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Speaker 1: What's what's on? Everybody minding heart for Big Fact Fridays.
Speaker 1: What's what's the key word for the day? Key word
Speaker 1: for the day is marginalization. Let' be doing some big
Speaker 1: as words later. The donated that that. Yeah, So let's
Speaker 1: start with what it means and how are we gonna
Speaker 1: talk about it? Okay, So basically, basically, the urban definition
Speaker 1: of marginalization, or the urban definition of what it means
Speaker 1: to marginalize is to oppress, to blackball, to aligne, to
Speaker 1: smear the fame or discredit, or to lower public or
Speaker 1: private opinion or the status of an individual or group
Speaker 1: through hateful, deceitful, or misguided speech of action. Basically, it
Speaker 1: means putting a nick in a box for lack of
Speaker 1: a better way to put it, to shave it down
Speaker 1: and trim it. Meaning like just like if you're my friend,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna use an example the black was given earlier,
Speaker 1: like if you're my friend and we're in the studio
Speaker 1: and like your job is to your job is to
Speaker 1: like sweep the studio or whatever, but we funk around
Speaker 1: one night. I don't have an engineer, and you volunteer
Speaker 1: and say, like, okay, I'll engineer you because I know
Speaker 1: how to engineer. I'll try you out, and you do
Speaker 1: like a perfect job. But I'm so small minded in
Speaker 1: my thinking. I don't want you to like blow up
Speaker 1: and be an engineer and then outgrow me. So I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna tell you, even though I know, like I
Speaker 1: would rather have you as my engineer, I'm gonna keep
Speaker 1: you in your same little clean up the studio box
Speaker 1: because I don't want you to surpass me type ship.
Speaker 1: Definitely what they got, you know how they words and
Speaker 1: then you can say that another word beside it too.
Speaker 1: That's a straight up. So that's that's that's similar. But okay,
Speaker 1: did not hear what you're saying, so like that's similar.
Speaker 1: Everybody kind of watched that Kanye ship. Is that similar
Speaker 1: to kind of how they was treating him on the
Speaker 1: Producer ship? Like you just type she said, yeah, I word,
Speaker 1: she just said, describe something else. Yeah, they weren't doing
Speaker 1: They weren't like intentionally trying, Like they just didn't see
Speaker 1: what he was it was going on. Marginalization has to
Speaker 1: be intentional? Does it say intentional? You were just saying
Speaker 1: you can just say, think about this if somebody want
Speaker 1: to change their career, right, and this could be in
Speaker 1: the household or some ship. Like I'm gonna be real
Speaker 1: like when I started talking about podcasting, everybody, you're doing
Speaker 1: fine it radio? Why want you gonna podcast? You see
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Hain't that marginalization? It's a person just
Speaker 1: thinking that you can't do it. But I don't know
Speaker 1: if that's ill intent all the time. You right right
Speaker 1: like that, it's not what's what? What? What? What? Definition? That?
Speaker 1: That was the Urban Dictionary? You want the the Roman
Speaker 1: Catholic from the crack from the Saltines. Okay, you know
Speaker 1: how that though, But I think some of it do
Speaker 1: be ill intent, like if you do it, I feel
Speaker 1: like if you do it intentionally, like feeling like somebody
Speaker 1: might get bigger than me. Yeah, yeah, like I don't
Speaker 1: want you to. And I know that ship sounds good, engineer,
Speaker 1: and I know that you don't know how good you sound,
Speaker 1: but I know how good you sound. Okay, So the
Speaker 1: Roman Catholic Saltine definition of marginalization is treatment of a person, group,
Speaker 1: or concept as insignificant or peripheral. M we got nobody.
Speaker 1: Peripheral means like okay, okay, okay, okay, Yeah, it ain't
Speaker 1: I don't even get that. Just didn't remember. And again
Speaker 1: the can you remember? He was like, y'all can't marginalized me.
Speaker 1: And he was just saying that y'all the people were
Speaker 1: saying he can't do fashion, he can't do all this
Speaker 1: other stuff. He had all these ideas. Now mind, you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. I thought he was tripping a little
Speaker 1: bit with some of that ship at first, but he
Speaker 1: ended up doing everything he said he was gonna do.
Speaker 1: But there were people trying to marginalize him, probably some
Speaker 1: with ill intent, but probably something that just felt like, man,
Speaker 1: this is one of the greatest rappers and producers at
Speaker 1: all time. Can he really be as dope and fashion
Speaker 1: as he wasn't rapping and producing? That's just like, you know,
Speaker 1: that's really the right that they're just opinion. I'm saying like,
Speaker 1: if you in position to hold a person in a box,
Speaker 1: like to keep him in a box, But can you
Speaker 1: keep somebody in the box. You can't really keep on
Speaker 1: they could do it anyway. Person. If that person don't
Speaker 1: let that person engineer and they know they's a good engineer,
Speaker 1: they can go somewhere else in engineer. What if they
Speaker 1: don't know that they're a good engineering games, that's a
Speaker 1: manipulation because if you if you've got the position to
Speaker 1: put me on and I trust you, but in your
Speaker 1: back of your mind, you're a hater. And every time
Speaker 1: I say I want to try to do some new ship,
Speaker 1: you're like, you're really not gonna be good. Yes. Have
Speaker 1: y'all ever seen flowers in the attic? No? No, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we'll just look it up and go watch it. I'm
Speaker 1: not been explaining this, but it's about it's about that
Speaker 1: type of ship. Yall, Thank you, thank you, But theiation
Speaker 1: could really be a lot more harmful than that, because
Speaker 1: if you if you you're just not giving me an opportunity.
Speaker 1: That's cool. I can get the opportunity to someone else,
Speaker 1: like you said. But if you're telling me that, man,
Speaker 1: you never and if you hear that ship year after
Speaker 1: year a year year, I really can't do that ship
Speaker 1: that whole time. Nigger. You you're flying with you with
Speaker 1: the chickens. You need to be flying with the evils.
Speaker 1: I think sometimes people really don't know when they're doing
Speaker 1: that to people. I think that they look at them
Speaker 1: and say, Okay, you're great at djan like your bamba
Speaker 1: dj and stay stick to that because you can go
Speaker 1: out and here, but to go somewhere else. Some people
Speaker 1: don't even know that they're trying to stick somebody into
Speaker 1: a box that they're doing that. They think that they're
Speaker 1: supporting you and helping you go to go higher than
Speaker 1: where you've ever been before. Now, But it's a lot
Speaker 1: of it's a lot of people. It's a lot of
Speaker 1: people that do that on purpose because they are jealous
Speaker 1: of that other person's capability. So I think I think
Speaker 1: it's something like manipulation and some ill intent with some
Speaker 1: of that ship. But sometimes it's another phrase they use,
Speaker 1: jack of all trades, master nothing. So you ever know
Speaker 1: that person that starts doing everything but they never finished that.
Speaker 1: They never finished I'm going to open this, I'm going
Speaker 1: to do this, I'm going to do this, something to
Speaker 1: do this, but they don't see it through. You see
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So sometimes you're telling somebody of that,
Speaker 1: like I believe you can, but I believe you. But
Speaker 1: that's if you know it's a trend, right, Like imagine
Speaker 1: if somebody were to tell you, hey, man, you're great,
Speaker 1: you know what you want to do a podcast for? No?
Speaker 1: I get that, But what I'm so I have the workout,
Speaker 1: But are you marginalizing? Are you marginalizing somebody if you're
Speaker 1: telling them, bro, I think that you can do twenty things.
Speaker 1: You can wrap, produce, DJ fucking dance, you can do
Speaker 1: all of that ship. But you need to see it through.
Speaker 1: You need to be like you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like you need to get to a certain place, finished something.
Speaker 1: But you can't open a bunch of one. You can't
Speaker 1: start a bunch of businesses and none of them is
Speaker 1: making profits. Get that first business or two to making profit,
Speaker 1: not saying you can't do the third business. It is
Speaker 1: just that. But you can't say that though neither because
Speaker 1: then got them keep trying everything and then that it's
Speaker 1: a different it's a difference between it's a difference. It's
Speaker 1: a difference between failure and seeing it through. You are
Speaker 1: a successful photographer. I'm talking about people that don't even
Speaker 1: get to the point. Sometimes you'd be like, shot, calm down,
Speaker 1: you're trying to do a billion things. You've been trying
Speaker 1: to marginal Shot about it, think about it. What I'm
Speaker 1: saying is everybody in this room, because of who we
Speaker 1: are and what we've done, it allows the other ship
Speaker 1: to work. Ship, show big facts everything that we're doing
Speaker 1: because of what we did, then we saw it through.
Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. See it through. Now you can
Speaker 1: do whatever the funk you want because you are Bank
Speaker 1: scream J, you are Shoy, you are you are Kanye.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, see that ship through.
Speaker 1: It's gonna make the Kanyak Kanye Kanyak. That's the mixture
Speaker 1: between Kodak and Kanyek. That's all I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: don't think that should be ill intent because I don't
Speaker 1: have somebody say before every each other go do it.
Speaker 1: But if it go, I'll be telling me because I'm
Speaker 1: like that, bro't but but do this too, That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm gonna tell you the truth. Don't stop
Speaker 1: one thing. Yeah, if you want to leave it alone,
Speaker 1: don't just stop doing already paying your bill, That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because do all this ship. I did what
Speaker 1: you told me, bag equip my job and went out
Speaker 1: on faith. Funked up. Bro, I ain't telling you to
Speaker 1: quench your job. That's great. I told everybody qu everybody,
Speaker 1: so I can't say I'm mogulizing nobody. Everybody quick wasn't
Speaker 1: happy though, so it's kind of like, Bro, sometimes you
Speaker 1: see the people though, like these people are believe and
Speaker 1: I saw it in them, like be straight. I want
Speaker 1: to tell everybody that we're gonna figure this ship out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna figure that's not that's not marginalized. Definitely. I
Speaker 1: feel like the intentional part of it makes smoller ship yeah,
Speaker 1: because everybody gonna be like got Nam James bron started
Speaker 1: doing hell and be like what yeah, straight up doing hell.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, then just some ship on
Speaker 1: the stages off the top of my mind. And I
Speaker 1: ain't thinking that she can't do until she showed him
Speaker 1: she can do it, and I'll be like, okay, hut, yeah,
Speaker 1: but me just knowing you never even got damn get Joe.
Speaker 1: Hell but everybody, you ain't serious about doing that. It's
Speaker 1: up to her her vision work. In fact, it's not
Speaker 1: you don't gotta do. Like if I said I'm about
Speaker 1: do some ship, I'm about to do it. I don't
Speaker 1: need niggas to believe the vision. Because ship, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: show you. I'm gonna show you. I'm gonna trust what
Speaker 1: I'm about to do, and then you're gonna see And
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna face you for not seeing it because ship,
Speaker 1: it's my thes and it's not your. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like if I say I want to design some ship,
Speaker 1: and I got it in my head what I want
Speaker 1: to do, and I describe it, but nobody else gets
Speaker 1: it but me. But I'm gonna make this ship look
Speaker 1: like I want to lookin. That's ain't, that's ain't. That's
Speaker 1: what makes each person special. That's what I Nobody look like, nobody,
Speaker 1: nobody had the same teeth pattern. Nobody had the same
Speaker 1: thing to print. What's for the next nigga ain't for
Speaker 1: you even thought process everybody. Everybody ain't for you. So
Speaker 1: I could give you my opinion. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I give you my opinion on all days. That's what
Speaker 1: I had to change. I had to change it within myself,
Speaker 1: like trying to all of my point of view. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because the way I see ship,
Speaker 1: I'm speaking like, damn, y'all don't see this. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's just like like that bottle right now.
Speaker 1: If I say that, y'all see that that bottle? Um
Speaker 1: they and y'all like no, Like damn, I'm gonna be
Speaker 1: tripping because I see this ship. Y'all can't see this ship.
Speaker 1: That's how I used to be trying to because I
Speaker 1: can see certain ship what I thought I could see
Speaker 1: certain ships or I saw certain ship that niggas couldn't
Speaker 1: see and trying to force it on them. You just
Speaker 1: gotta do it so they can see it. That's with
Speaker 1: anything you do. You gotta do that ship so they
Speaker 1: can see. Like delity with time not your vision. Can
Speaker 1: you like the trapped music out, bro. I always say
Speaker 1: we don't on that trapped music till talking about that
Speaker 1: l A like show how this ship y'all damn started
Speaker 1: off looking like what but that ship being bro, she
Speaker 1: ain't stopping, she ain't started lying around the corner like
Speaker 1: he saw that ship ship. I couldn't see you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, that's the thing about Joe vision.
Speaker 1: You gotta trust your vision. If you have been like man, thanks,
Speaker 1: it's not worse. I ain't gonna do it when they
Speaker 1: had it. M hm. Yeah, I ain't say it wasn't
Speaker 1: gonna work. I just doubted it. You can't want to,
Speaker 1: but e folk want and that motherfucker and when you're
Speaker 1: going there, it's cool. They got bar and all that ship.
Speaker 1: That ship cool. They're taking pictures front of the pink
Speaker 1: trap cards and all that ship. Real. Don't tell your
Speaker 1: day how you feel, king, hey man, everything pretty man.
Speaker 1: Anybody tried to bagin the eze of your day, and nah,
Speaker 1: you didn't get him a chance too. I couldn't give
Speaker 1: him a chance. I don't even want to know your
Speaker 1: opinion would go out my first mind with everything I'll do.
Speaker 1: But I listened to everybody else though, But I gotta
Speaker 1: go with my first mind because my first mind on't
Speaker 1: never tell me to do that wrong. Makes sense, I like,
Speaker 1: chick go through it or whatever that is. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: makes sense what we're doing. Jake Big Facts Friday, Triple
Speaker 1: Big Facts. Okay, look, they send hord On, they sent
Speaker 1: me some topics. Hold, aren't feeling this set up? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: this ship, this ship really split. Yeah, I'm saying my
Speaker 1: shoes up, house view. You know what I'm saying. Carpet
Speaker 1: feel nice? Let me see they check your dreams. That's hard,
Speaker 1: you can definitely, it depends on the relation. Depends on
Speaker 1: the relationship. You can't have no tops of relationship, not
Speaker 1: even that, because you can't have a relationship with somebody
Speaker 1: that's like into working and nine to five. If you
Speaker 1: somebody like us and working the whole. Depending on the person,
Speaker 1: you can't depend If they don't understand what, they're gonna
Speaker 1: want more time and more of this and we barely
Speaker 1: have time for all. It's gonna be a problem unless
Speaker 1: they are with you know, the entertainment lifestyle. They already
Speaker 1: know how everybody or they have to be hell, yeah,
Speaker 1: they gotta be secure and all sometimes they'll put you
Speaker 1: in a situation where you have to pack your job,
Speaker 1: but even do exactly I'm ben saying, if a person, Yeah,
Speaker 1: if a person puts you in the position you have
Speaker 1: to pick your job for them, then funk them because
Speaker 1: they're not for you. But then that's different. What if
Speaker 1: that person been sitting there sacrificing on for like months
Speaker 1: at a time, like all right, I'm right and I'm
Speaker 1: right and I'm right, but this one day and just
Speaker 1: so happened that one day we got a big, big,
Speaker 1: big facts interview and we're like, okay, we got Obama,
Speaker 1: we gotta do this in that person like damn, we're
Speaker 1: supposed to be going here, blah blah blah. Are they
Speaker 1: fucked up now? Because they don't sacrifice if it's supposed
Speaker 1: or not. But if it's if it's if it's supposed
Speaker 1: to be your if it's your dream, and this person,
Speaker 1: like I really loves you and it's really trying to
Speaker 1: understand you. I understand everybody has their limits and ship
Speaker 1: like that, but if they really love you, they're gonna
Speaker 1: understand that like this is your dream, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, and they're gonna ride it. Out like I
Speaker 1: don't know no other way to put it, Like, I
Speaker 1: think that really that with friends relationship and you with
Speaker 1: when you with me. I think the biggest thing about relationships,
Speaker 1: whether to be friends or like you know, somebody that
Speaker 1: you really look in love with, you really got to
Speaker 1: be able to stand on what it takes to be
Speaker 1: with them. So if you want somebody that's gonna be
Speaker 1: available for seven and be able to answer your calls
Speaker 1: any given moment, that might not be somebody that that's
Speaker 1: in the industry. So you may think you have found
Speaker 1: the one, you you got close, but it's not. That's
Speaker 1: not the one, So keep looking for find somebody that's
Speaker 1: gonna be a cent of what you're looking for, because
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not saying with everything, but to
Speaker 1: be something else close enough for you to be able
Speaker 1: to work with. Because if you that's not gonna be
Speaker 1: with me. And if I think that, if I thought
Speaker 1: that you were gonna be the person and you show
Speaker 1: me qualities that that aren't what I'm looking for, then hey,
Speaker 1: you know, I gotta keep I gotta keep looking because
Speaker 1: obviously it's not gonna work. Because I don't want you
Speaker 1: to feel lesser. I'm not gonna let you make me
Speaker 1: feel like I'm lesser for being with you. You feel
Speaker 1: me like if if it's not spoken to work, it's
Speaker 1: not sposed to work. I'm not gonna force it. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna force that puzzle piece to fit. Never. Never, never,
Speaker 1: it ain't forcing ship. We're falling back, right, people. Niggas
Speaker 1: can't make their relationship no excuse neither though. You know
Speaker 1: what when you say out what you mean like ship,
Speaker 1: you know how I had this if they had this
Speaker 1: bit Oh yeah yeah, nigga, you helped me back. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: But that's why you can't feel like that. I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah niggas do. Niggas do say that, and
Speaker 1: I'm saying you can't. You can't. You know. I under
Speaker 1: staying this ship every day all day today, feeling like man,
Speaker 1: they've been it been that bro. I'm saying that that's
Speaker 1: that you need to lead at this place to try
Speaker 1: in your mind. Yeah I got just trying your mind
Speaker 1: for what it is. But could it could be you?
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, But but it's just like at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, at the end of the day, like
Speaker 1: if you have in your head already or in your
Speaker 1: mind or your heart or whatever, that this bitch is
Speaker 1: what's holding you back. And y'all have a household or
Speaker 1: y'all have like you know what I'm saying, the situation
Speaker 1: or whatever. You're never gonna have peace in your house
Speaker 1: if you still have that thought in the back of
Speaker 1: your mind. So it's never gonna work for sure. Fact. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you gotta you got guts dig into itself then
Speaker 1: and then it is you you still know then if
Speaker 1: it's you, you gotta win it up. Put it on.
Speaker 1: Is this bitch worth me changing who I really am?
Speaker 1: Because this might be this who personal I'm dug down
Speaker 1: inside of me to see who I am. I haven't
Speaker 1: been explaying this to this bitch. I've been trying to
Speaker 1: be somebody else, super nigga, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I've been trying to be super nigger when I'm not. Fact.
Speaker 1: So is this worth me being super nigga or not?
Speaker 1: Is she super bitch or not? Or not? So you're
Speaker 1: gonna change all these ways and be this perfect guy
Speaker 1: out them? What are you gonna get? What's gonna change?
Speaker 1: You can change for the better for yourself. No, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying the better for yourself. Maybe, how how like
Speaker 1: what's working for me is already working. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm cool. I just need to go hard on my
Speaker 1: hustle and every whatever. Whatever you're saying, it's holding you back.
Speaker 1: If the female is having your mind set to where
Speaker 1: all you can think about all days beefing and this
Speaker 1: and that and this and that, that's what holds you back.
Speaker 1: That's the only part. It's sucking with your mind because
Speaker 1: the bitch ain't got no handcuffs on your Now that's
Speaker 1: telling you not to go outside. You just care too much.
Speaker 1: So and you're caring because you're trying to be something
Speaker 1: that you're not, that you're not. But what if her
Speaker 1: complaint is that you're just a selfish person. What if
Speaker 1: it's not it's just like you're a selfish person, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, what if it's not that? What if you
Speaker 1: heard it like from Numan's people around you, but you
Speaker 1: ignore it, right, You've been just ignoring it like I'm
Speaker 1: gonna just do this ship. And she keeps telling you this,
Speaker 1: but she's accepting you for who you are. But now
Speaker 1: she's telling you like, okay, this selfish, So you're gonna
Speaker 1: stay selfish instead of like, I'm not that sacrificed up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it depends is she worth me changing my selfish ways?
Speaker 1: But who's the same that you're selfish? Because selfish is
Speaker 1: a matter of opinion? What am I selfish? Power? Because
Speaker 1: what am I? Don't buy you with your nail back? No,
Speaker 1: I'm myself first selfish? What's give me to us? I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, like, okay, let's put us some people are selfish.
Speaker 1: We know that, like your selfish. But like, okay, let's
Speaker 1: say you by you saying I'm not changing who I am.
Speaker 1: This is who I am in this relationship, even though
Speaker 1: your girls saying I'm not liking who you are right now,
Speaker 1: hold on and hold on up and you won't change
Speaker 1: like you don't have relationships for example, like you who
Speaker 1: typing it forever? And so if she's sitting and saying
Speaker 1: like I have a problem and you're being selfish right now,
Speaker 1: and you said, man, this is just who I am,
Speaker 1: Like you don't think that person from the beginning was
Speaker 1: that selfish when you met me? Who did you thought
Speaker 1: I was? Whatever it is to come up that I've
Speaker 1: been this person, then you we were. My question is
Speaker 1: if a person asks that became selfish. That's something I
Speaker 1: would have to work on. That's what I'm saying. If
Speaker 1: a person asked you to change from being selfish, is
Speaker 1: that person saying I want you to change for me,
Speaker 1: or is it changing for you yourself for the betterment
Speaker 1: of yourself? You get what I'm saying, Like, if I'm
Speaker 1: telling you to change from being selfish, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: it depends on And it could be you could be
Speaker 1: being selfish towards them. They could be coming in doing
Speaker 1: all the work you ain't doing ship here, and that
Speaker 1: makes you selfish then, and she could be at the
Speaker 1: house saying you selfish at the house. Dave could be
Speaker 1: like you selfish when it comes to the duct tape ship.
Speaker 1: You ain't helping we here, So now you're a selfish
Speaker 1: person all around and change that changing yourself changing. But
Speaker 1: you're saying changing from being selfish. Um, it really all
Speaker 1: depends on what your definition of him being selfish is. No,
Speaker 1: she's saying. If everybody everybody around you saying you're selfish,
Speaker 1: but your girl is doing that's really nagger your attention,
Speaker 1: Like this ship is with your character and you're sitting
Speaker 1: here saying this bitch saying I'm selfish, and it's really
Speaker 1: not just this bit, just everybody around you saying so.
Speaker 1: In that case like that, the girl tells that's a
Speaker 1: character flaw. Character flaw. She's trying to make the In
Speaker 1: that case, she's trying to make the person better. But
Speaker 1: if she's the only ones and and him selfish dealing
Speaker 1: with if she's the only one saying that yourself, we
Speaker 1: need some further investigations or sometimes people can say you're
Speaker 1: being selfish with time. A lot of people in relationships
Speaker 1: normally when they're saying you're selfish, just a lot of
Speaker 1: times just more mostly time. It's not necessarily what you're
Speaker 1: doing for. But but but don't you supposed to be
Speaker 1: selfing with your time though your relationship is y'all time,
Speaker 1: isn't it. Oh well, she we need to make this.
Speaker 1: You're right, you're right, but hey, whatever we got when
Speaker 1: you're tell him to do that, this was left. That's
Speaker 1: not true. So you want me to get all work
Speaker 1: to make You want me to make time. If I
Speaker 1: ain't got time, you should be happy and you should
Speaker 1: make time. That's what everybody said. Cast Cash said, you
Speaker 1: make time. But see how it shouldn't be a situation
Speaker 1: where I have to make time. If I'm hustling doing
Speaker 1: what I gotta do. You know what I'm saying, all
Speaker 1: these hours of the day to make sure that we're straight,
Speaker 1: and you someone sitting on your ass and you got
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of times and then you're not making time.
Speaker 1: Doesn't make it, doesn't You're not saying that she's nothing. Bit.
Speaker 1: We're saying that she makes time for the relationship. If
Speaker 1: y'all put a date on the scale and say we're
Speaker 1: gonna have a date year, right, and this is the
Speaker 1: time we have in a date because we ain't had
Speaker 1: a date and all this time and then big facts
Speaker 1: call and say we gotta do this, and you say,
Speaker 1: all right, that date, Well we we on. Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: gonnachle she's sticking SI because she's been doing having dates
Speaker 1: were you're selfish? Yeah, I if that's what I don't
Speaker 1: do all that playing it out in the future with
Speaker 1: other people. Yeah, I don't. I don't do that, But
Speaker 1: I don't do that. We're just gonna do this set whenever, like,
Speaker 1: come on, let's wake up, let's go here, let's do this,
Speaker 1: let's do this. We're gonna make the time, but I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna promise you know, ship that I know. I
Speaker 1: don't even know what I'm gonna be doing next to
Speaker 1: We're gonna be nine, ain't that? Yeah, I can't even
Speaker 1: see that ship too far tomorrow. I can't even do that. Like,
Speaker 1: if I know you that type of person, that's what
Speaker 1: it is. You can't. You can't just sitting the next twos.
Speaker 1: We don't do this, then there's some more important up now.
Speaker 1: I gotta show you what's more important. M M. They're
Speaker 1: gonna have episodes. Well, I'm gonna tell you, come on,
Speaker 1: we ain't ducking then, come on, whatever I got going,
Speaker 1: come on, you pull up with me. Yeah, but you
Speaker 1: have to be that type of person like and then
Speaker 1: and I don't want to call on squares with some
Speaker 1: nine to five squares don't get that because they've been
Speaker 1: training into this is the scheduling. This is like we
Speaker 1: don't need to celebrate Christmas and that type ship. Yeah,
Speaker 1: doing knowing that like thanks you, I thank you, we
Speaker 1: cook on thank you, but Valentine days and that we
Speaker 1: don't even like we're playing for that. We're doing this
Speaker 1: ship every day. Yeah, every day of our life. We're
Speaker 1: trying us each other even when it was on some
Speaker 1: top of ship. You know what I'm saying, we're kids,
Speaker 1: who hell whatever. I can't trying to go damn playing
Speaker 1: that would be sucking ish up, trying to play this
Speaker 1: ship out. How and how am I plan to love you?
Speaker 1: I'm playing today is I'm gonna wake up and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do this, and I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do this to my relationships. Ain't to my in life
Speaker 1: a relationship. You're trying to plan to Goddamn No, you
Speaker 1: can plan to do something nice for your mate, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying you're trying to plan the to get a
Speaker 1: feller m M. You know what I'm saying, planning to
Speaker 1: make you love me more type ship. There's two people
Speaker 1: riffing and ship like. They're playing like Valentine's is gonna
Speaker 1: be good. That's some bullshit. You see what I'm saying
Speaker 1: Valentine's We're gonna get along on Valentine's. But that's some bullshit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: many one disagreement have on Valentine's. They just hold ship up.
Speaker 1: But if y'all have been acting like every day was
Speaker 1: Valentine's day Valentine's. They really get that. It's like, all right, yeah,
Speaker 1: I love you too. M yeah yeah no, but yeah
Speaker 1: you can get some money. You gotta get you somebody
Speaker 1: that met you. Hustle facts absolutely, and then you're really
Speaker 1: kicking the over again. Be a double hustler, either one
Speaker 1: and then you gotta because a fellow hustler is gonna
Speaker 1: understand like the ends and out to this ship and
Speaker 1: how everything goes, and like they're gonna appreciate and be
Speaker 1: grateful for those times when there is time that was
Speaker 1: the worst like relationship I ever entertained. I was talking
Speaker 1: to a chicken. I asked her, like, you know what ship?
Speaker 1: What do you want to do? Like? What do your
Speaker 1: life goes? I don't dream of work? Like what? Like
Speaker 1: what do they any answer the question? You don't dream
Speaker 1: doing nothing productive in your life. That's because you'll be
Speaker 1: trying to dake these girls with them on your camera.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I'm like, damn, like you don't wanna
Speaker 1: do ship? You don't. You don't do in your life nothing.
Speaker 1: I can't, I can't. Why do women think damn, and
Speaker 1: this might be some bullshit and this ship? Why do
Speaker 1: they think they're more valuable than niggers because we are bullshit.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, y'all are because y'all have have kids, and
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, y'all are for that. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, it's not even not No, you are more
Speaker 1: valuable to the world than a man. But I'm saying,
Speaker 1: in a relationship, why do you think your feelings are
Speaker 1: more valuable than miss like you're a queen? Like we
Speaker 1: put them. We're putting them at the highest we could
Speaker 1: clean My mom and my grandmama, old women. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I never loved no by the way,
Speaker 1: I love these people, So I get that part. My
Speaker 1: grand baby that's a female, I love them more than
Speaker 1: anything in this You get what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 1: get that part. And I'm saying, like, in a relationship,
Speaker 1: I think it's because a lot of women. And I
Speaker 1: could be wrong, I could do, but I just think
Speaker 1: that a lot of women And it goes into the
Speaker 1: next topic that we have to so let's keep it going.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of women aren't used to men
Speaker 1: expressing their feelings in a healthy manner because a lot
Speaker 1: of men, A lot of men aren't used to even
Speaker 1: spressing their feelings, for one. So when they do express
Speaker 1: their women, I mean express their feelings, sometimes it comes
Speaker 1: off in a way that a woman is not used to.
Speaker 1: So now we're like, I don't mean you know this ship,
Speaker 1: But in reality, he's really just expressing their feelings. We're
Speaker 1: just not used to it. A lot of women aren't
Speaker 1: used to the love language with a man being emotional.
Speaker 1: But see, the thing is a lot of niggas, a
Speaker 1: lot of niggas have like suppressed trauma. That's true too,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And a lot of niggas
Speaker 1: are or like shell shock when it comes to like
Speaker 1: the whole love and expressing emotions and expressing their feelings
Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying, all that kind of ship.
Speaker 1: So when they are able to finally find somebody that
Speaker 1: they can open up to and that they can like
Speaker 1: talk with and just put everything out on the table
Speaker 1: with a lot of females most often times are not
Speaker 1: equipped to be able to handle that, and we hold
Speaker 1: it against me. And sometimes so if you sometimes as
Speaker 1: a woman, I ain't gonna I have done this before
Speaker 1: a bit, yeah, yeah, yeah, sometimes are equipped that from
Speaker 1: the women that are equipped, men around from the women
Speaker 1: that's that's equipped, and yeah, because they because sometimes some
Speaker 1: in in that case when they run, it's because they
Speaker 1: kind of feel inadequate to a certain extent, and they
Speaker 1: also feel like, Okay, a woman that is equipped to
Speaker 1: handle this also requires a lot more in most other areas.
Speaker 1: So I'm not ready for all of that pressure. So like, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna funk that ship. I'm gonna just leave because
Speaker 1: she most of the time hold them accountable, like that
Speaker 1: woman is gonna hold a man accountable. And most men
Speaker 1: don't like accountability because they feel like what the funk
Speaker 1: they think is going and how they feel is just that,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And a lot of men
Speaker 1: just don't like expressing themselves because they was taught, especially
Speaker 1: black men, was taught that you for show, you're not
Speaker 1: supposed to cry, You're not supposed to seeing weak at all.
Speaker 1: So and if a woman do get those emotions from them,
Speaker 1: they said, I'm I'm not to see a lot of niggas.
Speaker 1: A lot of niggas be burnt too, because they'd be
Speaker 1: like they might have like been with a bit forever,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, might have kids about this
Speaker 1: bitch might have whatever, whatever, and then they like opened
Speaker 1: up themselves and expressed their emotions to this bitch, and
Speaker 1: this bitch took their emotions and turned it around and
Speaker 1: use it against them. So when they finally do get
Speaker 1: with a bitch, they really understand it's really trying to
Speaker 1: love them, really trying to cater to them. They really
Speaker 1: trying to bring it out so they don't have to
Speaker 1: like sit around with all this ship bottled up. They'd
Speaker 1: be so scarred by this other bitch till it's like, man,
Speaker 1: I ain't ain't gonna open up to this bitch. I
Speaker 1: love it and I know me, but I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: go too traumatic. Yeah, like I ain't doing that. I'm
Speaker 1: never doing that ever again. And that should be so
Speaker 1: fucked up because it could be two people that are
Speaker 1: meant to be together that are the perfect compliments to
Speaker 1: each other. But yeah, but he's fucked up, this other bitch.
Speaker 1: And guys, to me, I think some guys, man, some
Speaker 1: guys perfect, I mean purposely their relationships up when they
Speaker 1: feel once they feel like a girl starting to tug
Speaker 1: at a certain emotion, I ain't trying to ain't trying
Speaker 1: to do this, Yeah, trying to ut like this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm too much. Start some Let me start accusing her
Speaker 1: being a hole. Let me start it. Let me yeah.
Speaker 1: And a lot of niggers don't even don't even make
Speaker 1: the concertive decision to far back. They'll just goes to bitch.
Speaker 1: That's true too. That hit me in the piece. Got
Speaker 1: make you make her things? She did something to make
Speaker 1: you leave. Sound like I'm not saying that sounds like NARCISSI.
Speaker 1: That's what they do. That's what they I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I do it. He said it doesn't I religate out
Speaker 1: there go yeah, because I always back. I ain't you
Speaker 1: say that aitherway. I don't know how to handle this one.
Speaker 1: No mass understanding when when when you got we might
Speaker 1: take the ship back up, but back up because she's
Speaker 1: gonna always think of the possibility when what happened. I
Speaker 1: don't even know what I did. And he's gonna come back.
Speaker 1: But something niggas ain't mom. And it's like it's just
Speaker 1: like it takes extreme patience to really try to love
Speaker 1: somebody that's never been loved properly before that all fati,
Speaker 1: that's a job, that's like that's passing by to be
Speaker 1: small that get what we take. Hats all to any
Speaker 1: woman that's able to love a nigger that's already sucked
Speaker 1: up that ship. But I know, bro, I'm fucked up.
Speaker 1: Bro like niggas is fucked up. Bro, Oh, niggas fucked
Speaker 1: up because the way you think it's so fucked up,
Speaker 1: no joke. But you can't put me like that. I
Speaker 1: know you don't like, you don't like what you want?
Speaker 1: What you want? You want, you want something? Why are
Speaker 1: you here? And it should be so fucked up when
Speaker 1: they fucking with a bitch, they really don't ship just
Speaker 1: but they just love them and make them a better person.
Speaker 1: And they're so fucking it's like traumatized from this other bitch.
Speaker 1: It's like, bro, like man, that should be crazy from
Speaker 1: the other bit. Some most niggas, we don't talk about
Speaker 1: any traumatized from their mama. Most niggas, from a lot
Speaker 1: of niggas be having real mama issue. That's big mama issue.
Speaker 1: Fight you said a lot of them mama issues. Yes,
Speaker 1: I think that a lot of men have real mama
Speaker 1: issues and they don't know how to address it. Like
Speaker 1: just think about your mom is supposed to be the
Speaker 1: first person that person. So imagine if your mama so
Speaker 1: you don't even know, like, don't matter what if you
Speaker 1: left your any lady's bitches be having daddy issues. Different. God,
Speaker 1: it's different, daddy issues different different, I don't personal different.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you, bro, a person can really because
Speaker 1: the same ship that Nigga's got to get from his
Speaker 1: mom is the same ship gotta get from her. Name
Speaker 1: telling you, I'm telling you listen, I'm telling you you
Speaker 1: can tell your mama is different. Like no matter what
Speaker 1: your mom can do, what for their mama? Mama telling
Speaker 1: you people that don't have that daddy, niggas ain't at
Speaker 1: home like my daddy nis like that. I agree, I
Speaker 1: agree with you. I agree with you. I'm saying this
Speaker 1: girl is like like a little more is I'm talking
Speaker 1: about as adults as adult is something happening y'all. Most
Speaker 1: people like you want my mama. I wish my mama
Speaker 1: was here. Nigga's mostly as saying mama. Everybody saying niggers
Speaker 1: just saying mama. What y'all talking about? How many times
Speaker 1: ain't hurt the world? The world? The world is like this,
Speaker 1: even though mother, even though there's so many big commercials
Speaker 1: and so many big stuff that's go for women. They
Speaker 1: it be fa today. They only show you ship. Niggas
Speaker 1: really care more about their mama. Don't get your mom
Speaker 1: and your life. You probably everybody a little that mom.
Speaker 1: Your mom is supposed to be the first person everything.
Speaker 1: I disagree because there's a lot of it's a lot
Speaker 1: of it's a lot of niggas out here with you.
Speaker 1: We said that. They said that okay, mama issues are
Speaker 1: more important than daddy issue pretty much, and I said that, no,
Speaker 1: that's no. I said that the nigga, a nigga without
Speaker 1: a mama is gonna have the same kind of issues
Speaker 1: a bit without a daddy gonna have. It's the same ship.
Speaker 1: Even it's the same ship, it's the same ship. A
Speaker 1: nigga without a mama is gonna have the same exact
Speaker 1: issues that a bitch without a daddy is gonna have.
Speaker 1: Its factual facts. There are exceptions within relationships hips. No
Speaker 1: I'm talking about even like I'm standing on my either way,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like issues are more. They're pouring and more.
Speaker 1: There are fathers, there are the bigger the thing not
Speaker 1: having your mama. Female ain't got no daddy. Right, That's
Speaker 1: what I'm what I'm saying. There are there are are
Speaker 1: that she's still is gonna be lacking certain ship, bro,
Speaker 1: that don't be lacking if he got that's true right now,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's gonna like something. But what
Speaker 1: I'm saying is if you don't have if everybody don't
Speaker 1: have my mom like you you right, You're gonna turn
Speaker 1: out way more fun up if your daddy having loved,
Speaker 1: if your dadd true, it depends on female. That's what
Speaker 1: we're saying. That's what I'm saying, turn into mothers. I'm
Speaker 1: not taking away from them. I'm not taking away from
Speaker 1: the daddies that pick up the mom The same point
Speaker 1: this is, there's a sens there's a session about need
Speaker 1: a moment, bro, Yeah, everybody, everybody. I'm just saying, you
Speaker 1: don't need damn one of them. But at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, you you you, you would be more
Speaker 1: comfortable time to your mama than your dad. I'm saying
Speaker 1: like in a relationship. In a relationship though, for Nigga
Speaker 1: to have his mama, you kind of know how to
Speaker 1: treat a woman. Advice versus advice versa. You know Mama,
Speaker 1: that you gotta set of the same thing. A woman
Speaker 1: who got your dad, they know how to treat the man.
Speaker 1: You got more passionate for him. Yeah. Absolutely, because you're
Speaker 1: a daddy girl. So now you now you're trying for
Speaker 1: the same energy that you had love for your daddy
Speaker 1: as to your husband. Autely, that's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: think it. I think it. No, I think it's fair
Speaker 1: to say there's an exception to everything. Without it, I'm
Speaker 1: saying the majority, like a women without their father, that
Speaker 1: never had their father, they fucked up. Not saying there's
Speaker 1: exceptions to every rule. There's women. That's women, that's that's
Speaker 1: there's women, that's men who didn't have their mama who
Speaker 1: are Okay, it happens. There are exceptions to every rule.
Speaker 1: But overall, trust me, like it's the same. It evens out.
Speaker 1: Once you got your mom. Look at you got your mom,
Speaker 1: especially got one good mom. You're looking at your you're
Speaker 1: looking at women as Queen's exactly disappointed my mom. Right,
Speaker 1: you're disappointed when you meet someone who's not to that standard.
Speaker 1: But that's that's that's been my dad, your standard up.
Speaker 1: You know, I've been there with me, what I gonna
Speaker 1: call my dad? You know what it is, then you
Speaker 1: can try to find it within the man. Yeah, exactly
Speaker 1: that you need to match with your daddy be doing
Speaker 1: because yeah doing, And now I can't do it. It's
Speaker 1: not gonna work. But there are my white dad and
Speaker 1: what kind of got? Now you know how you can't
Speaker 1: throw it out to daddy? Crazy? Well white dad and
Speaker 1: fried Fried like, I think that's what it comes out.
Speaker 1: But there are exceptions to everyone. But okay, so this
Speaker 1: all discussion about mama issues daddy issues. All that brings
Speaker 1: me to our next topic, emotional intelligence. What's that? Okay?
Speaker 1: So shout out to our money von money underscore v
Speaker 1: on Instagram. He wrote in on the next Big Facts Friday,
Speaker 1: Can y'all have a conversation around how important emotional intelligence is?
Speaker 1: And the textbook definition of emotional intelligence is the capacity
Speaker 1: to be aware, of, control, and express one's emotions and
Speaker 1: to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. So controlling your emotions?
Speaker 1: How important is it to control your emotions and to
Speaker 1: know how and when to need to be able to
Speaker 1: control them in the relationship in life in general? Let's say,
Speaker 1: let's always say life in general. Definitely life in general.
Speaker 1: I saw I was talking about on Twitter terday. You know,
Speaker 1: they've been doing like little public pranks and ship Nigga
Speaker 1: was like he put like a piece of cardboard on
Speaker 1: the nigga back and Nigga's in the comments, like, Bro,
Speaker 1: the blasts that nig he did that ship To me,
Speaker 1: you don't throw your life away for that ship like that.
Speaker 1: That doesn't seem like the most intelligent ship ship to me.
Speaker 1: That's an example. But I feel like some niggas do
Speaker 1: think like that. They first they first example, they first
Speaker 1: my head, I don't think I'm in danger. So you
Speaker 1: get shot in the problem not on your head. But
Speaker 1: like Nigga, like you're doing you feel something soft and
Speaker 1: get your back saying he said, you're gonna get yourself
Speaker 1: time to think emotionally intelligent, like is you're gonna turn
Speaker 1: around like the fun? Right, it's like that, but what
Speaker 1: the fun? What it's like? Said do that now? That's
Speaker 1: what it is? But but but yeah, exactly the first
Speaker 1: thing you do, bag right, you did in situate it
Speaker 1: dangers out here? Danger bro, you are you gonna get shot?
Speaker 1: But y'all, y'all seen them pranks on social media may
Speaker 1: be going to trying to tell you doverybody, Hey, you
Speaker 1: can sell they don't touch me, man, all that you
Speaker 1: can't nobody I see you is dumping like a Teddy bearer.
Speaker 1: He was sting, got their tissue balls and niggas in
Speaker 1: the walmart like that. Put a box over somebody head
Speaker 1: and they walk into the park line. You put a
Speaker 1: box over their head and they put the whole box
Speaker 1: of that. I've seen that. Man. There's a lot of shots. Man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but how about it. You didn't some of that all right?
Speaker 1: Some of that that's the first stage of kidnap. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I fear for my life. I was scared as head
Speaker 1: keep talking about something. Some of that ship, some of
Speaker 1: that ship. Definitely some of that ship. I was scared
Speaker 1: of that. I don't know that that. It was dark.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to time. Yeah, I used to get locked
Speaker 1: in the closet, went on, do that could my teeth? Man?
Speaker 1: But assuming my little brother get out of the car
Speaker 1: to about chase her down, tiles up putting this in
Speaker 1: the clouds heaven with man, Man, I ain't going for
Speaker 1: none of that. What's she doing? Terized like chasing that down? Man?
Speaker 1: Soon Man, like she crazy the coming putting the box
Speaker 1: in your head? That shooting. Yeah, I ain't even that guy.
Speaker 1: Damn ask them ship. He turn around laughing like the
Speaker 1: kids in the bathroom and screamed like candy man and
Speaker 1: turn like shot you sucked up. So you're gonna let
Speaker 1: him put a box on your not a box. That's different.
Speaker 1: He was to put the box, the spencific one I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. He leaning like a piece of cardboard on
Speaker 1: his back, was leaning yeah, and did you just turned
Speaker 1: around like man? What? Yeah? That was that was it?
Speaker 1: That's all I did. That's different. Yeah that you got,
Speaker 1: yeah box, that's feel threatened like this, I just too much. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you might get your head when fin see like that. No,
Speaker 1: but if nun put a box in your head, I
Speaker 1: feel like you do gotta brand. That's a reasonable threat
Speaker 1: on your life. Yeah. So so emotional telligence, like what
Speaker 1: if what if you're coming out of spot and you
Speaker 1: see somebody breaking in your car your ship. That's different,
Speaker 1: but it all the way you got your first your
Speaker 1: fire reaction, your first reaction nigger breaking in your car. Yeah,
Speaker 1: your fur reaction, especially if you got with yeah, you're
Speaker 1: gonna shoot him. That way, and you better be looking
Speaker 1: around because he needs like breaking in no card without
Speaker 1: no gun neither. They're breaking the clubs or whatever. You
Speaker 1: breaking that, don't turn the ship to a car jacket. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if that's what's going on, like a self defense or
Speaker 1: some ship. Yeah, get nigga breaking in your car. They
Speaker 1: got pilces too. But I'm saying that. I'm saying if
Speaker 1: you if you bust them in, the police come who
Speaker 1: the police put the cups on. Ye the dad nigger
Speaker 1: Now he now from your window in the house and
Speaker 1: you're just busting. Yeah, you might not. You might not
Speaker 1: beat that. No, No, you get you get off on that.
Speaker 1: If you go white man, you want to see what
Speaker 1: you do the weapping in the car, you're gonna get off.
Speaker 1: Going white man, you want to steal as a weapon
Speaker 1: in the slot, you're gonna get off. But that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. There's a little they don't that's not considered
Speaker 1: imminent danger. When you're my way after you gotta right
Speaker 1: to get shot. Go on my land. I'm trying now,
Speaker 1: this is this is pulling up. If you got in
Speaker 1: your head, bro, but just come on my property. You
Speaker 1: can grab a motherfucking love more weed either if I
Speaker 1: blame your So you had my ship. Okay, so we
Speaker 1: talked about this a big fast Friday and we all
Speaker 1: have what if you gotta ship in the hand. I
Speaker 1: don't want you to get away with my property. Bro.
Speaker 1: Yeah you can't kill shoot you in your ass ki
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah you can. You ain't going to jumps
Speaker 1: in where you ain't going to jail. Yeah. If you
Speaker 1: put up a fight with your ship and saying freeze
Speaker 1: with my ship, stay here to the police, get here,
Speaker 1: you do anything popping man that man, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: you gotta go through the You gotta say he did that.
Speaker 1: You gotta be the proceduus heel like. You gotta say
Speaker 1: he did out in fear of my life. You gotta go.
Speaker 1: I thought the nigger had I saw? I thought, how
Speaker 1: does and depend on what time of night it is? Nighttime?
Speaker 1: You can blame my nigger. I don't know what he has.
Speaker 1: I don't know what he had. It was dark. I
Speaker 1: don't get a funk. What are you doing if he
Speaker 1: at nighttime? He's dark. I thought he was running here.
Speaker 1: I didn't know he was running away a big nig.
Speaker 1: It was more than one of them. It looked like
Speaker 1: it was a group. You can't say how I shot
Speaker 1: you in the bad bro, he bitched up, try to run.
Speaker 1: He was threatening my life and try to run. I
Speaker 1: blame that. I don't know. I was looking. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: been riding before. I'm I'm sure shocked one thing. And
Speaker 1: they and they did that new ship with Nigga got them.
Speaker 1: You ain't gotta hand the form middle nothing though. Yeah, yeah, everybody. Now,
Speaker 1: I want to say it started at top of the
Speaker 1: year long as you what seventeen. I thought they already
Speaker 1: had it. It was an open car you had to
Speaker 1: I'm not Georgia. From my understanding, it was an open carry.
Speaker 1: You have to have to permit to conceal your weapon.
Speaker 1: Fact you end on your hip and all that. Now
Speaker 1: you have to be it has to be on your
Speaker 1: hip invisible. You can do that no matter what. But
Speaker 1: the license is to conceal it and put it in
Speaker 1: your purse. Right, and you got sticks up now? Anybody
Speaker 1: can hide your name clean, You're good. If your name clean,
Speaker 1: you good, funk all that. You can do whatever you want.
Speaker 1: Your name clean, you good. What they just said and
Speaker 1: nig away nam yea that happened yes, recently. You can
Speaker 1: have your MoMA gun. She can go in and buy
Speaker 1: your name good. You can carry real sheet mm hmm.
Speaker 1: That crazy man and ship. All this washing going on,
Speaker 1: they're doing that, not with this ship about that way.
Speaker 1: Everybody be ready, Like I gotta go give me some boots. Now.
Speaker 1: These kids ain't fighting him all they whatever these kids
Speaker 1: been having anyway, but in school with it. So emotional
Speaker 1: intelligence basically is it's important. But there are situations where
Speaker 1: that ship gonna go out the window. Basically, that's what
Speaker 1: we just see. I think I don't even think we
Speaker 1: touched on like the tip of that because we just
Speaker 1: started talking about some dumb sh they call that. We're
Speaker 1: talking about the type of board and a goddamn dig
Speaker 1: it with a box shooting some sprinkles out of his
Speaker 1: mouth talking about boom now. But like, but like real
Speaker 1: ship was, Like I feel like emotional intelligence is important
Speaker 1: because it really if you have emotional intelligence, you have
Speaker 1: discipline and restraint basically emotionally intend to know when you
Speaker 1: tripped on trip and just I guess, rearrange it, and
Speaker 1: to also know how to receive other people's other people
Speaker 1: ship too. I think what other people go through over
Speaker 1: just saying control yourself, know how to control yourself. No,
Speaker 1: when when the whole No, when the phoone? Yeah, and
Speaker 1: what makes you tip? People got to know what what's
Speaker 1: gonna make them set them off? Like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you could call you could probably call
Speaker 1: me a bit. I ain't gonna trip, but you call
Speaker 1: Jane a bitsh your swing on you like you can
Speaker 1: just need to know, like what's gonna set people off?
Speaker 1: When the phone man? Emotionally intelligence right there, you know
Speaker 1: what's what's what's gonna react, what's the reaction, what's your trigger?
Speaker 1: And for other people, Yes, you got to be triple
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