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Speaker 1: It's the date that we never thought would actually happen,

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Speaker 1: but against all odds, it did. Yay. One of our

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Speaker 1: most popular second date calls from the past calendar year

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Speaker 1: gets a surprising update. Oh, it's just proof that only

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Speaker 1: because we think a relationship is doomed and there's tons

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Speaker 1: and tons of red flags and all the signs are

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Speaker 1: pointing directly to the toilet, that doesn't count for anything.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Sometimes true love prevails even when we condemn

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Speaker 1: it in the most unexpected ways. You're gonna hear it

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Speaker 1: when we get a second date update update. Right after

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Speaker 1: this second date update date, we got an email from

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Speaker 1: a woman who says people in her area aren't really

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Speaker 1: using Bumble or Tinder anymore, not even my favorite app, Clinger,

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Speaker 1: where personal space is just myth.

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Speaker 3: At least everybody on the app are you imagine you

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Speaker 3: heard knock at your door, immediately find your fellow codependent Clinger.

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Speaker 1: But she says she's found a more unique way to

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Speaker 1: meet guys. And we've heard of these types of movements

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Speaker 1: before where people are like trying to move away from

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Speaker 1: the apps in favor of other methods. So let's talk

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Speaker 1: to her and find out what she did. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Mandy. Mandy, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hoay guys.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you sound cute and fun and like you did

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Speaker 2: something fun to meet some guys.

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Speaker 1: She said, Hey, how did you get that from?

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 2: You did it?

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Speaker 1: You sound perfect for Clinger Brooks. So tell us about

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Speaker 1: this guy that you met and how you met him.

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Speaker 1: What's your strategy?

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Speaker 4: Now? There was this kiktok movement going around and I

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Speaker 4: want to say it started in Spain and it's where

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Speaker 4: singles meet up at a grocery store.

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Speaker 5: So like you'll have a store.

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Speaker 4: And you have a time, and they usually see a

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Speaker 4: huge turnout, like sixty to seventy people take part in

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Speaker 2: It like how do you find when the meat up?

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Speaker 5: Some feeling?

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Speaker 6: See you guys?

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Speaker 2: Checkstands Like I'd be the person not invited to the

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Speaker 4: People will just kind of post the store name and time,

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Speaker 4: and they'll get reposted and reposted, and then people just Okay, I.

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Speaker 1: Seem like not exactly this, but like I've seen people

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Speaker 1: go on and they'll be like, I think this bar

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Speaker 2: Go this Friday night and it's like a popular barn.

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Speaker 2: It goes viral, and we're doing grocery stores, and so

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Speaker 2: you can just say yeah, exactly makes sense.

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Speaker 6: Like if you're gonna do it, you share it.

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Speaker 2: Well, if you watch any video where it says hot

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Speaker 1: I see a lot of those websites, and so a

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Speaker 2: Right, we can go to the meat section, because that

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Speaker 6: I'm thirsty.

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Speaker 1: Mandy, tell us how it works. What happens once you're

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Speaker 4: Then here's where it gets a little lake saucy. So

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Speaker 4: you go and you get a pineapple. Okay, it's okay,

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Speaker 4: it's not like that.

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Speaker 2: Why is it that fruit?

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Speaker 4: You know? I wondered the same thing, Like you couldn't

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Speaker 4: have chosen a different fruits? But whatever, Okay, put it

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Speaker 4: upside down, which I know runs like rampant with that other.

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Speaker 2: Are you sure you're going to the right.

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Speaker 1: Shut up, I'm loving this idea more and more. Keep going,

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Speaker 1: it's true.

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Speaker 4: Then you put it upside down your cart and then

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Speaker 4: you go over to where the wine is and you

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Speaker 1: Okay, you got an upside down pineapple and some wine.

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Speaker 4: Yes, And you check out who's around. You see if

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Speaker 4: give them a light bump with your carts.

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Speaker 2: Over now we're bumping carts.

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Speaker 3: I will say that this can be subtle because even

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Speaker 2: Do you have to wander in? Every question?

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Speaker 6: Though?

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Speaker 2: If you bump someone, do they bump you back? Like

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Speaker 4: excuse me and walk away.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So bumping carts is the equivalent of swiping basically exactly. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so who did you bump upside down pineapple wine?

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Speaker 2: Right, we're all following who was it?

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Speaker 4: That is? How I'm that mark my.

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 2: And then how do you how do you turn that

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Speaker 4: Well, once we bumped, then we exchanged information. We actually

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Speaker 4: He's a he's an animal lever and which, yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 2: So did you get the vibe that you guys were

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, And that's the weird thing, Like he walked

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Speaker 2: Gone done and then done now you said, And then

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Speaker 1: He ran away after the kids.

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Speaker 6: He was like, oh my god, I have wine breath,

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Speaker 4: Maybe he had to go get another pineapple.

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Speaker 2: I love interesting. So have you called him or texted

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Speaker 4: I called him and I texted and that's got nothing.

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Speaker 1: How long has it been since you and Mark went

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Speaker 1: on that date.

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Speaker 5: It's been about two weeks.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's a while, Yeah, long enough that he should

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Okay, Well, let's call him in find out what

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Speaker 6: You got a pineapple or something? Do we have to do?

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Speaker 1: I put in my Instacart order already, so we'll be back.

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Speaker 1: We'll do it right after this. Hold on second date update.

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Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date, update, update,

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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Speaker 2: right after you here Part two.

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Speaker 1: I am never gonna shop for groceries the same ever

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Speaker 1: again after this call with many you.

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Speaker 2: And meeboled, I am going to be just eyeballing eagle

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Speaker 2: eye who's in here?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because Mandy told us about a strange new dating

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Speaker 1: ritual that apparently started with singles in Spain and now

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Speaker 1: it's come over to the US where people will show

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Speaker 1: up at a grocery store like a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: They take all the pineapples, put them in carts upside

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Speaker 1: each other just show interest. And this is wink definitely

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Speaker 1: not a swinger yea, even though it sounds like it

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Speaker 1: to literally every person on the planet except for our

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Speaker 1: listener Mandy. She ended up meeting a guy named Mark there.

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Speaker 1: They went out, had a really good time, and this

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Speaker 1: was her first grocery store bump, sesshon. But we never

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Speaker 1: asked what about Mark, Manny, did you discuss that has

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Speaker 1: he bumped before?

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Speaker 4: He said he had? Okay, she the girl had gone

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Speaker 2: Second, it's crazy how successful this is people?

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Speaker 3: What's it like when it's busy and it just sounds

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Speaker 2: Even more fascinating is how confused the produce man must be. Ye,

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Speaker 6: Going.

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Speaker 1: There's clearly a lot of questions that we have, and

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Speaker 6: She can't answer. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The only person that can is the tropical fruit stud

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Speaker 1: that we're about to call here. Hopefully we'll squeeze some

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Speaker 6: What's his name? Mark?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well Mark, we'll just call him Mark until we

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Speaker 1: get more from him. But let's just dial. Let me

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Speaker 1: see if he picks up first. Here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Mark?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Mark. I'm not sure if you're ready for this,

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Speaker 1: but you are on a radio show right now. We're

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Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Yea boy, have

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Speaker 1: we been dying to talk to you?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, seriously, so many questions.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Sorry, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to like scare you.

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Speaker 6: Yes, four of us.

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Speaker 2: Now we have a radio show and we do a podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm Jeff and have you heard everybody else? So

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Speaker 1: I'd like to tell So we want to ask you

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Speaker 1: because we heard that you met a woman the other

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Speaker 5: Oh she told you about that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going to.

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Speaker 6: Be embarrassed, bro, we think it's really interesting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she told us all about like the TikTok trend

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Speaker 5: Uh. Wow, yeah, I have. I have a couple of

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Speaker 5: you should, uh see what it's about. Yeah. A couple

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Speaker 5: of times I met Mandy, and I don't know. She

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.

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Speaker 2: That's a good start.

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Speaker 1: Cool enough to take out on an actual date to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we went out. It's just uh, towards the end

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Speaker 5: of the date, like a weird thing happened. Oh, she

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Speaker 5: told you guys about it.

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Speaker 2: Weirder than the grocery store things.

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Speaker 1: Well, we heard you.

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Speaker 3: Kiss, right, you're supposed to like.

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Speaker 2: Was it not a good kiss?

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Speaker 5: I walked her home and we kissed and it was

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hogwarts letter.

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Speaker 5: I get to my car and I opened this letter

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Speaker 5: and it says thank you for this lovely date, and

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Speaker 5: then under it it says, here is my pre and

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Speaker 5: post date expenses.

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Speaker 6: Huh wait, it's an invoice.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, to what there was the take up? There was

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Speaker 2: She needed her toes painted to go to a wine bar.

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Speaker 5: Like I thought. I didn't know that this was part

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Speaker 2: That's insane.

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Speaker 5: Her Venmo was on there. There was a Venmo bar code.

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Speaker 2: I didn't it.

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Speaker 4: To maybe a guy you don't like more than someone

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Speaker 2: Especially because didn't you pay for the wine bar?

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Speaker 5: Well I paid for everything. I thought, Okay, I'll treat

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Speaker 1: You did not pay for everything, or maybe he didn't

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Speaker 2: So come on, what is she having to buy new

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Speaker 4: Please?

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Speaker 2: Everything does run out at the same time. Don't get

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Speaker 1: We're a lot of theoreticals. We don't know the true story.

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Speaker 1: The only one that does is Mandy, who is on

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Speaker 1: the other line listening to this call right now, Mark

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Speaker 5: Mark.

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Speaker 4: Oh girl, inde, I I didn't realize that was what bothered.

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Speaker 1: You, because so you admit that you invoiced him for

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Speaker 4: Well, I went out, I got my makeup done, and

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Speaker 2: You shouldn't put that much for a man, just saying

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Speaker 5: First but I didn't ask you to do any of that.

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Speaker 4: You were insistent that you wanted to go out and

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Speaker 5: Wanted to say, but to give me the receipts. It

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Speaker 5: a cute envelope with a note instead I had a receipt.

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Speaker 1: What are you doing? I mean a letter does kind

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Speaker 1: of make it more personal in a way, does it?

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Speaker 1: She took the time to write it.

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Speaker 4: Indeed, you know I've got before, and I've never had

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Speaker 1: Maybe in the Pineapple community, the standards for pityingments are

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Speaker 3: I just admit, though, if I went on a date

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Speaker 6: Okay, oh, no financial.

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Speaker 3: Afford it, I can take care of I don't think

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Speaker 3: she's thinking about that when she I just like, these

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Speaker 2: Like this is just life expenses that you got to

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Speaker 4: You don't you feel that we're getting a little screwed

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Speaker 1: It's like kind of a shared thing you both put

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Speaker 1: way that maybe going forward, you could see not doing

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Speaker 4: If it's going to make you feel more comfortable if

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Speaker 4: we got again, you know, we can go Dutch.

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Speaker 2: I don't even understand what that means.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it means she pays for half, and he pays

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Speaker 1: for half. What he pays for one foot, she pays

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Speaker 3: I thought it be you paid for your own crap,

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Speaker 3: Like would the bill comes No, Oh.

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Speaker 1: That's not how modern pineapple dating works. Bro, get up

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Speaker 1: with the times market. Sounds like she's trying to be

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Speaker 1: reasonable with you, offering a pretty significant discount on the

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Speaker 6: This is like when you tell a company you're going

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Speaker 6: to cancel and they give you that last offer exactly. Trial.

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Speaker 2: Is it too late to go dutch on the first bill?

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Speaker 2: Or are we just talking about the second bill?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, we're not in charge of the entire

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Speaker 1: financial landscape. We're in charge of is paying for the

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Speaker 1: date that you go on because we will offer to

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Speaker 1: fund it for you. Mark, if you'll see Mandy one

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Speaker 1: more time, If.

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Speaker 5: You're willing to talk about splitting things down the line

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Speaker 5: down the middle between you and I in the future,

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Speaker 5: then I don't see a reason not to No reason.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Yes, spreadsheets Excel, you need to keep your seats. Mark, Okay,

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Speaker 2: if you get a haircut, you gotta remember see how

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Speaker 2: many pumps foundations. She's using account numbers.

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Speaker 1: This is some sexy talk that we're having on the

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Speaker 1: show right now. But Mark, here, is that a yes

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Speaker 5: That's a yes from me?

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Speaker 1: Did not see that coming? But congratulations, Mandy, you got

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Speaker 1: yourself another date.

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Speaker 4: Well, thank you guys very much. And Mark, once you

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Speaker 4: then moony the half for the first date, we can

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Speaker 4: schedule a second date.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Maddy, I thought you were a nuts. Now I'm

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm not sure anybody here expected to get an

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Speaker 2: But no, not at all.

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Speaker 1: Here we are. Mark and Mandy are back on to

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Speaker 1: give us an update update on their situation. And the

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Speaker 1: last time that we spoke to you guys, there was

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Speaker 1: a question of will Mark be responsible for paying half

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Speaker 1: of the pre date stuff? What happened there?

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Speaker 4: So he did actually then moment for his half.

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Speaker 1: Oh sweet guy.

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Speaker 4: And we've kept dating over the next few months and

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Speaker 4: he has paid like a gentleman should for my predate expenses.

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Speaker 2: Wait, for over two months, he's been doing this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, for the last few months, he's been doing it. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Mark, are you there? I kind of hear you in

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Speaker 5: Yes, Yes, I'm here. Guys.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Okay, that's good to hear from you. Mark.

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Speaker 2: Has it been worth the cost?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, no, She's totally worth it. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, okay, but he has told me she has

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Speaker 4: some concerns certain dates are more expensive than others, and

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Speaker 4: since it wasn't consistent, I did offer to send him

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Speaker 4: an itemized bill, but he really he wasn't happy with

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Speaker 1: Well, so there's still a little bit of tension. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like with the financials in your relationship, were you

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Speaker 5: Well, so she and I talked it out. She offered

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Speaker 5: me a monthly subscription package. Old girlfriend, So I tay

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Speaker 5: you a flat rate of eighty nine ninety nine a

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Speaker 5: month to cover all of her predate press.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, that sounds like an introductory rate. Be careful, essay.

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Speaker 4: You know, as long as the Venmo payment gets there

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Speaker 4: by the third of the month, I do give him

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Speaker 4: a two day grace period before he incurred interest.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what, Look, if you guys are happy,

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Speaker 1: then that's great. I know every relationship works differently. Who

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Speaker 4: Thank you. I'm very very happy with Mark.

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Speaker 2: Make sure you lock them into an annual no cancelation policy.

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Speaker 1: Smart get them on a five year deal so he

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Speaker 1: can't go anywhere. Beautiful glad you guys are doing well.

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Speaker 1: Make sure if you want follow us on YouTube at

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey. You can find all of our second

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Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning