Speaker 1: Second data day, because there's some people in this world
Speaker 1: who have no problem in the dating scene. You know,
Speaker 1: no matter where they go, what they wear, how they smell,
Speaker 1: it just comes easy. And people are basically throwing themselves
Speaker 1: at them all the time about people. Yeah, okay, I
Speaker 1: mean the same page here. I know what that's like
Speaker 1: because I've thrown myself at so many people only because
Speaker 1: it's explicitly written in their app. Okay, they say when
Speaker 1: we cross paths, throw your body my way. All right, well,
Speaker 1: and I listen, it's good for you. But we have
Speaker 1: to remember Brook that there's people who just aren't as
Speaker 1: lucky in their romantics. I know, I don't know. She's
Speaker 1: always really judgy about this. She thinks that everybody's in
Speaker 1: love all the time, but there's some people that struggle
Speaker 1: with it. For whatever reason, things just never seem to
Speaker 1: work out for them. And today we have a great
Speaker 1: opportunity to actually help out one of those people. Everyone
Speaker 1: deserves a lot. Yeah, we're not dealing with you today, Jose.
Speaker 1: We're going to help out someone who emailed us. His
Speaker 1: name's Gus. Gus, welcome to the show man, Hey man,
Speaker 1: how's how's everything going? How could you be named Gus
Speaker 1: and not be in love. Gus is such a lovely
Speaker 1: like who doesn't love Gus? Okay, your energy is okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to bring him up. Tell us a little
Speaker 1: about your romantic situation. Why did you email us? So? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got married pretty early and after my second divorce,
Speaker 1: it kind of seemed like all my relationships lasted one
Speaker 1: or maybe two dates. Okay, So when was the second divorce? Um,
Speaker 1: it was pretty recent, a few months ago. All right
Speaker 1: about that? Man? Why I always bring the mood down
Speaker 1: in this conversation? I mean, I think it's pertinent to
Speaker 1: the dating. Like, I mean, after you know, only a
Speaker 1: couple of months after your second divorce, it seems like,
Speaker 1: what do you expect? Like it takes a while to
Speaker 1: get going. Yeah, and I tried like everything. I tried mats,
Speaker 1: I tried ten and one night I got so desperate.
Speaker 1: I tried women behind bars. Please tell me that's who
Speaker 1: we're calling for the second date update. No, no, even
Speaker 1: that didn't work out. So I just kind of stopped trying,
Speaker 1: like because everybody says, when you least expect it, it'll
Speaker 1: just hit it. Okay, everyone says that everyone that's already married,
Speaker 1: says that gust isn't married twice, so he should know.
Speaker 1: So where did it hit you? So I was actually
Speaker 1: working at this pown shop and I met this pretty girl.
Speaker 1: She was so sweet. Her name was Ellie. Ellie okay,
Speaker 1: And you know, it was kind of a little surprising
Speaker 1: for me because at this pawn shop, like the crowd
Speaker 1: here is like a weird crowd, you know, right, I'm
Speaker 1: literally imagining the show Pawn Star everyone that goes in
Speaker 1: there so interesting. Yeah. Yeah, So we started talking and
Speaker 1: we hit it off. Okay, that's awesome, man. And so
Speaker 1: I got the diger and we started texting each other,
Speaker 1: and I was really honest with her about, you know,
Speaker 1: my luck with women, and I asked her out. So
Speaker 1: she met me after work for some frillio at this
Speaker 1: plaza strip. So we just I thought it was romantic.
Speaker 1: We just went around these antique shops and just kind
Speaker 1: of chilled and talked. Okay, were you getting a good
Speaker 1: vibe from her? I was, But then it seemed like
Speaker 1: she just kind of wanted to get out of here
Speaker 1: before the date was over. You know, I had all
Speaker 1: the stuff playing. Did you mean like her mood changed
Speaker 1: suddenly or she seemed that way the entire time. No,
Speaker 1: I think somewhere along she just it seemed like she
Speaker 1: was in a hurry to just kind of leave and
Speaker 1: get back, and I didn't know why. You know, I
Speaker 1: was having a great time. Okay. Was there any moment
Speaker 1: where you tried to kiss her or hug her or
Speaker 1: anything like that? I guess right before she left. But
Speaker 1: I'm feeling like she's the one I like get away
Speaker 1: because we had more of a connection than even my
Speaker 1: second wife, just very random people. I gotta say, I'm
Speaker 1: a little worried to ask that. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: mean to laugh, but you just got divorced a couple
Speaker 1: of months ago. This is a second and up there
Speaker 1: are recalling for you to ask her for her hand
Speaker 1: in marriage. Why do you feel that? Like? What about
Speaker 1: her says she's the one that got away to you,
Speaker 1: other than the fact that she physically got away. I'm
Speaker 1: crying out. She literally laughed. Yeah, yeah, I know. Makes
Speaker 1: it sound like you were chasing her. You weren't chasing her,
Speaker 1: were you, Guss? Now, I wasn't chasing her, but I
Speaker 1: was definitely calling her name, like, Hey, what's up are
Speaker 1: you leaving. You know what's going on. Yeah, so you
Speaker 1: were talking to her as she was walking away from you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she said she had to go, So I guess we
Speaker 1: were kind of still talking. If I'm talking to her
Speaker 1: and she's acknowledging that I'm speaking, I hear you buy Yah.
Speaker 1: It's a bit of a dramatic exit. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean maybe you put off this vibe and you
Speaker 1: freaked her out, because honestly, what vibe like the vibe
Speaker 1: of like you're the one, you know, like maybe you
Speaker 1: were too intense. No, I don't think so. I mean
Speaker 1: she gave me the dishes. Yeah, that was That's where
Speaker 1: the talking to your guests. I don't get the vibe
Speaker 1: of intensity coming off. He went with FROO to this
Speaker 1: girl at a strip mall, and all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: she's the one that got away. Yeah, it's called romance broken.
Speaker 1: Look it up. Okay, So here's what we're gonna do
Speaker 1: for you. We're gonna do guys, We're gonna play a song,
Speaker 1: we'll come back, we'll call Ellie and we'll try and
Speaker 1: get you your second date update. All right, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, hold on if you're just tuning in for
Speaker 1: the second Date Update. One of our listeners, Gus is
Speaker 1: looking for a little bit of a dating life overhaul. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's extreme love makeover Gus edition, because he told us
Speaker 1: he hasn't had a lot of success in the dating scene.
Speaker 1: It's his second divorce a few months ago. He's tried
Speaker 1: a bunch of different dating sites, even women behind bars
Speaker 1: at one point. I'm not even making that up, he says,
Speaker 1: he really tried that didn't pan out. But recently he
Speaker 1: met a woman named Ellie when she stumbled into his
Speaker 1: pawn shop one day, and for their first date, they
Speaker 1: went and grabbed some fro yo, wandered around an antique store.
Speaker 1: After a while, she was telling Gus she had to go.
Speaker 1: But he now calls Ellie the one who got away,
Speaker 1: because she literally got away while Gus was yelling after
Speaker 1: her and asking why she's leaving. I don't think that
Speaker 1: that's what they mean with that saying. But okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's changed my perspective on it for sure. Yes, I
Speaker 1: think it's literal. But Gus, we're about to call her.
Speaker 1: How you're feeling right now? I'm a little nervous, but
Speaker 1: it's gonna be great to hear from her. You know,
Speaker 1: it's been a while since I've actually heard her voice.
Speaker 1: And by the way she has legs, today's the most beautiful,
Speaker 1: just legs a little out of place. No, I'm really
Speaker 1: glad that I know that before I made the phone
Speaker 1: call would have gone much differently. I mean, Gus, I'm
Speaker 1: a little worried about you. You're putting a lot of
Speaker 1: pressure on this, you know, I don't think so. I
Speaker 1: think she's just maybe a little nervous to really fall
Speaker 1: in love again. I think she's scared to fall in love.
Speaker 1: You know, are really scars. People are scared to commit
Speaker 1: and fallow. And it hit it hit her, and so
Speaker 1: she ran away from him in the parking lot of
Speaker 1: an antique story. Okay, all right, I guess we'll find
Speaker 1: out if Ellie's scared of love or just scared of you.
Speaker 1: So here we go number Yeah, all right, here we go. Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi is this Ellie? Yes, it is hi, Ellie. Who's
Speaker 1: this who's speaking? My name's Jeffrey from the radio show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing good?
Speaker 1: How are you doing pretty good? Um? Calling you today
Speaker 1: with all my co hosts, Brook Jose, we have Alexis
Speaker 1: here too. We're doing something called a second date update.
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of that before? Um? I think so. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're on the right path. All right, congrats here we are, Ellie.
Speaker 1: So far, so good on this phone call, coming in
Speaker 1: with the right tone. Yes, okay, okay, I'm appreciating it now.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, Ellie. The way that this works
Speaker 1: is if you go out on a date with someone
Speaker 1: and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can
Speaker 1: email our show and we'll reach out to that person
Speaker 1: for you to try and figure out the reason why
Speaker 1: they're ghosting. And recently you were out with a guy
Speaker 1: named Gus. Oh my god. Okay, yeah, dude, I didn't
Speaker 1: enter anything though, Like I didn't call you. Did he
Speaker 1: call you? You? Guys? Yeah, that's how this works. Like
Speaker 1: he emails us and then we call you to try
Speaker 1: and figure out Yeah, on his bath to try and
Speaker 1: figure out what went wrong on your date, because he
Speaker 1: had a really good time with you. He's a little
Speaker 1: bit confused why afterwards you've been kind of m I A,
Speaker 1: oh my god. M So he's already talked to you
Speaker 1: about the date. Yeah, he told us a little bit
Speaker 1: about how everything played out. That you guys went to Froyo,
Speaker 1: went to an antique store. You met at his pawn shop,
Speaker 1: and then at the end of the date, you were
Speaker 1: saying that you just had to get going, and you
Speaker 1: were kind of walking away while he was trying to
Speaker 1: keep things alive. Oh my god, Okay, I mean he
Speaker 1: thought it was a romantic time, like, well, it's not.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's the commercial like shopping thing where the
Speaker 1: pawn shop it. So he didn't take me anywhere. I
Speaker 1: just met him at the pawn shop and then we
Speaker 1: walked to like a couple of antique stores that were
Speaker 1: in this desolate shopping mall. Oh you expected more, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's not exactly the cutest little commercial shopping area.
Speaker 1: It's pretty like dead. I mean that's that's kind of
Speaker 1: on you, that you've built it up in your head
Speaker 1: that it was going to be something else. Well, that's
Speaker 1: not a lot of planning though. I mean, you literally
Speaker 1: are taking me to the same shopping center that you're
Speaker 1: where you were. Yeah, but he mentioned to us, He
Speaker 1: mentioned to us that you also left before he had,
Speaker 1: you know, other things planned. He didn't go into any
Speaker 1: more detail about that about why I left. He wasn't sure.
Speaker 1: He said that you just had to go, that you
Speaker 1: had something else going on. No, Oh my god, I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't believe you did bring this up. What happened?
Speaker 1: So after going to a couple of the shops and
Speaker 1: he brought me fro Yo, we went into one one shop.
Speaker 1: There was like no signager on it and it seemed
Speaker 1: like it was like empty. And so we go in
Speaker 1: and there's it's like a waiting room area okay, And
Speaker 1: I was like what is this and he's like, just
Speaker 1: wait a second, you'll see. I'm like okay. So we go.
Speaker 1: When we sit down, he's like flipping through a magazine.
Speaker 1: So after like five minutes, this lady comes out of
Speaker 1: like some rum or something and she like looks over
Speaker 1: at us and she looks stunned, and so I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: does she already know him? And then she comes over
Speaker 1: to us and she's like, Gus, yeah, you're gonna need
Speaker 1: to leave. Wait, she was talking to you, or she
Speaker 1: was talking to Gus that he needed to leave. No,
Speaker 1: she was talking to him, and she's like this is
Speaker 1: a therapist office, Like you can't keep doing this. And
Speaker 1: I was like, he just brought me to his therapist.
Speaker 1: A therapist was blocked out windows. What did he say?
Speaker 1: He like mumbled something like it wasn't a big deal
Speaker 1: or whatever, like this was just normal for him. So
Speaker 1: I have a lot of questions about the story that
Speaker 1: you just told us. It's not really clear to me.
Speaker 1: I think we need to ask Gus to clarify because Ellie,
Speaker 1: Gus has been on the other line listening and he
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. I thought I just had
Speaker 1: to do it with you. Guys. Oh my god, now sorry,
Speaker 1: there's more Gussie there, beautiful? How you time? Bad time? Mean? Yeah,
Speaker 1: talk to us about the office that you were in.
Speaker 1: What happened. Look, if I really really like someone, I
Speaker 1: introduce her to my therapist, you know, just so she
Speaker 1: kind of gets to know someone who is also important
Speaker 1: to me, because that's an important relationship to have. I
Speaker 1: see my therapist a lot. Well that's great, guys, and
Speaker 1: I we really encourage mental health here. But this is
Speaker 1: a first date. Yeah, you don't go from fro Yota therapist.
Speaker 1: I thought it was a sentimental thing. I thought she
Speaker 1: would appreciate that, you know, she would care that I
Speaker 1: was doing something so thoughtful. At least I mean, like
Speaker 1: there's some positives that will come out of like a
Speaker 1: therapist session. You could be honest with each other. You
Speaker 1: could break down your past. You know they don't have
Speaker 1: a past. Jeffrey, well, like this is his way to
Speaker 1: open up about his past. Ellie, where are you at?
Speaker 1: I mean his explanation is nice. I guess my biggest
Speaker 1: thing was that, like the therapist said, like, you can't
Speaker 1: keep bringing women in here, which means that you've done
Speaker 1: this before, like you've brought other women. Yeah, like I said,
Speaker 1: I date a lot, and sometimes I find more than
Speaker 1: one girl who I'd like to introduce this to the
Speaker 1: other girl. That means a lot. Okay, Okay, now now
Speaker 1: this is all making a lot more sense because you
Speaker 1: were telling us that most dates with or most dating
Speaker 1: things with you only last one or two dates. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you're taking them all to the therapist, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: why they're scared. So maybe I shouldn't do that. You
Speaker 1: not listening to your therapist. She was angry and tell
Speaker 1: you to do this. You don't need us to also
Speaker 1: follow that. She's also giving you that advice. You said
Speaker 1: you listen to her. I mean, you seem like a
Speaker 1: good dude. And it's great that you're trying to get
Speaker 1: your mental health in order, but your therapist can't be
Speaker 1: the one who is running your dating life for you,
Speaker 1: Like she's there to give you tools so you can
Speaker 1: do it on your own. Yeah, I'm massage therapist's strong
Speaker 1: for a date. So I mean, Ellie, talk to him.
Speaker 1: How are you feeling, like, do you see the potential
Speaker 1: for another date with him? And you know, don't think
Speaker 1: of me as being your therapist here right, I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to get you guys to open up to each
Speaker 1: other a little. I mean, I really liked Stars. I
Speaker 1: thought he was very handsome and very charming. But I
Speaker 1: think he's got he's got to take a break from
Speaker 1: finding the love of his life and just like focus
Speaker 1: on him. It's like single calls. Okay, do you hear that, Gus?
Speaker 1: Is that something that you're hearing? Yeah, and I think
Speaker 1: it worked out even better you could go with me. Well, Gus,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, dude, all right, thanks man, Oh, don't say
Speaker 1: it's okay. You're going to find somebody out there eventually.
Speaker 1: Now the one that got away actually did finally get away.
Speaker 1: It's all about you, Gus. Work on you. You got this,
Speaker 1: thanks guys. I mean, maybe I should just start dating
Speaker 1: my therapish. I mean she's pretty hot, power her legs.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning