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Speaker 1: Peaks to the plan. This Ch'allamagne of God. Here.

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Speaker 2: Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate

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Speaker 2: the Black Effect Podcast Network. It's turning five years old, man,

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Speaker 1: This is the power of the platform. Now let's get

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Speaker 1: into it. Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production

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Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio and the Black Effect Network. Talk Talk to We're.

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Speaker 3: Just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all, it's your girl, a j Holiday, what's

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Speaker 1: up Tandam.

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Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, it's big Tamavam. I love y'all so so

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Speaker 3: very much. I miss y'all. I'm glad y'all came back

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Speaker 3: this week. How is your weekend? AJ girl.

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Speaker 1: I didn't do much this weekend. I really laid in

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Speaker 1: the bed all day Saturday and it felt really good.

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Speaker 1: Ooh him in the best days. Yes, I'm in a

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Speaker 1: good mood this week.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not letting shit bother me. Is mother little shit

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Speaker 1: got me? Uh, I would be going nuts otherwise, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not. Yeah. So I got some much needed rest

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Speaker 1: and I miss the sun. That's about it. I don't

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Speaker 1: be getting enough Vitamin D.

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Speaker 3: I have to take it orally because I'm just not

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Speaker 3: getting enough.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do take I take some, you know daily

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Speaker 1: when I remember, daily when I remember, but usually usually

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Speaker 1: I take my vitamin D. But you know a lot

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Speaker 1: of times i'd be having to put my vitamins in

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Speaker 1: the bed with me, so the bed. Yeah, so as

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Speaker 1: soon as I wake up, I just roll over and

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Speaker 1: take them.

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Speaker 3: And we are not our parents. They at least put

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Speaker 3: it beside business, put it in the billow case.

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Speaker 1: I don't got no nightstand. Oh I do, but it's

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Speaker 1: like on the other side of the bed. But this

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Speaker 1: is laziness, right, because really I should just get the

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Speaker 1: and take the vitamins.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like adult.

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Speaker 1: It eating a bed until I feel my shit moving

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Speaker 1: to get on to get up.

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Speaker 4: To use the bathroom, because it's usually like as soon

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Speaker 4: as I take all this stuff.

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Speaker 1: Probably thirty minutes later I use a bathroom. So I

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Speaker 1: take all the shit and then I scroll until I

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Speaker 1: got to take a ship.

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Speaker 3: And you scroll while you taking a shit.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, legs numb, just get up. Yesterday, I was watching

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Speaker 1: this YouTube thing. This like mindset change, because my only

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Speaker 1: goal right now is discipline. I was telling my mama

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Speaker 1: how like our whole family just lack discipline. I don't

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Speaker 1: ever recall. And this is how you be successful, right,

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Speaker 1: doing the same shit every fucking.

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Speaker 3: Day, get a routine.

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Speaker 1: That's the hard part, any fucking discipline about shit. I

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Speaker 1: wanted your free spirit. Yeah, I know that too. I

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Speaker 1: don't like being tied down to a thing either, because

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Speaker 1: it's like I get bored real fast. Like I can

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Speaker 3: Me too, Yeah, so me too. It's like, but remember

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Speaker 3: the food analogy that I gave in season one. Niggas

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Speaker 3: get tired of the srip. Niggas want to slice a

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Speaker 3: pizza good day.

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Speaker 1: Literally, man, I just gotta Yeah, that's my only goal.

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Speaker 1: I gotta get more disciplined. Like I really should not

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Speaker 1: have laid into bed this Saturday. But sometimes when your

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Speaker 1: body tell you to be still, just do it.

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Speaker 3: If you don't, it will do it for you. You will.

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Speaker 1: And last week, multiple days last week, I just I

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Speaker 1: was feeling real exhausted, like real life exhaustion. I'm like sick,

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Speaker 1: but like just the tire. Yeah. Like you know how

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Speaker 1: you be like tired but you can't go to sleep.

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Speaker 1: It's that feeling all day long.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that sucks.

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Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I relax. What you me tell you?

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Speaker 3: I would have did tell my mother. I tell y'all,

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Speaker 3: my mom was moving. Why I drove a big truck. Y'all.

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Speaker 3: I didn't have big nuts. I was backing that sit

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Speaker 3: I was yeah, one hand in that motherfucker. I rolled

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Speaker 1: I was like, howdy to my sister. Now she thinks

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Speaker 3: Child my CDL Like I was whipping that shit. I'm

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Speaker 3: so proud of myself for doing that because I was

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Speaker 3: my girl.

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Speaker 1: I have a lot of anxiety when I drive big

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Speaker 1: like commercial vehicles, but I've definitely driven a big ass

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Speaker 3: I'm bitch, See that's crazy. A mountain is crazy because

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Speaker 3: what the fuck I just drove it, like about four

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Speaker 3: the space in between. It was the turns. It was

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Speaker 3: the turns and backing that bitch and stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: That's what made me feel like a boss, yo. But

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Speaker 3: that was it. That was my weekend. Moving. Moving is

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Speaker 3: so stressful. Oh my god. If you could get through

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Speaker 3: a move with a person and not argue with them,

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Speaker 3: at least once you are a boss, you the true boss.

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Speaker 1: I have never had anybody help me move and not

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Speaker 1: argue with them, like now that I think about it. Anytime.

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Speaker 1: Usually if I'm moving myself, I'm cool. If it's mover's

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Speaker 1: doing it, I'm cool. But if I'm asking somebody for

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Speaker 1: usually a nigga too, and it's the nigga. You fucking

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Speaker 1: why is that?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but you're gonna fight with that motherfucker.

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Speaker 3: Every time I got into it with a nigga, I wasn't.

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Speaker 3: I got into hot with higher help. I had to

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Speaker 3: apologize to him.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I ain't get it. Never got into what

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Speaker 1: hired help. But like man, he.

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Speaker 3: Told me, he lost, Like he told me, he put

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Speaker 3: the screws in the bag. And clearly the bag is empty.

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Speaker 3: Where are the screws? So I was like kind of

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Speaker 3: getting a little spicy with that, nigga. But turns out

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Speaker 3: the part that I was talking about didn't have no screws.

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Speaker 3: But why did you say? Why'd you say you put

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Speaker 3: him in the bag. Why you didn't say there was

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Speaker 3: no screws?

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Speaker 1: You know, because when you're moving a whole bunch of shit,

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Speaker 1: you forget what what had a screw and what didn't

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, But that's why you shaid,

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Speaker 1: tape the screws to whatever you unscrew.

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Speaker 3: That's what I do. I always put him in a

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Speaker 3: ziplock bag and tape it to whatever it is. In

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Speaker 3: that particular bag he took down being over zealous fast.

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Speaker 3: He took it down before I was in there, and

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Speaker 3: I was like, well, where are the screws? He said,

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Speaker 3: I put it in the other bag. Oh, So I.

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Speaker 1: Was like, assume there was screws for it? Yeah, because

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. So I end up apologizing though I did.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I'm sorry for the manner in which

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Speaker 1: Girl. The one time I actually hired movers. Actually, I've

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Speaker 1: had people move like up, like like my bed right now.

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Speaker 1: I had somebody had to move that shit in here

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Speaker 1: because it was that fucking heavy. But the one time

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Speaker 1: I actually hired movers to move all my shit is

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Speaker 1: when I was moving from Saint Louis to Atlanta. I mean,

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Speaker 1: he's from Atlanta to Saint Louis and the guy I

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Speaker 1: hired was supposed to be a moving company. Why the

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Speaker 1: fuck does nigga showed up by himself. He showed up

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Speaker 1: to move a two bedroom townhouse by himself, So doesn't

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Speaker 1: that mean I had to help him? Right? Plus I

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Speaker 3: Because you gave him a bike because you had to help. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you wasn't gonna.

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Speaker 1: Move all this stuff in the alloted time I needed.

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Speaker 3: Like how you just gonna move my couch.

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Speaker 1: Exactly? I had to, So basically you were hired to help.

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Speaker 1: I'm not giving you the same price as somebody who

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Speaker 1: comes as a moving company with multiple people in a

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Speaker 1: already packed my whole house up, and now I gotta

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Speaker 1: help you put the shit. Girl. I was living you

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Speaker 1: hear me? Yeah, And I gave you a bike right.

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Speaker 3: Look out in here. Shit, I would I would pay half.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna pay you half exactly. Yes, we had to

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Speaker 3: argue about it, but that's what went down. Like you

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Speaker 3: are you stupid people?

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Speaker 1: People will really try to get over on you, man,

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Speaker 1: Oh yes they will.

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Speaker 3: You don't do something, they will get over on you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta say, you know. That's another one of

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Speaker 1: my goals is to fucking say something. There's times in

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Speaker 1: I just didn't say nothing about it. I'm gonna give

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Speaker 3: I got one too.

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Speaker 1: Did I tell a story before? When I was in

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Speaker 1: I was in public. So when I lived in Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: the public's on South Tryon and the guy in the

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Speaker 1: like fondling the fucking shrimp, like just mushing it around

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Speaker 1: in the shrimp with no gloves on, right, right, So

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Speaker 1: I wanted to walk up and confront him about it.

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Speaker 1: He saw me see him, and he stopped. I circled

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Speaker 1: That's how I know he was putting something in that

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Speaker 1: fucking shrimp, right, because it's the cook shrimp, not the

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Speaker 1: raw shrimp. It's like, you know, like the boiled, peel

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Speaker 1: and eat shrimp.

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Speaker 3: He was, Oh, so it's already cooked and you got

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Speaker 3: your dirty hands in it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's so. I'm like, wait, what like nobody's washing

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Speaker 1: the cook shrimp. You know what I'm saying. So I

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Speaker 1: waiting until I left the store and I ran into

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Speaker 1: like a black woman who was a manager, and I

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Speaker 1: told her what I saw instead of addressing him directly.

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Speaker 1: So from that point on, from that point on, I said,

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Speaker 1: if I see somebody doing some shit, I'm asking wody

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Speaker 1: passive aggressive and go tell tell a fucking manager just anything.

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Speaker 1: That's an example, Mitch, I'm saying something you'll ask because

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Speaker 1: why the fuck is you doing that? I need to

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Speaker 1: know because I never got the answer, Like I never

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Speaker 1: I needed him to say. I needed him. I needed

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Speaker 1: to see him like get scared, right, because then I

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Speaker 3: No. I was at Domino's Pizza and I walked out

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Speaker 3: She got her cell phone sitting on it. What you're dirty?

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Speaker 3: you know how they had those Asian reflexology massage pallors, right,

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Speaker 3: The bitch don't speak no English, right, she don't speak

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Speaker 3: Right, So she got I guess she was kind of mad.

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Speaker 3: So she started digging my el her elbow and my

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Speaker 3: motherfucking back. That shit hurt the whole sixty dollars wasted, y'all.

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Speaker 3: that hurts, and she like, yeah, bitch, no tip. I

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is the most gato beside I've

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Speaker 1: Man Asian people when they talk, it's sound like an argument.

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Speaker 1: Shame all right? Oh let me but let me just

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Speaker 1: I went to the dentist last week. Floss, y'all, floss,

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Speaker 1: get a water pick when I tell y'all, the bitch

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Speaker 1: hurt me so bad last week at the fucking dentnist office.

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Speaker 1: I canceled. I had I need to get a feeling.

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Speaker 1: I canceled it. I ain't coming back for some months.

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Speaker 1: I need a break from you.

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Speaker 3: Bitch.

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Speaker 1: She really like hurt me. But I had like a piece,

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Speaker 1: like a callous like you know, like a little callous

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Speaker 1: This bitch did so.

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Speaker 3: She did a great job.

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Speaker 1: I'm now cleaning my teeth because it's right smooth.

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Speaker 3: Between mm hmm, but don't feel nice like when you

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Speaker 1: But ooh, like to get underneath your teeth because that's

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Speaker 1: the importance of flossing, because all that food gets underneath

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Speaker 1: Do your dinnis appointment?

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Speaker 1: Have you have you done yet? I didn't mind mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: We get like it's this nigga, y'all. He fine as

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Speaker 3: hell from Charlotte and that's my nigga. But he got

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Speaker 1: I associate that type of ship with all types of

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Speaker 1: like illnesses, like I don't know, because you can really

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Speaker 3: Not good and then just letting us sit there. Why

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Speaker 3: does she did look like a mouthguard? All right?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's get in a stupid internet news. All right.

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Speaker 1: So there is a model. I don't know if you

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Speaker 1: guys saw this, So you saw this tammy this model

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Speaker 1: choice to go off on Angel Reese and Sunny Lee

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about that? So she's a model

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Speaker 1: and she's upset because Angel I don't know what Sunny

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Speaker 1: Lee does. What is what is her with professional? She in?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. But she's a gymnast.

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Speaker 1: She's a gymnast. Okay, so she's actually an Olympic gymnast.

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Speaker 1: So she and Andel Reese were both in the fashion

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Speaker 3: But I just don't understand. Like I said, I don't

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Speaker 3: brain surgery. Like it's all you gotta do is put

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Speaker 3: on some ship walk. Like, so you're a model now

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Speaker 1: It's like I can do your job, you can't do mine.

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Speaker 1: Can you shoot basketball? Can you? Can you cook dope?

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Speaker 3: Can you cook dope? That's the inside, y'all.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, like, girl, are you an Olympic gymnast? Because

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Speaker 1: soon he can do your job, but you can't. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you cannot play basketball like Angel Rees Okay, but she

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Speaker 1: can model like you because she's hella tall. Fine, she

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Speaker 3: I mean. And then you know, the modeling world is changing.

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Speaker 3: It's more inclusive. You have lines like Fincy that have

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Speaker 3: So like, girl, you don't. It's not a monolith people.

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Speaker 3: Anybody can be a model as long as they are

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Speaker 3: hired to walk their ass down that shit with whatever

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Speaker 1: Said, it says with nearly four years in industry, her

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Speaker 1: is Avery Hussleman. Husslemen argue that such crossovers undermine the

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Speaker 1: a model play in the Wnba. Yes you could if

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Speaker 1: you could play, Okay, you could do both. Obviously, no

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Speaker 1: one would let models go compete for Olympic gold, she

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Speaker 1: said in the two minute rant. So my question for

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Speaker 1: Lee walk the Victoria's Secret run Way. She extended her

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Speaker 1: critique to influencers, calling the decisions beyond unfair to those

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Speaker 1: Here's the thing y'all get yelled at, screamed at, like

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Speaker 1: that's the bunt of y'all fucking job. Because we watched

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Speaker 1: who wants what's the tarbing show? American Model?

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Speaker 3: We wished.

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Speaker 1: All I saw was abuse, That's all I saw. Okay,

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Speaker 1: pretty faces getting abused. Motherfuckers forced you to cut your

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Speaker 3: You know, tough industry. Honestly, they be getting you gotta

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Angel Reese didn't get hazed. So maybe

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Speaker 1: that's the hard work she's referring to. You know what

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I mean I guess that they have to

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Speaker 3: a certain way, But I still don't feel like it's

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Speaker 1: Now the bitches up there in knock Kneed. Now you

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Speaker 1: get Charles and miss what's her name up there, that's

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Speaker 1: a little bit more.

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Speaker 3: It just depends on who line they walking for. Ship

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Speaker 3: need representation for out of here? Uh Halseleman. So like

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Speaker 3: go By, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Did you did you see the Turkey leg Hut ship

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Speaker 1: that's going on?

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Speaker 3: What is going on with that? Because I saw people

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Speaker 3: comparing them to James Saint Patrick and what was her name?

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Speaker 1: Tasha Saint Patrick here, just tearing the whole shit down basically, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like so so right now, so I don't know have

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Speaker 1: you seen the Okay, let me let me back up

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Speaker 1: a little bit. So the Turkey Leg Hut owners, the

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Speaker 1: it's Nick Nikia Holmes and I can't even remember what

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Speaker 1: I want to say he's in jail because I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: pretty sure he torched the place in a couple other businesses, right,

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Speaker 1: but apparently she's with another guy. So this is a

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Speaker 1: headline from the Daily Mail. It says Nikia Holmes Homes

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Speaker 1: forty five, is accused of hindering the apprehension of a

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Speaker 1: known felon identified as Jonathan Salazon, who was wanted for

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Speaker 1: and there's before and after pictures of what this girl

434
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 1: would normally look like on a day to day basis

435
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: and how she was looking after he abused her. Right,

436
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:07,160
Speaker 1: so then he said. Deputies said season was captured after

437
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: fleeing holmes holmes home in the Bridgeland area of West

438
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 1: Harris County. That's uh Houston, where he had been hiding.

439
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 1: According to Harris County court records, Holmes has been charged

440
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: with one count of hindering apprehension, of apprehension or prosecution

441
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:28,679
Speaker 1: of unknown felon, a serious offense that prosecutors say unfolded

442
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 1: at her own home. She was taken into custody by

443
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 1: the Harris County Sheriff's Office and booked into jail before

444
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,880
Speaker 1: being released Thursday morning. So Deputies with the Harris County

445
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:44,320
Speaker 1: Sheriff's Office said they were staking out Holmes's residence in

446
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,320
Speaker 1: the Bridgeland area of the city when they received a

447
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:53,120
Speaker 1: tip that wanted suspect was hiding inside. So anyway, you're

448
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: what an abuser? This man is wanted by the police

449
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 1: for beaten the shit.

450
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 3: Almost death that woman. He beat her with a tire iron, like.

451
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 1: He tried to feel recognizable, yes, and then there's video

452
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:13,400
Speaker 1: of him like she's he's like kicking kicking her ferociously

453
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:17,160
Speaker 1: on a sofa, Like there's video out there of him,

454
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: you know, doing this abuse and it's and it's crazy, like,

455
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 1: how could you I could not be with a man

456
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 1: who would do something like that to another woman.

457
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:26,359
Speaker 3: No, because when.

458
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and her mug and her mug shot, her lip

459
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: looked a little swollen.

460
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 3: It might have started already.

461
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you might have popped your ass a little quick,

462
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 1: little one too.

463
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 3: I'm gonna taking something. If you hiding a nigga in

464
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 3: your house, all right, if you listening to the sound

465
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 3: of my voice, this is God speaking through me. If

466
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 3: you are hiding a nigga in your house right now

467
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 3: from the police, I need you to get him out

468
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 3: of there right now. You're going to jail. You're going

469
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,879
Speaker 3: to just like that girl who had Derek Groves ass

470
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 3: from New Orleans hid up in her her Atlanta apartment.

471
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:10,879
Speaker 3: What is going on with y'all? Ain't no dick that good?

472
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: Yes, now you're going to jail.

473
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 3: You're going to jail. Imagine in your house arguing with

474
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 3: a nigga, You hiding nigga. You need to be the

475
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 3: most quietest motherfucker around, but you here arguing like you legal,

476
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 3: because that's not That's how he got caught the police.

477
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 3: Somebody called the police because they was over there arguing.

478
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and somebody called the police here, and like the fuck,

479
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: what is happening?

480
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 3: I don't want no dick that good?

481
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: What is a esteem?

482
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 3: Like?

483
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,400
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like this is I always

484
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: you always have to go back like what is this

485
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 1: person's the girl with turkey? Like hut girl? You know

486
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Beautiful that God abused beautiful girl too.

487
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: What what's up with y'all? What's up with the steam

488
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:59,800
Speaker 1: that you allow a person like this to have access

489
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:00,120
Speaker 1: to you?

490
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 3: Right?

491
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You can have all the

492
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: money in the world like you see people with certain

493
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 1: like type of niggas is like, why something you are

494
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: not loving on yourself and you looking for something outside

495
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: of you.

496
00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 3: Right when you have devil a convicted feeling that's hiding

497
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 3: from the police and your shit, or a nigga who

498
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:24,280
Speaker 3: bet a woman nearly all to death with a time

499
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 3: I'm praying for y'all.

500
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't doubt that the ex husband probably used

501
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: to put hands on her eyes too, because he seemed

502
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: a little like little sassy. You know what I'm saying.

503
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm really afraid of the sassy men because I believe

504
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: often times they really don't even like women for real,

505
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: so that's why they be so aggravated. Niggas be battling

506
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: the sexuality.

507
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 3: So they just be mad.

508
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: So maybe she's used to meaning abusive relationships too, I

509
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,679
Speaker 1: don't know, but it ain't nothing to think about it.

510
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 3: She got some time to think about it because she's

511
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 3: about to sit in there jail. No, she already she

512
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 3: already bond out.

513
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. They bonded out.

514
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 3: Terrible, terrible, you know what. I just want her to

515
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,719
Speaker 3: turn it around and open up another restaurant, because her

516
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 3: restaurant was so successful. Everybody liked it all across the country.

517
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 3: People were supporting that restaurant, you know. So I just

518
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 3: want her to get it together. We're gonna pray for

519
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 3: your sister, that you find your way back, all right.

520
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: When I used to eat, hold on, when I used

521
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: to in poetry, I always wanted to open a turkey

522
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: I won't tell y'all name, but I wanted to open

523
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: a place like only selling turkey wings. That's one of

524
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 1: the things I missed, turkey wings. Like, oh yeah, girl

525
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,120
Speaker 1: with all that onions and peppers on its fucking turkey wings.

526
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here for it, all right. So I don't

527
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 3: know if y'all saw this, but there was a woman

528
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 3: she shared an emotional moment when she realized her husband

529
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 3: did not want her, and it's said it quotes her sister.

530
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 3: He looked at other girls, other girls like he was

531
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 3: embarrassed to me. And she posted a video of her

532
00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 3: and her husband there almosten they seem to be on

533
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 3: a cruise, and she said, this is a day I

534
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 3: realized he doesn't want me, and he just looks a

535
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 3: little frustrated he's not paying her much attention. But she

536
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 3: looked like she might be a little annoying right here.

537
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 3: I don't know.

538
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 1: If Yeah, she's tugging on his beard and shit. So

539
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,200
Speaker 1: it's a couple of different things, right, And two things

540
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 1: could be true.

541
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 3: Right.

542
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,040
Speaker 1: He could very well may have been acting distant that day.

543
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: We don't know. That's the only video she posted of

544
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: him acting a way. There's other videos of him looking

545
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: like he's having fun, right, right, So maybe she was

546
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: a little bit intoxicated in that video and being annoying

547
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: and obnoxious, or like some people, like adults, like to

548
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: be in the moment, like I like to be in

549
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,959
Speaker 1: a moment, especially on vacation. Like, bit, why is your

550
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: phone even working on the cruise? Okay, that's the first

551
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 1: thing you spent money for Wi Fi to post content

552
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: for people who don't even fucking like you in real life, and.

553
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 3: They're not here.

554
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: They not here, you know what I'm saying. So maybe

555
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 1: he doesn't want the phone in his face his entire tripe,

556
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: just wanted to.

557
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 3: Relax, or maybe he don't like her motherfucker dance. But

558
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 3: it says that he married her that.

559
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 1: Same year, right, like the video crying and she was

560
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: saying how like her home even his homeboys told her,

561
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: you know, about him. She didn't go into detail really,

562
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,960
Speaker 1: and I think she already had kids prior to him,

563
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: and she was saying how she sustained from having sex

564
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: for two whole years, so when she met him, she

565
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: really thought that God had sent him.

566
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 3: M hm.

567
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Because she was just trying

568
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: to clear her energy and then now this man pops up.

569
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: She was like, I wasn't looking for nobody. He just

570
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: came out of nowhere, and she just thought he was

571
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: the one now to be married and feeling like he

572
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: doesn't like.

573
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 3: Her, Well, you know what, they might just be going

574
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 3: through a rough patch. I've never seen one marriage that

575
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 3: existed where they was just in love the whole time,

576
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 3: not a single one. So I mean, y'all was coming

577
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 3: a little early, but y'all might be able to make

578
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:56,640
Speaker 3: it through shit.

579
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. The most disturbing part about this is

580
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: the comments, Like the things that people are saying is,

581
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: you know, specifically the men saying how she needs and

582
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: I saw one of our friends in the comments talk

583
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: about how she need to lose weight and get herself together.

584
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: The thing is, y'all, niggas don't be looking at y'allself.

585
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 3: Because niggas get there.

586
00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: Yes, she has gained some weight since the wedding, because

587
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,000
Speaker 1: I went through her Instagram page. It is Kiky, the

588
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: real Missus Jones. Okay, so missus Jones is not happy

589
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 1: with mister Jones. And she had on her wedding dress

590
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: in one of the videos and it wasn't zipping up

591
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:34,960
Speaker 1: in the back. No more so she has gained weight

592
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: since the actual wedding. Right leationships do that just sometimes

593
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:42,520
Speaker 1: to both of them, ne to get together and work out, right,

594
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: But to have people in the comments saying that that's

595
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: the reason why this fat ass nigga don't like her.

596
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: That bothers me a little bit. Okay, yeah, because they

597
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: both can stand and so can I. Right let me

598
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: two is a couple pounds. They both can stand it.

599
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,680
Speaker 1: So to make that the reason why her husband probably

600
00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: doesn't like her is very mean.

601
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 3: Yeah it is, okayah, but even don't do it, even

602
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 3: if to get in shape, do it for you. Fuck

603
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: doing it for somebody else, like.

604
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 1: When you when you got a partner, like why wouldn't

605
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: you want to do it? Also do it for your partner?

606
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: You know, I was having a conversation with one of

607
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: my friends recently, and he's having a whole lot of

608
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: health issues and it just sounds like he's trying to

609
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: blame his ex wife a little bit. And I actually asked, Hi,

610
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, are you blaming your ex wife for your

611
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: current condition because tensing that she was. Yeah, Well he

612
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: ain't fat no more because he's hell sick.

613
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 3: Oh.

614
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: He was saying, like when he was bigger, but he didn't,

615
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: he didn't lose the weight like willingly, Like he got

616
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: really sick and dropped hell of weight right, like unrecognizable.

617
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 1: I'm sure I haven't seen him in person yet. Yeah

618
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 1: he hasn't. Yeah, exactly, not healthy weight. So in the

619
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: midst of a conversation, he was saying, how you know

620
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 1: they would work out together, but then she she would stopped.

621
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 1: She wasn't being consistent. I said, Okay, what does her

622
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: mean consistent have to do with you being consistent?

623
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 3: I guess me.

624
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: You are in a partnership. It is like, you know,

625
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:08,719
Speaker 1: when you kind of fall off a little bit, your

626
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: partner should be there to pick you up a little bit.

627
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 3: Right, invite the first version.

628
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 1: But she's skinny, nigga, you need to work out more

629
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 1: than anything. Not to say skinny people don't need to

630
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: work out, because just because you're skinny doesn't mean you're healthy, right,

631
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 1: But you were clearly unhealthy because now it has since

632
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 1: caught up.

633
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: With you and called illness. Mm hmm.

634
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: So now you want to blame her for not being consistent.

635
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,960
Speaker 1: You weren't consistent. You lack discipline, You lacked discipline.

636
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 3: You're saying, like, y'all, I did that seventy five hard

637
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 3: and I did so good, and then I went and

638
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 3: did seventy five fact, and now I'm just that yeah again,

639
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 3: Like it's so hard to keep that weight off, y'all.

640
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, but at least, shit, you've done it twice,

641
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: bitch in the last couple of years. I've done in

642
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 1: no time. And one thing I haven't done is gained

643
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: some extra weight. But a bitch, do not do not

644
00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: be losing. No, I won't say that. As a matter

645
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: of fact, I have actually lost like fifteen pounds in

646
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: the last couple of years. Am I have lost weight?

647
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 1: It just be looking different every time in coming goes. Yeah,

648
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: it don't come bright the same it did not, bitch.

649
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 1: Be careful, you gotta be careful. Because I really be

650
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: working on that little pocket of fat underneath the bro

651
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: like the bra fat. I really hate that shit.

652
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that little bulls right there in.

653
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 1: The side of the titty like this little yeah.

654
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 3: I want it tight right there. No, that missed. It

655
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 3: makes me so mad because I ain't got no titties

656
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:38,480
Speaker 3: as it is, how I got the nerve to have

657
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 3: a little piece of titty on the side.

658
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 1: Fat pocket, I hate it, said fat pocket.

659
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 3: I always want. I'm about to get my body done fucked.

660
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 3: I'm just tired of like yo yo dying and yoyo weight,

661
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 3: like gaining weight, losing weight, and wait so hard.

662
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: You commit, though you will commit, but I think what

663
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: happens is like you started looking super fun and a

664
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: bit when I stopped this shit. That's what I'm saying.

665
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: Like that, that's what a discipline kicks in and that

666
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: and then like this is just a lifestyle, you know

667
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I am tired of eating. I'm tired

668
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: of trying to figure out the fun I'm gonna eat

669
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,439
Speaker 1: and I barely eat. That is my problem. I don't

670
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:21,959
Speaker 1: eat enough.

671
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 3: And see I don't get tired.

672
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm tired to think about what the fuck I'm a

673
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: cooked to night. That shit really be taking up too

674
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: much space on my damn brain. So I eat cereal

675
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: for dinner a lot, which is ain't nothing but fucking carbs,

676
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 1: get butter and jelly sandwiches. You a kid, fucking girl,

677
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: I don't learn. I don't perfect them my boba from

678
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: the house. I'll be drinking boba tea all fucking date.

679
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: They're not about starch and sugar. So yeah, I just

680
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 1: need to cut the sugar in the bread and I'll

681
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: be good and eat more protein. But then it's just

682
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 1: like salmon doesn't taste good to me anymore.

683
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 3: I love salmon. Can this be our episode? We didn't

684
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 3: talk forty minutest's I got a dumb bitch story.

685
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 4: That why he's fucking stupid. It's a playplay episode, y'all.

686
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:17,040
Speaker 4: Let me go turn the light on. We'll have her

687
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 4: actual topic for y'all ass next week.

688
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 3: Next week, listen, I want to talk about ghosts and

689
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 3: ancestors and I want to invite this I want to

690
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 3: invite this person on who like really be about their life.

691
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,400
Speaker 3: So if y'all scary, y'all probably don't want to tune in, But.

692
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: Like they summons ghost interesting, Why you have to add that?

693
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 3: I just I just trug more when they're black.

694
00:35:52,880 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 1: You see, you judge people more when they all right. Yeah,

695
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 1: I believe him.

696
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, look at them, I believe him. You know.

697
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: That was an ongoing argument between me and one of

698
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: my She's still a friend of my mind, but we

699
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,919
Speaker 1: don't talk no more. But Sloan Bella, remember the lady

700
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: Sloan Bello on YouTube, the one yeah like yeah, presenting

701
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: all the diddy shit. She was saying that this shit

702
00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 1: was gonna happen before it happened and all that shit.

703
00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 1: So she's like a psychic on YouTube.

704
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 3: Mm hm.

705
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: So I would tune into slom Bella. My homegirl was

706
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,399
Speaker 1: tune into this black girl on TikTok. I don't even

707
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 1: know her name, and the.

708
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 3: Bitch would want to argue with me about who was

709
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 3: more tapped in, Like girl what?

710
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: First of all, like, once you get to a certain

711
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:43,840
Speaker 1: level of spirituality, you realize that color like skin tone.

712
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: Because she was saying, like this white bitch throwing like

713
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: somebody feeding her information. She's not really like getting information,

714
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like it's not really just

715
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: coming to her. She's she's all in Hollywood and somebody's

716
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 1: giving her the information and she's presenting it on YouTube.

717
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 1: That was her theory, right, And I'm like, nobody was

718
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: checking for slowing Bella. But she's been on YouTube, Ben

719
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: had clients, but it wasn't until the Diddy situation that

720
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,319
Speaker 1: she like really like blew up on YouTube. But she's

721
00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: been on YouTube for fucking years, right, and so has

722
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 1: this other girl been on TikTok? But why do you

723
00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: want to argue with me about who's more tapped in?

724
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: Because this is a white woman versus like basically what

725
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: you saying, Like, I trust him because he's black. You know,

726
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: you have discernment, right, That's that's the power of discernment.

727
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: You know when something feels right to you. So it

728
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,319
Speaker 1: felt wrong to her, and it felt right to me.

729
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 1: I didn't think anything was wrong with Sloan Bella, like

730
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 1: I didn't. I don't think she's a fraud whatsoever. Sometimes

731
00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:50,279
Speaker 1: people reincarnate different, bitch. Next time, I hope, I was

732
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: about to say, I hope I come back as a

733
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 1: rich white man. But what if black people in power?

734
00:37:54,239 --> 00:38:04,280
Speaker 1: When I come back, I come back cast a white nigga?

735
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 3: Like wait a minute, and that's what you get, and

736
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 3: that's how the cookie crumbles, right. All right, coming to this,

737
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: we're gonna hear something from President Malik. Everybody, President Malik,

738
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 3: State of the Union, teach for President everybody, and.

739
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: He don't come ons and this shit fucked up. That's

740
00:38:35,640 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: gonna be the real ship. President Trump is probably the

741
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 1: closest thing we're gonna get to a nigga president. They

742
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: was trying to talk to you about Obama, but we

743
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 1: got a real nigga in office. And I mean like

744
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 1: a real nigga who do real shit. I'm talking about

745
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,240
Speaker 1: a real nigga because it's a difference between black people

746
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 1: and niggas.

747
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,320
Speaker 3: Because it's definitely some niggahit going on.

748
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: Some nigga shit going on.

749
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so I listen. I think I got

750
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 3: a couple of dumb bitch stories we haven't shared, so

751
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna read a couple of them and then

752
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 3: we're gonna go to fuck home today. Okay, let's what's

753
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:08,120
Speaker 3: gonna happen. All right, Listen to this one.

754
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: All right?

755
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 3: This is from Oh I can't say it's anonymous. It

756
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 3: says hey AJ and Tampam, I hope you guys read

757
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 3: this sooner than later. I'm in a by and Nate.

758
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 3: I don't know if this is the dumbest story or what,

759
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 3: but yeah, it probably is. All right. I've been with

760
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 3: my husband and that's in quotations for almost eight years,

761
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 3: and I put it in quotes because we've never officially married.

762
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 3: We have two kids together and I have two for

763
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 3: my previous marriage. We have been through a lot of

764
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 3: everything and we've gotten through it together and I love

765
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 3: him at a deep level. There was always there has

766
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 3: always been something missing, and me, being an Aquarius woman,

767
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,320
Speaker 3: I'm going to seek it. The sex is great between us,

768
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 3: and at this point I think it's an intellectual thing

769
00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 3: more than sexual. When he was in prison and for

770
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 3: the last two years, I had sex with this man

771
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 3: who I believe was going to be a late night creep.

772
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 3: I know I'm not in love with him, but I

773
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 3: can't seem to stop thinking about him. I continuously delete

774
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 3: him from my Snap friends and then add him back

775
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 3: once a month or two passes. I feel so bad

776
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 3: talking to him because I don't think my old man

777
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 3: is cheating, but it feels so good. On top of that,

778
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 3: old dude knows that my old man is home, and

779
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:30,239
Speaker 3: he's okay with having what I can give what I

780
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 3: can give home. I'm at a crossroads here. Oh yeah,

781
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 3: we fucked more than once.

782
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: Okay. She said it's an intellectual thing, so meaning like

783
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 1: she is more intellectually like yoked with the other guy

784
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: or her husband.

785
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,399
Speaker 3: No, she ain't say the other guy was smarter. She

786
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 3: just said, oh no, she says she do like talking

787
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 3: to him, so I'm assuming like the conversation is better.

788
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,279
Speaker 1: So she likes talking to the side guy.

789
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she also had sex with him.

790
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: Listen. One thing I have realized is that I cannot

791
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: be with somebody that I deem right. Somebody else may

792
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 1: deem them smarter, but if I deem you less smarter

793
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: than me, it's gonna be a fucking problem.

794
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 3: Right.

795
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: You gotta be as smart of me, as as smart

796
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 1: as me, or smarter, right, because it is It's like

797
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 1: I for me, I'm not gonna say I'm a what

798
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: was it a sapial sexual. I'm not necessarily a sapio sexual.

799
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: But I do love intellect like, I like figure, I

800
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: like to converse, I like to you know, bunks ideas

801
00:41:37,520 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 1: off of people. I don't want to always be the

802
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: one talking. I want you to teach me something. I

803
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: want to be able to teach you some shit. Now,

804
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 1: I have realized that some black men in particular don't

805
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: like smart women like they want to be able to

806
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,880
Speaker 1: be the one to teach you all the shit right.

807
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: And if you know anything off them that you know

808
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 3: is the problem besides how to make a biscuit right.

809
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:01,280
Speaker 1: So I can't. I don't want to be the problem

810
00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 1: solver all the time in my relationship, but I'm naturally

811
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 1: a problem solver right when it comes to like mechanics,

812
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: like I'm fixing shit, you know what I'm saying. So

813
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: I want my partner to also be able to do

814
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: those things. Yeah, I can't. I cannot deal with somebody

815
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 1: that always asking me fucking questions if you throw't fucking.

816
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 3: Google that shit, Google free all right, listen. So I

817
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:28,319
Speaker 3: responded to her in the DMS and I said, hey, boo,

818
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 3: this is definitely a dumpish story. I said, you're gonna

819
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 3: get your head knock between the washer and dryer. Friend,

820
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,320
Speaker 3: I said, so, why y'all not married after eight years?

821
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 3: Do you even want him? Still? Are you not scared?

822
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 3: And I said, you said he home from prison. What

823
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 3: nigga play like that? I ain't say that part. Then

824
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 3: I said what do what he? Oh, I don't know

825
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 3: what the funk. I was trying to say what and couldn't. No,

826
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 3: I said what does he? And could he do? No?

827
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 3: What could he do to you if he finds out

828
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:06,760
Speaker 3: you giving his poom pum away tam And then she responded, Okay,

829
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 3: I don't know. He makes a lot of excuses. I

830
00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 3: can tell you that I'm not getting on the knee

831
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 3: or asking again. Yes, I've asked him like two times before,

832
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 3: and he always.

833
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: Asked him to marry.

834
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 3: Yes, goodl do that. I love him and I love

835
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 3: the bond that we have, but I want more life

836
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:34,080
Speaker 3: is sure, and then responded, no, definitely not scared. He's

837
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 3: a sweetheart, just not what he's not when he's drunk.

838
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,399
Speaker 3: He went to prison for fighting my brother. We've all

839
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 3: made amends and treated the situation like adults. Okay they okay, waitit, wait.

840
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:47,960
Speaker 1: A minute, let's back up. Don't don't don't forget where

841
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:51,120
Speaker 1: you're at. She says she's gotten on knee.

842
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 3: On the knee twice, she said, I've asked, but I

843
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 3: didn't get on the knee.

844
00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, okay, I'm sorry friend, all right, So

845
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: she has asked him twice and I would like to

846
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: know what his response was. Is he saying, Wade, he's

847
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: trying to wait till you get his money, right, like

848
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: he always.

849
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 3: That's what she said. She didn't go straight up, no,

850
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 3: she ain't going too detail.

851
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:16,800
Speaker 1: So when she started, she said that that's my husband.

852
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 1: So under God's eye, she's saying that's her husband. He

853
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 1: havn't like officially Okay, I mean, ah, you know, huh,

854
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: y'all live together. You know what it says, he's living

855
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: someplace else, kids together. But listen, there's there's a lot

856
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:36,600
Speaker 1: of perks. People act like marriage is not like because

857
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: of the society we live in, right, and something happened

858
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: to a nigga, Yeah, I need to have paperwork on

859
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: that ass if something happened, right, but maybe he doesn't

860
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: have anything to leave it. That's what y'all really should

861
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: be working on instead of getting married. I do not

862
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: understand people who in marriage only costs as much as

863
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: a marriage license. Right, it does not cost thirty forty

864
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 1: fifty one hundred thousand dollars. These weddings m hm right.

865
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: So if y'all really wanted to be married on costs

866
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: nothing for real? You know what I'm saying to get

867
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: the marriage license.

868
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 3: Right, But listener, if you leave here, if we together,

869
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 3: you leave here, and you ain't leave me with no money.

870
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 1: Cremation, cremation, girl, you you gonna fuck grinding up in

871
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: one of those unmarked graves like let.

872
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 3: This sainty cream. Maybe Nigga for fifteen hundred, I might

873
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:27,720
Speaker 3: have went up. I won't put you in no power box,

874
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 3: but I'm definitely gonna put you in the canus.

875
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm about to start selling caskets, man, I'm might have

876
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: started a wholesale casket business because one thing for sure,

877
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:37,760
Speaker 1: niggas is always dying.

878
00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,439
Speaker 3: Oh you should do custom caskets.

879
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,439
Speaker 1: Yes, girl, I'm about to start ordering shit in bulk.

880
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: I seen them. Listen, Ali Baba got everything, bit.

881
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 3: But dad's a yo shit diamond studied, all right, listen

882
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,680
Speaker 3: to this, all right? So she said I actually told

883
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 3: him I had sex with pop. I ain't gonna say

884
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 3: that when he was in jail, this person, while he

885
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:02,720
Speaker 3: was in jail to be sentenced, that's his little nickname

886
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 3: I gave him. I won't say it though, but he

887
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,279
Speaker 3: doesn't know how many times we had sex or that

888
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 3: I still talk to him. I keep telling him that

889
00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 3: I want to keep to date other people, and he

890
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 3: just and he just keeps telling me, that's what you

891
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 3: think you want.

892
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 1: Girl.

893
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 3: Don't play with that nigga. You girl there anything that's scary,

894
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 3: ain't funny. That ain't funny. That's not joke. I mean

895
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 3: it was funny, but it's not a joke. All right.

896
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 3: Today one of my high school boyfriends hit my DMS

897
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 3: and I'm like, what the fuck. We had a long

898
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 3: conversation and he wants to call me back, but he's

899
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 3: in a relationship too. All I know, Tam Bam, is

900
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 3: that I want to be happy. Everything is finally falling

901
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 3: in place with my life and career. I'm am, I

902
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 3: tripping a need to calm down or take this man

903
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 3: as he is, or just jump off the.

904
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,959
Speaker 1: Porridge, Nah dog, get out, get jump get off the house,

905
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,360
Speaker 1: jump off the porch. I feel like you need to

906
00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,239
Speaker 1: break up with this guy. Okay, you don't like him,

907
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:07,280
Speaker 1: you don't like him.

908
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:10,680
Speaker 3: Uh, you comfortable, that's what That's what it sounds like.

909
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 3: You're just comfortable with him. He's secure. Yeah, he's someone

910
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 3: who's secure.

911
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,439
Speaker 1: I need to know how much money we talking about,

912
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: Like it's a lot of other things. I want, like

913
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: to calculate to understand why she wants to be with

914
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: the guy who was in prison. And I understand he

915
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 1: went to jail over your ass, right, because I'm pretty

916
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: sure the brother him and the brother probably started fighting

917
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 1: over something between you and him? Or why was it

918
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 1: over a spades game? Like what the fuck was this

919
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: fighting about? I want to know that too. I'm sure

920
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 1: it had something to do with her be like, yeah,

921
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,399
Speaker 1: it don't be enough information. I'd be wanting.

922
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 3: You need to let my bitches. We need to let

923
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 3: the girls call us, like I'm gonna try to get

924
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 3: out this week because I have so many questions. All right,

925
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 3: So this one, this is another one from a listener.

926
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 3: So I know y'all do dumb bitch stories, but do

927
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,160
Speaker 3: y'all give dumb bitch advice? Because I had a question.

928
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: We give good bad advice all the time.

929
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 3: Right, So take it or leave it, because I don't

930
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 3: know which way it's gonna go. It's a crapshoot or

931
00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 3: bad good advice. I So I know Tam mitchin she

932
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 3: had a young thing. I wanted to know what's the

933
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 3: age difference, because I'm thirty two and I met a

934
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 3: twenty one year old. I was going to a board

935
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,959
Speaker 3: mission when I found out his age. But he conversates

936
00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 3: better than the forty something girl I was talking to,

937
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,799
Speaker 3: and I actually shot my shot at him because he's

938
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 3: so fine. He was my maintenance man. He fixed my fridge,

939
00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 3: so I didn't shoot my shot there the first time.

940
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 3: Because I was sick and looking raggedy, I couldn't stop

941
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 3: thinking about him, so I tried to have the office

942
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 3: share his number, but they would not. No, they're not

943
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 3: gonna give you the babies man pulled up a bit

944
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 3: hold on where she? Where was that at? I made

945
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 3: it seem like I had a question for him, but

946
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 3: they didn't want to share, so I busted by fridge

947
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 3: light so they could send him back. I left my

948
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 3: number on the fridge and we've been talking ever since.

949
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 3: The first question I asked was how old is are you?

950
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 3: He said twenty one. I was going to slowly stop

951
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,800
Speaker 3: talking to him, but the convo is so so good.

952
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 3: I'm attracted to him, but he's eleven years younger. I

953
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 3: usually don't do this, so if y'all want to include

954
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:26,839
Speaker 3: this in your show.

955
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: I was always saying what they usually don't.

956
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 3: I don't him, I don't do this all the time.

957
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 3: It's and she said, she loves us. We love you two, girlfriend,

958
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 3: we love you so much. But girl, you wanted that

959
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 3: dick badge. You was in there with a hammer and

960
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,879
Speaker 3: you're refrigerator busting a light out, about to cut your

961
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 3: motherfuck itself, you got eggs.

962
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, thirty something in twenty one to eleven years,

963
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 1: you know. So she's thirty two, he's twenty one. You know,

964
00:50:07,760 --> 00:50:12,240
Speaker 1: women already mature way faster than men. So I personally

965
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 1: think that's like, kind of that's too far, eleven years.

966
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:20,359
Speaker 1: And it's not because the eleven years really isn't the

967
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 1: problem because if he was in his thirties and she

968
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: was in her forties, he would probably be a little

969
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:30,839
Speaker 1: bit more mature. I know she said that he converses,

970
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:36,240
Speaker 1: well are they, But he isn't a different life cycle,

971
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, he's working, he's

972
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: probably still trying to figure himself out. He hasn't. I

973
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: think men need to reach the stage where they're making

974
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,040
Speaker 1: the money they want to make right. So unless you

975
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: just feel like getting knocked down, I hope you ain't

976
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: just trying. You're not trying to make this your man.

977
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the only thing like, and you're not if

978
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 3: you just haven't. I mean, I'm twenty one is so

979
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 3: young to me, but y'all know that far to me.

980
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 3: She thirty, she thirty one, thirty two. If I was

981
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 3: fucking a twenty one year old, I need to go

982
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 3: to jail. That's how I feel. But for her, I mean,

983
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 3: it's just she's just having if she's trying to take

984
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 3: him serious, like she said, the conversation is so good.

985
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:25,799
Speaker 3: Stop talking to that nigga and do it to him

986
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:27,800
Speaker 3: and send him back with his two belt.

987
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, we could literally have a twenty one year old

988
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:33,120
Speaker 1: son right now.

989
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 3: And if some thirty year old bitch was punksting on

990
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 3: my twenty one year old boy even about it, you

991
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 3: couldn't sit about it. You couldn't do a motherfucking thing.

992
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,480
Speaker 3: You can't do nothing. It's a grown woman and a

993
00:51:47,520 --> 00:51:48,600
Speaker 3: grown man. By law.

994
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make her feel like some type of way

995
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 1: because first of all, why because I'm a No, you

996
00:51:55,920 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 1: ain't gonna know shit, Why you get that, nigga, I

997
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:02,919
Speaker 1: still live at home. Why you can't find a man

998
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: your age? Would be my not for not for the listener,

999
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 1: but that would be my question for my if somebody

1000
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: smashing on my son, Like, I want to know what's

1001
00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 1: going on with you and your your dating pool. I'd

1002
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: like to know because I would think that you would

1003
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 1: want to a forty to fifty year old man as

1004
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: opposed to a twenty ye old nigga.

1005
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:21,080
Speaker 3: Well, I don't think she like trying to take him.

1006
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 3: You're taking serious. I hope you're not trying to brunch

1007
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:27,840
Speaker 3: some sandwiches because it ain't like twenty one and he

1008
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:33,720
Speaker 3: rich like Drayman twenty one and he broke.

1009
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,320
Speaker 1: He's a little different, you know what I mean, And

1010
00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: so he needs to like, he needs space to grow,

1011
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: and he probably needs space to grow with somebody his age.

1012
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

1013
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,880
Speaker 3: Right there, is you in there making tiktoks with that nigga?

1014
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: No, I want to Does she have kids?

1015
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,439
Speaker 3: I don't think so. She didn't say, but I'm sure

1016
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 3: she don't. She leave messages on the refrigerator. Ain't no

1017
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 3: kids in there, mama? Oh no, molder or print the right.

1018
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:09,919
Speaker 1: Girl, have fun, strap up, don't fall in love them

1019
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:11,480
Speaker 1: young cher and be burning girl?

1020
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:17,479
Speaker 3: Yeah maybe having OUI okay, and then the last one.

1021
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 3: All right, hey, y'all, I'm back with another story and

1022
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 3: would love to reign anonymous. Did we do this? I've

1023
00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 3: been messing around with this dude for a while now,

1024
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 3: and sometimes we'll have sleepovers. So the last time he

1025
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 3: stayed at my house, he had fell asleep before me,

1026
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:35,919
Speaker 3: so I decided to get ready for bed as well.

1027
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 3: I go to charge his phone like I normally do,

1028
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 3: and the notification center pops up. I usually don't go

1029
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 3: through that when that does happen, but something was telling

1030
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:48,240
Speaker 3: me to do this this time, and I see tender notifications.

1031
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 3: I started thinking to myself, should I wake him up

1032
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 3: out of his sleep and be on bullshit or just

1033
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,280
Speaker 3: play it cool and wait till the morning. I decided

1034
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 3: to play it cool. But as soon as he opens

1035
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,960
Speaker 3: his eyes, I was like, so you got tender. He

1036
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 3: goes to say he doesn't be on the app and

1037
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:06,239
Speaker 3: having a chance to delete it, So I say, if

1038
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:08,359
Speaker 3: you don't use it, then why do you have an

1039
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 3: active account and getting notifications? Also, it doesn't take long

1040
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 3: to delete an app. I'm just trying to figure out

1041
00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 3: why this is on your phone. Then he flips on me,

1042
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,359
Speaker 3: saying I shouldn't have went through his phone. But mind you,

1043
00:54:19,440 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 3: he's been through mine like four times or more in

1044
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 3: the past. It wasn't a problem when he was doing it,

1045
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:28,040
Speaker 3: but now that I'm caught him, he can't take accountability

1046
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,680
Speaker 3: and trying to turn it on me. We haven't spoke

1047
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 3: all day since that morning, and here we are on

1048
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:36,319
Speaker 3: day two and still haven't heard anything. The silence is

1049
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 3: most definitely a response. That's just showing me that he

1050
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 3: don't mind losing me over an app. I know he's

1051
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 3: probably trying to do the silent punishment treatment and have

1052
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 3: me questioning if I was wrong for going through it.

1053
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 3: But mind you, I don't even have the password to

1054
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 3: his phone. I just seen a notification center. It's having

1055
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:55,280
Speaker 3: tender still installed on the deal. It's having tender still installed.

1056
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 3: A deal breaker for y'all. I want to hear y'all opinions.

1057
00:54:58,080 --> 00:54:59,200
Speaker 3: Thank you lated so much.

1058
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: This has happened to me so a guy who I

1059
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: was dating, right, I don't know. She didn't say it

1060
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,240
Speaker 1: was her boyfriend or not, or what the actual status.

1061
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 3: Is I was messing around with this dude for a while. Now.

1062
00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 3: See that's why you gotta sit around. You gotta like

1063
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 3: have rural boundaries because it like clear cause you.

1064
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: Check yes and no, are you my boyfriend? Like we

1065
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:22,720
Speaker 1: literally got to get these niggas letters.

1066
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:22,920
Speaker 2: Now.

1067
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:25,400
Speaker 1: So I was dating somebody and I remember we were

1068
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 1: sitting at his uh island at his house, and I

1069
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: was like setting up his brokerage account and shit and

1070
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: the cell phones right there he's sitting, He's showing me

1071
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 1: his bank accounts all type of shit, and what's the

1072
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: p the I call it pieces of fish? But plenty

1073
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: of Fish alert popped up, and I feel like that's

1074
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 1: worse than damn Twitter cause it's from so much recycled

1075
00:55:43,320 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 1: peen and pea on.

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00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:47,720
Speaker 3: Uh, it's just like more hook up and fish.

1077
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:51,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you doubt you DTF if you on plenty

1078
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: plenty of fish. So yeah, the alert popped up. I'm like,

1079
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: damn you on plenty of fish. And you know, like

1080
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:59,719
Speaker 1: I'm always like calculating the city I live in too,

1081
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,480
Speaker 1: Like it ain't that many bitches around.

1082
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:06,439
Speaker 3: Here, you it ain't much fish like my good ones.

1083
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: If I well, I should not be fucking with you

1084
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: if you're on a date nap, that's that's just it.

1085
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm not competing with a bunch of fucking on a

1086
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 1: dating app in the city I live in. That's not

1087
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: that fucking big.

1088
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 3: So if I got tender on my phone right now

1089
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 3: and I'm dating someone, that's a problem.

1090
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: So dating and this is my boyfriend is two different things.

1091
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm saying. No, that's what I'm saying. This

1092
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 1: is somebody with no title that I'm fucking with, right.

1093
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: I didn't get mad about it, but it did give

1094
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: me pause, like, is this somebody even want to be

1095
00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:45,520
Speaker 1: fucking with? And you on a dating app? Because I

1096
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: feel like men be on a date and apps really

1097
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 1: like fucking different bitches every week. I really feel like that.

1098
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely continue to fuck with him for

1099
00:56:56,040 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 1: some time. It is one of the reasons why I

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00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,439
Speaker 1: stopped fucking with him, you know what I'm saying, Because

1101
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: I just feel like he was super DCF. So you

1102
00:57:06,600 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: just gotta you gotta I mean, don't be calling that nigga. Okay,

1103
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 1: when somebody giving you the silent treatment like that shit

1104
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 1: is very manipult loud. Yeah, don't be trying to get him,

1105
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 1: get it, get a response from him. The best way

1106
00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 1: to get a nigga back if you want him back

1107
00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: right is to go ghost too. Just no contact either.

1108
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 1: You don't bothered. You have to You have to pretend

1109
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 1: like you're not, even though you might be. You're gonna

1110
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: have to try really, really hard to be not bothered

1111
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 1: because I.

1112
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 3: Didn't give get the best nigga win.

1113
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not like you really went through his

1114
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 1: phone or the phone is sitting there and I see

1115
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 1: the alert pop up, like I can't help I've seen it.

1116
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 1: Now at this point, turn your alerts off to whear

1117
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: shit not coming up on your phone? Girl, my ex

1118
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: we oh, I sent you this ship. Remember I sent

1119
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,200
Speaker 1: you this girl page one day m hm, because as

1120
00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: you follow her, you knew her and she had she

1121
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 1: donet have popped up on both of his niggas cell

1122
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 1: phone like the call. Yeah, I wasn't going through his phone.

1123
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 1: The phone is on the counter. One day, the phone

1124
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: like fell off the back of the couch and it

1125
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: was on the floor, so I went to look at

1126
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,240
Speaker 1: it and pick it up. I thought it was my

1127
00:58:14,320 --> 00:58:17,439
Speaker 1: phone initially, so I don't ever go through people shit.

1128
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: But when you need to know something. The universe has

1129
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:26,200
Speaker 1: a way of telling you, So do with that information

1130
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 1: what you will. But he's definitely fucking people off of

1131
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 1: a tender okay. And if he ain't locked in with

1132
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 1: you yet, he's looking for somebody else. He you not

1133
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 1: the one for him. Get out of there, Get out

1134
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: of there.

1135
00:58:38,600 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 3: But see, I think a little differently because I be

1136
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 3: talking to niggas on apps. I'm single. I'm single, and

1137
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 3: until until we decide we're in a committed relationship, you

1138
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:53,080
Speaker 3: have no control over that, you know, So don't be

1139
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 3: looking at my phone trying to see who else I'm

1140
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 3: talking to because it might be a better nigga than you.

1141
00:58:58,360 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 3: You better tie it.

1142
00:58:59,280 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: Up, you know, So who's next?

1143
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:08,920
Speaker 3: I just feel like, man, your business, if y'all business,

1144
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 3: y'all not, if you that's what you really need to

1145
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 3: have a conversation with about what y'all are, because if

1146
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 3: y'all just we ain't going steady, We just fucking around.

1147
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 3: If y'all just fucking around, then you don't really got

1148
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 3: no leg to stand on questioning nigga about his phone?

1149
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:27,520
Speaker 3: What's going on in it? Yeah, So that's my advice

1150
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:30,640
Speaker 3: to you. Find out who y'all are to each other,

1151
00:59:31,520 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 3: y'all exclusive? Do you want to be exclusive? And if

1152
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 3: y'all been fucking around for a long time and y'all

1153
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 3: just been messing around a long time, and he says

1154
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:41,840
Speaker 3: he don't want to be exclusive, then leave him alone

1155
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 3: because he just fucking that's it.

1156
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what they probably fucking raw. Like I can

1157
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 1: feel it in my spirit that she'd be getting hit okay, right,

1158
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:53,480
Speaker 1: getting hit raw. That's why.

1159
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 3: That's why she feel like, oh you m M. But

1160
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 3: that No, that don't mean no, you just giving the

1161
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 3: wrong pussy.

1162
01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 1: It should mean something, right, we be giving men passes

1163
01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: on that type of nasty ass activity, right because usually

1164
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: I won't say all women right, if we fucking somebody

1165
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 1: else were gonna at least use a condom with the

1166
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: next person.

1167
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 3: Right, Okay, at least at the level.

1168
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:25,480
Speaker 1: Be hitting multiple women raw. And sometimes a nigga just

1169
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 1: never know. So you gotta be careful. So if you

1170
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: like outside like that, and I'm not saying you outside

1171
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: because you're on a dating and app, I understand like

1172
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: you're you are, you are seriously trying to find a partner, right, right.

1173
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 1: That's the difference between men and women on those dating apps.

1174
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: Most men on those dating apps keeping your relationships already

1175
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: and on a dating app trying to find some other pussy.

1176
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 3: Right.

1177
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, so even though they may not have you know,

1178
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 1: established like yes we are together, it's something going on

1179
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: in that relationship. Where like even with this guy, right,

1180
01:00:58,480 --> 01:01:00,760
Speaker 1: the one who I said the plenty fish popped up on,

1181
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 1: I didn't trip on him. I couldn't. But my Niggaho

1182
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:06,360
Speaker 1: phone who's living in the house and me fell off

1183
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:08,240
Speaker 1: the couch, and this bitch is on both of these

1184
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:12,720
Speaker 1: cell phones trip city. Oh absolutely, that might have been

1185
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 1: the last day he was here.

1186
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, fair to my recollection.

1187
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 1: Yes, but if it's just somebody that y'all messing with,

1188
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: like I just when I hear like fucking it's not

1189
01:01:23,920 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: your man, you so you can't you can't really trip

1190
01:01:28,080 --> 01:01:33,320
Speaker 1: on him. So if you want your buddy back, you

1191
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 1: smashed buddy. Even if y'all go on dates and stuff

1192
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:37,920
Speaker 1: like that and out to eat and y'all spend a

1193
01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 1: lot of time together and he's at your house and

1194
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 1: you at his house, you gotta if you want a relationship,

1195
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 1: you have to let him know that, right, And if

1196
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 1: he's not for that, get the fuck up out of there,

1197
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: and maybe you go create you an account online and

1198
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 1: actually find somebody who seriously also wants to be in

1199
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: a relationship with you because.

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01:01:56,000 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 3: He in it. Period. Yeah, that's the end of our

1201
01:01:59,800 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 3: tap talk. That's how we got that was that was

1202
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 3: three of them. But we had an hour, bitch, that's it.

1203
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 3: That's all we got for today.

1204
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: So maybe next week we can definitely set it up

1205
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 1: to where people can call in. I'll figure it out.

1206
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, let's talk, y'all.

1207
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 1: Bitches want to come on the show next week.

1208
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's talk, but y'all talk back to us next week. Period.

1209
01:02:22,160 --> 01:02:24,640
Speaker 1: We can do about five yep, about four or five.

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01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 3: That'll be fun.

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01:02:27,800 --> 01:02:31,520
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01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:37,520
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1220
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1221
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01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 1: And never hold them dumb bitch stories because I'd be

1229
01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: liking those things. Man, I really, cause I ain't a

1230
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 1: dumb bitch no more. I'll have y'all know y'all ain't

1231
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 1: through with me yet. I was one like last year,

1232
01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 1: but not barely but still borderline dumb bitch. Okay, you

1233
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 1: gotta get the fuck out.

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Speaker 3: Buy it there man, du to y'all. Bye.

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