WEBVTT - Excellence Will Be Tolerated with Al Lipphardt

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Good Stuff. I'm Jacob Schick and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>joined by my co host and wife, Ashley Shick.

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<v Speaker 2>Jake is a third generation combat Marine and I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>gold Star granddaughter, and we work together to serve military veterans,

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<v Speaker 2>first responders, frontline healthcare workers, and their families with mental

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<v Speaker 2>and emotional wellness through traditional and non traditional therapy.

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<v Speaker 3>At One Tribe Foundation.

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<v Speaker 1>We believe everyone has a story to tell, not only

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<v Speaker 1>about the peaks, but also the valleys they've been through

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<v Speaker 1>to get them to where they are today.

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<v Speaker 2>Each week, we invite a guest to tell us their story,

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<v Speaker 2>to share with us the lessons they've learned that shape

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<v Speaker 2>who they are and what they're doing to pay it

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<v Speaker 2>forward and give back.

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<v Speaker 1>Our mission with this show is to dig deep into

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<v Speaker 1>our guest's journey so that we can celebrate the hope

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<v Speaker 1>and inspiration their story has to offer.

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<v Speaker 3>We're thrilled you're joining us again.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the Good Stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we both have such a deep appreciation of

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<v Speaker 2>our nation's veterans, and not only did Jacob serve, but

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of men and women in both of our

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<v Speaker 2>families served and sacrificed for.

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<v Speaker 1>Our freedoms, freedoms that we all take for granted, myself

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<v Speaker 1>completely included every single day. Yes, our guest today is

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<v Speaker 1>the Al Lpparte. He served in the United States Army

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<v Speaker 1>for fourteen years during a time in our nation when

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't very popular to serve. In fact, it was

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<v Speaker 1>quite the opposite. While in the Army, he served in Vietnam.

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<v Speaker 1>Today he is a huge part of the Veterans of

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<v Speaker 1>Foreign Wars and he's here to tell us his story

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<v Speaker 1>of joining the army, serving in combat, and how he

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<v Speaker 1>continues to serve today and fight for the greater good.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited to share Al Laparte with the world.

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<v Speaker 2>We absolutely love him and he is one of the

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<v Speaker 2>most energetic seventy six year olds we know.

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<v Speaker 1>I forget he's seventy six often I'll Lippart, Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the good stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you. I'm honored to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>We're very humbled and privileged to have you and to

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<v Speaker 1>be open to doing this. We really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 2>And we were originally connected through your work with the

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<v Speaker 2>Veterans of Foreign Wars. And what is your current standing

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<v Speaker 2>in the BFW.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually in August of this year, I was elected as

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<v Speaker 4>the Junior Vice Commander in Chief, and what follows is

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<v Speaker 4>at next year's convention, I anticipate being elected as the

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<v Speaker 4>Senior Vice Commander in Chief. That would be the number

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<v Speaker 4>two man. And the following year, which would be in

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<v Speaker 4>August of twenty four, I would serve as the Commander

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<v Speaker 4>in Chief. That's a one year term. I would go

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<v Speaker 4>out of office in August of twenty twenty five. So

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<v Speaker 4>that's the role that I'm in right now and anticipating

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<v Speaker 4>the next several years.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's been really fascinating for Jake and I to

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<v Speaker 2>get more involved with the VFW and find out how

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<v Speaker 2>much really goes into the leadership and the planning and

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<v Speaker 2>the execution of all that you want to accomplish for

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<v Speaker 2>veterans worldwide and every age and every conflict that we've

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<v Speaker 2>been involved in. It's been really fascinating because I know

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<v Speaker 2>Jake and I both have personal stories with the VFW.

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<v Speaker 1>The VFW was very important to my grandmother and my grandfather,

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<v Speaker 1>my grandfather being the first generation United States Marine and

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<v Speaker 1>our family serving World War Two and a Regima, and

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<v Speaker 1>my grandmother ultimately becoming the president of the Auxiliary in

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<v Speaker 1>the State of Louisiana after my Pat Paul's passing. As

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<v Speaker 1>you all know, that's my bested interest or at least

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<v Speaker 1>the tip of the spear of my best at interest

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<v Speaker 1>to help the VFW in any way I can, which

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<v Speaker 1>you know a lot more in detail about that, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's definitely close to my heart and soul because it's

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<v Speaker 1>ingrained in my DNA by default.

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<v Speaker 3>And mine too.

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<v Speaker 2>My great grandfather, Ward Albro the second was a Bronze

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<v Speaker 2>Star recipient World War Two, served in the army, and.

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<v Speaker 3>He also in San Angelo, West Texas.

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<v Speaker 2>He was involved with the VFW, and so it's something

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<v Speaker 2>that we've known about our entire lives and really to

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<v Speaker 2>be able through you a'l dig in and find out

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<v Speaker 2>more about this organization and what it's done over decades

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<v Speaker 2>now over a century has been really exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>You're continuing the lead. You epitomize what it means to

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<v Speaker 1>be an effective leader.

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<v Speaker 4>I think so for all three of us being part

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<v Speaker 4>of those that were the favorite of the nation to

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<v Speaker 4>defend it, and then following our time in uniform, we

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<v Speaker 4>continue to use that service to give back. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>when we talk about VFW. Unfortunately, we as military types

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<v Speaker 4>tend to talk in acronyms, and people will ask what

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<v Speaker 4>the heck is the VFW, and we know that's the

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<v Speaker 4>Veterans of Foreign Wars. And there's one thing to be veterans,

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<v Speaker 4>because everyone that uniform takes the oath and serves is

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<v Speaker 4>a veteran. But we're different. We're are veterans of Foreign Wars,

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<v Speaker 4>meaning that not only did we raise our hand, we

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<v Speaker 4>all took the same oath, but when it came time

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<v Speaker 4>to deploy, when we were told we were going to war,

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<v Speaker 4>we went. So when I find someone that's in the

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<v Speaker 4>Veterans of Foreign Wars, I have absolutely no doubt of

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<v Speaker 4>their courage because they accepted the challenge, they went to war.

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<v Speaker 2>And we'll get into a little later how important THEFW

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<v Speaker 2>has been to your story.

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<v Speaker 3>But your story started when you were quite young.

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<v Speaker 4>I was born in nineteen forty six, and as a

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<v Speaker 4>high school student, I will tell you that during those

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<v Speaker 4>four years I was not what one would consider a

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<v Speaker 4>stellar student. I had other things that I enjoyed doing

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<v Speaker 4>versus studying. I guess it's to say that I did

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<v Speaker 4>not let my education interfere with my fun, because I

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<v Speaker 4>continued to have fun at the expense of my grades.

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<v Speaker 4>I found leadership in high school when I played football

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<v Speaker 4>up through my junior year. And one of the things

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<v Speaker 4>that my coach did, and he was a championship coach,

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<v Speaker 4>I told him I wanted to go to college and

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<v Speaker 4>what were my chances of getting a football scholarship, and

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<v Speaker 4>he said, I'll just be very frank with you, they're

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<v Speaker 4>probably zip. I was a starter my junior year, but

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<v Speaker 4>I was just another football player. But when the coach

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<v Speaker 4>told me, al, you probably should go find a job,

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<v Speaker 4>it was very hurtful. Now I also found that I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't really college material. That was really not on my radar.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you the first one in your family to serve No.

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<v Speaker 4>I had three uncles that were in World War Two,

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<v Speaker 4>one in the Navy and two in the Army. Uncle

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<v Speaker 4>Joe was in the Navy. I think he was in

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<v Speaker 4>the Pacific during World War II too. Uncle Bob was

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<v Speaker 4>in the Army, was in France and Germany. I had

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<v Speaker 4>Uncle Eddie. Both Bob and Joe served their time and

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<v Speaker 4>then got out. Uncle Eddie was a career soldier, landed

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<v Speaker 4>D Day. He landed in Anzio and then from Ansio

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<v Speaker 4>he went up went to the Battle of the bulge

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<v Speaker 4>that was involved in Mark Gardner, so he was an

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<v Speaker 4>infantry guy. He had a field commission. He got out

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<v Speaker 4>of the military as a colonel. I was very young.

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<v Speaker 4>I probably was six or seven years old the last

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<v Speaker 4>time I saw him in uniform. He also was a

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<v Speaker 4>Korean War veteran. I'll tell you he was the epitome

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<v Speaker 4>to me of strength, of conviction, of courage. A three

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<v Speaker 4>or four Silver Star recipient. I think he had the

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<v Speaker 4>Distinguished Service Cross. He was what we would refer to

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<v Speaker 4>as a badass. So when the war came about, I

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<v Speaker 4>decided that fortunately we had my family knew people that

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<v Speaker 4>were in the Selective Service offices, and the word got

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<v Speaker 4>back to my parents that my number was coming up.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't want to be drafted. I wanted to enlist

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<v Speaker 4>so that I could get when I wanted. And that

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<v Speaker 4>was the first time in life that I realized be

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<v Speaker 4>careful what you asked for, because it might come true.

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<v Speaker 4>Because of what I asked for, I absolutely hated when

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<v Speaker 4>I got into the service. I thought, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to go into the service, so I want

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<v Speaker 4>to learn skill that I can transition into business when

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<v Speaker 4>I get out. Because I had no intention of making

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<v Speaker 4>a career of the military. I was assigned as a

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<v Speaker 4>clerk typist, and so I sat at the desk and

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<v Speaker 4>I did with clink click because they drove me crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to do this. While I was in

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<v Speaker 4>basic training, I really enjoyed that. Again, I'm a football player,

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<v Speaker 4>I'd like contact. So as I was going across the bars,

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<v Speaker 4>as you swing to go to chow, and if you fall,

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<v Speaker 4>you go back and get in the back of the

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<v Speaker 4>line and start all over again. And after about the

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<v Speaker 4>third time of that, I went, I got to get

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<v Speaker 4>this master. It was building up strength. It certainly was

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<v Speaker 4>building up character. Because my hands were blistered, they were bleeding.

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<v Speaker 4>I was still punching through my drill. Sergeants had been

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<v Speaker 4>watching this and they came up and they said, loopart,

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<v Speaker 4>your determination, your commitment to see this through to excel.

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<v Speaker 4>We think you're a leader. You may not know this,

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<v Speaker 4>but people in your platoon are watching you and they're

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<v Speaker 4>following your lead, and so we think it would be

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<v Speaker 4>good for you to go to Officer Candidate school. And

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<v Speaker 4>so in June of sixty six, I went to Fort Benning, Georgia,

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<v Speaker 4>to the home of the Infantry. The Infantry School. The

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<v Speaker 4>Infantry school motto was follow me, and I felt right

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<v Speaker 4>at home going through tactics, learning all those things that

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<v Speaker 4>it needed to learn to be a leader of warriors,

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<v Speaker 4>and I took right to that. Was very proud to

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<v Speaker 4>do that. There were a lot of good things that

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<v Speaker 4>came out of that. I learned much about myself. We

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<v Speaker 4>also had to have a social aspect, because, as Jake knows,

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<v Speaker 4>when your commission the President declares you to be a gentleman,

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<v Speaker 4>you're an officer and a gentleman. That's what that commission represents.

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<v Speaker 4>So we had to learn some social skills rather than

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<v Speaker 4>just beat each other up. We did have to learn

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<v Speaker 4>those social skills, so we had a social a quarter,

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<v Speaker 4>and of course we were restricted to base, so we

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<v Speaker 4>had to have a date, so you couldn't go downtown

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<v Speaker 4>and get a rented date if you catch my draft.

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<v Speaker 4>Fortunately one of the nursing schools in Columbus, those students

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<v Speaker 4>would come and serve as our dates, so it was

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<v Speaker 4>blind dates. The very first one, I was sitting next

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<v Speaker 4>to a fellow candidate. This girl starts walking down the steps.

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<v Speaker 4>I looked at her, and I looked to the guy,

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<v Speaker 4>and I said that's my future wife. He went your

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<v Speaker 4>kid now, I'm telling you she's it. That turned out

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<v Speaker 4>to be my date. That date happened to turn out

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<v Speaker 4>to be my wife, Carol. She was my date at

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<v Speaker 4>the three other socials. That was from about August, right

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<v Speaker 4>as we graduated in December, in the car at a light,

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<v Speaker 4>I proposed marriage to Carol and she accepted well. I

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<v Speaker 4>graduated from OCS on the sixteenth of December of nineteen

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<v Speaker 4>sixty six. We were married February the twenty fourth of

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen sixty seven. We remain married today, so we're pretty

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<v Speaker 4>sure it's going to work. So left Ohio to go

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<v Speaker 4>to Vietnam in June of nineteen sixty seven. Young Infantry

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<v Speaker 4>Officer Green as Green could be. I'm in Vietnam now,

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<v Speaker 4>and there's a couple of movies that I've seen that

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<v Speaker 4>are very good examples of at least my experiences in combat.

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<v Speaker 4>I think there's probably three movies that mean the most

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<v Speaker 4>to me. The first movie that comes to mind is

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<v Speaker 4>Saving Private Ryan. It's those scenes in Normandy where they're

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<v Speaker 4>coming off of the LSTs and getting into the water

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<v Speaker 4>to take the beach. Everything in combat moves in slow motion.

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<v Speaker 4>All hell is breaking loose, but when you're in there,

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<v Speaker 4>time is just moves slowly. The second one that I

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<v Speaker 4>related to was the movie Platoon. When the movie starts,

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<v Speaker 4>you see this soldier in very clean pressed fatigues. His

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<v Speaker 4>boots are shined, and he's, hey, I'm here. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>mad at anybody. I know. I'm here. It's all okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a mission. And then we're going to do

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<v Speaker 4>the mission. But I'm not angry. So we're out. We're

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<v Speaker 4>clearing a road. Now. I'm a platoon leader. So we're

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<v Speaker 4>clearing this road of mines. This is up in i

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<v Speaker 4>Coourt in the northernmost part Vietnam of South Vietnam. We're

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<v Speaker 4>clearing this road and this shot rings out, and so

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<v Speaker 4>I'm looking around where'd the shot come from? Because I

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<v Speaker 4>want to return fire. This guy laying on the ground,

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<v Speaker 4>it's pulling my passlots. He keeps yelling at me to

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<v Speaker 4>get down, Get down, get down. What he said to

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<v Speaker 4>me was when somebody's firing, when you hear shot, you're

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<v Speaker 4>supposed to get on the ground first. Then you can

0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:55.320
<v Speaker 4>look around, but get down. Because you're a target. You

0:13:55.400 --> 0:14:00.240
<v Speaker 4>make the rest of us a target. Lesson learned got

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<v Speaker 4>up after we had eliminated the sniper, and I realized

0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:11.280
<v Speaker 4>at that point that somebody's now shooting it. They've started

0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.160
<v Speaker 4>to fight with me. So now I'm angry. When I

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<v Speaker 4>got there at the beginning, I'm this nice, pleasant individual.

0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:22.760
<v Speaker 4>I'm just here. But at that point, now I realized

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<v Speaker 4>somebody's trying to kill us, and that's not acceptable, and

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<v Speaker 4>so I became hardened very quickly because we're going through.

0:14:33.880 --> 0:14:38.560
<v Speaker 4>We were air assaulted up to further north in Icres,

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<v Speaker 4>which is that area that's the northernmost part of the

0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:46.880
<v Speaker 4>combat zone, and there's a way that you deploy. Early

0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:50.000
<v Speaker 4>movies showed helicopters landing and you're getting off. That's not

0:14:50.040 --> 0:14:52.480
<v Speaker 4>how you do it. You're going to get off that

0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:55.200
<v Speaker 4>helicopter when you air assault. You can get off on

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<v Speaker 4>the way down, or you can get off on the

0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.680
<v Speaker 4>way up. But either way you're going to get off.

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<v Speaker 4>The key is get off when it gets as close

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<v Speaker 4>to the ground as it's going to get, which is

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<v Speaker 4>about six feet. We were about twenty five clicks southwest

0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:11.760
<v Speaker 4>of d Nag. Now I'm in a warzone. We're not

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<v Speaker 4>looking for guerrillas anymore. We're looking for regular North Vietnamese Army,

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<v Speaker 4>and so it came to November nineteen sixty seven. At

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<v Speaker 4>this particular time, intelligence came in that intercepted a radio

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<v Speaker 4>signal that was very unusual because only units of regimental

0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:33.960
<v Speaker 4>size or division size had radios. So there was a

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<v Speaker 4>large element near us. And so we were being deployed

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<v Speaker 4>and a search and destroyer mission for the enemy. So

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<v Speaker 4>I was part of a delta company. I was a

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<v Speaker 4>second platin leader. We got online, we started to move

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<v Speaker 4>up this small hill. It had a hedgerow up at

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<v Speaker 4>the top, and so as we were movie first PLATOWO

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<v Speaker 4>was on the left and I think the fourth platoon

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<v Speaker 4>was in the middle and I was the second platoon.

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<v Speaker 4>I had the right flank. As we were moving up,

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<v Speaker 4>there was a shot and it was to my left.

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<v Speaker 4>The company commander said, all right, everybody start shifting left

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<v Speaker 4>and continue to sweep. So we did. Then more shots

0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:23.240
<v Speaker 4>rang out, and more urgently he said, okay, move left.

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<v Speaker 4>So we did well. When we got about fifteen yards

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<v Speaker 4>from the hedgerow, the hedgerow opened fire. I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 4>at the time, but on the initial volley ten of

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<v Speaker 4>my men went down. They were wounded. Four of them

0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:42.680
<v Speaker 4>were killed immediately, one was killed later. The one that

0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:47.000
<v Speaker 4>was killed later was standing next to me. But as

0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:49.320
<v Speaker 4>Jake does, when you get into an ambush, there's only

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<v Speaker 4>one way out of an ambush, and that's to not

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<v Speaker 4>stay there. You have to fight your way through it.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's what we did. We just charged. We broke

0:16:57.440 --> 0:17:01.680
<v Speaker 4>the ambush that battle that started on Thanksgiving Day, And

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<v Speaker 4>I've got a picture that I've posted a couple of

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<v Speaker 4>times that shows the time before. I'm sitting with my

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<v Speaker 4>squad leaders and my platoon sergeant, my radio operator, and

0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:18.159
<v Speaker 4>my medic and we're going over my plan for the

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<v Speaker 4>way we're going to conduct this suite. We are a unit,

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<v Speaker 4>and yes I'm the platoon leader, but they've got more

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<v Speaker 4>time than I do in this so I'm going to

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<v Speaker 4>run my plan by them and for them to pick

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<v Speaker 4>at it, and if there's something wrong, let me know.

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<v Speaker 4>My mission was not to win a war. I was

0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:42.439
<v Speaker 4>responsible for the lives of these men, so that was

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<v Speaker 4>my goal was to protect them as much as I

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<v Speaker 4>possibly could. I did not know their names. If I

0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:51.680
<v Speaker 4>did know their names, it was only their first name.

0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:55.760
<v Speaker 4>I knew probably only a handful by name because I

0:17:55.800 --> 0:17:58.040
<v Speaker 4>did not want to know them because I knew what

0:17:58.119 --> 0:18:00.399
<v Speaker 4>I was going to have to do, going to have

0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:03.200
<v Speaker 4>to send them in harm's way. I did not want

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<v Speaker 4>that to be an obstruction to either one of us.

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<v Speaker 4>That battle started November the twenty third, nineteen sixty seven.

0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:13.600
<v Speaker 4>It it ended November the twenty seventh, nineteen sixty seven. For

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<v Speaker 4>four days we engaged the second MBA Division of the

0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:22.879
<v Speaker 4>third Regiment of the North Vietnamese Art. It truly was

0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:27.600
<v Speaker 4>a shit show because it is so chaotic in battle,

0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:31.880
<v Speaker 4>with the gunfire, with explosions, with all that is going on,

0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:35.920
<v Speaker 4>It truly is chaos. And you rely on your training.

0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:40.000
<v Speaker 4>This is not a time where a true thought process

0:18:40.240 --> 0:18:44.359
<v Speaker 4>takes place. You simply react to the training that you

0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:47.879
<v Speaker 4>had and you hope that you were trained to be

0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:51.320
<v Speaker 4>the best that you could be, and we were. As

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<v Speaker 4>we took the heel, there was a bunker on top,

0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:57.840
<v Speaker 4>and we were approaching that bunker, and as we did,

0:18:58.480 --> 0:19:01.320
<v Speaker 4>shots came out. I'd seen the bunker, We were all

0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 4>aware that the bunker was there, and I had just

0:19:04.880 --> 0:19:09.359
<v Speaker 4>said to this individual, whose name was Rodney Lowman, I

0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:13.040
<v Speaker 4>told him to move. At that moment, he went to

0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:17.280
<v Speaker 4>the ground. They were shot in the head. We returned fire.

0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:21.960
<v Speaker 4>We got support because there was an NBA soldier in

0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:26.040
<v Speaker 4>there who would not give up, and so we were

0:19:26.080 --> 0:19:28.359
<v Speaker 4>able to outflank him, get around him and throw a

0:19:28.400 --> 0:19:32.439
<v Speaker 4>hangernad in and kill him. Fast forward. Now there were

0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:35.600
<v Speaker 4>a number of other battles. The Tet Offensive of nineteen

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<v Speaker 4>sixty eight took place in January, beginning in January, and

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<v Speaker 4>again it was Hellasia's fighting. It was it was war.

0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:48.000
<v Speaker 4>There was nothing gorilla about it. It was large units

0:19:48.359 --> 0:19:51.200
<v Speaker 4>fighting large units. I will tell you that we never

0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:54.360
<v Speaker 4>lost a battle. Some of the battles were very costly.

0:19:55.320 --> 0:19:59.960
<v Speaker 4>My recollection is I began Thanksgiving with twenty four men.

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<v Speaker 4>On the twenty seventh of November, I had six men.

0:20:04.280 --> 0:20:07.840
<v Speaker 4>Now I was wounded superficially, but I didn't have to

0:20:07.840 --> 0:20:15.600
<v Speaker 4>be evacuated. The last movie that reminded me of Vietnam

0:20:16.440 --> 0:20:19.199
<v Speaker 4>was We were Soldiers Once in Young the Battle of

0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:21.960
<v Speaker 4>the Idragon Valley, which happened to be several years earlier,

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<v Speaker 4>in sixty five, because what I saw on that screen

0:20:27.800 --> 0:20:30.760
<v Speaker 4>was what I went through on Thanksgiving Day of nineteen

0:20:30.800 --> 0:20:35.840
<v Speaker 4>sixty seven. When people ask me about my experience of Vietnam,

0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:40.040
<v Speaker 4>it's hard for me to explain, because if you weren't there,

0:20:40.680 --> 0:20:44.120
<v Speaker 4>you don't understand it. I can describe it, but it's

0:20:44.200 --> 0:20:48.600
<v Speaker 4>not the same. There's a couple things missing. If we

0:20:48.600 --> 0:20:53.120
<v Speaker 4>were soldiers once in young could have recreated the smells

0:20:53.160 --> 0:20:57.240
<v Speaker 4>of death, the smells of blood, the smells of flesh

0:20:57.320 --> 0:21:00.199
<v Speaker 4>that are burning, that would have been real. That's what

0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:05.360
<v Speaker 4>people don't get. They also don't get the adrenaline. There

0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:11.359
<v Speaker 4>is no greater feeling than being alive at the end

0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:16.679
<v Speaker 4>of a firefight. When you talk about collisions and you

0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:24.160
<v Speaker 4>talk about combat, there is only one winner, and that's

0:21:24.200 --> 0:21:29.640
<v Speaker 4>the person that's alive. That has stuck with me forever,

0:21:29.880 --> 0:21:34.000
<v Speaker 4>and it will stick with me. I didn't realize that

0:21:34.080 --> 0:21:37.480
<v Speaker 4>I had PTSD when I got back from Vietnam the

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<v Speaker 4>second time, which was seventy one. I was stationed in Washington,

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<v Speaker 4>d C. I had a reserve commission and I got

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<v Speaker 4>the word that I was going to be released from

0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.600
<v Speaker 4>active duty or there was a reduction in force. So

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<v Speaker 4>ended the reserves for three years, and after the third year,

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<v Speaker 4>I went up to the colonel. I was a company commander.

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<v Speaker 4>I told the colonel I needed to see him, and

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<v Speaker 4>he said, this is on I drew a weekend. He said,

0:22:00.960 --> 0:22:03.080
<v Speaker 4>what do you need and I said, well, sir, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>here to tell you that I quit. He quit, Captain,

0:22:07.240 --> 0:22:09.720
<v Speaker 4>you can't quit and I said, oh, Sir, I can't.

0:22:10.560 --> 0:22:13.320
<v Speaker 4>He said, you've got an obligation. I said, no, sir,

0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:16.320
<v Speaker 4>I've been here three years. I have fulfilled my obligation.

0:22:17.160 --> 0:22:20.199
<v Speaker 4>And he said, clipart, that's fourteen years. Why would you

0:22:20.240 --> 0:22:25.080
<v Speaker 4>throw fourteen years away? And I was in suiting clothes

0:22:25.240 --> 0:22:27.159
<v Speaker 4>and I said, sir, you see this purple heart. I

0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:31.040
<v Speaker 4>always wore my purple heart. And I said, I wear

0:22:31.080 --> 0:22:34.639
<v Speaker 4>this for me. It reminds me how short life is.

0:22:34.680 --> 0:22:38.080
<v Speaker 4>Life changes in the blink of an eye. And I said, sir,

0:22:38.640 --> 0:22:40.640
<v Speaker 4>I have to tell you every month when I come

0:22:40.680 --> 0:22:43.160
<v Speaker 4>here and drill, we do the same thing. I've been

0:22:43.160 --> 0:22:46.720
<v Speaker 4>doing the same thing for three years. I am not

0:22:46.960 --> 0:22:52.159
<v Speaker 4>benefiting the unit, and Sir, the unit's not benefiting me.

0:22:52.320 --> 0:22:55.480
<v Speaker 4>So I think it's best if we just part as

0:22:55.720 --> 0:23:00.320
<v Speaker 4>friends right now. He said, Okay, wasn't the best financial

0:23:00.359 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 4>decision I ever made, but mentally it was a good decision.

0:23:03.840 --> 0:23:06.640
<v Speaker 4>So I'm home after the two tours and I leave

0:23:06.680 --> 0:23:10.280
<v Speaker 4>the reserves, and I'm floundering looking for myself, and I

0:23:11.400 --> 0:23:14.920
<v Speaker 4>learned that I work well with others, I just don't

0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:18.840
<v Speaker 4>work well for others. I need to be independent. I

0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:24.480
<v Speaker 4>have principles, I have ethics, and I make demands of myself.

0:23:25.119 --> 0:23:28.560
<v Speaker 4>So I became an entrepreneur. And one of the things

0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:30.719
<v Speaker 4>I did was I opened a frame shop and I

0:23:30.760 --> 0:23:34.320
<v Speaker 4>opened it at Fort McPherson, and I found myself back

0:23:34.359 --> 0:23:37.560
<v Speaker 4>with troops again because that's what I had been looking

0:23:37.640 --> 0:23:41.080
<v Speaker 4>for in the eighties. I joined Rotary, and Rotary is

0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:43.800
<v Speaker 4>the world's finest as far as I'm concerned, and I

0:23:43.840 --> 0:23:48.280
<v Speaker 4>still am a Rotarian, the finest service organization. It's an

0:23:48.320 --> 0:23:53.000
<v Speaker 4>international organization. People who are members of Rotary have high

0:23:53.119 --> 0:23:56.159
<v Speaker 4>ethical standards. I was looking for camaraderie and what I

0:23:56.240 --> 0:23:59.320
<v Speaker 4>joined Rotor was all men, so I had that camaraderie.

0:23:59.520 --> 0:24:02.000
<v Speaker 4>It was a placement for the military. Still didn't have

0:24:02.040 --> 0:24:05.439
<v Speaker 4>the discipline, but that's okay. I was self disciplined. But

0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:07.439
<v Speaker 4>it got me to Fort Mack and it got me

0:24:07.480 --> 0:24:10.840
<v Speaker 4>back to troops again. Not only troops, but it got

0:24:10.880 --> 0:24:14.480
<v Speaker 4>me back to leadership because I interfaced with the commanding

0:24:14.520 --> 0:24:19.000
<v Speaker 4>general from Forces Command four stars. There were like twenty

0:24:19.040 --> 0:24:22.120
<v Speaker 4>six stars at Fort McPherson. I got to know them all,

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:24.120
<v Speaker 4>and as they rotated and got to meet new ones.

0:24:24.640 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 4>I opened a store in two thousand and then two

0:24:28.320 --> 0:24:32.959
<v Speaker 4>thousand and one came, Yeah, I want to enlist. So

0:24:33.000 --> 0:24:36.720
<v Speaker 4>I'm talking to the garrison commander. He said, so did

0:24:36.800 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 4>you enlist? And I said no, I already tried. And

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:42.359
<v Speaker 4>he laughed and I said, where are you laughing? He said,

0:24:42.520 --> 0:24:45.439
<v Speaker 4>you tried. I said, yeah, I did. I could still shoot.

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:48.440
<v Speaker 4>I wanted to get back in. I wanted to contribute

0:24:48.480 --> 0:24:51.000
<v Speaker 4>to the war. And the way I got into VFW

0:24:51.200 --> 0:24:52.879
<v Speaker 4>was they hooked me in by telling me they were

0:24:52.920 --> 0:24:54.800
<v Speaker 4>going to form a new post and they were looking

0:24:54.840 --> 0:24:57.680
<v Speaker 4>for members. And I was a framer and my friend

0:24:57.720 --> 0:24:59.800
<v Speaker 4>member Bilia, So why don't you bring some of your

0:25:00.320 --> 0:25:04.040
<v Speaker 4>and maybe you get some business. And again I'm a businessman,

0:25:04.840 --> 0:25:07.359
<v Speaker 4>so I said, okay. Well I got to this meeting

0:25:08.240 --> 0:25:11.520
<v Speaker 4>and Holy Toledo, it was like I've known these people

0:25:11.560 --> 0:25:14.560
<v Speaker 4>all my life. We're speaking the same language, we have

0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:19.120
<v Speaker 4>the same mentality, we have the same feelings. So I thought,

0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:21.920
<v Speaker 4>you know what, I think I want to be part

0:25:21.960 --> 0:25:25.320
<v Speaker 4>of this. In two thousand and two, I became a

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:30.240
<v Speaker 4>member of the Veterans of foreign wars, without a doubt,

0:25:31.040 --> 0:25:35.480
<v Speaker 4>my medics saved my life, and Vietnam, the veterans of

0:25:35.560 --> 0:25:41.000
<v Speaker 4>foreign wars saved my life. Here, it did not realize

0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:45.959
<v Speaker 4>that I had post traumatic stress. But I became a workaholic.

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:49.520
<v Speaker 4>I didn't do drugs, I did not do alcohol. I

0:25:49.600 --> 0:25:53.720
<v Speaker 4>worked all the time. I mean from sunrise to sunset

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:57.040
<v Speaker 4>and beyond, I would work. I didn't realize that was

0:25:57.080 --> 0:26:00.200
<v Speaker 4>my coping mechanism. Well, when you get a little old,

0:26:00.560 --> 0:26:03.760
<v Speaker 4>you get time on your hands. When you get time

0:26:03.800 --> 0:26:08.159
<v Speaker 4>on your hands, you start with zig ziggler. A motivator

0:26:08.800 --> 0:26:13.639
<v Speaker 4>is fond of calling just thinking thinking. He calls to

0:26:13.680 --> 0:26:15.960
<v Speaker 4>do a check up from the neck up. And when

0:26:16.000 --> 0:26:20.960
<v Speaker 4>I did that, I realized I have issues. The VA

0:26:21.080 --> 0:26:24.879
<v Speaker 4>tells me that I had anger issues, and so I

0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:29.560
<v Speaker 4>went to therapy and part of the therapy was immersion

0:26:29.760 --> 0:26:34.160
<v Speaker 4>therapy where I had to relive the moment. Hardest thing

0:26:34.320 --> 0:26:37.399
<v Speaker 4>I've ever done, I think in my life, was to

0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:41.359
<v Speaker 4>take me back to November the twenty third, nineteen sixty seven,

0:26:42.720 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 4>and when I was when we were taping it and

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:48.040
<v Speaker 4>he had me, my psychologist had me in the moment.

0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 4>He suddenly said, what did you just say? And I said,

0:26:53.119 --> 0:26:55.920
<v Speaker 4>I have no clue. I'm just doing what you asked

0:26:55.960 --> 0:26:58.800
<v Speaker 4>me to do. And he said, no, what did you

0:26:58.840 --> 0:27:01.280
<v Speaker 4>just say. I said, I don't know. He said, let's

0:27:01.280 --> 0:27:04.399
<v Speaker 4>play the tape back. So he played the tape back,

0:27:05.520 --> 0:27:09.280
<v Speaker 4>and what I said was I started Thanksgiving Day with

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:12.560
<v Speaker 4>twenty four men. At the end of the battle, I

0:27:12.680 --> 0:27:17.280
<v Speaker 4>had six men left. I had one man killed. Rodney

0:27:17.400 --> 0:27:19.840
<v Speaker 4>is who I remember in the records. Later I saw

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:22.160
<v Speaker 4>the names of the other men that were killed that day.

0:27:23.720 --> 0:27:25.800
<v Speaker 4>He said, you think you had that man killed? And

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:29.439
<v Speaker 4>I said no, I don't. He said, why'd you say it?

0:27:30.040 --> 0:27:31.679
<v Speaker 4>I said, it's just the way I said it. I

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<v Speaker 4>just said I had one man kunt and he said, no,

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<v Speaker 4>you think that's your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh.

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<v Speaker 4>He was standing next to me. I just told him

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<v Speaker 4>to move. He said, do you think that the NBA

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<v Speaker 4>soldier looked down range and saw you and the other

0:27:45.400 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 4>guy and said, oh, I think I'll shoot this guy

0:27:48.200 --> 0:27:49.920
<v Speaker 4>because he looks like he's a winner, and this guy

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to leavehim alone. He said, of course not.

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:55.520
<v Speaker 4>He said, did you ever shoot anybody? Said? Yeah, said

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<v Speaker 4>you think about it. I said, now, of course not.

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<v Speaker 4>You All we do is react he said the same

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<v Speaker 4>for the NBA soldier. This was not your fault and

0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:07.479
<v Speaker 4>Rodney was just a casualty of the war. After some

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<v Speaker 4>more sessions with that, I realized for over forty years

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:17.159
<v Speaker 4>I carried Rodney Lieutman with me when Carol and I

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<v Speaker 4>would go to the Vietnam War Memorial in Washington, d C.

0:28:21.000 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 4>I would go to Rodney's panel, Banel thirty three West

0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:26.840
<v Speaker 4>and I would find his name and I would talk

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<v Speaker 4>to Rodney. Later in the therapy. I asked a psychologist.

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I said, Okay, if i go to the

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<v Speaker 4>wall and tell Rodney I'm not carrying him anymore, he

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<v Speaker 4>can rest at peace. And he said it would be

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<v Speaker 4>good if you could do that. And I've done that.

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<v Speaker 4>I still go to the wall every opportunity that I get,

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<v Speaker 4>because the names of all five men that were in

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<v Speaker 4>my unit that were killed are all on that same panel,

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<v Speaker 4>So I go visit each one of them when i'm there.

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<v Speaker 4>But I do it out of respect, out of honor,

0:29:05.200 --> 0:29:08.760
<v Speaker 4>because that's what I do with the veterans of foreign wars.

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<v Speaker 4>The veterans of foreign wars is my therapy. It's the

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<v Speaker 4>way I give back for those that have given the

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:21.720
<v Speaker 4>ultimate sacrifice, but everyone that has done the uniform and

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:25.080
<v Speaker 4>been to battle. VFW was formed over one hundred years

0:29:25.120 --> 0:29:29.280
<v Speaker 4>ago for two purposes. One was to care for the veteran,

0:29:29.520 --> 0:29:33.240
<v Speaker 4>their surviving spouse and orphaned children. And the second thing

0:29:33.360 --> 0:29:36.520
<v Speaker 4>is to advocate on their behalf in the halls of Congress.

0:29:37.520 --> 0:29:40.160
<v Speaker 4>We still take care of the veterans. That is our

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 4>primary function. By taking care of the veteran includes camaraderie,

0:29:45.160 --> 0:29:49.160
<v Speaker 4>It includes that fellowship, that bond that we all share.

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:52.280
<v Speaker 4>Doesn't matter where you were, who you were, what branch

0:29:52.320 --> 0:29:56.600
<v Speaker 4>you were, if you've experienced combat, we are one and

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<v Speaker 4>the same, and we understand each other, know that we

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:05.680
<v Speaker 4>can depend upon each other and that advocating Congress. When

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<v Speaker 4>we were formed in eighteen ninety nine, we were formed

0:30:08.360 --> 0:30:12.280
<v Speaker 4>by veterans of the Spanish American War. And why because

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<v Speaker 4>Congress did not keep their promises to those veterans, and

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<v Speaker 4>they haven't been doing it ever since. The only way

0:30:20.920 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 4>they do it is when we make demands, not requests.

0:30:25.800 --> 0:30:29.680
<v Speaker 4>The first GI Bill, the Montgomery Bill, that was passed

0:30:29.680 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 4>because of the veterans' foreign wars. There are other vs. Yes,

0:30:34.040 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 4>there are. We're combat veterans, we're warriors. As I like

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:42.040
<v Speaker 4>to say, as an infantry, I know how to break things,

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:44.240
<v Speaker 4>and if you want something broken, you can call me.

0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:47.600
<v Speaker 4>I'll help you break it. Our relationship with Congress needs

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<v Speaker 4>to be one of respect, that needs to be one

0:30:50.800 --> 0:30:55.520
<v Speaker 4>of mutual benefit. But they have a responsibility to care

0:30:55.600 --> 0:30:58.920
<v Speaker 4>for us, because it's just like workmen's comp in the

0:30:58.960 --> 0:31:01.040
<v Speaker 4>civilian world. If you get heard on the job, you

0:31:01.120 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 4>got workmen's cop In the military, if your service connected

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<v Speaker 4>with your injury, the government has an obligation to take

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<v Speaker 4>care of as long as you live, not for a week,

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<v Speaker 4>or not for a month, or not for a couple

0:31:12.920 --> 0:31:18.000
<v Speaker 4>of years. Our injuries belonged to them and they must

0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:20.760
<v Speaker 4>provide that care. And so that's what we do, and

0:31:20.800 --> 0:31:22.120
<v Speaker 4>we do a very good job of it.

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<v Speaker 2>If it weren't for your era, for the Korean War veterans,

0:31:30.040 --> 0:31:33.080
<v Speaker 2>for the World War II veterans, the way specifically the

0:31:33.160 --> 0:31:35.640
<v Speaker 2>Vietnam veterans got treated when you all came home, it

0:31:35.680 --> 0:31:37.360
<v Speaker 2>was tragic. It was one of the darkest days in

0:31:37.360 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 2>American history. If it weren't for your generation, we truly

0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:45.400
<v Speaker 2>believe and feel that the guys coming back from Operation

0:31:45.520 --> 0:31:48.080
<v Speaker 2>Iraqi Freedom and Operation enduring freedom, and O and D

0:31:48.440 --> 0:31:51.960
<v Speaker 2>would not have gotten the reception and the treatment that

0:31:52.000 --> 0:31:54.920
<v Speaker 2>they've gotten. Fact, it is one hundred percent and your

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<v Speaker 2>generation's dedication to making sure that the American people understand

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<v Speaker 2>the price of freedom and really stepping up to support

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<v Speaker 2>Jake's era and those to come.

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<v Speaker 3>It's such a beautiful thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, how has seeking therapy for your PTS impacted you

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<v Speaker 1>and your family life?

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<v Speaker 4>Monumental in a word. I didn't realize that I had

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<v Speaker 4>an issue. And when I went in for an agent

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<v Speaker 4>Orange intake to get on the registry, the young lady

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<v Speaker 4>that was taking the information asked me if I suffered

0:32:33.800 --> 0:32:39.360
<v Speaker 4>from PTSD and I said, in typical for no, I'm fine,

0:32:40.040 --> 0:32:42.320
<v Speaker 4>And she said, but I asked you some questions and

0:32:42.360 --> 0:32:45.280
<v Speaker 4>I said, of course. She said, I'm going to ask

0:32:45.320 --> 0:32:49.840
<v Speaker 4>you like four questions. She started and then she stopped.

0:32:51.320 --> 0:32:55.520
<v Speaker 4>She said, you know, sir, I'm not able to prescribe

0:32:55.600 --> 0:33:00.920
<v Speaker 4>medication for you. So what are you talking about? She said, Oh,

0:33:01.160 --> 0:33:05.200
<v Speaker 4>you have issues? I said really, She said yeah, So

0:33:05.320 --> 0:33:08.240
<v Speaker 4>come to find out those issues were anger issues, which

0:33:08.280 --> 0:33:11.480
<v Speaker 4>I never knew I had. Carol could tell you that

0:33:11.600 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 4>I had them, and that's the biggest thing that's come

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 4>out of this. If my shirt wasn't tucked in exactly right,

0:33:19.800 --> 0:33:23.800
<v Speaker 4>I could fly off the hand. I'd be unbearable for

0:33:23.840 --> 0:33:29.600
<v Speaker 4>three days. And it just to realize where my anger

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:33.400
<v Speaker 4>was coming from, and that anger was from survivor's guilt.

0:33:33.600 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 4>I didn't know I had it. I didn't realize that

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:40.800
<v Speaker 4>I carried Rodney's death with me. But the way I

0:33:40.840 --> 0:33:45.800
<v Speaker 4>said it indicated that I felt it. And when when

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:49.239
<v Speaker 4>that was said and when that was cleared, when I

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 4>was able to understand it, I got it, and it

0:33:53.640 --> 0:33:57.080
<v Speaker 4>was it was the monkey was off of my back.

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<v Speaker 4>I've continued with therapy. I'll talk to my prapist maybe

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:03.800
<v Speaker 4>every six months. As you and I know, there is

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:07.160
<v Speaker 4>a monster in here, and I want to make sure

0:34:07.160 --> 0:34:10.799
<v Speaker 4>that the monster remains contained and I don't see I

0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:14.279
<v Speaker 4>don't see anything happening to let the monster out. But

0:34:14.520 --> 0:34:17.040
<v Speaker 4>just in knowing that I've got somebody to talk to,

0:34:18.040 --> 0:34:22.919
<v Speaker 4>somebody who understands where I'm coming from is I don't

0:34:22.920 --> 0:34:28.359
<v Speaker 4>consider it therapy. It's just talking to somebody else who understands.

0:34:28.960 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 4>And so that's why I do that. And I appreciate

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 4>the VA allowing me to continue that relationship.

0:34:35.360 --> 0:34:39.279
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely brother, there's nothing wrong with oil in the chain

0:34:39.320 --> 0:34:42.400
<v Speaker 1>every now and again, just making sure everything is operational,

0:34:42.440 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 1>even if it's for preventative maintenance.

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<v Speaker 4>So exactly exactly, I appreciate.

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:50.719
<v Speaker 1>You finding strength in your vulnerability and refusing to be

0:34:50.760 --> 0:34:51.800
<v Speaker 1>a host to your pride.

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<v Speaker 2>Brother, What does it mean to you, Ol and Carol?

0:34:55.239 --> 0:34:57.600
<v Speaker 2>Because you are a unit, you are a team. What

0:34:57.600 --> 0:35:00.239
<v Speaker 2>does it mean to you to have donned the off

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:00.719
<v Speaker 2>of our nation.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think there's a greater honor that could be

0:35:04.800 --> 0:35:09.600
<v Speaker 4>given than to serve in uniform. We're the United States

0:35:09.640 --> 0:35:14.359
<v Speaker 4>of America. Be proud to be an American. Americans have

0:35:14.640 --> 0:35:20.800
<v Speaker 4>overcome every single obstacle. That's that pride, it's that uniform.

0:35:21.160 --> 0:35:28.080
<v Speaker 4>It's loyalty, it's duty, it's respect, it's selfless service, it's honor,

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:33.520
<v Speaker 4>it's integrity, and it's personal courage. Life is no game.

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:38.719
<v Speaker 4>There's no timeouts, there's no substitutions. You got to play

0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:41.160
<v Speaker 4>every play. Sometimes you got to play hurt, but it

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:42.799
<v Speaker 4>must be done.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to know because you go into the military

0:35:46.520 --> 0:35:50.279
<v Speaker 1>one person. When you come out of the military, you're

0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:53.640
<v Speaker 1>a different person, absolutely, and I would be curious to

0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:57.399
<v Speaker 1>know what did you learn about yourself while you were

0:35:57.440 --> 0:36:02.440
<v Speaker 1>serving your nation, not only income, but in garrison here

0:36:02.520 --> 0:36:02.920
<v Speaker 1>at home.

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<v Speaker 4>Carol and I we've been married for fifty six years,

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:11.040
<v Speaker 4>but I am not the same man Carol married. Nora.

0:36:11.200 --> 0:36:14.879
<v Speaker 4>Is Carol the same girl that I married. We both

0:36:14.920 --> 0:36:19.160
<v Speaker 4>have changed, and we both have changed because of war,

0:36:20.280 --> 0:36:23.960
<v Speaker 4>because of the experience that we both had in the military.

0:36:24.320 --> 0:36:28.320
<v Speaker 4>I served in uniform, she served at home. I admire,

0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:34.000
<v Speaker 4>I respect, and I appreciate so much Carol's service because

0:36:34.239 --> 0:36:38.400
<v Speaker 4>while I was fighting, she was raising my children and

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 4>keeping that love alive. Perhaps the most key character attribute

0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:48.839
<v Speaker 4>that I've found in myself is my demand for integrity.

0:36:49.560 --> 0:36:54.439
<v Speaker 4>Integrity is the foundation of everything else that we do.

0:36:54.600 --> 0:36:58.240
<v Speaker 4>When I shake your hand, that's an agreement that can't

0:36:58.239 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 4>be broken by me, and if the other party breaks it,

0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:08.200
<v Speaker 4>shame on him. Because we're done. There are no do overs.

0:37:08.680 --> 0:37:11.800
<v Speaker 4>There are second chances, but probably not with me. I

0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:14.200
<v Speaker 4>like to say, there's no quit in me when I'm

0:37:14.239 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 4>done serving, and it'll be when I take my last breath,

0:37:17.719 --> 0:37:20.919
<v Speaker 4>then you could close the box. But until then, long

0:37:20.960 --> 0:37:24.240
<v Speaker 4>as I can take a breath, I have something to contribute,

0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:25.040
<v Speaker 4>no doubt.

0:37:25.440 --> 0:37:27.600
<v Speaker 2>I don't think we know many other seventy six year

0:37:27.600 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 2>old's kicking button taking names like you, I'll la.

0:37:30.520 --> 0:37:31.560
<v Speaker 3>Part, thank you so much.

0:37:31.719 --> 0:37:33.759
<v Speaker 2>Thinking back over the course of your life, is there

0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:37.440
<v Speaker 2>a particular person or organization that's made a huge impact on.

0:37:37.440 --> 0:37:41.600
<v Speaker 4>You, I would have to say it was my parents,

0:37:42.160 --> 0:37:46.200
<v Speaker 4>mom and dad, my family. My name is Lippart and

0:37:46.239 --> 0:37:50.440
<v Speaker 4>I say that with pride. My heritage is German and French.

0:37:50.719 --> 0:37:55.400
<v Speaker 4>My father's parents came from Germany, my mother from France.

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:59.799
<v Speaker 4>And I've been blessed and I have an obligation to

0:37:59.840 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 4>you use that to bless other people with it, which

0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:06.720
<v Speaker 4>Carol and I try to do every day in every

0:38:06.800 --> 0:38:10.360
<v Speaker 4>aspect of our life. We try to be a blessing

0:38:11.239 --> 0:38:14.640
<v Speaker 4>to others because again I know that by being a

0:38:14.640 --> 0:38:18.359
<v Speaker 4>blessing to others, we are also blessed. So I'm very

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:18.840
<v Speaker 4>proud to be.

0:38:18.840 --> 0:38:20.960
<v Speaker 3>A Leipart outstanding.

0:38:21.000 --> 0:38:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I know that's something that Ashoul and I both relate to,

0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:28.920
<v Speaker 1>is the pride and who we are because of who

0:38:29.000 --> 0:38:32.759
<v Speaker 1>we are and our last names and what that represents.

0:38:32.800 --> 0:38:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Like I tell the boys in sports, you know that

0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:37.719
<v Speaker 1>number on the back of your jerseys, and that's important,

0:38:37.880 --> 0:38:40.160
<v Speaker 1>but it pells in comparison to the name above it.

0:38:40.640 --> 0:38:42.040
<v Speaker 4>That's right, that's right.

0:38:42.760 --> 0:38:45.960
<v Speaker 1>What do you do to recharge or to unwind?

0:38:48.120 --> 0:38:48.600
<v Speaker 4>Do it again?

0:38:49.520 --> 0:38:53.200
<v Speaker 2>I was waiting to hear what he would say to that, because.

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:55.799
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I don't as a combat soldier even today, if

0:38:55.840 --> 0:38:58.240
<v Speaker 4>you said out you don't have anything going for an hour,

0:38:58.360 --> 0:39:01.480
<v Speaker 4>what are you gonna do, I'm gonna close my eyes. Yeah,

0:39:01.760 --> 0:39:04.760
<v Speaker 4>I'll take a break. When I was going through therapy,

0:39:04.880 --> 0:39:09.840
<v Speaker 4>like I said, VFW veterans are foreign wars in my

0:39:09.960 --> 0:39:14.759
<v Speaker 4>service to others, that's my therapy. And I referred to

0:39:14.800 --> 0:39:19.680
<v Speaker 4>it to my therapist as I have not only a responsibility,

0:39:19.719 --> 0:39:22.680
<v Speaker 4>but I have an obligation to pay back because I'm

0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:27.719
<v Speaker 4>still here and others aren't. And he said, you got

0:39:27.719 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 4>to let that go. That's going to drive you crazy.

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 4>What are you talking about. There's no way that you're

0:39:33.960 --> 0:39:38.440
<v Speaker 4>ever going to repay that. I said, of that crazy,

0:39:38.640 --> 0:39:41.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm not stupid. I get it, but that doesn't stop

0:39:41.920 --> 0:39:44.120
<v Speaker 4>me from trying. And that's all I want to do

0:39:44.200 --> 0:39:46.200
<v Speaker 4>is try. I want to be able to look in

0:39:46.239 --> 0:39:49.240
<v Speaker 4>the mirror. I used to do this on a daily

0:39:49.280 --> 0:39:52.279
<v Speaker 4>basis back in my younger days, when I'd wake up

0:39:52.320 --> 0:39:55.240
<v Speaker 4>in the morning and I'd go to the mirror after

0:39:55.320 --> 0:40:01.919
<v Speaker 4>I said, Lord, thank you for your blessings. I'm here

0:40:01.960 --> 0:40:06.040
<v Speaker 4>again today. May everything I do bring glory an honor

0:40:06.480 --> 0:40:09.120
<v Speaker 4>to your name. And then I would look in the

0:40:09.160 --> 0:40:12.719
<v Speaker 4>mirror and I'd say, all, be the best that you

0:40:12.800 --> 0:40:16.120
<v Speaker 4>can be today. And at night before I went to bed,

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:20.960
<v Speaker 4>I would ask al, were you the best that you

0:40:21.000 --> 0:40:25.520
<v Speaker 4>could be today? And if I wasn't, I had to

0:40:25.520 --> 0:40:28.200
<v Speaker 4>tell myself you're a little short here. You need to

0:40:28.200 --> 0:40:30.760
<v Speaker 4>step that up. It kept me grounded.

0:40:31.200 --> 0:40:33.320
<v Speaker 3>Last question, what feeds your soul?

0:40:34.280 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 4>My my love of Jesus, my love of God. He's

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:43.200
<v Speaker 4>in my daily life. He's in everything that I do.

0:40:43.840 --> 0:40:47.719
<v Speaker 4>We are very faithful church goers. When we can't go

0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:51.040
<v Speaker 4>to church. Now with modern technology, we don't have to

0:40:51.080 --> 0:40:54.520
<v Speaker 4>be in a physical building. Sometimes an when we first

0:40:54.560 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 4>started doing it was a little funny, okay, because it's

0:40:57.560 --> 0:41:01.840
<v Speaker 4>not in the church. But I tell Carol, this is okay.

0:41:01.960 --> 0:41:04.520
<v Speaker 4>Sometimes God's got to come to our house. We can't

0:41:04.560 --> 0:41:07.040
<v Speaker 4>go to his house, so it just comes to our house,

0:41:07.160 --> 0:41:07.880
<v Speaker 4>so it's okay.

0:41:08.520 --> 0:41:12.520
<v Speaker 2>All Laparte, thank you so much, so many incredible stories.

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<v Speaker 2>You're such a great storyteller and all of your words

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<v Speaker 2>of wisdom, and thank you for opening up and being

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<v Speaker 2>vulnerable with us today, telling us your story and what

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<v Speaker 2>you've been through and how you've come out on the

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<v Speaker 2>other side. That is truly the good stuff. You and

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<v Speaker 2>Carol such a power couple and doing such amazing things.

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<v Speaker 2>We're again grateful for your friendship, thankful that you would

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<v Speaker 2>come and open up with us here on the good

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<v Speaker 2>stuff Again.

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<v Speaker 4>I am truly humbled in honor to call you friend,

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<v Speaker 4>to call you comrades, and to see what you're doing

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<v Speaker 4>and to be able to be a supporter of it

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<v Speaker 4>because you're doing great things.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that we've really, we've really turned a page

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<v Speaker 1>with the warrior ethos. When I can sit on a

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<v Speaker 1>public platform and tell you I love you, and you

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<v Speaker 1>can tell me you love me back, and it's without

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<v Speaker 1>fear of ridicler judgment. I feel like we've grown leaps

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<v Speaker 1>and bounds as gladiators modern day and past and present.

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<v Speaker 1>And to say that I'm honored and privilege and humbled

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<v Speaker 1>to call you and Carol family. And I'll speak for

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley and myself when I say this would be a

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<v Speaker 1>drastic understatement. It's an absolute honor.

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<v Speaker 2>Brother, truly, Al Laparte, thank you so much for joining

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<v Speaker 2>us on the good stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you're very welcome. I wish honored to be here.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 3>Such a gem. Are Al Laparte and Carol, they're just

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<v Speaker 3>such a great couple.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's just so fun to sit down with him

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<v Speaker 2>and hear him tell his stories.

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<v Speaker 3>He's such a great storyteller.

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<v Speaker 2>But to be able to really sit down and hear

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<v Speaker 2>the stories from the perspective of a Vietnam veteran.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, absolutely, I mean relationship goals deftly, Absolutely, those two

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<v Speaker 1>and both living, breathing national treasures.

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<v Speaker 2>But they've been through it. You know, it hasn't been easy.

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<v Speaker 2>In fact, as Al mentioned, it's been quite the opposite.

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<v Speaker 1>And Carol won't hesitate to tell you that either.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that he so much later in life, was

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<v Speaker 2>able to go and get help for his PTSD, to recognize, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, Yeah, maybe I am too quick to anger.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe there is something a little off with me to

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<v Speaker 2>be able to establish Hey, I've been carrying Rodney all

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<v Speaker 2>these years, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It shows me that that's why the old saying you

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<v Speaker 1>can't teach an old dog new tricks does not ring true.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>He took it upon himself because he wanted to have

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<v Speaker 1>a better quality of life and a better family atmosphere.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's done it because he's not only has he

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<v Speaker 1>done the work, he continues to do the work to

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<v Speaker 1>hold forward. And I just think that that is such

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful thing, especially for someone who epitomizes the word warrior.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a monumental effort that has generational impacts.

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<v Speaker 2>Most definitely, and he's just such an inspiration to us

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<v Speaker 2>and again one of the most energetic seventy six year

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<v Speaker 2>olds we know, and he is just truly paying it forward.

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<v Speaker 2>And it says if he is still in uniform with

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<v Speaker 2>his battle armor on and he is out there fighting

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<v Speaker 2>every day to improve the lives of others, and just

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<v Speaker 2>goes to show you age is just a number. It's

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<v Speaker 2>all about what's in between the ears and how much

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<v Speaker 2>energy you're willing to put forward.

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<v Speaker 1>As Al has taught to us and has said before,

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<v Speaker 1>perfection is the goal. Excellence will be.

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<v Speaker 2>Tolerated absolutely, never stop, never give up.

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<v Speaker 1>Bow the part.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much for listening.

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<v Speaker 1>Put on your bad ass capes and go be great

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<v Speaker 1>today and remember you can't do epic stuff without epic people.

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