1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: A big fan and DJ scream bring you Big Facts, 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: the hottest podcast in the streets. Visit the new website 3 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 1: to day www dot Big Facts pod dot com live 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: for first class sounds. You know who it is. DJ 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: screams Time for that Big Facts Friday, Baby j Big 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: Bank Shot, Jump, take Daves, so Big Joe, Sad, boys 7 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: in here, cash, Yeah, in the building. What's up? What's up? 8 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: What's up everybody? We got our new fresh look. That's 9 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: what we're doing. We got the east side, west side, 10 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: north side, south side, around the area. The girl back 11 00:00:47,080 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: there with us in spirit. Okay, what we're talking about? 12 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 1: What's what's on? Everybody minding heart for Big Fact Fridays. 13 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: What's what's the key word for the day? Key word 14 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: for the day is marginalization. Let' be doing some big 15 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: as words later. The donated that that. Yeah, So let's 16 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:14,839 Speaker 1: start with what it means and how are we gonna 17 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: talk about it? Okay, So basically, basically, the urban definition 18 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: of marginalization, or the urban definition of what it means 19 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: to marginalize is to oppress, to blackball, to aligne, to 20 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:40,760 Speaker 1: smear the fame or discredit, or to lower public or 21 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: private opinion or the status of an individual or group 22 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: through hateful, deceitful, or misguided speech of action. Basically, it 23 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: means putting a nick in a box for lack of 24 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,559 Speaker 1: a better way to put it, to shave it down 25 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 1: and trim it. Meaning like just like if you're my friend, 26 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna use an example the black was given earlier, 27 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: like if you're my friend and we're in the studio 28 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: and like your job is to your job is to 29 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: like sweep the studio or whatever, but we funk around 30 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:16,519 Speaker 1: one night. I don't have an engineer, and you volunteer 31 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: and say, like, okay, I'll engineer you because I know 32 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,640 Speaker 1: how to engineer. I'll try you out, and you do 33 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 1: like a perfect job. But I'm so small minded in 34 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: my thinking. I don't want you to like blow up 35 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: and be an engineer and then outgrow me. So I'm 36 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: just gonna tell you, even though I know, like I 37 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: would rather have you as my engineer, I'm gonna keep 38 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: you in your same little clean up the studio box 39 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: because I don't want you to surpass me type ship. 40 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: Definitely what they got, you know how they words and 41 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: then you can say that another word beside it too. 42 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: That's a straight up. So that's that's that's similar. But okay, 43 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: did not hear what you're saying, so like that's similar. 44 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 1: Everybody kind of watched that Kanye ship. Is that similar 45 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: to kind of how they was treating him on the 46 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: Producer ship? Like you just type she said, yeah, I word, 47 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: she just said, describe something else. Yeah, they weren't doing 48 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: They weren't like intentionally trying, Like they just didn't see 49 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,679 Speaker 1: what he was it was going on. Marginalization has to 50 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: be intentional? Does it say intentional? You were just saying 51 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: you can just say, think about this if somebody want 52 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: to change their career, right, and this could be in 53 00:03:43,280 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: the household or some ship. Like I'm gonna be real 54 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: like when I started talking about podcasting, everybody, you're doing 55 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 1: fine it radio? Why want you gonna podcast? You see 56 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Hain't that marginalization? It's a person just 57 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: thinking that you can't do it. But I don't know 58 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 1: if that's ill intent all the time. You right right 59 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: like that, it's not what's what? What? What? What? Definition? That? 60 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: That was the Urban Dictionary? You want the the Roman 61 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: Catholic from the crack from the Saltines. Okay, you know 62 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: how that though, But I think some of it do 63 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: be ill intent, like if you do it, I feel 64 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: like if you do it intentionally, like feeling like somebody 65 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: might get bigger than me. Yeah, yeah, like I don't 66 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 1: want you to. And I know that ship sounds good, engineer, 67 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 1: and I know that you don't know how good you sound, 68 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 1: but I know how good you sound. Okay, So the 69 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:49,119 Speaker 1: Roman Catholic Saltine definition of marginalization is treatment of a person, group, 70 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: or concept as insignificant or peripheral. M we got nobody. 71 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:05,280 Speaker 1: Peripheral means like okay, okay, okay, okay, Yeah, it ain't 72 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: I don't even get that. Just didn't remember. And again 73 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: the can you remember? He was like, y'all can't marginalized me. 74 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: And he was just saying that y'all the people were 75 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: saying he can't do fashion, he can't do all this 76 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: other stuff. He had all these ideas. Now mind, you 77 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. I thought he was tripping a little 78 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: bit with some of that ship at first, but he 79 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 1: ended up doing everything he said he was gonna do. 80 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: But there were people trying to marginalize him, probably some 81 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: with ill intent, but probably something that just felt like, man, 82 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 1: this is one of the greatest rappers and producers at 83 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: all time. Can he really be as dope and fashion 84 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 1: as he wasn't rapping and producing? That's just like, you know, 85 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: that's really the right that they're just opinion. I'm saying like, 86 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: if you in position to hold a person in a box, 87 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: like to keep him in a box, But can you 88 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: keep somebody in the box. You can't really keep on 89 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 1: they could do it anyway. Person. If that person don't 90 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: let that person engineer and they know they's a good engineer, 91 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 1: they can go somewhere else in engineer. What if they 92 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: don't know that they're a good engineering games, that's a 93 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: manipulation because if you if you've got the position to 94 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 1: put me on and I trust you, but in your 95 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: back of your mind, you're a hater. And every time 96 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: I say I want to try to do some new ship, 97 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:18,600 Speaker 1: you're like, you're really not gonna be good. Yes. Have 98 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 1: y'all ever seen flowers in the attic? No? No, okay, okay, 99 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:27,839 Speaker 1: we'll just look it up and go watch it. I'm 100 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: not been explaining this, but it's about it's about that 101 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: type of ship. Yall, Thank you, thank you, But theiation 102 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: could really be a lot more harmful than that, because 103 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: if you if you you're just not giving me an opportunity. 104 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 1: That's cool. I can get the opportunity to someone else, 105 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: like you said. But if you're telling me that, man, 106 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 1: you never and if you hear that ship year after 107 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: year a year year, I really can't do that ship 108 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,040 Speaker 1: that whole time. Nigger. You you're flying with you with 109 00:06:58,080 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: the chickens. You need to be flying with the evils. 110 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: I think sometimes people really don't know when they're doing 111 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: that to people. I think that they look at them 112 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 1: and say, Okay, you're great at djan like your bamba 113 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: dj and stay stick to that because you can go 114 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: out and here, but to go somewhere else. Some people 115 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: don't even know that they're trying to stick somebody into 116 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: a box that they're doing that. They think that they're 117 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 1: supporting you and helping you go to go higher than 118 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: where you've ever been before. Now, But it's a lot 119 00:07:21,880 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: of it's a lot of people. It's a lot of 120 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: people that do that on purpose because they are jealous 121 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: of that other person's capability. So I think I think 122 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: it's something like manipulation and some ill intent with some 123 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: of that ship. But sometimes it's another phrase they use, 124 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: jack of all trades, master nothing. So you ever know 125 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: that person that starts doing everything but they never finished that. 126 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: They never finished I'm going to open this, I'm going 127 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: to do this, I'm going to do this, something to 128 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: do this, but they don't see it through. You see 129 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So sometimes you're telling somebody of that, 130 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 1: like I believe you can, but I believe you. But 131 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: that's if you know it's a trend, right, Like imagine 132 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: if somebody were to tell you, hey, man, you're great, 133 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: you know what you want to do a podcast for? No? 134 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: I get that, But what I'm so I have the workout, 135 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: But are you marginalizing? Are you marginalizing somebody if you're 136 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: telling them, bro, I think that you can do twenty things. 137 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: You can wrap, produce, DJ fucking dance, you can do 138 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: all of that ship. But you need to see it through. 139 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: You need to be like you know what I'm saying, 140 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: Like you need to get to a certain place, finished something. 141 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: But you can't open a bunch of one. You can't 142 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: start a bunch of businesses and none of them is 143 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 1: making profits. Get that first business or two to making profit, 144 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:34,319 Speaker 1: not saying you can't do the third business. It is 145 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 1: just that. But you can't say that though neither because 146 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: then got them keep trying everything and then that it's 147 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:47,319 Speaker 1: a different it's a difference between it's a difference. It's 148 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:49,800 Speaker 1: a difference between failure and seeing it through. You are 149 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: a successful photographer. I'm talking about people that don't even 150 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 1: get to the point. Sometimes you'd be like, shot, calm down, 151 00:08:55,960 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 1: you're trying to do a billion things. You've been trying 152 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: to marginal Shot about it, think about it. What I'm 153 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 1: saying is everybody in this room, because of who we 154 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:08,439 Speaker 1: are and what we've done, it allows the other ship 155 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 1: to work. Ship, show big facts everything that we're doing 156 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: because of what we did, then we saw it through. 157 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. See it through. Now you can 158 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: do whatever the funk you want because you are Bank 159 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,079 Speaker 1: scream J, you are Shoy, you are you are Kanye. 160 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, see that ship through. 161 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: It's gonna make the Kanyak Kanye Kanyak. That's the mixture 162 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: between Kodak and Kanyek. That's all I'm saying. So I 163 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: don't think that should be ill intent because I don't 164 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: have somebody say before every each other go do it. 165 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: But if it go, I'll be telling me because I'm 166 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: like that, bro't but but do this too, That's what 167 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm gonna tell you the truth. Don't stop 168 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: one thing. Yeah, if you want to leave it alone, 169 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,599 Speaker 1: don't just stop doing already paying your bill, That's what 170 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm saying, because do all this ship. I did what 171 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 1: you told me, bag equip my job and went out 172 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:03,719 Speaker 1: on faith. Funked up. Bro, I ain't telling you to 173 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 1: quench your job. That's great. I told everybody qu everybody, 174 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: so I can't say I'm mogulizing nobody. Everybody quick wasn't 175 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:17,839 Speaker 1: happy though, so it's kind of like, Bro, sometimes you 176 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: see the people though, like these people are believe and 177 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: I saw it in them, like be straight. I want 178 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: to tell everybody that we're gonna figure this ship out. Yeah, 179 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: we're gonna figure that's not that's not marginalized. Definitely. I 180 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: feel like the intentional part of it makes smoller ship yeah, 181 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: because everybody gonna be like got Nam James bron started 182 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: doing hell and be like what yeah, straight up doing hell. 183 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying, then just some ship on 184 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: the stages off the top of my mind. And I 185 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 1: ain't thinking that she can't do until she showed him 186 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: she can do it, and I'll be like, okay, hut, yeah, 187 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,079 Speaker 1: but me just knowing you never even got damn get Joe. 188 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: Hell but everybody, you ain't serious about doing that. It's 189 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: up to her her vision work. In fact, it's not 190 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:06,760 Speaker 1: you don't gotta do. Like if I said I'm about 191 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: do some ship, I'm about to do it. I don't 192 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 1: need niggas to believe the vision. Because ship, I'm gonna 193 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: show you. I'm gonna show you. I'm gonna trust what 194 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm about to do, and then you're gonna see And 195 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna face you for not seeing it because ship, 196 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: it's my thes and it's not your. It's kind of 197 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 1: like if I say I want to design some ship, 198 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: and I got it in my head what I want 199 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: to do, and I describe it, but nobody else gets 200 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 1: it but me. But I'm gonna make this ship look 201 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:32,199 Speaker 1: like I want to lookin. That's ain't, that's ain't. That's 202 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: what makes each person special. That's what I Nobody look like, nobody, 203 00:11:36,520 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: nobody had the same teeth pattern. Nobody had the same 204 00:11:38,960 --> 00:11:41,719 Speaker 1: thing to print. What's for the next nigga ain't for 205 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 1: you even thought process everybody. Everybody ain't for you. So 206 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: I could give you my opinion. You know what I'm saying. 207 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:50,599 Speaker 1: I give you my opinion on all days. That's what 208 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: I had to change. I had to change it within myself, 209 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: like trying to all of my point of view. You 210 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because the way I see ship, 211 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,679 Speaker 1: I'm speaking like, damn, y'all don't see this. You know 212 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's just like like that bottle right now. 213 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: If I say that, y'all see that that bottle? Um 214 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: they and y'all like no, Like damn, I'm gonna be 215 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: tripping because I see this ship. Y'all can't see this ship. 216 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: That's how I used to be trying to because I 217 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,559 Speaker 1: can see certain ship what I thought I could see 218 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: certain ships or I saw certain ship that niggas couldn't 219 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 1: see and trying to force it on them. You just 220 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:29,599 Speaker 1: gotta do it so they can see it. That's with 221 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: anything you do. You gotta do that ship so they 222 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: can see. Like delity with time not your vision. Can 223 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 1: you like the trapped music out, bro. I always say 224 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,559 Speaker 1: we don't on that trapped music till talking about that 225 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: l A like show how this ship y'all damn started 226 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,959 Speaker 1: off looking like what but that ship being bro, she 227 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 1: ain't stopping, she ain't started lying around the corner like 228 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: he saw that ship ship. I couldn't see you know 229 00:12:55,320 --> 00:12:58,839 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Yeah, that's the thing about Joe vision. 230 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: You gotta trust your vision. If you have been like man, thanks, 231 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: it's not worse. I ain't gonna do it when they 232 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: had it. M hm. Yeah, I ain't say it wasn't 233 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:11,599 Speaker 1: gonna work. I just doubted it. You can't want to, 234 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: but e folk want and that motherfucker and when you're 235 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: going there, it's cool. They got bar and all that ship. 236 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: That ship cool. They're taking pictures front of the pink 237 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 1: trap cards and all that ship. Real. Don't tell your 238 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:27,240 Speaker 1: day how you feel, king, hey man, everything pretty man. 239 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: Anybody tried to bagin the eze of your day, and nah, 240 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: you didn't get him a chance too. I couldn't give 241 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 1: him a chance. I don't even want to know your 242 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:44,079 Speaker 1: opinion would go out my first mind with everything I'll do. 243 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,280 Speaker 1: But I listened to everybody else though, But I gotta 244 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: go with my first mind because my first mind on't 245 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 1: never tell me to do that wrong. Makes sense, I like, 246 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: chick go through it or whatever that is. Yeah, that 247 00:13:56,120 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: makes sense what we're doing. Jake Big Facts Friday, Triple 248 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 1: Big Facts. Okay, look, they send hord On, they sent 249 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:14,680 Speaker 1: me some topics. Hold, aren't feeling this set up? Yeah? Yeah, 250 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 1: this ship, this ship really split. Yeah, I'm saying my 251 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: shoes up, house view. You know what I'm saying. Carpet 252 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 1: feel nice? Let me see they check your dreams. That's hard, 253 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: you can definitely, it depends on the relation. Depends on 254 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: the relationship. You can't have no tops of relationship, not 255 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: even that, because you can't have a relationship with somebody 256 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: that's like into working and nine to five. If you 257 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: somebody like us and working the whole. Depending on the person, 258 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 1: you can't depend If they don't understand what, they're gonna 259 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: want more time and more of this and we barely 260 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 1: have time for all. It's gonna be a problem unless 261 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 1: they are with you know, the entertainment lifestyle. They already 262 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:09,200 Speaker 1: know how everybody or they have to be hell, yeah, 263 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 1: they gotta be secure and all sometimes they'll put you 264 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 1: in a situation where you have to pack your job, 265 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:17,360 Speaker 1: but even do exactly I'm ben saying, if a person, Yeah, 266 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: if a person puts you in the position you have 267 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 1: to pick your job for them, then funk them because 268 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: they're not for you. But then that's different. What if 269 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: that person been sitting there sacrificing on for like months 270 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: at a time, like all right, I'm right and I'm 271 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: right and I'm right, but this one day and just 272 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: so happened that one day we got a big, big, 273 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: big facts interview and we're like, okay, we got Obama, 274 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 1: we gotta do this in that person like damn, we're 275 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 1: supposed to be going here, blah blah blah. Are they 276 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:42,000 Speaker 1: fucked up now? Because they don't sacrifice if it's supposed 277 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 1: or not. But if it's if it's if it's supposed 278 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:48,040 Speaker 1: to be your if it's your dream, and this person, 279 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,280 Speaker 1: like I really loves you and it's really trying to 280 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: understand you. I understand everybody has their limits and ship 281 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: like that, but if they really love you, they're gonna 282 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: understand that like this is your dream, you know what 283 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: I'm saying, and they're gonna ride it. Out like I 284 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: don't know no other way to put it, Like, I 285 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: think that really that with friends relationship and you with 286 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 1: when you with me. I think the biggest thing about relationships, 287 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,080 Speaker 1: whether to be friends or like you know, somebody that 288 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: you really look in love with, you really got to 289 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,960 Speaker 1: be able to stand on what it takes to be 290 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: with them. So if you want somebody that's gonna be 291 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 1: available for seven and be able to answer your calls 292 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: any given moment, that might not be somebody that that's 293 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: in the industry. So you may think you have found 294 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: the one, you you got close, but it's not. That's 295 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: not the one, So keep looking for find somebody that's 296 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: gonna be a cent of what you're looking for, because 297 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not saying with everything, but to 298 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,680 Speaker 1: be something else close enough for you to be able 299 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: to work with. Because if you that's not gonna be 300 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: with me. And if I think that, if I thought 301 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: that you were gonna be the person and you show 302 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 1: me qualities that that aren't what I'm looking for, then hey, 303 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 1: you know, I gotta keep I gotta keep looking because 304 00:16:58,840 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: obviously it's not gonna work. Because I don't want you 305 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: to feel lesser. I'm not gonna let you make me 306 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 1: feel like I'm lesser for being with you. You feel 307 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,679 Speaker 1: me like if if it's not spoken to work, it's 308 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,360 Speaker 1: not sposed to work. I'm not gonna force it. I'm 309 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:14,000 Speaker 1: not gonna force that puzzle piece to fit. Never. Never, never, 310 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:19,919 Speaker 1: it ain't forcing ship. We're falling back, right, people. Niggas 311 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: can't make their relationship no excuse neither though. You know 312 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: what when you say out what you mean like ship, 313 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 1: you know how I had this if they had this 314 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 1: bit Oh yeah yeah, nigga, you helped me back. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 315 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 1: But that's why you can't feel like that. I'm just saying, 316 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,280 Speaker 1: you know, yeah niggas do. Niggas do say that, and 317 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying you can't. You can't. You know. I under 318 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,639 Speaker 1: staying this ship every day all day today, feeling like man, 319 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:50,960 Speaker 1: they've been it been that bro. I'm saying that that's 320 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 1: that you need to lead at this place to try 321 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 1: in your mind. Yeah I got just trying your mind 322 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 1: for what it is. But could it could be you? 323 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, But but it's just like at the end 324 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,879 Speaker 1: of the day, at the end of the day, like 325 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:08,000 Speaker 1: if you have in your head already or in your 326 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:11,920 Speaker 1: mind or your heart or whatever, that this bitch is 327 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,280 Speaker 1: what's holding you back. And y'all have a household or 328 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,120 Speaker 1: y'all have like you know what I'm saying, the situation 329 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 1: or whatever. You're never gonna have peace in your house 330 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:20,840 Speaker 1: if you still have that thought in the back of 331 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 1: your mind. So it's never gonna work for sure. Fact. Yeah, 332 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: but you gotta you got guts dig into itself then 333 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:36,080 Speaker 1: and then it is you you still know then if 334 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: it's you, you gotta win it up. Put it on. 335 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,879 Speaker 1: Is this bitch worth me changing who I really am? 336 00:18:42,960 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 1: Because this might be this who personal I'm dug down 337 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: inside of me to see who I am. I haven't 338 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: been explaying this to this bitch. I've been trying to 339 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,360 Speaker 1: be somebody else, super nigga, you know what I'm saying. 340 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: I've been trying to be super nigger when I'm not. Fact. 341 00:18:57,000 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 1: So is this worth me being super nigga or not? 342 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 1: Is she super bitch or not? Or not? So you're 343 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 1: gonna change all these ways and be this perfect guy 344 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: out them? What are you gonna get? What's gonna change? 345 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: You can change for the better for yourself. No, but 346 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:25,119 Speaker 1: I'm saying the better for yourself. Maybe, how how like 347 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 1: what's working for me is already working. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 348 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 1: I'm cool. I just need to go hard on my 349 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: hustle and every whatever. Whatever you're saying, it's holding you back. 350 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:38,200 Speaker 1: If the female is having your mind set to where 351 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: all you can think about all days beefing and this 352 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: and that and this and that, that's what holds you back. 353 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 1: That's the only part. It's sucking with your mind because 354 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: the bitch ain't got no handcuffs on your Now that's 355 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,400 Speaker 1: telling you not to go outside. You just care too much. 356 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:58,240 Speaker 1: So and you're caring because you're trying to be something 357 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 1: that you're not, that you're not. But what if her 358 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: complaint is that you're just a selfish person. What if 359 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:08,399 Speaker 1: it's not it's just like you're a selfish person, you know, 360 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:11,760 Speaker 1: you know, what if it's not that? What if you 361 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: heard it like from Numan's people around you, but you 362 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 1: ignore it, right, You've been just ignoring it like I'm 363 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 1: gonna just do this ship. And she keeps telling you this, 364 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: but she's accepting you for who you are. But now 365 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 1: she's telling you like, okay, this selfish, So you're gonna 366 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: stay selfish instead of like, I'm not that sacrificed up. Yeah, 367 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 1: it depends is she worth me changing my selfish ways? 368 00:20:36,040 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 1: But who's the same that you're selfish? Because selfish is 369 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:43,880 Speaker 1: a matter of opinion? What am I selfish? Power? Because 370 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,920 Speaker 1: what am I? Don't buy you with your nail back? No, 371 00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 1: I'm myself first selfish? What's give me to us? I'm 372 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: just saying, like, okay, let's put us some people are selfish. 373 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:01,040 Speaker 1: We know that, like your selfish. But like, okay, let's 374 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,720 Speaker 1: say you by you saying I'm not changing who I am. 375 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: This is who I am in this relationship, even though 376 00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: your girls saying I'm not liking who you are right now, 377 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:17,440 Speaker 1: hold on and hold on up and you won't change 378 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 1: like you don't have relationships for example, like you who 379 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: typing it forever? And so if she's sitting and saying 380 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: like I have a problem and you're being selfish right now, 381 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 1: and you said, man, this is just who I am, 382 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: Like you don't think that person from the beginning was 383 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: that selfish when you met me? Who did you thought 384 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 1: I was? Whatever it is to come up that I've 385 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:45,200 Speaker 1: been this person, then you we were. My question is 386 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: if a person asks that became selfish. That's something I 387 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,439 Speaker 1: would have to work on. That's what I'm saying. If 388 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 1: a person asked you to change from being selfish, is 389 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,399 Speaker 1: that person saying I want you to change for me, 390 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:00,959 Speaker 1: or is it changing for you yourself for the betterment 391 00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,360 Speaker 1: of yourself? You get what I'm saying, Like, if I'm 392 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 1: telling you to change from being selfish, I'm not saying 393 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: it depends on And it could be you could be 394 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,200 Speaker 1: being selfish towards them. They could be coming in doing 395 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: all the work you ain't doing ship here, and that 396 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 1: makes you selfish then, and she could be at the 397 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 1: house saying you selfish at the house. Dave could be 398 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 1: like you selfish when it comes to the duct tape ship. 399 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,119 Speaker 1: You ain't helping we here, So now you're a selfish 400 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: person all around and change that changing yourself changing. But 401 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,880 Speaker 1: you're saying changing from being selfish. Um, it really all 402 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: depends on what your definition of him being selfish is. No, 403 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 1: she's saying. If everybody everybody around you saying you're selfish, 404 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:42,919 Speaker 1: but your girl is doing that's really nagger your attention, 405 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:45,800 Speaker 1: Like this ship is with your character and you're sitting 406 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 1: here saying this bitch saying I'm selfish, and it's really 407 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,440 Speaker 1: not just this bit, just everybody around you saying so. 408 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: In that case like that, the girl tells that's a 409 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: character flaw. Character flaw. She's trying to make the In 410 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,680 Speaker 1: that case, she's trying to make the person better. But 411 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 1: if she's the only ones and and him selfish dealing 412 00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 1: with if she's the only one saying that yourself, we 413 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 1: need some further investigations or sometimes people can say you're 414 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: being selfish with time. A lot of people in relationships 415 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,040 Speaker 1: normally when they're saying you're selfish, just a lot of 416 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,120 Speaker 1: times just more mostly time. It's not necessarily what you're 417 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: doing for. But but but don't you supposed to be 418 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 1: selfing with your time though your relationship is y'all time, 419 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:27,920 Speaker 1: isn't it. Oh well, she we need to make this. 420 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,600 Speaker 1: You're right, you're right, but hey, whatever we got when 421 00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 1: you're tell him to do that, this was left. That's 422 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: not true. So you want me to get all work 423 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 1: to make You want me to make time. If I 424 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,119 Speaker 1: ain't got time, you should be happy and you should 425 00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 1: make time. That's what everybody said. Cast Cash said, you 426 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: make time. But see how it shouldn't be a situation 427 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 1: where I have to make time. If I'm hustling doing 428 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 1: what I gotta do. You know what I'm saying, all 429 00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: these hours of the day to make sure that we're straight, 430 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: and you someone sitting on your ass and you got 431 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: a whole bunch of times and then you're not making time. 432 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: Doesn't make it, doesn't You're not saying that she's nothing. Bit. 433 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 1: We're saying that she makes time for the relationship. If 434 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,360 Speaker 1: y'all put a date on the scale and say we're 435 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,399 Speaker 1: gonna have a date year, right, and this is the 436 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 1: time we have in a date because we ain't had 437 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,120 Speaker 1: a date and all this time and then big facts 438 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: call and say we gotta do this, and you say, 439 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:18,719 Speaker 1: all right, that date, Well we we on. Yeah, we're 440 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 1: gonnachle she's sticking SI because she's been doing having dates 441 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:30,480 Speaker 1: were you're selfish? Yeah, I if that's what I don't 442 00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: do all that playing it out in the future with 443 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 1: other people. Yeah, I don't. I don't do that, But 444 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: I don't do that. We're just gonna do this set whenever, like, 445 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,359 Speaker 1: come on, let's wake up, let's go here, let's do this, 446 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 1: let's do this. We're gonna make the time, but I 447 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: ain't gonna promise you know, ship that I know. I 448 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 1: don't even know what I'm gonna be doing next to 449 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,440 Speaker 1: We're gonna be nine, ain't that? Yeah, I can't even 450 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: see that ship too far tomorrow. I can't even do that. Like, 451 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 1: if I know you that type of person, that's what 452 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,000 Speaker 1: it is. You can't. You can't just sitting the next twos. 453 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 1: We don't do this, then there's some more important up now. 454 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 1: I gotta show you what's more important. M M. They're 455 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,440 Speaker 1: gonna have episodes. Well, I'm gonna tell you, come on, 456 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 1: we ain't ducking then, come on, whatever I got going, 457 00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:14,560 Speaker 1: come on, you pull up with me. Yeah, but you 458 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: have to be that type of person like and then 459 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 1: and I don't want to call on squares with some 460 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 1: nine to five squares don't get that because they've been 461 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: training into this is the scheduling. This is like we 462 00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: don't need to celebrate Christmas and that type ship. Yeah, 463 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 1: doing knowing that like thanks you, I thank you, we 464 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 1: cook on thank you, but Valentine days and that we 465 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: don't even like we're playing for that. We're doing this 466 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:47,679 Speaker 1: ship every day. Yeah, every day of our life. We're 467 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: trying us each other even when it was on some 468 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 1: top of ship. You know what I'm saying, we're kids, 469 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 1: who hell whatever. I can't trying to go damn playing 470 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: that would be sucking ish up, trying to play this 471 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:03,480 Speaker 1: ship out. How and how am I plan to love you? 472 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,119 Speaker 1: I'm playing today is I'm gonna wake up and I'm 473 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:07,400 Speaker 1: gonna do this, and I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna 474 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 1: do this to my relationships. Ain't to my in life 475 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,200 Speaker 1: a relationship. You're trying to plan to Goddamn No, you 476 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,119 Speaker 1: can plan to do something nice for your mate, but 477 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying you're trying to plan the to get a 478 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 1: feller m M. You know what I'm saying, planning to 479 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 1: make you love me more type ship. There's two people 480 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: riffing and ship like. They're playing like Valentine's is gonna 481 00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: be good. That's some bullshit. You see what I'm saying 482 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: Valentine's We're gonna get along on Valentine's. But that's some bullshit. Yeah, 483 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 1: many one disagreement have on Valentine's. They just hold ship up. 484 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: But if y'all have been acting like every day was 485 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,640 Speaker 1: Valentine's day Valentine's. They really get that. It's like, all right, yeah, 486 00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 1: I love you too. M yeah yeah no, but yeah 487 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: you can get some money. You gotta get you somebody 488 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 1: that met you. Hustle facts absolutely, and then you're really 489 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,520 Speaker 1: kicking the over again. Be a double hustler, either one 490 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 1: and then you gotta because a fellow hustler is gonna 491 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 1: understand like the ends and out to this ship and 492 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,280 Speaker 1: how everything goes, and like they're gonna appreciate and be 493 00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 1: grateful for those times when there is time that was 494 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: the worst like relationship I ever entertained. I was talking 495 00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: to a chicken. I asked her, like, you know what ship? 496 00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 1: What do you want to do? Like? What do your 497 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,240 Speaker 1: life goes? I don't dream of work? Like what? Like 498 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,400 Speaker 1: what do they any answer the question? You don't dream 499 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: doing nothing productive in your life. That's because you'll be 500 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 1: trying to dake these girls with them on your camera. 501 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:41,720 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I'm like, damn, like you don't wanna 502 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: do ship? You don't. You don't do in your life nothing. 503 00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,800 Speaker 1: I can't, I can't. Why do women think damn, and 504 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,159 Speaker 1: this might be some bullshit and this ship? Why do 505 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:55,360 Speaker 1: they think they're more valuable than niggers because we are bullshit. 506 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, y'all are because y'all have have kids, and 507 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:01,120 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, y'all are for that. I'm 508 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: just saying, it's not even not No, you are more 509 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 1: valuable to the world than a man. But I'm saying, 510 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,280 Speaker 1: in a relationship, why do you think your feelings are 511 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:18,960 Speaker 1: more valuable than miss like you're a queen? Like we 512 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 1: put them. We're putting them at the highest we could 513 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: clean My mom and my grandmama, old women. You know 514 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I never loved no by the way, 515 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,600 Speaker 1: I love these people, So I get that part. My 516 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 1: grand baby that's a female, I love them more than 517 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: anything in this You get what I'm saying. So I 518 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 1: get that part. And I'm saying, like, in a relationship, 519 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: I think it's because a lot of women. And I 520 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: could be wrong, I could do, but I just think 521 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: that a lot of women And it goes into the 522 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: next topic that we have to so let's keep it going. 523 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,880 Speaker 1: I think a lot of women aren't used to men 524 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: expressing their feelings in a healthy manner because a lot 525 00:28:57,400 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 1: of men, A lot of men aren't used to even 526 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 1: spressing their feelings, for one. So when they do express 527 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 1: their women, I mean express their feelings, sometimes it comes 528 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 1: off in a way that a woman is not used to. 529 00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: So now we're like, I don't mean you know this ship, 530 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 1: But in reality, he's really just expressing their feelings. We're 531 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,760 Speaker 1: just not used to it. A lot of women aren't 532 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,280 Speaker 1: used to the love language with a man being emotional. 533 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 1: But see, the thing is a lot of niggas, a 534 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 1: lot of niggas have like suppressed trauma. That's true too, 535 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, And a lot of niggas 536 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 1: are or like shell shock when it comes to like 537 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 1: the whole love and expressing emotions and expressing their feelings 538 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 1: and you know what I'm saying, all that kind of ship. 539 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 1: So when they are able to finally find somebody that 540 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: they can open up to and that they can like 541 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,040 Speaker 1: talk with and just put everything out on the table 542 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:51,080 Speaker 1: with a lot of females most often times are not 543 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 1: equipped to be able to handle that, and we hold 544 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: it against me. And sometimes so if you sometimes as 545 00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 1: a woman, I ain't gonna I have done this before 546 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 1: a bit, yeah, yeah, yeah, sometimes are equipped that from 547 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: the women that are equipped, men around from the women 548 00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: that's that's equipped, and yeah, because they because sometimes some 549 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: in in that case when they run, it's because they 550 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 1: kind of feel inadequate to a certain extent, and they 551 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 1: also feel like, Okay, a woman that is equipped to 552 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: handle this also requires a lot more in most other areas. 553 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: So I'm not ready for all of that pressure. So like, okay, yeah, 554 00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna funk that ship. I'm gonna just leave because 555 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: she most of the time hold them accountable, like that 556 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: woman is gonna hold a man accountable. And most men 557 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 1: don't like accountability because they feel like what the funk 558 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: they think is going and how they feel is just that, 559 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:49,239 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And a lot of men 560 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 1: just don't like expressing themselves because they was taught, especially 561 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:54,560 Speaker 1: black men, was taught that you for show, you're not 562 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 1: supposed to cry, You're not supposed to seeing weak at all. 563 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 1: So and if a woman do get those emotions from them, 564 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: they said, I'm I'm not to see a lot of niggas. 565 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 1: A lot of niggas be burnt too, because they'd be 566 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: like they might have like been with a bit forever, 567 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, might have kids about this 568 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: bitch might have whatever, whatever, and then they like opened 569 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: up themselves and expressed their emotions to this bitch, and 570 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: this bitch took their emotions and turned it around and 571 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,479 Speaker 1: use it against them. So when they finally do get 572 00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,840 Speaker 1: with a bitch, they really understand it's really trying to 573 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 1: love them, really trying to cater to them. They really 574 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,120 Speaker 1: trying to bring it out so they don't have to 575 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: like sit around with all this ship bottled up. They'd 576 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: be so scarred by this other bitch till it's like, man, 577 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: I ain't ain't gonna open up to this bitch. I 578 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: love it and I know me, but I'm not gonna 579 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: go too traumatic. Yeah, like I ain't doing that. I'm 580 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,040 Speaker 1: never doing that ever again. And that should be so 581 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: fucked up because it could be two people that are 582 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: meant to be together that are the perfect compliments to 583 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 1: each other. But yeah, but he's fucked up, this other bitch. 584 00:31:56,000 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: And guys, to me, I think some guys, man, some 585 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: guys perfect, I mean purposely their relationships up when they 586 00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 1: feel once they feel like a girl starting to tug 587 00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: at a certain emotion, I ain't trying to ain't trying 588 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: to do this, Yeah, trying to ut like this. Yeah, 589 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,280 Speaker 1: I'm too much. Start some Let me start accusing her 590 00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:29,880 Speaker 1: being a hole. Let me start it. Let me yeah. 591 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: And a lot of niggers don't even don't even make 592 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,440 Speaker 1: the concertive decision to far back. They'll just goes to bitch. 593 00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 1: That's true too. That hit me in the piece. Got 594 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,000 Speaker 1: make you make her things? She did something to make 595 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 1: you leave. Sound like I'm not saying that sounds like NARCISSI. 596 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: That's what they do. That's what they I'm not saying 597 00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 1: I do it. He said it doesn't I religate out 598 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: there go yeah, because I always back. I ain't you 599 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 1: say that aitherway. I don't know how to handle this one. 600 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: No mass understanding when when when you got we might 601 00:33:14,040 --> 00:33:16,920 Speaker 1: take the ship back up, but back up because she's 602 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 1: gonna always think of the possibility when what happened. I 603 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: don't even know what I did. And he's gonna come back. 604 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:34,480 Speaker 1: But something niggas ain't mom. And it's like it's just 605 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:38,640 Speaker 1: like it takes extreme patience to really try to love 606 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 1: somebody that's never been loved properly before that all fati, 607 00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 1: that's a job, that's like that's passing by to be 608 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 1: small that get what we take. Hats all to any 609 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 1: woman that's able to love a nigger that's already sucked 610 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 1: up that ship. But I know, bro, I'm fucked up. 611 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:11,320 Speaker 1: Bro like niggas is fucked up. Bro, Oh, niggas fucked 612 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: up because the way you think it's so fucked up, 613 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 1: no joke. But you can't put me like that. I 614 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 1: know you don't like, you don't like what you want? 615 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 1: What you want? You want, you want something? Why are 616 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 1: you here? And it should be so fucked up when 617 00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 1: they fucking with a bitch, they really don't ship just 618 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,240 Speaker 1: but they just love them and make them a better person. 619 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: And they're so fucking it's like traumatized from this other bitch. 620 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:45,319 Speaker 1: It's like, bro, like man, that should be crazy from 621 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,719 Speaker 1: the other bit. Some most niggas, we don't talk about 622 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 1: any traumatized from their mama. Most niggas, from a lot 623 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 1: of niggas be having real mama issue. That's big mama issue. 624 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:12,799 Speaker 1: Fight you said a lot of them mama issues. Yes, 625 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 1: I think that a lot of men have real mama 626 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: issues and they don't know how to address it. Like 627 00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 1: just think about your mom is supposed to be the 628 00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:23,520 Speaker 1: first person that person. So imagine if your mama so 629 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,800 Speaker 1: you don't even know, like, don't matter what if you 630 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 1: left your any lady's bitches be having daddy issues. Different. God, 631 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 1: it's different, daddy issues different different, I don't personal different. 632 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 1: Let me tell you, bro, a person can really because 633 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 1: the same ship that Nigga's got to get from his 634 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 1: mom is the same ship gotta get from her. Name 635 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:56,040 Speaker 1: telling you, I'm telling you listen, I'm telling you you 636 00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 1: can tell your mama is different. Like no matter what 637 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: your mom can do, what for their mama? Mama telling 638 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,239 Speaker 1: you people that don't have that daddy, niggas ain't at 639 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:17,320 Speaker 1: home like my daddy nis like that. I agree, I 640 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 1: agree with you. I agree with you. I'm saying this 641 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 1: girl is like like a little more is I'm talking 642 00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 1: about as adults as adult is something happening y'all. Most 643 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 1: people like you want my mama. I wish my mama 644 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:35,880 Speaker 1: was here. Nigga's mostly as saying mama. Everybody saying niggers 645 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: just saying mama. What y'all talking about? How many times 646 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:46,759 Speaker 1: ain't hurt the world? The world? The world is like this, 647 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:52,480 Speaker 1: even though mother, even though there's so many big commercials 648 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,000 Speaker 1: and so many big stuff that's go for women. They 649 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: it be fa today. They only show you ship. Niggas 650 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:03,919 Speaker 1: really care more about their mama. Don't get your mom 651 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: and your life. You probably everybody a little that mom. 652 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 1: Your mom is supposed to be the first person everything. 653 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,440 Speaker 1: I disagree because there's a lot of it's a lot 654 00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 1: of it's a lot of niggas out here with you. 655 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 1: We said that. They said that okay, mama issues are 656 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 1: more important than daddy issue pretty much, and I said that, no, 657 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 1: that's no. I said that the nigga, a nigga without 658 00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 1: a mama is gonna have the same kind of issues 659 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,359 Speaker 1: a bit without a daddy gonna have. It's the same ship. 660 00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:42,080 Speaker 1: Even it's the same ship, it's the same ship. A 661 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: nigga without a mama is gonna have the same exact 662 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 1: issues that a bitch without a daddy is gonna have. 663 00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 1: Its factual facts. There are exceptions within relationships hips. No 664 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 1: I'm talking about even like I'm standing on my either way, 665 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:06,880 Speaker 1: I don't feel like issues are more. They're pouring and more. 666 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: There are fathers, there are the bigger the thing not 667 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:16,040 Speaker 1: having your mama. Female ain't got no daddy. Right, That's 668 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,640 Speaker 1: what I'm what I'm saying. There are there are are 669 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: that she's still is gonna be lacking certain ship, bro, 670 00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:25,680 Speaker 1: that don't be lacking if he got that's true right now, 671 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's gonna like something. But what 672 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:31,759 Speaker 1: I'm saying is if you don't have if everybody don't 673 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,399 Speaker 1: have my mom like you you right, You're gonna turn 674 00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,000 Speaker 1: out way more fun up if your daddy having loved, 675 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:43,440 Speaker 1: if your dadd true, it depends on female. That's what 676 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,399 Speaker 1: we're saying. That's what I'm saying, turn into mothers. I'm 677 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: not taking away from them. I'm not taking away from 678 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,040 Speaker 1: the daddies that pick up the mom The same point 679 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 1: this is, there's a sens there's a session about need 680 00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 1: a moment, bro, Yeah, everybody, everybody. I'm just saying, you 681 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,319 Speaker 1: don't need damn one of them. But at the end 682 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:08,000 Speaker 1: of the day, you you you, you would be more 683 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,279 Speaker 1: comfortable time to your mama than your dad. I'm saying 684 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,960 Speaker 1: like in a relationship. In a relationship though, for Nigga 685 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 1: to have his mama, you kind of know how to 686 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: treat a woman. Advice versus advice versa. You know Mama, 687 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,759 Speaker 1: that you gotta set of the same thing. A woman 688 00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 1: who got your dad, they know how to treat the man. 689 00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 1: You got more passionate for him. Yeah. Absolutely, because you're 690 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,680 Speaker 1: a daddy girl. So now you now you're trying for 691 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,360 Speaker 1: the same energy that you had love for your daddy 692 00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 1: as to your husband. Autely, that's what I'm saying. I 693 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 1: think it. I think it. No, I think it's fair 694 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 1: to say there's an exception to everything. Without it, I'm 695 00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:50,080 Speaker 1: saying the majority, like a women without their father, that 696 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,480 Speaker 1: never had their father, they fucked up. Not saying there's 697 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: exceptions to every rule. There's women. That's women, that's that's 698 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 1: there's women, that's men who didn't have their mama who 699 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:02,680 Speaker 1: are Okay, it happens. There are exceptions to every rule. 700 00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,719 Speaker 1: But overall, trust me, like it's the same. It evens out. 701 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,719 Speaker 1: Once you got your mom. Look at you got your mom, 702 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 1: especially got one good mom. You're looking at your you're 703 00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: looking at women as Queen's exactly disappointed my mom. Right, 704 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,680 Speaker 1: you're disappointed when you meet someone who's not to that standard. 705 00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 1: But that's that's that's been my dad, your standard up. 706 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,479 Speaker 1: You know, I've been there with me, what I gonna 707 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 1: call my dad? You know what it is, then you 708 00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 1: can try to find it within the man. Yeah, exactly 709 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: that you need to match with your daddy be doing 710 00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: because yeah doing, And now I can't do it. It's 711 00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,759 Speaker 1: not gonna work. But there are my white dad and 712 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 1: what kind of got? Now you know how you can't 713 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 1: throw it out to daddy? Crazy? Well white dad and 714 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:05,120 Speaker 1: fried Fried like, I think that's what it comes out. 715 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 1: But there are exceptions to everyone. But okay, so this 716 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: all discussion about mama issues daddy issues. All that brings 717 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:19,600 Speaker 1: me to our next topic, emotional intelligence. What's that? Okay? 718 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:24,160 Speaker 1: So shout out to our money von money underscore v 719 00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,840 Speaker 1: on Instagram. He wrote in on the next Big Facts Friday, 720 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:31,600 Speaker 1: Can y'all have a conversation around how important emotional intelligence is? 721 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 1: And the textbook definition of emotional intelligence is the capacity 722 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:41,719 Speaker 1: to be aware, of, control, and express one's emotions and 723 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:47,640 Speaker 1: to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. So controlling your emotions? 724 00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:49,960 Speaker 1: How important is it to control your emotions and to 725 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,920 Speaker 1: know how and when to need to be able to 726 00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:56,440 Speaker 1: control them in the relationship in life in general? Let's say, 727 00:41:56,520 --> 00:42:01,920 Speaker 1: let's always say life in general. Definitely life in general. 728 00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 1: I saw I was talking about on Twitter terday. You know, 729 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,200 Speaker 1: they've been doing like little public pranks and ship Nigga 730 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: was like he put like a piece of cardboard on 731 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: the nigga back and Nigga's in the comments, like, Bro, 732 00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:12,880 Speaker 1: the blasts that nig he did that ship To me, 733 00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 1: you don't throw your life away for that ship like that. 734 00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 1: That doesn't seem like the most intelligent ship ship to me. 735 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,680 Speaker 1: That's an example. But I feel like some niggas do 736 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,080 Speaker 1: think like that. They first they first example, they first 737 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 1: my head, I don't think I'm in danger. So you 738 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 1: get shot in the problem not on your head. But 739 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,440 Speaker 1: like Nigga, like you're doing you feel something soft and 740 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 1: get your back saying he said, you're gonna get yourself 741 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 1: time to think emotionally intelligent, like is you're gonna turn 742 00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,640 Speaker 1: around like the fun? Right, it's like that, but what 743 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 1: the fun? What it's like? Said do that now? That's 744 00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:51,200 Speaker 1: what it is? But but but yeah, exactly the first 745 00:42:51,200 --> 00:43:02,320 Speaker 1: thing you do, bag right, you did in situate it 746 00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 1: dangers out here? Danger bro, you are you gonna get shot? 747 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:13,000 Speaker 1: But y'all, y'all seen them pranks on social media may 748 00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 1: be going to trying to tell you doverybody, Hey, you 749 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 1: can sell they don't touch me, man, all that you 750 00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:31,359 Speaker 1: can't nobody I see you is dumping like a Teddy bearer. 751 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,920 Speaker 1: He was sting, got their tissue balls and niggas in 752 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:38,760 Speaker 1: the walmart like that. Put a box over somebody head 753 00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:40,520 Speaker 1: and they walk into the park line. You put a 754 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,160 Speaker 1: box over their head and they put the whole box 755 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:47,040 Speaker 1: of that. I've seen that. Man. There's a lot of shots. Man. Yeah, 756 00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 1: but how about it. You didn't some of that all right? 757 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:59,240 Speaker 1: Some of that that's the first stage of kidnap. Yeah, 758 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,080 Speaker 1: I fear for my life. I was scared as head 759 00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 1: keep talking about something. Some of that ship, some of 760 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,800 Speaker 1: that ship. Definitely some of that ship. I was scared 761 00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,879 Speaker 1: of that. I don't know that that. It was dark. 762 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:16,200 Speaker 1: I'm trying to time. Yeah, I used to get locked 763 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:20,640 Speaker 1: in the closet, went on, do that could my teeth? Man? 764 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,600 Speaker 1: But assuming my little brother get out of the car 765 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,759 Speaker 1: to about chase her down, tiles up putting this in 766 00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:30,840 Speaker 1: the clouds heaven with man, Man, I ain't going for 767 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:41,160 Speaker 1: none of that. What's she doing? Terized like chasing that down? Man? 768 00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,919 Speaker 1: Soon Man, like she crazy the coming putting the box 769 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 1: in your head? That shooting. Yeah, I ain't even that guy. 770 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:56,440 Speaker 1: Damn ask them ship. He turn around laughing like the 771 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 1: kids in the bathroom and screamed like candy man and 772 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,840 Speaker 1: turn like shot you sucked up. So you're gonna let 773 00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 1: him put a box on your not a box. That's different. 774 00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:08,600 Speaker 1: He was to put the box, the spencific one I'm 775 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,320 Speaker 1: talking about. He leaning like a piece of cardboard on 776 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 1: his back, was leaning yeah, and did you just turned 777 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,120 Speaker 1: around like man? What? Yeah? That was that was it? 778 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:19,759 Speaker 1: That's all I did. That's different. Yeah that you got, 779 00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:26,080 Speaker 1: yeah box, that's feel threatened like this, I just too much. Yeah, 780 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:33,560 Speaker 1: you might get your head when fin see like that. No, 781 00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:35,040 Speaker 1: but if nun put a box in your head, I 782 00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 1: feel like you do gotta brand. That's a reasonable threat 783 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 1: on your life. Yeah. So so emotional telligence, like what 784 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,160 Speaker 1: if what if you're coming out of spot and you 785 00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,640 Speaker 1: see somebody breaking in your car your ship. That's different, 786 00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 1: but it all the way you got your first your 787 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:02,200 Speaker 1: fire reaction, your first reaction nigger breaking in your car. Yeah, 788 00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 1: your fur reaction, especially if you got with yeah, you're 789 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,319 Speaker 1: gonna shoot him. That way, and you better be looking 790 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 1: around because he needs like breaking in no card without 791 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,840 Speaker 1: no gun neither. They're breaking the clubs or whatever. You 792 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,719 Speaker 1: breaking that, don't turn the ship to a car jacket. Yeah, 793 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,400 Speaker 1: if that's what's going on, like a self defense or 794 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,719 Speaker 1: some ship. Yeah, get nigga breaking in your car. They 795 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 1: got pilces too. But I'm saying that. I'm saying if 796 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,680 Speaker 1: you if you bust them in, the police come who 797 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,840 Speaker 1: the police put the cups on. Ye the dad nigger 798 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:38,600 Speaker 1: Now he now from your window in the house and 799 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 1: you're just busting. Yeah, you might not. You might not 800 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:48,600 Speaker 1: beat that. No, No, you get you get off on that. 801 00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:50,680 Speaker 1: If you go white man, you want to see what 802 00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: you do the weapping in the car, you're gonna get off. 803 00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,240 Speaker 1: Going white man, you want to steal as a weapon 804 00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,040 Speaker 1: in the slot, you're gonna get off. But that's what 805 00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:01,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying. There's a little they don't that's not considered 806 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:05,080 Speaker 1: imminent danger. When you're my way after you gotta right 807 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:08,920 Speaker 1: to get shot. Go on my land. I'm trying now, 808 00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:19,120 Speaker 1: this is this is pulling up. If you got in 809 00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:24,080 Speaker 1: your head, bro, but just come on my property. You 810 00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 1: can grab a motherfucking love more weed either if I 811 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 1: blame your So you had my ship. Okay, so we 812 00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 1: talked about this a big fast Friday and we all 813 00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: have what if you gotta ship in the hand. I 814 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,880 Speaker 1: don't want you to get away with my property. Bro. 815 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,440 Speaker 1: Yeah you can't kill shoot you in your ass ki 816 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:49,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah you can. You ain't going to jumps 817 00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,520 Speaker 1: in where you ain't going to jail. Yeah. If you 818 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 1: put up a fight with your ship and saying freeze 819 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,080 Speaker 1: with my ship, stay here to the police, get here, 820 00:47:57,280 --> 00:48:00,759 Speaker 1: you do anything popping man that man, I'm just saying, 821 00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,840 Speaker 1: you gotta go through the You gotta say he did that. 822 00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,439 Speaker 1: You gotta be the proceduus heel like. You gotta say 823 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:10,719 Speaker 1: he did out in fear of my life. You gotta go. 824 00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:13,600 Speaker 1: I thought the nigger had I saw? I thought, how 825 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:18,120 Speaker 1: does and depend on what time of night it is? Nighttime? 826 00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:20,120 Speaker 1: You can blame my nigger. I don't know what he has. 827 00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what he had. It was dark. I 828 00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,360 Speaker 1: don't get a funk. What are you doing if he 829 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:27,400 Speaker 1: at nighttime? He's dark. I thought he was running here. 830 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,040 Speaker 1: I didn't know he was running away a big nig. 831 00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:34,440 Speaker 1: It was more than one of them. It looked like 832 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:36,319 Speaker 1: it was a group. You can't say how I shot 833 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:38,640 Speaker 1: you in the bad bro, he bitched up, try to run. 834 00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,279 Speaker 1: He was threatening my life and try to run. I 835 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 1: blame that. I don't know. I was looking. Yeah, I've 836 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:49,880 Speaker 1: been riding before. I'm I'm sure shocked one thing. And 837 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,160 Speaker 1: they and they did that new ship with Nigga got them. 838 00:48:52,640 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 1: You ain't gotta hand the form middle nothing though. Yeah, yeah, everybody. Now, 839 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 1: I want to say it started at top of the 840 00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,880 Speaker 1: year long as you what seventeen. I thought they already 841 00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: had it. It was an open car you had to 842 00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: I'm not Georgia. From my understanding, it was an open carry. 843 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,919 Speaker 1: You have to have to permit to conceal your weapon. 844 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,759 Speaker 1: Fact you end on your hip and all that. Now 845 00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:22,120 Speaker 1: you have to be it has to be on your 846 00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,400 Speaker 1: hip invisible. You can do that no matter what. But 847 00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,279 Speaker 1: the license is to conceal it and put it in 848 00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:32,600 Speaker 1: your purse. Right, and you got sticks up now? Anybody 849 00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:44,319 Speaker 1: can hide your name clean, You're good. If your name clean, 850 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,839 Speaker 1: you good, funk all that. You can do whatever you want. 851 00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:50,480 Speaker 1: Your name clean, you good. What they just said and 852 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 1: nig away nam yea that happened yes, recently. You can 853 00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 1: have your MoMA gun. She can go in and buy 854 00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 1: your name good. You can carry real sheet mm hmm. 855 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:08,239 Speaker 1: That crazy man and ship. All this washing going on, 856 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:13,719 Speaker 1: they're doing that, not with this ship about that way. 857 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 1: Everybody be ready, Like I gotta go give me some boots. Now. 858 00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,000 Speaker 1: These kids ain't fighting him all they whatever these kids 859 00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 1: been having anyway, but in school with it. So emotional 860 00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:34,480 Speaker 1: intelligence basically is it's important. But there are situations where 861 00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,239 Speaker 1: that ship gonna go out the window. Basically, that's what 862 00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:37,920 Speaker 1: we just see. I think I don't even think we 863 00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:42,759 Speaker 1: touched on like the tip of that because we just 864 00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,799 Speaker 1: started talking about some dumb sh they call that. We're 865 00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:49,799 Speaker 1: talking about the type of board and a goddamn dig 866 00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,880 Speaker 1: it with a box shooting some sprinkles out of his 867 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:57,560 Speaker 1: mouth talking about boom now. But like, but like real 868 00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:01,800 Speaker 1: ship was, Like I feel like emotional intelligence is important 869 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:07,600 Speaker 1: because it really if you have emotional intelligence, you have 870 00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:12,160 Speaker 1: discipline and restraint basically emotionally intend to know when you 871 00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:19,040 Speaker 1: tripped on trip and just I guess, rearrange it, and 872 00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:22,520 Speaker 1: to also know how to receive other people's other people 873 00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:28,440 Speaker 1: ship too. I think what other people go through over 874 00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:32,520 Speaker 1: just saying control yourself, know how to control yourself. No, 875 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:35,800 Speaker 1: when when the whole No, when the phoone? Yeah, and 876 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,239 Speaker 1: what makes you tip? People got to know what what's 877 00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:39,680 Speaker 1: gonna make them set them off? Like you know what 878 00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you could call you could probably call 879 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:43,600 Speaker 1: me a bit. I ain't gonna trip, but you call 880 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:45,279 Speaker 1: Jane a bitsh your swing on you like you can 881 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,319 Speaker 1: just need to know, like what's gonna set people off? 882 00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:51,719 Speaker 1: When the phone man? Emotionally intelligence right there, you know 883 00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:56,400 Speaker 1: what's what's what's gonna react, what's the reaction, what's your trigger? 884 00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:06,080 Speaker 1: And for other people, Yes, you got to be triple 885 00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:09,359 Speaker 1: w dot Big facts dot com. This is another Big 886 00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 1: Facts Friday until next week. You know what it is. 887 00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,360 Speaker 1: You're listening to Big Facts with Big Bank and DJ 888 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:19,760 Speaker 1: scream fell Big Facts on social media at Big Facts 889 00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:25,000 Speaker 1: five five, Big Bang and DJ Scream bring you big 890 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:29,279 Speaker 1: fat hey man it sideway up that merch bull Yes, 891 00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:33,279 Speaker 1: yeah that's right. Www Dot Big facts pot dot com. 892 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,520 Speaker 1: What's the real one? One time? 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