

522
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 5: their trauman things like that, and this season was really

523
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:09,360
Speaker 5: about me. I'm giving you this conversation because I need

524
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:10,719
Speaker 5: to heal from something.

525
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,479
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of do you we noticed a way that

526
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 2: LVP supported Ariana this season. However, we didn't really see

527
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 2: that from her when it came to your divorce, your

528
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: custody battle, even you deciding to have another baby. Yeah,

529
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 2: do you take that personally.

530
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 5: Or I have been an underdog since the time I

531
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 5: entered preschool, and I get.

532
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,520
Speaker 2: The shit all the time. She grew up with money,

533
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 2: her parents did well, their parents were married, But that

534
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 2: is the shit that But I want you to speak

535
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 2: to it like you can grow up with a functioning

536
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: family and it doesn't mean that you're not an underdog.

537
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 2: But that is what people are putting out.

538
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm acknowledging the fact that I am a privileged

539
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 5: person when I say I'm the underdog. Not many things

540
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 5: that I go out and do are celebrated to the

541
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 5: level that, let's say, other people on my cast have

542
00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 5: been celebrated. There are things that I feel like it

543
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 5: is insane, and you know, I'm okay with it. I'm

544
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 5: okay with it. I don't need to be the person

545
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 5: that's celebrated. But while you're celebrating this and that person,

546
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 5: please don't try to bring me down in the process.

547
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 5: Like celebrate them and leave me the fuck out of it.

548
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 5: There are so many things that that would take most

549
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 5: women out, It would take them out to their very

550
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 5: fucking core. And I still sacked up over it. Up

551
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 5: supported my child by myself. I went out. I tried

552
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:47,959
Speaker 5: to make a difference as well, going and speaking at

553
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 5: you know, Capitol Hill on behalf of of animals and

554
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 5: their rights and not testing on them. There are things

555
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 5: that I have done in my life that are looked

556
00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 5: at as nothing, and it's wild to me that you

557
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 5: want to bring me down and talk about. Yes, I

558
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 5: came from a family that my parents were still together.

559
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 5: I saw some pretty fucking gnarly fights. I saw some

560
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 5: some pretty scary things when the recession hit, where we

561
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 5: could have lost everything, and thank god, my mama saved up.

562
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 5: Thank God I was working since the age of twelve. Like, yes,

563
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 5: I'm a privileged person. I'm not disputing that, but if

564
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 5: you look at what, let's just say, Arianna has done,

565
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 5: and it's celebrated and it should be. You know, if

566
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,200
Speaker 5: you're not gonna celebrate me as well, just leave my

567
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 5: name out of your fucking mouth. And just so you know,

568
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 5: I'm celebrating myself enough for.

569
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 3: All of us.

570
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I'm going to tell you something that the

571
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 4: creator of the show told me. He calls me every

572
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 4: year before the season and he said, I said, Scott, why.

573
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 3: Do I get the villain at it? Every single year?

574
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 4: So many great things that I do that they don't show,

575
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 4: And he says, Tiamra, you are the best villain out there.

576
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 3: You are a good villain for the show.

577
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 4: So they're not going to humanize you by showing you,

578
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 4: you know, you hanging out with your mom or your

579
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 4: kids or things like that, because they like, they like

580
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 4: what you do and the show needs that. And don't

581
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 4: stop being who you are because of that.

582
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 5: And I never will. And I've you know, I've known

583
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 5: you for a while now, but even before I knew

584
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 5: who you were, when I was, you know, going to

585
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 5: school watching House, I was being like, this is the

586
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 5: most fantastic show I've always loved and adored you. I

587
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 5: know the drill now with reality TV and I'm not

588
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 5: saying that producers need to like show show my my

589
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 5: philanthropic work. Is that what it's called like You don't.

590
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 5: You don't need to show me being a great human

591
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 5: to show the smoothies, don't don't show any of the

592
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 5: show me as a fucking villain. But guess what, I'm

593
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 5: gonna need the viewers to fall back and enjoy and

594
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 5: stop coming for me as a person like you don't

595
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 5: know me, right and you want to think that you do,

596
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 5: You don't. There's many ass sspecs to my life that

597
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 5: I am very proud of, and if you don't want

598
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 5: to celebrate them with me, then just shut the fuck up.

599
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have want to change cares just a little bit.

600
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 4: Let's talk about Lisa vander Pump. Oh, do you think

601
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 4: Lisa vander Pump's job on the show is pointless since

602
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 4: there's no longer just.

603
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 2: Answer that Lala's job on the show will be non existent.

604
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 5: I don't know, you know, I have a soft spot

605
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 5: in my heart for vander Pump just because, yes, she

606
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 5: was tough on me season ten, but when my life

607
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,479
Speaker 5: went very south, she reached out to me a lot

608
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 5: just to make sure that I was hanging in there.

609
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 2: I think I'm gonna show it on the show.

610
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 5: I'm gonna show it on the show, which is so hard,

611
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 5: Like for the first time, I'd want to spill it

612
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 5: all while you cutting out so much like we're being honest.

613
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 5: But this this season was a little bit tough because

614
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 5: there were times that she would say I need something

615
00:32:58,400 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 5: for Mario on it, and then we all get to

616
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 5: the re and it's like she showed up. I'm looking around,

617
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 5: going what planet have I just been dropped on? Yeah,

618
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 5: like I'm truly alone?

619
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and and left left to carry the bag. Lots

620
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:19,000
Speaker 2: of questions about Schwartz being in love with you, really lots.

621
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: It is everywhere there's a connection. They think there's a flirtation.

622
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 3: What do you think I think that I think he's

623
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 3: too nice for you.

624
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 2: I think from interviewing him, I can save my own

625
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 2: personal there's a part of him that is charming. Yes,

626
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 2: there's and there's a part of you that, even though

627
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 2: you're probably getting manipulated, you're like, it's okay, It's like

628
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 2: the worst that's gonna happen is now it's nice.

629
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 3: I don't think that's I don't think that's your type

630
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 3: of guy.

631
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 4: He's just like so nice and she needs somebody like Edgy.

632
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 5: A few tattoos, you know what I mean.

633
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 2: But you don't think he's showed like throwing his shot

634
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 2: a little bit.

635
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 5: No. I think he's just being like sweet and he's

636
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 5: like overcompensating for the fact that he told me that

637
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 5: my lips were you know. So it's like, oh, we're

638
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 5: really trying to like redeem ourselves. But what you don't

639
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 5: get is like I chose these lips like I wasn't

640
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 5: born with them, So I'm not offender. I picked that.

641
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 5: I picked my first.

642
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:25,839
Speaker 2: One didn't make the cut, right.

643
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 5: There's certain things on this face where like if it

644
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 5: was God given, shut the fuck up. But I picked him.

645
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,919
Speaker 5: It's all good, Like I've let it go. I didn't

646
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,480
Speaker 5: feel like it was flirting. I felt like we were

647
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 5: having a conversation where we weren't wiping each other on fire.

648
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 2: I don't know, I felt a little did you even

649
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 2: on my end? No, I think you just have that

650
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,839
Speaker 2: personality type in general where you can just make light

651
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 2: of things. Okay, I think he was awkwardly trying to

652
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 2: flirt with you.

653
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,240
Speaker 5: Okay, I'll take it. I haven't I needed to flirt,

654
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 5: but somebody.

655
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 2: Schwartz hot tip, get a tattoo on your face if

656
00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 2: you want this to go any further.

657
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're gonna need to like subspice it up a

658
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 5: little bit. I feel like I'm such an alpha in

659
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 5: every part of my life, you know, like I'm playing

660
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 5: mama and all of these like feminine roles. But then

661
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 5: it's like I go out and I bust my ass

662
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 5: and I have bills to pay, and I'm like, you know,

663
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 5: I got the family on pay roll. So I feel

664
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 5: like when it comes to my partner, I'm gonna need

665
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 5: you to make me feel like this cute, feminine little fairy,

666
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 5: throw me around a little bit, smack my ass, and

667
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,359
Speaker 5: have a face tattoo. That's what I need.

668
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 2: Do you think that James and Ali are going to last?

669
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 5: I hope. So I really really like her. You don't

670
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,759
Speaker 5: like her? Tell me, Oh, I like her, you don't

671
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 5: like him.

672
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 2: It's not that I dislike him. Oh, I'm surprised with

673
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,439
Speaker 2: your history that you champion them.

674
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:53,279
Speaker 5: I champion her. I think that I think you know

675
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 5: things that I tried to yeah and have and have

676
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 5: tried to ask her about. And when she when someone

677
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 5: says like that didn't happen. Although I trust you guys,

678
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 5: what how Like that's a really sticky situation.

679
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 2: You know who he is and who he can be

680
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 2: mm hmm in general, regardless of what the rumor mill

681
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 2: or Twitter says or any of those things, Right, That's

682
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 2: what confuses me. How sometime, and granted I'm like this too,

683
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 2: how there can be double standards on the show with

684
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:27,720
Speaker 2: the men we're talking about?

685
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 5: Okay, can you x or any of those can I?

686
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 2: Okay?

687
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 5: My ex is in a very special category, and I

688
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 5: am not condoning what any man does that is not

689
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 5: right to a woman. When the problem is alcohol fueled

690
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 5: and someone says I'm gonna go get sober, there is

691
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:52,040
Speaker 5: a part of me, because I have experience that says, okay,

692
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 5: I think that if you're gonna go and and be sober.

693
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:58,800
Speaker 5: I don't know that I want to say the slate

694
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 5: is clean, but I can respect it because I've been

695
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 5: in the place. Yes I'm trying, the person is trying

696
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 5: and acknowledging, and I've been in a place where I

697
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 5: have not acted in a way that I am proud of.

698
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,240
Speaker 5: I've done things, said things, and I hope that people

699
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 5: would give me a second chance because I've chosen to

700
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 5: get sober. Am I making sense? I'm trying to be delicate,

701
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 5: but Hastin.

702
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 3: Ellie made it clear that she's not gonna be with

703
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 3: him if he drinks again.

704
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 5: She's made that clear. And it does seem that the

705
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 5: men on our show are very special, right. I don't

706
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,080
Speaker 5: necessarily know that I would want my daughter to be

707
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,879
Speaker 5: with any of them. I would not want my daughter

708
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 5: to be with any of them. I will just say

709
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 5: that that's funny.

710
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 2: Are you gonna let your other daughter be on the show?

711
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 5: You know, I'm crossing bridges when I get to them.

712
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 5: As of right now, there's no show to be spoken about,

713
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 5: so I'm not gonna worry about it. Yeah, there you go.

714
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 5: But it does. That does make me nervous, just with

715
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 5: the amount of hate that I was getting for being

716
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 5: a mother that no one's ever seen. Now I'm thinking, like,

717
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 5: now I have a baby that could film. I'm like,

718
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 5: I don't that scares me.

719
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 2: My only advice was filming with kids. Never film bedtime.

720
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: Oh no, never film bedtime because then your kids feel

721
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: this like pressure, and then you feel this pressure like

722
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 2: I have to be a good mom and bedtime has

723
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 2: to be smooth and blah blah, and like it's not smooth.

724
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 3: She's many years to worry about that.

725
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 5: Now, let me tell you something about bedtime. My daughter

726
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,720
Speaker 5: refuses to brush her teeth. I pretend that the little

727
00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 5: uh motion sensor is Santa Claus checking in when it

728
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:34,440
Speaker 5: turns red, do what you gotta do. I threaten her

729
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 5: with Santa Claus. And we're not going to bed until

730
00:38:36,680 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 5: midnight because she sleeps with me and she likes watching Seinfeld.

731
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 3: So this is bedtime. Me too, Me too. Now I

732
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 3: have a question for you, something else.

733
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:46,279
Speaker 5: I want you to.

734
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 3: Kind of clear up. There's been a lot of talk

735
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 3: about it. You had said that your merch from send

736
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 3: it to Darryl bought your house and I think it

737
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,359
Speaker 3: was in Palm Springs, Okay, And then you came out and.

738
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 4: Said that was true. What is the actual truth. There's

739
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 4: talk that your mom paid for part of it, your

740
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 4: brother did.

741
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 5: If my mom can buy me houses, I'm gonna need

742
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 5: her to get the fuck off of my payroll, all right,

743
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:18,280
Speaker 5: Like enough is enough? Then she is the best.

744
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 2: She's great.

745
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,359
Speaker 5: My mom did not purchase my home. My mom does

746
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 5: not give me money. I would like to be able

747
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 5: to claim my mom as my spouse on my taxes.

748
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 5: I don't want to get married, but I support my

749
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 5: mother like she is my wife. Okay, it's a lot.

750
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 5: Same with my brother. I'd like to claim his ass too.

751
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 5: When I talked about the Senate to Darryl merch in

752
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 5: the house, I was trying to give people without a

753
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 5: solid number a ballpark of how much I had made. Yeah,

754
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 5: the money was already taken out of the account for

755
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 5: the Palm Springs house before Senate to Daryl even came

756
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 5: to fruition, so it was I wasn't trying to say

757
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 5: that it had Senate to Daryl merch Maid for my

758
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 5: house because the money was already taken out. I was

759
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:07,360
Speaker 5: trying to say, if this gives you an inkling of

760
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 5: how much I've made that covered the down payment of

761
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 5: my palms of my house, google it, Google twenty percent

762
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,840
Speaker 5: of whatever. I don't know. I'm bad at math, and

763
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,799
Speaker 5: I remember my business manager at the time being like,

764
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 5: I don't know why you're buying this Palm Springs house

765
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 5: When you want to buy a house in LA. This

766
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 5: is going to set you back. I said, I don't care.

767
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 5: We're all good, We'll figure it out. And then he

768
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 5: calls me and goes, what the fuck is this merch money?

769
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,800
Speaker 5: And I said, did I tell you we'd be fine?

770
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 5: I go, we just made up for the down payment

771
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 5: on the Palm Springs house. And he was thrilled about it.

772
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 5: Send it to Darryl. Merch did not pay for a house,

773
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 5: but it certainly filled back in the gap of where

774
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:46,480
Speaker 5: the money was missing.

775
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, are you smart with your money? Because a lot

776
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 4: of these, a lot of people I've been around long enough,

777
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 4: I see like some housewives don't pay taxes, they don't

778
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 4: save their money, they don't set themselves up for another career.

779
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 4: When Housewives ends, Like I think you're smart.

780
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:16,320
Speaker 5: I like to think that I am very smart. Like

781
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 5: I said, I watched my dad go from having like

782
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 5: a really great life providing for us to like, oh shit,

783
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 5: we could possibly lose our home. And I don't know

784
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 5: that he was that smart with money. But again, a

785
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 5: lot of people in the housing market in two thousand

786
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 5: and eight really took a hard hit. Oh and in

787
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 5: my dad's age group, and they couldn't recover. So I

788
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 5: have a really interesting relationship with money. And I was

789
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 5: fortunate enough to have a manager back season five. That

790
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:52,240
Speaker 5: really set me up with a great team of people

791
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,479
Speaker 5: who just they make sure that you know, I'm I'm

792
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 5: where I need to be, and I'm set up for

793
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 5: retirement and my kids are set up, and we have

794
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 5: a monthly meeting of like, this is your budget, this

795
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 5: is where you're starting.

796
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 2: I like to think she's being aware, which I think.

797
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,919
Speaker 4: I knew you were smart when you said you had

798
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 4: an accountant that you work with, because a lot of

799
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 4: I've seen it, a lot of them don't. A lot

800
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 4: of them don't pay their taxes the show ends, and

801
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 4: they don't have a penny in the bank because they

802
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 4: spend every cent they have.

803
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm aware, I'm not.

804
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 3: I live my life half the time like I'm broke.

805
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 5: I just well, and I like to I think it's important,

806
00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 5: and you know, like I'm having uh you know, I

807
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 5: look at we have a budget for every single thing.

808
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 5: You know, you have X amount of dollars this year

809
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 5: to spend on wardrobe. And I'm pregnant this year, which

810
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 5: is great, so I get to roll that budget over

811
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 5: to something else. So I like to think that I

812
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 5: am smart with my money and I surround myself with people,

813
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 5: and my mom's on every phone call because I trust her,

814
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 5: and she's the one that's like, I don't know that

815
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:55,879
Speaker 5: I like this idea and here is why, right? So, yeah,

816
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 5: so you're on Wedday answer, you are on top of it.

817
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 2: This one. I even hate asking, but I just need

818
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 2: to know. Please give us more information on the fucking pasta.

819
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:07,759
Speaker 2: I can't take it.

820
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 5: Are we still?

821
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:14,560
Speaker 2: I met one fan question? It's all I know it's

822
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 2: about the pasta.

823
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 3: No, it's so I don't know anything about the pasta.

824
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, that's good to know because I've literally when

825
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,440
Speaker 5: Uni says like people want to know X, Y and Z,

826
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 5: I'm like, I've talked about this. I've talked about this.

827
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 2: They're not They're not satisfied with your answer. So can

828
00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 2: we get a different It can be in the same vein,

829
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 2: but can you give us a little more. The way

830
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 2: I hear have heard it, okay, is you took a

831
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 2: bite off of James's girlfriend's plate of pasta. Yeah, and

832
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 2: it offended her.

833
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 5: I had no idea that she was offended by it.

834
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 5: This is what happened. She was freaking serving. She told

835
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 5: James to order her a bowl of pasta, sir. We're

836
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 5: filming at sir. I'm high. She was a server at sir. Okay,

837
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 5: so we were there filming.

838
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 2: When was the last time you had made out with

839
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 2: James at that point?

840
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 5: I think I was fully with my ex at this point, so.

841
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 2: It had been a minute.

842
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I was high as fuck and ate it

843
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 5: all A bite turned into the whole thing gone. And

844
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 5: then when we filmed, he thought that I was trying

845
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,360
Speaker 5: to tell bring that up to show that I was

846
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 5: like bullying her, when in reality, they wanted Reduction wanted

847
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 5: me to say something that I was like, I'm not

848
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 5: going to bring this up at this table right now.

849
00:44:26,840 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 5: So he's like, what are you talking about? And I

850
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:32,200
Speaker 5: was like that I ate all of Raquel's pasta and

851
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 5: she didn't give me permissions.

852
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I didn't watch then Raquel.

853
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 5: I ate Raquel's pasta. So it tracks that it looked

854
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 5: like I was bullying her, but I smoked an entire blunt.

855
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 2: And what year did you make out with Arianna eat

856
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 2: her cookie? Yeah?

857
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:53,879
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it was six?

858
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 5: It was it was uh six, It would have been.

859
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 5: We were done with season six, going into seasons and

860
00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 5: you're in the back of an uber nowhere in the

861
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:03,839
Speaker 5: back of Sandoval's car.

862
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 2: Sandoval's driving, Yeah.

863
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 5: He's Mercedes. He picked us up from like this Mexican joint.

864
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 5: And I can't remember petty cash.

865
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I remember that. No, but I want to

866
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 2: know how many did Did you only eat her cookie

867
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 2: once and it was only in front of Tom Sandoval?

868
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 2: Or did you ever.

869
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:24,399
Speaker 5: Bob again?

870
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 2: Yeah?

871
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 5: No, we only hooked up that one time.

872
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 2: Did she eat her cookie back?

873
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:28,839
Speaker 1: No?

874
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 2: Why are such a giver?

875
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 5: I don't know when I drinking, I'm a bag of fun,

876
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,720
Speaker 5: like I went getting. I don't need anything in return.

877
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 3: You're a giver, Lala, You're a giver.

878
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 4: You speaking of eating cookies, you recently went on your

879
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 4: podcast and said that Kyle Mauricio staged your separation for

880
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,320
Speaker 4: a storyline.

881
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:51,560
Speaker 3: What did you mean by that?

882
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 5: I was trying to say because people were saying I

883
00:45:54,840 --> 00:45:57,960
Speaker 5: staged my pregnancy for a storyline. So I was saying, like, yeah,

884
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 5: and Kyle and Mauricio staged breaking up their entire face.

885
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:03,759
Speaker 2: So your storyline you weren't shading? You were?

886
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 5: Is that what people are saying?

887
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 2: Yes, they think you're shaving.

888
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 5: I need to be better, see that. I always think that,

889
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 5: and I forget, like people can't ask me questions like

890
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 5: could you clarify? So I just that's what I was saying.

891
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 5: I'm like, yes, people in this industry are shaking up

892
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 5: the entire dynamic of their family after twenty seven years

893
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 5: and four children for a storyline one seed.

894
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:30,319
Speaker 2: Yes, you were you were mocking of course that they

895
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 2: wouldn't be doing it for a storyline, the same way

896
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 2: you wouldn't get pregnant for a storyline, right, a life

897
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:35,800
Speaker 2: changing event.

898
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 5: I did not know. That's how people took it.

899
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 2: They did.

900
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 5: Oh no, I feel so bad.

901
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,160
Speaker 2: Things right on over? Why do you think Tam asked

902
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,720
Speaker 2: we wait until the end, and I'm like, I'm not asking.

903
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 5: I'm going to come on once a week to this

904
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 5: podcast to dispute or clarify anything I've said on my

905
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 5: own podcast. Yes, don't, man, there's another thing that I

906
00:46:57,600 --> 00:46:59,480
Speaker 5: want to clarify because I think I've done this before.

907
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 5: I was talking about nuances of a show, okay, and

908
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 5: I said something to the effect about Ariana. Maybe I

909
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 5: was closer to my dad than Ariana was to hers,

910
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 5: and people were up in arms about it. It's similar

911
00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 5: to this. I shouldn't I could have easily just shouldn't

912
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 5: have done it. I shouldn't have done the parallel, or

913
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 5: I should have said maybe she was closer to her

914
00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:22,799
Speaker 5: dad than I was to my Like, I was just

915
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 5: trying to pluck nuances out of the sky about two

916
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 5: situations that people have been through that are similar but

917
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:31,760
Speaker 5: could be different in a way. I have no idea

918
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 5: what her relationship was with her dad. I would never

919
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 5: intentionally say something like that, knowing that we all know

920
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 5: bambye bitch came from Raquel talking about my fucking dad.

921
00:47:44,600 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 5: You know, so I felt I'm glad you brought this

922
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 5: up because I want to I want to clarify that

923
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 5: as well. I'm not always great with my words, but

924
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 5: I promise my intentions are not always that bad.

925
00:47:57,400 --> 00:48:00,239
Speaker 2: Sometimes it just well. Also, we have to remember there

926
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: is clickbait. They're going to take a line, they're gonna

927
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 2: put it up, and you know what, I'm fucking lazy.

928
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna read it. I'm only gonna read the bold.

929
00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 5: That's what I just do.

930
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, you know what, that's enough for me

931
00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 2: and I'm not talking about.

932
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 5: It, So you're welcome.

933
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:14,399
Speaker 3: To take it to see.

934
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,919
Speaker 4: I just don't believe anything I read. I just see

935
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 4: a headline. I'm like, bullshit, bullshit, bullshit.

936
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:20,720
Speaker 3: Right, I know how it works.

937
00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 2: Well, speaking of things that we've read now, I know

938
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 2: we talked about Brittany earlier, but is this really over

939
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: a babysitter? How good is she is? No?

940
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 5: No, no. The the during reunion.

941
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 2: It says they we saw in the press that you

942
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 2: may be feuding with Brittany over a babysitter.

943
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:42,839
Speaker 5: We we had a moment of beefing over a babysitter.

944
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 5: But it was like, we could have talked about the babysitter,

945
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 5: not on the day of my gender reveal, Like how

946
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:50,640
Speaker 5: about uh, hey Lisa, my mom, congratulations on the girl

947
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 5: that you guys are having. Yeah, it was like, wrong time,

948
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 5: don't talk to me about a fucking babysitter today.

949
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 2: Was she tipsy? She? Yeah?

950
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,479
Speaker 5: I assume so, I mean she it was probably seven

951
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 5: o'clock in Kentucky's I assume that she.

952
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 2: Wasn't actual gender real.

953
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 5: And Cruse was also in Kentucky with with her, So

954
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 5: I was like, fuck off, please.

955
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:15,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you did you? Okay?

956
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:17,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, I went in on her.

957
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,760
Speaker 2: You used the babysitter for the gender reveal.

958
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, but the why is texting your mom? She should

959
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 5: have never done that. It was completely.

960
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:27,879
Speaker 2: Texting your mom because they shared a babysitter. But there

961
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 2: is a difference between a babysitter and a nanny. And

962
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 2: I fully believe that any of my friends that have

963
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 2: nanny's if I need if I'm gonna bind, I will

964
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 2: text them and be like, is Alison busy tomorrow?

965
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 5: Right?

966
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 2: Like do you need her for anything? Because I'm in

967
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 2: a desperate situation.

968
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 5: Zulie comes to my house three days a week or

969
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 5: the housekeeper and slash nanny like she's more like she

970
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:54,240
Speaker 5: works with my family way more than she were, Like I,

971
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 5: I'm not asking for permission for you to use her.

972
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 5: Why why should I have to ask you for permission?

973
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 5: This is like a woman who we all know it was.

974
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 5: It was wild. We bounced back from that and now

975
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 5: it's just a.

976
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 4: Different We'll stop sharing. The bannies are like hairdressers. Sometimes

977
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 4: they have big mouths, you know, they go to your

978
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 4: castmate and tell them what you say.

979
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 5: Actually, it was Jason Caperna from the Valley that took

980
00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:20,279
Speaker 5: a picture of the babysitter at the gender Yes and

981
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 5: sent it to Jack, We're gonna have this manny at

982
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,479
Speaker 5: our next event to watch our baby.

983
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 2: Well, who are you closest with on the Valley? Because

984
00:50:32,239 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 2: I'm pretty hooked on the show.

985
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 5: Is it good? I haven't been watching It's good.

986
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 3: I had to wait, you haven't watched The Valley.

987
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 5: I've watched the first two episodes.

988
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,280
Speaker 2: You were in it. And I talked to Jesse about

989
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,720
Speaker 2: the mistress and my whatever comment.

990
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 5: Then what do you say?

991
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 2: He said that what you guys, what we didn't see

992
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 2: is that before he said that, you guys had been

993
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 2: like having fun and joking and like vibing and it

994
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 2: wasn't in that like negative way that it was shown

995
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: on the show.

996
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 5: I would agree with that.

997
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 2: And after sitting next to.

998
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 5: Him, but because I've known it for I know how

999
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,520
Speaker 5: the show works, I'm like, yeah, this is not going

1000
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 5: to come across the way you think.

1001
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, But like after sitting next to him, like he

1002
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,640
Speaker 2: said something in the first couple of minutes and then

1003
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 2: interview and I was like, what a fucker? And then

1004
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, no, this is actually who he is.

1005
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 4: And yeah, Lala, would you rather let's say that down

1006
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,360
Speaker 4: pup rules is over? Would you rather transition into the

1007
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 4: Valley or other real housewives.

1008
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:28,719
Speaker 5: Oh. I mean, obviously, if I had it my way,

1009
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 5: I would go into housewives. I just don't feel I

1010
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 5: feel like I'm in such a strange space. I don't

1011
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 5: feel like I fit into Vander Pump Rules. I don't

1012
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,919
Speaker 5: feel like I fit into the Valley. But then I

1013
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:41,480
Speaker 5: also don't feel like I fit into real housewives. I'm

1014
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 5: kind of in this weird zone.

1015
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 2: But I think you could fit into whatever is. I

1016
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 2: think you are in a place right now of self

1017
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 2: refrication where you're gonna overthink everything. Okay, but I need

1018
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 2: you to remember quickly and listen, guys, I'm not kissing

1019
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,959
Speaker 2: her ass. This is truly how I feel. I think

1020
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: when you going through massive life changes, you're going to

1021
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,960
Speaker 2: pick on yourself first. You're going to decide I'm not

1022
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:08,840
Speaker 2: right for this or this, I'm not going to be

1023
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 2: for everybody, and you're gonna make these dramatic decisions. I think,

1024
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 2: give yourself some time, yeah, and then this this hard

1025
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 2: time will pass and you're gonna be like, yeah, I'm

1026
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 2: ready to crush the next thing. Or maybe it is

1027
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 2: Vanda Pump Rules again, or whatever it may be. But

1028
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 2: I wouldn't make any declarations about what you're not right for.

1029
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:28,400
Speaker 5: Thank you for saying that.

1030
00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 3: I think you'll jump over to the valley.

1031
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:35,080
Speaker 4: I see them eventually transitioning Vanda Pump Rules over to

1032
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 4: the valley.

1033
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 2: Oh shit, we didn't talk about Brock. There was a

1034
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 2: whole moment at the reunion where they were looking yes,

1035
00:52:43,400 --> 00:52:46,839
Speaker 2: oh yeah, you knows. I looked at Sheen and I

1036
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 2: was like, there's a moment where she and you.

1037
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 3: And Brock have the hots for each other?

1038
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 2: Is that there was a moment where Sheena said she

1039
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 2: was talking about her like OCD or like whatever it

1040
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,799
Speaker 2: is that she said, sorry if I'm misquoting, but I

1041
00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 2: am in such like a bad way about cheating or

1042
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 2: whatever it may be, that I've even decided that I'm

1043
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:08,320
Speaker 2: worried about La La with Brock.

1044
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:11,400
Speaker 3: And then she said she was in the comment section,

1045
00:53:11,560 --> 00:53:12,759
Speaker 3: so she's been reading that a lot.

1046
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:16,319
Speaker 2: But then you see but then you see Brock and

1047
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 2: Lala make eyes, and I don't know if.

1048
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 3: It's the edit, but I was like, definitely.

1049
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:25,399
Speaker 5: I was like, no, I think it's definitely the edit.

1050
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 5: I think he made those eyes when I started talking

1051
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 5: about how he is with my daughter. Yeah, and that's

1052
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 5: when he made that face. That's fine, you saw the face. O.

1053
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 5: The I watched the reunion withish Sheena and I looked

1054
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 5: at her and I was like, you're good, right, Like

1055
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 5: that they did is pretty fucking dirty.

1056
00:53:45,000 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 2: Now your baby.

1057
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 4: Your baby is due on September first. Your birthday is

1058
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 4: September second. Are you secretly hoping for a September second?

1059
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 5: Yes?

1060
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,760
Speaker 3: I love that sharing a birthday.

1061
00:53:56,400 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 5: I would rather have become my baby's birthday and have

1062
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:00,959
Speaker 5: it like you know, like.

1063
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 2: What she is not going to want to have your birthday?

1064
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 5: She she doesn't have to have my birthday. Take it.

1065
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:09,439
Speaker 5: I don't need it.

1066
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 2: You're like, I'm going to stay the same age birthday. Yeah.

1067
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm getting too old and I don't want to

1068
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 4: celebrate anymore.

1069
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 2: Are you crazy? Virgos?

1070
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,000
Speaker 5: Any teasers, any teasers?

1071
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 3: Any teasers on baby name?

1072
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:27,879
Speaker 5: It starts with an S. It starts with a shut up? Yeah,

1073
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 5: it starts with an S.

1074
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:30,080
Speaker 2: Did you steal my bag?

1075
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 5: The name is Seltzer because I'm obsessed with Perryer.

1076
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,160
Speaker 3: Just kidding, Oh my.

1077
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 5: God, I can tease that baby s. It was a

1078
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 5: boy's name, and when I found out it was a girl,

1079
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:49,080
Speaker 5: My little brother was heartbroken that another girl was coming

1080
00:54:49,120 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 5: into the household, and he just begged me, can you

1081
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 5: please just keep the name the same? Like, just please

1082
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,840
Speaker 5: keep the name. No, you're never going to guess it.

1083
00:54:57,880 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 2: Does it belong in nature?

1084
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 5: No it is not.

1085
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:04,399
Speaker 2: Do you know anyone else named this name?

1086
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 5: No?

1087
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 2: So okay, we have homework, guys, Internet sluice. Instead of

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Speaker 2: spending your time heckling Laala for whatever it may be,

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Speaker 2: we need to find out s name. So go ahead

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Speaker 2: and slide into my DMS and let me know. Thank

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Speaker 2: you so much, Laala. We know we've sadly run out

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Speaker 2: of time, but we look forward to our weekly check

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Speaker 2: in where we clarify the things you say on Amazon Live,

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Speaker 2: which ass yes, please do.

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Speaker 5: I would really appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: Have my bag and Laala just keep a low profile

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Speaker 3: for a while, okay.

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Speaker 2: Oh, like how Tam keeps a low TAM's like, I'm

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Speaker 2: not commenting on one thing and then I'll like wake

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Speaker 2: up and I'll be like fuck you on Twitter when

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Speaker 2: I was sleeping. It's been six hours.

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Speaker 5: I can't I'm gonna give birth on your couch. Low

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Speaker 5: profile so much. Thank you for having me, of course,