1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey and this is the Second 2 00:00:01,800 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: Date podcast. Thanks all for being here, and it looks 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: like we're getting some comments on yesterday's trial run of 4 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: a twenty second second Yeah, twenty. 5 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 2: Second Date update. What do you seeing alexis? 6 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 3: Yeah woo, Jay said, I thought it was a typo 7 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 3: until I started listening. We knew that was gonna HAPPENOUCHI 8 00:00:19,760 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 3: from Nigeria and I've benched all your episodes on Spotify 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 3: since I found you guys in March. I definitely should 10 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 3: be on something similar, except mine should be the twenty 11 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 3: twenty two second update. Since I'm getting ghosted by my 12 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 3: girlfriend of over two years. 13 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 4: Well, she's roach me gone, Bro, I would I wouldn't 14 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 4: expect her back now. 15 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,240 Speaker 2: She is not worth your time If that is the case, 16 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 2: how rude? 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 5: Wait? 18 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 6: Hold on, Bro, coming again? 19 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 4: If she walks in the door, are you taking her 20 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 4: back two and a half years? 21 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: He can say no, But when you're in that moment, yeah, 22 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: that's when the truth really comes out. 23 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 2: I love you, j Yeah. Well, thanks for listening and 24 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: thanks for being here. 25 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: And I love that our listeners always default too us 26 00:01:00,600 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: screwing up because that means they know the show. 27 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 2: Well, yeah, and they understand us. All right. Your second 28 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 2: day podcast starts right now. 29 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 6: The second date update on a first date. If you're 30 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 6: a woman, where's the safest place to meet a guy 31 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 6: for the first time? 32 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 2: Public? Lots of people in. 33 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 6: Public, it's too general. 34 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: Anywhere a rest I've crossed. 35 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 6: Off a few suggestions jose gave earlier. Dark web. No, 36 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 6: although it does provide good anonymity on the web, not 37 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 6: a full dark Maybe a children in a place Yeah, okay, 38 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 6: children's toy store where the security guard can see you. 39 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 6: Safe fun. 40 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: I think they're all closed, aren't they? 41 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 5: Like? 42 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 6: Maybe I know Alexis doesn't feel comfortable giving guys her apartments, 43 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 6: so she always gives them the address to Brooks House. 44 00:01:54,600 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, nobody wants to steal anything from you. How that 45 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: gutter guy ended up in my house. 46 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 6: Salesman, Yeah, one of our lesteners. Davis said he met 47 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 6: his dat at a place that he never expected he would, 48 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 6: So let's learn more about it. Davis, Welcome to the show. 49 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 6: What's this girl's name? 50 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 7: First of all, Hey, so her name is Ashley Ashley, and. 51 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 6: Did Ashley want to meet you? 52 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 8: So we were going to go out, and she asked 53 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 8: me to give her a ride, which I thought was 54 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 8: really interesting. That doesn't usually happen. 55 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 2: Step to not safest things to do on a date. 56 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 2: And had you met in person before? Or is this 57 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 2: meet up off the apps? 58 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 8: No, this is off an app. 59 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, getting in a car. 60 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 2: Just never do that ever. Yeah, I mean. 61 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 6: Honestly, Davis, I trust you immediately, so you can come 62 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 6: to the radio station whatever you want. How long were 63 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 6: you guys talking before the date happened? 64 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 8: So we only talked once and it was on the phone, 65 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 8: but it was for like three. 66 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 2: Hours, so I mean you obviously were vibing in you 67 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,079 Speaker 2: were clicking like. 68 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 6: For three hours. 69 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 4: You got to have a good connection with something. 70 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 2: But it was there a reason why she wanted you 71 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:06,119 Speaker 2: to pick her up? 72 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 8: You know, she didn't mention. She just asked if I 73 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 8: could pick her up, and I thought, okay, that's fine. 74 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 6: So she gave you an address and this turned out 75 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 6: to be the actual place that she really lived. 76 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, why wouldn't it be. 77 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,679 Speaker 6: Gotcha? You could get a different. 78 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 7: That's what I would do. 79 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 2: But what was it like when you showed up at 80 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 2: her house and it and you got her? 81 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean it was great. So it was a 82 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 8: house and she has a roommate, but her roommate was 83 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 8: out for the night, so you know, I said, hey, yeah, 84 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 8: let's why don't we, you know, head out, we'll go 85 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 8: and she said, well, first you want a drink, like 86 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 8: I can give you a tour And I was like, oh, okay. 87 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 6: Oh wow, she's inviting you inside immediately and a drink. 88 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, how can I say no? So after the tour, 89 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 8: we just sat on the porch and just started talking 90 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 8: and that turned into like longer and longer, and it 91 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 8: didn't even end up going out. 92 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: It's just like it's just like your phone call from 93 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: the first time we met, Like you just get lost 94 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 1: in conversation together. 95 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 2: That's such a great sign. What'd you guys like connect over? 96 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 8: We connected over a lot of stuff. We have like 97 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 8: a very similar sense of humor. We like a lot 98 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 8: of similar things, like similar movies and shows and things 99 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 8: like that. 100 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 6: Did anything weird happen? 101 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 8: WHOA Okay not? I don't know if it was weird, Like, okay, 102 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:38,919 Speaker 8: So we were on the front porch. We had a 103 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:42,040 Speaker 8: few drinks throughout the time that we were there, so 104 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,800 Speaker 8: I kept going in and out to get the drinks 105 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 8: and come back out with them, and she has a 106 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 8: dog named Nugget. 107 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: Aggety really cute. 108 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 5: Yeah. 109 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 8: Yeah, but she kept warning me, you know, hey, like 110 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 8: just make sure you're mindful of shutting the door because 111 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 8: you know he'll run away if he gets out. Yeah. 112 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 8: So after a few drinks, kind of forgot that she 113 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 8: had a dog for a little bit. So I did 114 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,119 Speaker 8: leave the door crack while I was handing her drink, 115 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 8: and Nugget almost got out. He was like half way 116 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 8: out the door, and I had this sort of yeah, 117 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 8: I had to dive to grab it. You got him, 118 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 8: I did. I got him. 119 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 6: Yeah. 120 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 8: But then after that it was getting dark. I said, 121 00:05:24,480 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 8: why don't we put on the light? Do you have 122 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 8: a light out here? And she said, well I would, 123 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 8: but it's sort of broken and it's too high for 124 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 8: me to change. And I said, oh, well that's not 125 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 8: that high. I can reach that. So I reached up 126 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 8: and I changed the light. And she said, oh, you know, 127 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 8: there's really nice for you to do. I appreciate that. 128 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:42,760 Speaker 8: And I said, oh, yeah, I'm a little handy a 129 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 8: little sometimes. 130 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 2: It was a little handy. By changing the light. 131 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 6: Bulb, that's handy. Change a light bulb, that's something that's 132 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 6: useful that you do around the house. 133 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 2: That is handy. Anybody can change a light bulbs. You 134 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 2: get your hands like skill, and. 135 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 6: You know how did you have to twist it one 136 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 6: way and then twist it back the other Sometimes a 137 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 6: dog you. 138 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 2: Gotta do a t I understand it's handy where you 139 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: grew up, David. 140 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:05,919 Speaker 6: She doesn't consider you handy man. 141 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 2: Not for that. 142 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 8: You know what I did. Fixture burner too? 143 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:10,559 Speaker 6: Oh what burner? 144 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 4: Wait a minute, that is handy, her burner. 145 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 8: Phone, I threw it, I hope not the burner on 146 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 8: her kitchen stove. 147 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, that's handy. 148 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, thank you. 149 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 6: You sprewed in a gas pipe this time, which is 150 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 6: way more different. 151 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 3: That's romantic. 152 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 6: It does sound like you help her all stuff. You 153 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 6: talk for a few hours. 154 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 4: You may just be a really best friend now. 155 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: Or maybe she's not getting back to you because there's 156 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 2: CO two poisoning in her house. You didn't I didn't 157 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 2: do it right. 158 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 8: I hope not. 159 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 6: Was there any romance like any kissing action? 160 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 8: Or we did kiss a little bit at the end 161 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 8: of the night before I left you? So okay, she's 162 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 8: romantically inde well, she's romantically into me, why is it 163 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 8: she answering my text? 164 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 2: Now? 165 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 4: Rude? She should be excited to text you if anything, 166 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 4: should be like, oh my god, okay, wait thirty minutes 167 00:06:59,040 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 4: before you text him. 168 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,159 Speaker 2: Back to so good all of it. 169 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 8: I thought it was. 170 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 4: Something's wrong with her, bro, No way, it's you. Yeah, 171 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 4: we'll find out what her problem is. 172 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 6: Too handy even we don't know the word. 173 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 2: Maybe it's handsy. 174 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 6: Well Brook would consider that a perk. 175 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: Everybody has a different opinion, Jeff, Let's. 176 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 6: Figure this out. We're gonna call Ashley for you, get 177 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 6: you a second date update right after this hold on 178 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 6: second date update. Most other radio shows try to lift 179 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 6: up their listeners, praise them for doing nice things and 180 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 6: good deeds on a first date. Yeah, that's not really 181 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 6: our style. We let to downplay your positive traits and 182 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 6: good deeds and will even insult your handy skills because 183 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 6: we're trying to help you to realize your own flaws. 184 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 2: Why are you so stuck on? Miss change in the 185 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 2: light bulb is not handy, Jeff, and. 186 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 6: Double down in his manhood. 187 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 1: Caring. 188 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 6: Real love isn't about support, it's about flaw finding, and 189 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 6: our listener Davis appreciates that. 190 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 7: Right, Davis, I guess so. Yes. 191 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,040 Speaker 6: Now, Brooke wrote down fifteen other shortcomings that she noticed 192 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 6: during the day. 193 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 2: She's super nice and helped her out. 194 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 7: Too nice. 195 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 2: You are so impossible some. 196 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 7: Days, Davis. 197 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 6: She's calling you impossible. Oh it's hard to tell something 198 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 6: exhaust Yeah, well it's possible that he did exhaust her 199 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,880 Speaker 6: because Davis was with her at her house for many, 200 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 6: many hours drinking out on her front porch. 201 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: So cute though, Like, I can't believe she's not calling 202 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: you back. 203 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 7: Same same. 204 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 6: I'm hoping that the reason that she's not calling you 205 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 6: back is that her dog just got loose and she's 206 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 6: been out looking for it. If anything, she probably needs 207 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 6: your help to track him down. 208 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: Anative, can you that's your positivity job. 209 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 6: We're to help her in her time with need. That's 210 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 6: a good thing. Let's dialar and see where she's at 211 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,680 Speaker 6: and if she needs a little assistance. Here we go. 212 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 7: Hopefully she picks up. Hello, Hey, is this Ashley? 213 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 5: Yes, it is, who says. 214 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,440 Speaker 6: Hey, we're a radio show. We just wanted to know 215 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 6: is Nugget there is Nugget safe? What your dog? Your dog? 216 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 2: Nugget that has the cutest name ever. Good job, of 217 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 2: naming your dog. 218 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 5: Thanks. I don't know how you know my dog's name. 219 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 6: But we heard it from a listener to our show 220 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 6: that you met up with for a date recently. His 221 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:44,920 Speaker 6: name is Davis. 222 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 5: Oh okay, I don't really I don't really remember you 223 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 5: remember Davis? I yeah, I don't know. I just I 224 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 5: kind of hang out with a lot of people, so. 225 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 8: Talk. 226 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 2: It came to your house, yeah, I think you just 227 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 2: like a week ago. 228 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 5: A week ago. 229 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, according to him, you guys met on a dating app. 230 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 6: You asked him to come pick you up for a date, 231 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 6: and then he ended up just staying there drinking with 232 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 6: you on your front porch, which. 233 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: You know, we were actually shocked that you were so 234 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: trusting of him so quickly. 235 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 2: I mean, because it's just a guy you met on 236 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: the internet. 237 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 5: Does he have dark hair? I think he was wearing 238 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 5: a gray shirt. 239 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 6: We've never seen him, but that does sound like him. Yeah, 240 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 6: good old he sounded very gray shirt and dark hair. 241 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 7: Over so many dates. 242 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 2: I mean, it's impressive you're fitting that many in a week. 243 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 2: How could you not remember someone like that you spent 244 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 2: hours with? 245 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 5: To be honest, I mean that's kind of like just 246 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 5: how I use the dating apps. I've been doing this. 247 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 7: For a while doing what Wait what. 248 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 4: You invite people over and talk to them and then 249 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 4: let them leave. That's called the date act. You're not 250 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:10,000 Speaker 4: drinking anyone, but. 251 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 2: It feels like he didn't even know his name while 252 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 2: he was at your house. 253 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 8: Yeah. 254 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 5: I've been using dating apps for over a year now, 255 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 5: and when I started, I was looking for a relationship. 256 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 5: But wait, I don't I don't really know if that's 257 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 5: where I'm at anymore. 258 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 1: What do you mean, like you you just you don't 259 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: want to see anybody seriously, or like why go out 260 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 1: on the date to begin with? 261 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 5: If that, I just I saw like too many people 262 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 5: just want to mess around, you know, And after a while, 263 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 5: it just really kind of, I don't know, mess with 264 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 5: my head. So I just decided, screw it. I'm just 265 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 5: gonna be in my free handyman phase. 266 00:11:53,840 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 6: Your free handyman. So you do admit he's handy. 267 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 5: Well, so I'll set up a meeting with the guy 268 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 5: and they will end up fixing stuff from him. 269 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 1: How do you even know they're handy when you meet 270 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: him on the app? 271 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:17,839 Speaker 2: Stuff? 272 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 5: I mean, come on, all guys like to think they're handy, 273 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 5: whether they really are. 274 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 2: Not so much time. Jeffy did think that he was 275 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 2: handed with the light bulb, so I'll. 276 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 6: Any light bulb in this studio, watch me. 277 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 2: That's so messed up. You're just using these people. You 278 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 2: spend hours with them and kiss them off for. 279 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 5: That sucks good guys kill out. I mean, look, I'll 280 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,200 Speaker 5: have him back over if something else goes wrong in 281 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 5: the house. 282 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 6: But he's he thought that he was going over there 283 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 6: to have like a genuine connection with you. 284 00:12:55,679 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 1: And honestly, if you are pretty, you could probably just 285 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: put on the apps just looking for a handyman, and 286 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: guys would still volunteer to do that. 287 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 9: A landlord exactly, Yeah, the landlord takes forever to solve things. 288 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:14,800 Speaker 9: And look, if I put just looking for a handyman 289 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 9: on an app, people are going to show up thinking 290 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,319 Speaker 9: that it's like an X rated request. 291 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 6: That's sure, just. 292 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 4: Looking for a pizza guy. 293 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 2: That's so messed up. He's going to be hurt. 294 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:30,320 Speaker 6: Is he going to be her? We don't know. The 295 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 6: only way to find out is if we actually just 296 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 6: talked to him, because he just happens to be on 297 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 6: the other line right now waiting to jump in on 298 00:13:36,520 --> 00:13:37,239 Speaker 6: this conversation. 299 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 2: Oh god, he heard everything? 300 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 6: Is he there? 301 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 5: Listen before he jumps in. I'm just I'm still trying 302 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 5: to figure out which guy he is because I had 303 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 5: to do come over in the same weekend. Did he 304 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 5: I just did he recalk the bathtub. 305 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 6: Or anything about any recoun unless we missed that part 306 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 6: of the story. 307 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 5: That word. 308 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, Hey, I'm here. 309 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 5: Why? 310 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 8: Actually, I think you're confused. I'm trying to date for love, 311 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 8: and I'm looking for someone who wants the samesed. 312 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 5: Well, I really love that he fixed my stove. 313 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 2: Actually, you had a connection with him. Maybe you're just 314 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 2: jaded from being hurt, you know. 315 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 5: I mean that's true, and I'm sorry you feel bad. 316 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 5: I mean, I you were nice to talk to. I mean, 317 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 5: I'm happy to hang out again with you at my 318 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 5: plate if he fixes something else for you, like only 319 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 5: if he wants to, that's good. 320 00:14:53,320 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 2: Wow, what an offer? Anyone pass that up? 321 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 5: I mean the good news is I already got a 322 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 5: guy who's really good with plumbing, so I'll never ask 323 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 5: you to do any plumbing. 324 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 6: Oh there's a different guy. 325 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 2: Have not many plumbing issues. Well, it's hard to find 326 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 2: a good plumber. 327 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,680 Speaker 8: Okay, I just feel so taken advantage of right now. 328 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 8: I really thought we had a real connection, and it 329 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 8: looks like you have this kind of connection with a 330 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:19,000 Speaker 8: lot of people. 331 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 5: Oh, David, I'm really sorry you feel that way. 332 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,160 Speaker 6: It's Davis with an ass. 333 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 8: Davis, Oh my god. 334 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 2: You kissed him still? Or is that the tip? 335 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 5: You know? He did a nice thing for me. What's 336 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 5: wrong with a little harmless kissing everything? 337 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: When he thinks, yeah, bye Ryan wherever your name was? 338 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 5: Again? Like, I'm sorry if he was confused about things, 339 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 5: but I just know where I am at in my life. 340 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 5: I'm in this handyman phase. 341 00:15:59,080 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 2: You didn't tell him that. 342 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 5: Well, now he knows that he'd like to come over again, 343 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 5: I'd be open to it. 344 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 2: There is no way David still wants to hang out 345 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 2: with her. Gone buy some. 346 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 6: Wood and go build her a deck. Bro, if you'll 347 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 6: love her, go get Never underestimate the shallowness of a guy. 348 00:16:14,320 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 6: You never know what he's gonna say if it means 349 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 6: scoring another date with the cute girl. So that's true, Davis. 350 00:16:20,080 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 6: Remember how pretty Ashley was? 351 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 5: And I think I hear a noise in my ceiling. 352 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 6: Fan another opportunity to demonstrate your manly handliness for her. 353 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 2: She just pays you and kisses. 354 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 8: What do you think, Davis, My handiness is deserved for 355 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 8: someone who loves me. 356 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 2: That that should be a bubber sticker. 357 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 6: Well, thank you for being on the show with us, David, 358 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 6: and good luck, good luck with all your handy dating life. 359 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 7: Stuff in the future. 360 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:57,600 Speaker 6: Okay, thank you and Ashley. I know a couple of 361 00:16:57,600 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 6: guys on our textboart at seven eighty five nine two 362 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 6: say they be available at a moment's notice to come 363 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 6: and fix your ceiling fan or whatever you got going on. 364 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 2: Have no dignity left, no God, she kisses at the 365 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 2: end of the day. 366 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, I kiss somebody Jeffrey in the morning. I wasn't kidding. 367 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,119 Speaker 6: We really were getting text at seventy five to nine 368 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 6: to two from many gentlemen who would not mind helping 369 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:24,399 Speaker 6: Ashley with her household problems. Dude, but we're men. 370 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 2: We want to feel useful, women, have some respect, get paid. 371 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 6: For it, at least, that's the thing you have to 372 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 6: think about. Like I know we were saying earlier that 373 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 6: having a stranger who you just meant on the internet 374 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 6: come over to your house for a date is kind 375 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 6: of sketchy, but How is that any different than finding 376 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,919 Speaker 6: a random handyman on the internet and hiring him to 377 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:44,720 Speaker 6: come out to your house. 378 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, Jeff, I don't. I don't have those guys come 379 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 2: to my house when I'm home alone. Yeah, like you 380 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,159 Speaker 2: literally make sure that someone else is there. That's what 381 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:53,840 Speaker 2: women do, and like make sure you know their name. 382 00:17:53,880 --> 00:17:57,479 Speaker 6: Maybe just saying either way, it's a random dude that 383 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 6: you're inviting over to your house. But at least Ashley 384 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 6: plan was economical because she got free work done. 385 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:03,720 Speaker 1: I don't know, she can't change her own light bulb, 386 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,360 Speaker 1: but I'm just like, I'm disappointed in her as a human. 387 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 2: Was just off. 388 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,679 Speaker 6: Yeah, don't know how many people I've paid to come 389 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 6: out and change my light bulbs for me, and I 390 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 6: pay them. She's just given all the women of the 391 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 6: world a great life. Happen You just out a house. 392 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 4: And you're paying people to change your life. 393 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 2: Pay me next time. 394 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 7: I don't know. 395 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:23,960 Speaker 6: I don't know if you guys are handymen certified. Again, 396 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 6: it doesn't I need to see the check mark next 397 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:28,960 Speaker 6: to your name if I'm gonna believe you're gonna fix 398 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,479 Speaker 6: my stuff. But if you ever want help with your 399 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 6: dating life, we're not certified at all. For that will help, 400 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 6: We'll step in and give it our best try. It's 401 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 6: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.