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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio,

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello Everybody, we are rubbing it so fast.

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Speaker 1: I just don't love it.

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Speaker 3: Like why.

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Speaker 2: You loved it three days ago? You're fine with it.

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Speaker 1: I was fine with it.

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Speaker 4: Now I'm back to not loving it. But I can

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Speaker 4: I can work shop it.

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Speaker 1: Say start say it again? Like say how you would

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Speaker 1: say it?

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody?

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Speaker 4: We are I gotta sing something why because it's nice?

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Speaker 2: We are What if you're like we are scrubbing? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: there we go.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I like where we're heading.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we are scrubbing in. Okay, it either, but I'll

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Speaker 4: workshop it.

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Speaker 2: We have a deer Bonnie episode which we just love.

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Speaker 1: We do love.

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Speaker 2: Getting emails from me also or d ms or you know.

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Speaker 2: I see a lot of stuff in the Facebook group

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Speaker 2: where I'm like, should we bring these to the dear BONI.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes they're about anal sex so.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes podcast we do we want a technical term?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know what I'm doing? Which is

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Speaker 1: like funny?

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Speaker 4: So I did this thing with Joe Jonas this week

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Speaker 4: and I have a polaroid picture with him. They gave

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Speaker 4: me the polaroid and I put it up on my like.

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Speaker 2: Car, no dash, like.

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Speaker 4: Not dash, but it's like like where my little screen

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Speaker 4: is like, yeah, my car. Yeah, I'm waiting to see

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Speaker 4: If Robbie notices.

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Speaker 2: It would be really strange and be doesn't notice that

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Speaker 2: if he gets into your car and isn't like you can't.

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Speaker 3: See navigation, Like it's right in front of everything you

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Speaker 3: need to see.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I don't need navigation. I got it all.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: I know that was pretty funny myself.

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Speaker 2: I saw a really funny TikTok because his new video

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Speaker 2: is about like it's a song about falling in love

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Speaker 2: and by heart, heart by heart, and it's this video

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Speaker 2: and he's like making out with this girl and stuff,

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Speaker 2: and people are like, I'm married with kids, And I

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Speaker 2: felt physically sick sing that Joe Jonas kissed another girl

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Speaker 2: in this video, and all the comments were like, I'm

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Speaker 2: so concerned at how it made me feel like I

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Speaker 2: was actually being cheated.

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Speaker 4: I don't my heart actually hurt for him in that video.

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Speaker 4: At the end, I was like, oh, I didn't watch it. Oh,

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Speaker 4: I just saw clips from the TikTok oh, my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Immediately yeah, now.

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Speaker 3: I watched five seconds of his video.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure, yeah, great thing is where it gets you

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Speaker 4: in the and you're like ooo, but I'm not like

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Speaker 1: Don't say it.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. I'm not like. I don't I'm not like

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Speaker 2: I like their music, but I don't need to go

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Speaker 2: watch a video like I used to. Sometimes I watch

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Speaker 2: like old Britney Spears videos and stuff. But yeah, but

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Speaker 2: I'll go watch it. I mean, you got he piqued

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Speaker 2: Shall we with the dear bonya from anonymous.

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Speaker 3: I moved to a new city two years ago to

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Speaker 3: try something different while working remotely, not for a job,

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Speaker 3: not for a relationship. I became close with my childhood

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Speaker 3: friend's friend group, and at first it was fun, welcoming,

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Speaker 3: but over time I realized this group is toxic, drama, gossip.

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Speaker 3: People get upset over the smallest things. I heard through

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Speaker 3: the grapevine that one of the friends is mad at

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Speaker 3: me for not being supportive enough after her minor car accident.

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Speaker 3: I reached out and offered her help several times. This

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Speaker 3: kind of thing happens a lot with a lot of

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Speaker 3: them projecting their emotions and creating tension that doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 3: I've noticed as my own life is going well, healthy relationship,

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Speaker 3: unhappy with where they're at. Even though I avoid drama,

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Speaker 3: It started to take a toll on my self esteem.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm constantly being judged or told them

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Speaker 3: I'm twenty seven, I'm stuck. I'm confused. How do I

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Speaker 3: figure out where to live or where to go? First

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Speaker 3: of all, there's a lot of really nice freedom in

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Speaker 3: that you could live. The working room only thing is

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Speaker 3: interesting to me because you could live. I know, what

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Speaker 3: an interesting concept. I know.

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Speaker 1: I often think of that too.

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Speaker 3: Because I'm stuck here. Even though some of the people

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Speaker 3: who work for this company during the pandemic moved far away,

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Speaker 3: which is an odd choice. I think when it's never

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Speaker 3: it's the company hasn't said this is now a permanent situation.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a weird move. But in your life.

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Speaker 4: Situation time, if I may please, we were all under

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Speaker 4: the impression we were going to be working remotely like forever.

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Speaker 3: I was not under that impression.

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Speaker 5: and we would just like figure out how to work

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Speaker 1: Yeah it was dark.

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Speaker 3: So that I went and then play sorry to commandeer

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Speaker 3: this one, But also have a quote that I think

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Speaker 3: you're going to enjoy for this situation, anonymous. Some people

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Speaker 3: don't like you because your spirit irritates their demons.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that a good quote again for the people in

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Speaker 3: Some people don't like you because your spirit irritates their demons.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like that's happening with a lot of these friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think when people when their lives aren't in

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Speaker 2: it's like you either are subjecting yourself because these are

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Speaker 2: your friends and I'm holding quotes up because you just

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Speaker 2: feel like they're your only option and it feels harder

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Speaker 2: to go out and meet new people. But it's also

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Speaker 2: it's energy that's like totally bringing you down. Like if

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Speaker 2: it's always drama and all they do is talk bad

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Speaker 2: you're in a good space. It's like why put yourself

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Speaker 2: It's like, why take a shower and then put yourself

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Speaker 2: in the dirt? In the dirt? Why shower and go

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Speaker 2: sit in the dirt? No clue, there's no reason.

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Speaker 1: Oh that reminds me. I know, Yeah we can get

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Speaker 2: Yeah we'll get back to that. But I think that

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Speaker 2: thriving in your personal life, and it's so important to

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Speaker 2: either have conversations about like, hey, I just be honest

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Speaker 2: always being negative. I would hope that someone would be like,

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Speaker 2: are you okay? Like, I'd hope someone like Tanya would

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Speaker 2: check me and be like, it's a hard conversation because

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Speaker 2: you're like, I don't know what you're going through. But

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Speaker 2: if they were if Tanya was like, Hey, I just

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Speaker 2: Are you doing okay? It might just bring awareness to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, but I also think not everybody's like receptive.

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Speaker 1: To that type of stuff, do you know what I mean? So, yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: It's a risk, But at the same time, what do

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Speaker 2: you The option is either you have the conversational where

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Speaker 2: subtly distant, distance yourself and meet new people that align

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Speaker 4: You can also distance yourself but not cut them off,

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Speaker 2: But if I'm saying, if they're like, hey, why have

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Speaker 2: been distant? I think it's like, Hey, I've noticed there's

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Speaker 2: I've noticed I've intentionally distanced myself and I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: It's not like I don't want to have y'all as friends.

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Speaker 2: It's just hanging out with you causes more angst angst,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nobody wants angst.

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Speaker 6: And also maybe you just find someone to sub sublet

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Speaker 2: I don't know about Alaska. Maybe yeah, but she said

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Speaker 2: that means she they're like bringing reship. But I'm saying, like,

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Speaker 2: how fun to go maybe move somewhere fresh and stuff together. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but we truly wish you the best. I think that's

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Speaker 2: really hard because you're at that age where it feels like,

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Speaker 2: how do you meet friends as an adult? Like, that's

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Speaker 2: the age where you really feel it, I think, and

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think that's when I met you at

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Speaker 2: twenty seven.

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Speaker 2: It's when life will bring you your best, most cherished friendships.

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Speaker 1: I agree.

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Speaker 3: Well, that really ties nicely into the.

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Speaker 1: I'm at twenty seven.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty six and twenty seven.

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Speaker 4: You were given off some pheromones. At twenty six, twenty

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Speaker 2: Was giving I need friends.

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Speaker 3: It ties in quite nicely with what we're talking about

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Speaker 3: high scrubbing and team I love you all, but listeners

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Speaker 3: at the beginning, I feel like y'all are my besties.

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Speaker 3: I know every one of you is happily paired up now,

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Speaker 3: but Becca and Tyny, when you were still single, how

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Speaker 3: I'm the token single friend, and I'm personally content with it.

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Speaker 3: I only have two good friends left that are single,

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Speaker 3: and I love them, but I can't do everything with them.

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Speaker 3: Even my married engaged friends are good about including me,

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Speaker 3: but more and more I'm feeling left out. I don't

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Speaker 3: talking about Fourth of July plants, I just found out

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Speaker 3: a group of my besties, three couples who recently married.

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Speaker 3: Now I'm feeling like, what do I do now? How

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Speaker 2: And I also she said she's content, like she's not

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Speaker 1: Okay, here's a teas.

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Speaker 3: Here's the teas coming up next. Married bestie has a crush.

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Speaker 2: WHOA wow, you left us on the edge of our

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Speaker 3: All right, anonymous, love you all, but listening for years.

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Speaker 3: I have two besties going back to middle school. We're

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Speaker 3: He's also not conventionally attractive. Sorry, so it's not just

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Do we chalk it up to drunk nonsense although she

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Speaker 4: You pretend like you never heard it. You don't know

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Speaker 2: I would just be asking questions, how's the coworker situation?

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Speaker 2: Like if you told me you had a crush on Mark?

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Speaker 3: Understandable?

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Speaker 1: I would be like, I can't, how's the crush on Mark?

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, what's going on with that? Because I'm

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Speaker 4: So I'd be like, Hey, Becka, how's your crush on Mark?

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Speaker 4: So I'll be like, Becca, how's your crush on Easton?

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Speaker 4: Have you talked talked to Haley about it?

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, I don't know. I don't know what

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Speaker 2: But I definitely think it's normal best friend behavior to

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Speaker 3: I've heard relationship experts say that this is perfectly normal,

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Speaker 1: Too sad. That would make me so sad if I

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Speaker 2: Well, it's also like you don't You can't control. You

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Speaker 1: And but but but no, I feel like.

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Speaker 4: You're not married to Yes, Garth, you married Garth. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: So the thing is my vagina tingles belong to Garth,

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Speaker 4: My everything belongs to Garth.

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Speaker 2: You can control that.

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Speaker 4: My heart controls that, and my heart is with Garth.

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Speaker 4: When Garth has my heart, no vagina is not tingling.

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Speaker 2: Because you're just not. Your heart is the reason why

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Speaker 2: That's what your heart does because your brain does not

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Speaker 4: Look I'm on the I've only been with what we've

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Speaker 4: I don't know what it's like to be married for

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: But all I'm saying is myself, in this very moment,

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Speaker 1: They're not doing it.

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Speaker 3: You would go to Arth. I wouldn't even know radars off.

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Speaker 3: Seventy four percent of full time employees and committed relationships

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Well, and also she said she said it's feelings. She said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Like I was, like finding someone attractive. There's crush and

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Speaker 2: I think I'd rather I would rather I would hate

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Speaker 2: rather someone just find someone at track, Yes, because then

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Speaker 2: I could be like, yuh, she's borty y. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's got to be people Hailey finds attractive.

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Speaker 2: I mean, she better not.

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Speaker 3: All right to move or not to move. I've been

447
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Speaker 3: a big fan since COVID after my best friend introduced

448
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Speaker 3: me to you guys. Some days, you guys help me

449
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Speaker 3: get out of bed in the morning. I feel like

450
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Speaker 3: laughing with friends brightens my spirits on hard days. Well,

451
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Speaker 3: in twenty six I married my high school's sweetheart. We

452
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Speaker 3: broke up for two years, like Tany and Robbie, but

453
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Speaker 3: I always knew he was my person. I'm twenty six,

454
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Speaker 3: he's twenty five. He's a project manager in construction, which

455
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Speaker 3: offered the chance to train to become VP of his

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Speaker 3: company in Florida. His reaction was, no way. We've built

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Speaker 3: a life in Missouri with our support system and our

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Speaker 3: family and our lifelong friends. But I said, maybe considerate.

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Speaker 3: Becoming a VP of twenty seven is rare and you

460
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Speaker 3: deserve it. We're now leaning towards staying, but we're unsure.

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Speaker 3: Parents are nearby, friend groups, nearby, best friend. I've never

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Speaker 3: pictured life without them. The idea of leaving makes me emotional.

463
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Speaker 3: At the same time, I've always done with all we's

464
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Speaker 3: don't was expect that. I've never taken a leap like this,

465
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Speaker 3: and part of me wants to prove to myself that

466
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Speaker 3: I could. I'm a mental health counselor just finished grad school.

467
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Speaker 3: I can get licensed in Florida, which is an issue,

468
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Speaker 3: but hey, I could do that. My mind is spinning.

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Speaker 3: I'd love to hear your thoughts on what to do.

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Speaker 2: Love you all so much, Missouri, your family, your bff

471
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Speaker 2: are not going anywhere. Nope, you can move to Florida.

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Speaker 2: He can become the VP, which is epic at twenty seven,

473
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Speaker 2: and y'all could live there for however long makes sense,

474
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Speaker 2: like a year, and if you hate it, you can

475
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Speaker 2: always go back. I think this is an opportunity for

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Speaker 2: y'all to expand and do something like really cool for

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Speaker 2: his career, and your family can come visit. I don't

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Speaker 2: know where in Florida. Maybe there's a beach nearby theme park,

479
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Speaker 2: perhaps a theme park or beach, some something cool, some

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Speaker 2: gators or something. But I think that this is the

481
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Speaker 2: time where you should do that, like chase those opportunities

482
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Speaker 2: and know that those people are going to be there.

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Speaker 6: See.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you're friend does. See if she

485
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Speaker 2: wants to move to Florida, why not.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like if you don't do this, it's

487
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Speaker 4: gonna be something that you're going to always be thinking about,

488
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Speaker 4: like what if we did that? And if it sucks,

489
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Speaker 4: like Becca said, then just move back. But I feel

490
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Speaker 4: like if you don't do it, you're always going to

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Speaker 4: be questioning what if we had done that.

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Speaker 3: I think it only enhances your life to live somewhere

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Speaker 3: else in America, in the world, whatever it is. You'll

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Speaker 3: become a better and more rounded person than staying in

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Speaker 3: the same place forever.

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Speaker 2: Agree, And every single person who has ever moved anywhere

497
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Speaker 2: has felt fear and nerves and what sure and what

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Speaker 2: you're feeling is totally normal. But what if you don't,

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Speaker 2: You're always going to wonder.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The night I got into to Los Angeles from Wisconsin,

502
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Speaker 3: I was scared to bet. What have I done? Was

503
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Speaker 3: all I kept thinking to myself. It was so scary,

504
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Speaker 3: so scary. Yeah, but we've all done it except Tanya

505
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Speaker 3: Tiny grew up here, the rest of us somewhere else,

506
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Speaker 3: but she went.

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Speaker 4: To Arizona for ye, and I grew up in Orange County,

508
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Speaker 4: which is like a totally different universe from Los Angeles.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: All we have to say is if not now, when

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Speaker 2: and if not you, who, and if not there where?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Hey, we have two fun questions to wrap up. Wow,

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Speaker 3: dear Vonya today, that's next.

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Speaker 2: All right, we are back with some ending questions.

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Speaker 3: Stephanie Hi beca Eastern Marcantania alphabetical order. You're a podcast,

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Speaker 3: especially in the episodes with the four of you, brings

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Speaker 3: me so much joy each week. And I only complained

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Speaker 3: is that I wish they were longer a fun game.

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Speaker 3: My family, friends and I like to play a desert

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Speaker 3: island movies. These are the top three movies you would

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Speaker 3: bring to a desert island. By the way, it is

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Speaker 3: desert island. I always feel like that's a misnomer. They

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Speaker 3: can't have a desert island. An island is surrounded by water,

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Speaker 3: Isn't it island?

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Speaker 2: Deserted deserted island?

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Speaker 8: Yet I'm staying with desert. Okay, it can be arid

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Speaker 8: and dry.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: These are not necessarily the best movies you've ever seen,

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Speaker 3: but the movies you can watch over and over again.

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Speaker 3: What would yours be?

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Speaker 8: I've got mine ready, so go ahead.

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Speaker 1: It's how many three?

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Speaker 3: Three?

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Speaker 9: I always have a hard time remind you remembering what

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Speaker 9: insurance I have. But this thing I've got ready to go? Baby,

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Speaker 9: it would be Uh, it would be the first Transformers movie.

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Speaker 9: It would be Captain America The Winter Soldier Wow.

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Speaker 8: And it would be Back to the Future Wow. I

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Speaker 8: watched those at least like once a month.

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Speaker 2: Wait was Captain America the sequel?

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Speaker 8: That's right, and you liked it better.

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Speaker 2: Than the first?

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's rare. I have mine, my gosh. Well, Okay,

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Speaker 1: he's just not that into you.

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Speaker 4: Wow, home alone too, because I need something. I would

549
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Speaker 4: need something for the holidays time. And my third one

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Speaker 4: would be I'll just guy in ten days.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's I'm going. Do you have yours?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, please.

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Speaker 3: I don't watch a lot of movies over and over again,

555
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Speaker 3: but these are the ones I've gotten the most joy

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Speaker 3: out of watching over and over again. La La Land,

557
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Speaker 3: I love La La Land, and I could watch it

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Speaker 3: again and again and again. I am so mesmerized by

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Speaker 3: Emma Stone in that movie. She's brilliant in it. Eternal

560
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Speaker 3: Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.

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Speaker 2: I have been wanting to rewatch that lately.

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Speaker 1: So I've never even heard.

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Speaker 3: Of this Jim Carrey and Kate Winslet, and it's just glorious.

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Speaker 2: I think I would have a deeper response because I'm

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Speaker 2: in a relationship now because I watched it long time ago,

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Speaker 2: so I think I would have a different reaction to it.

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Speaker 3: And there's so much to it. There's so many little

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Speaker 3: things that you miss unless you watch it again and

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Speaker 3: again and again. Okay, and now need a comedy and

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Speaker 3: I'm torn on that. I've always said my favorite movie

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Speaker 3: of all time is Airplane, the original Airplane movie from

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Speaker 3: nineteen eighty. You know it's the first parody movie.

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Speaker 1: You know what about planes, trains and automobile.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's a pretty good one. That might be better. That's

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Speaker 3: probably the good voice I'll do.

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Speaker 1: That's a little holiday.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right. It is idea.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna want something during the holidays.

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Speaker 3: Airplane is not age that well, is what I have found.

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Speaker 2: I don't know about that one. I have never seen it.

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Speaker 2: It's funny, but I was gonna do huddle those today's.

582
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Speaker 2: But I'm gonna let that be yours, because you have

583
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Speaker 2: the rental from the Desert the Island Blockbuster. I'm gonna

584
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Speaker 2: do Malana. Wow, I love Malanna, my sick comfort man.

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Speaker 3: The line where the sky makes.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I would feel inspired to leave the island. I'm

587
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Speaker 2: gonna say the holiday for my holidays.

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Speaker 1: You need one. You're gonna need one around November December

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Speaker 1: t Yeah, and.

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Speaker 2: Then I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go. Bride's aids so funny.

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Speaker 2: It makes me laugh, even when my real preference would

592
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Speaker 2: be to get to pick three seasons of friends.

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Speaker 4: But I don't know when I was gonna say in

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Speaker 4: the City movie because I like, I feel like I

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Speaker 4: would like to dabble with my gals, But I didn't

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Speaker 4: love the movie as much as was controversial.

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Speaker 3: Yeah all right, Riley asks I Beka, Tanya Mark and

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Speaker 3: Eastern Day eighteen scrubber but one true life? Wow, I too,

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Speaker 3: like the light had a fun question at the end

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Speaker 3: of your Bonnie, So here's one. Haley Kyoko, the director

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Speaker 3: is now casting for the Scrubbing and Uncut movie. Who

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Speaker 3: would you each cast for yourself and the three others

603
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Speaker 3: could be actor, actor, singer, influencer, whoever you want. But

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Speaker 3: let's be fun and creative so that this movie wins

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Speaker 3: a golden globe. Look forward every podcast. Love you guys.

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Speaker 3: I want Jason Bateman to play me.

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Speaker 1: Good one, Thank you Solid. Netflix might pick it up

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Speaker 1: with oh.

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Speaker 6: Do you know?

610
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Speaker 2: Also there is a guy the lead in Conclave. His

611
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Speaker 2: voice reminded me of you, Anthony.

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Speaker 3: Ray Fine? Right? Is Ray Fine? Is he the lead?

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Speaker 8: And he's in Conclave? He is the lead?

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Speaker 3: I love?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have an idea for Becca Madeline Kleinting.

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Speaker 2: I'm honored. I think she's beautiful but random?

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Speaker 1: Oh really?

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Speaker 3: Also, twenty seven are we care about maybe it's like

620
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Speaker 3: the Origin because I cast somebody.

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Speaker 2: Mark, so.

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Speaker 1: I already have mine to who you have a guess?

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Speaker 3: I do.

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted her to.

625
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Speaker 3: Play me, Jennifer Goodwin.

626
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Speaker 1: No, what do you mean?

627
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Speaker 3: No, didn't she didn't somebody compare you to her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

629
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Speaker 1: Oh but no, that's not the correct answer.

630
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 2: Okay, wait is she in our age range?

631
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Speaker 4: No?

632
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Speaker 2: Oh, younger, yes, younger yes, Florence.

633
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Speaker 4: No, but I wouldn't be a post Yeah, that would

634
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Speaker 4: work any other guesses, guys, it's like so easy. She's

635
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Speaker 4: been on the podcast many times. Very memorable guest.

636
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Speaker 3: If you will, Letington just a capsule, Sabrina Carpenter.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yes, I was just gonna say that, Yes, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking at actress.

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Speaker 1: She's an actress, Megan Trainer. She can do whatever she wants.

640
00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: She's a chameleon.

641
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 3: But Easton, we haven't gotten to Easton.

642
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Speaker 8: I'm saying Adam Brody, he's pretty good.

643
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 9: She's older than me, significantly older than me, so much

644
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Speaker 9: older than Fred Savage.

645
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Speaker 8: Fred Savage like Adam Brody.

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Speaker 2: And I was thinking for you, Lady Hudson, a little

647
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Speaker 2: older than you, but fine, love, I.

648
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Speaker 3: Was thinking Tom Everett Scott for Easton, Tom from that

649
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Speaker 3: thing you do?

650
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 8: Oh yes, uh you also just like decades older than me.

651
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to do Freddy Prince Junior for Easton.

652
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Speaker 2: Wow, that's crazy, that's literally insane.

653
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Speaker 8: I'll take it.

654
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Speaker 2: I like Adam Brody the bust.

655
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Speaker 3: Adam Brodie is pretty strong.

656
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Speaker 8: How about Tom Hanks, Tomminks now for me?

657
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Speaker 3: That would win a Golden Globe?

658
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Speaker 8: Yeah, yes it would.

659
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm not seeing anyone that I resonate with.

660
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Speaker 2: I mean, like I they're all beautiful, but I don't.

661
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Speaker 8: See I was thinking Addison Ray for you me.

662
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Speaker 2: Yes, well, she's like twenty two, thanks you soon, She's.

663
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Speaker 8: Been in a movie. She knows what she's doing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we went to she went to the high

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Speaker 2: school I graduated, brom.

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Speaker 8: So really, wow, do they have a statue there of you?

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Speaker 2: So do you like thought of me?

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Speaker 4: Maybe of her like Addison Ray or Madeline Klein? Better

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Speaker 4: you have the ultimate say because it's your depiction.

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Speaker 2: You know who I'd like. That's just like is like

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Speaker 2: Olivia Wilde.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh nice.

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Speaker 2: More of my age range. They're both like low twenties

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Speaker 2: that people all gave me, which I really appreciate.

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Speaker 3: Actually Green is a suggestion from Google.

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Speaker 1: Ai Rebecca, Yeah, yeah, okay, what do they said for me?

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Speaker 3: Well, let's ask it, scared, I don't even know, but

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Speaker 3: I don't know if chat epet knows you. Okay, here,

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Speaker 3: I'll just hear it. We'll do this. This will be

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Speaker 3: easier and faster with the type someone did did you

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Speaker 3: put a photo and said, I said, Beca Tilly? What

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Speaker 3: celebrity does she look like? And it said She's been

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Speaker 3: compared to many actors, a few different celebrities. Some people

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Speaker 3: say she looks like Ashley Green, We'll others compare her

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Speaker 3: to Olivia Munn. Wait, so I've also mentioned selverted with

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Speaker 3: Jessica Walter. I don't know who that is.

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Speaker 2: Are we sure we're not talking about Becca Kufrian from

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Speaker 2: the Did you put Becka from The Bachelor.

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Speaker 3: Beca Tilly's that's so crazy. Let's ask chat gipt and

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Speaker 3: see what they say. Lily ryinhurt, I'm seeing you're familiar

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Speaker 3: with what Tanya Rad looks like.

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Speaker 7: I'm familiar with Tanya Rad as a co host on

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Speaker 7: the radio show, but I can't provide descriptions of how

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Speaker 7: someone looks. If you have any other questions or need

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Speaker 7: assistance with something else, feel.

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Speaker 9: Free to ask.

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Speaker 3: I don't need a description. I'm just wondering if you

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Speaker 3: can think of any celebrities that she looks like.

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Speaker 7: I understand it's common for people to hear comparisons to celebrities.

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Speaker 7: If you're asking for a general idea, I can help

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Speaker 7: with that. Let me know if you have any other questions,

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Speaker 7: or if there's anything else you'd like to do.

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Speaker 3: Chest This is so worth the gallon celebrity does Tanya

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Speaker 3: rad look like?

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Speaker 7: I don't have the ability to compare people's appear oay wait.

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Speaker 2: I just did chat GPT what actress would Beckettilly play?

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Speaker 2: Would play Beckettilly in a movie? And they said, if

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Speaker 2: Beckettilly from The Bachelor, podcasting and influencer fame were portrayed

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Speaker 2: in a movie, here are a few actresses who could

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Speaker 2: play be a good match based on looks, vibes, and personality.

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Speaker 2: Britt Robertson, I love her. I don't know who that is.

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Speaker 4: She was in one of my favorite shows that got

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Speaker 4: canceled and it should not have gotten canceled.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Lily James, I think she's in James is great?

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Speaker 3: She was real.

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Speaker 2: What it says, especially if you're leaning into Becca's more

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Speaker 2: glamorous influencer side, Sophia can capture that media savvy confidence.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's amazing. So random, Robertson's not a bad idea.

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Speaker 3: So I asked the same that as Becca has, what

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Speaker 3: time you're brat and they say, Sophia Carson.

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Speaker 2: Wait, that is so funny. Okay, well well we'll think

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Speaker 2: more on that, but that was fun. Riley, thanks for

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Speaker 2: sitting in that queue. That's all for now, folks, have

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Speaker 2: a wonderful weekend. We enjoy and be safe. Be safe,

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Speaker 2: and thank you to those who have served.

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Speaker 3: And we'll see you Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll be back Tuesday.

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Speaker 8: I love you.

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Speaker 1: Continued