Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to the episode. So horrible decision now, if you
Speaker 1: are a YouTube viewer today, go ahead and announce the
Speaker 1: fucking ship that you're doing. I got preconsent from the
Speaker 1: horn Hive on live if it was okay because you
Speaker 1: work with them, you don't work with them. You ain't
Speaker 1: even ask me what she sign us up for. Definitely
Speaker 1: was like, you could do it this, but Mandy gonna
Speaker 1: say no. I want to know if anybody with a
Speaker 1: job asks their friends, hey you think I could do
Speaker 1: this at work? And doesn't ask anybody at work but
Speaker 1: ask their friends, Hey can I do you think I
Speaker 1: could do this? So when one of the questions comes up,
Speaker 1: like what kind of conflicts do you guys have, we
Speaker 1: can talk about this moment. I um, we ran a
Speaker 1: little bit late, a little a whole lot of late.
Speaker 1: So Brilliant Idiots is now at the studio WT of
Speaker 1: Media and unfortunately Nigga's nig and there is a whole
Speaker 1: production and their god damn set is a whole thing.
Speaker 1: How long is their show? I told you it was
Speaker 1: about two hours, and it was about three that they
Speaker 1: needed a studio for so because of that, I am
Speaker 1: late to go get my hair done and the extra
Speaker 1: hour and a half that we're spending U is what
Speaker 1: they'll do to unbraid and take my hair down, and
Speaker 1: so I have to now do it myself. Do I
Speaker 1: have a rat tail comb? No? I have a tiny
Speaker 1: little brush. This ship sucks. You ain't real why you
Speaker 1: mother be doing it? Motherfucking take yo braids out? What
Speaker 1: an edge brush? Bro? This sucks so much. I'm not
Speaker 1: eve gonna lie y'all. Y'all, honestly, this is gonna ear.
Speaker 1: Take you on YouTube so much because you're gonna want
Speaker 1: to help me. Oh my god, I would love to
Speaker 1: see the comments for that. Oh yeah, they're gonna be
Speaker 1: like just out like niggas always got something to say
Speaker 1: when I first off, the fact that there are so
Speaker 1: many different ways to take braids out, and I've been
Speaker 1: someone who was taking my hair and they'd be like,
Speaker 1: that is even how are you supposed to do it?
Speaker 1: The way I take my hair out is the way
Speaker 1: I find your hair out. Mind the business that minds you,
Speaker 1: Thank you, whatever you do, mind the business that minds it.
Speaker 1: Felt good. Now I'm gonna trying not to take it
Speaker 1: out all the way, so the ship in everywhere. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna just trying to unloosen each one and I'm just
Speaker 1: vacuum again. Yes, we will have to vacum again. And
Speaker 1: thank you for minding everybody. All right, Fine, Well, we
Speaker 1: have a fun show today because we are basically going
Speaker 1: to answer all of your questions that you have, and
Speaker 1: we're gonna go through everything that was sent into Horrible
Speaker 1: to Patreon, to our stories, to my stories. These are
Speaker 1: some really fun questions and there are so many questions
Speaker 1: that we actually can't get to them all. But because
Speaker 1: Mandy is anal, I'm heavy on the I have anal.
Speaker 1: We are going to start with Vanalo so many questions.
Speaker 1: But Vanilla Ship today is from healthline dot com What
Speaker 1: causes people to have sexual fetishes? I fucking thought this
Speaker 1: was really dope. We definitely should bring somebody onto, like
Speaker 1: a therapist or some ship. But you know what's crazy though,
Speaker 1: uh and I'm I'm super excited you you did pick
Speaker 1: this Vanilla ship, But what's crazy is that I still
Speaker 1: don't like that there's some sort of psychological aspect to
Speaker 1: our fetishes or our kinks. And I think we we
Speaker 1: talked about how I'm like, at least I have. I
Speaker 1: hate that it's tied that way, really like because a
Speaker 1: lot of yours makes sense, which one. I think that
Speaker 1: you like to be dominant because with men, because I
Speaker 1: think your daddy issues. I think you even talked about it.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I just feel like niggas get money. That's
Speaker 1: why I want to be dominant, bitch, But I do.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just hate the idea that kinks
Speaker 1: and and fetishes come from trauma, bonding or something wrong.
Speaker 1: And this is why you like, like, okay, tell me
Speaker 1: what in your mind psychologically why someone would like golden showers.
Speaker 1: I don't know, butbe they got this. Initially, a b
Speaker 1: d L comes up, and if you guys don't know
Speaker 1: what that is, that's adult baby diaper lovers community. They say. Um,
Speaker 1: the only real sexual aspect of it, in his opinion,
Speaker 1: is being attracted to a specific underwear type. He's like,
Speaker 1: I relate my fetish to underwear. Seeing a good looking
Speaker 1: person in a pair of briefs or a good looking
Speaker 1: guy in a diaper. It's just underwear to me. Um,
Speaker 1: it's not a very specific type. Um. And they don't
Speaker 1: think this is a mental illness or anything like that.
Speaker 1: Good because I will say too if you guys came
Speaker 1: to our live show in New York and Sony Hall,
Speaker 1: we have the diaper lover Boy join us on stage,
Speaker 1: and he got really offended when someone tried to cring
Speaker 1: up his children. Not yeah, they tried to make it
Speaker 1: seem like this fetish came from some sort of trauma,
Speaker 1: and he really liked it has nothing to do like
Speaker 1: I don't like him for he was upset that someone
Speaker 1: tried to connect his kink of liking to be changed
Speaker 1: in a diaper. And there's not a lot of literature
Speaker 1: they're saying in a B d L. But he said
Speaker 1: some of his clients have Asperger's UM and get positive
Speaker 1: sensory feedback from wearing a bulkier diaper. Um. He says,
Speaker 1: these instances, they're not into the sexual fetish side. Most
Speaker 1: of the clients we haven't mentally sound. It's it's really
Speaker 1: more the lifestyle. It's not sex and um. It's about
Speaker 1: relaxation and stress relief and taking aspects of that relaxation
Speaker 1: from childhood when a time was easier, which I thought
Speaker 1: was interesting too. Nearly two thousand people who practice adult
Speaker 1: baby diaper fetish completed an online survey, and mostly men
Speaker 1: said that their behaviors are showed that their association to
Speaker 1: it was from their attachment styles and their parental relationships. UM.
Speaker 1: For instance, male respondents being more anxious anxiously attached UM
Speaker 1: was linked to a desire to be dominated or to
Speaker 1: have a daddy. Well, I thought it was cool. Furthermore,
Speaker 1: I got a daddy. He just a whole what I do.
Speaker 1: It ain't like I yearned for a daddy like I
Speaker 1: had daddy. We saw him every two weekends. I mean,
Speaker 1: maybe someone who didn't feel because I mean a dad
Speaker 1: could be around, but not maybe isn't acting like a father.
Speaker 1: Because one of my home girls that her baby daddy
Speaker 1: technic kids every weekend and she's like, he let me
Speaker 1: doing shit? Kid? You coming back like we can do homework.
Speaker 1: We didn't do this. But they're also saying that preference
Speaker 1: and personality, UM, they also have similarities. But yeah, I
Speaker 1: did think it was dope. It's basically saying once people
Speaker 1: develop a fetish or an interest in a lifestyle, how
Speaker 1: they fulfill their desires UM basically determined if it's healthier
Speaker 1: not not. The act itself, So yeah, how they fulfill it? Like,
Speaker 1: are you just doing fulfilling it in a healthy way,
Speaker 1: like you might like to get spanked, but like are
Speaker 1: you maybe having random people do it that you don't trust?
Speaker 1: Are you putting yourself at risk with the diaper fetish?
Speaker 1: Like are you doing it with people that are consenting?
Speaker 1: Are you making sure they're in the community too. So
Speaker 1: it's saying it's not the fetish that's the problem, it's
Speaker 1: how you execute the fetish that could be the problem.
Speaker 1: So I thought that was dope because we do be
Speaker 1: acting like people got something funked up with them. For
Speaker 1: the you Be Horrid Derve. We actually talk about this
Speaker 1: soon you guys will hear an episode UM with um
Speaker 1: Adum not really a b D s M consultant, Troy Um.
Speaker 1: We discussed erections and like, um men coming and the
Speaker 1: horrid door for this week is don't take the loss
Speaker 1: of an erection personally. Just moves on. Just move on.
Speaker 1: It happens to all men at some point, and there's
Speaker 1: not necessarily anyone to blame if his erection goes soft
Speaker 1: halfway through four player sex. Don't take it personally because
Speaker 1: overreacting only makes it last longer makes him feel embarrassed, awkward, emasculated,
Speaker 1: even more so that he may be feeling embarrassed without
Speaker 1: you saying anything. So instead of pointing it out and
Speaker 1: taking heart to it, shift gears, try something else and
Speaker 1: resurrect the moment. I think we should ask Edin, have
Speaker 1: you ever lost the direction? And it wasn't for the chick?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, definitely, what is it? I don't I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's like I'm not gonna Lila. I get a little nervous,
Speaker 1: nervous when it's like the first time of a new girl.
Speaker 1: We we talked about, We've definitely talked about. And that's
Speaker 1: the thing too, especially because we talked about with Tiana,
Speaker 1: like a man only has two times to show us
Speaker 1: he got that thing thing before we're like, nah, bro,
Speaker 1: you gotta go. And so the idea that we almost
Speaker 1: don't consider that, damn, maybe the first time is gonna
Speaker 1: be bad because this this person worked up, he has
Speaker 1: he's nervous. Not only is he nervous, especially if you
Speaker 1: take time to talk to somebody and like make it
Speaker 1: seem like this is about to be the most freakiest,
Speaker 1: sexiest you wanted to be the best, but now you've
Speaker 1: applied all of this pressure into someone that you're really
Speaker 1: about to have an experience with for the first time.
Speaker 1: And I know I've done that before. I shared the
Speaker 1: story with you guys, Like I stopped midway and was like,
Speaker 1: this is not working. Uh yeah, I think that's differently
Speaker 1: when someone isn't trying or they're just actually being whack
Speaker 1: in the sack. Yeah. But also, like I told y'all
Speaker 1: to uh, this was before you know, I got into
Speaker 1: a relationship. But when I was a hoh ho you
Speaker 1: know once again, you know that one was Christmas time,
Speaker 1: But when when I really was out here, like I
Speaker 1: love to see the people who I was having sex
Speaker 1: with have sex with other people. And so there was
Speaker 1: almost a level of expectations because you're not gonna fuck
Speaker 1: me weak and I see you, you know, busting down
Speaker 1: the next bit. So there was almost what, bro, you're
Speaker 1: not gonna fuck me picking out your braids? Don't you
Speaker 1: dare see here and talk about I don't know what
Speaker 1: you're saying. I was just meaning your dominant I'm doing really, bro,
Speaker 1: I just say it. Tell you, this is what I
Speaker 1: really like about ownership, because could we do this anywhere else?
Speaker 1: Could I be such a nixt injinem? I probably could
Speaker 1: have been. You could have done this in a lot
Speaker 1: of places. The podcast, uh just environment is none like
Speaker 1: none other. Okay, okay, because I've you know, I'll be
Speaker 1: drinking drinking, I'd be spoken so like I've on the
Speaker 1: podcast and I'm like, oh, this is the whole chill session. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, this is what we're doing. Would be like
Speaker 1: half open or half filled Hennessey bottles. How do you
Speaker 1: guys feel about Like, I don't know. This is random
Speaker 1: to bring up, but I don't know if I like
Speaker 1: watching people get that lit during podcast. Drink Champs is
Speaker 1: all of that at you don't like it, well, I don't.
Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't like it for like other podcasts.
Speaker 1: I guess I've never watched Drink Champs. I've just listened
Speaker 1: to a few things. But I mean more so, like
Speaker 1: I just don't like when people don't take their works.
Speaker 1: And also Drink Champs is different because that's their brand.
Speaker 1: It is. I think like sometimes that I walk d
Speaker 1: the podcast in different showing people smoking and drinking too much.
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is my fun, Like I don't if
Speaker 1: you don't make it like, if you're not like, we're
Speaker 1: gonna get drunk this episode, that's cool. Or someone shows
Speaker 1: up drunk and everyone else is sober, that's fun in
Speaker 1: my opinion. But I don't I mean to see everyone
Speaker 1: plan a drunk episode excluding like the format. I feel
Speaker 1: like it's not fun. Now I'm starting to think we
Speaker 1: should do a special drunk episode. Oh, they should be lit.
Speaker 1: That's fun. It's I mean, i'd be lit sober, but
Speaker 1: I mean it's funny because when I did Cocktails the
Speaker 1: first episode, shout out to Kiki and Medina their first episode.
Speaker 1: You know, they start with a cocktail for their episode,
Speaker 1: but they used to drink during Bitch. By the end
Speaker 1: of that episode, we was drinking Moscow mules because that
Speaker 1: was my drink. So they had the Tito's, they had
Speaker 1: the motherfucking Lion juice and ginger beer. By the end,
Speaker 1: I had to give off our tour dates and I
Speaker 1: was like, so a little bit of the Lennas and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, bitch about we have to memorize
Speaker 1: our four dates and locations. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: we need to adding. We'll speaking up needing the adding
Speaker 1: we're gonna get into and speaking of our tour is
Speaker 1: Black Sexcellent. This week I think makes sense to be us.
Speaker 1: We have been talking about people in the sex revolution
Speaker 1: and a lot of you maybe new and you guys
Speaker 1: always love a refresher. So we're gonna tell you what
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions is how it started, and then we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into questions of our chill us. Um. I basically
Speaker 1: thought people should ask us, like the lot of questions aboutroduction.
Speaker 1: People always want to know questions about Mandy and I
Speaker 1: in our relationship, questions about us separately, things we do
Speaker 1: on the show talking over people. Horrible Decisions started. The
Speaker 1: idea was it was two sixteen or seventeen, and um,
Speaker 1: Mandy and I hadn't seen each other in about five years,
Speaker 1: and we had dinner together we ret Sarafina And was
Speaker 1: it that dinner? No, it was the dinner that I
Speaker 1: don't know. That was the dinner we discussed the podcast,
Speaker 1: but I feel like I said, oh, yeah, she didn't. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: that dinner was just us catching up. You telling me
Speaker 1: you'll sugar Daddy paid for your new apartment. That was that.
Speaker 1: And then you actually hit me up on the phone
Speaker 1: after you did no Chase, No Chaser, with your coworker
Speaker 1: at the time, and you know, you were like, I
Speaker 1: think we should do a pot and I was like,
Speaker 1: and here I go. From day one. I said, well,
Speaker 1: he used to be very organized. Um, we should have dinner.
Speaker 1: But I actually owed Weezia dinner anyways, because she didn't.
Speaker 1: God just she was gonna fuck. That's how literally we
Speaker 1: I was like this, I was he lived in New York,
Speaker 1: you live in New York. Y'all definitely gonna fuck. And
Speaker 1: how long did you give me? I think two months
Speaker 1: or something like that, because I just knew she was
Speaker 1: gonna fuck him. And she never sucked him again, but
Speaker 1: I just knew it. So I was like, fun to
Speaker 1: be honest with you. Um, I didn't want to because
Speaker 1: like since the last time I talked to him now
Speaker 1: he was married. But I feel like, really what really
Speaker 1: kept me was that Bet well damn. Maybe I would
Speaker 1: have did it, but I can't lose. But she didn't
Speaker 1: want to lose. So we went to dinner then to
Speaker 1: discuss what the show would look like. And it's crazy
Speaker 1: because if I'm not mistaken either, I think I ended
Speaker 1: up staying with Wheezy the following weekend. Um, but I
Speaker 1: had a condom stuck in my pussy. So here we
Speaker 1: are hanging out. We parted. I said, this condom stilltly
Speaker 1: come out my pussy. So we're hanging out. She's like, well,
Speaker 1: I know a guy now on fifty ninth or whatever.
Speaker 1: Let's go. Let's let's let's go get our vagina's checked together.
Speaker 1: And the woman did pull up condom that was there.
Speaker 1: Two days later, she was like, this is great, this
Speaker 1: is our first episode, and we literally booked. Then I
Speaker 1: think she was packing or something. I can't remember, but
Speaker 1: I went back to that place it's the Walking Guy
Speaker 1: on fifty seven and seventh maybe, and I saw her
Speaker 1: and I said, oh my goll right, you know I
Speaker 1: have a podcast now. And my cost actually came in
Speaker 1: here with the condom side of she dud. It took
Speaker 1: her no time. She's like, yes, I mean a lot
Speaker 1: of people come in here at that, but I do
Speaker 1: remember you guys, because we were talking to each other
Speaker 1: through I'm in the I'm in the fucking lobby and
Speaker 1: I hear wheezy, yeah, my friend is out there because
Speaker 1: she has a column second her person and I'm like, wheezy, really,
Speaker 1: She's like sorry, um, And then so yeah, we both
Speaker 1: just got tested and and I got the condom removed,
Speaker 1: and that is what we were like, this is this
Speaker 1: is great? Are you cool with talking about this on
Speaker 1: the pod? And you know, there were so many things
Speaker 1: in the beginning that we weren't cool with, and um,
Speaker 1: a lot of you guys asked the first names is
Speaker 1: her names and things like that, and the reason maybe
Speaker 1: we don't even we hadn't said them for songs. Bas
Speaker 1: when we start this show. If you've never heard about it,
Speaker 1: we were corporate women and it was supposed to be
Speaker 1: from this perspective of corporate women. But I still like
Speaker 1: about what happened with Horrible Decisions is that now it's
Speaker 1: just businesswomen talking about sex apport post to like corporate
Speaker 1: America and that whole thing. But that was our our life, man.
Speaker 1: So we had heard two black women in corporate uh
Speaker 1: that I mean, I wouldn't even stay on the weekend
Speaker 1: hold because I was going into work with my clothes
Speaker 1: from the night before. And we literally just shared that
Speaker 1: because even the idea at the time that these this kinky,
Speaker 1: fun living, free spirited woman was only a sex worker
Speaker 1: or a prostitute or on only fans or a cam
Speaker 1: girl was just not true. Like I was an accountant.
Speaker 1: You were at your job, um as a sales manager
Speaker 1: or tech manager. I don't even know what then your
Speaker 1: title was, but you dealt with a lot of businesses,
Speaker 1: and we were just like, damn, we're holding these prestigious
Speaker 1: almost jobs and here we are just suckond dick, like
Speaker 1: what's up? And we were a second we were and
Speaker 1: you know, like, um, yeah, I don't know. I recently
Speaker 1: did a consultation for somebody and they were like, we
Speaker 1: want to talk about how we're you know, working girls
Speaker 1: and talk from the work perspective. And I was like, dude,
Speaker 1: that it is boring. I'm sorry, is it you think? So? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like when we leave work, like feel like yeah, but
Speaker 1: I feel like when we leave work, the idea of
Speaker 1: work we don't want to talk about. I think people
Speaker 1: loved when we talked about our jobs and we did
Speaker 1: it for five minutes and got right into sucking dick.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think people like come complaining about work
Speaker 1: though that's fun, Like misery loves company in that sense.
Speaker 1: I love talking about a job. Like you know, I
Speaker 1: recently said when I was in l A, I was
Speaker 1: out with this guy and trying to figure out. Like
Speaker 1: he was like, what is so shitty about l A
Speaker 1: to you? Like why do you feel like people in
Speaker 1: New York are so pessimistic? And I was like, honestly,
Speaker 1: I think l A no shape to anyone who lives
Speaker 1: in l A. I get I'll be upset. We have
Speaker 1: a lot of listeners there, and we'll be back. Maybe
Speaker 1: I shut up, but I won't. I think people in
Speaker 1: New York bond off of ship. They can't stand. Think
Speaker 1: about the conversations you have with people in New York
Speaker 1: randomly that you don't know. You're on the train, something
Speaker 1: happens and you're like, look at these motherfucker's Like it's
Speaker 1: just like that ship is dope. And I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: It sounds like I like to be angry, but I
Speaker 1: do like talking ship, and I love that about New Yorkers,
Speaker 1: like the bonding over ship, talking, the bonding over things
Speaker 1: that can roll you up, including the smell, including the
Speaker 1: crowded subway included bullshit, people singing and you and Norton
Speaker 1: they singing on the train and you look at somebody
Speaker 1: like the funk that should be let and I want
Speaker 1: to make sure that we Uh. Yeah, we we think
Speaker 1: about those moments because with horrible decisions, there's so much
Speaker 1: bonding from our horre hive together because you'll be talking.
Speaker 1: We talked to it about these eggs, and even though
Speaker 1: y'all listen that, I'm just saying, so, what's our first question? Edding? Okay,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna start off strong. We're starting off strong.
Speaker 1: Why we can't start off on first base thinking bad? Okay,
Speaker 1: let's would you like names being read out as well?
Speaker 1: Let's read the first name, because if it's first and last,
Speaker 1: it's probably from Patreon. I did Patreon first, so kill
Speaker 1: me later. Stoci or s question, do you guys find
Speaker 1: value in developing a better relationship with each other? Any
Speaker 1: steps you both acknowledge that are needed to foster more
Speaker 1: loving sisterly relationship? You would have pick this god damn question.
Speaker 1: It was actually like the last one. I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna be honest with y'all just
Speaker 1: because I don't even know if you want so I
Speaker 1: know what you're about to say now. Yeah, we actually
Speaker 1: just had two sessions of therapy off camera. Um, but
Speaker 1: there has been uh a way in which we've been
Speaker 1: trying to find a way to respect each other. Uh,
Speaker 1: not only on a personal level, which I have the
Speaker 1: problem with because I do. Again, just think of this
Speaker 1: as a job. Now, this is a job. And you
Speaker 1: know and I used this h I even use this
Speaker 1: analogy in our therapy session, and I know you hated it.
Speaker 1: But like, I have this idea that when you work
Speaker 1: with someone, when you have the same goal of mine,
Speaker 1: you have to get it done whether you like the
Speaker 1: person or not. And I agreed with you on that.
Speaker 1: But the only reason I thought it was different is
Speaker 1: because because Mandy said to our therapist and she was
Speaker 1: not gonna let me finish because we is gonna talk
Speaker 1: about how you just be cutting me off. But the analogy,
Speaker 1: you see what I mean, There is a question that
Speaker 1: but the analogy was and and again this comes right
Speaker 1: off of talking about corporate So you actually did a
Speaker 1: great segue there. Uh, when I was in corporate America.
Speaker 1: There's always people that you're gonna work with that you
Speaker 1: may not like, you know what I mean. So just
Speaker 1: because we work together, doesn't mean we have to eat
Speaker 1: lunch together in the cafeteria, doesn't mean we have to
Speaker 1: take our smoke breaks together. Doesn't mean I have to
Speaker 1: join you for a happy hour after work, But yes,
Speaker 1: does it make sense for me to come in and
Speaker 1: be like, Hey, how was your weekend? I really don't
Speaker 1: give a funk about or weekend. But because we have
Speaker 1: to work together, I'm always going to try to have
Speaker 1: some sort of of a civil relationship professional relationship with someone.
Speaker 1: And I guess it's hard and there are blurred lines
Speaker 1: here because we're talking about our very intimate lives. That's
Speaker 1: what I was saying in Mandy like because I agree
Speaker 1: with that, Like I could go in my last job
Speaker 1: and be like whatever you like. I just got to
Speaker 1: get the job done. But the problem with horrible decisions
Speaker 1: when we aren't getting along is that we actually genuinely
Speaker 1: have to be interested in those conversations. And no, I
Speaker 1: don't think we need to be friends. A lot of
Speaker 1: you say, why don't you guys want to be like,
Speaker 1: how come you can't be friends or whatever. I don't
Speaker 1: think we need to be friendly buddy buddy to do
Speaker 1: this job. But I think we do need to have
Speaker 1: a better personal relationship and be on a more level
Speaker 1: like um playing field of like uh, like a mutual
Speaker 1: respect instead of anger in order for the vibes to
Speaker 1: be good because y'all known we have an episode and
Speaker 1: it's weird. Oh and if y'all on Patreon, no, when
Speaker 1: the Titchien is hot, they just know is really the
Speaker 1: only place right now where they're like, is y'all not
Speaker 1: getting the lone lit they call girls are fighting? Um?
Speaker 1: But yeah, and that's important that content. It was because
Speaker 1: we had a little Twitter argument, and you know, I
Speaker 1: think that the therapy one thing I learned is that like,
Speaker 1: we really talked to each other like ship, and it's
Speaker 1: because we are like so brash and something that happened
Speaker 1: to us a few days ago is realizing, like we've
Speaker 1: known each other fifteen years. That's crazy, and well, I
Speaker 1: guess a lot of people did too, want to know
Speaker 1: how the fund? How don't y'all like each other and
Speaker 1: y'all even be around each other? How did that mean?
Speaker 1: How did how did this start? And you have to
Speaker 1: be very fair, y'all we knew each other fifteen years ago.
Speaker 1: Uh we met um I think in person for the
Speaker 1: first time fighting ironically, that's crazy. Well, one of the
Speaker 1: questions about that is the guy, so we'll get into that.
Speaker 1: But but no, I think we've outgrown a lot of
Speaker 1: what we were as friends, like and it's different. We've
Speaker 1: changed a lot, you know, I've changed a lot. You've
Speaker 1: grown in different ways, Like our interests are different. So
Speaker 1: like the friendship necessarily no, And I honestly don't think
Speaker 1: if we were friends today we would do the same things.
Speaker 1: Like so it maybe a bar hopping or like some
Speaker 1: random sharper because you'd be at the white bars, Mandy,
Speaker 1: I like black shit. I go to lab to black
Speaker 1: lab does not count as black. That is mixing it okay,
Speaker 1: but like no, like when I hit up my friends,
Speaker 1: not really, I'm gonna tell y'all what happened. We did
Speaker 1: try to hang out at one time, right, and this
Speaker 1: is when I was poor, bro. She was taking me
Speaker 1: to ship with drinks and trying to barrow which I
Speaker 1: haven't finished my fucking cocktail. Slow down. I'm paying a
Speaker 1: drink to be around niggas that don't want me. Also
Speaker 1: leaving to go sleep with Wheezy after spending hundreds of
Speaker 1: I do like do like a bogie play bie and
Speaker 1: Nick is not buying. My moments are over but not
Speaker 1: like they're like that should have be doing on the weekends,
Speaker 1: Like I love a good art gallery. I love like
Speaker 1: doing a workout or like the going to the strand
Speaker 1: with my friend. And I feel like many like this
Speaker 1: sounds awful. I love little art gallery, Dame. I go
Speaker 1: on seesaw it's this art app and you basically bounce
Speaker 1: around a different ship like and you know, I just
Speaker 1: feel like many like what are we doing? But no,
Speaker 1: like I think that's a great question. What are we
Speaker 1: doing to work on the relationship? And that was it,
Speaker 1: and I think, yeah, we are in therapy, damn something.
Speaker 1: But I think one of the best things is that, yeah,
Speaker 1: we now understand that, and that also knowing like the
Speaker 1: therapist that something I thought was funny. Mandy was like,
Speaker 1: I don't need to do this. I don't need to
Speaker 1: do that. I'm just up front and he goes, okay, Mandy, Well,
Speaker 1: with FBI agents when they're trying to negotiate with terrorists,
Speaker 1: they too can show empathy. Do you think you could
Speaker 1: do the outs pits? I was like, they call me
Speaker 1: a terrorist, you definitely. But anyway, that's what we're doing
Speaker 1: to work on our ship. And honestly, I think just
Speaker 1: acknowledging because I said to Mandy, like yo, like I'm
Speaker 1: going through too much it and you're going through too
Speaker 1: much it. And we've known each other too long to
Speaker 1: be each other's and we should this show should be
Speaker 1: relaxing and fun, and so we are trying. So there, y'all.
Speaker 1: We know y'all have argued before, but has it ever
Speaker 1: gotten serious? I'm just gonna tell you. Most of these
Speaker 1: questions are like, do y' all hate each other? How
Speaker 1: do y'all handle other? Yeah? So this one, I like
Speaker 1: though just a second even more into a real quick
Speaker 1: But we know y'all, y'all have argued before, has ever
Speaker 1: gone serious like a high consideration of quitting or stopping
Speaker 1: the show? One percent? Mandy said, we need to know
Speaker 1: how to do a dissolution of the basins because when
Speaker 1: we was like, yeah, and I'll be very honest with you,
Speaker 1: uh and the audience and my peace of mind recently,
Speaker 1: which the reason for this episode, guys, is just because
Speaker 1: we both had to have talks uh through ourselves. I mean,
Speaker 1: because we don't talk on a friendly level. There are
Speaker 1: a lot of things that Weezy and I have been
Speaker 1: both dealing with on a personal level that neither of
Speaker 1: us knew about each other, and so what happened was
Speaker 1: the projection of maybe just not wanting to deal with
Speaker 1: any stress with this show because of everything else. I
Speaker 1: didn't know what she was going through. She didn't know
Speaker 1: what I was going through. Um, And so our disconnect
Speaker 1: probably came from literally not having that empathy or compassion
Speaker 1: knowing what we both were really going through. Um. And yeah,
Speaker 1: just with everything that I've been dealing with this year. Uh,
Speaker 1: not only with horrible decisions, but with my two other
Speaker 1: shows and starting a business and just being so I
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know where I'm at right now
Speaker 1: mentally as an entrepreneur, as as a lot of things. Um.
Speaker 1: I literally, yeah, Weezy came in me real hard, and
Speaker 1: I see Seed our lawyer, and was like, well, listen,
Speaker 1: maybe we should discuss what a dissolutions. Yeah. She literally
Speaker 1: was like, you could had a conversation because I ain't
Speaker 1: paying for this, And I was like no, because at
Speaker 1: this point, so what is buying you out look like?
Speaker 1: And I was just so frustrated. I felt the same
Speaker 1: bit you could go, bitch, I will buy your ass that,
Speaker 1: but you can't buy you know, I could buy you
Speaker 1: beat a gonna be Devil's advocate, how much would it
Speaker 1: be to buy you out? Oh? You know, I actually wondered,
Speaker 1: because we don't really have a we didn't talk about
Speaker 1: about discuss that, and I wondered what that would be like.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what would I do? And honestly, um,
Speaker 1: I you don't set your price. It's based on the
Speaker 1: I don't know based on what. It's based on what.
Speaker 1: That's the real part. There's equity and you you know what.
Speaker 1: She also it doesn't count because even when she used
Speaker 1: to talk about how much money would take for her
Speaker 1: to shoot on somebody, she'd be throwing these real ridiculous
Speaker 1: numbers out, like a million dollars. Bitch, you will shoot
Speaker 1: on somebody for a thousand? Stop lying she comes on
Speaker 1: the show and talking about a million dollars. I don't
Speaker 1: I do very decent. I may say saying that, which
Speaker 1: I go down about what you mean, my my numbers
Speaker 1: be realistic that I'll be talking about. I just feel
Speaker 1: like it would be hard because it's just the time
Speaker 1: in the years, and so honestly, I didn't know what Like,
Speaker 1: I didn't know what buy out things were, but I
Speaker 1: also knew and realized, like it's just like the show
Speaker 1: is so valuable as Mandy and I it's not even funny,
Speaker 1: Like you know when I watch other shows like and
Speaker 1: sometimes the friendliness is cute. I'm like, it's just we're
Speaker 1: so like Yin and Yang that it's almost become the
Speaker 1: brand of us. But outside of the brand of us.
Speaker 1: I'll be very honest. When me and Wheezy do get
Speaker 1: into like our our spats, we always come to say,
Speaker 1: this show is bigger than us now, like from the
Speaker 1: from the live shows to the emails that we get
Speaker 1: to the d m s on how many lives we've changed,
Speaker 1: and how many relationships we've mended, and how how much
Speaker 1: confidence we've instilled in other women. We literally be like, bro,
Speaker 1: it's it ain't about us, Like what was edding or
Speaker 1: Alex knows Alex that did an episode where we were
Speaker 1: screaming at each other and they had to stop. It
Speaker 1: might have been edding too, But I remember Alex, I
Speaker 1: was about to say, he always talks about this with
Speaker 1: me when it comes to Mandy. If I've ever gotten
Speaker 1: an argument with Mandy and talked to him about it,
Speaker 1: He's like, I have never seen two people talk to
Speaker 1: each other like that and click. But I think the
Speaker 1: only reason we click is because we understand what we're
Speaker 1: doing it for. And I really had to look outside
Speaker 1: of myself, and Therapy did that a little bit to
Speaker 1: me too. I was like, what we do is just
Speaker 1: so big and people may feel like it's small. That's fine,
Speaker 1: but like to go on the road. I don't know
Speaker 1: how many cities we've done and see that how you
Speaker 1: watch people? It's over with Vinnie. I think we argued
Speaker 1: one the show when Vinnie was our assistant at the time,
Speaker 1: and he was like, girl, look at all these fucking
Speaker 1: people outside, like what the fund is wrong with you?
Speaker 1: And it's true, like how can I let this moment
Speaker 1: of a disagreement because we're so bullish, Like really it's stupid.
Speaker 1: But also for the podcast is listening, Uh, this really
Speaker 1: becomes so much more than just showing up and talking
Speaker 1: on a micro And I don't think that people understand
Speaker 1: the business of podcasting, especially when money is involved, especially
Speaker 1: when there's teams involved, like we have an agent, we're
Speaker 1: part of a network now. Like even even Charlemagne was
Speaker 1: here earlier and was just like like what y'all do
Speaker 1: like cannot be replicated. It's so hard for this just
Speaker 1: to happen. And I think a lot of times with podcasts,
Speaker 1: you know, you have an idea and you want your
Speaker 1: friends to join in, or you you know someone that
Speaker 1: would be a good fit, and there is there's so
Speaker 1: much more to podcasting than just showing up and talking
Speaker 1: and um yeah, so to all the podcasters that just
Speaker 1: think it's just showing up, uh yeah, it's not. And also,
Speaker 1: I would never suggest you, guys to start a business
Speaker 1: with your best friends. That's something that's often asked. Don't
Speaker 1: do it if you want to be a great podcast
Speaker 1: and and you have faith in it. If you do
Speaker 1: it with your best friend, just know you're gonna lose
Speaker 1: your best friend. And speaking Charlemagne, yeah, when the Twitter
Speaker 1: thing happened, here you call. He's like, hey, I just
Speaker 1: wanted to check on you. Everything all right? I was like,
Speaker 1: whatever we are and he was like, well, I'm wanna
Speaker 1: tell you right now, y'all better get it together because
Speaker 1: horrible decisions is big. The one y'all leave, it doesn't
Speaker 1: matter because it's not the same show. And y'all could
Speaker 1: just keep thinking whatever, I could do this, and he
Speaker 1: was like, you can't. It's this horrible decisions as Mandy
Speaker 1: and Wheezy is your ship? Like, get it together and
Speaker 1: it's true. Alright, tell us about the dude he both
Speaker 1: dated that made you, guys friend of me. Do you
Speaker 1: remember his last name from Hell? Yeah? That is his
Speaker 1: last Let me look him up. Let me look him up.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So guys, here's what happened, right. I
Speaker 1: started dating a guy, uh, we'll call him Jay. I
Speaker 1: started dating him and Wheezy was his ex and I
Speaker 1: guess Wheezy was not over him, but he had moved
Speaker 1: on to me. Mandy. Bro We went to Disney World
Speaker 1: together on Christmas. Bro Christmas, Yeah, so you was okay?
Speaker 1: You were probably still the side chick I'm looking at.
Speaker 1: Maybe you was giving him pussy. I wasn't. I never
Speaker 1: had sex with me neither. That is the crazy thing.
Speaker 1: We also fought over nigga that we never had sex with,
Speaker 1: but by him. On Christmas ed Disney with the friend
Speaker 1: and met the family. Mandy. I think he lives in
Speaker 1: Brooklyn now, No fucking way, he does not live here.
Speaker 1: The only person with his first and last name went
Speaker 1: to school in Orlando, from work in Orlando. He was
Speaker 1: from New York. Yeah, he was in New York. Nigga whinny,
Speaker 1: he's bad. We got when we do a live show,
Speaker 1: my mama, My god, I bet you he's not that
Speaker 1: cute no more. I bet you he's Oh can you
Speaker 1: see a picture of him? No, it's just well, that's
Speaker 1: probably why he wanted me because I could bring his
Speaker 1: hair and you probably couldn't. I couldn't. I know you couldn't.
Speaker 1: But anyways, we literally just started this, uh just battle
Speaker 1: because she was still claiming to be in the picture.
Speaker 1: But this was my boyfriend. Uh. I wasn't claiming, but
Speaker 1: she was claiming um. And so again, this was back
Speaker 1: in two thousand. Talk about more the guy, more than
Speaker 1: the whole story. What was he like, how he worked
Speaker 1: at it? He worked at a VET when I was
Speaker 1: dating him. His sister was a veteran and he was
Speaker 1: like an assistant at the vet. I mean, he had
Speaker 1: a car. He was an older guy. I probably shouldn't
Speaker 1: have been with him, now that I think about it.
Speaker 1: I was in high school too, though, No I was
Speaker 1: a freshman. He had graduated high school by the time
Speaker 1: I was a freshman. He was out of he was
Speaker 1: out of high school. He was like eighteen, but graduated
Speaker 1: high school. I was fourteen fifteen. Okay, I met him
Speaker 1: when he was in high school. Yeah, you did, because
Speaker 1: you dated him like a year before I did. Yeah.
Speaker 1: By the time I dated him, he was he. I
Speaker 1: didn't steal him. He was single when I when I
Speaker 1: met him. Dude, Honestly, I'm trying to remember as much
Speaker 1: as I can. It didn't seem like Mandy and himmer
Speaker 1: to get when we would speak, because he was just like, oh,
Speaker 1: I just met this because nigga's lie, niggas lie and no.
Speaker 1: But we did find ou out and we finally became
Speaker 1: friends because Mandy and I got on the phone and
Speaker 1: was talking about the city, was saying and it was
Speaker 1: like now because we became friends way later. Yes, because
Speaker 1: we bonded talking about what the funk Jay did. Okay, anyway, anyway,
Speaker 1: fun him not So that is how Yeah, that's what happened.
Speaker 1: What's next? What other questions? Okay, Uh, I've never said
Speaker 1: yaw in my life. I'm gonna be honest with you.
Speaker 1: Has a guy or girl ever seen y'all in person
Speaker 1: a lot about not knowing who y'all were and tried
Speaker 1: to get with I'm gonna just say why a w
Speaker 1: He's saying, so I went on a riot date where
Speaker 1: a guy didn't tell me he knew who I was
Speaker 1: till the end of the day, and I didn't like that.
Speaker 1: And I think he listens to He might be listening
Speaker 1: to this episode. He said, he's listened to every episode.
Speaker 1: So What's Crazy is one of my like partners that
Speaker 1: I talked about often on the show, and he listens
Speaker 1: to this episode, he listens to the podcast. He Uh,
Speaker 1: when you guys knew I had a guy in my
Speaker 1: life that like put me on payroll? I think it's
Speaker 1: how I described him on the show. Uh, he didn't
Speaker 1: tell me until maybe three years into us, like really
Speaker 1: fucking with each other? You knew he listened? No, but no,
Speaker 1: he didn't know me from the podcast. Oh he knew
Speaker 1: me from Twitter days and my blogging and so it's
Speaker 1: crazy on the first day. So that's exactly probably how
Speaker 1: So my very first job here when I moved to
Speaker 1: New York, I helped open the Applebeees across from the Barclays.
Speaker 1: I was a bartender there and this guy, yeah still there.
Speaker 1: This guy came in and he was so strategic and
Speaker 1: he told me all this night was like, are you
Speaker 1: fucking kidding me. He sat at my bar, he ordered,
Speaker 1: uh he had. I don't know wings and stuff. Didn't
Speaker 1: really talk to him at all, but I knew he
Speaker 1: asked to put the Orlando Magic on TV. I was like,
Speaker 1: of course, I'm fucking from Orlando. I'm in New York.
Speaker 1: You're a Magic fan? Oh my god. He's like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I used to live in central Florida. And
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, cool um. And then when he
Speaker 1: went to leave, his bill was forty dollars. He left
Speaker 1: me a forty dollar tips. So of course we exchanged
Speaker 1: numbers and then literally he told me three years later,
Speaker 1: like I knew exactly who you were where you work
Speaker 1: because you tweeted about it. I came in. I knew
Speaker 1: you were a Magic fan. Why we knew where you
Speaker 1: work because you tweeted, of course, But back then I
Speaker 1: didn't like he knew I was at Applebe's, like nig
Speaker 1: I used to tell fans pull up wherever I barted,
Speaker 1: like pull up, like I used to tell people, Hey,
Speaker 1: it's my ship tonight, like they used to always come
Speaker 1: to the clubs, he said, But he didn't tell me
Speaker 1: that it was strategic his tip that he left me
Speaker 1: him asking for the magic game. You're probably talking. I didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't know until like years later after he became
Speaker 1: my sugar daddy. What did I really called him my partner? Uh?
Speaker 1: That he knew exactly who I was the whole time.
Speaker 1: I think if you were to have said it at
Speaker 1: that moment, it would have been okay. But so far
Speaker 1: after that, like three years later after like we had
Speaker 1: not you paying my bill because when you're making it too,
Speaker 1: like three like how could you not? Yeah, he had
Speaker 1: to tell me like, oh I knew you when I
Speaker 1: pulled up the Applebee the last time you've heard from him.
Speaker 1: We still talk that, we still talk so much, so
Speaker 1: to where he you know, I went to Miami and
Speaker 1: he knew I was going to Miami to host, so
Speaker 1: he was gonna pull up on me and he was
Speaker 1: like so he was like so next week and still
Speaker 1: the thing, I said, uh, if you want to grab
Speaker 1: a drink with me and my boyfriend and he was like,
Speaker 1: sent the little Asterix and was like, uh, refunds night
Speaker 1: at Fountain Blue Refunds. Like he canceled his reservation because
Speaker 1: he's just like, I don't know all of us liked
Speaker 1: so we're not friends. No, we're not. That was from
Speaker 1: someone shout out to Mahogany. I did a day where
Speaker 1: we fed people at a mission in Mahogany is one
Speaker 1: of our patrons and I met her there. Um. I
Speaker 1: think this is a really dope question. Actually, did your
Speaker 1: first round of ads come from people that support you
Speaker 1: already in goals not monetery or did you go into
Speaker 1: places and pitched so our first ads? And this was No.
Speaker 1: I really liked this question because Mandy and I our
Speaker 1: goal was we're investing this much into the show. We
Speaker 1: need to recoup this money, so how can we make
Speaker 1: sure we're not paying for each episode? Right? Whatever it
Speaker 1: was at the time, what was it? A Hunter Bucks
Speaker 1: the two? No, No, we when we started doing video
Speaker 1: about hundreds in episode. But you, by the way, can
Speaker 1: come and shoot a w TF media for a hundred
Speaker 1: dollars with four K video. And I did that on
Speaker 1: purpose because I know you know what I mean, I
Speaker 1: know what it's like to want to start off and
Speaker 1: do ship and where now we've got the four angles,
Speaker 1: you guys are watching us with the clips and does
Speaker 1: I felt like for an episode with video a hundred
Speaker 1: dollars is fair, and I wanted people to be able
Speaker 1: to pay that to you know what I'm saying. So,
Speaker 1: like when we started, we wanted to make sure we
Speaker 1: can recoup that with video because it was so expensive.
Speaker 1: So we were selling ads to people in music, so
Speaker 1: we gotta find them, ship to find it. If you
Speaker 1: guys go to like the earlier episodes, you'll be like,
Speaker 1: and this episode was brought to you by this artist
Speaker 1: and this new single. We played it at the end
Speaker 1: and sometimes in the beginning of episodes. P Mona was
Speaker 1: one of the first people who paid us to come
Speaker 1: on as a guest. Almost never charged anyone before, but
Speaker 1: he and not he offered us the money and we
Speaker 1: were like, we start doing this. Was he I can't remember.
Speaker 1: He was problematic as fuck, talked about how he was
Speaker 1: just out here fucking everybody with no condom, everything about
Speaker 1: when he asked our mom's about to come. I don't remember.
Speaker 1: That was at the live show. Oh yeah, well anyway,
Speaker 1: so that's what happened, all right. This next one is
Speaker 1: from it. No, no, that would be already got that one.
Speaker 1: This one's good. I just don't want to show it
Speaker 1: on screen because then you'll know what it is. Why
Speaker 1: haven't you fixed your teeth? Or if you will, why
Speaker 1: or why not? That's Julio. Yeah, that's just say her name.
Speaker 1: You know it's crazy. I actually just brought this up.
Speaker 1: This is my other podcast. Uh so I've paid the money,
Speaker 1: I have the INVISALIGNE been putting it in and no,
Speaker 1: the way my mouth hurts. What did I tell you?
Speaker 1: The way that I like sucking dick? I tell you,
Speaker 1: I literally like it tore up my mouth so much
Speaker 1: it made it. I was just like, I'm you know
Speaker 1: what if J Cole can still be J Cole and
Speaker 1: wrap wrapped about his second smile and it doesn't honestly,
Speaker 1: guess what. Guess what? Guess what? This doesn't keep me
Speaker 1: for making money because I got my name and I
Speaker 1: like for for I don't even think she was coming
Speaker 1: at you. This was in my I listed it. I
Speaker 1: really think this is yours, just for both of you,
Speaker 1: both of them, they talked about both of our both
Speaker 1: of them talk about But it's funny because I had
Speaker 1: in visilne and it was so painful I had to stop.
Speaker 1: And then when Mandy got hers, I was like, ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. Let me tell you. Let me tell you.
Speaker 1: I paid for it. It was only supposed to be
Speaker 1: four months. I got a call last months like hey,
Speaker 1: it's time for your retainers. Uh, and I said, mind
Speaker 1: you it is sixteen trays. I was like, bitch, I'm
Speaker 1: on four, Like you gotta give me some time. And
Speaker 1: now they started texting me like time to change your
Speaker 1: your tray, bitch, I'm supposed to be on nine. I'm
Speaker 1: on six. I'm still next six. That's actually really good.
Speaker 1: I what are ways that was with? I think my
Speaker 1: insurance for Visili what a waste. This one's a really
Speaker 1: good question too. Who comes up with topics and guests?
Speaker 1: I love this question, Mandy and I. If you ever
Speaker 1: we can go to the next question, and if you
Speaker 1: ever listened to an episode and someone starts it and
Speaker 1: starts leading it, that's who made the episode now because
Speaker 1: I still always started no no, no no, I mean like,
Speaker 1: who's like introducing um oh the guests that that will
Speaker 1: be your guest on? Basically who did it? But Mandy
Speaker 1: and I we plent it pretty That is That is
Speaker 1: the thing too. I know that a lot of other
Speaker 1: podcasts when they start, they ask if they need a
Speaker 1: producer and cameraman and studio and engineer, and we still
Speaker 1: are very much. We have ed in here with us,
Speaker 1: but we're still just us. We answer our own emails.
Speaker 1: Anything regarding ads does have to go through my heart now,
Speaker 1: but we we get get them, We get our guests,
Speaker 1: we approve our ads, we make all of our outlines. Um.
Speaker 1: And just to also, my my friend asked and I
Speaker 1: shared this on Patreon. In two days, we recorded six
Speaker 1: episodes and my friend was even just like, who comes
Speaker 1: up with that content? And I said we and I
Speaker 1: so even down to the research, uh, the segments, the everything,
Speaker 1: everything literally comes from Weezy and I. We have no
Speaker 1: one helping us. We have no assistant steel. That's what's
Speaker 1: good about Please don't hit this up for it. Don't
Speaker 1: hit u up for some assistant ship. I know. And
Speaker 1: it's funny because sometimes I'd be like it naturally seems
Speaker 1: like it would be vinny, but also like this kind
Speaker 1: of stuff isn't so bad. I think that's what really
Speaker 1: connects us to our show and our audience is that
Speaker 1: we make it. UM. I love this question. Which one
Speaker 1: is the diva out of the group. You're definitely diva?
Speaker 1: Are you serious? I'm the diva over the years you
Speaker 1: cannot play. And because he and I are working together
Speaker 1: in this stud video, now that's different because he sees happy.
Speaker 1: Who is the Diva? You're in person, Diva, you're texting Diva.
Speaker 1: Oh you guys can't see at one point that Mandy
Speaker 1: is texting Diva. You're in person, texting a corporate texting.
Speaker 1: You're in corporate. I am, matter of factly, if a
Speaker 1: matter of fact, if I can't email, if I can't text, you,
Speaker 1: do you want to be in our email? Threats? Because
Speaker 1: those she even hates even more, I highlight eye bold things.
Speaker 1: She fucking hates emails. She's no, I feel like you're
Speaker 1: yelling at me or giving me direction, and I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna listen to you. I don't say that anymore, not anymore.
Speaker 1: But like because it's I realized, I don't know. That
Speaker 1: sounded like texting diva to me right now? Diva, No,
Speaker 1: I am, I'm very, I'm very business like. I'm very.
Speaker 1: I mean yes that too. But he want to say
Speaker 1: you a bit diva? Not and you bro, you for
Speaker 1: sure are What does that mean? I'm trying to we
Speaker 1: want the definition of diva? What is the diva? I
Speaker 1: guess what what are we thinking? This, says Beyonce when
Speaker 1: it come up, then I'm gonna taking uh what a
Speaker 1: self important person who's temperamental and difficult to please. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you, I wash yours on braid in my
Speaker 1: hair right now because it's gonna be the clip bitches.
Speaker 1: You and Nick's gonna vote. No, we don't need Nigga's
Speaker 1: the vote. They don't know what the fun go on
Speaker 1: in here because they didn't even know who came up
Speaker 1: with the outline. Bitch, they don't know they get something
Speaker 1: with the let's put a pole. No, we are doing
Speaker 1: this one because, bitch, it is you difficult to please.
Speaker 1: You could walk into the Ritz Carlton into a brand
Speaker 1: new like why are the curtains closed? That? I literally said,
Speaker 1: I get off and I'm pleased by pleasing others. I sucked,
Speaker 1: dick because I get enjoyment out of pleasing other We
Speaker 1: get hard to please. I get pleasure by pleasing others.
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound like difficult to work with all they said,
Speaker 1: diva being now that you said, its next question from
Speaker 1: Danny tell us the truth? What did y'all really think
Speaker 1: of the City Girls? Because that episode was whack? What
Speaker 1: did you think of it? Um? So that was actually
Speaker 1: in my UM round up for as just one of
Speaker 1: the episodes that I thought should have made the list.
Speaker 1: I think that, Uh, if any of you guys came
Speaker 1: to our tour shows we walked out to City girls,
Speaker 1: Uh were they who we thought they were in their
Speaker 1: songs or even their tweets? Now? Uh, the tweets weren't
Speaker 1: like that when we inter them. No, they were not
Speaker 1: UM And I think I talked about this on Patreon.
Speaker 1: I want to be very fair with you guys too.
Speaker 1: Weezie and I recorded this morning. I cried, do you
Speaker 1: think we wanted to be in the studio and keep
Speaker 1: it like? We've been going through so many things personally,
Speaker 1: to be fair, Young Miami had just lost one of
Speaker 1: her baby fathers a couple of weeks maybe even before.
Speaker 1: This was also their first run together since j T
Speaker 1: had been out of jail, and we were also their
Speaker 1: first in person interview with COVID. They did all of
Speaker 1: those other interviews for that for that album that dropped virtually,
Speaker 1: and me and Weezy flew down to Atlanta for the
Speaker 1: next Wary It wasn't it like forty five minutes before
Speaker 1: they didn't want to forty five minutes before. They were like,
Speaker 1: and I said, listen, we'll do it for thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: But to be very fair, yeah, there was a lot
Speaker 1: of different variables involved with that, um, and but they
Speaker 1: did a good breakfast interview. They did. But also this
Speaker 1: was a lot of celebrities now are now coming for
Speaker 1: the very first time on the podcast. And I knew
Speaker 1: people that worked for Capital Music Group and and QC,
Speaker 1: and they were like, Yo, we're adding podcasts into the mix.
Speaker 1: I love horrible. Can we bring them on? And uh,
Speaker 1: shout out to Brittany, shout out to to everyone over
Speaker 1: there at QC. It was I think they just weren't
Speaker 1: ready for everything that Wheezy and I sat down like
Speaker 1: suck bitch, And I really don't think that they're used
Speaker 1: to an interviews being that way. Uh So, I don't
Speaker 1: know your thoughts because I know you hated it. We
Speaker 1: had we talked about it. You hated it, And I
Speaker 1: get why I did it, because I think it made
Speaker 1: us seem so abrasive and I don't think they were.
Speaker 1: We treated them different. Um, that's really why I hated it,
Speaker 1: because I realized what it made us look like. And
Speaker 1: I think it made us look unprofessional that we couldn't
Speaker 1: match the energy of our guests, Like people were saying
Speaker 1: like they're too hyped to be here, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: have you seen have you seen the show? But and yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe also that, And then I wondered too, like should
Speaker 1: I be matching someone's energy? But then also like no,
Speaker 1: we never. The best part of that show was when
Speaker 1: we were sitting on the couch alone laughing about a
Speaker 1: question we had. And I do think a lot of
Speaker 1: it did have to do with maybe her baby father passing.
Speaker 1: But j T, I don't think it was bad. I
Speaker 1: liked j T. I feel like I would hang out
Speaker 1: with j T. I would. I like j T was
Speaker 1: actually so I do think too. You have to understand
Speaker 1: if me and Wheezy are in the room and I
Speaker 1: can sense Wheezy down, I'm gonna feel uncomfortable or feel
Speaker 1: like I gotta pick stuff up. So and mind you,
Speaker 1: j j T hadn't done a press run yet because
Speaker 1: she was locked up like they saw stardom while j
Speaker 1: T was away, and she's obviously the start of that group.
Speaker 1: I don't care what anybody says, and I mean, I
Speaker 1: love them both because I don't like that people do
Speaker 1: that with us. I'm not gonna pin them against each other.
Speaker 1: I think they're both great and they bring just different
Speaker 1: things to their duo. I think a musical group is
Speaker 1: different than pinning them. Oh hell, now we outcast, bitch,
Speaker 1: we are. We are duo, and people gonna pin us
Speaker 1: together against each other the same way they do artists. Like,
Speaker 1: it's just a thing, you know. So I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: do that because we uplift black queens. Okay, we don't
Speaker 1: tear them apart? Right? Can you guys stop talking now?
Speaker 1: If I'm talking over something, you can think? So maybe
Speaker 1: I don't know about you question, I think, can they
Speaker 1: I didn't help? What are you thinking? Like? Honestly, I
Speaker 1: sometimes I think we're doing better, but then I realized no,
Speaker 1: And then honestly, it's one or the other that does
Speaker 1: it more. Each episode, Yeah, episode Mandy doing it worse.
Speaker 1: One episode is do you guys just get so into
Speaker 1: the topic that it's so hard for you not to
Speaker 1: release that thought and then try to move on. But
Speaker 1: it's so funny to see guests social cues when they're like,
Speaker 1: I guess I'm gonna just have to wait here. Okay,
Speaker 1: so maybe it was me with Olivia Troy. Yeah, absolutely absolutely, Okay, Wow, well,
Speaker 1: yeah you was seen that last week. You said, what
Speaker 1: you guess which guests was you in the last few
Speaker 1: that were recorded? None? Because that did great? Beat Which
Speaker 1: one was it? I'm cutting off wey in the solo
Speaker 1: episode right now? See No, okay, I barely talked that episode,
Speaker 1: So that's bullshit. And the times you talked, you talked
Speaker 1: over him. I promise you, I don't know what he was. Okay, Hey,
Speaker 1: we heard he was all spoken. Maybe I don't know
Speaker 1: how to be in a room with all spoken people.
Speaker 1: So somebody say, like, what if we gave them headphones?
Speaker 1: And I feel like it'd be worse if they we
Speaker 1: gave you all headphones to talk over? Well, and what's crazy?
Speaker 1: We don't. I think we don't do it now. But
Speaker 1: I used to wear headphones just to make sure everyone's levels. Uh,
Speaker 1: we're a certain you know, me being fucking corporate and
Speaker 1: wanting to be in control all the time. Um, but
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about it a lot. You guys
Speaker 1: may listen. Although we have a structured podcast, we talked
Speaker 1: about how much this is really to see that because
Speaker 1: Mandy goes. We had interviews in our vial. Then we
Speaker 1: don't do interviews. They're off because we don't think we're
Speaker 1: interviewing the movie if it's a conversationsation. And that's the thing.
Speaker 1: When you guys listen to us, even when we bring
Speaker 1: people on, we bring them in, say the word interview.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you a bitch. I ain't saying we interview with nobody.
Speaker 1: We're talking with such as such today you feel me
Speaker 1: um bad? Real quick couple questions, Why do y'all give
Speaker 1: so much cloud to cigarette? Oh we could skip that.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you about what that question was later. That
Speaker 1: was just a messy question. And keep the mess out,
Speaker 1: I mean keep them out. How do you guys handle people,
Speaker 1: and this is from g V thirty one, how do
Speaker 1: you guys handle people saying that they might enjoy other
Speaker 1: podcasts more than horrible decisions? They said your solo podcasts?
Speaker 1: I think, how do you guys handle people saying they
Speaker 1: might enjoy your other podcasts more than? I really liked
Speaker 1: this question, um, and I think the reason it's such
Speaker 1: a good question is because we have to learn how
Speaker 1: to take it as it's not an insult um. For one,
Speaker 1: we have a show that is very flagrant about sex.
Speaker 1: We talk in detail about our personal lives. We are
Speaker 1: loud on this show. It is not like our other
Speaker 1: shows because of the fact that we are all over
Speaker 1: and we have a dynamic on this so no, I know,
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions isn't for everybody. I have people come up
Speaker 1: to me industry and say they like what I'm doing
Speaker 1: and aren't listeners of the show because it's just not
Speaker 1: for them. I've had people say, oh, I don't really dada,
Speaker 1: but you know, good for y'all. I understand that sex
Speaker 1: isn't for everybody. So if you want to listen to
Speaker 1: for facts sake because you find it to be easier listening,
Speaker 1: that's a very easy listening podcast. Or if you like
Speaker 1: see the thing is because you want to hear about
Speaker 1: culture and what's going on and what's up to date.
Speaker 1: We talked about music and then even that's a different
Speaker 1: things periods is And it's crazy because someone came to
Speaker 1: me and was like, oh my god, I actually guys
Speaker 1: just talk about sex on all of her shows and
Speaker 1: we're talking about boots. These comments on Lorie Harvey and
Speaker 1: her body count Like I don't it's it's in pop
Speaker 1: culture as well. And yes I have a I have
Speaker 1: a way of talking about sex where I'm just very
Speaker 1: very fucking comfortable and I know that that makes other
Speaker 1: people uncomfortable. And then even periods is that is I
Speaker 1: don't even know how many men even listen to it.
Speaker 1: That has everything to do with feminine hygiene and health.
Speaker 1: So it's more of women sharing their stories. That is
Speaker 1: an interview format, and it's also digestible and like our
Speaker 1: us as personalities, that which will may be a good
Speaker 1: thing to wrap that up so it doesn't have to
Speaker 1: come up again, but on for facts sake, even when
Speaker 1: we do. We did a chicken recently. I have a
Speaker 1: joke where I will try to make every fact about sex.
Speaker 1: So I wanted to figure out how chickens fucked. We
Speaker 1: talked about chicken. Why black people like chicken? Where did
Speaker 1: that stigma come from? We talked about chickens memories like
Speaker 1: random facts. But like I always make the joke domb
Speaker 1: and to do the sex fact, that is our personality.
Speaker 1: It is it's us like literally, I can be at
Speaker 1: a restaurant with you and if my food is spicy
Speaker 1: across the table, I'm gonna be like no anal sex
Speaker 1: for me tonight, like like that is literally who we are.
Speaker 1: That's why you all like horrible decisions right like and
Speaker 1: so I think that you enjoying our other podacts. I
Speaker 1: feel no way about that. You don't either. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think that's a fine question. Uh, Mandy, how does your
Speaker 1: family mom feel about your public disdain for white people?
Speaker 1: You speak so harshly about them on the pond. This
Speaker 1: is from an apologetically you know what's crazy? I do
Speaker 1: want to I really like this because I thought it
Speaker 1: was a good question too. Last year, there was a
Speaker 1: huge disconnect with my sisters and my mom because Black
Speaker 1: lives matter. She wanted to go and protest because of
Speaker 1: course my mom is an ally like she has three
Speaker 1: black daughters, and like I remember my sister saying, no,
Speaker 1: don't go down there, that's not for you, and also
Speaker 1: me coming at her, telling her, I can't talk to
Speaker 1: you about my hair woes incorporate and there's so much
Speaker 1: about the black experience that she'll never understand. Uh, I'll
Speaker 1: be very honest with you guys and sharing a little
Speaker 1: bit about my mom. My mom hates white people too,
Speaker 1: with her white ass. Uh, she actually uh you know,
Speaker 1: grew up very troubled, and when she left home at
Speaker 1: at like fifteen, it was a black family that took
Speaker 1: her in. And so the way she she views, uh,
Speaker 1: just black people and white people and she knows that
Speaker 1: their trash and just the camaraderie, man, I'm sorry, the
Speaker 1: camaraderie that she has had and people who have truly
Speaker 1: looked out for her, because that's kind of innate into
Speaker 1: black people, like we're caring, We're we literally you know, want,
Speaker 1: we're nurturing. And so for her to have that experience
Speaker 1: early on, she doesn't have much good things to say
Speaker 1: about them either. And also to open up with you guys,
Speaker 1: that side of my family outside of her mom and
Speaker 1: her mom's mom, I know none of my cousins, uncle's
Speaker 1: aunts because we're black. So I don't have that experience
Speaker 1: or that closeness with the white side of my family
Speaker 1: at all. So yeah, she she laughs at it, uh,
Speaker 1: and she learns. She she opens her ears to learning,
Speaker 1: and that's that, Like she supports everything that this show means,
Speaker 1: and she supports me. So yeah, there's that cracks. Sorry sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: Uh do we have time for anymore or anyone more? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I can I can. Um, I feel like I
Speaker 1: feel like this one was already kind of did you
Speaker 1: already there's another Mandy one? Mandy? Would you like another one? Mandy?
Speaker 1: Why do you know you don't even give it? Is
Speaker 1: there another ship? How do you guys say, Mandy, would
Speaker 1: you like? Actually? Do it? Argued? Um this taste for
Speaker 1: white people? Both guys, y'all dated. Uh, how do you
Speaker 1: guys manage being business partners but not considering each other friends?
Speaker 1: And we kind of talking about Yeah, let you see,
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That's a good amount of I
Speaker 1: like that you want to do this one. How do
Speaker 1: you guys handle conflict between between each other or when
Speaker 1: it comes to choosing let's talk about that regard to
Speaker 1: choosing guests. So it's interesting because I think for the
Speaker 1: most part, guests are really uh an issue for us
Speaker 1: at all, Like we both um kind of let the
Speaker 1: other one and maybe because we split up our episodes
Speaker 1: kind of, So Mandy and I record about two episodes
Speaker 1: um in a session because our shows are only an hour,
Speaker 1: so we'll do an hour for one episode an hour
Speaker 1: for the other. Just makes more sense timely wise, bringing
Speaker 1: everybody in, setting up everything and bringing in you know,
Speaker 1: our bed in. So I think I like this one
Speaker 1: because the only thing I feel conflict with is not
Speaker 1: making sure we have too much of the same type
Speaker 1: of guests too quickly. For example, Um, if we have
Speaker 1: like a dom on back to back or someone that
Speaker 1: works in d s M. I think Mandy had brought
Speaker 1: in Dallas Playhouse and die a Dare And she mentioned
Speaker 1: D s M with both of them, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: well why would we have both of them? And She's like,
Speaker 1: all right. One person is a rope muse and does
Speaker 1: electro play. The other one has this that's probably the
Speaker 1: only different like even and and And that's the thing too.
Speaker 1: Under this umbrella of sex, there is just so much
Speaker 1: things untapped. But also there's experiences that Weezy and I
Speaker 1: don't have. So to be fair, everybody people are different. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but we can bring in ten people in b D
Speaker 1: s M, and we're talking about B D s M
Speaker 1: ten weeks in a row. A lot of their experiences
Speaker 1: are not going to be the same. A lot of
Speaker 1: their their takes on certain things are going to be
Speaker 1: the same. What they're into isn't necessarily going to be
Speaker 1: the same. Um, you know as far as yeah, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say that there really is ever really any conflict
Speaker 1: with guests. I would say conflict comes with after the episode. Um,
Speaker 1: as far as if maybe we thought they would be
Speaker 1: a better guest than they were, or um, you know
Speaker 1: we have to tiptoe on maybe was the conversation good again?
Speaker 1: We we mentioned we started putting trigger warnings in front
Speaker 1: of things. I've been attacked recently for how an episode went. Uh,
Speaker 1: so I think we really talked about the response of
Speaker 1: the episode and did we really do a good job
Speaker 1: in the conversation or the outline? Um? And so yeah,
Speaker 1: uh yeah, I don't think there's really much conflict though
Speaker 1: with with guests. I think for any for our show,
Speaker 1: it's very easy. I don't know what you guys, to
Speaker 1: go in through. It for our show is very easy
Speaker 1: because sex industry we like it. Um next weekend. Somehow
Speaker 1: we're connected to a whole bunch of people in it.
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. Who early on was like, how do
Speaker 1: y'all find all these guests? Bro? They fall in your
Speaker 1: lap now? But not only that, try joined me and
Speaker 1: my nigga at the sex at the at the Nude Beach.
Speaker 1: Um Tiana. You know we talked about how we met.
Speaker 1: I yeah, but we're really in this community. People are
Speaker 1: in this space. People want to come on this. Like
Speaker 1: when people meet us see us, they're like, they tell
Speaker 1: you what they can bring up next week. You guys
Speaker 1: are gonna hear from someone who's visually impaired that I
Speaker 1: met because he came in the studio to check it out.
Speaker 1: And like, the first thing I thought when I knew
Speaker 1: he couldn't see it was like, what's pussy like for you?
Speaker 1: And he sat with us, and I thought he got
Speaker 1: very vulnerable. Um in order to talk about I mean right,
Speaker 1: like I don't talk about well, damn really, I didn't
Speaker 1: say nothing. I say nothing. It's the facial cues, are
Speaker 1: you know what? And that's the one thing I'd be like,
Speaker 1: we us on YouTube, the YouTube we catch my face. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just keeping on hurt. It lost my vision to
Speaker 1: talk about watching porn, having sexual experiences, going as far
Speaker 1: as to talk about dating people, going on my phone
Speaker 1: while blind, Like, I don't. I think that's going to
Speaker 1: be one of the most interesting episodes we've ever had,
Speaker 1: because that's a world we're introduced to that's never been
Speaker 1: explored we've done disabilities very lightly touched on disabilities on
Speaker 1: the show. We could have done. I would like to
Speaker 1: do more disabilities. So, like, I think that was a
Speaker 1: very necessary conversation. And um, that's the thing though, like
Speaker 1: there's so many people we haven't covered, like just it's
Speaker 1: just so much to touch on, and um, it's and
Speaker 1: it's like never ending, and I'm just glad that basically
Speaker 1: everybody can come on talk about second Dick. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you guys for supporting us. We
Speaker 1: know there was a bunch of questions. We're actually going
Speaker 1: to continue the conversation with more of the questions that
Speaker 1: you asked on our Patreon this week, so you guys
Speaker 1: can check these out at the same time you're listening
Speaker 1: to this episode, our questions episode will be there as well.
Speaker 1: After Oh yeah, well you just got a whole schedule
Speaker 1: that I am not aware of. She talking about next week,
Speaker 1: you're gonna here it is. Y'all also gonna hear this
Speaker 1: on Patreon And this is the diva I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: How are you just sitting here telling them what's gonna
Speaker 1: happen and you ain't even talk to me first? The
Speaker 1: same way with these birds we're talking about. We did
Speaker 1: not talk. We said we'll released the questions on the day.
Speaker 1: She talked about this on her Instagram Live Mandy she
Speaker 1: didn't even hear about it. I said, what do you
Speaker 1: think we could just keep continuing? This is literally, I
Speaker 1: goes she talked about it with Live. I don't know
Speaker 1: the schedule. She's sitting here. This is what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: We have told because maybe you get in my head honestly,
Speaker 1: hold on. Maybe it was in my head that was
Speaker 1: hold on. I really feel like I texted it to Mandy. Dude,
Speaker 1: there's so many questions. We can do a Patreon part
Speaker 1: two with this. Yeah, but you didn't tell me the
Speaker 1: schedule when we drop in. None of that cool part two.
Speaker 1: But you're sitting here. Look you see what I'm seeing
Speaker 1: it out because this is a raw, real But this
Speaker 1: is also why I'm a text even because I do
Speaker 1: believe everything needs to be first in writing because and
Speaker 1: you know I'm petty. You'll be like I didn't see that.
Speaker 1: I'll go up and fucking react exactly where the fun
Speaker 1: I do do that? See that that's a diva. That's
Speaker 1: something because because if you if you or or Wheezy
Speaker 1: be like you didn't say that. Oh bitch, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: scroll up because you'll gonna see where the fukut Mandy
Speaker 1: said something to me other day. I told you at
Speaker 1: the last point when I said Mandy, and then she
Speaker 1: wrote me back two minutes later. I know she must
Speaker 1: have went to did go up? I didn't say that. Fine. Uh,
Speaker 1: But guys, if you might be next week, n I
Speaker 1: don't know. She don't know nothing, so don't listen to
Speaker 1: any of the schedule. And she just said. Uh. But
Speaker 1: if you guys want to hear the other UM Patreon
Speaker 1: episode with questions, go on over to patreon dot com
Speaker 1: back Slash Horrible Decisions and you guys can hear more.
Speaker 1: They're also we did talk about our other pods, so
Speaker 1: if you want to listen to our other pods, I'll
Speaker 1: give this feel of mine uh and I will pass
Speaker 1: the mic over to to Weezy to tell hers. But
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Speaker 1: we record over here at Horrible Decisions. So we talked
Speaker 1: about everything that's uh pop culture. We talked about music.
Speaker 1: We have a Freshly Squeeze segment where we do actually
Speaker 1: play music. I love talking about music, and we always
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Speaker 1: All right. Um, did you see the clip where Eddie
Speaker 1: and I did Black Facts and he not Black Facts?
Speaker 1: But I did see one where you possible No, you
Speaker 1: you introduced yourself as something. Edie said her braids are
Speaker 1: tight and her money's rights nuts. But we did recently
Speaker 1: Black Facts love and then we did witchcraft. When we
Speaker 1: did Black Facts, I did black churches as one of
Speaker 1: the facts and like where it came from? When why
Speaker 1: do we shout and stuff? And I played this song
Speaker 1: call Stomp, which I'll should know about frankly, and he's
Speaker 1: listening to it. He goes, well, Jesus in the house,
Speaker 1: Jesus wants to drink, and so do you? Oh my god. No.
Speaker 1: And guys, we've had Eddie on the show Eddie, Eddie
Speaker 1: Della Seppi is Wheezy's hosts over there on for a
Speaker 1: fact sakey listen to that. And we've also had my
Speaker 1: co host on my other show here on Horrible Decisions,
Speaker 1: Bridget Kelly. Shout out, Bridget Kelly that's that's right. We
Speaker 1: have allhead I'm up. We should we should do both
Speaker 1: of them at the same time. That would be Eddie
Speaker 1: lives West Coast. He's gonna be coming here to film
Speaker 1: some episodes in person. Could we should do that? That
Speaker 1: would be funny. We can you imagine Eddie and Eddie
Speaker 1: and Bridget Kelly. No, I cannot, I cannot. That would
Speaker 1: be really be interesting. He's gonna be like, well, Eddie
Speaker 1: is Eddie got an eye for everybody? I know I
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Speaker 1: for listening. To yeah, another episode, And how is I
Speaker 1: going to tell you that I have a bay when
Speaker 1: I'm just sucking a nigga at first? Right? But bro,
Speaker 1: we also like we share and give so much of ourselves.
Speaker 1: Do you know how how it feels to just kind
Speaker 1: of want something of your own? Like my mom is
Speaker 1: coming up next week, and we was like, let's see
Speaker 1: if she wants to come on the show, and I said, honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't want to bring my mom on the show anymore.
Speaker 1: I mean, our audience is way bigger than what it
Speaker 1: used to be, and there's so many parts of myself
Speaker 1: that I don't feel like I have to myself, and
Speaker 1: so my relationship right now, my family, I want to
Speaker 1: hold something sacred because which y'all just feel entitled to
Speaker 1: every time my pussy ass in mouth get bust wide open,
Speaker 1: and I do I kind of want to keep some
Speaker 1: of that stuff to myself, don't Is that okay with you?
Speaker 1: I honestly totally understand that, And I think I didn't
Speaker 1: understand that until like public figure ship came. Um, I
Speaker 1: want to tell you something too, I thought was really dope.
Speaker 1: So you know, we don't really have celebrities on horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: But on my new show, fuses put a great budget
Speaker 1: into it and really want this to be like a
Speaker 1: debuting show in this realm. They've never done something like this,
Speaker 1: and they have some celebrities on this show. And I
Speaker 1: said to the head of talent, he's here in New York.
Speaker 1: He flew down to be here. I said, you know,
Speaker 1: I really appreciate what you guys are doing because like
Speaker 1: I know, like nobody knows me. And he's like, I
Speaker 1: don't know why you keep saying that. He said, because
Speaker 1: every rep I get on the phone with, he's like,
Speaker 1: if the rapper doesn't know you, if the celebrity doesn't
Speaker 1: know you, they're fucking managers. Like I love horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: Which one is it? He's like, not one hasn't known
Speaker 1: horrible decisions. He's like, somebody on the team will tell
Speaker 1: me about the podcast, they'll offer me to send you close.
Speaker 1: They can't to talk about it. And he's like, he's like,
Speaker 1: you are, but you aren't and you have to remember that,
Speaker 1: like you want are a public figure, he said. If
Speaker 1: you didn't feel like that a few years ago, I
Speaker 1: get it. He was like, but this is changing, and
Speaker 1: he said even the accessibility. You know, he talked about
Speaker 1: my safety with um doing this in studio consults, like
Speaker 1: I let people come in the studio and consult with
Speaker 1: me instead of on zoom. And I actually removed it
Speaker 1: because it's something he said to me. Um, I've been
Speaker 1: in the studio Mandy literally taking zoom calls or even
Speaker 1: working on my Fuse show and people like knock on
Speaker 1: the door and they're like, oh, we just wanted to
Speaker 1: see the space or whatever, and so like we've totally
Speaker 1: changed and Alex is like we're putting cameras in there,
Speaker 1: um Like and the thing is with our doorman at
Speaker 1: the in the building, like we let them know like
Speaker 1: sure of course people can come up, and now we've
Speaker 1: totally changed that. Now I have to call down and
Speaker 1: say who's allowed to come up? Like we change the
Speaker 1: structure because it's true, Like that's happening to Charlemagne. You
Speaker 1: know what. I'm like gonna hold you even with scheduling. Uh,
Speaker 1: you know this weekend when you told me it was booked,
Speaker 1: that's why I said, oh, you have a booking at
Speaker 1: three to four, Okay, let's do twelve to two. Dude.
Speaker 1: It's feeling amazing damn if I can make it to
Speaker 1: where I don't have to run into someone because I
Speaker 1: know that your place is getting booked, not only by
Speaker 1: by peers of ours, but fans. I ain't trying to
Speaker 1: meet and greet bitch every We were in Gotham and
Speaker 1: people were like that. People were in there too. Like,
Speaker 1: But it does feel good to be busy. That's a
Speaker 1: great feeling. Man. I can't tell you, but now we
Speaker 1: need to block out. I mean, I know right now
Speaker 1: I'm busy and you're busy, but like we'll have our
Speaker 1: scheduled day and time. But um no, it feels really
Speaker 1: good to be able to be busy. It's just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: life is changing and it feels really good. Money need
Speaker 1: to change? How um Okay, this one I think is
Speaker 1: good and I know a lot of you guys have
Speaker 1: questions about this. Can you guys talk about the progression
Speaker 1: of your relationships. I know Mandy's boo is perfect, but
Speaker 1: have you had any have you had any doubts um
Speaker 1: recently the longer year with your partners. I notice Wheezy
Speaker 1: has more passive aggressive about obey jokes. I know it's
Speaker 1: a joke and he's your person, but do you feel
Speaker 1: a change in your dynamic in the relationship. So I
Speaker 1: joke about old Bay more because I feel like it's
Speaker 1: been funner to joke about it because I'm more comfortable
Speaker 1: in my situation. And for two, I think Mandy is
Speaker 1: really in love and I feel like I was feeling
Speaker 1: like that two years ago when I meet Obey, So
Speaker 1: I kind of like playing the devil's advocate. Um, but
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily notice that, Like I don't know, Um,
Speaker 1: I mean ship. They just left here this morning. He's
Speaker 1: been so supportive with my show and helping me and
Speaker 1: fucking we are actually used his apartment for a scene
Speaker 1: because my building wouldn't approve I use um the location rights,
Speaker 1: and I was freaking out. They wanted to put me
Speaker 1: in some random Airbnb and I was like, oh my god, bro,
Speaker 1: like no, this doesn't match my aesthetic. This is stupid.
Speaker 1: Like I was really freaking out, and he was like,
Speaker 1: take mine, because he owns his crid and he's been
Speaker 1: really great man, Like I just joke around about him
Speaker 1: because he ain't ship. What about your perfect I mean
Speaker 1: that that is the thing. I mean, he's so perfect. Uh,
Speaker 1: Like he just left this morning as well, and you
Speaker 1: got to say something wrong about him, so we feel
Speaker 1: like we're all normal.