Speaker 1: Second date of dates. In the dating world, most men
Speaker 1: put in minimal effort for their dates. Yeah, it's texts
Speaker 1: at two am, Netflix and chill, maybe Taco bell delivered, delivered. Maybe.
Speaker 1: The other men, though, they'll go the extra mile, take
Speaker 1: her to Chili's, get some Southwestern egg rolls, offered to
Speaker 1: split the bill like a gentleman. But one guy named
Speaker 1: Max went the extra seventeen miles when he planned his
Speaker 1: first date. That's very specific. Well, I'm just saying he
Speaker 1: didn't go the extra mile. He went way past that mile,
Speaker 1: and I can't wait to hear exactly what he did. Max.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hey guys, thanks for having me on.
Speaker 1: But to hear her now, I mean back, So you
Speaker 1: feel a lot of pressure. That was a lot of hype.
Speaker 1: Jeffrey gave you a no no pressure. I mean I delivered,
Speaker 1: you know, right style. He never lets a lady down.
Speaker 1: Tell us about the girl that you went out with.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Beth Okay and we
Speaker 1: met online. Actually she's super cute, And I tell you
Speaker 1: the whole sort of backstory about our date. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: were texting for a while, a couple of weeks actually,
Speaker 1: just because but it didn't work with our schedules. Okay,
Speaker 1: I mean, so, were you planning something big and an
Speaker 1: elaborate the entire time and the schedule wasn't working out?
Speaker 1: Or well, it's funny you ask, because we were talking
Speaker 1: and I found out she had never been to prom.
Speaker 1: Oh I know, right. I think she said her date
Speaker 1: ditched or something, and sure, okay, so I came up
Speaker 1: with this idea I would surprised her recreating prom night
Speaker 1: for her. You're going to blow that on a first date?
Speaker 1: I mean, god, I mean I feel like that's something
Speaker 1: you keep in your back pocket for when your day
Speaker 1: six months and then you do it. I guess. I know.
Speaker 1: Max brings it all. Date one, we're really connecting on
Speaker 1: the phone. So how did you do this? Would you
Speaker 1: guys do drink in the car before? No? No? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no okay okay, okay. So I just pulled her to
Speaker 1: dress up. Okay. So that's literally all I told her,
Speaker 1: But she didn't know that the prom was coming. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't tell anything else. Okay, but here's what I do.
Speaker 1: I go to her apartment and I texted her to
Speaker 1: look outside her window, and it was sort of dust
Speaker 1: like it was getting dark, and I had set up
Speaker 1: these candles outside and these rose petals. Took me a
Speaker 1: long time, but the rose petals were on the sidewalk
Speaker 1: and they spelled out from question mark. Oh you even
Speaker 1: did a promposal. Yeah, you guys get it. You're so
Speaker 1: proud as you should be, sir. I guess, but it's
Speaker 1: probably awkward with all the adults walking by that are like,
Speaker 1: why is this old gentleman asking some girl to prom
Speaker 1: This is weird. So he told her to look out
Speaker 1: the window. She looked doubt and what happened. She looked
Speaker 1: out and she looked really excited, kind of shocked, but
Speaker 1: she came down. Yeah good. I gave her her corsage,
Speaker 1: even brought the corsage. So what's next? I called it Uber,
Speaker 1: and I had to Uber take us to my work
Speaker 1: parking lot. Okay, okay, okay, it wasn't quotes. It actually
Speaker 1: has really good acoustics, which is why we went there.
Speaker 1: Oh it's like a parking garage. Okay, I went to
Speaker 1: a poor high school. I'm going to tell you your
Speaker 1: parking garage is probably in better condition than my high school.
Speaker 1: Ye fancy? Okay, So you went to your work parking
Speaker 1: garage and what happened there? Of course, I take out
Speaker 1: my boom box and started playing some old nineties songs
Speaker 1: for her, and we danced, and you know, we took
Speaker 1: funny photos together. You even took prom photos together. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I used my iPhone, you know, I download it's a
Speaker 1: funny background that could really cute or super awkward. I agree,
Speaker 1: there's a fine line here. How is Beth feeling during
Speaker 1: this whole experience? Could you get a read on that
Speaker 1: she seemed to like it? I mean when she smiling,
Speaker 1: she seemed to like it. That's a very short refuse.
Speaker 1: What made you think that she seemed to like question?
Speaker 1: But I mean she didn't run away, and like she
Speaker 1: probably could have run away at various points, feels are
Speaker 1: hard to run it. I don't really concerned that you're
Speaker 1: judging your date's interest based on whether or not she
Speaker 1: ran away. Three opportunities to run now, she dialed nine
Speaker 1: to one, but she didn't die the last one, so
Speaker 1: she must like, come on, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Is that what you mean? Or I know we're just
Speaker 1: giving you a hard time man this. We're honestly jealous
Speaker 1: because you've done way more on your first date than
Speaker 1: we've done on any of our dates compared to other
Speaker 1: second dates. This is a lot of effort. It's very
Speaker 1: creative and very romantic. All kidding aside, this is impressive. Dude,
Speaker 1: I told you guys that delivered. Yeah, I mean, thank you.
Speaker 1: But what you guys do after, Like, you know, you
Speaker 1: dance like once or twice, right, because you dance more
Speaker 1: than that, and it does start to get awkward. Right, Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't want a short change. I have fifteen songs
Speaker 1: on the playlist. Wait, you stayed in the parking lot
Speaker 1: and dance for fifteen songs? Did you have someone come
Speaker 1: yell at you for dirty dancing halfway through? You guys
Speaker 1: are joking, but fifteen songs is a long time max
Speaker 1: that I wanted to give it a full experience. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, real prom is awkward, so the recreation of
Speaker 1: problems a little bit awkward too. So there is like
Speaker 1: fast songs and slow songs, and you guys were totally sober,
Speaker 1: just the two of you a parting garage dancing basically Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I bet it's more romantic in real life than what
Speaker 1: we're picturing in our heads. It felt like yeah again, great,
Speaker 1: romantic to the third song. Okay, the problem is always
Speaker 1: a lit down. So this guy, So, how did this
Speaker 1: night end? We drove to McDonald's and we got some food.
Speaker 1: It was honestly, it was felf perfect, I guess until
Speaker 1: the end when I walked her through the door and
Speaker 1: she said, oh, that was such a special night. And
Speaker 1: then she sort of leaned in and like, I gonna
Speaker 1: kiss me, but she kiss me on the cheek okay,
Speaker 1: and then I haven't heard from her at all. Huh, Well,
Speaker 1: I mean that's I mean, it's just a lot of
Speaker 1: effort to not get a call back. Dude, you should
Speaker 1: at least get like a pity kiss on prom night,
Speaker 1: I think. So that's what I thought. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: if nothing else, you went through all this effort, and
Speaker 1: that's what we're gonna try to get you. Right now,
Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna get you a pity kiss. Okay,
Speaker 1: I can get behind, maybe even a pity second date.
Speaker 1: He was happy that she didn't run. Come on, we're
Speaker 1: gonna play a song. We'll come back, we'll call back
Speaker 1: for you, and we'll try and get you a second
Speaker 1: date up to date, A right man, all right, second date?
Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in for the second date update.
Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Max recreated prom night for his
Speaker 1: date Beth after he found out that she never went
Speaker 1: to hers back in high school. He did a big promposal.
Speaker 1: They danced to old songs in the parking garage at
Speaker 1: his work, and they even took prom photos on his iPhone,
Speaker 1: and he didn't get a kiss at the end of
Speaker 1: the night. After all that, I said, he should have
Speaker 1: at least gotten a pity kiss for all that effort
Speaker 1: that he went through for her. So I'm telling you
Speaker 1: right now, Max, if we don't get you this date
Speaker 1: and we can't deliver a pity kiss from Beth, then
Speaker 1: our own social media coordinator Alexis has agreed to step
Speaker 1: up and we'll kiss you on the air to end
Speaker 1: this segment. I'm guaranteeing if you can go all out
Speaker 1: for a date, then we can go all out for
Speaker 1: a second ja. Yeah. I mean, if anyone's the expert
Speaker 1: on pity kisses, it's definitely you, Jeffrey. Okay, Well, someone
Speaker 1: on this show was gonna pity kiss you, Max, whether
Speaker 1: you want it or not. Yeah, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just hope you guys give me a date. Did you
Speaker 1: pay for the McDonald's, because then all totally kiss you
Speaker 1: broke we split the McDonald's. Never mind you didn't pay
Speaker 1: for McDonald They already paid for everything else. What do
Speaker 1: you want from its? Pay for the mixtape and the
Speaker 1: parking girl and the uber ride there and the candles
Speaker 1: and the flowers. I'm sorry, I didn't know your parents
Speaker 1: hadn't give you an allowance yet, and that's why he
Speaker 1: couldn't cover McDonald's. Okay, Brooks Hayton on you right now, Max,
Speaker 1: But you know what, I support you, okay, piece, and
Speaker 1: I'm gonna rent some hotel room after this second date
Speaker 1: updating case it goes really well just for you and me.
Speaker 1: Look of prom? Did you have the best prom? Dude?
Speaker 1: Ours ended a forest at a cager, So that's why
Speaker 1: you want to do problem with me? Max? Did anybody
Speaker 1: just go home at the only one that just was
Speaker 1: in my own bed? Yeah? Cavin, All right, we're all
Speaker 1: getting sidetracked reminiscing about our proms. Let's focus on the
Speaker 1: second date update and Max, we're going to try and
Speaker 1: call it right now. You're ready, Yeah, I'm ready? Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello? Hi? Is this Beth, Yes it is.
Speaker 1: Who's calling. My name's Jeffrey. I work on the radio
Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Oh are you
Speaker 1: familiar with us? I'm familiar with you. I guess I
Speaker 1: don't know why you're calling. Okay, Well, if you're familiar,
Speaker 1: then you might be familiar with a segment that we
Speaker 1: do call the second date Update. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go out with someone right and afterwards, if they're not
Speaker 1: calling you back, you can email us for help. Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've I've heard it. So recently you went out with
Speaker 1: a guy and you were not calling him back afterwards,
Speaker 1: so he's asked us to get in touch with you. Okay,
Speaker 1: what's his name? His name is Max. Max. It's going
Speaker 1: to be a hard to forget date, I would imagine,
Speaker 1: unless you've gone to a bunch of recreated palms over
Speaker 1: the last week or so. No, I just that one.
Speaker 1: That's good. So are you purposely not getting back to him,
Speaker 1: or maybe you get busy? What did he tell you
Speaker 1: about our date? I mean he basically ran us through
Speaker 1: the whole evening where he did a promposal for you.
Speaker 1: He took you to his parking garage at his work
Speaker 1: to recreate a dance. You guys went to McDonald's afterwards,
Speaker 1: and he made it sound like it was a pretty
Speaker 1: fun night. Okay, So dancing in a parking garage and
Speaker 1: going to McDonald sounds fun to you, Okay, not to
Speaker 1: me personally, but I could understand why gesture did it. Okay,
Speaker 1: I will say when Max told us a story, he
Speaker 1: said that you guys danced for like fifteen songs, which
Speaker 1: to me was overkill. Yeah, there were a lot of songs,
Speaker 1: and he was excited about each one of them, like
Speaker 1: do you remember the funny giving me the history of
Speaker 1: each Oh, I mean it is sweet, like he's just
Speaker 1: trying to recreate prompt for you because he said you
Speaker 1: missed your high school prom. Yeah, you're right, I mean
Speaker 1: the whole thing was. It was really really sweet. It
Speaker 1: was just a little maybe like childish for me. Does
Speaker 1: that make them Well, high school we were kind of
Speaker 1: a kid like meaning like I mean like we're growing
Speaker 1: a doulpe now, like it's okay, I missed my prom,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not sitting here crying in a corner all
Speaker 1: these years later, but you said yes to the promposal.
Speaker 1: So well, she's saying when the proposal was outside her
Speaker 1: door and he was standing out of touch and with
Speaker 1: the candles. She should have just been like, uh no,
Speaker 1: let's just do like I mean, yeah, the gesture was
Speaker 1: really cute. I just you know, doing the like promposal thing,
Speaker 1: like it's kind of the cutest part of it, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was kind of everything else, Like, you know, it
Speaker 1: was just the two of us in this like perking garage,
Speaker 1: you know, and I've just met this guy for the
Speaker 1: first time in real life, so it was a little awkward. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I could see that. I mean, I definitely understand what
Speaker 1: you're saying that that's a weird experience to go through.
Speaker 1: But you have to remember he's just trying to create
Speaker 1: a moment for you, and like maybe he didn't do
Speaker 1: it the best way, but going forward, you don't have
Speaker 1: to do that again. You could just do a normal date.
Speaker 1: Well that was kind of a deal breaker for me.
Speaker 1: Um wait, what was a deal breaker? I'm sorry, just
Speaker 1: doing the long prom night thing was a deal breaker. No,
Speaker 1: it was. It was actually a conversation that we had
Speaker 1: had at McDonald that just kind of turned me off.
Speaker 1: It wasn't making you pay for your own something else. No, No, no,
Speaker 1: we could put the bill. It's fine. So when he
Speaker 1: was talking to McDonald that he was talking a lot
Speaker 1: about plans for our future dates, which there's nothing wrong
Speaker 1: with thinking about future dates, but he thought because I
Speaker 1: loved the prom dates so much, that he wanted to
Speaker 1: like recreate all of these other events in my life,
Speaker 1: like my sixteen and like my twenty one run, and
Speaker 1: like basically all the big moments that people have. I mean,
Speaker 1: I get that because it feels, I mean, to me,
Speaker 1: it would feel like he's trying to insert himself in
Speaker 1: my past memories. Like it's okay that I had a
Speaker 1: life before I met you, man, we could still date
Speaker 1: without you forcing. Yeah. I also think it's kind of
Speaker 1: weird that he keeps trying to recreate her in her
Speaker 1: teenage years. Yeah, he also wants her wasted in a
Speaker 1: back alley somewhere being on a garbage can. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean it was just a little too much for me.
Speaker 1: And like in the moment, it was hard for me
Speaker 1: to say anything because I was so overwhelmed and kind
Speaker 1: of taken aback, Like, wait, you want to do what
Speaker 1: Now that you're out of that moment, I'm going to
Speaker 1: put you into a different moment where I tell you
Speaker 1: that Max is on the other line listening and he
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you right now. Oh, she's on
Speaker 1: the other line. Yeah, he's been listening to time MAXI there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here. Oh my god, I didn't know who you
Speaker 1: were listening. Um. Is it cool prom night, right? I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was. It was really sweet of you to do that. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. It's just that you
Speaker 1: you You did say that you've never been a problem
Speaker 1: that you wished you you had, so I was basically
Speaker 1: making your wish come true. Yeah, it's kind of less
Speaker 1: about the prom aspect and more about like wanting to
Speaker 1: recreate all of these other moments in my life for
Speaker 1: our dates instead of just like going out and getting
Speaker 1: to know each other. Right. Yeah, I just thought that
Speaker 1: those were really important to you, and I wanted to
Speaker 1: maybe experience those moments with you. I thought that would
Speaker 1: be really nice. But is it just that I don't know,
Speaker 1: You're not like attracted to me. To me, it was
Speaker 1: just a little too much. It was a little overkill,
Speaker 1: especially like, like I said, this problem was super nice,
Speaker 1: but like trying to recreate my sweet sixteen that I
Speaker 1: already had. It is a little bit different than recreating
Speaker 1: a prom that I never had. Yeah, but I wasn't
Speaker 1: at your sweet sixteen. I mean I would have liked
Speaker 1: to have been there. Oh, man, are you not hearing
Speaker 1: anything she's saying? Like, I know, man, that you may
Speaker 1: have hurt feelings right now, but I feel like it's
Speaker 1: good with you to be very direct. She doesn't want
Speaker 1: to do that. Yeah, fine, well just to the twenty
Speaker 1: one one and we don't have to do it. I
Speaker 1: don't think you're understanding what she's saying. She's done all
Speaker 1: of that already. She's finished with that portion of her life.
Speaker 1: She'd like to move into adulthood and do all the
Speaker 1: things that adults like to do that are fun and chill.
Speaker 1: Would be an upgrade for once you said you liked
Speaker 1: the driver's license idea when you got your driver's license
Speaker 1: and we were going to do that together. What what?
Speaker 1: What do you have a teacher? How to parallel para?
Speaker 1: These are things we don't need to relive in life.
Speaker 1: Nobody wants to relive the stress of your driver's license
Speaker 1: or I never said I wanted to do a driver's
Speaker 1: license party. I just said I had never had one,
Speaker 1: and I don't even know if those are like a
Speaker 1: thing like, well, excuse me for being mister, think of others. No, Max,
Speaker 1: you're being mister. Don't listen to anyone who didn't like
Speaker 1: being celebrated. Okay, why don't you have one of those
Speaker 1: parties for yourself? Then? Yeah, recreate taking your first steps
Speaker 1: and she can be there for I will be after
Speaker 1: that if that's what you want new for the next day. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: in that case, Beth, we would like to send you
Speaker 1: out one more time with Max. You can you can recreate.
Speaker 1: You can hold his finger, why he barely keeps his
Speaker 1: balance and takes his first steps again, and we'll pay
Speaker 1: for that somehow. What are you saying? I don't want
Speaker 1: to keep looking back. So I think that for me
Speaker 1: to move forward from this is not going on a
Speaker 1: second date. Yes, a very good way to say that.
Speaker 1: We could do a retire in party. Do you want
Speaker 1: to do it? That sounds like fun. Hey you're over
Speaker 1: the hill. Yeah, you get a discount on your food.
Speaker 1: You'll be in bed by four o'clock. What do you say?
Speaker 1: I like you. There's some food that easy and it's
Speaker 1: easy to bite throughly. Also, McDonald's broken Jeffrey in the
Speaker 1: morning