1 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 1: Welcome, Welcome, Welcome back to the Bob Left Sets podcast. 2 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,520 Speaker 1: My guest today is the drummer for the Gil Goes, 3 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: soon to be inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall 4 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: of Fame, the one and only Gina Shocked. Gina, good 5 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 1: to have you here. Hey Rob, thank you my friend, 6 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 1: but you'll be on your show. You have this new 7 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: book Meet in the Hollywood. It's a picture book in 8 00:00:29,040 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: the story book. What motivated you to do that at 9 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: this time? Well, um, it's something that I've been wanting 10 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: to do for decades and I the thought of trying 11 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 1: to get all of those photographs and ephemera that I 12 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:47,159 Speaker 1: have collected over the years was like overwhelming. So I 13 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: was looking for a person to help me do it. 14 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: I finally found the right person to help me, this guy, 15 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: Steve in l A. He came up, I pulled out 16 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: all of my photographs, had him all in in my 17 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,279 Speaker 1: living room floor. He walked and he said, Gina, this 18 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: is a credit. Sure, this is incredible. We got to 19 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: go right up. We're going to write up uh what 20 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 1: he called it, what he caught makeook. Yeah, Well we're 21 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: gonna do make a coffee table photo coffee table book anyway, 22 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,120 Speaker 1: So we we wrote wrote up a what do you 23 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: call why can't I think of that? Proposal? Proposal Jane, 24 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: there's christ my senior moment lasted for ten minutes. Okay, yes, 25 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 1: a proposal for a photo book. So we wrote one up. 26 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: We set it to a couple of book publishers and 27 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,480 Speaker 1: we right away we got back, you know, right away 28 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: that black Dog Hachette was interested and talked to them. 29 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: They wanted to do the photo book. But then they 30 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 1: started talking to me about, Hey, we used to feel 31 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 1: like writing a little and I was That was of 32 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 1: course overwhelming to me. Once again, I'm not a writer. 33 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 1: I don't write books. But when we started putting all 34 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 1: these photographs together, it's, um, it became very easy to 35 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: write about what was happening that time. It was very fluid, 36 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: very very easy because when I look at these photographs, 37 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: I remember everything that was going on, and you know 38 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: what I didn't remember, like maybe perhaps dates and where 39 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: I may have been. I keep a daily planner that 40 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: I've had. I've had daily planners since seventy nine, so 41 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 1: I referred back to them for dates and places, and 42 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: it was invaluable. I mean, I had everything written down 43 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,600 Speaker 1: so I could refer to that, and I just and 44 00:02:24,639 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: then I have all the September I had, buttons and posters, 45 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: you know, you name it, I've got it. I just 46 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: all this stuff means something to me. I'm I'm a 47 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: very sentimental person. I like I keep cards and letters 48 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: and things from people that I love. And you know, 49 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: this is a part of my history and a part 50 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: of my life, and I wanted to keep it, you know. Um, 51 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: And so I have it all my possession. Finally found 52 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: the right person, help we put it together, and boom 53 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: it happened. Okay, can you make any money with a 54 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: coffee table? Book? Ers? Just a labor of love for 55 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: you and the fans. It is a labor of love. 56 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: I don't I'm gonna want up spending more money than 57 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 1: I make on this whole this whole endeavor. Um, But 58 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: you know what this, I know it's a pichete, but 59 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: it really has been a labor of love. Uh. Going 60 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: through all of these photos, it just made me so grateful, 61 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: so happy that that this has been my life and 62 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 1: I've captured it and the girls in the band with photographs, 63 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: and now I can share these photographs with our fans. 64 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: The general public. You get to see what I was 65 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: seeing a band member, someone in the band, you know. Um. 66 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: And then when I started writing about this, I feel 67 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: like anybody that picks this book up and starts to 68 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: look at the photos and reads a little bit, it's 69 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 1: gonna want to read the whole thing because it's honest 70 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: and it's true. It's ask anybody. I'm a pretty upfront person, 71 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 1: no bullshit with me, so and I write that way 72 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: and these are my words and these are my photos, 73 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: and um, I'm really proud of agree with you. I mean, 74 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,600 Speaker 1: and first I'm looking through the pictures, but you get 75 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: intrigued in the story. It's anything but a burden. You 76 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: cover the major points you could even want to know more. Now, 77 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 1: let's talk about the ephemer and the photos. Bill Wyman 78 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: of the Stones famously kept one of everything. The irony 79 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: being all these years later he's not auctioning some of 80 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:33,719 Speaker 1: that off. Was that your procedure? Did you tend to 81 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: keep one of everything? Um? It wasn't as though I 82 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 1: was grabbing one of everything. I was just grabbing whatever 83 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: was in reach within my reach. Um, I didn't necessarily 84 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: cover all everything that came out, but I do have buttons. 85 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: I just and if I could grab one thing, I 86 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: grab as many as I can. Whatever. I just these 87 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: are all memories. I like looking at it. This stuff. 88 00:04:55,800 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: It's it's it's my life, you know. And okay, the 89 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: Bill by the way, I had the Bill Wyman book, 90 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:07,840 Speaker 1: which and it's really beautiful. Okay, if you could only 91 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: keep two pieces of memorabilia, they'd be what uh, they'd 92 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: be the poster that I have of when we play 93 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 1: with the Rolling Stones in Rockford, Illinois on October one one, 94 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: I believe. And it's a huge, big poster that I 95 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: had framed that I have it in my office. That 96 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: is worth a million bucks to me. You can put 97 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 1: that in the casket with me, you know. I love that. 98 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: Um And you know what, I guess the other thing 99 00:05:41,600 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 1: would have to be my book because it's it's taken 100 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: me forty years to get this together. So it's all 101 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: right there. You know. It's funny because uh, at one 102 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: point a couple of years ago, I threw out all 103 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: my lamin It's it just became. I didn't want to 104 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: be one of those guys. But I've only the couple. 105 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: One is all access to the Rolling Stones. That is 106 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 1: really cool. He got it. Yeah, of course it is. 107 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: And you know what, I keep all my lambin It's stupid. 108 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: I got a million of them, you know. And I 109 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: don't know if I can let go of all this stuff. 110 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know there's I mean, I'm not 111 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: a hoarder. My house is not like a crazy space, 112 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: you know, where you have to figure out how to walk. Uh. 113 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 1: In my home, I have everything in its place. I'm 114 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: a virgo. I'm very organized, and I don't know. These 115 00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: things are just important to me and I and I 116 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: still have all the labments. I keep them from every 117 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: tour and from any other you know band that I've 118 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: ever going to see when they give you a v 119 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: I P P S. I have all that stuff. Okay, 120 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: you talked about going to l A. Where is all 121 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: this stuff? Is it in your house now? Is it 122 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: in storage? It's in my house. Where is your house? 123 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,480 Speaker 1: I don't need the address, but the generally I live 124 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: in San Francisco, but I did live in l A 125 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,720 Speaker 1: for twenty seven years, and uh, I moved to just 126 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: go in to us in five um and I bought 127 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 1: a nice little Victorian up here and I'm having a 128 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: nice life and I go to l A to work. Um, 129 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: I do as much work as I can up here, 130 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: but l A is sort of the home base for 131 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: the Go Goos, and when anything's going on, that's where 132 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: we all meet each other. We all meet up there, 133 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: uh Like, for instance, we're gonna be meeting their uh 134 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: the beginning of December to start rehearsing for the for 135 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 1: the seven shows that we have at the end of 136 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: the year. So that's home base for the band. So 137 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: how did you decide to move to San Francisco and 138 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 1: after all those years in l A? Give me a 139 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: direct comparison to those two. Well, the thing is is, 140 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: I I felt like I had lived there long enough 141 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: and I was starting to become like a recluse. It 142 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,160 Speaker 1: was weird. I just I got tired of the whole 143 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: scene in the town. Um, and I wanted a place 144 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: where I could walk, where I could step out my 145 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: front door. You know. It was it was either gonna 146 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: be San Francisco to New York and San Francisco one out. 147 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: Because the weather. I love the weather here in Sandarich 148 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: is because my favorite weather in the country. I love it. 149 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: It's kind of like it feels like fall all the time, 150 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: and that fall rolls in every night. Man, I love 151 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,480 Speaker 1: the weather here. So um, this was an easy thing 152 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:14,680 Speaker 1: to do, moving from l A up to San Francisco. 153 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: And it's so close, you know. I mean I can 154 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: hop down the Standardist go you know, it's at our 155 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: flight or drive down, which I prefer to do. I 156 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: like driving. Okay, So now that you're in San Francisco, 157 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: are you a recluse or forgetting COVID? Leave that era 158 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: out and you've been in San Francisco for a while, 159 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: are you the type of person who goes out? Are 160 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 1: you still end up staying home anyway? I do go out, 161 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: but I am kind of more of a homebody, to 162 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 1: be honest with you. Um, I love getting my place 163 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,719 Speaker 1: the way that I want it. I'm comfortable, it's it's 164 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 1: by safe paven. I don't know if that's because I 165 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,679 Speaker 1: spent so many years in the public, you know, And 166 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: I just I value my time. I'm honestly kind of private, um, 167 00:08:57,559 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 1: and I appreciate the time that I can have to myself, 168 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: uh in a place that feels safe. So what do 169 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:07,280 Speaker 1: you do in your house? What do I do? Oh? 170 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: I write to write a book, like you know, made 171 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: in Hollywood. That's what I worked on the last year 172 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: and a half. Um, I'm constantly doing something on you know, 173 00:09:17,080 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm constantly on the phone and doing a ton of emails. 174 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: Every day. I get up, I walk my dog. I 175 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 1: do do that around the neighborhood. I have a lovely 176 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: The neighborhood I live in is fantastic and it's sort 177 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: of a neighborhood with all sort of a lot of 178 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: kids and dogs. And I'm up on a hill. Uh I. 179 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 1: And if i'm if I'm not in the house, I'm 180 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: out walking around. When I'm in the house, I'm I 181 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: stay busy. I don't know. I cook. You know what 182 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:44,280 Speaker 1: do you do when your your home? Your cook You 183 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: clean it up, You do your emails every day? You 184 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: know your friends stop buying, make dinner or yeah, okay. 185 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: Do you have a significant other? Um? Well, yeah, I'd 186 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: say that I have a person in my life. He 187 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: is uh, He's become very important in my life. And 188 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: his name is Wendell. And he you know, I took 189 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: care of my parents when they were sick, and I 190 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: brought him here take care of him. I'm sorry a minute. 191 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: Wendell took care of my father for the last three 192 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 1: years of its life. And he's a very important person 193 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:27,319 Speaker 1: in my life because I watched what a real man 194 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: can do. You know, he was a wonderful god. He 195 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: is a wonderful guy. And I'm sorry, but we became 196 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: very close and I can't imagine not ever being in 197 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:41,680 Speaker 1: my life. You know, we have a very deep connection. 198 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: He's definitely my soul mate. I'm sorry. Now you talk 199 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: about your parents. I know it's a tough subject, but 200 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: your father's passed you you said when your parents, well, 201 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: was your mother ill and she's still with us? Or 202 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: she going? Mom? My mom thought about three years ago 203 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:00,559 Speaker 1: and they were like my rocke. You know. I I 204 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: had a very type connection with my parents. I mean, 205 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 1: I feel like I owe everything to them because they 206 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 1: gave me. They instilled in me, uh to be in 207 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: the mind that that that I could achieve anything, that 208 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: anything was possible if I put my mind to it. 209 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 1: I was was willing to put the work into it 210 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: that it required. And so I feel like a lot 211 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: of just everything that I am and I've become. Um, 212 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to uh that that this was my way 213 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: of paying them back by trying to do something that 214 00:11:30,760 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 1: they would be proud of and you know, and I 215 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: feel like I succeeded in that and it it brought 216 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: me great joy to have them involved and bring them 217 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: into my life when I became a rock star, you know. Um, 218 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: it was wonderful to have them around. And you know, 219 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: sitting on the side of the stage at Madison Square 220 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:52,079 Speaker 1: Gardener at the Hollywood Bowl, all these things were very 221 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:55,320 Speaker 1: important to me. And I know that they were super proud, 222 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: you know, and I felt like I had to take 223 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 1: care of them. And they started getting sick, you know, 224 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: I had to step up, and so I moved them 225 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: from Baltimore, which is where I grew up for the 226 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: last six years of their lives, and I, uh took 227 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: care of them. Did they live with you in the 228 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: Victorian or do they have a separate places? Yeah, because 229 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: it's it's it's two it's two stories. And uh so 230 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: I had the downstairs uh fixed up for them, made 231 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: to make it safe. You know. I had the bathroom 232 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: redone and the floors, get rid of the carpets, all 233 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Um. Yeah, so I had it. 234 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 1: I had it fixed up for them, and and it 235 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: was great to be with them the last year of 236 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: their life and see them every single day. Um. And 237 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 1: I also, you know, had caregivers and where that's where 238 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: Wendell came into the picture because he was I don't 239 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 1: know what I would have done with that, this man. 240 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 1: And how did you meet Wendell to have him involved 241 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: with your parents and another caregiver? You know. I mean, look, 242 00:12:52,679 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to get into this big deal back caregivers, 243 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 1: but it is the toughest thing. If anybody has to 244 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: take care of their parents or anything, you know, or 245 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: a loved one, it is very difficult to find a 246 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,319 Speaker 1: good caregiver. You go through tons of them. Anybody will 247 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: tell you that. Um. And because I you know, it's 248 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 1: my parents, they gotta they gotta have the best, you know. 249 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: And I was just watching all the time. If I 250 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: saw something I didn't like, to get rid of them. 251 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: That's it they're at you know. Um. And Wendell, through 252 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: another caregiver, said oh I got somebody that can help, 253 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: you know, because I did. It's a twenty four hour shift, 254 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: so so you know, somebody for twelve hours and somebody 255 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 1: for another twelve hours. And Wendell came in that way, 256 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 1: and he was like a star man. He was just 257 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 1: he and my dad had this connection. My mom had passed, 258 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: but he had a connection with my father. They were 259 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: best friends. And uh, it's very important to me. Now 260 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: let's go back. You tell you san Francisco, your friends 261 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:55,320 Speaker 1: might come over, you know, when somebody goes towards the 262 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: other end of the spectrum and age very hard to 263 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: make new friends. So who were these friends who you're 264 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 1: seeing in San Francisco? Did you know him previously or 265 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,560 Speaker 1: you met him since you've been living there. I've had 266 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: a couple of friends up here, not not many, but 267 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:11,840 Speaker 1: that I have made some friends. I you know, like 268 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: I said, I'm a little private, so I'm not like 269 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 1: out there trying to meet friends, trying to meet people 270 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 1: all the time. Um you know, you meet someone else 271 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 1: through a friend and and I have a small group 272 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 1: of friends up here that are that are really great 273 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:28,720 Speaker 1: because honestly, Bob, all the majority of my friends are 274 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: all in l A. I lived there twenty seven years, Okay, 275 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: so you know that's sort of home base really besides 276 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 1: where I grew up my Baltimore. But um, yeah, I've 277 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 1: taken my time meeting people up here, and I feel 278 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: like it's some very quality friends here, not quantity quality, Bob. 279 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, let's go back to Wendell. Your closest 280 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: one thing, which was surprising in the book is you 281 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 1: go into your c shoes and relationships, which a lot 282 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:08,200 Speaker 1: of people tend not to. So what was it like 283 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: being a rock star, having crushes, having fans? What was 284 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 1: it like being a woman? We don't hear that too much. 285 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: We hear the guys perspective. Yeah, well, it was just 286 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: like being a human being that has dropped into being 287 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 1: a rock star and you're and you're young, you're in 288 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: your early twenties, and you're having the time of your life, 289 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: and you're making good money and you're playing in front 290 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: of thousands of people every night. I mean, it's a 291 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 1: dream come true. So you know, you have to figure 292 00:15:40,480 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: out what you want to partake in. And you know, 293 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: thank god, I'm still here to tell the tale. But 294 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: of course I did a lot of stupid things that 295 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 1: I would never do in retrospect. But that's just par 296 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: for the course, I think. You know, Uh, it's it's 297 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: you're like on a wild ride and you're loving it, 298 00:15:58,840 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: and why not it does? It doesn't happen to everyone, 299 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 1: you know, it's okay. But you know, let's be a 300 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: little specific. You You you talk about famous musicians, you 301 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: have crushes on, the people you have relationships on, you know, 302 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: the men they famously interact with women in different cities 303 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: before the cell phone camera, and you're certainly a star 304 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: before that where they have relationship with fans that might 305 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: be sexual only. What's it like from a woman's perspective, 306 00:16:25,520 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 1: It's the same. It's exactly the same, exactly the same. 307 00:16:29,960 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: You might have casual sex with a fan in St. 308 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: Louis and that and then next night you're in Kansas City. 309 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: I have done that. I would admit to have have 310 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 1: done that. Not my proudest moment. Okay, let's go back 311 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 1: and taking here your parents. You know, the dollars can 312 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:48,040 Speaker 1: add up. How are you doing financially? If you never 313 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: earned another dollar, could you make it to the end? 314 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: I think I could. Yeah. So the money or assets 315 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: you have, are you the person me manages that or 316 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: do you have somebody for How involved are you in that? Well? 317 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 1: To tell you the truth, I'm now starting to get 318 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 1: involved in everything. As I said I was, you know, 319 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: taking care of my parents would just consumed me. And 320 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm starting to feel like now it's my time to 321 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:22,440 Speaker 1: get myself back and you know, do what I'm doing 322 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 1: right now, um as they would want it. Um you know, 323 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like this is just my 324 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:34,520 Speaker 1: time to sort of regain things that I might have 325 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:42,159 Speaker 1: moments of time where that I couldn't be uh, that 326 00:17:42,240 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: I couldn't fully be in. And as far as the 327 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: money thing goes, I have people that I've been with 328 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: for years and years and they've handled my money and 329 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: my parents and my brother. You know, I feel pretty 330 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: comfortable with that set up. Yeah, I mean money, you know, Bob, 331 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:58,560 Speaker 1: I don't even like talking about it because money is 332 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: not important to me. I mean it is, but it's 333 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:04,639 Speaker 1: like I've never done anything for money. I've done it 334 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 1: because I love to do it. I wrote this book 335 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 1: because I love doing this, because I love taking these photographs. 336 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: It wasn't I don't, it's not what motivates me. I agree, 337 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: But you know, we're reaching an age. You know, if 338 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: you're a performer, if you're physically able, you can work forever. 339 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 1: But there I've unfortunately known some of my parents friends 340 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 1: in their eighties and nineties, they were out of money, 341 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: you know, and you can't get a job when you're 342 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: in your eighties or nineties. So I know a lot 343 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: of people who I know a lot of people who 344 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: are unprepared. That's why I asked that question, not that 345 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: you will Christ you know, Bob, I don't know how 346 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 1: long I would have lived, but I think right now 347 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm okay. Um I. You know, it is a great 348 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:49,480 Speaker 1: thing that that that the Gogs are still able to 349 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: play as much as we all want to. I myself 350 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,160 Speaker 1: like to play a lot. The rest of the girls 351 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: don't feel that way, or some of the girls don't, 352 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 1: but um, I mean this being in the go Gos 353 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: has allowed me a lifestyle that I only dreamed of. 354 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:10,360 Speaker 1: And you know it's I feel like I look at 355 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: all this stuff, when I look at this book, I 356 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: feel like I've been on this incredible journey that has 357 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,359 Speaker 1: where I've met people that like I grew up. I 358 00:19:19,480 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 1: grew up loving David Bowie, idolizing him or idolizing the 359 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: Stones and and Charlie Watts. I get to meet these people, 360 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: you know, hang out with them. Uh. It's a big 361 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 1: deal for me because I've always always been about music. 362 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: I love everything music, you know, every time I got 363 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,080 Speaker 1: When I was a kid, I spent on buying instruments, 364 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:43,439 Speaker 1: or buying tickets to concerts, or buying UM albums, you know, 365 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 1: and I loved I'd always spend extra money to get 366 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 1: the British imports because I really loved British music. Um. 367 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 1: You know, this has been like this magical journey and 368 00:19:52,880 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: I look at this and I can't believe that it's me, 369 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: Like because I'm the biggest fan I really am. Okay, 370 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 1: let's just go for one second. You talked about playing 371 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:05,639 Speaker 1: in a perfect world, how often would you want to 372 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 1: play me? I could be on tour. I could be 373 00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,840 Speaker 1: on toward ten months of the year easily. And if 374 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 1: you're not on the road, do you play the drums? 375 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 1: Now that's that's not how long does it take you 376 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: get back in the groove? So what I'm gonna do 377 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 1: what I always do. However long we have set up 378 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,639 Speaker 1: to the band rehearse to go on tour, I usually 379 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,160 Speaker 1: go two weeks before that and just play on my own. 380 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: I you know, I have our shows are taped, so 381 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 1: I'll just I'll put that, put my headphones on to 382 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: play along with the show. UM, so that I get 383 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,840 Speaker 1: like at least a good hour and fifteen minutes of 384 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 1: straight playing UM. And that's what I'll start doing before 385 00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: we do this this December show shows UM. And then 386 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: of course before before we do UM the Rock and 387 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: Roll Hall of Fame, I'll just probably take a couple 388 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: of days where I'll just sit down and go over 389 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 1: the three songs, just to get loose and limber and 390 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 1: remember how it feels, get that muscle memory going, you know. 391 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 1: Talk about going back to the other point about meeting 392 00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 1: your heroes. Have occasionally gone somewhere with my girlfriends. Just 393 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 1: why are you talking to that guy said he was 394 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 1: the drummer. He was a bass player in this band. 395 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 1: You don't understand. And when I get it in my inbox, 396 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:34,199 Speaker 1: same way. But one thing I've known is some of 397 00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,760 Speaker 1: these people are good when you meet them. Some of 398 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,320 Speaker 1: them are not so good. Okay, some of the household names, 399 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:44,879 Speaker 1: very sensitive people. You hang with them, they are not fun. 400 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 1: So what hey, I don't know many musicians like that, Bob. 401 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: You might be talking about actors or something. I don't know. 402 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,439 Speaker 1: But the musicians that I everybody have met, they've always 403 00:21:54,440 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: been wonderful. Let's not talk musicians, Let's talk Starrs. You 404 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: mentioned David Bowie, not the person in the band that 405 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 1: they may be just as responsible, but the front person 406 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: or the singer songwriter. Okay, Yes, there's a musician mentality. 407 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 1: All musicians get along. It's different from the everything. But 408 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: I'm talking about the household names. I mean I I 409 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: have been backstage with Cat Stevens couldn't be nicer. I've 410 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,719 Speaker 1: been backstage with a couple of times with people who 411 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 1: are the most famous in the world, and they're jerks. Okay, No, 412 00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to mention me. Know you're 413 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 1: asking me, Hey, let me ask you, Okay, Okay, I 414 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,160 Speaker 1: I think that I don't know if I'll spill the negative, 415 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:48,359 Speaker 1: but I'll go with the I'll work my way up 416 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 1: to it, you know, just like I'll get you to. 417 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,360 Speaker 1: In terms of someone who lives up to the legend, 418 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:59,679 Speaker 1: my most positive experiences have been with Steven Tyler. He 419 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: is that guy. He's fantastic, that made his full life 420 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:08,160 Speaker 1: and he doesn't mind throwing around compliments you know exactly, 421 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 1: and then you know, but you know, he'll leave a 422 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: message on the phone that is just wild, and then 423 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 1: you pick him up and he'll go straight into you know, 424 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,919 Speaker 1: it's like that who he is. He's always nice, he 425 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: lives up to the legend. And we've crossed pans a 426 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 1: couple of times. And I think Jane met him at once. 427 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: I don't know where it was she met him, and 428 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 1: he said that he called us like rock goddesses or 429 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 1: rock icons or something, and Jane Coke came back and said, 430 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 1: you're not gonna believe with Stephen. Stephen Tyler said about us, 431 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: We're like U Steven Tyler. Yeah, Oh my god, are 432 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 1: you kidding? I love Aerosmith so much. I love that band. 433 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 1: Name the two best experiences of meeting famous musicians? Well, 434 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:55,880 Speaker 1: David Bowie. So you met Bowie? What were the circumstances? 435 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 1: Did you have a conversation? All right? So I've met 436 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:00,040 Speaker 1: him a couple of times, but the first time I 437 00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: met him it was actually the most the best of 438 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 1: all the times was the first time because I got 439 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:08,679 Speaker 1: to really hang out with him and spend time talking 440 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,160 Speaker 1: with him, even though I was scared, shipless, I could 441 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 1: barely speak, but it was We had done a show 442 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 1: at where the hell in Sam in New York City. 443 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: I don't even know if we had a record deal yet, 444 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,960 Speaker 1: but we did a show at when Dell what's the 445 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 1: name of that venue? He looked it up the other day. 446 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't think of it in New York City, God, 447 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:33,720 Speaker 1: damn it not whatever. I'll come back to that. But 448 00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 1: at our show was John Lennon. Where was the Where 449 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:40,120 Speaker 1: was the venue that we played at? When I said 450 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 1: John Lennon was at? Was there? And oh the Ritz 451 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,240 Speaker 1: you remember the Rits Okay, so we were playing there. 452 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: So it was John Lennon, Yoko Ono um um um, 453 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 1: David Bowie, all the dudes from Manus, all the guys 454 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,719 Speaker 1: from Manus because we had just finished playing with them 455 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 1: in England, and the who else, Pete Townsend. They were 456 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 1: at our show and after the show they came back. 457 00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 1: In the night, they came back and we've met them 458 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: in the VI I P Room at the reds Now. 459 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 1: Unfortunately John and Yoko had left it during the encore 460 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: and it was but only a couple of months later 461 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:26,200 Speaker 1: when he was murdered. Um, so you know that was horrible, 462 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 1: that whole thing. But I didn't get to meet him, 463 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,919 Speaker 1: but did get to hang out with David and his 464 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: assistant Coco, who was seen to be with him. At 465 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 1: all times. Um, and there was a lot going on. 466 00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:43,200 Speaker 1: We were all for taking in various uh substances. Uh. 467 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: It was fun, it was great. It was perfect for 468 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:49,639 Speaker 1: the time. He was such a gentleman, very conversational, and 469 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,720 Speaker 1: he was super cool. He was He was everything I 470 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 1: had hoped he would be. This is really super cool guy, 471 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: very approachable. He wasn't a dick. It was a nice guy. 472 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 1: And Pete, God Blessing. Pete was was kind of out 473 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 1: of it. He was draped on two He had a 474 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:11,679 Speaker 1: woman on under under each arm sort of holding him up, 475 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 1: walking him around. I think he hadn't had a little 476 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: too much that evening. And the guys from man is 477 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 1: raw about saying hi to everybody because we just finished 478 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 1: toward with them, and uh my, the bass player, Mark 479 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 1: Bedford was my boyfriend at the time, so it was 480 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:33,399 Speaker 1: all great playing the drums and all of a sudden 481 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 1: seeing John lynnon I mean my body spikes. Would you 482 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: tell the story? Hey? Hey, I mean I couldn't see 483 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: him or anything when I was playing, But to know 484 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 1: that he actually came to a go go show and 485 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: saw us play, you know, that's a big one in 486 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: my book. That's a big one. Okay, so meeting David 487 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: Bowie was great. One other rock star great experience, oh well, 488 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 1: meeting the Rolling Stones meaning Stones when we opened for them, 489 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,479 Speaker 1: and getting to spend a little time with Charlie Watts 490 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: and Bill Wyman. Although Charlie was my hero growing up, 491 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. If it wasn't for Charlie 492 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: wattson John Bottom, I don't know if I would continue 493 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:17,880 Speaker 1: playing drums um They were I mean, I idolized them. 494 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: And when I met him, it was another one of 495 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 1: those moments where I, you know, could hardly speak, but 496 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: I did because I had to, had to say something. 497 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,399 Speaker 1: And once again I don't know if it's just being 498 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:29,880 Speaker 1: English or what the deal is, but he was such 499 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:35,800 Speaker 1: a gentleman, very very quiet and soft spoken, perfect gentleman. 500 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 1: Do you remember what you spoke about? Hell now, No 501 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:43,760 Speaker 1: I don't, No, I don't, but it doesn't matter. Uh. 502 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: I was in his presence and I actually got to 503 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 1: sit on his drum kit and full around with his 504 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 1: drums at sound check, which was a big thrill for me. 505 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,440 Speaker 1: And I've said this story many times, but that's when 506 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: his drum text said to me Gina that that that 507 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: rug that his drums any one. The drums are pittings 508 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: compared to what that rug cost. And in fact, that 509 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: was so that was so very Charlie Watts, wasn't it. Yeah, yeah, 510 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 1: of course it was. Okay, let's go back to Baltimore. 511 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:18,440 Speaker 1: How many generations was your family in Baltimore? Oh, Christ, 512 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: I don't know really. I uh well, let's see my 513 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:29,400 Speaker 1: mom's sided the family. My grandfather Mitchell Muskawsky, Mitch Mskowski, 514 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: he was. He came over when he was a boy 515 00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 1: on a boat, cabin boy or where the leased to 516 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: call him, and he he came over to the support. 517 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: Baltimore is where he got off, and you know, grew, grew, 518 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:50,840 Speaker 1: became a man and met my grandmother, Jane Hill. Her 519 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,760 Speaker 1: family was from Ireland, um, and that's who I'm named after, 520 00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,480 Speaker 1: Regina Hill Um. And my father's side of the family, 521 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 1: uh uh, the Shocks were all German. And I actually 522 00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: found out that my father's aunts and uncles were in 523 00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 1: the vaudeville circuit um and so there was a little 524 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: bit of that show biz h in my blood. Maybe, Okay. 525 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 1: I always thought when you broke the shock was a 526 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 1: made up name. So that is the family German it's 527 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 1: german Man and it was it was shocked when it 528 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 1: was in Germany. It wasn't changed in America. You don't know, 529 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: do you know what? I'm not positive, but it's something 530 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,720 Speaker 1: I want to look up. I think that our name 531 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:42,000 Speaker 1: was shook sc h O O K and it got 532 00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: changed the STO c K. I think it was shook. 533 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: But you know what, now that you remind me of that, 534 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 1: I want to look up. And I don't know why 535 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 1: I think that, but there must have been something that 536 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 1: I found, uh that leads me in that direction. Okay, 537 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: how did your parents meet? Oh? Well they were. My 538 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: mom went to Catholic school twelve years, as did I. 539 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: I did my brother. Um. My mom and dad met 540 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: when she was in high school and they were high 541 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:22,840 Speaker 1: school sweethearts. When she graduated high school, Uh, she was 542 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: eighteen and married my father, who was twenty one. And 543 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,000 Speaker 1: my father was the first sweetheart she ever had. She 544 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: had never had a boyfriend. She met my father and 545 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 1: that was that and they lived the next seventy two 546 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 1: years together in marital bliss. They were the most beautiful 547 00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: couple you'd ever want to me because they were so 548 00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: in love. I mean, that doesn't happen often. But I'm 549 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: going to tell you what minds. Like the storybook thing, Like, 550 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 1: my parents were crazy about each other, and they were 551 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: both really good looking, and they loved to dance, and 552 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: they loved to get dressed up and like to go 553 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: to New York and shake it up. You know, they 554 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 1: were really happening. So what did they do for a living? Um, 555 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 1: my father worked on the waterfront. It was a steved 556 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: or or alongshore or whatever, you know on the waterfront. 557 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: When you don't watch that film, that's my father, Marlon Brando, 558 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,880 Speaker 1: that's my father. Because my dad was offered a lot 559 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 1: of money to go to New York and work take 560 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,320 Speaker 1: care of you know, work on the docks up there, 561 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 1: and he wouldn't do it because we all know it's 562 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 1: run by the mafia. All that was and uh so 563 00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:29,320 Speaker 1: it's not run by the mafia in Baltimore. Uh, not 564 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: so much. It wasn't at the time, not so much. 565 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: New York was boom. That was it. You were in 566 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,640 Speaker 1: when you went to New York and you can't get 567 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,880 Speaker 1: out once you get in. We all know that. So, 568 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:44,880 Speaker 1: um no, Dad said no to this huge opportunity, this 569 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: opportunity to make a hell of a lot more money. 570 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: And I remember that it was a big deal about 571 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: moving to New York and he finally said no, he 572 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,720 Speaker 1: wasn't going to do it. Stayed in Baltimore. He was 573 00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 1: the you know, he became the head of the pier 574 00:31:56,440 --> 00:32:00,959 Speaker 1: one um um and treated everybody the way they're supposed 575 00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 1: to be treated. Because there were some folks that worked 576 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 1: doc workers that signed an X on their paycheck. Okay, um, 577 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 1: and my father treated everyone the same. Um. And my mom, 578 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: she was a model and then a beautician and then 579 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: a homemaker, and then she decided she wanted to uh 580 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 1: hang out with my dad a little bit more. So. 581 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 1: My father least some property right next to the pure 582 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: One where he worked on Clinton Street in Baltimore, which 583 00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 1: I got a story about. I don't tell you about 584 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 1: the wire about the building that he built. He was 585 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: a builder. He could build anything anyway. Um. He least 586 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: this property and he built a little carryaut shop so 587 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 1: that my mother could work there. And he was right 588 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:59,120 Speaker 1: next door. And you know, I worked there during the 589 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 1: summer and the hour from from six am to three pm. 590 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: And that's what I would do every summer. And my 591 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,760 Speaker 1: mom did that for many years. And then she step 592 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 1: four with that, and so we sold that business, and 593 00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 1: then Mom became just a homemaker. You know, she was 594 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 1: very good. Her cooking was really good. And Okay, So 595 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 1: what kind of neighborhood you grow up in? Very blue collar, 596 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 1: middle class neighborhood, Dundocum. Everyone knew each other. Uh, we 597 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 1: left our doors open at night. Uh. We'd sometimes sleep 598 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: on the front porch when it was too hot before 599 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 1: we could afford air conditioning. Um. And it was I 600 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: really had an idyllic childhood. I really, I really have 601 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: to say that. It was all kind of beautiful. And 602 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 1: what kind of kid were you? Shy? The group was 603 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: a rotten kid. My mother said she loved rotten kids. 604 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 1: I was bad, not really bad, but I was rambunctious, 605 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 1: you could say whatever. I I was always okay. I 606 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 1: grew up from a tomboy, grew up with I didn't 607 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 1: have any girls in the neighbor hood. It was all guys. 608 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 1: So I grew up riding bicycles with them, you know 609 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: what I mean, and running around and busting windows out, 610 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:12,200 Speaker 1: and you know, I had a little dirt bike all 611 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,279 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. You know, I didn't think there 612 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,279 Speaker 1: were no girls you know, until in high school that 613 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 1: I got to have other girlfriends, you know, but man, 614 00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:25,440 Speaker 1: it was a wonderful childhood. And uh you know, my my, 615 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 1: my dad's mom lived with us for many years and 616 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: it was all good. It was always and it was 617 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 1: our house was sort of the main base on the 618 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,839 Speaker 1: street because my father used to love to take all 619 00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:40,000 Speaker 1: the kids on hay rides and you bring them down 620 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 1: our shore home and you know there were something else. 621 00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: Let me tell you about they were really something else. Um, okay, 622 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: so you had a vacation home on the shore. Yeah, 623 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: that was chest be Baby. My mom and dad had 624 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:58,760 Speaker 1: to borrow a thousand dollars from uh my my father's sister, 625 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,879 Speaker 1: and they bought property on the chest Peak Bag and 626 00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 1: my father built the home, the shore home down there 627 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:06,680 Speaker 1: with a couple of buddies from work. He'd work on 628 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: the weekends and built this home that is still there, 629 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: that is gorgeous on a beautiful piece of property, um, 630 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 1: right on the water. And uh so we'd spend a 631 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: lot of time there every summer um fishing and crabbing, 632 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: and they would have their friends down. They'd be drinking 633 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 1: gin and tonic and the kids would be running around 634 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,439 Speaker 1: you can have a little sip of that, and oh man, 635 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,120 Speaker 1: it was just wonderful, you know. And he he had 636 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 1: a Super eight camera that he would take. He would 637 00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 1: take pictures on them because he and Mom would go 638 00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:38,759 Speaker 1: to New York a lot and they were on the 639 00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,640 Speaker 1: prices right and Mom want to make a maxstol and 640 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,719 Speaker 1: he won a super eight camera. So that's when he 641 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:50,040 Speaker 1: started taking super rate videos. I had all that film, Uh, 642 00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: put it on the DVD, so I had that. I 643 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 1: have all those super rates. Okay, so your brother is older. 644 00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:59,359 Speaker 1: What was he like growing up? Oh my god, Well, 645 00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,239 Speaker 1: my brother's seven years older than I am, so he 646 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,759 Speaker 1: was protective of me. It was my brother and my 647 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,080 Speaker 1: cousins that lived across the street, Henry Dennis, and I 648 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,080 Speaker 1: ran with them. Well, they hadn't sort of take me. 649 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,120 Speaker 1: My brother had to sort of watch out for me. 650 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:17,359 Speaker 1: Um and I just ran around with them and he 651 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: was good. And then then came a time when you know, 652 00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,000 Speaker 1: he was like nineteen or twenty and he was out 653 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: the door all the time. So I was just sort 654 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 1: of left my own devices, which was sitting in my 655 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 1: bedroom putting headphones on and playing with every song that 656 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:34,800 Speaker 1: I loved. Um, I was just immersed in music. Well, 657 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 1: what what would happened in the next fifty years for 658 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: your brother? What's he been up to? My brother, he 659 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,360 Speaker 1: got he went to college. My parents were disappointed I 660 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 1: didn't go to college, but I made that all right, 661 00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,879 Speaker 1: so they were happy with the ending story here. But yeah, 662 00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:54,840 Speaker 1: my brother is a pretty bright guy. UM. He wanted 663 00:36:54,880 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 1: to be a professor. UM, and he did work out 664 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,480 Speaker 1: that way. He spent a lot of time traveling, and 665 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: then he worked on the waterfront. Excuse me with my father, 666 00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,920 Speaker 1: and you make a lot of money working on the waterfront. 667 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,759 Speaker 1: And my brother worked there for like ten years and 668 00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,000 Speaker 1: made it, made a ton of money, and bought a 669 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 1: bunch of apartment buildings. UM in a neighborhood uh in 670 00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:24,239 Speaker 1: Holland Town in Baltimore was right over Patterson Park, which 671 00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 1: is this huge, big, beautiful park. I bought a bunch 672 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,080 Speaker 1: of buildings that were facing the park. And at the 673 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 1: time it was kind of ghettot but it changed over 674 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,840 Speaker 1: the years, UM, and it butted right up against the 675 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 1: neighborhood called Fell's Point, which is kind of famous. You 676 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,879 Speaker 1: may have harder Fells Point in Baltimore. UM. So John 677 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,399 Speaker 1: has his apartment buildings and that's they're all paid off 678 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 1: and he's living the life. You know, he travels and 679 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: does whatever he likes and he's good. My brother is good. 680 00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:54,719 Speaker 1: He I didn't get along that great, but it's okay. 681 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:58,120 Speaker 1: Did he get married, did he have kids? No? No, 682 00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 1: neither one of us are married. It's like, you know 683 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,360 Speaker 1: what Bob, I think about I don't know why, because 684 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,520 Speaker 1: I think the institution of marriage is kind of great, 685 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:11,600 Speaker 1: but it wasn't. It never worked out for me that way. 686 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:14,880 Speaker 1: And my brother, I guess he's the same. I don't know. 687 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 1: I kind of think maybe it had a lot to 688 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:22,520 Speaker 1: do with growing up seeing the perfect marriage. There's nothing 689 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 1: that you could ever you could never compete with that. 690 00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, you tend to, you know, 691 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:30,640 Speaker 1: when you're in a relationship, you tend to say, oh, 692 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 1: is he liked my father and she liked my mother? Whatever? 693 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:36,879 Speaker 1: You do those things. I don't know why. You just 694 00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,840 Speaker 1: do and UH be tugh to to live up to 695 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 1: the expectations that you have, of of of of some 696 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,279 Speaker 1: of of what you would think you would want your other, 697 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 1: your significant other to be like. When you watch the 698 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 1: perfect love affair happened, your entire life. And did your 699 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:59,839 Speaker 1: parents ever lament that they didn't have grandkids? Yeah, my mom, 700 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,160 Speaker 1: And I said, Mom, listen, if I had grandkids, I'd 701 00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 1: never be able to hang out with you as much 702 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,560 Speaker 1: as I do. He wouldn't be able to do all 703 00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:08,480 Speaker 1: these It's true, we wouldn't be able to do all 704 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,879 Speaker 1: these fantastic things that we do together. I bring my 705 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,799 Speaker 1: mother on tour, on tour with us. She'd be on 706 00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 1: the tour bus with the girls and and they all 707 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 1: loved her, you know. And my parents they were there 708 00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: for everything. They were in a lot of shows. The 709 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,600 Speaker 1: band knew my parents very very well and loved them. Okay, 710 00:39:25,080 --> 00:39:28,400 Speaker 1: being as Steven Doore, that's a as you mentioned, lucrative 711 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:32,839 Speaker 1: because because it's so physical, h did did have an 712 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 1: attrition to it. You know, we're father and brother and 713 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,160 Speaker 1: their body somewhat beat up because they did. My dad's 714 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:43,840 Speaker 1: body was beat up. Um. Yeah, he had terrible authoritis. Um. 715 00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,880 Speaker 1: But my father was like a little bull man. He 716 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:49,440 Speaker 1: was strong as a horse. He loved work. He loved 717 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 1: to work. Okay, I mean they had to pay him 718 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: to get him to quit the job, to quit being 719 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: a Steven Doore, you know, they had to offer him 720 00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 1: a lot of money to stop working so they could 721 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 1: bring younger dude and to do what he does. My 722 00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,239 Speaker 1: dad loved to work. He didn't like to sitting still. 723 00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 1: He was always building something. He was always doing something. 724 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,359 Speaker 1: And I tend to be more like my father because 725 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,680 Speaker 1: I like to stay busy. I like to Sitting around 726 00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:14,880 Speaker 1: for me is like death. It's like sucks, man. I 727 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 1: like to be busy all the time. Okay, so what 728 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 1: were your first exposures to music? Oh? Well, you know, 729 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 1: my parents were always playing music and they loved the dance, 730 00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,239 Speaker 1: which used to embarrass the hell out of my brother 731 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: and I they started dancing, we were so embarrassed. Um. 732 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:35,960 Speaker 1: But they listened to a lot of big band music. 733 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 1: I grew up with big band stuff. They loved count Bastie, 734 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:43,360 Speaker 1: Cat Callaway, all these who you know, everybody, Benny Goodman, 735 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 1: you know, anybody was playing big band stuff. They were 736 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 1: always playing and dancing too, which was hard to take, 737 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,799 Speaker 1: but yeah, it was that house was full of music 738 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:58,120 Speaker 1: all the time. And how did you get into popular 739 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:01,760 Speaker 1: music as opposed to the big band Because I still 740 00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:04,520 Speaker 1: love big band stuff. That's kind of some of my 741 00:41:04,640 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 1: favorite genre of music. Uh that Uh, I just it 742 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: was I was drawn to it. I don't know, man, 743 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 1: I When I was a kid, Uh, you know, I 744 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:20,440 Speaker 1: had that little transistor radio, you know, am stuck to 745 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 1: my ear waiting to hear my favorite songs of the day, 746 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,280 Speaker 1: you know. Um. And then I called into the radio 747 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:30,760 Speaker 1: station and request something that I wanted to hear and wait, 748 00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 1: you know, seven hours to hear at two o'clock in 749 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,439 Speaker 1: the morning. Um. You know. I had that transistor radio 750 00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: under the covers, um. Um. You know. And as I 751 00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:43,440 Speaker 1: got a little bit older, I just I started to 752 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 1: want to go. After my brother took me to my 753 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 1: first concert, which was led Zeppelin opening for the Who, 754 00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 1: and then it was NonStop. That was an addiction that 755 00:41:52,760 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: never ended. Many people have a transitional moment where they 756 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,400 Speaker 1: really get the bug. Was it the Beatles? Was it 757 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: something you heard on the radio? What made you go 758 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:16,279 Speaker 1: all in? You remember, yeah, seeing led Zeppelin opening for 759 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 1: the Who in nine nine Mary with the post pavilion. Yeah, 760 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 1: but you were listening to you were listening to the 761 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 1: radio before that. What got you started doing that? I 762 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 1: don't know, it just it spoke to me. It was 763 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,360 Speaker 1: something that that I felt that was important. To me. 764 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know why do you love doing 765 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:40,640 Speaker 1: what you do? It just it speaks to you. It 766 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 1: touches you in a way that other things don't. I 767 00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:47,760 Speaker 1: knew as a kid that I wanted to be involved 768 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:49,520 Speaker 1: in music. I didn't know what part I would play, 769 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: but I, like I said, it spoke to me, It 770 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 1: touched me, It was important in my life. Okay, so 771 00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:58,759 Speaker 1: tell me how you ended up going to that led 772 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 1: Zeppelin who gig. My brother had the babysit may and 773 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:10,800 Speaker 1: so he took me and I just remember, you know what, 774 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,280 Speaker 1: see led Zeppelin. That was our first tour of the States, 775 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,920 Speaker 1: and that was mind blowing. But then to see the 776 00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:22,360 Speaker 1: who come out and play and then destroy their instruments 777 00:43:22,440 --> 00:43:25,359 Speaker 1: at the end of the show. I mean, I'm a kid, 778 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:28,160 Speaker 1: I'm eleven years old or eleven or twelve, and I 779 00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 1: that blew my mind. I was like, I want to 780 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 1: be on that stage. I don't care what I'm doing, 781 00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,479 Speaker 1: if I'm singing or playing the dramas or playing bass, 782 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 1: whatever it is, I want to be up on that stage. 783 00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,799 Speaker 1: This is what I want to do. I never thought 784 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:44,719 Speaker 1: about gender. That didn't I didn't even think about that 785 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,920 Speaker 1: for a second, Oh I'm a girl. That never occurred 786 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,360 Speaker 1: to me. It was like, I want to do what 787 00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 1: they do. I love this, this is what I want 788 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,000 Speaker 1: to do. So you went home. What was your first step? 789 00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,239 Speaker 1: Did you buy the Zeppelin album? Do you get an instrument? No? 790 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 1: I uh. First think for me was I got a 791 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 1: base a bass guitar because I thought, oh, it's only 792 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 1: four strings, that will be easy. And it didn't. It wasn't. 793 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 1: I wasn't crazy about it. So I bought a guitar, 794 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,280 Speaker 1: took a couple of lessons, and that was too slow. 795 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,439 Speaker 1: I could like listen to the things bob and figure 796 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 1: out how to play it. You know. I think I 797 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:21,919 Speaker 1: have an ear. That was a gift, I think. And 798 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,000 Speaker 1: then I thought, well, I'll try drums. So I saved 799 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: up all my allowance money and I bought a drum 800 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,719 Speaker 1: set and what kind of drum set, what brand? And 801 00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:35,080 Speaker 1: that they were leto supremes. And I bought him at 802 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 1: Old Man Petro and his his music store up on 803 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:42,239 Speaker 1: Eastern Avenue. To ride my bicycle up there. And you 804 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:46,120 Speaker 1: remember how much you paid? I don't, but I bet 805 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,840 Speaker 1: you I have. I think I had those receipts around here, somewhere. 806 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,640 Speaker 1: I didn't save it. I had that. I'm not kidding you, 807 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:57,640 Speaker 1: I do have that bob um. I got those drums 808 00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,799 Speaker 1: and put my head phone and I had the drums 809 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:06,560 Speaker 1: set up in my bedroom and I started playing. And 810 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,880 Speaker 1: I knew right away that this was going to be 811 00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:13,080 Speaker 1: the instrument that I would choose to to spend my 812 00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,719 Speaker 1: time trying to get good at it, you know, be 813 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:20,080 Speaker 1: better at And because it felt really easy, it felt 814 00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:25,080 Speaker 1: like I didn't have to think about it. Uh, it 815 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 1: felt it felt easy. And you know, when you're eleven 816 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 1: or twelve years thirteen years old, you don't want to 817 00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 1: you don't have time to mess around with stuff. You 818 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:36,440 Speaker 1: just want to go out and do it. And so 819 00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:38,919 Speaker 1: playing drugs, I didn't have to think. I just put 820 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 1: headphones one and it came very naturally to me. So 821 00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 1: you never took a lesson, never took a lesson. Okay, 822 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,359 Speaker 1: so you're playing at home. Then how do you get 823 00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:54,440 Speaker 1: in a band? Oh? Well, first of all, there weren't 824 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:58,000 Speaker 1: a lot of girls playing drums during that early seventies, 825 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 1: late sixties, early seven, so that it was easy to 826 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,680 Speaker 1: get in bands. And I'll tell you what I was. 827 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 1: I remember being in a couple of bands and these 828 00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,840 Speaker 1: and the guys it was always guys, um. You know, 829 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 1: they were in their twenties and they would have to 830 00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: sneak me in the backtor because I was under age, um, 831 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: and they were all doing we're doing covers, you know, um. 832 00:46:20,239 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: And that went on for several years, and then I 833 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 1: got into a band and these were guys in my 834 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:28,920 Speaker 1: neighborhood called we and our band was called Scratch and Sniff, 835 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 1: and we were Baltimore's first punk new wave band and 836 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,800 Speaker 1: it was great. I learned a lot from George and Charles. 837 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,080 Speaker 1: They were really based on guitar player, really good musicians, 838 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:48,239 Speaker 1: and it opened up my world to like Brian Eno 839 00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:52,799 Speaker 1: and Roxy music, and you know, I started listening to 840 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 1: more than just Aero Smith or Leonard Skinner or the 841 00:46:55,640 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 1: Stems or the Beetles all of that. Um. And yeah, 842 00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 1: it was pretty incredible. We would do we played four 843 00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:06,720 Speaker 1: sets a night. We do two sets of original songs 844 00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 1: and two sets of covers. That was a big deal 845 00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,239 Speaker 1: and we got We did a couple of shows at 846 00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 1: the Marble Bar, which was the premier punk club to 847 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,799 Speaker 1: play in in Baltimore because like bands would come in 848 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,320 Speaker 1: like the ramoons or talking heads. They play at the 849 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,279 Speaker 1: Marble Bar. So that was a big deal. And were 850 00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:29,360 Speaker 1: you getting paid? Yeah, but who remembers what that was. 851 00:47:29,400 --> 00:47:31,279 Speaker 1: It didn't I didn't care what if we were making 852 00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: any money. It was just to be able to do 853 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:35,160 Speaker 1: My question is if you got paid, what did you 854 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 1: do with What did you do with the money. I 855 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:42,319 Speaker 1: probably bought clothes. I don't really remember, but I would 856 00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 1: imagine that. You know, I probably bought some really cool 857 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:49,560 Speaker 1: bell bottoms or something. I don't know. Yeah, I probably 858 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 1: brought clothes. Okay. So and what was your experience with 859 00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:57,200 Speaker 1: Catholic school? Now you're in high school, you're in a 860 00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:03,920 Speaker 1: how's that going? Yeah? I got suspended, you know, um, 861 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,600 Speaker 1: but it was you know, I was just used that 862 00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:08,560 Speaker 1: the nuns used to scare the ship out of me. 863 00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:12,200 Speaker 1: I mean they were they were tough, and I guarantee 864 00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:14,319 Speaker 1: a man, I did my homework every night. It was 865 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,759 Speaker 1: kind of a drag because everybody in the neighborhood when 866 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,000 Speaker 1: they get home from school, you know, they were out 867 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 1: playing and having fun. But I'd be in there doing 868 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,399 Speaker 1: my homework because I was afraid of those nuns coming 869 00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:26,720 Speaker 1: into school the next day and getting smacked in the facer, 870 00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:30,640 Speaker 1: having my hands mashed with a pointer. You know, I 871 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,680 Speaker 1: mean they were rough, they were tough. But I'll tell 872 00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:36,920 Speaker 1: you what, Um, they're part of the reason why I 873 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,440 Speaker 1: had the work ethic that I do. Uh. You know, 874 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,960 Speaker 1: it's like if I you know, if you're gonna, I 875 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:44,439 Speaker 1: feel like you're gonna do something, do it right. Don't 876 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:48,560 Speaker 1: mess around with the half fast situation here? Why bother? Um? 877 00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: And you know, so it was it was part. It 878 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,080 Speaker 1: all worked out well in the end. Although I must 879 00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:59,839 Speaker 1: say that I would like to send by psychiatrists bill 880 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,120 Speaker 1: to the Catholic Church because they did screw me up 881 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:06,040 Speaker 1: in many ways, Like they filled me with guilt. I 882 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,960 Speaker 1: was always I'm still guilty about everything. I don't know, 883 00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. So that was gonna be my next question. 884 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 1: So you go to the therapist, Yeah as an adult, 885 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,239 Speaker 1: I know. So how long have you gone? How frequently? 886 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,239 Speaker 1: When did you start? Oh, I've been doing it for 887 00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:28,960 Speaker 1: many many years. I haven't. I haven't done it for 888 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,640 Speaker 1: a while though. I go not that frequently. But I did, 889 00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:36,920 Speaker 1: like in the nineties, go a lot because you know, 890 00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,040 Speaker 1: I had to deal with like the guilt of making 891 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,320 Speaker 1: it and you know, oh my god, what people think 892 00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 1: and all you know, it's there's a there's a Catholic 893 00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:52,000 Speaker 1: guilt and it's a real thing. It's it's real, um 894 00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:57,240 Speaker 1: and it definitely definitely got me. How does it affect 895 00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 1: you today? If it all, it still does affect me. Honestly, 896 00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not worthy of things. You know, 897 00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,799 Speaker 1: It's weird. It's like I put the time and I 898 00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,360 Speaker 1: do all the right things, but then I feel like, oh, 899 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,360 Speaker 1: you know, you're not really worthy. You know there's people 900 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,600 Speaker 1: that deserve that more than you do. Then I then 901 00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:23,319 Speaker 1: I draw strength from what the way my parents raised me, 902 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,400 Speaker 1: that we're sort of kick ass and yes you can 903 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,279 Speaker 1: do anything. This crazy dichotomy, you know what I mean. 904 00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 1: But and they set meid to Cathoit school. So, uh, 905 00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, are you still a believer? Do 906 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 1: you still go to church? No? I don't go to church. 907 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:39,280 Speaker 1: I might go a couple of times a year or something. 908 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:43,880 Speaker 1: But when I walk into a church, I feel, uh 909 00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,840 Speaker 1: it's a good place that's to meditate or something. I 910 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:53,799 Speaker 1: you know, I choose to believe what I believe. I Uh, 911 00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,800 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a spiritual person, but organized religion 912 00:50:56,880 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 1: is a little disturbing to me. Um, I don't know. 913 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:03,920 Speaker 1: I'm sort of mixed up about it all, to be 914 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:08,040 Speaker 1: honest with you. Uh okay, So why did you get 915 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:14,200 Speaker 1: suspended in high school? Oh? Jesus because the disciplinarian nune doctor. 916 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,239 Speaker 1: Her her name was John Helene. How do you like that? 917 00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,560 Speaker 1: I just I don't believe I remembered her name, John Helene. 918 00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 1: She was such a bit um. She didn't like me 919 00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:26,480 Speaker 1: because I was. I spent half my time trying to 920 00:51:26,480 --> 00:51:29,160 Speaker 1: figure out how to get how to get into trouble 921 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:35,400 Speaker 1: without getting caught, and she knew that, and she she's 922 00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:39,160 Speaker 1: I was. I was suspended for having a bad attitude. 923 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,279 Speaker 1: There was nothing that I actually did that she caught 924 00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,279 Speaker 1: me at. And actually my mother and father went up 925 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,280 Speaker 1: there and we're like, what do you mean a bad attitude? 926 00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 1: What is what does that mean? You know? It's crazy. 927 00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:55,000 Speaker 1: Catholic school was sucking nuts. I gotta say, so did 928 00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:58,160 Speaker 1: you gra? Did you graduate? Yeah? I did, Yeah, of 929 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:01,520 Speaker 1: course I did. And he fought of going to college 930 00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:04,319 Speaker 1: or like, I'm done? What was going through your head? No? 931 00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,480 Speaker 1: I mean I you know, I couldn't wait to finish 932 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:10,720 Speaker 1: school so I could just starting playing in clubs and stinky, 933 00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:14,160 Speaker 1: dirty clubs. All I want to do was be, you know, 934 00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:18,080 Speaker 1: a musician, be a drummer, and and and and work 935 00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,919 Speaker 1: and make some money, and you know, try to find 936 00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,279 Speaker 1: a band that I fit in that really spoke to me. 937 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,200 Speaker 1: And you know, Scratch and Sniff was a band that 938 00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:28,799 Speaker 1: that I love those guys and I loved where we 939 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:33,040 Speaker 1: were going. Um, But after I'm gonna get ahead of 940 00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:37,399 Speaker 1: myself because after that, I got the opportunity to work 941 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:40,799 Speaker 1: with Eat the egg Lady from John Waters film Let's 942 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,439 Speaker 1: Let's wait. I want to get into that. Let's go back. 943 00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:46,320 Speaker 1: One thing you put in your book is you basically 944 00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:49,680 Speaker 1: went to see everybody. Tell me about your tell me 945 00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 1: about your concert going experience, where you got the money 946 00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:55,400 Speaker 1: for tickets, Who was good, who was bad? Well, let 947 00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:59,879 Speaker 1: me tell you something. I had albums full of photographs 948 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:03,759 Speaker 1: with my instematic camera from all the continents I went to. 949 00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:09,680 Speaker 1: And I learned that, okay, they played, if they played, 950 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 1: the bottom were Civic Center, the hotel they were going 951 00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:13,759 Speaker 1: to stay and was gonna be the holiday and which 952 00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,880 Speaker 1: was right next door. So I was like, okay, how 953 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:18,200 Speaker 1: am I going to meet these people? I got to 954 00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,560 Speaker 1: meet him. You know, I need to learn from them, right. 955 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,959 Speaker 1: I'd see him on stage, I was just knocked out. 956 00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:28,040 Speaker 1: So I would go across the street and try to 957 00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:31,000 Speaker 1: get their autographs and take a photo with them. And 958 00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:33,439 Speaker 1: I figured out that the way to get to meet 959 00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 1: them was you go up the service elevator and you 960 00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 1: go on the floor. You get on the phone, and 961 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:42,320 Speaker 1: you asked to be You asked to be connected to 962 00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,680 Speaker 1: either the bass player of the drummer, because they were 963 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:46,959 Speaker 1: usually the guys in the band that gave their real name. 964 00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,319 Speaker 1: They didn't have an alias, and so I would ask 965 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,600 Speaker 1: for them and i'd get the room. I get like 966 00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:55,239 Speaker 1: a four digit number. The last three digit was the 967 00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:58,200 Speaker 1: room number. So I would go and I'd have somebody 968 00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:00,840 Speaker 1: with me, you know, a friend, and we'd rap on 969 00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:03,279 Speaker 1: the door. I'd say, can I take a photograph? Can 970 00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,239 Speaker 1: I take a picture with you? And they always said yes. 971 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:10,520 Speaker 1: But I remember, like Paul Rodgers um for Bad Company, 972 00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:12,560 Speaker 1: I have a photograph of him where he's putting his 973 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:14,360 Speaker 1: arm up because he didn't want his picture taken, but 974 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,880 Speaker 1: I took it anyway. And like I had pictures of 975 00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,920 Speaker 1: Ted Nugent and Aery Smith and at Rod Stewart, and yes, 976 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,360 Speaker 1: and you name it. I was taking I was taking pictures, 977 00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,640 Speaker 1: and I was meeting these people and saying, I want 978 00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:28,600 Speaker 1: to do that, the guys in Jay Giles band, I 979 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:33,160 Speaker 1: mean I it was all I lived for, Bob. I'm 980 00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:35,480 Speaker 1: getting excited just talking about where did you get the 981 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:41,360 Speaker 1: money for the tickets? Save up my allowance? Dishes, doing dishes, 982 00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,759 Speaker 1: cleaning the house every weekend, cut the grass, taking the 983 00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: garbage out, doing anything I could to make the money 984 00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:50,279 Speaker 1: to buy those tickets. So tell me the eat story, 985 00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 1: the eating stories. So when I moved out of my 986 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,200 Speaker 1: house at the age of twenty, I moved into Fell's Point, 987 00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 1: which was sort of the Hit area, and eat at 988 00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 1: a store on we called Edith's Shopping Bag. And I 989 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:05,560 Speaker 1: would go in and visit her all the time, you know, 990 00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:07,839 Speaker 1: And she'd be sitting at a cash register with her 991 00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 1: like hand, her servant, lady Jeannie, who looked like a 992 00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,080 Speaker 1: crazy old witch, but she waited on eady hand and foot. 993 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:21,239 Speaker 1: It was a strange thing, but kind of great. Only Baltimore, 994 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,920 Speaker 1: it's such. It was all John Waters film, the whole thing. Man, 995 00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:26,279 Speaker 1: It's incredible. Anyway, I'd go in there and I talked 996 00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,640 Speaker 1: to her be facing Oh Ganea, hell are you what 997 00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:31,080 Speaker 1: are you doing? And I gotta punk band I want 998 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:32,799 Speaker 1: to put together. Are you you know if you want 999 00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:35,239 Speaker 1: to get in they I was like, yes, I want 1000 00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:37,680 Speaker 1: to get in this band. We're gonna get to New York, 1001 00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:42,880 Speaker 1: LA and San Francisco, of course. So we put together 1002 00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:48,240 Speaker 1: this band, myself and two other girls and with Evie. 1003 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 1: We rehearsed a couple of times, put a couple of 1004 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,480 Speaker 1: songs together. I even remember they were. It was all 1005 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:56,520 Speaker 1: slapped together quickly. It was just the thought of getting 1006 00:55:56,520 --> 00:56:00,440 Speaker 1: to play at cebe GEB's Max's Kansas City, and then 1007 00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:03,440 Speaker 1: getting the first time I ever flew on a plane, okay, 1008 00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:06,200 Speaker 1: find across the country to play in Los Angeles and 1009 00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:10,680 Speaker 1: l a Hollywood whoo um, three nights, three shows, one 1010 00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:12,879 Speaker 1: night at the Neward Theater, and then up to San 1011 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:15,799 Speaker 1: Francisco to play at the Newer at the Sorry the 1012 00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:20,120 Speaker 1: Warfield Theater. This was like a dream come true, and 1013 00:56:20,200 --> 00:56:22,879 Speaker 1: I could thank Eadie for that, which ultimately goes down 1014 00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:27,280 Speaker 1: to thanking John Waters, you know, for for discovering Eadie, 1015 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,880 Speaker 1: who was just the sweet, old, kindly lady that loved 1016 00:56:30,920 --> 00:56:35,160 Speaker 1: all the attention she was a doll, you know. Um, 1017 00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,399 Speaker 1: So we did the Eating of the eighth shows. That 1018 00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 1: was fantastic. Uh. You know, I couldn't believe all that 1019 00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:45,040 Speaker 1: I was experiencing. And the punk scene was thriving great. 1020 00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: And came back to Baltimore and I was I knew 1021 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:52,719 Speaker 1: that it was time to make a decision and I 1022 00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:56,759 Speaker 1: had to leave. I had to go. Uh after experiencing that, 1023 00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:02,120 Speaker 1: there was no turning back. Um Ok, I saved up 1024 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,839 Speaker 1: money for like a year, and then I asked my 1025 00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 1: friend Babs from high school, you want to go to 1026 00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 1: l A. And she was like yeah. So we got 1027 00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:17,320 Speaker 1: my dad's pickup truck everything I own and and flew 1028 00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:22,040 Speaker 1: across I mean, and drove across country. And at that 1029 00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,840 Speaker 1: point I still had like an instematic camera that I 1030 00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:30,520 Speaker 1: was taking photographs with. UM drove across country and in 1031 00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:33,440 Speaker 1: search of a band. I didn't know who it would be, 1032 00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:35,120 Speaker 1: where I knew it was going to be in l A. 1033 00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:38,680 Speaker 1: Um that was the easiest place. The cost of living 1034 00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 1: was easier in l A than in San Francisco to 1035 00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:45,720 Speaker 1: New York. And yeah, so that was it. We we 1036 00:57:45,720 --> 00:57:48,320 Speaker 1: we started our journey across country and I was taking 1037 00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:52,920 Speaker 1: taking pictures all the time. Okay, you land. What's the 1038 00:57:53,040 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 1: journey from there to getting into Go Goes. Well, I 1039 00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,680 Speaker 1: was staying with a guy named Steve Martin, not the 1040 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:09,400 Speaker 1: Steve Martin UM. He's a filmmaker. And Steve and his brother, 1041 00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:16,000 Speaker 1: Doug Martin, they're identical redheaded twins. Um had done the show, 1042 00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:19,520 Speaker 1: produced the shows at the newer So I stayed with 1043 00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:22,560 Speaker 1: Steve and he was taking me around to all the 1044 00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,240 Speaker 1: clubs and I got into bands right away. I put 1045 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:26,720 Speaker 1: my name up at all the stores, you know, the 1046 00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:31,840 Speaker 1: music stores and um so and Steve started taking me 1047 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,520 Speaker 1: around to different different venues to see bands. And he said, 1048 00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,400 Speaker 1: there's this band, the Go Ghost Genia. You need to 1049 00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,560 Speaker 1: see them. You need to get the band kicked the 1050 00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:40,120 Speaker 1: drum round, you need to be the drummer and then 1051 00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: and then you're gonna be You're gonna be big stars. 1052 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:45,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, okay, Steve. So he took me 1053 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,320 Speaker 1: to Club eighty eight to see the Go Those play 1054 00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:53,040 Speaker 1: and it was fantastic. I they were having such a 1055 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:57,280 Speaker 1: great time on stage. It was like such a joyful experience. 1056 00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:00,320 Speaker 1: It was like I, because I was so seri sarious 1057 00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,000 Speaker 1: about music, everything had to be perfect. I was way 1058 00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:08,120 Speaker 1: too serious and they injected this this whole fun thing 1059 00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,160 Speaker 1: which I never thought about. Oh, this can be fun 1060 00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,800 Speaker 1: as well. They were having the best time on stage. 1061 00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:16,080 Speaker 1: They were making mistakes, it didn't matter um and people 1062 00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:19,640 Speaker 1: were loving it. Mistakes and all, you know. And and 1063 00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:23,040 Speaker 1: I also heard something in the songs that they were 1064 00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:28,320 Speaker 1: playing that I felt I had value. And I just 1065 00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,600 Speaker 1: was like, I told Steve verywait, yeah, I want to 1066 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,640 Speaker 1: get in this band. So his brother Doug was having 1067 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:36,360 Speaker 1: a party that weekend and his place down in Santa Monica, 1068 00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:39,000 Speaker 1: and he invited the girls and whoever else was in 1069 00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 1: the scene at that time, the punk scene, and they 1070 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,880 Speaker 1: were there and I met I think I met Belinda, 1071 00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:50,400 Speaker 1: Margot and Jane and they were said they were looking 1072 00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:53,160 Speaker 1: for a drummer. Uh, and I said, well, I'm looking 1073 00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 1: to join the band. And I invited them over to 1074 00:59:56,200 --> 01:00:00,200 Speaker 1: Steve's house that weekend. They were the following weekend, and uh, 1075 01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Steve was so good to me. He allowed me when 1076 01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,120 Speaker 1: I dream across the country. I had all my vinyl, 1077 01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,480 Speaker 1: I had a p A system and that drop all 1078 01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:09,760 Speaker 1: my clothes, everything I owned. I had a p A 1079 01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:11,680 Speaker 1: set up in his living room in the house on 1080 01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:15,120 Speaker 1: Beverly Glenn and I brought amps with me as well, 1081 01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:19,960 Speaker 1: So the girls came in. We started playing, and a 1082 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:22,040 Speaker 1: couple of songs later, I knew that this was going 1083 01:00:22,080 --> 01:00:24,720 Speaker 1: to be the right, the right fit for for all 1084 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:28,640 Speaker 1: of us. And and it was and everything changed. It 1085 01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:30,920 Speaker 1: all changed after that. Who was the who was the 1086 01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,640 Speaker 1: drummer before you? How did they get rid of that drummer? Um? 1087 01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:35,640 Speaker 1: They got rid of a Lisa. I don't know. I 1088 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 1: don't as I was told. I don't think she was 1089 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:42,040 Speaker 1: like really into playing drums. I think it was just 1090 01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:44,120 Speaker 1: the fun thing she was doing. Not that they were 1091 01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:46,680 Speaker 1: that serious side of um. They just want to hang 1092 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:48,800 Speaker 1: out with their friends and have fun. But I don't 1093 01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:51,040 Speaker 1: know whatever the problems were. But I was more than 1094 01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,720 Speaker 1: happy to step in because when I stepped in, they 1095 01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:55,520 Speaker 1: thought I was like a big shop because I could 1096 01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:57,240 Speaker 1: actually play, you know what I mean. I was like 1097 01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:59,720 Speaker 1: really serious, and I was like, you know, guys, we 1098 01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,040 Speaker 1: need to rehearse, you know, every night after work. They 1099 01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:04,880 Speaker 1: were used to rehearsing a couple of times a month, 1100 01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,920 Speaker 1: and I had come for this background where you know, 1101 01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,280 Speaker 1: you rehearsed after work every day, like four or five 1102 01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:13,240 Speaker 1: nights a week. You gotta you gotta play to get better. 1103 01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,960 Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen unless you spend the time and 1104 01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:18,160 Speaker 1: put in the work to make yourself better at your 1105 01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:21,720 Speaker 1: instrument or at your songwriting, whatever it maybe, or you're singing, 1106 01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:25,560 Speaker 1: whatever it is. You gotta put the time in. And 1107 01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:28,280 Speaker 1: they went right along with it. They were happy. They 1108 01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:31,120 Speaker 1: were happy to uh to change their ways about that. 1109 01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:32,840 Speaker 1: They were they were willing to put the time in 1110 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:36,000 Speaker 1: because I think everybody kind of knew that we were 1111 01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,960 Speaker 1: something different, something special, and if we if we put 1112 01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:43,440 Speaker 1: the time in, it was gonna it was gonna happen 1113 01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:46,600 Speaker 1: for us. Okay, this was at the tail end of 1114 01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 1: a huge scene in Los Angeles. All the you know, 1115 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 1: the only ones who really broke through were the Knack, 1116 01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:56,440 Speaker 1: but a million bands were sign right Motels. They made it, 1117 01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:00,080 Speaker 1: they actually got a deal with they were But it 1118 01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 1: will happen even a little later though. But in any 1119 01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:06,160 Speaker 1: of that, you know, got all those bands. I have 1120 01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:10,240 Speaker 1: those records, like Danny Wilde had his band and God 1121 01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,760 Speaker 1: and then there was the other band on Arastuty. You know, 1122 01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:16,600 Speaker 1: you know all those things, such a scene. But you're 1123 01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:20,840 Speaker 1: playing gigs. What's going through your mind in terms of 1124 01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:24,200 Speaker 1: the next step forward. Obviously people knew who the Go 1125 01:02:24,320 --> 01:02:29,960 Speaker 1: Goes were, but you weren't getting signed and it wasn't happening. Yeah, 1126 01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:33,920 Speaker 1: it was um, you know, I guess some of the 1127 01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:37,280 Speaker 1: labels wanted to take a take a chance on this 1128 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:40,480 Speaker 1: old girl band because there had never been an all 1129 01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:45,440 Speaker 1: uh female band that had been hugely successful. And we 1130 01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:47,720 Speaker 1: all know how record labels are. They want to they 1131 01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:50,400 Speaker 1: find a formula that works and then they stick to it, 1132 01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:54,200 Speaker 1: you know, um, because they figured, you know, they're gonna 1133 01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:56,240 Speaker 1: make plenty of money. It's all about making that's the 1134 01:02:56,320 --> 01:03:00,240 Speaker 1: bottom line. Are they going to make money. We came 1135 01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:03,680 Speaker 1: into the picture and we were sort of like it 1136 01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:06,040 Speaker 1: or not. We're here, We're not going anywhere. Look at 1137 01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:08,800 Speaker 1: the crowds that are coming to our shows. You can't 1138 01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:12,080 Speaker 1: deny that we're getting We're getting bigger and bigger. You know, 1139 01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,960 Speaker 1: the line is now around the block. It's got to 1140 01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:20,280 Speaker 1: start like registering that this something's going on here. And 1141 01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:23,080 Speaker 1: you know, it did finally, but only with I R. 1142 01:03:23,200 --> 01:03:25,880 Speaker 1: S Records, who was sort of as indie label that 1143 01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:29,520 Speaker 1: was distributed through A and M, which was fantastic UM 1144 01:03:29,600 --> 01:03:32,080 Speaker 1: and John Cornaria is a guy that worked at I R. S. 1145 01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:33,840 Speaker 1: Who who came to see us play, and then he 1146 01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:35,880 Speaker 1: told Mill Scope and You've got to see this band. 1147 01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:39,760 Speaker 1: Of course, Miles came and we signed with Miles April 1148 01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:45,840 Speaker 1: Fool's Day of nineteen, Okay, and that was it. Okay, 1149 01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:48,080 Speaker 1: let's go back a little bit slower because I'm on 1150 01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,040 Speaker 1: the other side of the fence. I'm reading the news 1151 01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:52,560 Speaker 1: back when you read a physical paper. There wasn't even 1152 01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:56,280 Speaker 1: article in the l A Times. Why have the Go 1153 01:03:56,280 --> 01:04:00,760 Speaker 1: Goes not gotten a record deal? Really? Okay? Yeah, well 1154 01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:02,680 Speaker 1: that makes sense because nobody would give us a deal 1155 01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:04,760 Speaker 1: and we were goddamn selling out every club we played 1156 01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:07,120 Speaker 1: in And we're going to San Francisco and we played 1157 01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:09,000 Speaker 1: in New York. We're selling out all these places. What's 1158 01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:13,160 Speaker 1: the problem. So did you sign the deal with I 1159 01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:15,280 Speaker 1: R S before you went to England or did you 1160 01:04:15,320 --> 01:04:18,400 Speaker 1: go to England first? Yeah, we went to England. That 1161 01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:21,920 Speaker 1: really got the ball rolling because when we went to England, 1162 01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:24,959 Speaker 1: we toured with Madness and the Specials. So we got 1163 01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:28,640 Speaker 1: really tight during those tours because it was I mean, 1164 01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,600 Speaker 1: it was rough. Those those the audience did not want 1165 01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:34,600 Speaker 1: to see us. They hated our guts and let us 1166 01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:39,040 Speaker 1: know by throwing bowels and spitting all over us all night. Um. 1167 01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:41,600 Speaker 1: So we came back and we you know, we had 1168 01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:43,840 Speaker 1: been we had we just finished the School of hard 1169 01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:48,840 Speaker 1: Knocks when we played the UK. Um so uh, when 1170 01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:51,680 Speaker 1: we came back here, it was crazy. We thought we 1171 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,920 Speaker 1: were going to really happen in the UK, and as 1172 01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:57,240 Speaker 1: it turns out, we didn't. We kind of flopped over there. 1173 01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:59,600 Speaker 1: But when we when we came back to the States, 1174 01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 1: we got the beat. The single on Stiff was happening 1175 01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:05,800 Speaker 1: in the club scene. People were playing it and it 1176 01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:11,160 Speaker 1: was really starting to, you know, become a club favorite. 1177 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:15,600 Speaker 1: People were knowing who the go goes were. And we 1178 01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,680 Speaker 1: get back to l A and that's what it really 1179 01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:21,240 Speaker 1: It really did change because then then it was like, 1180 01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:23,880 Speaker 1: instead of playing one night at the star Wood, you 1181 01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:27,360 Speaker 1: have to do two or three nights. Uh. It changed 1182 01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:30,000 Speaker 1: a lot. And we were really tight by that time 1183 01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:35,280 Speaker 1: because we've been playing every night. Um. And that was 1184 01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:38,680 Speaker 1: a pretty cool time. We played playing the Rosy and 1185 01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,240 Speaker 1: the Whiskey and the star Wood and then going up 1186 01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:42,840 Speaker 1: to Sandwich is gonna play with buo Hey And then 1187 01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,280 Speaker 1: then the venue stop bigger and bigger. It was. It was, 1188 01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:50,200 Speaker 1: it was. It was all welcomed. Okay, the Stiff single, 1189 01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,840 Speaker 1: we got to beat the original version that was done 1190 01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:57,160 Speaker 1: before the I R S deal, right, Yes, yeah we 1191 01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:59,920 Speaker 1: did that. Regarding Dave Rock, I think it was a game. 1192 01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:05,160 Speaker 1: Robinson Sift Records, Yeah, um uh yeah, he saw the 1193 01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:08,120 Speaker 1: band play and he had talked with Ginger several times 1194 01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:11,080 Speaker 1: about doing a deal he wanted. Our publishing with Ginger 1195 01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,000 Speaker 1: was like no way. Um, but we did do that 1196 01:06:14,000 --> 01:06:16,840 Speaker 1: that single deal with him. And you know, as much 1197 01:06:16,920 --> 01:06:19,280 Speaker 1: as we were like, oh, that's such crap, we don't 1198 01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:22,680 Speaker 1: really care about that, it worked to our advantage when 1199 01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:24,560 Speaker 1: we came back to the States because, like I say, 1200 01:06:24,640 --> 01:06:26,720 Speaker 1: it was happening in the clubs, they were playing it, 1201 01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:29,280 Speaker 1: so people all over the country were here in the 1202 01:06:29,320 --> 01:06:34,200 Speaker 1: go those for the first time. Um. Being an English import, fine, 1203 01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:37,920 Speaker 1: whatever takes um. So when we came back here, I 1204 01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:42,560 Speaker 1: think that the crowds that were showing up at our 1205 01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:46,320 Speaker 1: conscious were so big that people couldn't ignore it. And 1206 01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,520 Speaker 1: you know what what's funny is that I'm thinking about this, 1207 01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:52,520 Speaker 1: all the major labels offered up several major labels offered 1208 01:06:52,600 --> 01:06:56,080 Speaker 1: us uh EP deals nobody will offer us an LP 1209 01:06:56,240 --> 01:06:59,240 Speaker 1: deal except the I R. S Records, So we signed 1210 01:06:59,240 --> 01:07:02,680 Speaker 1: with them. Okay, you signed, You went to the u K. 1211 01:07:03,000 --> 01:07:05,960 Speaker 1: You came back. What was the process in the time 1212 01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:11,320 Speaker 1: period of getting it together and recording the album? Okay, 1213 01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 1: so we get back to l A. We signed our deal. UH, 1214 01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:18,560 Speaker 1: milescope and had an idea of bringing in Richard Gotterer, 1215 01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:22,880 Speaker 1: a very famous songwriter, a great producer. He he had 1216 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:25,600 Speaker 1: produced a couple of Blondie records. I thought it were 1217 01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:29,200 Speaker 1: a perfect fit and it was. Um. So we packed 1218 01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,640 Speaker 1: up and we went to New York for several months 1219 01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:34,400 Speaker 1: to work on our first album, Beauty and the Beat, 1220 01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:43,560 Speaker 1: and Richard was was guiding us and helped us to 1221 01:07:44,360 --> 01:07:48,280 Speaker 1: UH realized that what we needed to do was slow 1222 01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:51,440 Speaker 1: everything down a little bit. You could actually hear the melody, 1223 01:07:51,520 --> 01:07:54,520 Speaker 1: the vocal melody, which was sort of flying by so 1224 01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:57,160 Speaker 1: finished you couldn't appreciate it. We slowed it all dawn. 1225 01:07:57,840 --> 01:07:59,880 Speaker 1: We're still a punk band at heart, but we'd be 1226 01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:02,640 Speaker 1: came what was happening. He had these great pop mullies 1227 01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:06,280 Speaker 1: over top these punk punk chords, and you know, we're 1228 01:08:06,320 --> 01:08:09,760 Speaker 1: playing really fast. Um. He helped us change that up 1229 01:08:09,800 --> 01:08:12,840 Speaker 1: and make it more accessible to the general public. And 1230 01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:15,840 Speaker 1: it was at first when we heard our record we 1231 01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:18,080 Speaker 1: hated it. We thought, oh god, this isn't what we 1232 01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:21,160 Speaker 1: really sound like. What has he done to us? And 1233 01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:23,840 Speaker 1: then seven or eight months later, when the records number one, 1234 01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,599 Speaker 1: we were like, Richard is genius. What a trade guy. 1235 01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:30,680 Speaker 1: He knew exactly what to do, and we didn't, you know, whatever, 1236 01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:34,160 Speaker 1: Richard is genius. He's a great song man, and he 1237 01:08:34,240 --> 01:08:36,160 Speaker 1: did know what to do with those songs, and he 1238 01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:38,919 Speaker 1: gave it a very classic sound. Okay, it wasn't exactly 1239 01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:42,200 Speaker 1: what we wanted, but it's classic. Cool. Okay. When when 1240 01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:47,960 Speaker 1: you showed up in New York, were the songs already written? Yeah, 1241 01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:49,880 Speaker 1: they were. They were already written when we got there. 1242 01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:51,800 Speaker 1: We had, you know, several songs, and he chose what 1243 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:54,040 Speaker 1: he thought would be best on the record, and we 1244 01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:56,519 Speaker 1: worked on him. We worked on the arrangements, which were 1245 01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:59,719 Speaker 1: pretty close. But he really he was Richard, such a song. 1246 01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:01,920 Speaker 1: It's all about the song. You gotta start with that 1247 01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:05,120 Speaker 1: or you got nothing. You gotta have a great song. 1248 01:09:05,960 --> 01:09:09,080 Speaker 1: So did he hear the stuff before you came to 1249 01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:12,639 Speaker 1: New York? Did you work with you? No? He had 1250 01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:15,840 Speaker 1: been sent tapes. Okay, so now you're in New York 1251 01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:18,719 Speaker 1: for months, Needles just say, I hear kachin, kachin, kachin 1252 01:09:18,880 --> 01:09:22,280 Speaker 1: the bill, which is ultimately being paid by you. But 1253 01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:27,720 Speaker 1: you were also portray a wild time in addition to recording, 1254 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:31,519 Speaker 1: You're hanging out with people, Jodie Foster, going all around. 1255 01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:35,639 Speaker 1: What was what was going on? Then? We were we 1256 01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:38,960 Speaker 1: were kids having a great time in our early twenties. 1257 01:09:39,400 --> 01:09:42,679 Speaker 1: We got a little money. Finally we're on our way 1258 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:46,559 Speaker 1: to perhaps being rock stars. And it couldn't get much better, 1259 01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:48,880 Speaker 1: you know, we were. I mean that was sort of 1260 01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:51,920 Speaker 1: when the rat Pack was happening, all with Rob Lowe 1261 01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:54,719 Speaker 1: and Andrew Carthy, that whole bunch that was all happening 1262 01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:57,240 Speaker 1: at the same time. We were all part of it. 1263 01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:01,880 Speaker 1: I am so lucky to have been involved in all that. 1264 01:10:02,040 --> 01:10:05,640 Speaker 1: It was great, Bob, it was great. You know. It 1265 01:10:05,960 --> 01:10:09,280 Speaker 1: felt like, oh my god, we have arrived. Here are peers. 1266 01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:11,360 Speaker 1: Look at everyone. I mean, we're all like, we're all 1267 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,200 Speaker 1: on our way up. We're all working. Everybody stuff their 1268 01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:17,880 Speaker 1: ship together. We are partying, but we're young, and so 1269 01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:20,479 Speaker 1: that makes a difference. And it was the eighties where 1270 01:10:20,479 --> 01:10:24,200 Speaker 1: you're sort of I don't know that mentality was so 1271 01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:28,559 Speaker 1: different than um. Okay, so let's just assume it's the 1272 01:10:28,600 --> 01:10:33,320 Speaker 1: eighties for eaving today and I dry and I say, 1273 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:36,160 Speaker 1: there's gonna be this great party. You have to go alone? 1274 01:10:36,880 --> 01:10:41,400 Speaker 1: Is that cool with you? Now? I have to have 1275 01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:46,320 Speaker 1: my my group with me. I've had my girl gang 1276 01:10:46,400 --> 01:10:50,439 Speaker 1: with me. I notice, anyway, what none of us went 1277 01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:53,240 Speaker 1: anywhere alone. We always had somebody, a couple of girls 1278 01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,679 Speaker 1: from the from the band. We're always hanging out together. 1279 01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:59,200 Speaker 1: You know, safety and numbers, bob. Okay, So you go, 1280 01:10:59,280 --> 01:11:03,000 Speaker 1: and it helps to have your wing people. But are 1281 01:11:03,040 --> 01:11:06,920 Speaker 1: you the person starting the conversation making friends or are 1282 01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:09,240 Speaker 1: you the one talking after they've already brought these other 1283 01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:12,760 Speaker 1: people into the circle. I've probably talked after they've brought 1284 01:11:12,800 --> 01:11:15,120 Speaker 1: into a certain because I am believe you're not kind 1285 01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:18,240 Speaker 1: of shy, so I wait for introductions and let other 1286 01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:21,160 Speaker 1: people do that, and then I'd sort of weasel my 1287 01:11:21,240 --> 01:11:25,639 Speaker 1: way in there. Okay. So when we first got on 1288 01:11:25,880 --> 01:11:30,639 Speaker 1: camera here, you were a ball of energy, really upfront, 1289 01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 1: really energetic. Then we touched upon your parents, you got sad. 1290 01:11:36,120 --> 01:11:41,080 Speaker 1: So in terms of your personality, do you get depressed? 1291 01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:45,040 Speaker 1: Are you always upbeat? How do you cope? What do 1292 01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:48,519 Speaker 1: you like? Bob? I'm human, that's all. Of course I 1293 01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:53,000 Speaker 1: get depressed. UM, but I try to stay as positive 1294 01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:56,400 Speaker 1: as possible because you only go around once, and I 1295 01:11:56,439 --> 01:11:59,240 Speaker 1: want I want to look back on my life as 1296 01:11:59,680 --> 01:12:04,240 Speaker 1: as a as as a gift and and and try 1297 01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,760 Speaker 1: to keep it a joyful experience because you know what, 1298 01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:11,479 Speaker 1: there's so much crap going on that can bring you 1299 01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:14,920 Speaker 1: down on a daily basis. And I tried to, Um, 1300 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:17,400 Speaker 1: I absorbed only so much and then I have to 1301 01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:21,880 Speaker 1: shut it out because everything it affects me deeply. And 1302 01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:27,000 Speaker 1: I you know, I just want to be happy and healthy, 1303 01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:28,720 Speaker 1: and I want the people that I love to be 1304 01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:32,280 Speaker 1: happy and healthy. And you know, I want to be 1305 01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,080 Speaker 1: in the Rock and Wall Hall of Fame. It's happening 1306 01:12:34,120 --> 01:12:40,000 Speaker 1: in a couple of weeks. Duh. I'm I'm pretty. I'm okay, Bob, 1307 01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:43,640 Speaker 1: I'm okay, Okay. So the record comes out. When's the 1308 01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:46,840 Speaker 1: first time you hear a song on the radio? And 1309 01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:50,439 Speaker 1: what's that like? I'm in my car and I heard 1310 01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:55,840 Speaker 1: I think it was our Lips are Steeled, and um, 1311 01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:58,120 Speaker 1: that's what I felt like, Oh my god, we really 1312 01:12:58,160 --> 01:13:00,920 Speaker 1: are going to make it like this is it. We're 1313 01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:04,400 Speaker 1: on the radio. My parents can hear this, my friends 1314 01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:07,880 Speaker 1: can hear this. I started getting calls from back in Baltimore. 1315 01:13:07,920 --> 01:13:12,320 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I heard you on the radio. You know, Wow, 1316 01:13:12,400 --> 01:13:16,080 Speaker 1: it's great. How incredible is that. I'm a kid from Dune, doc. 1317 01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:18,400 Speaker 1: You know, I go to l A with everything I 1318 01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:20,360 Speaker 1: have in the back of my dad's pickup truck, and 1319 01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:21,920 Speaker 1: here it is. A couple of years later, I got 1320 01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:33,680 Speaker 1: a strong on the radio. Pretty magical. Okay, you have 1321 01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:38,400 Speaker 1: your story, but let's just assume the Go Goes didn't exist. 1322 01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:43,320 Speaker 1: Would you have made it anyway? I don't know. I 1323 01:13:43,320 --> 01:13:47,639 Speaker 1: had no idea. I know that I was very driven 1324 01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:53,519 Speaker 1: and I was looking for the right people to work with, 1325 01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:57,800 Speaker 1: But I have no idea. I really don't. I would 1326 01:13:57,840 --> 01:13:59,800 Speaker 1: have kept playing and played until I found the right fit. 1327 01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:05,000 Speaker 1: I know that. Okay, So over time the record builds 1328 01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:09,080 Speaker 1: ahead of steam and it's mega successful. You were on SNL. 1329 01:14:09,920 --> 01:14:12,439 Speaker 1: You know, you have the famous video where you're jumping 1330 01:14:12,479 --> 01:14:15,639 Speaker 1: in the fountain. Were you moving so fast you couldn't 1331 01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:18,960 Speaker 1: think about it? What was the experience? That's exactly, Bob, 1332 01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,840 Speaker 1: That's exactly what it was. Things were happening at such 1333 01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:23,840 Speaker 1: a rapid pace that I don't think any of us 1334 01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:27,680 Speaker 1: had time to really take it all in. Um. You know, 1335 01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:32,280 Speaker 1: we were just like just doing whatever we were told 1336 01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:35,400 Speaker 1: to do. Uh. And it was all supposed to be 1337 01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:38,960 Speaker 1: part of what it takes to make your record sell 1338 01:14:39,240 --> 01:14:41,680 Speaker 1: and you know, to be a part of whatever of 1339 01:14:41,760 --> 01:14:45,040 Speaker 1: whatever that rock stardom stuff is. We were just trying 1340 01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,880 Speaker 1: to do what we were supposed to do. Um. And 1341 01:14:47,880 --> 01:14:50,200 Speaker 1: we didn't that really, we didn't. We never took time 1342 01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:52,439 Speaker 1: to really sit down and talk and think about it. 1343 01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:56,320 Speaker 1: And you know, that's the way the record labels pushed 1344 01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:59,160 Speaker 1: you back then. You would get off tour and have 1345 01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,120 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks off and go right back on 1346 01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:03,240 Speaker 1: on tour, go right back out on tour. When you 1347 01:15:03,280 --> 01:15:05,320 Speaker 1: finished that tour, you come back and work on a record, 1348 01:15:05,720 --> 01:15:07,880 Speaker 1: and then you go right back out on tour. That's 1349 01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:09,920 Speaker 1: that's the way it worked, and that's what we were 1350 01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:14,240 Speaker 1: used to you know. Um. You know, in retrospect, it's like, 1351 01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:16,960 Speaker 1: oh my god, you need to take time off to 1352 01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:21,479 Speaker 1: find yourself and to learn how to really communicate with 1353 01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:28,040 Speaker 1: each other. Um. There wasn't a lot of time for that. Okay, 1354 01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,720 Speaker 1: so who said when to make this second record, the 1355 01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:35,519 Speaker 1: record company or the band? And was the band company 1356 01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:39,120 Speaker 1: their record company the record company? Did you have the songs? 1357 01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:44,480 Speaker 1: And when were they written? We had some of the songs, um, 1358 01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:46,479 Speaker 1: but I think that most of that stuff was written 1359 01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:49,479 Speaker 1: while we were on tour. We didn't have time to 1360 01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:53,799 Speaker 1: go home and work on stuff. Um. You know that, 1361 01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:55,920 Speaker 1: you know the old saying the first record is a 1362 01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:58,280 Speaker 1: lifetime takes a life time, and make second when you 1363 01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:01,960 Speaker 1: gotta quick get it out. And of course we're all 1364 01:16:02,000 --> 01:16:04,519 Speaker 1: worried about the sophomore jinks. You know, it could never 1365 01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:06,640 Speaker 1: be as good as the first winner. I mean, it 1366 01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:10,760 Speaker 1: was incredible that our first album sold the way that 1367 01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:13,200 Speaker 1: it did, so we knew the second one was going 1368 01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:16,120 Speaker 1: to be tough. You know, we were going to get 1369 01:16:16,240 --> 01:16:18,639 Speaker 1: there going to say, oh, the first record you sold this, maney, 1370 01:16:18,680 --> 01:16:20,720 Speaker 1: what's the problem with the second one? We did the 1371 01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:24,920 Speaker 1: best we could, that's all. Okay. The second album comes out, 1372 01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:28,599 Speaker 1: Cathy's got this song vacation. You worked that up after 1373 01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:31,360 Speaker 1: it comes a hit. What's the perception being in the 1374 01:16:31,400 --> 01:16:37,160 Speaker 1: band of the second record. I think that we all 1375 01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:40,160 Speaker 1: felt rushed with that. We did feel rushed on the 1376 01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:45,200 Speaker 1: second record, absolutely, and thank god Kathy had written Vacation 1377 01:16:46,720 --> 01:16:48,840 Speaker 1: and we brought it into the band, changed it up 1378 01:16:48,840 --> 01:16:52,040 Speaker 1: a little bit, worked up the arrangement and it became 1379 01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:56,080 Speaker 1: a go go song, and that, you know, was the 1380 01:16:56,479 --> 01:17:02,479 Speaker 1: was the single, and thank god Cathy. And what about 1381 01:17:02,520 --> 01:17:05,200 Speaker 1: the other songs? Were they written in the studio? No, 1382 01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:08,760 Speaker 1: they were written on tour. Did you ever written in 1383 01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:10,680 Speaker 1: the studio, Bob? We have to have come in with 1384 01:17:10,720 --> 01:17:14,639 Speaker 1: it prepared. Did you consciously say we'd better be writing 1385 01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:16,320 Speaker 1: because we're gonna have to make a record, or it 1386 01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:20,120 Speaker 1: happens spontaneously. I think it happens spontaneously. I think we 1387 01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:23,360 Speaker 1: were all too busy and wound up, you know, at 1388 01:17:23,360 --> 01:17:26,400 Speaker 1: that particular time, with everything that's going on around us. 1389 01:17:26,520 --> 01:17:31,000 Speaker 1: And that's what I say. What what I'm saying here 1390 01:17:31,080 --> 01:17:34,559 Speaker 1: is that there wasn't a lot of thought put into anything. 1391 01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,439 Speaker 1: It was just do it, do it, do it, get 1392 01:17:36,439 --> 01:17:40,240 Speaker 1: it done, put the record out. You know. We we 1393 01:17:40,280 --> 01:17:42,439 Speaker 1: should have been allowed a little bit more time to 1394 01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:49,040 Speaker 1: do everything, but we didn't know any better. Okay, then 1395 01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:51,479 Speaker 1: you make the third record with Martin Russian, who of 1396 01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:55,120 Speaker 1: course had used success with the Human Leagues. No, longer 1397 01:17:55,160 --> 01:18:00,200 Speaker 1: with us. How did that come together? Um, well, we 1398 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:05,959 Speaker 1: did have some time off then and Martin I adored. 1399 01:18:06,080 --> 01:18:09,200 Speaker 1: I thought that Human League record Dare was a masterpiece. 1400 01:18:10,000 --> 01:18:11,680 Speaker 1: And when his name was brought up, I think it 1401 01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:17,440 Speaker 1: was Kathy and myself that really pushed for him. Um. 1402 01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:20,040 Speaker 1: I mean that album like I say that, albam there 1403 01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:23,479 Speaker 1: is a masterpiece. And Martin was you know, produced it. 1404 01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:26,200 Speaker 1: So I was like, please, just let's do it the 1405 01:18:26,200 --> 01:18:28,559 Speaker 1: record of everybody agreed to do it. Whatever to England, 1406 01:18:29,439 --> 01:18:32,479 Speaker 1: um to work on that record. But unfortunately, this was 1407 01:18:32,560 --> 01:18:36,599 Speaker 1: the hype of the drug intake and also everybody had 1408 01:18:36,640 --> 01:18:41,880 Speaker 1: plenty of money and uh, and the band was splintering 1409 01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:44,280 Speaker 1: at that point, where you know, there was a lot 1410 01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:50,120 Speaker 1: of there was problems, and no, we weren't communicating, we 1411 01:18:50,120 --> 01:18:53,840 Speaker 1: weren't realistic about our situation. Once again, we're just doing 1412 01:18:53,920 --> 01:18:56,760 Speaker 1: what we're told to do, um and not stopping to 1413 01:18:56,840 --> 01:19:00,360 Speaker 1: think about the consequences of not having enough time to 1414 01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:05,080 Speaker 1: really work on things on ourselves, you know, on our songs. 1415 01:19:05,160 --> 01:19:08,960 Speaker 1: We just had to get it together. I love that record. Nonetheless, 1416 01:19:09,360 --> 01:19:11,160 Speaker 1: I love Talk Show. I love the way it sunds. 1417 01:19:11,240 --> 01:19:17,760 Speaker 1: Martin was a great producer, a wonderful guy. Um, and 1418 01:19:18,040 --> 01:19:20,280 Speaker 1: I love that record. I'm happy with that record. How 1419 01:19:20,280 --> 01:19:24,280 Speaker 1: did you decide not to use Richard one more time? Oh? 1420 01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,439 Speaker 1: That was done. It was time to move on. It 1421 01:19:26,560 --> 01:19:29,280 Speaker 1: was time, it was we needed to change. It couldn't 1422 01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:31,720 Speaker 1: be the same thing again. Come on. Okay, So the 1423 01:19:31,800 --> 01:19:37,360 Speaker 1: third record comes out, there's no obvious single. Ultimately head 1424 01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:39,720 Speaker 1: over Heels. Head over Heels was a single, okay, but 1425 01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:41,360 Speaker 1: I'm trying to say it didn't have the level of 1426 01:19:41,400 --> 01:19:47,880 Speaker 1: success of the previous tracks. And then ultimately Jane says 1427 01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:51,280 Speaker 1: she's gonna leave. Did you feel that coming? Was that 1428 01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:56,519 Speaker 1: a total surprise? What was happening there? Well, Jane wanted 1429 01:19:56,560 --> 01:20:01,040 Speaker 1: to be wanted to sing one of the songs Forget 1430 01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:07,559 Speaker 1: that day, and uh, we sat down and agreed that 1431 01:20:07,600 --> 01:20:11,559 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be good. Belinda would feel her role would 1432 01:20:11,560 --> 01:20:17,240 Speaker 1: be diminished as a lead singer, and so you know, Um, 1433 01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:20,400 Speaker 1: that's the way that went down. And obviously Jane I 1434 01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:24,840 Speaker 1: couldn't deal with it and told us that she was 1435 01:20:24,880 --> 01:20:28,600 Speaker 1: going to quit. Of course, I felt that, you know, 1436 01:20:30,080 --> 01:20:33,240 Speaker 1: if Jane wanted to do her own material and be, 1437 01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:36,679 Speaker 1: you know, be the lead singer, she should. She could 1438 01:20:36,680 --> 01:20:38,760 Speaker 1: go out and get a solo deal and still be 1439 01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:41,360 Speaker 1: in the band. But like I said, things were going 1440 01:20:41,400 --> 01:20:43,559 Speaker 1: so fast, and there was a lot of drugs and 1441 01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:47,000 Speaker 1: there was just everybody had their own camp and people 1442 01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:48,960 Speaker 1: that were pushing them to do this and that, and 1443 01:20:49,479 --> 01:20:52,599 Speaker 1: our management was not guiding us. They weren't really taking 1444 01:20:52,640 --> 01:20:56,439 Speaker 1: care of things the right way. Um. You know, they 1445 01:20:56,439 --> 01:20:59,240 Speaker 1: got to focusing on Belinda and her and she could 1446 01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:03,200 Speaker 1: be a star. It was just coming apart, so that 1447 01:21:03,360 --> 01:21:06,639 Speaker 1: the Jay thing was it was not a surprise, but 1448 01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:09,479 Speaker 1: I couldn't when it actually happened. It seemed like, oh 1449 01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:12,479 Speaker 1: my god, I can't believe she's really doing this. And 1450 01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:17,120 Speaker 1: then ultimately there's one more splinter with Charlotte and Belinda 1451 01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:20,840 Speaker 1: going off. Yeah, well that that was the final. Yeah, 1452 01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:25,839 Speaker 1: that was it. Uh, that was weird because, um, Kathy 1453 01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:28,519 Speaker 1: and I were just trying to keep things together and 1454 01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:32,439 Speaker 1: Charlotte and we didn't put Charlotte in rehab and she 1455 01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:35,800 Speaker 1: was I thought would come out better and we'd be 1456 01:21:35,880 --> 01:21:38,599 Speaker 1: more united and we worked together. As it turns out, 1457 01:21:38,680 --> 01:21:41,759 Speaker 1: she came out and I don't know what her Blenna 1458 01:21:41,800 --> 01:21:44,680 Speaker 1: we're talking about, but we were all called into a 1459 01:21:44,760 --> 01:21:48,000 Speaker 1: meeting at our management office and walked in and were 1460 01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:51,479 Speaker 1: told Charlotte when they said, you know, the band is 1461 01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:56,200 Speaker 1: over and that's that. And Kathy and I were mortified 1462 01:21:56,240 --> 01:22:01,400 Speaker 1: and couldn't believe it was happening. Um, and we just 1463 01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,880 Speaker 1: had to deal with it. That's the way it went. Dan. 1464 01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:06,120 Speaker 1: It wasn't it wasn't right. It wasn't done the right way. 1465 01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:09,040 Speaker 1: You know, what disbandinged to do is take a year 1466 01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:14,880 Speaker 1: or two off and come back and communicate and you know, 1467 01:22:15,000 --> 01:22:16,640 Speaker 1: do what we need to do with each other to 1468 01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:20,240 Speaker 1: make it all right. Now. Charlotte, I only spent one 1469 01:22:20,400 --> 01:22:23,960 Speaker 1: night sit next to her at some gig and talking 1470 01:22:24,000 --> 01:22:26,720 Speaker 1: to her. But based on that experience, I know this 1471 01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:29,920 Speaker 1: is a stupid statement. She would be the last person 1472 01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:32,400 Speaker 1: I would expect to get hooked on heroin. How does 1473 01:22:32,439 --> 01:22:35,760 Speaker 1: someone like Charlotte get hooked on heroin? I don't know. 1474 01:22:35,800 --> 01:22:38,920 Speaker 1: You have to ask her. You know, it's a personal thing. 1475 01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:43,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, man. You just uh, maybe the people 1476 01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:45,280 Speaker 1: that are around you are doing it and you sort 1477 01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:47,400 Speaker 1: of play with it and then it becomes a habit 1478 01:22:47,439 --> 01:22:50,760 Speaker 1: before you know it. I had an issue with it 1479 01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:54,840 Speaker 1: the nineties, um, and that was out of boredom, and 1480 01:22:55,080 --> 01:22:57,040 Speaker 1: my thing was like Oh, we're just smoking it. It's 1481 01:22:57,080 --> 01:22:58,960 Speaker 1: not a big deal. Well, yeah, it is a big deal. 1482 01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:04,360 Speaker 1: You know. Heroin is the fucking devil. It's bad news, 1483 01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:06,519 Speaker 1: bad news. So how long were you doing heron and 1484 01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:09,719 Speaker 1: how did you get off? Oh? I was in rehab 1485 01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:13,840 Speaker 1: like three times and before I got it together. Most people, 1486 01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:15,760 Speaker 1: that's one thing I have to say about charge. She 1487 01:23:15,840 --> 01:23:19,840 Speaker 1: was in rehab once, since she stayed sober. Most people 1488 01:23:19,880 --> 01:23:22,519 Speaker 1: would take several times. It took me three times before 1489 01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:25,920 Speaker 1: I got myself together, and that's been over twenty years. 1490 01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:28,600 Speaker 1: I'd never do that, never do it again. It's a 1491 01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:31,640 Speaker 1: you just become a different person. I look at that 1492 01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:34,320 Speaker 1: and I think, like, that's not That's not who I am. 1493 01:23:34,600 --> 01:23:40,160 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not that person. It's dark. It's really dark. Okay. 1494 01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:44,439 Speaker 1: You know it's especially prevalent heroin now as a result 1495 01:23:44,479 --> 01:23:48,920 Speaker 1: of the OxyContin situation, and need to say, heroin is 1496 01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:50,760 Speaker 1: much less that's one of the reason people take it. 1497 01:23:50,760 --> 01:23:53,960 Speaker 1: It's much less expensive than OxyContin, which also is harder 1498 01:23:54,000 --> 01:23:57,559 Speaker 1: to get. But what was it like? You know, if 1499 01:23:57,600 --> 01:24:01,479 Speaker 1: people like David Crosby, who lose everything, you're taking heroin. 1500 01:24:02,000 --> 01:24:04,639 Speaker 1: You know, traditionally people say they spend all day thinking 1501 01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:06,559 Speaker 1: about where they're going to get their next fix. What 1502 01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:09,599 Speaker 1: was your experience, No, I just get what I need, 1503 01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:12,479 Speaker 1: that's all, and just stay at home and do it. 1504 01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:16,720 Speaker 1: That's it. When I would do that drug, I was 1505 01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:20,240 Speaker 1: I had a lot of it would give me a 1506 01:24:20,280 --> 01:24:25,200 Speaker 1: lot of energy, So I was constantly doing something. So 1507 01:24:25,320 --> 01:24:27,320 Speaker 1: if I had asked you at that time, if it 1508 01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:31,120 Speaker 1: was open, you're doing heroin, and I said you shouldn't 1509 01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:34,879 Speaker 1: be doing it, you would have said, mind your business, 1510 01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:37,679 Speaker 1: mind your own business. It's that nothing to do with you. 1511 01:24:38,240 --> 01:24:40,519 Speaker 1: And I'll tell you something. When you're doing that drug, 1512 01:24:41,000 --> 01:24:43,720 Speaker 1: people would say whatever they want, and people around you 1513 01:24:43,760 --> 01:24:46,760 Speaker 1: can die, can overdose from it. It It doesn't matter. You 1514 01:24:46,880 --> 01:24:50,479 Speaker 1: stop doing drugs when you are ready to. And I 1515 01:24:50,479 --> 01:24:54,280 Speaker 1: don't know exactly that when that happens or how that happens, 1516 01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:57,040 Speaker 1: but everybody has that moment if they're lucky, I had 1517 01:24:57,080 --> 01:25:00,680 Speaker 1: that moment and I stopped, and at the end of it, 1518 01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:04,960 Speaker 1: for me, I would never I would never deal with 1519 01:25:04,960 --> 01:25:08,439 Speaker 1: that drug again because, uh, trying to get off of 1520 01:25:08,520 --> 01:25:12,640 Speaker 1: it is such a horrible experience. I couldn't live through it. 1521 01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:15,680 Speaker 1: So I'll never that. That will never be in my 1522 01:25:15,760 --> 01:25:18,360 Speaker 1: life again. Okay, so if you went three times, you 1523 01:25:18,400 --> 01:25:22,320 Speaker 1: obviously relapse twice. What was going on there? It's easy 1524 01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:26,320 Speaker 1: to relapse, you know. It's just it's familiar territory. It 1525 01:25:26,439 --> 01:25:29,800 Speaker 1: numbs you up. It just makes you numb, so that 1526 01:25:29,880 --> 01:25:33,280 Speaker 1: everything around you good, If there's any kind of anything 1527 01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:36,160 Speaker 1: that's good or bad, it just evens it all out 1528 01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:39,720 Speaker 1: and you're numb to everything that's around you. So, uh, 1529 01:25:40,120 --> 01:25:45,080 Speaker 1: it's easy to live day by day that way. You 1530 01:25:45,080 --> 01:25:51,439 Speaker 1: don't you don't hurt, You don't hurt. However, what about 1531 01:25:51,479 --> 01:25:55,200 Speaker 1: the potential concept of odine? You just put that out 1532 01:25:55,200 --> 01:25:57,880 Speaker 1: of your mind. Or you're trying to be if you're 1533 01:25:58,000 --> 01:26:01,800 Speaker 1: if you're if you're iron, and if you're using a needle, Well, yeah, 1534 01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:04,080 Speaker 1: I guess so. I don't know. I would have never 1535 01:26:04,120 --> 01:26:08,160 Speaker 1: touched that. My stupidity on my behalf was that I 1536 01:26:08,200 --> 01:26:11,080 Speaker 1: was smoking it, thinking oh, it's not such a big deal. 1537 01:26:11,120 --> 01:26:16,719 Speaker 1: It's like smoking pot. But of course that's ridiculous. Okay, 1538 01:26:16,720 --> 01:26:18,680 Speaker 1: the band breaks up. What goes through your head? You 1539 01:26:18,760 --> 01:26:22,599 Speaker 1: ultimately get a deal with House of Shock. What's what's 1540 01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:26,120 Speaker 1: going on there? Well, you know, when the band broke up, 1541 01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:29,120 Speaker 1: I was it was so bitter about the way that 1542 01:26:29,160 --> 01:26:32,519 Speaker 1: went down, and I couldn't. I don't gonna wallow in that, 1543 01:26:32,800 --> 01:26:36,120 Speaker 1: so I bitterness. So I just thought, Okay, I'm gonna 1544 01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:39,920 Speaker 1: get myself together, and I worked with Kathy for a while. 1545 01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:41,880 Speaker 1: We tried to put a band together, and that didn't 1546 01:26:42,280 --> 01:26:44,120 Speaker 1: didn't gel in the way I hoped it would. And 1547 01:26:44,120 --> 01:26:46,360 Speaker 1: then I thought, okay, I'm just gonna start from scratch, 1548 01:26:47,560 --> 01:26:52,320 Speaker 1: and uh, look for the right people. I found Vance Degenerous, 1549 01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:57,519 Speaker 1: and Vance and I started writing, and then we found 1550 01:26:57,520 --> 01:26:59,719 Speaker 1: other players to work in the band House of Shock. 1551 01:27:00,760 --> 01:27:03,439 Speaker 1: I got Miles Copeland to manage us. We would rehearse 1552 01:27:03,560 --> 01:27:06,439 Speaker 1: up in his ass, and we did a show at 1553 01:27:06,439 --> 01:27:10,360 Speaker 1: the Roxy, and record labels were invited and we did 1554 01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:12,519 Speaker 1: one show and got a record deal with Capitol Records, 1555 01:27:13,400 --> 01:27:16,920 Speaker 1: and uh, yeah, that's pretty cool. Do one show get 1556 01:27:16,920 --> 01:27:19,439 Speaker 1: a deal? Very very cool? And then how did it 1557 01:27:19,439 --> 01:27:22,240 Speaker 1: play out after that? Well, then we got Richard got 1558 01:27:22,320 --> 01:27:24,360 Speaker 1: I brought I said, I want Richard back to help 1559 01:27:24,400 --> 01:27:27,960 Speaker 1: make sure the songs are all together. And Richard came 1560 01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:29,519 Speaker 1: in and we did the record and then I brought 1561 01:27:29,520 --> 01:27:32,280 Speaker 1: in Chas Stamford, who had written I Ain't missing you, 1562 01:27:32,880 --> 01:27:35,839 Speaker 1: missing you whatever. I knew he was a good songwriter 1563 01:27:35,880 --> 01:27:39,080 Speaker 1: and a good producer, or brought him into sort of 1564 01:27:40,960 --> 01:27:44,120 Speaker 1: work on the single, fixed the track a little bit 1565 01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:48,720 Speaker 1: more um um, and we put the record out and 1566 01:27:48,800 --> 01:27:50,719 Speaker 1: did what it did not a hell a lot. Didn't 1567 01:27:50,720 --> 01:27:52,559 Speaker 1: have a lot of I didn't didn't have a lot 1568 01:27:52,600 --> 01:27:56,840 Speaker 1: of money behind it pushing it. But I did get 1569 01:27:56,880 --> 01:27:59,760 Speaker 1: a call. This sort of makes me happy. I got 1570 01:27:59,840 --> 01:28:02,640 Speaker 1: a call from Billy Steinberg, who was a great songwriter, 1571 01:28:02,800 --> 01:28:04,880 Speaker 1: and he said to me, Gina, I just had to 1572 01:28:04,920 --> 01:28:06,519 Speaker 1: call you to let you know. I was driving to 1573 01:28:06,840 --> 01:28:09,040 Speaker 1: Palm Springs from l A, which is where he lived 1574 01:28:09,200 --> 01:28:12,760 Speaker 1: at the time, and he said, the song came on 1575 01:28:12,800 --> 01:28:14,920 Speaker 1: the radio and it was so good I had to 1576 01:28:14,960 --> 01:28:17,200 Speaker 1: pull my car over and listen. And at the end 1577 01:28:17,200 --> 01:28:19,000 Speaker 1: of it, they said, oh, this is house of Shocked, 1578 01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:21,400 Speaker 1: Gina Shocked, and the go goes. He said, I gotta 1579 01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:24,479 Speaker 1: tell you that single is fantastic, Gina. You've done a 1580 01:28:24,479 --> 01:28:26,799 Speaker 1: great job and it was a song middle of nowhere, 1581 01:28:26,880 --> 01:28:30,639 Speaker 1: and that meant so much to me and it still 1582 01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:33,920 Speaker 1: does to this day. You know, you know whether you're 1583 01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:36,200 Speaker 1: whether your record makes it or not, as it's all 1584 01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:40,559 Speaker 1: timing and there's a lot involved in whether something happens money, 1585 01:28:41,080 --> 01:28:42,840 Speaker 1: it's sort of out of your hands. Once you make 1586 01:28:42,880 --> 01:28:44,920 Speaker 1: that record, you do the best you can to set 1587 01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:50,479 Speaker 1: it all up and h so the record is not 1588 01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:53,280 Speaker 1: as successful as you have as it happens, I'm disappointed, 1589 01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:56,320 Speaker 1: were you? And what happened with the act and what 1590 01:28:56,360 --> 01:28:59,600 Speaker 1: was your next step? Well, I was, yeah, I was disappointed. 1591 01:28:59,640 --> 01:29:03,479 Speaker 1: And then to make matters worse, Uh, the whole regime 1592 01:29:03,520 --> 01:29:08,639 Speaker 1: at Capital Records changed. Our guy who was the head 1593 01:29:08,680 --> 01:29:11,200 Speaker 1: of Capital of the time he got asked, and even 1594 01:29:11,240 --> 01:29:13,680 Speaker 1: my head of the A and R. Tom Wally who 1595 01:29:13,760 --> 01:29:18,439 Speaker 1: signed me, who actually went on to help make UM 1596 01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:23,320 Speaker 1: Much Records. I can't think of it um anyway, interscope, 1597 01:29:23,360 --> 01:29:27,519 Speaker 1: thank you um And it was a tough time, but 1598 01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:32,120 Speaker 1: I thought I've done the best I can and you know, 1599 01:29:32,200 --> 01:29:34,800 Speaker 1: if this is what it's all about, I'm done with 1600 01:29:34,840 --> 01:29:38,160 Speaker 1: this crap. So I just thought, nowhere bands, I'm done 1601 01:29:38,160 --> 01:29:40,120 Speaker 1: with this. Then I went to New York and thought 1602 01:29:40,200 --> 01:29:42,800 Speaker 1: I was just going to be a songwriter, and so 1603 01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:45,479 Speaker 1: I got a record deal on I mean a publishing 1604 01:29:45,520 --> 01:29:48,640 Speaker 1: deal with m c A in New York. John Alexander 1605 01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:52,640 Speaker 1: signed me and then I just wrote for several years 1606 01:29:52,760 --> 01:29:58,080 Speaker 1: and you know, worked on my songwriting skills and and 1607 01:29:58,120 --> 01:30:00,080 Speaker 1: in the meantime, the go goes. We started playing and 1608 01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:04,920 Speaker 1: again started getting together. Sorry, okay, a couple of things. 1609 01:30:05,520 --> 01:30:09,519 Speaker 1: Ginger was the original manager, then you became part of 1610 01:30:09,520 --> 01:30:13,960 Speaker 1: the h K Empire. Why did you get rid of Ginger? 1611 01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:18,280 Speaker 1: And retrospect? Hole important? Was Ginger to your success? And 1612 01:30:18,360 --> 01:30:23,839 Speaker 1: to what degree did her absence contribute to the breakup? Yeah, 1613 01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:30,840 Speaker 1: Ginger was the glue when when we when Ginger left, 1614 01:30:31,000 --> 01:30:33,000 Speaker 1: we didn't fire her. We didn't want her to go. 1615 01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:37,120 Speaker 1: We thought that, you know, Jimer just started out with us, 1616 01:30:37,120 --> 01:30:39,519 Speaker 1: and we thought like, wow, we've reached this point where 1617 01:30:39,520 --> 01:30:42,680 Speaker 1: we might need a bigger management company to sort of 1618 01:30:42,760 --> 01:30:46,960 Speaker 1: oversee things. Can we have Ginger work with a bigger company? 1619 01:30:47,160 --> 01:30:49,200 Speaker 1: And you know, I guess a lot of things went 1620 01:30:49,280 --> 01:30:53,600 Speaker 1: down that we weren't pretty to back then, And I 1621 01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:56,360 Speaker 1: only found out since then when I talked to Ginger 1622 01:30:56,840 --> 01:31:02,000 Speaker 1: um and all of a sudden, Ginger was gone. She 1623 01:31:02,200 --> 01:31:03,960 Speaker 1: left l A and was in New York. I don't 1624 01:31:03,960 --> 01:31:07,040 Speaker 1: know what happened. It was, you know, we were sort 1625 01:31:07,040 --> 01:31:08,960 Speaker 1: of like, oh my god, we didn't want her to go. 1626 01:31:09,560 --> 01:31:12,240 Speaker 1: We wanted her to work with with the newer management company, 1627 01:31:12,280 --> 01:31:15,439 Speaker 1: a big company, you know, because we knew that her 1628 01:31:15,479 --> 01:31:19,040 Speaker 1: input would be sorely missed and it was and as 1629 01:31:19,080 --> 01:31:21,559 Speaker 1: it you know, turned out, the band broke up. I 1630 01:31:21,600 --> 01:31:23,639 Speaker 1: feel like if Ginger was there, she would have guided 1631 01:31:23,720 --> 01:31:27,479 Speaker 1: us the right way where things like that wouldn't have happened. 1632 01:31:27,560 --> 01:31:34,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, Bob, you know, Okay, Ginger is out. 1633 01:31:34,280 --> 01:31:39,040 Speaker 1: Is she bitter? Um? I think she. I don't think 1634 01:31:39,080 --> 01:31:44,439 Speaker 1: she was bitter about the band. You have to ask her, 1635 01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:47,519 Speaker 1: but I don't think she thought that we were sort 1636 01:31:47,520 --> 01:31:52,439 Speaker 1: of behind the way she was being treated. Nevertheless, she's 1637 01:31:52,479 --> 01:31:57,360 Speaker 1: being treated really shabbily, and I I just felt really terrible. 1638 01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:59,280 Speaker 1: We all feel terrible about it because we didn't, like 1639 01:31:59,280 --> 01:32:02,719 Speaker 1: I said, there were things happening that we didn't know about. Um. 1640 01:32:02,800 --> 01:32:07,040 Speaker 1: When when Asoft's company came in, UM and we loved Irving, 1641 01:32:07,120 --> 01:32:11,320 Speaker 1: he was great, you know, Irving, Irving such a trip. Yeah. 1642 01:32:11,360 --> 01:32:14,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I you know, I couldn't say one 1643 01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:18,160 Speaker 1: thing that. You know, we're all friends and we love 1644 01:32:18,280 --> 01:32:21,120 Speaker 1: Ginger and she's sort of back in the phone and 1645 01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:24,040 Speaker 1: has been for a while, and it's really nice nice 1646 01:32:24,080 --> 01:32:27,640 Speaker 1: to tap her back. Okay, let's stay with the songwriting. 1647 01:32:28,160 --> 01:32:32,240 Speaker 1: Ultimately you have some success even today, like with Miley Cyrus. 1648 01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:36,160 Speaker 1: So tell us about your songwriting career. Well, you know, 1649 01:32:36,400 --> 01:32:39,439 Speaker 1: I wasn't a writer initially, and then I saw how 1650 01:32:39,520 --> 01:32:41,559 Speaker 1: much the songers. Man, I was like, wait a minute, 1651 01:32:41,720 --> 01:32:44,320 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm working just as hard. Please give 1652 01:32:44,360 --> 01:32:46,400 Speaker 1: me a break. I don't know what we got. The 1653 01:32:46,400 --> 01:32:48,640 Speaker 1: beat would beat without that drum beat, you know what 1654 01:32:48,720 --> 01:32:51,200 Speaker 1: I mean. I just had all these It was I 1655 01:32:51,240 --> 01:32:54,759 Speaker 1: couldn't figure it out, and I was really angry. And 1656 01:32:55,240 --> 01:32:56,960 Speaker 1: that was that was a big part of why. That 1657 01:32:57,080 --> 01:32:58,800 Speaker 1: being kind of I'm sure it was why of being 1658 01:32:58,880 --> 01:33:02,680 Speaker 1: kind of broke up um a part of it. Um. 1659 01:33:02,720 --> 01:33:05,120 Speaker 1: So I just continued sorry and trying to get better 1660 01:33:05,240 --> 01:33:09,640 Speaker 1: at my craft. And you know, in the like the 1661 01:33:09,720 --> 01:33:13,360 Speaker 1: two thousand eight or nine or whatever, I was writing 1662 01:33:13,400 --> 01:33:17,880 Speaker 1: with a couple of guys um and we wrote. We 1663 01:33:17,880 --> 01:33:22,600 Speaker 1: wrote a bunch of songs, and Miley Cyrus heard one breakout. 1664 01:33:23,680 --> 01:33:25,800 Speaker 1: She had had a record done, but she heard that 1665 01:33:25,840 --> 01:33:27,519 Speaker 1: song and love it. She went back in and recorded 1666 01:33:27,640 --> 01:33:30,600 Speaker 1: that became the title track of her record. That was 1667 01:33:30,640 --> 01:33:32,519 Speaker 1: where she was going for being like a kid into 1668 01:33:32,520 --> 01:33:36,519 Speaker 1: a young adult. And then Disney called us and John 1669 01:33:36,560 --> 01:33:39,479 Speaker 1: Allixander was like, Hey, I got this other young U. 1670 01:33:40,560 --> 01:33:42,760 Speaker 1: Her name is Selena Gomez, can you write something for 1671 01:33:42,880 --> 01:33:46,000 Speaker 1: So we were brought in to write for Selena and 1672 01:33:46,040 --> 01:33:49,760 Speaker 1: we wrote, uh, the first thing, all the title track 1673 01:33:49,880 --> 01:33:52,720 Speaker 1: and you know, four songs for her that record. Um 1674 01:33:52,920 --> 01:33:59,200 Speaker 1: and uh. So I felt like, well, guys, I actually 1675 01:33:59,320 --> 01:34:01,800 Speaker 1: can write, and let me just show you what I've done. 1676 01:34:02,880 --> 01:34:06,280 Speaker 1: So I felt vindicated at the end of the day 1677 01:34:07,360 --> 01:34:10,519 Speaker 1: because you know, um, if you're in a band and 1678 01:34:11,840 --> 01:34:14,799 Speaker 1: the way some things are sort of setting stones. Certain 1679 01:34:14,800 --> 01:34:17,080 Speaker 1: people want to write with certain people and I get that, 1680 01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:21,760 Speaker 1: and when you bring another elements that might mess with 1681 01:34:21,880 --> 01:34:26,320 Speaker 1: that formula or whatever. But it was tough to get 1682 01:34:26,320 --> 01:34:30,400 Speaker 1: into their into the songwriting group with Charlotte and Jane 1683 01:34:30,800 --> 01:34:33,840 Speaker 1: h it was difficult, and so I just would write 1684 01:34:33,880 --> 01:34:36,320 Speaker 1: what I would write, and whatever was accepted by the 1685 01:34:36,320 --> 01:34:39,640 Speaker 1: band was But when I wrote stuff out on my 1686 01:34:39,680 --> 01:34:44,559 Speaker 1: own and other artists chose to record it, that made 1687 01:34:44,600 --> 01:34:46,439 Speaker 1: me feel really good and made me feel like, you 1688 01:34:46,479 --> 01:34:50,400 Speaker 1: know what, I am a goddamn songwriter and somebody's appreciating. 1689 01:34:50,439 --> 01:34:52,519 Speaker 1: And I didn't feel that much from the band, but 1690 01:34:53,680 --> 01:34:55,519 Speaker 1: just the way it goes, you know, I don't think 1691 01:34:55,520 --> 01:34:58,160 Speaker 1: it was a conscious effort on their behalfor just sort 1692 01:34:58,160 --> 01:35:01,960 Speaker 1: of the way things were working. I don't know. Okay, 1693 01:35:02,000 --> 01:35:06,080 Speaker 1: are you still writing songs today? I have not been. 1694 01:35:07,680 --> 01:35:10,200 Speaker 1: I haven't been for like I say, the last six 1695 01:35:10,280 --> 01:35:12,880 Speaker 1: years have been all devoted to my mom and dad 1696 01:35:13,000 --> 01:35:15,680 Speaker 1: and uh, but I'm gonna start getting back into that. 1697 01:35:15,720 --> 01:35:18,800 Speaker 1: I've been just super busy with you know, the last 1698 01:35:18,840 --> 01:35:21,479 Speaker 1: year and a half writing this book and uh, putting 1699 01:35:21,520 --> 01:35:25,480 Speaker 1: the book together, getting the photos together, all that, um, 1700 01:35:25,560 --> 01:35:27,400 Speaker 1: and then of course there's always something going on and 1701 01:35:27,520 --> 01:35:31,360 Speaker 1: go go land and which I'm super happy about. I 1702 01:35:31,360 --> 01:35:34,519 Speaker 1: feel very good about the band and the way that 1703 01:35:34,520 --> 01:35:38,479 Speaker 1: we communicate with each other. I just can't believe it, 1704 01:35:38,520 --> 01:35:41,559 Speaker 1: all these years later, we're still it's still a five 1705 01:35:41,600 --> 01:35:44,920 Speaker 1: of us, and we still like care about each other, 1706 01:35:44,960 --> 01:35:47,760 Speaker 1: and it's a it's a little family here. Man. It's 1707 01:35:47,800 --> 01:35:50,479 Speaker 1: a good thing. It's a good thing. Okay, let's go 1708 01:35:50,520 --> 01:35:54,799 Speaker 1: back to thirty years ago. You do an House of Shock. 1709 01:35:55,320 --> 01:35:59,160 Speaker 1: You're going through your thing. Meanwhile, Belinda has a couple 1710 01:35:59,160 --> 01:36:03,640 Speaker 1: of very are you significant hits with videos? How do 1711 01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:06,840 Speaker 1: you feel about that? Oh? I was piste off, but 1712 01:36:07,000 --> 01:36:08,800 Speaker 1: then when I got my House a Shock deal, I 1713 01:36:08,840 --> 01:36:11,280 Speaker 1: was fine because I was like, okay, I can do 1714 01:36:11,400 --> 01:36:14,080 Speaker 1: this too. And I was just the drummer in the band. 1715 01:36:14,720 --> 01:36:17,320 Speaker 1: It didn't get much songwriting in in in the go 1716 01:36:17,320 --> 01:36:21,880 Speaker 1: goes um. But you know what, when pushed came to 1717 01:36:21,920 --> 01:36:23,840 Speaker 1: a shove, I went out. I got a record deal, 1718 01:36:24,040 --> 01:36:28,000 Speaker 1: and you know I can do that. I you know 1719 01:36:28,040 --> 01:36:30,719 Speaker 1: where it ends up is I only have so much control. 1720 01:36:31,640 --> 01:36:34,960 Speaker 1: But I still felt pretty good about what my contribution 1721 01:36:35,120 --> 01:36:37,240 Speaker 1: was and what you know, what I tried to do 1722 01:36:37,479 --> 01:36:40,000 Speaker 1: or what I did. So how did the band come 1723 01:36:40,040 --> 01:36:44,920 Speaker 1: back together? Jane Fonda got this band back together. Jane 1724 01:36:44,920 --> 01:36:48,080 Speaker 1: Fonda is the reason the band got back together. She 1725 01:36:48,560 --> 01:36:54,280 Speaker 1: contacted contacted all of us Belinda initially about getting together 1726 01:36:54,320 --> 01:36:57,600 Speaker 1: and wanting us to do a show at Universal for 1727 01:36:58,080 --> 01:36:59,760 Speaker 1: a great initiative that she wanted to get on the 1728 01:36:59,760 --> 01:37:03,760 Speaker 1: back it. And of course we said yes because we're 1729 01:37:03,800 --> 01:37:07,759 Speaker 1: all environmentalists, and we also said yes because it's Jane Fonda, 1730 01:37:08,160 --> 01:37:12,120 Speaker 1: you know, a hero of all of ours. And so 1731 01:37:12,160 --> 01:37:14,639 Speaker 1: we met many times at her house in Santa Monica, 1732 01:37:15,360 --> 01:37:19,000 Speaker 1: and uh, everybody just started talking. We started going out 1733 01:37:19,000 --> 01:37:22,599 Speaker 1: to dinner, and you know it was a comfortable fit. 1734 01:37:22,800 --> 01:37:25,320 Speaker 1: You know, we're fatily What could I say? And before 1735 01:37:25,320 --> 01:37:28,160 Speaker 1: you know it, we're touring. We started touring a nine 1736 01:37:28,439 --> 01:37:32,559 Speaker 1: nine haven't stopped. Okay, in the interim before Jane fond 1737 01:37:32,560 --> 01:37:35,200 Speaker 1: it tracks you down, how much contact do you have 1738 01:37:35,320 --> 01:37:38,120 Speaker 1: with the other four? And now since you've been back 1739 01:37:38,120 --> 01:37:41,080 Speaker 1: together when you're not actually working, how much contact do 1740 01:37:41,120 --> 01:37:44,599 Speaker 1: you have with the other four? Um? We we know 1741 01:37:44,640 --> 01:37:47,320 Speaker 1: what we all Okay, we Lena's just has moved from 1742 01:37:47,320 --> 01:37:50,880 Speaker 1: Bangkok now she's in Mexico City, Kathy's in Austin, Charlton, 1743 01:37:51,080 --> 01:37:54,040 Speaker 1: l A. James in Hawaii, and I'm in San Francisco. 1744 01:37:54,560 --> 01:37:56,360 Speaker 1: So it's not like we get to see each other. 1745 01:37:56,360 --> 01:38:00,599 Speaker 1: We're not even the same place. But we do talk 1746 01:38:00,720 --> 01:38:04,120 Speaker 1: quite a bit, believe it or not. Um And because 1747 01:38:04,120 --> 01:38:06,240 Speaker 1: we have so much going on right now, so it's 1748 01:38:06,280 --> 01:38:08,960 Speaker 1: it's a necessity that we all speak and get on 1749 01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:11,240 Speaker 1: the same page about decisions that need to be made. 1750 01:38:11,920 --> 01:38:14,799 Speaker 1: So it's it's like I said, it's pretty good now, Bob. 1751 01:38:14,840 --> 01:38:19,080 Speaker 1: I feel pretty comfortable with everybody and happy the way 1752 01:38:19,120 --> 01:38:21,040 Speaker 1: things are moving forward with the band. Where you know, 1753 01:38:21,080 --> 01:38:24,839 Speaker 1: we're we're talking about doing some things next year. I'm 1754 01:38:24,880 --> 01:38:27,120 Speaker 1: pretty excited about things. The other thing I have to 1755 01:38:27,160 --> 01:38:33,120 Speaker 1: ask because I remember the final tour. Told I told, 1756 01:38:33,280 --> 01:38:36,519 Speaker 1: I said, don't put final tour. The gogoes are never over. 1757 01:38:36,640 --> 01:38:40,400 Speaker 1: Don't say final. That's ridiculous. Well, anyway, that happened, and 1758 01:38:40,400 --> 01:38:43,519 Speaker 1: that was a stupid move. I feel. I'm just gonna 1759 01:38:43,520 --> 01:38:46,400 Speaker 1: say it was really dumb, because you know what, we'll 1760 01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:49,400 Speaker 1: just tour until we fall am and that's the truth. 1761 01:38:49,800 --> 01:38:52,160 Speaker 1: We walk away from each other for six months or 1762 01:38:52,160 --> 01:38:54,599 Speaker 1: a year, and then we come back together. We're like, Okay, 1763 01:38:54,680 --> 01:38:57,400 Speaker 1: let's do some shows. Oh I miss you, Let's go 1764 01:38:57,439 --> 01:38:59,360 Speaker 1: on a vacation together, Let's do this, let's do that. 1765 01:39:00,040 --> 01:39:05,559 Speaker 1: Going was the decision? What? Why was the decision? Saying 1766 01:39:05,600 --> 01:39:07,320 Speaker 1: it was a final tour because people thought they were 1767 01:39:07,360 --> 01:39:10,120 Speaker 1: really out or you wanted to sell tickets was gone. 1768 01:39:10,840 --> 01:39:13,200 Speaker 1: It wasn't a ticket thing. It was just a bullshit thing. 1769 01:39:13,240 --> 01:39:16,160 Speaker 1: I don't remember who. It wasn't whatever that you know, 1770 01:39:16,160 --> 01:39:18,720 Speaker 1: they don't want to work anymore. It doesn't matter. It 1771 01:39:18,800 --> 01:39:24,000 Speaker 1: always resolved. And that was bullshit, and it's embarrassing. As 1772 01:39:24,000 --> 01:39:27,559 Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned, that final show, final tour crap 1773 01:39:27,960 --> 01:39:32,679 Speaker 1: that everybody does. I was not a part of that. Sorry, 1774 01:39:32,840 --> 01:39:35,639 Speaker 1: I wasn't. Okay, Rock and Roll Hall of fame. Where 1775 01:39:35,720 --> 01:39:41,840 Speaker 1: you at on that excited happy It's about time. I 1776 01:39:41,920 --> 01:39:45,320 Speaker 1: didn't care initially, but now it's like when it actually happens, 1777 01:39:45,800 --> 01:39:50,360 Speaker 1: it's pretty cool. I sing icing on the cake. Okay, 1778 01:39:50,400 --> 01:39:56,360 Speaker 1: So looking back, you were progenitors all girl group. There 1779 01:39:56,360 --> 01:39:58,880 Speaker 1: haven't been a whole hell of a lot since there 1780 01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:01,720 Speaker 1: was the Bengals. A to you. Now we're in more 1781 01:40:01,760 --> 01:40:05,439 Speaker 1: of a solo era. What can you tell us about 1782 01:40:05,520 --> 01:40:08,720 Speaker 1: being a woman in the music business as a performer? 1783 01:40:09,240 --> 01:40:11,559 Speaker 1: To what dick we are you held back to? What? 1784 01:40:11,840 --> 01:40:14,920 Speaker 1: What have you learned? I don't figure how back so 1785 01:40:15,040 --> 01:40:19,000 Speaker 1: much anymore. In the early eighties, late seventies, you worried 1786 01:40:19,560 --> 01:40:24,240 Speaker 1: because you had something to prove um although there aren't 1787 01:40:24,280 --> 01:40:28,599 Speaker 1: there still is not an all female band that has 1788 01:40:29,360 --> 01:40:32,560 Speaker 1: done what we've done, and I'm waiting desperately for that. 1789 01:40:32,800 --> 01:40:34,800 Speaker 1: We talked about this all the time. Why where's the 1790 01:40:34,840 --> 01:40:38,080 Speaker 1: next goes? What the hell is going on? Well? There 1791 01:40:38,120 --> 01:40:40,240 Speaker 1: may be some neat bands coming around the band that 1792 01:40:40,280 --> 01:40:45,080 Speaker 1: are going to happen. I hope you know, um um like, 1793 01:40:45,240 --> 01:40:47,800 Speaker 1: I love the Linda Lendas. Have you heard them? Bob? Yeah? 1794 01:40:47,840 --> 01:40:51,000 Speaker 1: They're very good, aren't they great? I just I've spent 1795 01:40:51,040 --> 01:40:54,280 Speaker 1: the weekend with them last last week last week in 1796 01:40:54,479 --> 01:40:57,519 Speaker 1: l A and I actually did. I played they play 1797 01:40:57,560 --> 01:40:59,479 Speaker 1: a go Goost they played tonight and so I played 1798 01:40:59,560 --> 01:41:04,599 Speaker 1: drums that song with them and they they filled me 1799 01:41:04,720 --> 01:41:07,240 Speaker 1: with joy. They are so wild and they're having such 1800 01:41:07,240 --> 01:41:11,040 Speaker 1: a great time, and they remind me of us, except younger. 1801 01:41:11,520 --> 01:41:16,160 Speaker 1: You know, they're so excited about everything. Oh man, I 1802 01:41:16,200 --> 01:41:18,639 Speaker 1: hope they make it. What do you think, because there's 1803 01:41:18,640 --> 01:41:21,439 Speaker 1: a huge buzz. Why do you think there's not a buzzle? 1804 01:41:21,560 --> 01:41:25,080 Speaker 1: It hasn't happened already. I don't know. I don't know, 1805 01:41:25,560 --> 01:41:28,559 Speaker 1: and you tell me. I have no idea, But it's 1806 01:41:28,600 --> 01:41:31,000 Speaker 1: about time. I'm glad those girls are doing what they're 1807 01:41:31,000 --> 01:41:33,400 Speaker 1: doing and they're serious about it. And their parents like 1808 01:41:33,400 --> 01:41:36,000 Speaker 1: they're sending them to you know, they're they're all. They 1809 01:41:36,040 --> 01:41:39,479 Speaker 1: take guitar lessons, they take piano lessons, drum lessons, like 1810 01:41:39,560 --> 01:41:42,800 Speaker 1: their parents grew up watching us do what we do 1811 01:41:43,200 --> 01:41:46,800 Speaker 1: and then started taking them as little kids. So they 1812 01:41:47,000 --> 01:41:52,000 Speaker 1: know their history and they are excited about doing what 1813 01:41:52,040 --> 01:41:55,920 Speaker 1: they do. They love it. Like the drummer is, she's 1814 01:41:56,000 --> 01:42:00,160 Speaker 1: like eleven years old or twelve. It's crazy and all 1815 01:42:00,240 --> 01:42:04,800 Speaker 1: this girl is sixteen. I love it. It's a beautiful thing. 1816 01:42:05,400 --> 01:42:08,559 Speaker 1: It's about time. Okay. You know, we live in the 1817 01:42:08,640 --> 01:42:11,760 Speaker 1: me too era? To what degree do you have your 1818 01:42:11,760 --> 01:42:15,439 Speaker 1: own bad stories? So what degree do I have my 1819 01:42:15,479 --> 01:42:19,439 Speaker 1: own bad stories? Me two moments where guys were doing 1820 01:42:19,479 --> 01:42:24,240 Speaker 1: things that were inappropriate, I've never had that problem. I 1821 01:42:24,240 --> 01:42:26,600 Speaker 1: think most guys are afraid of make and afraid of 1822 01:42:26,640 --> 01:42:31,519 Speaker 1: this bam, and we're all together. The guys were always 1823 01:42:31,560 --> 01:42:33,400 Speaker 1: afraid of us. When we bring them back into the 1824 01:42:33,479 --> 01:42:37,400 Speaker 1: dressing room, they're like cowering in the corner. I mean, 1825 01:42:37,479 --> 01:42:39,560 Speaker 1: when the five of us are together. I guess it 1826 01:42:39,640 --> 01:42:41,640 Speaker 1: must be scary for guys. I don't know, but that's 1827 01:42:41,680 --> 01:42:44,880 Speaker 1: the way it's always worked out. I don't need problem 1828 01:42:44,880 --> 01:42:49,400 Speaker 1: with guys at all and getting you know, getting pushed around. 1829 01:42:50,320 --> 01:42:52,920 Speaker 1: We stand our own ground. That's why we were successful. 1830 01:42:53,120 --> 01:42:56,559 Speaker 1: That's why we've done what we've done. Okay, and the 1831 01:42:56,600 --> 01:43:00,200 Speaker 1: hopefully thirty years you have left. Other than playing with 1832 01:43:00,280 --> 01:43:03,000 Speaker 1: the go goes, you want to play until they bury you? 1833 01:43:03,080 --> 01:43:07,160 Speaker 1: What else do you want to accomplish? Oh, God, Bob, 1834 01:43:07,400 --> 01:43:12,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, Um, I'm really happy to 1835 01:43:12,960 --> 01:43:16,200 Speaker 1: be in this span and very grateful, and I hope 1836 01:43:16,240 --> 01:43:18,080 Speaker 1: we play a lot longer, and I think we have 1837 01:43:18,560 --> 01:43:21,439 Speaker 1: we have some things up our sleeve that perhaps will 1838 01:43:21,479 --> 01:43:24,559 Speaker 1: be around next year. We're working on stuff all the 1839 01:43:24,600 --> 01:43:28,800 Speaker 1: time behind the scenes. Um. All I hope for is 1840 01:43:28,840 --> 01:43:32,839 Speaker 1: that I stay healthy and happy and I am allowed 1841 01:43:32,880 --> 01:43:34,679 Speaker 1: to do what I love to do, which is music, 1842 01:43:34,760 --> 01:43:38,320 Speaker 1: which will be writing, maybe some producing or you know, 1843 01:43:38,479 --> 01:43:42,479 Speaker 1: and playing with the band. Um. I think I've I've 1844 01:43:43,560 --> 01:43:47,200 Speaker 1: my life as far as been pretty fantastic. So I 1845 01:43:47,240 --> 01:43:50,320 Speaker 1: don't know what else is in store for me. All 1846 01:43:50,360 --> 01:43:52,080 Speaker 1: I know is that I'm gonna keep my ship together 1847 01:43:52,400 --> 01:43:57,760 Speaker 1: and um, you know, be open to whatever may come 1848 01:43:57,800 --> 01:44:02,280 Speaker 1: my way and be grateful about it. Well, Gina, you're 1849 01:44:02,320 --> 01:44:05,400 Speaker 1: really a force of nature. I gotta tell you. I've 1850 01:44:05,439 --> 01:44:07,400 Speaker 1: had a rough couple of days, been very busy, and 1851 01:44:07,439 --> 01:44:09,360 Speaker 1: I was pretty fried. But as soon as you hit 1852 01:44:09,400 --> 01:44:13,320 Speaker 1: the screen, blit right up right into the groove. I mean, 1853 01:44:13,360 --> 01:44:16,680 Speaker 1: you could feel the energy, and I'm sure that is 1854 01:44:16,840 --> 01:44:21,760 Speaker 1: part of why you're so successful. I don't know, Bob, everybody, everybody, 1855 01:44:21,800 --> 01:44:24,599 Speaker 1: everybody tries the best way to know how. I'm tired 1856 01:44:24,640 --> 01:44:26,400 Speaker 1: to hear myself sound like such a good T shirt. 1857 01:44:26,439 --> 01:44:31,280 Speaker 1: I'm kind of an asso sometimes, But you know what, Um, 1858 01:44:31,400 --> 01:44:34,040 Speaker 1: after being around for a while, I just, you know, 1859 01:44:34,120 --> 01:44:37,000 Speaker 1: when I see somebody you know, becoming famous or you know, 1860 01:44:37,280 --> 01:44:40,320 Speaker 1: I'm also happy for them because it's a tough business. 1861 01:44:40,479 --> 01:44:43,240 Speaker 1: It really is, you know, And I would not want 1862 01:44:43,280 --> 01:44:46,360 Speaker 1: to be trying to get a deal this in this 1863 01:44:46,439 --> 01:44:50,840 Speaker 1: day and age. It is just so crazy. Um And 1864 01:44:50,920 --> 01:44:54,559 Speaker 1: so I you know, I watched younger artists or bands 1865 01:44:54,760 --> 01:44:58,400 Speaker 1: and I am I am their fan. I'm there in 1866 01:44:58,439 --> 01:45:03,960 Speaker 1: the background going yeah, yeah, do it. Well, I you know, 1867 01:45:04,040 --> 01:45:07,520 Speaker 1: I echo all that stuff. But being in Los Angeles 1868 01:45:07,760 --> 01:45:13,160 Speaker 1: for forty five years and hearing everybody's bullshit and knowing 1869 01:45:13,520 --> 01:45:17,760 Speaker 1: how hard it is to make it. Talent is at 1870 01:45:17,800 --> 01:45:25,120 Speaker 1: most the other at work and drive. So anybody who 1871 01:45:25,160 --> 01:45:29,559 Speaker 1: made it I have respect for because they really, they 1872 01:45:29,600 --> 01:45:32,360 Speaker 1: really had to go through the mill. It doesn't happen 1873 01:45:32,400 --> 01:45:34,559 Speaker 1: when people say, oh I was just in the right 1874 01:45:34,560 --> 01:45:36,559 Speaker 1: place at the right time. I was lucky. That's just 1875 01:45:36,640 --> 01:45:40,600 Speaker 1: horse ship. If you got there, you had to be 1876 01:45:40,720 --> 01:45:43,720 Speaker 1: one minded. Yea, yeah, you had to be a little lucky. 1877 01:45:43,800 --> 01:45:46,240 Speaker 1: But you have to make your own luck because this 1878 01:45:46,320 --> 01:45:49,559 Speaker 1: is a town where everybody comes to make it and 1879 01:45:49,600 --> 01:45:53,840 Speaker 1: almost nobody does. Think of all the bands you played with, 1880 01:45:53,880 --> 01:45:56,679 Speaker 1: the Club eight eight, etcetera. Who knows where those people 1881 01:45:56,720 --> 01:45:59,160 Speaker 1: are day They never even got signed, never mind, didn't 1882 01:45:59,160 --> 01:46:05,520 Speaker 1: ever hit record. You're you're absolutely right. Yeah, it's uh, 1883 01:46:06,000 --> 01:46:08,800 Speaker 1: it's scary. I mean, I can't imagine being one of 1884 01:46:08,840 --> 01:46:11,680 Speaker 1: those first one of those people that that you know, 1885 01:46:11,800 --> 01:46:15,280 Speaker 1: tried and tried and never really happened. Oh God, I 1886 01:46:15,280 --> 01:46:19,720 Speaker 1: don't know what I do. I feel so lucky. And 1887 01:46:19,760 --> 01:46:21,960 Speaker 1: you're right about all that. It does. You know, you 1888 01:46:22,000 --> 01:46:24,120 Speaker 1: don't just you don't just you're not just in the 1889 01:46:24,200 --> 01:46:25,720 Speaker 1: right place at the right time there. You have to 1890 01:46:25,720 --> 01:46:28,400 Speaker 1: work to put yourself there, and you have to know 1891 01:46:28,439 --> 01:46:32,080 Speaker 1: how to negotiate the situation. Yeah, because you know, what's 1892 01:46:32,120 --> 01:46:35,960 Speaker 1: the other thing. You know, we're musicians, we're not lawyers, 1893 01:46:36,360 --> 01:46:40,040 Speaker 1: we're not managers. That's not what we chose to do. 1894 01:46:40,120 --> 01:46:41,680 Speaker 1: But yet you have to have a little bit of 1895 01:46:41,680 --> 01:46:45,439 Speaker 1: that with what you're doing where you're gonna get screwed. 1896 01:46:45,439 --> 01:46:48,519 Speaker 1: You've gotta you gotta learn the game. You gotta learn 1897 01:46:48,520 --> 01:46:51,679 Speaker 1: how to play, and that takes that takes a while 1898 01:46:52,080 --> 01:46:54,720 Speaker 1: before you really know the rules and you know how 1899 01:46:54,760 --> 01:46:57,559 Speaker 1: to how to look out for yourself. Well, you talk 1900 01:46:57,640 --> 01:47:00,840 Speaker 1: about you know, Charlie Watts and Bill. Why I'm in now, 1901 01:47:00,920 --> 01:47:04,280 Speaker 1: Daryl Jones, You're anchoring the band. And I think the 1902 01:47:04,320 --> 01:47:07,680 Speaker 1: most the most significant thing you were talking about is 1903 01:47:07,720 --> 01:47:10,320 Speaker 1: when you joined the band, you were the pile driver 1904 01:47:10,479 --> 01:47:14,160 Speaker 1: said we gotta rehearse, we gotta do this. I mean, 1905 01:47:14,200 --> 01:47:16,760 Speaker 1: I can't lift the whole band, but I can light 1906 01:47:16,800 --> 01:47:20,320 Speaker 1: a fire under you. Well, I just that was my way. 1907 01:47:20,439 --> 01:47:22,479 Speaker 1: It was the only way I knew how to do things. 1908 01:47:22,640 --> 01:47:26,800 Speaker 1: You know. Um, I didn't have the magic formula. All 1909 01:47:26,880 --> 01:47:30,360 Speaker 1: I knew was that if we I felt like, if 1910 01:47:30,400 --> 01:47:33,320 Speaker 1: this band rehearsed more something great, what's going to happen. 1911 01:47:33,560 --> 01:47:37,800 Speaker 1: I really believe that. And I think the girls, you know, 1912 01:47:38,200 --> 01:47:42,840 Speaker 1: adhered to that whole concept because they were they were 1913 01:47:42,960 --> 01:47:46,000 Speaker 1: doing it, and they were excited about it, and they 1914 01:47:46,080 --> 01:47:50,720 Speaker 1: felt that they believed in that idea and and and 1915 01:47:51,040 --> 01:47:54,439 Speaker 1: you could see the band transforming, you know, from week 1916 01:47:54,479 --> 01:47:57,840 Speaker 1: to week, month to month. Everybody was getting better at 1917 01:47:57,880 --> 01:48:02,040 Speaker 1: what they do. And so that is something that really, 1918 01:48:02,720 --> 01:48:05,800 Speaker 1: you know, propels you forward. It's like, Okay, well I 1919 01:48:05,840 --> 01:48:08,280 Speaker 1: see a difference now from a month ago. Make sure 1920 01:48:08,280 --> 01:48:10,240 Speaker 1: want to continue what you're doing and know that you're 1921 01:48:10,280 --> 01:48:12,760 Speaker 1: doing the right stuff to make things better, to get 1922 01:48:12,760 --> 01:48:14,960 Speaker 1: your songs out there, to be a better musician, to 1923 01:48:15,040 --> 01:48:17,720 Speaker 1: be a better writer. All that goes into it. A 1924 01:48:17,720 --> 01:48:21,920 Speaker 1: better performer, better at handling record labels, you know all 1925 01:48:21,960 --> 01:48:25,519 Speaker 1: that stuff. It's a big picture. Well put and on 1926 01:48:25,640 --> 01:48:28,559 Speaker 1: that note, I think we're gonna leave it. Gina, thanks 1927 01:48:28,560 --> 01:48:31,760 Speaker 1: so much for doing this. Bob. It's a pleasure. You're 1928 01:48:31,760 --> 01:48:34,960 Speaker 1: a sweetheart. I really enjoyed talking with you. Good luck 1929 01:48:35,080 --> 01:48:41,040 Speaker 1: editing it, and um we are editors. We've really much 1930 01:48:41,120 --> 01:48:43,200 Speaker 1: let her rip because we wanted to be honest. You 1931 01:48:43,280 --> 01:48:46,360 Speaker 1: condensed it too much, you lose the essence. Yeah, I 1932 01:48:46,400 --> 01:48:49,519 Speaker 1: don't know. Uh, I think it'll turn out pretty good. Oh, 1933 01:48:49,600 --> 01:48:54,479 Speaker 1: I know it's good keeping You're like, you got some 1934 01:48:54,600 --> 01:48:57,240 Speaker 1: energy up. That's good. Well, you know that's good. You 1935 01:48:57,280 --> 01:48:59,840 Speaker 1: know I'm guiding and I'm judging whether it's good. That's 1936 01:48:59,840 --> 01:49:02,280 Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about. Seven. As I say you earlier, 1937 01:49:02,439 --> 01:49:04,400 Speaker 1: as soon as you hit the mic, I said, this 1938 01:49:04,560 --> 01:49:07,200 Speaker 1: is gonna be no problem. Alright. Good. I'm glad you 1939 01:49:07,240 --> 01:49:10,879 Speaker 1: felt that way. Dave Um and I appreciate your gians 1940 01:49:10,920 --> 01:49:15,439 Speaker 1: through this. Okay, until next time, it's Bob left Sis