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Speaker 1: Second date of dates. In the dating world, most men

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Speaker 1: put in minimal effort for their dates. Yeah, it's texts

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Speaker 1: at two am, Netflix and chill, maybe Taco bell delivered, delivered. Maybe.

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Speaker 1: The other men, though, they'll go the extra mile, take

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Speaker 1: her to Chili's, get some Southwestern egg rolls, offered to

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Speaker 1: split the bill like a gentleman. But one guy named

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Speaker 1: Max went the extra seventeen miles when he planned his

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Speaker 1: first date. That's very specific. Well, I'm just saying he

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Speaker 1: didn't go the extra mile. He went way past that mile,

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Speaker 1: and I can't wait to hear exactly what he did. Max.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Hey guys, thanks for having me on.

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Speaker 1: But to hear her now, I mean back, So you

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Speaker 1: feel a lot of pressure. That was a lot of hype.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey gave you a no no pressure. I mean I delivered,

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Speaker 1: you know, right style. He never lets a lady down.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about the girl that you went out with.

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Her name is Beth Okay and we

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Speaker 1: met online. Actually she's super cute, And I tell you

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Speaker 1: the whole sort of backstory about our date. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: were texting for a while, a couple of weeks actually,

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Speaker 1: just because but it didn't work with our schedules. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean, so, were you planning something big and an

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Speaker 1: elaborate the entire time and the schedule wasn't working out?

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Speaker 1: Or well, it's funny you ask, because we were talking

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Speaker 1: and I found out she had never been to prom.

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Speaker 1: Oh I know, right. I think she said her date

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Speaker 1: ditched or something, and sure, okay, so I came up

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Speaker 1: with this idea I would surprised her recreating prom night

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Speaker 1: for her. You're going to blow that on a first date?

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Speaker 1: I mean, god, I mean I feel like that's something

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Speaker 1: you keep in your back pocket for when your day

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Speaker 1: six months and then you do it. I guess. I know.

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Speaker 1: Max brings it all. Date one, we're really connecting on

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Speaker 1: the phone. So how did you do this? Would you

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Speaker 1: guys do drink in the car before? No? No? No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no okay okay, okay. So I just pulled her to

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Speaker 1: dress up. Okay. So that's literally all I told her,

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Speaker 1: But she didn't know that the prom was coming. No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't tell anything else. Okay, but here's what I do.

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Speaker 1: I go to her apartment and I texted her to

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Speaker 1: these candles outside and these rose petals. Took me a

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Speaker 1: long time, but the rose petals were on the sidewalk

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Speaker 1: and they spelled out from question mark. Oh you even

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Speaker 1: did a promposal. Yeah, you guys get it. You're so

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Speaker 1: proud as you should be, sir. I guess, but it's

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Speaker 1: why is this old gentleman asking some girl to prom

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Speaker 1: This is weird. So he told her to look out

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Speaker 1: the window. She looked doubt and what happened. She looked

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Speaker 1: she came down. Yeah good. I gave her her corsage,

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Speaker 1: even brought the corsage. So what's next? I called it Uber,

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Speaker 1: and I had to Uber take us to my work

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Speaker 1: parking lot. Okay, okay, okay, it wasn't quotes. It actually

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Speaker 1: has really good acoustics, which is why we went there.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's like a parking garage. Okay, I went to

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Speaker 1: a poor high school. I'm going to tell you your

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Speaker 1: Ye fancy? Okay, So you went to your work parking

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Speaker 1: garage and what happened there? Of course, I take out

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Speaker 1: my boom box and started playing some old nineties songs

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Speaker 1: for her, and we danced, and you know, we took

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Speaker 1: funny photos together. You even took prom photos together. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I used my iPhone, you know, I download it's a

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Speaker 1: funny background that could really cute or super awkward. I agree,

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Speaker 1: there's a fine line here. How is Beth feeling during

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Speaker 1: she seemed to like it? I mean when she smiling,

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Speaker 1: she seemed to like it. That's a very short refuse.

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Speaker 1: What made you think that she seemed to like question?

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Speaker 1: But I mean she didn't run away, and like she

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Speaker 1: hard to run it. I don't really concerned that you're

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Speaker 1: giving you a hard time man this. We're honestly jealous

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Speaker 1: second dates. This is a lot of effort. It's very

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Speaker 1: But what you guys do after, Like, you know, you

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Speaker 1: I didn't want a short change. I have fifteen songs

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Speaker 1: and dance for fifteen songs? Did you have someone come

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Speaker 1: that I wanted to give it a full experience. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I bet it's more romantic in real life than what

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Speaker 1: night end? We drove to McDonald's and we got some food.

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Speaker 1: she said, oh, that was such a special night. And

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Speaker 1: and then I haven't heard from her at all. Huh, Well,

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Speaker 1: that's what we're gonna try to get you. Right now,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna get you a pity kiss. Okay,

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Speaker 1: date up to date, A right man, all right, second date?

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Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in for the second date update.

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners, Max recreated prom night for his

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Speaker 1: to hers back in high school. He did a big promposal.

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Speaker 1: that he went through for her. So I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: right now, Max, if we don't get you this date

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Speaker 1: our own social media coordinator Alexis has agreed to step

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Speaker 1: up and we'll kiss you on the air to end

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Speaker 1: this segment. I'm guaranteeing if you can go all out

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Speaker 1: a second ja. Yeah. I mean, if anyone's the expert

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Speaker 1: on pity kisses, it's definitely you, Jeffrey. Okay, Well, someone

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Speaker 1: broke we split the McDonald's. Never mind you didn't pay

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Speaker 1: for McDonald They already paid for everything else. What do

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Speaker 1: couldn't cover McDonald's. Okay, Brooks Hayton on you right now, Max,

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Speaker 1: But you know what, I support you, okay, piece, and

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Speaker 1: updating case it goes really well just for you and me.

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Speaker 1: Look of prom? Did you have the best prom? Dude?

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Speaker 1: Ours ended a forest at a cager, So that's why

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Speaker 1: you want to do problem with me? Max? Did anybody

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Speaker 1: second date update and Max, we're going to try and

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello? Hi? Is this Beth, Yes it is.

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Speaker 1: Who's calling. My name's Jeffrey. I work on the radio

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Speaker 1: show Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Oh are you

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Speaker 1: familiar with us? I'm familiar with you. I guess I

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Speaker 1: I've I've heard it. So recently you went out with

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Speaker 1: what's his name? His name is Max. Max. It's going

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Speaker 1: trying to recreate prompt for you because he said you

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Speaker 1: These are things we don't need to relive in life.

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Speaker 1: Nobody wants to relive the stress of your driver's license

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Speaker 1: thing like, well, excuse me for being mister, think of others. No, Max,

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