WEBVTT - Ep 208: Questions & Spilled Tea 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:09.760 Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys, 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:15.880 welcome to the episode. So horrible decision now, if you 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:20.120 are a YouTube viewer today, go ahead and announce the 0:00:20.160 --> 0:00:23.159 fucking ship that you're doing. I got preconsent from the 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:26.599 horn Hive on live if it was okay because you 0:00:26.640 --> 0:00:29.880 work with them, you don't work with them. You ain't 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:32.920 even ask me what she sign us up for. Definitely 0:00:33.080 --> 0:00:35.160 was like, you could do it this, but Mandy gonna 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:38.800 say no. I want to know if anybody with a 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:42.440 job asks their friends, hey you think I could do 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:46.120 this at work? And doesn't ask anybody at work but 0:00:46.240 --> 0:00:48.239 ask their friends, Hey can I do you think I 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:50.040 could do this? So when one of the questions comes up, 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:52.320 like what kind of conflicts do you guys have, we 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:55.880 can talk about this moment. I um, we ran a 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:58.040 little bit late, a little a whole lot of late. 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:00.880 So Brilliant Idiots is now at the studio WT of 0:01:00.960 --> 0:01:04.320 Media and unfortunately Nigga's nig and there is a whole 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:07.080 production and their god damn set is a whole thing. 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:10.640 How long is their show? I told you it was 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:13.319 about two hours, and it was about three that they 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.440 needed a studio for so because of that, I am 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:18.399 late to go get my hair done and the extra 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:22.200 hour and a half that we're spending U is what 0:01:22.240 --> 0:01:24.920 they'll do to unbraid and take my hair down, and 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.240 so I have to now do it myself. Do I 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:29.440 have a rat tail comb? No? I have a tiny 0:01:29.440 --> 0:01:34.160 little brush. This ship sucks. You ain't real why you 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.840 mother be doing it? Motherfucking take yo braids out? What 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:39.160 an edge brush? Bro? This sucks so much. I'm not 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:41.720 eve gonna lie y'all. Y'all, honestly, this is gonna ear. 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:43.360 Take you on YouTube so much because you're gonna want 0:01:43.360 --> 0:01:46.399 to help me. Oh my god, I would love to 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:48.640 see the comments for that. Oh yeah, they're gonna be 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:50.680 like just out like niggas always got something to say 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:54.320 when I first off, the fact that there are so 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:57.720 many different ways to take braids out, and I've been 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.960 someone who was taking my hair and they'd be like, 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:01.920 that is even how are you supposed to do it? 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:04.040 The way I take my hair out is the way 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:06.720 I find your hair out. Mind the business that minds you, 0:02:06.960 --> 0:02:13.400 Thank you, whatever you do, mind the business that minds it. 0:02:13.480 --> 0:02:16.640 Felt good. Now I'm gonna trying not to take it 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:18.200 out all the way, so the ship in everywhere. I'm 0:02:18.200 --> 0:02:20.000 gonna just trying to unloosen each one and I'm just 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:23.440 vacuum again. Yes, we will have to vacum again. And 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:27.040 thank you for minding everybody. All right, Fine, Well, we 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:29.880 have a fun show today because we are basically going 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:31.800 to answer all of your questions that you have, and 0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:35.000 we're gonna go through everything that was sent into Horrible 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:38.640 to Patreon, to our stories, to my stories. These are 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:41.400 some really fun questions and there are so many questions 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:43.840 that we actually can't get to them all. But because 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:48.560 Mandy is anal, I'm heavy on the I have anal. 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:53.079 We are going to start with Vanalo so many questions. 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:56.000 But Vanilla Ship today is from healthline dot com What 0:02:56.240 --> 0:03:00.440 causes people to have sexual fetishes? I fucking thought this 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:02.600 was really dope. We definitely should bring somebody onto, like 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:05.520 a therapist or some ship. But you know what's crazy though, 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:08.160 uh and I'm I'm super excited you you did pick 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:12.280 this Vanilla ship, But what's crazy is that I still 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:16.160 don't like that there's some sort of psychological aspect to 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:18.600 our fetishes or our kinks. And I think we we 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:22.240 talked about how I'm like, at least I have. I 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:25.640 hate that it's tied that way, really like because a 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:28.560 lot of yours makes sense, which one. I think that 0:03:28.600 --> 0:03:31.360 you like to be dominant because with men, because I 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:36.200 think your daddy issues. I think you even talked about it. 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:39.200 But yeah, I just feel like niggas get money. That's 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:41.920 why I want to be dominant, bitch, But I do. 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:44.440 I don't know. I just hate the idea that kinks 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:49.440 and and fetishes come from trauma, bonding or something wrong. 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:54.320 And this is why you like, like, okay, tell me 0:03:54.360 --> 0:03:58.240 what in your mind psychologically why someone would like golden showers. 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:01.880 I don't know, butbe they got this. Initially, a b 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:03.400 d L comes up, and if you guys don't know 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:07.839 what that is, that's adult baby diaper lovers community. They say. Um, 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:10.800 the only real sexual aspect of it, in his opinion, 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:13.800 is being attracted to a specific underwear type. He's like, 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:16.479 I relate my fetish to underwear. Seeing a good looking 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:18.360 person in a pair of briefs or a good looking 0:04:18.360 --> 0:04:21.080 guy in a diaper. It's just underwear to me. Um, 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:23.960 it's not a very specific type. Um. And they don't 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:26.039 think this is a mental illness or anything like that. 0:04:26.080 --> 0:04:28.160 Good because I will say too if you guys came 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:30.160 to our live show in New York and Sony Hall, 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.920 we have the diaper lover Boy join us on stage, 0:04:34.120 --> 0:04:36.760 and he got really offended when someone tried to cring 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.719 up his children. Not yeah, they tried to make it 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:41.760 seem like this fetish came from some sort of trauma, 0:04:42.080 --> 0:04:45.200 and he really liked it has nothing to do like 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:48.120 I don't like him for he was upset that someone 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:52.240 tried to connect his kink of liking to be changed 0:04:52.240 --> 0:04:54.279 in a diaper. And there's not a lot of literature 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:56.920 they're saying in a B d L. But he said 0:04:56.960 --> 0:05:01.200 some of his clients have Asperger's UM and get positive 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:04.720 sensory feedback from wearing a bulkier diaper. Um. He says, 0:05:04.800 --> 0:05:08.120 these instances, they're not into the sexual fetish side. Most 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:10.599 of the clients we haven't mentally sound. It's it's really 0:05:10.640 --> 0:05:13.920 more the lifestyle. It's not sex and um. It's about 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:17.480 relaxation and stress relief and taking aspects of that relaxation 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:21.160 from childhood when a time was easier, which I thought 0:05:21.200 --> 0:05:24.320 was interesting too. Nearly two thousand people who practice adult 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:27.560 baby diaper fetish completed an online survey, and mostly men 0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:32.680 said that their behaviors are showed that their association to 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:37.760 it was from their attachment styles and their parental relationships. UM. 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:42.320 For instance, male respondents being more anxious anxiously attached UM 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:44.919 was linked to a desire to be dominated or to 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:48.560 have a daddy. Well, I thought it was cool. Furthermore, 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:53.640 I got a daddy. He just a whole what I do. 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:55.640 It ain't like I yearned for a daddy like I 0:05:55.680 --> 0:05:58.000 had daddy. We saw him every two weekends. I mean, 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:00.280 maybe someone who didn't feel because I mean a dad 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:02.359 could be around, but not maybe isn't acting like a father. 0:06:02.360 --> 0:06:05.080 Because one of my home girls that her baby daddy 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:07.080 technic kids every weekend and she's like, he let me 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:09.800 doing shit? Kid? You coming back like we can do homework. 0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:13.040 We didn't do this. But they're also saying that preference 0:06:13.120 --> 0:06:16.680 and personality, UM, they also have similarities. But yeah, I 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:19.719 did think it was dope. It's basically saying once people 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:22.640 develop a fetish or an interest in a lifestyle, how 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:26.440 they fulfill their desires UM basically determined if it's healthier 0:06:26.520 --> 0:06:32.880 not not. The act itself, So yeah, how they fulfill it? Like, 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:35.880 are you just doing fulfilling it in a healthy way, 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:38.800 like you might like to get spanked, but like are 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.240 you maybe having random people do it that you don't trust? 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:43.640 Are you putting yourself at risk with the diaper fetish? 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:45.679 Like are you doing it with people that are consenting? 0:06:45.720 --> 0:06:47.400 Are you making sure they're in the community too. So 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.240 it's saying it's not the fetish that's the problem, it's 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:53.880 how you execute the fetish that could be the problem. 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:56.160 So I thought that was dope because we do be 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:58.920 acting like people got something funked up with them. For 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:02.880 the you Be Horrid Derve. We actually talk about this 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:06.360 soon you guys will hear an episode UM with um 0:07:06.360 --> 0:07:11.200 Adum not really a b D s M consultant, Troy Um. 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:15.800 We discussed erections and like, um men coming and the 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:17.840 horrid door for this week is don't take the loss 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:21.080 of an erection personally. Just moves on. Just move on. 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:23.120 It happens to all men at some point, and there's 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:26.400 not necessarily anyone to blame if his erection goes soft 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:29.600 halfway through four player sex. Don't take it personally because 0:07:29.600 --> 0:07:34.400 overreacting only makes it last longer makes him feel embarrassed, awkward, emasculated, 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:38.040 even more so that he may be feeling embarrassed without 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:39.800 you saying anything. So instead of pointing it out and 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:43.320 taking heart to it, shift gears, try something else and 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:46.320 resurrect the moment. I think we should ask Edin, have 0:07:46.440 --> 0:07:48.840 you ever lost the direction? And it wasn't for the chick? 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:52.560 Oh yeah, definitely, what is it? I don't I don't know. 0:07:52.840 --> 0:07:55.040 It's like I'm not gonna Lila. I get a little nervous, 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:57.240 nervous when it's like the first time of a new girl. 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:01.200 We we talked about, We've definitely talked about. And that's 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:04.000 the thing too, especially because we talked about with Tiana, 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:07.280 like a man only has two times to show us 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:10.440 he got that thing thing before we're like, nah, bro, 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:14.160 you gotta go. And so the idea that we almost 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:18.440 don't consider that, damn, maybe the first time is gonna 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:22.000 be bad because this this person worked up, he has 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:24.640 he's nervous. Not only is he nervous, especially if you 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:28.120 take time to talk to somebody and like make it 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:30.520 seem like this is about to be the most freakiest, 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:34.839 sexiest you wanted to be the best, but now you've 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:38.680 applied all of this pressure into someone that you're really 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:40.960 about to have an experience with for the first time. 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:43.120 And I know I've done that before. I shared the 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:45.959 story with you guys, Like I stopped midway and was like, 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:50.840 this is not working. Uh yeah, I think that's differently 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:53.439 when someone isn't trying or they're just actually being whack 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:55.880 in the sack. Yeah. But also, like I told y'all 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:59.000 to uh, this was before you know, I got into 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:02.200 a relationship. But when I was a hoh ho you 0:09:02.240 --> 0:09:05.360 know once again, you know that one was Christmas time, 0:09:05.720 --> 0:09:08.400 But when when I really was out here, like I 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:10.720 love to see the people who I was having sex 0:09:10.760 --> 0:09:14.080 with have sex with other people. And so there was 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:17.720 almost a level of expectations because you're not gonna fuck 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:20.800 me weak and I see you, you know, busting down 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:24.360 the next bit. So there was almost what, bro, you're 0:09:24.400 --> 0:09:29.320 not gonna fuck me picking out your braids? Don't you 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.360 dare see here and talk about I don't know what 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:37.480 you're saying. I was just meaning your dominant I'm doing really, bro, 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:39.920 I just say it. Tell you, this is what I 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:42.439 really like about ownership, because could we do this anywhere else? 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:45.040 Could I be such a nixt injinem? I probably could 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:48.040 have been. You could have done this in a lot 0:09:48.080 --> 0:09:54.240 of places. The podcast, uh just environment is none like 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.680 none other. Okay, okay, because I've you know, I'll be 0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:00.160 drinking drinking, I'd be spoken so like I've on the 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.920 podcast and I'm like, oh, this is the whole chill session. Okay, 0:10:04.080 --> 0:10:05.720 all right, this is what we're doing. Would be like 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:08.680 half open or half filled Hennessey bottles. How do you 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:10.640 guys feel about Like, I don't know. This is random 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:12.400 to bring up, but I don't know if I like 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.439 watching people get that lit during podcast. Drink Champs is 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:18.480 all of that at you don't like it, well, I don't. 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:20.480 I mean I wouldn't like it for like other podcasts. 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:23.600 I guess I've never watched Drink Champs. I've just listened 0:10:23.640 --> 0:10:25.040 to a few things. But I mean more so, like 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:27.319 I just don't like when people don't take their works. 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:29.760 And also Drink Champs is different because that's their brand. 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:32.640 It is. I think like sometimes that I walk d 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:35.120 the podcast in different showing people smoking and drinking too much. 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:36.920 I'm like, this is my fun, Like I don't if 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:38.439 you don't make it like, if you're not like, we're 0:10:38.440 --> 0:10:40.960 gonna get drunk this episode, that's cool. Or someone shows 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:43.320 up drunk and everyone else is sober, that's fun in 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:46.320 my opinion. But I don't I mean to see everyone 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:49.560 plan a drunk episode excluding like the format. I feel 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:51.480 like it's not fun. Now I'm starting to think we 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:54.920 should do a special drunk episode. Oh, they should be lit. 0:10:55.080 --> 0:10:58.920 That's fun. It's I mean, i'd be lit sober, but 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:01.959 I mean it's funny because when I did Cocktails the 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:05.560 first episode, shout out to Kiki and Medina their first episode. 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:07.400 You know, they start with a cocktail for their episode, 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:10.280 but they used to drink during Bitch. By the end 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:13.080 of that episode, we was drinking Moscow mules because that 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:15.400 was my drink. So they had the Tito's, they had 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:18.800 the motherfucking Lion juice and ginger beer. By the end, 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:20.600 I had to give off our tour dates and I 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:25.520 was like, so a little bit of the Lennas and 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:30.240 I was like, oh, bitch about we have to memorize 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:33.480 our four dates and locations. And I was like, oh, 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:36.760 we need to adding. We'll speaking up needing the adding 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:39.880 we're gonna get into and speaking of our tour is 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.520 Black Sexcellent. This week I think makes sense to be us. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:44.559 We have been talking about people in the sex revolution 0:11:45.080 --> 0:11:47.520 and a lot of you maybe new and you guys 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:50.200 always love a refresher. So we're gonna tell you what 0:11:50.280 --> 0:11:53.080 Horrible Decisions is how it started, and then we're gonna 0:11:53.080 --> 0:11:57.960 get into questions of our chill us. Um. I basically 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:01.000 thought people should ask us, like the lot of questions aboutroduction. 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:03.440 People always want to know questions about Mandy and I 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:06.400 in our relationship, questions about us separately, things we do 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:13.360 on the show talking over people. Horrible Decisions started. The 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:17.800 idea was it was two sixteen or seventeen, and um, 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:20.120 Mandy and I hadn't seen each other in about five years, 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:24.800 and we had dinner together we ret Sarafina And was 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:27.959 it that dinner? No, it was the dinner that I 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.800 don't know. That was the dinner we discussed the podcast, 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:33.200 but I feel like I said, oh, yeah, she didn't. Yeah, No, 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:35.560 that dinner was just us catching up. You telling me 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:38.839 you'll sugar Daddy paid for your new apartment. That was that. 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:41.520 And then you actually hit me up on the phone 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:46.280 after you did no Chase, No Chaser, with your coworker 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:49.280 at the time, and you know, you were like, I 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:50.760 think we should do a pot and I was like, 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:53.160 and here I go. From day one. I said, well, 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:56.240 he used to be very organized. Um, we should have dinner. 0:12:56.280 --> 0:12:59.120 But I actually owed Weezia dinner anyways, because she didn't. 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:02.720 God just she was gonna fuck. That's how literally we 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:05.560 I was like this, I was he lived in New York, 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:08.360 you live in New York. Y'all definitely gonna fuck. And 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:10.480 how long did you give me? I think two months 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:14.079 or something like that, because I just knew she was 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.120 gonna fuck him. And she never sucked him again, but 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:17.640 I just knew it. So I was like, fun to 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:20.400 be honest with you. Um, I didn't want to because 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:23.600 like since the last time I talked to him now 0:13:23.640 --> 0:13:25.600 he was married. But I feel like, really what really 0:13:25.679 --> 0:13:28.840 kept me was that Bet well damn. Maybe I would 0:13:28.840 --> 0:13:30.920 have did it, but I can't lose. But she didn't 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:34.040 want to lose. So we went to dinner then to 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:37.040 discuss what the show would look like. And it's crazy 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:39.959 because if I'm not mistaken either, I think I ended 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:43.520 up staying with Wheezy the following weekend. Um, but I 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:46.240 had a condom stuck in my pussy. So here we 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:49.000 are hanging out. We parted. I said, this condom stilltly 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:52.120 come out my pussy. So we're hanging out. She's like, well, 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.319 I know a guy now on fifty ninth or whatever. 0:13:54.440 --> 0:13:58.560 Let's go. Let's let's let's go get our vagina's checked together. 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.319 And the woman did pull up condom that was there. 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:04.679 Two days later, she was like, this is great, this 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:09.360 is our first episode, and we literally booked. Then I 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:11.280 think she was packing or something. I can't remember, but 0:14:11.840 --> 0:14:13.679 I went back to that place it's the Walking Guy 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:17.960 on fifty seven and seventh maybe, and I saw her 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:20.040 and I said, oh my goll right, you know I 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:23.040 have a podcast now. And my cost actually came in 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:24.840 here with the condom side of she dud. It took 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:26.640 her no time. She's like, yes, I mean a lot 0:14:26.640 --> 0:14:28.040 of people come in here at that, but I do 0:14:28.160 --> 0:14:31.000 remember you guys, because we were talking to each other 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:35.600 through I'm in the I'm in the fucking lobby and 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.040 I hear wheezy, yeah, my friend is out there because 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.440 she has a column second her person and I'm like, wheezy, really, 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:44.640 She's like sorry, um, And then so yeah, we both 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:47.520 just got tested and and I got the condom removed, 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.520 and that is what we were like, this is this 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:52.520 is great? Are you cool with talking about this on 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:54.120 the pod? And you know, there were so many things 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:56.040 in the beginning that we weren't cool with, and um, 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:57.760 a lot of you guys asked the first names is 0:14:57.840 --> 0:15:00.600 her names and things like that, and the reason maybe 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:02.520 we don't even we hadn't said them for songs. Bas 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:04.400 when we start this show. If you've never heard about it, 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:06.880 we were corporate women and it was supposed to be 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:09.240 from this perspective of corporate women. But I still like 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.720 about what happened with Horrible Decisions is that now it's 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:15.760 just businesswomen talking about sex apport post to like corporate 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:19.120 America and that whole thing. But that was our our life, man. 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:24.120 So we had heard two black women in corporate uh 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:26.000 that I mean, I wouldn't even stay on the weekend 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:28.680 hold because I was going into work with my clothes 0:15:28.720 --> 0:15:31.320 from the night before. And we literally just shared that 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:35.960 because even the idea at the time that these this kinky, 0:15:36.280 --> 0:15:39.600 fun living, free spirited woman was only a sex worker 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:42.840 or a prostitute or on only fans or a cam 0:15:42.880 --> 0:15:45.880 girl was just not true. Like I was an accountant. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:51.240 You were at your job, um as a sales manager 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:53.440 or tech manager. I don't even know what then your 0:15:53.480 --> 0:15:55.240 title was, but you dealt with a lot of businesses, 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:59.239 and we were just like, damn, we're holding these prestigious 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:03.080 almost jobs and here we are just suckond dick, like 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:06.840 what's up? And we were a second we were and 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:10.400 you know, like, um, yeah, I don't know. I recently 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:12.280 did a consultation for somebody and they were like, we 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.600 want to talk about how we're you know, working girls 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:16.440 and talk from the work perspective. And I was like, dude, 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:20.000 that it is boring. I'm sorry, is it you think? So? Yeah, 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:23.160 Like when we leave work, like feel like yeah, but 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:26.240 I feel like when we leave work, the idea of 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:30.280 work we don't want to talk about. I think people 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.760 loved when we talked about our jobs and we did 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:34.720 it for five minutes and got right into sucking dick. 0:16:35.600 --> 0:16:37.840 I mean, I think people like come complaining about work 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:40.520 though that's fun, Like misery loves company in that sense. 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:43.200 I love talking about a job. Like you know, I 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:45.720 recently said when I was in l A, I was 0:16:45.720 --> 0:16:47.640 out with this guy and trying to figure out. Like 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.040 he was like, what is so shitty about l A 0:16:50.120 --> 0:16:51.480 to you? Like why do you feel like people in 0:16:51.480 --> 0:16:53.960 New York are so pessimistic? And I was like, honestly, 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.080 I think l A no shape to anyone who lives 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:57.720 in l A. I get I'll be upset. We have 0:16:57.800 --> 0:17:01.000 a lot of listeners there, and we'll be back. Maybe 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:03.160 I shut up, but I won't. I think people in 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:07.400 New York bond off of ship. They can't stand. Think 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:09.280 about the conversations you have with people in New York 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:12.000 randomly that you don't know. You're on the train, something 0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:15.520 happens and you're like, look at these motherfucker's Like it's 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.720 just like that ship is dope. And I'm not gonna lie. 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:19.280 It sounds like I like to be angry, but I 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:22.240 do like talking ship, and I love that about New Yorkers, 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:26.280 like the bonding over ship, talking, the bonding over things 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:28.800 that can roll you up, including the smell, including the 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:31.840 crowded subway included bullshit, people singing and you and Norton 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:33.320 they singing on the train and you look at somebody 0:17:33.359 --> 0:17:36.720 like the funk that should be let and I want 0:17:36.760 --> 0:17:40.160 to make sure that we Uh. Yeah, we we think 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:43.840 about those moments because with horrible decisions, there's so much 0:17:43.880 --> 0:17:46.320 bonding from our horre hive together because you'll be talking. 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:48.720 We talked to it about these eggs, and even though 0:17:48.760 --> 0:17:53.800 y'all listen that, I'm just saying, so, what's our first question? Edding? Okay, 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:57.119 so we're gonna start off strong. We're starting off strong. 0:17:57.160 --> 0:18:02.159 Why we can't start off on first base thinking bad? Okay, 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:06.600 let's would you like names being read out as well? 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:08.560 Let's read the first name, because if it's first and last, 0:18:08.560 --> 0:18:11.720 it's probably from Patreon. I did Patreon first, so kill 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:16.040 me later. Stoci or s question, do you guys find 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:19.560 value in developing a better relationship with each other? Any 0:18:19.560 --> 0:18:22.600 steps you both acknowledge that are needed to foster more 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:26.720 loving sisterly relationship? You would have pick this god damn question. 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:28.080 It was actually like the last one. I was like, 0:18:28.119 --> 0:18:30.640 you know what, I'm gonna be honest with y'all just 0:18:30.680 --> 0:18:35.320 because I don't even know if you want so I 0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:38.119 know what you're about to say now. Yeah, we actually 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:43.439 just had two sessions of therapy off camera. Um, but 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:46.359 there has been uh a way in which we've been 0:18:46.400 --> 0:18:50.280 trying to find a way to respect each other. Uh, 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:53.159 not only on a personal level, which I have the 0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:55.679 problem with because I do. Again, just think of this 0:18:55.760 --> 0:18:57.959 as a job. Now, this is a job. And you 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:01.920 know and I used this h I even use this 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:06.520 analogy in our therapy session, and I know you hated it. 0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:09.520 But like, I have this idea that when you work 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:12.720 with someone, when you have the same goal of mine, 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:14.320 you have to get it done whether you like the 0:19:14.359 --> 0:19:16.640 person or not. And I agreed with you on that. 0:19:16.800 --> 0:19:18.560 But the only reason I thought it was different is 0:19:18.600 --> 0:19:20.960 because because Mandy said to our therapist and she was 0:19:21.119 --> 0:19:22.639 not gonna let me finish because we is gonna talk 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:25.240 about how you just be cutting me off. But the analogy, 0:19:26.240 --> 0:19:27.679 you see what I mean, There is a question that 0:19:28.280 --> 0:19:31.560 but the analogy was and and again this comes right 0:19:31.560 --> 0:19:33.639 off of talking about corporate So you actually did a 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:37.840 great segue there. Uh, when I was in corporate America. 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:40.199 There's always people that you're gonna work with that you 0:19:40.240 --> 0:19:42.760 may not like, you know what I mean. So just 0:19:42.840 --> 0:19:46.440 because we work together, doesn't mean we have to eat 0:19:46.520 --> 0:19:48.760 lunch together in the cafeteria, doesn't mean we have to 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:51.359 take our smoke breaks together. Doesn't mean I have to 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:53.800 join you for a happy hour after work, But yes, 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:55.879 does it make sense for me to come in and 0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:59.240 be like, Hey, how was your weekend? I really don't 0:19:59.280 --> 0:20:01.280 give a funk about or weekend. But because we have 0:20:01.320 --> 0:20:03.400 to work together, I'm always going to try to have 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:09.600 some sort of of a civil relationship professional relationship with someone. 0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:11.920 And I guess it's hard and there are blurred lines 0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:15.640 here because we're talking about our very intimate lives. That's 0:20:15.640 --> 0:20:18.840 what I was saying in Mandy like because I agree 0:20:18.840 --> 0:20:20.880