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Speaker 1: This is the almost Famous podcast with I R Radio

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Speaker 1: Bob getting here with Trista Sutter. Welcome to almost Famous

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Speaker 1: the O G S And we are back in your

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Speaker 1: living room, your car, or your earhole, wherever you may be,

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Speaker 1: taking of wherever we may be. Trista, it's a different

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Speaker 1: setting for you. It looks like you're in some plush,

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Speaker 1: luxurious hotel, fantasy suite of sorts. Look at you. Oh, yes,

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Speaker 1: the fantasy suite. I can't tell you the details just yet,

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Speaker 1: but I'm in l A for just a couple of days,

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Speaker 1: real quick trip away from the fam, away from the

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Speaker 1: home and uh and I'll fill in later. All right,

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Speaker 1: are you there doing anything with anyone we may know?

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Speaker 1: That's all I would like to ask. Is there anyone

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Speaker 1: we may know? So, Ashley I invited me to come

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Speaker 1: to l A for an event that she's hosting. So

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Speaker 1: very really excited to be able to see her and

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Speaker 1: a few other people that everyone may know. A networking

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Speaker 1: friendships that come as a result of handing out flowers.

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Speaker 1: That's right, hey, um, And speaking of friendships made as

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Speaker 1: a result of handing out flowers, guess who I got

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Speaker 1: to see last night? I was like, who can have

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Speaker 1: dinner with me? Who can have dinner with me? And um,

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Speaker 1: Lisa Levinson I got to sit next to last night

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Speaker 1: and have drinks with Yeah, oh my gosh, one of

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Speaker 1: our executive producers from back in the day. She's an

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Speaker 1: She is an o g she was they're from the

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Speaker 1: beginning like creating the show and had her hand and everything.

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Speaker 1: I honestly owe her and Flice and all the EPs

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Speaker 1: so much. I feel like they really we're looking out

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Speaker 1: for me, her especially so you know, I always say

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Speaker 1: that the producers, um, they want a happy ending because

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Speaker 1: because validates the show, because you know, people want to

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Speaker 1: see a happy ending. I think a lot of people

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Speaker 1: assume that they just want the drama. But I know,

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Speaker 1: at least when it was my season, they wanted a

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Speaker 1: happy ending. They wanted to do everything possible for me

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Speaker 1: to find my happy ending. So I think they needed

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Speaker 1: it anyway. You know, I think that the franchise, the

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Speaker 1: franchise needed it, and so it was one of those

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Speaker 1: things that would validate the show. And I mean, you know,

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Speaker 1: you probably gave him an extra ten seasons just from

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Speaker 1: rejecting rejecting my affections and turning your head, turning your

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Speaker 1: head to Ryan Sutter because the fact that I rejected

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Speaker 1: your affections made you the Bachelor, So that just continued

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Speaker 1: the franchise even longer. Excellent point, just excellent. So if

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Speaker 1: you're just tuning into our show, you will know that

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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago we started this little fun

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Speaker 1: project where we're kind of filling in for for Ben

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Speaker 1: and Ashley, and we went through trista season with a

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Speaker 1: fine tune with comb and then last week we went

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Speaker 1: through mine. Just the first episode though, shying you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: just first and and I have to say that, Sorry

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Speaker 1: I'm interrupting you, but I do have to say that

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Speaker 1: the episode about my season, it says my ment my women,

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Speaker 1: my mentell all. But we definitely didn't go there. So

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Speaker 1: if you're listening to if you go back and listen

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Speaker 1: to that episode, it wasn't my mental all was my

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Speaker 1: first episode. And maybe we'll get to the menteal ally

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Speaker 1: episodes because that could be fun. Anyway, go ahead, Sorry, yes, no,

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Speaker 1: no problem. And then it was a hot seat. I

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Speaker 1: felt like I was in the hot seat last week,

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Speaker 1: especially considering the fact that we had my runner up

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Speaker 1: on the show, Kelly Joe, who joined us. If you

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Speaker 1: if you you know, we're only able to listen and

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Speaker 1: you didn't get to see the clips we posted. She

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Speaker 1: was in the in the stylist chair getting her hair

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Speaker 1: did with the foils in there. And then Julie Smith

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Speaker 1: had a great friendship. That's that's growing out of the

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Speaker 1: Kentucky Derby that started with The Bachelor of course, but um,

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Speaker 1: you know, we had kicked her out a couple of ideas,

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Speaker 1: and one of the things we threw out there last

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Speaker 1: week was to put out some questions to our listeners,

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Speaker 1: the people that have been listening in for us. And

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Speaker 1: I've been getting a ton of awesome feedback on the show,

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Speaker 1: by the way, so that's been really nice. And there

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Speaker 1: were some great questions that came along, a couple that

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Speaker 1: I think we probably would already know the answer to

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Speaker 1: right like, for example, um, you know, I think did

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Speaker 1: making fun of you the first week saying that you know, Trista,

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Speaker 1: as you can see, she's already got a stylist in

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Speaker 1: a style list, but she wasn't Carrie Fetman. Like you

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Speaker 1: which outfits. But it was not Karrie Fetman who was

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Speaker 1: it was Cary Carry definitely brought a different Carrie Fetman

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Speaker 1: came on, I believe right after your season. I'm not

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Speaker 1: sure if he was with Andrew or Aaron, but I

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Speaker 1: know he was on my season. Stylist came in all

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Speaker 1: And I remember he he got me a tuxedo to

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Speaker 1: I had a tuxedo to wear, which I thought was

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Speaker 1: a glove. Now it's like trying to, you know, where

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Speaker 1: the beginning of when, um, social media kind of started,

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Speaker 1: basically there was chat rooms that were pretty prevalent during

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Speaker 1: the time of me being on The Bachelor, and man,

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Speaker 1: it was brutal, Like I literally had no idea how

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Speaker 1: know it was never nice stuff, very nice stuff. I'm like, no,

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Speaker 1: Do you think that things would have been a whole

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Speaker 1: lot different with I'm sure with you know, social media

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Speaker 1: I definitely think things would have affected me in a

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Speaker 1: though you know, going through this process you have to

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Speaker 1: But I think it's really really difficult being in that position.

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Speaker 1: And yet I it would have been really hard for me. Well,

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Speaker 1: I would hear like one, I would hear like five

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Speaker 1: media was around when you were the lead. I don't

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Speaker 1: think that um, Ryan and I had a very strong

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Speaker 1: was for me specifically, says Bob, is your wife ever

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Speaker 1: Allegedly now her mom her mom, her mom was a

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Speaker 1: big fan of of of your season and my season,

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Speaker 1: you know, well, you know, I may have watched Tris

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Speaker 1: this season, but no offense, you're too old for me.

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Speaker 1: I would have you know, like too old for you.

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Speaker 1: We're married. She's like, well then then you then you

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Speaker 1: know so. But she found out the other day. I

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Speaker 1: told her that I watched the first episode the other

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Speaker 1: And she's like, read a minute, because you know, it's

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Speaker 1: been difficult to find um. And she's like, hold on, wait,

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Speaker 1: only episode she's ever gotten to see was on TiVo.

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Speaker 1: My brother in law TiVo the whole season thinking that

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Speaker 1: I'm like making out with somebody. She was just like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I've seen enough. I told her. I'm like, okay, we're

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Speaker 1: Like for me especially, I'm always a jokester and making

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00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: you know, wise cracks and stuff of that nature, mostly

429
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: against myself, but you know, I was very mindful of that.

430
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: You know, during the season of The Bachelor, I didn't

431
00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 1: want to say something like I remember this girl, Um,

432
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 1: Jenny Hargrove who's on my season, who I've cut in

433
00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:00,320
Speaker 1: touch with over the years also via like social media

434
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:02,720
Speaker 1: and stuff. And she was awesome. You know, she's she's

435
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 1: married a couple of beautiful kids. Actually she's she's dating again.

436
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: She's she's divorced, but um she uh. She brought a

437
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 1: harmonica onto my season of the show, and she would

438
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 1: just she's from Texas. You know, she'd have a Kyle

439
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 1: girl had on and she'd just be like playing the

440
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: harmonica randomly. Uh. And I remember it was so different

441
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,600
Speaker 1: and funny that I loved it. So we'd be like

442
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 1: doing something ridiculous. I'm like, Jenny, give me, give me

443
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 1: a two, and she's like, wow, you know, just all

444
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: of a sudden started playing. And I remember, like I

445
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 1: told her, I'll never forget. I said to her, like

446
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 1: during the season, I was like, hey, just f y.

447
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 1: I I love it when you do that, and I

448
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: think you're really good at it. I hope you don't

449
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 1: think I'm making funny. I'm just I'm enjoying it and

450
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: it's so different and it's just lighthearted, and I really

451
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: think it's you know, it's making me comfortable to have

452
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 1: someone to play off of and have some fun with

453
00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 1: so I hope, and she was adorable, you know, she

454
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 1: was super nice about it, and you know, but I

455
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 1: remember thinking, oh my god, I I laid it in

456
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: better wake one night, going I need to let her

457
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,919
Speaker 1: know that I'm not making fun of her, like she

458
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: needs to know where it's coming from, because I was concerned,

459
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,560
Speaker 1: you know, I was really concerned about it. And um,

460
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: you know that's the stuff that people at home don't know, right,

461
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: so that could have been twisted a million ways. Thankfully,

462
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: the producers were very kind to me. Um, you know,

463
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 1: they definitely you know, uh didn't use me. I guess

464
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: myself in those circumstances, which was you know, and I

465
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 1: think they can. I think they can for sure. Um.

466
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: And that also goes into like I think there was

467
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 1: a question about, uh, did you give anyone advice? And

468
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: same for me. I feel like now even though you

469
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: and I, well, I mean, your relationship obviously didn't work out,

470
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: but for me, like we've been the longest relationship. And

471
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: I really think it's interesting that they have it's all

472
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: about who is the person of the times, Like go

473
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: on social media, see who's got the most following, and

474
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 1: they'll have that person give the people advice. UM, when

475
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, so I guess an almost twenty year

476
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 1: relationship doesn't doesn't doesn't weren't giving advice. So I used

477
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 1: to get asked, um for advice with the leads who

478
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 1: were coming up, you know who we're going to be taping.

479
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: But now it's like even if I get like all

480
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: usually DM everybody who goes on the show and say congratulations,

481
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: good luck. If you ever need to talk, I'm here,

482
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 1: and you know, some of them don't even respond. I'm like, yeah, awesome, thanks,

483
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: good luck. They're like, I'm already sorry. I have a

484
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: root Beer commercial to do on my Instagram exactly. Um No,

485
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: I think you know, I get it. I'm the old

486
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: Fogy Lisa. Last night, Um, Lisa and I were talking

487
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: about how we're dinosaurs, and we are I always use

488
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: that term. I feel like we're just in relative terms,

489
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: we are dinosaurs when it comes to with the franchise.

490
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: So it's all good. I I still am happy to

491
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: give advice, but I feel like the producers, you know, obviously,

492
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 1: just want the people who they feel like are going

493
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,679
Speaker 1: to get the most viewers to watch, and there is

494
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: the people with the biggest following. I mean, to be

495
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 1: quite honest, that's I feel like how it's going to

496
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: go down all the time from until the end of

497
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: the show. Yeah, I agree. Okay, here's another good one

498
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: that I thought was interesting. Um well, it's kind of

499
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: this question. What we got from one of our listeners

500
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: actually is one question, but I want to twist at

501
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: a touch. So their question was, you know, do you

502
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: ever look at the dates they go on now and

503
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: how glamorous and amazing they are and wish that you

504
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,520
Speaker 1: had that during your season, Which we can answer that too,

505
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:59,040
Speaker 1: but I also want to ask because I have something

506
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: specific I need to talk about, which is so funny. Um,

507
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: what was the you know, the biggest train wreck date

508
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: that you had? Um? So you know it's two parts, right,

509
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 1: So the first part is the glamour and the glitz

510
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 1: and the wonderment. Um, and the second part would be

511
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,560
Speaker 1: you know, did did anything goes sideways that no one

512
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,239
Speaker 1: ever got to see at home? That was bananas? So

513
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: you start alright, so glamour, I mean, please, I'm a

514
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 1: girly girl. I love my glamor. I would love to

515
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: have had more glamorous dates, but even more than that,

516
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: I would love to have traveled. Um And I've said

517
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: this since like since my show ended and they started,

518
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 1: you know, upping the budget and allowing, um or not

519
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: allowing planning for international travel. I mean that was one

520
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 1: of the reasons that I signed up for the show

521
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: Night NIGHTTI people and like we're going to the Netherlands.

522
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: It's like, let I went to Jackson Whole, Wyoming on

523
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: an exotic date right the same so and they had

524
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 1: two seasons. I think one was in Paris with trying

525
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:11,200
Speaker 1: to Stork I believe, and then wasn't one in Italy

526
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:19,680
Speaker 1: or yes? Yes, so you know I please. I love travel.

527
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: I am obsessed with travel. I would have loved that

528
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 1: type of lamour and are you kidding to be in

529
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: gowns like they are now? Like I'm a girly girl.

530
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 1: I would have loved all of that train wrecked date.

531
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: So I know that you probably could could have answered

532
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: this for me. But what people didn't see. I don't

533
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 1: believe they showed this to people the back story, um I.

534
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: And and you know when you when you're the lead,

535
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: they go through like what kind of dates you would

536
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: like to go on? I'm sure they still do it. Um.

537
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: What kind of dates you'd like to go on, what

538
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: your interests are, what you're scared of, because you know

539
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: they're going to get you to do something that you're

540
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: scared of, um, things like that. So they do kind

541
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: of like a questionnaire or the producers just have a

542
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: conversation with you and and then they planned dates supportingly.

543
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: So I don't know that this ever came up, but um,

544
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: my cousin was twenty one and he was he raised

545
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: go carts and he actually got in a very bad

546
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 1: accident and um and passed away because of this accident,

547
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:35,400
Speaker 1: and they planned a go karting date. And so I

548
00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: get there and I was like, wait, what we're go karting?

549
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,440
Speaker 1: Do people not listen to me? Like my cousin passed away.

550
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: I know I had talked about it, um, So I

551
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: don't know if they did it because they thought it

552
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,560
Speaker 1: would bring drama or thought it would like connect me

553
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 1: to the guys. But I was like, just just getting

554
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: to the go cart place, I was I think I

555
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: had to separate myself. I think I did like welcome,

556
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: we're here, and then I just broke down and was

557
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: in tears. I remember that I was on I was

558
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: actually on that date. I remember it well. I remember

559
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: we're all like geared up in these like race car uniforms,

560
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 1: and you were really upset, and I remember thinking, you know,

561
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: what is going on because obviously we didn't know. And

562
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: then when we did find out, we're like, where, why

563
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 1: are we even here? Let's just go do something else,

564
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: you know. I remember that. But then that rallied me,

565
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 1: like I was like, you know what, I don't want

566
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: this to affect the date. Let's just have fun with it,

567
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: and and it helped me kind of get past that trauma.

568
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I was like, really, did

569
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: you plan this on purpose? Or I have to choose

570
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: to believe that they didn't plan it on the face

571
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,800
Speaker 1: And they too, you know, I mean because they loved you,

572
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: so I can't imagine that they would want to put you,

573
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: you know, in a situation like that night. And I

574
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: do remember, I mean, well, I actually I don't remember.

575
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: I should say I don't remember if they ever showed

576
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: the drama portion of that on the season. I don't

577
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: think they did. Yeah, um, so I guess technically then

578
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: I was a part of two train wreck dates because

579
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: I was on that one and then uh one from

580
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: my own season, but I'll answered the first part. So yeah,

581
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: you know, I would have loved I got to go

582
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: to Belize on one of my exotic dates Jackson hold

583
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 1: Wyoming and then uh, Kelly, Joe and I went to

584
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: the top of a glacier in Alaska, so those were

585
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: pretty cool. Believes was with Estella. That was amazing, and

586
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: then Jackson hold Wyoming was with Mary and that was

587
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: really beautiful too, even though you know, they were all

588
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: kind of really domestic except the Belize thing. That was

589
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 1: really kind of fun. Um. But but yeah, I would

590
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: have loved to, you know, especially when we were on

591
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: trist this season. It would have been so great for

592
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: all fifteen of us to get to take off and

593
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: you know, head to you know, Thailand or something like

594
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 1: they do now. It's that have been amazing. But train

595
00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: Wreck dates, I'll never forget this because it started off, Um,

596
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: it was with Meredith who later became the Bachelorette. It

597
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: started off with me finding out that her grandma had

598
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: passed away, and um, and I was super close with

599
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 1: my grandparents and so I was just like Meridith passed

600
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 1: away during filming. During filming. Yeah, like they came the

601
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: priests come out to the car. I'm like getting ready

602
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: to come into the date and they're like, hey, Bob,

603
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 1: f y I Meredith's grandmother passed away. I'm like, oh

604
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: my god, so she's going home right, and they're like, no,

605
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: she she has decided to stay. And I'm like what.

606
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, guys, I'll be honest, if my grandmother passed away,

607
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: I would leave the show right now. And I'm like

608
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: she should do the same, you know. So I remember

609
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: she and I had a moment where we talked, and

610
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 1: I don't even know. I don't recall because, like I said,

611
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I was I was never able to really

612
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: watch the season where I was able to like sit

613
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 1: down and really absorb. But I can't remember if that

614
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: was covered too much in the episode. But on that date,

615
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 1: I remember saying to her, like, listen, you don't have

616
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: to go through with this, because she was the person

617
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: who was going to have the one on one date

618
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: for that episode. So I'm like, we don't have to

619
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: go through with this. We can just go sit in

620
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 1: a restaurant and talk if you want. You know, I'm

621
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: so sorry, you know, you're sure you don't want to

622
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: go home? Like I was really trying to encourage her, frankly,

623
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: to to go home and see her family. But um,

624
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 1: we ended up doing that when we did the hometown dates,

625
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: which was like two episodes later. Oh. But anyway, we

626
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: go on this date, and I mean, so I'm trying

627
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: to be sensitive to the circumstances, you know, and we

628
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: take this car, this limo, this stretch limo down to

629
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 1: Seal Beach in California there and yet we get to

630
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: Seal Beach and I'm like, oh, we're at the beach,

631
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: you know. And and I'm thinking of the beach state

632
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: that we were on and I'm like, oh, I bet

633
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: you they're gonna have something buried in the sand, you know.

634
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: So I'm like already kind of thinking about it. They

635
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 1: haven't really prepped me yet, because I think this kind

636
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: of was I don't know exactly where this episode was going,

637
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: but it was kind of at this point almost felt

638
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: like we were spitballing things. So we go out to

639
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: the beach and they have a couple of horses waiting

640
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 1: for us. So we're supposed to kick our shoes off,

641
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: frolic around the beach with our jeans and and and such,

642
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: and it's hot, it's yeah, I'm frolic go. Why don't

643
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: you guys go frolic and covert and then mount this

644
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 1: steed and ride down the beach. I'm like, okay, So

645
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: I've got on jeans and uh, you know, like a

646
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: like a long sleeve shirt with the sleeves rolled up,

647
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: and I can't remember what she's got on something similar,

648
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: and you know, we're in Clearly they knew we were

649
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: gonna be horseback riding. So we both get on the

650
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 1: horses and we're like, you know, get up and down

651
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: the beach. And I'm not I'm not a particularly good

652
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: horse rider. I haven't got a ton of experience cowboying

653
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: since watching yellow Stone. I think now i'd be badass

654
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,160
Speaker 1: on the horse. But then so anyway, I'm riding down

655
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: the beach and and I'm trying to make conversation, you know,

656
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 1: because obviously quiet is not good television. They would always

657
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: tell us, right, So I'm like, I'm like talk and

658
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: she's on the horse, and she's like, I'm like, I go,

659
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: I go, hey, is everything okay? Because she's like, you know,

660
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: I mean, she you could tell she's having an allergy

661
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 1: reaction and she's like, I don't know, maybe I'm allergic

662
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 1: to horses, you know. And let me just let me

663
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: just preface this. I'm not sure that this is how

664
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 1: this story goes, but this is how I remember it.

665
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: It's twenty years so cut me some slack up. I'm wrong.

666
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,239
Speaker 1: But anyway, I'm like, so, I'm like galloping and she's

667
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 1: like and I go, oh my gosh, you know what

668
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 1: I said, Hey, you are right, And she's like, I'm

669
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: allergic to horses. And I'm like, oh, I'm so sorry.

670
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: Oh heck, you know, shucks, she knew before. No, She's like,

671
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: I think I might be. The way I remember is

672
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: I think I might pay. But obviously this wasn't on

673
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: the on the questionnaire that they had given her, you know,

674
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: pre ship. So we ride over to this, yeah, we

675
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: keep we stay on the horses. We ride down to

676
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 1: where this, and they wanted us to go on the

677
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 1: water and such, you know, like the horses do. So

678
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 1: we get down to like this glamorous sand castle that

679
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 1: I had prepped ahead of time that I constructed out

680
00:35:38,480 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: of yes, because I just had some spare time on

681
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,719
Speaker 1: seashells and sand and other things. And uh so we

682
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: go up and we're hanging out at the sand the

683
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: sand shack that I had prepared for us, and there's

684
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:52,959
Speaker 1: a smoldering you know, the big leaves over the hole.

685
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,480
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, I I prepared us a snack

686
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: and I pull out a basket of shellfish as we

687
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 1: would do. Oh she's allergic shellfish. I literally, I mean,

688
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 1: I literally go seriously, Like any anybody asked this poor lady.

689
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's having basically anaphylectic shock on our date.

690
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: Her grandmother just pas, for God's sake, people, Oh no,

691
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: start cars, everybody. That is horrible. That's how I remember it. Anyway,

692
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: maybe that's not exactly, but I will tell you that

693
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 1: as memory sirs, I remember thinking to myself like, oh

694
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 1: my god, this has got to be Like I feel

695
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: so bad right now that you know I granted, I

696
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: mean granted, you know, you do it, you mind off

697
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: of things. But I'm like, so, yeah, I took her

698
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: mind off of things because she was too itchy and

699
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: she's been scratching, been a drill, you know, just like

700
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,839
Speaker 1: my allergic reaction. When we were in Uh I told

701
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:56,719
Speaker 1: you that, I know. But when we were in Alaska

702
00:36:56,719 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: and I you know, had some vodka and Alaska King

703
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: crab legs and I wake up to getting like Benador

704
00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: elotion rubbed all over me because I had an allergic

705
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: reaction similar you know, similar things. So I'm sure something

706
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: that nowadays, but back then, yeah, pretty crazy. I want

707
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 1: to go back and watch that episode and see what

708
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: they actually aired, you know, see. And I want to

709
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: go back to the Gookard episode and see what they

710
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: actually aired, what people saw compared to what actually happened.

711
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: Oh my god, behind the scenes, it's just priceless. I mean,

712
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: it's that is that is Oh no, I feel so

713
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: bad for her, But that's funny. That's funny. Thanks for Sharon.

714
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:40,399
Speaker 1: I have to say thank you to everybody who's sent

715
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 1: in questions. I think continue to do that because who

716
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: knows if one of your questions is something that will

717
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:51,799
Speaker 1: guide us into an entire episode, you know, down the road.

718
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: I really would still like to bring Oh I heard

719
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 1: from I have to I know we're gonna we're wrapping up,

720
00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 1: but um, I was posting on my stories, you know,

721
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: about the previous episodes on my way to l A.

722
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, now I have some time to

723
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: sit down and actually post on my stories about the

724
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 1: about the episodes and share with people, and Ashley Eden's

725
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: wrote me back. She wrote the A d M and

726
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 1: she was like I was there. I'm like, yes, you were,

727
00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 1: And actually you were in one of the episodes, either

728
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:26,800
Speaker 1: my first episode or your first episode. I couldn't remember which,

729
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: but I remember seeing her in one of them, and

730
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 1: I was like, would you want to come on and

731
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: chat with us? Because I just I love what she's

732
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: been able to do. She became the ep or exect

733
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: producer for Dancing with the Stars and I believe she

734
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: works with Derek and Julian Huff. But um, but I

735
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: love you know, I would love to talk to some

736
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:50,480
Speaker 1: producers and see how they started and where they ended up,

737
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 1: like where where their journeys took them. Um, in kind

738
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: of TV land. If you will into l A, you know,

739
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: tell her, tell her we'll we'll bring on uh, We'll

740
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 1: bring on the O G Trifecta, grab her Carbone Carbone

741
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: and Sally Anne and have a I literally asked her

742
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: if she still talks to Sally Anne, and she said, um,

743
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: I mean that's another great story too. We'll save it

744
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 1: because we need to we need to talk to the producers,

745
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: so that's right, Well do something like that. We need content,

746
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: so send us, send us content ideas because we'd love

747
00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:25,760
Speaker 1: to hear from you well as always great talking with you, Trista,

748
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,320
Speaker 1: and hopefully everybody enjoyed listening to our fun little banter.

749
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 1: It's so easy to come on the show and just

750
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 1: talk to you. I love it, so fun, so easy,

751
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: so fun. I'm very grateful. Thank you to everybody involved.

752
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 1: Thank you Ashley and Ben. And we'll see you next week,

753
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 1: or maybe you won't see us, well, we'll chat at

754
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 1: you next year next time. Have a great week, everybody,