WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Promtastrophe

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of dates. In the dating world, most men

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<v Speaker 1>put in minimal effort for their dates. Yeah, it's texts

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<v Speaker 1>at two am, Netflix and chill, maybe Taco bell delivered, delivered. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>The other men, though, they'll go the extra mile, take

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<v Speaker 1>her to Chili's, get some Southwestern egg rolls, offered to

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<v Speaker 1>split the bill like a gentleman. But one guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Max went the extra seventeen miles when he planned his

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<v Speaker 1>first date. That's very specific. Well, I'm just saying he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go the extra mile. He went way past that mile,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't wait to hear exactly what he did. Max.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show. Hey guys, thanks for having me on.

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<v Speaker 1>But to hear her now, I mean back, So you

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<v Speaker 1>feel a lot of pressure. That was a lot of hype.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey gave you a no no pressure. I mean I delivered,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, right style. He never lets a lady down.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about the girl that you went out with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name is Beth Okay and we

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<v Speaker 1>met online. Actually she's super cute, And I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>the whole sort of backstory about our date. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>were texting for a while, a couple of weeks actually,

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<v Speaker 1>just because but it didn't work with our schedules. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so, were you planning something big and an

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<v Speaker 1>elaborate the entire time and the schedule wasn't working out?

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<v Speaker 1>Or well, it's funny you ask, because we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>and I found out she had never been to prom.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I know, right. I think she said her date

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<v Speaker 1>ditched or something, and sure, okay, so I came up

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<v Speaker 1>with this idea I would surprised her recreating prom night

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<v Speaker 1>for her. You're going to blow that on a first date?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, god, I mean I feel like that's something

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<v Speaker 1>you keep in your back pocket for when your day

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<v Speaker 1>six months and then you do it. I guess. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Max brings it all. Date one, we're really connecting on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. So how did you do this? Would you

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<v Speaker 1>guys do drink in the car before? No? No? No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>no okay okay, okay. So I just pulled her to

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<v Speaker 1>dress up. Okay. So that's literally all I told her,

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<v Speaker 1>But she didn't know that the prom was coming. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't tell anything else. Okay, but here's what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I go to her apartment and I texted her to

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<v Speaker 1>look outside her window, and it was sort of dust

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<v Speaker 1>like it was getting dark, and I had set up

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<v Speaker 1>these candles outside and these rose petals. Took me a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, but the rose petals were on the sidewalk

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<v Speaker 1>and they spelled out from question mark. Oh you even

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<v Speaker 1>did a promposal. Yeah, you guys get it. You're so

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<v Speaker 1>proud as you should be, sir. I guess, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably awkward with all the adults walking by that are like,

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<v Speaker 1>why is this old gentleman asking some girl to prom

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<v Speaker 1>This is weird. So he told her to look out

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<v Speaker 1>the window. She looked doubt and what happened. She looked

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<v Speaker 1>out and she looked really excited, kind of shocked, but

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<v Speaker 1>she came down. Yeah good. I gave her her corsage,

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<v Speaker 1>even brought the corsage. So what's next? I called it Uber,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had to Uber take us to my work

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<v Speaker 1>parking lot. Okay, okay, okay, it wasn't quotes. It actually

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<v Speaker 1>has really good acoustics, which is why we went there.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it's like a parking garage. Okay, I went to

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<v Speaker 1>a poor high school. I'm going to tell you your

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<v Speaker 1>parking garage is probably in better condition than my high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye fancy? Okay, So you went to your work parking

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<v Speaker 1>garage and what happened there? Of course, I take out

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<v Speaker 1>my boom box and started playing some old nineties songs

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<v Speaker 1>for her, and we danced, and you know, we took

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<v Speaker 1>funny photos together. You even took prom photos together. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I used my iPhone, you know, I download it's a

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<v Speaker 1>funny background that could really cute or super awkward. I agree,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a fine line here. How is Beth feeling during

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<v Speaker 1>this whole experience? Could you get a read on that

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed to like it? I mean when she smiling,

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed to like it. That's a very short refuse.

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<v Speaker 1>What made you think that she seemed to like question?

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean she didn't run away, and like she

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<v Speaker 1>probably could have run away at various points, feels are

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<v Speaker 1>hard to run it. I don't really concerned that you're

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<v Speaker 1>judging your date's interest based on whether or not she

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<v Speaker 1>ran away. Three opportunities to run now, she dialed nine

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<v Speaker 1>to one, but she didn't die the last one, so

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<v Speaker 1>she must like, come on, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you mean? Or I know we're just

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<v Speaker 1>giving you a hard time man this. We're honestly jealous

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<v Speaker 1>because you've done way more on your first date than

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<v Speaker 1>we've done on any of our dates compared to other

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<v Speaker 1>second dates. This is a lot of effort. It's very

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<v Speaker 1>creative and very romantic. All kidding aside, this is impressive. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I told you guys that delivered. Yeah, I mean, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>But what you guys do after, Like, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>dance like once or twice, right, because you dance more

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<v Speaker 1>than that, and it does start to get awkward. Right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want a short change. I have fifteen songs

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<v Speaker 1>on the playlist. Wait, you stayed in the parking lot

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<v Speaker 1>and dance for fifteen songs? Did you have someone come

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<v Speaker 1>yell at you for dirty dancing halfway through? You guys

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<v Speaker 1>are joking, but fifteen songs is a long time max

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<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to give it a full experience. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, real prom is awkward, so the recreation of

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<v Speaker 1>problems a little bit awkward too. So there is like

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<v Speaker 1>fast songs and slow songs, and you guys were totally sober,

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<v Speaker 1>just the two of you a parting garage dancing basically Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet it's more romantic in real life than what

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<v Speaker 1>we're picturing in our heads. It felt like yeah again, great,

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<v Speaker 1>romantic to the third song. Okay, the problem is always

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<v Speaker 1>a lit down. So this guy, So, how did this

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<v Speaker 1>night end? We drove to McDonald's and we got some food.

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<v Speaker 1>It was honestly, it was felf perfect, I guess until

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<v Speaker 1>the end when I walked her through the door and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, oh, that was such a special night. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she sort of leaned in and like, I gonna

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<v Speaker 1>kiss me, but she kiss me on the cheek okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I haven't heard from her at all. Huh, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's I mean, it's just a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>effort to not get a call back. Dude, you should

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<v Speaker 1>at least get like a pity kiss on prom night,

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<v Speaker 1>I think. So that's what I thought. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if nothing else, you went through all this effort, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we're gonna try to get you. Right now,

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna we're gonna get you a pity kiss. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I can get behind, maybe even a pity second date.

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<v Speaker 1>He was happy that she didn't run. Come on, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song. We'll come back, we'll call back

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and we'll try and get you a second

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<v Speaker 1>date up to date, A right man, all right, second date?

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just tuning in for the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners, Max recreated prom night for his

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<v Speaker 1>date Beth after he found out that she never went

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<v Speaker 1>to hers back in high school. He did a big promposal.

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<v Speaker 1>They danced to old songs in the parking garage at

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<v Speaker 1>his work, and they even took prom photos on his iPhone,

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<v Speaker 1>and he didn't get a kiss at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night. After all that, I said, he should have

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<v Speaker 1>at least gotten a pity kiss for all that effort

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<v Speaker 1>that he went through for her. So I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Max, if we don't get you this date

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<v Speaker 1>and we can't deliver a pity kiss from Beth, then

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<v Speaker 1>our own social media coordinator Alexis has agreed to step

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<v Speaker 1>up and we'll kiss you on the air to end

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<v Speaker 1>this segment. I'm guaranteeing if you can go all out

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<v Speaker 1>for a date, then we can go all out for

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<v Speaker 1>a second ja. Yeah. I mean, if anyone's the expert

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<v Speaker 1>on pity kisses, it's definitely you, Jeffrey. Okay, Well, someone

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<v Speaker 1>on this show was gonna pity kiss you, Max, whether

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<v Speaker 1>you want it or not. Yeah, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just hope you guys give me a date. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>pay for the McDonald's, because then all totally kiss you

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<v Speaker 1>broke we split the McDonald's. Never mind you didn't pay

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<v Speaker 1>for McDonald They already paid for everything else. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you want from its? Pay for the mixtape and the

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<v Speaker 1>parking girl and the uber ride there and the candles

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<v Speaker 1>and the flowers. I'm sorry, I didn't know your parents

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't give you an allowance yet, and that's why he

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't cover McDonald's. Okay, Brooks Hayton on you right now, Max,

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, I support you, okay, piece, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna rent some hotel room after this second date

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<v Speaker 1>updating case it goes really well just for you and me.

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<v Speaker 1>Look of prom? Did you have the best prom? Dude?

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<v Speaker 1>Ours ended a forest at a cager, So that's why

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do problem with me? Max? Did anybody

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<v Speaker 1>just go home at the only one that just was

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<v Speaker 1>in my own bed? Yeah? Cavin, All right, we're all

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<v Speaker 1>getting sidetracked reminiscing about our proms. Let's focus on the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update and Max, we're going to try and

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<v Speaker 1>call it right now. You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello? Hi? Is this Beth, Yes it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's calling. My name's Jeffrey. I work on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Oh are you

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<v Speaker 1>familiar with us? I'm familiar with you. I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know why you're calling. Okay, Well, if you're familiar,

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<v Speaker 1>then you might be familiar with a segment that we

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<v Speaker 1>do call the second date Update. That's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out with someone right and afterwards, if they're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, you can email us for help. Oh okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've heard it. So recently you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy and you were not calling him back afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's asked us to get in touch with you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's his name? His name is Max. Max. It's going

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<v Speaker 1>to be a hard to forget date, I would imagine,

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<v Speaker 1>unless you've gone to a bunch of recreated palms over

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<v Speaker 1>the last week or so. No, I just that one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. So are you purposely not getting back to him,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe you get busy? What did he tell you

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<v Speaker 1>about our date? I mean he basically ran us through

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<v Speaker 1>the whole evening where he did a promposal for you.

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<v Speaker 1>He took you to his parking garage at his work

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<v Speaker 1>to recreate a dance. You guys went to McDonald's afterwards,

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<v Speaker 1>and he made it sound like it was a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>fun night. Okay, So dancing in a parking garage and

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<v Speaker 1>going to McDonald sounds fun to you, Okay, not to

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<v Speaker 1>me personally, but I could understand why gesture did it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say when Max told us a story, he

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<v Speaker 1>said that you guys danced for like fifteen songs, which

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<v Speaker 1>to me was overkill. Yeah, there were a lot of songs,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was excited about each one of them, like

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember the funny giving me the history of

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<v Speaker 1>each Oh, I mean it is sweet, like he's just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to recreate prompt for you because he said you

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<v Speaker 1>missed your high school prom. Yeah, you're right, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing was. It was really really sweet. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just a little maybe like childish for me. Does

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<v Speaker 1>that make them Well, high school we were kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a kid like meaning like I mean like we're growing

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<v Speaker 1>a doulpe now, like it's okay, I missed my prom,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not sitting here crying in a corner all

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<v Speaker 1>these years later, but you said yes to the promposal.

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<v Speaker 1>So well, she's saying when the proposal was outside her

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<v Speaker 1>door and he was standing out of touch and with

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<v Speaker 1>the candles. She should have just been like, uh no,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just do like I mean, yeah, the gesture was

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<v Speaker 1>really cute. I just you know, doing the like promposal thing,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's kind of the cutest part of it, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of everything else, Like, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just the two of us in this like perking garage,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I've just met this guy for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time in real life, so it was a little awkward. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I could see that. I mean, I definitely understand what

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying that that's a weird experience to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>But you have to remember he's just trying to create

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<v Speaker 1>a moment for you, and like maybe he didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>it the best way, but going forward, you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to do that again. You could just do a normal date.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that was kind of a deal breaker for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Um wait, what was a deal breaker? I'm sorry, just

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<v Speaker 1>doing the long prom night thing was a deal breaker. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was actually a conversation that we had

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<v Speaker 1>had at McDonald that just kind of turned me off.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't making you pay for your own something else. No, No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we could put the bill. It's fine. So when he

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<v Speaker 1>was talking to McDonald that he was talking a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about plans for our future dates, which there's nothing wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with thinking about future dates, but he thought because I

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<v Speaker 1>loved the prom dates so much, that he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>like recreate all of these other events in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>like my sixteen and like my twenty one run, and

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<v Speaker 1>like basically all the big moments that people have. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I get that because it feels, I mean, to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it would feel like he's trying to insert himself in

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<v Speaker 1>my past memories. Like it's okay that I had a

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<v Speaker 1>life before I met you, man, we could still date

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<v Speaker 1>without you forcing. Yeah. I also think it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>weird that he keeps trying to recreate her in her

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<v Speaker 1>teenage years. Yeah, he also wants her wasted in a

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<v Speaker 1>back alley somewhere being on a garbage can. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was just a little too much for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And like in the moment, it was hard for me

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<v Speaker 1>to say anything because I was so overwhelmed and kind

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<v Speaker 1>of taken aback, Like, wait, you want to do what

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<v Speaker 1>Now that you're out of that moment, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>put you into a different moment where I tell you

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<v Speaker 1>that Max is on the other line listening and he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you right now. Oh, she's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line. Yeah, he's been listening to time MAXI there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. Oh my god, I didn't know who you

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<v Speaker 1>were listening. Um. Is it cool prom night, right? I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was. It was really sweet of you to do that. Um. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say. It's just that you

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<v Speaker 1>you You did say that you've never been a problem

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<v Speaker 1>that you wished you you had, so I was basically

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<v Speaker 1>making your wish come true. Yeah, it's kind of less

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<v Speaker 1>about the prom aspect and more about like wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>recreate all of these other moments in my life for

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<v Speaker 1>our dates instead of just like going out and getting

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<v Speaker 1>to know each other. Right. Yeah, I just thought that

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<v Speaker 1>those were really important to you, and I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>maybe experience those moments with you. I thought that would

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<v Speaker 1>be really nice. But is it just that I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>You're not like attracted to me. To me, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a little too much. It was a little overkill,

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<v Speaker 1>especially like, like I said, this problem was super nice,

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<v Speaker 1>but like trying to recreate my sweet sixteen that I

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<v Speaker 1>already had. It is a little bit different than recreating

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<v Speaker 1>a prom that I never had. Yeah, but I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>at your sweet sixteen. I mean I would have liked

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<v Speaker 1>to have been there. Oh, man, are you not hearing

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<v Speaker 1>anything she's saying? Like, I know, man, that you may

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<v Speaker 1>have hurt feelings right now, but I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>good with you to be very direct. She doesn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. Yeah, fine, well just to the twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one one and we don't have to do it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you're understanding what she's saying. She's done all

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<v Speaker 1>of that already. She's finished with that portion of her life.

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<v Speaker 1>She'd like to move into adulthood and do all the

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<v Speaker 1>things that adults like to do that are fun and chill.

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<v Speaker 1>Would be an upgrade for once you said you liked

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<v Speaker 1>the driver's license idea when you got your driver's license

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<v Speaker 1>and we were going to do that together. What what?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you have a teacher? How to parallel para?

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<v Speaker 1>These are things we don't need to relive in life.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody wants to relive the stress of your driver's license

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<v Speaker 1>or I never said I wanted to do a driver's

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<v Speaker 1>license party. I just said I had never had one,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't even know if those are like a

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<v Speaker 1>thing like, well, excuse me for being mister, think of others. No, Max,

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<v Speaker 1>you're being mister. Don't listen to anyone who didn't like

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<v Speaker 1>being celebrated. Okay, why don't you have one of those

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<v Speaker 1>parties for yourself? Then? Yeah, recreate taking your first steps

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<v Speaker 1>and she can be there for I will be after

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<v Speaker 1>that if that's what you want new for the next day. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>in that case, Beth, we would like to send you

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<v Speaker 1>out one more time with Max. You can you can recreate.

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<v Speaker 1>You can hold his finger, why he barely keeps his

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<v Speaker 1>balance and takes his first steps again, and we'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for that somehow. What are you saying? I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to keep looking back. So I think that for me

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<v Speaker 1>to move forward from this is not going on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Yes, a very good way to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>We could do a retire in party. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do it? That sounds like fun. Hey you're over

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<v Speaker 1>the hill. Yeah, you get a discount on your food.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll be in bed by four o'clock. What do you say?

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<v Speaker 1>I like you. There's some food that easy and it's

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<v Speaker 1>easy to bite throughly. Also, McDonald's broken Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning