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Speaker 1: how's how's everything going? How could you be named Gus

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Speaker 1: How are you doing pretty good? Um? Calling you today

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Speaker 1: Have you ever heard of that before? Um? I think so. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you just told us. It's not really clear to me.

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Speaker 1: I think we need to ask Gus to clarify because Ellie,

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Speaker 1: Gus has been on the other line listening and he

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Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. I thought I just had

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Speaker 1: to do it with you. Guys. Oh my god, now sorry,

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Speaker 1: there's more Gussie there, beautiful? How you time? Bad time? Mean? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: talk to us about the office that you were in.

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Speaker 1: What happened. Look, if I really really like someone, I

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Speaker 1: introduce her to my therapist, you know, just so she

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Speaker 1: kind of gets to know someone who is also important

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Speaker 1: to me, because that's an important relationship to have. I

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Speaker 1: see my therapist a lot. Well that's great, guys, and

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Speaker 1: I we really encourage mental health here. But this is

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Speaker 1: a first date. Yeah, you don't go from fro Yota therapist.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was a sentimental thing. I thought she

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Speaker 1: would appreciate that, you know, she would care that I

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Speaker 1: was doing something so thoughtful. At least I mean, like

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Speaker 1: there's some positives that will come out of like a

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Speaker 1: therapist session. You could be honest with each other. You

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Speaker 1: could break down your past. You know they don't have

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Speaker 1: a past. Jeffrey, well, like this is his way to

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Speaker 1: open up about his past. Ellie, where are you at?

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Speaker 1: I mean his explanation is nice. I guess my biggest

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Speaker 1: thing was that, like the therapist said, like, you can't

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Speaker 1: keep bringing women in here, which means that you've done

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Speaker 1: this before, like you've brought other women. Yeah, like I said,

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Speaker 1: I date a lot, and sometimes I find more than

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Speaker 1: one girl who I'd like to introduce this to the

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Speaker 1: other girl. That means a lot. Okay, Okay, now now

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Speaker 1: this is all making a lot more sense because you

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Speaker 1: were telling us that most dates with or most dating

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Speaker 1: things with you only last one or two dates. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: if you're taking them all to the therapist, Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: why they're scared. So maybe I shouldn't do that. You

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Speaker 1: not listening to your therapist. She was angry and tell

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Speaker 1: you to do this. You don't need us to also

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Speaker 1: follow that. She's also giving you that advice. You said

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Speaker 1: you listen to her. I mean, you seem like a

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Speaker 1: good dude. And it's great that you're trying to get

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Speaker 1: your mental health in order, but your therapist can't be

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Speaker 1: the one who is running your dating life for you,

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Speaker 1: Like she's there to give you tools so you can

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Speaker 1: do it on your own. Yeah, I'm massage therapist's strong

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Speaker 1: for a date. So I mean, Ellie, talk to him.

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Speaker 1: How are you feeling, like, do you see the potential

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Speaker 1: for another date with him? And you know, don't think

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Speaker 1: of me as being your therapist here right, I'm just

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Speaker 1: trying to get you guys to open up to each

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Speaker 1: other a little. I mean, I really liked Stars. I

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Speaker 1: thought he was very handsome and very charming. But I

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Speaker 1: think he's got he's got to take a break from

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Speaker 1: finding the love of his life and just like focus

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Speaker 1: on him. It's like single calls. Okay, do you hear that, Gus?

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Speaker 1: Is that something that you're hearing? Yeah, and I think

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Speaker 1: it worked out even better you could go with me. Well, Gus,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, dude, all right, thanks man, Oh, don't say

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Speaker 1: it's okay. You're going to find somebody out there eventually.

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Speaker 1: Now the one that got away actually did finally get away.

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Speaker 1: It's all about you, Gus. Work on you. You got this,

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Speaker 1: thanks guys. I mean, maybe I should just start dating

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Speaker 1: my therapish. I mean she's pretty hot, power her legs.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning