WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Pawnshop Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Second data day, because there's some people in this world

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<v Speaker 1>who have no problem in the dating scene. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter where they go, what they wear, how they smell,

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<v Speaker 1>it just comes easy. And people are basically throwing themselves

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<v Speaker 1>at them all the time about people. Yeah, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the same page here. I know what that's like

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<v Speaker 1>because I've thrown myself at so many people only because

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<v Speaker 1>it's explicitly written in their app. Okay, they say when

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<v Speaker 1>we cross paths, throw your body my way. All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>and I listen, it's good for you. But we have

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<v Speaker 1>to remember Brook that there's people who just aren't as

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<v Speaker 1>lucky in their romantics. I know, I don't know. She's

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<v Speaker 1>always really judgy about this. She thinks that everybody's in

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<v Speaker 1>love all the time, but there's some people that struggle

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<v Speaker 1>with it. For whatever reason, things just never seem to

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<v Speaker 1>work out for them. And today we have a great

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to actually help out one of those people. Everyone

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<v Speaker 1>deserves a lot. Yeah, we're not dealing with you today, Jose.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to help out someone who emailed us. His

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<v Speaker 1>name's Gus. Gus, welcome to the show man, Hey man,

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<v Speaker 1>how's how's everything going? How could you be named Gus

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<v Speaker 1>and not be in love. Gus is such a lovely

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<v Speaker 1>like who doesn't love Gus? Okay, your energy is okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to bring him up. Tell us a little

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<v Speaker 1>about your romantic situation. Why did you email us? So? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got married pretty early and after my second divorce,

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of seemed like all my relationships lasted one

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe two dates. Okay, So when was the second divorce? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it was pretty recent, a few months ago. All right

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<v Speaker 1>about that? Man? Why I always bring the mood down

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<v Speaker 1>in this conversation? I mean, I think it's pertinent to

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<v Speaker 1>the dating. Like, I mean, after you know, only a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of months after your second divorce, it seems like,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you expect? Like it takes a while to

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<v Speaker 1>get going. Yeah, and I tried like everything. I tried mats,

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<v Speaker 1>I tried ten and one night I got so desperate.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried women behind bars. Please tell me that's who

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling for the second date update. No, no, even

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't work out. So I just kind of stopped trying,

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<v Speaker 1>like because everybody says, when you least expect it, it'll

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<v Speaker 1>just hit it. Okay, everyone says that everyone that's already married,

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<v Speaker 1>says that gust isn't married twice, so he should know.

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<v Speaker 1>So where did it hit you? So I was actually

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<v Speaker 1>working at this pown shop and I met this pretty girl.

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<v Speaker 1>She was so sweet. Her name was Ellie. Ellie okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, it was kind of a little surprising

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<v Speaker 1>for me because at this pawn shop, like the crowd

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<v Speaker 1>here is like a weird crowd, you know, right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>literally imagining the show Pawn Star everyone that goes in

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<v Speaker 1>there so interesting. Yeah. Yeah, So we started talking and

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<v Speaker 1>we hit it off. Okay, that's awesome, man. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I got the diger and we started texting each other,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was really honest with her about, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my luck with women, and I asked her out. So

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<v Speaker 1>she met me after work for some frillio at this

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<v Speaker 1>plaza strip. So we just I thought it was romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>We just went around these antique shops and just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of chilled and talked. Okay, were you getting a good

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<v Speaker 1>vibe from her? I was, But then it seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>she just kind of wanted to get out of here

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<v Speaker 1>before the date was over. You know, I had all

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff playing. Did you mean like her mood changed

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly or she seemed that way the entire time. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I think somewhere along she just it seemed like she

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<v Speaker 1>was in a hurry to just kind of leave and

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<v Speaker 1>get back, and I didn't know why. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was having a great time. Okay. Was there any moment

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<v Speaker 1>where you tried to kiss her or hug her or

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that? I guess right before she left. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm feeling like she's the one I like get away

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<v Speaker 1>because we had more of a connection than even my

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<v Speaker 1>second wife, just very random people. I gotta say, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little worried to ask that. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>mean to laugh, but you just got divorced a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of months ago. This is a second and up there

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<v Speaker 1>are recalling for you to ask her for her hand

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<v Speaker 1>in marriage. Why do you feel that? Like? What about

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<v Speaker 1>her says she's the one that got away to you,

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<v Speaker 1>other than the fact that she physically got away. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>crying out. She literally laughed. Yeah, yeah, I know. Makes

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<v Speaker 1>it sound like you were chasing her. You weren't chasing her,

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<v Speaker 1>were you, Guss? Now, I wasn't chasing her, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was definitely calling her name, like, Hey, what's up are

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<v Speaker 1>you leaving. You know what's going on. Yeah, so you

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<v Speaker 1>were talking to her as she was walking away from you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she said she had to go, So I guess we

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of still talking. If I'm talking to her

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<v Speaker 1>and she's acknowledging that I'm speaking, I hear you buy Yah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a bit of a dramatic exit. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe you put off this vibe and you

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<v Speaker 1>freaked her out, because honestly, what vibe like the vibe

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<v Speaker 1>of like you're the one, you know, like maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>were too intense. No, I don't think so. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she gave me the dishes. Yeah, that was That's where

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<v Speaker 1>the talking to your guests. I don't get the vibe

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<v Speaker 1>of intensity coming off. He went with FROO to this

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<v Speaker 1>girl at a strip mall, and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>she's the one that got away. Yeah, it's called romance broken.

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<v Speaker 1>Look it up. Okay, So here's what we're gonna do

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<v Speaker 1>for you. We're gonna do guys, We're gonna play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll come back, we'll call Ellie and we'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>get you your second date update. All right, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hold on if you're just tuning in for

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<v Speaker 1>the second Date Update. One of our listeners, Gus is

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<v Speaker 1>looking for a little bit of a dating life overhaul. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's extreme love makeover Gus edition, because he told us

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't had a lot of success in the dating scene.

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<v Speaker 1>It's his second divorce a few months ago. He's tried

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of different dating sites, even women behind bars

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<v Speaker 1>at one point. I'm not even making that up, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>he really tried that didn't pan out. But recently he

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<v Speaker 1>met a woman named Ellie when she stumbled into his

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<v Speaker 1>pawn shop one day, and for their first date, they

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<v Speaker 1>went and grabbed some fro yo, wandered around an antique store.

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<v Speaker 1>After a while, she was telling Gus she had to go.

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<v Speaker 1>But he now calls Ellie the one who got away,

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<v Speaker 1>because she literally got away while Gus was yelling after

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<v Speaker 1>her and asking why she's leaving. I don't think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's what they mean with that saying. But okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's changed my perspective on it for sure. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's literal. But Gus, we're about to call her.

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<v Speaker 1>How you're feeling right now? I'm a little nervous, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be great to hear from her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a while since I've actually heard her voice.

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<v Speaker 1>And by the way she has legs, today's the most beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>just legs a little out of place. No, I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>glad that I know that before I made the phone

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<v Speaker 1>call would have gone much differently. I mean, Gus, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little worried about you. You're putting a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>pressure on this, you know, I don't think so. I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's just maybe a little nervous to really fall

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<v Speaker 1>in love again. I think she's scared to fall in love.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, are really scars. People are scared to commit

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<v Speaker 1>and fallow. And it hit it hit her, and so

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<v Speaker 1>she ran away from him in the parking lot of

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<v Speaker 1>an antique story. Okay, all right, I guess we'll find

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<v Speaker 1>out if Ellie's scared of love or just scared of you.

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<v Speaker 1>So here we go number Yeah, all right, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is this Ellie? Yes, it is hi, Ellie. Who's

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<v Speaker 1>this who's speaking? My name's Jeffrey from the radio show

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing good?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you doing pretty good? Um? Calling you today

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<v Speaker 1>with all my co hosts, Brook Jose, we have Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>here too. We're doing something called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard of that before? Um? I think so. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're on the right path. All right, congrats here we are, Ellie.

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<v Speaker 1>So far, so good on this phone call, coming in

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<v Speaker 1>with the right tone. Yes, okay, okay, I'm appreciating it now.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing, Ellie. The way that this works

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<v Speaker 1>is if you go out on a date with someone

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards, if they're not calling you back, you can

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<v Speaker 1>email our show and we'll reach out to that person

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<v Speaker 1>for you to try and figure out the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>they're ghosting. And recently you were out with a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Gus. Oh my god. Okay, yeah, dude, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>enter anything though, Like I didn't call you. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>call you? You? Guys? Yeah, that's how this works. Like

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<v Speaker 1>he emails us and then we call you to try

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<v Speaker 1>and figure out Yeah, on his bath to try and

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what went wrong on your date, because he

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<v Speaker 1>had a really good time with you. He's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit confused why afterwards you've been kind of m I A,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god. M So he's already talked to you

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<v Speaker 1>about the date. Yeah, he told us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about how everything played out. That you guys went to Froyo,

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<v Speaker 1>went to an antique store. You met at his pawn shop,

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<v Speaker 1>and then at the end of the date, you were

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<v Speaker 1>saying that you just had to get going, and you

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of walking away while he was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>keep things alive. Oh my god, Okay, I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was a romantic time, like, well, it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's the commercial like shopping thing where the

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<v Speaker 1>pawn shop it. So he didn't take me anywhere. I

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<v Speaker 1>just met him at the pawn shop and then we

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<v Speaker 1>walked to like a couple of antique stores that were

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<v Speaker 1>in this desolate shopping mall. Oh you expected more, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's not exactly the cutest little commercial shopping area.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty like dead. I mean that's that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>on you, that you've built it up in your head

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<v Speaker 1>that it was going to be something else. Well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not a lot of planning though. I mean, you literally

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<v Speaker 1>are taking me to the same shopping center that you're

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<v Speaker 1>where you were. Yeah, but he mentioned to us, He

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned to us that you also left before he had,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, other things planned. He didn't go into any

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<v Speaker 1>more detail about that about why I left. He wasn't sure.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that you just had to go, that you

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<v Speaker 1>had something else going on. No, Oh my god, I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe you did bring this up. What happened?

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<v Speaker 1>So after going to a couple of the shops and

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<v Speaker 1>he brought me fro Yo, we went into one one shop.

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<v Speaker 1>There was like no signager on it and it seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like it was like empty. And so we go in

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<v Speaker 1>and there's it's like a waiting room area okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like what is this and he's like, just

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<v Speaker 1>wait a second, you'll see. I'm like okay. So we go.

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<v Speaker 1>When we sit down, he's like flipping through a magazine.

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<v Speaker 1>So after like five minutes, this lady comes out of

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<v Speaker 1>like some rum or something and she like looks over

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<v Speaker 1>at us and she looks stunned, and so I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>does she already know him? And then she comes over

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<v Speaker 1>to us and she's like, Gus, yeah, you're gonna need

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<v Speaker 1>to leave. Wait, she was talking to you, or she

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to Gus that he needed to leave. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she was talking to him, and she's like this is

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<v Speaker 1>a therapist office, Like you can't keep doing this. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, he just brought me to his therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>A therapist was blocked out windows. What did he say?

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<v Speaker 1>He like mumbled something like it wasn't a big deal

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, like this was just normal for him. So

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of questions about the story that

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<v Speaker 1>you just told us. It's not really clear to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we need to ask Gus to clarify because Ellie,

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<v Speaker 1>Gus has been on the other line listening and he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. I thought I just had

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<v Speaker 1>to do it with you. Guys. Oh my god, now sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>there's more Gussie there, beautiful? How you time? Bad time? Mean? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to us about the office that you were in.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened. Look, if I really really like someone, I

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<v Speaker 1>introduce her to my therapist, you know, just so she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of gets to know someone who is also important

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<v Speaker 1>to me, because that's an important relationship to have. I

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<v Speaker 1>see my therapist a lot. Well that's great, guys, and

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<v Speaker 1>I we really encourage mental health here. But this is

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. Yeah, you don't go from fro Yota therapist.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was a sentimental thing. I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>would appreciate that, you know, she would care that I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing something so thoughtful. At least I mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>there's some positives that will come out of like a

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<v Speaker 1>therapist session. You could be honest with each other. You

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<v Speaker 1>could break down your past. You know they don't have

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<v Speaker 1>a past. Jeffrey, well, like this is his way to

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<v Speaker 1>open up about his past. Ellie, where are you at?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean his explanation is nice. I guess my biggest

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<v Speaker 1>thing was that, like the therapist said, like, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>keep bringing women in here, which means that you've done

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<v Speaker 1>this before, like you've brought other women. Yeah, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I date a lot, and sometimes I find more than

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<v Speaker 1>one girl who I'd like to introduce this to the

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<v Speaker 1>other girl. That means a lot. Okay, Okay, now now

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<v Speaker 1>this is all making a lot more sense because you

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<v Speaker 1>were telling us that most dates with or most dating

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<v Speaker 1>things with you only last one or two dates. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're taking them all to the therapist, Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why they're scared. So maybe I shouldn't do that. You

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<v Speaker 1>not listening to your therapist. She was angry and tell

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<v Speaker 1>you to do this. You don't need us to also

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<v Speaker 1>follow that. She's also giving you that advice. You said

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<v Speaker 1>you listen to her. I mean, you seem like a

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<v Speaker 1>good dude. And it's great that you're trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>your mental health in order, but your therapist can't be

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<v Speaker 1>the one who is running your dating life for you,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she's there to give you tools so you can

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<v Speaker 1>do it on your own. Yeah, I'm massage therapist's strong

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<v Speaker 1>for a date. So I mean, Ellie, talk to him.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feeling, like, do you see the potential

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<v Speaker 1>for another date with him? And you know, don't think

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<v Speaker 1>of me as being your therapist here right, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get you guys to open up to each

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<v Speaker 1>other a little. I mean, I really liked Stars. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought he was very handsome and very charming. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think he's got he's got to take a break from

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<v Speaker 1>finding the love of his life and just like focus

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<v Speaker 1>on him. It's like single calls. Okay, do you hear that, Gus?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that something that you're hearing? Yeah, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>it worked out even better you could go with me. Well, Gus,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, dude, all right, thanks man, Oh, don't say

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. You're going to find somebody out there eventually.

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<v Speaker 1>Now the one that got away actually did finally get away.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about you, Gus. Work on you. You got this,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks guys. I mean, maybe I should just start dating

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<v Speaker 1>my therapish. I mean she's pretty hot, power her legs.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning