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Speaker 1: welcome to the episode. So horrible decision now, if you

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Speaker 1: are a YouTube viewer today, go ahead and announce the

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Speaker 1: fucking ship that you're doing. I got preconsent from the

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Speaker 1: horn Hive on live if it was okay because you

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Speaker 1: work with them, you don't work with them. You ain't

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Speaker 1: even ask me what she sign us up for. Definitely

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Speaker 1: was like, you could do it this, but Mandy gonna

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Speaker 1: say no. I want to know if anybody with a

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Speaker 1: job asks their friends, hey you think I could do

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Speaker 1: this at work? And doesn't ask anybody at work but

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Speaker 1: ask their friends, Hey can I do you think I

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Speaker 1: could do this? So when one of the questions comes up,

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Speaker 1: like what kind of conflicts do you guys have, we

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Speaker 1: can talk about this moment. I um, we ran a

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Speaker 1: little bit late, a little a whole lot of late.

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Speaker 1: So Brilliant Idiots is now at the studio WT of

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Speaker 1: Media and unfortunately Nigga's nig and there is a whole

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Speaker 1: production and their god damn set is a whole thing.

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Speaker 1: How long is their show? I told you it was

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Speaker 1: about two hours, and it was about three that they

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Speaker 1: late to go get my hair done and the extra

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Speaker 1: hour and a half that we're spending U is what

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Speaker 1: they'll do to unbraid and take my hair down, and

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Speaker 1: so I have to now do it myself. Do I

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Speaker 1: have a rat tail comb? No? I have a tiny

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Speaker 1: little brush. This ship sucks. You ain't real why you

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Speaker 1: mother be doing it? Motherfucking take yo braids out? What

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Speaker 1: an edge brush? Bro? This sucks so much. I'm not

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Speaker 1: eve gonna lie y'all. Y'all, honestly, this is gonna ear.

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Speaker 1: Take you on YouTube so much because you're gonna want

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Speaker 1: to help me. Oh my god, I would love to

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Speaker 1: see the comments for that. Oh yeah, they're gonna be

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Speaker 1: like just out like niggas always got something to say

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Speaker 1: when I first off, the fact that there are so

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Speaker 1: many different ways to take braids out, and I've been

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Speaker 1: someone who was taking my hair and they'd be like,

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Speaker 1: that is even how are you supposed to do it?

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Speaker 1: The way I take my hair out is the way

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Speaker 1: I find your hair out. Mind the business that minds you,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, whatever you do, mind the business that minds it.

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Speaker 1: Felt good. Now I'm gonna trying not to take it

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Speaker 1: out all the way, so the ship in everywhere. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna just trying to unloosen each one and I'm just

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Speaker 1: vacuum again. Yes, we will have to vacum again. And

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Speaker 1: thank you for minding everybody. All right, Fine, Well, we

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Speaker 1: have a fun show today because we are basically going

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Speaker 1: to answer all of your questions that you have, and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna go through everything that was sent into Horrible

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Speaker 1: to Patreon, to our stories, to my stories. These are

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Speaker 1: some really fun questions and there are so many questions

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Speaker 1: Mandy is anal, I'm heavy on the I have anal.

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Speaker 1: We are going to start with Vanalo so many questions.

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Speaker 1: But Vanilla Ship today is from healthline dot com What

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Speaker 1: causes people to have sexual fetishes? I fucking thought this

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Speaker 1: was really dope. We definitely should bring somebody onto, like

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Speaker 1: a therapist or some ship. But you know what's crazy though,

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Speaker 1: this Vanilla ship, But what's crazy is that I still

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Speaker 1: don't like that there's some sort of psychological aspect to

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Speaker 1: talked about how I'm like, at least I have. I

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Speaker 1: hate that it's tied that way, really like because a

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Speaker 1: lot of yours makes sense, which one. I think that

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Speaker 1: think your daddy issues. I think you even talked about it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I just hate the idea that kinks

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Speaker 1: And this is why you like, like, okay, tell me

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Speaker 1: what in your mind psychologically why someone would like golden showers.

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Speaker 1: from childhood when a time was easier, which I thought

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Speaker 1: It ain't like I yearned for a daddy like I

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Speaker 1: the you Be Horrid Derve. We actually talk about this

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Speaker 1: guys feel about Like, I don't know. This is random

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Speaker 1: to bring up, but I don't know if I like

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Speaker 1: watching people get that lit during podcast. Drink Champs is

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Speaker 1: And also Drink Champs is different because that's their brand.

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Speaker 1: known each other fifteen years. That's crazy, and well, I

426
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 1: guess a lot of people did too, want to know

427
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:44,480
Speaker 1: how the fund? How don't y'all like each other and

428
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 1: y'all even be around each other? How did that mean?

429
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,960
Speaker 1: How did how did this start? And you have to

430
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 1: be very fair, y'all we knew each other fifteen years ago.

431
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 1: Uh we met um I think in person for the

432
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,679
Speaker 1: first time fighting ironically, that's crazy. Well, one of the

433
00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,520
Speaker 1: questions about that is the guy, so we'll get into that.

434
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 1: But but no, I think we've outgrown a lot of

435
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:08,680
Speaker 1: what we were as friends, like and it's different. We've

436
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:10,920
Speaker 1: changed a lot, you know, I've changed a lot. You've

437
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 1: grown in different ways, Like our interests are different. So

438
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 1: like the friendship necessarily no, And I honestly don't think

439
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: if we were friends today we would do the same things.

440
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 1: Like so it maybe a bar hopping or like some

441
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 1: random sharper because you'd be at the white bars, Mandy,

442
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,680
Speaker 1: I like black shit. I go to lab to black

443
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 1: lab does not count as black. That is mixing it okay,

444
00:22:34,840 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: but like no, like when I hit up my friends,

445
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 1: not really, I'm gonna tell y'all what happened. We did

446
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 1: try to hang out at one time, right, and this

447
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 1: is when I was poor, bro. She was taking me

448
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 1: to ship with drinks and trying to barrow which I

449
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 1: haven't finished my fucking cocktail. Slow down. I'm paying a

450
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,840
Speaker 1: drink to be around niggas that don't want me. Also

451
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 1: leaving to go sleep with Wheezy after spending hundreds of

452
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 1: I do like do like a bogie play bie and

453
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: Nick is not buying. My moments are over but not

454
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 1: like they're like that should have be doing on the weekends,

455
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 1: Like I love a good art gallery. I love like

456
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 1: doing a workout or like the going to the strand

457
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: with my friend. And I feel like many like this

458
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 1: sounds awful. I love little art gallery, Dame. I go

459
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: on seesaw it's this art app and you basically bounce

460
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,639
Speaker 1: around a different ship like and you know, I just

461
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: feel like many like what are we doing? But no,

462
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 1: like I think that's a great question. What are we

463
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: doing to work on the relationship? And that was it,

464
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,200
Speaker 1: and I think, yeah, we are in therapy, damn something.

465
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 1: But I think one of the best things is that, yeah,

466
00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: we now understand that, and that also knowing like the

467
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 1: therapist that something I thought was funny. Mandy was like,

468
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 1: I don't need to do this. I don't need to

469
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:49,479
Speaker 1: do that. I'm just up front and he goes, okay, Mandy, Well,

470
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: with FBI agents when they're trying to negotiate with terrorists,

471
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,640
Speaker 1: they too can show empathy. Do you think you could

472
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: do the outs pits? I was like, they call me

473
00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 1: a terrorist, you definitely. But anyway, that's what we're doing

474
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,679
Speaker 1: to work on our ship. And honestly, I think just

475
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,920
Speaker 1: acknowledging because I said to Mandy, like yo, like I'm

476
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: going through too much it and you're going through too

477
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,080
Speaker 1: much it. And we've known each other too long to

478
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: be each other's and we should this show should be

479
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: relaxing and fun, and so we are trying. So there, y'all.

480
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 1: We know y'all have argued before, but has it ever

481
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: gotten serious? I'm just gonna tell you. Most of these

482
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: questions are like, do y' all hate each other? How

483
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:29,639
Speaker 1: do y'all handle other? Yeah? So this one, I like

484
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 1: though just a second even more into a real quick

485
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: But we know y'all, y'all have argued before, has ever

486
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: gone serious like a high consideration of quitting or stopping

487
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 1: the show? One percent? Mandy said, we need to know

488
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: how to do a dissolution of the basins because when

489
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 1: we was like, yeah, and I'll be very honest with you,

490
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: uh and the audience and my peace of mind recently,

491
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: which the reason for this episode, guys, is just because

492
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 1: we both had to have talks uh through ourselves. I mean,

493
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 1: because we don't talk on a friendly level. There are

494
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,920
Speaker 1: a lot of things that Weezy and I have been

495
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 1: both dealing with on a personal level that neither of

496
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,440
Speaker 1: us knew about each other, and so what happened was

497
00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: the projection of maybe just not wanting to deal with

498
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: any stress with this show because of everything else. I

499
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: didn't know what she was going through. She didn't know

500
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 1: what I was going through. Um, And so our disconnect

501
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: probably came from literally not having that empathy or compassion

502
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: knowing what we both were really going through. Um. And yeah,

503
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: just with everything that I've been dealing with this year. Uh,

504
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: not only with horrible decisions, but with my two other

505
00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 1: shows and starting a business and just being so I

506
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,360
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't know where I'm at right now

507
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 1: mentally as an entrepreneur, as as a lot of things. Um.

508
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 1: I literally, yeah, Weezy came in me real hard, and

509
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:50,159
Speaker 1: I see Seed our lawyer, and was like, well, listen,

510
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: maybe we should discuss what a dissolutions. Yeah. She literally

511
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 1: was like, you could had a conversation because I ain't

512
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: paying for this, And I was like no, because at

513
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: this point, so what is buying you out look like?

514
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: And I was just so frustrated. I felt the same

515
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: bit you could go, bitch, I will buy your ass that,

516
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: but you can't buy you know, I could buy you

517
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: beat a gonna be Devil's advocate, how much would it

518
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: be to buy you out? Oh? You know, I actually wondered,

519
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: because we don't really have a we didn't talk about

520
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: about discuss that, and I wondered what that would be like.

521
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: And I was like, what would I do? And honestly, um,

522
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: I you don't set your price. It's based on the

523
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 1: I don't know based on what. It's based on what.

524
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: That's the real part. There's equity and you you know what.

525
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: She also it doesn't count because even when she used

526
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,159
Speaker 1: to talk about how much money would take for her

527
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: to shoot on somebody, she'd be throwing these real ridiculous

528
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 1: numbers out, like a million dollars. Bitch, you will shoot

529
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: on somebody for a thousand? Stop lying she comes on

530
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: the show and talking about a million dollars. I don't

531
00:26:55,640 --> 00:27:00,400
Speaker 1: I do very decent. I may say saying that, which

532
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 1: I go down about what you mean, my my numbers

533
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: be realistic that I'll be talking about. I just feel

534
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,679
Speaker 1: like it would be hard because it's just the time

535
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 1: in the years, and so honestly, I didn't know what Like,

536
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 1: I didn't know what buy out things were, but I

537
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: also knew and realized, like it's just like the show

538
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 1: is so valuable as Mandy and I it's not even funny,

539
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: Like you know when I watch other shows like and

540
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: sometimes the friendliness is cute. I'm like, it's just we're

541
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: so like Yin and Yang that it's almost become the

542
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,880
Speaker 1: brand of us. But outside of the brand of us.

543
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 1: I'll be very honest. When me and Wheezy do get

544
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: into like our our spats, we always come to say,

545
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: this show is bigger than us now, like from the

546
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: from the live shows to the emails that we get

547
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: to the d m s on how many lives we've changed,

548
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: and how many relationships we've mended, and how how much

549
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 1: confidence we've instilled in other women. We literally be like, bro,

550
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: it's it ain't about us, Like what was edding or

551
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 1: Alex knows Alex that did an episode where we were

552
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 1: screaming at each other and they had to stop. It

553
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,439
Speaker 1: might have been edding too, But I remember Alex, I

554
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: was about to say, he always talks about this with

555
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 1: me when it comes to Mandy. If I've ever gotten

556
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: an argument with Mandy and talked to him about it,

557
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 1: He's like, I have never seen two people talk to

558
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: each other like that and click. But I think the

559
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: only reason we click is because we understand what we're

560
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 1: doing it for. And I really had to look outside

561
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:28,199
Speaker 1: of myself, and Therapy did that a little bit to

562
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: me too. I was like, what we do is just

563
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 1: so big and people may feel like it's small. That's fine,

564
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: but like to go on the road. I don't know

565
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: how many cities we've done and see that how you

566
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: watch people? It's over with Vinnie. I think we argued

567
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: one the show when Vinnie was our assistant at the time,

568
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: and he was like, girl, look at all these fucking

569
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: people outside, like what the fund is wrong with you?

570
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: And it's true, like how can I let this moment

571
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: of a disagreement because we're so bullish, Like really it's stupid.

572
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: But also for the podcast is listening, Uh, this really

573
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: becomes so much more than just showing up and talking

574
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: on a micro And I don't think that people understand

575
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: the business of podcasting, especially when money is involved, especially

576
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,000
Speaker 1: when there's teams involved, like we have an agent, we're

577
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 1: part of a network now. Like even even Charlemagne was

578
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: here earlier and was just like like what y'all do

579
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: like cannot be replicated. It's so hard for this just

580
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 1: to happen. And I think a lot of times with podcasts,

581
00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,200
Speaker 1: you know, you have an idea and you want your

582
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 1: friends to join in, or you you know someone that

583
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: would be a good fit, and there is there's so

584
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: much more to podcasting than just showing up and talking

585
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: and um yeah, so to all the podcasters that just

586
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: think it's just showing up, uh yeah, it's not. And also,

587
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: I would never suggest you, guys to start a business

588
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: with your best friends. That's something that's often asked. Don't

589
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 1: do it if you want to be a great podcast

590
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 1: and and you have faith in it. If you do

591
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: it with your best friend, just know you're gonna lose

592
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 1: your best friend. And speaking Charlemagne, yeah, when the Twitter

593
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: thing happened, here you call. He's like, hey, I just

594
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: wanted to check on you. Everything all right? I was like,

595
00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: whatever we are and he was like, well, I'm wanna

596
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: tell you right now, y'all better get it together because

597
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: horrible decisions is big. The one y'all leave, it doesn't

598
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: matter because it's not the same show. And y'all could

599
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 1: just keep thinking whatever, I could do this, and he

600
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: was like, you can't. It's this horrible decisions as Mandy

601
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: and Wheezy is your ship? Like, get it together and

602
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: it's true. Alright, tell us about the dude he both

603
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: dated that made you, guys friend of me. Do you

604
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: remember his last name from Hell? Yeah? That is his

605
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: last Let me look him up. Let me look him up.

606
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god. So guys, here's what happened, right. I

607
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:40,719
Speaker 1: started dating a guy, uh, we'll call him Jay. I

608
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: started dating him and Wheezy was his ex and I

609
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: guess Wheezy was not over him, but he had moved

610
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: on to me. Mandy. Bro We went to Disney World

611
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: together on Christmas. Bro Christmas, Yeah, so you was okay?

612
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: You were probably still the side chick I'm looking at.

613
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: Maybe you was giving him pussy. I wasn't. I never

614
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,479
Speaker 1: had sex with me neither. That is the crazy thing.

615
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: We also fought over nigga that we never had sex with,

616
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: but by him. On Christmas ed Disney with the friend

617
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 1: and met the family. Mandy. I think he lives in

618
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: Brooklyn now, No fucking way, he does not live here.

619
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: The only person with his first and last name went

620
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: to school in Orlando, from work in Orlando. He was

621
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: from New York. Yeah, he was in New York. Nigga whinny,

622
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: he's bad. We got when we do a live show,

623
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 1: my mama, My god, I bet you he's not that

624
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: cute no more. I bet you he's Oh can you

625
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: see a picture of him? No, it's just well, that's

626
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 1: probably why he wanted me because I could bring his

627
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,040
Speaker 1: hair and you probably couldn't. I couldn't. I know you couldn't.

628
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:45,120
Speaker 1: But anyways, we literally just started this, uh just battle

629
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 1: because she was still claiming to be in the picture.

630
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: But this was my boyfriend. Uh. I wasn't claiming, but

631
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: she was claiming um. And so again, this was back

632
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: in two thousand. Talk about more the guy, more than

633
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: the whole story. What was he like, how he worked

634
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 1: at it? He worked at a VET when I was

635
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: dating him. His sister was a veteran and he was

636
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: like an assistant at the vet. I mean, he had

637
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Speaker 1: a car. He was an older guy. I probably shouldn't

638
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Speaker 1: have been with him, now that I think about it.

639
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: I was in high school too, though, No I was

640
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Speaker 1: a freshman. He had graduated high school by the time

641
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Speaker 1: I was a freshman. He was out of he was

642
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: out of high school. He was like eighteen, but graduated

643
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: high school. I was fourteen fifteen. Okay, I met him

644
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Speaker 1: when he was in high school. Yeah, you did, because

645
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 1: you dated him like a year before I did. Yeah.

646
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Speaker 1: By the time I dated him, he was he. I

647
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: didn't steal him. He was single when I when I

648
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: met him. Dude, Honestly, I'm trying to remember as much

649
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: as I can. It didn't seem like Mandy and himmer

650
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: to get when we would speak, because he was just like, oh,

651
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 1: I just met this because nigga's lie, niggas lie and no.

652
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: But we did find ou out and we finally became

653
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 1: friends because Mandy and I got on the phone and

654
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: was talking about the city, was saying and it was

655
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: like now because we became friends way later. Yes, because

656
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,959
Speaker 1: we bonded talking about what the funk Jay did. Okay, anyway, anyway,

657
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 1: fun him not So that is how Yeah, that's what happened.

658
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: What's next? What other questions? Okay, Uh, I've never said

659
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: yaw in my life. I'm gonna be honest with you.

660
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:11,480
Speaker 1: Has a guy or girl ever seen y'all in person

661
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: a lot about not knowing who y'all were and tried

662
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: to get with I'm gonna just say why a w

663
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Speaker 1: He's saying, so I went on a riot date where

664
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Speaker 1: a guy didn't tell me he knew who I was

665
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 1: till the end of the day, and I didn't like that.

666
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,160
Speaker 1: And I think he listens to He might be listening

667
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: to this episode. He said, he's listened to every episode.

668
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: So What's Crazy is one of my like partners that

669
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: I talked about often on the show, and he listens

670
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: to this episode, he listens to the podcast. He Uh,

671
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,719
Speaker 1: when you guys knew I had a guy in my

672
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: life that like put me on payroll? I think it's

673
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: how I described him on the show. Uh, he didn't

674
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: tell me until maybe three years into us, like really

675
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: fucking with each other? You knew he listened? No, but no,

676
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: he didn't know me from the podcast. Oh he knew

677
00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: me from Twitter days and my blogging and so it's

678
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:06,560
Speaker 1: crazy on the first day. So that's exactly probably how

679
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,359
Speaker 1: So my very first job here when I moved to

680
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,240
Speaker 1: New York, I helped open the Applebeees across from the Barclays.

681
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: I was a bartender there and this guy, yeah still there.

682
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,960
Speaker 1: This guy came in and he was so strategic and

683
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 1: he told me all this night was like, are you

684
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: fucking kidding me. He sat at my bar, he ordered,

685
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Speaker 1: uh he had. I don't know wings and stuff. Didn't

686
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:30,600
Speaker 1: really talk to him at all, but I knew he

687
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 1: asked to put the Orlando Magic on TV. I was like,

688
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 1: of course, I'm fucking from Orlando. I'm in New York.

689
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: You're a Magic fan? Oh my god. He's like, yeah, yeah,

690
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: you know, I used to live in central Florida. And

691
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, cool um. And then when he

692
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: went to leave, his bill was forty dollars. He left

693
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: me a forty dollar tips. So of course we exchanged

694
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Speaker 1: numbers and then literally he told me three years later,

695
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,440
Speaker 1: like I knew exactly who you were where you work

696
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: because you tweeted about it. I came in. I knew

697
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 1: you were a Magic fan. Why we knew where you

698
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,319
Speaker 1: work because you tweeted, of course, But back then I

699
00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: didn't like he knew I was at Applebe's, like nig

700
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Speaker 1: I used to tell fans pull up wherever I barted,

701
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 1: like pull up, like I used to tell people, Hey,

702
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 1: it's my ship tonight, like they used to always come

703
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: to the clubs, he said, But he didn't tell me

704
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: that it was strategic his tip that he left me

705
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 1: him asking for the magic game. You're probably talking. I didn't.

706
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,240
Speaker 1: I didn't know until like years later after he became

707
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:33,360
Speaker 1: my sugar daddy. What did I really called him my partner? Uh?

708
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: That he knew exactly who I was the whole time.

709
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Speaker 1: I think if you were to have said it at

710
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: that moment, it would have been okay. But so far

711
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: after that, like three years later after like we had

712
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 1: not you paying my bill because when you're making it too,

713
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: like three like how could you not? Yeah, he had

714
00:35:49,600 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: to tell me like, oh I knew you when I

715
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: pulled up the Applebee the last time you've heard from him.

716
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: We still talk that, we still talk so much, so

717
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 1: to where he you know, I went to Miami and

718
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: he knew I was going to Miami to host, so

719
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 1: he was gonna pull up on me and he was

720
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:06,919
Speaker 1: like so he was like so next week and still

721
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: the thing, I said, uh, if you want to grab

722
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 1: a drink with me and my boyfriend and he was like,

723
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: sent the little Asterix and was like, uh, refunds night

724
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: at Fountain Blue Refunds. Like he canceled his reservation because

725
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,760
Speaker 1: he's just like, I don't know all of us liked

726
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: so we're not friends. No, we're not. That was from

727
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Speaker 1: someone shout out to Mahogany. I did a day where

728
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Speaker 1: we fed people at a mission in Mahogany is one

729
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 1: of our patrons and I met her there. Um. I

730
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: think this is a really dope question. Actually, did your

731
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Speaker 1: first round of ads come from people that support you

732
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Speaker 1: already in goals not monetery or did you go into

733
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: places and pitched so our first ads? And this was No.

734
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Speaker 1: I really liked this question because Mandy and I our

735
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: goal was we're investing this much into the show. We

736
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 1: need to recoup this money, so how can we make

737
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 1: sure we're not paying for each episode? Right? Whatever it

738
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: was at the time, what was it? A Hunter Bucks

739
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,799
Speaker 1: the two? No, No, we when we started doing video

740
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Speaker 1: about hundreds in episode. But you, by the way, can

741
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Speaker 1: come and shoot a w TF media for a hundred

742
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: dollars with four K video. And I did that on

743
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: purpose because I know you know what I mean, I

744
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: know what it's like to want to start off and

745
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 1: do ship and where now we've got the four angles,

746
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: you guys are watching us with the clips and does

747
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 1: I felt like for an episode with video a hundred

748
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: dollars is fair, and I wanted people to be able

749
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,399
Speaker 1: to pay that to you know what I'm saying. So,

750
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: like when we started, we wanted to make sure we

751
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: can recoup that with video because it was so expensive.

752
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 1: So we were selling ads to people in music, so

753
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: we gotta find them, ship to find it. If you

754
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: guys go to like the earlier episodes, you'll be like,

755
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,720
Speaker 1: and this episode was brought to you by this artist

756
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 1: and this new single. We played it at the end

757
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: and sometimes in the beginning of episodes. P Mona was

758
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,640
Speaker 1: one of the first people who paid us to come

759
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 1: on as a guest. Almost never charged anyone before, but

760
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 1: he and not he offered us the money and we

761
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:10,240
Speaker 1: were like, we start doing this. Was he I can't remember.

762
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: He was problematic as fuck, talked about how he was

763
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: just out here fucking everybody with no condom, everything about

764
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,919
Speaker 1: when he asked our mom's about to come. I don't remember.

765
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: That was at the live show. Oh yeah, well anyway,

766
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Speaker 1: so that's what happened, all right. This next one is

767
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: from it. No, no, that would be already got that one.

768
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: This one's good. I just don't want to show it

769
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: on screen because then you'll know what it is. Why

770
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 1: haven't you fixed your teeth? Or if you will, why

771
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: or why not? That's Julio. Yeah, that's just say her name.

772
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 1: You know it's crazy. I actually just brought this up.

773
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,720
Speaker 1: This is my other podcast. Uh so I've paid the money,

774
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: I have the INVISALIGNE been putting it in and no,

775
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 1: the way my mouth hurts. What did I tell you?

776
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: The way that I like sucking dick? I tell you,

777
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:56,279
Speaker 1: I literally like it tore up my mouth so much

778
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: it made it. I was just like, I'm you know

779
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 1: what if J Cole can still be J Cole and

780
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: wrap wrapped about his second smile and it doesn't honestly,

781
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: guess what. Guess what? Guess what? This doesn't keep me

782
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 1: for making money because I got my name and I

783
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: like for for I don't even think she was coming

784
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 1: at you. This was in my I listed it. I

785
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: really think this is yours, just for both of you,

786
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,839
Speaker 1: both of them, they talked about both of our both

787
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 1: of them talk about But it's funny because I had

788
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: in visilne and it was so painful I had to stop.

789
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: And then when Mandy got hers, I was like, ain't

790
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. Let me tell you. Let me tell you.

791
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: I paid for it. It was only supposed to be

792
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:37,839
Speaker 1: four months. I got a call last months like hey,

793
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: it's time for your retainers. Uh, and I said, mind

794
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 1: you it is sixteen trays. I was like, bitch, I'm

795
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: on four, Like you gotta give me some time. And

796
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 1: now they started texting me like time to change your

797
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 1: your tray, bitch, I'm supposed to be on nine. I'm

798
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: on six. I'm still next six. That's actually really good.

799
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Speaker 1: I what are ways that was with? I think my

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Speaker 1: insurance for Visili what a waste. This one's a really

801
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,760
Speaker 1: good question too. Who comes up with topics and guests?

802
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: I love this question, Mandy and I. If you ever

803
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:17,880
Speaker 1: we can go to the next question, and if you

804
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:19,640
Speaker 1: ever listened to an episode and someone starts it and

805
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 1: starts leading it, that's who made the episode now because

806
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,360
Speaker 1: I still always started no no, no no, I mean like,

807
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 1: who's like introducing um oh the guests that that will

808
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: be your guest on? Basically who did it? But Mandy

809
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 1: and I we plent it pretty That is That is

810
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: the thing too. I know that a lot of other

811
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: podcasts when they start, they ask if they need a

812
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 1: producer and cameraman and studio and engineer, and we still

813
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: are very much. We have ed in here with us,

814
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: but we're still just us. We answer our own emails.

815
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 1: Anything regarding ads does have to go through my heart now,

816
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: but we we get get them, We get our guests,

817
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,359
Speaker 1: we approve our ads, we make all of our outlines. Um.

818
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: And just to also, my my friend asked and I

819
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: shared this on Patreon. In two days, we recorded six

820
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: episodes and my friend was even just like, who comes

821
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 1: up with that content? And I said we and I

822
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:17,320
Speaker 1: so even down to the research, uh, the segments, the everything,

823
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: everything literally comes from Weezy and I. We have no

824
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 1: one helping us. We have no assistant steel. That's what's

825
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 1: good about Please don't hit this up for it. Don't

826
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: hit u up for some assistant ship. I know. And

827
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: it's funny because sometimes I'd be like it naturally seems

828
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: like it would be vinny, but also like this kind

829
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: of stuff isn't so bad. I think that's what really

830
00:41:35,800 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 1: connects us to our show and our audience is that

831
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:40,680
Speaker 1: we make it. UM. I love this question. Which one

832
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: is the diva out of the group. You're definitely diva?

833
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: Are you serious? I'm the diva over the years you

834
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: cannot play. And because he and I are working together

835
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: in this stud video, now that's different because he sees happy.

836
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 1: Who is the Diva? You're in person, Diva, you're texting Diva.

837
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 1: Oh you guys can't see at one point that Mandy

838
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,760
Speaker 1: is texting Diva. You're in person, texting a corporate texting.

839
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: You're in corporate. I am, matter of factly, if a

840
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: matter of fact, if I can't email, if I can't text, you,

841
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: do you want to be in our email? Threats? Because

842
00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 1: those she even hates even more, I highlight eye bold things.

843
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 1: She fucking hates emails. She's no, I feel like you're

844
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,799
Speaker 1: yelling at me or giving me direction, and I'm not

845
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,240
Speaker 1: gonna listen to you. I don't say that anymore, not anymore.

846
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: But like because it's I realized, I don't know. That

847
00:42:33,040 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: sounded like texting diva to me right now? Diva, No,

848
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,280
Speaker 1: I am, I'm very, I'm very business like. I'm very.

849
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: I mean yes that too. But he want to say

850
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: you a bit diva? Not and you bro, you for

851
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 1: sure are What does that mean? I'm trying to we

852
00:42:55,920 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: want the definition of diva? What is the diva? I

853
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: guess what what are we thinking? This, says Beyonce when

854
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 1: it come up, then I'm gonna taking uh what a

855
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 1: self important person who's temperamental and difficult to please. Let

856
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 1: me tell you, I wash yours on braid in my

857
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: hair right now because it's gonna be the clip bitches.

858
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: You and Nick's gonna vote. No, we don't need Nigga's

859
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:23,319
Speaker 1: the vote. They don't know what the fun go on

860
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 1: in here because they didn't even know who came up

861
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: with the outline. Bitch, they don't know they get something

862
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: with the let's put a pole. No, we are doing

863
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: this one because, bitch, it is you difficult to please.

864
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: You could walk into the Ritz Carlton into a brand

865
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 1: new like why are the curtains closed? That? I literally said,

866
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:49,320
Speaker 1: I get off and I'm pleased by pleasing others. I sucked,

867
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:53,320
Speaker 1: dick because I get enjoyment out of pleasing other We

868
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: get hard to please. I get pleasure by pleasing others.

869
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: That doesn't sound like difficult to work with all they said,

870
00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 1: diva being now that you said, its next question from

871
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: Danny tell us the truth? What did y'all really think

872
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 1: of the City Girls? Because that episode was whack? What

873
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: did you think of it? Um? So that was actually

874
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: in my UM round up for as just one of

875
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: the episodes that I thought should have made the list.

876
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,359
Speaker 1: I think that, Uh, if any of you guys came

877
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 1: to our tour shows we walked out to City girls,

878
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: Uh were they who we thought they were in their

879
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 1: songs or even their tweets? Now? Uh, the tweets weren't

880
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 1: like that when we inter them. No, they were not

881
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: UM And I think I talked about this on Patreon.

882
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 1: I want to be very fair with you guys too.

883
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: Weezie and I recorded this morning. I cried, do you

884
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 1: think we wanted to be in the studio and keep

885
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,400
Speaker 1: it like? We've been going through so many things personally,

886
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: to be fair, Young Miami had just lost one of

887
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: her baby fathers a couple of weeks maybe even before.

888
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,960
Speaker 1: This was also their first run together since j T

889
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 1: had been out of jail, and we were also their

890
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 1: first in person interview with COVID. They did all of

891
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:13,800
Speaker 1: those other interviews for that for that album that dropped virtually,

892
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 1: and me and Weezy flew down to Atlanta for the

893
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 1: next Wary It wasn't it like forty five minutes before

894
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,319
Speaker 1: they didn't want to forty five minutes before. They were like,

895
00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 1: and I said, listen, we'll do it for thirty minutes.

896
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: But to be very fair, yeah, there was a lot

897
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,880
Speaker 1: of different variables involved with that, um, and but they

898
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 1: did a good breakfast interview. They did. But also this

899
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: was a lot of celebrities now are now coming for

900
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 1: the very first time on the podcast. And I knew

901
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 1: people that worked for Capital Music Group and and QC,

902
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: and they were like, Yo, we're adding podcasts into the mix.

903
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: I love horrible. Can we bring them on? And uh,

904
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: shout out to Brittany, shout out to to everyone over

905
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: there at QC. It was I think they just weren't

906
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: ready for everything that Wheezy and I sat down like

907
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: suck bitch, And I really don't think that they're used

908
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,399
Speaker 1: to an interviews being that way. Uh So, I don't

909
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 1: know your thoughts because I know you hated it. We

910
00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: had we talked about it. You hated it, And I

911
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,240
Speaker 1: get why I did it, because I think it made

912
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: us seem so abrasive and I don't think they were.

913
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: We treated them different. Um, that's really why I hated it,

914
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 1: because I realized what it made us look like. And

915
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: I think it made us look unprofessional that we couldn't

916
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: match the energy of our guests, Like people were saying

917
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: like they're too hyped to be here, and I'm like,

918
00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:33,200
Speaker 1: have you seen have you seen the show? But and yeah,

919
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 1: maybe also that, And then I wondered too, like should

920
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: I be matching someone's energy? But then also like no,

921
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: we never. The best part of that show was when

922
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,080
Speaker 1: we were sitting on the couch alone laughing about a

923
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: question we had. And I do think a lot of

924
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 1: it did have to do with maybe her baby father passing.

925
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 1: But j T, I don't think it was bad. I

926
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: liked j T. I feel like I would hang out

927
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,080
Speaker 1: with j T. I would. I like j T was

928
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 1: actually so I do think too. You have to understand

929
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: if me and Wheezy are in the room and I

930
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 1: can sense Wheezy down, I'm gonna feel uncomfortable or feel

931
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:07,360
Speaker 1: like I gotta pick stuff up. So and mind you,

932
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 1: j j T hadn't done a press run yet because

933
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: she was locked up like they saw stardom while j

934
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 1: T was away, and she's obviously the start of that group.

935
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: I don't care what anybody says, and I mean, I

936
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: love them both because I don't like that people do

937
00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: that with us. I'm not gonna pin them against each other.

938
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: I think they're both great and they bring just different

939
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: things to their duo. I think a musical group is

940
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: different than pinning them. Oh hell, now we outcast, bitch,

941
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: we are. We are duo, and people gonna pin us

942
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: together against each other the same way they do artists. Like,

943
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: it's just a thing, you know. So I ain't gonna

944
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,439
Speaker 1: do that because we uplift black queens. Okay, we don't

945
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: tear them apart? Right? Can you guys stop talking now?

946
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: If I'm talking over something, you can think? So maybe

947
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:59,319
Speaker 1: I don't know about you question, I think, can they

948
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: I didn't help? What are you thinking? Like? Honestly, I

949
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: sometimes I think we're doing better, but then I realized no,

950
00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: And then honestly, it's one or the other that does

951
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 1: it more. Each episode, Yeah, episode Mandy doing it worse.

952
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: One episode is do you guys just get so into

953
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 1: the topic that it's so hard for you not to

954
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: release that thought and then try to move on. But

955
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:25,120
Speaker 1: it's so funny to see guests social cues when they're like,

956
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 1: I guess I'm gonna just have to wait here. Okay,

957
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: so maybe it was me with Olivia Troy. Yeah, absolutely absolutely, Okay, Wow, well,

958
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 1: yeah you was seen that last week. You said, what

959
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:46,399
Speaker 1: you guess which guests was you in the last few

960
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: that were recorded? None? Because that did great? Beat Which

961
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 1: one was it? I'm cutting off wey in the solo

962
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: episode right now? See No, okay, I barely talked that episode,

963
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: So that's bullshit. And the times you talked, you talked

964
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 1: over him. I promise you, I don't know what he was. Okay, Hey,

965
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 1: we heard he was all spoken. Maybe I don't know

966
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:09,959
Speaker 1: how to be in a room with all spoken people.

967
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,880
Speaker 1: So somebody say, like, what if we gave them headphones?

968
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: And I feel like it'd be worse if they we

969
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 1: gave you all headphones to talk over? Well, and what's crazy?

970
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 1: We don't. I think we don't do it now. But

971
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:23,800
Speaker 1: I used to wear headphones just to make sure everyone's levels. Uh,

972
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 1: we're a certain you know, me being fucking corporate and

973
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:30,439
Speaker 1: wanting to be in control all the time. Um, but

974
00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about it a lot. You guys

975
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 1: may listen. Although we have a structured podcast, we talked

976
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 1: about how much this is really to see that because

977
00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: Mandy goes. We had interviews in our vial. Then we

978
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 1: don't do interviews. They're off because we don't think we're

979
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 1: interviewing the movie if it's a conversationsation. And that's the thing.

980
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:54,359
Speaker 1: When you guys listen to us, even when we bring

981
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:58,720
Speaker 1: people on, we bring them in, say the word interview.

982
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 1: Sometimes you a bitch. I ain't saying we interview with nobody.

983
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: We're talking with such as such today you feel me

984
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: um bad? Real quick couple questions, Why do y'all give

985
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: so much cloud to cigarette? Oh we could skip that.

986
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: I'll tell you about what that question was later. That

987
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 1: was just a messy question. And keep the mess out,

988
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:25,880
Speaker 1: I mean keep them out. How do you guys handle people,

989
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: and this is from g V thirty one, how do

990
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: you guys handle people saying that they might enjoy other

991
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 1: podcasts more than horrible decisions? They said your solo podcasts?

992
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 1: I think, how do you guys handle people saying they

993
00:50:37,080 --> 00:50:39,919
Speaker 1: might enjoy your other podcasts more than? I really liked

994
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: this question, um, and I think the reason it's such

995
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 1: a good question is because we have to learn how

996
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:47,959
Speaker 1: to take it as it's not an insult um. For one,

997
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:52,280
Speaker 1: we have a show that is very flagrant about sex.

998
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: We talk in detail about our personal lives. We are

999
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 1: loud on this show. It is not like our other

1000
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 1: shows because of the fact that we are all over

1001
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 1: and we have a dynamic on this so no, I know,

1002
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions isn't for everybody. I have people come up

1003
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,719
Speaker 1: to me industry and say they like what I'm doing

1004
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,200
Speaker 1: and aren't listeners of the show because it's just not

1005
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,240
Speaker 1: for them. I've had people say, oh, I don't really dada,

1006
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,919
Speaker 1: but you know, good for y'all. I understand that sex

1007
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: isn't for everybody. So if you want to listen to

1008
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: for facts sake because you find it to be easier listening,

1009
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: that's a very easy listening podcast. Or if you like

1010
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:28,720
Speaker 1: see the thing is because you want to hear about

1011
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: culture and what's going on and what's up to date.

1012
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: We talked about music and then even that's a different

1013
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,360
Speaker 1: things periods is And it's crazy because someone came to

1014
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 1: me and was like, oh my god, I actually guys

1015
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 1: just talk about sex on all of her shows and

1016
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 1: we're talking about boots. These comments on Lorie Harvey and

1017
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 1: her body count Like I don't it's it's in pop

1018
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:51,920
Speaker 1: culture as well. And yes I have a I have

1019
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:53,839
Speaker 1: a way of talking about sex where I'm just very

1020
00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: very fucking comfortable and I know that that makes other

1021
00:51:56,600 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: people uncomfortable. And then even periods is that is I

1022
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: don't even know how many men even listen to it.

1023
00:52:03,960 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 1: That has everything to do with feminine hygiene and health.

1024
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 1: So it's more of women sharing their stories. That is

1025
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 1: an interview format, and it's also digestible and like our

1026
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:18,879
Speaker 1: us as personalities, that which will may be a good

1027
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 1: thing to wrap that up so it doesn't have to

1028
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: come up again, but on for facts sake, even when

1029
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: we do. We did a chicken recently. I have a

1030
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 1: joke where I will try to make every fact about sex.

1031
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 1: So I wanted to figure out how chickens fucked. We

1032
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: talked about chicken. Why black people like chicken? Where did

1033
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 1: that stigma come from? We talked about chickens memories like

1034
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 1: random facts. But like I always make the joke domb

1035
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: and to do the sex fact, that is our personality.

1036
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 1: It is it's us like literally, I can be at

1037
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: a restaurant with you and if my food is spicy

1038
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: across the table, I'm gonna be like no anal sex

1039
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 1: for me tonight, like like that is literally who we are.

1040
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 1: That's why you all like horrible decisions right like and

1041
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: so I think that you enjoying our other podacts. I

1042
00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: feel no way about that. You don't either. Yeah, I

1043
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: think that's a fine question. Uh, Mandy, how does your

1044
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:09,200
Speaker 1: family mom feel about your public disdain for white people?

1045
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 1: You speak so harshly about them on the pond. This

1046
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:15,360
Speaker 1: is from an apologetically you know what's crazy? I do

1047
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 1: want to I really like this because I thought it

1048
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:21,840
Speaker 1: was a good question too. Last year, there was a

1049
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 1: huge disconnect with my sisters and my mom because Black

1050
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:29,920
Speaker 1: lives matter. She wanted to go and protest because of

1051
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:33,239
Speaker 1: course my mom is an ally like she has three

1052
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: black daughters, and like I remember my sister saying, no,

1053
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: don't go down there, that's not for you, and also

1054
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: me coming at her, telling her, I can't talk to

1055
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,920
Speaker 1: you about my hair woes incorporate and there's so much

1056
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: about the black experience that she'll never understand. Uh, I'll

1057
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 1: be very honest with you guys and sharing a little

1058
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: bit about my mom. My mom hates white people too,

1059
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 1: with her white ass. Uh, she actually uh you know,

1060
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 1: grew up very troubled, and when she left home at

1061
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:06,759
Speaker 1: at like fifteen, it was a black family that took

1062
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 1: her in. And so the way she she views, uh,

1063
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: just black people and white people and she knows that

1064
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 1: their trash and just the camaraderie, man, I'm sorry, the

1065
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 1: camaraderie that she has had and people who have truly

1066
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,720
Speaker 1: looked out for her, because that's kind of innate into

1067
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:27,320
Speaker 1: black people, like we're caring, We're we literally you know, want,

1068
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:30,920
Speaker 1: we're nurturing. And so for her to have that experience

1069
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 1: early on, she doesn't have much good things to say

1070
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 1: about them either. And also to open up with you guys,

1071
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: that side of my family outside of her mom and

1072
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 1: her mom's mom, I know none of my cousins, uncle's

1073
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 1: aunts because we're black. So I don't have that experience

1074
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: or that closeness with the white side of my family

1075
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: at all. So yeah, she she laughs at it, uh,

1076
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: and she learns. She she opens her ears to learning,

1077
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 1: and that's that, Like she supports everything that this show means,

1078
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 1: and she supports me. So yeah, there's that cracks. Sorry sorry, sorry,

1079
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: Uh do we have time for anymore or anyone more? Yeah,

1080
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: because I can I can. Um, I feel like I

1081
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: feel like this one was already kind of did you

1082
00:55:19,120 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: already there's another Mandy one? Mandy? Would you like another one? Mandy?

1083
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: Why do you know you don't even give it? Is

1084
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,759
Speaker 1: there another ship? How do you guys say, Mandy, would

1085
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 1: you like? Actually? Do it? Argued? Um this taste for

1086
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: white people? Both guys, y'all dated. Uh, how do you

1087
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 1: guys manage being business partners but not considering each other friends?

1088
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 1: And we kind of talking about Yeah, let you see,

1089
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. That's a good amount of I

1090
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: like that you want to do this one. How do

1091
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 1: you guys handle conflict between between each other or when

1092
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 1: it comes to choosing let's talk about that regard to

1093
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:58,359
Speaker 1: choosing guests. So it's interesting because I think for the

1094
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:01,520
Speaker 1: most part, guests are really uh an issue for us

1095
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: at all, Like we both um kind of let the

1096
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 1: other one and maybe because we split up our episodes

1097
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,080
Speaker 1: kind of, So Mandy and I record about two episodes

1098
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:14,359
Speaker 1: um in a session because our shows are only an hour,

1099
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: so we'll do an hour for one episode an hour

1100
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:18,479
Speaker 1: for the other. Just makes more sense timely wise, bringing

1101
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 1: everybody in, setting up everything and bringing in you know,

1102
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 1: our bed in. So I think I like this one

1103
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 1: because the only thing I feel conflict with is not

1104
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: making sure we have too much of the same type

1105
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 1: of guests too quickly. For example, Um, if we have

1106
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 1: like a dom on back to back or someone that

1107
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,919
Speaker 1: works in d s M. I think Mandy had brought

1108
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,760
Speaker 1: in Dallas Playhouse and die a Dare And she mentioned

1109
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: D s M with both of them, and I'm like, okay,

1110
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: well why would we have both of them? And She's like,

1111
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 1: all right. One person is a rope muse and does

1112
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 1: electro play. The other one has this that's probably the

1113
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: only different like even and and And that's the thing too.

1114
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: Under this umbrella of sex, there is just so much

1115
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 1: things untapped. But also there's experiences that Weezy and I

1116
00:57:02,239 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: don't have. So to be fair, everybody people are different. Yeah,

1117
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 1: but we can bring in ten people in b D

1118
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:09,800
Speaker 1: s M, and we're talking about B D s M

1119
00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: ten weeks in a row. A lot of their experiences

1120
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 1: are not going to be the same. A lot of

1121
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:15,800
Speaker 1: their their takes on certain things are going to be

1122
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 1: the same. What they're into isn't necessarily going to be

1123
00:57:18,480 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 1: the same. Um, you know as far as yeah, I

1124
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: wouldn't say that there really is ever really any conflict

1125
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 1: with guests. I would say conflict comes with after the episode. Um,

1126
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 1: as far as if maybe we thought they would be

1127
00:57:30,800 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 1: a better guest than they were, or um, you know

1128
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: we have to tiptoe on maybe was the conversation good again?

1129
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 1: We we mentioned we started putting trigger warnings in front

1130
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 1: of things. I've been attacked recently for how an episode went. Uh,

1131
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: so I think we really talked about the response of

1132
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 1: the episode and did we really do a good job

1133
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: in the conversation or the outline? Um? And so yeah,

1134
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: uh yeah, I don't think there's really much conflict though

1135
00:57:56,160 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: with with guests. I think for any for our show,

1136
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:00,040
Speaker 1: it's very easy. I don't know what you guys, to

1137
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:01,439
Speaker 1: go in through. It for our show is very easy

1138
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 1: because sex industry we like it. Um next weekend. Somehow

1139
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: we're connected to a whole bunch of people in it.

1140
00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:09,320
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. Who early on was like, how do

1141
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 1: y'all find all these guests? Bro? They fall in your

1142
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: lap now? But not only that, try joined me and

1143
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 1: my nigga at the sex at the at the Nude Beach.

1144
00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: Um Tiana. You know we talked about how we met.

1145
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 1: I yeah, but we're really in this community. People are

1146
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: in this space. People want to come on this. Like

1147
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: when people meet us see us, they're like, they tell

1148
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: you what they can bring up next week. You guys

1149
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:33,160
Speaker 1: are gonna hear from someone who's visually impaired that I

1150
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: met because he came in the studio to check it out.

1151
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: And like, the first thing I thought when I knew

1152
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: he couldn't see it was like, what's pussy like for you?

1153
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: And he sat with us, and I thought he got

1154
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 1: very vulnerable. Um in order to talk about I mean right,

1155
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:50,640
Speaker 1: like I don't talk about well, damn really, I didn't

1156
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: say nothing. I say nothing. It's the facial cues, are

1157
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 1: you know what? And that's the one thing I'd be like,

1158
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 1: we us on YouTube, the YouTube we catch my face. Yeah,

1159
00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 1: it's just keeping on hurt. It lost my vision to

1160
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:09,480
Speaker 1: talk about watching porn, having sexual experiences, going as far

1161
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: as to talk about dating people, going on my phone

1162
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 1: while blind, Like, I don't. I think that's going to

1163
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: be one of the most interesting episodes we've ever had,

1164
00:59:16,160 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: because that's a world we're introduced to that's never been

1165
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 1: explored we've done disabilities very lightly touched on disabilities on

1166
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: the show. We could have done. I would like to

1167
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 1: do more disabilities. So, like, I think that was a

1168
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 1: very necessary conversation. And um, that's the thing though, like

1169
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 1: there's so many people we haven't covered, like just it's

1170
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: just so much to touch on, and um, it's and

1171
00:59:39,160 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: it's like never ending, and I'm just glad that basically

1172
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,080
Speaker 1: everybody can come on talk about second Dick. So yeah,

1173
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you guys for supporting us. We

1174
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: know there was a bunch of questions. We're actually going

1175
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: to continue the conversation with more of the questions that

1176
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: you asked on our Patreon this week, so you guys

1177
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: can check these out at the same time you're listening

1178
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 1: to this episode, our questions episode will be there as well.

1179
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 1: After Oh yeah, well you just got a whole schedule

1180
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: that I am not aware of. She talking about next week,

1181
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna here it is. Y'all also gonna hear this

1182
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:11,360
Speaker 1: on Patreon And this is the diva I'm talking about.

1183
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 1: How are you just sitting here telling them what's gonna

1184
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 1: happen and you ain't even talk to me first? The

1185
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 1: same way with these birds we're talking about. We did

1186
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:21,120
Speaker 1: not talk. We said we'll released the questions on the day.

1187
01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 1: She talked about this on her Instagram Live Mandy she

1188
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 1: didn't even hear about it. I said, what do you

1189
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 1: think we could just keep continuing? This is literally, I

1190
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:29,480
Speaker 1: goes she talked about it with Live. I don't know

1191
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 1: the schedule. She's sitting here. This is what we're gonna do.

1192
01:00:31,880 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: We have told because maybe you get in my head honestly,

1193
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 1: hold on. Maybe it was in my head that was

1194
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: hold on. I really feel like I texted it to Mandy. Dude,

1195
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 1: there's so many questions. We can do a Patreon part

1196
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:45,480
Speaker 1: two with this. Yeah, but you didn't tell me the

1197
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 1: schedule when we drop in. None of that cool part two.

1198
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 1: But you're sitting here. Look you see what I'm seeing

1199
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:53,760
Speaker 1: it out because this is a raw, real But this

1200
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 1: is also why I'm a text even because I do

1201
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: believe everything needs to be first in writing because and

1202
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 1: you know I'm petty. You'll be like I didn't see that.

1203
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 1: I'll go up and fucking react exactly where the fun

1204
01:01:08,120 --> 01:01:10,439
Speaker 1: I do do that? See that that's a diva. That's

1205
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,760
Speaker 1: something because because if you if you or or Wheezy

1206
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:15,919
Speaker 1: be like you didn't say that. Oh bitch, I'm gonna

1207
01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: scroll up because you'll gonna see where the fukut Mandy

1208
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 1: said something to me other day. I told you at

1209
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 1: the last point when I said Mandy, and then she

1210
01:01:21,640 --> 01:01:23,360
Speaker 1: wrote me back two minutes later. I know she must

1211
01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:30,320
Speaker 1: have went to did go up? I didn't say that. Fine. Uh,

1212
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: But guys, if you might be next week, n I

1213
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 1: don't know. She don't know nothing, so don't listen to

1214
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: any of the schedule. And she just said. Uh. But

1215
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:41,920
Speaker 1: if you guys want to hear the other UM Patreon

1216
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: episode with questions, go on over to patreon dot com

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01:01:44,560 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 1: back Slash Horrible Decisions and you guys can hear more.

1218
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 1: They're also we did talk about our other pods, so

1219
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:52,520
Speaker 1: if you want to listen to our other pods, I'll

1220
01:01:52,560 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: give this feel of mine uh and I will pass

1221
01:01:55,880 --> 01:01:58,040
Speaker 1: the mic over to to Weezy to tell hers. But

1222
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Speaker 1: I do have two other podcasts, one being period Sist.

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Speaker 1: We talked about clots. We talked about literally everything that

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Speaker 1: women have to go through in terms of their box,

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Speaker 1: Also See the Thing Is UM. I am one half

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Speaker 1: over there, possibly soon one third, but I'm over there

1239
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Speaker 1: talking about all the current events that Weezy and I

1240
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:57,320
Speaker 1: kind of don't get to talk about because of how

1241
01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: we record over here at Horrible Decisions. So we talked

1242
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 1: about everything that's uh pop culture. We talked about music.

1243
01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: We have a Freshly Squeeze segment where we do actually

1244
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: play music. I love talking about music, and we always

1245
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 1: talk about television and TV and things going on like that.

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Speaker 1: So check out See the Thing Is and go ahead

1247
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Speaker 1: and tell them about chickens laying eggs and fucking I

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Speaker 1: didn't even we'll be talking about some It's so fun

1249
01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 1: because like the way we could just be picking topics eggs.

1250
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 1: All right. Um, did you see the clip where Eddie

1251
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 1: and I did Black Facts and he not Black Facts?

1252
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 1: But I did see one where you possible No, you

1253
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:35,680
Speaker 1: you introduced yourself as something. Edie said her braids are

1254
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 1: tight and her money's rights nuts. But we did recently

1255
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Speaker 1: Black Facts love and then we did witchcraft. When we

1256
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:46,440
Speaker 1: did Black Facts, I did black churches as one of

1257
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: the facts and like where it came from? When why

1258
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: do we shout and stuff? And I played this song

1259
01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 1: call Stomp, which I'll should know about frankly, and he's

1260
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 1: listening to it. He goes, well, Jesus in the house,

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01:03:57,760 --> 01:04:01,520
Speaker 1: Jesus wants to drink, and so do you? Oh my god. No.

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Speaker 1: And guys, we've had Eddie on the show Eddie, Eddie

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Speaker 1: Della Seppi is Wheezy's hosts over there on for a

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Speaker 1: fact sakey listen to that. And we've also had my

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Speaker 1: co host on my other show here on Horrible Decisions,

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Speaker 1: Bridget Kelly. Shout out, Bridget Kelly that's that's right. We

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Speaker 1: have allhead I'm up. We should we should do both

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Speaker 1: of them at the same time. That would be Eddie

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Speaker 1: lives West Coast. He's gonna be coming here to film

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Speaker 1: some episodes in person. Could we should do that? That

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Speaker 1: would be funny. We can you imagine Eddie and Eddie

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Speaker 1: and Bridget Kelly. No, I cannot, I cannot. That would

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Speaker 1: be really be interesting. He's gonna be like, well, Eddie

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Speaker 1: is Eddie got an eye for everybody? I know I

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Speaker 1: got a girlfriend. But see the facts are we're gonna

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Speaker 1: but no, make sure again, guys, we're gonna play you

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Speaker 1: guys a five minute clip. Go on over to Patreon

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Speaker 1: as Patreon dot com back slash horor Decisions. Also, you

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Speaker 1: guys see me wearing a shirt. If we're not all

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Speaker 1: sold out, go on over now to hor hive dot

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Speaker 1: com and get our merch. We got black s Excellence. Yeah. Ho,

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Speaker 1: last night I made a horrible decisions. Not our merch.

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Speaker 1: If you're on YouTube, yeah, it's on the table. And

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Speaker 1: this this is part of our top tier patrons gift thing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's gift things. So yeah, anyways, guys, thank you guys

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Speaker 1: for listening. To yeah, another episode, And how is I

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Speaker 1: going to tell you that I have a bay when

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01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: I'm just sucking a nigga at first? Right? But bro,

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Speaker 1: we also like we share and give so much of ourselves.

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Speaker 1: Do you know how how it feels to just kind

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Speaker 1: of want something of your own? Like my mom is

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01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: coming up next week, and we was like, let's see

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Speaker 1: if she wants to come on the show, and I said, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to bring my mom on the show anymore.

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01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: I mean, our audience is way bigger than what it

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Speaker 1: used to be, and there's so many parts of myself

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Speaker 1: that I don't feel like I have to myself, and

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Speaker 1: so my relationship right now, my family, I want to

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01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 1: hold something sacred because which y'all just feel entitled to

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01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:55,080
Speaker 1: every time my pussy ass in mouth get bust wide open,

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Speaker 1: and I do I kind of want to keep some

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Speaker 1: of that stuff to myself, don't Is that okay with you?

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01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 1: I honestly totally understand that, And I think I didn't

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Speaker 1: understand that until like public figure ship came. Um, I

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Speaker 1: want to tell you something too, I thought was really dope.

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01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: So you know, we don't really have celebrities on horrible decisions.

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01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 1: But on my new show, fuses put a great budget

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Speaker 1: into it and really want this to be like a

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Speaker 1: debuting show in this realm. They've never done something like this,

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Speaker 1: and they have some celebrities on this show. And I

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01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:31,919
Speaker 1: said to the head of talent, he's here in New York.

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Speaker 1: He flew down to be here. I said, you know,

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Speaker 1: I really appreciate what you guys are doing because like

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Speaker 1: I know, like nobody knows me. And he's like, I

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Speaker 1: don't know why you keep saying that. He said, because

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Speaker 1: every rep I get on the phone with, he's like,

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Speaker 1: if the rapper doesn't know you, if the celebrity doesn't

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Speaker 1: know you, they're fucking managers. Like I love horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: Which one is it? He's like, not one hasn't known

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Speaker 1: horrible decisions. He's like, somebody on the team will tell

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Speaker 1: me about the podcast, they'll offer me to send you close.

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Speaker 1: They can't to talk about it. And he's like, he's like,

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Speaker 1: you are, but you aren't and you have to remember that,

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01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: like you want are a public figure, he said. If

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Speaker 1: you didn't feel like that a few years ago, I

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Speaker 1: get it. He was like, but this is changing, and

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01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:17,280
Speaker 1: he said even the accessibility. You know, he talked about

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Speaker 1: my safety with um doing this in studio consults, like

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Speaker 1: I let people come in the studio and consult with

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Speaker 1: me instead of on zoom. And I actually removed it

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Speaker 1: because it's something he said to me. Um, I've been

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Speaker 1: in the studio Mandy literally taking zoom calls or even

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Speaker 1: working on my Fuse show and people like knock on

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Speaker 1: the door and they're like, oh, we just wanted to

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Speaker 1: see the space or whatever, and so like we've totally

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Speaker 1: changed and Alex is like we're putting cameras in there,

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Speaker 1: um Like and the thing is with our doorman at

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Speaker 1: the in the building, like we let them know like

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Speaker 1: sure of course people can come up, and now we've

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Speaker 1: totally changed that. Now I have to call down and

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Speaker 1: say who's allowed to come up? Like we change the

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Speaker 1: structure because it's true, Like that's happening to Charlemagne. You

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Speaker 1: know what. I'm like gonna hold you even with scheduling. Uh,

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Speaker 1: you know this weekend when you told me it was booked,

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Speaker 1: that's why I said, oh, you have a booking at

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Speaker 1: three to four, Okay, let's do twelve to two. Dude.

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Speaker 1: It's feeling amazing damn if I can make it to

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Speaker 1: where I don't have to run into someone because I

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Speaker 1: know that your place is getting booked, not only by

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Speaker 1: by peers of ours, but fans. I ain't trying to

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Speaker 1: meet and greet bitch every We were in Gotham and

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Speaker 1: people were like that. People were in there too. Like,

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Speaker 1: But it does feel good to be busy. That's a

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Speaker 1: great feeling. Man. I can't tell you, but now we

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01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:34,439
Speaker 1: need to block out. I mean, I know right now

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Speaker 1: I'm busy and you're busy, but like we'll have our

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Speaker 1: scheduled day and time. But um no, it feels really

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Speaker 1: good to be able to be busy. It's just like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: life is changing and it feels really good. Money need

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Speaker 1: to change? How um Okay, this one I think is

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Speaker 1: good and I know a lot of you guys have

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Speaker 1: questions about this. Can you guys talk about the progression

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Speaker 1: of your relationships. I know Mandy's boo is perfect, but

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Speaker 1: have you had any have you had any doubts um

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01:08:58,240 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 1: recently the longer year with your partners. I notice Wheezy

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Speaker 1: has more passive aggressive about obey jokes. I know it's

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01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 1: a joke and he's your person, but do you feel

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Speaker 1: a change in your dynamic in the relationship. So I

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Speaker 1: joke about old Bay more because I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: been funner to joke about it because I'm more comfortable

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Speaker 1: in my situation. And for two, I think Mandy is

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Speaker 1: really in love and I feel like I was feeling

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Speaker 1: like that two years ago when I meet Obey, So

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Speaker 1: I kind of like playing the devil's advocate. Um, but

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily notice that, Like I don't know, Um,

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Speaker 1: I mean ship. They just left here this morning. He's

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Speaker 1: been so supportive with my show and helping me and

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Speaker 1: fucking we are actually used his apartment for a scene

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Speaker 1: because my building wouldn't approve I use um the location rights,

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Speaker 1: and I was freaking out. They wanted to put me

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Speaker 1: in some random Airbnb and I was like, oh my god, bro,

1382
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:54,080
Speaker 1: like no, this doesn't match my aesthetic. This is stupid.

1383
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 1: Like I was really freaking out, and he was like,

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Speaker 1: take mine, because he owns his crid and he's been

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01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 1: really great man, Like I just joke around about him

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01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:08,360
Speaker 1: because he ain't ship. What about your perfect I mean

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01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 1: that that is the thing. I mean, he's so perfect. Uh,

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01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 1: Like he just left this morning as well, and you

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01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 1: got to say something wrong about him, so we feel

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Speaker 1: like we're all normal.