WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Too Handy Not Handsy

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and this is the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date podcast. Thanks all for being here, and it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like we're getting some comments on yesterday's trial run of

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<v Speaker 1>a twenty second second Yeah, twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Second Date update. What do you seeing alexis?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah woo, Jay said, I thought it was a typo

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<v Speaker 3>until I started listening. We knew that was gonna HAPPENOUCHI

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<v Speaker 3>from Nigeria and I've benched all your episodes on Spotify

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<v Speaker 3>since I found you guys in March. I definitely should

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<v Speaker 3>be on something similar, except mine should be the twenty

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<v Speaker 3>twenty two second update. Since I'm getting ghosted by my

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<v Speaker 3>girlfriend of over two years.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, she's roach me gone, Bro, I would I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>expect her back now.

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<v Speaker 2>She is not worth your time If that is the case,

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<v Speaker 2>how rude?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait?

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<v Speaker 6>Hold on, Bro, coming again?

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<v Speaker 4>If she walks in the door, are you taking her

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<v Speaker 4>back two and a half years?

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<v Speaker 1>He can say no, But when you're in that moment, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's when the truth really comes out.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you, j Yeah. Well, thanks for listening and

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<v Speaker 2>thanks for being here.

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<v Speaker 1>And I love that our listeners always default too us

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<v Speaker 1>screwing up because that means they know the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, and they understand us. All right. Your second

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<v Speaker 2>day podcast starts right now.

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<v Speaker 6>The second date update on a first date. If you're

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<v Speaker 6>a woman, where's the safest place to meet a guy

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<v Speaker 6>for the first time?

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<v Speaker 2>Public? Lots of people in.

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<v Speaker 6>Public, it's too general.

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<v Speaker 2>Anywhere a rest I've crossed.

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<v Speaker 6>Off a few suggestions jose gave earlier. Dark web. No,

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<v Speaker 6>although it does provide good anonymity on the web, not

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<v Speaker 6>a full dark Maybe a children in a place Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>children's toy store where the security guard can see you.

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<v Speaker 6>Safe fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they're all closed, aren't they?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe I know Alexis doesn't feel comfortable giving guys her apartments,

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<v Speaker 6>so she always gives them the address to Brooks House.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, nobody wants to steal anything from you. How that

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<v Speaker 2>gutter guy ended up in my house.

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<v Speaker 6>Salesman, Yeah, one of our lesteners. Davis said he met

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<v Speaker 6>his dat at a place that he never expected he would,

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<v Speaker 6>So let's learn more about it. Davis, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 6>What's this girl's name?

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<v Speaker 7>First of all, Hey, so her name is Ashley Ashley, and.

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<v Speaker 6>Did Ashley want to meet you?

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<v Speaker 8>So we were going to go out, and she asked

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<v Speaker 8>me to give her a ride, which I thought was

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<v Speaker 8>really interesting. That doesn't usually happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Step to not safest things to do on a date.

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<v Speaker 2>And had you met in person before? Or is this

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<v Speaker 2>meet up off the apps?

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<v Speaker 8>No, this is off an app.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, getting in a car.

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<v Speaker 2>Just never do that ever. Yeah, I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly, Davis, I trust you immediately, so you can come

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<v Speaker 6>to the radio station whatever you want. How long were

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<v Speaker 6>you guys talking before the date happened?

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<v Speaker 8>So we only talked once and it was on the phone,

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<v Speaker 8>but it was for like three.

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<v Speaker 2>Hours, so I mean you obviously were vibing in you

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<v Speaker 2>were clicking like.

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<v Speaker 6>For three hours.

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<v Speaker 4>You got to have a good connection with something.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was there a reason why she wanted you

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<v Speaker 2>to pick her up?

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<v Speaker 8>You know, she didn't mention. She just asked if I

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<v Speaker 8>could pick her up, and I thought, okay, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 6>So she gave you an address and this turned out

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<v Speaker 6>to be the actual place that she really lived.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why wouldn't it be.

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<v Speaker 6>Gotcha? You could get a different.

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<v Speaker 7>That's what I would do.

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<v Speaker 2>But what was it like when you showed up at

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<v Speaker 2>her house and it and you got her?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I mean it was great. So it was a

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<v Speaker 8>house and she has a roommate, but her roommate was

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<v Speaker 8>out for the night, so you know, I said, hey, yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>let's why don't we, you know, head out, we'll go

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<v Speaker 8>and she said, well, first you want a drink, like

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<v Speaker 8>I can give you a tour And I was like, oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow, she's inviting you inside immediately and a drink.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, how can I say no? So after the tour,

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<v Speaker 8>we just sat on the porch and just started talking

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<v Speaker 8>and that turned into like longer and longer, and it

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<v Speaker 8>didn't even end up going out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like it's just like your phone call from

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<v Speaker 1>the first time we met, Like you just get lost

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<v Speaker 1>in conversation together.

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<v Speaker 2>That's such a great sign. What'd you guys like connect over?

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<v Speaker 8>We connected over a lot of stuff. We have like

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<v Speaker 8>a very similar sense of humor. We like a lot

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<v Speaker 8>of similar things, like similar movies and shows and things

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<v Speaker 8>like that.

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<v Speaker 6>Did anything weird happen?

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<v Speaker 8>WHOA Okay not? I don't know if it was weird, Like, okay,

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<v Speaker 8>So we were on the front porch. We had a

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<v Speaker 8>few drinks throughout the time that we were there, so

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<v Speaker 8>I kept going in and out to get the drinks

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<v Speaker 8>and come back out with them, and she has a

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<v Speaker 8>dog named Nugget.

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<v Speaker 2>Aggety really cute.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, but she kept warning me, you know, hey, like

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<v Speaker 8>just make sure you're mindful of shutting the door because

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<v Speaker 8>you know he'll run away if he gets out. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>So after a few drinks, kind of forgot that she

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<v Speaker 8>had a dog for a little bit. So I did

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<v Speaker 8>leave the door crack while I was handing her drink,

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<v Speaker 8>and Nugget almost got out. He was like half way

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<v Speaker 8>out the door, and I had this sort of yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>I had to dive to grab it. You got him,

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<v Speaker 8>I did. I got him.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>But then after that it was getting dark. I said,

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<v Speaker 8>why don't we put on the light? Do you have

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<v Speaker 8>a light out here? And she said, well I would,

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<v Speaker 8>but it's sort of broken and it's too high for

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<v Speaker 8>me to change. And I said, oh, well that's not

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<v Speaker 8>that high. I can reach that. So I reached up

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<v Speaker 8>and I changed the light. And she said, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 8>there's really nice for you to do. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 8>And I said, oh, yeah, I'm a little handy a

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<v Speaker 8>little sometimes.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a little handy. By changing the light.

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<v Speaker 6>Bulb, that's handy. Change a light bulb, that's something that's

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<v Speaker 6>useful that you do around the house.

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<v Speaker 2>That is handy. Anybody can change a light bulbs. You

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<v Speaker 2>get your hands like skill, and.

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<v Speaker 6>You know how did you have to twist it one

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<v Speaker 6>way and then twist it back the other Sometimes a

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<v Speaker 6>dog you.

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<v Speaker 2>Gotta do a t I understand it's handy where you

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<v Speaker 2>grew up, David.

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<v Speaker 6>She doesn't consider you handy man.

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<v Speaker 2>Not for that.

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<v Speaker 8>You know what I did. Fixture burner too?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh what burner?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait a minute, that is handy, her burner.

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<v Speaker 8>Phone, I threw it, I hope not the burner on

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<v Speaker 8>her kitchen stove.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, Okay, that's handy.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 6>You sprewed in a gas pipe this time, which is

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<v Speaker 6>way more different.

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<v Speaker 3>That's romantic.

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<v Speaker 6>It does sound like you help her all stuff. You

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<v Speaker 6>talk for a few hours.

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<v Speaker 4>You may just be a really best friend now.

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<v Speaker 2>Or maybe she's not getting back to you because there's

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<v Speaker 2>CO two poisoning in her house. You didn't I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>do it right.

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<v Speaker 8>I hope not.

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<v Speaker 6>Was there any romance like any kissing action?

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<v Speaker 8>Or we did kiss a little bit at the end

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<v Speaker 8>of the night before I left you? So okay, she's

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<v Speaker 8>romantically inde well, she's romantically into me, why is it

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<v Speaker 8>she answering my text?

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<v Speaker 2>Now?

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<v Speaker 4>Rude? She should be excited to text you if anything,

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<v Speaker 4>should be like, oh my god, okay, wait thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 4>before you text him.

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<v Speaker 2>Back to so good all of it.

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<v Speaker 8>I thought it was.

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<v Speaker 4>Something's wrong with her, bro, No way, it's you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we'll find out what her problem is.

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<v Speaker 6>Too handy even we don't know the word.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe it's handsy.

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<v Speaker 6>Well Brook would consider that a perk.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody has a different opinion, Jeff, Let's.

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<v Speaker 6>Figure this out. We're gonna call Ashley for you, get

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<v Speaker 6>you a second date update right after this hold on

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<v Speaker 6>second date update. Most other radio shows try to lift

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<v Speaker 6>up their listeners, praise them for doing nice things and

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<v Speaker 6>good deeds on a first date. Yeah, that's not really

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<v Speaker 6>our style. We let to downplay your positive traits and

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<v Speaker 6>good deeds and will even insult your handy skills because

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<v Speaker 6>we're trying to help you to realize your own flaws.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are you so stuck on? Miss change in the

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<v Speaker 2>light bulb is not handy, Jeff, and.

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<v Speaker 6>Double down in his manhood.

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<v Speaker 1>Caring.

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<v Speaker 6>Real love isn't about support, it's about flaw finding, and

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<v Speaker 6>our listener Davis appreciates that.

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<v Speaker 7>Right, Davis, I guess so. Yes.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, Brooke wrote down fifteen other shortcomings that she noticed

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<v Speaker 6>during the day.

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<v Speaker 2>She's super nice and helped her out.

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<v Speaker 7>Too nice.

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<v Speaker 2>You are so impossible some.

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<v Speaker 7>Days, Davis.

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<v Speaker 6>She's calling you impossible. Oh it's hard to tell something

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<v Speaker 6>exhaust Yeah, well it's possible that he did exhaust her

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<v Speaker 6>because Davis was with her at her house for many,

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<v Speaker 6>many hours drinking out on her front porch.

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<v Speaker 1>So cute though, Like, I can't believe she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back.

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<v Speaker 7>Same same.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm hoping that the reason that she's not calling you

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<v Speaker 6>back is that her dog just got loose and she's

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<v Speaker 6>been out looking for it. If anything, she probably needs

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<v Speaker 6>your help to track him down.

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<v Speaker 1>Anative, can you that's your positivity job.

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<v Speaker 6>We're to help her in her time with need. That's

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<v Speaker 6>a good thing. Let's dialar and see where she's at

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<v Speaker 6>and if she needs a little assistance. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 7>Hopefully she picks up. Hello, Hey, is this Ashley?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, it is, who says.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, we're a radio show. We just wanted to know

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<v Speaker 6>is Nugget there is Nugget safe? What your dog? Your dog?

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<v Speaker 2>Nugget that has the cutest name ever. Good job, of

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<v Speaker 2>naming your dog.

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<v Speaker 5>Thanks. I don't know how you know my dog's name.

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<v Speaker 6>But we heard it from a listener to our show

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<v Speaker 6>that you met up with for a date recently. His

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<v Speaker 6>name is Davis.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, I don't really I don't really remember you

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<v Speaker 5>remember Davis? I yeah, I don't know. I just I

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<v Speaker 5>kind of hang out with a lot of people, so.

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<v Speaker 8>Talk.

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<v Speaker 2>It came to your house, yeah, I think you just

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<v Speaker 2>like a week ago.

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<v Speaker 5>A week ago.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, according to him, you guys met on a dating app.

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<v Speaker 6>You asked him to come pick you up for a date,

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<v Speaker 6>and then he ended up just staying there drinking with

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<v Speaker 6>you on your front porch, which.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we were actually shocked that you were so

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<v Speaker 1>trusting of him so quickly.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, because it's just a guy you met on

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<v Speaker 2>the internet.

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<v Speaker 5>Does he have dark hair? I think he was wearing

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<v Speaker 5>a gray shirt.

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<v Speaker 6>We've never seen him, but that does sound like him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>good old he sounded very gray shirt and dark hair.

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<v Speaker 7>Over so many dates.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it's impressive you're fitting that many in a week.

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<v Speaker 2>How could you not remember someone like that you spent

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<v Speaker 2>hours with?

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<v Speaker 5>To be honest, I mean that's kind of like just

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<v Speaker 5>how I use the dating apps. I've been doing this.

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<v Speaker 7>For a while doing what Wait what.

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<v Speaker 4>You invite people over and talk to them and then

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<v Speaker 4>let them leave. That's called the date act. You're not

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<v Speaker 4>drinking anyone, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels like he didn't even know his name while

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<v Speaker 2>he was at your house.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I've been using dating apps for over a year now,

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<v Speaker 5>and when I started, I was looking for a relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>But wait, I don't I don't really know if that's

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<v Speaker 5>where I'm at anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean, like you you just you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to see anybody seriously, or like why go out

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<v Speaker 1>on the date to begin with?

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<v Speaker 5>If that, I just I saw like too many people

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<v Speaker 5>just want to mess around, you know, And after a while,

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<v Speaker 5>it just really kind of, I don't know, mess with

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<v Speaker 5>my head. So I just decided, screw it. I'm just

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<v Speaker 5>gonna be in my free handyman phase.

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<v Speaker 6>Your free handyman. So you do admit he's handy.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, so I'll set up a meeting with the guy

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<v Speaker 5>and they will end up fixing stuff from him.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you even know they're handy when you meet

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<v Speaker 1>him on the app?

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<v Speaker 2>Stuff?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, come on, all guys like to think they're handy,

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<v Speaker 5>whether they really are.

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<v Speaker 2>Not so much time. Jeffy did think that he was

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<v Speaker 2>handed with the light bulb, so I'll.

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<v Speaker 6>Any light bulb in this studio, watch me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so messed up. You're just using these people. You

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<v Speaker 2>spend hours with them and kiss them off for.

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<v Speaker 5>That sucks good guys kill out. I mean, look, I'll

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<v Speaker 5>have him back over if something else goes wrong in

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<v Speaker 5>the house.

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<v Speaker 6>But he's he thought that he was going over there

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<v Speaker 6>to have like a genuine connection with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, if you are pretty, you could probably just

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<v Speaker 1>put on the apps just looking for a handyman, and

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<v Speaker 1>guys would still volunteer to do that.

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<v Speaker 9>A landlord exactly, Yeah, the landlord takes forever to solve things.

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<v Speaker 9>And look, if I put just looking for a handyman

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<v Speaker 9>on an app, people are going to show up thinking

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<v Speaker 9>that it's like an X rated request.

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<v Speaker 6>That's sure, just.

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<v Speaker 4>Looking for a pizza guy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so messed up. He's going to be hurt.

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<v Speaker 6>Is he going to be her? We don't know. The

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<v Speaker 6>only way to find out is if we actually just

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<v Speaker 6>talked to him, because he just happens to be on

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<v Speaker 6>the other line right now waiting to jump in on

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<v Speaker 6>this conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, he heard everything?

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<v Speaker 6>Is he there?

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<v Speaker 5>Listen before he jumps in. I'm just I'm still trying

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<v Speaker 5>to figure out which guy he is because I had

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<v Speaker 5>to do come over in the same weekend. Did he

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<v Speaker 5>I just did he recalk the bathtub.

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<v Speaker 6>Or anything about any recoun unless we missed that part

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<v Speaker 6>of the story.

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<v Speaker 5>That word.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, Hey, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 5>Why?

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<v Speaker 8>Actually, I think you're confused. I'm trying to date for love,

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<v Speaker 8>and I'm looking for someone who wants the samesed.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I really love that he fixed my stove.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, you had a connection with him. Maybe you're just

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<v Speaker 2>jaded from being hurt, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that's true, and I'm sorry you feel bad.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I you were nice to talk to. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm happy to hang out again with you at my

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<v Speaker 5>plate if he fixes something else for you, like only

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<v Speaker 5>if he wants to, that's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, what an offer? Anyone pass that up?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean the good news is I already got a

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<v Speaker 5>guy who's really good with plumbing, so I'll never ask

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<v Speaker 5>you to do any plumbing.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh there's a different guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Have not many plumbing issues. Well, it's hard to find

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<v Speaker 2>a good plumber.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, I just feel so taken advantage of right now.

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<v Speaker 8>I really thought we had a real connection, and it

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<v Speaker 8>looks like you have this kind of connection with a

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<v Speaker 8>lot of people.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, David, I'm really sorry you feel that way.

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<v Speaker 6>It's Davis with an ass.

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<v Speaker 8>Davis, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>You kissed him still? Or is that the tip?

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<v Speaker 5>You know? He did a nice thing for me. What's

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<v Speaker 5>wrong with a little harmless kissing everything?

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<v Speaker 1>When he thinks, yeah, bye Ryan wherever your name was?

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<v Speaker 5>Again? Like, I'm sorry if he was confused about things,

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<v Speaker 5>but I just know where I am at in my life.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm in this handyman phase.

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<v Speaker 2>You didn't tell him that.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, now he knows that he'd like to come over again,

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<v Speaker 5>I'd be open to it.

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<v Speaker 2>There is no way David still wants to hang out

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<v Speaker 2>with her. Gone buy some.

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<v Speaker 6>Wood and go build her a deck. Bro, if you'll

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<v Speaker 6>love her, go get Never underestimate the shallowness of a guy.

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<v Speaker 6>You never know what he's gonna say if it means

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<v Speaker 6>scoring another date with the cute girl. So that's true, Davis.

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<v Speaker 6>Remember how pretty Ashley was?

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<v Speaker 5>And I think I hear a noise in my ceiling.

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<v Speaker 6>Fan another opportunity to demonstrate your manly handliness for her.

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<v Speaker 2>She just pays you and kisses.

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<v Speaker 8>What do you think, Davis, My handiness is deserved for

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<v Speaker 8>someone who loves me.

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<v Speaker 2>That that should be a bubber sticker.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, thank you for being on the show with us, David,

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<v Speaker 6>and good luck, good luck with all your handy dating life.

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<v Speaker 7>Stuff in the future.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, thank you and Ashley. I know a couple of

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<v Speaker 6>guys on our textboart at seven eighty five nine two

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<v Speaker 6>say they be available at a moment's notice to come

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<v Speaker 6>and fix your ceiling fan or whatever you got going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Have no dignity left, no God, she kisses at the

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<v Speaker 2>end of the day.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I kiss somebody Jeffrey in the morning. I wasn't kidding.

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<v Speaker 6>We really were getting text at seventy five to nine

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<v Speaker 6>to two from many gentlemen who would not mind helping

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<v Speaker 6>Ashley with her household problems. Dude, but we're men.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to feel useful, women, have some respect, get paid.

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<v Speaker 6>For it, at least, that's the thing you have to

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<v Speaker 6>think about. Like I know we were saying earlier that

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<v Speaker 6>having a stranger who you just meant on the internet

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<v Speaker 6>come over to your house for a date is kind

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<v Speaker 6>of sketchy, but How is that any different than finding

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<v Speaker 6>a random handyman on the internet and hiring him to

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<v Speaker 6>come out to your house.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Jeff, I don't. I don't have those guys come

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<v Speaker 2>to my house when I'm home alone. Yeah, like you

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<v Speaker 2>literally make sure that someone else is there. That's what

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<v Speaker 2>women do, and like make sure you know their name.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe just saying either way, it's a random dude that

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<v Speaker 6>you're inviting over to your house. But at least Ashley

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<v Speaker 6>plan was economical because she got free work done.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, she can't change her own light bulb,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just like, I'm disappointed in her as a human.

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<v Speaker 2>Was just off.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, don't know how many people I've paid to come

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<v Speaker 6>out and change my light bulbs for me, and I

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<v Speaker 6>pay them. She's just given all the women of the

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<v Speaker 6>world a great life. Happen You just out a house.

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<v Speaker 4>And you're paying people to change your life.

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<v Speaker 2>Pay me next time.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if you guys are handymen certified. Again,

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<v Speaker 6>it doesn't I need to see the check mark next

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<v Speaker 6>to your name if I'm gonna believe you're gonna fix

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<v Speaker 6>my stuff. But if you ever want help with your

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<v Speaker 6>dating life, we're not certified at all. For that will help,

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<v Speaker 6>We'll step in and give it our best try. It's

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<v Speaker 6>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.