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Speaker 1: All right, you're here.

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Speaker 2: You're doing it. It's back to back Classics today. It

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Speaker 2: is your little Saturday treat. Just just a lot of

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Speaker 2: second dates. Here we go, Here we go. Thank you

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Speaker 2: for finding the podcast. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,

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Speaker 2: and you did find the official one, so we appreciate.

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Speaker 2: Can confirm? Oh yeah, can confirm?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 2: What do we got in comments? Alexis Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Hannah Vernon said, I had a dream about you guys

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Speaker 4: last night. Must be a sign I'm listening to you

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Speaker 4: too much at night and in the mornings before work.

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Speaker 4: My house was an Airbnb and you guys were my guests. Surprisingly,

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Speaker 4: it didn't turn out horribly.

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Speaker 5: I probably locked in my room the whole time playing

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Speaker 5: video games.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you'd be good. I'd probably like

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Speaker 2: take out your garbage and I'm.

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Speaker 6: Starting the party, so you can take what I don't

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Speaker 6: even know outside bird watching.

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Speaker 2: Shows the email exactly, So you guys were hearing out, Yes,

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Speaker 2: why didn't you text me? We did.

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Speaker 6: We can probably trick him into paying for it and

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Speaker 6: never notice the charge.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a yeah. All right, here is your back

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Speaker 2: to back Classics starting right now.

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Speaker 7: This isn't my opinion. But I've read that certain professions

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Speaker 7: are just considered red flags in the dating rold. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I can see that as musicians. Politicians volunteer male tooth

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Speaker 7: fairies who hang out by the orthodontis office.

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Speaker 2: Wait, that should also be your opinion too, jeff that's

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Speaker 2: a pretty big red flag.

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Speaker 7: Yeah there.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, you're the I.

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Speaker 7: Heard somebody just got their moller pulled. Give you five

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Speaker 7: bucks for it. You know you shouldn't date that guy,

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Speaker 7: but for some reason, you just can't resist.

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Speaker 2: I'm still on drugs. From the wizard speak.

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Speaker 7: One of our listeners couldn't stop herself when she met

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Speaker 7: a guy while he was working at his red flag job,

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Speaker 7: and she decided against her best interest to just go

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Speaker 7: for it anyway. Now Here she is on our morning

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Speaker 7: show looking to paint that red flag green. Is coming

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Speaker 7: up in your second date update next, Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: In the morning Second Date Updates.

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Speaker 7: You know, back in the swinging nineties, they had a saying,

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Speaker 7: you can drink with your bartender, you can cry with

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Speaker 7: your bartender, Sure you can even laugh with your bartender,

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Speaker 7: but never ever hook up with your bartender. What unless

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Speaker 7: you don't have any money at the end of the night,

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Speaker 7: and that's considered the tip.

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Speaker 2: God, if only I'd have been drinking ages in the nineties, I.

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Speaker 7: Already know this well. One of our listeners desperately wants

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Speaker 7: to break that old nineties rule because she is interested

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Speaker 7: in the hunk who was pouring out the libations. How

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Speaker 7: did she get to that point? We're about to find out.

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Speaker 7: Let's talk to Tiffany. Tiffany, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 8: Hi, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: Oh goodness. Bartenders just kind of notory on the dating scene,

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Speaker 2: and that.

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Speaker 6: Makes you want them more.

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Speaker 2: I know, Gun and you've had a couple, so they

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Speaker 2: look even cuter.

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Speaker 7: All the girls seem to know what you're talking about, Tiffany,

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Speaker 7: But fill the rest of us in what happened with

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Speaker 7: you and this guy that you met? What's his name?

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Speaker 8: Kevin?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 7: Kevin Okay?

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Speaker 2: And is he like the bartender at a place you

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Speaker 2: go to or did you guys meet on an app?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 8: So I was actually at this charity event. It was

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Speaker 8: at a hotel, like in ballroom.

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Speaker 7: Okay, look at you. Fancy going to hotels and giving

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Speaker 7: back to society. Wow, you can.

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Speaker 2: Get a ticket. I host a lot of these events

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Speaker 2: You're more than welcome becoming paja.

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Speaker 7: I know, they just don't sound as fun when brook hosts. Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 7: I bet, I bet you went to a really cool one, Tiffany.

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Speaker 8: It was really cool, and I think Brooks would.

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Speaker 2: Be cool too, thank you.

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Speaker 5: But this one because.

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Speaker 2: Was he the bartender?

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Speaker 8: He was I was a catered event. They had him

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Speaker 7: Oh cool, that's cool.

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Speaker 2: But I always feel so bad for the bartenders during

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Speaker 7: At the events that you host. But I'm sure this

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Speaker 5: Usually they have like one bright the whole place.

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Speaker 2: I mean, how did you find time to like strike

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Speaker 8: I made time. I kept going back, pay attention.

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Speaker 6: To the charity event.

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Speaker 5: So you'd like get your drink and just go right

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Speaker 8: I would give it a solid three minutes and okay,

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Speaker 2: Little bit, like I love a raging alcoholics.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, if you're doing it every three minutes, you must

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Speaker 7: have gotten kind of.

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Speaker 8: Toasted, one would think. But no, I didn't want to

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Speaker 8: be sloppy, so I would just take the drink and

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Speaker 8: like pour it into a planter, or just set it

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Speaker 8: on someone's table, two.

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Speaker 5: SIPs of it and then discard it.

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Speaker 2: Always I think it's genius.

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Speaker 5: Good want to get sloppy drunk?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're like, I got to get another drink

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Speaker 2: for my friends.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we're able to strike up like a flirtation with

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Speaker 7: him when you were ordering.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and it got better every time. That's I kept going.

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Speaker 2: Back, Oh, so were you able to turn this into

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Speaker 8: Well, he actually is the one that took the initiative

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Speaker 8: in my who knows how many times, ninth time whatever.

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Speaker 9: That I went up.

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Speaker 7: Oh, oh my god.

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Speaker 8: He asked if I was doing anything after the event. Oh,

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Speaker 8: I'm totally free, but I actually I like literally had

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Speaker 8: friends waiting for me. I had plans afterwards, but I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it does. It makes sense he favored for me,

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Speaker 7: Wow, So he initiated a date that same night?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Did you did you read it as a date or

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Speaker 2: just like a hookup? You know what I mean? Like,

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Speaker 2: I always feel like if it's like the same night

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Speaker 7: Never said anything about them being intimate with each other,

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Speaker 7: I don't know why you jumped.

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Speaker 2: Straight to them the invite is like, it's late at night,

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Speaker 9: Now.

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Speaker 5: I know you've been drinking.

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Speaker 7: I've been exactly, And what that means that they have

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Speaker 7: to get together down that's what he's comed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the odds are h and that's what his intention is.

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Speaker 8: Well, No, we didn't hook up or anything like that. Okay,

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Speaker 8: I didn't get that vibe either. I just got that

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Speaker 7: Okay, it's all good that he's not trying to take advantage.

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Speaker 5: Of year or something.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, like, yeah, so that's good.

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Speaker 5: You guys just hung out.

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Speaker 7: Where'd you guys go?

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Speaker 8: Oh gosh, you went to a bar?

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Speaker 5: Well, he hasn't had any drinks yet.

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Speaker 2: Problems Yeah, yeah, unless he's a bad bartender.

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Speaker 7: Okay, how is that?

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Speaker 8: I think one thing that was sweet was like, I

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Speaker 8: I'm a big switch player, and so he just seemed

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Speaker 8: But I think he plays a lot with his guy friends,

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Speaker 2: And it seems like like an easy transition into the

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Speaker 2: next date, like the next day, wouldn't you just then

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's a good idea because you could put the

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Speaker 7: switch on the TV or have an handheld before we

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Speaker 7: get to the next date. How did this one end?

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Speaker 8: We had a nice hug and no, like I said, like,

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Speaker 8: just kind of at this point waiting on him make

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Speaker 2: But he made the first move. Maybe he's waiting on you.

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Speaker 8: I guess I didn't really think about it that way.

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Speaker 5: I don't know does this count as your move? Like

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Speaker 5: we could, this could be your move. But hey, I

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Speaker 5: got a radio station to call you big boy.

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Speaker 7: Those exact words that came out weird. I'm sorry, use

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Speaker 7: it talking to guys, but this will be our chance

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Speaker 7: to reach out. Like how long has it been since

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Speaker 8: It's been like four or five days?

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Speaker 7: Okay? And has there been like texts or calls exchange

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Speaker 8: Nothing, crazy, I have other guys that I can spend

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Speaker 2: You know, Okay. I don't know that we needed to

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Speaker 8: That I'm saying that because I know, like four or

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Speaker 8: five days doesn't sound like a long time, but I'm

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Speaker 7: So okay, answer, And I just want to make sure

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Speaker 7: that we get this straight. So you haven't reached out

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Speaker 1: Huh.

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Speaker 2: It's a bold move. Yeah, it's a bold move, Jeb

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Speaker 2: and I like it.

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Speaker 7: Puts all the pressure on us, which I don't necessarily like,

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Speaker 7: but we can't do it. That's what we signed up for.

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Speaker 2: We're going to be a bartender. He's used to weird things.

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Speaker 7: Ye, we'll see how how cool with it he is

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Speaker 7: when we come back call him and try and get

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Speaker 7: you a second date with Kevin the bartender coming up

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Speaker 7: right after this, Brook and.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 7: If you just tuning in. I'm not sure the word

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Speaker 7: bar could have been mentioned more during the meet up

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Speaker 7: with one of our listeners, Tiffany, that she had with

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Speaker 7: a guy because she was at a catered event with

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Speaker 7: an open bar, met the bar tender, Kevin.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely.

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Speaker 7: They had some sidebar conversation. Later left that bar and

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Speaker 2: The bar was set high, Jeffrey, really.

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Speaker 7: Very high and barring anything bad that happened that night.

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Speaker 7: She wants to get back together with him. And while

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Speaker 7: I was thinking about all that, I had a Hershey

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Speaker 9: Hello.

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Speaker 7: Hey, is this Kevin? Yeah, and my name is jeff

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Speaker 2: Hey, we do a podcast too, so maybe you've heard

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Speaker 9: Uh no, I can't say I have.

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Speaker 7: Thanks for crushing our dreams.

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Speaker 9: Okay, what are you doing on my phone? Well, we

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Speaker 7: There's a whole show here. Really, four of us are

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Speaker 9: Oh okay, and I'm involved in this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody likes you.

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Speaker 9: Oh okay, shocking dude, the people that like you, because

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Speaker 2: He made he made me more. He meets a lot

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Speaker 7: Sorry, when you met her at a charity event.

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Speaker 9: No, I know exactly who you're talking about.

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Speaker 9: I yeah, I do.

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Speaker 9: I don't think it's for me.

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Speaker 9: That came out really wrong. Yeah, that came up. She

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Speaker 9: Yeah. We had a really great time, and I kind

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Speaker 7: And I why don't understand because you, according to her

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Speaker 9: No, that's because I Okay. So we had a good

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Speaker 9: social media and I looked her up. Okay, and she's

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Speaker 2: Are you sure you have the right Tiffany.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it's photos. Yeah, yes, they're very recent, some guy

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Speaker 2: But it just doesn't make sense, like why, Like, if

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean, You're gonna get discovered.

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Speaker 9: I have no idea what's going on with her. You'll

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Speaker 2: Okay, well that is kind of crazy your request.

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Speaker 7: Let's just ask her right now because she is on

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Speaker 9: Oh, don't tell her boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, excuse me.

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Speaker 8: In this so called relationship post that you saw, did

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Speaker 9: What I really don't even know. I can't remember. All

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Speaker 9: They were like, oh, congratulations, and.

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Speaker 2: Well you're in a new relationship.

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Speaker 9: This is a week ago.

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Speaker 2: I know, but if people are saying congratulations, that means

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Speaker 6: Also, who calls congrats about a relationships?

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Speaker 5: Everybody does? What do you mean? I'm in a relationship?

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Speaker 7: Just no one to like the relationships?

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Speaker 2: Alexis is just coming on her friends with one of

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Speaker 7: Sorry, look what's going on with this post with you

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Speaker 7: and Dirk? Is that a thing?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 8: You guys got something to conclusions? That's okay, it's not

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't understand what what is she doing?

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Speaker 8: You don't have thought launching?

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Speaker 2: Soft launching That still means you're in a relationship. It

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Speaker 7: Well, she announced it on social media.

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Speaker 8: His face is not in the photos. There's no starty

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Speaker 9: It's not a official Is she your boyfriend or like

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Speaker 9: a DJ going on tour? I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: She's actually seen a restaurant that hasn't opened officially yet.

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Speaker 9: I don't Oh, I don't understand this, Okay.

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Speaker 7: I think a lot of people are confused. Tiffany, can

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Speaker 8: Okay, Hi, it's a good start, yea. Hi, what you

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Speaker 8: saw is not an official relationship. I would not be

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Speaker 8: I would prefer to maybe in like two three weeks

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Speaker 2: Well. If you never show their face, you can replace

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Speaker 7: I guess.

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Speaker 9: I don't have no idea what she's talking about. It's

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Speaker 9: how were you in a relationship and not in one?

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 7: It's like when a movie does like a pre screening

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Speaker 2: What happens with too many people take marketing classes at college.

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Speaker 7: You are on the product coming up next week, Timmy,

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Speaker 7: I have a question. Does Dirk know he's been soft

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Speaker 2: Do Dirk know that you're talking to other dudes?

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Speaker 8: That's not a Dirk business.

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Speaker 5: Wait, yes it is. He's in a relationship.

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Speaker 8: No, he is not in a relationship. He's in a

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Speaker 6: Okay, she's using it right, Well sense.

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Speaker 8: In her mind how dating works now. And Kevin, I'm

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Kevin, who knew that tip?

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Speaker 2: And he would be the red frog.

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Speaker 7: So but what you're saying is between Kevin and Dirk,

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I think so. I think it would kind of

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're gonna do a compare.

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Speaker 6: So many are on your institute. You are a follower,

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Speaker 7: Might get one more soft launch if Kevin, you'll agree

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Speaker 7: to go out with tiffany one more time, and we

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Speaker 2: I mean it's almost a competition. Kevin, can you get

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Speaker 9: That's what she was, you know, I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 2: Are you is that a joke? Are you being serious?

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Speaker 7: I think he's okay, Okay, well, I guess I'm sorry, Tiffany.

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Speaker 7: Kevin doesn't want to soft launch with you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you still have Dirk.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, dirt. Yeah.

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Speaker 8: You know I'm gonna unveil his elbow and his foot

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Speaker 2: Rerooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 7: That was so weird. Yeah, I think we at least

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Speaker 2: No, what a soft launch is still a relationship that

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Speaker 7: I think Tiffany's definition of a soft launch is different

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Speaker 7: She thought it was like, no big deal, everybody should

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Speaker 7: friends know. Dirk doesn't because quote, it's none of his

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Speaker 7: like way more steps between your first hangout and actually

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Speaker 2: I don't know that's it, or do you not?

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Speaker 6: I think twice before you like any posts, because now

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Speaker 5: It's like a vote.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's exhausting.

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Speaker 7: I'm exhausted.

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Speaker 2: So this is harder than like launching your own business.

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Speaker 2: You might as well be an entrepreneur. If you can

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Speaker 7: Out, You're gonna need all the help that you can

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Speaker 7: get with your relationships. So let us be those people

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Speaker 7: at Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 7: In dating, you gotta be upfront, and one of our

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Speaker 7: None of us could believe he acts will He agreed

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Speaker 7: You're gonna hear what happened in your second date update

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Speaker 7: right after this Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: In the Morning Second date updates.

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Speaker 7: Some people have caveats in order to date them where

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Speaker 7: this one little thing needs to happen first before I

453
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Speaker 7: can say yes. Oh what like for me personally, I

454
00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 7: can only go out with you if you let my

455
00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 7: mom dress you for the date. Because even though I

456
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:41,040
Speaker 7: don't want her to be a part of my love life,

457
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 7: she does insist I don't date people who dress too trampy. Oh,

458
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Speaker 7: I don't want to upset my mother with the people

459
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Speaker 7: that I date. That's just my one thing and then

460
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 7: we're good.

461
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Speaker 2: Yeah that made you That sentence was really.

462
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Speaker 7: One of our listeners has an important caveat that she

463
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 7: says is an instant deal breaker if the guy says no.

464
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Speaker 7: And I'm interested to hear what this is. So Samantha,

465
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Speaker 7: welcome to the show. We want to know what your

466
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Speaker 7: caveat is.

467
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Speaker 2: Who we're starting right at the top? I love it.

468
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Speaker 10: Yeah. My caveat is I drug test the guys before

469
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Speaker 10: I go out.

470
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Speaker 2: With that.

471
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Speaker 6: Drug test That sounds fun, offers, What are you looking for?

472
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Speaker 8: So I have a serious job.

473
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Speaker 10: I like, you know, I'm kind of a serious person,

474
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Speaker 10: and I don't want to mess waste my time on

475
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Speaker 10: somebody who's doing stupid.

476
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Speaker 7: Oh you want the test to come back negative. If

477
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Speaker 7: it's not positive.

478
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Speaker 5: We're not hanging out that our drug test work here

479
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Speaker 5: at the radio.

480
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Speaker 7: Gotcha?

481
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Speaker 9: Okay?

482
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Speaker 2: Interesting, and men actually agree to do this.

483
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Speaker 10: For you generally, it's fine.

484
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 8: Yeah, they don't tend to have an issue with it.

485
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Speaker 5: I mean, you don't do anything you'd be like, okay,

486
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Speaker 5: is it like I mean, yeah, that's what I tell you?

487
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 2: Drugs or fun drugs? What are you looking for?

488
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:09,440
Speaker 1: Definitely looking for just like no drugs, I guess.

489
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 10: Also, yeah, obviously they could like get some dude's tea

490
00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 10: or whatever. So no, we do it at at my

491
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Speaker 10: apartment when they come pick me up.

492
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Speaker 7: Okay, So clearly this must have happened with your date

493
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Speaker 7: that you're gonna be telling us about here.

494
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Speaker 9: That is correct.

495
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Speaker 2: Do we just have one more question? Are they giving

496
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Speaker 2: a heads up before they get to the apartment or

497
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Speaker 2: is it a surprise drug test?

498
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Speaker 10: Well, for example, like with the guy that we're talking

499
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Speaker 10: about right now, we were chatting on for a couple

500
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 10: of days or whatever, and I didn't mention like, hey,

501
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 10: i'd like to.

502
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Speaker 9: Go out with you.

503
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,399
Speaker 10: Yeah, but this is my one caveat right, And he just.

504
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Speaker 9: Kind of like l O L.

505
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Speaker 10: I thought it was a joke maybe, but he was like, okay,

506
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Speaker 10: I could see that being a joke.

507
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 5: Like, by the way, I'm gonna drug test you when

508
00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 5: you get here.

509
00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:53,960
Speaker 7: Okay. So what's this guy's name?

510
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Speaker 9: By the way, Dave? Dave?

511
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 7: Okay, so Dave laughed when you suggested it then at

512
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,560
Speaker 7: the door or what happened? What happened when you actually

513
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:01,959
Speaker 7: met him?

514
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 10: Yeah, well, I mean gave him a hug, invited him

515
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 10: in for a drink, and was just like, hey, remember

516
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 10: I have mentioned drug tests.

517
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 7: Can you give me a sample? So what was his reaction?

518
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 10: He was like stocked, Like didn't you think I was serious?

519
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 10: I was like, yes, yes, I am.

520
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 7: You mean most of your dates don't start this way days.

521
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:21,600
Speaker 7: That's weird.

522
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:22,920
Speaker 2: So what did he do? Did he do it?

523
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 10: I mean he lacks a little weird, but he did.

524
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Speaker 3: He he went and did it.

525
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 8: It's like one of those like from CBS or whatever.

526
00:23:29,240 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: You yeah, do you know immediately whether he's on drugs?

527
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,680
Speaker 10: Pretty much? Yeah, I mean it comes back like ten

528
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 10: fifteen minutes. You just have to wait for the stick

529
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 10: to like tell you the colors.

530
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 9: Of what in a key?

531
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Speaker 2: I guess, So it's only within Like if you've done

532
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:44,920
Speaker 2: drugs recently, you don't know about me.

533
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Speaker 5: Yeah, what happens if it comes up positive? Do you

534
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 5: immediately not do the dates? I didn't even think it round.

535
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: That's the whole point.

536
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 10: If it comes up positive, he's out the door.

537
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god, wow, So are you just sitting in

538
00:23:56,760 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 2: your living room waiting in silence? What is that? What

539
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,159
Speaker 2: is that time period?

540
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 8: Like, you know, getting to know each other.

541
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Speaker 10: I try and make a joke about it, like try

542
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 10: and have a normal time, and then I go back

543
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,560
Speaker 10: in the bathroom and seats and the.

544
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Speaker 5: Second that would be awkward. Combo, let's not get to

545
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 5: know each other too well in case you leave after this.

546
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,360
Speaker 5: But what are your interests?

547
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 7: So just the fact that you want us to reach

548
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 7: out to Dave must mean that it came back.

549
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

550
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 10: So then I mean we went to dinner. He seemed

551
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 10: a little I don't know, rigid or something. Maybe he's

552
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 10: a little weirded out.

553
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 7: But how did he seem rigid?

554
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 10: He was just making weird kind of jokes, so like

555
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 10: off handed comments, you know, at one point. I was like,

556
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,479
Speaker 10: what do you do for the weekend, what's your hobbies

557
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 10: or whatever?

558
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 9: And he's like, not drug stuff, And.

559
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 2: It's kind of funny but also kind of suspicious.

560
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 7: Or you could have been like, I do tons of

561
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 7: drugs and that would also be fun.

562
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Speaker 2: It sounds like he's having a hard time getting over

563
00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 2: that initial drug test, the shock.

564
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Speaker 10: Okay, yeah, And I mean he did also call me

565
00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:59,360
Speaker 10: the FBI of bumble.

566
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 2: Okay.

567
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 7: Well, but it's cute to establish nicknames early on in

568
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,120
Speaker 7: the relationship, so maybe we could look at that as

569
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 7: a good active game whatever.

570
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, was there any flirting?

571
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 8: There was flirting.

572
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 10: I feel like we had a good connection otherwise, like

573
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,520
Speaker 10: when we were talking about other things, but he did

574
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,479
Speaker 10: seem to kind of go back to that a little bit.

575
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Speaker 7: But here's the big question. Was there a kiss.

576
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Speaker 10: There was not a kiss. There was a hub and

577
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 10: he said he would call me and we'd go out again,

578
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 10: and then nothing.

579
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Speaker 2: It's a different type of test before the kiss happens.

580
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Speaker 10: Yeah, definitely a different type of test before the bed happened.

581
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Speaker 8: Yeah.

582
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 7: Well, at least you're thinking of that.

583
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 5: So it sounds like he couldn't recover from the test,

584
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:42,680
Speaker 5: but like why, Like he passed it.

585
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Speaker 8: That's the thing.

586
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Speaker 2: I think the more you sit with it, probably the

587
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 2: stranger it starts to feel, like maybe you take it

588
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 2: and then you're just like why did I what did

589
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 2: I just do?

590
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Speaker 6: Or if you're into that stuff, like you don't want

591
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Speaker 6: to date someone who's not.

592
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 7: Not to mention, it was a huge surprise to him.

593
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 7: He wasn't expecting to actually have to prove a sample

594
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 7: in front of her on the first time that they met.

595
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,840
Speaker 7: So what's happened since that date ended? How long has

596
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 7: it been.

597
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Speaker 10: It's been about a week, I guess. I waited a

598
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:11,959
Speaker 10: couple of days for him to contact me, and then

599
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:14,919
Speaker 10: I did reach out, like two days ago, just texted

600
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,719
Speaker 10: him like, hey, it was great meeting you. I'd love

601
00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 10: to see you again or whatever. And I haven't heard

602
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 10: of anything.

603
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 2: It's important that she gets ahold of them. There's not

604
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 2: many men that can pass that test.

605
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, right, so that's a deal. Yeah, So let's call

606
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 7: this guy in a couple of minutes. Here, we'll find

607
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 7: out what he has to say. I can't imagine. I mean,

608
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 7: you've already tested his pe, Like it's I don't know

609
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 7: what base that would be in romance terms, six base.

610
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 7: I think it's not in the ballpark, Okay, in the

611
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 7: alleyway behind the ballpark maybe, Okay, yeah, but we're gonna

612
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 7: get whatever his answer is when we call him, come back,

613
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 7: get your second date update right after this, hold on

614
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 7: Brook and.

615
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

616
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Speaker 7: I can already picture the wedding vows when Dave is

617
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 7: up on that altar and says, Samantha, from the moment

618
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 7: you pulled out that six Hounds plastic cup and asked

619
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Speaker 7: me to provide you a sample, I knew you were

620
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 7: the one. Tears everywhere.

621
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Speaker 2: Nothing says love like urine testing.

622
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Speaker 7: You know we're not exaggerating either. Samantha actually has a

623
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 7: rule that she cannot date anyone who uses drugs because

624
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 7: of her job. It's not allowed and to be damaging

625
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 7: to her image in her career to associate with people

626
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 7: like Brook and Jose for example. Yeah, so that's why.

627
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 5: I want to get a test.

628
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,479
Speaker 7: It is, but that's the thing. Her date, Dave did

629
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 7: provide a sample past the test and was clean, So

630
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 7: it should have been smooth sailing from there.

631
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 5: That's what I keep saying. I keep going, man, he

632
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 5: was nervous and tough, but you passed.

633
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 7: Yeah. I mean it's weird that he was acting so

634
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 7: strange on the date, right, Samantha.

635
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's the thing I forgot to ask.

636
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 2: Did you explain to him the job aspect of this?

637
00:27:58,640 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 8: Yeah?

638
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 10: I mean I told him much I could about my job.

639
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 10: I can't really go into a lot of details, but

640
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 10: you seem.

641
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 3: To get it.

642
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 5: He said, you have like an important job.

643
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:09,640
Speaker 9: I have a very important job.

644
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 7: Well, we have an important job right now. To get

645
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 7: Dave on the other line and get some answers out

646
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 7: of him.

647
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, drug test him again?

648
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,920
Speaker 2: No, no drug test required on this show. Yeah.

649
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:22,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, all right, So.

650
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 10: Here we go.

651
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 7: I'm in a dial Dave's number. Hopefully he picks up.

652
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 7: It's not too traumatized, but here we go.

653
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 9: Hello.

654
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 7: Hey is this Dave? Yeah?

655
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 9: Hey Dave?

656
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 7: How's it going?

657
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 2: Man?

658
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 7: You're on a radio show right now called Brook and

659
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 7: Jeffrey in the Morning.

660
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to the show, Dave.

661
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 9: The radio show.

662
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, answers, random, what's what's up?

663
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 7: This is kind of random, but we're calling on behalf

664
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Speaker 7: of one of our lists and hers that you went

665
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 7: on a date with recently, a girl named Samantha.

666
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I remember Samantha.

667
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 2: I bet yeah, I would think that's a date that's

668
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 2: hard to forget.

669
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 7: And so we're doing this segment called a second date

670
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,479
Speaker 7: update because we know there hasn't been a second meetup.

671
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 7: She's a little bit confused about why it's not happening yet.

672
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 3: Wait did she she make you guys call me?

673
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 2: She didn't make. Yes, it was a pretty interesting story

674
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 2: about your date.

675
00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,840
Speaker 3: So yeah, it was different.

676
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 7: Yeah, different is a good way to describe it. According

677
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 7: to her, she asked you to come pick her up

678
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 7: at her place. She pulled out a drug test. You

679
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Speaker 7: seemed surprised about that. Anybody would be surprised, even though

680
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 7: she did mention it to you before you went out,

681
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 7: and you still were shot right.

682
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean definitely that was a first for me.

683
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 3: I didn't having a drug test before going on a

684
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 3: day for sure.

685
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 7: Yeah.

686
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 2: Were you worried about passing it? No?

687
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 3: I mean, you know pretty good about all that stuff.

688
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 7: But that's what we heard. It came back all clean,

689
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 7: and you guys went out to dinner. But she said

690
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 7: that you seemed a little bit uncomfortable when you were

691
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 7: out because you were making some jokes and comments being

692
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 7: very adamant about not using drugs.

693
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like, what else am I supposed to do?

694
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I just got a little shocked.

695
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: I actually applauded your humor. What you call her the

696
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 2: FBI of bumble?

697
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 3: She said, oh, yeah, yeah, FBI or DA something. I

698
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 3: don't know what she does, but yeah, any of those initials, right. So,

699
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, she told me about the drug test.

700
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 3: But did she tell you about her dog?

701
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 6: Her dog?

702
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 3: No, we didn't.

703
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 2: Did you hear about a dog at the apartment? Yeah? No.

704
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 3: So she sets up the date and then we go

705
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 3: to a bar. It's like dog friendly, there's other dogs.

706
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,800
Speaker 3: She didn't come right out and say, but I'm pretty

707
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 3: sure her dog is like a drug sniffing dog.

708
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 9: What what?

709
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

710
00:30:58,320 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 2: Why would you think that?

711
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 3: Just like stiff in my pants the whole time. It's

712
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: a German Shepherd, Like she's kind of like looking at

713
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 3: him like wait for him to signal or something like.

714
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 3: It was this awkward, like even after the drug test.

715
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, that would make sense. Why she would need

716
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: a drug test every one? So he dog doesn't attack them?

717
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 7: Do the dogs instantly attack?

718
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 2: They do?

719
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 5: They sit and they're like ready to attack.

720
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 7: I think they just point at whatever.

721
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,040
Speaker 5: Still, it would make whatever they do.

722
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: Drug dog before. Yeah, but they scare me, even the beagles.

723
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 7: You're saying, are you one hundred percent sure that her

724
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 7: dog is a drug sniffing one?

725
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 3: I mean, come on, say, but I mean the way

726
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 3: he was active. Also the German shepherd and the whole

727
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 3: drug testing that put it in my head. I was

728
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 3: like one plus one equals too. You know, I feel

729
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 3: like all.

730
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 10: German Shepherds are drug dogs, you know, the ones that

731
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 10: aren't trained their snitches all the other ones?

732
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 6: Did it go to other people at the bar? Like

733
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 6: was it sniffing out?

734
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 7: I bet it.

735
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 3: I mean, she was on a pretty tight Lee show,

736
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 3: so I really don't you even though you were.

737
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 2: Totally clean and innocent, I would start to feel like

738
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 2: I was on drugs in that moment.

739
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, drug lord.

740
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 8: Yeah.

741
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,960
Speaker 3: Well I was like Walter White.

742
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 9: Yeah.

743
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 7: The only way to find out for sure the status

744
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 7: of her and her dog is to just ask Samantha,

745
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 7: who's on the other line right now waiting to talk

746
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 7: to you.

747
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 3: Oh dude, you didn't tell me she was listening.

748
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's how this works.

749
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 9: But Samantha there oh god, yeah, I'm here.

750
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 7: Oh would you would like to address the allegations against

751
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 7: your dog?

752
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 10: Yeah, my dog is not a drug sniffing dog, And

753
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 10: that sounds really paranoid.

754
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,560
Speaker 7: Drug users are a little bit paranoid. He wouldn't be

755
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 7: so upset about it if he didn't have something to hide.

756
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 5: The girls just said.

757
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 6: At the airport, I'm always scared the same.

758
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 10: I don't know. I think it's just suspicions that like

759
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 10: you passed the drugs has to like what are you hiding?

760
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 10: Like you seriously think I also brought a drug sniffing dog.

761
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, what else am I supposed to think?

762
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 3: Like this is the first time I've had a drug test,

763
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 3: and then you have the way to dogs acting.

764
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 10: I mean, I've been honest about everything. I told you

765
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 10: ahead of time that that's what was going to happen.

766
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 9: You showed up, you passed it, Like what are you

767
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 9: What are you hiding?

768
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 10: If you're thinking like you're automatically, It's just the.

769
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 3: Whole thing was just such a bizarre experience, Like it

770
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 3: was supposed to be a date like romantic and fun.

771
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,719
Speaker 3: That wasn't any of that, Like have you ever had

772
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 3: one of those words?

773
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 7: Like fun or do you?

774
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 10: I mean, I feel like, if you have nothing to hide,

775
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 10: then it should have just been a like a you know,

776
00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 10: you pass this test and now let's go have fun

777
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 10: and like be normal and not worry about it.

778
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 7: Ever again, doesn't sketchy or yeah.

779
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 3: You could just leave your German shepherd at home and

780
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 3: then we could go do something like fun.

781
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I do I feel like you should just say,

782
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm so sorry for the missing communication.

783
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 2: It's not a drug dog like.

784
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 10: It honestly did not occur to me. That's why I'm

785
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 10: just like, I don't know how to have responded it.

786
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 3: Oh couldn't I not occurred to you?

787
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 10: I mean, at the end of the day, the way

788
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 10: you're talking to me right now makes it seem like

789
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 10: maybe you did drugs in the past. You're a little defensive,

790
00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 10: like what is that about? It sounds like you're you're

791
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 10: hiding something, and so yeah, I mean I'm curious, like

792
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 10: what that's all about.

793
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 3: This is exactly why I called you.

794
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 10: The If there's smoke, there's fire, and so I wouldn't

795
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 10: be doing this if it wasn't actually an issue in it.

796
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:28,479
Speaker 2: If there's smoke, you'll find mose.

797
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 9: So it's it's true.

798
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I mean, oh god, we're such degenerates. So listen, Dave.

799
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:42,479
Speaker 7: At the end of the day, maybe Samantha should ease

800
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 7: up on it. But at the same time, Dave made

801
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 7: an assumption that wasn't true.

802
00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So now that you know that it's a non

803
00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 2: drug sniffing dog like, so that's.

804
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 7: That's both of them making a mistake. We agree that

805
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 7: we're all flawed, but none of us do drugs. Not

806
00:34:57,200 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 7: on the No one on this call does.

807
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 5: So none of the listeners either, Right, listeners, you don't

808
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 5: do it.

809
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 7: So let's just try and come together for one more

810
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 7: date that we would pay for. What do you think, Dave?

811
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 5: No more drug test though, right?

812
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 2: And no domantic Dave? How could you say?

813
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 7: No?

814
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, like I kind of feel like

815
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 3: I've been interrogated or so, like I'm a war criminal

816
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:17,479
Speaker 3: or something.

817
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 2: Well, she hasn't actually looked into that part of your life.

818
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, background check on him.

819
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 6: I'm sure she has.

820
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 7: That might be her version of four play. Samantha. At

821
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 7: this point, do you still even want to go out

822
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 7: with Dave?

823
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:31,439
Speaker 8: I would go out with Dave again.

824
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 10: I mean I haven't seen any.

825
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 9: Other red flags other than it's like Karen oyance.

826
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 7: I mean, honestly, compared to most people dating online, that

827
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 7: is a plus. Dave. It's up to you.

828
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:42,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, as long as you don't bring the doctor,

829
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 3: I'll do one more time.

830
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 2: I don't expect that.

831
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 5: Drugs this date because she's not going to test you.

832
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 3: I heard that.

833
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 7: Second test is coming. Get the gloves ready, he's.

834
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: So sexy, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

835
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 7: This is a great example of how not every first

836
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 7: date goes perfectly with non stop romance and constant flirty

837
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 7: conversations or any romance.

838
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 2: There is no.

839
00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 7: Like a job interviewed each other.

840
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 2: I mean, it's the only time a man has pulled

841
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,279
Speaker 2: down his pants on a date and it has not

842
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,320
Speaker 2: been not been for why you do.

843
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 7: See, Sometimes even good relationships start with hiccups and mistakes

844
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 7: where maybe you spill some ketchup on your shirt, maybe

845
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 7: you get cavity searched by her bomb sniffing dog. By

846
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 7: the dog.

847
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 9: Yeah.

848
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 7: Wow, things don't always play out like the fairy tales say.

849
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 7: I don't know what's with you and the dogs, Jeff,

850
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 7: but my mind goes places. Okay, So let's just remember

851
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 7: that even if your first date didn't go perfectly, there's

852
00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 7: always a chance it could work out again.

853
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, and as sterile as you can get. Yeahs Terill

854
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 2: is a good I wonder.

855
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 7: What her job was.

856
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 5: She's so serious everything.

857
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 2: I feel like it's not as serious as she thins.

858
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 7: She takes its seriously. She checks tickets at Disneyland.

859
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:11,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

860
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 7: But anyway, if you want some help in your dating life,

861
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 7: email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

862
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 7: you back, and go check out all of our second

863
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 7: date updates wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey