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Speaker 1: What's Up Tribe.

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Speaker 2: I'm Erica and I'm Mila, and this is Good.

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Speaker 1: Mom's Bad Choices Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Beach season two. If you joined us for season one,

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Speaker 2: you got three hundred uncensored episodes.

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Speaker 1: But things are a little different in twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Not only are we having new guests, new segments, but

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Speaker 1: we're going outside, y'all. We're getting out of our studio

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Speaker 1: and podcasting in the wild, so make sure you check

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Speaker 1: us out on YouTube to see where we're headed next.

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Speaker 2: This podcast is for all the good moms, all the

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Speaker 2: good dads, and even y'all hain't got no kids. Pull up.

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Speaker 2: Join us in season two as we deep dive into

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Speaker 2: even more uncensored topics like love, sex.

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Speaker 1: Dating, and just look at this as the ultimate group chat.

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Speaker 1: All the shit you're afraid to say out loud or

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Speaker 1: even try, We say it and do it for you.

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Speaker 2: Because nothing's off limits here.

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Speaker 1: This is a judgment free zone to show up exactly

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Speaker 1: as you are, and let's be honest, we've all made

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Speaker 1: a few bad choices, so sit back, relax, and enjoy

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Speaker 1: the ride. What's up, you guys. It's Erica Emila and

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Speaker 1: we are officially off season, but we are running back

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Speaker 1: some oldies and goodies. Right now, you are about to

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Speaker 1: tune into an episode we did with none other than

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Speaker 1: our favorite sexy ass dominatrix, Mistress Marley.

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Speaker 2: That's right, deep dive into this episode called Mama, I'm

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Speaker 2: a Dominatrix.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to miss this episode where Mistress Marley

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Speaker 1: brings a sub on set and may or may not

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Speaker 1: have let me and me La dom him.

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Speaker 2: After you listen to this episode, you will not want

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Speaker 2: to miss Mistress Marley at our live show in New York.

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Speaker 2: It's this week. It's at Grammercy Theater and she may

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Speaker 2: or may not be bringing a sub for us to

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Speaker 2: dom and maybe even you.

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Speaker 1: So make sure you click the link in this episode

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Speaker 1: description and come check us out on March sixteenth in

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Speaker 1: New York City and let's have some naughty fun.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 1: I'm Erica and I'm Nila, So I just want to

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Speaker 1: get straight into it because I'm fucking so excited because

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Speaker 1: we have a special guest today that I have been

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Speaker 1: like stalking when I can because her pages constantly get

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Speaker 1: deleted and I actually discovered her at a horrible decision

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Speaker 1: show a shout out to Weezy and Mandy our girls.

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Speaker 1: They invited us to a show out in New York

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Speaker 1: before COVID and Mistress Marley came on stage with her

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Speaker 1: sub and I actually had my homeboy with me and

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Speaker 1: his mind was fucking blown and I was like, I

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Speaker 1: need to get this amazing black woman on our show. Like,

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Speaker 1: so when we came to New York, I was like, Nila,

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Speaker 1: if anything happens, if anything doesn't happen, this shit has

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Speaker 1: to happen. We have to get Mistress Marley. So, missus Marley,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, than for having me.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for coming. Mistress Marley is not only a dom

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Speaker 2: but she's an educator, an activist, event curator, mogul, and

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Speaker 2: educator in the dom world. She's been featured on BuzzFeed,

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Speaker 2: New York Times Like, she's top notch doming business.

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Speaker 1: And she's also the founder of Black Dom Sorority, which

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Speaker 1: we'll ask you about that too later on in the show.

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Speaker 1: So welcome to the show, Mistress Marley.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: Guys, if you're on our Patreon, you will also see

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Speaker 2: that we are joined by Mistress Marley's sub. He is

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Speaker 2: here Neils on a leash, which I'm sure we have

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Speaker 2: even more questions to ask. I'm going to talk in

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Speaker 2: my sexy voice today because Mistress Marley has inspired me

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Speaker 2: to wear my stripper shoes, my sexy outfit, and because

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Speaker 2: I'm the sex of the podcast whatever, I'm gonna talk

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Speaker 1: I asked her, what the fuck am I of the podcast?

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Speaker 1: She's like, I don't know, bitch, but I'm the sex.

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Speaker 1: I was like, wow, okay.

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Speaker 2: It's true. So Martley, how did this begin? How did

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Speaker 4: So I kind of came into this work just like

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Speaker 4: survival work. So I've always been a sex worker. So

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Speaker 4: I was in grad school for fashion. After grad school,

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Speaker 4: So I applied got the job, and then while I

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Speaker 4: I'm like, you know what, let me like look this up.

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Speaker 4: like in the sense of like controlling men, I don't know,

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Speaker 4: like is that really me? So I was like, no,

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Speaker 4: I've seen fifty stades of gray, like you know, everyone

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Speaker 4: one day I searched like online how to make money

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Speaker 4: as a woman online just being sexy and dominant, and I.

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Speaker 3: Found financial domination.

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Speaker 4: So I started off in financial domination, which is so same.

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Speaker 1: Tell our listeners what financial domination is.

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Speaker 4: So basically financial domination they call it finn dom for sure.

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Speaker 4: It's a psychological kink where the dominant controls the submissive's wallet.

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Speaker 4: So basically you get paid just for existing subs basically

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Speaker 4: get off by just sending you money and they know,

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Speaker 4: like they'll never meet you or they don't want anything

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Speaker 4: in return, They just want you to take their money.

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Speaker 1: What the fuck? Sign me the fuck I am doing?

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Speaker 1: Life's wrong. I can't even get a nigga to like

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Speaker 2: I'm in beginner level dom I don't know. I'm let

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Speaker 2: me tell you, Marley, I've been dominant my DMS. Thank

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Speaker 2: you to good moms. We have a plethora of people.

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Speaker 2: We talked about a lot of shits, so our audience

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Speaker 2: maybe I can get to level two.

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Speaker 1: So, well, i'm your wife, so you have to split

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Speaker 2: Well, he paid for our surf lesson, so be happy he.

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Speaker 1: Did pay for our surf in Costa Rica. That's true.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing something right.

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Speaker 2: Right, right, I just need to recruit more, which like

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Speaker 2: that's what I have so many questions. Fu Okay, how

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Speaker 2: do you spot? How do you spot a finn sub?

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Speaker 2: Is that even a word?

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Speaker 2: I'm yeah, that's the word, okay, finn sub because honestly

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Speaker 2: I thought that it was just like this older, white,

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Speaker 2: So I just how do you spot? Or do they

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Speaker 4: So it depends, like so you have different subs that

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Speaker 4: do other things with him. But as in spotting finn

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Speaker 4: like a lot of them are anonymous, A lot of

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Speaker 4: them don't even have profile pictures, no real name up

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Speaker 4: money to my cash app and I never know who

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Speaker 4: it is, like they'll never be like, oh I sent

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Speaker 1: So I've definitely gotten those messages and my dms, but

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Speaker 1: i'd be thinking, like my baby daddy is trying to

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Speaker 1: like expose my hous. I'm like this nigga doesn't had

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Speaker 1: get exposed? And I don't know, Like, so that's really

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Speaker 1: that's typically how it is, though, Yeah, like men that

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Speaker 3: The aird exactly.

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Speaker 4: So like financial domination, the biggest thing is being anonymous.

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Speaker 4: So it's like I want to send you my money

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Speaker 2: So like in your personal sex life, because I'm sure

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Speaker 2: it's separate, do you enjoy being dominant in the bedroom

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Speaker 4: I consider myself a switch when it comes to like men,

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Speaker 4: I'm really into, but I also like and women also,

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Speaker 4: like I could be submissive, but at the same time,

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you what I want, like eat my pussy

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Speaker 4: this way, like do it this way, do that. Like

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Speaker 4: I'm very verbal, but I still be submissive, you know whatever.

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Speaker 4: But I'm going to tell you what the fuck I want.

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Speaker 1: You know, would you let one of your partners put

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Speaker 3: That's where I draw the line. I like like, I

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Speaker 3: like choking, I love spanking.

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Speaker 4: I don't mind like some bondage, a little bit of bondage,

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Speaker 4: but the leash, like I can't see myself like crawling

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Eric and I are doing some field research

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Speaker 2: tonight and we're going to the sex club in Brooklyn,

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Speaker 2: I know, right, Spicy, I'm if you want to come,

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Speaker 2: like what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Black one?

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Speaker 3: So I'll be in Brooklyn all night.

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Speaker 1: Join us.

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Speaker 2: So I was gonna ask you, like, do you have

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Speaker 2: any tips for us if we want to live out

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Speaker 2: some of our domination extreams at the sex club? If

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Speaker 2: you want to enforce some dumbness, what are your suggestions.

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Speaker 4: Well, I actually throw sex parties myself. So I have

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Speaker 4: a party series called Black and Kinky for black and

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Speaker 4: Afro Latina people, and we've had like eight parties. We

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Speaker 4: just had one in Atlanta for Juneteenth. So I'll say

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Speaker 4: the biggest thing in going to sex party you want

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Speaker 3: Try to like see which men are submissive. You can

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Speaker 4: Coming up to you and calling you goddess or wanting

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Speaker 4: to do every little thing for you, like really use

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Speaker 4: So my first thing I would say is not all

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Speaker 4: It's all about just having that open conversation and then

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Speaker 4: So I always try to be like really transparent with

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Speaker 3: Do you want to say your heart limits, needles electro

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Speaker 4: Said SCAT, he said CBT, which is cock and ball torture.

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Speaker 4: That's mostly like when you're punching them in the nuts,

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Speaker 1: Urethrah yeah, oh oh my god, I even got to

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 4: When I asked him, I like, why do you really

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Speaker 4: and it's something that I do to make women feel good.

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Speaker 4: So it's really just about having those conversations, but also

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Speaker 3: How did they react? So I feel like all, like.

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Speaker 4: A good dom should know how to look at non

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So the you learned a lot of the stuff

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Speaker 3: Not my mentor.

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Speaker 4: She was just someone where like if we were on

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Speaker 4: But it was never a teaching experience. So a lot

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Speaker 3: So I've never had a mentor ever.

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Speaker 1: I would imagine that also being a domin in the

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Speaker 1: There a lot of racism in it?

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Speaker 4: And yeah, So when I came into financial domination, I

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Speaker 4: You go on Twitter, you type in fendom fi ndom,

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Speaker 4: like I would reach out, like you.

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Speaker 3: Know, asking for help advice. Some of them would block me.

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Speaker 4: Some of them would be like really rude, Like I

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Speaker 4: Like it's really like super rude. There's even like engagement

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Speaker 4: and those engagement groups were always like low key racists

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Speaker 4: And so that's why I created black doms sorority.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, wow, yeah, I would imagine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough.

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Speaker 2: I think one of the biggest misconceptions of like dominant

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Speaker 2: that's not true, right.

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Speaker 4: No, that's not true. So that's the biggest Yeah, like

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Speaker 2: So, like, out of all of your clients, are you

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Speaker 4: Is that in my three years of being a DOM,

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Speaker 4: I've never had sex with a client?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So they're coming to climax? Are they even coming

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Speaker 4: If I allow them to? So it's like it's still

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Speaker 4: up to me. So sometimes I'll do edging. Sometimes I'll

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Speaker 4: and I'll make them stop and keep going or whatever.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes I'll do like things with sex toys like wands

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Speaker 3: But it's really up to me.

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Speaker 2: Do you let them do anything sexual to you?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: So since you've been doing this three years, yes, three years,

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Speaker 2: how have you navigated like relationships? Have you had a

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Speaker 2: And then they're like nah, you know niggas.

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Speaker 4: So I'm actually dating someone right now who found me

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Speaker 4: so you're gonna find it eventually, like you're gonna find eventually.

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Speaker 4: But it's like I tell them like what I do,

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Speaker 4: trying to do neither, Like I'm not trying to teach

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Speaker 2: Like I'm not your teacher. Yeah, So, so how have

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Speaker 4: So we've only been dating since the beginning of this year.

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Speaker 4: It's going pretty well. Like he's always asking me about

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Speaker 2: You guys going to sex parties that are not yours

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Speaker 3: Just so if he comes to mind, it would be

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Speaker 2: Do are you dominating him at all? In the bedroom

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Speaker 2: I'm very much so it's up.

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Speaker 3: He's very dominant. He's a leo. So you know how

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Speaker 2: You think that for some men, they see you dominating

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Speaker 2: want to prove a point, like definitely, you're not gonna

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Speaker 2: do that to me. I'm gonna domin you. You know

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Speaker 2: what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I get like men from Instagram and shit

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Speaker 4: and my dms all the time, like let me be

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Speaker 4: the one I'm like blocked.

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Speaker 2: Goodbye.

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Speaker 3: You're a stranger.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know who you are, and you just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Like thinking about black men particularly, I

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Speaker 2: hate to say this, but it's true, y'all. Let's close

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Speaker 2: minded and it's hard, Like when you're an open sex forward,

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just in the black community period. Just like you said,

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Speaker 2: there's not that many black doms, but you know we're moms,

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Speaker 2: so I got to ask, how does your mom feel

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Speaker 3: My mom is very supportive of what I do.

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Speaker 1: It's beautiful wow.

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Speaker 4: So she's always asking like when's the next event, like

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Speaker 4: my mom is very supportive. Both of my parents are

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Speaker 2: Was it always that way parents be like that's my baby,

440
00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:20,840
Speaker 2: Like last week it was.

441
00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,320
Speaker 1: I think for my parents it looks but you probably

442
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:27,560
Speaker 1: might have domned them into submission sometimes. That's how I

443
00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:29,080
Speaker 1: feel like like me and Mila have done it, just

444
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,560
Speaker 1: domned our parents into accepting us.

445
00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:35,239
Speaker 4: I think for my like for my parents, it was

446
00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,119
Speaker 4: more so just like how are we going to explain

447
00:19:37,160 --> 00:19:39,720
Speaker 4: this to the rest of the family, like to Grandma,

448
00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 4: to the aunties and stuff like that. But like I

449
00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:45,200
Speaker 4: grew up in a family of six kids, so three boys,

450
00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,359
Speaker 4: three girls, and my parents were very big on creative

451
00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,800
Speaker 4: freedom growing up. So like I was the girl in

452
00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:56,080
Speaker 4: high school head shaved in high school, dressed really crazy,

453
00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,120
Speaker 4: like wore big ass like platforms and shit like that

454
00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,480
Speaker 4: was very rebellious, and I was like walk out that

455
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:02,960
Speaker 4: door every day and my dad was like, I love

456
00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:03,399
Speaker 4: your outfit.

457
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:04,040
Speaker 3: Love your outfit.

458
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:04,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

459
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,879
Speaker 4: My mom would be like, how about this, how do

460
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,520
Speaker 4: Like me and my mom would go thrifting together. So

461
00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:09,919
Speaker 4: like my mom's an aquarius too, and my dad's a Gemini,

462
00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,240
Speaker 4: so like we're just airy as signs. So it's just

463
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,240
Speaker 4: like we just have a lot of freedom just instilled

464
00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:15,920
Speaker 4: in this period.

465
00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:19,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, you know, I'm curious now that we're talking

466
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 2: about this. You know, we're sex positive parents and that's

467
00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:25,040
Speaker 2: not always you know, condoned or that's not traditional in

468
00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 2: the black household. How like, what was your introduction to

469
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,040
Speaker 2: sex they talked about was was it equally as free

470
00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:31,720
Speaker 2: in that space too? Did they talk to you about it?

471
00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 2: Did you feel like, obviously you guys have a great relationship,

472
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,680
Speaker 2: but was it even in those spaces you felt comfortable

473
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:37,679
Speaker 2: to have those discussions.

474
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:38,679
Speaker 3: I would actually say no.

475
00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,560
Speaker 4: So I think sex was just something my parents did

476
00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 4: not touch on. Yeah, I just want to say, like, no,

477
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:49,080
Speaker 4: not at all.

478
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:49,960
Speaker 1: I didn't.

479
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,000
Speaker 4: Even my mom thought I was a virgin the whole

480
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,880
Speaker 4: time until I told her when I was like nineteen

481
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 4: that I'm not a virgin.

482
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 3: So she was just like, what you're not?

483
00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,159
Speaker 4: Like, So it was just it's it's weird because there's

484
00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,080
Speaker 4: freedom and other spaces, but when it came to sex,

485
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:03,640
Speaker 4: it was just something they really didn't touch on.

486
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 3: I don't know why, you know, what was the cause

487
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:09,199
Speaker 3: of that, but it was just hush hush. Yeah, it

488
00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 3: was hushush.

489
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 4: But now it's like more open, Like now my parents

490
00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:14,360
Speaker 4: talk about sex and their sex life and I don't

491
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:15,000
Speaker 4: want to hear that.

492
00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,159
Speaker 2: But like, like, since you do this now, I got

493
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 2: a couple of questions.

494
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 1: Yeah.

495
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 4: So, like I had bought like a whip on Amazon

496
00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,520
Speaker 4: and somehow accidentally send it to my parents and.

497
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 3: I called my mom.

498
00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,040
Speaker 4: I was like, oh, something from work came for me today.

499
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 4: Can you send it back? She was like, but I've

500
00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 4: already been using it on your dad.

501
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,240
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, the running the family.

502
00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 4: I'm like, but I think I opened them up to

503
00:21:34,400 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 4: have those conversations.

504
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,359
Speaker 1: I did your parents' sex life.

505
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 4: Oh my god, you did that girl? Oh my god,

506
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:41,640
Speaker 4: I want to think about it.

507
00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well do you have a question for you?

508
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 1: Do you do you have any interest in having children?

509
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 3: I actually don't.

510
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 1: That's fine.

511
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:51,320
Speaker 2: You don't get a ways, don't.

512
00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 1: Girls. Don't ever say it like that, don't. I don't

513
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 1: want no kids? Okay, good, Yeah, don't be ashamed. And

514
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: just because you're on the good mom's bad choices, it

515
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 1: is not me. Look, I think a lot of times

516
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,199
Speaker 1: women we always feel like that's supposed to be like

517
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: part of our duty as women. Like if you're not

518
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 1: if you don't want to be a mom, what's wrong

519
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 1: with you? Or like because of the work that you do,

520
00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 1: that must be the reason why you don't want to

521
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,640
Speaker 1: have kids. But I think some people just just don't.

522
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 4: Want I've always been this way, and I told myself, like,

523
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 4: so I'm on the fence about having kids. I told myself,

524
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 4: if I was to have kids, it would have.

525
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 3: To be surrogate or adoption.

526
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:28,199
Speaker 4: I just cannot I can't imagine busting get easy. I

527
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 4: just get annoyed with every little thing.

528
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 3: It was just don't don't help that.

529
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 1: Don't get this annoying girl. You know, I'm as hell.

530
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 3: I love them, God, but it's like I love my

531
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:38,479
Speaker 3: nieces and nephews.

532
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: You can get then, because because it's a little different,

533
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: give them back.

534
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 2: We're in the car the other day taking the kids

535
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,960
Speaker 2: to the camp and they were just singing off key

536
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 2: as fuck and just I don't know what they were

537
00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 2: talking about. I really don't like like noise, a lot,

538
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 2: like a lot of repetitive noises and unnecessary noise. And

539
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 2: I my blood was boiling, and I'm like, they're fucking

540
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 2: kids and they're yours.

541
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:03,120
Speaker 3: It's not for me.

542
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 2: It's so annoyed. I literally prayed to God, like, please, God,

543
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 2: please give me more patience Lord, because this is very annoying.

544
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 2: So it's okay, Yeah, it's a thing.

545
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: Do you have any moms in your courses.

546
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 4: Yes, So I have a lot of moms with my courses.

547
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 4: I have a lot of moms and Black dom sorority.

548
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,920
Speaker 4: My best friend that does domination stuff with me, she's

549
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,760
Speaker 4: a mom and she runs a sex toy shop.

550
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 3: So she's a mom of three.

551
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 4: Her youngest is like two, and she runs like a

552
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 4: sex toy shop, so I have. I'm surrounded by a

553
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:34,679
Speaker 4: lot of moms in this industry.

554
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: That's so cool because I wondered. I wondered, like, how

555
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 1: many moms there are in your industry and how they

556
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: would talk to their children about their their sex work.

557
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 1: We had on We're Friends with Kingda Warren Jest Setting Jazzmine,

558
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 1: and we've had them on their show and they've so

559
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:52,199
Speaker 1: eloquently explained, you know, how they've you know, navigated that

560
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: space with their parents, I mean not with their parents, sorry,

561
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: with their children, and I would imagine it be similar. Yeah,

562
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: but yeah, that's so cool that your I don't know

563
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 1: that your parents are are so supportive of your career.

564
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 4: I love it and it makes it and I see

565
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 4: my privilege in that because as a sex worker period,

566
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 4: a lot of people cannot come out to their family.

567
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,399
Speaker 4: They're gonna either get this owned, kicked out, lose jobs,

568
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,879
Speaker 4: like all these types of things. So I'm like, I

569
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 4: acknowledge my privilege and that I even can talk to

570
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 4: my parents about this. I can call my parents and say, oh,

571
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 4: I threw an event today and we kicked ass and

572
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 4: we whipped you know, white men, and we did all

573
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 4: this stuff and you know, my dad is like yeah,

574
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 4: and my mom's just like I want to see pictures.

575
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 4: My mom's like real visual, Like I want to see pictures.

576
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 4: I want to see pictures. But I think what my

577
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 4: parents really like about it is the education I'm bringing Also,

578
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 4: so like, my mom's really big on education. So she

579
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 4: just loves to see stuff like this and just to

580
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 4: hear me talk about the education around it, because some

581
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 4: stuff she doesn't even know.

582
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,360
Speaker 1: Also, what are some of your kinks?

583
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 3: Oh? Wow?

584
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: I mean is your profession a kink? Like would that

585
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:54,640
Speaker 1: be considered a kink?

586
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 3: Financial domination? Yeah, it's a kink. Do you mean like

587
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 3: the kinks are like to do the people where I

588
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 3: like to be done to me both?

589
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

590
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 3: Okay.

591
00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 4: So I love face mothering. What's that same as face sitting,

592
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 4: but we call it smothering?

593
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, I don't peep some face smothering on

594
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: your page. Yeah.

595
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 3: I love face mothering.

596
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:19,200
Speaker 1: I saw that Atlanta that looked so amazing month you

597
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: guys go check out her brunch in Atlanta. She did

598
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: this beautiful recap video and I was like, what the fuck?

599
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 1: Where was I?

600
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,640
Speaker 3: So? I love face sitting, I love pegging.

601
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 4: I love foot worship any type of impact play, whether

602
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 4: it's banking, paddling.

603
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 3: To get to this up.

604
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 4: So I'm listening to ones that I like to do

605
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 4: to people, Golden showers. I like. I love humiliation, especially

606
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 4: public humiliation. I love taking stubs out in public and

607
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 4: just talking shit to them and seeing everyone's like reaction

608
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 4: around like it's it's hilarious. I also like a little

609
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 4: bit of bondage and nipple torture. I love CBT, I

610
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 4: love kicking people on the balls, I love ball busting,

611
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 4: and I really love trampling.

612
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,600
Speaker 3: So I just love walking on subs like I just

613
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:08,919
Speaker 3: love it.

614
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: If you ever had any like severe injuries that it's happened.

615
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 3: Thank god, thank god. No.

616
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 1: Well, speaking of humiliation, I know that you kind of

617
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: like blew up on the internet when you brought one

618
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: of your subs to where was it? It was a

619
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 1: it was a homecoming in North Carolina home Yeah, and

620
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: you were walking him around the homecoming What what was

621
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: that the first time you'd ever done anything like that

622
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 1: publicly outside?

623
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 3: Yes?

624
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: Okay? And what inspired that? Were you? Just like? Why there?

625
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 3: Why?

626
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: Then?

627
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 4: So I was just going to homecoming anyway to just

628
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 4: meet up with my friends, have a good time. And

629
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 4: then I was like, you know, I'm still working when

630
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 4: I travel, so let me see if a sub wants

631
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 4: a session. And I made an ad on fat life

632
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,720
Speaker 4: for like public commiliation and whatnot, and the sub reached

633
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 4: out and he was like, I would love to do it.

634
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 4: I was like, well, I'm going to be walking you

635
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 4: on at least through a busy campus during like homecoming

636
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,639
Speaker 4: on a black campus at that and he was like,

637
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 4: I want to do it.

638
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 3: I want to do it.

639
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 4: So I get there a day of he's like so excited,

640
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 4: Like I wasn't supposed to do the leash walking to

641
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 4: like three pm. He's there like ten am, waiting, like waiting.

642
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 4: He was like, I'm just so excited to just be

643
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 4: on your leash or whatever. So like the whole time

644
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 4: I'm doing like what you guys see is like the video,

645
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 4: but the whole time I'm doing in session is like

646
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,360
Speaker 4: I'm still in session, so like we're still in subspace,

647
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 4: still in dom space. And the video that ended up

648
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 4: going viral, I didn't even know it was being taken

649
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 4: of me. So what you see in the video is

650
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 4: me posing for my best friend's phone for him to

651
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 4: take a picture of me. But then this other video

652
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,159
Speaker 4: like we got drunk after that, after the sub went

653
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 4: home in a session and then we got drunk and

654
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 4: I woke up and my Twitter was like on fire.

655
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 4: I went from like a thousand followers to like thirteen.

656
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,679
Speaker 4: K I'm like, what it's going on? Yeah, so it

657
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 4: was like it was crazy.

658
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 2: Oh wow, like there it is.

659
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: Okay, wow, that's humiliating white man, like a specific kink

660
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 1: for you or is it like reparations, Yes.

661
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 3: As you can see my reparations paddle.

662
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Speaker 2: You're welcome. We're into like theater as a child, I

728
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: feel like I would do I would do would be

729
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 2: like an action. You know, I've done some like strange

730
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 2: sexual favors in my life where I had to like

731
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 2: talk myself into it, like bitchcated together, and so I

732
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 2: feel like it would be like just my Like you

733
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: could be an actress. Is that do Do you feel

734
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 2: that way? Because you can go in and out of

735
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 2: like sessions, in and out of character. Do you feel

736
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 2: like you like almost have a what is it? Sasha

737
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 2: fears alter you?

738
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think so. Missus Marley is my alter ego.

739
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 4: Right, But it's like I've done it so much now

740
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 4: that it's also something that I really really love, you know, Like.

741
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 3: I just love this shit.

742
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 2: So it's safe to say you're not in fashions anymore.

743
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 4: No, I want to get back in it. But it

744
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 4: was my first love. Fashion has always been my first love.

745
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 4: But it's just like the fashion industry. And then you know,

746
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 4: I quit my nine to five last January because I

747
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,719
Speaker 4: was like I was making more in one session than

748
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 4: I was after two weeks pay Like I have.

749
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 3: To get the hell out of here.

750
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 2: I want to know how much your costs for your suson.

751
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 4: So it depends on what type of session it is.

752
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 4: So like if it's something like foot worship, I would

753
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 4: do maybe like three hundred hour four hundred hour tributes,

754
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 4: which is in financial domination, can just range from anything.

755
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 4: I have one sub where I request, like literally every

756
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 4: week three hundred dollars from him and he sends it.

757
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 4: My highest paid session has been a pegging session and

758
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:44,120
Speaker 4: it was with an NFL player I cannot say their name,

759
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 4: of course, and that session was five k hour.

760
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 2: How many hours ago?

761
00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 3: We did three? Yeah?

762
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, did you take break?

763
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 3: So it was like pegging, there was other thing.

764
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 4: There are other things too, like he was into spanking

765
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,719
Speaker 4: and into umiliation and things of that nature.

766
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah.

767
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 2: I once had a man put on my high socks

768
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 2: and like do a slow twirl for me. And he

769
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 2: was not a man that I would have ever assumed

770
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 2: was into wearing my dress or my socks. But there

771
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 2: he was wearing my dress and my socks and he

772
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 2: was he he had like he was asking me if

773
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 2: we could go somewhere like church with him on the leash,

774
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: And in my mind I was like, I'm not taking

775
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: you nowhere in no leash. But now I'm second guessing

776
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 2: all of that to turn he specifically wants to go

777
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 2: to the dragon.

778
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 4: I think that might be a hard limit for me.

779
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 4: That might be which one that would be a hard limit.

780
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:39,120
Speaker 4: But no, I love It's called feminization so or silification.

781
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 2: Feminization. Yeah you want it.

782
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I love doing that too. I love putting

783
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 4: makeup and ship on my sub.

784
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: That sounds fun. Did you do you even though you

785
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 2: really like the reparations and like dominic white men? Or

786
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 2: do you have all types of subs because yeah, okay,

787
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 2: so it ranges.

788
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I've had, like I've had black subs, but

789
00:33:58,600 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 4: just black subs are.

790
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:02,600
Speaker 3: Into just like foot worship. They just like the little oh.

791
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 2: They don't want to be like they don't Yeah, they like.

792
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 3: The cute stuff.

793
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 4: I had two black subs at the Atlanta Brunch that

794
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 4: were okay with like spanking and things of that nature.

795
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 4: But you will not find a lot of black men

796
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 4: that are okay with ball busting. They do not want

797
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 4: to be kicked in the nuts like it's it's not common,

798
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 4: but like as in just my subject ranges, I've had

799
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 4: like CEOs, Wall Street men, college boys, your regular construction guy.

800
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 3: Like, I've had so many different.

801
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: What's the oldest sub you've ever had?

802
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 4: The oldest sub I had was I want to say,

803
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 4: sixty eight and the youngest. The youngest I've had was twenty.

804
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 2: This one looks pretty young, looks pretty around.

805
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 1: All right, wait, let's talk about what I'm sorry, what

806
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: what's this? What's your substance?

807
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 2: Yea?

808
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 3: What is that beta?

809
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 2: Beta?

810
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

811
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: So let's talk about beta. So if you guys are

812
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: on Patreon, then you know that you can watch this

813
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,839
Speaker 1: whole episode and you can see Mistress Marley and her

814
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: sub beta here. How how did you guys come to

815
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 1: come to con act? Was it through like an app

816
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: of or like a website like fandom?

817
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,959
Speaker 3: So we actually connected through that life?

818
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:08,399
Speaker 1: And how long has he been your sub?

819
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,720
Speaker 3: He's been my sub now for one day.

820
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 4: Occasion I'm breaking in a movie.

821
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:19,399
Speaker 2: Is this how you usually do it?

822
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,760
Speaker 3: Yeah? I usually break in some newbies.

823
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: You know, what's the process of breaking a Nubian? Can

824
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: you show can you want to see?

825
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 3: Yes?

826
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 2: I'm saying yeah, if you need help, let us know.

827
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 4: Head down to the floor. So it's really about how

828
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,560
Speaker 4: will they take commands? Right, because like you have some

829
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 4: subs that really think they run the show, and I'm like,

830
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 4: you're not a sub. Then you have some that will

831
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 4: like really, you know, listen to your commands or whatnot.

832
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,959
Speaker 4: So for instance, this sub has to call me Mistress Marley.

833
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:50,799
Speaker 4: All my subs have to call me miss Marley. It's

834
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 4: never mistress, it's never just Marley is Mistress Marley. And

835
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 4: I will minister punishment if it's not if my name

836
00:35:56,600 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 4: is not said how it needs to be said. But

837
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 4: I have it's hard limits to what ever. So he

838
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 4: said he's into impact play but lightly so sad down,

839
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 4: so it would just needs an impact, yeah, a little

840
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 4: hard but so yeah, and I'll say when I hit

841
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 4: you say, mister Marley, okay, louder, louder, louder, I.

842
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 3: Don't want to try.

843
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: I thought you were a sub. Just looks so fun.

844
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 3: But yeah, so it just it just all depends, you know.

845
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: So wow, Okay, so how do you like, how do

846
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: you know if like they're going if you're going to

847
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: keep them or like how many how many subs can

848
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: one a woman have.

849
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,239
Speaker 2: Right, Like, how many clients do you currently have on

850
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 2: your roster?

851
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:52,280
Speaker 3: What's so.

852
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:56,680
Speaker 4: It's so many because I'll get some that can serve

853
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 4: for a month and they might drop off. Like the

854
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:02,200
Speaker 4: thing about BDSM is that people you have, some people

855
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:03,919
Speaker 4: that aren't always trying to do it all the time.

856
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 4: Like same thing with financial domination. I have a subcome

857
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 4: and spend all his savings and that's it. He can't

858
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 4: do nothing else, or he can maybe give ten dollars

859
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,760
Speaker 4: here and there or whatever I want to say. Now,

860
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 4: I probably have at least twenty twenty subs, but even

861
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 4: I sometimes have to peel back because it can become

862
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 4: a lot. But as in long term subs, I have three,

863
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 4: So I'm very picky about who my long terms are.

864
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 2: So basically you you you set the tone. It's not

865
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 2: about them running out of money. It's like I just

866
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 2: don't have time or energy for you, yeah anymore, and

867
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 2: I cut it off and some.

868
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 3: Of them will like waste your time, Like some of

869
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 3: them will try to talk to you all day.

870
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:39,919
Speaker 1: Right, you know, like you don't have time like I don't.

871
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: I just that's been my mistake and the people in

872
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: the dedominant of the dams. They want to talk. I'm like, nigga,

873
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: I don't have time set cash at me.

874
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 2: Is it hard to separate? Like your personal You're like,

875
00:37:49,239 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 2: I'm such a nice bitch, Like I'm like, oh, how

876
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 2: is your day? Like it's your grandma, you know, Like

877
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 2: I'm always talking, and I'm like, damn, I go. I'm

878
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 2: supposed to be a dominatrix. Make some money. So I'm like,

879
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 2: how do you navigate between Obviously you've had long term subs,

880
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 2: You've some of them, you've developed friendships with to some

881
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,280
Speaker 2: extent or no, is it just strictly dominatrix.

882
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 4: So for me, it's like I usually can like see

883
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 4: time wasters ahead of time. So my rule of thumb

884
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 4: is always two replies and I block you. So I'll

885
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 4: give you two replies. I will tell you where you

886
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 4: need to send the money, especially if you're just coming

887
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 4: to me on Instagram, because if you're coming to me

888
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 4: on Instagram anyway, you've already fucked up because I tell people, well,

889
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 4: how Instagram has been watching me. Don't message me none

890
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 4: of this shit on Instagram like whatever. But if you

891
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 4: are going to here's my cash app, and you'll have

892
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 4: some subs that'll be like how much God is I

893
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 4: tell them how much, and they still just keep talking,

894
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 4: and I'm like, send it in the next five minutes

895
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 4: or your block. I'll at five minutes past block them,

896
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 4: and then some of them will send to be unblocked.

897
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 4: Like I have an unblocked fee of fifty dollars, so

898
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 4: if you get blocked, you can be unblocked and fifty dollars.

899
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 4: So yeah, so you really just have to know time

900
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,320
Speaker 4: wasters right up front because they will really trying to

901
00:38:58,320 --> 00:38:58,959
Speaker 4: get free kink.

902
00:38:59,040 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 3: They'll just try to talk to.

903
00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:01,799
Speaker 2: You all day, right, try to get off or whatever.

904
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, which I don't mind talking kink with subs that

905
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 4: I've worked with.

906
00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:06,640
Speaker 3: Is a difference.

907
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 4: But you as a stranger just come in my inbox

908
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 4: thinking I'm going to sit here and shoot it, talk

909
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 4: to your fantasy about how you want to be stepped on.

910
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 3: It, Like no, don't, I don't know you, like you know, do.

911
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 1: You have like relationships with your subs? Like I know that,

912
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,480
Speaker 1: Like you said when one of the guys came to

913
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,040
Speaker 1: you and likes foot worship and you were like, where

914
00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: the fuck is this bitch at, Like let's fuck her up?

915
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: Like do you have a relationship like that where you

916
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: are protective of them and or do you kind of

917
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: try to have a boundary up and you don't really

918
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 1: cross that boundary.

919
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 4: It depends on the relationship off form. But with all

920
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 4: subs across the board, I have a personal boundary. So

921
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 4: none of them we'll ever know my real name, none

922
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 4: of them we'll ever know where I live, None of

923
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 4: them we'll ever know what's going on in my dating life,

924
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 4: none of that shit. I pretty much keep it kink related.

925
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 4: If they're going through something, we might can talk about it,

926
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 4: as long as it's I'm not doing too much emotional service.

927
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 4: I try to put that boundary up to But I

928
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 4: have had one sub before that was going through a

929
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 4: lot of like mental trauma, and we would talk about

930
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:00,360
Speaker 4: it or whatever during session.

931
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 3: We would talk about it.

932
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 4: It would still be like, you know, the paid fee

933
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 4: or whatever, but he would send tribute and things of

934
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 4: that nature. So it really depends on what I built

935
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 4: with them.

936
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 2: We actually had a we had an episode with Hardersoft and.

937
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 3: I love those guys.

938
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 2: Tahoe was raving about you. It was like if you

939
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 2: had a Yelp review list, you'd have like all the stars.

940
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 2: He was like Goddess Mistress Marley came over with my

941
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 2: girl and it was amazing. So you do do couple dominate? Yeah, yes,

942
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:34,720
Speaker 2: that sounds kind of hot.

943
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 3: It was really fun. It was fun.

944
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: Were you dominated them both?

945
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 3: No, I dominated her and we were teaching him what

946
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 3: to do.

947
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 2: So it was almost like a teaching session for her partner.

948
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, but it was for her birthday also, so

949
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:47,439
Speaker 4: she she loved it.

950
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 2: That's amazing.

951
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you do.

952
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 2: You domb a lot of women since you are bisexual

953
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 2: or do has nothing to do with it.

954
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 4: So I've domned a few women. I've had women reach out.

955
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 4: I love to don black women. I've domned other races

956
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 4: of women too. It's just for me with women. I

957
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 4: find myself being a bit more gentle like. It's hard

958
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,840
Speaker 4: for me to do humiliation with women, especially black women.

959
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 3: I just can't. I can't.

960
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 4: I think the most I would do with a black

961
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 4: woman's be like you're my little bitch or you're a

962
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 4: bad bitch. Like I give affirmations to them during the session,

963
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 4: So I'm very big on that.

964
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, huh.

965
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 2: Can imagine being affirmed a while being dominated? You know,

966
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 2: there's so many ways to do it.

967
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: Speaking of affirmations and manifesting, typically start off the show

968
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 1: with an affirmation, and I was wondering if you have

969
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 1: any affirmations for our listeners, or maybe just one affirmation

970
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: that you can share.

971
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 4: So my favorite affirmation to do every morning is I'll

972
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 4: sit and look in the mirror and I'll say, I'm

973
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 4: a bad bitch, I'm a money magnet. Success comes to

974
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 4: me easily. Abundance always comes to me. I am well protected.

975
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 4: I always say that.

976
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,920
Speaker 2: I am a bad bitch. Money comes to me.

977
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 1: I'm a money magnet, money magnet.

978
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 4: Abundance comes to me easily. Success comes to me easily.

979
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 2: That comes to me easily.

980
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:07,920
Speaker 3: I am protected.

981
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 2: I am protected.

982
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 1: I love that.

983
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:10,919
Speaker 2: I love that.

984
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:16,120
Speaker 1: I also know that you you have a manifestation course, right, Yes,

985
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: How do you use manifest because we're we're big on

986
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: manifesting and big manifestors over here. How do you use

987
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: manifestation in your work?

988
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:24,879
Speaker 3: Oh?

989
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:27,840
Speaker 4: In so many ways. Beginning of the month, I'm always

990
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 4: manifesting this amount of clients. I'm very big on writing it,

991
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 4: setting it, and forgetting it. So I'll write something down

992
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 4: and I'll put it like under my mattress, so that way,

993
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 4: it's still in the same area as me, but I

994
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 4: don't see it. I also work a lot with Like

995
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 4: I'm very big on Ocehoon. So I consider myself a

996
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 4: daughter of Ocehoon. You guys know who shoo.

997
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:48,440
Speaker 2: Water the ocean?

998
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 3: No o Shoon?

999
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 2: I you should have goddess of the ocean.

1000
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 4: Yes, Ocehoon. So like I'm really big on working with Oshoon.

1001
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 4: I even have like the ocean tattoo. I just do

1002
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 4: a lot of candle work. I do a lot of

1003
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 4: different types of things, and it has always just like

1004
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 4: worked for me. So with manifestation, I already know I

1005
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,439
Speaker 4: have everything I want. Like I never doubt. I never

1006
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 4: say maybe this will happen. I stayed in the now

1007
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 4: as if it's already happening.

1008
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:12,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1009
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,760
Speaker 2: Does that in any way like wrap into your work.

1010
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1011
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:20,479
Speaker 4: So like I always say, like, you know, I'm gonna

1012
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 4: get a fence, sub is gonna tribute one hundred dollars

1013
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:26,439
Speaker 4: today or finn sub is gonna tribute one hundred dollars

1014
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 4: this week or something, And it always comes true.

1015
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 3: Always.

1016
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 2: So I know you have courses and you also have

1017
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: the sorority. Yeah, what is like the difference between those two.

1018
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,919
Speaker 4: So the courses are more so for people that don't

1019
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 4: want to commit to something like a sorority or something

1020
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 4: to like a group where they really have to dedicate

1021
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 4: their time. So the courses are on Patreon Sex Academy

1022
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 4: five dollars a month. If you want two courses, then

1023
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 4: it's ten dollars a month.

1024
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 3: You know it.

1025
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 4: The more tiers, so I have a tier for sex work,

1026
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 4: a tier for domination, a tier for sugaring, and then

1027
00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 4: I have a mentoring tier for those that might need

1028
00:43:59,920 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 4: a little bit more help so they can access that.

1029
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,440
Speaker 4: Twenty four to seven, I have now over one hundred

1030
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,720
Speaker 4: courses because it's been up since April twenty twenty.

1031
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 2: And to be clear, sugaring is being the sugar baby, right.

1032
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, yes, sign up.

1033
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm immediately like I'm signing up. I think I

1034
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 2: think I have what it takes.

1035
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you definitely do. I can see it. You

1036
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 3: a little bit more sovvy. You know, you gotta break out.

1037
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 3: I see it.

1038
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 2: I got The crazy part is I am a sub

1039
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 2: like I'm a switch to. But you know what, for me,

1040
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,240
Speaker 2: it's like if I see someone and I can easily

1041
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 2: tell that my en like that you're in awe of me,

1042
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 2: and then I could take advantage in that way. I'm

1043
00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:37,760
Speaker 2: going to tap into that more right now, if somebody,

1044
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 2: if I see somebody, I'm having sex with somebody who's

1045
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 2: like obviously dominant, then I'm going to submit. But if

1046
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: you're like fake dominant, I'm going to fucking dominate you.

1047
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: Right, I'm dominant in the chase, like yeah, because I'm

1048
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: the same way, like I have seen that. Yeah, but

1049
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,960
Speaker 1: then once I get in the room and that's where

1050
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: they that's where it fucks them up. And then they're

1051
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 1: like yes, and I'm like, I know.

1052
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 2: I love someone who can condonmn me and it's believable. Yeah,

1053
00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 2: oh shit, okay yeah, but if you're like fake, I'm like,

1054
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:03,839
Speaker 2: shut the fuck up.

1055
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 3: Right right exactly exactly.

1056
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,840
Speaker 4: So like the Patreon is just more so like for

1057
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 4: those that want to just more relaxed teaching something that

1058
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 4: can access. But in Black dom sorority, it's like a

1059
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 4: whole tribe. It's like we have brunches, we do community work,

1060
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 4: we do marches, we have like retreats.

1061
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 3: We have a Las Vegas retreat coming up. So it's like.

1062
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: That because it's gonna be.

1063
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 4: It's gonna be like Labor Day around that time. I think, yeah, yeah.

1064
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 2: Swing through right.

1065
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1066
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 4: So we try to do different things, and it's like

1067
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 4: everybody's so different in the group. There's like one hundred

1068
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 4: members and everyone's just so uniquely different, and I just

1069
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 4: love it.

1070
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 2: Are they all practicing dominat tricks in their personal life,

1071
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 2: like on a like professional level or is it just

1072
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 2: some people it's just their king.

1073
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 4: For some people, just their king. So you'll have some

1074
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 4: people that's just lifestyle in there. I mean they just

1075
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,280
Speaker 4: live the lifestyle twenty four seven. But then we actually

1076
00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 4: have some that are dominant like or doing professional dominance,

1077
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 4: and we have courses around that.

1078
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:01,919
Speaker 3: We'll bring in other instructors.

1079
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,960
Speaker 4: We'll learn different things, Like we had someone come in

1080
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 4: and teach us rope tying on zoom like, so we do.

1081
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 3: All those different things.

1082
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 4: So and we're all over like we're international, west coast,

1083
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 4: south northeast.

1084
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, Okay, So before we get you out of here,

1085
00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is a boundary, but I really,

1086
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: I mean I think me and I know me and

1087
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,080
Speaker 1: Mila we want to like learn a little something. Can

1088
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 1: we learn a little something here?

1089
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:26,799
Speaker 3: Or put it.

1090
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: I want to thank I'm here like he's on the

1091
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 1: leash like the niggas about to leave.

1092
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 3: Beta, Beta, do you consent? Okay?

1093
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: He consents?

1094
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 3: Guys, So what do you what do you want to do?

1095
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 1: Don't you tell me? I don't know, tell me what

1096
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: to do.

1097
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 3: You have to be dominant to tell me what to do.

1098
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:55,440
Speaker 1: Start. Start, let's start with my dominant front. Do you

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00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 1: want to do this?

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00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 3: Mhmm? Do you like it? Do you like it? Let

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00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 3: me hear it?

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00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 1: What do you want to I wanted to call me, I.

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00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 2: Make my make, I make my sub call me daddy Mila,

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00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 2: so you can call me daddy Mila? Do it again?

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00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:24,279
Speaker 2: Do you like it?

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00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 4: Say it louder, more enthusiasm.

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00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:36,800
Speaker 2: Okay, Now you want to want to switch? Okay, that's.

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00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 1: I gotta figure out my name ship figured out quick.

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00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: He's coming over there. Beta, go to Erica.

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00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 3: And down there you go.

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00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm mistress e super super mistress.

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00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 2: Love Okay, bita, get ready?

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00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: Do you like that? Where else? Do you want to be?

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00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:14,160
Speaker 1: Spank though? Say it louder?

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00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 2: Can she pull your hair.

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00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 1: A little bit?

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00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 2: Pull that ponytail? Tell me you like the spank? What's

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00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 2: my name. Good job. Thank you so much, mister Smiley,

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00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 2: You've just.

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00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 1: Feel thanks for sharing yourself with us.

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00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:32,360
Speaker 3: Cool.

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00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 2: That was so kind. Wow, our friends are so kind.

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00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 2: Now I'm really ready for the sex party tonight. It's

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00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 2: not just my stripper shoes, my red lipstick, but tonight

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00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 2: is the night Daddy Mila comes in full force.

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Speaker 1: Baby fuck, I need to go get some shoes right now.

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00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 3: I'm glad you guys are going to a black one.

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00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:49,439
Speaker 3: That's good.

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Speaker 1: I know. Can you come where is it? I'm gonna

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00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 1: tell you after, yes, after, because.

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00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 3: I'll be in Brooklyn all night.

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00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,239
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let's do this.

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00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:57,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 2: I'm feeling Yeah, I'm feeling very much into my lifestyle

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00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 2: this trip in New York. So I'm empowered and I'm ready.

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00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 2: And now we have this interview with Mistress Marley. I'm

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00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 2: a fucking I'm a level two dumb I just graduated

1138
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 2: my I just graduated myself from level one to level two.

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00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: Okay, miss Marley, let her people know where they can

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00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 1: find you. I'm sure everybody wants to be everybody wants

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00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 1: to be now, especially especially Yeah.

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00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you can find me, I'll say on Twitter

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00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,879
Speaker 4: to start, because Instagram is a hater who knows how

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00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 4: long I will be there. So on Twitter, I'm eyes

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00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:37,320
Speaker 4: on Fire, so eyes and then X on fire. Or

1146
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 4: you could just type in Mistress Marley in a search

1147
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 4: bar and I'll come up. On Instagram, I'm the chocolate

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00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,440
Speaker 4: dom d O M M E with two underscores. I

1149
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 4: was originally just had one underscore where I had deleted.

1150
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 4: So I'm like, let me do another underscore and then

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00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:55,879
Speaker 4: patreon dot com slash sex Academy. That's s e x

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00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:00,879
Speaker 4: C A D E M Y and that's about it.

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00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 4: Those bass I.

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Speaker 2: Have one more thing. Yeah, So it would not be

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00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:05,680
Speaker 2: right if we didn't ask you this. I don't know

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00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 2: if you're prepared to tell a story, but we have

1157
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 2: a segment on our show called Horis where our people

1158
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 2: tell a horror story. It's like a high level horshness.

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00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,920
Speaker 2: It was out of the ordinary. It was crazy, like

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00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 2: whatever you can come up with if you had like

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00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 2: a particular session or particular experience. That was like, I've

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00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 2: done a lot of shit, but this shit is crazy.

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00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 3: Oh God, just put me on spot. I'm sorry, let

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00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,800
Speaker 3: me see. Does it have to be a session?

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00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 1: No?

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00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 3: Okay, So.

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00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 4: I want to say the craziest thing I've done was

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00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 4: at a sex party.

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00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:46,720
Speaker 3: It was my sex party.

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00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:50,080
Speaker 4: It was my second one, so I was still an

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00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 4: amateur and throwing them, and I just remember getting really

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00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 4: drunk at my party. It was like so drunk to

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00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:57,439
Speaker 4: the point where people walking in. I was just pouring

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00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 4: champagne in people's mouth, like take the shapad. And I

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00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 4: invited someone that had only had sex with like twice,

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00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,760
Speaker 4: and it was his first party, and he's like younger

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00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 4: than me, like two years younger than me, And I

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00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 4: just remember us being in a room and just fucking

1179
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 4: and so many people watching us, and I was just

1180
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 4: doing so much crazy shit, like.

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00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 3: He's fucking fucking me.

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00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,799
Speaker 4: And then there's like this other guy and his dick

1183
00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:23,720
Speaker 4: is out, and I'm like why not, like what, We're

1184
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 4: at a sex party, and then the fucking bed breaks

1185
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 4: in front of everybody, and we still keep going. I'm

1186
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 4: just like, what the fuck is so like my knees

1187
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 4: are fucked up, Like it's so much fucked up shit

1188
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 4: going on, and this whole time people are watching, and

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00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 4: it's so crazy to be like getting fucked and look

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00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 4: up and you just see someone casually eating chips or

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00:51:40,200 --> 00:51:43,800
Speaker 4: like I always I always have food at my parties,

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00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 4: like little finger foods, so to just like be getting

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00:51:46,280 --> 00:51:47,879
Speaker 4: fucked and you just see someone eating chips and dipp

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00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 4: and but like it's like a black woman.

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00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 3: She's like encouraging you, like get us this, get that shit.

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00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,280
Speaker 3: But I'm like, oh my god, this is crazy.

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00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 4: So like that was crazy to me because I'm very

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00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:00,759
Speaker 4: like I love being watched, but in the circumstances it

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00:52:00,800 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 4: was just crazy. I'm drunk, the new partner, the bed break,

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00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,359
Speaker 4: the girl eating the chips, but they at the same

1201
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 4: time being couraged. So it was just like it was

1202
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:09,240
Speaker 4: so much.

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00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 3: Going on at once.

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00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 4: That's not fun. Yeah that was crazy. Yeah, yeah that

1205
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 4: was fun.

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00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well, thank you for sharing and thank

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00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: you for coming on our show. I'm so happy we

1208
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: were able to make this happen. You know, you guys

1209
00:52:21,680 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: know where to find us. We're Good Mom's Underscore Bad

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00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: Choices on Instagram, Good Mom's Bad Choices Wherever you listen

1211
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 1: to your podcast, make sure to check out our Patreon.

1212
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 1: We don't have any domin classes yet, but who knows.

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00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: I mean, this might be and I might learn some

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00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: shit and start off with a second career.

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00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,760
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna be texting Maley like, look at this outfit.

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00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 2: What do you think? What do you think about these words?

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00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 2: Do you think this is a good line?

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00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 3: You should do it.

1219
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 2: You should make a Dominatrix clothing line.

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00:52:46,600 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 3: That's what I was thinking about doing. You should do

1221
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 3: that good idea.

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00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,400
Speaker 1: You should make sure to go rate and review us

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Speaker 1: on Apple Podcasts. You guys, please, there's thousands and thousands

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00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: of you listening and we only have about a thousand

1225
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,319
Speaker 1: likes and ratings. That's ship. So I'm gonna dom the

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00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:04,279
Speaker 1: fuck out of you, and you better fucking go rate

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00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,680
Speaker 1: and review us. Okay, this is Daddy Mila, and I

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00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:12,719
Speaker 1: said do it now, this is Mistress Ela. I'm gonna

1229
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: get my ship together. That name might change shortly, but

1230
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 1: that's what it is for now.

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00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 2: Thank you guys. Bye bye Ella solo recorder Lalas the

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00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 2: Let's just says runs La